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Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill16/11/19 01:09 AM
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I'm 27 and I'd prefer to date a women who is in her 30s tbh. I think most of them don't trust me though.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/19 12:44 AM
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Based and bluepilled
/r/ExRedPill14/11/19 07:06 PM
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PUAhate.com, sluthate.com, lookism.net. The OG incel communities.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/19 01:08 PM
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Lol trust me, I was a hardcore PSL rater. I know how to judge looks.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 05:15 PM
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What is your evidence for this? Do you have any female friends? Do you go outside (not meaning to be offensive)? I see beautiful girls dating below-average looking guys all the time.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 09:25 AM
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Well, that’s not what incels believe. They believe that face and height matter more than anything and will point out people like Chico Lachowski who is handsome as hell and tall, yet skinny, but women love him. First off, I think incels are somewhat right here, and I think most women prefer someone who is in good shape but not very muscular, and is tall and handsome. Now that’s just based on physical attraction. Women care about so many other things besides that. It’s such a long list and there …
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 01:54 PM
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Girls on average are more attractive than guys. I see so many guys with weak chins and receding hairlines dating beautiful girls with minimal flaws.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/19 05:47 PM
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Get off of Reddit and make friends. Being around people in a normal setting will teach you how the world really works.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/19 10:50 PM
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This is just on the face of it ridiculous. Most girls who enjoy rough sex also enjoy vanilla sex. There are plenty of girls who enjoy being dominant, I knew one like that. And as far as rough sex goes, no mentally healthy girl would agree to it unless she is completely comfortable with the guy.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/19 10:46 PM
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As far as hypergamy goes, there are many more attractive girls than there are attractive guys, from an objective standpoint. But I see average to below-average guys with attractive girlfriends all the time. I'm not sure how it relates to "manliness" but it seems most girls don't care as much about looks as guys in the manosphere seem to think.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/19 12:29 PM
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I'm not doing that though, that's the problem.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/19 08:14 PM
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yOuRe NoT eNtItLeD tO hEr AtTeNtIoN Honestly what use is that to me? You don’t even know how I feel about “entitlement”. Personally, I’m a strict Darwinist and believe that the fittest survive so I don’t even believe in entitlement. How are entitlements derived? Through force. Entitlements to free speech, freedom of assembly etc. are derived through the use or implied use of force by the state against those who wish to harm those entitlements. Entitlements to services like social security go thr…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/19 02:29 PM
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Well I’m an autistic loser too but I get your point lol. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/19 08:54 PM
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Maybe idk. I might try. Thanks for the feedback and advice. I’ll let you know if things change.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 04:57 PM
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She ghosted me after our last date. She replied once, didn’t say anything about not being interested anymore, then when I messaged her again with a question in the message, she never sent me another text. I’m not sure I come across as intense, but I guess I do come across as clingy. I can get attached fairly quickly if I like a girl so maybe that drives some girls away. Idk tho.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 12:27 PM
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Yes I liked them both physically and personally. I think I might have come across as too intense or something idk.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 11:01 AM
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Idk man seems as little complicated to me. I just want it to be natural. Why do I have to follow these dumb methods and rules. Tbh I’m so fucking different from others and I really mean it. People expect me to be some stereotypical Chad or something but I spend most of my night doing autistic shit. I like to stay in and I hate having to talk to people. Neurotypicals fucking annoy the shit out of me. I literally spend 90+% of my free time by myself and I want it that way tbh.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 12:31 AM
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The first one initiated contact with me, asked me out, texted me first after each date, would show up early, double and triple texted me multiple times. Then she became distant and eventually faded on me. She says it’s because of school and I’m sure that’s partly true, but she eventually realized she didn’t want to date me anymore so she stopped messaging me. The second one also initiated contact with me, met up with me multiple times, sent me texts after each date, we kissed at the end of a cou…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/19 12:06 AM
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Yea I read it when it was first posted. I'm not quite sure how I'll get past it. I was probably one of the most active posters in r/braincels from early 2018 till mid 2019. That mentality is stuck in my mind for now. Even when I'm able to get past it somewhat, my failures bring me right back.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 02:43 AM
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I’ve spent probably four years now in the manosphere mindset. Two years in the incel bubble. It’s gonna take a lot of time. I still visit the communities from time to time.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/19 11:02 PM
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27
/r/ExRedPill24/10/19 09:27 PM
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I recommend that you get off of Reddit
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 12:20 AM
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Listen to me boyo. I spent two years on blackpill/incel forums and now I'm mostly out of the mindset. Here's what you do: go outside. Sounds deceptively simple, but what you need to do is spend time where people meet up. Look at the couples. Something I always notice is seeing "betas" or "cucks" with good-looking girls. I see short guys with taller girls a bunch, I see guys whom incels would consider "subhuman" with cute girls, I see awkward autists with pretty girlfriends. The obvious blackpill…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 09:34 AM
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Its mostly bullshit. At least the way the manosphere applies it.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 12:40 AM
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Psychologically troubled girls
/r/ExRedPill23/09/19 01:50 AM
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Honestly, forget about the “toxic masculine” stuff. Even redpillers should agree that it’s bullshit to do this. I mean, devoting your energy and life into attracting a female is simply “cucked” to use their phrasing. The entire concept of TRP is self-contradictory.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/19 06:55 PM
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Thanks! I’ll make an update post here if things go well :)
/r/ExRedPill09/09/19 12:06 AM
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It went great thanks for asking! She even suggested meeting up again when I asked her if she was busy next week and texted me first after the date. Maybe I was just overthinking it. She was very proactive, showed up like 30 mins early and reserved a spot for us. I really like her and I told her that I really want to get to know her better. Hopefully it works out :)
/r/ExRedPill08/09/19 08:36 PM
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Go on Wellbutrin, it increases your sex drive. I’m on SSRIs and that and my sex drive is still very high.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/19 12:15 PM
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r/thathappened
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 11:09 AM
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Well, coming from mostly incel spaces, I see this as good news since they believe that men hit “the wall” faster than women.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 11:08 AM
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I hope you’re right because that’s something I can work on
/r/ExRedPill12/08/19 12:00 PM
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Why do you say anxiety is the bigger issue?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/19 11:15 PM
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Yes, former “blackpiller” here. It seriously fucka you up, even after you leave. I’ve gotten better about it and no longer view my interactions with women through the lens of “oh she doesn’t think I’m Chad so she’s not interested.” I began to realize this was bullshit when I sent my pictures to a few incels that I befriended and they told me I’m a fakecel and a Chad. I even posted my picture on r/failed_normies (an incel related sub) and people thought it was a meme and that I stole the pic. Odd…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/19 02:21 AM
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He’s kinda mixed. He says he’s “purple pilled” but also apparently believes in some blackpill ideas. Some of the stuff in his older videos sound like they were copy and pasted from r/braincels. He’s obviously not an incel, but seems to sympathize with them to an extent.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/19 02:15 AM
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I disagree. I was in a FWB arrangement with someone before I had been in an actually relationship and it turned out horribly for me. I didn’t know how to handle it when she met up with another guy and it didn’t help that the girl was being a bitch to me when I was trying to get over those feelings. I was 25 at the time.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/19 02:12 AM
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Thank you
/r/ExRedPill29/07/19 02:08 AM
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I’m not sure I’d tell girls that I have autism. Most people think autistic people are retarded and have little to no understanding of the condition. I’ve had a few girls ghost me when I told them that. This is something my therapist recommended against actually. She said instead I should say something about coming across as cold or odd, but that I open up after a while. Haven’t tried it yet, but I might soon.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/19 02:07 AM
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I think it’s generally a good idea. However, I tend to interpret things in black and white ways (an autistic trait) so I worry about reading too much into something. Like if she says this, it’s either this or this sort of thinking. I’ve generally grown to understand that there are lots of different scenarios and I try to avoid falling into those thought patterns.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/19 09:49 PM
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Hmm I’m a bit nervous about masking. I don’t want to come across as fake. I agree about the alcohol bit, I might just buy a bottle of vodka or something and put it in a flak for this very purpose lol (and I don’t have alcoholism thankfully).
/r/ExRedPill28/07/19 09:47 PM
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Thank you for the well thought out response. I’ve been avoiding the manosphere in general to avoid poisoning my mindset. I think you’re right about expanding my social circle, I’ve been looking to form or enter friend groups but it’s difficult to find people with similar interests as mine are fairly esoteric. I think I’ll just take things slowly and learn to be more comfortable with myself and if something comes around, then great, but I should focus on myself. Thanks again.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/19 09:46 PM
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