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| 180 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Yes and he was a narc, I’m talking clinical grade. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 4 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…Oh lord he’s extra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 99 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…Never accept a man’s free offer, it ain’t free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 19 | From the tinder subreddit. I have no words.I’m okay with it as long as I can fist him back. Otherwise, “come on buddy, you won’t do this for some regular va jay jay action?!…no wonder you’re single.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:07 PM |
| 75 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔This is so true. I let my ex do this to me and it’s honestly degrading. They twist it into “dirty fun” and normal, so you question it and don’t want to be a “prude” or have your bf get it elsewhere. It was false empowerment. Thank god I have boundaries and command respect now. My bf won’t finish in my mouth or ask to because he knows it’s gross. He doesn’t force me or expect me to, which is how it should be. And if he wants to get it elsewhere, then the door’s over there buddy. I’ll no longer do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 50 | Help! My Husband Threatened Divorce After I Got Mad About Him Being on Adult Dating Sites.More like help, “I’m fucking hopeless.” What in the pick me is this??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Now that's a movie I'd want to watch!Let’s do it! I just love that idea and had so many thoughts/ideas from reading that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Now that's a movie I'd want to watch!I’ll do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 96 | If it’s true it’s sad :(It shouldn’t be controversial. I will always snoop as a part of vetting and feel no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 44 | If it’s true it’s sad :(I bet he thought it saved time to pre-wrap the tp, he thought he was onto something smart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:59 PM |
| 13 | Does anyone trust their pets when they don’t like a guy?I have always thought this too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 12:10 AM |
| 23 | No, a woman from a 3rd world country will not put up with your stink! (An anecdote)I do recommend leaving 5% of conditioner on the ends to keep them from looking frizzy if you’re a frizzy girl. It’s made a huge difference in my hair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?I don’t think so, I’ve noticed that with a lot of guys. I think it’s normal and they’re just focused on what they’re doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 331 | this is (yes really) a marketing strategy for a dating app.The thing that scares me about that is the men’s counterpart app. Imagine what theirs would be. “Did she put out? Was she fatter than her pictures? Did she make you pay?” And then the darker side like swapping nudes or sex tapes they recorded on someone unknowingly. Plus men could get on the women’s app and pretend to be one of the women who went out with him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 77 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugIt’s almost like I don’t even know how to feel about this- part of me feels bad for her but the rest doesn’t. I was in an abusive relationship myself (not physical- but all the other types of abuse were present). All I can do is look back and see how obvious it was and how I made the choice to stay with him. I chose every single time he spoke nastily, to stay. Anytime he acted like a narcissistic asshat, I decided to stay. Yeah I’m still hurt by how he made me feel and have long-lasting trauma. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 24 | A reminder on the Scarcity Mindset: don't allow yourself to get too deep into this state of mind. 🧲We attract what we believe.🧠 Operating from a place of bitter disbelief will significantly decrease your chance of attracting a hvm. (+✅green flags)Ooh you gave me a post idea! Thank you I agree we need some positivity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:02 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Check-inHow can you tell if you’re vetting too hard and being paranoid vs something in your heart and gut aren’t lining up? So far I have many green flags and my bf has been changing his behavior immediately if I complain about anything. He wholeheartedly apologizes and changes his behavior. He listened to what I said- and is doing above and beyond what my original complaint was. It’s like he took what I said seriously and thought of ways to improve! But I’m scared of being lovebombed. How do I know if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 39 | Daily dose of scrotityHey if sex is all they want, that’s their only choice. Except you know they’ll still vent to their favorite prostitute and use her as a comfort blanket. Lol they can’t decide what they want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 38 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Too bad I’m an uppity bitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 14 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Thank you for the link! I’m gonna go check it out. That’s so interesting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 48 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Interesting. Trying to keep us down, no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:33 PM |
| 426 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Can someone please explain why men want to tear women’s self-esteem down? Why do they criticize our appearances so much? Is it because it gives them power, to say, “no I wouldn’t fuck that”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:38 AM |
| 44 | Your Haters are Closet FansThat’s a very good point. It’s easy to miss something that subtle, and it almost sounds silly reading it. Like, “okay, so what if your friend said that?” But I wouldn’t say that to a friend lol. I don’t think a real friend would respond in that defeatist manner. That’s not encouraging, which is the opposite of friendship. Yep watch out for friends who don’t want you to change! It’s because they don’t want to and they don’t want to watch someone else do it first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:35 AM |
| 75 | Your Haters are Closet FansThank you for this!! I needed this one. I left a toxic male dominated work environment recently. The guys there either wanted to sleep with me or hated me, there was no in between. Including my superiors (one somehow wanted to bang me and hated me simultaneously lol- oh wait I forgot that’s normal LVM fee fees)The ones who hated me literally sabotaged my jobs. I was their superior and they hated it! It sucked being in that environment and it ate at me. But your perspective is correct. I was eati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:31 AM |
| 9 | Proper posture is sexy!Hahahaha “spoken as a dancer and one time model who’s been scaring men for many decades” We need a short stories series! Sounds like the beginning of a badass story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 25 | Why I don't feel empathy for unattractive menI hate that sub!! I’m so glad I didn’t find it when I was more vulnerable and impressionable, such as being a teen. I realize that they just LOVE to shit on pretty women and bring them down a peg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Just for laughs ladies.Damn you’re a strong human being. Thanks for the motivation! I’ll think of you whenever I feel like slacking. You’re a beast and queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:40 PM |
| 6 | Just for laughs ladies.I forgot I was on FDS and thought this was a real comment lmao. I was like, “yup, typical redditor male” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 4 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InEven in cases of individuals prone to overthinking? I tend to overthink and misread situations, A LOT. Is it just different in the world of dating? Any feeling is a valid feeling? ETA: ah I see what you’re saying. I say some HV traits because I don’t know the guy well enough yet. I’m taking my time before I give anyone any HV labels. Once it becomes apparent by pattern, then I can give that HV label. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | The only man I will consider having sex withThat’s the tea 🍵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | The only man I will consider having sex withYeah they don’t get any better lol. Them boys stay thirsty. You’re right though- there are men at that age who DO know all they want is sex and they usually go to sugaring sites to set that kind of arrangement up. There are guys like that on the sugar sites, and then there’s ones who want the full package deal. They want the intimacy and the relationship. But it’s never a FULL relationship. It’s on their terms and desires. I think a lot of guys 40-50 who try to date women their age are secretly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:17 PM |
| 9 | The only man I will consider having sex withYou shouldn’t. I beat myself up for the exact opposite. I used to be the “cool girl” that also “just wanted to get off”. But it was empty and worthless. I regret it a lot. I regret thinking I could delude myself into thinking sex isn’t a big deal. I don’t regret all my hook ups- but some of them I clearly didn’t respect myself or my own boundaries. I mean what WERE boundaries then? I even deleted my little black list because I no longer wanted to remember the names of guys I slept with that didn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 10 | Truly embarrassingThat’s been my experience as well! My guy pays attention to me first so I’m willing to work with it, he goes for multiple rounds haha. Yes the guy who jerks it all the time takes forever to get off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:27 AM |
| 38 | Truly embarrassingWhat is it with the minute men? What causes it? Is it guys that don’t get laid much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:38 PM |
| 11 | Thank You :DCongrats on the breakup and new job!! I was exactly where you were over a year ago. Just broke up with my abusive ex and have been FDS’ing and re-building ever since. It’s a daily process and takes constant self-reflection and accountability. I still catch myself going back to pick me tendencies at times- and now know enough to stop it in its tracks! Last night I about died trying not to text a guy I’m dating lol. As for trauma recovery, be patient and kind with yourself. As well as brutally hon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 15 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InHey y’all, any tips on making vetting less stressful? It is kind of anxiety inducing always knowing that the guy you like may still not be shit. I’m sort of driving myself crazy thinking about a guy I’m dating. I feel like there’s not red flags and he’s exhibited some HV behaviors and traits. But for some reason I still feel uneasy. I feel like it might be my gut telling me something that my brain doesn’t have the information to process yet. How do I know it’s not overthinking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:21 PM |
| 3 | How much is your time worth?Yes, it’s a slippery slope. Just remember it’s all checks and balances. If one day is high, then balance the rest. You won’t be right on target everyday, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:35 AM |
| 7 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InFor sure the latter was true. These dudes know what they’re doing. Yep what you see isn’t what you really get. That’s why we say always vet. Vetting is an ongoing process, always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Amen sis. Life ain’t fair, and 50/50 doesn’t work in most situations. It’s about equity- not equality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Nah this is weird people shit period. I’ve dealt with a lot of white families and never experienced this- I’m talking from rich to trailer park. He doesn’t like her, that’s the point. This is why we at FDS say no to 50/50. If a guy wants you to pitch in halfway, it’s because you’re not his dream girl. A guy who really wants you will pay for your ticket and meal. If you’re paying- he’s cheating, planning for his next girl, or you’re his depressing placeholder that will serve to fill his gaping ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:31 AM |
| 8 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Can’t believe he said that in order to take the blame off himself. That’s so fucked up. This post has me like!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 17 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Yessss that’s what I’m saying! And it has nothing to do with money at the base level. A woman who isn’t breaking her back to pay the bills has enough time to look at the situation more clearly and can do something about it. “Okay, so I pay for everything like a single woman. My bf doesn’t add anything to my life. Not even a takeout dinner. Time to reassess and find a new apartment.” The lower paid woman will eventually reach the same conclusion- but after tons of damage has been done to her self… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.He’s a sociopath!! I can’t get over it. My narc ex was a horrible, abusive human and he didn’t even let me go hungry. He literally values this woman less than dirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.I have to agree, and on both sides. You don’t want to be resented for having more either. You don’t want a partner who will resent you because they can’t or will never be on the same level as you. It’s important to be with someone who is working towards/has the same level of financial comfortability as you. The guy in the post is an asshole, for sure. But if he knew he wanted someone who could hang on his fancy trips AND pay for themselves, he shouldn’t be dating a teacher. He’s clearly a manipu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:08 AM |
| 23 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.It’s like, “prove to us you can afford to eat at our table”. What a nightmare. I’ve never met parents, and I mean of ANY financial background, not offer me food or drink. I’m talking I was at a trailer park and still got offered beer and food lol. These are some messed up people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:00 AM |
| 9 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.You should write a post about this. I really like this idea as a post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Red is not your favourite colour! Don’t ignore the red flagsI have been vetting for red flags and put “to be reviewed” flags down as well. Sometimes the red flags aren’t immediate. Sometimes you just have a quick “huh” moment, or “something seems off”. Even the smallest thing I make a note of and watch out for a pattern in the future. The post earlier on FDS suggesting that we write down notes of red flags or things to keep an eye out for. I’m definitely going to start writing things down so I don’t forget anything with my new guy. I think what’s been wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think tradcon men secretly lust after the "whores" according to the Madonna-Whore dichotomy despite their trad values?Yes this was chilling to read. And it’s so relatable. My ex was the same way. Wanted me to not wear make up or dress up. Say “it wasn’t me” when I did. But then said he liked “girly girls” later on. Also said other women looked like sluts or that they piled on makeup and how “lucky” he was that I was “naturally pretty”. Of course this was a neg on his part. “Words don’t mean piss” are the literal words from my nvm ex. He wasn’t and isn’t wrong. The story above from bbqranchqueen is a great examp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 3 | What do you ladies think ?Wow you really explained this well and clarified something for me. I’ve always wondered why I haven’t felt desired after being hit on, like it wasn’t like I was truly wanted. I was being sexualized. I didn’t understand why until after your comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 47 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”This was exactly my NVM narcissistic ex to a T. Why did I not run when he said, “I don’t get why you’d like cats. They don’t listen or love you unconditionally.” He loved dogs because they “always love you”. ETA: he also always complained if I didn’t seem excited enough when he got home. Haha made me laugh, he wanted me to be his lap dog too! Girls run run run if you ever hear this. Or you’re gonna need a lot of therapy and have lasting trauma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationArthur Morgan is pretty solid too! RDR3 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 10:47 PM |
| 62 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationDude I pictured and felt everything you wrote just now. Holy moly is this the truth. So many guys are like this, you can tell just by the way they talk about women. It’s always skinny with boobs, always. Well according to my friend in another place, guys love curves everywhere. One of his coworkers says, “I like the see the ripple.” talking about cellulite lol But men be nasty. Whatever traits they like become the litmus test for what is hot or not. And then women suffer for it, as you perfectly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 15 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationOmg I love you and your username. ♥️ great taste in games | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 13 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivation“I’m sorry I never gave you the chance to help me.” Omg that is the most responsibility denying statement I have ever read, hands down. He regrets not allowing you to fix him?? He can’t take care of himself and won’t take self-ownership and is sorry he didn’t give you a chance to do it??? And his “giving you a chance” so he can’t even fix himself and wouldn’t even take a helping hand? What is this statement?! I don’t get what it means haha it’s insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 11 | FDS: A Fairy TaleCould it be a horror book of what not to dos? It would be meant for teens and young adults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 4 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:20 AM |
| 6 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteHi can I please be invited to ovarit?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:46 AM |
| 18 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.Damn that’s just astute, ma’am. I’m gonna need to take a seat. This is FDS manual supreme stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | So I went on 2 dates, and saw the red flags a mile away! Or am I being too harsh?Second post in a row no one has responded to on here, am I not welcome to post anymore? Feelin the love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | About "Getting The Bag" ...That is a very fair point. The standards are so low. I guess that’s why I’m questioning if there really is a “good man”. Yes the “good” men benefit because they don’t have to put any effort, they just have to not do the obviously bad things “bad men” do. It feels as if they have no standards for themselves and in turn have no standards for women beyond the shallow. They don’t self reflect so why would they want anything deeper from women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:53 PM |
| 3 | About "Getting The Bag" ...Oh I agree wholeheartedly about financial independence being number one. And yes good for her! I don’t judge her at all, but I hate listening to her sometimes because it feels so acerbic and hopeless. She says men don’t care about anything but looks. Do you think deep down this is true? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:01 PM |
| 26 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?Of course we’re a problem for them! They want to keep the status quo and keep women down (literally and metaphorically). But they’re a problem for all of women kind. We are a problem for scrotes, and they’re a problem for all women and the very few good men out there. They turn good men into bad men as well, and create insecure Pickmes. They ruin all heterosexual relations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:54 PM |
| 4 | About "Getting The Bag" ...See I guess this is my question as well. Cant you focus on your own wealth and financial independence but seek to also gain from a man who will probably cheat on you down the line, or leave you when you’re sick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:56 PM |
| 3 | About "Getting The Bag" ...But can’t you get your own bag as well as get another one from a guy?? Wouldn’t it be a better strategy to always be financially independent but to also seek getting something in return for all the bullshit? Not saying I believe sheras ways are right. But I’m questioning if she is since so many men have nothing to offer of worth (emotionally speaking). Or do you think that there’s a chance there will be a real chance at love? If there’s no chance at real love, wouldn’t it be prudent to get what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:54 PM |
| 8 | About "Getting The Bag" ...I was watching sheras videos for a while. My therapist suggested that it wasn’t a positive influence and was making me angry and bitter. She told me not to watch her for a while. But I still question if this is the approach. I’m starting to open my heart to dating again but have already been sorely disappointed. I wonder if this is the only way. Do men even deserve our hearts, our love, our undying kindness and loyalty? Of course not the majority. But I guess do ANY? They act like they are so en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:41 AM |
| 31 | Hold men accountable.I couldn’t even listen because of that. Hard to take her seriously when she’s clearly still catering to the male gaze and in that kind of way. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 44 | I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM"....Yes!!! Tell people. Tell people you’re worried and to ask them if they can keep an eye on your house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 114 | Men on the MoonProof the moon landing didn’t happen right here /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:46 PM |
| 28 | Oh really? Hmm.. you don’t say?Yes, eyelashes must be made from unicorn lashes and not human lashes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Signs your boss might have a crush on youHey there. Thank you for your advice and response! I really needed to hear another perspective. I will keep this in mind and will be very careful. I’ll act more confident and sure of myself, and won’t say anything too personal. It’s something I need to work on regardless. What makes you think he’s a predator??can you tell me what to look out for? Thanks again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Signs your boss might have a crush on youYa the “to me” is what raised a question in my mind. But I wasn’t sure if I was overthinking it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Signs your boss might have a crush on youOoh that’s a really good point about the recovering pickme! I’ll definitely keep this in mind as I want to avoid being taken advantage of. You are so right about how the slightest kindness can be perceived as great kindness by a recovering pickme, or someone who has been abused. I legit was touched the other day when my boss asked me to continue to speak and he responded to my “nah, it was nothing important” with, “everything you say is important to me”. Not gonna lie, that totally plucked my he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:45 PM |
| 10 | Men won’t even put in the bare minimum these days and it’s because there are women who tolerate it.I would argue that the individual man does not benefit, because he knows he can find women who are weaker and don’t have standards or boundaries. He will constantly escape himself for the rest of the life and will never take responsibility. I’d also argue mankind DOES benefit from this. Because this happens on a macro level, they can say it’s a woman problem. They can say, “oh well there’s plenty of women out here eating our dusty crumbs. If you won’t, one of these pickmeshas will.” Then the nar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼Girl, I feel this 100%. Unfortunately many of us have experienced this. But fortunately, that means it’s not just you and it’s not your fault! Its nothing you lacked to have this happen to you. Men only pretend like they treat you like shit for lacking something, so women will always blame themselves for the outcome. It’s a trick! Run! You know what, fuck your old stuff. It was stuff you had in that life. That isn’t you anymore. I lost a few things myself and still miss them, but am grateful to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 15 | What we learn from Gamestop and Wallstreet brosYes! All of the women in your story could be much happier with each others support. We are all being played by men. It’s time to fight the real enemy here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Women please take note!The only ones who do this are the ones who don’t love or value themselves. Can be men or women who do it. Usually different underlying motives, but it still stems from the same underlying issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 5 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼You just keep going. Doesn’t matter what you leave behind, just leave it. Leave old things, mindsets, behaviors, toxic people, behind. Choose YOU every morning. Choose life. Choose the pursuit of happiness and self-fulfillment. You are a beautiful soul and your soul is begging to be read, explored, and let loose. Wake up every morning with self-love and self-discovery as your daily goal. Do that DIY, go to therapy, read that book, bike that trail you were hoping to go with someone else with. Eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:45 PM |
| 26 | Probably posted before, but it's trueI don’t think that’s a LVW thing to say! The longer we are FDS, the more clearly we see that that exact phrase really isn’t wrong lol. The dating field for women is a minefield. We could vet a man for years and he could still turn out to be a NVM in the end. Might as well get the few perks that we can actually obtain. ETA: also we know to leave when he starts treating us like shit. The perks end when any mistreatment or disrespect begins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 135 | Probably posted before, but it's trueThe way I see it is, she chose someone who didn’t even meet her standards physically. And now she is doubly disappointed. She dated down and still gets let down. I think she means, why do women take the chance on men we don’t even find attractive. He still let her down. Dating down does not guarantee a better outcome. Dating down could also include income, confidence level, intelligence, etc. I think she chose looks because it’s the simplest one to choose and argue. So many women think they won’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 86 | What we learn from Gamestop and Wallstreet brosAs a fellow long-time WSBr, I love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 25 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼Scrote’s conundrum. Tale as old as time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:23 AM |
| 18 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼I know exactly how that feels. My ex cheated on me for knows how long. It’s not just the cheating that sucks, it’s the fact you realize you gave your heart to someone and the relationship was a lie. I’m over him (aka literally hate him on a cellular level) and have been broken up with him since July last year, but the effects linger. I lost trust and faith in relationships. I question myself and my worth at times. It’s the worst feeling ever, giving yourself wholly, and then someone uses and and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Self proclaimed homeless and hungry man begging on tinder (translation in comments)Oh wow...just gotta love the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 8 | Self proclaimed homeless and hungry man begging on tinder (translation in comments)What does it say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:20 AM |
| 65 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕Saved because it’s too damn true. I feel like this should be read everytime a man tries to call us man haters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:58 AM |
| 140 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕You did not need to go there...I was just forgetting that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 26 | Who taught men to say "sorry you feel that way"?Hehe my ex actually did say “sorry your foot was in the way”. As u/phoenix_rising2018 said, it’s a fuck you and your feelings. They’re telling you fuck you in the most polite way possible. They say this to keep getting away with what they’re doing. Next time someone says it, I’ll just say, “I’m sorry I feel this way too. Well, it’s time for me to go.” Then block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:52 PM |
| 19 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?Yup. There’s no way they haven’t been used. I think a HVM would get rid of toys from a previous relationship. Why would he want to see the same toys being used on his new gf? It’s so gross and impersonal. A guy who is okay with that sees women as sex cattle, no doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 23 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?Did we have the same ex? Mine had all of his old toys and bondage stuff from previous relationships. Ya I’ll never date a guy that ALREADY has sex toys. Unless it’s just one for him. And even then I’d be super wary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 21 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.Nah of course not, but we’re not dealing with reasonable people here. They’ll think you’re a bitch and your point will be lost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?Oh I didn’t think you were calling me out, I was glad to get a differing opinion! Since I was just spitballing ideas anyway haha. And your example is a very good point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.ETA: am I the only person who has their comments go to the top every time?? I can’t comment on proper comment chains. Know how to fix? Sorry for accidental post spam, I was trying to respond to one of the commenters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.I wonder how many medicines don’t actually help women because they don’t interact with our metabolisms and hormones in the same way they do with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.The current dating market is the most famous social experiment in my opinion lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 9 | Ever get angry that FDS works?Yes I’m on fire every day. I don’t miss my ex or want him back, honestly I’d cheer if he died. He was that awful of a human being for me to feel this way. I was the easiest target out there and he bled me dry. He represents everything FDS warns of. But he bombed my self-esteem, the last bit I had. I hate him and the men like him. I’m pissed that we’re always used, always wanted, but always discarded and devalued. We are never good enough. And they try to take bit by bit without you noticing. I h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:16 PM |
| 12 | He better swallow my vaginal discharge then. Men complain about women not swallowing but won't eat a spoonful of my vaginal dischargeYes!!! And what’s with guys sticking their fingers in your mouth after fingering you?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 12:03 PM |
| 68 | So-called "petty" deal breakersFuck that guy. Omg girl that’s just insane. I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this. Just know nothing he said was true. He siphoned all your energy and used you as barb the builder. Guys like that actually want to be you, be like you. And they hate you for being admirable. They hate you have what they lacked. It didn’t matter to him that you helped him level up, you opened his eyes to his own inadequacies. He knew he could try to be like you, but never even be close. He resented you for opening h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManAwesome! Who is in charge of making the kombucha? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:22 PM |
| 63 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManI agree with this! A lot of the time we attract what we think we deserve or what triggers our past traumas. We must get to the root and fix it first, or we will keep having the same relationships over and over. Be blunt with yourselves! Here’s an example of why we can’t expect things we can’t do ourselves. I pinpointed a lot of my own issues recently and know what I need to work on to become a HVW. I can’t expect a man to be secure and confident when I’m not. I don’t deserve a HVM who has alread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:59 PM |
| 79 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManFellow child free introvert here! Can we start our own golden girls house?! I already have a third friend willing to join lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?I can’t say I’ve met a HVM with cats, or even one with a dog! Lol. On tinder I noticed that socially awkward seeming guys are “cat dads”. Something about their profiles, from the awkward photos to the blankness of their bios. It was like their bios had words but no substance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?Thanks for your response! That’s a very good point. Perhaps I was looking into this too deeply or from the wrong angle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?Whoa that’s interesting! Thanks for sharing. I think I need to work on re-ordering that myself. I had the dog 4th! Cat was #1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?Thanks for your response! I’m still navigating on how to spot red flags and think my blinker is stuck on. That’s why I wanted to post and see if my thinking was right or wrong. Aha yeah on the dead eyes, maybe it’s just because guys suck at taking selfies 🤷🏼♀️ like I said, I’m being so wary I’m noticing things that aren’t actually things lol. Thanks again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?Thanks for this! I was hoping for differing opinions to gain insight. I think what you said about how it’s about how he treats his pets, regardless of animal type, is a future indicator of how he will treat you- makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!I hear ya! I’m enjoying being self-partnered as well. And yes men are really disgusting me too lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!oh lord. No wonder why we’re all single. It’s hard to find a man who fits all the boxes I happen to check off. You’re 100% right. I’ve had EVERY ex resent me in the end. It’s not my fault I work hard to live my best life and they refuse to put in the same work. It’s funny because we all have things to improve. If a guy and I aren’t actively improving together, it’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 10:04 AM |
| 11 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MOh yes, how could I forget this fact? I think because I wanted to forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | "I love you too much to use condoms"If a man wants to be a “man” and have sex with a woman, he needs to fully be a man. He has his 50% responsibility in possible procreation and disease spreading. Not even 50 because of biological differences. The least he can do is wear a condom. Scrotes don’t want to be dads anyways, so why would they screw themselves over? The guys screwing you, and screwing you without a condom, is screwing you and everyone else over. They screw everyone over in their path. Say that five times fast. Men, if yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:36 AM |
| 3 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.I have to say, one positive thing about my ex, is his Italian family taught me how to make it! Dang it, now I need some eggplant!!!! Gonna make it ASAP. Should I share pics and recipe when I get around to it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:16 AM |
| 100 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo M“I’d rather be alone than a stand in for a porn star”. YES. This is it. It’s so easy to tell when your with a pornsicko. It feels like you’re there as their personal “onlyfan”. They have dead eyes and look through your soul. I used to think it was because they were thinking of other women. But I think it’s also because men have made sex such a disgusting, oftentimes abusive, animalistic act. And deep down they know it’s wrong. They won’t look their prey in the eye before they eat it. But they’ll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:26 AM |
| 34 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MI read this as “it must be hard to bend over backwards and fart”. Honestly, that’s not wrong either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:14 AM |
| 108 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MI’m excited to see that day too. I hate how hyper sexualized we’ve become. It’s even uncomfortable watching a movie these days. Watched the White Tiger with two guys. The men in the movie spoke about women in a disgusting manner. Saying tits are ripe avocados you want to bite into. Fat tits and ass blah blah. I personally can not even wait for the day I don’t hear women get oversexualized! The guys thought it was funny. Because of course they don’t have to be the ones to hear their gender get tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:12 AM |
| 38 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.Hehehehe Im just imagining her sitting at the dinner table, guy approaches. He pulls out his chair and she says, “no, no not yet. First answer this. Do you watch POooooorn?!!” She asks with disdain, hissing through her teeth. His eyes widen, he’s been caught. She kicks the chair over and says, “you’re free to go wank now” as her eggplant Parmesan arrives to the table. I might try this. Then I won’t waste any time! And I get eggplant Parmesan, it’s a win all around ETA: serious reply- id probably… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 8 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseYesssss. He would feel entitled to get some sort of compensation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseWow, equality invoice. That’s an amazing term!! Deff gonna save this and use it. What’s with men giving equality invoices anyways? They write our invoices and always somehow leave the labor fees off. Then complain we do nothing for them and they do everything for us. They want a discount or compensation for paying for dinner. Men are projection pros, I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:20 PM |
| 17 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseYes! There are inherent differences in the roles of a heterosexual relationship. Women are expected to take on most of the labor and keep everything afloat. Men don’t want that to change. Okay, don’t want that to change? Make it equitable for me. Give me incentive to want to do all this for you. And even that isn’t enough to entice me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 11 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseWtf?! Not cool of your friend. I’d never charge a friend who is in need. Slightly related- My rule of thumb for letting friends borrow money is this: don’t let them “borrow”. Give an amount freely, an amount you won’t hold against your friend or have animosity towards for taking that much. An example is I gave my friend $150 to fix his iPad for work. I didn’t want the money back. It didn’t put me in a financial imposition or change my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 50 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?Okay so there’s a pattern. This means that it has to do with you. That’s not a bad thing, it’s good now that you can pin point what’s causing this! You need to sit and ask yourself a bunch of questions. Read FDS. Think about what you accepted in the past. Think about the behaviors you allowed- especially if it’s something you think is small! It usually begins with the first smallest boundary you let down. What have you accepted? Sounds like you were okay with an LDR and casual relationships. If … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 14 | Another epiphany on male jealousy 👁️👄👁️Honestly I’ll try this haha. Make them feel uncomfortable and then block and delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:50 PM |
| 44 | Another epiphany on male jealousy 👁️👄👁️Well we know what we need to do then. Get Doritos and put up male nudes all over our phones!! “Wow don’t you wish you had abs like that? Bet his dick is HUGE!” We’ll take out LVM one at a time muahahhahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:27 PM |
| 25 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Ya know, I’ve heard the advice that you should be mysterious and don’t tell guys what you do or give too much info away (shera7 lol). That men will get bored if you tell them too much too early. But I think talking about my business and degree has been a good test. It seems like some men drop off like flies when I mention what I’ve achieved. They know they will bore me in the future, or won’t stack up to the person I’d want them to be. Not that I don’t have things to work on or more to achieve, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 35 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Lol my dad says men have a brain stem but no brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 24 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"No they know better and are negging you for taking your prime years to better yourself instead of settling down with a NVM/LVM. You spent 6 of your “good years” doing something that only benefits you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 77 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Yep, why do WE have to be the ideal partner just to get not even the bare minimum? It’s a waste of our time and finally FDS freed me from thinking I needed to slow down my life’s trajectory to fit a man into my life. If a man won’t slow down for me, why should I? Nope get on this road with me if you want. But I’m going to keep going. I turned down a date yesterday. The guy asked me if I wanted to get together this weekend. I said sure. He waited until Sunday afternoon at 4.30 to ask me to dinner… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:36 PM |
| 9 | The irony of datingOmg axe permeated my middle school hallways!!! Disgusting smell and you can absolutely taste it. Hahaha I love that you dipped out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 42 | She dodged a massive bullet here.You are respecting your body, by keeping scrotes away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Online dating... should I try again or am I being ridiculous?Hahahaha at the first guy, I can’t even. He somehow embodies every terrible American LVM guy out there. Did you just hang up without saying anything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:52 AM |
| 9 | Pornhub is trying to position itself to be a resource on Sex Ed. Of course they’re still glorifying misogynyI feel like there’s no point period lmao. Bet they still have some sort of sick fantasy! Okay so I totally just caught up on who Armie Hammer is and...eww. But his name is for real Armie Hammer?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:39 AM |
| 4 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Niiice! I couldn’t see that haha. Good eye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:39 AM |
| 11 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢It’s not normal. They don’t like it when you even have a past or tried something with someone but won’t try it with them, even though you don’t like it. They know that past partners vs prostitutes can’t even warrant a comparison. They are deeply ashamed by paying for sex but pretend it’s the same as a hook up. How else could they live with it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:35 AM |
| 34 | “But not too long, lol” WHATS THE POINT?!Girl you know he will. And it will be in five minutes, not ten. He doesn’t want to spend more time than necessary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Liking the idea of somebody vs actually liking themYes I agree with this wholeheartedly. My ex was huge on this too, only because his words and actions didn’t match! He always said my words and actions didn’t match, but he was projecting! I don’t get why men decide to be with someone they don’t want. Yes the benefits and all blah blah blah. But i just don’t get how they could even force themselves to stay. When they don’t even want to touch you, talk to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Liking the idea of somebody vs actually liking themDamn your last paragraph is so true. Thank you for articulating this so well. This is why I want to make sure I’m not falling for the idea trap!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Liking the idea of somebody vs actually liking themThank you for this! Great ideas, going to save your comment here. I guess it’s more about the guy meeting the standards rather than why you “like him”? Are you of the mind that everyone sort of wants the same thing- kind, funny, can have a convo with? But that respect and other boundaries are more of the points to emphasize on? I guess for me, I don’t even know what I want in a guy! I can’t think of what he would truly be like. Is it better to just focus on how he treats me, and the obvious thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:30 PM |
| 10 | Men that are not taking COVID-19 seriously are LOW VALUE: What makes you think they'll respect virtual dates?I believe it. Seems like a seedy way to talk to a stranger. Plus you know they want nudes. What do you think about women who use it? There’s a lot of people I know (young ones especially) that solely use snap to text friends and family. I don’t get it but it seems like the usage is growing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Men that are not taking COVID-19 seriously are LOW VALUE: What makes you think they'll respect virtual dates?That’s sort of what I’ve been doing! I just wanted to get on to laugh and see the scrotery. So first I put two random pics as my profile. One was literally a pic of grass and the other a dying tree lmao. I had over 25 likes in 30 mins. And even got matches! I ended up putting pics of myself so I could practice talking to these dudes and try to pick out red flags from FDS. One dude was hooooooooot and nasty. You knew he was a fuck boy just looking at the profile. He quickly turned the convo dirty… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 41 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulI feel like this was a years therapy in a paragraph | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.Ugh I’m so sorry this happened to you! I didn’t have anything like that happen. Yeah it’s unfathomable thinking someone could do that to another human being. How could it register or make sense? It’s so beyond cruel and disgusting. I’ll never understand. Oh yeah it’s all power. The butt stuff with my ex was deff control. He knew I tried stuff in the past and didn’t like it, so he HAD to do it to me because I was “his”. Nasty ass men. End of story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.Omg I’m so so weirded out by how common this is, and horrified and sorry on your behalf. My ex did the same shit with the butt stuff!! It’s fucking violating and makes you feel weak, helpless. Why is it always the same story??? I swear I wanna know if it’s the same dude lol And yes they will always have a new thing. Every time. It’s exhausting and dehumanizing. Alright let me just lube up all the holes right quick and bend over with a smile and a cookie in my hand. Oh great, the cookie is a feti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:43 AM |
| 15 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.If any man tries that with me, he’s getting decked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:17 PM |
| 21 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.Yes! My narc ex was pornsick and our relationship deteriorated when I no longer wanted to perform for him. He would become obsessed with whatever act it was and would make “jokes” for months until I finally gave in. He’d say, “oh it’s just a joke. I’m not really into that!” Lol yes he was. Don’t let them fool you. A man’s joke is him testing the waters. If a man doesn’t let a sex idea go, it proves that he only cares about the conquest which is his pleasure and his sense of control. Has he met y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:14 PM |
| 16 | She's strong on her boundaries, but asking reddit for advice is asking for pornsick losers to chastise her for having themYes!!! Sis this is a test of your boundaries. Your bf is testing you. If you let this one go, he’s not gonna stop doing what he wants. I dated someone like this and he ended up cheating on me. Guys like this only care about their pleasure and will do anything to get it. Also you’re young and hot. He has a few years left if that. Your paths in life will also start to change, Your 20s are a period of growth, finding oneself, and finding your place in the world and where you want to be. He’s at tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:29 PM |
| 14 | She's strong on her boundaries, but asking reddit for advice is asking for pornsick losers to chastise her for having themHe’s tired of hiding it. He wants to jerk off somewhere else besides the bathroom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:15 PM |
| 10 | She's strong on her boundaries, but asking reddit for advice is asking for pornsick losers to chastise her for having themWho says she actually has to watch it or masturbate? I’d have the vibe buzzing and the porn on in the background, while I do a face mask or something lol. If I were to ever do something like this that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:13 PM |
| 10 | This New York Times article might have confirmed my belief in the patriarchy. Are you fucking kidding me.... there is NO SHORTAGE OF SPERM!!!Omg watch the sperm receiver woman’s reaction at 7.35. Her face change is telling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Where does the idea that women will end up cat ladies and pass alone come from?Okay cat pee still smells bad to me, I think I’m in the clear! Haha now I know what’s up if that changes. How weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 6 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.Haha off topic, I had the 666th upvote. I think I was summoned from hell to your post 👹💋💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are some of the things women should know about pregnancy and giving birth, but that society keeps quiet on?Oh hell no! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Promising Young Woman - wowI’d love the link as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are some of the things women should know about pregnancy and giving birth, but that society keeps quiet on?Wait the mother’s teeth and hair?? Hair I’ve heard, but teeth?!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I had a realization a few days ago, and it further solidified my belief that (most) men in this era truly do not like or care about us, let alone love us.There are many bisexuals (I’d wager 60+%) that are happy and fulfilled being in a monogamous relationship. They don’t feel like they’re missing out because they’re only dating one gender. Men tend to get bored even when they’re straight. I feel like many bisexual LVM would constantly be on the chase or looking for something different. They’d feel like they’re constantly suppressing their sexuality. Vetting a bisexual man adds a whole other layer of nuances and vetting. Is he comfortable with his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | I had a realization a few days ago, and it further solidified my belief that (most) men in this era truly do not like or care about us, let alone love us.So they’re prison butt buddies, but are only prisoners in their mind? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:09 PM |
| 20 | Scrolling through tik tok and all the top comments are saying to leave him and that this isn’t healthy or good for her. I am LOVING that we are telling the younger generations that they don’t have to deal with their porn obsessed boyfriends. 🥰Of course they did, but now it’s out for the whole world to see. The world is also cheering women on to do it. Before it was saloons and brothels, now it’s anywhere and anytime. Any woman can do this freely and behind safe doors, not in the club or on the street. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 62 | Scrolling through tik tok and all the top comments are saying to leave him and that this isn’t healthy or good for her. I am LOVING that we are telling the younger generations that they don’t have to deal with their porn obsessed boyfriends. 🥰Yes on the boobs! I’ve seen how guys act towards busty women and basically they can’t see past the boobs. One other pro to being flat chested I suppose hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 30 | In today's episode of "what object are we"...women are a benchpress machine!What do you mean free? He bought condoms and gas to get there! Do you not see this man’s great sacrifice??! /S which I doubt is needed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:13 PM |
| 65 | Do him dirty in front of his squad 💅🏻 don't sugar coat sh*tI don’t disagree here. You ain’t wrong sis. But I have to say I enjoyed watching the men’s reactions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020We’re still in contact. We agreed that it was really fun and we should do it again. I’ll have fun with this guy for now, I’m not looking to seriously date. Oh he probably was just trying to get in my pants, but I was trying to get into his so it’s all good haha. He’s been nothing but respectful and sweet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:37 AM |
| 6 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.What?! How? It just started | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What women want.../end thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 5 | How to help a pick me friendThat’s a really good tip! I feel like that’s better than the “think if it was your friend or sister” approach. It feels more impartial, especially when you’re in a toxic situation and aren’t capable of thinking clearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 20 | Straight from a man’s mouth about excessive masturbation and penis sizeA lurker PM’d me and said “yes it’s real”. Haha 🤷🏼♀️ who would think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:13 AM |
| 8 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴Omg this reminds me and my ass of my ex. I sat down and my ass got wet from his pee!!!! Mortifying. Every day I’d have to check and the worst part of it was that he would just wipe it off with tp (he only did this after my justified bitching) so it was a seat covered with pee. Me and my ass don’t miss it, at all. I’d love to go pee all over his bathroom, not even gonna lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Reason #4819193 not to date men who watch pornIt’s so fucked up how kids can access porn sites. The are you 18? Is a joke. They should require we put in our driver license or some real sort of proof to enter. I saw a bunch of messed up porn as a young kid at 7 and up, I grew up in the age of spam porn emails in the 90s. My friend’s mom got weird spam emails and we would open them. I believe it was the beginning of my indoctrination of becoming a subservient sex maid. How could I not be affected by seeing women being peed in the mouth, being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:27 PM |
| 172 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢Wtf??? How long would it take to find and save all that shit? And 50GB???? That’s a whole ass video game.... To put that in perspective, GTA 5 has a total of 72 GB. The original Skyrim Elder Scrolls had 5.6 GB before they added DLCs. These are open world games with expansive maps and plenty of interactive content. When you need as much storage as an open world game for your porn, you’ve got a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:38 AM |
| 10 | Now it’s time to heal and find yourself again 💜🌷It’s really hard to deal with, but you’re on the right path! It’s painful being discarded/not valued when you gave your all. But at least we had something to give. That’s what we have to remember. What did your partner give you? Probably not as much as you think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:12 AM |
| 2 | So glad he is her exYup you’re right about that! If he’s angry or blame-shifting, it’s because he did it on purpose and hoped you wouldn’t notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | So glad he is her exWow saved your comment. So so true. They have a knack for doing “nice things” that also benefit them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 3 | So glad he is her exLmao there is no way to react. They aren’t gonna change and are basically doing it on purpose. Hahahha Im glad he didn’t open it! Fuck that cheap sauce. Hahaha that’s so funny you’re still thinking about it! I hadn’t thought about this in years but dang now I see through that behavior now. Why wasn’t FDS around then??? And idk why they’re like that. It’s like they want to mess with you and make you disappointed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 7 | So glad he is her exOmg that’s horrible! That’s even worse lol. Like do these guys just hate us? It seems so small but it’s honestly the biggest act of disrespect and passive aggressiveness outside of cheating, hitting, verbal abuse, etc. It’s a sneaky way to disrespect without being blatant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 4 | So glad he is her exRight. Exactly. I would have gone to the store myself if I knew he would do that shit. Disappointment about chocolate on your period is honestly pretty disheartening lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:48 PM |
| 13 | So glad he is her exOmg. What an asshole! How could you do that to a sweet, innocent creature?? He could have bought extra chicken and two types of rice. But NOOOOO....he had to be a dick to a DOG! Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | So glad he is her exYup agreed. No need to waste time. Ugh I’d be so annoyed if I were you!! I wish guys just wouldn’t do “nice things” if they don’t want. But really it’s up to us to recognize this and block and delete. It’s all we can do lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 5 | So glad he is her exHahahha Im glad not to be the only one! I feel like a brat complaining about ice cream but the point was deeper than the ice cream itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 15 | So glad he is her exThat is also a good challenge! I have an unused box of tampons that are like extra super huge. But I think my ex was thinking, “bigger tampons are better! Stronger!” Lmao men are so stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:22 AM |
| 14 | So glad he is her exI had never even considered this, until reading the rest of this thread and now your comment. Jesus that’s sick. He was CRYING! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:20 AM |
| 75 | So glad he is her exHahaha see my comment above about my ex bringing me vanilla ice cream when I asked for chocolate. They know what you like, or don’t, and get what they like instead. Then make you feel bad because they “went through all that trouble” for you. They make you out to be the bad guy for “being ungrateful”. No bitch. I said chocolate. Don’t bring me whack ass vanilla with nuts and the jankiest chocolate rip-off ribbons!! Don’t bother if you can’t get what I asked for or like. ETA: this thread is making… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:15 AM |
| 53 | So glad he is her exI to this day still feel awful about how I made one of my exes cry over getting me the wrong ice cream. I wasn’t feeling well and started my period, and he offered to go get me “chocolate” ice cream. You know when you NEED chocolate? That’s what I told him, I NEED chocolate ice cream. I told him get something that is “super chocolately.” He came back with a vanilla ice cream that had almonds and nuts, that HARDLY had ribbons of chocolate in it. It basically didn’t. I was annoyed as fuck. “This i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:07 AM |
| 38 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!I bet he would start compiling pics of women and try to prove how “ugly” FDS users are lol. He’d photoshop us with double chins, hordes of cats, and dirty sanchez mustaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 5 | How arent porn watchers embarrassed?Yeah I agree it’s a coping mechanism. And it’s like they’re simultaneously scared of getting close to someone, truly close, but don’t want to be alone. So they make sex a degrading act so it’s less intimate and real. I think the post-nut clarity is them realizing they don’t see women as human. It’s like they hate themselves first, but then turn it to women. We become less desirable. They see us as less than, and hate themselves for being so tied to us, needing us for sex. Basically, it’s a clust… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 6 | LVM/Red Flag music (or genres)I’ve got a few: The guys who only listen to what they listened to in high school. Laments that music sucks nowadays. Probably listens to the classic rock station. This type of guy hasn’t changed his habits- to the point he doesn’t mind hearing the same thing over and over again for decades! Wouldn’t that drive you crazy?! He won’t change sis. His underwear are at least 8 years old. The guys who don’t like fEmAaalE artists. I’ve tried to get guys to listen to AMAZING women rappers who seriously, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Don’t listen to Mariah Carey, do listen to Eartha Kitt“We have to watch TWO women and they’re also BLACK?! This does not reflect America’s demographic”- says the guy whose grandpa illegally entered Ellis Island. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?You’re good! I was half asleep and reading lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?Hahaha I thought you were asking OP. I was gonna ask, “Have you SEEN the screenshots on this sub?!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Excuse me whatChange my view | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 16 | I noticed a new narrative on reddit: "Most women dont care if a guy is short...it's TALL WOMEN that were the true lepers all along."Can’t argue that. That just means I can truly surprise attack hehe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 39 | This is why we shouldn’t meet a LVM who puts less effort than how much this guy does to his real doll.I can get down with this. I’d rather these men have dolls than a real person. especially the abusive ones. But I think the abusive ones like the thrill of hurting others too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 61 | This is why we shouldn’t meet a LVM who puts less effort than how much this guy does to his real doll.Damn. There’s the bar. Can you treat me like this guy treats his doll? If not, I’ve got my own plastic devices, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 16 | I noticed a new narrative on reddit: "Most women dont care if a guy is short...it's TALL WOMEN that were the true lepers all along."That last sentence tho... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 21 | I noticed a new narrative on reddit: "Most women dont care if a guy is short...it's TALL WOMEN that were the true lepers all along."You don’t have to be a tall woman to do that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 12 | Men feel entitled to your helpOh she understands. That’s why it’s a loop. Hate herself. Hate women and blame all of her shortcomings on womanhood and other women. Then seek validation from men. Hates herself again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Why are all the stories of women buying houses with their boyfriends nightmare fuel?What do you ladies think of men who are scared of cats? Like legitimately fearful of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 4 | I have had pmdd depression spells every single month where I feel so crazy and anxious I pace around my house in circlesHey I know it’s super tough when it feels like you’re gonna crawl out of your skin. Feel free to PM me and we can circle our homes together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 57 | In /datingoverthirty, how was this hate speech? Like, wow. I guess calling someone on their BS is hate, and knowing someone 6 months is love. I’m so sorry I misunderstood! /sI’ve noticed this too! I’ve been reading comments on multiple subs that are very FDS without them using the jargon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | HEY LVM, how about leave us the fuck alone and deal with your insecurities yourself? Tale of harassment at the mall, just an hour agoHello anyone there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:05 PM |
| 6 | Looks like Jeannie Mai is about to take a huge L.Right, it’s the laws of attraction really. If you think it will all be bad, it probably will. It’s important to keep some skepticism but to remain hopeful and positive for when something positive comes your way. If you’re negative it’s going to cancel out that positive. You can’t receive something when you’re not in tune with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!Right?! She’s so beaten down and it’s sick. It’s like a part of her doesn’t want to leave because she doesn’t think she can do better. She literally said an open relationship isn’t viable because she isn’t a catch! Yeah if he treated her halfway decently, she would wholeheartedly be ready to leave. He changed her views on what kind of “basic decency” she should receive. Gross she’s at home and he’s going out with the model coworker. Complete disregard and disrespect. And wife is stuck with the b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!100%. That’s the lowest boundary you can breach. Inexcusable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!Oh hell yeah. They’ve gotta have the partner first before they can act on it! Otherwise it will be like those countless reddit threads where the men open up the relationship and can’t find a woman, while their wife is doing just fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:16 PM |
| 9 | Why FDS doesn't talk about Man-Pleasing.Exactly what you said, it’s bullshit! If they put all the responsibility (by lazily projecting onto women) of self-reflection, improvement, etc. then they don’t have to do it for themselves. I think a lot of men get told by their mothers or whatever matriarchal figure that they are perfect the way they are and don’t need to change. It gives these men an out. “If my mom can accept me, any woman can!” Um bro, your mom doesn’t have to bang you. And hopefully she isn’t doing your cleaning and cookin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 21 | Why FDS doesn't talk about Man-Pleasing.Yes very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:28 AM |
| 28 | Why FDS doesn't talk about Man-Pleasing.Either this or they hate you for not going along with everything they want. Can’t win. It’s on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:26 AM |
| 27 | Why FDS doesn't talk about Man-Pleasing.Saved for the truth bomb. I think you’re gonna start a nuclear winter. The being destroyed part is the absolute worst. Feeling like you were worthless and not good enough. It’s hard NOT to take personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women.It’s literally my favorite! The overall theme is evil in humanity and whether or not it is innate/genetic or socialized/learned. He goes through thousands of years of history to discuss. I’d love for you to read it because honestly I don’t know what his answer is. To me it seems to be all the above! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women.It’s a great book! It’s by Howard Bloom even writes a chapter called “the expandability of males” and uses history, anthropology, science, etc. to talk about why men tend to need to feel dominant. I was awestruck by this man’s ability to give a logical and scientific explanation for men’s overall behavior and beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:16 AM |
| 1 | This!!!Very true. But many women see it the other way around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Right? The least they can do is make us laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:17 AM |
| 10 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Fiji or nothing sis! /S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Please do keep us updated! You’ll be in my thoughts. I wish you the best of luck for you and your kitty. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women.Wow so they really couldn’t cope or come to terms with things. Yes the body responds accordingly with the mind. In a book titled “The Lucifer Principle”, the author describes how humans die, literally and mentally/spiritually, once they feel useless to society. For example, retired people who stay at home all day and do little activity age at an accelerated rate, and tend to die sooner. Those who are retired but participate in a part-time job, do physical activities, or get out and socialize ten… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women.Haha this is how they turn the tables on us! “Yeah girl, I’ll pay for yo meal, but Um, I can’t vet for my genetics. And it’s totally your fault and you were asking for newborns with hairy toes if you don’t find that out for yourself. My uncle is retarded if that helps”- what I see a LVM saying on a first date in the near future | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women.Lmao. My dad did genetic testing and he has strong Neanderthal genes. Explains a lot. So maybe we have to vet by genetic testing now? My step mom LOVES to bring it up to fuck with my dad (they’re divorced, he’s a literal LVM Neanderthal lmfao) So my new conspiracy theory is that the Neanderthal genes are spread high and wide. Watch out ladies. Is he aggressive or have many male complex issues? Maybe he’s a Neanderthal. Get him tested to see if his DNA is worthy! Or he might quite literally, put … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women.How did your elders carry it out til death? We’re they alone for the rest of their lives? Or were they married? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, I present to you, The Scrotes of PPD: Where Male “10s” are 5ft6 and 58 years old, racial discrimination is unfair to men only, and Adriana Lima is Ugly and Masculine. Screeeeeaming at the delusion 🤣🤣Dang I just checked the sub out. Their open thread on there literally has users stating it’s been taken over by incels. What a shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I present to you, The Scrotes of PPD: Where Male “10s” are 5ft6 and 58 years old, racial discrimination is unfair to men only, and Adriana Lima is Ugly and Masculine. Screeeeeaming at the delusion 🤣🤣Eta: responded to wrong comment whoops | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:01 PM |
| 10 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Lmao! What did he think you would say?! “No my bf’s penis is disappointing and under 5 inches but you sir sound like your dick is enormous!! I can feel it through the phone” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 6 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Hahahaha anytime. You ladies make my day everyday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 5 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Omg...that’s the most creative way of harassment I’ve ever heard! I at least give him points for creativity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 23 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Exactly. I felt he would find out one way or another. I’m usually the only one here besides my employee lol. I definitely recommend to women here to try NOT to let people know where they live or live alone if they can help it. Having a PO Box can be helpful if you want anonymity and security. That’s probably my next step because right now I use my dad’s address lol. I’m afraid one day some creep will go to his place trying to find me. I’ve had weirdos call me randomly because I have magnets on m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...True true. I agree with you there! Not being able to keep up your living space is indicative of inner mental problems or trauma you haven’t faced. A woman leveling up doesn’t have time for nonsense like a dirty house. It will bring you down. Most women are able to keep up and keep things going. I agree this isn’t accurate representation and seems to be projection on the artist’s part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Just... NO 🤢🤮Haha thank you! I’m horrible with butchering sayings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 14 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Women with depression and/or a ridiculously busy schedule. But yes you’re right. Most women don’t let it stay this way. I couldn’t stand it anymore and spent 4 hours cleaning yesterday. Still need to finish (big house, bitch to clean). Women who live like this constantly shouldn’t be dating. Men or women actually. If you can’t even control your immediate physical environment, it means there’s something inside you can’t control either. Your living space is 100% reflective of mental state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 9 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Haha my house is currently getting the deluxe cleaning treatment after my current bout of depression and 15-20 hour work day (for two weeks straight) bender! The illustration honestly is neater than what my house was yesterday... And of course I’m not dating either! No way Jose. Obviously it’s a time for reflection and self-care. That’s the difference between men and women right there. We recognize unhealthy behavior and go to fix it. I started my medicine again a few days ago once I realized I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 60 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Right?! I don’t understand why women can’t relax or just do anything without judgment. Did you clock the Cheetos bag in the corner? Lol yes because only LVW eat Cheetos when they crave a cheesy salty snack. There’s nothing wrong with being single and not mingling! ETA: and you know what? My house looked pretty bad yesterday, like the comic here. But I finally cleaned it up! Women are also allowed to be messy at times. We can’t do it all ALL the time. And we aren’t lesser for not being perfectly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:49 PM |
| 35 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Have you met any men that treated you differently after learning you moved in alone? Like a neighbor? I met my next door neighbor, a man with kids. We are in the same industry, difference is he works for one of the big companies in town and I run my own small business. We were having a great conversation until he found out I’m living in the house by myself. He was like, “when did you guys move in?” And I told him it was just me. “Isn’t this place too big for one person?” I told him no I needed a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:45 PM |
| 48 | ProjectionMy young male employee’s insurance is $200/month. Mine is literally a quarter of his lol. ETA: and yes he’s a horrible driver. His driving scares me because of his cluelessness and carelessness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Just... NO 🤢🤮You’re right people don’t have to be porn sick fo enjoy oral sex. But unfortunately men’s attitude regarding fellatio is generally demeaning and controlling. Most of them are sickos and get off on making a woman get on her knees. It’s not like they just enjoy the pleasure but want there to be a feeling of dominance and demeaning present. And then they generally don’t want to return the favor because THEY would feel demeaned by it. It is possible to have a HVM and enjoy mutual oral sex. But when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Just... NO 🤢🤮These NVM love to hold onto every little thing you’ve ever said or done so they can use it against you when you put your foot down and assert boundaries. It’s so you’re always the loser and they’re always the victim. Note that they only bring stuff up and twist it to suit their narrative, regardless if the “evidence” doesn’t fit the situation. Which most times their arguments don’t make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | A warning about Reddit Secret Santa ExchangeWhat?! You picked some awesome gifts. I would have loved all of those. If only you got your own gifts back lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | A warning about Reddit Secret Santa ExchangeHahahaha a bag of dirt...dying ETA: what did you buy for the exchange that year? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Do not date a man who refuses to eat food from your cultureHahahaha omg. I’d eat fish testicles before eating ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Do not date a man who refuses to eat food from your culturechef boyardee wtf?! Dude couldn’t even pick up a hungry man or some lean cuisine? Just pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 7 | "Not all humans; get over it" -said no one ever to an abused cat/dog/petnOt ALl mEn!!! ETA: /S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:46 AM |
| 4 | "Not all humans; get over it" -said no one ever to an abused cat/dog/petOmg bacon lover cats are a thing! I had a Maine coon that would come running inside if he smelled bacon frying. He would stop killing birds and fighting off the hood kitties to get some bacon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:45 AM |
| 10 | "Not all humans; get over it" -said no one ever to an abused cat/dog/petLol you’re lucky a HV kitty adopted you! Good luck on getting her to pay rent though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:44 AM |
| 5 | "Not all humans; get over it" -said no one ever to an abused cat/dog/petOddly enough, I met one dog that was very afraid of women. It hurt my soul to see an animal fear me. I couldn’t approach her whatsoever. They think she was owned by an abusive woman. So it does happen, but I’ve literally only heard this ONCE in my whole life. Countless times with men though. I couldn’t even tell you how many people said their dogs or cats feared men! Cute story time: the cat I had in high school was a 20 lb maine coon, and he was very protective of me. He disliked my bf at the t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:40 AM |
| 8 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicI would NEVER pay someone who billed me after the fact. You’re literally taking a gesture back, it’s like taking back a Christmas present (which my NVM actually did!) Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:42 AM |
| 7 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicRight?! I can see why the woman reacted the way she did. He made it very obvious. I’d definitely notice if a check sat THAT long. The waitress would be vacuuming under the table after that long! She tried to stand her ground by waiting for him to pay, got to give her points there. That had to be awkward AF. She shouldn’t have gone 50/50 the third time or have even been on the date in the first place after his actions with the check the SECOND time. You know he made it obvious and made her wait B… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:40 AM |
| 4 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicOh shit I missed this. It’s so hard to decode nonsense. Lol what audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:34 AM |
| 4 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicOh yeah he totally would have slept with her, and would have even paid if she failed the test again. Then avoid her texts asking for another date and eventually write, “sorry I just think we’re better off as friends. After you paid 50% that one time and then made me pay AGAIN. I’m looking for someone who’s on the same page as me and it seems you’re not wanting to contribute to a relationship. It feels very one-sided”...he texts this from a clinic because his balls itch. Got it from another tinde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:30 AM |
| 6 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicOh I thought the worst thing that could happen is she won’t give a blowie in the car after dinner at TGI Friday’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:25 AM |
| 18 | Just... NO 🤢🤮I like the jib or your jab (or however the saying goes) sister. Honestly what a great plan! I’ve been so angry and sick myself and am hopeless about men. Feels like your idea is the only viable one lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 6 | If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM.Hahahaha well you weren’t wrong! You’re now a queen and they’re still scrotes. Aint gonna change anytime soon either. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:40 AM |
| 6 | Beauty & RelationshipsI think she meant scarcity mindset in the way of you don’t think you’re good enough, or are lacking something that makes you worthy of getting a HVM. But as for the scarcity mindset when it comes to finding HVM, the Sahara is more likely to flood than us finding a HVM! Honestly sis I don’t have an answer for you. Maybe I’m just bitter and cynical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 9 | “Nobody hates women more than straight dudes”Holy shit. This is so articulate and precise it’s impossible to even comment back. I’m mind blown and processing what you said here. I’ve been so confused by this dichotomy and wondering why when I acted as mommy bangmaid, that he no longer wanted me for anything. Or why men always do that bait and switch. It’s never made sense to me. And I died at your break down of why self-reflection isn’t men’s strong suit. Lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 9 | Men having a type and women having a type. How men fake interest and clown women. Ways to avoid this happening to you.Yeah that was a brilliant comeback. Fuck that scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 19 | Men having a type and women having a type. How men fake interest and clown women. Ways to avoid this happening to you.Ugh wtf?! Why do men say this stuff? I’d never dream of saying anything like this to someone I love, let alone think it. I genuinely can say that I don’t think like that. And that from what I’ve read here, I don’t think you guys are like this either. Men are just so cruel and heartless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 14 | Beware LV people who think a relationships are supposed to be transactional.Lol wow he really had nothing else he could use? I’m glad he’s an ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 71 | If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM.My ex would say, “I’m so lucky you’re stupid” whenever I’d feel unattractive. He had that same implication with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:55 PM |
| 105 | If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM.Saved, sister. Damn you could start a church with that truth. I’d come to your sermons! I’ve been trying to figure this out for months, painfully so. Wondering WHY he said I was too good for him or that I deserve better. Because in the end he treated me like shit and was definitely cheating. It’s a mindfuck, I put this out there for those who might be able to relate or are going through this now. It just doesn’t add up. He made me feel like HE was too good for me in the end. Can you explain this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Male fragility at its finest !Okay I’ll go read it now! Haha thank you so much, that’s so kind of you to say 😊 I agree this has been a great discussion. It’s so nice to talk to motivational women! It’s inspiring and gives me hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Yeah, by “missed out on so many games” you mean “be a minimally involved father by dedicating some more of my time to working and taking care of my wife and child as I should?”Well to be fair there are some games only exclusive to PS or Xbox. Some games aren’t on all platforms. But yes two consoles will convince him to game wayyyy too much, agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 26 | The subreddit r/deadbedroomsHonestly I can’t wait for the sex dolls. Dead bedrooms would be no more! All these men on here want is a plug-in, always chipper, bang-maid doll, with the deluxe skin and massive tits. Why let us mere needy human women get in the way? Goddamn is this beyond infuriating. Men only rule the world because they gaslight the whole planet into their own reality. At some point these dudes have to know they’re purposefully not giving a single dingleberry of shit about their partners, or women in general.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 11 | The amount of times I see posts like this makes my eyes roll so hard that I’ve probably fractured my optic nerve. The entitlement is realSeriously! That one that got awarded, “I choose this guys wife too” has been said SO many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 14 | The amount of times I see posts like this makes my eyes roll so hard that I’ve probably fractured my optic nerve. The entitlement is realYep. It’s the same jokes I read almost ten years ago. I quit finding Reddit funny after realizing how it’s the same thing time and time again. It used to seem charming, but now it’s annoying and unoriginal. Plus now I get the mindset behind all the jokes and realize they weren’t really jokes. The only jokes are these fuckboys, or rather, incels. Their “jokes” aren’t getting them laid and their attitudes and hatred of womankind is appalling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?I don’t think anyone has touched on the fact that he literally sees his wife as disposable because he didn’t care if his friends pissed on his wife. It’s one thing for him to pee in the hot tub, still disrespectful AF. But I usually thought LVM see women as their territory. If he was a normal LVM (lmao sad we’re at this point in history), he wouldn’t have allowed his friends to mark his territory. Only he could pee on her. He literally values her so little that he doesn’t care if anyone pisses o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:30 PM |
| 10 | We don't deserve this ladies. I bet we've all been through it.Damn you just had to spit fire, didn’t you? So beyond true it hurts. Fuck this shit. So done with scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:21 PM |
| 7 | My friends roommate met up with us after 2 dates yesterday..a coffee date and and a park date.Right?! I feel like these type of men ignore basic needs. I’ve had to bring up needing to use the bathroom because they took us places where there wasn’t one! You know how annoying it is to have to pee, then hold it until you find a bathroom? And then I’d get quiet because I’d be starving! My blood sugar would be crashing. I would enjoyed my time without a full bladder and low blood sugar! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:18 PM |
| 42 | This is why you don't discuss any sexual trauma or just anything from your past with males. His GF was abused by 10 guys and he has the audacity to refer to her as "promiscuous" due to that.They say they want strong women, but don’t. Then get an insecure one and get annoyed at her need for validation. Worst part is it annoys the guy most because it reminds him of himself. And he’s mad at YOU, the insecure person, for being insecure because that must mean you’d only pick shitty men. Which means...he’s a shitty man! But nah, he’ll blame women for not being confident, independent, say that clearly her value is nothing because she doesn’t see it. And then resent those very women. And a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 61 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩I’ve never met a guy who likes Skyler. They all call her a nag. Shit I’d be nagging too if I were left in the dark like her! ETA: oh yeah but of course I’d leave Walt too. Thanks FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 15 | The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’tRight?! It feels like you always have to slow down when getting involved with men. For their egos’ sakes and for the realities of conjoining two lives into one. Good luck buying a house! It’s a pretty good time to buy. My realtor step mom said foreclosures should be happening soon with COVID so maybe you can find a sweet deal. I feel grim for saying that but it is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:23 PM |
| 13 | The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’tOr black-pilled! God I miss those subs☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:20 PM |
| 5 | NVM destroyed meWow I’ve never heard this. Glad to know I’m not insane for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:01 PM |
| 7 | NVM destroyed meHow have you gotten past the pain of being deemed only worthy of a bang-maid and forever girlfriend? I think this is the hardest part to heal from. I’m aware they would have treated any woman this way but damn does it still hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 10 | NVM destroyed meIt’s so damn hard! I couldn’t imagine being OP and have been married to a narc for so long. It’s bad enough just to date one for a short period of time. I recommend Shallon Lester’s videos and Dr. Ramani’s videos on YouTube to help. Therapy, Shallon, FDS, and Dr. Ramani have been godsends! It’s important to learn narc behaviors, why they do it (hint: it’s who they are, and they’d do what they did to you to ANYONE. And you can regain self-worth in the acceptance of this fact), and most importantl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 7 | NVM destroyed meI’d recommend seeing a therapist that specializes in trauma! I’m seeing one after two narc relationships, and in fewer than 10 sessions I have changed my mindset so much. They’ll help you get to the root of why you accept terrible behavior and help you change your mindset so you have self-worth and boundaries to keep you guarded. PM me if you have questions u/meowZsa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 24 | "We want to make you happy. The fact is, we love when you orgasm almost as much as we love it when we do."Is porn really being classified as a public health crisis in 15+ states?! Nice. https://www.governing.com/topics/health-human-services/gov-pornography-public-health-crisis-states.html 16 and counting! Nice I’m glad to see a man is spear-heading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Male fragility at its finest !Thank you so much for this. Your comment has been saved. Reality IS so hard to bear. It’s overwhelming for us all and it is hard to stay whole within oneself or to not lose hope. My friend the other night really needed me to give him hope about relationships. But I’m not in that headspace. So I had nothing to give. Once I accepted reality about hetero relationships and the societal differences in expectations and standards of men and women in hetero relationships (100% rigged against women in ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:31 PM |
| 11 | If you got a dick pic, it's your fault. Remember!It’s as if we are supposed to have a scrote scanner. Biotechnologist queens, please develop this device! Perhaps a thermal scanner can detect abnormal waves of bullshit. If it’s up to us to have all the burden of decoding LVM (and we’re failures for not recognizing it), let’s use AI and biotechnology to fight back! Lol see how ridiculous this sounds? But I feel like this is where we’re headed. Scrotes would implode if women used sCiEnCE and LoooGiC to weed through LVM behavior. “Women are so ill… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:15 PM |
| 14 | If you got a dick pic, it's your fault. Remember!Can’t they at least be creative about it?! I’d give them a little credit if they tried to put effort into their bullshittery. At least I could be entertained and laugh when blocking a scrote 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Male fragility at its finest !Here’s my difficulty in accepting this fact: how can I find meaning and fulfillment in a world that’s rigged against my kind? I know living on my own terms and doing my part to improve things is part of it. But the emotional heaviness of this reality becomes hard to bear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:37 AM |
| 3 | When men call women “females”Omg that’s so true, I’ve never noticed before. Wtf is this planet? Can I get off pretty please? Edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:35 AM |
| 61 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.Let me just put on my hazard lights and pull on over to stick a tampon in on the side of the road! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:57 AM |
| 109 | Never, never, never explain. Only angry. No explain.Why give them the cheat code so they can do it again and again without consequence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | Is it just me or there’s something off with this post? It gives me major pickme vibes. Like how can you feel this way about a guy you’ve known for two seconds??Saved as a reminder. Thanks for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???Agreed and notarized. That’s why the level up journey must begin within! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 84 | MaturityHahah right? Then we actually mature and it’s our faults for being “tempting”. And I feel like we are suddenly expected to be the manic pixie dream girl as grown ass women, where we are only positive and make the men in our lives laugh, like we’re motivational sidekicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:17 PM |
| 16 | X post from r/whitepeopletwitterHi there. I was reading about your mom and her passion for biology. Has she looked into homeschooled tutoring/school programs? I work for one where I teach kids biology once a week. I don’t have a degree in education and was able to get the job! It’s usually parents teaching their kids so they sometimes look for people who are interested in helping facilitate a learning experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Advice on PrenupsSeconded! I’d love to find these subs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:12 PM |
| 13 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."I don’t get it either tbh. Neither are disposable, but for some reason it’s an arguement! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 140 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Because they’re projecting. They hate knowing they’re not needed or even necessarily wanted. It makes them feel disposable. So they in turn make us disposable by saying we “need a man”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 7 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?Oh jesus that’s horrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 10 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?How could he do that? At the hospital?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 61 | Happy Holidays! 😜Just take the rest of your things with you, and don’t come back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Honey I’m home! I’ve got the wine. Let’s dish girl. It’s a beautiful scrote-free week here, can’t complain. Cats (albeit crazy cats) and also 3 (gasp) wholesome men saved my butt this week with a work project! They helped me for free just out of the goodness of their hearts, with a physically intensive contractor job. Their dads are contractors so they empathized and helped. Good example of HVM to warm the heart. What’s the good news on your end this week? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Too many of them. Everytime I always wonder if we’re talking about the same person, regardless of username. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Haha that’s the truth, projecting traits onto others is what kills. They then can see that and emulate what you want them to be. Especially when you cOmUniKate the same thing to them over and over again. They heard you the first time. And they’re using it against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 26 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckWhy do LVM think things are handed to women? Especially “pretty girls get anything they want” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Ladies Who Have Left Their & Stopped Paying Attention to LVM and NVM, How Has Your Life and Mental Health Changed?It’s a work in progress, because I wouldn’t have surrounded myself with NVM if I had been in a better place mentally. I’ve at least pinpointed the issues at hand and know where my mindset needs to change as well as my own behaviors. I’ve taken everyone’s advice here and am in trauma therapy. I’ve been less than 10 sessions and feel like I’ve made a year’s progress. I need to learn to garner self-esteem and to find wholeness in myself. I do feel more whole than I have in a long time. I won’t be d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Be careful when sharing links from TikTok on reddit. A link to your personal TikTok page is also shared at the top of the post.How do you screen record? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 4 | 😭😭😭😭Oh my god a new fear I never knew to have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:48 PM |
| 7 | 😭😭😭😭You’re my hero I would jumped too girl .haha how in the world did you fall down the steps? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:47 PM |
| 4 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Hairline? When is it not normal? 30? And please explain why this is a sign of pornsickness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:02 AM |
| 12 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Question for you: I was going to make a separate post for this but maybe I’ll just ask here. Have you ever seen a pair of eyes that simultaneously seem kind AND evil? It’s like you can’t quite tell. The gaze is as equally scary as it is alluring. How is this even possible? I loved my ex’s eyes. But they terrified me at the same time. It’s like he could inject life into them when he wanted, then they’d go back to being dead. It sometimes depended on his mood if he would play nice or mean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 9 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.I’ll be your non-sexual gf! Got you covered girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | You deserve to be cherished! If he wanted to, be would.Not gonna lie, can’t blame him for more cat pics! Too bad he was an LVM and not just a cat lover. Haha that’s actually really funny though. Sorry to laugh. But you made me giggle this morning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Save yourselves "men"What is that about anyways?! It’s like these men only want to pass on their genes. I asked my ex why he wanted kids and it really boiled down to his legacy. Lol piece of shit legacy that would be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:13 AM |
| 5 | The BIGGEST fucking RED FLAG!!!Hahaha that’s right! God what a prick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 24 | The BIGGEST fucking RED FLAG!!!I think I love you! That’s the most amazing response ever. I bet that still keeps him up at night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them?Lmao you’re not wrong. Looking back, I got so much more out of one of my relationships before I was a brainwashed pickme. Dudes shit on bitches all day but damn if they don’t love bitches. My ex that I didn’t take shit from, ten whole years after we’ve broken up, looked me up on Snapchat. Last I checked, he was bald, sad looking, and fat. Not picking on the dude at all. I honestly was so sad seeing him look so unhealthy and unhappy. Ten years after we’ve broken up he’s still wanting to know what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:49 PM |
| 16 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.He even looks creepy AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 07:40 AM |
| 73 | Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again.You’re 100% right about that sub. It’s become so obvious to me in the last few months. They quit trying to hide it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:54 PM |
| 13 | Poor woman, awful husbandHahaha she should wear it under a blazer, and then she takes the blazer off at the stand. She says, “Exhibit A” and then her LVM is fucked! I don’t know any judge man or woman that wouldn’t agree this is cruel behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:50 PM |
| 3 | The last five dates I've had have had the same theme - the men aren't listening, but waiting to talk.Wow what a tactless prick! How dare he insult you and then on top of that a whole scientific discipline? Haha did you leave him with the bill? I mean since your research isn’t real, how could he expect you to buy drinks?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:56 AM |
| 2 | LVM: “I hate gold diggers but I would love them if I had money.”Oh heck yeah they want gold diggers. They know they’re disgusting and must have means in order to get the women they want. They know this fact, resent it, resent the women for it, and resent the fact they can’t simply rape or make these 25 year olds their sex slaves. Ugh and you’re right more would be pedo cheaters if there weren’t laws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 08:40 AM |
| 7 | The last five dates I've had have had the same theme - the men aren't listening, but waiting to talk.The oneupmanship is unreal! I feel like men that say they want a strong, independent woman are always the worst oneuppers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:08 AM |
| 11 | What in the ever loving pickmeisha hell is this?Hahahaha! It’s starting to feel that way. I’ve actually been following that sub since someone posted about comphet here. Sis, idk if there’s a point 🤷🏼♀️ scrotes aren’t exactly helping the cause these days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I am seeing a trauma therapist actually, per the advice of ladies here. I’ve already made improvements mentally but this is one thing I’ve gotta work on for sure. It’s going to take time. It just feels good to vent here where you guys understand the same struggles. This place has been my saving grace. My life is completely different now after help from you guys and my family. I’m so grateful for you all! 😊♥️🥰 thanks for your kind words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Right, I guess for me I love the different expressions and features on people. I think it makes them “them”. When I was young, right before my own societal conditioning and the internet boom, I really thought everyone was beautiful. I thought I was too even though I had hella crooked teeth. Now I’ve seen all these beautiful people and sometimes feel I won’t stack up. It’s all good with your looks too gal, I swear. Weight fluctuates and now it’s your time to focus on you and your goals and happin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Right?! It’s the pornified stuff that I can’t get past. I feel like if I’m not this luscious blow-up doll then I’ll never “be the prize”. Of course personality is way different than looks and is a whole other topic. But I feel like men will always place appearance on the utmost pedestal. And nowadays men act like art curators, judging the visages of fEmALeS. Because they can. It’s so easy for them to collect women like Pokémon cards. +3 charisma with “big tit babe” card. I guess I feel that even… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Hi festivelime!! I remember you too and appreciate all of your help. I couldn’t have done any of this without you guys. I don’t use insta or facebook so I’m in the clear. Love instagramreality, it’s refreshing. I’m making sure to be careful with what I consume. I know I’ve got to heal on the inside AGAINST the societal grain so to speak. You’re right society profits off of insecurity. I need to remember that I personally find quirky or unconventional traits endearing, and that not everyone wants… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Honestly I’m so not ready to date. If I was ready, I want someone to enjoy my time with and for someone to add a positive and supportive influence in my life. Of course it would be mutual but I can say I don’t think I’ve ever truly dated someone who has completely been on my side. I know society lies and that it’s fucked up programming for women but I still believe it after seeing so many “beautiful” women day in and day out thrown in my face. It truly feels like you can’t be enough. Especially … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Haha well here’s to leveling up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 04:51 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I can’t take this anymore! It’s 5.30 AM and I’m wide awake, have been for hours. This happens every night. I’ll wake up and be up for at least 3 hours before I can go back to sleep. I wake up and feel all the emotions from feeling worthless after my NVM ex. I feel disgusting and hideous and unwanted. I’m working on finding my self worth but think I’ll always lack worth due to my appearance. I’ve come a far way in getting back to myself and I’m taking all the steps you ladies have given me. But d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.Do you really believe in your heart of hearts even HVM won’t partially judge worth on appearance? These days I’m really pressed to believe there’s a man out there that doesn’t care about looks, and will always wish for something better. Or fantasize about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 10:22 AM |
| 20 | Let a bot run through a dating site and match me with 9870 guys. Here are the resultsHahahahaha I’m dying at the squirrels. Men are rabid squirrels, makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickRight?! It’s like we’re gaslit into believing “it’s just a joke” but the truth is, they really feel this way. And the libfems wanna be the cool girl and think being able to take “a joke” will help put women on the playing field. But none of this was ever a joke to begin with. I’m so glad you’re gone from your abusive relationship! I know it’s terrible and not easy to do. But it’s better to hurt now than later. I’m slowly going through this myself. Yeah abusive men help push the narrative, and ni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickRight?! I only saw strength, anger, and determination in that photo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickYeah you wouldn’t see them on the streets fighting for their rights | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickOmg I can imagine the comments. I bet they brought up Barney Stinson’s crazy vs hot chart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickThey are the worst parts of male society on highlight. Eta: and the worst part is they think they are “so woke” by making sexist and racist jokes about EVERYONE. They think that makes them PC, because they “hate everyone” equally. Lol right, like I believe they hate men as much as women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickI can’t argue with you! I’ve seen you around recently and nothing you say is untrue. Stay strong sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 9 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickYou know? They couldn’t be gay like they wanted, if they were truly gay. They don’t objectify men in the same manner and would never be able to reconcile their scrotastic ability for seeing people they sexually desire as objects. It won’t compute. So they’ll continue to objectify women instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 20 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickThat’s how I felt. I’m sorry to share this, but I felt my fellow sisters should know what we’re up against. Not that you didn’t already know of the scrotery, but even I’m surprised at this reaction to the post. I used to think jokes like these were funny when I was a teen pickme. Now it only angers me knowing women will never be taken seriously. I didn’t realize this was another method of silence and method of “taking the heat” off of the real heart of the issue. Now I see how reddit keeps the p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickRight?! I was debating whether or not to post because it was so disheartening to read. I was thinking about women’s rights and how all women kind is in danger, and the first comments are from men about the nudity. It just took me back. We can’t ever be taken seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isThis. There are countless inventions by women that were copyrighted under their husbands’ names. And of course no one is bothering to correct the record, so men have yet another reason to falsely inflate their self-worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 17 | I love when men say “you look like you don’t take yourself too seriously” /sOmg that last one...was the guy warning you?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 47 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.Fuck yeah to the “fuck you $$$”. Always | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Can't even be free in the fitbit app...smdh. All the comments were women agreeing and thanking her for saying what needs to be said.Oh the ones who do are just as sickened. My step mom is fully aware of the scrotacity afoot and hates the future for women. She knows her daughter will never likely meet a HVM and that “unicorns don’t exist”. Another mom said she hoped her daughter would have at least one good dating experience in college, because it didn’t happen in high school. My stepmom and I were like, “good luck with that!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 3 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillmentHaha omg your username....now that’s so true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 4 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillmentDude it makes no sense!! It feels like the whole relationship is invalidated when they can just replace you within a week. It really hurts to be honest. Lol constant validation is right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillmentRight?! Where’s the uplifting quarantine stories about families spending time together or people finding new hobbies? I know this pandemic sucks-me and my family got the rona’ and it nearly killed my dad. But you know what? We’re alive and well now, and all watched tv together and had lovely dinner! I’m so grateful for my family and that I get so see them so often now. And you’re right About becoming more independent and realizing what’s important in life. Making some scrote happy at your expens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Onesies all dayWhoa bro. I had no idea there was a whole other step. Microwaving grapefruit sounds horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:23 AM |
| 7 | Onesies all dayI’m disturbed and highly confused. How do you make out with a deviled egg?? And why?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Handmaidens comparing FDS to red pill NVMs is some stupid and dangerous cognitive dissonanceYeah it’s not like we enslave men into relationships. We block and delete lol. There is no comparison, which is why they’re making one up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:38 PM |
| 15 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellAnd to come on your face! They always want that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellOmg this is too too true. I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 11 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellAs a former “cAsUAl sex is empowering” pickme- I can attest. I noticed in my own experiences that most men weren’t comfortable with any sort of rough play. They refused to spank me hard or to slap, or to do anything outside of vanilla sex. They always had this look in their eyes. They weren’t comfortable with it and they somehow knew that I wasn’t really comfortable with it either. These men had the chance to use me as a commodity and didn’t. Because they knew it was sexual violence disguised as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:12 PM |
| 8 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youHahaha omg. Honestly I REALLY don’t get those shorts. I feel like they would give you a colossal wedgie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:04 PM |
| 10 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youUgh men just can’t behave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:58 PM |
| 17 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.I’m so sorry you found yourself a nasty narc 🤮 I know it must suck having to deal with him. But you’re right, your lovely kids wouldn’t be here without him! I hope you’ve found some peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:57 PM |
| 10 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.Hahahahaha omg. Dead ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youWhy do you hide yourself if you’re not happy? Did you feel that men were being creeps? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 7 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youShe’s probably talking about those shorts where literally half your ass hangs out. I have to agree those are meant for certain settings and I wouldn’t suggest have half your ass hanging out in certain places. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:45 PM |
| 15 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youI have to agree we should wear what we want. But I have often times been surprised by what girls wear to class. They’re communicating with peers and professors- and I see the bottom of their ass cheeks hanging out of their shorts. I saw this everyday on campus! I looove short shorts. But I couldn’t wear any that had my actual butt cheeks hanging out. Especially when I want to build a professional network for myself. Some of you probably think I’m shaming those girls. But honestly I draw the line… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:42 PM |
| 94 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youThat’s what I’m thinking. He’s clearly lacking a lot of emotional growth here. He can’t even be around women. How TF are you supposed to survive college with an attitude like that? Are you supposed to blame everything on everything else? “Oh sorry, but your paper was too inhumane to write professor! It caused a lot of undue emotional distress and shouldn’t be used as an indicator for future success. Putting me under this kind of pressure isn’t fair.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 36 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.Ya you’re right “I love you” is almost a warning these days! It means “I love what I get out of you, and will stop when I don’t get it anymore.” And apparently murder you. This is like those Disney tales. They all are so sordid in reality but are twisted into being “romantic”. Idk I’m going off topic here but I guess I’m just trying to say I’m not buying what’s being sold! I’m honestly so scared of men now and of getting more emotionally scarred, and of the fact it could be physical too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:34 PM |
| 25 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.Lol right? I mean gosh what a surprise, she doesn’t want to smash her boobs after a difficult surgery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:30 PM |
| 60 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.Wtf. And he still was hard after hearing all that? There is a serious blood flow problem in men, called “mUh pEnIS trap”. All the blood goes from the brain to the dick. Loss of common sense, empathy, and morals may occur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:29 PM |
| 7 | Choose love not toxic love no matter what!I like this spin on it much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 37 | What pickmes and LVM don't get...Lol no one knows what healthy even is. People say I need some meat on my bones but I’m at a very healthy BMI. Body image and perception is screwed in the US in many regards. So are food portions. It all boils down to what is “fuckable” as you say. If you’re not curvy in just the right places and slim, but not like obnoxiously slim, or that means you’re high maintenance and probably on a diet. Thick is fine if you aren’t too thick. Thin is fine but you better have tits or ass still. And eat a bur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:22 PM |
| 39 | Truth hurts and the pickmes don't like to hear it 🙄Right. I believe many women believe they are taking control of their sexuality and bodies when they only allow men near it for an exchange. But the thing is they aren’t ready for the emotional exchange that goes on with it. It might take time for it to occur but when it does, it won’t feel so empowering. Women don’t realize they have emotional wounds tied to their sexuality and are only okay with sex work because of their wounds. If they truly had a healthy grip on boundaries and what they will … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Women in their early 20s are dating LVM/NVM because they think that all men our age are like this.Or they see it as degrading when we are on the same level with them. So that’s why they degrade us. We can’t be on the same level. “Simping” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.It’s so easy to get gaslit tbh. The last thing we want to be is disagreeable, or unknowingly be mistreating our SO’s/hurting their feelings. So we listen to their issues with an open heart and mind and believe their issues are legitimate and not rooted in self-serving purposes. So pickmeisha blames herself when Scrotenameth the 3rd artfully crafts his manipulative tactics and implements them on her. I would BET that her bf told her, “oh honey, it’s no worries that you don’t have the 50% now. You… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.Right?! This situation is painful to read. And “he needs to put your name on the deed”- sisters THIS. You put your own damn name on the deed and if he objects in any way, he has doubts about you. And do we have time for that? HELL NO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.Hahaha omg it’s so predictable lifetime won’t even make a movie about it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.Lol he also got her off his back for a few minutes. She is such the loser in this situation and I’m glad to see she’s packing bags! Get your own home girl, you don’t need that shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I definitely feel like the relationship took the life out of me and my self-esteem/respect. I’m understanding more and more what happened and why I let it happen or didn’t pick up on the signs through FDS and therapy. I have a journal, you’re right I need to written it out! I just wish I could stop being a lazy lump. I feel utterly pathetic lately! Thanks for reaching out, it means the world to me. ❤️ I probably will DM you sometime thank you so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Thanks for reaching out ❤️ I probably will DM you sometime thank you so much. I’ll try to get back to the gym! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Saw this Q on relationship advice, and this was some of the "advice"100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Saw this Q on relationship advice, and this was some of the "advice"Why are we never “pretty” enough? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | When they complain about being expected to provideYou just solved a mystery in my mind! Holy crap. Mind blown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Don't be afraid to use your voice.Thank you so much for this suggestion! I definitely need to read it. And you’re right I’d be interested in reading about the post-modern turn in the social sciences! I’m not well versed in the subject at all, but in my experience I don’t feel like anyone took sociology class seriously. I remember even feeling as if it was kind of a “fluffy” class! But to be honest it was a very useful course and a lot of my questions could probably be answered via sociological studies. Right, I agree there’s an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Discussing feminism with men who don't want to understand is a total waste of timeThey see themselves as default humans, and us as the subspecies. They can’t even fathom what it would be like to be a woman. They can’t empathize or see outside of their “default male human” view. Our struggles are secondary and animalistic. The fact we gestate, I believe, makes them see us as cattle/ breeding animals. I think there’s a disconnect because we have such a primal role in reproduction. They can’t separate that role from our person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Discussing feminism with men who don't want to understand is a total waste of timeIt’s pointless to argue feminism or women’s issues with men. Any man. They can’t understand or experience the plight of being a woman, and use statistics or “in my experience...women do this”. Because to them it’s an IDEA, not reality. This is our reality. To them this is a conversation. Their lives don’t change when women’s lives change. This conversation is us shouting to the world what we need to feel like autonomous humans, or at least a semblance. To them, it’s “eh. I can see why people are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Male depravity knows NO boundariesDamn sis. I hate that for you. I wish the bar wasn’t so low. At least you don’t have to hold the bar up. You can leave that shit on the ground for the scrotes! It’s not your burden to carry the bar. Yeah that makes sense, I can see why you’d feel that way. But just remember this guy is only acknowledging the situation to get something for himself. She didn’t once say that he actually asked how she felt or if there was anything he could do to make her life easier. He did things to benefit himself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Male depravity knows NO boundariesThis is exactly how I feel about these posts. It l brings me down and makes me feel less and less hopeful. It’s seriously soul-gouging as you say, to see how hated we are on a consistent basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Don't be afraid to use your voice.I agree with this. What about sociological studies for this kind of premise? It seems more fitting. Or behavioral science. It’s unscientific to ignore other factors as obvious as these. Sexism, historical context, all sorts of things are being ignored here. ETA: ya know this got me thinking. There has been a lot of criticism towards science and scientific facts in recent times. We automatically dislike this criticism because it’s often used in nefarious ways. But who is to say many studies aren’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 6 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.I look to see what exercises they’re doing and to compare my form! Yep it’s a public space, people are gonna look, but why be a creep? There’s plenty of time to look at women- when they’re not vulnerable and sweating. Oh wait, “it’s bIoLoGy” I forgot. My bad scrotes, go ahead and warn me of your scrotacity” Lol we can’t win for shit, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:23 PM |
| 36 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”“Perhaps it’s time men registered the difference. Eternal a partner there by choice & a paid (or unpaid) pornstar on pornhub!” This hits hard man. So true though. Hook-ups are free with delivery!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 10 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!Hahaha I’m dying at “the cat always has to have the last word” omg Lol at tying yourself to a desperate guy because he is lonely. I bet this fall season is ripe with lonely scrotes! I feel like dating this fall/winter would be a competitive sport. You’d be dodging desperates left and right. No thanks I’ll be fine chillin with the cats and working on leveling up. I’d rather be alone than be someone’s filldirt for their massive black holes of insecurities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:57 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!For real. If I could go back and do things the u/giantscrewdriver way, I totally would. I bet my level-up journey would have been so much further along by now. None of the sex I’ve had has added anything to my life, and can only say relationships have because I’ve learned what to run away from haha. Why do all that when you can just read FDS? Girl you’re a genius, don’t question what you’re doing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!Haha right? That’s what I’m thinking of. About how people want things that make them “look good” but without any care beyond that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!Yup it’s all about the appearance. Ever notice how new houses look nice but really were put together haphazardly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!Or he tells her she’s much prettier without makeup and doesn’t need to dress to the 9s, til she gets comfortable and he feels less threatened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 38 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?The LVM himself will resent her for dating him in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:47 PM |
| 8 | How Men's Rights Activists Swallowed the WorldWe don’t owe them jackshit! The only way to protect women is to help them find FDS. I’ve been spreading the word to women who write one of “those” posts, you know about the colossally shitty bfs and “should I leave him?” I’d suggest PMing them instead of referencing FDS in the comments. I thought about that yesterday how we might get negative traction if we post too openly on threads. I don’t want FDS to get the banhammer for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:20 AM |
| 7 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Right? I get so mad even at myself for all the fun memories that I could have made with other girls but put to the side for men that aren’t even in my life anymore! I was only single my senior year of college and had a handful of “girls nights out”. I realized how much I had been missing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:13 AM |
| 10 | I never heard women complaining about 18 yo men bodies. Why do they keep doing this?What is even the point of a countdown site? They’re already perving on them before 18. God I forgot about the countdown sites! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Does he own his own business? You have to do that 24/7 if you want it to be moderately successful. I’d say if he owns his own business it depends on his overall attitude. Does he still live a full life? Or does he only talk about work? A regular job though I wouldn’t like that too much. There needs to be a life/work balance. If he doesn’t have one it could be because his only form of self-control or feeling of self-control is work. My dad has many emotional issues and is all about work. He has n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Ya if you have to ask, he’s not it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020That’s so sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Hi there! Just checking in with my level up progress. I’m having a hard time right now moving past my ex. Not that I want him back but that he made me feel so worthless in the end, and all I can do is question everything. It all boils down to him being an LVM and I was in a hella vulnerable spot. I think in his LVM brain I had “potential” to be his submissive baby-mama-bang-maid for a while and then he realized maybe I couldn’t fulfill that role. I keep thinking he might have cheated looking bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | “How many of you have ever felt personally victimized by a man” 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️Yup and he has the audacity to offer services for relationship advice!! This gives me NO hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:16 PM |
| 4 | “How many of you have ever felt personally victimized by a man” 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️I hate the way the guy wrote that! It’s like he pretended to be sorry and woke to women now, mansplained women’s feelings and still said that he was right! He said that he was right 3 times. He had a few good points sprinkled in but I really felt that he didn’t feel sorry for what he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 3 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowGirl don’t even fret! We all hit those periods- I’m where you are right now. Our world views have been drastically altered and we have to think what we want for our lives, and what we deserve! You’ve gotta work on you, and feeling good in your skin. I’m also doing some LVM activities because my anxiety is through the roof and I can’t calm down long enough to be as productive as usual. It’s okay to be a potato when you need to. As long as you give yourself time to heal and reflect and keep your i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:44 PM |
| 17 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis“But pee is sterile”- pickmesha probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:14 PM |
| 2 | As a PhD track woman, I'm realizing more and more men are stupidI’m in too!!! Great idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:53 AM |
| 63 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?Lol he could have not mentioned the coupons, but at least he warned you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:29 AM |
| 9 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Upvote for “dude bros”. I love using this phrase for the gym rats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:00 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend's "RULES"Haha at “their red eyes look ugly”. That’s the first I’ve heard that. Totally get what you mean about the slowed cognitive abilities. Thanks for responding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend's "RULES"So I’m totally about to ask a million questions if that’s okay! You’ve given me great advice before (thank you very much btw queen, glad I took it!) and I’d like to pick your brain on this topic. I’m genuinely curious, what is wrong with weed? I understand when people are total stoners and can’t function, but what about casual smokers? Or what about medical users? Those who choose to smoke after work instead of drink? Is it honestly better to not smoke? For your mental health? How do you think t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 7 | Professions of undying love.Right that’s what I commented above! I’ve experienced that when a guy says “actions, not words” he probably has an issue with doing that himself and assumes everyone else must too. Anybody actually living by that mantra doesn’t say it, they just vet quietly and leave when the words don’t match the actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Professions of undying love.This is ironic but my ex was obsessed with this concept. He always felt that I wasn’t showing enough actions to show that I care. But he felt that way because HIS words and actions didn’t match up! So I’d say it’s a red flag when a guy says this phrase regularly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Don't tolerate their bullshit anymore ✌️Simping is the stupidest concept to date for LVM. It’s an angry and pathetic excuse for not treating women well, and getting angry for women expecting things! Omg how dare we expect things?! My ex expected blowies. Why couldn’t I expect some sensitivity and respect? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:19 AM |
| 14 | i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves!Oh my god please don’t tell me he actually asked “wHaT aBoUt mUh DiCk?!” So sad to hear this is so common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:53 PM |
| 57 | i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves!Yep even the ones who initially support you will end up resenting you. My ex came up with the idea for me starting a business until I find a job and gave me tons of advice. Over time he would start telling me how great I’m doing and even better than him when he started. He also started asking for more help with his business. And cleaning around the house. Once he realized my business was a reality and not just a cute side job he started making road blocks for me to continue progressing. He was j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:11 PM |
| 7 | This is why we don’t do friends with benefits. Vet these guys and vet them hard. Don’t catch feelings unless you want them to be used against youWtf that combo is utterly repulsive lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Red Flag: Abuse starts off with control and devaluing the abused partner’s dreams & achievement’s. Throw the whole man out sis!Holy shit sis... thank god you’re out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:14 AM |
| 5 | COVID is not an excuse to accept low-effort dates. If sitting and having a meal with someone is too risky, stay home.“Ain’t no time for a pandemic when all I want is Pam-on-muh-Dick” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:41 AM |
| 3 | "Men don't really get better looking with age". Tell us something we don't know!“As you may have heard, men age like fine wine. I’d call myself a Cabernet, the acrid aftertaste leaves you dry and confused.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:22 AM |
| 3 | "Men don't really get better looking with age". Tell us something we don't know!Sis did you have to go there? Omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Women are opening their eyes to the lies of libfem culture!Well you know a man will only see a woman as semi-human if she’s hot. Fat lesbos won’t suck muh diiiiick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | His friends are right though.Not sure if they try to pull you down, at least in all cases. I’d say those that are engaging in that behavior might have some hidden trauma. It’s understandable though. It’s hard to keep watching someone hurt themselves over and over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:57 PM |
| 18 | BlowjobsLol what? Gross?? Haha most men would thank for for not wearing a bra. Me included because free the titties and comfort is king. Lol if Al Bundy is the bar, then I’m throwing the bar in the ocean. Sink scrotes, sink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 15 | BlowjobsRight. How many of them don’t give oral back? The majority won’t touch you outside of penetration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 18 | BlowjobsApparently his tongue was too long at birth, and then got cut too short. To be fair, it didn’t stick out much. But enough to do the job so I told him it couldn’t be an excuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 103 | BlowjobsI get now why so many women don’t do them. I used to think it was historical context where women were more chaste. But now I see that men’s balls were probably hella extra stanky on the priairieside, and women had more than enough submissive tasks to complete. A dick in the mouth would just be an insult to add to injury. As a prior pickme, I knew it was the ultimate way to please and impress a man. Getting compliments on giving awesome head was soo validating. But it’s the ultimate submissive ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 145 | BlowjobsI consider this as a red flag now. I feel like it’s a sign of porn sickness, sexual aggression, and controlling behavior. They obviously see it in porn. I’ve noticed the men who have tried this on me also were the type to be dominant and want to be the “man”. They probably weren’t the most respectful of women (I know my ex isn’t). Unfortunately it’s become more common. But I’d say men worth your time won’t try this on you randomly during sex. It’s also a red flag if he’s obsessed with getting BJ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | She gets itJust bought some toys on Amazon after reading this! Good reminder queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 2 | My mom sent me this. I thought it’d serve as a good reminder for everyone on this sub.So so true. Thank god for FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:26 AM |
| 4 | but where is the lie?????Lol I am thinking of Tony Soprano in therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 23 | Men are Casually Comparing Themselves to Predators and Thinking It’s Solid Logic.My ex deff would have laughed and agreed with this meme. He said it was dumb for women to think that all men could control themselves, because at the end of the day we are also animals. He said it’s just cold hard facts and nature. He also said it was my fault and I was asking for it when one of his neighbors ogled me when I was wearing a long tshirt and short shorts that were hidden underneath the shirt. He was actually angry at ME that he got mad at the creep because I “put myself in that situ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Saw post earlier about a sis learning day tradingI’m down! Ready to start daytrading again 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Inspired by another post here... get a man who’s your hype squadI meant that my first reaction is to believe it’s lovebombing; I’m commenting on my own lack of positivity/hope when it comes to men! I should have prefaced my comment with that 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Inspired by another post here... get a man who’s your hype squadRight, I can’t help but think this is lovebombing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 7 | Once a cheater, always a cheater.Ahhhh that makes so much sense! Thank you for this. I just didn’t think it could only be projection that the guy cheated himself (which it could be, but not all cases). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Once a cheater, always a cheater.What about guys who always say they got cheated on numerous times? And they have trust issues because of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 9 | I'm glad my son will be able to grow up seeing women hosts for science shows.Lol you should meet my dad. Three sisters and he still hates women and doesn’t see them as fully human! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.“Greasy fucking toad” is my new favorite. Loved it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why I’m hereIt’s society wide gaslighting. It’s become so obvious to me now and I won’t be around to listen to the noise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 39 | Why We Avoid 50/50 "Men."You are a total badass and I love it! Maybe we should start doing FDS level up motivational profiles, not unlike Leslie Knope’s wall of powerful women. I think we all could use examples of ladies to look up to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 7 | Oops, I need a man to logic this out for me!!I feel like this paragraph should be added to the handbook and “male lurkers” section. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:47 PM |
| 62 | I can't believe the way some men talk. Just whyWhat the fuck is this rating system anyways?? What is a 3, a 6?? Why do they get to decide someone’s value based on their dick? Men rating women like this has always pissed me off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:43 AM |
| 21 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.Screenshotted and saved. No comment because you covered it well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:35 AM |
| 55 | Can I just say I love low n count men?On the flip side he could also be a serial dater. Still uses women as bangmaids and everything else you described above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.I swear my stomach is in knots after reading this. This is what I feel like was happening to me or what it was going to lead to. Haunting. I’m so glad you’re gone and have saved up! You’re a queen ♥️ It’s so so strange how men don’t realize that our bills are real and equal to theirs. I mean they might see us and legislate us as less than human, but the student loan company isn’t gonna not take your money because you’re a woman! Money is very very real. Our ladily lady bills can’t be put off lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."The boiz wouldn’t be able to take it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Another proof why you shouldn't talk about your past abuse/relationships to a man especially on the first dates ! they KNOWWhat’s he gonna do? Brag about how his behavior caused him to end up alone with his deflated dick in his hand? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 23 | Easiest decision ever!They all look like clones it’s really unsettling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | They are all auditioning...make sure to draw the line between dating and actually being married!Ahhh okay that makes sense! Ya I’m not dating and won’t be for quite a while but still want to be prepared for the future. I feel like in my own past relationships that the guys ended up seeing me more as “the wifey” because I started cooking. It’s like the roles instantly changed without me receiving any benefit. I ended up bearing the brunt of “what’s for dinner?” It’s like they expected me to cook. But like I said, nothing changed on their end. They quit taking me out on dates, wouldn’t offer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 10 | They are all auditioning...make sure to draw the line between dating and actually being married!Question about the cooking thing: what if you’re the type to always cook/meal prep? Do you just cook for yourself and he can have some if he wants? Would I just heat up my meal prep? I guess I’m saying just don’t cook for him or in front of him? Never invite him over for dinner? My stepmom said that she would NEVER cook in front of men and would only do it after they got married. Her ex husband was so surprised to learn she could cook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | I wrote this last fall while I was dating an emotionally abusive asshole, but didn’t have FDS in my life. The first of many notes I wrote about our shitty relationship.I love your friend! She’s a keeper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Being a Tall womanYessss my sister!! It’s so hard to vet men when you have a babyface and are petite. I feel like it truly attracts weird men. My ex wasn’t into young looking women and I “wasn’t his type” because of it. But he also liked that I appeared this way because he knew that many men dig the “teen category” and find girls like me attractive. He’d say, “I’m lucky you’re so hot” 🤮 and he even mentioned that I looked like the girls online (yes porn). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Being a Tall womanYes it’s extra hard for me to date and vet for this reason!! Men either assume I’m a teenager and avoid me or they think I’m a teenager/look like one and dig it a little too much. Love my baby face because I always look at least ten years younger and that will be nice in the future. Hate my baby face because right now I’m too young for it to be beneficial. It truly attracts creeps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Being a Tall womanI’m a shortie but this post made me realize that men are so obsessed with height and that’s why they think it’s important to us too. Damn it really all boils down to male insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 3 | I wrote this last fall while I was dating an emotionally abusive asshole, but didn’t have FDS in my life. The first of many notes I wrote about our shitty relationship.Hahaha a SWOT chart?! Omg that’s honestly hilarious and very creative. I could imagine you printing it out and handing it to him after calling a meeting to discuss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 18 | Men’s Porn AddictionsI love this analogy. “But babe, I’d NEVER want to cut your dick off! It’s just a fAnTaSY...” Men have NO clue how much porn affects us beyond bruising our egos/making us insecure. We end up with these nasty men who think it’s okay to ask for threesomes, slap us, choke us, and spank us until they leave us bruises. And they never stop wanting that stuff or stop trying to do it, even after we ask them to stop. Hellscape is a damn good word for this. ETA: also surprise anal penetration is common. Ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | When an LVM pops out of the wood work with a “miss you” text, this is the only way to respond.Hahaha that would have been a great response too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:18 AM |
| 19 | this was posted to r/iamatotalpieceofshit and all of the commenters were sympathizing with the guy in this scenario...they aren’t getting itLol sucks to suck doesn’t it? These boys can’t handle taking the heat. Not sure why they keep dishing it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 29 | That frustration when you realize how most men interpret your interestJesus Christ it’s like the game “choose a door.” Who’s behind what door?! Will it be Mr. Extreme Entitlement, Mr. I Won’t Be Held Accountable, or Mr. Must Rub Mah Dick, behind door number three?! Tune in to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Imagine....Haha 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 31 | Imagine....Hahaha the truth hurts. In the book, “The Lucifer Principle”- there’s a whole section on the disposability of males in nature. The author is a male too. Highly suggested read. My favorite book of all time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Thank you sis ♥️😍🥰 I wish the same for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistYou’re unfortunately right, you’ll never know. And what a blessing that is at the same time. I’d wager to say that some of it was because of him. She sounds toxic too but I’m sure he brought out the worst. Oh yeah I’m crazy ex number 21. He better believe it. I’ll Lorena Bobbit his ass! I don’t pity them for being stuck in the loop. At all. And it’s not enough karma EVER. They bring it on themselves and REFUSE to self analyze. I just don’t get how someone can’t at some point wonder if they are t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Yep, my blinders just came off. Not just about men but about why I’ve had pickme tendencies. So I’m angry at my father and just about anyone with a dingle dangle dongle. Even my guy friends are getting the wrath of it. I’ve not been holding back calling them out for LVM behavior. Fuck it. I don’t care anymore. Thanks for the advice. As much as I love FDS I think some of the negative (but obviously well needed) posts are bringing me down. Stuck at home sick and been on here 24/7. Thanks for your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Thank you for this suggestion. I wouldn’t have considered this myself. I need a new therapist so I’ll start looking into someone who specializes in this. ETA: booked an appointment with someone for tomorrow! Thanks again sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Men don't get it“Not worth our wrinkles” damn straight sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Men don't get itI think it’s a mix of wanting male approval and moreso validation. It’s dehumanizing seeing this mindset day in and day out. How could we NOT want to be validated? This shit just causes us to lose hope time and time again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 10 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.Which is so fucking sad. I’m sure you’re a lovely woman that we could use more of in this world. LVM and LVW genes are gonna change the gene pool for the worst. (At least proper beliefs and values won’t be passed on, is what I mean.) and then the cycle will continue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Y’all I wanted to see if you’ve experienced this: have you ever been so disgusted by men that it’s made you sexually dysfunctional? Not be to TMI but my lady parts won’t work anymore. Ever since my breakup I’m not only mentally turned off but it seems my body has shut down too. And no I haven’t been sleeping with anyone (and won’t be), just been trying solo. I’m just so goddamned angry!! What do you do about your anger towards men? It’s getting overwhelming. I hate feeling angry and just want to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:33 PM |
| 26 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?That’s still a little too kind. Bring out the dick guillotine!!! I’m Marie mothafreakin Antoinette, try to come and eat my cake boys 🍰🙅♀️🧏♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 53 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?It’s so bad you can’t even call men “golddiggers” anymore. More like “souldiggers” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 27 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?💔🤢🤮😵 Depicting my exact reaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:19 PM |
| 11 | And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦♀️Yeah I’ve experienced the same thing. I had a stalker guy who wanted to BE Tyler Durden. He wore the same clothes, gave himself the “space monkey” haircut, and lived out of his van that he called “Scarface”. The guy tried to convince me to go start life with him in his van. Obviously I regret not going lol jk jk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 8 | When emotional labor follows us into the bedroom. A passage from “Rage Becomes Her”Yeah but they treat the clit like it’s the nuclear button and Russia is about to invade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:08 PM |
| 89 | Imagine....Lol I think this was posted before and my ex was sooo pissed when he saw me reading this. He tried to argue women are more disposable. I guess he was right, because I’m gone! Let’s see how long #22 stays. ETA: it was saved as a screenshot, so it must have stung 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 29 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.Translation: “I would have done the same thing if I was your husband. His behavior is justifiable because I want to justify my shitty self too.” I swear the internet is going to make the world population plummet. Does this make YOU want to rush and have children or even marry someone?! Men are single handedly killing the human race with their violence, sub par sperm, and telling on themselves so we can be warned. Birth rates are gonna plummet. Every day I become more and more disgusted by men. G… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | As someone struggling with mental illness, I can say that all too many women allow themselves to believe the issue is their illness when the issue is actually the LVM and allow themselves to be gaslit or even gaslight themselves out of guilt. A HVM would never say this to their mentally ill SO. Run.Yup. I even went to the hospital thinking I had something wrong. Once we were done, I never had stomach problems again. For a few years I thought I had food allergies and went gluten free, dairy free, keto. I tried it all. Now I don’t have problems with constipation or stomach pain! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 4 | As someone struggling with mental illness, I can say that all too many women allow themselves to believe the issue is their illness when the issue is actually the LVM and allow themselves to be gaslit or even gaslight themselves out of guilt. A HVM would never say this to their mentally ill SO. Run.Holy shit. That is the scariest thing I’ve EVER read on here. Hugs ♥️♥️♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistGood, it’s good to know his tactics so they won’t know anymore! Sounds like you know exactly what’s going on and you’re taking all the right steps. I just wanted to be thorough in case you might not be prepared. We’re all learning through this mess. Omg it was good for me to write all this! So cathartic. This sub has been a life saver and I want to try to return the favor any way I can. It’s validating (and sad) seeing other people have experienced this- that it’s real and not imagined. Also I’m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistOh yeah you’re absolutely right- the common denominator of all narcissists is insecurity. But many don’t show their insecurity. I wanted to talk about my experience with one who didn’t appear to be narcissistic because he seemed humble and self-aware. He knew his flaws. Many narcissists act more confident than they really are. I’ve read a lot about narcissists who “pump themselves up” so to speak. But not ones who act more humble and don’t hide their insecurity. Many narcissists hide their insec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategiesMe too sis. I wanna shove that screwdriver up their wieners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 22 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategiesI hate that phrase!!!! I’ve been taking it back and say “I fucked him” or “hit it and quit it”. Of course I’m not sleeping with anyone lol. Hell nahh. But I’m gonna turn it back on their asses. Ugh it’s so disgusting that men see everything as territory. They pee on stuff, come on it, whatever on it. And we are the illogical, less competent gender?? Y’all just a bunch of nasties, boizzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategiesLmao I’m dead at this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | When men “apologize” they be likeBe wary of the philosophy types. FDS is very wary of philosophy or psychology majors. Many LVM use that knowledge to manipulate their thinking/reasoning into looking legitimate. There was a video not too long ago where a male psychologist manipulated things to suit a sexist view. Which is pretty common unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | When men “apologize” they be likeScreenshotted and saved. Seems like us ladies are on the same spiritual journey and it’s so validating. Thanks for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 3 | When men “apologize” they be likeOmg this needs a trigger warning. Makes me angry enough to break something lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistGood to hear!! Yes the self-esteem rebuilding is the kicker. I’m definitely struggling there myself. What kind of therapy have you done? Any recommendations? I’m on the healing journey myself and have a ways to go. Glad to hear things have turned around sis ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistHugs sis ♥️♥️♥️♥️ I wish I had something to say that would help or fix your situation. But you are so brave. I hope you can find some peace soon. We’re here if you need a shoulder to lean on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistOof... I hate hearing that this hit home. But am glad at the same that it’s bringing you clarity. It’s a bitter pill. Good luck with leaving! Please check in with us to let us know how it goes. Be safe and be prepared. As the commenter before me said- don’t. let. him. know. If he knows, he might manipulate you into staying. He will say all the right things. He might also be angry and dangerous. Please let a close friend or family be aware of when you’re leaving so you can do it safely. And in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissist3 week silent treatment? What a freaking baby. Omg I’m so glad you’re out. I hope you’re healing and don’t feel hurt from the resentment. For me, the resentment hurt for a long time. It hurt so much having the man I loved begin to HATE me for the things I thought he loved. But he never loved my fierce independence. He tried to take it away. We watched Greys Anatomy together near the end of our relationship. He HATED Christina. He would insult her and talk about how horrible she was, but in the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistHell yeah you’re right. 💯 But sometimes we don’t see a highly insecure guy as a narcissist and for years believe that we ourselves are to partially blame. I wanted to share this type in case someone else has been struggling with this type of guy specifically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistThanks for the link! It’s a powerful tool to understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 12 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistYup you’re spot on on the justification. It’s NEVER them. My ex is on to girlfriend number 22. How can he not realize that 22 women can’t all be horrible? Statistically speaking, there should at least have been 5 wonderful ladies out of the bunch. How is he so blind that he can’t see the common denominator?? These men not only gaslight us, but themselves. I don’t pity these narcs. I pity their victims. These narcs can burn in hell for all I care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistOf course you’re sexist! You’re holding NVM accountable, it’s a hate crime sis. Lol. Omg your comment was even spot on. I can not believe how common this behavior is. I read your comment wondering if we had the same ex. On an unrelated note, I wonder if FDS could start a ex bf profile with profiles of men to avoid. Their first name and town would be listed, with a personality description. Pictures could not be posted. But I’m sure this would lead to FDS being banned. Sucks we can’t warn each oth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistI’m so glad you’re done with him!! Good on you for sticking to your guns and going out with the “broke bitches” instead. Lol at “that wasn’t the real him”. Yeah sure, bro. And your name isn’t whenthecagedbirdsing. That night was a blessing my dear ♥️you weren’t a pickmeisha, don’t beat yourself up. You were quite literally the caged bird. I hope you’re continuing to heal and grow (which I’m sure you’re kicking ass at!). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistLol I know right? I read comments here all the time and wonder if any of us share the same exes. It’s uncanny valley | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistThank god you’re done with that!! Ain’t nobody got time for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistI’m so glad to hear that this was a timely post. I get exactly where you’re coming from. To this day- I still feel guilt about this ex. “He had a good heart!” We’ve been broken up since 2017 and I still have doubts. This manipulation and gaslighting is POWERFUL. Please don’t beat yourself up. You’ve been conditioned to feel this way. It can take years to sort through. Therapy is helpful if you can get it. I know exactly what you’re missing...seriously sis. You miss the comfort blanket he falsely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistSounds like a plan! I’m going to do a little research first to make sure I don’t do it injustice. I might have to tweak the name a bit, because it’s really based on my personal experience. This ex is one that of course is deeply insecure, but pretends not to be. Pretends to be “the man” so to speak. He’s more bold and brash. Not like this one who was painfully insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 8 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistThanks for your response! It was cathartic to write. I fell asleep right after finishing lol. Yeah I thought it would be good to share that not all narcissists are Don Juan and some convey themselves as “sweet, goofy, nerds”. I was with my obviously insecure narcissist for almost 6 years! To this day I still feel like I’ll never know the truth or not. I sometimes blame myself and feel horrible for how I acted. It’s much a mindfuck. Even years later I still doubt myself with what happened, still … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | We can do that after we normalize women needing emotional support😒Holy shit... that’s definitely fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaYou could send these pickles to scrotes with notes! “Roses are red, violets are blue, these pickles are sour just like you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Am I too sensitive?Hahaha I can imagine where she puts a text box on the picture and writes, “we’re done scrote ” Or she could send a dick pic and say, “here’s a dick, you’re a dick, we’re done” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020💯 I see no lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Two types of guys to avoidThanks for the support 😊 I’ll do my best to write a useful post. I’m still learning myself, but I’m sure the other ladies can pitch in if there’s something I get wrong or forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Reverie & Louden - Where The Darkside Ends (Full Album Audio). Album fit for queens leveling up! Reverie is a HV QUEEN!! 🥰Oh dang I haven’t ever watched her videos! That’s surprising to hear 😥 sounds like she’s got some things to sort through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 15 | Man asks for tips to help him stalk a Twitch streamer because her likes her. We can’t have anything nice without men trying to insert themselves and their desires.True that sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaHehehe sounds so sour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | We can do that after we normalize women needing emotional support😒Ohh gotcha. Huh strange. Guess I’d have to do digging, but who’s got time for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I honestly wonder if I’ll ever meet a guy who is anti-porn. It seems to be extremely rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaBaths are honestly pretty exciting haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaLol not that line! You should try it, it’s pretty dope. And I haven’t either. I’ll have to try to make some too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 4 | We can do that after we normalize women needing emotional support😒Yuck to all of that. And please tell me more about Joe Rogan. I’ve heard several here mentioning him in a negative light. My ex listened to him so I’m assuming Rogan must be pretty bad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | We can do that after we normalize women needing emotional support😒Screenshotted and saved for my FDS notebook. I’m pretty sure I’ve done this with several of your comments! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:15 PM |
| 11 | I need my faith in humanity restored. Maybe even tell me that this is satire. Please?The depths of hell where they have to face consequences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:05 PM |
| 6 | I need my faith in humanity restored. Maybe even tell me that this is satire. Please?Seriously. Even the ones who seem cool probably aren’t. I actually met up with one that I had been chatting with for a while. We discussed all kinds of cool stuff and thought it’d be fun to share in person. Haven’t heard from him ever again since hanging out. I was in a strange headspace and definitely was more awkward in person (was still dealing with my ex and was pretty broken down). Anyways he paid for stuff both times we hung out which signaled to me that he was interested romantically. It … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 16 | “What are you looking for?”Hahaha! Emphasis on slightly made me laugh. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Sorry to hear OLD was still a shitshow. Ya I decided to not try it ever again when and if I ever wanna start dating again. Luckily men are repulsing the hell out of me with their BS so I don’t feel the itch yet. My stepmom agreed that she doesn’t think that you can find a HVM online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:50 PM |
| 9 | Two types of guys to avoidThe insecure narcissists are awful. I could write a whole post (and might just do that). They are so hard to spot and gaslight like their ass is on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Don’t waste a SECOND on LVM!!Lmao love this comment and your username. Perfect combo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:41 PM |
| 32 | Woman finds out husband raped his cousin when she was 13 and continued affair throughout their entire marriage. Just when I think I’ve seen it all, men manage to sink to new levels of depravity.Right?! We can’t win this shit, sis. Why I probably won’t ever have kids. I don’t think I can ever trust a man enough to be so vulnerable with. Or even just get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 12 | Bought me a build-a-bear that says “I love you beautiful” bc he will be gone for a monthSmart! Omg it would have been so hard not to peek out the window. I would have been on the floor and trying to peek without light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:34 PM |
| 60 | “What are you looking for?”Interesting on the conservatives and “looking for marriage”. you’re absolutely right that the kids thing is a good filter to start. But there are plenty of LVM looking for a barefoot pickmesha baby mama. My ex was one who only wants a woman to control and procreate with. He doesn’t want her to have anything outside of him and the kids. Lesson learned. So my point is that the filtering does NOT stop there. Which I’m sure you knew, but just wanted to emphasize it for everyone else reading. So be d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:30 PM |
| 112 | Man asks for tips to help him stalk a Twitch streamer because her likes her. We can’t have anything nice without men trying to insert themselves and their desires.That’s what I’m saying! The first two times he mentioned her physical beauty- “hot twitch streamer” and “she’s really pretty” before even getting into her personality. I’m so sick of men ALWAYS mentioning a woman’s looks first and foremost. They tell on themselves every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Reverie & Louden - Where The Darkside Ends (Full Album Audio). Album fit for queens leveling up! Reverie is a HV QUEEN!! 🥰Hey y’all! I wanted to share Reverie, my favorite rapper and artist of all time. Every album of hers is incredible. I’m thinking I’d like to keep sharing empowering female rappers and singers as a post series. Tell me if you like this idea! There are so many talented ladies out there that are killing the rap game and are taking it back from the scrotes. Let me know if this should go on femalelevelup sub instead. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ulbkquOk2Bw Link in case I didn’t post it correctly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Recommended K-drama(s)?“Was it Love?” Is on Netflix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Recommended K-drama(s)?I had a thread where I talked about “Was it Love?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:49 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Ya I wouldn’t be surprised if this style of thought is what leads men to let themselves go. I was just talking to my friend about how my ex only eats healthy when he’s single. My ex had the audacity to text me tonight and ask what protein bars I liked. My friend is actually his long time friend. He told me my ex has already been on a few dates (we really just broke up). Like fuck off bro. Of course I ignored him. My ex got chubby while we were dating and of course got slim right before we broke … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaOoh no I haven’t watched it, I’m new to k dramas. Thank you for the suggestion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:23 AM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaMy favorite thing about the show is how all the men are throwing themselves at the main MC at all times and she is NEVER phased by it and stays true to herself, her mother, and daughter instead. She always chooses her family. I don’t think the show is finished, not sure cuz I’m still watching it. But the MC is what I think a HVW is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:22 AM |
| 7 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITDamn this is too real. Don’t even have words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:15 AM |
| 12 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITOh there’s one out there, an incel lurker. And probably a very fed up female that’s gonna lose her shit soon. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | “What do you bring to the table?”Hahahah this seriously made me laugh, “fat fuck” always hits home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:51 AM |
| 9 | Glad for something positive like this instead of the usual trashy scrote nonsense 👍🏾“God standards are so 1820 Karen” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaOoh I’ll have to check out refrigerator pickles. Sounds really good. Haha “some of the flavors I put together never even wanted to meet” love it. What was the worst one you made? I live for weird combos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaI love that one too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:46 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Wish I knew sis. I’m sick of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020How do you respond if he says yes? I feel like all I could say is “eww gross” lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:35 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I’d say a walk should come after dinner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020That water better be from the damn fountain of youth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020How tf does anybody have the gall to split a check for coffee? Good god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020This comment sums it up perfectly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It’s a worldwide phenomenon. Why can’t the water make us gay too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020No!! You deserve much better. I’m glad he didn’t waste your time any longer and told you he wouldn’t have time. That’s the best thing he could do, well, after not dating you in the first place if he couldn’t make the time. I’m sorry. I know it really hurts. I’m definitely proud of you for sticking up for your needs and for not trying to make him change. Just remember it was never about you or his lack of interest. Apparently that bike hits his prostate just right! Let bike boy love his bike, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:13 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Oof. No I don’t have a recommendation but I do have to say that quote unfortunately rings true for a lot of relationships. I think it’s something to keep in mind because I feel like many men feel that’s the way it should go. I wonder how we could avoid finding men like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I know right? Sounds crazy enough to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It’s soooo hard not to react sometimes. At least you’ll know where he stands and how to proceed next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Don’t matter as long as they get their dick wet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaOoh how do you make your pickles? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 10 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaAww thank you 😍🥰😊 haha what can I say? I’m a pretty simple gal at times. And pickles are life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:33 AM |
| 6 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaI normally get the matcha kind (still Dr. Teals brand) but got this today. Smelled nice. I’ve got corona and was aching and now feel nice and relaxed, so I would recommend it. I work outside and sometimes these salts are all that help after a hard days work. (Of course I’m quarantined at the moment!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaI’m so gonna try the cleopatra bath. Not even gonna lie. And Sade- I’ll have to give a listen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 4 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaWhat?! I need a bath tray and pillow stat. Thanks for the advice. And snacks are so necessary for a good bath lol. Charcuterie boards would be the bougiest way to snack in the tub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 7 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaYes it makes it all nice and extra fizzy 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 6 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaHahahahaha! Omg I haven’t watched that one but have seen on here how bad the scrotes from screenshots here. It seems like a train wreck show. I’ve been watching “Married at First Sight” too. A reality show where contestants get married the day they meet. Psychologists pick their “perfect match” and the people only meet at the wedding. Highly recommend for entertainment as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 7 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaMe too!! I couldn’t find the spicy jalapeño kind- those are my fave. Pickles are totally a food group | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Ladies!! I love you and can’t thank you enough for all you do. My life is transformed after finally breaking it off with my negative value ex. I’ve made friends, spent time with family, am in the middle of closing on a house for myself, and have decent weed (lol my phone typed decent weed, it was supposed to say decentered men from my life. Too funny not to keep though.) Yeah I’m still pissed about my ex and the wasted time and how he’s already dating again. None of it is a surprise though and I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 7 | What else does a girl even need? Not pictured is my laptop where I’m watching “What is Love?”- the cutest K DramaSeriously love this show! How do you ladies take a bath or shower? What’s your favorite tips for a bath fit for a queen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you!! I loved being called queen, NGL. Makes me feel supported :) Speaking of being infected, I just weighed myself and realized I lost 5 pounds this week. That’s how stressed I am and can’t eat. He is literally making me waste away. My dad suggested that I buy a condo and is helping me look for places. All I need to do is rip the band-aid off. ❤️ thank you again fellow queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Yikes is all I have to say to that 😵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you so much!! I am still getting clarity to be honest. I’m taking yet another day off to get it together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you for breaking it down like this. I think you’re right that I’m trying too hard to check in the boxes of codependency/narcissism. They are confusing me and aren’t helping right now. Point number 2: no I haven’t considered that. I’ve considered that I’m selfish and might not be doing enough to help. But that makes sense. I’m used to doing most things by myself and have been doing my work by myself (we used to agree that we would help each other run our businesses. Of course I got helped o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I’m taking it one day at a time! You’re right FDS and therapy is a dynamic duo. Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Damn that’s some tough love there, sis. ♥️ I really need to focus on my wellbeing. You’re right. I haven’t even been able to take care of my physical needs for a few months now. It sucks hearing that I might not find someone healthier. Why did we get sold this idea that “the true love of our life is out there”? I wish I never romanticized romance and fell for the fairy tale narrative. Stupid stupid stupid. But you’re right. I can’t expect anything of anyone else if I can’t even take care of me. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you u/lowfattitties ♥️ Haha I’ve seen your user here before and it’s great. Your comment has been saved and I’ve been following your advice. I’m away from him and making sure to go to therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hi I just wanted to check in and say your comment “separating YOU from the potential” has been immensely helpful. I actually pulled up your comment in therapy, and my therapist thought what you said was great. I’ve been thinking about your words while taking time away from the bf. So thank you very much ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hi friend, I just wanted to check in and say I followed your advice. My therapist agreed with everyone here that I needed to get away. I got away for the weekend, and will stay away again tonight. I just didn’t want you to think your words were wasted! I was just too upset to get back on and talk. Your comment has been read and re-read the last several days. Thank you ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020That’s cool you have a notebook! I’ll buy one too. I’ve saved hundreds of screenshots from FDS and the FDS suggested readings. It might be good to print them out and paste them. I’ll start doing that with my findings! Thanks for saying that about the comparison. It really means a lot. I guess I get confused because my bf says that he’s still helping me when I’m helping him (I.e. he pays me). He says he would “be paying somebody else,” but then later says that he’s doing me a huge favor. But anyw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Wow maybe you’re right. I thought maybe I’m too selfish to see things correctly initially. But I’d rather you be right! I try to see it from his perspective. Sometimes I’m stubborn and don’t want to try to, but I try. “He was so good at times, I couldn’t just walk away immediately.” Yep. I feel this all the time. 95% of the time it’s cuddles and kisses, the other 5% is what I bitch about on here lol. Wow on the cooking. It sounds like you were doing everything you possibly could and it just coul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020On a real note though, can narcissists ever find out they are one? Sorry to hear about mom ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Yes you are right, I believe we both trigger one another. We both of course have problems to work out too. Thank you for your second paragraph especially. That’s always my problem is how he speaks to me. But I can understand his frustration and that he might lose his temper sometimes. But I am glad to see you think it’s never okay to talk nasty. Yes I think you’re right again that he won’t get that my anxiety is extreme and not the average existential crisis anxiety we all experience. I accident… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you for this! Omg. I’m so on edge right now and am just so so so so utterly confused. I can’t think straight anymore and feel sick. It means the world to me that you responded and are reading my posts. I will definitely look into those books 100%. Thank you so much. If you are comfortable, I’d be interested in hearing more about the dynamic with your bf. How did you know that you didn’t need to change or just couldn’t? How did you finally realize he was gaslighting you and it wasn’t you? D… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Please help me. I know I always come on here and probably annoy you all, but I don’t know where else to go. I really think I’m losing my mind and it’s getting to the point where I can’t really function. I can’t get into therapy until Thursday, and I don’t want to bother friends with the same old shit. I’ve been reading FDS for a while, finished “Why Does He Do That?”, and have been reading up on codependency. I also took the advice from my therapist to get away from my bf this weekend. I spent t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I’ve been reading it and following FDS for a few months. Guess I’m just crazy and in over my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I’ve read most of it actually! It’s been very helpful at me evaluating his behaviors and I’ve shut him down a few times by pointing out his BS. I just recognize my own faults and wanted to see if it really would be true that things would get better if I fixed them. Well it turned out as I expected, but way faster than I expected lol. Thank you for the quote! Man that’s good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Eh it was an honest accident in this case, but I get what you mean about that type of thinking. Def something FDS touches on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:05 PM |
| -2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020He accidentally picked the wrong laundry basket. Totally on accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Why is that the case? Sorry if I’m being dense. I have a place I can go to if I want to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Sometimes I think it’s because of him, but know part of it is my own emotional issues. I don’t want to be alone and feel that he’s my “one chance” at having a future with. I just feel I won’t have this chance again. I truly love him too. It’s just to be honest I feel so mindfucked. I sometimes thinks the problems are my fault and see my own faults, but others I feel he’s at fault too. I basically am so confused about this that I don’t know what is right or wrong. I’m just befuddled, beyond makin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hi thank you for the suggestion! I’ve looked into codependency before and think you’re spot on with me looking further into this. I’ll start reading this in addition to “Why Does He Do That?”. I get what you’re saying about playing wifey, but he sees it as me contributing to where I live. It’s a hard line and I’m confused on where to stand. How do I know it’s appropriate contribution vs playing wifey? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Y’all help me!! I’m for real losing it. I seriously think I’m in a bad spot that isn’t good for me mentally but I can’t handle it myself. I’ve posted here about my bf multiple times and still haven’t broken it off. It’s just impossible. I love him and can’t bear being without him. But I’m worried he might be bad for me, but “what if I’m wrong and IM the crazy one?!” We’ve agreed for me to start paying rent and he will start cleaning again instead of me just cleaning it all and him paying bills. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:47 AM |
| 13 | Dumbfounded, stupidfied, bewildered, in “Date was so bad my dad had to pick me up”I have googled narcissism quite a bit thinking he might be one. It’s good to hear someone else- a complete stranger- Say this. You’re right. I just have to do it safely. Thank you for letting me vent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 12:43 PM |
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