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iinfrequentlyperish/r/seduction28/02/14 06:31 AM
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Red Pill Theoryiinfrequentlyperish/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:50 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleiinfrequentlyperish/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:49 PM
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I did want to post something I came up with, the way I understand being beta after over a year of reading TRP. Just something that doesn't say AWALT, but rather tries to explain how men fall into self-imposed submission in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:43 AM
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Start lifting weights - it increases testosterone, makes you feel more like a man, confident and powerful. Also, working out in general results in higher levels of endorphins in your bloodstream, which basically means you're going to feel good and smile :) Force yourself to approach a girl, ask her for her number. Even if she's not into you, you'll still feel a surge of positivity, because of breaking the habit and just giving it a go. If you don't have what it takes to literally walk up to a pr…
/r/seduction13/10/14 05:38 PM
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Found this on seddit a while ago: Girl: "Wow, you have such small hands" Guy: "Well, they might make your boobs look bigger"
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:05 PM
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Given that you had a "thing" before and it lead to nothing, I don't think there is much you can do without engaging her directly. Here's what I would do - I'd casually invite her to a party (perfect scenario would be a party where you know more people than she does) and flirt, maybe even pick up a different girl right in front of her. Like, literally ask her to be your wingman and give her some basic training, then go tease some other girls. If you do this right and she sees that other girls are…
/r/seduction24/09/14 03:44 PM
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I've looked for good neg threads here on r/seduction and found this. Gems: I like your shoes, they look really comfortable. You blink a lot. You’re too much of a nice girl for me. You must be a law student/lawyer. (LOL) Another few I've found in some comments elsewhere: You're crazy, you know that? I don't even know why I talk to you. You look different in real life than on your profile picture. I get the feeling you spend a lot of time in the library. Classic neg when your target is interruptin…
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:55 PM
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How about this: whenever you make eye-contact with someone from your family, think to yourself "I'm just being honest and have nothing to hide". It's friendly when you think about it
/r/seduction07/05/14 06:52 PM
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DGAF 101 :)
/r/seduction07/05/14 06:25 PM
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Don't try to pull routines on her, rather just try to be in the moment, and act natural. Listen to what she's talking about, pay attention. Look her in the eyes a lot, never be the first to break eye contact. Don't laugh too much at everything she tells you, smile instead. Don't show her that you're super impressed with her, even if you actually are. Read up on shit-tests and alpha responses. Use a lot of push-pull (don't over-do the pushing though). Here is a great video. Good luck man !!
/r/seduction29/03/14 04:28 PM
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Spiderman her. 2:52 here.
/r/seduction22/03/14 11:52 PM
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A merry tip: imagine the girl you're about to approach taking a huge shit, right before you open your mouth. See what happens. Watch this video. Seriously, watch it. Also, read up on confident body language. If you're a TL;DR kind of guy, then just remember this: never slouch. Wherever you are, act like you own the place. Oh, and if you're not a TL;DR kind of guy (I hope you're not) then read "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. PLEASE do it. Good luck!
/r/seduction06/03/14 11:00 PM
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Here are 4 youtube videos that helped me a lot: How to Hold Conversation Like a Man http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI What Women Want http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-juyEIgwhGQ Voice Tonality http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w Kino Escalation Tips http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZa-dtruFI
/r/seduction06/03/14 06:14 PM
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First of all, good FR. Second, the next time you see her, promise yourself you're not leaving until you ask her out. Just smile and be nice, it's only a question. Worst case scenario: she'll be flattered but say no. Life is too short to not take chances. Good luck !
/r/seduction06/03/14 07:29 AM
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I agree completely; a steady hand is what matters most when it comes to leadership. Women get distracted too often, by too many things. Men DGAF and proceed with the mission. Good story!
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:50 PM
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Intentional misinterpretation to avoid pre-maturely activating her ASD, but also implying that she would have gotten laid if she'd just been a good girl. Let her hamster do the work for you. Gold.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 12:05 AM
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Google 'seddit', you'll thank me later.
/r/seduction01/03/14 11:08 PM
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Women value emotional connection much more than money. Here's a quote from this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-juyEIgwhGQ (brilliant) In terms of having worthiness with women, you may think that you need X amount of dollars [...] but really, once you learn to have presence and connect with somebody, make them feel alive and special, you have a currency that's far more valuable than any of that material bullshit. It just blows it out of the water.
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:54 PM
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Would you be an angel and post a list of the most important things you learned from the book?
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:42 PM
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I agree, when somebody asks for my help, I try to help them. However, when a girl asks me "Can you do something for me?" I see it as a shit test. I never say yes before knowing what it is, instead I reply "Maybe" or "That depends. What is it?"
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 09:52 PM
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I don't blame ya. Damn good deal!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 03:27 PM
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Man, all these jokes about men losing every argument in a relationship, men apologizing to their women because "that's what a man does" even though they did nothing wrong in the first place... all this shit about how guys change for their girls in a relationship (so they keep having sex with them I guess) and the girls lose respect for them... makes me sick. None of that shit is even remotely funny. The moment I see a guy follow his girlfriend's orders or grovel before her in any way I lose all …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 02:02 PM
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This makes sense. For some reason I thought creating emotional engagement with women is completely un-alpha
/r/seduction01/03/14 12:28 AM
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I don't think they want arrogant douchebags, I think (not really sure anymore) they're interested in arrogant douchebags. Most women find a man with a Dark Triad Personality extremely attractive (according to /r/TheRedPill), I think people with that type of personality (or pretending) may often come off as arrogant douchebags.
/r/seduction01/03/14 12:20 AM
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I don't even know where to start, dude, no girl is going to come home with you if all she knows about you is that you're a good kisser. You need to build rapport with her. Rapport = Trust + Comfort Make sure she's feeling comfortable with you (keep escalating kino during the conversation, if you don't know how to do that, watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZa-dtruFI). Once you know you're good, drop your version of the "come home with me" line on her and hope for the best. Good luck
/r/seduction27/02/14 10:14 PM
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What stuff did you use on the one you f-closed?
/r/seduction27/02/14 03:13 PM
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The Game Rules of The Game No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/seduction27/02/14 12:50 PM
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screw the customers, if you know what I mean
/r/seduction26/02/14 08:41 PM
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Do you care if guys will find you ugly? Probably not. Act like you're around guys. Seriously, if you act like it doesn't bother you, it won't bother anyone else. You keep this up and eventually you'll forget you ever had a problem. If you can't do that, imagine the girl you're talking to taking a massive shit. It's nasty but it's even more hilarious. Think about how this girl is absolutely repulsive for at least 2 minutes, everyday of her life. That should make it easier for you. Would you care …
/r/seduction26/02/14 02:51 PM
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Go out with her and try to attract other girls when you know she's watching (I don't mean go for the k-close, just make them laugh) once she sees other girls are into you, having fun with you, she'll want you for herself. Make her open that door.
/r/seduction26/02/14 01:44 PM
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Everyone is different. In general, I think women react to emotions, so at least he caused an emotion (albeit a negative one). That's why I believe he still has a better chance than someone completely neutral.
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:52 PM
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She will remember you though. Now you have a reason to ask her out again, saying something like "I realize leaving you at the bar like that was a dick move, you seemed like a nice person so let me make it up to you - I still want to be friends with you". It should confuse the hell out of her, I bet she isn't used to guys telling her "let's just be friends :)". Worth a shot. Remember, if you piss a girl off, you still have a better chance to sleep with her than mr. nice guy.
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:31 PM
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if you have been beta with her, then go full alpha go out with her and pick up girls in front of her ask her to be your wingman! do not give her compliments, pretend like she's hitting on you and you're not interested, talk to her accordingly be nice, just a little bit flirty, use sexual innuendos but at the same time treat her as a friend, tell her stuff like "I'm glad to have you as my friend" to fuck with her mind basically, just friendzone her
/r/seduction25/02/14 05:56 PM
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Ask to see her phone, give some bullshit excuse like "Hey I'm thinking about buying it myself! Can I have a look?" then call yourself from her phone. Then when your cell rings look her in the eye and hand her the phone back, smile and say "Thanks!". ????? PROFIT. Say "I'm going to text you dirty things". Then guess what? Send her a text that says "Dirty things". Have fun with it!
/r/seduction24/02/14 11:27 PM
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You'll be amazed how people react to solid eye-contact. When a girl is talking to you/you're talking to one, look her in the eyes all the time, never be the one to break eye-contact, always wait until she is forced to look away. Hold it like a predator looking at his prey. Look at people like you're challenging them "keep looking motherfucker, I dare you". Totally worth it.
/r/seduction24/02/14 11:08 PM
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Try to be more open, for starters. You want to give off that "fun-loving guy with an exciting life" vibe. People will feel drawn to you automatically. You need to get lucky, of course, chances of finding someone who's compatible with you are pretty slim. Which is why you need to go out as much as possible - to maximize your chances. I recommend reading "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene.
/r/seduction24/02/14 01:22 PM
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Your mission should be your goal. You do what you want to do and never apologize for it. Confidence attracts women, a guy that goes after what he wants attracts women. Good quote: "If you put her on a pedestal, she has no choice but to talk down to you." Don't try to make it romantic, try to have fun (don't make her your priority, just do it for yourself) Never give any girl your full attention, make her work for it. Attractive women are sick of nice guys trying to get all romantic with them, th…
/r/seduction24/02/14 12:59 PM
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Approach girls, don't stop trying. IOIs will boost your confidence. Working out also increases testosterone levels. Any combat sport, sparring with opponents will give you a considerable confidence boost quickly. Try doing something out of your comfort zone everyday. Example: punch in a random cellphone numer, call it, when the person who answers tells you you've got the wrong number, say something like "Oh well. Hey, since we're already having a conversation, have you seen any good movies latel…
/r/seduction23/02/14 02:39 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with an energetic high five in the beginning. Shows you're fun and exciting. You sort of reversed the usual strategy with involving her friends after talking to just her, most PUAs/Dating Coaches say that when you open a set, you talk to the group, then (after a few minutes of small talk) you focus on your target and try to isolate her. If you find a girl boring, just bail man. Plenty of other girls to approach. If you're not in the zone, it's going to be har…
/r/seduction22/02/14 10:32 PM
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Don't over-analyze everything you/she said or texted I don't mean forget it ever happened, I mean instead of thinking about things you may have done better in the past, focus on things you can do in the future to get the k-close Always assume attraction until proven otherwise I don't mean go straight for the kiss, I mean don't waste your/her time trying to assess the situation, just start flirting right away. "Fuck it, let's see what happens." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZa-dtruFI If you're…
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:50 PM
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Personally, I would change "Is Thursday 8 o’clock good for drinks?” to "I'm free on Thursday evening. Let's go out for drinks". Check this link out, it's fantastic: http://i.imgur.com/1cYyZ.jpg in case of tl;dr on the link, here's a quote from it: Never ask for permission "Do you want to...?". Always assume that they do. Change the question into an order, if she can't or doesn't want to, she's still going to reject you in the same way. Only difference is you come off as more assertive.
/r/seduction18/02/14 09:22 PM
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