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SEEKING ADVICEiheartcookin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:32 PM
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Could Someone decipher that kids name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:54 PM
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Wow she has a channel? Awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:27 AM
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If she’s not our mascot she should be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:42 PM
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My husband and I had the same values when we got married, or so I thought. Mine evolved through time, his crystallized instead. We literally grew apart. (Yes I’m still with him, I deserve my flair, I’m working on it but it’s financially impossible to separate right now. )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:39 AM
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Unless you have kids. If you are a mom, skip the baseball kid scene. First time I’ve ever been traumatized by a movie. And I love horror films. This was different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:33 PM
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That’s actually what I like about it. It’s uncomfortable but depicts the very real golden-son dynamic many families have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:45 PM
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The worst is the last episode where she gives up her dream job In PARIS to be with Ross. Ffs just make him go with you. ... It’s still my favorite show actually, but still has its problems and outdated humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:43 PM
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Oh good I was starting to think there was something wrong with me. This show,and the Office fail to make me laugh, ever. But I love Parks & Rec, Arrested Development, FRIENDS... Always Sunny just makes me feel uneasy/annoyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:39 PM
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Your comment is so meaningful and eye opening. Girls pay attention and choose to learn _____. Men choose not to learn these skills. Gift-giving, cleaning, even small repairs (I watched my HV dad fix things, I’m the handy woman in my marriage too) they have the same tools and opportunities we do, but hide behind their “this is who I am” BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:15 PM
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It seems really really fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:33 AM
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This one make me seethe. Of course I couldn’t comment on that sub because being part of FDS means auto-mod removes my comments there. I feel like I belong to both ... but FDS isn’t welcome there where it’s so badly needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:01 PM
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That makes sense, it should never be a big surprise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:49 PM
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This is BS sure but... I mean anything that gets them on top for a change...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:11 PM
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I would like to get you started on the book if you have a few minutes to explore that. Positive/negative? Skip it and watch the movie? Or read the book first? Overall theme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:01 PM
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Girls go to college to get more knowledge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:22 AM
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That’s the worst part, that area right below and it feels like sandpaper there. And they can’t take any direction... ok well maybe listen to my reactions? I mean I listen to a man’s breathing and “oh yeah’s” and it tells me all I need to know. Why can’t they do that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:44 AM
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Unfortunate that you were grossed out but that’s good news for the fish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:47 AM
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Every woman’s worst nightmare is a late marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:24 AM
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Same here. And I wanted to be a part of it. Still technically a pickmeisha but I’m waking up and trying to make a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:31 AM
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I feel this way about food and that’s the only place this sentiment is appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:53 PM
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I was autobanned from another sub just for being subscribed to this one. At least here I’m allowed to post and seek advice, just given the appropriate flair which I deserve. I’m new here and trying to make my life better, I’ve learned a lot from you all and I appreciate being included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:20 PM
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Wow thanks for this breakdown, I want to read more about this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:46 AM
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Kids don’t appreciate those as much anyway, when their friends have lunchables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:48 PM
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Totally right, but as my husband is a soft sensitive guy who cries easily, um trying to lay the groundwork in all areas including making him tough. I hope I’m doing it right. He’s growing up in a different world than we did, and from my teenage step-boys’ experience it seems like a more compassionate one. Thanks for putting it on my radar though, I’ll be vigilant about that. I want to send him into the world with both kindness and grit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:31 AM
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I was worried my husband would feel this way but I think he’s relieved that he doesn’t have to pretend to pay any attention to me. I’m so In love with my son (not in a Greek-play sort of way just he’s my miracle cause we weren’t going to have kids and he just happened anyway) I just give all the love and attention that I was wasting on my husband, to my boy instead. I’m sort of more trapped now that I have him, but also I have someone actually worth all the love and energy. He’s 10x more loving …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:06 AM
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My little boy will see the villain in movies get their “comeuppance” and say “I feel bad for that guy.” Note that in many kids movies these days the bad guy isn’t usually straight-up evil, but usually misunderstood or making poor decisions, so I think his empathy is strong, I just have to take care to preserve it. He loves freely and is generous with affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:05 PM
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The men I work with, almost always (really always but I don’t like to be accused of hyperbole) ok always say “no” in response to whatever I say and then “actually yeah you’re right.” Like ALWAYS they say “no” FIRST. Like yeah I get it you’re sooooo smart and I’m just a female. That knee-jerk “no” is infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:50 PM
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I doubt they learn at all, but they’re someone else’s problem now and you’re the “crazy ex”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:32 PM
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Man that’s cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:26 AM
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He is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:06 PM
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It was so much worse than just that but I would rather not go into too much detail but porn is the beginning and if anyone on here nurses doubt as to whether porn is destructive IT IS. Take it seriously and online privacy should not exist for teenagers who live at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:05 PM
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Yes, because of an incident with one of the older kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:01 PM
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Thanks this is a big issue for us, I’m going to take a hard line against porn in our family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:29 PM
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Violent video games are a staple in this house and he loves guns and swords and play hitting. We wrestle and play rough together a bit. Media we watch a lot of superhero stuff which is more “woke” nowadays... I steer away from the bumbling idiot guy subject matter, I hate that and don’t want him to strive towards that stereotype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:01 PM
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I live in Southern California and ... good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:10 PM
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God yes. My favorite show, worst character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:33 AM
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Well I don’t find the joke funny because living this sucks. BUT I do find the video funny and she is doing some great physical comedy acting out something we have probably all done more subtly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:52 PM
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I didn’t even realize how insidious this is until I saw how many others have gone through the same thing and so have I...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:40 AM
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I almost take this stereotype for granted and then just sit and think for a second how disgusting that is....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:00 AM
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My teenager looks like this lol. Automatically makes it unattractive on adult men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:30 AM
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Absolutely I do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:28 AM
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Men who think wiping their butt is “gay” Pretending to be incompetent to get out of helping. Expecting sex as a reward for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:26 AM
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Disney movies actually made me consider men as insignificant... I mean the prince is barely in the movies, it’s all about the princesses. Women are the heroes, prince shows up at the end, has pretty much no face or personality. I also didn’t have a dad around so this plus the movies made me think they weren’t necessary. Like Sleeping Beauty... it’s the faeries who saved her life for the most part, they took her away to safety and taught her to not talk to strangers. Ariel saved the Prince twice,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:10 AM
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I found this sub because someone was bashing it and calling it toxic. It may be a bit of a circle-jerk sometimes but those are my favorite subs. As a parallel theres a vegan sub where we are constant having to be “tolerant” of meat-eaters, something we are profoundly against, let’s we be called preachy or intolerant. If we so much as point out hypocrisy, we get told “tHiS iS wHy I’m nOt VeGaN waaaaaaa!” So many of us head over to vegancirclejerk where we don’t have to pretend it’s ok to eat chee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:00 AM
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What a time to be alive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:22 AM
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That’s totally Lisa Kudrow! Yes that’s what I got out of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:36 PM
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Don’t forget orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:49 PM
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When men say “you shouldn’t keep score” I always think “that’s cause if we kept score you would LOSE!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:53 PM
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This comment is so triggering I can’t even process the feelings it gives me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:59 PM
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I was thinking the same but I think the issue is broadcasting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:35 PM
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This made me laugh so freaking hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:29 PM
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Thanks for your comment because I’m so connected with my little son, I sometimes even worry if he loves me too much! He brings me snacks and gives tons of affection, and we just adore one another. But he’s also very outgoing with friends and other adults. I just hope he grows up to be a good and respectful partner. (I also teach him to clean up and get his own food when he’s hungry even though he is 4) I was worried that he is going to be a “mommy’s boy” (not in an endearing way) but I want to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:04 PM
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I’m just reading your post hoping I’m doing the right thing to raise my son to be HVM... we are very affectionate as I was so happy to have a (surprise) baby and he’s been my little buddy... but my point is that even though we kiss and cuddle all the time I’m very strict about being touched when I don’t want to be, not just allowing him because he’s little and loving. Sometimes I can tell it’s him testing my boundaries and I have no problem saying “I don’t want hugs” or “I don’t want you on me!”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:26 AM
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Here’s a little different perspective... I didn’t have men in my life that often till I was a little older and got a stepdad. Though we had our problems he was mostly wonderful. My perception of men was that they’re smarter than us and more rational and solve problems. It caught up to me when I had men working for me and with me in my business and I would kind of be disappointed that they weren’t as smart or professional as I was and couldn’t figure out simple problems and needed to be told ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:07 PM
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Oh man this is crazy I didn’t realize it was so common...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:06 PM
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I am in late 30’s, more attractive than I think I’ve ever been, and happier with myself and most aspects of my life other than being married. (I know this is a dating sub but I get SO much out of reading it sorry) Though I love my husband I am not happy being married, because of the life of basically being a servant and caregiver. He did not improve with age at all but rather stopped all self care, stopped pretending he was able to help around the house, and basically everything my young self lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:41 PM
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