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Well let me explain it then. If you look into say dictionary, delete means remove from existence. Here is a Google definition : delete dɪˈliːt/ verb 1. remove or obliterate (written or printed matter), especially by drawing a line through it. "the passage was deleted" synonyms:remove, cut out, take out, edit out,expunge, excise, eradicate, cancel So delete the past would mean remove it from existence, in context probably closer to remove from memory or, forget the past. If you forget something h…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 11:38 PM
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Fair enough, it's not very clear, that's why I'm against a 6 word nursery rhyme advice to complex situations, especially in a thread directed to beginners. Someone might misunderstand.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 11:21 AM
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Sure, delete the past! By all means don't try to remember and learn from your mistakes, that would be silly.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 11:06 AM
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I didn't keep at it at all, I gave up and respecialised, got a job in new specialisation in seemingly unrelated company, and 6 months later got send to do a very same project I tried to join for months. Just to add, the new job I got was same industry, but totally different type of project that my current job never done before, and it pretty much makes no sense they accepted that project, they got offered that project, and I was there with a perfect skillet to complete the project. If that's not…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:32 PM
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So getting a dream job that I tried over and over again before and got rejected every time isn't luck? Considering I got it through seemingly unrelated and totally unplanned channels. Granted I got it based on my skills and passion, but that didn't change since I applied through normal channels. I call that luck. Just one of few examples like that that made my life awesome. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:50 PM
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3 . Be super lucky Worked for me like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:25 PM
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It does but probably matters less. Skintone is a Skintone. I'm one of those that benefit more from blue than red. In red i look like I'm sunburnt. Edit: http://www.jpmaya.com/mens101/2014/4/3/matching-color-to-your-skin-tone. Just as quick example.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 05:16 PM
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Red doesn't work on some skin tones. Colour bleed makes you pink.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:40 PM
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Can comfirm. I'm 32, up until recently was quite beta, I guess the only reason I got laid was because of looks. Got depressed, start taking pills, side effect: no libido. I just don't feel like sex at all - best thing ever, getting swarmed by women because I don't give a fuck (no pun intended). They have nothing of interest for me anymore. I wonder what will happen when I get off them. 1 month to go.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 11:30 AM
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I do not. Even now i shot down the subject of buying house together, started by my side of family. Simply said that it will never happen along with children and marriage. Not desperate for relationship. I could stop it anyday and find a woman without a child. Only reason i dont is that i enjoy this one and as long as the situation wont change to the one linked by OP i'd like to keep going. But i will not be a new daddy or hubby and my gf knows that from day one. Also i do not intend to say i lov…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:46 PM
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Thats kind of relationship im in right now. She pays for herself and often for me too. Marriage is out of the question for me and she knows it well and i say no a lot. Especially if it involves her kid. She was doing fine before me take me out of it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 01:27 PM
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I'm dating single mom right now and you just made me really paranoid. Sex is mind blowing she has shitloads of time etc. Etc. I made effort not to get involved with her kid and let her know that i dont intend to. Also its a long distance relationship as i work away from home. So far it lasted a year and is pretty good but you still made me quite paranoid.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 01:19 PM
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Sure thing.
/r/seduction31/03/13 02:26 AM
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I don't want to push any lifestyle on you but it is possible to be fit and healthy without spending more than 50 pounds once for some basic equipment. I know because I've done it. By the way some therapist can see you for cheaper if your situation is bad. Some even take unemployed for free. Check bapc.co.uk for it. It's listed in their profile.
/r/seduction19/03/13 01:01 PM
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It's personal experience. CBT kinda feels like a brute force type of therapy, it doesn't go to the root of the problem just forces the changes on a patient. It works very fast that's why it's preferred by NHS, but it's a temporary measure and my CBT therapy worked for few months after which all my issues emerged. My therapist works by going back to my chidhood digging out all traumas and fixing them then. It's a longer process and very very hard and intense but it really works and it's a permane…
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:10 PM
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I don't know you so it's riski to judge you but you're making a lot of excuses. Atleasy from where I stand. I was like that and I came to revelation that only people that want to be happy will be happy. And it will only happen when you will hate your depresion more than want to do something about it. It will not happen on it's own and it's a hard work. Then again I do not knoe you and your situation so take my words as such.
/r/seduction19/03/13 11:31 AM
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it's 40-50 pounds per session at a good therapist. And it's really worth it. NHS and mental health sucks donkey balls - their therapists suck, and they are years behind in knowledge. And not being able to afford gym is not an excuse, I never went to gym and I'm working out with a great success for over a year now. Look up p90x, bodyweight workouts or cheap barbells.
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:17 AM
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23 is about right age to feel like that - and believe me society is really fucking with our minds. Start from this book. You are actually quite young and should be relatively easy for you, the earlier you work on yourself the better your life be and the easier it is to change. If it really messes with your head seek therapy.
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:15 AM
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I know, right?
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:58 AM
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Hey. I'm not sure where are you from, I'm from UK. I decided to not go for NHS provided help, as it usually looks exactly how you described. I decided to go private. Every country should have some sort of association of psychologists and therapists. For UK it's bapc.co.uk I found there 10 therapists a bit randomly, a bit going by their description, and then I set up an appointment. They usually offer 30 minutes of free chat so you can get the feel for them. If they didn't offer it I pretty much …
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:57 AM
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My problems were related to complete desync with my emotional side, and I had a lot of society and family ideas forced onto me from the very young age. I felt locked inside, anxious, scared of showing any emotions, feeling I'm not a man enough and at the same time didn't really know what it meant to be a "man". At some point I realised that noone actually know what does it mean to be "manly", all they say is that you need to "man up", "Suck it in", etc. It really really rooted an idea in me that…
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:28 PM
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Thanks a lot. The book is really worth looking at, especially condidering it's like 6 pounds.
/r/seduction18/03/13 02:37 PM
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I figured that myself, but I'm pretty bored at work, and this troll seemed like he was hungry. Thanks for the warning though :)
/r/seduction18/03/13 02:22 PM
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Seriously you're putting so many words in my mouth I stop believing you actually read what I write. Yer the girl friend things if fine, BUT when she brakes up with you and you can't get another girl of her quality you'll be stuffed. Like I said I have no problems flirting or even "closing", the only reason I do not actually close it is because I chose not to out of respect for my relationship. also you've met so few girls how do you even know what girl will work with you longterm. How do you kno…
/r/seduction18/03/13 01:45 PM
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That approach made me depressed. I go out regularly right now, my relationship works great, it's very healthy with good boudaries, so does my social life. When I go out I have no problems approaching, and I'm often approached. Flirting is fine, but since I really like my GF and she satisfies my every need I do not jump into bed with every girl I can, no matter how good looking she is. This is how I am, and I'm happy with it. I do not believe having many meaningless relationships is better than o…
/r/seduction18/03/13 01:33 PM
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I got to ask out of curiosity, why would you say something like that to a person in a situation you literally know nothing about? No hostility it's just interwesting coclusion to draw after two posts with no background information what so ever.
/r/seduction18/03/13 01:03 PM
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You didn't read my post with uderstanding if this is your answer.
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:32 PM
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I think people don't like being called on their flaws or being told they need a therapy/profesional help. They look for silver bullets and easy way out. Atleast I was like that. 6 months of intense therapy, reading this book 3 times and following it advice and a course of antidepressants later I have most gorgeus and amazing girlfriend. She is crazy about me as much as I am about her, but we are so far in a very healthy relations. I have to refuse often blatand offers for one night stands and I'…
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:18 PM
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Lets analyse James Bond and Hank Moody as well. It's well known fact that basing your personality on fictional characters is the way to go.
/r/seduction30/12/12 01:20 PM
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Understand one thing - being called a "player" even if it seems bad at start, is actually a woman telling you that you're charming, good with women, and must be having loads of them. Those are good things, but you have to live up to it, and treat it as a compliment. Because technically, it is.
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:46 AM
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If money isn't an issue you can just use that as it is one of the most powerful value indicator. But that's if you want to get laid. If you really want to improve yourself, start from identifing what actually needs improvement. Clothing? Hygiene? Confidence? etc. etc. and work on that. If you are really under pressure and very stressed, something based on islation and meditation would help a lot. It's really very personal question that you should be asking yourself more than random strangers on …
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:14 PM
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What's wrong with looking like a perv? Girs like dirty fucking too, you know. Just make sure you can handle what you show. Perv is like being creepy. It's not who you are it's how you present it. No such thing actually exists unless you are actually mentally disabled and it presents itself in a creepy or pervy way. If you normal all you have to do is be confident in who you are and what you like, the rest will follow.
/r/seduction03/12/12 09:05 AM
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You.
/r/seduction29/11/12 12:08 PM
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They are called feminist rallies for short though.
/r/seduction29/11/12 12:03 PM
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Depends on a city. In my city it's night clubs and bars :P
/r/seduction29/11/12 12:03 PM
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Also I do encourage guys to get laid quickly.. Why waste time with a girl who isn't interested in you sexually? A good girl is a girl that likes to have sex with you. Because it's fun, it's a good practice, it's respectful, and I slept with women who I befriended long time ago, just because I kept my game up with them constantly.
/r/seduction29/11/12 11:51 AM
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Ok does it mean I'm in a wrong subreddit if it makes me cringe when i read "lay", "DTF", "5-10 minutes", etc etc. ? What's up with respect and threating women like humans, not like a bag you come into and discard? I know what you trying to say, and I agree with most of it, but seriously you made it sound like you're a 16 year old, disrespectful, very immature, and way to horny douchebag. Nice post though if you look beyond the language and attitude.
/r/seduction29/11/12 11:48 AM
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I'm actually taking a break after few months of dissapointments as my initial approach was really wrong, as I feel really tired and demotivated at this moment. Nice article to read before I jump back on the horse.
/r/seduction27/11/12 01:40 PM
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Close enough.
/r/seduction24/11/12 12:11 AM
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You're trying to make game out of everything too much man. Stop over thinking and over analysing, go live you fucking life and be a person she will like or she will not. All this bullshit routines and tips and tricks and techniques matter only in first interaction when it's very easy to fail. After you kissed, or already went for date it's your personality, you as a person that you actually are, and you inner game is what matters. Be a good self confident man, and stop worrying about this bullsh…
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:24 PM
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Invite her for a round of minigolf.
/r/seduction23/11/12 12:15 AM
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Oh yeah, that's a general humanity thing. I'm just on interested in men romanticaly/sexualy so it doesn't bother me at all if a men does it.
/r/seduction15/11/12 06:47 AM
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You don't. Every time I was called a player I said something along the lines of "Out of all the things I was called by women this is by far my favourite compliment, thanks." It never get a negative reaction and very often a positive one. Women say one thing and want another. I'm learning that it's more and more accurate.
/r/seduction13/11/12 08:15 PM
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Thanks a lot.
/r/seduction13/11/12 08:10 PM
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I'm talking about UK. I'm actually after the opposite. I'm pretty ok with 30 year olds, but not sure how big of a difference the age makes if it comes to younger women. One thing for example that I know actually makes a difference is that 20 year olds prefer texting over phone calls. Are there any other differences like that?
/r/seduction13/11/12 11:28 AM
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What are the major general differences between 20 and 30 year old women if it comes to the game?
/r/seduction13/11/12 09:47 AM
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10 approaches 5 numbers 1 date that's the average statistics I feel are pretty accurate according to my limited experience.
/r/seduction09/11/12 08:49 AM
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I see, luckily it's quite the opposite, everyone in bed at around 9 pm sleeping, except weekends. Plus it's a mixed house, three men and one woman. Anyway, I see what you mean and thanks for the answer, I think I'm good ;)
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:41 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I used to live on my own for a while and I hated it, that's why me and my best friends decided to move in together and it's really great, plus it lowered my costs of living for over a half. It would be hard for me to give it up, the house is tidy and in great condition, my room is pretty small though. This is something I wonder about - dating wise for some time now, although I have no experiences related to it so far. I live in UK by the way, if that makes any difference…
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:07 PM
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Move out ASAP. People living with friends/housemates at 30, is this the same category?
/r/seduction07/11/12 12:57 PM
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Best advice I can give you: You are going to suck at it, because you suck at pickup, go there to practice in order to improve and expect a lot of crashing and burning. Do not go to pick up go to chat to people, and do exactly that.
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:22 PM
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Everyone is above average by the way. Same as everyone is innocent in the prisons. Start and pretty much end on making yourself an attractive confident modern male. www.thedatingspecialist.com is where I started, and "Magic Bullets"
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:18 PM
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Oh no 100% is not that much actually. I would say not having almost any common interests is 100% or being to religious. It's a very thin margin. The point is, I do not look for stuff I like in a girl, I pay attention to stuff I dislike. I dated few women that had nothing I would look for in a woman atleast not what I thought, and yet we had a lot of great time together.
/r/seduction02/11/12 03:12 PM
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Ok this might sound weird but I don't have stuff I look for in a woman, I have stuff I do not like in a woman. So basically any new woman has 100% score, and for every thing I do not like i take some of that score away. Once it drops to 0% it's buh bye. For example being stuck up stupid bitch is worth 100% but being stuck up stupid slut only 95%. ;) Briliance of this technique is that the women screen themselves. I don't even have to do. Drawback? Sometimes it takes a while to realise she really…
/r/seduction02/11/12 02:58 PM
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Not sure how similiar you are to me by I go beta when I leave the present. Whenever I start thinking of what was or what could be I'm loosing the frame and starting going crazy. When I stay in now, there is nothing like that. Whatever I say is already done and there is no changing it, whatever will happen next doesn't matter and usually is not really up to me either. Even if it is, if I don't make mistake then weeeeeeee party! And if I do it already done, memorize it learn from it and move on.
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:19 PM
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It says it right there. You need to do it sexually, dude. Pull your sexuality out of the pocket and show it to her with your eyes. It's that easy. I also heard that you can get any girl by being attractive.
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:45 PM
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I would love to give you a good advice, I had the same problem and i looked for a great ideas and solutions, but I feel the only way I got over it was just crashing and burning and then approaching again and again. Plus talking to everyone, so you start treating all women as human beings. I know it's cliché advice but it worked for me. Oh and one more observation, most of really gorgeous women are really not worth the effort, at least from my experience. Oh and having this mentality is a symptom…
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:40 PM
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You know how I know that? Because 99% of the time im in a club with a woman I'm not with her either :D
/r/seduction31/10/12 12:20 PM
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Oh god, this was brilliant. edit: and this kids is why over thinking stuff is bad.
/r/seduction30/10/12 08:45 PM
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"I'm very bubbly person, I love shopping and hanging out with my girls. I tame tigers for living and I'm very career driven person. I do not like to write too much about myself as I'm fucking shy ;P Message me only if you like adventures." Interests: Making shit up Creating monsters Spanking Watching paint dry Taming naughty humans Collecting awesome memories. I got secret agent as my profession as well. 2 pictures, both from a photo shoot, both with strong alpha pose, well dressed, although one…
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:12 PM
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This stuff doesn't work on anyone. You work on people, if you just reciting learned routines you are doing it wrong and it will not work on anyone. What will work on everyone is if you are attracting people with your own person, because you are one seductive mother fucker. All the stuff here are just guidelines how to get there.
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:27 PM
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I'm a guy. It's exactly the same for me.
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:52 PM
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I think the questions about how many questions I asked already and the reaction "OH YOU GOT ME!" is what makes it work, and it has to be done precisely like Neil did it.
/r/seduction26/10/12 11:34 AM
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If you want just a friendship with her, be friends. If you want to fuck her but she just want to be friends with you don't be friends. See how that works now?
/r/seduction26/10/12 10:41 AM
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TIL I'm assertive as fuck.
/r/seduction26/10/12 10:39 AM
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i treat whole initial conversation like a shit test, turn everything into a joke, agree and amplify. There is probably bettter way but I'm not there yet.
/r/seduction26/10/12 10:14 AM
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Nooooooo shit! :D I actually go out on Wednesdays and Mondays nowadays just to make friends with bartenders in few bars.
/r/seduction25/10/12 11:25 PM
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Damn! Well at least I tried.
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:05 PM
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It was... I promise.
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:04 PM
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This is great and all but at what point should you be honest. I mean I'm pretty much a mystery and I seem to be getting initial attraction but it tends to fizzle out quickly. You use it as an attraction tool. Moment you think you got a woman attracted, you can ease down and start giving her information while you trying to find out is she really worth your time, and if she is you can stop doing this almost completely when building comfort. The other question is what about being authentic? Does it…
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:51 PM
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http://www.thedatingspecialist.com/
/r/seduction25/10/12 12:34 AM
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Confidence in yourself. As in no matter what you do, it's awesome, because you're awesome. Even your flaws are awesome.
/r/seduction24/10/12 06:27 PM
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This is actually very good point, I'll edit the message to add a bit more value to it, instead of pure pep talk.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:14 PM
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Thanks. Well the whole value giving concept is still something I'm yet to fully understand. Possibly my greates focus right now, inner game wise. What I do right now is just try to make everyone's time around me better by inviting them to do things with me (or rather ask them to come along, as I'm going ther anyway). Motivate my friends to be more active, but not force them to, etc. etc. Still not sure how to do that with strangers though, but I'm sure I'll get it soon, as I got any other concep…
/r/seduction24/10/12 08:00 AM
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To be fair, I always went indirect, at least practised. But I always felt in the back of my mind, that I'm fucking awesome looking, I got confidence, I would have to attract women to me the long way. with direct you save a lot of time, you are skipping opener, you are skipping transition, you are halfway into attraction, all you have to do is not fuck up. True, you will get rejected fucking loads more, but you can approach more, and once your opener sticks you are fucking in!
/r/seduction23/10/12 10:31 PM
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Well I'm getting some results since changes, so I seem to be going in a good direction :)
/r/seduction23/10/12 09:07 PM
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Fuck it, we're going direct!
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:34 PM
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Fucking Millions!!!! But most of them are scared lurkers and flakers, that said I have, much more success on it than on OKC, then again, my online game just only starts to pick up, I was doing it totally wrong so far.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:12 PM
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I'm experimenting with online dating for few months now with untill recently almost no success. I'm getting a lot of great feedback after playing and restarting my POF profile few times. Finally I settled on something I'd never do ever few months back. Short silly message making fun out of the whole thing in a very silly manner: "I'm very bubbly, outgoing person. I love shopping and hanging out with my girls. I tame tigers for living, and I'm very career driven person. I do not like to write too…
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:46 PM
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Fuck that baby steps bullshit. Go out and talk to that girl at the supermarket you think is cute. Or, you could talk to that girl at the coffee shop that makes you nervous. I know what you're thinking. "But but but... SaggyCheeks! I'll fuck up!" Well, yeah you probably will. After the encounter, analyze the situation and figure out where you fucked up. Change it next time. There is no substitute for experience. This is exactly baby steps dude. Baby steps means put yourself in an anxiety causing …
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:10 PM
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How are you finding learning game at 30? Any good at it? When did you start?
/r/seduction23/10/12 11:59 AM
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Fuck you! I'm 30 and I wish I had those 4 years. I'm 100% sure you know exactly what needs to be done, you just look for excuse not to do it here. What worked for me? -Made a fucking decision and stuck with it. -Asked who I want to be, and how I want to do it and then I did it, one small step after another, no fucking shortcuts. -Ignored my own fear, accepted my negative emotions as a normal thing and learned to controll them. -Fought all forms of anxiety by indicing it in myself over and over a…
/r/seduction23/10/12 11:48 AM
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inb4 AskSeddit. I posted there already, but I just want a couple more opinions. There is a reason there is separate subreddit for that, so people don't have to read specific questions here, what you do is not really socially intuitive. That said: In specific situations generalisation does not work anymore - and that's what the game is, forced generalisation of most common patterns. If "The game" is correct in 50% of the cases it would make it very efficient, that's why there is such a big focus …
/r/seduction23/10/12 09:07 AM
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IOIs are not meant to be searched for. They are noticed. This should be put on the IOI section in the glossary - so important I think. If you have to look for IOI, there are none. Then again it should not stop you from trying. There are girls that want to rape your face and will give you no feedback till the very last moment.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:25 AM
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That's kinda how I lost my virgnity + awesome relationship later. From my limited experience you need older than you woman, mine was +7 years. I talked to her for some time, then I let her know I'm a virgin like it's nothing for me, not with shame or anyhting. She was like: Hey, would you like for me to be your first? and I'm pretty sure I'm an owner of one of the best fucking first times in the history of humanity - shame I didn't realise it then.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:21 AM
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Girls walking briskly is a numbers game. You need something to stop them. As opposed to anything else right?:)
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:17 AM
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Nope. That's an ok, but quite needy thing to say if she flaked you for a week and you want to gamble, to either move relationship forward or call her on her bullshit and move on (really bad odds on a date though). After 6 months you do only thing that needs to be done. You accept the fact that she doesn't give a fuck about you and move on. Come on! 6 Months, critical thinking and logic! If I like someone and I want to get to know them I make up fucking time. Source: Personal fucking experience, …
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:25 AM
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"it takes literally 10minutes to fuck ...you can't even find 10 minutes jesus" .... That the most needy and beta thing you can say in this situation. The correct "Alpha" thing to do is being busy too, so busy you don't pick up her phone calls and you forget about her, because you have no time for stupid bullshit, you are busy chatting up next girls.
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:20 AM
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I misunderstood this concept as well. Assuming attraction doesn't mean she is always attracted to you, and that's it. It means everyone starts attracted to you and all you have to do is not fuck it up. This forces you not to work to attract her from nothing and focus on her (which if done poorly can be sign of arrogance or douchiness) but on not fucking the attraction up ,which puts focus on you, and you can control you! It actually makes you take more time, and requires a lot of patience. As lo…
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:07 AM
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Working out helps a lot, as well as "death grip" masturbation. If your core muscles are strong you can fucking hold orgasms in, not to mention being able to slow them down. You can also learn to come faster or slower by controlling your breathing and focusing on it. Takes practice though.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:54 PM
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I don't know. Hot foreplay makes me come much faster than I usually do. Switching positions, sounds good tho.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:53 PM
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I'm so doing this next night out.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:49 PM
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Like with any other form of AA, by putting yourself in a situation that causes it. Start small, and chat up some guys or girls that you are not at all interested in. Give them some high fives, shout some "woooos" or whatever is accepted in the club you are. Then move to attractive girls but only with the intention to make them smile, give them high five and if AA is overwhelimng eject by just moving away, rinse and repeat. After practice you will be able to open girls you are interested in but y…
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:48 PM
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"The game" ends when you sleep with her/or goes for a second date with you. What happens next is a relationship, and that's a totally different game. After few dates, if you were good at the building comfort, you should know what she likes, does she likes texting, does she like phone calls, etc. etc. and do that, or if you don't, test it out or ask her. After few dates this is a non issue, and wont jeopardise your relationship, unless she is weird, and then she is not worth your time anyway. BTW…
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:37 PM
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That's how you learn on your mistakes. You can think about what you say while talking, hell actually you should, taking pauses and speaking slowly is pretty much mandatory. If you over thinking while you are talking though, and can't actually focus, you are not in the moment. Learning to be in the moment, detached from future or past will help you a lot. You will have time later to analyse your mistakes, but any beginner will overthink, you need to practice and make it a habit, that takes time.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:33 PM
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This really is not a rocket science, direct opener is saying honestly what you think about her. "Hi, you are are very cute, I'd like to get to know you." "I think your style is brilliant, I like it. Let's grab a coffee and chat" "Hey you look like someone I'd like to get to know, you seem fun!" Hell even. "I love getting eye fucked by a woman like you just did it (if she actually did it), here comes the next step" And go for a kiss, or don't even say the second part. Or if you are confident enou…
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:25 PM
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Nice, shows how important is to keep going as long as she has interest enough to keep hanging around.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:16 PM
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Thanks a lot man. Yes, I'm probably 2 months into active practicing, and probably a year into reading. Just try to stay on a correct course. This is awesome to read. It's actually interesting that today I had a long conversation with my friend in a fun manner etc about my exs and me as a person. It actually made me realise I was going after totally wrong kind of women for me. I'm still not sure what is the correct one, but I'm sure it's not the ones I was looking for recently. Like you said, I w…
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:13 PM
2

Holy shit! This is genius!
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:25 PM
1

What if I'm science lab technician and video games character designer? But sure, I see nothing wrong with being fire juggler or an astronaut. Probably lower risk and tested more than playing guessing games. Why do you think it's the most dangerous test?
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:16 PM
1

One thing I learned, if something sounds cool in your head, it will not sound the same in someone else's head. Sarcasm and Cockiness doesn't translate into to text. Text sucks for flirting, especially if she doesn't know you and your humour well.
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:12 PM
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So is this what I'll be doing next 90 days? Reading your posts and applying them? Fine!
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:07 PM
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If she would consider 1 day of not texting a bad sign, especially from a newly met person that means she's needy. But then again sending a text saying that you had fun that night or teasing her in some context from the night some not long time after you got the number would be a good idea. I'm to new to this to give solid advice but I think Id call her instead of texting not later than 48 hours after I met her, ask her can she talk, if yes I'd actually start a conversation by telling her some co…
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:02 PM
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I don't think I agree with you, I think it's not a sum, and you need all your games at as high level as possible. Having one aspect of it much higher than other will not work. I'm talking based on my own example. I'm pretty confident at this moment, I got my ups and downs but my inner game is becoming pretty solid. And let's put it this way, I'm making shitloads of new friends, but not many women want to fuck me. Why? My attraction skills fucking suck. I can open, maybe even transition quite wel…
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:55 PM
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You transition into normal conversation, then you use the conversation to attract her to you, then you qualify her to see is she worth your time, after which you move into comfort where you can start talking more about yourselves, and lastly you move into seduction where you pretty much do everything to get intimate with her. Obviously a lot of this overlaps, sometimes changes places, it depends on your opener, situation and context you meet her, both of your personalities, and your skills. Easy…
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:43 PM
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Sure, I have filled in the whole form. So far out of 5 women 2 want to be friends. I wonder will any woman actually say they want to date straight away, I do not believe so though. Those 2 women that want to be friends are the strippers, funny enough. I was thinking how should I go with voting on them, and at the end I gambled and went that I want to date one that I liked the most, and friends with others two. I think it would be a better choice to mark all as friends though, but since I'm not v…
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:37 PM
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I didn't get any number closes, in the intent of dating. I regret it a bit, but my reasoning then was that the whole idea of this is to get matched annonymously, so I'll just wait and see how that goes - but I should have closed atleast one woman, and I really felt it would went through, we really clicked. I got a phone number though, but it's more of a friend thing, atleast it was framed as such, since we go to the same concert we might as well get drunk before and after - we will see how it go…
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:44 PM
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Not sure what are you trying to say, that I use to many "I's" when talking about myself? Or that there is some pattern? Want to clarify?
/r/seduction17/10/12 08:36 AM
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Be totally honest only to yourself man, tell others only as much as they need to hear about it :) Calibrating my honesty and my patience was... is the hardest thing I'm doing. I was a bit better off than you, well still am, I got laid for some time every 6 months or so and then long break of nothing, all my GF were great, fit and hot so that's fine, but I had 9 sexual partners in life total, I want more fucking in my life, so that's why I do it, but I was not raised an ass hole so I want to do i…
/r/seduction16/10/12 09:12 PM
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Have no idea and no way to find out. All I know is that they were interested in me at some point and I wasn't in them. What would happen if I was, no idea. Never said "I could sleep with them if I wanted to", all I said is that I'm very confident and comfortable around them, we like each other and I'm having a lot of fun with them, which I'm pretty sure is how you pick up girls if you're good, plus minus some knowledge and timing.
/r/seduction16/10/12 09:00 PM
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I'm glad I got the start behind me, still fuck loads of work ahead, but I can finally see forward motion in my achievements, believe me the worst is when you really fucking try and nothing is happening. Starting at 30 sucks.
/r/seduction16/10/12 06:59 PM
1

I think we need to define what "kinda cute" means.
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:57 PM
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I don't as much actually, maybe once or twice a week, but sure why not, that site makes a lot of sense actually. I wouldn't call the girls I go after "porn class", or models. Actually I'm attracted to normal women and the more quirky and flawed the better, but I wouldn't call them ugly though,.
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:56 PM
2

If you worried about somone else being more alpha than you means you are not alpha. Just by asking this and thinking the way you think, he already dominated your mind, and he doesn't even had to do anything, that's how much beta you are.
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:20 PM
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I got a question about lowering standarts. I agree with what you are saying, It all makes sense, except how do you actually do that? How can I "practice" on not as attractive women if I'm not, by definition, attracted to them. First of all it's piss easy, there is no practice, because there is no tension, there is no anxiety, because there is no involvement from me, if I'm not attracted to a girl, I will say anything I like, and I do, god I rock those girls, I'm actually surrounded by a lot of g…
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:11 PM
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I'm on the same stage - people don't like changes, you change, I changed. I actually god a bit moddy because I thought I'm alienating my friends, but that's not it - actually it is but I misunderstood the reason. The material I learned from promotes assholnes if missused, I suck at it, you suck at it, you need to learn to use it properly, the border between alpha and a douchebag is very very very thin, just go check the bars. It's so thin most stupid women can't tell a fucking difference.
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:49 PM
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I'd recommend denim instead of chinos but with nice leather shoes, belt and a good shirt with a blazer. All well fitted, and matching with style and colour, add a nice necklace and a watch and maybe something for other wrist that is interesting and non typical and off you go.
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:10 AM
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I would look for an excuse to remove the table from the situation like going for a walk or something after dinner. Waaaaaay to late dude. That's why restaurant as a first date sucks; table and rules. At the beginning go for a walk to throw some Frisbee with her or something, or shopping, where you can kino the shit out of her, build that attraction high, and you can always go to restaurant later while qualifying her or even while already in the comfort, and you should be way into the kino by the…
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:46 PM
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Sit next to each other or at 90 degree angle - don't go into interview mode, make it fun :P
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:37 PM
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Brilliant, wan't sure how that actually looks like, it's a new thing for me. i wonder is it the same in UK as in US though.
/r/seduction03/10/12 04:14 PM
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I think it was Tyler who said that the moment you got the girl in bed the game is over, you won, there is no need to play it any more, enjoy your prize. Plus I don't think it was a good line anyway, bit to much negative subtexts that only include her in it, it was a big gamble for no reason and nothing to gain from.
/r/seduction29/09/12 12:34 PM
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Totally? no, changed wording in the first part and added the second. And thanks don't really need help in general, for now, just in this situation, as it's very specific ;) General stuff is being practiced daily.
/r/seduction21/09/12 08:04 AM
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Thanks - I'm not tripping about her though, I'm tripping about this situation as I have no idea how to resolve it. Like I said usually I'd be over it, but not often I read a profile that says exactly what I'm look for in a woman, in a way I'd like to read it, and her looking exactly how I like. So it would be stupid not to atleast send her a message right? And I'm not sure I did that, that's what makes me trip. If she straight up ingored me, I'd be far gone - hell I got like 5 other conversation…
/r/seduction21/09/12 07:39 AM
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Ok got Magic Bullets, apparently it's much better.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:15 PM
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Found it, it pretty well hidden and not really that obvious to find, although it's in the read THIS link: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b0hyf/reading_list_for_a_beginner/
/r/seduction19/09/12 07:49 PM
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2.don't make funny, charming self-deprecating comments Isn't that how you pass shit tests though? Agree and escalate?
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:08 PM
1

To be fair I have a similiar problem - for some reason I suck at second impressions. I got AA over with, I open, and then I do something wrong somewhere and I loose women, and it's the same online of offline - can't figure the shit out at all. Only advice I got from online hookup was that my messages are to long, and it's intimidating. So cutting down on that, but come on it's suposed to be a message - like a letter. If what I got to say is intimidating you pretty much saying what I want to say …
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:34 AM
2

Where do you buy one? And how long does it last for?
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:52 PM
2

Fair enough. It's your life ;) No great artist started great, and I'm sure they didn't think about being realistic when they started, and settle down on what they thought their abilities were. They pushed their limits, and see how far they can go. There is nothing wrong with staying in your comfort zone, you just won learn anything new there. Good Luck ;)
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:04 AM
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It wasn't a question, I'm not here to judge you, just letting you know how it works, and from what you are saying you missing atleast one important thing - confidence. You have to believe... no you have to know you can get those beautyful women, to get them, same as you have to shake her hand before you can get into to bed or to say hi before you have a meaningful conversation. There are steps you have to take in order to achieve things, and you're giving up before even making the first one.
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:02 AM
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Not with that attitude, you can't. Remember, except very extreme deformations, especially as a man, your genetics don't matter much. What matters is your health, hygiene, clothing, manners, and most importantly confidence. From what you are saying to me right now, you probably have none, as only people who think they can become, or already are attractive care about those. Change that and you will become attractive. Women don't really care as much about your face or body as men do about women's, …
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:54 AM
1

Well they aren't, but you and I want to become one, that's why we are here right? Although I start to notice that we should be outside instead...
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:42 AM
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They are possible for a guy with a lot of experience, massive social circle, high social status and a lot of luck. Looks don't really matter much. I think the point is, if you want to achieve that you need to become that guy, which is not really impossible just a lot of hard work.
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:39 AM
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There is pretty mcuh 0% doubt about this - whoever believes otherwise doesn't know how human body functions ;)
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:35 AM
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Kudos for trying to improve yourself, not everyone has to guts to do so. Thanks, it's actually a lot of fun. -Your pictures are not fun, they make you look like a lonely person that seems a bit full of himself Yeah, which is actually pretty accurate, considering I'm a single child and quite far on the introvert side of the spectrum. I guess even my "fun" pictures show that. Gona have to do some acting, but what is that fun you speak of? ;) -Your profile is too nerdy/technical, it's OK to be a ne…
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:10 PM
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Lets merge: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/zh7g4/opening_is_easy_the_next_part_sucks/
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:42 PM
2

Learn to think few steps ahead - playing chess helps with that if you find a partner. Always try to put yourself in the situation you have the best option and most controll over. The thing is, if you can get her to be in your room alone, she already feels quite comfortable with you, act on that. But remember first attraction, then comfort. There is one more option for you, but it's a bit tricky. Put something on the futon, Like a pile of clean clothes, or a backpack or something that is not out …
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:35 PM
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She doesn't have to have a decent handshake, I'll say more, no girl ever will. This trick is not based on honesty, It's about you showing interest and making her feel interesting. Unfortunatelly you have to lie. I don't like that trick myself, because I try not to use tricks. I base my appearance on genuinity and respect. I think the fact that you invite her to a handshake makes you already better, more confident and interesting than most men she met before. But I do not condone using it hand-ho…
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:47 AM
2

Here is an easy fix for you - do not sit in front of her: a) It feels like an interview b) Getting first stages of kino going is hard. Another thing, or rtaher two: Handshakes and high fives!
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:12 AM
1

THIS THIS THIS.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:11 AM
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See, only advice I can give you is going to make it even harder for you. Avoid questions that are personal like "What are you majoring in?" "Or Where are you from?" Untill well into the conversation. And even then don't ask one after another. Use this as a last resort. Those are questions friends ask other friends. There are generally not so exciting, and very generic. They do not build attraction. Try to be interesting and unpredicitble. For example if the girl sits on a sofa, sit next to her a…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:04 AM
1

I'm a really good at dance music, as in raves and good night clubs kind of music. My process of learning was exactly that. Observe, imitate, practice in front of mirror at home. I'm sure that would work for any type of dance except one that has strict rules and moves like tango and other classic music - but I don't believe you don't need that for pop or dance music. Only issue with dancing with a partner is that you need to have a lot of confidence to be able to lead properly. Oh one tip that he…
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:06 PM
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See? It's not that hard at all. Best thing to do is to try always be a bit ahead of your comfort zone, get a little bit anxious but not overwhelming, with wobbly knees and all. About the number close with that particular girl, to bad you didn't, now move on and try again with other people, this was just the first step, there are more ahead of you. For this particular situation, what you did might work in your favour btw, as she was form uni and there are chances you will see her again, chat her …
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:48 PM
2

Maybe one day, right now I don't want to change my hobby into profit, last time it didn't work out so well. I just rather have fun and throw some advice here and there if someone asks for it. Plus I'm not a "pro" neither I want to be one. If you feel that walking randomly makes you confused and not very confident, find a reason to go. Or just keep doing it while you doing other stuff. Go see a movie, and talk to the cashier for few seconds. Go for your grocery shopping and talk to someone in the…
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:06 PM
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Hi. Glad i got you pumped up for this, keep it up. Try not to overthink this, what I'm suggesting for you to do, atleast option b) is actually what supposed to be a normal human interaction, there is nothing abnormal about it, I would say not doing that is a bit weird, but that's the society we live in. It really depends on your comfort zone right now, and how far you want to get out of it. If you want to do it easy way, just use the opportunities that will appear itself, so whenever somone serv…
/r/seduction05/09/12 02:53 PM
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You are welcome ;-) please let us know how it went.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:39 PM
2

The things I'm most confident about are the things I was least confident about but I changed them to how I want them. Try that for a size ;)
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:19 AM
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Anyway, on my blog, if you sign up for the email list, you will get access to some meditation MP3's you might find useful. One of them, called "sticking point meditation" is about visualizing anxiety-producing situations and becoming more at ease with them. This information mgiht be usefull for you, although I cannot find the source anymore. When I was playing around with subliminal messaging and non verbal communication for final year project, I read a lot how brain percieves imagined scenarios…
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:09 AM
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a) Go out with a purpose of getting rejected. Assume rejection, make it your goal. This takes a lot of courage though, but you will get over your fear of rejection very quickly. b) Do it much slower but far easier. First start talking to everyone you meet or there is opportunity to, your postman, a gentelman who said hello to you on the street. A not so attractive cashier - easy targets that don't trigger your reaction. Slowly but surely start moving to more valuable to you targets who have some…
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:59 AM
2

Funny enough, I learned skill of discussion thanks to seddit.
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:50 AM
1

Similar subject already was discussed today, so here is my x-post from the other topic about what I think about the subject, or rather how I chose to become "alpha", maybe someone else will find it useful. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/zb2kr/being_alpha_without_coming_across_as_such_a/c637d0s
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:27 PM
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Hey. Thanks a lot of explanation, I should have probably read your post more carefully before commenting, for what I apologise. I think my definition of the word "Judgement" in the context of self-judgement was off, as I understood it as an evaluation of a negative side of some one, in any context, and that was obviously wrong. By taking that into account, I agree with your post completely, and I too think self evaluation is good, if not even necessary but judging yourself is a bad thing, especi…
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:42 PM
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True confidence and self esteem are about not judging yourself at all. I really like your take on confidence, and since it doesn't really have a set definition as far as I know I would like to ask you a question: Do you think not judging yourself at all is really that good? It kinda put you in a spot where you ignore a need to change for better. Wouldn't you agree that real confidence is judging yourself constructively and then doing something about it so it doesn't bother you any more? For exam…
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:25 PM
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I couldn't come up with better TL;DR myself ;) Thanks. Just to clarify my 2nd post - I think "The Game" is very good, if you understand why it is like it is. Why there is comfort, attraction subjects, why the routines are constructed in such a way. I'm all for studying those, but make sure you understand those. It's the same difference as lets say a teacher who forces kids to memorise equations and recall them on the exams, and the teacher who explains why stuff works and how so the kids can use…
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:38 PM
3

There are shortcuts - and they work. But they make you a "douchebag" if you're bad at it, and they usually work on a certain group of women only, of which the best representative are drunken horny bar girls, and believe me anyone with a bit of self-worth can "seduce" those. But if you want to pull some horny chicks for a one night stand, then there is a lot of material online, often cited in this subreddit as well, and it's collectively called "the game". There is nothing wrong with that though,…
/r/seduction04/09/12 01:55 PM
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You making the same mistake I did. I want to say I'm still very much a beginner in all this but I see the changes already, and they are significant. You don't become "Alpha" (I use quotes as this is not really alpha, beta etc. smiliarly as in animal world - it means are you a valuable person or not, and notice how I don't say valuable to women, I mean in general) by practicing tricks and mind games, you become alpha by investing and improving yourself so you are much more approachable, interesti…
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:40 AM
0

BALLS!
/r/seduction03/09/12 09:47 PM
4

Best rejection I ever got: Oh, thank you very much for asking, that's very flattering but I have to say no. No bullshit, no explaining, clear answer. She was genuine, she had some reasons to reject me but was very nice about it. This is how it should be done in any direction, make note guys, you flake too.
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:27 PM
2

You act and seem to be thinking like you are from 3rd grade, my friend.
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:01 PM
1

Good to hear. Just one more thing, the more I practice confidence and seduction, the less I actually feel like I need a woman in my life. Go figure.
/r/seduction31/08/12 07:23 PM
3

If you are any good at seduction, this would be a no issue. Homeless people will try to do anything they can to get as much money from you as possible, do exactly what you intended to do, but be assertive, and don't get influenced by that person to give them more, be nice about it thought, try to understand the situation they are in. And if you feel bad about it in any way you are weak inside.
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:20 PM
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That approach works only on horny drunk teenagers, and pretty much anyone who has a little bit of clue can "seduce" those. If you want to seduce women that are worth it, and are worth keeping around for some time, you have to first seduce yourself, then set yourself straight, and then it goes easy from there, and it's going fast.
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:17 PM
6

I seen seddit as a place where creepy pseudo-rapists meet. Then I started reading it and it changed me, I'm still getting mixed response and not much success if it comes to women, but I'm very well dressed, groomed, I make people on the street chat me up, smile to me, being very friendly, I have no problems even on the phone, I'm always well received, and I make sure I do everything to make people better than before they met me. not to mention the level of assertiveness I got, I haven't met anyo…
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:12 PM
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That's exactly how I got over mine - compliments to people I don't really like visually, then people that are attractive but not really my type and now I'm at the stage where I chat up girls that I would consider "way over my league (bullshit)" few months ago. Still a lot of crashing and burning but the change happened on in a matter of few weeks. It's really just matter of getting used to adrenaline enough to change your flight to fight reaction.
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:06 PM
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Today I opened on the most gorgeous girl I have seen in a recent memory, and I don't mean like just very pretty, I mean glamour model from magazine grade, the kind that don't really walk anywhere. it was my second opener after I realised I have no AA. I crashed and burned, I panicked and couldn't hold the conversation for very long, I stood strong, I did everything to sound as confident as I could, I hold eye contact like a boss, I made loads of mistakes, didn't kino, haven't introduced myself e…
/r/seduction30/08/12 05:55 PM
1

You missed the point a bit. I was just pointing out how big of an ass this guy made of himself. He didnt even read ops blog because if he did he would see that he is very considerate and respectful to women. He focused on one detail took it out of context attacked the author and some women who like to make out because its fun and managed to input exactly zero to the discussion. One of the best relationships i had started from kissing after 10 minutes and sex after 3 hours and she was one of the …
/r/seduction30/08/12 11:48 AM
4

You might have a point, but some constructive criticism would be more appreciated, right now you sound like a butthurt kid who didn't get any.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:48 PM
3

I see you mention dating sites, which would mean you had some success on those - for me it was very off putting experience, tried many styles of profile, pictures etc. from I don't give a fuck, through witty and funny, to total serious, and after sending a lot of messages I had no response at all beyond 1 message back few times. I must have clearly been doing it wrong, but then again, I'm walking blind here so a lot of experimenting was involved. My take from that was that my pictures were too s…
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:54 PM
1

This post is amazing, but holy shit, that link at the end, how I needed that. I didn't even realized how much I had to read that few posts made by you. The Asperger's feeling? The not being yourself part? Pretty much everything you put in there sounds too familiar, and I deeply inside knew everything I tried so far is fucking bullshit, it just felt fake and not right, I just needed to hear that from someone else. Thanks man.
/r/seduction28/08/12 09:50 PM
2

I noticed almost anything said with confidence and stuck to can be interesting and funny. Most of the jokes become offensive or unfunny when you show lack of confidence in them. I tend to stick with the stuff I say till the end, and given the receiver is not more alpha than I am, it usually works pretty well. Hope that helps a bit.
/r/seduction18/07/12 02:32 PM
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First post on Reddit I have actually saved.
/r/seduction16/07/12 05:27 PM
1

Not worried about it, just want to improve for the next time. Unless you meant the posting on wrong subreddit then not really worried either, thanks for advice.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:03 PM
2

But what if I don't get rejected?!.... oh wait.
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:41 PM
1

Always assume they are interested, body language is not a strict science with rules, there are people who will do a lot of negative signs even if they are interested and vice versa. You can go two safe ways really, either assume everyone is not interested, lock yourself in the room and wank away or assume everyone is interested and get over the fear of rejections if you were wrong. I'm not going to do maths for you but you should be able to guess which one is more profitable. There is no sure wa…
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:08 PM
2

Be confident in your lack of experience. Like yourself for who you are, and don't put yourself down. If you say to a girl you are not experienced in a confident manner, like it's nothing for you, it's just who you are, chances are it will actually benefit you more, and might lead to her to want to teach you stuff, and that's always fun. Remember a lot of women love to "raise" and "change guys for better" it's their motherly instincts kicking in. I'm not sure how that works in general, talking on…
/r/seduction31/05/12 07:50 AM
1

Well it's easy to be greatest PUA when living with in your house you is a status symbol.
/r/seduction25/05/12 10:15 AM
5

Manfriend is such an awkward thing to say...
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:25 AM
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Her: "I have a boyfriend" me: "My neighbours parrot ran away, but she is back now" her: "Huh?" me: "Oh I thought we were talking about shit that didn't matter"
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:24 AM
28

Sorry, was just taking the piss out of the guy above.
/r/seduction24/05/12 04:20 PM
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2/10 would not bang.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:18 PM
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Ah, sorry kinda took it wrong way. Yeah I kinda agree with her, although never before reading that I thought complimenting a girl on the street might be taken as weird or creepy, and never really got a reaction form a girl that would make me think so. Interesting points though.
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:28 PM
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This was really good insight and which proves why you probably won't be able to pick up a girl on the street Personal attack? Where did that come from?
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:22 PM
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Do it. After college next good window of opportunity doesn't show until late 20s. Most of great girls and women are taken for few years after college, but then 30s come and a lot of them are single again ;)
/r/seduction03/05/12 10:28 AM
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To be fair, I'm much better with a friend around, as I'm really competitive in nature, and "Well if I wont do it, my friend will "win"", even if he doesn't know we are playing.
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:43 AM
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Yeah, I'm not against drugs, but don't really try anything that comes into my hands without good research. And like I said I don't think training myself into thinking "I'm good at game but on drugs only" is good idea anyway.
/r/seduction01/05/12 10:18 PM
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THIS IS HUGE. Thats a big part of inner game. And doing it for lulz and being outcome independent is what separates the pros from amateurs who drop out as soon as they can get an ltr. See I know that, I even exploit it when I don't care. But I still cannot turn off "caring" when I really want something or something is important. I guess it's just practice. day game is harder, but if you do it enough and go through enough approaches to it you will find something that works better than other stuff…
/r/seduction01/05/12 07:50 PM
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Hmmm that actually sounds like a decent idea, does it only remove anxiety or has other "high" effects? An I'm not sure it's good idea to start from dependence of a drug to be able to game, but I might give it a go.
/r/seduction01/05/12 07:43 PM
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Ah I see what you mean. Well I work in School now (Not as a teacher but for some reason people assume such all the time) and believe me, depending on the age of a woman, this tend to work much much better ;) Bartender probably would work better on girls, but I'm not that much into girls, I started to prefer women more, probably due to working in school I had to isolate myself from that. But yeah I think I might undersell myself quite a lot when I talk so that could be changed. Thanks.
/r/seduction01/05/12 07:39 PM
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Birmingham, UK.
/r/seduction01/05/12 07:34 PM
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I'd love to be in SF. Birmingham, UK here.
/r/seduction01/05/12 07:32 PM
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That's a really good point. Tell that to my anxiety though :D
/r/seduction01/05/12 06:15 PM
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Alright first: Separate yourself from your emotions, and learn to view them differently. Like if you're in love with a specific girl, take a second to think about why you like her (write it down if you want), and then take another second to think about the logistics of everything. "Do I want to marry her?" "Will our children be the greatest-looking people who ever lived?" "Will her mentality change as she gets older, and will I care?" "Will her physical characteristics change as we get older, an…
/r/seduction01/05/12 06:10 PM
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I think the point of exercise was to get 3 number in under 25 minutes, which is impressive considering the girls had boyfriends. I don't think he had intention of following any of those up, but would be cool to find out.
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:42 PM
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That's some amazing post, really gave me some needed insight. Thanks a lot. "Not been out in a bar like forever really." Dude, you're saying this as someone who was a bartender? Really? I've never been a bartender (though I've gone behind the bar to pour myself some drinks before), but I'm pretty surprised that you don't already understand some of the underlying social dynamics. Could you give some more detail about what you did as a bartender? Like how it applied to your personal life (if it di…
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:34 PM
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Hey. Thanks for the informative reply. Getting alcohol crutch is not going to happen as I don't drink. It actually makes me even more tense, although making my friends as an excuse to avoid talking to a girl, Yes, that probably would happen. I did some day game as a practice, but it's the 3 seconds that don't work for me, I always found excuse not to go, well, not to go in first 3 seconds, I got like 50% rate of talking to a random girl so far but it was after much longer. It's the tension of it…
/r/seduction01/05/12 04:57 PM
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Irrelevant as no one ever tried to seduce me, and probably never will because I'm not waiting for that to happen, I'm the one that does seducing not the other way around.
/r/seduction27/04/12 12:24 PM
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Same thing as what you would do when they don't answer after you text. You move on with an option to try again in few days.
/r/seduction27/04/12 11:02 AM
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At the getting to know stage I try to turn what they say into innocent sexual comment, but it requires good reaction times. Stupid example: Her: (next to a hot dog stand) "I'd like a jumbo hot dog" Me: "We are still talking about food, right?" (Sorry best made up example I could think off right now:P) I'll try to recall some real life examples if somone didn't get the general idea.
/r/seduction27/04/12 11:00 AM
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To be honest, people go to clubs for a reason. Women to. Not every single one of course, but it's easy to find ones that do go out to get laid - "The game" works on them ;)
/r/seduction08/04/12 08:00 PM
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Well the girls you talk about are the girls "the game" works on. It works on them for a reason. Think about it. There are many girls I know that will be immune to all pick-up stuff, and some attempts will actually make them laugh, they respond to normal human interaction quite well though. Maybe you just looking in the wrong places?
/r/seduction08/04/12 07:59 PM
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From what I see this all can be reduced to one sentence. Nice guys lack self-confidence, real men don't, at least when it comes down to myself. Whenever I have a bad day, or I'm in a low mood I can see I'm slipping into "Nice guy" pattern, while when I'm normal self, I'm more of a "Real man". Seriously, self-confidence and loving yourself is the best and pretty much only thing you have to do, because even if you really mess up with someone, when you are confident, you do realise this was a mista…
/r/seduction07/04/12 12:49 PM
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Thought so myself. By work I mean same company, almost no relation work wise, totally different departments and rarely see each other. Still silly idea, should stick to my own rules even if it seems to be worth it ;)
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:56 PM
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Probably would not get the reference. Thanks for idea though.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:46 PM
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