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ADVICEihopemewingworks/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 06:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONihopemewingworks/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 10:38 PM
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DISCUSSIONihopemewingworks/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 09:40 PM
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I think most men might want to I just think the way that the world is set up its very very hard. Most men don't make so much money that you can have the lifestyle that a normal middle class couple have with just his income. I think yes if you are willing to live with some less things it's possible but i imagine some men want to have a certain kifestyle as well, with trips, and a nice yard etc. I think the world just isn't set up in a way where it's that realistic anymore. You'd have to find a ma…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 03:19 PM
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Yeah 2 months is what I've heard a lot. Wow 2 months for fillers as well that's fast
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 11:06 AM
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Yeah I've been seeing that I think that is a good option, I've heard that it dosent last very long though 🥲. Thats probably why I find it so aging becaude of that overhang
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/22 09:53 PM
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That makes a lot of sense, that it even if dissolved it aged it. I always thought that would be the case for cheeks, especially if you put a lot because it stretches the skin. Hopefully the over filled trend is going to die, since as you say as well on most people it just looks aging and silly. I think lots of young women are going to regret getting filler especially if they did it for a long time where they're skin probably have even less likely of a chance of bouncing back
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/22 11:18 AM
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I've heard that botox dosent last more than just 2 months or so if you use it as a lip flip kind of thing 😶
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/22 11:16 AM
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Oh sorry I'm such a rambler and writing isn't my strongest suit haha. No Madison beer dosent, I meant that I've seen nasolabial folds In lots of younger girls early 20s who have lip filler. But Madison beer dosent, just to say that defiently not all have it. If that makes sense 😅
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 09:51 PM
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This is so helpful! So you say it happens naturally with age which I think I've heard before, but you're saying getting lip filler makes this process faster? Honestly in young people it's probably the 2, that they also do their cheeks. Yeah I haven't heard of it either just observed that its quite common. This was such a helpful comment 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 09:48 PM
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Yeah I defiently know that you can make it look natural, but even the examples yoy gave me, the first one with Keira I'm not sure sheve had something done it's just smiling vs not smiling. The second I find it detectable, third does look amazing from the side I'd be curious about the front. But I always have loved drharrisclinic he does amazing natural lips and never seen anyone else being able to replicate it, thag third Pic you sent is amazing would not be able to from thay angle. But anyways,…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 11:46 PM
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Yeah I really don't understand the eyelash extension trend either, I've seen it look good on some but usually it dosent it looks just so fake and it just takes away from the eyes I find. Yeah defiently there are some that walk around and you wouldn't know. But gosh lips and cheeks I find is usually very detectable even when people think it looks natural and it really dosent. For most. Drharrisclinic does it natural but haven't seen others do it as well as him. Yes! Thats exactly it, it's absolut…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 11:40 PM
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Yeah maybe it's the migration, that makes the face sag or something. Yeah there are probably lots of people going around who have things done that you wouldn't know about. But the ones that yiu can see even if it's just a little tend to look older I find. Yeah I guess thay could be true, I just find the folds are way more then what is natural, I think the actually lines are quite common in mid 20s but not literal folds, it's not uncommon for 40 year Olds not to have actual folds. Madison beer is…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 11:32 PM
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I would say that hair is the most important when if comes to not looking sloppy. If you just shower regularly when you wake up you can just take your hair out of the bun and even if it's not super polished if its long it will look nice. Clothes I'd go for oversize shirt/bfs shirt that always looks nice can be paired with warm socks, night gown, shirt with shorts, shirt with legging type of pants, but even more flared pj pants will look nice if it's paired with a form fitting top so any kind of t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 11:49 PM
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Also to add to this, you can have a lot of interests without engaging with them often. Me and my bf often theorize about different things and analyze the world around us or what's happening in politics and I our community etc. Maybe another easy way to incorporate "hobbies" or things to talk about is when you watch Netflix watch a documentary, that can open up to intresting topics. I have a lot of interests that isn't quite related to doing things more knowledge based but also could be turned in…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 02:09 PM
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With the frizz, I'd recommend to using hair products that can help with that. Some people even with a great diet just naturally have tendencies to frizz. But you can defiently "fix" it with hair products
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 05:34 PM
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From the replies and responses that you've given it sounds to me that you want to be validated for wanting to date him rather than taking in what people are saying. Everyone who has given responses has said it's a bad idea, why it for sure it. Your age difference isn't even bad, there are people who have a 20 year age difference and it works out. It's mainly his ex because you can for sure help raise a kid but I'd personally still not do that just because there are other men with these qualities…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 11:45 PM
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I personally feel like how can a person be upset about what he did if she's using him purely for money. If she expects him to be good she also has to be good..
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 07:20 PM
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Idk if I a man can't handle his girl saying that he can't put that much clothes in because the machine might break than his ego must be very fragile. It's not disrespectful to tell someone that they have to do it in a certain way to prevent something from actuallt breaking. I bet if you ask any guy they'd rather have their girl telling them that they can't put too much clothes in to prevent them from spending hundreds of dollars to fix something that could've been prevented. As long as it's said…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 11:37 PM
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Ohhhhh, hahah oops. That makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/21 12:43 AM
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I meant with your current one 🙈
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 09:30 PM
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Relationships can work even if they start long distance, I met my bf that was but I'd have a conversation with him and make plans to meet or else it's a waste of time. I also think it's hard since you and him are very different in your beliefs. It can work not being the exact same politically. Is he okay with you being right wing and having those views? It also becomes very important when having kids, I also would talk about your family history when it comes to breast cancer, it's not fair not t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 09:25 PM
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Did you tell them the strategy that you were doing when you were rp or when meeting your bf?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 02:49 PM
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Oh really? So they are trying to date HVM but they are feminists? Is it about strategy and that kind of stuff as well?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 04:09 AM
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And did you know them before you met your bf then? That makes a lot of sense though, it won't feel like an attack or even that much like advice if you say it like that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 04:08 AM
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That's amazing! How did you plant those seeds? 😊
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 01:34 AM
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Whats the subreddit called? 😳
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 01:30 AM
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My bfs brother is in the medical industry or whatever its called (sorry my first language isn't English) and he have seen women before and after pregnancy and what he saw was what made a girl bounce back was how fit she was, so not fat but also the more fit she actually was as well that mattered too but mainly being fat or not. They bounce right back, I think he said that there was a woman who was in her 30s but very fit and she bounce right back both body and her vagina. The body as in how slim…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/21 05:22 PM
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I think people maybe define best friends differently, because I was going to comment but I just wanted to watch the video to know what they even said and she said that your husband is more than your best friend he is family and I was going to comment that I'm the closest with my bf, and that's how I see it. I'm close to him the way I am with my family. He dosent have the same interests as me, or we have a lot of common but all type of girl things, beauty, gossiping etc is something he dosent car…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 10:17 PM
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I totally agree with this. I also think if someone dosent have the motivation to eat healthy or to move at all really that's a bad sign. You can't change someone's beliefs or values when it comes to how important health is. I think even if you convinced him, it won't stick and he probbaly will go back to his ways in the future. You could try cooking healthy meals for him and maybe he will start loving healthy food, some people think healthy foods is just salad, when it's truly not. Also maybe as…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/21 05:39 PM
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Yes I roll them up to my scalp, some of them I don't though because they are quite big and I find it hard to secure them at the scalp but I try. Yes it looks kind of like a blowout, you know it's straight but a bit of a curve, less good since I'm not using any heat and just letting it air dry but still kind of nice,just a bit less volume because of the non heat. I use 2,5inch hair rollers so with smaller you might get more than just a curve at the end maybe more of a curl
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/21 02:54 AM
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At the moment I'm using hair rollers on damp hair and then leaving it for 3h or so, and it makes it straight but then has a bit of curve on the end. You'll get way better volume and a better wave if you use it with heat but I don't have a blow dryer at the moment. Saving up for the dyson air wrap 😍 also just sleeping with my hair in a bun creates a bit of a nice wave, my hair is very long and naturally straight ish (a bit of a wave) so I find that I don't need to style it that much for it to loo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 08:24 PM
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Fair enough
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 12:32 AM
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Fair enough, writing isn't my strong suit I found that this article very much explains it well. https://www.precisionnutrition.com/intermittent-fasting-women
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 09:11 PM
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And also just moving less, but I agree with you it's quite simple actually
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 07:25 PM
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Sadly Intermitting fasting is horrible for women who are in their reproductive years, no doubt that it works its essentially calorie restricting since you can eat thay much in an 8h window and then I have also read that it does i crease fat burning purely just because you are fasting. But all the research has been done on men and women during menopause, their has been some small studies done on women in their reproductive years and it had the opposite effect, it's very bad for women's health. I'…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 07:24 PM
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I think as other girls have said you can give advice if they ask for it, if you give advice whne they aren't asking for it then it might just make them mad and they might not ask you for advice in the future. Also be honest if someone asks how you got your man, and maybe leave bread crumbs if they aren't asking, saying things like he got so happy when I made this meal for him and just that makes me want to do it again, things like that. I'm curious what would you want to say if you had every gen…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 07:04 PM
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Ohh I must've missed that
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 06:39 PM
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Thats so cool, I'm curious how come you didn't want to go on a second date?
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 05:48 AM
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That's so weird that you don't know where the blood came from, maybe you guys both should talk to a doctor. I thought you meant that it was bloody becaude of your period 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 05:43 AM
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Yes I hope so too! I think it will 😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:11 AM
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I think that it's okay for people here to say this might be abusive you really should go and see a professional. And even if it's not abusive and just badly behavior you can make them see that. People who are in a abusive relationship dosent always know it, I don't think anyone should tell them how to deal with it since it can be dangerous. But telling someone this sounds serious and maybe abusive you should talk to a professional I think can maybe even save someone's life
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 03:52 AM
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I agree with this. I hope there can be more tips on certain topics rather then always trying to help people with personal issues, I think that's fine too I just think majority of it should be subjects on intresting things. I remember when I first became a member that's what it was mainly about, how to be more feminine, how to be a stay at home mum, things to improve on etc etc. I read RPW less now because it's often just advice giving yo people's personal issues and the issues I often feel is so…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 09:35 PM
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I think it's very easy to fall into to this trap of thinking men want women who are very sexually open, since it seems like that. They always go for girls who dress more sexual, and they don't seem to care if a girl sleep around too much. But this is most likely because men in your age range are mainly wanting to sleep around, this is true for men in all ages. Women who are sexually open are easy. And if men are weirded out by you being a virgin it's most likely because they know you aren't easy…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 06:05 AM
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Use a Cooper iud, they don't have any hormones. They actually have the strongest protection, more so than any other birth control. And they last 5 years as well. I love mine. Your period can get a bit heavier the first few months but that settles, in 6-12 months. And heavier I mean maybe you have one extra day of period. Or usually maybe you have 3 heavy days and 3 light days, and you might just have 4 heavy days instead. No mor ecramps or anything. To me it's so worth it. I used to track my ovu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 05:06 PM
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Yes it's never good to actually hate yourself for being overweight, even less so because you can actually change it. I can understand how people can hate themselves for looking a certain way (like a certain feature), I don't think people should do that either but it makes more logical sense to me because you can't change it. I can understand how you hate being in this state of not being your best, but you aren't defined by that, unless you don't change it. I think people can pretend or even feel…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 12:52 AM
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I agree with you here, I think that it's important not to hate yourself no matter what size. But being unhealthy and fat is the biggest form of self hate in my opinion. I also think it's fine to love yourself if you're fat or if you are lazy or if you are unhygentic etc but as long as people don't delude themselves into thinking that it's attractive or be angry why someone prefer someone who is fit or someone who shower regularly etc. As long as we continue to be our best, and I mean to truly be…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 08:48 PM
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Thank you! ❤️. Yes, it's so hard and it's almost a hit unfair (I feel so bad for the young girls nowdays, it must be a horrible for them). But I'd say one of the things that I try to do, is to try to make myself look as similar as possible to what I look like with makeup. So really work on skincare and general health to have beautiful skin. Tinting eyebrows and eyelashes (maybe even lash lift), use colored lip balms, self tan (only helpful if you're cacuausian maybe). Make your hair easy to styl…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/21 01:20 AM
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I had skin issues for very long so I almost missed that teenage makeup phase and went makeup free very long. I also just recently have started doing it (but now it's covid so not really). But I actually feel like I'm just bad looking with and without makeup, I look very similar in my opinion. I get way more of a difference with clothes and hair. I do think it's a horrible environment to live in for girls, Photoshop is so common, filters as you say but it's something that we women have chosen to …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 08:49 AM
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I don't think this is stupid at all, for me personally this is not something that is okay for me, I wouldnt say it's cheating but I find that very bad. Even following girls who are hot are a no no for me but what's the point of liking them I find it very strange when people do that in relationships. I find it incredibly disrespectful. It's perfectly normal to be insecure about it, especially if it's girls who don't really look like you. I'd have a discussion with him, I'd tell him how it makes y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 06:23 AM
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I think talking to his parents is really bad advice, its going behind his back. It shows that you don't trust him. I can see a person breaking up with someone over something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 07:36 PM
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I'd say seeing each other once a week can be asked for, I think more than that probably not. I think even with dating once a week is good. I know someone who is in a relationship and his gf wants to see him every time he is free which is twice a week since he works, and he gets no alone time at all and I think he dosent enjoy spending time with her that much anymore because he never gets any time for himself so I think expecting more than one week might be a bit selfish. Now I think a lot of peo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 09:10 PM
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So you guys have said we are bf and gf or before that?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 08:11 PM
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I'm sorry I'm confused? Are you saying yes to she's using him for money? I don't even know what controlling your emotions mean, or I know what it literally means but like anger emotions haha don't get it
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 08:50 PM
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Yes it's annoying, I'm curious foundation might have broken you out because a lot of makeup has crap in it like fragrence or other irritents. I'd try the ordinary it's supposed to be very good and I think it's just like skincare but with added color to it just to see if you can tolerate it for the times you might want to wear it. But spot concealing is only what a lot of girls just need, most people don't have that bad of skin
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 08:49 PM
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Yeah I read it but didn't quite understand (English isn't my first language) does it mean using her femininity to get money from him? Also controlling my emotions don't understand how that's bad but maybe that's not the bad part
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 08:47 PM
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I'd say 4 ish months is okay, as long as they still are showing interest and that they like you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 05:55 PM
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I'm confused what was the personal gain? I genuinely don't know, not trying to be bitchy or anything 🙈
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 05:51 PM
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I think if it's just you, maybe not foundation. Wearing no makeup is better for your skin, I think there are some foundations that aren't bad for your skin like the ordinaries. I think mascara, lips, eyebrows won't do your skin bad. It depends on if it makes you feel much better. I'm personally working towards a stage where my skin is so clear that I wouldn't wear foundation at home, just because it's better for the skin as well as cheaper. Now if you have a bf it's a bit differently, then I'd d…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 05:49 PM
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I agree with that, I don't think you should completely turn away a guy for this, and that is something that I recommended to her in another comment. Saying yes but then seeing how assertive he is (obviously that's not something you knew that I advised her though). But I think natural responses aren't always bad, and therfore if she continues to get a bad natural response to this guy I'd personally pass. I'd just be aware of it, but ofc we can't pass on a guy just from that, even if it is somethi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 05:37 AM
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I think the less you a man the more I'd expect him to be assertive. I don't necessarily think it's bad I just don't think it's amazing. I don't think it's entitlement to expect men to be assertive, I think most naturally masculine men wouldn't ask a woman what she'd want to do, they might ask her if she wants to go on a date or something but the actual date I don't think I guy should ask a girl, it seems a bit insecure or unsure. I don't think it has to do with tingles, even if it might give a g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 02:39 AM
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Haha what? How is it rude if he asked her when she is free and then says let's grab a coffee around 7. That's not rude, if she told him when she's free it's obvious that she wants to go on a date
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/21 10:50 PM
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I personally would be put of on that, unless he asked would you prefer this or this I'd say that's okay but I think a strong guy would just choose something or at least when you first meet. I think in a relationship it's more normal for it to be more of a conversation. Also I know for example some men are less picky then women, so I'm pickier than my bf and usually he just says do you want to go and get this but sometimes he also just say do you want to order takeout and then say what would you …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/21 10:49 PM
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I think consideration is a good thing as a leader, but by asking its not just consideration you are putting it on the girl to come up with things and choosing which makes her the leader. A better way to do it would be if he had several things and then say which ones of these do you prefer. I personally would just prefer a man to choose and as long as he is open if I say oh actually I'm gluten intolerant I can't have pizza can we do sushi instead. Or anything. With my bf he is always open to me g…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/21 10:44 PM
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I 100% agree with everything you say chatterbox. Even if if he didn't have maybe abusive tendencies or anger issues it's never a good idea to push a video or anything on someone who dosent want the help. They need to be adult enough to help themselves, maybe with the help of the parthner if they ask for it. It's just not going to end well if you try to force something on someone when they clearly aren't aware themselves that they really need it. If she went to a therapist this would be the advic…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 11:49 PM
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I don't doubt that this might work but what is he a kid? Oh let's put on a video for him, come on. If he isn't trying to deal with this himself, watching these type of videos himself or trying to go to therapy it's not really going to work. Or I mean it might work but do you want thay dynamic? Do you want to take care of him, women get cared for, men are supposed to lead. And even this is a bit kiddish even for a woman. I'm just confused why you'd want to be with a man who can't even get his act…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 11:36 PM
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Common law in Canada is like marriage she is legally protected which is like being legally committed. It's basically the same in Canada.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 12:24 AM
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So I think the outfit stuff is 100% valid if you are just starting out but it shouldnt stay that way so it will feel less annoying after a while. Also I think having a lot of dresses helps because dresses is so easy you just put it on and have some nice shoes and that's the outfit. I think even for colder weather just wearing form fitting jeans and a shirt looks nice if you are fit. Also the color thing you said, I think buy mostly black and white and then add color when you feel like you know w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 08:53 PM
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The thing that Is sticking out to me is that I takes you hours to choose an outfit, it really shouldn't take that long. A black bodycon dress is very liked by men anything that form fitting really. Even if you want more complex outfits I think you must be over thinking it, shouldn't take hours. Minimal makeup goes fast, nails can be annoying but if you do gel nails (you can buy a kit on Amazon) it should last you at least one week and just do it in front of the TV or something, so it won't feel …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/21 11:23 PM
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Yes! I can for sure relate, but it will really make it easier for you
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 01:39 AM
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First of all your smv won't decline until 25 and even 25 it won't really but that's when women start aging, if you take care of yourself you could probbalt extended that a bit but more importsnt to find a masculine man early because they might feel like they deserve it, they want kids so starting to get to know someone at 30 dosent make sense. But don't stress. Five years is a looong time. B First of all shyness I think is greatly appreciated it's seen as very feminine. I know my bf found it ver…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 06:51 PM
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I actuallt think this is a myth and there is studies on this. Women have a higher sex drive then men they just have it for alpha men, and mens sexual drive is for much more women, even if she isn't a 9. So if your man is alpha it shouldn't be a problem. And even men even if they have high sex drives its not like it would be several times a day, probably twice a day max (maybe more in the beginning but it will drop off) but I think 5-7 times a week is more likely if it's with the same woman.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 06:42 PM
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Exactly!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 12:04 AM
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I think this is mostly true. I think there are a lot of men when they are just starting out who are focusing so much on making it in their career that they truly don't have time for a relationship. Because they also want to spend time with themselves and their friends, and it's not always you because he might choose to not even get to know you because he knows it's just too stressful in his life to have a gf. I also know that I had a similar situation to you where my bf was incredibly busy, and …
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/21 08:41 PM
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I think saying that jealousy is a deal breaker isn't a red flag necessarily he might just want a girl who is confident enough not to get threatened by pretty women. But if a guy does something idk flirts being "jealous" and saying thats not okay should be fine. Also the fact that he has 50% of his friends being female and then saying jealousy is a deal breaker is a red flag, just jealousy I would say isn't. But him saying that and having that many female friends seems a bit fishy. Maybe he means…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/21 03:51 AM
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The good thing about being successful as a woman is that you can spend a lot of money on the thing that men care about the most. Apparence. You can get a bunch of devices to keep you looking young like microcurrent, red-light therapy. Have facials regularly. Have your hair and skincare on point. Buy beautiful clothes and shoes. Now men don't care about success really, but it can be a benefit for them because they might now have to spend as much money on you, it's for better to be successful then…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 11:53 PM
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It all come down to what you value, I value extroversion or men who are very comfortable around other because I find them weak otherwise. But just like other people have said maybe no neither, if you don't know if you can't choose then maybe none of them are right. It's great to be somewhat logical and make sure you aren't completely driven by emotion but making a decision like marriage and life partner purely on logical also isn't good. I'd say if there isn't one you don't like more then the ot…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/21 10:49 PM
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Yes this is something I reacted to as well. Doing these kind of shoots unless it's your bf who takes the shots and you guys look at them together or some then then maybe. But I truly think no high value man will see that as a plus in a relationship kind of way. Men will always like women showing themselves of sexually and it for sure will get you attention but it dosent make a man want to date you and especially not marry.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/21 07:52 PM
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Yeah sadly it is very common in men, I think it's almost a bit natural instinct in most men, since the beginning of time it's known that men put women on a pedestal. Just like most people are followers most men have that tendency now its possible to find a man who isnt a follower and I think it's much more likely that he dosent act that way. Not saying that this guy's girl is this way, she knows him more than me so maybe it didn't quite come out the way I think it did. I also think some women ca…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 08:45 PM
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I think what you are describing is quite normal, the more a man cares the more soft he might be with you or not that he will be soft but he will treat you more softly and express emotions more maybe. But too much is defiently bad I'd say, the begging part I think is the worst, to me a truly masculine man should never beg, he might demand and tell you to stay or maybe say ill miss you, or something like that, but begging I personally find to be a bad sign. Was he masculine as a front and then bec…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/20 09:34 PM
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I think because people never really told her she was pretty or were too scared to talk to her irl she never knew herself she was pretty. If she had social media I think people would compliment and gush about her but in person people rarley do, it's really sad. My bf had a female friend who was pretty and she never get hit on bevause guys are too scared to. And girls might say you're pretty, but to me it's not as genuine from a girl becaude girls call ugly girls pretty sometimes so it's not very …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/20 09:13 PM
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I for sure think it could be could be a need for some men that to be happy they need to be with multiple women, it's in men nature to want variety but that dosent mean that you have to accept that. It can be incredibly hurtful, imagine if he wants new women to have threesomes with every week every month how will that make you feel? Especially when you get older and he maybe wants to do it with younger women. I also think that it might be a need for him but it sounds like a way for him to eat his…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 09:10 PM
3

I'm really interested in this myself and don't reallt have an answer, I'm just like you quit and reserved until you get to know me. I notice a huge difference when people know me they really like me but if you don't show who you are it's really hard for people to have an opinion. My bf always told me when I felt bad about how I'm boring or no one likes me is that no om hates you but it's hard for people to form an opinion and love someone if they know nothing about you, if you don't give away an…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 08:21 PM
1

I'm sorry that you're experienced this, I hope you cna get therapy. I wouldn't say I have had trauma but I do think that it is things that have happend in my childhood.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 05:04 AM
1

No actually central Europe
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 10:12 PM
1

I know how you feel, I am with a foreigner but for a different reason the men in my country arent masculine anymore. I think it's more normal nowdays to be with men that aren't your own and men do it too. Now I don't know what will happen to you since in your culture maybe men really speak out about it, in my country that dosent happen maybe because it's very normal. But I would just not care or maybe move to another country or something. I'm curious what country are you from?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:58 PM
1

I'm so sorry that has happened to you, I can see why it would have that affect. I truly hope you get better and is able to fix or lessen your panic attacks ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 10:46 PM
1

Yes it for sure could be. Eastern European women are even more so than French I think. Where I'm from I don't think it's as bad as America, never seen anyone in pajamas for example. And some girls wear heels in the summer, but I think it's related to that for sure but also just insecurity and being ashamed of being a woman almost.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 03:26 AM
1

I'm not sure I feel like there are predators around
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 02:33 AM
1

That's great, I hope I can also get to that point 😍
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 04:49 AM
2

I think people in general but especially girls spend and waste so much time worrying what other people think. Its so sad. At what age would you say that you stopped caring?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 03:16 AM
2

That must feel horrible. I know there are girls online that has been early bloomers that I would think is 18 and I imagine it must feel very strange and awkward having men who are much older stare and hit on you at that age. I'm glad you are doing better now. Yes it seems like in life in general it's all about baby steps ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 03:09 AM
1

Yeah I can see that, I feel lingerie or at least it's for your man it feels so much like a show almost and that is scary.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 03:06 AM
1

Ohh that makes sense. I guess its easier as a college student to dress kind of chill, or I feel like that's common at least. You mean you feel like you need to lose weight? Yeah I think it's easier when you get older to be honest, I guess co workers can gossip i just think younger women do it more often (older women still do that, it's crazy) I think it's often like that, they might know subconsciously that you look better but because of their views (I'm assuming) they don't want to be an object…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 11:56 PM
2

You must live in a small town? That's crazy so few people wearing dresses. It does seem like women dress more more and masculine. Unless a person looks crazy commenting on someone wearing a dress is insecurity, but I hate rude comments. It's such a woman behavior talking crap behind a girl behind her back. So annoying Hahah that's true, she might even say that because she knows deep down that you're way more appealing than her especially if she has blue hair.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 10:46 PM
1

Like lingerie Infront of your man?
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 10:43 PM
2

Yeah you're right, that will take some time for me but I have to work on it. Haha I think some practically is good, like not being cold or too hot. I also think no one would really wear a silk scarf to be warm, they don't seem very warm so the comment is funny.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 10:42 PM
2

Aww love that movie, miss honey is so sweet 😍😍 I love that, it's such nice inspiration. When you start to analyze why they look so good. You should, maybe you two will become friends ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 10:39 PM
1

Then I think it's fine, if someone really enjoys it 100% do it. I'm sorry I didn't mean it in a mean way, I just got triggered by the thought of a girl feeling like she should check up on them that often.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:32 PM
2

Yes I think I'm not great with it, I think I'm okay but not the best, I for sure am bad with it if it's a group and one person says it and everyone looks and waits for what to say. What do you usually reply with? I'll try to do that, I think the inner dialoge for sure matters a lot. I'll have to read up on that and start implementing it ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:28 PM
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True, Its so easy to forget this. I just psyche myself out, if I get dressed up and I hear someone laugh I think they are laughing at me. This happend yesterday so I wore nicer sunglasses and three people were talking and this one girl was like staring at me (she also had sunglasses so she probablt didn't actually just looked that way) but it looked like she was and she was laughing and I felt it was because of my sunglasses. I really should do it 😍😍
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:24 PM
1

True, I actually get very jealous when there are other women that look good, insecurity ofc but i do admire then and feel envy at the same time. I thankfully don't look frumpy, I mean I guess on walks but I don't care if I wear yoga pants on a walk since I see it as excersise I would not want to wear jeans. But I agree my youth shouldn't be wasted.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:22 PM
3

Such good points. It's all about their insecurity but also yours. It's intresting what you said about as feminine women we are naturally submissive, even to people that we shouldn't. I find myself doing this a lot, I actually hate being submissive to other women I don't feel very feminine myself actually, I find that women are supposed to be equal there. But if you're naturally feminine you tend to be submissive to everyone who is dominate. And you're right there insecurity shouldn't prevent you…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:19 PM
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I absolutely love this response. These comments are the exact reasons why I feel so shy about it, the fear of all those comments and I truly think it's what you say it's their insecurity. Even if they don't realize it, every girl I think admire a girl who looks put together and feminine. But even if I know it's their insecurity I just get so shy about the comments. In curious what do you work with? I wonder what type of work just because of one of the comments one of the girls said. I am quite c…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:13 PM
2

I think being under dressed is one of the saddest things in our society, I do it myself at times but that people feel comfortable to go in their pajamas to the grocery store is just sad. Being overdressed is for sure better then underdressed and I truly do think people give you more respect. And tend to like you more. Would you say that you have to be confident to be overdressed, do you have to be very talkative and extroverted or do you think even an introverted person could pull it off? Do you…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:00 PM
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Thank you, I'm so glad you grew out of it. My sister is actually the opposite she never cared what people thought of her, she dressed very out there not ugly but jusr different and also maybe more sexy. Girls ofc got jealous of this probablt also because she was always friends with guys as well (but also girls) so she got "bullied" on the internet a bit and she didn't get unpopular in real life but her confidence just dropped and got very anxious, the last year she is back to how she was and the…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 05:14 PM
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Yea I completely agree with you. Just making the food is nice enough, I can see why women want to do it, makes them feel feminine and their husband's might feel proud (I'd probably do it too) but the other stuff unnecessary. A boys night is a time when you can have "me" time so having to host and not being apart of it is just annoying, I think it's a perfect time to just relax, take a bath, read a book etc. And if you have dessert that you can't leave out then how hard is it to just walk to the …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 05:36 AM
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In my opinion why can't the husband just do this. If all the foods are made why can't just the husband ask are you guys full or do you guys want something else. This makes more sense to me if you have kids that have friends over but with adult men why would they need to get checked on I think a husband can do that. For her husbands friends to expect that is very strange I think or at least if it's a guy's night. Cooking and preparing things for them to eat is good enough. Some people love hostin…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 04:12 AM
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Yeah I agree with this, it's nice to have food and drinks available that they can eat but why would you host to something your not really invited to. Your husband knows where things are he can juat bring it to them or tell them where to get it. Your not a servant. Hosting something your not even a part of makes no sense, that's a bit disrespectful in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 04:07 AM
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I love this, so romantic. So happy for you 😍😍
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 06:54 PM
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No no I don't mean that I feel that way, I think a lot of men might think that because the majority of women don't have much to offer anymore. But I wouldn't agree with you actually, that Christian girls are better then non Christian girls, there are many Christian girls on that I see aren't very respectful, they aren't always feminine. I used to be a Christian and I actually find that they are turning quite idk mainstream, the women are feminists they don't think it's their duty too cool and cl…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/20 06:50 PM
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Amazing explanation, I think it's easy to understand redpill from your explanation. Also with the Ryan gosling scenario, or crazy stupid love, but Ryan gosling didn't really think that a girl like Emma existed. And I think a lot of red pill men feel like there isn't any girls that are worth committing too (or maybe they just want to sleep around, some men just want that even if there are Emma stones out there) but yeah hope that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/20 11:17 PM
1

It seems like the annoyance wouldn't be there as much if he actually didn't have connection, it almost to me seems like you're frustrated because you don't quite believe him and if he did have service he should've called you ahead. I think you should say something like to me it seems like you're not being quite honest, it seems like you did have connection, and Its fine if you wanted to change our plans even just be honest about it, it's that I was all excited and then you just canceled that ver…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 08:30 PM
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Yes I think that's great, I'm getting married without one too, so the magic still there for me too, which I'm very thankful for, even more so because I can safely be at home with kids. But I more was giving my opinion that I think it makes sense why men want them, that I can see more men wanting them, and that if women want to get married nowdays how they might have to accept that they have to sign a prenup. But if you are able not to then that's great.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 05:33 PM
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I do think many men wont marry with the prenup in the future, I think that's one reason why marriage has gone down (I don't have proof for that though, jusr a theory) that it has gone down because men get screwed. But yes so prenups don't cover child support so men can get screwed there (I wouldn't. think this is bad if it was realistic sometimes they want a man to pay huge amounts for a kid who really don't need that much it's absurd) also this is in BC Canada but apparently anything that is se…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 05:21 PM
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Eh I disagree I think it's smart, what man with a bunch of assets wouldn't consider that? Why would he want to lose everything just because of love, and when divorced the women arent the same anyways. Dosent sound like incel mindset at all, sounds like a man who understand female nature, and who cares about what he has accomplished. Sadly because of the law marriage can't be what many women sees it as, this romantic gesture, or romantic step in a relationship. You can't base your life on she mos…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 04:54 PM
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I actually don't know I haven't looked. People are getting less and less married though and I think it's just going to get down. I think men see it as not worth the risk, and prenups don't always work if they did maybe more men would want to get married. I'd assume prenups are signed more, I can't see my grandma signing I think that would be strange, especially since they were SAHM more as well. I think maybe if someone was very rich they did prenups or contracts. But I think they also didn't ge…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 04:46 PM
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That a good way to put it "it's a nice way to hold one a other accountable for the bond they promise". I do feel like people just don't take marriage seriously anymore or not as seriously, just getting divorced left and right instead of actually trying to work things out, maybe that would make people vet each other better. Also about prenups I've heard even when a man wants one and the woman agree, in court they don't even listen to it, or don't care. Which is good at all, making the prenup not …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 06:55 AM
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I think for men they are constantly screwed over, and women are the ones who are iniating 80% of divorces. I think it's not a lack of their commitment I think it is that they don't quite trust women. And you could say that he should trust her, but no man ever married a girl and thinks he is going to get screwed by her in a divorce but it happens all the time, I think if women want to get married I think women will have to start accepting that a lot will ask for prenup. Now that's sad because it …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 06:23 AM
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Yes I agree if I signed a prenup I could never be a stay at home mum. But I understand why men nowdays want it, the law is really against them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 06:19 AM
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Unless you have all the details it is really hard to pinpoint exactly why. But I'd continue working on your apparence making it as perfect as possible, your personality as well. Being honest with yourself and seeing if you're doing everything you can do personality wise, are you giving as much as the men are doing, in value. Making sure you don't lead but also not being boring and being super submissive to a man who isn't even your bf yet. It's really hard to look at yourself honestly. I think i…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 05:50 PM
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It seems like your apparence isn't an issue, though I think it's good that you're wanting the extra fat it can really make a difference both in the face but also in the body. Especially since a lot of people don't have that good of bodies, most people usually have a little bit of fat so it can really give this wow factor. I do think it is an issue that as you say they are freshly single, they might still have feelings but also they might not want to get into a serious one right away. I'm not qui…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:52 AM
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It's very hard to say what you're doing wrong or what's going wrong because there isn't very much info. Have you been in a long term relationship these part years or has it just never become more then a few dates. If you have been in a long term relationship what ended it? How many dates are you going on? Are you takin care of yourself? Apparence wise, body etc. Are you feminine, what do you offer in a relationship? Are you going on dates with the right type of men etc?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 11:06 PM
1

What are you talking about? Why wouldn't I, if I'm talking about a specefic person?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 04:16 AM
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I feel like you didn't quite read what I actually wrote or maybe I wrote it in a confusing way. But I was purely talking about looks and recommended girls to date when they are young. I was purely yalking about looks. I do agree that the reason why men want to marry and date younger women is because of the baggage that come with maybe marrying an older women (she probably had problems etc) but I also hear men talk about the apparence of women, hitting the wall etc. I was purely talking looks/att…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 11:17 PM
2

I personally want 3-4, it will probably be 2-3. I'd want them quite close together, 1-2 years apart, more for me and my bf sake to be honest, I think having 3-4 year between every kid means that you're in that not sleeping phase for longer almost haha not sure if that makes sense. I think it's nice if siblings are close in age as well, but I'm also worried about if I have them too close I might not fully bounce back and then boom another pregnancy, I want to make sure I've bounced back completel…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 10:52 PM
1

Yeah I find the message part to be a bit sketchy. How you can't remember why he messaged another girl, In my book that's almost cheating. I can believe that he did tinder for validation but that he messaged another another girl is just fishy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 05:39 PM
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I don't think it would be seen as low standard, I think if you insist on it having to be a dinner type of date it can be seen as a bit snobby almost, especially since the guy dosent even know you and he most likely would pay the bill, it might come of as entitled. Now if you don't like it because of the alcohol and all that then coffee date or just a walk or something maybe. Insisting on a dinner date when the guy dosent even know you seems entitled in my opinion, also a lot of girls go on dinne…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 01:48 PM
1

To me I find the self tanning the most annoying for sure, it's time consuming because you have to wait and plan it in to the day in a different way then idk doing nails. Some tips for you though, so skincare when you have a routine I think can become less of a idk burden like it dosent feel like you need to do so many things, but skincare for me is now just how showering is it's not time draining it's just like a part of your day. Nails I think can feel less annoying if you always do it when you…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 06:04 PM
1

It's so hard for them to get the right nutrients, also there is talk about plants not being very Bio available so carrots vitamin a won't be as accessible as beef liver or something like that. Also if you look at vegans they often look 10-20 years older. Look up at YouTube, vegans malnutrition, it's reallt eye opening.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 01:11 AM
2

Yeah and use sunscreen and anti-aging skincare, as well as don't go vegan, nothing ages you as fast as going vegan. I also think aging well is also often about nothing becoming fat, because I feel like the body age slower then the face, it looks younger for longer, maybe not the boobs but everything else.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 12:49 AM
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I think it's more about how men can date women in their prime even if they are older. Their looks (aging at least, being fit will always matter) don't make them less sexually attractive, or maybe the tiniest bit becaude women also like men who look good but what looks good is mostly based on what looks masculine, bone structure and muscles. Mens attractiveness is mostly based on their masculinity, status and money. Now I do think that even though women in their prime can be super attracted to a …
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 08:20 AM
3

I also think getting too fat will also age you because your skin will still sag but the nasolabial folds will be even worse because the fat makes the fold even heavier if that makes sense... Also I do think it's best to maybe be 5-10lbs heavier then what is preferred to have the face not age horrible. But still work your glutes to then make the body look more curvy rather then overweight. Salma Hayek is a great example of a good body, she has a few pounds extra and she looks great she also has a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:21 AM
1

Testesterone causes acne sometimes too though but yes it's probbaly a mix
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 08:39 AM
2

That sounds great, sometimes I think simple basic skincare is way better then a very long one. I think washing your face, moistrizer and SPF is always a must. And then I also think vitamin c and retin a is very good. But men seem to have less skin issues and sometimes I think it'd because they barley do anything they just let their skin be. Not using 10 steps or a bunch of harsh irritated ingredients. And yeah I'd rather look a bit gross on a hike then age as well, or at least on a hike. Sunglas…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 12:49 AM
2

Oh yeah that's probbaly whay it is, very very drying. That's amazing, I got mistaken as 16 once but I'm 23 though. What do you for your skincare?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 05:12 AM
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My tip would be to think about what's most important to you. What do you want or what are you willing to splurge on, for me that's skincare (certain ingredients) and fragrence (because I just love perfumes, don't use it in your skincare though please. So for skincare id focus mostly on the face first that's the most exposed to the sun and it's thinner then your legs so it needs more care. So a good retinol or retin a (depending on your age), antixodiant serums, I'd just use vitamin C, then I'd u…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 01:01 AM
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Witch hazel is very bad for skin, so I'd disagree. I are think it's similar to how fragrence and essential oils are bad for skin. Most dermatologist say that witch hazel is bad so please don't do this. Even if you don't see anything bad now it's just like fragrence, it will slowly make your skin bad and sensitive. To keep your skin clear better to use salysilic acid and retinol/retin a.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 12:38 AM
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I mean it's your choice, you can have high standards but you should also know it might be way harder to find a partner. I don't see anything mean or wrong with it though. And I don't think you should tell a man what you want because I do agree many men will say anything to stay in a relationship, you should look at his actions and his values and if they don't align move on, if it's something you can't get over. Many men want women who are slim, the thing though is a guy just being slim and with …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 12:20 AM
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I actually think most high quality men try to settle down later, they don't need to when they are younger they are playing the field, many men want to have fun between 20-30 and even after 30s sometimes. Older age usually give women something younger men can give, stability, more confidence and just this authority, it also makes it so she stays lore attractive to him for longer, because of the age difference even when a girl isnt in her prime anymore its not as noticeable with an age gap. I've f…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 02:07 PM
1

How is this entitled? Especially since she has weightlifter for 3 years and put in the work. If a person has this as a lifestyle it's hard to be with someone who dosent have the same. We all want to be with people who are attractive. It would take a girl about 6 months to go from a flattish butt to somewhat round, it takes time to build muscle and lose weight. It's normal to lose 1-2kg a month, maybe he is 6kg overweight that's not rare, maybe he is even more. Let people have the standards they …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 02:02 PM
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And also we just get worse by age, it's harder to stay fit so if it's not something he cares about now, then he most likely won't care about it later and he will most likely look worse then he does now. I have actually seen 40-60 year Olds with abs so it's possible. I also think even if you'd talk about it with him and he'd change you'd have to make sure how true it is to him, because of he is just doing it for you it won't last, it's important that it's something he is passionate about that's h…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:58 PM
1

I think wearing nipple cover would also make me feel more confident with not wearing a bra. But I'll try, thank you ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/20 09:40 PM
1

Did you no never wear a bra during that time? For me u find it reallt hard because I hate the shape of mine, not perky at all but I don't want to feel ugly for one and a half year...
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/20 12:52 AM
1

How long did it take you to see a difference in them?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 06:53 AM
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In what way have they changed? Perkier?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 10:09 AM
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I think if you want marriage at your age you probbalt have to go for a guy who is at least 25 but probbaly more like 28+.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 03:01 AM
4

The reason why you seem to have things going so wrong in your life is laziness. If you really wanted something you'd get It done. And even if you aren't taught table manners you get self taught not to spill on yourself? I think it's horrible that your family has been abusive to you, that's awful. But the reason why you can't cook and why you are overweight, why you have low energy levels, why you're a bad employee is because of you, you need to start taking accountability, which I guess you are …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 09:00 PM
2

I feel you, feminism defiently messed it up for all of us, or maybe not everything but some of it of course. But unfortunately that's how life is and I think there won't be any societal changes, at least not soon. Wouldn't that be a dream, everyone just going back and becoming housewives. But imagine that, one candidate suggesting that, hah so many women would be displeased with that. It's a good thing and a bad thing, it creates a freedom for us women being able to have a say about our own mone…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 08:53 PM
1

Well at least that's really good, If youre a mouth breather it's probably really hard to not just have correct oral posture but also stop breathing trough the mouth. Oh okay that makes sense, I think that it's most important to do it majority of the time, and if you do it whe you don't sleep its probably okay, maybe it will slow progress but maybe you already have good development since you are a nose breather 😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 12:48 AM
1

That's so good 😍. I struggled with it too and stopped for a while (which I really regret) but I'm getting back into it, if you find it hard at least not having your mouth open will make it so it's not super bad. One thing helped me is to try to block your airway with your tongue, and after you know how to do that having your your tongue up in the back is easier. And having it up in the back is more important than in the front, just a tip 😊.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 12:36 AM
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My biggest advice and especially for teenagers is something called mewing. You can search Mike mew on YouTube and it will tell you more in detail. But it's basically making sure that you close your mouth have your tongue up in your mouth (your palate) have good head and body posture and also have a good swallowing posture. And that will ensure that you get the most desirable face growth, forward head growth. It will affect your eyes, your lips, your smile, your cheekbones your jaw bone, your nos…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 10:40 PM
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