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/r/seduction31/08/22 10:38 PM
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As a young woman, if you’d ASKED me if I’d be attracted to a man in his 40’s, my logical mind would’ve said no. I had to respond to you cause I met a 47 yo guy who turned my assumptions about men your age completely around! He was just a guy striking up a convo, but there was something about him that attracted me, so I agreed to an insta-date. Even though his blond hair had completely grayed and his face showed his age, he took care of himself and his body was athletic and fit. He was charming a…
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:34 PM
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Because they likely see you the same way you see them: fuckable, but not relationship material. What makes you think they’d consider you as a potential boyfriend if you’re the kind of guy who acts like a fuckboi? Some women might give you a chance, but many won’t. We’re just as caught up in the same social conditioning, and judge men by your sexual behavior just as you judge us. In an ideal world, we’d all stop being judgmental hypocrites. Your desire to feel love and be loved with a genuine con…
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:08 PM
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Thank you for saying this, and I wish you all the best with your music! What you said is true. If we didn’t have the necessary social skills and talent beyond our looks, we wouldn’t have careers. Modeling and acting are especially competitive fields. It’s a tight community, so word gets around if you’re difficult to work with and you’ll be blacklisted. Even superstars are eventually shunned. You’ll also lose your agency contract. No one wants to rep an entitled brat no matter how flawless you lo…
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:07 AM
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Thank you sir, I’m honored to have made your day 🌸 Glad I could add a name to the phenomenon you so brilliantly described. Underrated, yes, and there’s so few of us. Even fewer willing to share insights helpful to men, but skillful seducers make the game more challenging and fun. Nice to meet my match 💋
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:36 AM
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This woman obviously wasn’t a seductress or she would’ve been seeing other men and enjoying her freedom too much to care. And yes, emotional contagion is a concept every seducer should use. Attaching to one man before he’s fallen and committed himself is beyond foolish 🙄 The most vital skill in seduction is emotional mastery. Premature attachment leads to giving more and getting less. It’s a recipe for exploitation, not only for women, but for men as well. As a woman, I have enormous seductive p…
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:01 AM
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🤣💋
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:19 PM
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I already have him 🥰
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:36 PM
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Attraction is so subjective as are the preferences we have no control over, so I’d rather a guy approach me and assume I’ll be attracted to him rather than him miss an opportunity with me. So many times guys freeze up cause they assume we’re out of their league; we’re beautiful so must be taken, or they couldn’t possibly be our type. I’m educated, but prefer blue collar men. Work in a looks-oriented prestigious industry, but prefer down to earth men. Am girly and very feminine, but race dirt bik…
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:19 PM
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Absolutely, 💯% agree! And we can tolerate only so much GOT talk when we’re fantasizing about your mouth doing other things.
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:48 PM
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A common fallacy that I see guys making all the time: thinking you can make us be sexually attracted to you. As if it were an act of will. It’s not. The reality is we’re either attracted to you or we’re not, and we know it from the moment we see you. If it’s there, we won’t be content being friends and we won’t be thinking, “he’s a nice guy but I’m not feeling it”. Most women are risk averse. They’re not going to seduce you and will lose hope if you don’t make a move. When your inaction makes a …
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:27 PM
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Exactly. Not everything is a shit test 🙄 Women deflect compliments when they feel unworthy of them. A woman with self-esteem simply says “thank you”. You didn’t come on too strong. You were being a confident man voicing your appreciation of a beautiful woman. Of course we know you’re attracted or you wouldn’t have approached us. For most women, compliments are a form of foreplay. Not compliments on our shoes 🙄 I get this so often I’d swear you all have a foot fetish 😂 Compliment our beauty, not …
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:18 AM
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I’m a woman and have had relationships with much younger and much older men, so go for it! At 18, you’re at your sexual peak, and we know it 😉 And since she’s just entering hers, if she’s down, you’re going to have the time of your life. Don’t automatically assume she’s only interested in sex tho. Many older women are in happy relationships with younger men. You never know. I agree about being daring then see how she responds. She complimented you and showed signs of interest, so be bold and com…
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:12 PM
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Blue collar guys are the best! Not every woman prefers clean cut, suited up, white collar men. Men who do physical work are usually fitter and stronger. There’s just something very erotic about a man who works with his hands. Blue collar men also tend to be more dominant, which I like. Be proud of your profession and your work! Do you really want women who won’t accept you in full? Being honest about who you are will attract the women who’ll want you for you. And plenty of us love blue collar gu…
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:48 AM
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As a woman, I don’t want anything to do with fuckboys and I admire you for knowing what you want and what you need to feel. There are 4 psychological needs and connection is one of them. It’s normal, and your honesty and willingness to be vulnerable about it actually makes you more attractive to us. I suspect your relapse wasn’t really about this past woman; it was about your need for connection (like you felt with her) not being met. Deprivation is painful, and relief from pain is the most powe…
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:43 AM
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When you say you won’t get anything cause the world’s changed and attractive women aren’t worth much, what do you mean? I’m too young to have experienced that time, and want to understand where you’re coming from.
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:47 AM
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That’s a very defeatist mindset. It signals you’re thinking of yourself as a victim. Men who act like this are obvious. We know why you’re ignoring us and we’ll shun you. If that’s your goal, carry on. It’s natural to seek attention from the opposite sex (if you’re hetero). Men show off their physiques when they know they look good, and so do women. If someone’s getting off on using it destructively, walk away. Don’t take it personally.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:05 AM
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I’m a woman and you’re correct that we can tell when a man uses porn. Like you said, it skews your mindset towards women and makes it difficult to relate to us. It shows in everything from a man’s eye contact to his performance (or lack of) in bed. Respect to you and the other men here for sharing what you’re going through.
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:11 AM
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I’m only attracted to dominant men. They’re the sexiest and most masculine. And I agree about respect. Masculine dominance brings out my feminine softness. The polarity creates sexual tension. And yes, I’ll happily submit to the man who’s earned my trust and respect. Dear Lover by David Deida is written for women, but it’s a great book for men on the sexual power of dominance.
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:39 AM
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You’re 💯% correct. We gauge a man’s interest by the effort he makes.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:02 PM
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It’s the opposite of needy. It’s how it’s done. It’s the man taking charge and leading.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:50 AM
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I’m a woman, and that was not only sexy af, it was romantic too. Very seductive, Casanova! 😘
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:21 AM
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I don’t even know where to start. Your low opinion of beautiful women is evident from your sweeping negative generalizations and assumptions. I’m that level of beautiful woman you speak of, and I’m going to try to help, so take it in that spirit. Idk what you said when you teased her, but your words and tone here are disrespectful, so I can only imagine how you came off in person. No, we don’t tend have a “stunted sense of humor”. That’s an individual trait that has nothing to do with beauty. I’…
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:52 AM
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You nailed it and from a woman’s perspective even tho you’re a man! This is exactly what we do when we’re using men for sex. As you said, the women don’t ask you for more, and why would they? If we wanted more than your body, we’d let you know. Don’t hold your breath tho, cause surely you all know by now that we don’t sleep with guys we have feelings for. Not for a long time. Why? Cause like men, we too have post-sex clarity, and don’t want to ruin something special. Beautiful women can have rel…
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:20 AM
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Or worse, e-tethered.
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:47 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with waiting as you described. Guys do this with me all the time. The weird look you might get in the instant we see you isn’t anything negative. It’s just an automatic surprise response cause we didn’t expect to see you there. That’s all. You’ll drive yourself crazy by analyzing every little thing. Just focus on the overall interaction. Men worry too much about coming off as creepy. You’re much more likely to miss out on a girl that’s interested because you’re thinking up …
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:42 AM
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Has it been your experience that women only flirt directly with men we think are better than us? I’m a notorious flirt; according to how often I’m told this, probably even my dog thinks so. It’s just my nature. With men I’m not attracted to, it’s super easy since idc what they think. Unfortunately men fall easily, so I’m careful with it to avoid hurting them. You’re absolutely right: the more attractive the woman, the less likely she’ll make a move. Very attractive men are more reluctant than ot…
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:40 AM
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Certainly women have control over themselves and can choose to not have sex. Hormones can make you sex crazed, but what you do is a choice. And I agree with you, those choices are often ego driven.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:36 AM
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304 phase as you guys politely refer to our wild phase(s), is because of fertility peaks - ovulation increases sex drive, and high levels of androgens during fertility peaks in a woman’s life can last for months, even years, leading to crazy fun with men. One particular peaking phase happens in a woman’s 40’s - nature skyrockets her sex drive and she’ll often ovulate several eggs per cycle. Twins are more common in older mothers for this reason - along with affairs with very young men who share …
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:19 AM
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You’re right, we are wild beyond your imagination…Still not going to your house.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:31 AM
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Ovulation doesn’t make women stupid, only the men who think it does.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:30 AM
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You’re right, you can’t know where things will go. Tho, you all have more control over that direction than you may realize. Before agreeing to a date, I vet men, so we’ll have talked on the phone a few times before the first date - enough to feel if there’s a connection worth exploring.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:07 AM
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Do you all not understand that women know why you’re not asking them to dinner? You might as well announce, “I’m cheap and low effort.” Don’t take dating advice from other men unless you want to date men. Taking a woman to dinner shows class. We understand if your budget is small, which is why you chose the restaurant, not us. Generosity is seductive. We know that men spend money on what’s important to them.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:18 AM
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True. Guys have these destructive mindsets and then wonder why they develop ED 🤦‍♀️
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:44 AM
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This!🙌 Girl here; OP, she likes you! She approached you for help, not some other guy in the gym. Asking for help is a way we initiate. She gave you her number; women know “hang out” is code for dating/sex. Ask her out before she wonders if she misread you and auto-rejects. Don’t hesitate to act when you want a girl. It’s called “sweeping her off her feet” for a reason. Agree 100% about calling.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:41 AM
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Good for you for giving up OLD and approaching/talking to women IRL! 👏🏻 It really is a numbers game, so don’t get discouraged. The next woman you approach could be your dream girl! Unless the guy’s a weirdo, I’m always impressed by a man who has the courage to approach, and even if I’m not interested, I’ll be kind and respectful. If a woman rolls her eyes when you’re just trying to talk to her, walk away. It’s a reflection on her, not you. My career depends on my looks, so they’re on a level tha…
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:46 AM
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Men worry way too much about coming off as creepy. Actual creeps never worry about being creepy. When you approach a girl, focus first on her comfort level and feeling safe with you. Here are some reasons for the failed approaches men have used with me. They weren’t creepy, just clueless: “Damn girl!”, shouted as an opener. No. Abrupt too much coffee guy came up out of nowhere from behind, startling me. No. Guy sitting in his car says, “You are so beautiful” as I walk by him. I find compliments …
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:28 AM
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I’m a woman and I disagree. “That’ll give us the wrong idea”? No, it might give YoU the wrong idea. That’s your opinion only, and you don’t speak for “us”.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:37 PM
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