Part I - Yourself

  • Have a fulfilling life. Eat healthy. Stay fit. Wear clean clothes. Practice personal hygiene. Practice mindful meditation.
  • Focus on something you are passionate about and work on it every day.
  • Realize that happiness is something you are, not something you get. That means you need to stop seeking it, and fix the things that make you unhappy.
  • I recommend reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, and Letting Go by David R. Hawkins.

Part II - Talking to Girls

Talking to girls goes in 4 general phases: Open, Attraction, Comfort, Close. The only criteria for success is that you open the girl. Consider anything that happens after that a bonus.

Open: Approaching the girl, saying something, and calibrating based on the response.

  • Be quick when you see the girl. You should be talking to her as fast as possible after seeing her.
  • What you say DOES NOT MATTER. The far more important aspect is that you are showing confidence and personality through what you are saying.
  • After saying something, calibrate based on how she reacts. Be empathetic if she is weirded out.

Attraction: Show intent, Escalate

  • Show the girl why you are talking to her: You want to fuck her.
  • Tone is the first thing. It should be sexual and playful. Maintain eye contact.
  • Compliments "You have beautiful eyes"
  • Backhanded Insults "You're the prettiest girl on this block"
  • Qualifiers. "Lets get married" "Wow you're pretty cool after all" (After she tries to impress you)
  • Disqualifiers. "We would never work out" "You can go by the way" (To keep her chasing you)
  • Escalating is physical. Holding her hand. Sitting next to her. Hugging her. Kissing her. Usually do this when you are qualifying or disqualifying.
  • If the girl is ever showing even slight discomfort, step away and say sorry. This shows you have social awareness which is very attractive.

Comfort: Vibe with the girl, Take her places.

  • Just get to know each other. Enjoy talking to her.
  • At this point she should be talking as much as you are talking. Equal participation.
  • Don't stay in one place. Take her hand and lead her around.

Close: Take the girl home.

  • She will give you logical reasons why she cant go with you.
  • You need to give her excuses to come anyway.
  • An excuse can be literally anything. Doesn't need to be logical.