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It was pretty sudden for me. It had been a long time of pure nervousness when going up. Then this particular day comes up. I went up to this hostess at a restaurant. She's just like whatever and talks to me. I'm just nonstop laughing in front of her out of nervousness. But it was a full interaction. She probably thought I was a dummy. I leave (and I heard them laughing at me) and it kinda just clicked from that point. I relaxed a lot more and felt a lot more daring when approaching. Still have A…
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:30 PM
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I used to have extreme approach anxiety and it prevented me from approaching. Now I can approach no problem. Just do it you'll get over the hump
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:02 PM
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lol no I didn't. It was a shit test.
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:20 PM
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You didn't take enough action at her apartment.
/r/seduction19/04/18 01:38 PM
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I wear V necks because I don't want my undershirt to show up below my collar shirt.
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:40 AM
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Its cheap and full of people. You can go on rampages down 6th street.
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:51 PM
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In her perspective she looks like a slut if she gives some random guy her number. You have to build some attraction and comfort before going for the number.
/r/seduction03/04/18 08:01 PM
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Good job on the big win dude.
/r/seduction01/04/18 12:25 PM
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I love this: https://youtu.be/vOMXFDW6zVI?t=10m44s
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:41 AM
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Move to New York. Virtually anonymous.
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:38 AM
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Good luck :)
/r/seduction01/04/18 04:32 AM
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Good luck bud
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:03 AM
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You don't need to learn to dance dude. Just move your body to the beat. Or do whatever the fuck. The point is that you let loose and express yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/18 11:00 PM
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Talking isn't the best way to make people your friend. Going places with them is. When you go places with them, it builds comfort. You are the only constant in their RAS. They begin to attach themselves to you which creates a strong bond. Thats why it is so important that you move the girl around before you go for the pull.
/r/seduction31/03/18 10:57 PM
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Preselection is good. But it should be implied, not emphasized. IE I don't think girls are going to appreciate a guy who goes "look at how many bitches I get"
/r/seduction31/03/18 01:19 AM
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You need to have her accompany you somewhere thats not work. Then while she is with you, you flirt and touch. Then you tell her to come to your place for the most delicious pizza in the world. Then when you get home you start making out and then proceed to coitus.
/r/seduction31/03/18 01:15 AM
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Ok dude. First up you need to literally just stop caring about what other people are doing. Completely stop caring. As in it shouldn't make a blip in your conscience. If you are worrying about other people's bullshit you are not going to get any where. Once you have that down, you need to forgive everyone that ever hurt you, including yourself. You need to come to emotional resolution with all insecurities, worries, and anger. Now you need to start thinking positively. Your thoughts are mostly a…
/r/seduction31/03/18 12:59 AM
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Interaction with a person/s
/r/seduction30/03/18 04:48 PM
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Focusing on your breathe is not a good idea. You don't focus on your breathe when you going about your day. Focus on your thoughts. Bringing your mind be silent is a lot better than distracting it with your breathing.
/r/seduction23/03/18 10:58 PM
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Think you're trying too hard to fit into this dumb alpha-beta hierarchy. Micromanaging conversation too much. As far as I'm concerned you're advice is wack. Also you're a fuckin dumbass if you seriously think I'm gonna be "the man of high stature" and ignore a pull opportunity when there is one. Pickup is an art, not a fucking ruleset. You are limiting your growth and results when you follow all this arbitrary stuff. https://youtu.be/VWN-aCFQ9ZQ?t=17m5s https://youtu.be/VWN-aCFQ9ZQ?t=23m33s
/r/seduction23/03/18 10:44 PM
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Like I said, what you say doesn't matter. If you want a canned opener just do "Hi my name is X" But that isn't as good as saying something that came up in the moment. The point is that you are this grail of overflowing value and your pulling up fun awesome things to say naturally in the moment. As for shyness and fear: You need to understand that talking to a girl is a good thing. You are making her day better by bringing her into your awesome fun. Understand that you are probably a billion time…
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:01 AM
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All of RSD. Its pooled information from watching for nearly 2 years. And this is just the basic stuff. Its just a quick summary. Everything can be broken down and expanded upon. My favorite person from rsd is Tyler.
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:41 AM
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So in terms of feeling better its instant. Bad thoughts are just no longer affecting you. You will still have a bad feeling inside your body sometimes. I always remind myself thats its just chemicals my brain is producing. With that said I have been actively thinking about it nonstop for the past two weeks. Constantly reminding myself "Keep your mind quiet" "Its just chemicals" "Chill, Chill, Chill" At this point these reminders are dying down because I am just good at keeping my mind quiet now.…
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:44 AM
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Focus on what you're thinking. For the most part you should be quiet in your mind (thinking about nothing). When a thought does come up, don't think on it or judge it. You just recognize it and then you let it quiet down. The aim is to decrease the amount of useless, stressful, and depressing thoughts you have by teaching yourself to just quiet your mind when they come up. This is opposed to what people usually do when they have these thoughts: think about them more and more and more.
/r/seduction22/03/18 10:04 PM
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dude i like Todd and RSD The instructors at RSD have nothing against Todd. It's just papa and his bullshit. Stop trying to make it a big issue. Focus on the bigger picture.
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:08 AM
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