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I honestly feel like most women just do it for the attention. They have no interest in actually getting with guys, it just makes them feel desirable to have men's attention.
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:26 PM
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But even when I encounter a girl that is a challenge, I never try. I think it's fear of success, like someone else said. I looked it up, and apparently people that have had a lot of trauma (I won't go into detail, but I have) begin to fear anything that makes them feel excited. I definitely do that.
/r/seduction13/09/18 01:28 PM
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Yeah this sounds right. It's definitely not fear of failure because I let sure things pass me by all the time. I can think of so many times girls have been blatantly hitting on me, and I've either not picked up on it, or just been too inside my own head to go for it. It's so fucked up, it's worse than fear of failure.
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:05 AM
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Yeah, it's like I become too exhausted from the repeated failures that I get relationship fatigued and I just stop trying.
/r/seduction10/01/18 06:23 PM
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Thank you for that. I think you phrased it well, some people might feel it is harsh, but most of what you said was scary accurate. On some level, I still feel linked to my toxic childhood in some very big ways. I have trouble obsessing with past failures and trauma, and it's sucked the joy from my present life. But it's because I keep choosing to ruminate and feel sorry for myself. I like to feel vindicated by misery, as if it makes me feel more real and the pain that others caused me more power…
/r/seduction30/10/17 12:24 AM
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Thank you very much for that. I really appreciate your perspective on this. I hope I can reach the point where you are at. I think you are probably right about fear, most of my success is built around fear of failure and contempt for others. I think fear of death is the deepest and oldest fear I have to let go of.
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:47 PM
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I would say that is where I'm at now. I'm pretty funny, and I do get a lot out of making people laugh. But moving past that stage is hard, at some point you need to get serious.
/r/seduction29/10/17 09:04 PM
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I really appreciate your input, but like I said in another response, I think fear of death is actually keeping me this way. I don't feel as though going out of my way to talk to women will make me happier, because of past experiences, like you said. Past trauma and programming. Every relationship or fling has left me worse off than I was before. I know I can die at any moment, I have friends that are dead or in jail for the rest of their lives. The trauma causes me to interpret that as a good th…
/r/seduction29/10/17 07:23 PM
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There is plenty to be afraid of, worsening anxiety, depression, embarrassment, isolation. Just nothing physical, there's no immediate threat. The brain feels emotional pain and stress in very similar ways to physical pain, so that kind of reasoning doesn't really work for me. This might sound odd, but a big part of my anxiety does stem from fear of death and dying. I know deep down nothing will matter eventually, we're all gonna painfully fall apart into oblivion, so it somehow justifies doing n…
/r/seduction29/10/17 03:00 PM
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I just don't get the same rewards from flirting as I do from working out. After exercise, I feel energetic but relaxed, clear headed and emotionally balanced. I get none of that from approaching, well not anymore at least. I've tried a few times recently, and I always feel anxious and tired afterwards. Even getting numbers doesn't really help me feel any better because I never want to do anything with it. I'm not really sure how changing my mindset will change this physical response. It's just s…
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:39 PM
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I've read some of the book, and while I don't disagree with the overall message of presence, it definitely seems to run contrary to what has allowed me to self improve thus far. I stopped doing drugs because I examined my past mistakes and refused to continue making them. I started working out because I wanted to improve my future self to a noticeable degree. The present seems to have been neglected by other forms of self improvement, I agree. What portions or concepts of the book do you find mo…
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:06 PM
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I tried therapy, and it helped for a little while, but I feel like you just feel better immediately afterwards, but the effects don't linger. Ever seen that movie the Master? My low-confidence comes from the same place anyone's does, several traumatic experience, emotionally abusive family life, and narcissistic friendships. I know that, but I still can't get past any of it. I already cut shitty people out of my life. And small talk isn't difficult either, it's the physical and emotional respons…
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:03 PM
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Outcome independence is an important principle for dealing with other people's perceptions of you, but it can run at cross purposes to the mental habits you need to establish in order to improve your own life: specifically, you become attuned to smaller details in anything you do. This is great for making you pay attention to your workout routine, your grades, your finances, but it can also make you stress out about social interactions more than when you literally didn't give a shit about anythi…
/r/seduction29/10/17 11:55 AM
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I agree, online is not real success. I'm sure most people can get laid doing that, simply because the women on there are just looking sex, but I don't think it would help my confidence at all.
/r/seduction29/10/17 04:05 AM
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I think her message really isn't "hey fuckers treat me better". The filmmaker just did that line of questions to get a reaction. I mean she literally said, hey girls who just wanna say "screw the man and embrace your sexuality", you don't know what you're getting into. How is she getting or giving a pussy pass? All I saw was someone telling it like it is, the industry will fuck up your life.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/16 01:25 PM
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Girls in their 20s do not say, "Wow what a gentleman" after someone awkwardly runs in front of them to hold a door, without being sarcastic.
/r/seduction27/04/14 05:57 AM
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Well, again, it's not anything complex, it's simple, obvious stuff that's hard to get used to. The first part of quitting anything is realizing that there's other areas of your life that you're not fulfilled in, and you're dealing with it using drugs. For me, it got a lot worse before it got better. I was using pot and painkillers pretty often, but fortunately I was able to quit on my own. All of these steps are equally important, it's not really that one leads to the next, except the last one. …
/r/seduction25/04/14 04:38 PM
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If you really wanna change shit, it's not that complicated. It's super difficult, but it's not that much stuff you have to do. No more weed. Like none, it fucks your priorities. And I've smoked ungodly amounts of pot, so don't act like I don't get it. That shit never got me anywhere, of course it did a great job and making me THINK it was getting me somewhere. Work out. Like regularly, you want to look better and feel better without pot, this is pretty much the only way. Stop focusing on one gir…
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:04 AM
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It's phrased really dumb. Apparently rape is cool if you're not really into her lol.
/r/seduction06/04/14 12:00 AM
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That and the fact that girls like that are usually ugly.
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:23 PM
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How does no one here understand satire? That this isn't real, and it's mocking the other "10" post, and how the other guy was lying through his fucking teeth.
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:44 PM
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Ok, at first this made a lot of sense, but by the fourth paragraph I had no idea what your comment had to do with mine. But you still made some good points, in your massive comment. But then you said something about a "10" being a one in a billion or something? Isn't the point of the whole scale thing that one out of 10 women would be a ten?
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:22 PM
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That's kind of the entire internet. A guy with actual social skills and a life probably wouldn't be making "field reports". But overall that's just speculation, at least with this guy we have proof he's a lying sack of shit.
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:19 PM
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Also, the dude constantly lies. Read his comments, he claims he's a chemical engineering major. Oh wait, no he's a buisness major. That's within about a week. He's says he's jacked without using steroids. Oh and then he asks questions about his HGH use. But what's the most proof for me is 90% of his comments are just thinly veiled bragging. Almost none of them are realistic, he just lives out a fantasy life in his head.
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:07 AM
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It's not about getting a second date at that point, it's just about having sex so your entire night isn't wasted. If she expects you to pay and you don't, you've blown any possible chance out the window.
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:25 AM
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You seriously think that just getting a number means you can make a "booty call"?
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:39 AM
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Obviously, that's why he remembers it so well and posted it on the internet.
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:35 AM
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2edgy4me
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:24 AM
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Theres such a thing as being overly honest, you know.
/r/seduction10/03/14 01:36 AM
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And yet that's not what the comment implies, maybe read it again? There's a lot of anger towards more sexually progressive women and men. People who call girls "coked out sluts" have unresolved anger. That's the kind of thing someone who's mad that they can't get laid says. Rhetorical flourish is using fancy words instead of common ones. What you do is just acting like a douche.
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:40 AM
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Because he asked her out on the date and he has already paid for her at another restaurant, and guys usually pay for food on dates. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but it's pretty obvious why she'd assume he'd pay. That said, this chick is 99% not gonna call him back. It's up to OP whether that's a good or bad thing, but if you ask out someone you're expected to pay, that's really common. Personally I wouldn't have minded spending the 20 bucks just so the last few hours would have been worth…
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:27 AM
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Wow. Don't be surprised when she doesn't call you again. It's kind of normal for you to pay if you ask them out dude.
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:21 AM
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I'm not saying you can't control your anger, but you have a lot of it, and for some reason you're just mad at people who have a lot of sex.
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:48 AM
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Wow, you've got a lot of anger.
/r/seduction08/03/14 04:30 PM
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Just so you know, when you're just picking up women, like at a bar, they really don't care about what your interests are. They just want vague questions about themselves that they can talk about for a while. When you're actually dating it's different, but before that they just wanna hear about them. But not a creepy way, in a really passive way like you don't really care. You've got to make them want to make you interested. If you're trying to make them interested, you already lost. Also, astrol…
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:37 AM
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In this day and age, a man being able to dance is really not as big of a deal with women. Most dancing is now just grinding against each other or hopping up and down in clubs because everyone is drunk as balls or on MDMA. I'm not being cynical, I go to a lot of clubs, that's really all there is for young people. I guess being able to dance coul get a guy laid, but probably not with a girl, at least in the college town I live in. Maybe actual dancing is more popular with older people, I don't kno…
/r/seduction07/03/14 06:13 AM
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None of those reasons are why I'm single. I've dated plenty of women, but whenever I date someone it's usually for only a month or two because it's just not that important to me. I don't feel the need to "act" the way women like (pretending to be interested in their lives, going places, texting constantly) once I've been around them for a few weeks, and breaking up isn't a big deal. And that's totally fine, and it's probably better than guys who obsess over girls after dating for a week or two. …
/r/seduction14/02/14 04:50 AM
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Please pick a more recent movie to reference.
/r/seduction02/02/14 12:39 AM
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Ok your friend is hot and girls notice him. You can accept that. But what's more important is that you realize that it's harder for women to notice YOU next to him. Stop trying to pick up women with him, he's more harm than good obviously.
/r/seduction01/02/14 08:35 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction16/01/14 12:49 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:58 AM
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They way you wrote your post makes you sound like a fucking serial killer. Everything is just worded so weird and technical. Also, oh my god a girl wants your dick? Ur so lucky bro I sure wish I wuz u!
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:19 AM
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Dude if you wanna date whores I don't care, do what you want, it's just 90% of people think it's gross. But if you really want me to go into detail here does. Slutty women usually have more STDs. They're more prone to cheating because they throw sex around. They are usually less emotionally stable and have lower self-esteem, which causes a shit ton of relationship problems. They tend to be attention seekers who will do whatever it takes to get it. They also tend to have worse personalities and a…
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:16 AM
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If any comment could sum up this subreddit, it would be this one.
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:07 AM
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I mean if you're not gonna date a girl there's no problem with her being a slut. But anything besides a fling with a slut? That's just disgusting dude.
/r/seduction15/01/14 02:58 AM
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If he was really talking to just you at some point, he probably cares more about just having social interaction at all instead of trying to hit on the girl. Throw him a bone, talk to him a bit, then the girl. It makes you look like you're just an awesome guy instead of a lonely dude who wants nothing but sex.
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:46 AM
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Dude please just stop. Why even ask for advice if you're just gonna compartmentalize it? Most people here don't think you should do it because they would not like it done to them. If you still want to, no one is gonna stop you. There's just much better, less awkward ways of talking to women that don't involve inconveniencing other people.
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:39 AM
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You sound really aggressive, and most women don't like that, so it's probably why most of them won't go out with you. Why exactly do you need to keep asking them out? That's really weird and probably means you need go work on some self control.What is so wrong with just being friends with them, and trying to get with their friends? Also, you can go to bars with them, and it makes you look a lot better being with attractive girls.
/r/seduction16/12/13 08:46 PM
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Unless you're really really good looking (and let's be honest, if you're on here that's probably not the case). Just leave them alone dude, they probably get enough creeps hitting on them at the gym as is.
/r/seduction16/12/13 08:42 PM
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You seriously need to smoke less pot dude.
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:13 AM
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Actually I'm not frustrated, I've done pretty well. I've hooked up with a lot of girls I really like and have had some of good experiences. But friends of mine that are more attractive that me will always be able to do better. They don't even have to try, women flock to them. It doesn't bother me, but denying it would. Most of the girls they attract, while more attractive, are incredibly vapid and uninteresting. Honestly, I really don't want that, but it still isn't going to make it easier for m…
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:50 PM
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You clearly either have never had an attractive friend or you're in huge amounts of denial. I've seen girls literally through themselves at good-looking friends of mine, if you really think it's 15% of getting women you're fucking retarded. This isn't limiting yourself it's being realistic. You can still get girls but you will never be on the level of an incredibly attractive man. Ever.
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:40 PM
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So? His statement would still need a qualifier, like you know what they call ugly guys who only date 9s and 10s? Attractive people can do whatever the fuck they want.
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:17 PM
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Sometimes you've gotta let some go honestly. The environment of school really isn't helpful, even at college. Unless you're incredibly attractive, women aren't going to be in a relaxed and intimate mindset, same with work or in public. It's much easier in a more comfortable setting, like around mutual friends or at a party. Also, you probably don't like this girl very much; chances are the lack of other attractive women in the classroom and lack of sexual outputs in your own life has caused you …
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:35 AM
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If she banged a random dude after an hour though, she probably was a whore. Wrap that shit up.
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:42 PM
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Why would you try to pick up girls with a guy with more game than you? That's like going fishing with a shark.
/r/seduction11/09/11 06:02 PM
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she's not into you. at all. she's your friend that's it. ive been in the situation. with girls if you cant REALLY TELL their advances (and this is stuff I'd see from friend to friend) she doesn't want you. here's a trick with girls. try to make it take as little time as possible. as the time you hang out with her goes up, your chance for her to go out with you goes down. keep it at 1-2 weeks TOPS. unless you want another friend stop hanging out with her. best case scenario she realizes she wants…
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:02 AM
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my penis hid inside itself. ow.
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:56 AM
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interestingly enough, my penis is named David Ducockny.
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:54 AM
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