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4

Seemed clear she was getting one. Why would you get one too. This seems like your mistake
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:43 AM
2

Don’t push it, keep doing what you’re doing and keep playin it cool. Try and schedule a time when your parents aren’t home or next time she puts up that reasoning ask about it more. Push then pull, escalate then step back. You wanna make her beg for it and you be the prize. Sounds like it’s more push rn then pull so she’s no comfortable with the idea of going further.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:12 AM
27

Go to Asktrp subreddit, hit the search bar, type in “ex porn addicts, how did you quit?”, read post
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:08 PM
3

Viewing kids more yoked than you as dbags is just jealousy. They’ve been lifting for years I’m sure and have put in ridiculous work for where they’re at. Show some respect for their hard work and put in the work yourself instead of being a hater
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:30 PM
1

Thanks for the response. Clarified things a bit. I really need to be less codependent and just go for it on my hobbies even if it’s alone
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:07 PM
1

How do you ask for things that just don’t make sense doing alone that you want her to do with you? “I’m going to the movies on Thurs. join me.” doesn’t work when sure I’m down to go to the movie alone and enjoy it but preferably she’s coming and that’s 50% of the reason I want to go in the first place.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:58 PM
1

My initial thought is I need to get busier and just say “I can’t that day” when she attempts to reschedule.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:12 PM
3

I agree it’s rare and girls generally don’t care about orbiters. In this situation I’m talking about girls that hang out with guys in general, not just orbiters. If a girl is consistently hanging out with a group of guys, a mix of alphas and betas she’s going to eventually cave at some point. Just a fact that needs to be recognized and may help in the future at some point if you’re already accustomed to the idea it could happen.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 04:55 PM
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I’ve been an orbiter myself many times in the past and still hooked up with the girl that I was orbiting. You just have to be there in the right circumstance and it’s a given. It’s pretty rare but ever been with a girl who’s super horny one night, drunk one night, just had a fight with her BF one night, or she’s just turned on one night? She’s down to take any dick she can find orbiter or not
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 04:19 PM
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Besides straight jealousy which I’ve gotten much better at, the hardest thing for me is not wanting to waste my time. If a girl is around other guys in a consistent type of way she is due to cheat eventually. The fact is that guys are always trying to get in the pants cause they have one thing on their mind and eventually it might just work. Eventually your girl is gonna get bored of you, be drunk one night, have a fight with you, and she’s gonna cheat. When she does you might get lucky and find…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 02:06 AM
3

You got good looks bro. Don’t get down on it, trim that beard a bit and you’re good to go
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:30 AM
3

Damn, I can’t believe how concerned everyone is about trp celebrity drama. Why does everyone care so much about this and who has time to research this stuff? 😂
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 05:08 PM
3

You can always make up for lost time bro. You just gotta start now and quit playing the victim card. I’m 25 and didn’t start till I was 24. Most people would consider that past the college years too. Take it one day at a time and join some of the get disciplined subs here like /nonzeroday and /getdisciplined
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:10 AM
4

Yeah and this subreddit’s name is “asktrp” aka it needs to be a question
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:52 AM
3

Agree and Amplify. Say something like “seriously man sometimes I feel so autistic hahaha hey but at least I’m not full on braindead like that one time you...” and proceed to call him out in a joking manner about something. Keep it light but at the same time you’re able to take shit and give it right back
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:23 AM
3

Learning, golfing, nature and how crazy brilliant the world is, video games
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:13 PM
7

Bro you gonna listen to people’s advice or just shoot back excuses all night? Not on tinder cause you have no pictures, not approaching cause you’re a stem major. Get on tinder and swipe and flirt like your life depends on it. You will get laid and it will take minimal effort.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:52 AM
2

Have you ever heard of “assume the sale”? Next time you see her, just assume the hell out of it. And say, “hey what’s your Snapchat?” Or, “hey let me get your number!” Then go from there. I’m worried you would just text her though cause if you haven’t escalated up until this point, somethings holding you back?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:32 PM
3

Sometimes you just don’t mesh with people. Honestly conversations are 2-sided, and if one person isn’t as into it or isn’t trying as hard then they usually do not work. I’d consider myself a great conversationalist but have talked to multiple girls and have had the same thing. No matter how hard I tried it just didn’t flow because either she wasn’t into it or wasn’t reciprocating talking at the same level as you. It happens. You weren’t meant to be if you can’t converse easily so just move on to…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:56 PM
1

Lol good try bro. How does this have anything with getting nervous on a date?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:42 AM
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Cuddle fuck. 1 hand on neck. 1 on clit. Bite/kiss neck shoulder and pound at same time. Works every time. Option 2 for me is get her right to the edge of orgasm and then cum before she’s there resulting in a great night for me and never being called back.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:59 PM
3

Read up on stoicism and practice some of it’s concepts!
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:03 PM
1

Don’t rape a girl. ALWAYS ask for consent, do not continue unless you get a YES 2. Follow the guidelines in sidebars for how to not get accused falsely for rape. 3. Don’t let the media control your thinking man. I’d say maybe .5% of all intercourse going on in the world is nonconsensual and only .33% of rape is ever reported. Aka there is an extremely low chance of you being falsely accused of rape. These cases are widely talked about but they are the tiniest fraction of all people that are sexu…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:27 PM
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Take a break from women for a month. Don’t touch yourself at all during that time. Passion will come back
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:43 PM
6

You made it seem like you were obviously affected by her not texting you back and that was a big mistake. Next time just ignore it, get busy, and she will text you or get interested eventually or maybe not. Either way you ruined the possibility of future hookups by letting her games affect you
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:06 PM
2

I can second this. I live in the most dedicated religious state in America and every person is brainwashed with abstinence. Girls are ridiculously horny here still and I’ve had multiple girls that I thought would never be down for sex be the ones that actually initiated it. Never count someone out until they’ve literally said so.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:53 PM
1

Yep. With tinder I can have a one night stand any night I want.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:51 AM
1

Hey man what’s red man group? I wanna listen to this!
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:12 PM
1

Thanks for the feedback. I think honestly this is the advice I needed. If girls are intimidated I need to make sure they know that I am interested in them, and genuine when it comes to my openness. I also think I need to lead more.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:11 PM
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To get you thinking about her and orbiting her again. To get you posting on reddit and asking why she would do such a thing. She wants your attention and all it took was liking 2 of your pics to get your mind wandering. Ignore that ish brah
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:08 AM
5

Whathefuck?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:59 AM
42

Any time a girl backs out I give her this response: “👍🏼” one simple thumbs up to acknowledge it and let her know that it’s fine, it’s not gonna change the outcome of your day at all, but it will also get her mind spinning about the lack of a long response. I had one girl bail on me about a month ago around 5 pm. I sent her a simple thumbs up in response. She ended up texting me at 12 am saying “come over”. Later after sex she literally said that she couldn’t stop thinking about me and that respo…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:59 AM
4

Dude honestly we humans have a tendency to overthink these things. You think that everyone is thinking about it and that everyone thinks you’re some low life moron and the world is going to end. In reality it was something small that people may have thought was weird or abnormal for about 30 seconds but they ARE NOT THINKING ABOUT IT NOW! Just forget about it or laugh it off if it’s ever brought up again and move forward. You’re gonna kill it so take it one step at a time.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:36 PM
9

Wait is getting a blowjob with a condom on an actual thing? I’ve never heard of that before
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:28 PM
1

I would personally wait till about halfway through the semester then sit next to her. Then you can game the last month. I made the mistake of hooking up with a hottie in my college class 2 times in the first week. Turns out she was nuts and I had avoid/sit away from her the entire semester and get constant texts, notes, you name it asking why I’m avoiding her. Avoid this at all costs haha
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:26 PM
1

Move out ASAP
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:12 AM
2

That was definitely it. I’ve had the exact same thing happen after I fapped same day. Just shrug it off like nothing out of the ordinary happened and get down with her again one of these nights! Honestly busting early is not all that embarrassing and girls don’t really care as long as you can work up for round 2. Moral of the story is don’t fap same day and don’t get embarrassed if you bust early. Wait 15 then go again
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:16 AM
1

Alright cool man take the post as you will. I’d say I’m a pretty levelheaded guy and have nothing to gain really by typing something false. Also I never even mentioned what type of girls they are at all. I was asking how to be more approachable in general and less intimidating. Whether that’s to an HB9 or to HB6 either way it helps to get advice.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:08 AM
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I read this the other day
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:48 PM
3

Dude why would you have to tell her you aren’t going to provide?!?? Take her to get coffee, go back to her place and get down, then casually text her once or twice a week. DO NOT get any further involved then this. Do not tell her you want her to be her plate or even mention providing anything for her family.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:28 AM
3

Sounds like you’re on the right track man. I see no problem in doing what you like for a few hours a day! The key I think is to limit that stuff to a certain amount of hours a day and try and stick to that. If you don’t get disciplined it can quickly take over your day though so pay attention. Good luck!
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:49 AM
5

Dude are you serious? How old are you? A girl wants your credit card info to verify before meeting up? How does that sounds even remotely legit? You just gotta use your brain on stuff like this man and not ask randoms on reddit.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:11 AM
2

This girl sounds freakin weird man. I’d ignore that shit so fast. Don’t acknowledge shitty texting behavior, only good texting should be responded to.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:09 AM
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Every guy on earth will experience pretty much this exact story at some point in life. That’s why TRP exists. Cause we can all relate to this story like it was our own.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 02:06 AM
1

Do you watch porn and masturbate? Porn can kill your sex drive super fast
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:42 PM
4

Give her some space and keep living your life. It sounds like she either got bored and is stringing/playing you along. Or she is testing you to see if you’re as into the relationship as she is. I’d ghost for a bit and if she asks about it be upfront and blunt about not wanting to play games and not wanting someone that constantly flakes. Keywords: ghost, blunt, keep living your life
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:14 AM
4

I would just text her like 3 times a day with simple but good texts: -A pic of something you’re doing during the day -“Have a solid day today!” in the morning -Something flirty sexual before bed, “so busy here and having so much fun but always missing your body ;)” This will keep her satisfied and will take about 2 minutes of your time hahaha
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:48 PM
1

This is true. Depends on the job change though and how much you like the current company. Sometimes the switch isn’t worth it. Also, that’s insane you’re graduated from college at 20 years old?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:24 AM
1

Just make a light joke and play it off like you DGAF. I just hooked up with a 30 year old girl on Friday and I’m 23. She said something about my age probably 15 times and every time I’d just laugh, smile, then talk about something else. After ignoring it so much she finally stopped talking about it and it worked out.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:22 AM
2

I would give your Xbox to a friend for a week or two. This will save you the temptation. Go outside and get some fresh air instead or go to the gym instead. Honestly, I would take a lower grade on your next quiz or whatever and just take a week to recuperate. Sounds like you need it and a week of relaxing and working towards your other goals will help you in the long run to not get burnt out.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:18 AM
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Man this used to bother me so bad too. Here’s what helped me. Get so busy that you’re the one that always forgetting to text them back. I used to wait around for chicks all day but I started filling my life with other stuff. Gym, friends, golf, basketball, hiking, swimming, video games, parties. I’m so busy now that I’m the one texting back rarely and it feels good. The other thing you can do to avoid this is by texting multiple girls at once. I’ll do this and it makes you forget about the one g…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:27 PM
1

So here’s the thing for me. I’m not of the opinion that we shouldn’t work and that we shouldn’t need to exert that effort especially as men. I’m of the opinion that our culture is going the opposite direction to where we are working more and more hours in order to gain almost the same wages. The way I see it there are 2 options for work culture 50 years from now and mostly this is applicable to higher level jobs. I think that simple jobs like manual labor or fast food will always be rigid but ho…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:34 PM
1

I pay $400 in rent right now living in a private room in a townhome with roommates! That’s how I’ve been able to save money. I have a good job but also keep my living expenses low. Even when I buy a home here in a bit I’ll continue to stay in my current rent. Once you buy a house and begin renting it out the rent money goes directly towards paying off that house so you aren’t putting much of your own money towards it. You can then begin saving to buy another house and do it all over again. Rinse…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:12 PM
1

True that. I’m already seeing that with a lot of the startups in my area. Lots of bosses that give unlimited PTO, choose your own schedule, work remotely, you name it. So good to see!
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:08 AM
1

Save for a long time. Been working for about a year to get enough for a down payment!
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:05 AM
1

Working towards it. 24 and just about to buy my first investment property.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:20 AM
2

Posted a little response above a few comments! I like the thought that “my job doesn’t define me”
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:19 AM
11

I’m 24 and have had a problem with this my entire life. It’s insane to see 90% of the population doing something they do not enjoy for 8-10 hours a day and yeah, I get it, this is an “entitled” millennial attitude. Still doesn’t change the stupidity of working your life away so that you can live a carefree life at 60+ years of age when you’re about to die. I understand that this world will not run without people doing work, I just think that the world needs to be moving in the opposite direction…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:18 AM
6

Dang 2.5 million net worth is middle class? 😂
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:30 AM
93

Perhaps unpopular but my opinion is that this whole shit of working 40-70 hours a week at your job for 40 years of your life is ridiculous and such a terrible societal norm.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:28 AM
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I’d also add, and it may sound messed up but that preferably they have 0 experience with sexual assault. Unless of course they’ve extensively seen a therapist to learn how to effectively cope with the trauma.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:49 PM
6

This is could honestly be top 5 for me. Isn’t obsessed with social media and receiving validation. Isn’t obsessed with showing others how good of a time she’s having through social media but is actually present and makes it a real life good time. Dated a girl for a while that was constantly thinking about social media and it was annoying as hell.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:45 PM
2

If I were you I’d take melatonin or zzquil until you get in the habit. It’s all about developing that habit of getting up at that time no matter how much sleep you get though. I started getting up at 6 am because of a job change and it was so hard for the first month. Now it doesn’t matter what time I got to bed. Usually it’s about 12 but even if it’s not till 2 am I can still get up easily at 6 cause my body is so accustomed.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:53 PM
2

Good work! Have fun not worrying about her and focusing on chicks that aren’t gonna waste your time
/r/askTRP01/08/18 09:04 PM
2

Dude this girl doesn’t give a shit about your one word texts. She’s probably boned 10 guys in those 2 weeks while this whole time you’re constantly thinking about her. You say you’re not thinking about her but texting someone “good morning”? I didn’t even text my girlfriend of 2 years good morning. If you really wanna mess with her never text her again and up your social circle. She’ll come crawling back
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:28 PM
5

Good one man. I’m all about focus while at the gym but I don’t think taking 2-3 minutes out of your gym sesh to talk to a girl is honestly a big deal but to each his own. I’ve thought the same thing but in the end it to me it just seems like it’s a way out so I don’t approach. “I’m at the gym and need to focus so I can’t approach this girl giving me the eyes.” Is really just me making up some other reason instead of, “this chick is hot and I have no idea how to approach her so I’m not going to.”
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:57 PM
1

This is a good idea. I was actually thinking about doing this exact same thing and believe it or not the girl was doing box squats too! I have no idea how they work and was gonna approach and ask but thought I’d look stupid. Next time I’ll go for it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:24 PM
8

This super skinny, pale, ugly motorcross kid I’m friends with is dating a straight 9 Instagram model chick with 120k followers. His Instagram bio literally just says 2 things: “honestly idgaf”.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:52 AM
3

A lot of girls in my area color their hair nowadays just to switch things up. Even the hot ones do it so I don’t think it really matters at all
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:15 PM
1

If you’re just talking about kissing your not gonna get a sexual assault allegation for that. Just go for it. Be more wary when you’re going further than kissing I’d say though
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:13 PM
2

Dang, anyone that gives more attention to my ex gf than me in any situation I would not consider a “friend”
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:00 AM
0

Dude what are you even saying you’re going off about the least important thing in this guys discussion. The guy is simply saying that yeah, they are big fat losers and yeah they suck but they also have a label. They’re called black pills. Why are you going him such a hard time. And guess what, the word loser is a label too.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:49 AM
15

I know 3 guys with long hair and all 3 get tons of women. Something about it being unique I think that helps them stand out from the other 10000 guys with short hair!
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:55 AM
1

Man, hard next to girls that do this or just ignore it/make fun of her for it and she’ll never do it again. Also, I live in the most conservative place on earth and people most definitely spread their legs here you just gotta escalate, push and pull!
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:19 PM
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