Imagine....

FurryBellyButt0n · 2020-08-25T12:40:42+00:00

He knows better, he is CHOOSING not to do better

If that's how it's going to be, you gotta love yourself first and walk away

The scarcity mindset keeps LVM & NVM in power. Time to flip the script if you wanna be at the top because Queens never question their worth, they demand respect with grace and dignity <3

saint-jezebel · 2020-08-25T14:54:16+00:00

Men learn faster when you leave them versus when you tell them.

throwRAwhatisthis · 2020-08-25T16:03:57+00:00

Lol I think this was posted before and my ex was sooo pissed when he saw me reading this.

He tried to argue women are more disposable. I guess he was right, because I’m gone! Let’s see how long #22 stays.

ETA: it was saved as a screenshot, so it must have stung 😘

paperbagskirt · 2020-08-25T12:41:45+00:00

To quote another queen here:

“Men realizing that they are disposable is my fetish”

fairywakes · 2020-08-25T15:58:28+00:00

I literally just DUMPED a man yesterday who was otherwise fantastic but became terrible with texting and calling me. I could see him active on Instagram all the time - he wasn’t even opening my messages.

They know better. I don’t have the time. Bye 🤪

HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick · 2020-08-25T15:58:39+00:00

Exactly, never argue with people over all how they should treat you. If they don't care that much, just walk away. They are not worthy of your time. I've wasted too much of my life on people who never cared. The moment you start to value yourself is the moment when all the toxic people walk away automatically and only the ones that truly care stay.

Villanelloh · 2020-08-25T13:58:24+00:00

This is what my NVM ex did. Then he would discuss it with his mother and call me to apologise because his mother said I was right to be angry eyeroll

the_researcher_ · 2020-08-25T14:35:15+00:00

Absolutely! The first year easily, just move on at the first sign of him not living up to your standards.

No fight, no argument, just a decision and move on.

michelle27519 · 2020-08-25T14:45:23+00:00

This is sooooo true! I spent way too much time trying to get my ex to be a decent guy and he’s just not and never will be.

7Cuervos · 2020-08-25T13:35:31+00:00

Its all about putting yourself and your well-being first. Loving yourself enough to be able to walk away when you get less than what you deserve.

Dont settle for less.

saltyandpepa · 2020-08-25T14:18:12+00:00

TRUTH. Why bother with the man who treats you like shit when you can go on an app and have 10 other guys lined up to take you out?

thedutchqueen · 2020-08-25T15:40:50+00:00

true but then you start to think of the actually good qualities of the man that you will miss and convince yourself that those qualities are worth staying for and then he repeats the same unacceptable behavior and then the cycle repeats.

i’m still learning 😂

cryptohobo · 2020-08-25T21:26:36+00:00

I hope the woman who asked r/RPW how to deal with her husband’s affair (that he blamed her for) sees this.

2020-08-26T05:59:09+00:00

Men are like trains. Catch one then make a transfer

F1shB1rd · 2020-08-25T18:31:44+00:00

You know what I just thought about, if our exes say something along the lines of, "good luck finding someone who will put up with you or meet all your demanding criteria..."

To me, if it takes a while to find someone who does, that says waaay more about men than it does about me and my FDS queens! They have lots of issues if I can't find someone who respects boundaries and respects me, period. 💁🏻‍♀️💅🏻

Mindard · 2020-08-25T14:29:36+00:00

PREACH

ResponsibleCharacter · 2020-08-25T16:53:20+00:00

Where’s the lie? Then they’re all shocked 😂

beanjean8822 · 2020-08-25T23:58:56+00:00

Okay ladies can I please just say that I am not sure there are men out there who can provide and respect women. Like tbh I’m scared to start dating again because I feel like they’ll all be utter disappointments! Are there really good men out there? I’m doubtful.

LuxLeafBud · 2020-08-25T19:07:31+00:00

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Imagine....

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Title	Imagine....
Author	BrooklynBabe33
Upvotes	2782
Comments	80
Date	August 25, 2020 12:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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