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idkyou23/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:01 PM
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idkyou23/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 10:28 PM
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idkyou23/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 03:05 PM
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idkyou23/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 08:47 AM
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that's a good point! honestly, I don't know. it may also have to do with their health condition.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 03:18 PM
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okay thank you 😊
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:54 PM
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thank you 😊 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:46 PM
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haha, I thought so, too! it may be that, but it has gotten better over the last 2 days, thankfully. he is actually in shape and goes to the gym, but during our vacation, we weren't really healthy, so I'm trying to see what excuses he may have. it's definitely not being out of shape 😂 thats why I'm worried he's not attracted to me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:46 PM
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honestly, him crying made me fall in love even more. we ended up having good sex right after, although it hurt a little bit. but I am even more attracted to him after he did that. we only had morning sex the first day of our vacation (the day I lost my virginity) and then he always said he'd rather we go eat and that he's hungry. I should also mention that we were mostly out late at night and consumed alcohol during the vacation and often slept hours after midnight.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:38 PM
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I think we did enough foreplay, it would often take 2 hours of us just kissing, touching..etc. but when its time for penetration, it just hurts and I push him away, which makes him frustrated. I'm also usually in the mood in the morning but he said morning sex makes him tired for the rest of the day. I thought men liked morning sex haha 😄
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:34 PM
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thank you ❤️ I know it can be frustrating to men, we used fingers and it hurt at first but got better afterwards. but is it normal that he doesn't like to have sex in the morning?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:31 PM
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maybe haha
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 10:47 PM
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oh yes. I'm surprised you remember 😅🤣 yes we have a ldr sort of, we dont get to meet often because we are far away, but i do trust him, and it's just gotten worse with him becoming super busy now. I trust him and his potential, its part why I wanted to be with him. it's just a little difficult now because I feel like we have grown distant
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 05:35 PM
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I'm not sure, I may be anxious, he may be actually distancing, but he still says he loves me and that he's doing it for us. I'm not sure what previous post you may be referring to. but we have been together for approximately 8-9months. he SEEMS pretty serious (or at least made it look like it) by mentioning how he really wants to marry me, occasionally mentioning marriage, having kids, how he's so grateful for having me..etc. I know words aren't always meaningful and that action matters more. bu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 05:30 PM
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about 8months now
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 05:20 PM
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he is 25 I'm 20. I am in college, and originally I told him I want to work this summer in order to afford things, so he told me he will put me on an allowance, I think we are a good match, we disagree on some things, but he says he loves me. I understand how some men say things, and don't live up to them, that's why it's a little scary to have full faith in what he's promising, therefore I may be having doubts sometimes. and of course I know I have to be loyal, that's the baseline for sure, I ju…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 04:46 PM
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okay thank you. this was super helpful, thank you for your time
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 04:39 PM
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thank you! I've needed to hear that, I understand how my perception is flawed now. do you think it would be a good idea to let him know I miss him and to ask for my allowance since I need to get some things and I basically can't do that now? (he put me on an allowance after I mentioned wanting to work, and he said he'll just put on an allowance) or is it a bad idea to bring it up?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 04:34 PM
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hey, I can see why it may be infuriating to you. in fact I'd love having both men and women's insight on this. I care about him deeply, and appreciate all he is doing for us, it's just I really feel disconnected from him due to lack of communication over the last two weeks. and im used to him investing his time and money directly on me. mind you, I didn't know about all these changes that are happening until just one day before he started working on it, and trying to find a house. he said he did…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 04:20 PM
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thank you 😊 💓 your advice is super helpful, I'm going to try doing that
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 03:51 PM
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I know it doesn't show future emotional investment, but he says he wants to marry me, and originally, he put me on the allowance after I told him I'd need to work. so he thought an allowance would be better. I have tried to get us to talk more, but it's just not working. Lately, he has been working overtime, and by then I'm already asleep. :( I tried staying up late a few times, but I just feel disconnected from him and say goodnight.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 03:35 PM
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it's been about 2 weeks now, that's why I'm so frustrated, he also doesn't live very close, and so I can't get him to drive to see me especially when he works all day, and has to figure out all these things... he hasn't called me at all during this week, only texting. so that's also getting to me along with him cutting off the allowance, so I'm not sure if I should just tell him about it directly, but I'm scared I'll just stress him more or look naggy
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 03:24 PM
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thank you ❤️ this is super helpful, I'll definitely use this as a lifelong advice! I understand my boyfriend not wanting to mix things up and not mess a project he has been working on for years. so I guess it's really my responsibility to not let the other guy cross boundaries. thank you 💕
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 04:57 AM
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me and the other guy used to talk just like any friends, not very frequently id say, but as I got a boyfriend, I stopped really talking to any guys, and eventually this person would message me and try to talk, but I keep it short, it was until recently when he started complimenting me that I left him on read and didn't respond, and no this doesn't happen with my boyfriend around, all I know so far is that he was trying to make me look bad when he was talking to my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 04:30 AM
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this sounds like a good idea. thank you 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 04:15 AM
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hey, no I wasn't romantically interested in his friend at all. I knew our mutual friend for about 1year, until my boyfriend was presented, and we liked each other. I made it clear to him I am in a relationship with my current boyfriend
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 04:14 AM
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yes, thank you a lot for your time 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:22 PM
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I've already stopped replying to his friend and I'm not thinking of talking to him in the absence of my boyfriend. my boyfriend is the jealous type, and I'm sure he never would see this coming from his friend so I don't want him to be disappointed..or anything, I'm thinking of ignoring it all happened so that I don't cause any heartbreak to him
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:02 PM
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do you think I should tell him?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:45 PM
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I certainly am not attracted to his friend, he's the opposite of my boyfriend that i love very deeply. but they're still friends. my concern is if I should tell my boyfriend about these things his friend is saying or if it would screw things up.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:43 PM
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yes, exactly, I know I'd feel uncomfortable if my friend was saying similar things to my boyfriend, and I'd want him to tell me, but his earlier comment about not wanting to mix our relationship with his friendships makes me hesitant and scared I'm going to ruin his dreams. I'm very confused.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 10:54 AM
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thank you, that's what I thought, I appreciate your reply.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 09:58 AM
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I'm asking if these comments his best friend is making are fine, or if I'm just being weird with it? (I find it a little odd because I'd not be comfortable if some gorl was saying the same stuff to my boyfriend and I didn't know about it, bit I also don't want to ruin what I have with him by telling him.)
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 11:09 PM
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my boyfriend is also not a morning person! that night he stayed up about 20hours in total so we can talk at night. which was soo sweet, but it was ruined by what happened. :(
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 09:48 AM
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yes, he was so apologetic after. I never experienced such a thing myself, so I was confused. thank you so much. This really helped me see how it is.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 09:35 AM
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okay! thank you, that really helps me understand the situation better 😊
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 09:28 AM
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thank you! this is super helpful
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 09:23 AM
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hey, thank you for replying. I did, and I told him I accept his apology, but I'm afraid that he may be an aggressive person..I never had him speak to me like that before, so it kind of scares me that he may always do that during arguments or if he's stressed...I could be overthinking...and that's why I posted this here 🤣help
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 09:03 AM
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