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6

Feels like it didn't happen.
/r/MensRights28/06/19 07:49 PM
1

J. Macintosh is/was Sarkesians partner, yes?
/r/MensRights25/06/19 03:54 PM
2

What a click bait title.
/r/MensRights23/06/19 04:38 PM
-7

This is not an alt-right forum where we lament about the demise of the white race. This is a place where men of all colors and genital configuration come to share the common (or uncommon) masculine experience, and seek support. This post isn't men's rights. It's troll bait.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 04:12 PM
7

Naturally.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 02:51 PM
1

I dunno the exact rulings. I know that at state parks, courthouse protests, etc., they are allowed to be topless.
/r/MensRights24/05/19 02:13 PM
7

This is state specific. In Ohio, anyone can be topless.
/r/MensRights24/05/19 08:01 AM
1

I was told withholding sex as a means to an end was abuse.
/r/MensRights14/05/19 05:16 PM
4

Shocking data, honestly. One of the few universities where this is still a thing.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 07:51 PM
1

Ask why women need that space since they're undoubtedly the majority there.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 06:55 PM
40

An "N," two "G's," an "R, an "I" and an "E." Only a ginger, can call another ginger "ginger."
/r/MensRights05/03/19 04:41 PM
5

Americarn. :(
/r/MensRights25/02/19 12:41 AM
1

Even better if she's Persian. The Caucasus Mountains.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 02:10 AM
1

Three guesses as to what mountain range the descendents of Arabs came from (it's right next to them).
/r/MensRights13/02/19 10:29 PM
5

The way boys are raised, is mostly by women. Hrm.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 04:47 PM
0

This is low effort and blatant woman bashing.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 08:48 PM
1

We aren't working towards traditionalism. We are working towards a future where men and women decide together what's best for them as a family. And no one is stigmatized for their choices.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 02:20 PM
4

This lady. We haven't had a Christmas morning with my son, who I have custody of, for nearly 5 years because his mother conveniently schedules flights to leave at like 5am that day. But we technically had him that day so the courts don't care.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 11:48 AM
6

Jokes on her: bars/clubs would cease to exist without men to go.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 12:32 AM
10

Let's wait until the evidence is in. Who cares who makes the accusation. Political party doesn't matter, just like gender or race.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 02:54 PM
2

Racism is gross.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 06:27 PM
2

Well good thing you didn't get her fingernant. I can't imagine how much child support is for five whole fingers!
/r/MensRights02/09/18 10:55 PM
2

On several other occasions I would go to finger her and she would say she was ovulating, so I would stop. LOL
/r/MensRights02/09/18 06:13 PM
44

Easy fix. "I identify as female."
/r/MensRights02/09/18 02:38 PM
1

It clearly worked in Rome.
/r/MensRights10/08/18 11:08 AM
4

Isn't that what Reddit is?
/r/MensRights12/07/18 10:59 AM
1

Do they know that girls graduate all levels of education at a higher rate than boys?
/r/MensRights06/06/18 07:48 PM
2

So according to her, after a few decades of being "unfair" to men, it will then be okay to discriminate against women because after all... Unfairness is needed to undo decades of previous unfairness.
/r/MensRights14/03/18 04:26 PM
1

Oh, do we like Germaine "I love photos of naked boys" Greer now?
/r/MensRights23/01/18 10:51 AM
1

Certain demographics.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 07:20 PM
1

Female power station workers, female emergency repair workers, female construction workers, female snow plowers, female 3rd shifters in general... Wait, this sounds like a nice vacation for a lot of underappreciated men.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 08:31 PM
3

Purity tests? This'll go over well.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 04:12 PM
3

In 5 years, a 500% increase in females in the bottom jobs still wouldn't crack >10% in those industries.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 03:10 PM
7

It's something like a 10 year long practice on average for female MDs. It's 25 years for men. You have to train 2.5 women, on average, to get the same output. Talk about a waste of resources.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 01:09 AM
4

Racist af.
/r/MensRights27/03/17 03:06 AM
30

So dad's aren't allowed to make their daughters happy, nor are they allowed to be confident enough in their masculinity to play pretend? I'm glad you're not one.
/r/MensRights01/10/16 11:15 PM
1

But someone told me that enthusiastic consent was enough. I'd call non-stop affection affirmative consent wouldn't you?
/r/MensRights28/09/16 11:14 PM
9

How to be a cuck in 5 easy steps!
/r/MensRights30/08/16 12:17 PM
1

Colorado is 100% terrible in consistent enforcement. I'm owed over $3500 at this point but they are stonewalling for my ex-wife.
/r/MensRights24/08/16 06:40 PM
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I doubt it. My exwife is $3k in arrears, no justice in sight.
/r/MensRights10/08/16 03:57 AM
1

Paging Brock Turner. Paging Brock Turner.
/r/MensRights17/06/16 11:45 PM
1

You've almost got it, except that the government acts in its own interests, claiming all the while to be acting on the behalf of its citizens, hoping no one notices or understands the distinction. The mostly Republican government? Hrm. Given that, as well as mountains of evidence available as to what happens when the government gets involved in education, I'm in favour of keeping them as far as humanly possible away. As opposed to charter schools? Ha. Hahahaha. Oh man. We'll just end it here and…
/r/MensRights27/05/16 11:52 PM
2

Additionally, banks acting in their own interests got us the 2008 thing. Not a great track record.
/r/MensRights27/05/16 08:31 PM
2

We should all act in our own interests, banks included. Which is why I don't want them deciding the fate of a nation's education. The government, at least, attempts to act in the best interests of it's citizens (even if the method is debatable).
/r/MensRights27/05/16 08:30 PM
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I agree with a fair bit of this however, I don't trust banks to act in anyone's interests but their own. That means they won't be interested in ensuring students are getting well-paying degrees. In addition, whatever degrees they DO approve will undoubtedly be the ones "the market" says currently has too high of payrate, so let's flood that one so our rich buddies get cheaper labor. I don't think the government is doing anything wrong by making money off of loans, per se. A free and functional s…
/r/MensRights27/05/16 07:11 PM
1

It's a war we can win anytime we want. We just have to want.
/r/MensRights16/05/16 01:12 PM
2

Subbing.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 12:36 PM
1

Testosterone production at puberty.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 07:48 PM
2

Relied on public benefits when she came down with lung cancer, and didn't have enough saved to pay for it on her own.
/r/MensRights03/11/15 02:56 PM
1

From Ayn Rand, they could learn self-entitlement. Entitlement only to what one has earned for oneself. And your Medicare.
/r/MensRights03/11/15 02:55 PM
9

Female doctors practice 10 years on average before leaving the profession. Talk about a waste of resources.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 08:46 PM
5

Or, women could be content with non-college educated men, like men have been doing for millenia.
/r/MensRights28/09/15 12:40 PM
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If no one fights for Syria, then Syria goes to the evil ones that remain. You can dance around that all you want.
/r/MensRights08/09/15 03:16 PM
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Yes, war is terrible and men are the primary victims of it. But, no amount of hugging is going to fix Syria. Someone should fight for Syria. Are you saying we should force women and children to also fight for Syria? Look, most of /r/MensRights is spot on with a lot of things. A lot of "civilized rules" fly out the window in war. During war, the winner isn't the most honorable, the most egalitarian, the most charitable. The winner is the most fierce, the most willing to sacrifice, the most unforg…
/r/MensRights08/09/15 02:36 PM
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Look, it's true that men deserve the same treatment in headlines. BUT! Men are also the most capable to fight and defend their homes. We can't simultaneously say "lolz sorry ladies we're just naturally stronger, more durable, and Army material" while then denying the responsibility to use that strength in the preservation of society. You know, that Spiderman shit. With great power comes great responsibility.
/r/MensRights08/09/15 01:47 PM
3

Michigan That's why. Friends of the Court up there haaaaate men.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 11:25 AM
1

Someone should bring in a few homeless white men and film them getting slapped by middle-class white women. You know, privilege.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 05:20 PM
12

I'd come with my girlfriend and have her buy me drinks all night at a discount, as is my patriarchal right.
/r/MensRights30/06/15 04:15 PM
10

Voat.co, eh? See ya there!
/r/MensRights20/05/15 06:10 PM
4

So then all that remains is the unavoidable and unshakable fact that if you are not physically present to work a job for the 3-12 months you take off to have a child, you shouldn't be earning the same as if you did not take that time off. You will lose skills, social contacts, etc.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 01:40 PM
3

Any woman who is physically fit enough to pass these tests can make a few order of magnitude more as a sports super-star.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 01:36 PM
2

The last time women were a minority at University was some time in the 1980's.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 11:56 AM
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I feel fine. Thanks for asking!
/r/MensRights05/03/15 04:41 PM
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Damn. I liked Parks and Rec. Oh well, Walking Dead can fill that void.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 12:53 PM
1

Of course they are. I haven't watched the link but given a society where men and women are viewed and treated as equals and allowed to do what they want, men and women segregate willingly in to tracks that resemble "gender roles."
/r/MensRights03/02/15 02:53 PM
1

Oh, I know we're no closer to it. If I had to hazard a guess, I'd put the number of false attempts somewhere around 75-80%, but I can't get anywhere without some sort of universal data system to poll the severity of hospital response to "suicide attempts."
/r/MensRights22/12/14 07:03 PM
2

Here's the math behind it: Women "attempt" suicide more often than men "attempt" suicide by 300%. Men "complete" suicide more often than women "complete" suicide by 400%. 500,000 people a year are in hospitals for "self-harm," and there's a 12:1 "success" rate (for every suicide, 12 end up in the hospital). There are 12.5 suicides per 100,000. So: There are about 37,500 suicides a year in America based on those statistics. Of those suicides, 30,000 are male. 7,500 are female. Of the "self-harm" …
/r/MensRights22/12/14 05:39 PM
1

Good luck getting useful information using anyone but Google.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 09:03 PM
1

This post was deleted from AskMen after you got told how men generally operate. What are you looking for, here, exactly?
/r/askTRP03/12/14 03:47 PM
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Look at all of those buzzwords! He even used "sovereignty" for our Libertarian brothers. Good on him.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 10:17 PM
1

Then my girlfriend is literally the most misogynist woman on earth.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 08:34 AM
1

Do you think there are more, or less, managers above "middle manager" in total?
/r/MensRights07/11/14 03:47 PM
1

Dirty? ROFL
/r/MensRights07/11/14 12:40 PM
0

Wait, aren't more management female now?
/r/MensRights07/11/14 12:26 PM
2

Well, to be fair, there are some incredibly dangerous nasties in Australia that someone without shelter would have to battle!
/r/MensRights04/11/14 09:12 PM
1

Thank you for your replies. :) It's interesting to get a British perspective on it.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 08:58 PM
3

I can't speak to some of this, because I'm just an American who doesn't have to live with the choices. UKIP will rigorously enforce laws in relation to illegal cultural practices such as forced marriages, FGM and so-called ‘honour killings’ I think this means they won't molly-coddle Muslims behaving badly. That seems to be a real problem in Britain, lately. What was that large scandal with the 1400 some girls trafficked that just came to light? I think that's what they're talking about. Rotterda…
/r/MensRights03/11/14 07:54 PM
0

Care to refute any of their platform stances from their website?
/r/MensRights03/11/14 07:10 PM
1

I'm going to employ the Apex Fallacy, just because it's fun: The first female millionaire was C.J. Walker, born in a slave family in 1867. Other women just aren't trying hard enough.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 01:09 PM
-1

I wasn't going to bother voting Uh huh. Sure.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 03:56 PM
4

All humans crave affection. Babies raised without it die.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 06:52 PM
1

The only group of men who had it "swell" back then were middle-to-upperclass white men. Black men certainly didn't, and we care about helping them. Asian men certainly didn't, and we care about helping them. Hispanic men certainly didn't, and we care about helping them. Poor blue-collar white men DEFINITELY didn't, and we care about helping them.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 06:18 PM
6

Why should feminism be off-limits for men (or anyone) to discuss?
/r/MensRights31/10/14 04:07 PM
1

It wasn't even that she slept with someone (which is a shitty thing to do). It was also that she said it was tantamount to rape to cheat on someone and still sleep with them, knowing they wouldn't consent to sex given the cheating. AND THEN SHE SLEPT WITH ERON. Then, the rest is history.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 04:02 PM
1

There's no society to shame them anymore, like there used to be. Shame is an effective tool.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 03:59 PM
2

You're entitled to your vote, and what you decide it on is your decision alone. Do you know of any candidates who are championing "men's rights" in any meaningful way? Which party is willing to spend government money for infrastructure-related jobs that will overwhelmingly benefit men? Which party is willing to fight for a woman's right to abortion, thereby preventing more men from being "shackled" to one-night-stands or being locked to a child support payment for 18+ years? Which party promotes…
/r/MensRights31/10/14 03:55 PM
1

So you're comparing a 10+ year teacher to all teachers? Come on, at least be honest with data.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 03:46 PM
5

they don't want to penalize countries that have worked for equality so much that women have gotten better off. Which is, again, saying gender inequality is okay, as long as it's the correct gender.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 03:57 PM
1

Because they're worth more, and they know it! Duh.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 01:48 PM
3

In my opinion, as long as that pay is enough to prevent a person from being on public assistance, I don't care if "traditional" gender roles are factored in to pay or not.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 11:54 AM
1

Where's NOW?
/r/MensRights26/10/14 10:24 AM
6

Only two of these points are MR related. The other 3 are right-leaning talking points.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 08:17 PM
1

Amplify and reflect.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 07:28 PM
2

You're really calling me a Feminist because I disagree with you? Who knew that anti-intellectualism ran rampant on the right? I thought this was a market-place of ideas? Come on, I expect better of you.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 07:19 PM
2

Even with all of those job killing, economy ruining Democrats? I didn't think it was possible to live in such opulence under such a nightmarish system!
/r/MensRights22/10/14 03:38 PM
2

Because I don't support voter suppression, I do support a higher minimum wage, I do support stronger unions, I do support available abortions for any who need them, I do support protecting our environment instead of letting companies "self regulate," I don't support abstinence education, I do support Net Neutrality, I don't support corporate personhood, I don't support "money is free speech," and I do support universal health care. All of the above is something anti-thetical to the current Repub…
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:36 PM
6

Then why do you live there, if it's so bad? Just move! Get a new job! Start a new life somewhere else! It's easy!
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:31 PM
1

Which frustrates you more? That people don't do what you want, or that my vote cancels yours out?
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:30 PM
5

Until humans live 100 years in a physical condition similar to their 20's, delaying child birth will always be a bad deal. Being an "old" parent may have more financial benefits than being a "young" parent, but being a "young" parent allows you the opportunity to physically enjoy your child's growth and formative years. One thing I've consistently noticed about young families is that when their kids are grown, they are in their late 30's and early 40's and able to go do all of the wonderful thin…
/r/MensRights15/10/14 02:02 PM
4

Where are Feminists decrying exploitation when frumpy European and British women travel to The Caribbean to buy sex from young, virile black men?
/r/MensRights10/10/14 09:35 AM
0

Plus, it was in Yellow Springs. While lovely, not exactly a bastion of fun. Unless you go to Beavercreek or Springfield (rofl).
/r/MensRights08/10/14 02:13 PM
4

His value is in the food he makes as a chef. I'm 100% certain if he's working at a higher end joint, no one from the public sees him. It's just his boss forcing gender stereotypes down his throat (like you!).
/r/MensRights08/10/14 01:59 PM
-1

There's no such thing as a "bully" in the adult world. There are only assholes. You may be a victim, but there's no power in that. Don't don that label lightly. But in reading this story, a few things jump out at me: It didn't help that I was alot shorter than alot of the bullies, and the bullies were in groups, so they could alienate me and if I fought back, other people would take their side. You were bullied as a child. That sucks. But, it's made you bitter. Know how I know that you need help…
/r/MensRights07/10/14 07:42 PM
3

/r/DataIsBeautiful is one of the few places agenda has no place. Raw numbers tell a tale, and it's hard to bullshit there.
/r/MensRights07/10/14 07:39 PM
3

Feminism hates a meritocracy.
/r/MensRights07/10/14 04:12 PM
3

South East Asia, East Asia, Central Asia, Africa, Middle East, Alabama, Mississippi, Idaho, Micronesia, Greece.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 10:00 AM
1

Because he is Brian, and he's having a needy moment.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 09:36 AM
2

I'd be careful about throwing other men under the bus in such a general fashion. Specific men, sure. But "boyfriends" and "step brothers" is a little vague.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 09:21 AM
4

I started off hopeful. Then it became about how men suck for being un/underemployed and how that's a total drag because women need men with jobs! Something something unwed mothers are bad, then back to men sucking some more. Ugh.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 11:25 PM
2

Title IX violation if sororities deny men membership?
/r/MensRights25/09/14 12:29 AM
5

Wouldn't the app then be "proof" that you were both "Good2Go?" and is a record of consent?
/r/MensRights25/09/14 12:24 AM
1

No thanks. I already married a woman who refused to admit she had flaws or that things could go both ways. I don't need an entire movement like that. I'll stick with being an MRA.
/r/MensRights24/09/14 06:53 PM
1

Correct. Oklahoma U apparently is an abberation in the nation, since 1 in 5... you know? /s
/r/MensRights24/09/14 06:37 PM
1

But didn't you know? Women are so scared for their lives in their majority at every major university across the nation, that they've underreported sexual assault by TWO orders of magnitude!
/r/MensRights24/09/14 06:24 PM
12

Make friends with working class people. They don't have time for Feminism.
/r/MensRights24/09/14 02:15 AM
1

I agree. They had me until Dworkin.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 02:16 PM
2

I can tell they're black. Is that bad of me?
/r/MensRights22/09/14 11:00 PM
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The Armed services are supposed to be a meritocracy.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 03:33 PM
9

Hilarious. The woman who talks about diversity mentions race but not gender, even though statistically speaking white people are 77.7% of the population and 80% of the teachers. They all dance around men in education. The black man talked about making the profession "cool" to attract young black males. How about making it "safe" so that men can teach in greater numbers?
/r/MensRights12/09/14 08:28 PM
2

Good.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 09:03 PM
9

That's the prettiest strawman I've ever seen made round these parts, and we deal with feminists.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 01:16 PM
4

Apples and Oranges. When we talk about keeping standards the same we are talking about physical requirements necessary to save lives. The military, firefighters, police. When we talk about changing the way things are done, we are talking about developmental differences that will further harm these young boys forever. I truly hope you can see the difference between adults not needing any additional help and children needing all of the help they can get.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 11:58 AM
3

I'll never set foot in a classroom as teacher in America again. I'll stick to Asia, South America, and the Middle East where men aren't thought of as pedophiles first and educators second.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 08:03 PM
7

You're not sure what to think? Youre deliberating between punish rape victim and punish rape victim. Twisted.
/r/MensRights04/09/14 10:21 AM
5

Barber shops need to be "clubs" in the same way some gentlemen's clubs are "clubs." Charge a monthly fee (equal to half a haircut a month), drop price of haircuts to half price, and issue temporary one month "membership" passes for walk ins. Then they don't have to deal with it.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 08:01 PM
4

And they practice for 10 years, on average, before stopping to become family women. Waste of resources, if you ask me.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 11:05 AM
2

Look, I'll take the word of a PhD whose field of study and practice is interpersonal relationships over a single dude in MR who managed to be manly and raise his daughter.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 11:28 AM
1

1100, rofl.
/r/MensRights04/08/14 09:12 PM
1

110 respondents is accurate for population over 300 million. Do you even statistics?
/r/MensRights04/08/14 09:11 PM
1

In their minds, a woman who is economically disadvantaged is inherently being abused by white men.
/r/MensRights01/08/14 09:21 PM
-1

Kind of weird hearing a conservative person tone policing others.
/r/MensRights20/07/14 11:27 PM
5

Figures it's Dayton.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 06:08 PM
3

I see a giraffe abducting a man. I am boycotting giraffe milk from now on.
/r/MensRights15/07/14 05:13 PM
5

Tone policing has no place here.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 05:58 PM
2

Demand receipts with the name/signature of whomever collected the payment each and every time.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 11:48 AM
1

I saw socialist WAY too much in that piece to take it seriously.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 07:04 PM
6

Why does it require a degree in Women's Studies when it's a position for men?
/r/MensRights09/07/14 07:10 PM
2

I'm 99% convinced that /u/AlphaWookie is the FIRE lawyer based solely on his astronomically high response rate.
/r/MensRights09/07/14 09:13 AM
2

I'm an MRA and I don't think using the term "mutilation" is appropriate. I'm not "pro" circumcision either. So, there you go.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 10:12 AM
2

I ain't bovvered.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 03:46 PM
2

Distancing yourself from isms? Calls herself feminist.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 01:42 PM
3

And? I'm not sure that anyone here has ever made the claim that "Men's Rights helps women too!" But I've certainly heard it from Feminism.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 07:46 PM
5

Do feminist groups fight for males directly? Not just "smashing patriarchy" but lobbying for the removal of the tender year doctrine, the removal of alimony, the implementation of legal paternal surrender, the advocation of either stricter sentences for females or lighter sentences for males, the creation of male specific homeless shelters, male specific stimulus packages, equal access to mental health, the ending of circumcision, the abolition of the draft or including women in the draft, the t…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:45 PM
-1

That's 1 in 8550 or so odds of a circumcized boy dying. That places you roughly between odds of dying by an airplane crash (1 in 7229) and exposure to excessive natural heat (1 in 11,000).
/r/MensRights07/06/14 06:10 PM
0

Speaking of statistically insignificant - what would you call 113 circumcision related deaths divided by 1.5 million boys born in the US?
/r/MensRights07/06/14 06:05 PM
1

This is what's known as "concern trolling."
/r/MensRights14/05/14 10:34 AM
0

Towson University needs to be alerted to the fact that they have a bigoted teacher, in my opinion.
/r/MensRights11/05/14 04:56 PM
2

Emotional outbursts run counter to stoicism.
/r/MensRights10/05/14 08:38 PM
2

Not so Stoic in this post, eh?
/r/MensRights10/05/14 05:08 PM
2

You're not going to get hugs, but we wont delete your posts. I still get to post here despite differing opinions on circumcision so...
/r/MensRights05/05/14 08:58 PM
1

This post is amazing.
/r/MensRights04/05/14 11:21 AM
3

Ohio State is, as well.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 11:24 PM
1

I didn't enjoy it. Plus, in my city that means stringing together 1-2 hour gigs at community centers all around town which is neither reliable or efficient.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 09:01 AM
2

Kids sit on laps. Especially when they see you more than they see their own parents and are younger. You WANT a teacher being that close to your kids because they can't do their job well if they can't show positive emotions.
/r/MensRights30/04/14 10:06 PM
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I can teach ESL and I have taught in kindergartens overseas. I would love to teach in America. And I could live comfortably on a teachers salary. What I can't live with is a single, career ruining accusation that would ultimately ruin my life and my family's. If it were a just world, I would teach for that salary. I won't teach in a hazardous profession without the appropriate hazard pay. I won't step foot in a classroom for less than 60k starting. It's just too financially risky as a man who ge…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 01:12 PM
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Well, I don't speak for all liberals, but reproductive rights are a basic human right and the MRM seeks to give men more options, not remove options from women. Free birth control for women helps men too. Women are not the enemy. As to weed? I don't smoke it, but yes, it should be taxed similarly to alcohol and tobacco. I think Colorado is doing it right, in that regard.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 11:11 PM
2

Chivalry is shit.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 09:35 PM
1

Chivalry is shit.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 09:35 PM
2

They're free by the handful at any free health clinic I've ever been to.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 05:45 PM
2

What's next free scooters for the fat people of the land, because walking hurts them? I hate to burst your Libertarian bubble, but mobility scooters are already covered in the insurance that most disabled people have. I hate taxes Society is built on taxes - why do you hate the United States?
/r/MensRights24/04/14 03:47 PM
1

Of course there is, there's a collective incentive to make it cheaper because EVERYONE is paying for it. That's why in smarter countries with universal health care, coverage is also accompanied by price controls.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 03:46 PM
3

And any woman with insurance gets it as part of her premium, for $0 a month.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 03:45 PM
1

Hello there, overly-pedantic-Libertarian. When I say it costs $0, what I mean colloquially is that those who purchase it for use pay nothing. Paid for, of course, by insurance premiums, because it's cheaper to pay for birth control than a birth, social services, etc.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 03:30 PM
2

Coupled with the mandate, everyone should have insurance. Every insurance plan in the country is mandated to provide free birth control. If you can't afford insurance as a woman, you are typically on Medicaid where it is free too. Young women aren't like young men - they very rarely forego insurance precisely because they need or want access to reproductive health services. And now that they can stay on parental insurance until 26, there's very little reason to not have free birth control.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 11:16 AM
1

The state makes it more expensive? It costs $0 right now.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 10:39 AM
1

If it doesn't differ from single parenthood then that's still worse than a two parent male female household. Because single father households perform better than single mother, yet worse than "intact" homes.
/r/MensRights23/04/14 09:19 PM
1

In male/male families, how do girls learn to be women? Can a man teach a girl to be a woman? In female/female families, how do boys learn to be men? Can a woman teach a boy how to be a man? And if they subcontract that job out to non-family, isn't that an admission of the importance of both masculine and feminine role models in a family unit?
/r/MensRights23/04/14 03:51 PM
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Not a lawyer, but I can suggest something: If you have documented a steady record of copious amounts of visitation, then bring it up in court and try to get joint custody. Then, when she retaliates by lowering your visitation time, you have a record of time for the past two years of involvement and care. She will be the bad guy in that situation.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 06:34 PM
5

Beards are manly, but being manly doesn't mean you need a beard.
/r/MensRights21/04/14 12:53 PM
2

Has a lot of buzz words. Not sure.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 02:55 PM
1

Imagine if everyone born with a birth defect (like malformed hands, cleft lip, etc) spent their life wailing in regret about not being able to wear jewelry on that hand or get their lip pierced. That's what you're doing. You're focusing on the things you can't do instead of the wonderful things you can do. Obligatory don't circumcise your children exclaimer here.
/r/MensRights13/04/14 11:23 AM
2

This literally means "Everyone dies," let's not get our briefs in a bunch because of some fancy English. Starting to look like Tumblr around here.
/r/MensRights12/04/14 07:28 PM
3

Man, using Title IX to get rid of unions? Fucking conservatives man.
/r/MensRights12/04/14 07:25 PM
1

Sure, if you want men to stop going to the buffet. Then, when the company is in danger of closing, they'll drop prices down... If its not too late.
/r/MensRights11/04/14 11:05 PM
2

You're 100% up in arms about car insurance too, I imagine.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 10:41 AM
2

You act like there's such a thing as a political party that does 100% what you want all of the time. Be realistic.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 09:27 PM
6

Alright, I'll bite. Too bad you're not educated. First, let's set the ground rules. Tell me what sources I can and cannot use, because I don't want to find information you'll just write off without looking at. You know what? Fuck it, I'll use any source I can because I know that while you are much more "educated" you won't change your mind in the face of better information. "Strong safety nets" doesn't mean anything. Sure it does. It means unemployment insurance for the entire duration of your u…
/r/MensRights09/04/14 09:23 PM
5

Thanks for letting me know where you stand. I only agree with the goals of the Republican party about 10% of the time. Unfortunately that's not enough to make me vote for them.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 07:52 PM
2

Works out plenty fine as I agree with 95% of the Democratic party's platform.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 07:46 PM
3

Did someone die signing up for healthcare.gov? If I hire Chevy to make my car and it falls apart driving it, it absolutely is Chevrolet'd fault.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 07:41 PM
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Is there another viable left party I'm forgetting?
/r/MensRights09/04/14 07:39 PM
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I vote Democrat because Id rather live in a world that has strong safety nets, a higher minimum wage, healthcare for all, and marriage for all with the caveat of feminism above privitized everything, fail and starve, bootstrappiness plus maybe accidental men's rights. I will fight to the death for men's rights, but not at the expense of everything else.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 06:46 PM
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Get the fuck out of here. Those two aren't even close. The website was designed by a private firm (someones friend no doubt) not the government.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 06:42 PM
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It's statistically irrelevant. Babies spontaneously die at a higher rate. I'm no more concerned with being murdered than I am from a child dying from circumcision. It doesn't enter my thought process. Because I don't worry about low threshold events.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 03:36 PM
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117 per year out of ~19,000 neonatal deaths. They have a higher chance of dying simply by being born. The statistics angle isn't going to sway anyone's opinion: 3.95 million births in 2012. 19,000 neonatal deaths. That's 0.4% of all birth-events in 2012. Of those 0.4% deaths, a further 0.6% died due to circumcision-related complications. That puts the percentage of neonatal deaths annually at 0.0024%. 1 in 42,000 birth events. Your odds of being murdered are 1 in 18,000. Your odds of becoming a …
/r/MensRights09/04/14 03:06 PM
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They won't give you a good answer. This is something intactivists need to work on desperately - not shaming those who are circumcised, while simultaneously educating on why not to circumcise their children.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 02:59 PM
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I equate intactivists using this argument to Ohio State fans who can't stand to win by any less than 3 touchdowns.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 02:55 PM
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Fuck you, I'm not inferior because I don't have an elephant trunk. Stop hating yourself.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 02:54 PM
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You use their words. Triggering?
/r/MensRights03/04/14 06:45 PM
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Is it equivalent? I don't think that follows. One happens to a fully cognizant human, the other happens to an hours-old neonate who has almost zero higher thought and memory function, who also experienced an equally traumatic experience within hours of the circumcision. How can you tell it was the circumcision and not natural birth? Is there a group that isn't circumcised and was delivered via Cesarean? Circumcised and Cesarean? Etc. People who obsess over their lost foreskin bore me. Don't do i…
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:12 PM
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LOL. Wow. You guys are something else. Now uncircumcised men are less-intimate lovers. Winning hearts and minds, intactivists.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 08:51 PM
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If circumcision causes psychopathy or sociopathy as being insinuated, then there'd be several hundred million of us just milling about waiting to kill people. But we aren't. Look, circumcision violates bodily integrity yes. Turns people in to serial killers? Uh.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 08:09 PM
0

Did you know that all violent felons breathe oxygen too? Interesting correlation.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 08:02 PM
4

Wright State University has a Masculinity in Writing course or two that are really well done and taught by a dude that has his shit together. If he is a feminist, I didn't see it come through.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 09:03 AM
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If she will hit you, she will hit a future child. Consider that.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 03:19 PM
2

25% of households are single mothers.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 12:49 PM
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You don't have to support Democrats. There are bad aspects of my "side" and there are bad aspects of your "side." But on both "sides" there are men who need help.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 01:36 PM
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If you are promiscuous, then you are a slut. Male, female, trans, doesn't matter. And if you engage in risky behavior, you are courting danger. STDs are one consequence you need to be prepared for, pregnancy is one that you need to be prepared for, and overly aggressive partners are another that you need to be prepared for. No one should ever be raped. Ever. But a smart person avoids situations that could lead to it more easily.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 09:25 AM
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Threads like this are why it is dangerous to court parts of the conservative movement. Instead of men getting together to help the most disadvantaged group of us out there, we've got the subtle racsists arguing about whether or not race matters, and concern trolling the rest of us.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 08:52 AM
-1

Wait. So being circumcised makes you inadequate now? This is why intactivists have a hard time swaying people to your side. Because fuck you, it was beyond my control and I am NOT inadequate because of that.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 08:40 AM
1

Murray.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 09:05 PM
1

Thanks for reminding me! Voted D all the way!
/r/MensRights18/03/14 09:05 PM
0

The species is built on sexually mature teenagers fucking and procreating whenever possible.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 11:13 AM
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ohw ohw ohhhwwww
/r/MensRights18/03/14 10:54 AM
1

Let her move. That makes you look better when the counseling fails.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 10:25 AM
2

But the State will always have a stake in it, because ultimately its responsibility lies in stability, which married couples tend to have more of. Marriage consolidates resources and housing, promotes population replacement, provides the best developmental outcomes for offspring resulting of the marriage, etc.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 10:24 AM
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For real. I'd probably do the same if I hadn't gotten out of there.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 10:16 AM
1

It's not in my state.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 10:11 AM
2

As far as pay goes You have the benefit of higher minimum wages. In America, most ECE positions in centers are around $9/hour. What are the extra rules in place Many facilities have rules for males that state they cannot change infant diapers, for a start, or that they cannot supervise potty breaks. Those are two, but there are probably several more. How ha it soured your work relationships? How many times do you think it takes a center director being complained to about your closeness with a ch…
/r/MensRights15/03/14 04:58 PM
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America, but pedohysteria is pervasive in all of the Western world. The only place you will find solace in the ECE field are Asia, Africa and South America. This includes Russia.
/r/MensRights15/03/14 01:41 PM
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Unless you have an iron will, a toddler or two at hone, a visible partner, and are attractive, please do not. I worked for 3 years in ECE. The amount of sideways looks, extra rules to protect the facility, extra rules to protect yourself, and insidious whispers that will sour your work relationships is absolutely not worth the meager pay.
/r/MensRights15/03/14 01:30 PM
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If this lands in Mr Wells' favor, I expect an avalanche of similar suits to finally undo all of these "student courts" that are ruining young men's lives. If someone committed a crime, the police should handle it. Period.
/r/MensRights15/03/14 01:20 PM
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I think so. It has led to a rash of easy-outs and boredom divorces.
/r/MensRights15/03/14 01:16 PM
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If you had read the article, they were not.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 06:04 PM
2

My 4 year old son is the bossiest dude I know, and we tell him so. This is bullshit.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 12:38 PM
2

Haha. Look at that programmed hatred.
/r/MensRights08/03/14 12:55 AM
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I'm not sure how I feel about this. For a society to function optimally, you need births and parents together. Those parameters produce the most successful outcomes. It doesn't matter the gender of the parents, or if they're married, but two parent households are best. This should be incentivized heavily. And people who choose to forego that should not be penalized. But if too many people are foregoing that, then in order to avoid collapse, t needs to be fixed, deterred, or whatever. That's a tr…
/r/MensRights06/03/14 02:11 PM
1

You know what other segment of white people obsess over the role of Jews in our world, right?
/r/MensRights04/03/14 12:12 PM
3

Sorry bro. You gotta go.
/r/MensRights03/03/14 02:00 PM
0

This is what happens when a movement is very openly conservative. It pulls in the anti-liberals, which often also are racist. We liberals here do our best, but most days we feel a lot like you do.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 10:57 AM
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We aren't stupid. If we're employed and married, and lose our jobs, divorce is just a heart-beat away.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 07:37 PM
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Why did you think it belongs here? Plenty of us are fathers, who can manage both our fatherhood and own personal hobbies.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 05:23 PM
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I'm pretty sensitive for a guy. I get my feelings hurt, take offense at minor slights, and sometimes get weepy. By myself. Because just like the "It's Not the Nail" video, every man I'll talk to is going to tell me exactly what I already know - how to fix it. So instead of obsessing over my feelings, I follow this handy 3 step chart: Feel it. Let it wash over you. Cry, get angry, be sad. Know it. Accept your emotion, feel relief that it's out. Move on. Having felt it, and knowing it, fix whateve…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 02:30 PM
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Men going to Asia for sex? Stop the exploitation! Women going to Jamaica for sex? You go girl!
/r/MensRights23/02/14 08:52 PM
0

Winter's almost over. Most of us have to go back to our dangerous outdoor jobs.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 02:48 PM
1

Kay Parker anyone?
/r/MensRights19/02/14 01:23 PM
6

Confirmation bias up in here.
/r/MensRights19/02/14 02:51 AM
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But be honest, how often are you asking men out versus being asked out?
/r/MensRights17/02/14 03:41 PM
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I hate that I'm Godwinning this but - Hitler was a vegetarian! Therefore, eat meat.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 04:15 AM
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No. You haven't convinced me with your argument. I'm not so easily scared.
/r/MensRights06/02/14 03:14 PM
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Careful, you're interrupting the right-handed circlejerk here!
/r/MensRights04/02/14 08:33 PM
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Because women don't game websites. They don't use MySpace angles, or excessive cleavage as profile pictures ever. Right?
/r/MensRights01/02/14 01:43 PM
3

Uh, no. I am the stay-at-home right now, and I can dust, vacuum and sweep in under an hour. ~1100 sq ft.
/r/MensRights16/01/14 11:45 PM
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Go make your own movement, they said. We help men too, they said.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 04:44 PM
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Grow up. Seriously.
/r/MensRights13/01/14 05:50 PM
1

Before all the "Thanks, Obama" chimes in... Kids were getting in trouble in school for this when I went to middle and high school... In the 90's....
/r/MensRights12/01/14 01:13 PM
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What a cunt. Social justice isn't about disempowering any group, it should be about empowering all groups.
/r/MensRights12/01/14 01:05 PM
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/r/ThatHappened
/r/MensRights09/01/14 12:02 PM
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As a moderately attractive single dad, I'd get messages a lot... ...by women whose clock was ticking, needed rescued, or who was homely or obese.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 01:45 PM
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A lot of schools make their second writing class about a specific subject, because the second writing class is generally how to employ rhetoric to argue a point. If you don't like the subject matter, pick a different one. That's the freedom of college.
/r/MensRights07/01/14 03:10 PM
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Before boys and girls' bodies begin to change, it shouldn't matter who is on what team. Afterwards, for most physical competitive sports, men will always have an advantage even in the same weight class. There's a reason men and women don't compete together in boxing, wrestling, or MMA.
/r/MensRights07/01/14 01:52 PM
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Liberals are typically more educated (because university is a liberal brainwashing farm, right guys?), and the more educated you are, typically, the less happy you are. The fuck is this doing here? More liberal hate from our conservative "brothers and sisters" I see. Solidarity.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 07:59 PM
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Ah, this again. Must be a pedo if you are for circumcision! These are feminist tactics, BTW.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 09:47 AM
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I'm sorry you're not okay with it, but its not healthy to have such strong negative reactions. Seek help.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 09:45 AM
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...because sex?
/r/MensRights03/01/14 04:28 PM
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No offense, but you sound like a real schlub. She walks all over you, tries to ruin your life, but hey, no big deal, you know what she was going through? Get out of here. If it had stuck, you'd be in jail or worse. Much worse.
/r/MensRights02/01/14 01:11 PM
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And the people who worked for Gilgal, they are all tainted equally by this connection too? And their spouses? Or is it just that we are anti-circ, and this guy is pro-circ, so hey, let's dig some trash up on people and throw around pedophilia accusations and hope the link is made in people's minds. This place is seeming more and more like Feminism every day.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 06:55 PM
1

Israel’s National Insurance Institute pays child support on behalf of men, when the men are unable to do so. That being said, it would seem that Israel cares so much more than Canada about it’s children. However, what a lot of people don’t realize is what’s in it for Israel. Let me explain… When you get divorced, your passport is removed so that you can’t run away (they already call you the defendant and treat you like a criminal). Then, the courts set an unrealistic child support in the hopes t…
/r/MensRights29/12/13 04:45 PM
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So, we just casually accuse people who are pro-circumcision of association with pedophiles now? Fuck off.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 04:34 PM
0

So, you're suggesting we don't support gay men? Weird.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 03:09 AM
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triggering Mole outed.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 08:20 PM
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TRINITY - the place he taught.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 08:13 PM
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I consider myself a feminist primarily because I care about women's issues I thought feminism was caring about equality, not women's issues? is there a place where one can discuss gender issues I suspect you mean women's issues, because we discuss issues that face men and male children here, which are gender issues.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 06:13 PM
1

/r/Libertarianism is that way -------->
/r/MensRights16/12/13 06:11 PM
-2

Just like CEO's are always blamed when middle-management fucks up, right?
/r/MensRights13/12/13 12:53 AM
1

Just uh, plow it all?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:28 PM
5

Did he have her draft that letter? Does the President control allocation of funds? Is he hand-delivering these letters? So desperate to blame Obama for any and everything. It's disgusting, and off-putting. The writer is correct in saying there is a war on men and boys. But this war started long before the Obama administration.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:25 PM
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I couldn't go 5 sentences without hearing about President Obama? Seriously, let go. His job doesn't include presiding through the Assstant Education Secretary for Civil Rights.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 07:58 PM
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Colorado... Leftist? Are you even trying?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 04:18 PM
3

Just plow everything? Plow your own business too. Jesus, its only been snowing in Sweden since forever. You'd think it'd be all sorted by now.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 02:11 PM
6

Smells like false flag.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 11:09 AM
1

Totally. I can't believe how many men got access to health insurance by expanded Medicaid and subsidies! It's more important that those men can't afford health insurance, and go sick or untreated, than for some men to pay for mammograms or pregnancy insurance!
/r/MensRights03/12/13 11:52 PM
6

So... Not relevant then?
/r/MensRights03/12/13 02:00 PM
1

Oh look, its our daily anti-ACA post!
/r/MensRights03/12/13 01:32 PM
2

Why is "Liberal" in the title? Oh wait, you're linking Brietbart. Liberal not relevant.
/r/MensRights03/12/13 12:53 PM
1

It's sexual harassment at the very least, anyway.
/r/MensRights03/12/13 11:16 AM
3

Wow. No. An order of magnitude is to the next power of 10. If girls produce 1 milligram of testosterone a day (100) and boys make 10 milligrams of testosterone a day (101) then that's 1 order of magnitude.
/r/MensRights01/12/13 12:27 PM
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Here's something you may not know: testosterone is the main driver of muscle growth in boys, and boys have more of it on an order of magnitude. All the lifting in the world won't change the fact that male bodies are predisposed to being more muscular. If the average male (who lifts very little, ad he's average) is 99.9% stronger then...well...
/r/MensRights01/12/13 12:12 AM
1

Beccause even though you'll live like shit during child support - you'll need a skill to make up the difference when the kid turns 18!
/r/MensRights22/11/13 12:31 PM
2

Adolescence doesn't start until 11.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 12:13 PM
0

Oh hey Ma99ie.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 11:09 AM
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Clearly these people who think that Asian women are calm and submissive have never dated a Chinese woman. Holy fuck.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 02:26 PM
4

Fuck you, we got ours and you can enjoy it too, actually.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:18 PM
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You post about this pretty much daily or twice a day. I get it. You're upset. But many men got health insurance from the ACA too. I'm one of them. I would've been denied insurance due t pre-existing conditions. Now I can start going to the doctor. Don't let your political ideology cloud your judgment.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 09:50 PM
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Whedon isn't even straight.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 05:42 PM
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Appeal to Celebrity.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 01:14 PM
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Perhaps it is. But do we really want to be just as wrong as them?
/r/MensRights06/11/13 01:27 AM
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There it was. Jackpot! Libertarian outed. Contrary to your beliefs, if we ALL pay for each other, we're all equal in that regard.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 06:58 PM
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There's nothing to discuss. I'm watching the "Right" twist the MRM in to a "Men v. Woman" movement. Loaded political terms like "wealth transfer" make it hard to take half of the people here seriously. Some people will pay more. Some people will pay less. The overall result is healthy citizens. Men and women have unique health issues respective to their genders. Some may cost more. Doesn't matter. We all have a special man or woman in our life that could use the help. Do we bitch and moan then a…
/r/MensRights05/11/13 06:24 PM
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Did you factor in how many women are high-wage earners versus men?
/r/MensRights05/11/13 04:14 PM
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What if, and bear with me, we weren't paying what we "should" before (too little) and now we are paying what we "should" to ensure that everyone has decent enough health insurance? And, even more crazily, they did [gender neutral car insurance] in the EU and the world didn't end. Golly!
/r/MensRights05/11/13 04:13 PM
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I'm confused. Are we for equality for everyone ("Men and Women have equal healthcare coverage") or are we angry about some sort of violation of the Secret Libertarian Creed? Because when the Right Guard of the Men's Rights Movement starts blabbering on about this shit, it makes the rest of us a little bit confused if you're actually hoping everyone gets the same healthcare?
/r/MensRights05/11/13 11:22 AM
2

They will revoke your passport after X$ goes unpaid.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 05:09 PM
1

They're already encouraged. It's called "pay." They shouldn't get more incentives to do the same work as men.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 01:32 PM
0

...on that subgroup.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:48 PM
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Downvoted because liberal has nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:34 PM
6

Where would you suggest they go? Somalia? Sub-Saharan Africa? Myanmar?
/r/MensRights20/10/13 10:00 PM
1

I refused it. They autowithdrawl out of my bank account instead.
/r/MensRights16/10/13 03:10 PM
0

Because it's highly doubtful that it's real.
/r/MensRights16/10/13 10:40 AM
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Is there a transcript available? Can't load it on mobile for whatever reason.
/r/MensRights12/10/13 02:16 PM
1

Don't abandon your beliefs, fight for them. Otherwise, you've let them win.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 08:11 PM
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Oh glee, more "left" bashing.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 07:53 PM
2

I think you're mistaken. It's not a government test. It's a private test, that needs to be legitimized by the government. That's why we have governments, to ensure the legal legitimacy of various things. Otherwise, she could use her "private paternity results" against your "private paternity results" and then where would you be? If you want the legal benefit that the government provides you, you'll have to pay for it. Sorry. That's the price of society. Easy on the Libertarianism, friend.
/r/MensRights06/10/13 08:56 PM
22

Oh, but didn't you know? He made her do it! She was trying to win his love! She's just a poor, helpless woman! /s
/r/MensRights06/10/13 05:04 PM
1

First, most companies in the US forbid employees to discuss their pay with each other. That means that you can't technically stop them, but they can't run to their boss and say "Susan makes X, why do I only make Y?" I can only assume it's the same in Britain. So this whole "women don't ask about pay" thing is a complete nonstarter. They "forbid" it, but it's actually illegal to prohibit your workers from discussing their pay together. And to fire one because they do is equally illegal. Falls und…
/r/MensRights06/10/13 03:16 PM
17

Jesus Christ. Of course they're going to try and paint it as the boyfriend's fault.
/r/MensRights06/10/13 03:03 PM
3

My premiums went up 8795%. Because I went from uninsured to insured, and I am genuinely grateful.
/r/MensRights04/10/13 12:28 PM
2

What I'm gathering is that some prominent MRA's want to throw Traditionalism to the Feminists, and some prominent Feminists want to throw Traditionalism to the MRA's. A couple more times around the loop and with some application of the transitive property, we are feminists! Hooray. :\
/r/MensRights03/10/13 09:57 PM
1

Shoe horn in to Men's Rights. Not the reactionary splinter group of MGTOW.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 05:48 PM
1

Well, Libertarian philosophy might be the principles of your version of MGTOW, but that doesn't intrinsically make it MRA's founding principle. And dont try to shoe horn it in, just because you don't like it. There are Feminists on the right and there are MRA's on the left. Let's not go being divisive.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 05:32 PM
2

In this thread, /u/DaNiceGuy is most definitely not. Also, he's 200% the shining example of an MRA that feminists will (and do) cite as a reason to think we are all crazy.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 02:18 PM
1

Not to truth, it isn't.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 03:54 PM
0

Perhaps, but it forces the insurance companies to do a few things too, things which allow me to have health insurance when I couldn't before. Not all of us are middle-class white men. Some of us have been foregoing doctor's visits for FAR too long. I don't care who else benefits from this as long as people like myself are getting the help they need. I will not take seriously some neophyte who thinks that they will. This is why we shouldn't let political affiliation run rampant in our movement. B…
/r/MensRights28/09/13 11:49 AM
1

That's the shield, that defends them as to why they aren't making as much money as men (because they aren't making the same choices). The sword is when they get to use this myth to implement boardroom equality laws, STEM quotas, etc., without paying much attention to the bottom of the job bucket.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 09:59 PM
1

Strange shit. My beard is majestic as fuck. If they implemented a beard tax, I'd either 1) flee the country or 2) become Libertarian long enough to get it repealed. HURGGGH Sorry. I almost threw up from that last sentence.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 09:44 PM
2

Yes, thank you.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 09:38 PM
3

Feminism doesn't backfire on women, it's DESIGNED to be both shield and sword. One arm pushes for things like the Tender Years doctrine while the other cries "The Patriarchy demands we take care of children!" etc.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 09:37 PM
8

So, I'm a destitute young white male, and I'm really happy about the ACA. Sorry to burst any bubbles around here, but this is just a transitory step between whatever god-awful insurance programs we have now and single-payer. And in single-payer, we'll all pay the same ^percentage ^of ^our ^income .
/r/MensRights27/09/13 09:30 PM
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As a college graduate with an English degree, let me tell you I'd have killed to read something from a NON feminist perspective. I had ONE class about masculities in writing and I loved it. The rest were filled with Munro, Austen, etc. Blech.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 03:48 PM
2

Isn't this an admission of theft?
/r/MensRights26/09/13 12:18 PM
4

A lot of people are looking to be angry. Some men latch on to being circ'd. Don't circ your sons, but come to terms with your body and find peace. It's not healthy to obsess over it.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 04:48 PM
2

It's called "Skene's Gland" not the Prostate.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 07:23 PM
6

Prostate cancer is male specific. Breast cancer is not. Domestic Violence is not.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 01:45 PM
0

So being a "good" parent means foregoing 50 hour weeks to provide for your children and instead means a part time job? Sounds like someone's got their own set of gender roles all figured out.
/r/MensRights22/09/13 10:46 PM
45

This is fat acceptance disguised as nerddom.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 01:15 PM
22

Winner winner chicken dinner!
/r/MensRights16/09/13 10:15 PM
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I had this happen at a temp job. The women were talking about much worse things, so I wrote a polite email to HR. Guess who got reassigned the next day?
/r/MensRights16/09/13 09:34 PM
4

This book? I left a review there, too! Maybe that'll get their attention?
/r/MensRights12/09/13 08:41 PM
1

I know you really want to continue to "us v them" some more, but you need to realize it is more complicated than that. There are allies on the Left and there are allies in Feminism. It's not what we call ourselves its our actions. In the same way you wouldn't want the MRM described as a monolith, please extend that courtesy elsewhere.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 12:23 PM
3

We all have people in our parties we wish we didn't. How's the Religious Right working out for conservatives?
/r/MensRights12/09/13 11:46 AM
2

Fuck, I am getting so sick of seeing political party being dragged in to this. Let me try to put it as best I can: The "Conservative" MRAs want to remove laws that unfairly demonize men, that create structural disadvantages for men, and that default services away from men. The "Progressive" MRAs want to add laws that protect men, add language that is gender neutral and punishments for lack of enforcement, and default services to include men. That's it. We're on the same side.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 10:59 AM
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It goes back to Ancient Greece, where oral sex was demeaning, and used as a way to debase someone.
/r/MensRights11/09/13 08:48 PM
6

It's an uphill struggle with ourselves.
/r/MensRights11/09/13 01:39 PM
2

Oh good, another liberal v conservative thread in MR.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 07:04 PM
8

I wonder what they'd think if it were only male fetuses being aborted.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 03:29 PM
0

See, this is what happens when you get partisan about Men's Rights. We started getting associated with this nutbag. The same nutbag who wants to resurrect ancient sodomy laws to prevent homosexual relationships, ban abortion and birth control, and in general is a huge tradcon. Now we have to fight this association instead of pushing our own issues.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:16 AM
2

Pros: since circumcised men feel less, we last proportionally longer in bed. Checkmate, intactivists.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 12:25 PM
5

Here's the funny thing about language: "didn't" and "couldn't" aren't the same. One speaks from a position of power, the other does not. Thank you for your benevolence.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 11:57 AM
0

We aren't all the same, like all conservative states rights folk also aren't Klansmen.
/r/MensRights02/09/13 06:15 AM
9

Why do people insist on fracturing MRA allies by being partisan? I am progressive, believe in equality of opportunity, and there are people like me who could very well help the "image" of MRAs.
/r/MensRights02/09/13 12:42 AM
2

Let's not pretend this guy is in any way good. He basically wants to ban oral sex.
/r/MensRights31/08/13 10:26 PM
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Clearly, as ours have shown us.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 08:00 PM
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No. I'm interested in equality for men. Left or right is inconsequential. If we start defining "sides" by the views held in common, we are going to face a PR problem with states rights, white supremecists, traditionalists, mormons, etc. Why not stick to the issues.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 07:38 PM
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That's weird. I'm left and an MRA. How's that work?
/r/MensRights29/08/13 06:01 PM
1

Let's stick to facts, not ideology. This is already a Libertarian circlejerk.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 11:56 AM
3

Find a few women who behaved that way in their teens and twenties, only to regret it and begin the process of finding a "good man" in their 30's and 40's. Have them talk.
/r/MensRights25/08/13 03:15 PM
9

Well, how did Don Draper take it? /s
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:25 PM
2

So, this is dated material, does it take in to account the recent rise in MMA?
/r/MensRights23/08/13 03:42 PM
0

Are we moderating personal preference now, too? Seriously guys, come on. I get it. Circumcision is bad. Don't do it to your sons. But are you trying to say that these women are wrong for preferring the way it looks? Who are you to say what someone should like? Let me repeat: DON'T CIRCUMCISE BOYS. But think about the logical outcome of your "disgust." Women shun men who are circumcised as children, and these men are now, indeed, shamed for things beyond their control. Reign in your emotion here.…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 03:39 PM
1

Too bad greek yogurt tastes terrible and steak, chicken, fish and pork taste amazing.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 03:26 PM
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$40/hour is indeed financially lucrative.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:55 AM
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No shaming language here! Ad hominem free zone!
/r/MensRights23/08/13 12:26 AM
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Damaged: Harm or injury to property or a person, resulting in loss of value or the impairment of usefulness. I'm neither less valuable, nor less useful sexually or urologically. Fuck you if you think I am.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 11:50 PM
0

Don't be so hostile. You're acting like a feminist with all this rage. We can agree to disagree.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 10:48 PM
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Well, that's where I disagree. You can look at my post history regarding this topic, or I can give you the short one: Mutilation requires it to be essential, and if a penis can function without it (urinating, sexual pleasure), then it is by definition NOT essential.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 10:48 PM
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Bodily autonomy. Children have a right to decide what comes off of, and goes in to, their bodies, correct?
/r/MensRights22/08/13 10:45 PM
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You can get all of your required nutrition through pills and supplements. Why force a kid to eat vegetables if they don't want them?
/r/MensRights22/08/13 10:45 PM
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What if a child doesn't want to eat vegetables and the parents force them to? It's their mouth, their stomachs, and their eventual bowel movements. What if a kid just wants to play video games all day and not go to school?
/r/MensRights22/08/13 08:54 PM
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It's funny how the abused become the abusers. Victims of shaming language, the intactivists resort to it themselves trying to shame "non-whole men" in to feeling bad about their penis, their sex lives, and their relationships with their parents. All over some non-necessary skin.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 08:53 PM
1

I think we can do without political ideology and just agree that injustice is bad and let's fix it.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 07:41 PM
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Must be easier to circlejerk with all of that extra foreskin.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 12:01 AM
1

Reasoning flawed. But, I'd definitely enjoy if my girlfriend and I had an extra $225,000 lying around because she decided to have some babies.
/r/MensRights21/08/13 09:41 PM
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Maybe. It's person specific, I guess. I would've loved to have met my current partner 5 years ago and been well on my way to having a family. If you do wait until your 30's to marry, marry younger if you can.
/r/MensRights20/08/13 12:26 PM
1

Pre-cum doesn't contain semen, according to recent studies. :P
/r/MensRights20/08/13 11:40 AM
1

Stop drinking until you can handle yourself responsibly. I'm not against under-aged drinking (because it's a stupid and arbitrary line), but your decision-making abilities aren't finely tuned yet. Sober up until you're a bit older and have less to lose. You're young. Focus on whatever else you're doing in your life instead of girls. It's okay to flirt, talk, maybe hook-up (always be safe, always keep text messages before and after), but don't worry about settling down. When it comes time to be s…
/r/MensRights20/08/13 11:40 AM
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I'm progressive and I am a staunch MRA. Please try to avoid this sort of thing in the future.
/r/MensRights19/08/13 08:57 PM
1

Apples to Oranges.
/r/MensRights06/08/13 08:15 PM
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It is something people should opt out of if they want. But let's not pretend that anywhere close to a statistically relevant number of circumcised men are impotent or unable to orgasm because of it. If you want to sway people, go the bodily integrity route. Because most circumsised men will shrug at you if you tell them what they feel isn't good.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 10:32 PM
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I have empathy. That's why I want this man to calm down and live a healthier life. Hes obsessing over his loss over 20 years ago and hinges his identity on his lost foreskin.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 10:20 PM
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10% reduction in sensitivity per studies. And you want to sue someone? K.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 10:19 PM
-10

You need to relax.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 08:16 PM
-2

So many weasel-words.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 06:14 PM
3

Of course they prefer a socialist system, hell, I prefer a socialist system. The world is inherently unequal, and if equality is what we want, then a strong government is how we get there. But "Socialism" is an economic system, not a legislative one. The problem is that their PR/Lobby is stronger than ours (though that is changing). We could, theoretically, legislate equality to the same degree that they are legislating inequality. They are working "democracy" better than we are.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 11:03 AM
1

This thread turned out exactly how I hoped it would.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 09:08 AM
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I'm really tired of right-wing issues being snuck in around here. I am left, far left, and I also am an MRA. They are not mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 09:04 AM
1

Really? Being circumcised is the same kind of life-altering disability that having one foot is? That's a bit hyperbolic, and you know it. The car analogy is a good one. You can still get from point A to point B, you can still accelerate and go fast if you need to. Just not having as much fun as if you were in a more "powerful" car.
/r/MensRights26/07/13 01:09 AM
-1

No. Research says "10% more sensation" as quoted by you in the past. But hey, nice to know you're now sex-shaming circ'd men. Ostracism works wonders to get people on your side. I'm going to circ my next son just for you.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 07:13 PM
-1

Good thing I've only made this in to a car analogy. I'm spared your wrath. But, in the interest of academia, how is this analogy bad?
/r/MensRights25/07/13 07:06 PM
-4

Seems fine. At least I'm not a 4 cylinder, or a moped.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 07:05 PM
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I can't speak to what driving a nicer car is like, but I can tell you that since you're a woman you can't make a judgment on what its like to drive any car. Just to ride in one. So please don't tell me my car has bad tires or a crappy engine. Simply not true.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 07:04 PM
-1

But I'll never know what its like to drive a v10. So I'll just have to take your word for it.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 11:45 AM
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I've only ever driven a 6 cylinder car. Some of you only have 8-10 cylinder cars. Am I really missing out on life or can I still get where I'm going while having fun and going fast?
/r/MensRights25/07/13 10:02 AM
1

But dolphins, ducks, most apes and monkeys, and many more species "rape."
/r/MensRights18/07/13 10:43 AM
4

Women claim false rape, because they're "embarrassed" when others find out they had sex. Men claim false sex, because they're "embarrassed" when others find out they DIDN'T have sex. Those would be the analogs.
/r/MensRights16/07/13 04:24 PM
2

I've officially ignored everything coming from that site - it's garbage.
/r/MensRights16/07/13 04:17 PM
1

Been married over 20 years, most of it denial. The last 10 years I've been extremely unhappy and that's putting it mildly. You posted that 8 months ago. Why did YOU get married? Surely it was a rational reason, yes? Or maybe it was irrational, but you did it anyway. :)
/r/MensRights12/07/13 08:43 PM
3

Did I give any rational reasons to marry? Surely not. But hey, attack the messenger. Feminists would be proud!
/r/MensRights12/07/13 08:25 PM
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No, it's not rational. Is it rational to jump out of an airplane? Is it rational to drive 200 miles per hour? Is it rational to fall in love? Is it rational to take the square root of a negative? Is it rational to enjoy spicy food? Is it rational to dress up one day a year as a fictional character? Don't live in fear. Prepare for it, guard against it, but live your life fully and well. Marriage can be a wonderful thing, with the right woman. Find her. Enjoy your life.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 02:26 PM
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Typically, people who say they're making 100k+ at 18 are full of shit, and women know it.
/r/MensRights11/07/13 07:38 PM
3

Tone policing? Smells like feminism.
/r/MensRights11/07/13 03:13 PM
6

I'd also go a step further and suggest (with no proof) that the women who are "homophobes" probably view male/male with more derision than female/female. Which boils down to more vilifying male sexuality.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 01:07 PM
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Girl creeped out by unwanted male attention, you go girl. Guy creeped out by unwanted male attention, homophobe. Girl avoids men to avoid situation, feminist. Man who avoids situation, bigot. Okay then.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 12:34 PM
-5

That he got out, makes it a winning situation.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 12:20 AM
-3

It's only lose, lose if you don't take his perspective in to account.
/r/MensRights09/07/13 11:45 PM
10

He just dealt with the consequences in a way that empowered him. Now she has to live with her bad decision.
/r/MensRights09/07/13 09:35 PM
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It's abuse. If a man pokes holes in condoms, that is domestic abuse, and the same in reverse. It's the mother's fault, not his. No amount of "man up" or "think of the children" will remove the fact that if she hadn't done what she did, there'd be no child to "think of."
/r/MensRights09/07/13 09:35 PM
1

Some people pay child support without having married the woman.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 08:37 PM
4

Read Lysistrata.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 08:32 PM
0

You've got a talented future as an SRS poster if you keep making those leaps.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 09:21 PM
0

You'll fit right in round these parts.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 09:20 PM
-6

Well, I hope you have a plan for the millions of soon-to-be orphans you've just created.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 07:34 PM
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I see everything wrong with calling it "mutilation." My penis isn't crippled or damaged irreperably, and the people who it happens to are such a small percentage that we'd dismiss it as a non-issue (much less frequent than "rape epidemics on campus" we like to disprove). If someone wants to perform a cosmetic surgery on their child when it'd have the least impact on them mentally and physically, I see no problems with it. Bodily autonomy starts when sentience starts, in my opinion.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 07:31 PM
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Yep. I sure do. Men aren't disposable and women aren't to be coddled. You can play me with that angle that women are special little snowflakes.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 04:16 PM
-3

I'm sorry all of these crazy people are giving you hate. People don't like to hear that their feelings are invalid, sometimes.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 03:27 PM
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Yeah, divorce him because he has a different view point. Then later, you can use her as part of the "women leave at the slightest sign of turmoil" argument when we're talking about divorce rates. You're high as a fucking kite if you think circumcising a child disqualifies you from parenthood. You bitter and crazy as fuck intactivists drive me up a wall.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 03:25 PM
1

Legally unfettered access to your children?
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:44 PM
1

That'll last about a year. Then you'll hate each other because one of you will have to give.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:35 PM
6

I've done both. Childcare is easier. And if it's just her and 16 2 year olds, someone needs to call the state on that facility. 16 toddlers is 3-4 teachers minimum.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:30 PM
2

Northwestern? So many Native American mascots. I'm a Brave myself. ;)
/r/MensRights23/06/13 12:14 AM
2

Well, let's not get ahead of ourselves there, Hillclimber.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 11:15 PM
2

So ashamed to be from Springfield right now. Ugh.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 09:43 PM
7

If they were, they'd be doing them.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 04:39 PM
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Signing people up for spam mail is illegal in the US BTW.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 10:37 AM
1

Nevermind. Wrong comment and I just woke up.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 10:32 AM
1

Clearly that was a problem as humans evolved....
/r/MensRights15/06/13 10:31 AM
1

Sounds like you need counseling. And a visit to /r/nofap
/r/MensRights14/06/13 11:42 PM
2

Porn. Stress. Porn.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 11:41 PM
2

When the average age of a human was 40 years old...
/r/MensRights14/06/13 01:09 PM
1

They want your company name to doxx you and pull an Adria Richards
/r/MensRights13/06/13 12:14 AM
3

Make less than her.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:52 PM
7

Overheard at a doctor's office.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 11:33 PM
2

I don't think we need to. Think of it this way: Your goal is to get goods to market. You have a cart, and you have a horse. Which is more valuable? They serve different purposes, but without each other, you can't do what you need to do. They are equally valuable in the equation, yet different in function and form.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 05:05 PM
6

Are phone calls really parenting?
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:57 PM
1

This hits close to home. I'm a young man who, by all accounts, many would say should never procreate again because of my naivety and mistakes. When I was 20, I met an older woman (34) at a party. She was attractive, interested, and wore a ring. I asked her about it - "I'm in the process of getting a divorce." I even corroborated with third parties. Fine, whatever. We fuck. She's "on the pill." She comes up and visits me two weekends later, we fuck again. This time she cries as she orgasms, telli…
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:55 PM
0

So, man who doesn't want to be a father and opts out, deadbeat. Woman who gives up child for adoption, wise.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:37 PM
-2

My ex-wife used about $80 to buy a bunch. Stupid.
/r/MensRights08/06/13 11:43 AM
19

Smells all sorts of fake.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 02:06 PM
-2

Sometimes it seems like every girl is born with a $3,000-$30,000 coupon dangling between her legs, and all an obstetrician has to do is wait to collect it.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 10:58 AM
1

www.eslcafe.com Enjoy your new life. Can bounce around between China, Vietnam, Thailand, Philippines, etc.
/r/MensRights05/06/13 11:05 PM
1

How can someone buy what no one is selling?
/r/MensRights05/06/13 01:23 PM
1

Middle Eastern people are Caucasian, technically.
/r/MensRights05/06/13 01:14 PM
8

So just like your relationship, you don't actually challenge her on things that you know you won't agree on. Gotcha.
/r/MensRights03/06/13 07:02 PM
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Amen. My ex-wife is one of those academic third-wavers, and every day all I had to hear about was how oppressed she was. Couldn't watch anything that may offend her, trigger warnings everywhere, etc. I was miserable.
/r/MensRights03/06/13 06:57 PM
1

From 1946 - 1961 in America roughly. And not for any reason sexist or otherwise. There was opportunity, respect, a loosening of racial tensions (but realistically, still there, so forgive my caucocentric world view), and abundance.
/r/MensRights03/06/13 02:01 PM
1

On phone or I'd help more. :(
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:50 PM
3

Its not annoying. You have nothing to compare it to. It's just you.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:43 PM
4

Google Andrea Dworkin.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:39 PM
1

Yes, it went from 4% breadwinners to 15% breadwinners. It also went from 7% single moms to 25% single moms. The average wage of a single mom is $23,000.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 02:36 PM
5

/u/okwajo must own the blog, obviously.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 02:19 PM
2

The average single mother makes 23k a year. That qualifies you for most government assistance programs.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 10:19 AM
8

To paraphrase Hilary Clinton "North American slaves are the real victims of the slave trade."
/r/MensRights29/05/13 01:41 PM
4

Eliminate? No. End? Yes. You've achieved equality (or superiority) in the developed first world. Shift your sights elsewhere.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 01:16 PM
13

It's also because 90% of all slaves headed for South America were worked to death. North American slave owners treated them like beasts of burden, South American slave owners treated them like disposable machinery. Source
/r/MensRights29/05/13 01:15 PM
3

I know that when I've explained to potential partners about how I am successfully raising my son without much help they get all moist in the crotchal region. Literally.
/r/MensRights27/05/13 11:10 AM
6

It's only a problem when they stop having babies at an acceptable rate. Which occurred sometime in the last decade.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 08:04 PM
6

What do you think is fair for being in jail for 4 years, unjustly, and having a ruined reputation that will severely inhibit his earning potential (nevermind not getting to go to college, etc etc). 10 million? 20? Who pays that?
/r/MensRights22/05/13 06:42 PM
8

Look in to helping the elderly. Many don't give a shit. My uncle is a massage therapist, and that's what he does.
/r/MensRights22/05/13 04:00 PM
6

Who knows. I wouldn't doubt it in the least.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 06:47 PM
-5

I like this bill, a lot. It'll cut down on the unsatisfied princesses, and hopefully up the rate of women getting busted for fibbing about abuse. No-fault divorce is terrible.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 06:35 PM
7

Ha. Yeah, I'm a single father, and he's 3. Though I've dutifully gotten his mother a present every year, it's never been returned. And of course I get my father something. It's not really a gift if you have to ask, ya know! Thanks though. :P
/r/MensRights21/05/13 06:22 PM
4

“This emerging field is international and interdisciplinary,” said Professor Kimmel. “Much work on masculinities uses the prisms of feminist theory, multiculturalism and queer theory..." Not the kind of center for Men and Masculinity that we need.
/r/MensRights20/05/13 09:33 PM
2

I'm being serious. It's an interesting theory that makes sense at first glance, and I'd love to see studies done to that end.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 07:53 PM
2

I'm no scientist, and study needs done, but I can totally see that helping out.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 07:42 PM
5

I smell a troll.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 12:55 AM
1

Of course you can. Not every homosexual/bisexual person is one by nature. The large majority are born that way but some also decide to switch teams later.
/r/MensRights16/05/13 08:36 AM
2

Nice call, spot the troll!
/r/MensRights15/05/13 01:21 PM
6

How is it right to force a man to endure fatherhood, knowing it could lead to financial ruin?
/r/MensRights14/05/13 12:44 PM
2

I was one for two years. The first was at a Kindercare in a low income area in the Midwest. I got accused of pedophilia three times in a nine month span. Luckily my coordinator stood up for me but after the third we came to the conclusion that it wasn't worth either of our time or effort to keep going. The second time I worked at a center I went to as a child part of the Catholic health system. They had no qualms and neither did the parents. I'm sure there's a joke to be made there about Catholi…
/r/MensRights14/05/13 11:21 AM
5

A shocking revelation! When given the opportunity to parent instead of work, even "enlightened" women choose to parent in great numbers.
/r/MensRights07/05/13 06:49 PM
8

Onions.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 08:50 PM
9

The best part occurs when the realization hits a lot of women that if they are successful, they will have to settle for a man who "isn't." Jobs are a zero-sum game, not everyone gets one.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 06:13 PM
-3

They had every right to because parents make decisions for children all of the time. It's pretty much one of the job descriptions. Did they make the right decision? According to you folks, no. According to me? Indifferent. I experience zero side effects, and a successful love life. Lucky? Maybe. Angry? Definitely not. My parents love me, and I trust them. They had a reason, and they had it done. That's it. Can't go back now, so better move on and not pass it on. Right?
/r/MensRights01/05/13 08:36 PM
0

They aren't circumcising them to harvest the foreskin. They just happen to be able to market the foreskin afterwards. Would you make the same argument for liposuction patients, as well? Being harvested for fat?
/r/MensRights01/05/13 08:34 PM
-3

So because I didn't have a choice, I am not human. This is why people don't take intactivists seriously. These sorts of arguments turn off people who would be converts, except the hyperbole is outrageous.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 08:19 PM
2

how about we cut iseewhatyoudidthere.jpg
/r/MensRights01/05/13 07:52 PM
-1

It's deplorable. But you're also calling every circumcized man sub-human, by tieing humanity to intact.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 07:51 PM
2

Look at all the tone police in here!
/r/MensRights01/05/13 06:44 PM
-1

The only person talking about my cock here, is you. It's not about my cock, at all. It's about the fact that you're belittling me for not being enraged about something that I have no memory about. Does it hurt an infant child? Yes. Should it occur? No. Did it occur to me? Yes. Do I care? No. Should I care? That's not for you to decide, but you'll try really hard to do it for me. You are the reason Intactivists are seen as crazy. There are plenty of arguments you can make, none of which involve b…
/r/MensRights01/05/13 12:44 PM
-1

Ah, it's you again. You've certainly been one of the more vocal people about telling me why I should be enraged at it. Speaking of projection... I am not FOR circumcision, I just don't mind mine because I am a balanced individual who doesn't fixate on memories I don't have to hold grudges against people who love me.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 12:22 PM
5

Money doesn't equal trust. Or more importantly, what if he trusted her with it before, and this is the result?
/r/MensRights30/04/13 08:20 PM
5

So what are a man's options to you, then? Split it now and after... or stay single?
/r/MensRights30/04/13 07:58 PM
-3

No. Very actively, Intactivists are enraged by the fact that I am not enraged by my parents decision to circumcise me. One need look no further than this sub-reddit to see it any time circumcision is discussed.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 07:56 PM
-5

I have a hard time giving money to a group that actively shames me for being not-angry about my circumcision.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 05:31 PM
5

These creeps are almost always male, and they almost always find a way to work with kids. Willful ignorance of all of the female teachers sleeping with their young male students.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 01:15 PM
1

As a former child-care worker, and former ECE, let me just tell you - only proceed with following that dream if you're prepared to eat a lot of shit on your way up.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 04:22 PM
1

Feminists should love these young Thai women empowering themselves. But in the same article, we get some virgin/creep shaming. Tsk tsk. Who cares how people interact with one another. Money? Great. Love? Wonderful.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 06:54 PM
1

So according to Chief Justice Roberts, paying child support means a default right to visitation/custody?
/r/MensRights17/04/13 06:50 PM
1

I dunno how I feel about this. I sort of hope it's a white male too, and I'm a white male. We aren't going to go to "war" with white America, but if it's a "brown" male, well, we may end up jackboot deep in Iran, for instance.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 06:44 PM
1

This argument may sway the minds of people about Feminism for that reason alone. But it won't sway their minds about Islam, so I think you could calm down a bit.
/r/MensRights16/04/13 05:51 PM
1

I don't think anything is WRONG with manual labor, but manual labor is definitely more dangerous and more harmful (in practice).
/r/MensRights15/04/13 06:46 PM
3

I understand that. I was trying to illustrate that even at the minimum of 40% of each gender represented, the 3rd gender is a minority, and thus not a concern of Feminists.
/r/MensRights12/04/13 08:26 PM
3

This is an illustration that shows that Feminists only care about women, not men or transgender people. They don't care if women are >50%. They don't include a quota for transgender or 3rd-sex people at all.
/r/MensRights12/04/13 08:25 PM
2

No, if there are 3 genders, then all must be equally represented, or else we need some more gender equality to rectify it, yes?
/r/MensRights12/04/13 06:57 PM
3

How do you achieve 40% men, 40% women, 40% 3rd gender?
/r/MensRights12/04/13 06:25 PM
3

As long as they haven't been treated like a shit can by society, no they're not. Show me a society that hasn't?
/r/MensRights11/04/13 03:19 PM
1

This is the best article I've ever read.
/r/MensRights10/04/13 07:45 PM
1

Woah. Alright. I'm done here.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 06:26 PM
0

You're misunderstanding me. I just want you to let go of all of that rage and work on being healthy and content in your own self. Even REAL rape victims have to come to terms with the event, and learn to live a fulfilling life in spite of the event. You too will have to learn to cope with it. The rest? Well, you're just a bit angry and a bit too involved in it, I think.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 05:11 PM
-2

Just let go. Life is so much better without all of that rage. You are beautiful how you are. You can't go back again, so it's better to find the beauty in yourself and make sure not to pass along the damage to someone else.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 09:38 PM
1

Daddy issues everywhere in this thread.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 08:52 PM
3

I was adopted in to a loving family, and I feel my biological mother pretty much said "fuck this shit, handle the kid on your own, strangers." So...
/r/MensRights02/04/13 08:51 PM
3

I'm thankful that instant-winnings like this aren't subject to child-support adjustment claims. If he had taken the annuity, it would've been (as it's then considered income).
/r/MensRights29/03/13 05:59 PM
-11

That's because the ideal man is a grueling laborer and the ideal woman is someone who eats 3 balanced meals a day. Because Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 11:23 AM
2

Yes. I am.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 01:57 PM
2

It's clear you didn't read the backstory. She lied to him repeatedly, stopped taking birth control to get pregnant to force him to stay with her, etc.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 11:19 PM
3

It reeks of "I don't want to talk to my abuser any more." Do you always recommend the abused have a rational discussion with those who have made a profession out of manipulating them?
/r/MensRights27/03/13 03:41 PM
4

Who's educating and sleeping with your sons? I think of women. Don't send your kids to schools with female teachers! /s
/r/MensRights27/03/13 01:26 PM
9

How would you prefer someone sever ties with their abuser, then?
/r/MensRights27/03/13 01:20 PM
1

It's rape if you change your mind from "Yes" to "No" but is it rape if you change your mind from "No" to "Yes?" Not defending it, just asking a question.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 11:10 PM
0

Probably because obesity is unnatural.
/r/MensRights16/03/13 06:27 PM
3

Where's the negligent stay-at-home-mom who cybers all the men for loot in Everquest/WoW/etc while kids scream in the background, picking new boyfriends out on the web, and leaving a trail of broken homes in her wake?
/r/MensRights15/03/13 11:57 PM
1

But what about the man making her do it that they didn't catch? /s
/r/MensRights01/03/13 03:06 PM
1

This begs the question: What is happening that makes people stay "juvenile" longer than before? People used to get married at that age frequently, and younger, and still have successful (or at least functional) marriages. Because in other cultures, there are DROVES of 19 year olds ready to settle down with kids.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 07:19 PM
7

This isn't quite right. You signed an obligation to take care of your child. A contract through deceit is not (should not) be valid.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 06:48 PM
1

No problem. I've seen plenty of smoking hot C cups lose wet t-shirt contests to some 3's with 38F's, haha. ;)
/r/MensRights28/02/13 04:58 PM
1

So I need to correct myself. The tribe that does it, does it for pacification. But men can lactate: www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=strange-but-true-males-can-lactate&sc=rss
/r/MensRights28/02/13 08:58 AM
1

Don't move the goalposts on me, guy. First it was can you do it, now it's can you do it as good as.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 08:53 AM
4

Men can induce lactation as well. Theres a tribe in Africa that does it.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 01:40 AM
5

As a single co-parent I don't have time in my day to wash us both separately. Until the day I feel confident he won't drown and will wash himself thoroughly, he will shower with me. I estimate 4 or 5. I'm not sure what happened but somewhere along the way we became scared of our own parents. What the fuck.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 01:37 AM
3

flat-chested FTFY
/r/MensRights27/02/13 08:58 PM
35

Uh oh, I shower with my 3 year old son regularly. Better call the po-po! He knows what a penis is!
/r/MensRights27/02/13 06:23 PM
0

Shit pay by American standards. Obviously not shit pay by Mexican standards, or they wouldn't be there. Every interaction in the fields with migrant workers has been nothing but positive for me. They'd share lunch with each other, joke, laugh, live. It's only terrible from the top looking down. Not so terrible from the bottom looking up. Some people do derive pleasure from an honest day's labor. Some of the most satisfying yet grueling days of my life were spent in high school on a construction …
/r/MensRights27/02/13 01:21 AM
1

Genetic diversity is important. After the 10th generation of fem-clones suffers crippling deformity and impairment, they'll be BEGGING the remaining breeders to share.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 01:17 AM
1

Happy is relative. Just because they're migrant workers doesn't mean they're unhappy.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 01:16 AM
1

Instead we just have crime and angry fat women.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 01:04 AM
7

Onions everywhere. Damn it.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 01:03 AM
4

Is rape or sexual assault a woman-only thing?
/r/MensRights27/02/13 12:32 AM
2

I've already faced it. I've got a hyper 3 year old son who is staggeringly brilliant, but hard to focus. His pre-school teacher is already tossing about the dreaded 3 letter acronym that will prejudice his (mostly female) teachers against him and stigmatize him as unruly, unmanageable and even "disabled." I'm fighting tooth and nail to get him behavioral coaching rather than medicine, so wish me luck. When you're ready for kids, love whatever comes out. But you raise a lot of valid points.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 08:58 PM
0

I'm not sure men can practice Hypergamy if women are practicing it too.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 08:47 PM
2

It's because men are acutely aware of the equation that states: Effort In = Money Out They know that if they choose to work less to be with their family, not only will it impact the bottom line immediately, it'll reduce their chances of moving upwards as well. Capitalism cannot sustain itself on "flex-time" workers.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 08:39 PM
2

Look at all the projection!
/r/MensRights25/02/13 07:53 PM
1

It's not reality though. Reality suggest stability through pair bonding, not through a romanticized concept of alpha /beta exploitation. If you think one step beyond the tip of your cock you would realize immediately what kind of "society" would exist if what he is advocating came to pass. Here's a test: Explain the benefits of a system set up as described above. Take as much time as you need.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 03:02 PM
2

Sure, call it male shaming. In one breath you call me collectivist and in the next you accuse me of not including this fully unworkable vision of society in the feel good manosphere. Competition is good, except when the trash talk comes out. Then you're a little offended. If you're the alpha male you claim you are, own up to it. Say it out loud you want to take other men's partners and leave your children with the betas. Say it out loud that you feel superior and deserve access to those men's wi…
/r/MensRights25/02/13 12:41 AM
6

You're conflating many things at once. When you say "blink of an eye" are you speaking geologically? Across the whole of humanity? Or are you including monkeydom in there too? I assume you think that we should revert to animals and do as monkeys do? I get you're jaded, but "brainwashing and coercion?" Many men freely choose to marry, and many men freely choose to go their own way. This movement isn't about "abolishing marriage" it's about leveling the playing field between the genders and allowi…
/r/MensRights24/02/13 07:00 PM
8

Ah, the good ole "nature = best" argument. I'm sure it gets your alpha cock hard just thinking about all of the betas you can leave with your kids. One woman, one man breeding systems are as stable as it gets, given the mental, emotional, and physical health of all involved.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 06:50 PM
1

Doubtful. We get along great. We're happy.
/r/MensRights21/02/13 01:41 PM
11

My girlfriend is the least feminist woman I know. She agrees with me on everything pretty much. She also suffers socially for it. But sticks to her morals. Its great.
/r/MensRights21/02/13 12:45 AM
6

Heard this on 99.7 the blitz in Columbus this morning. I was the guy who texted in and reminded the DJs that if a man had hired the stripper he'd see more than a year and a sex offender registration on top of that.
/r/MensRights21/02/13 12:44 AM
6

If she's making 25k per year, that's essentially the cost of child care for two children. Why not raise them yourselves?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:38 PM
1

I'm really really in to kids. I really want to have 2-3 more kids. But I'm not going to knock up someone I just met without consent.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 05:11 PM
3

I'm with you. Feminism can't be socialist or communist. Egalitarians can be, though. As a left person who is also an MRA, I get all manner of riled up by the coopting of socialist movements. From each according to their ability (recognizing gender differences...) to each according to their need (...yet recognizing equal worth).
/r/MensRights15/02/13 01:27 AM
21

Who knows, but I trust women to (like the original fb poster) define that for themselves rather than being told that by men.
/r/MensRights10/02/13 06:26 PM
12

No offense, this sounds all sorts of made up.
/r/MensRights09/02/13 11:58 AM
8

1st world and libertarian don't exist together. Sorry.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:05 AM
1

Let's not let your hatred for those ideologies conflate the two. Feminism ISN'T the logical outcome of it; it's a perverted outcome of a need to be recognized as equal and be given equal opportunities. Not everything in Feminism is terrible. There are a few worth saving.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:56 PM
1

I'm sad that Feminism has polluted Marxism and Socialism. As someone extremely "left" I read "from each according to his ability, to each according to his needs" to celebrate the DIFFERENCES in everyone, not their equality. A woman doesn't need to be "equal" to a man, because like the various functions of the proletariat, we all have a diverse yet important role to share. And in that balance, is where equality lies. Equal recognition of your value, not equal placement in life.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 01:28 PM
1

This thread is stupid. Every response is a canned NAFALT response, and it undermines talking of movements at all by boiling down any negative response to a personal exception of "That's an individual, not the movement."
/r/MensRights03/02/13 12:57 AM
1

Two comical suggestions as to why: Gay men get to hang out with other men at a higher percentage of time occupied. Fabulousity.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 07:19 PM
2

Utter horseshit. Female Privilege exists, and this is it.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 12:27 AM
2

If you honestly thought that he legitimately suggested "Please, miss, let me suck that blood off for you" instead of something "I vant to suck your blood" I don't even know what to say. Accusing me of being a troll? Must be because I disagreed with you. I think you sound like SRS. How's that feel?
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:15 PM
1

"He likes girls" is humiliating? "He's a flirt" is humiliating? Being made to stand in the corner as discipline is humiliating? You've clearly succumbed to the culture of fear. When I was in high school, all of this was perfectly acceptable and expected from teachers. Being disruptive? Stand in the corner. Being a jerk? Get called a jerk. Even the joke about sucking blood would've slid. Until I have direct quotes about what he's saying to the girls, I'm more inclined to believe he's disciplining…
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:05 PM
1

It doesn't matter if they can exert the same energy or not. What matters is getting your fellow soldier out of the shit, and if they can't do that, then they shouldn't do that. Period.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 06:06 PM
3

Money grab. Statute of limitations is long gone. How are they going to prove a 20 year old gang rape? They don't have a rape kit, toxicology report, anything. Hammer that angle home.
/r/MensRights27/01/13 12:37 PM
1

I believe in marriage as the end-goal of a relationship and something that is beneficial to societal stability. There are many, many kinks that need worked out as described by some of my friends here, but on the whole, I believe it's an important institution (I'm not religious, but whatever).
/r/MensRights25/01/13 04:09 PM
0

I think I'd end up somewhere around what Europe censors as far as media goes. A little more lenient than current America. Of course, I think that some things should be censored, and some shouldn't. But what I want and what I get, often two different things.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 06:13 PM
1

I'm "left" and don't think we should censor much.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 04:42 PM
3

I'm torn. I don't want divorce to happen, obviously. But it has. I am divorced. And we spin it the exact same way to protect our son: Mommy and Daddy love you and now you have two houses! Two of everything! He's young, and frankly, hasn't known anything else. So, maybe they aren't trying to "sell" it but at least soften it, because we're in America, and we divorce OFTEN.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 08:37 PM
2

Everyone makes mistakes. Crimes of passion are tricky. But if they're one-offs, then maybe that's not irreconcilable.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 06:03 PM
2

I am a male educator, and I can tell you that there's a strong disincentive to be a teacher. Pedophilia charges, having to watch your back, etc. For a guy like me who loves teaching children, it taints my profession to have to endure constant criticism for doing your job. Correct a student who is out of control? You're seen as an abusive jerk. Recognize talent and try to foster appropriate mentor-type relationships? You're a pedophile. You'll see. Once you start getting to classes where you're t…
/r/MensRights23/01/13 12:27 PM
12

Every woman on every dating site ever.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:35 PM
1

Jag talar Svenska, vod talar du?
/r/MensRights18/01/13 03:06 PM
44

But men have to settle for every overweight princess because "personality."
/r/MensRights18/01/13 02:46 PM
1

You're wrong. Sex addiction is real, and so is over-stimulation. And it's a REAL problem for men.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 12:02 PM
9

"Babe, just get over it, alright? I didn't like her anyway. Hey, are we having sex tonight? Can you put a roast in the oven?"
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:55 PM
3

Well, in competition for resources, people will become increasingly shitty towards one another in order to get those resources. This is one of the fears in China, as well. Increased crime due to frustration.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:54 PM
0

Commented. MR. A indeed. ;)
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:52 PM
2

Crude as it is, there will always be a man willing to pay for what's between a woman's legs, whether she can read or not. The same cannot be said for a man.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:39 PM
12

Well, there's a shred of science behind this. Not that men in general are bad, or that more men are bad, but that more men without women are bad. A lot of social scientists are worried about what's going to happen to China in 15 years, when they have 30 million more males than females. So in this case, so many men together will encounter limited resources, and thus, violence will arise. It's an economics problem more than gender, but the economy IS gender.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:33 PM
2

I think Economically speaking, it is zero sum. It just dawned on me why. In every recession, men and women lose jobs, but women are filling those lost jobs at a higher rate than men. Thus, more unemployed men. However, since birth rates are staying (roughly) the same, it means that more children are being born to unemployed fathers and employed mothers. The end result being that half of all child bearing women are employed, half are not, but most are having babies. And who will support them? Hal…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:26 PM
91

She does, after she realizes that she fucked up in the second one. But only after.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 04:10 PM
286

She killed their relationship by trying to separate him from his feelings, due to feminism. When my father dies, woe to the woman who tries to interrupt my grieving process because of her ideology.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 11:53 AM
2

I was in a similar situation as you. I was adopted. Though I grew up with loving adopted parents, I always felt abandoned by my biological mother. When I turned 18, I went looking for her. Not necessarily to strike up a relationship, but just to show her I was okay and find out why. She refused contact through a third party. She didn't want me, and didn't want contact. Aside from the devastating abandonment issues that ensued, the MRM has helped me see that its entirely her right to do it, and i…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 11:38 AM
2

It was because the women in these stories want to feel special, while also being equal.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 02:31 PM
-4

Why? Are criminals a sub-class of humans incapable of love or concern? You don't even know what he was in jail for. Your classist side is showing.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:11 PM
1

As a Columbus resident, I'm proud to see that even OSU isn't immune. (Fuck OSU, btw).
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:08 PM
21

Thanks, Feminists.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 05:39 PM
4

No. Only income. Interestingly, ohio says that one time winnings such as the lotto don't count unless you take the annuity option.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:12 PM
2

... her first response on Facebook to his big wall of logic: "You must be more boy than man..."
/r/MensRights11/01/13 06:05 PM
3

First response: ad hominem.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:30 PM
0

I don't know why you're being downvoted. Women are important halves of the family unit, but mothers are there to set expectations on how interactions with females should occur, and to nurture and love. If your son wants tips on being a man, he needs to look to other men (father, coaches, teachers, etc). Men don't teach girls how to be women, so why do people think women can teach boys to be men? That's feminist indoctrination at it's core.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:39 PM
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That's a good way to get shot or stabbed in real life.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:37 PM
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Step 1: Don't give a shit what women say or think about you.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:34 PM
3

Nope. She moved out, and it's your abode. You can change locks if you want to.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:44 PM
6

This is the correct answer. If men shatter the myth that only women can stay at home and be good parents, then they'll have to like, try hard.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:57 PM
3

Since she moved out of the marital home, you have a HUGE chance to keep it. IANAL, but typically the parent who moves out loses that part of the property argument. Your best course of action is to lawyer up, date the girl but don't tell your ex (it's not her business). As far as your son? Well, push for joint if that's something you want, but realize it's as much of a curse as it is a blessing. I have joint custody, and any hopes of doing any sort of moving or traveling have pretty much been rem…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:54 PM
3

Happiness isnt measured by wealth. I live in an apartment complex filled with hispanic migrant workers, and Somali refugees. They all appear much happier superficially than I do, without probing too much in to it.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 11:14 AM
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Women may be picking strawberries, but they sure as shit aren't feminist. They're migrant workers who most likely adhere to strict gender roles because of their culture. And they probably enjoy their life immensely, all things considered.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:28 AM
5

No. Her father. I'm glad youre weighing in but some people actually are. Court case. Documents. Seen them.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:56 PM
8

Ministry of Truth?
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:08 PM
3

NAFALT? Okay.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:03 PM
7

Oh no, you misread. It's got to be someone you trust, and are intimate with. Someone you KNOW won't squeal. Not just someone you meet at the bar, or whatever. Committed partner.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 03:13 PM
0

I had this discussion with my feminist ex-wife, and a few mature women (40's) and it was quite telling. My ex-wife is NOT in to rape fantasy because she has actually been raped. So it calls up a bunch of not-fun memories. But, she likes when a man "takes charge and is aggressive in bed." The older women said that they enjoy "rape fantasy" so much because men today always ask for permission, are afraid to be "rough," cater too much to their partner's needs, etc. They think men aren't "masculine" …
/r/MensRights07/01/13 01:42 PM
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http://www.commissioningboard.nhs.uk/files/2012/07/comm-maternity-services.pdf Page 2 • Maternity Services are used by over 700,000 women a year and the birth rate continues to rise at around 2% per year • Maternity care costs the NHS on average £2800 per woman for antenatal, intrapartum and postnatal care • Effective maternity services are interdependent on primary care, specialist services and the range of early years services provided in community settings • The average CCG with a population …
/r/MensRights06/01/13 06:41 PM
1

That women, on average, cost more to any health insurance system than men due to child birth. This fact alone, should we apply her logic in reverse, should allow for all men in the UK to pay less tax towards their NHS contribution, yes?
/r/MensRights06/01/13 06:03 PM
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If she Is in favor for lower Insurance for females based off of statistics, ask if shes in favor of lower taxes related to NHS for males due to statistics.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 04:55 PM
1

But if we respect their choices, we assist them in selling their bodies. But if we are real men, we won't "buy them." But if we don't "buy them" we aren't respecting their choi... oh no, I've gone cross-eyed.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 04:18 PM
16

So then naturally, real women don't sell themselves.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 01:39 PM
13

OP, I feel you. It'll just get worse as you get older. I worked in a restaurant as a cook during college. Above average guy, and a shameless flirt. A married server begins flirting with me, daily. Everyone knows it. People tell me to make a move, she's unhappy in her marriage, etc etc. I just keep flirting. She pulls me in to a cooler to kiss me, and it's hot and heavy. Nothing beyond that... but we get walked in on. I laugh, she freaks. Guess who's got sexual harassment accusations leveled at h…
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:21 PM
4

Verbal, mental and (sometimes) physical. The sex was really, really wonderful. She was far prettier than anyone I had ever dated, so I thought that I'd never be able to do better. She is a great mother to her children, just treats her partners poorly. I ended up leaving, though. Too unhappy with myself to continue (but really miss the sex).
/r/MensRights27/12/12 09:21 PM
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I know you're looking for a reason to be angry, but if it's an old bath-house schedule, did you ever consider the fact that back then men actually worked very strenuous jobs that required them to bathe more? And that women didn't, and only needed one day to bathe? I mean, sure, by today's standards that's absurd. But back then, there were a lot more men doing a lot more dirty work, and thus a higher demand.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 09:34 PM
1

False equivalency. Don't cut anyone if you think its wrong, but harboring that sort of resentment is contrary to good mental health and good interpersonal relationships. So, get over it. Have your feelings, get your therapy, but get over it. It happened 20+ years ago for most of you and I'm sure most of you only because "outraged" recently. move on.
/r/MensRights25/12/12 12:36 PM
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No way someone's mom wrote that. And the libertarian shit at the end really sealed it.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 01:23 PM
1

I dunno why. Currently nationwide and others send you a device that plugs in to your car under the steering wheel that'll track all of that, but it's for discount purposes now (good driver discount).but anyone with a brain can tell they'd use these metrics in a gender neutral way to set base rates and then give discuss individually.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 03:15 PM
0

The use of that device that allows them to track stats like acceleration, braking speeds, time of day you drive, etc should replace any sort of bracket-based pricing entirely. That's equality.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 12:45 PM
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I just can't date America women anymore. It's just too many hoops, too many strings, too many tests and too many double standards. I don't know what mgtow means but I certainly appreciate femininity (and I don't mean the kind that means full sleeve tattoos and 50s clothes).
/r/MensRights22/12/12 10:27 PM
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Get over it.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 10:18 PM
1

So he doesn't deserve to make more money because he's strong? Okay.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 08:56 PM
2

Kick ass. I am signing up!
/r/MensRights10/12/12 09:08 PM
3

Good news for me, if Kasich would hurry and sign it. I can use it in my current one!
/r/MensRights10/12/12 08:58 PM
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If he's educated, he'll dismiss the statistics as remote and minute and unlucky (because that's what they are). Because that's what I do. But if you want a shot at it, you'll probably have to argue emotion and the threat of his son hating him like some of the psychos here who blame their parents for ignorance and have actually STOPPED LOVING THEIR PARENTS for something silly like foreskin.
/r/MensRights07/12/12 02:41 PM
6

In England?
/r/MensRights07/12/12 02:26 PM
1

I don't think she's picking her friends over her husband, I think she's trying to find a balance between supporting her husband and having a social life. It's important for both of them, obviously. He even said it's their only bone of contention. Only one point of contention? Enjoy your close to perfect relationship, because it typically doesn't get much better.
/r/MensRights03/12/12 08:05 PM
5

Until social ostracism leads to a shattered marriage, and divorce. All because he couldn't keep his mouth shut? Pick your battles wisely; losing your partner because of MR probably isn't worth it. If he's happy with her, he'll keep quiet. No one gets everything they want, and I doubt he's willing to trade MR for happiness.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 11:05 PM
1

I really am fine eating more taxes.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 01:00 AM
3

No. I love who I am. I can't waste time and emotion wishing on what ifs and should've beens. My cock looks fabulous.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 12:56 AM
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Happened just recently: "Why did you wait so long to say something?" Fine, I'll say something. So I say something "Why can't you just be a man about it?" Well, fuck me right?
/r/MensRights19/11/12 11:04 PM
1

If I had a dollar for every time I'd been given a side-ways glance, or accused of being a pedophile, or had to take extra precautions working as a child care teacher as a male, I'd have enough money to move to a country far more tolerant of males being around children.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:25 PM
-1

Find an Asian woman. From Asia.
/r/MensRights18/11/12 05:41 PM
-4

Fine tuning my resume for obstetrics wards. brb!
/r/MensRights16/11/12 03:19 PM
-4

If she has a baby, the child can die. Just sayin'.
/r/MensRights16/11/12 02:38 PM
-7

The frenulum is compared to the clitoris? The clitoris is what turns in to the whole of penis once the fetus "goes male." Does the clitoris have a smaller clitoris attached to it? Reaching.
/r/MensRights16/11/12 02:37 PM
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Let's not get hysterical. 100+, out of 2 million born on the US. Assuming 67% are circ'd, then that means 100/1,340,000. More people die every year falling out of bed in the US than that. You're arguing from the extreme. [Source:http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1562978,00.html]
/r/MensRights16/11/12 02:36 PM
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That's because she's trying to minimize what your wife does to you by making you seem overly sensitive, aggrandizing, and portraying you as having a victim complex. She's on your wife's side, and you need a new counselor. I had a shitty marriage counselor who took my ex-wife's side automatically. You're not going to have a good time. Report her to her supervisor, if she has one, and find a new one.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 02:30 PM
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I'm dating a Cambodian woman (born here, raised very traditionally Cambodian) and it's like a different world. My ex-wife is your typical mid20's academic "because patriarchy" and I couldn't be happier with my current decision. It's not that she's not "empowered" it's that her view of being empowered is totally different than most western women. She takes pride in running the house, and being the sole keeper of my pleasure/happiness, and the things she can do to that affect me so much. And I don…
/r/MensRights05/11/12 08:34 PM
1

I don't think it causes premature ejaculation. I said I last 10% longer because I feel 10% less than you. Project much?
/r/MensRights21/10/12 05:03 PM
1

You argue from hyperbole. If it's not quantifiable then you can't tell me what I'm missing. Mystical penis touching holds no power over me.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 06:52 PM
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You say 10% more pleasure, I say sex is over 10% quicker.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 11:16 AM
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No, that's okay, I don't feel the need to have a discussion with you since it's not going to change either of our opinions. As far as caring for my son goes, I didn't retract it until after he did. And I tell him to clean himself, and if he doesn't, I do. End of story. It's almost as if all you can think about are little boys' penises. See what I did there?
/r/MensRights19/10/12 10:08 PM
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I don't retract it, except to clean it in the bath tub. You know, like parents do. Did you know that children touch themselves pretty much nonstop? He's found out, all by himself, that there's something "within."
/r/MensRights19/10/12 09:43 PM
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I don't, because the removal of foreskin is neither crippling, removal of a limb, castration, nor the removal of an essential part of your penis. Have you stopped beating your wife? Derp.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 07:57 PM
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I don't care if you like me or my ideas. I don't need to "belong" here to agree with you or disagree with you. I didn't circumcize my son, but I would've if I had the choice. I'm a barbarian. But that's my burden, not yours. And if it becomes illegal before my next son, well, he won't get it. I'm pretty sure my son will end up circumcized anyway, because his foreskin isn't retracting/hasn't detached from the underside of the glans, and he's almost 3. But it's cool, he'll have a sweet looking coc…
/r/MensRights19/10/12 07:47 PM
-9

I call bullshit. Promiscuity has existed since always. King of Ireland, anyone?
/r/MensRights19/10/12 07:36 PM
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Voted yes. Sorry guys. :(
/r/MensRights19/10/12 07:22 PM
3

I didn't read too far down but... If racism cannot occur from the minority to the majority, does this mean that sexism cannot occur from the minority to the majority?
/r/MensRights17/10/12 08:44 PM
0

I share your opinion. Many here do not. Many here want you to hate your parents because they were ignorant. Rude ass motherfuckers.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 07:44 PM
1

Cloth diapers are cheaper in the long run.
/r/MensRights07/10/12 01:03 PM
1

Pinky toes are essential for balance?
/r/MensRights27/09/12 12:37 PM
-4

You're overly aggressive. And I'm not going to fault my parents because you don't like that you don't have a foreskin. I'm thankful for not having a foreskin.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 08:56 PM
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False equivalency. If I lived in a culture where tattoos were accepted and important as a part of cohesion and thought to grant boons to those who received them, only to be proven wrong at a much later date, then no, I wouldn't care and neither should you. My parents did it because they were working under the assumption there were health benefits, that it would make me "normal" amongst my peers, and because of their religious beliefs. I can't fault them for doing what they thought would help, be…
/r/MensRights26/09/12 08:45 PM
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That's a terrible argument. Sex is as good as it feels for someone circumcized. I literally cannot imagine what it'd feel like to be any better, because it already feels amazing. I literally cannot fathom what I'm missing, so to miss it is ridiculous. As great as sex feels, I think adding more to that is like throwing a match on a conflagration. Whoopdy do.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 08:33 PM
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As a man, I wish I could take this seriously. I just can't. I can't muster any outrage at my parents for circumcizing me. I don't even care. I don't remember being circumsized as an infant. I don't remember crying. I don't remember anything. What would make circumcision palatable? Anesthesia? Everyone's first response is "LOOK AT THAT SCREAMING BABY" and I'm like "So what, my son did that when he: pooped, was startled, wasn't pooping, was hungry, wasn't hungry, bumped his head, didn't bump his h…
/r/MensRights26/09/12 08:29 PM
1

I just started dating an Asian woman. She's strong, opinionated, a hard worker, doesn't take bullshit. And she fucking loves making me food, feeding me, massaging me, and treating me like her king. Best of both worlds, I say. Also, she doesn't think you need to be "feminist" to be a woman. It's heaven.
/r/MensRights24/09/12 06:25 PM
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