| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2182 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the opposite | NICE FOR WHAT? | iliaxaz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 385 | Scrolling through tik tok and all the top comments are saying to leave him and that this isn’t healthy or good for her. I am LOVING that we are telling the younger generations that they don’t have to deal with their porn obsessed boyfriends. 🥰 | NAH, SIS | iliaxaz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:08 PM |
| 227 | Don’t be a pick me and always be strong 😌 | STAY WOKE | iliaxaz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 115 | How do you comfort yourself after a break up? | DISCUSSION | iliaxaz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 04:04 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteI thought I had a lot of good platonic friendships with straight males. Until I realized they’ve all mentioned getting with me in some shape or form. OH, and the guy I was dating mentioned his gal pal staying over at his place while he was out of town for a week. Not for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 6 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!Oh my god, a guy a really liked asked me what my biggest insecurities were before we even met the first time? I thought it was such a weird question and just played it off as “that I’m too amazing.” On my way to read it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!NOT THE BIGGEST INSECURITY QUESTION 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 32 | Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us hereIf we open enough women’s eyes, they might actually have to step up and put in work 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:36 AM |
| 115 | Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us here“FEMALE INCELS!!!!!!!!!” 🙄🙄🙄 Like I don’t see why they think we’re so terrible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:09 AM |
| 36 | what happens when you initiafe contact even onceNeeeeded to hear this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 57 | I just waited around to protect my lash technician from a creepy client.Ugh, you’re such an angel for staying!!!! THANK YOU! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 09:58 PM |
| 79 | single womenI like myself single more, too! I focus more on my hobbies and health, my dog and I go on more adventures, I get to spend more time with my family, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 14 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Lol thank you for the discord lingo! I cannot figure out that app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 11:03 AM |
| 13 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Okay, tbh… I like when men have a lot of platonic female friendships. I feel like men who have no female friends are a walking red flag… like why don’t women want to be friends with you lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 10:57 AM |
| 6 | How do you comfort yourself after a break up?Don’t apologize at all! This is a safe space and your words have helped me and probably others. ❤️ I’m SO happy you are no longer in that place of your life. I’m glad you came out stronger and are able to look out for your future self! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 5 | How do you comfort yourself after a break up?Absolutely love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:08 PM |
| 11 | How do you comfort yourself after a break up?Thank you! I’ve been trying to find a nice cheesy, post break up self help book! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 20 | How do you comfort yourself after a break up?Very great advice! I think it’s important to not numb yourself from negative emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 14 | It do be like thatHaha, weirdly a lot of people! They sell out really quickly so there’s a high resale value. I hear they’re really comfy, but I still don’t really see the point of spending $500+. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕Omg I’m so happy for her!!! That sounds like such a dream!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 62 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏I found FDS because of a comment thread asking how a sub as toxic and hateful as FDS was allowed on reddit. I checked out the page and there was absolutely no toxicity or hateful speech. There was just women with standards and refusing to accept the bare minimum. Of course, this threatens them! It’s a threat that women are opening their eyes that the bare minimum is not enough. I am so, so thankful for finding this sub. This sub turned me from accepting relationship abuse to standing up for myse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:54 AM |
| 3 | So happy I found this groupThis account is amazing! I tell all of my friends and random people on tik tok about it. It has helped me so much to not accept the bare minimum. I love the sense of sisterhood and accountability to not pay attention to unworthy men who do nothing but bring us down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:30 PM |
| 57 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!Girl..... run. He’s literally just dragging you along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 88 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"People irl look at me SHOCKED when I tell them I rather be single than be with a guy who watches porn, stalks insta models, etc. I’m sorry that I refuse to be in competition with people online. Teenage/young/mid-age women are always complaining on tiktok about comparing themselves to the girls their bfs/husbands follow, stalk, like their pics, etc. Why would I subject myself to feeling inferior when I can just be ~~single~~ I make it my mission to tell these girls that their partners should resp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Mastercard severs ties with Pornhub and Visa suspends payment processingThank you so much Visa and MasterCard. This is a huge start to stop letting people easily monetize rape, revenge porn, CP, etc. Thank you thank you thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 15 | Don’t be a pick me and always be strong 😌HAHA, YES!!! I am so glad I found this community ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:21 AM |
| 14 | Don’t be a pick me and always be strong 😌Yes!!! Glad our eyes have been OPENED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:56 AM |
| 46 | Don’t be a pick me and always be strong 😌Apologies if this has been posted already! I saw it and immediately had to share it with my fav ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 31 | I leveled up, I can't be stopped. I wish you luck though 👸🏾. Back to the Streets by Saweetie ft Jhené Aiko AKA my newest anthemSaweetie said she was tired of break up songs being all “boohoo I’m going to miss you.” And I so agree!!! Good riddance, sending you back to the streets 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | The "phone thing"I’ve commented this before on another post, but there are too many secrets that can be hidden away on a phone. I’ve seen posts on r/relationshipadvice of girls finding out their intimate pictures were posted onto forums, cheating, making fun of their SO to friends/randos, and worst of all, disgusting and illegal “kinks” (beastiality, ddlg, in*est, CP, etc.). I even saw a post where a girl found out she was being drugged and raped by her partner, who then proceeded to upload it onto sites, by goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:26 AM |
| 22 | Posted on r/unpopularadvice... they went OFF. Find the perfect comment! 🤡I go on walks with my friends all of the time! It’s such a fun way to explore, relax, and spend time together. We also always take snacks and sometimes arts and crafts to do in the middle of the park :) 10/10 recommend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 180 | Lord have mercyLiterally made her his sex slave. I’m thinking he’s hitting her to cause those all those bruises... he’s using her to take out his anger or women abusing “kink.” He probably went after someone so young because he knew she didn’t know better and would be easier to manipulate. I freaking hate him. I hope she listens to everyone’s comments about putting herself first and how he is not a normal or loving guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 119 | Why girl, why?!Bruh :( poor girl. He probably puts up a facade of being really nice and loving, which is why she posts it on Facebook. Did you confront him? Are you going to tell her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:47 AM |
| 82 | Fuck Only Fans. Here's why.Men: “what do you mean this online influencer I stalk everyday, save her pictures, donate money to, and subscribe to her only fans is cheating? You’re so insecure and crazy!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:36 PM |
| 116 | Saw this posted on Facebook. Roasting the lvm and the pickmeishas all in one!One time I had a boyfriend tell his younger brother “you have to pretend to like what they like and agree with their views to get them to like you” .... I was right in front of them and suddenly it all made sense! I had not fallen in love with the guy I thought I had. I had fallen in love with who he pretended to be in order to get me to fall for him in general. They’re completely conscious of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:42 PM |
| 30 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.Ah yes, because i just get so horny every time I take a shit. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 7 | this is... embarrassingIn Mexico, there is extremely toxic masculinity called “machismo.” Men are extremely prideful to the point of violence. Women are expected to take care of men to an extreme and never say no. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:55 PM |
| 12 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?I even saw a reddit post where a girl went through her boyfriends phone and found he was attracted to animals/beastiality!! He had videos of him jacking off while watching his own pets sleep. After that post, me looking through phones to find what shit they’re into is a must. Imagine being with a guy for years and finding out he’s into disgusting kinks. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:17 PM |
| 10 | In part 2, he rejects her proposal and calls it widely inappropriate and her having bad friendsIt’s the taking off her mask in the middle of the airport for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:26 PM |
| 15 | Types of shitty sae that need to die with the patriarchyDon’t feel disgusted :( you didn’t know better and he took advantage of that. We have been brainwashed into thinking men wanting to be called “daddy” is normal when it’s not. I am just so glad you’ve grown away from that and know you are worth so much more. Sending you a big virtual hug <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 15 | Types of shitty sae that need to die with the patriarchyBIG YIKES!! I’m sorry you had to deal with him and unpleasing sex. I don’t understand why pleasing their partner is so hard for some guys...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 10 | Types of shitty sae that need to die with the patriarchy👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 69 | Types of shitty sae that need to die with the patriarchyYeap. I always just say “let me peg you first and then maybe I’ll think about” which always shuts them up. Pain isn’t as hot when it’s inflicted on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 2 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.Happy birthday you beautiful soul!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 36 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the oppositeI mean, they were raised together... so yeah... glad he’s an ex 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 17 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the oppositeSo glad you’re not stuck in that relationship anymore!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:37 AM |
| 70 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the oppositeI like how all the other comments are agreeing with this. If you want monetary items to get you sex, you are literally looking for a prostitute, sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:36 AM |
| 19 | No 50/50 birthdayThirty, flirty, and thriving!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:34 AM |
| 115 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the oppositeTrue. I’ve never met a genuinely nice guy who ever called himself a nice guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.Exactly!! When I tell people I refuse to date someone who masturbates, they all act shocked. It’s simply just something I don’t want to deal with or think is healthy at all. We only get one life and I don’t want to spend it stressing over a man and his need for looking outside of a relationship! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 30 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.Honestly, I rather be single for the rest of my life than be with someone who watches porn or masturbates to other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:41 PM |
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