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The real power move is to secretly change the WiFi password....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:22 PM
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I would do a lot of thought and self reflection about why you feel that way. Is it because you’re comfortable being with him, or don’t want to hurt his feelings? A friend of mine (23F) met a guy (39M) at a benefit party we were invited to. Despite the age difference, they hit it off RIGHT away; they eventually got engaged and are now pregnant with a baby on the way Her parents and all our friends were kinda mystified that she was ready to settle down but she really felt like she’d had all that o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:58 PM
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You’ll find too the attachment will fade. I think it’s pretty normal (for women especially) to go through an emotional “break up” before acting on it, at least in my opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:29 PM
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Mine wasn’t influenced by my parents relationship so much as my moms self esteem problems. My parents relationship is pretty aspirational actually! My mom spends a lot of time trash talking her weight and putting a lot of emphasis on that. It taught me to do the same. Basing your self esteem on your weight is a moving goalposts. It led me to look to men for validation unfortunately...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:12 PM
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Thank you for posting this!! I’m dealing with similar issues of inadequacy and am high anxiety too. Personally — therapy has taught me my anxiety tends to create narratives and is self perpetuating. Like I’ve been anxious for so long that I have comfort in being anxious and my brain will make up situations to keep me feeling this way. It’s so annoying but medication made me way too blasé about everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:01 PM
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idk I mean as the only woman in my family to be working in a corporate environment I def didn’t know worth compared to my peers but I don’t think that’s something to look down on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:48 PM
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I broke up with an ex that way; in retrospect, there are a lot of things I miss about him but he lacked confidence in family and career and at the time that type of confidence was important to me. honestly you choose your battles. if I’d had the time, patience, and wherewithal I should have built my ex up and encouraged him to build confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:31 PM
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I feel like she was progressive for her time in a sense. despite her issues (particularly with her mother) she strove for self sufficiency. guess we’ll never know but I think she was avant garde for her time period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:28 PM
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I’ve never used OLD, I have met every one of my partners out at bars or through friends. OLD scares me tbh! definitely leverage your friends and any organizations you’re a part of, especially work and alumni stuff. I’m 29 but I’m pretty old fashioned — when I was single I would only date someone if I knew someone else who could vouch for them. period! I wouldn’t say every ex of mine is perfect but I think having someone in common is a great way to weed out losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:07 AM
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it happens!!! honestly you’re probably just feeling the sting of general rejection. you did yourself a favor saying that, he sounds like a coward. you’re gonna use the time/energy allocated towards him in a much more productive way, believe me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:02 AM
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wow imagine this being how you actually spend your free time and energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:01 PM
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haha ya I think I’ve just been really lucky not to deal with serious shitheads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:55 PM
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if he doesn’t give you any reason to doubt him or any unease, I would say this is okay! I know I sometimes text some of my friends more than my boyfriend (I have a lot of gay male friends) but it doesn’t mean I love him any less or mean anything by it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:34 PM
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yes, and be open to discussing his views as well! I think sexuality should innately be selfish in nature, in the sense that you should be doing things to make yourself happy. at the end of the day, you shouldn’t compromise your comfort or self worth for your partner and shouldn’t feel coerced. perspective really can change everything. there are some taboo acts I enjoy that some people may not agree with — but as long as I’m enjoying it and don’t feel negatively from it, I feel it’s safe to engag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:33 PM
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strategic fur placement on the left....well played!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:09 PM
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just based on the length of their relationship I’d say it could just be a sign he’s capable of having a platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex. if that’s the biggest/only real issue in your relationship I don’t think it’s the worst thing. has their relationship only ever been as friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:08 PM
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I think you just need to give it time and be patient...you can lead a horse to water, can’t make them drink it. you’re making him think about it; if he immediately agreed with you it’d be kind of inauthentic. it’s really cool to me that you can have these conversations with him and he is willing to discuss it imo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:05 PM
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no wonder it’s a cropped full bod shot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:02 PM
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the sex-ccentricity of these guys is wild. you’d think it’s everyone’s last day on earth...it’s a dopamine rush
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:25 PM
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I think it’s common for the WRONG guy to feel this way. I wouldn’t go so far as to say they don’t like your personality (sounds a little masochistic) but I’ve definitely dated guys who did not care about my personality and just tried to “manage” me because they thought I was attractive. like...they would tend to my basic needs, give me money even (so ridic), but not be interested in me on a deeper level. one of my favorite things about my boyfriend now is how appreciative he is OF my personality…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:22 PM
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omfg is this real life? think that’s his real height or he’s padding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:12 PM
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yea just don’t create a situation where you’re monitoring his attention. another poster made this comment elsewhere but honestly — they ALWAYS come back. put a pin in it — focus on making yourself the best version of yourself you can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:44 PM
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I agree! on the crazier side — I once was seeing someone with a gf (I had no idea); the gf reached out to me upset that I was seeing her bf, rather than be mad at him. people are weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:42 PM
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it’s all about finding the right one! you have nothing to be disgusted or ashamed about. you’re learning. you’re smarter than you were yesterday. don’t be so hard on yourself! be patient and true to yourself. act in your own interest, don’t be swayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:02 PM
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