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That's so awful. She should face charges for manslaughter.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 06:16 AM
0

Thanks I'm cured.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:52 AM
5

The only show that does this well is Avatar.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 05:39 AM
3

Yes that's right I am very much in love with a horse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:03 AM
2

What are some remedies for being genetically cursed with chubby cheeks that stay no matter what weight I'm at?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:57 AM
1

And I'm out of luck because I was cursed with perpetual fat person face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:57 AM
2

What
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:56 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:46 AM
2

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:44 AM
2

Hahahahaha can you hear yourself. When I was skinny af I was flat as a cheeseboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:28 AM
1

Yes the sunset is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:27 AM
3

Spoken like a true bluepiller
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:24 AM
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My face is the way it is because I got shit genetics that gave me perpetual chipmunk cheeks. Even when I was underweight I couldn't rid the fat from my face lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:24 AM
2

Eh I'm not so into beastiality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:23 AM
1

Yeah because all a man has to do is bulk up. Can't change your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:22 AM
0

Ass is overrated, I got boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:19 AM
2

Lol not the real ugly ones. I for example could never change from a makeover. I look even worse with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:19 AM
1

Ha like I'd fall in love with a random PPD stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:17 AM
1

Those are empty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:16 AM
2

Please direct me to them. Haven't found them yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:14 AM
1

Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:09 AM
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Bullshit. You don't know Anne Hathaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:06 AM
7

Of course when you're Anne fucking Hathaway style can change your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:02 AM
3

Well I'm a woman and I don't have sex and I am emotionally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:22 AM
13

Honey, that is not just sexual harassment. That is sexual assault AND harassment. She should be ashamed of herself so sorry you have to go through something like this.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 03:21 AM
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Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:17 AM
4

Therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:14 AM
2

I guess I'm used to being mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:13 AM
1

Then what the fuck are you trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:10 AM
-1

Mock me if it makes you feel any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:07 AM
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Its not in the database.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:56 AM
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No, it was just a question because I saw that other question about dating conservative men and I thought I'd make my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:15 AM
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I don't think I should be dating people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:09 AM
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I can't copulate all day because I am religious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:09 AM
1

The answer is I don't know. I can't know. I spend hours at night digging into my memories, photos, and social media to try to reach a consensus with myself but I can't. Hopefully my therapist can help me with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:05 AM
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I didn't lie about him raping me, I just had memories pop up that convinced me that he had. I didn't falsely accuse him because I never reported and I don't even know who he is so no one who could know him knows. I really believed the memories I thought I had. I was deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:01 AM
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I never dated anyone I met on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:57 PM
-3

I didn't even know they were going to cross my boundaries. Also, none of the guys I dated were attractive. I took whatever came to me. I stayed in my place as an unattractive woman and I still ended up with boundary crossers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:57 PM
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What trauma? I don't have trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:49 PM
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Where are women supposed to find good men that won't cross their boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:32 PM
1

Which is worse: Giving birth or being kicked in the balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:58 PM
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No one can realistically give an answer to this question because no one has both been kicked in the balls and given birth. Men are always going to think that being kicked in the balls is worse because only they have experienced that. Women are always going to think giving birth is worse because only they (and transmen) have experienced that.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 09:02 PM
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I just noticed something about dating that may or may not be an outrageous generalization. Or maybe it's obvious already and I'm just an idiot. Women tend to ghost and don't respond a lot of the time because they are afraid of committing to the wrong guy. They are strategic. Men tend to take what relationship comes their way for better or worse. They are opportunistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:13 PM
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Men are the majority of rape victims?
/r/MensRights15/02/21 07:01 PM
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And this is a men's rights issue how?
/r/MensRights15/02/21 06:41 PM
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A million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:42 AM
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You're gonna have to pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:21 AM
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Fuck I got tiny prickly pear cactus spines stuck in my boob hours ago and they are still there this fucking hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:01 AM
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Or for not respecting yours or other women's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:00 AM
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That is very blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:59 AM
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No, I want someone to help me. I want someone to get me out of this rut of crying every night about the same things. I need a professional to help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:47 AM
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I don't...have any evidence. I was unconscious. I woke up fully clothed so I know he couldn't have gone that far. But I just don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:46 AM
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I said and am nothing what you say. You project your anger for certain women on me. I understand why you're angry and I really do want the best for both men and women. I've been trying to do all I can in my own mentally ill way. I didn't say anything about jaywalking I said slander. When you say someone is spreading lies about you you are publicly accusing them of slander.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:16 AM
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I believe innocent until proven guilty should go both ways. If we are skeptical of people who say they have been raped without proof we should also be skeptical of people who say someone lied about being raped. Both are accusations of serious crimes, the first of sexual assault and the second of slander. If you don't think due process applies to everyone including those who are accused of slander, you can suck it.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:01 AM
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No, I do care. I did not forget any sarcasm tag.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 04:45 AM
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This isn't mentioning the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 04:12 AM
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Here's a bit of insight from a woman who was once a high schooler. The reason we think you all have sex is because or parents told us that. My parents always told me to be careful around guys in high school and told me they all want sex.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 03:39 AM
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Some of them have men punching the girl in the vagina though.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 02:28 AM
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That sounds like disassociation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:10 AM
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What do you mean by that? Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:58 AM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:40 AM
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False. You just haven't experienced it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:40 AM
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Don't forget about false rape accusations. They ruin men's lives.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 01:22 AM
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Because there is no female equivalent.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:59 AM
1

Ahahaha I wouldn't say that. I am crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:04 PM
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A little.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:02 PM
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That's pretty much what being human is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:59 PM
2

Everything else including what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:33 PM
0

Why are you asking me? Even I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:26 PM
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Would you like me to say it louder?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:25 PM
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No. I'm saying that he didn't and that makes me feel bad because even though he didn't I am still traumatized. I took dubious memories and dreams and convinced myself I was assaulted so I could feel better about feeling trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:23 PM
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And what do you do? What do you contribute?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:22 PM
2

How do you know. Do you do housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:15 PM
2

Multiply 45 minutes by 2 or 3 or even 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:07 PM
2

Its all people. The reason is waking up to a guy in my bed traumatized me but I feel like because he didn't assault me I don't deserve to have trauma so I ended up taking dreams and dubious memories and telling myself I was assaulted when in reality I have no way of knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:06 PM
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Uh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:05 PM
3

I'm sure mental illness is a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:05 PM
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I made up fake memories of being assaulted so I could get attention and ended up believing they actually happened.. Its not natural. It's an ugly compulsion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:00 PM
4

Oh so they provide sex. And you love them because of that. Not because you are altruistic but because you are horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:45 PM
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I'm getting therapy this Friday. Hopefully it will help me and I will no longer feel the need to be an attention whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:45 PM
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I don't live in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:42 PM
3

Then what do women provide to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:42 PM
1

No. Love is when you just want to be around a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:36 PM
1

You got citations?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:35 PM
1

If a man thinks he should be loved regardless of not respecting boundaries or sharing the housework or contributing at all, then yes. I can't love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:30 PM
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Bitch yes we can. I unconditionally love a lot of things. My family. My friends. My pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:25 PM
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No, we want fairness. If the man makes less than us we need him to do the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:24 PM
2

I guess that is fair. But what if the woman is the breadwinner. I come from a household where my mom makes a teacher's salary while my father makes a little above minimum wage and yet she still does the housework because my dad won't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:23 PM
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Women don't. Some women do. But women as a whole don't. Especially not me. I don't submit to anyone, unless it is part of a kinky roleplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:20 PM
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Would you do the work for two people and work a full time job? All us women want is for the work to be shared. We both work full times jobs and we both do housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:19 PM
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Dust mites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:16 PM
2

Because they often have to do the work of 2 or 3 or even 10 people while also working a full time job while the man just works a full time job
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:13 PM
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Good. Now try doing the housework of two people. Or three. Or four. Or even ten. That's what it's like to be a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:09 PM
1

Happy valentine's day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:07 PM
3

Listen, man. If you don't clean your house thoroughly it will attract bugs and mold.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:04 PM
2

Though I as a woman would prefer to live on my own income than have to depend on my husbands. My worst nightmare is being a gold digger/trophy wife.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 08:03 PM
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Well you see having a house also requires replacing the pavement its on, cleaning the furniture, fixing the walls, fixing the ceiling, wiping down the shower, wiping down the bathtub, cleaning the toilets, cleaning the windows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:52 PM
1

Hot take: Housework is as mentally and physically exhausting as a full time job. It takes energy to make sure the walls aren't caving in, to make sure every surface is free of pet hair. In addition, you have to cook which means planning, buying, and preparing ingredients. Oh, and an even bigger hot take. Some men think it is easy because they never actually have to do housework and would be content living in an unfurnished cave just as long as they can play video games and have chicken tenders b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:48 PM
2

Men's standard of upkeep and cleanliness is that the walls are caving in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:26 PM
0

What would an ideal consent course for high school students cover?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:12 PM
1

Brapp brapp pew pew
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:07 PM
1

No I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:02 AM
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My body, not my choice?
/r/MensRights14/02/21 06:37 AM
3

No, tea is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:02 AM
1

That's horrible.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:50 AM
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My true market value is that no man wants to commit to me. They all just want sex first. Which won't work with me because I am religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:33 AM
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Nah I am actually pretty ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:22 AM
1

No I would not say the same about actually oppressed groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:17 AM
1

You implied that socially awkward men are an oppressed group.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:14 AM
1

Being lonely is not oppression. Being lonely is just a mental health problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:11 AM
10

Does not talking about it lead to the intended result?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:51 AM
28

That's horrible. Consent needs to be talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:49 AM
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No, they can get themselves out of this rut but they have to realize no one is going to come along and help them do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:43 AM
2

Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:22 AM
1

How fun are you to be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:18 AM
0

I know right. Who knew the attention whore would suck the joy out of people's lives? I think I deserve to hurt so I entice people to hurt me. I like it when they hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:16 AM
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Shame on her.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:14 AM
4

I am not. I am a miserable person to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:05 AM
1

I guess I am sadomasochistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:47 AM
2

No, I mean, why compare a living person to an object?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:31 AM
2

Whats with men and comparing women to cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:21 AM
1

Okay I did post a pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:20 AM
2

So who do I take advice from then since almost all women are prettier than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:19 AM
8

The actual fuck. Who the hell thinks men can't experience trauma?
/r/MensRights14/02/21 03:03 AM
4

Why do you think women have to get stiches after childbirth?
/r/MensRights14/02/21 02:41 AM
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Absolutely not. No one should be responsible for a child they didn't choose to concieve.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 01:08 AM
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No thanks I don't need to relive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:35 AM
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Someone on here dmed me and told me I need rape exposure therapy. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:51 PM
2

There's no rules against that, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:45 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights13/02/21 11:42 PM
2

Yeah, but you can get an abortion before the third trimester.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:40 PM
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We don't actually know whether or not a fetus is conscious. It is all just speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 10:43 PM
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No one really knows whether or not a fetus is even conscious. The fetus is just a tool people use to push their agenda. Regardless, if any man forces me to have sex with him (note, this does not mean I think men are rapists only that rape by a man is a possibility, so do not put words in my mouth) I will not have his kid. I am not financially or emotionally stable enough to be a mom. I am not going to push a rapists baby out my vagina. I am not going to go through labor and pregnancy just becaus…
/r/MensRights13/02/21 10:42 PM
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A fetus isn't a child any more than a fertilized egg is a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 10:26 PM
2

That is called murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 10:24 PM
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Hot take: Allowing fathers to veto abortions is a REEEEALLLLY bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 10:16 PM
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Yeah, but the child's body tears a woman's body apart.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 10:14 PM
2

Less than what was needed to secure the presidency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:11 PM
3

Probably left this toxic shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:04 PM
-9

Exactly. MY BODY MY CHOICE.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 09:00 PM
0

Even with Trump being acquitted, he's still never going to be President again. The people don't trust him, and they shouldn't trust him. He's proved himself incapable of leading our country without nearly causing a civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:58 PM
3

Why am I crazy? Just because I go against your narrative of what a woman should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:04 PM
1

It took me 20 years to find a group that accepted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:03 PM
1

No, you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:59 PM
1

What can I not dip in ranch?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:51 PM
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Get out of here.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:43 PM
5

The thing PPD hates the most is women who disagree with their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:28 PM
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I swear as much as I fucking want bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:21 AM
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And just like that, all the years I spent excluded from conversations, not talking to anyone are erased. Better erase the time one girl brought me to her friends and they ridiculed me and said they hated me. Better replace that with your narrative because clearly all women have the same lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:21 AM
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Gandhi said an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:09 AM
1

Are there not any women in government?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:03 AM
1

Do have proof that 80% of men are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:41 AM
1

Please explain why political power is connected to bias. People without political power can still be biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:28 AM
1

If you're talking about circumcision, that is a huge generalization.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:22 AM
1

Again, where did I say they have political power. Just because they don't have political power doesn't mean it's not a fact that they support men and thus its bs to say men get no support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:20 AM
1

Can you point out where I said they did have political power?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:13 AM
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Losing your virginity implies that it was a choice you made. When a man or woman rapes you, it isn't your choice.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:07 AM
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Like I said, PPD is a toxic relationship. I love it for all the wrong reasons and I want to leave but morbid curiosity brings me back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:44 AM
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A guy who thinks with his dick has no room in his brain for logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:33 AM
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Fuck being an MRA and fuck being a feminist. Egalitarianism is the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:31 AM
2

Just because they have no political influence doesn't mean they don't get to do whatever you want. If you claim you are better than feminism you actually have to BE better, not just say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:31 AM
1

No political power doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Scientology has no political power and it still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:30 AM
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One has an emotional connection. The other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:59 AM
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I absolutely would be. But I am borderline asexual so who cares about my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:54 AM
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Said like someone who will never be in a relationship because they are selfish af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:10 AM
1

And you still don’t know how orgasms work, which proves you probably have never made a woman orgasm in your life. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:07 AM
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Yeah, but you damn well know it hasn’t helped me at all mentally. And I doubt it has helped you either because you apparently don’t even know how orgasms work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:04 AM
1

And that is why you are on Reddit. Posting false information about orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:03 AM
2

And has it made your life better? I doubt so because you’re still on the toxic waste plant that is Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:01 AM
1

And how has that philosophy worked for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:00 AM
3

So your philosophy is take an eye for an eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:59 AM
7

Another hot take: The reason you are lonely is because of you. If you never talk. If you never go out. If you never do anything that might possibly inconvenience or hurt you, it is probably your fault that you are lonely. Take it from me, I was selectively mute for 5 years. No one helped me. No one saved me. It was I and only I who did save myself. There is no one else but you who can pull yourself out of the hole you’ve dug for yourself. If you’d rather dig yourself deeper because you are scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:58 AM
1

"I don't care about MRAs, just like the rest of society" Yeah, that's not you just trying to push an agenda at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:51 AM
-1

"There is no support for men." You say while supporting men and ignoring the existence of the Men's Rights groups. You just want to feel like a victim so you can feel justified in whatever negative emotions you are experiencing. You are no better than feminists who say all men are rapists. Egalitarianism is the way. To side with only men or only women is a fool's move.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:45 AM
-2

Hot take: Men are innately just as biased towards other men as women are towards women. Some men just don't want to admit it because that would conflict with their victimhood narrative of "men are the only oppressed ones and thus it is okay for me to stay at home not socializing because I'm a victim".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:36 AM
6

I had guys touch me without my consent a lot. Unwanted touch is uncomfortable, no matter the gender of who did it. Just remember, you have a right to feel uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 02:30 AM
1

Isn't it also true that men are also biased to believe other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:03 PM
13

Exactly, people are the problem. Not just men or just women.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 07:36 PM
0

How do you know? Are you bisexual? I literally am bisexual and have spent time in the bisexual community so I think I would know more than you about that subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:02 PM
2

That's why I said worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:01 PM
3

Because in order to take the moral high ground as Men's Rights often does, you have to not be a hypocrite. And when you believe one accuser based on their word but not another, that is hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:59 PM
1

I'm not talking specifically about this subreddit. I'm talking about reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:57 PM
1

Yes it is. It's the court of public opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:41 PM
0

Something I've noticed is on Reddit if a guy says he has been accused he is automatically believed and the girl he is talking about automatically demonized even though no evidence is provided but their word. I don't get it. Shouldn't innocent until proven guilty go both ways? And are we really going to pretend that real rapists never lie about assaulting people or try to justify their actions by saying the victim actually wanted it? When you say someone falsely accused you, you are in turn accus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:35 PM
1

I like playing video games but never with voice chat because I'd rather not have shit yelled at me about my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:24 PM
1

Also bisexual includes those who are attracted to transgenders and enbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:22 PM
3

Just what else people can come up with. When people talk about false rape accusations as if they make real accusations any less valid it makes me angry. And I guess I like being angry. I come here to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:30 AM
6

Morbid curiosity. It's like a burning car wreck. I am scared and disgusted but I can't look away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:26 AM
1

Well don't worry any more about it. I moved out. I even changed my lease. I found a roommate who doesn't throw parties. Now all I've still left with is symptoms that I can't really understand nor comprehend. Insomnia, panic attacks, flashbacks. But it's fine. I will drag myself through this. One effortful painful step at a time. One night spent not sleeping at a time. One flashback triggered by doing yoga at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:19 AM
4

PPD is like a toxic relationship. I say I hate it but I keep coming back. Good thing I do this with a sub and not a real person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:14 AM
1

Yeah, I made the mistake of getting drunk in my own apartment. I made the mistake of passing out in my own bedroom. I made the mistake of thinking I was ever safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:13 AM
1

I don't know, am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:07 AM
1

I'd like to know how I was supposed to reject a guy I didn't even know was in my bed because I was too drunk to see or even move. I'd like to know how I was supposed to reject a guy who held me down by my shoulders and kissed me even as I was turning my head from side to side trying to get away from him. It would be nice to know. Maybe that would help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:06 AM
2

That's on you for expecting me to be predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:04 AM
0

I can't be better. All I ever do is hurt people and make their lives worse.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 07:47 AM
1

Ahahaha no you don't you're just an internet stranger. My words mean nothing. That's why I keep posting because I know it won't hurt anyone in the long run. It's like shouting into the void. Very therapeutic when you are still waiting for your next appointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:43 AM
1

Cool. Guess I just gotta put up with it. Just gotta let guys do whatever. It's fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:41 AM
1

No. I can't they are asleep. She's been through enough already. If you don't want me here just ban me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:40 AM
1

I can't leave. It's not 2AM yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:34 AM
0

Cool book. Cheap sex sounds interesting. I tried to read Lucky by Alice Sebold but it was too intense to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:28 AM
-3

Women are not wonderful. Women are bad. I hate women. Including myself. I am bad. That's the truth and I shouldn't have denied it. Women bad.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 07:27 AM
1

I can't. I'm addicted. I can't stop. This is my fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:25 AM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:11 AM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:08 AM
1

So guys kissed me out of nowhere because I care about what people think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:53 AM
1

What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What are you talking about get out of here please tell me you are joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:51 AM
1

Exactly. The church is the best place you can go. They will offer unconditional support regardless of what you've been accused of.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 06:35 AM
1

Probably. There aren't any real stats on that unfortunately. I wish there were. But the sad thing is that entire organizations against sexual assault believe forced penetration cannot be rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:30 AM
1

How did you know my room is a mess? Are you outside my house? Are you looking in through the window. How did you find me? Please tell me I'm getting scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:28 AM
0

You know what, I am done with this sub. This sub is full of blatant misogyny. Everything here makes my mental health worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:49 AM
1

I don't have depression. People with depression lose all drive to do things they like. I still do the things I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:33 AM
1

Tell that to my PTSD, anxiety, and ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:31 AM
1

"Better to let millions of people be killed than one man be falsely imprisoned"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:19 AM
1

No, 1 in 5 women are assaulted by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:14 AM
1

I said until 2018. "There were an estimated 139,380 rapes (revised definition) reported to law enforcement in 2018. This estimate was 2.7 percent higher than the 2017 estimate and 18.1 percent higher than the 2014 estimate. (See Tables 1 and 1A.)" From the FBI website. Quit your bullshit, quit your bullshit, quit your bullshit, quit your fucking bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:14 AM
1

Yeah, and who would you rather save, a man accused of rape or a rape victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:13 AM
1

Ah yes, the false memories argument. The argument which is used to discredit rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:09 AM
1

https://youtu.be/W6dxEk_2Hdo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:07 AM
1

Did you not read my comment? I already read the fucking FBI database. The rates stopped being counted in 2018. Link some actual numbers and stop making up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:03 AM
1

Link it. You are pulling numbers out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:00 AM
1

Well I checked the website and it had none of the numbers you were saying. Link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:59 AM
-2

Also, saying rape is just regretted sex is victim blaming and when you say that you make it even harder for victims of rape to come forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:52 AM
1

No, rape is very prevalent. I've had about five different social circles and in each one at least one person person had a history of rape. You just don't think certain things should be rape. You're probably one of the people who think a drunk person asked for it. Or that most reported rapes are just regretted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:51 AM
1

And where did you get 125,000 from. The latest amount of reported rapes was 139, 380. Why did you subtract 10,000. And that is only counting reported assaults. Many cases go underreported for reasons you probably can never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:38 AM
1

Where are you getting 0.756 from? What number did you use with 125,000 to calculate that? If you can't tell me, I will continue to assume you pulled numbers out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:34 AM
1

That is just pulling numbers out of your ass. Cite a study, or there is no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:30 AM
1

I know a situation where you think they will tell the truth, one where victim is a man and the alleged perpetrator is a woman. Because a lot of people like you care about false accusations, but only when a man is getting accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:29 AM
1

Statistical fact is supported by evidence. All I see is that someone made up a statistic they think suits their worldview and slapped a percentage mark on it. No evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:25 AM
1

Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:23 AM
1

And how just easy do you think it is for someone to prove they were raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:23 AM
1

Yeah you're just tired. Both people who deny the prevalence of rape and people who deny the prevalence of false rape accusations are just trying to play the victim card.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:16 AM
0

The sexual assault stat is 1 in 5 and that is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:07 AM
1

Yeah, sure. But false accusations are over 50%, that way even though you've never been falsely accused or convicted you can still feel like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:06 AM
1

Rape doesn't need an erection to be committed. Rape can be committed with the fingers too. And an erection isn't needed for a BJ.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 10:58 PM
1

Fucking hell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:51 PM
0

Unfortunately I will never be happy with an ugly guy. Tried 3 times before. Was never happy. I'm the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:48 PM
9

The thing is deep down I already know why. I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:14 PM
7

I think this post would better be suited to r/MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:13 PM
1

Well of course you can't blame the problem on only one gender. All that does is increase the animosity between the two. The best thing to blame would be humanity in itself.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 05:11 PM
2

Another problem is that you are still describing rape as it stereotypically occurs (e.g stranger jumping out of the bushes in an abandoned park or alley) and not as it actually occurs a lot of the time for both genders (being raped by a relative or significant other, and occasionally an acquaintance). We can avoid dark parks at night. We can avoid putting our drinks down at parties. We can avoid being drunk. We can avoid parties. But this solves only one part of the problem. There's only so much…
/r/MensRights11/02/21 04:49 PM
2

I feel like this is better suited for r/MGTOW. Avoiding women out of fear they may arrest you or get you arrested on a whim is a MGTOW sentiment.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 03:31 PM
1

My grandfather doesn't pay alimony nor child support. Neither does my ex-uncle or my other ex-uncle. My grandmother and two aunts all have to work two jobs to make ends meet. Also, awards of alimony are rare "Unlike child support, which is common when divorcing couple has kids, alimony awards have always been very rare, going from about 25% of cases in the 1960s to about 10% today, said Judith McMullen, a professor of law at Marquette University."
/r/MensRights11/02/21 03:15 PM
1

I live in a family of divorce and none of the women are rich off alimony. Most of them have to work two jobs to make ends meet.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 03:00 PM
2

I just added that part about men having to do the heavy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:16 AM
-1

Would you consider a lesbian woman privileged? Sure, she can become rich if she marries rich, but why would she want to? Don't get me wrong but I really dislike that they think women having a better chance of being rich if they marry rich rather than starting a business is privilege. I, for one, view that fact as an unfortunate leftover from the old times when women were basically property to their husbands. I don't think it's a good thing for women to have to marry rich to be rich. We should be…
/r/MensRights11/02/21 06:59 AM
0

Yes, but this is a very, very, small minority of women. Most of us women are lower to middle class. It could very well be compared to how feminists use the small fraction of men in power to justify the concept of the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 04:48 AM
-4

If we talk about the women millionaires as an example women are privileged we are falling into apex fallacy territory.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 03:14 AM
2

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:24 PM
3

But it was only one time where a guy I dated kissed me without consent. The other two times I barely knew the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:13 PM
9

I hate how as a woman I am protected and kept from leaving the house at night by parents because I am a woman. I wish I could be tall, strong, and a man, that way I could just punch the shit out of anyone who tries to attack me. I envy men for their strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:57 PM
0

Agreed.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 10:55 PM
-1

So just because some women don't like men asking for consent I need to get sexually assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:08 PM
1

Uh uh. Women are not hurt less by rejection. After the first guy I dated broke up with me I didn't get over it until I was un college.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 10:07 PM
52

Get a paternity test asap
/r/MensRights10/02/21 09:50 PM
4

I already specified. One was my boyfriend, one was a guy I met literally an hour ago in my dorm's cafeteria, and one was a random guy at a party I didn't know who decided he'd cuddle me while I was asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:25 PM
1

No. It was a guy in my bible study group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:22 PM
2

Well I guess I just attract guys with zero social skills then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:06 PM
1

Do any other women here prefer to have a guy ask you to kiss rather than them just grabbing your face and kissing you. I've been kissed by 4 guys, and only one of them considered "hey maybe this girl doesn't like to have her chin grabbed while she's looking away from me and clearly wanting to get the hell out of here I should consider whether she wants it first". The first was my ex boyfriend, the second guy I had literally met an hour ago, the third was a guy at a party who snuck into my room w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:44 PM
8

I wouldn't be calling them a pussy at all. After the fourth guy asked me if I wanted to kiss him I actually felt amazing. All of the other times my head was turned into a kiss I didn't like it. I didn't feel like I got to choose. But this time I actually wanted him to kiss me. I got to go for it myself instead of having my chin grabbed. I guess my issue is that I prefer being a dom over a sub. I don't like it when people just grab my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:37 PM
14

I don't understand why out of the four men who have kissed me, only one considered whether I actually wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:29 PM
2

Nurse Rached? You're going to compare a woman deciding she won't put up with being touched inappropriately to a nurse who subjected her patients to shock therapy and lobotomization?
/r/MensRights10/02/21 05:36 PM
3

That's like telling a man that if he doesn't want to get falsely accused, he shouldn't have sex. Victim blaming.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 05:03 PM
4

I can name a bunch of revenge songs sung by men though. 50 Ways To Say Goodbye Your Time is Gonna Come I Hope You're Happy Now I Feel So Good Whatever Gets You Through the Night Cry Me A River And also Blank Space is not that good of a choice. It is more of a parody of a revenge song than a revenge song in itself. According to Kahn, Swift envisioned "Blank Space" as "a video addressing this concept of, if she has so many boys breaking up with her maybe the problem isn't the boy, maybe the proble…
/r/MensRights10/02/21 04:07 PM
2

How would you feel if a woman depicted you as clutching her feet.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 03:52 PM
6

Yes OP, she is grooming you. Your sister's friend is fucking disgusting for saying those things to a child.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 01:36 AM
1

To be fair, the article does describe her as "depraved with a black heart."
/r/MensRights10/02/21 01:08 AM
4

She must've drugged him
/r/MensRights10/02/21 12:19 AM
10

Affirmative action.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 08:09 PM
14

Why is this a men’s rights issue? I think it’s okay to be upset with how you are depicted in a painting.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:38 PM
0

Anything more than 0. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:18 PM
5

I’m fine with vulnerability as long as their way with coping with the vulnerability isn’t being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:09 PM
4

Because people want an accessible scapegoat that won’t cost them money. If they call out razor companies they won’t get to earn money from sponsors.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 06:57 PM
0

I think the thing is not that these women are willfully ignorant of the feats feminism has done against men, but that they aren’t aware. It’s hard to see misandry when you aren’t a man and thus haven’t experienced it. I think the best thing to do is to make women more aware of what powerful feminists have done to discriminate against men. You see, prejudice is learned, not innate and people can change. Many people learned to be racist or sexist from their peers and family and they aren’t quite o…
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:18 PM
1

I’d say I’ve been dating down. I dated less attractive men who barely showered because I thought that was my worth. I also happen to attract guys who have zero motivation or drive to succeed whatsoever. I attract guys that either don’t want to go to college or dropped out even though I am still in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:01 PM
2

You don’t approach women who are just trying to go about their own damn business. That’s how you get pepper sprayed in the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:59 PM
9

They’d rather pretend it was consensual and that they wanted it than to face the fact it was rape. There is still a stigma against male rape victims; they are seen as weak which goes against the male gender role of strength and some men would rather deny what happened than be seen as weak by society. Rape is already a hard pill for victims of all genders to swallow. Most don’t really acknowledge it happened until way later.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 04:49 PM
6

The whole trend of shaving wasn’t created by the men or the women. Just razor companies. Why? To sell more razors.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 04:34 PM
0

I think they are trying to explain that feminism is not a monolith. There’s at least five types. The radicals are the loudest and very sexist. And feminism really has no leaders. Some feminists have more power over the government or media than others, but the feminists I know don’t follow any particular leader. The feminists I know aren’t the ones who have systematically discriminated against men (aka the rich feminists) . They are regular, middle-class women who just happen to call themselves f…
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:43 PM
9

Men should throw their own take back the night marches.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:19 AM
13

Circumcision is also referred to as MGM.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 04:03 AM
7

No, that would be a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:59 PM
-1

Thanks for your advice, I have been struggling with grasping social situations since I was 5 and I honestly might have a disorder. I’ve been trying to get a better grip for almost 21 years now.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 09:55 PM
-1

You still can’t pretend like they only mentioned men’s rights and didn’t talk about feminist subreddits like TwoX.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 05:42 PM
-13

Yeah, some are bigots. But you see, it's not all bigotry. It has a lot of posts about other issues like periods, pregnancy, and self confidence. You cannot pretend like all the posts on TwoX are sexist.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 04:19 PM
-18

TwoX is not akin to the MGTOW subreddit. It is filled with some angry people sure, but a lot of posts are also about other problems women face like misogyny from other women, malfunctioning period problems, and self-confidence. MGTOW on the other hand doesn't give advice or support. Only rants.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 03:54 PM
-8

You're seriously going to compare this sub to r/wholesome. You think this sub is nothing but support posts and activism. There's no misogyny here at all?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 02:53 PM
-3

What better places? The only place that exists that is remotely active is r/egalitarianism and even then they don't even want to talk about women's rights there because "there's many subs you can talk about women's rights on" . The rest of reddit besides that doesn't want to talk about men's rights issues. Reddit is fucking difficult when it comes to gender equality. All I want is a sub where people can talk about both without being called sexist for not focusing on the more oppressed gender.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 02:01 PM
-6

At what point does talking about women's rights at all turn into "trying to shift the discussion primarily towards women and their problems". I think there is room to discuss both.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:45 PM
-6

Yeah, people support you if you’re a guy. Not if you’re a woman who also cares about women’s rights however.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:27 PM
-50

How is the post sexist? They also mentioned TwoX as being hateful. If anything I think there is misogyny on this sub, but it's not every user and that is what that OP was saying. Not everyone is out to get men. I’d be sexist if they only mentioned Men’s Rights and not TwoXChromosomes. I think this is a fair analysis ya’ll are too sensitive to consider.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:07 PM
-4

I have no idea what you're talking about but hey I'm tired too so good night.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 06:18 AM
-5

What exact confirmation bias do you think I'm trying to fulfill? From my point of view I see a lot of hypocrisy and it frustrates me. Posts like this one where men are supposed to be allowed to post on women's subs about their issues but women aren't allowed to post on men's subs about their issues.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 05:51 AM
-60

Oh so you can post to a woman's forum and complain but I make one (okay maybe more) post to a man's forum about women and everyone loses their minds. I also like peace and not war. Sadly, some people just want to remain in their bubbles of rage.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 03:01 AM
3

No, it's about teaching men to be something they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:16 PM
10

Exactly. It's very attractive when a man is confident in his own skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:39 PM
13

Women don't mind insecurities, it's how you deal with insecurities that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:35 PM
10

Yeah they are. Everyone is insecure, regardless of where they stand on the pill politics spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:32 PM
15

Most red pill men act alpha to make up for their insecurities. I don't want any part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:28 PM
0

There's a documentary called When Girls Do It: An Examination of Female Sex Offenders but I think the problem is victims of sexual assault by a woman are still stigmatized because of the "hot for teacher". And due to gender roles women are still viewed as physically weaker (despite the efforts of female empowerment) and thus many people still can't believe that a woman could overpower a man.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 07:40 PM
1

There's a whole show about woman killers. It's called Deadly Women and it is very popular with the true-crime crowd.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 07:08 PM
1

So you don't think serial killers actually exist? (I'm asking because you mentioned dateline which is about true crime stories)
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:25 PM
-1

They're the one who brought up my post history
/r/MensRights07/02/21 04:49 PM
10

Feminism has blocked several initiatives to make things more equal for men. That's why men's rights is against it.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 01:54 PM
0

I find equal rights very desirable. This sub’s version of equal rights is “women have all rights, men have none”. And that is not the version of egalitarianism I go by. My version is that both men are women are struggling and we need to help both.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 01:17 PM
1

Nah, they don’t exist.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 12:52 PM
3

No
/r/MensRights07/02/21 11:03 AM
1

Fine, pretending like my problems down exist seems to be the answer.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:03 AM
1

r/egalitarianism is 99% MRAs and 1% WRAs. You think I haven’t tried? They don’t allow discussion of women’s issues there either. You MRAs condemn us for choosing feminism in order to advocate women’s rights but you don’t exactly give us a better alternative. The choice you give women is either we are the enemy or we have to pretend like our problems don’t exist.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:17 AM
1

So feminism is bad but I should post to feminist subs? Why would I, an egalitarian post to a sub that advocates discrimination? Why can’t there just be a sub where both men and women can post?
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:02 AM
0

I would not have stood guard to make your aunt wasn't interrupted. I would've believed you.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 04:45 AM
0

What do you think about TwoX focusing on women?
/r/MensRights07/02/21 03:21 AM
-5

And don't play the sympathy card when you show zero sympathy to female victims of sexual abuse. Supporting men and only men is not gonna happen with me.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 10:54 PM
-12

How do you know he's telling the truth? It's innocent until proven guilty for the accused after all.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 10:39 PM
1

r/Feminism will and has banned me for posting here.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 10:20 PM
-14

I am not a feminist.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 10:05 PM
-10

"Women already do that everyday in their feminist subs" Is implicitly implying that's where I, a woman, should post.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 09:43 PM
-33

The difference is men are allowed to show their bare chests and their chests are not a taboo. If I decided to just take my shirt off at the pool or at the beach (that isn’t a nude beach), I’d get arrested for nudity. I’d get reprimanded by other women for being slutty.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 09:13 PM
-7

And your source is the daily mail. Which is known for misinformation.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:52 PM
24

Dating advice from parents is generally outdated and unhelpful. I’ve found that peers of the same age range give better advice. And I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:42 PM
-7

My source is the pix article. “On Jan. 28, EMS Chief Lillian Bonsignore said a young, female EMT was flagged down by someone in need of help at the scene of the fire that morning, something Bonsignore said is common for EMS workers. When she was approached, the woman, 32, was inappropriately grabbed, Bonsignore said. The man was apprehended by NYPD. But Wednesday, Clark said the man, 52, was instead suffering a seizure when he placed his hands on the female EMT.” https://www.pix11.com/news/local…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:25 PM
-11

Also it wasn’t the EMT who reported it. It was her coworker.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:55 PM
-10

https://youtu.be/sB8rO3JAN9Q Review this footage for yourselves before drawing conclusions.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:40 PM
1

I agree men’s rights has a disadvantage. But I also have observed that a lot of people have taken the “have a taste of your own medicine” approach. Feminists want to be the oppressed ones. Feminists love when they get to play the victim. So by attacking feminists you are allowing them to feel even more justified in their beliefs. You are, in their eyes, oppressing them. And that makes the movement even stronger. You are basically handing over ammo every time you insult a feminist.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:25 PM
-23

But feminism is bad why are you asking me to post there.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:47 PM
0

I just did. And I was dismissed on a technicality.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:16 PM
0

And that my friend, is more hypocrisy. You condemn feminist separatists while condoning MGTOW. Do you not see the hypocrisy there?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:08 PM
1

Does innocent until proven guilty not apply here? They shouldn’t be presumed guilty unless they actually did abort men for being men.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:07 PM
-1

Fuck being the better person then. Let’s keep acting like feminists and wait for a miracle where people treat men's rights as different than feminism even though they are almost the same.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:05 PM
1

But do you have proof that they actually do it? As in studies or statistics.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:59 PM
-1

Yeah, but you can technically still see it.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:56 PM
-2

I’m mad at the hypocrisy. Why do you get mad at women on Reddit for “playing the women card” and whinging but then you turn around and do the same thing and on top of that, accept no criticism.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:55 PM
0

But you can still see them, technically.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:51 PM
1

I didn’t ask for evidence of people saying things. I asked for evidence of people doing things.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:47 PM
1

That’s an opinion. Not a woman actually killing her child.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:45 PM
-1

Yes. It needs to be better. It needs to show that there is another path humanity can take to address issues other than blind rage and neglect which is what feminism uses.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:41 PM
-2

I have a point to make. This sub is it its own downfall. It’s slowly becoming a mirror of radical feminism. And a lot of people are too angry or scared to see that. If this sub wants to be seen as better than feminism, it has to be better than feminism. It can’t excuse it’s actions with “feminism does it too so therefore we can do it”. Men’s rights and feminism are like two siblings fighting for their parent’s attention. In this case, the media (and in some cases the government) is the parent. T…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:31 PM
1

And do you have proof that these feminists actually did abort sons? There was one feminist that actually did it. By that definition, I could take one comment an MRA made about 50% of rape accusations being fake and use it to explain why the rate for incarceration of proven rapists is lower than 100%.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:26 PM
-1

What hate speech?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:21 PM
-1

No, I simply said that there are instances of anti-woman sentiment on this sub.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:14 PM
1

Prove that women don’t abort based on the baby being female. Also, please provide statistics of babies being aborted just because they are male. All I’ve found is that one mentally ill feminist aborted her son because he was male.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:10 PM
-31

Can a woman write her version of this?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:07 PM
1

Because there are women like that. We have to acknowledge those women. https://ifstudies.org/blog/has-the-global-war-against-baby-girls-come-to-america
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:04 PM
1

How do you know there aren’t women finding out if their baby is a girl and aborting it?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:58 PM
1

When is the last time a feminist claimed their movement was equality.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:47 PM
-3

I’ve been outed as what? A woman that is questioning her sexuality? Did you not read the part of my post where I said “I like men as people” and the several comments where I told people who said “men are terrible” that they are being sexist.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:44 PM
-6

If you read the rest of the post, I was talking about the fact that I am questioning my sexuality and that I may not be attracted to men. But sure, why don’t you use that against me.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:42 PM
-1

Well by that definition feminism can also say it’s not against equal rights of men and thus it is not misandrist.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:40 PM
-12

Because I still support the fight for men’s rights.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:38 PM
4

Because capitalism.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:35 PM
-1

And what on this sub other than the faq shows that it supports women’s rights?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:31 PM
-1

This sub also claims that it supports women’s issues and has nothing to show for it.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:26 PM
-1

Never said it was. Feminism has fem in the name and yet you call them misandrists when they don’t address male issues. See the hypocrisy there?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:22 PM
-1

I believe her.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:14 PM
1

I have never gaslighted or indoctrinated young pre-teen boys and girls. Or demonized men.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:09 PM
-8

They also get banned “for being trolls”, when the real reason is they dared to dissent.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:08 PM
0

It does not frown on it at all.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:07 PM
0

I do. I have a problem with hypocrisy in general. I have a problem with people being so blinded by anger and fear that they don’t realize that they have become the very thing they swore to destroy. Men’s rights is slowly turning into a mirror of radical feminism.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:05 PM
-6

This sub doesn’t address issues. All it does is whinge and constantly play the victim card.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:04 PM
0

No, he’s not. He made an accusation that I view MRAs as the woman haters.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:03 PM
-1

Nah you went into this with the opinion that there is no anti-woman sentiment on this sub. And I can’t change that.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:03 PM
1

Feminists don’t need to fight for men. Men can fight for their own shit. They have their own movement. Feminists don’t need to do double duty.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:02 PM
-3

And even if they did have evidence you’d dismiss it anyway.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:01 PM
-2

Nothing is being misinterpreted. Funny. I give you a chance to have an actual discussion and you don’t want one. Surprising. Like 99% of all men’s rights activists you just want to be right.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:00 PM
-1

No it is not a fair turnaround. You don’t get to say you’re better than feminism and then hijack feminist language.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:59 PM
-5

I’m sure they did not mean that because otherwise they wouldn’t say that this is how women (as in all women across all ages and demographics) practice control. They would say “This is how some women practice control.” or “This is how people practice control.” What if I said “This is how men practice control. We are weaker. They play to their weaknesses. The malicious ones.” Or “It’s innate. Little boys learn manipulation and social skills. Little girls compete with each other physically.”
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:54 PM
-7

It is when you call women “the malicious ones”. Or imply that being shitty is a trait innate to women.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:49 PM
-5

“It's how women exercise control. We're bigger. They play to our weaknesses. The malicious ones.” And “It's innate. Five-year-old girls stand around the playground learning social skills and manipulation while the boys are racing round competing physically.” Both are upvoted and comments on this recent post: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ldqg84/has_anyone_else_noticed_this/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Neither is about feminism. Both just mention women.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:43 PM
-21

And even when a man is proven guilty, this sub will defend him anyway.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:38 PM
-6

Nope, it is still censorship. And people do get banned from this sub.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:36 PM
-6

I’ll give examples if and only if you want to have an actual discussion.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:35 PM
-9

Quit your bullshit. There is plenty of actual anti-woman sentiment here. And pretending like there isn’t only hurts your argument.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:33 PM
-20

You do realize that downvotes effectively hide a comment from view, no? That is censorship.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:31 PM
-21

That's still censorship even if you think the opinions are dumb.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:24 PM
1

I would give you an example but you would find something to nitpick about the example and dismiss it anyway. You just want to be right. You don't want an actual discussion.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:17 PM
1

I'm not trying to be.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:15 PM
-29

This sub is just the opposite extreme. Any dissent is silenced via downvoting.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:14 PM
1

But this thread is about oppression in history, not in present times.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:02 PM
1

You are a troll.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:01 PM
-1

I showed an example of female oppression in history.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:59 PM
0

Hey you did it first.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:55 PM
0

I'm starting to think you're the troll because all you say is lol.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:51 PM
0

Not that much. I would never have willing sex with a man, whether I was drunk or sober. My duty to be a virgin until marriage must be fulfilled.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:50 PM
0

We're not talking about now are we. We're talking about female oppression IN HISTORY. China practiced female infanticide for 2,000 years. It was condoned for 2,000 years.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:49 PM
0

No, but I know myself. I am a Christian woman who is scared of having sex. The me I know would forget to barricade her broken door because she has ADHD. She would never bring a guy into her bed. One of the guys told me I should go to bed. And he was right, I was falling asleep on the couch. So I did. I even remember everything I did before sleeping. I brought a bottle of Mike's Hard Lemonade with me and took a sip of it. I turned on Bojack Horseman so I could watch it drunk.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:46 PM
0

I don't remember bringing a drunk guy to my bed because I didn't bring a drunk guy to my bed. He decided to go into my room when I was sleeping. And I know many people who respect my trauma.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:34 PM
1

Fine, if that's what you think. I don't have to worry about misogynists like you getting power anyway. Men's rights is a snake that eats itself and eventually it will drive away every supporter until there is no one left to support it. I supported this sub, but you drove me away. I hope you like not getting anything done.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:30 PM
1

I'm not trolling.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:25 PM
0

I will call it sexual assault because they kissed me when I was asleep. They also spooned me.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:23 PM
-1

What about femicide in China.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:22 PM
2

Except where did I say the world doesn't need men.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:20 PM
0

I did not have sex with them. They spooned me while I was asleep.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:19 PM
1

But positive encounters don't erase negative encounters. I remember every negative encounter I've had with a man more than I can remember every good experience with a man. Regardless of most men being harmless, that still means a small percentage is harmful. And it's hard to tell which men are harmful. So I practice the same amount of caution with every man.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:18 AM
-9

Yeah, but just because I have neutral experiences doesn't mean that the negative ones can't have an effect on me. I may not think every guy is going to sexually assault me, but I will make sure it never happens again. I don't want to go through sexual assault again.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:04 AM
-2

I'm not saying this is men being men. I'm saying it perfectly within someone's right if they take certain precautions to feel safe around people, especially if they have trauma. That said, I don't advocate for discriminating against people just because of their gender. Making sure you're not alone in a room with a man who you don't know is a precaution, not discrimination. If it was a man talking about women I'd say the same thing.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:03 AM
-7

Ha, men's rights tells me that and then when I post about my experiences with literally waking up next to a random man spooning me and I'm reprimanded for drinking because I should've known the consequences. I'm done with the duality and hypocrisy of this sub. Ciao! This sub is a snake that eats itself.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:57 AM
-27

You see, men as a collective group were never enslaved or referred to in constitutional writing as 3/5ths of a person. Black people were. So stop bringing up the "whut if it black people argument" because race and sex are different. It's tiresome. I would say the same thing about a man who is afraid of women. If he's had negative experiences with women, then he has every right to ensure his personal safety around them.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:56 AM
-29

This is not because of the radical feminist movement. We learn this mindset as a result of our experiences with men. If anything, that's one of the good things feminism has done. It allows us to sniff out threats before they happen.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:41 AM
0

Because children must be protected at all costs, even if the cost is your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:04 AM
1

It's simple. Women understand what it's like to be a woman better than men do. I can't tell you what it's like to be a man and thus I don't consider myself suitable to give men certain advice.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 10:08 PM
1

The thing is TwoX supports women better than any other sub on Reddit. Sometimes we just want to talk to other women and get the input of other women.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 08:04 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:21 PM
22

The actual fuck? How is that not sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 06:20 PM
-1

K
/r/MensRights05/02/21 05:46 PM
-1

K
/r/MensRights05/02/21 05:39 PM
-1

No I don't ever think the whole of society is against me. Nor do I condone that kind of thinking.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 05:10 PM
1

Well I'm here, so clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:35 AM
-10

Because this sub is a safe space for men.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 03:17 AM
55

It's sad how much men are oppressed. People should be building each other up instead of putting each other down.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 03:12 AM
-9

It's not anti-male it's just a safe space for women just as this sub is a safe space for men.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 02:43 AM
0

I have never broke up with someone just because the spark is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:13 PM
1

I was young and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:46 PM
2

I had some pretty shitty partners and I didn't branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:36 PM
3

Undercover superhero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:51 PM
4

I have never monkey branched. Women are not algorithms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:54 PM
1

But the point of this movement is that it is supposed to be better than feminism.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 03:50 PM
-2

Feeling loved by your friends isn't quite a legal right.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 03:18 PM
3

Though I have found some hostility towards women in general, but only from a select few.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 03:16 PM
1

I didn’t develop anxiety just to get attention. I was born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:20 PM
1

Yes. She is objectively a good writer, no matter what you think of Harry Potter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:31 PM
10

I’m bisexual and my sexuality has nothing to do with men. I just think girls are hot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:16 PM
3

Bruh no one “turns bi”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:15 PM
2

Virginity is still praised. And by the same exact people that praised it in the past. Religion praises it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:44 PM
2

I think you are just biased. You like male authors better because you can relate to them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:37 PM
3

No, we don’t trail men in artistic expression. It’s because men back in Shakespeare’s time were the only ones allowed to get an education ON A WIDE SCALE.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:36 PM
1

Jane Austen, JK Rowling, Maya Angelou, Virginia Woolf, Alice Walker, Frida Kahlo, Georgia O Keefe. Something tells me you don’t know shit about art other than the trip you took to an art museum in 6th grade and the time you read Romeo and Juliet in 9th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:32 PM
0

No. I have never been turned off by a man showing vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:29 PM
14

Having more pleasure shouldn't matter. You can't really control pleasure, it's just a bodily response to stimulation. It's like laughing while being tickled. You didn't want them to tickle you and you want them to stop but you can't help laughing because that's just how your body responds to that sort of stimuli.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 05:30 PM
1

What advice do you want me to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:48 PM
2

Absolutely.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 03:38 PM
1

I don't have OCD though. I don't know whats wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:40 AM
1

I think you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:41 AM
1

I wasn't too much into the party scene but my roommates were. I came to a few of them. My biggest regret is not fixing my door before the first party.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:44 AM
1

Exactly. I should just brush it all off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:38 AM
2

I'm sorry for being such an overeactor. Should've just brushed the whole thing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:44 AM
2

Yeah you're right. I made a big deal out of nothing. Hah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:13 AM
3

What if We weren't on a date. I was asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:43 AM
2

I'd be sent to a mental hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:28 AM
2

No they'd leave if I told them I keep switching up the details. Or that I feel rejected by him leaving my room.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:23 AM
2

No, I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:21 AM
2

I can't tell anyone about this. No one can know about what I've done on Reddit. I've talked to some friends about how I feel but they would all leave me if I told them everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:17 AM
3

Hey, say that to my face won't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:04 AM
1

I can't be honest to myself. My mind makes up things. If I had decided to report to the police I would've been a false accuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:53 PM
1

It won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:50 PM
3

Exactly. I'm worthless. How did I forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:50 PM
2

It's okay. I deserve it all. I'm a fucked up person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:47 PM
2

No it won't be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:45 PM
4

But I have to wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:40 PM
2

Listen, that was just a guess. The little bit of his face I saw he looked like a guy I hung out with before but I wasn't going to be so quick as accuse him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:24 PM
2

No, I said there are certain memories that I can't tell are dreams or not. The one thing I know is real is me moving his hand, me asking him "What are you doing." him saying "Resting." and then him saying "okay I'll leave."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:20 PM
3

No, I know there was a guy. I just don't know his name or remember anything about what he looked like other than him being white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:17 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:15 PM
2

Nope. His life is fine and mine is a complete wreck because I am a wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:12 PM
2

I tried to find out his identity by looking through my roommates friend lists on social media. Is that ruining his life? And then I told my church group that doesn't know him that I might've been assaulted. Is that ruining his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:10 PM
1

I didn't destroy his life. His life is fine. How could I even destroy his life if I don't know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:08 PM
2

Am I mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:56 PM
2

What is the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:23 PM
10

But if a man won’t commit to me unless I have sex, how will I get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:22 PM
15

That’s perfect for women like me who don’t want to have sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:19 PM
36

*Both people should put effort into dates.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 07:31 PM
10

The only reason a man should prefer a virgin is that he is a virgin himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:28 PM
2

The same reason some men hold anger against women—they were hurt. Just like those who are angry at women have lost custody, been assaulted, or falsely accused. Those who are angry at men had a man do something to them.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:12 PM
0

Idk. I am waitlisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:59 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:46 PM
0

Am I an attention whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:42 PM
2

Would you make the same jokes about a man who was assaulted?
/r/MensRights02/02/21 03:28 PM
3

Yeah, but that doesn’t mean OP can tag this with “false accusation”. That is misleading.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 08:32 AM
2

Just because it could be a false accusation doesn’t mean it is.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 08:29 AM
-2

The proof is none of your damn business. It’s not like she specifically called out a certain person on the news like most false accusers do. I think the fact she never publicly called out her assaulter is proof enough.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 07:41 AM
2

But she didn’t assault anyone. She was assaulted.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:56 AM
-1

Why?
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:39 AM
7

How is this a false accusation exactly?
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:37 AM
0

Well I would never exclude men from public spaces but what I mean is that I have my guard up around every man that I don’t know. I’m ready to fight just in case. Though this mechanism has never been there for me when I actually did need to defend myself. It’s more of a habit I have.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 12:20 AM
2

Go ahead.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 09:22 PM
1

Well, the problem is that most of the people who make inspirational quotes images are women. We need more men making inspirational quote images.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 08:53 PM
1

Well I suppose he got what he wanted then. Dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 06:20 PM
3

Yeah, and two wrongs don’t make a right. It is sexist either way to use the terms “mansplaining” or “woman moment”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:33 PM
1

But why call it a “woman moment”. Why not just call it a “moment of stupidity”. You don’t need to associate an entire gender with stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:29 PM
0

But what is a “woman moment”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:26 PM
1

The fuck does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:20 PM
2

And also society has changed so most families can’t afford to have someone stay home and babysit.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 06:34 AM
26

I am 90% sure that white, athiest/agnostic, college-aged, virgin men make up the majority of Reddit as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 03:58 AM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 03:57 AM
8

I give a shit. There's just nothing I can really do to help you or your family. I am just a college student. I can protest and write letters to my congressman, but that's all I can do.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 03:51 AM
-6

Does exercising caution against men really make me a misadrist?
/r/MensRights01/02/21 01:40 AM
3

Well I think instead of looking at the what we need to look at the why. Why is there so little men in jobs like teaching? We've answered that question. It is fear of false accusations. Why is there so little women in jobs like construction and firefighting? Why don't we answer that question too?
/r/MensRights01/02/21 01:39 AM
0

They don't actually want to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 09:49 PM
3

Troll. If you have a girlfriend you are not an incel.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 07:05 PM
1

What?
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:16 AM
1

Sure, why not?
/r/MensRights31/01/21 08:37 AM
4

Well they are wrong. Crying is not tied to femininity at all. Just a response to stress.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 08:30 AM
0

Look, it's okay if you don't want to cry. But crying is not "behaving like girls". It's just one of the many responses a human can have to stress. You're not less of a person for not crying. Everyone responds to stress differently and those girls should know that.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 08:25 AM
2

It was a poll. And next to the option no, which thankfully no one picked I put "I am a misandrist". I was trying to shame misandrists.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 08:24 AM
2

I'm not LARPing. I want to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:13 AM
3

20.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:11 AM
-7

In your post you said we should try to 'understand' men. I'm asking how I can 'understand' men.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 08:11 AM
2

I want men who are too attractive. I need to take whatever I can get or I will die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:04 AM
-8

Okay. But what does explain the behavior of certain men?
/r/MensRights31/01/21 08:03 AM
4

The US.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:57 AM
-11

That's not what I'm thinking at all.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 07:40 AM
-10

I can't name a person. As I said, I'm the one who is rationalizing the situation.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 07:26 AM
1

I know. Sadly, I don't have the money to go to EMDR therapy which is what I need. Both I and my parents only make so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:44 AM
2

No means fuck off, that's what.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:40 AM
2

At this point I am willing to settle for anyone who won't murder or rape me. Or abuse me in any way. Are those standards reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:35 AM
2

NO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:34 AM
-8

Well first of all, how do you explain the behaviors of certain men?
/r/MensRights31/01/21 06:24 AM
1

Not true. In my fantasies I am literally pinned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:56 AM
2

No, I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:42 AM
-23

Rape being illegal doesn't mean people didn't try to excuse it. I'm pretty sure what the guy may or may not have done to me in my bed was illegal, but that doesn't stop me from rationalizing his behavior.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 04:57 AM
1

Maybe therapy would help. But I'm too ashamed of talking about that stuff. At therapy I never bring up the important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:33 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:26 AM
1

I don't care if no one is obliged. I'll talk anyway. You can't exclude people based on their gender. That's discrimination.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 04:16 AM
4

No one can tell me to be quiet.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 04:13 AM
2

No, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:12 AM
15

You do realize that by saying that you're not any better than the feminist seperatists that think all men are dangerous and all women should stay away from them.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 04:04 AM
2

I'm sorry. I couldn't control my thoughts. I wrote a lot about rape and sexual assault and it scared me how my mind was drawn to it. It might have something to do with the fact for 8 years I routinely got an invasive procedure where the doctor would stick a tube in my urethra and as several studies have claimed, might give children trauma that is similar to that of a violent rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 03:59 AM
-1

The way I see it, fear of Slut shaming and guilt are part of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:57 AM
5

I consider myself to be an egalitarian and politically a moderate.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:49 AM
2

Well because it's the biggest sub for women's rights. Just as this sub is the biggest one for...you know.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:38 AM
1

"But they don't fantasize about being force fed cake." Feederism says hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:36 AM
2

No, the trauma is due to being in danger. I'm not traumatized because the guy in my bed was unattractive or didn't commit. I didn't even see his face. My memory of him is basically a silhouette. I'm traumatized because he snuck in while I was unconscious and unable to defend myself. He could've killed me and in the state I was in I couldn't have stopped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:34 AM
2

No it is not wrong. That is a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:32 AM
2

TwoXChrosomes is very picky on what they let you post. I've pissed their mods off enough times now.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:27 AM
2

Fuck no. I can't risk being banned from either subreddit.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:22 AM
3

Yes that is silent acceptance. People should call out violence against men and not act as bystanders. On the plus side though, there is an entire article on TvTropes that talks about this. So at least some awareness is being spread. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:17 AM
3

Disney is known for being racist and sexist. Both to women and men. The men in the early movies (Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty) had zero substance to them except "love interest".
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:13 AM
1

Me who posts on both: O_O
/r/MensRights31/01/21 12:11 AM
1

Women do not need to "know their place". Our place is not being in pain and used like an object. We don't have a place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:10 AM
1

From my experience all therapy is a waste of time but EMDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:08 AM
2

Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:07 AM
1

I brought up religion because I'm religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:41 PM
2

Weakness is the main factor. That's why a lot of rapes happen while the victim is unconscious or mentally impaired due to drugs or alcohol. That's why a majority of rapes happen to children, who don't have the strength or mental capacity to fight. A sober girl that could kick his ass, they'd steer clear of that. But a drunk girl who can barely see straight ahead of her or stand up straight and probably won't even remember what happened to her, is the easy target.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:35 PM
1

Fuck off, asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:22 PM
1

Don't call me sweetie either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:19 PM
2

Don't call me babe. I ain't your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:11 PM
3

Except rapists do attack the elderly. And children. And those with mental illnesses. And those with disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:07 PM
2

AWALT does not hold. And women are not fucked up for holding these fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:06 PM
4

And you're sure that 62% of all women, regardless of country, age, or culture, have rape fantasies. How can you be so sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:39 PM
1

I guess what I was trying to say is that regardless of religion, there is an innate guilt that comes with having sex and rape fantasies are a way to escape that guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:33 PM
12

It can be platonic as friends and family members do that to each other all the time. It's only sexual if it turns one of the people on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:32 PM
0

How do you know how many men are incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:31 PM
2

It's my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:31 PM
3

Thank you.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 10:23 PM
3

Sure they don't. Never mind the several times I've been told by men that being raped is better than being an incel, because at least someone wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:20 PM
2

No, I claimed I am sexually repressed because I have never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:17 PM
3

It's not just women who are damaged and fucked up beyond belief. It is men too. It's people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:08 PM
7

They do have rape fantasies, and they includes myself. But at the same time they don't EVER want rape to actually happen. They want to be able to stop the sex if it gets too painful. The want to be wanted by a guy they want. They want 2 things—passion and pleasure. Rape is the opposite of those two things. Rape is pain. Rape is complete apathy. A rape fantasy entails being wanted. Rape entails being used and discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:52 PM
3

Fine then. Why don't you see how the "but women like to be raped" defense holds up in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:44 PM
7

People don't want to be actually raped. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:37 PM
3

That's not true. I've had rape fantasies since I was twelve and nothing has ever happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:31 PM
6

It means no one really wants to be raped. They just want passion. They want to feel wanted. Rape doesn't make you feel wanted. It makes you feel used and discarded. There is no passion, only fear and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:57 PM
5

Nah it's more complicated than that. Even if the man is attractive being sexually used for a power high (which is what rape is) is not something we actually want to go through ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:47 PM
3

Uh...should I be concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:37 PM
2

Tf does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:35 PM
36

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:33 PM
57

Not only that, we as women should do everything in our power to make sure male-only domestic shelters don't get shut down like Earl Silverman's. Among others •We shouldn't lie and ruin men's lives (a no brainer) •We should let men financially abort a baby if they want to •We should not take custody away from our ex husbands. At the very least, we should split it evenly.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 07:31 PM
1

Look at the teardrop and tell me you don't see a vagina.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 07:25 PM
0

I guess the M kinda looks like a naked woman with her legs spread (the teardrop shape is her vagina) but it took me a while to see that. Why does it matter when the lion king's poster has a topless woman in a bikini?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 07:24 PM
0

The guilt of sinning against their body. That shame can be felt by everyone, even if they aren't religious. That's what happened when Adam and Eve at from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Even if they don't believe in sin or have knowledge of what sin is, a person can tell that they have sinned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:13 PM
7

So you mean you've just engaged in rape play/BDSM, right? Not actually forced unwilling women to have sex with you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:11 PM
4

My point still stands. It's because they still feel some guilt about having sex and rape fantasies are an escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:07 PM
2

Where did I say religious oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:06 PM
10

It's the same explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:06 PM
1

Having a rape fantasy just means you want a way to have sex without having to face the guilt of being a slut. It doesn't mean you actually want to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 06:44 PM
12

Men of PPD: Damaged women are a red flag. Need to be avoided. Also Men of PPD: How do I get a serial killer groupie to become my gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 06:43 PM
1

Falsely accuse was the wrong word to use. "Slowly starting assuming the worst may have happened based off the sensations I feel and memories I have" would be a more apt description.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:52 AM
1

There were no charges. I never pressed charges. All I did was talk about what I thought he may have done to me and the memories I have to Reddit.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:49 AM
1

Except some accusers HAVE gone to jail, no?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:25 AM
0

Ok, I guess we'll just let some rapists run free. It solves the problem of men being falsely incarcerated, right. The ends justify the means.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:22 AM
2

Well I'm not exactly advocating for innocent men to be put in jail. All I'm saying is that both the accuser and accused should be assumed to be neither innocent nor guilty by public opinion. The public needs to remain neutral.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:18 AM
1

I didn't report because I don't even know what he looked like or his name. I know damn well I don't have any evidence but the sensations and memories I have. All I want is some clarity on why I feel the way I do.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:10 AM
1

Well to be fair it's not exactly easy to remember whether or not you were assaulted when you were unconscious.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 05:09 AM
0

Okay, you stop using all caps and bold text. IT MAKES YOU SEEM CARTOONISHLY AGITATED
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:40 AM
1

Okay dude. I was wrong. You calm down.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:33 AM
-2

Yeesh, someone's on a reply rampage.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:27 AM
-1

Are you going to respond to every single one of my comments?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:25 AM
-1

Someone wanted to rant. Am I a nice punching bag?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:24 AM
-1

You have PTSD?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:15 AM
4

You're welcome, brother.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:08 AM
10

This is horrible. If I was in her situation I would've just accepted your apology and moved on. Accidental touches happen all the time. Messed up that she got to keep her classes. She was not the victim here.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:38 AM
-1

The reason I am asking is because of the fact some sexual assault victims are too scared shitless out of their mind from...I don't know...someone raping them...that they don't want to go to the cops or to get medical objects shoved in their vagina, anus, or penis. A fact you might be cogent of if you ever had it happen to you.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:00 AM
-2

Here's another question? Have you ever been sexually assaulted?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:49 AM
9

It's a race and class issue too. Rich white women get less time than poor black women do.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:43 AM
-1

You are assuming they are guilty of falsely accusing someone when you assume the accused is innocent.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:31 AM
0

Well if you are assuming the accused is innocent you are in a way also assuming the accuser is guilty.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:09 AM
8

The fuck.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:00 AM
0

I already explained that. And you dismissed my explanation. It seems you just want to shit on me.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 01:44 AM
1

One word. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 01:41 AM
-5

He is not innocent. He had no businesses being in my bed. He had no business being so close to me. I have fallen into a pattern of blaming and undermining myself and I am done doing that. And if you don't like that, I don't care. I'm done protecting him. I don't know who he was and haven't told the cops nor his friends or family about anything. Nothing I did ever hurt him. I'm the one who has to hurt.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 01:38 AM
2

I have an issue with assuming anyone is guilty or innocent. Before evidence is brought in, the law should be neutral. And both the accuser and the accused will be treated as neither guilty nor innocent.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 01:37 AM
39

Ugh. That's gross.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 01:35 AM
5

That's not gonna happen.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 01:17 AM
1

What does that mean?
/r/MensRights30/01/21 12:52 AM
6

Who cares what feminism thinks? It's been corrupted.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 12:06 AM
-2

For the third time, we need a middle ground.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:58 PM
1

Yeah, and they shouldn't call people cunts either. That's toxic.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:48 PM
5

I was about to come at you but then I realized you were being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:37 PM
5

No one at a church does that. You must've ended up in a cult. —Signed, a Christian who has been to several churches.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:25 PM
-2

He was not innocent and for the last time when I made that I wasn't in a good place and I lost my mind. He shouldn't have been in my bed. He didn't need to have his arm around me. I won't brush this off like it's nothing anymore.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:20 PM
-5

That's why rape accusations should be private and told only to the police. Not to people who know the accused.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:12 PM
-51

The night I "confessed" to falsely accusing a man I also tried to cut my arm with a piece of broken glass. I wasn't in a good place. I was so sleep deprived that I began to think I couldn't tell the difference between reality and imagination. All I know is that I tried to go to sleep and then I had this deep compulsion to kill myself for being such a liar. The truth is I don't know what happened. I tried brushing it off for months and all that did was hurt me emotionally. I tried to let it go fo…
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:06 PM
2

But what constitutes as evidence?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:03 PM
0

But do you know how hard it is to prove something happened to you?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:02 PM
2

But how exactly do you prove something is false?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 10:57 PM
2

Innocent of making a false accusation.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 10:53 PM
-5

Do we also assume that for the accuser?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 10:50 PM
-5

Again, we need to find a middle ground.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 10:25 PM
-62

Is there a middle area we can take? Where we assume both the accused and the defendant is neither guilty nor innocent until evidence is found?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 10:07 PM
5

I see how that can be terrifying.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 10:02 PM
-92

"Innocent men" Sure. Let's assume every man who has been accused of sexual harassment is innocent. Absolutely nothing could go wrong with that.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 09:58 PM
-26

Most women know the difference between CPR and sexual assault.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 09:51 PM
1

This
/r/MensRights29/01/21 08:23 PM
2

Everyone reacts to sexual assault differently. Some shut down and don't talk about but others are compelled to do nothing but talk about. They talk about it on social media, because it feels safe for them. They are scared of sharing what happened to them with the people close to them because they feel like it would hurt them. They post to try and make sense of what memories they may have from the incident. Trauma isn't all black and white. We are all different people with different ways of copin…
/r/MensRights29/01/21 08:20 PM
8

I think it should be illegal, especially in the case of male rape victims.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 08:17 PM
-1

He shouldn't have called her a cunt.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 07:12 PM
-8

Staying out of people's way when they are running errands doesn't require reading minds.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 06:42 AM
2

Have a good night.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 06:11 AM
1

Are you a compulsive liar?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 06:05 AM
1

No it's not. I am not a compulsive liar.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 06:01 AM
1

I'm not a compulsive liar.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 06:00 AM
1

For the last time I wasn't being rude to someone for no reason. And when you first brought up my post history, you lost the argument.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:54 AM
1

My morals are broken? Seriously? You're taking that route?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:48 AM
1

You kinda did when you dug through my post history and brought up stuff I posted to mental health subreddits when you could've just started with telling me why I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:41 AM
1

Yeah, but OP didn't ask for advice. Did they? All I know is that OP felt ashamed of what happened to them. They feel helpless. They want emotional support. If they wanted advice, they'd ask for opinions. They wanted someone to comfort them.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:38 AM
1

"Who made you the authority" is not meant to be taken literally. It's a sarcastic statement meant to call out a person who took the role of saying what is and what isn't a men's rights issue ("This really isn't a men's rights issue.") And in that comment I was replying to he never said anything about OP not pressing charges. He told OP to bulk up and press charges. Basically told them to man up without saying the words "man up". OP was looking for sympathy. Not advice. Not criticism. Clearly you…
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:32 AM
1

I was rude to you? You said I "assumed something retarded" when all I was doing was asking why that man thinks he could tell the victim that this wasn't a men's rights issue. I was defending the victim. And I stand by it. You instigated ME by going into my post history and bringing up stuff I had posted to other subreddits in an attempt to discredit me. You instigated me by taking the posts I made on mental health subreddits and using them to call me out.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:23 AM
1

Fine, we'll just keep arguing on this page that was supposed to be a support post for an assault victim. If you want to argue, you'll have to do so outside of this post. I'm done.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:19 AM
2

I didn't edit my comment. I looked back and made a response to your comment.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:17 AM
2

No, I know what they said. Now I am explaining my reasoning. You brought up something that wasn't even relevant to the post. What I posted ON OTHER SUBREDDITS doesn't matter when I was talking about a victim of assault that just wanted emotional support.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:15 AM
1

And do you know why he didn't press charges? Shame and fear. Men's emotions are stigmatized and that's why he didn't press charges. Men who are attacked at all are seen as weak by society. That's why I consider this a men's rights issues.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:12 AM
1

It wasn't for no reason. They dismissed a victim of assault.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:10 AM
1

Did you happen to go by the username toadexplosion, because that was the only user I wanted an answer from. You just wanted to take your anger out on me. But your anger is misaimed.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:07 AM
2

Well you weren't the person I was talking to, were you?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:59 AM
2

I made several posts about it because I am mentally ill and that night I had a panic attack because it is legit scary not being able to tell what memories are real and I am so scared of becoming that person who ruined a man's life. I was in such a bad place that night that I tried to hurt myself
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:55 AM
2

How do you know I falsely accused him? Were you there? The night I made that I was in a bad place. I had such an extreme urge to hurt myself I tried to cut myself with broken glass. I had a panic attack over what I assumed was lying. I've been so mentally messed up by this whole situation that I have lost my ability to cry. I’ve lost the ability to express any other emotion than anger. Every day I change my mind on what happened because the facts are I don’t know what happened. All I know is tha…
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:50 AM
0

No.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:19 AM
-3

Whose tone? My tone?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:16 AM
1

I feel like she didn't think of him as a creep at first. She just felt the natural anxiety one gets when they are approached by a stranger. It's the fact he cursed at her that earned him the label "creep".
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:13 AM
0

He could've also not called her a cunt. The way you treat people who say no is you say "Ok, no problem". You don't curse at them.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:10 AM
-7

No. Not /s. This guy isn't a victim. He bothered someone while they were running and errand and didn't want to talk.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:06 AM
-13

He approached her during an errand. You do NOT approach people during errands. They don't want to talk. He called her a cunt, for wanting to not be bothered while she was running errands.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:04 AM
9

I am a virgin. I don't know. Zero Zero No No. No No No No No No No No No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 03:56 AM
2

Its because I felt bad. He made me think I made him feel worthless and after I blocked him that really stuck with me. I unblocked and contacted him a year later to apologize for making him feel worthless and to explain that I was asexual (at that point I considered myself asexual). I didn't expect him to respond at all, but he did and immediately he suggested we get back together. I said "no" and he seemed to take it well but the next day he said he had a dream about choking me. I regretted unbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:26 PM
3

Yeah, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 06:33 PM
6

I think there are no personality traits specific to only one gender. Men can be sensitive and emotional and still be men. Women can be brash and impulsive and still be women. We need to remember that outside of the physical differences there are between people of different genders and races we are all just people. Gender is a social construct. Sex isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:53 PM
12

What you need to realize is that you are just hurt. You don't hate women, you just have been hurt and have trust issues. You just need to heal.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 05:14 AM
1

So I can stop beating myself up for not remembering things clearly. So I can stop speculating on what happened actually know if something happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:08 AM
2

I watch storytime animators like Jaiden Animations. Also the occasional meme video. I also watch movie reviews and video game letsplays. You're really gonna have to narrow your scope to what type of woman you want to watch your videos. Pulling out a guitar and singing boy band hits might get 14 year old girls to watch your video. Adult women don't usually watch men singing. Unless they're Smooth McGroove or Paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:16 PM
5

Yeah. I’m a Christian. I can disappoint my father, but I can’t disappoint the Father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:57 PM
0

A tip for online dating: Be interesting. Even if you are attractive I’m not even going to consider talking to you if all you say is “hi wyd”. Put something in your bio that draws people in. That gives people something to talk about that isn’t their day. For example, one guy had a bio which said “I bet you can’t guess my major” and it was fun guessing what his major was. I ended up more interested in him in the end. Too bad he wanted us to “watch movies” at his house, which is pretty much code fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:53 PM
1

Not in a general sense, but with this particular guy, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:46 PM
15

Reasons I have rejected men •Not attracted (majority of cases) •They were a fuck boy and tried to hook up with me in their dorm within an hour of meeting me (18 years old) •They sexually harassed me (14 years old) •Other girls told me to reject them because the guy had a reputation (14 years old)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:01 PM
1

Nope, you’ll be too bummed out to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:07 AM
1

Well I was incapacitated to the point I heard him come in and I didn’t do anything because I just thought “huh, what a weird dream that would be”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:33 PM
2

Only if we get married first. Can’t disappoint the holy father.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:05 PM
1

Yes I drank a lot, and also I was asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:01 PM
5

Ah, so you want to die a Sims 2 death?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:55 PM
10

Romeo and Juliet is about two dumb teenagers who let their hormones take over their brains. Romeo literally gets out of a relationship and then when he sees Juliet he’s like “Rosalind, who’s Rosalind?” It’s very well written as it’s Shakespeare, but not the paradigm of romance you’re making it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:50 PM
2

I guess. They haven’t been romantic or loving to me though. In my case men have: •Spent every day talking about how ugly I look and how I need to look better to impress their friends. •Forced me into a kiss after the second date and then when I tried to break up with them told me I make him feel worthless all the time. •Hit on literally every girl in my church group with the same tactics they used to hit on me. Also got mad when I wanted to spend time with my brother and his pregnant wife instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:44 PM
1

You tried the kind of pizza with cold, tangy sauce and cheese that hasn’t even melted yet? It was not even edible. I took one bite and then threw away the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:07 PM
2

Something tells me you have never had cold college cafeteria pizza. That pizza is just...bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:04 PM
3

I’m allowed to drink beer I just have to do it without the cops seeing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:02 PM
2

But 20 isn’t a teenager. I’m a young adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:57 PM
2

I do not write like a teen. Get out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:49 PM
2

But I’m not a teen I’m almost 21 and in my junior year of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:46 PM
1

Would you rather have sex only once in your life but have it be AMAZING or have mediocre sex on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:07 PM
1

Except dogs don’t really understand what it is like to be human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:59 PM
7

Hey none of those women are me. You didn’t list 20 year old mentally-unstable American with too much time on her hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:26 PM
2

I guess I’ll just get therapy but I hate not knowing who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:50 PM
1

That sounds risky. I could end up ruining the life of the wrong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:32 PM
2

No one really knew him that well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:25 PM
6

I haven’t had a real one by your definition. Sex is already a tender subject for me, so I need to 100% want it. I won’t be pressured into it. And the guy needs to wait until marriage as per my religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:24 PM
6

Who made you the authority on what relationships are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:20 PM
2

Because I don’t want to deal with the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:19 PM
2

I want clarity on why the fuck he was in my bed. I want clarity on why he kissed me even though he could see I was asleep. I want him to fess up’.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:17 PM
10

My dignity is not something I will sacrifice. If I do not want to have sex and he pressures me into it anyway that will fuck with my psyche. I already have enough sexual trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:16 PM
8

Okay, I’ll just let a guy use me for sex whenever he wants. Am I ready for a relationship now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:13 PM
3

Well I was intoxicated to the point of being unconscious, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:10 PM
7

Love and companionship obvi
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:09 PM
3

Well because I couldn’t get it. No one would believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:07 PM
5

Do you really think there’s nothing more to relationships than money and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:07 PM
6

Companionship? Love?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:06 PM
8

I’ll get out and do that. I won’t let men hold resources over my head to make me have sex. I’ll get myself a damn gun and shoot the burglar myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:03 PM
3

That’s not going to fly because I won’t be financially depending on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:00 PM
1

How can I find out the identity of the man who assaulted me without implicating him in the crime? I just want clarity, not justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:59 PM
4

Yeah, and if I say “no” he’s just going to have to accept it. If I say no, that means no consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:53 PM
5

Because having sex when you don’t want to is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:37 PM
9

I will only have sex when I want to and he wants to. Anything other than that will hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:31 PM
10

Not forcing/pressuring me into anything that I don’t want to do. If I say I don’t want to have sex, he’s going to have to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:02 PM
8

He is welcome to break up with me or stop seeing me if I cross his boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:44 PM
15

No, he and I must establish mutual respect for each other if we are going to be in a relationship. He is welcome to break up with me if I cross his boundaries as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:42 PM
15

If a man crosses your boundaries in small ways, they are more likely to cross your boundaries in big ways. A man who responds to me setting a small physical boundary with guilt tripping shows me that he responds to all boundaries with guilt tripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:38 PM
10

The biggest issue I’ve had to deal with in dating is boundary issues so my dating strategy is to set a boundary and see if they respect that boundary. If they don’t respect my boundaries, I will distance myself from them but will give them another chance to prove themselves. If they fail that as well, then we break up. If a guy passes the boundaries test, I let him get closer to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:53 PM
1

Did a man ever try to touch you sexually while you were asleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:26 PM
1

Why don’t you try having your personal space violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:17 PM
1

Or touched me while I was asleep. Or held me down by my shoulders so I couldn’t avoid kissing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:13 PM
1

I think I’ve been very resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:11 PM
1

But I'm not paranoid. I'm doing what it takes to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:20 AM
19

That would be awful.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 06:49 AM
2

I guess I don't really understand what vetting is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:34 AM
1

I also see if they give me the same pit in my stomach I felt when I first went through trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:05 AM
5

How do you know most women haven't been traumatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:04 AM
4

Well I assert a boundary and then I see if they respect that boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:03 AM
2

Exactly. I was told that I was never assaulted because I didn't resist against his advances. Never mind the fact I was so intoxicated I didn't even realize he was there and I was physically too weak to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:56 AM
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It's not paranoia, it's trauma. And although we get therapy and eventually learn to control our emotions and impulses the urge to protect ourselves from harm never really fades. All it really takes is one instance where we were in danger and failed to protect ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:11 AM
-1

It protects us from further danger. It's called trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:07 AM
1

We don't assume danger, we just know that it's a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:04 AM
4

Exactly. Even if many of us haven't been raped, we've had close calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:02 AM
4

Letters aren't the same as dating a person, you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:36 AM
3

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:26 PM
4

Yeah, but I just wish a guy would meet me in public before inviting me to his house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 07:12 PM
6

I only deserve to be used as an object. That's all guys want me for anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 07:09 PM
4

I know. I should lower my worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:41 PM
3

It is not hopeless to find a solution that helps both rape victims and those who are falsely accused. We the people can help one without hurting the other.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 09:01 AM
0

I just don't live by that kind of attitude. The saying I believe in is "Be the change you want to see"
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:59 AM
2

Well right now, you're kinda coming off as dismissive and that is clouding whatever point you are trying to make.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:57 AM
1

Yeah, no shit bad things happen. That doesn't mean we lie dormant and do nothing about them. It is not hopeless to find a solution that protects both rape victims and the falsely accused.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:54 AM
0

Welp, there doesn't need to be any sort of legislation, life's not fair.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:50 AM
1

Well if life's not fair why care about any issues then? Might as well do nothing for anybody because "life's not fair"
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:48 AM
0

Really? That's your defense? Life's not fair? What if I said that to you about other issues? Welp who cares if men are being falsely accused, life's not fair Welp who cares that men lose the majority of custody cases, life's not fair Welp, who cares that in some places circumcision is legal while FGM isn't, life's not fair
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:45 AM
5

Listen, I'm all for increasing the punishments for false rape accusations. I'm all for making sure everyone who ruins a person's life for social clout or money gets what they deserve. I just think that to say that unsubstantiated claims must be false invalidates the cases of many women and men who were sexually assaulted but happened to lack evidence for one reason or another.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:42 AM
1

I pressured myself into it. I had just entered a difficult program and I didn't want to jeopardize my education. I became really good at repressing my feelings and making people think I was fine. Also, my parents are always stressed and they know who I call and where I am at all times because they pay my phone plan. I didn't want to stress them out more. I also had a sorority bid day that day and had to shop for it and help set it up because I was an officer.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:34 AM
3

I know her claims are valid.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:29 AM
2

Because her claim wasn't false. I believe in and trust her account of what happened because I saw how it affected her. I saw how depressed she was at sorority events. Her mental health deteriorated so much that she moved home. She was so lively before. I could see how the life drained out of her face after her rape. A person who falsely accused a man wouldn't have changed like that.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:24 AM
2

Well you see I never went to the police because I heard of how they responded to my friend trying to report her rape (threw it out immediately). And because I was under pressure to keep a sense of normalcy around my family and peers. I put on a front that I didn't care about what happened and going to the police would've damaged that front.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 08:14 AM
4

But lack of evidence doesn't mean it is a false accusation. I don't have a lot of evidence other than the clothes I was wearing and an empty bottle of Mike's Hard Lemonade to show I was assaulted, but it happened and I know it happened. I won't let anyone tell me differently. If I took my case to the police they might throw it out immediately because it has little evidence, but that doesn't mean I falsely accused a man. Just because you can't prove some committed a crime doesn't mean they didn't…
/r/MensRights23/01/21 07:54 AM
1

Okay, something to consider. Often female perpetrators aren't just strangers jumping out of the bushes. They are cousins, aunts, grandmothers, mothers. Sometimes babysitters. Sometimes teachers. They are people these children know, and as I've learned from reading The Body Keeps The Score, these children are often dependent on the people who abuse them to take them to EMDR therapy or support groups. And those people often don't. It's the perpetrators which make the children doubt themselves and …
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:04 AM
1

Just to make sure I adequately understand the point of your argument, if women stopped raping men and showed attention then women won't get raped?
/r/MensRights23/01/21 05:36 AM
0

But what if they didn't mean to drive into your car.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:50 AM
2

No, you make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:29 AM
1

I don't want to think I'm responsible for the behaviors of certain men in my life but I probably am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:14 AM
2

{ ) • . • })
/r/MensRights23/01/21 03:31 AM
2

Idk I've eavesdropped on men talking about how phat their girl's ass is and what the sex was like last night. In my Christian group I've heard men talk about what girls they have a crush on.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 08:44 PM
0

So if I posted on Twitter about men's issues people would listen to me? I doubt it. They'd either ignore or call me a pickmeisha.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 07:14 PM
-9

The question is, how do us women fix them? Most of us don't have any social or political power.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:30 PM
-8

That has fuck all to do with my comment.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:02 PM
-11

There are female janitors, construction workers, doctors, and soldiers. No?
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:29 PM
-14

Except Donald Trump used the word "locker room talk", didn't he. So it's not just an SJW catchphrase.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:27 PM
5

Well I can tell you about Christian women locker room talk. Usually we talk about is not what men we want to fuck or date. We talk about what we want in a man (make lists of desirable personality qualities). We talk about guys we have dated in the past or are dating to figure out red flags. Sometimes we also commiserate over the few men that overstepped our boundaries (whether it was harassment, assault, or catcalling) and made us feel unsafe.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:22 PM
1

Yeah, because r/mensrights, just like all subreddits has its trolls. You're not doing yourself any favors with this post. All you're doing is giving them what they want—attention. Report and move on.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:57 AM
1

Is this your first time on the internet? I've been called all kinds of names on the internet. Attention whore, man hater, sociopath, troll, landwhale.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:52 AM
2

Even if he lied about his age he is literally a child. What the fuck does a 32 year old woman want from a TEENAGER?
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:50 AM
2

You're telling me you couldn't tell the difference between a 14 year old kid and a grown ass adult?
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:48 AM
1

Here's something to consider. Minors shouldn't have to tell their age to full grown ass adults. Adults shouldn't be sexually pursuing minors in the first place. Adults shouldn't be asking minors for their ages in the first place. They should be pursuing OTHER ADULTS. HE IS A CHILD.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:46 AM
2

You literally said the 14 year old that was being RAPED by a 32 year old was a willing participant.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:43 AM
4

Bruh the last post from the sub was like nearly a year ago.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 03:09 AM
4

You think there isn't an imbalance of power between a 16 year old and a 32 year old MOM?
/r/MensRights21/01/21 11:00 PM
5

The age of consent is the age where a teenager can consent to sex with other teenagers. Not 32 year old moms.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:54 PM
6

I personally think that it's not that people (both men and women) can't understand consent, it's that they won't. You can't really teach anyone not to rape. There's also the fact that no one wants to think of themselves as a rapist. No one wants to admit it. Everyone wants to be the good guy (or girl). There was a study where for one part the particpants were asked if they had assaulted anyone. The answer was overwhelmingly no. Then the researchers asked the same question but just put "have you …
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:36 PM
-1

Emasculation is the result of society shaming men for not being tough enough and for having feelings.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:27 PM
-2

The men's rights issue is that this guy feels emasculated.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:24 PM
15

Isn't a 32 year old having sex with a 16 year old still rape?
/r/MensRights21/01/21 09:55 PM
0

Who made you the authority on what men's rights issues are?
/r/MensRights21/01/21 09:49 PM
1

Yeah, all of those people who listed are high status and wealthy and excluding Hillary, mostly male.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 07:46 PM
0

Jeffrey Epstein. Trump described him as "a terrific guy".
/r/MensRights21/01/21 06:41 PM
-4

I think the patriarchy does exist, but the only ones who benefit from it are the men at the very, very, top. The only people in the patriarchy are people like Donald Trump and Jeff Bezos, men whose wealth and status keep them from ever being held accountable. Jeff Bezos abuses his minimum wage employees. Trump has been accused of rape and was friends with the US's most prolific child sex trafficker.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 05:06 PM
5

Yeah you're right. I should just put out for any guy I meet regardless of whether I'm attracted to him and hope he gives me a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:08 AM
5

Yeah, because that would be dating a soyboy and the internet has taught me soyboys are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:50 AM
2

Unmasculine in what way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:26 AM
3

Who the hell knows. I can't feel anything so don't worry I am not offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:24 AM
5

Actually, I have never had sex. The most I have done is kissing. I've learned that if you don't put out guys don't want you, but I stay chaste because I promised myself and God I would never have sex until marriage. In the short term, celibacy is not paying off but maybe it will in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:14 AM
1

Sometimes and sometimes not. They do have their fights. But that's just what spouses do.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 08:13 AM
3

Maybe. Might as well just give up on getting a loving relationship ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:08 AM
5

I know I can't. That's why I date ugly guys and just keep repeatedly getting disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:05 AM
6

No I dated ugly guys because I am an opportunist and as an ugly woman I take what I can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:04 AM
7

Damn who are these women because my experience is that I date men who are ugly and they turn out to be equally hideous inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:00 AM
0

Yeah, and yet the middle class continued to shrink under his guidance.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 07:56 AM
-29

What if the statistics said "Female students speak 1.6 times more often than male students, and interrupt more frequently." I bet you would get thousands of upvotes for sharing it. It'd be added to the studies about biased teachers and the percentage of men in college as evidence of the crisis in male education. Just because inequality exists for men doesn't mean inequality can't exist for women. If we are to actually make the world a better place, we need to address both.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 07:53 AM
1

Well you could ask my mom. My dad makes minimum wage so she pays like 85% and has for pretty much their whole marriage.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 07:39 AM
1

Well I'm not a wife.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 07:28 AM
-4

Oh I forgot Biden told his supporters to march to the Capitol and to "fight like hell".
/r/MensRights21/01/21 06:57 AM
11

You do realize that the vice president is always picked to gain voters, right? Trump picked Pence to appeal to religious fundamentalists. Obama picked Biden himself to appeal to people who weren't yet comfortable having a person of color as president.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 05:00 AM
1

"But not as much as the 16-30 ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:39 AM
1

You date 16 year olds when you are 34?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:33 AM
1

You think I never went on a Tinder date before. I matched with a guy and then at the end he just awkwardly hugged me and said "see you later buddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:12 AM
1

I guess I'm the exception to the "Woman finds someone better and doesn't care at all " rule. I still haven't found someone better. And I'll never forget how I felt when my first boyfriend broke up with me, and I didn't even want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:02 AM
1

I'm sorry this is happening to you. The actions of some men is not the actions of all men.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 03:00 AM
4

I bet the women who did it got less jail time
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:16 PM
7

Yes, they should be drafted into the military like men.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:16 PM
2

This is right. Women only want men to be nice if they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:15 PM
1

I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:44 PM
0

It's not emotional reliance silly, it's biological.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:29 PM
0

No, really. I just wanted a way to get clarity without hurting the man.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 08:53 PM
1

I just wanted help. Thanks a lot.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:56 PM
1

It means hungry+angry
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:52 PM
2

Other: I'm not a man.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:51 PM
-2

Yeah, but Trump himself did jack shit. If anything all the little things he has said made it worse for men.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:43 PM
0

I'm not trolling. Not every woman who talks about sexual assault is lying.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:31 PM
0

Trump did but that doesn't mean he gets the credit.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:31 PM
-9

That was Betsy Devos. You can't credit the president for something the secretary of education did.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:28 PM
0

It was. The smell of weed causes me to freeze and have flashbacks. And for a whole week after even hearing the slightest bit of pressure on the door sent me into a panic.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:27 PM
-5

Most likely he isn't gonna make it worse but he's still going to do fuck all just like every other president before him. Ya'll need to get an MRA elected.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:15 PM
-4

Can I ask what exactly Trump did for men?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:13 PM
0

Even finding a guy in my bed with his hand either on or across me and with his body up against me like he was trying to spoon me was traumatic
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:58 PM
1

I'm not a troll.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:49 PM
1

Why don't you try talking about a traumatic part of your life with 100% accuracy.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:49 PM
1

My story has nothing to do with OO. I just want help.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:46 PM
2

But I'm not a troll.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:45 PM
2

Yes I do. I felt it. Although my vision was blurry I felt it.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:44 PM
1

The point is I am incredibly uncertain. I felt it but I didn't see it. And the point of this post was to find out without potentially causing harm to an innocent man's life.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:43 PM
1

Body memory is the same as feeling. I felt him do it.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:38 PM
0

But I didn't change my story. I said in my post that I felt like he kissed me but I can't be sure because my eyes were closed.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:32 PM
1

But that is my situation I have a body memory of him kissing me while I was asleep.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:19 PM
7

And as a Christian, god created things for a reason. Man was lonely and overwhelmed without woman so woman was created. Men and women cannot function without the existence of the other.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:59 PM
0

So rape is okay if you rape a person who falsely accused someone? Wouldn't the proportionate retribution be to falsely accuse them?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:16 PM
1

He disappeared off the face of the Earth too. After he walked out of my room and then out of the apartment I never saw him again.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:07 PM
0

What happens if a person who was falsely accused before actually does get raped and can prove it?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:03 PM
1

I don't want to press charges. I just want to know what the fuck happened and why he was in my room.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:58 PM
0

I think they are asking what you would do if a guy was kissing you in your sleep? Would you just let it go or would you try to confront him?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:51 PM
3

What would be the adequate punishment for a false accuser?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:44 PM
13

I don't understand wtf is wrong with false accusers. If you're looking for petty revenge you could just write them a letter. Not fucking ruin their life.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:41 PM
32

I bet his ex wife planned it.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:28 PM
1

Thanks for your help. I now know men live in hell and women live in heaven so fuck ever being worried you were sexually assaulted, right?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:17 PM
-1

It was in my own damn apartment.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:05 PM
1

How? I'm taking nearly 18 hours of classes and all the money I have goes towards paying off the apartment I no longer live at out of fear.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:01 PM
1

If I give you a celebrity you'll think that I only want date guys with model looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:53 PM
1

Any hispanic as long as they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:49 PM
2

I won't accuse him. I just want to ask him privately why he was in my room and why he had positioned himself so we were in a spooning kind of position. I won't bring anything to the cops. It would be non confrontational. Just like one or two general questions about what he remembers about the night.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:49 PM
1

So if the form of media I consumed were animated shows (both adult and kid friendly) and the occasional sitcom, how did that lead to my type being tall handsome hispanic guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:44 PM
2

I can't remember his name though and my roommates were of zero help to me because all they said was "We didn't know the men at the party that well." I'm in a situation where if I say anything I might end up ruining an innocent man's life. I can't do that. I think I'm realizing there's nothing I really can do other than wait for the feelings of trauma and anxiety about the event to pass.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:40 PM
7

Yes, either way society cannot survive without both men and women. News at 11!
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:37 PM
2

It was my fault though. If I fixed my door this wouldn't have happened.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:36 PM
1

I do have information, it is just all sensory. I felt things but I couldn't see things.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:32 PM
7

You are if you want to have kids or a family. You wouldn't even exist if not for women.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:26 PM
1

Oh okay.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:21 PM
2

Exactly. That was why I never got tested or went to the cops.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:15 PM
55

It's true. We are dependent on men. And men are dependent on women as well.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:11 PM
1

But the pain wasn't there. It was in the crotch area.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 03:09 PM
1

And I know for a fucking fact that I didn't invite him in. The last thing I remember is going to bed in my own room.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:57 PM
1

No, it was near the vagina.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:56 PM
1

I wasn't that drunk. All I did was fall asleep in my own bed.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:55 PM
1

I don't think I'll ever get evidence. The only evidence I have is what I felt. My roommates said they didn't see anyone go in and that they didn't know the men at the party that well.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:53 PM
5

She literally confessed to abusing him like wtf
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:50 PM
1

It's not if you're a broke college student who has to pay for other things.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:43 PM
1

I've been to EMDR before but I can't afford it. I paid like 65 dollars per appointment.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:38 PM
1

All I know is that I went to sleep.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 02:13 PM
1

One, both my door knob and hinges were broken (I found that out when I got it fixed after the incident). I was dumb and drunk enough to think that putting an empty garment bag against it would keep it shut in the meantime. It probably swung open like it always did when there was too much air pushing against it. He saw the open door I was too drunk to close and saw it as an invitation. Two, I will clarify that I have body memories of him kissing me but no visual memories as my eyes were closed.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 08:11 AM
-1

I know there is a 0% chance of me giving him consent. I was asleep. And I am the most chaste girl you will ever find. The clothes I wore to the party were businesses formal clothes from JCPenny.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 08:07 AM
5

But they already know what happened. I fear that if I ask them about the guy I suspect did it they'll immediately assume he did and try to get him arrested or worse and then I'd have ruined a guy's life. I just want clarity. He doesn't need to go to jail or have his life ruined. I just want to know what happened and why the hell he was in my room.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:53 AM
3

I did ask them if they remembered anything. They said they didn't see anyone go in but one of them had a guy come to their room too (but said guy only wanted to use their bathroom, didn't touch them or anything) and said they weren't that close to any of the men at the party.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:40 AM
-3

Do you remember everything about a traumatizing moment of your life?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:29 AM
1

I want clarity on whether anything else happened when I was asleep.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:17 AM
1

Why can't I just say it did happen. I know what I know. I felt lips on my lips. I wiped his saliva off my lips. I just didn't see anything because my eyes were closed. And I will be where I want to be in a few years. I want to help kids with speech and language disorders. I'm in a program to do that already. Just, is it too much for me to want clarity on this situation?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:01 AM
1

I'd love to be the wife who pays the bills!
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:00 AM
2

Holy shit.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:00 AM
1

Maybe just bring up men's rights issues without directly bringing up the MRM. Just mentioning the term MRM can cause people to have negative knee-jerk reactions. I've been subtly bringing up men's rights issues such as custody and alimony to my somewhat feminist mother and she agrees with the MRM on these issues.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:58 AM
1

In which case can I say it happened?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:09 AM
2

I know about my drinking problems and I have taken steps to rectify them. My dad was an alcoholic so I have alcoholic genes. I don't even like alcohol that much, but at a party I went to after the party where the assault happened but I drank 4 drinks, the whole punch bowl, and my roomate's drink (she was pissed off). I according to my roommates was also Niki Minaj-ing on the dance floor. I moved in with their parents so I can never end up at one of my roommate's parties again.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:36 AM
9

Why wouldn't it be? If a man came to me and said that a woman came into his bed and touched him while he was asleep I would tell him that what happened to him is sexual assault.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:17 AM
7

I'm sorry for trying to find a way to address being sexually assaulted in a way that's least harmful to this guy's life?
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:14 AM
1

I know right. I should be given a nobel prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:02 AM
2

My guess is that he came in after my roommates decided to go to sleep. I had like 3 bottles (maybe 4, maybe an entire case) of Mike's spiked lemonade that I paid for. I also smoked weed (voluntarily). As well as random shots. I wasn't drugged.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:46 AM
1

No I remember everything before going to bed. I remember I was so drunk and possibly on a weed high I was falling asleep on the couch so people told me to go to bed and I did. I went to my room, locked the door, tried to keep it closed with a garment bag because it tended to swing open, watched an episode of Bojack Horseman, took one last swig of an alcohol bottle I brought with me, and then fell asleep. Everything after that is pitch black.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:39 AM
2

I'm looking for not justice, but clarity. I don't want to send him to jail and ruin his life. All I want to do is confront him privately (preferably over the internet) and ask him if he remembers anything else and if anything else happened so I can stop wondering what happened before I woke up. I won't report him. All I want is clarity.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:30 AM
-1

But I didn't make any decisions. I never invited him to do anything. I was asleep. Every memory leading up to waking up and finding him in my bed was pitch black. I'm sure if that if there was any way in hell I invited a guy into my room my roommates would tell me. They said they didn't see anyone go in there.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:23 AM
2

So my problem is that I want to find out who it was but I don't know how to ask without accidentally implicating someone. I want to ask my roommates "Hey do you know the name of the guy we used to go to parties with before" but if they ask why I'll have to tell them that I think he was the one who was in my room, thus implicating him in something he may not even have done.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:08 AM
13

Are you saying men don't get cheated on, sexually assaulted, or end up with clingy girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:46 AM
9

Age 14 (too skinny): Boyfriend cheated on me because I was too ugly for his friends Age 16 (average weight): Boyfriend sexually assaulted me and guilt tripped me into not leaving him. Ended up having to block him. Age 20 (overweight): Non exclusive relationship. He got mad when I wanted to spend time with my brother instead of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:20 AM
8

No one said it was an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:34 AM
11

Yeah, but they could if they wanted to. Just like women could have sex with guys that don't care about them as people, but should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:57 PM
5

Did you ever know that when a woman doesn't get knocked up, blood pours out of her fucking vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:53 PM
2

Blue balls actually get better just by masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:51 PM
17

And people without the money for food can just eat food out of the trash and dead pigeons if they want to, but the question is "Should they?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:50 PM
1

You're so miserable. Which is why you get to spend time on Reddit complaining about being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:49 PM
8

Sex is not water though. Without water, you die of dehydration after 3 days. Without sex, you end up shitposting on Reddit. Which is worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:45 PM
1

Just because the majority of men don't do it doesn't mean it doesn't exist and women shouldn't be concerned about it.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 10:52 PM
1

Are we talking friends or friends with benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:28 PM
3

Can confirm. I don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:56 PM
1

I once literally fell for a guy after he accidentally pushed me over while playing some kind of football game at a summer camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:31 PM
2

No it would be sexual assault if we had no prior agreement, no matter what the cops think.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 05:22 PM
2

Cops are just shitty to rape victims in general. That’s why I didn’t report, because I’ve had so many of my female peers have their cases rejected. I don’t need people judging me on what I was wearing or if I gave off the wrong signals.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 05:22 PM
1

If this guy was my boyfriend and we agreed that he can have sex with me while I was sleeping, then it wouldn’t be sexual assault. But he was an acquaintance I had no prior sexual history or agreement with. So I can absolutely say that however horny he was he objectified me and he violated me. If I heard about a guy being kissed by his female acquaintance while he was asleep or unconscious, I’d regard that as sexual assault too.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 05:17 PM
2

Listen, I’m not mad at the guy who kissed me because he’s a man. I’m mad at him because we barely knew each other and yet he thought he could just sneak into my room and kiss me on the lips and touch my waist like he was my boyfriend or something.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 05:12 PM
2

Horny dudes can objectify people. He can be as horny as he wants, but he can also refrain from forcing himself on people who are literally unconscious.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 05:08 PM
2

Uh okay? What does this have to do with kissing someone while they are asleep?
/r/MensRights19/01/21 05:01 PM
1

Okay. Knowing all these details I gave you, what do you think his motive was?
/r/MensRights19/01/21 04:56 PM
0

Do you kiss her on the lips? A forehead or cheek kiss is fine but if you kiss her on the lips (as my acquaintance did to me), at least in America you cross into sexual assault territory.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 04:52 PM
2

Yes some men have woken up to their girlfriends riding them and those girlfriends may not have asked. That would be sexual assault, unless the man told her previously he’s fine with having sex while he’s asleep. Anyways, I don’t get the point you’re trying to make because this guy wasn’t my boyfriend and never showed interest in me while I was sober or away. Neither did I show interest in him, he was 18 and I don’t date 18 year olds.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 04:48 PM
1

But he wasn’t my boyfriend. He was an acquaintance who happened to attend the party my roommates threw.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 04:45 PM
1

What do you think his motive was for kissing a girl who was asleep, then?
/r/MensRights19/01/21 04:37 PM
9

“Using a third party” Aw man, now my dreams of having a threesome will never come true.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 03:46 PM
0

Sexual attraction is fine. When you walk past someone and think they are attractive that is completely moral. Sexual objectification is when you treat someone as a sex object and not a human. An example of that would be the guy who was kissing me and who knows what else while I was asleep. He didn’t think to ask if I was okay with it first (I was not, I was sleeping) and clearly only saw me as a body.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 03:38 PM
2

nor do I expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:23 PM
0

He was balding with braces. Of course he found someone better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:03 AM
0

I did find a man, I just wasn't enough for him because in his words I was "ugly and had no ass or tities"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:56 AM
6

I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:58 AM
3

I get the door bit but what does me having a lot to drink have to do with getting assaulted? He would've done the same if I was sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:32 AM
4

Tell me how I "participated" in my sexual assault when I was unconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:29 AM
3

Other: I am not a man.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 03:22 AM
3

Why does being nice have to mean thirsty?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:44 AM
0

Can you provide statistics that enough of all women want assholes? Not a small survey of 50 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:24 AM
7

I've been both too skinny and too fat. No luck romantically regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:22 AM
-2

Just because some women are doesn't mean women as a whole are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:21 AM
10

The thing is, why do men have to be sexually rewarded just for showing human decency? I'm nice to men all the time and they don't reward me with sex, nor do I expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:56 AM
2

No. I'm asking what I would do if it ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:50 AM
2

I'm not a radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:47 AM
4

But are you willing to tell women that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:37 AM
3

Not since I was 14, no. The only time I tried to make thirst traps was at age 14. I quickly learned how dumb that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:35 AM
10

I'm a young woman under 25 (20, in fact) and I never post thirst traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:33 AM
7

Not all women make those thirst traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:32 AM
11

The problem is there's not a single guy who thinks he isn't nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:18 AM
2

No, that was just a hypothetical question. Please don't. I just have a few people in my life who have been trapped. And I want to know what to do if I ever end up trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:59 PM
0

Ah yes, the questions. When I first posted about my assault I got so many questions. "Did you show any interest in him?" No. "How much did you drink?" A lot, but that doesn't matter. "Why wasn't your door fixed?" I don't fucking know dude. Maybe because I thought "Hey maybe I won't get assaulted." "What were you wearing?" Business formal attire, as I went to an interview shortly before the party. "Why didn't you report." I don't fucking know man, maybe it's because having to deal with assault is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:54 PM
1

That's a situation that happens and could happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:47 PM
3

I think that people saying that if a woman was abused she should've vetted better mean well, but they are wrong. If that's true, did men accused of rape not vet good enough? Did men paying child support not vet good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:47 PM
2

What steps can I take if it's my boyfriend who is abusing me and he doesn't let me leave the house or even talk to my family?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:45 PM
3

Nothing can protect me from being assaulted again. Rapists come in all shapes and colors. It could happen at work. It could happen in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:41 PM
1

Well the thing is those people who can't get their dick wet call themselves those names. There are people who call themselves incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:37 PM
2

No, I think people should know better than to make someone have sex or participate in sexual activities when they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:32 PM
5

I'm just amused because I thought rape apologists were a thing of legend. As it turns out, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:18 PM
3

So in other words you are blaming me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:04 PM
4

My dirty mind thought you were referring to buttcheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:00 PM
8

It looks as if me saying my sexual assault wasn't my fault really pissed you off, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:00 PM
1

Do women need to avoid damaged men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:24 PM
1

Would you say the same about damaged men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:13 PM
1

Why do some men think they need to avoid damaged women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:10 PM
3

Second
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:09 PM
2

They're asking why it's someone's fault if someone breaks into their room.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:02 PM
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I don't think you are my boyfriend, husband, or father. I am just pointing out the logistical flaws in your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:31 PM
2

And what if it happens again, despite all the precautions I take?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:26 PM
2

You're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:22 PM
2

This seems like projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:22 PM
2

At least you have the physical strength to defend yourself. Women don't have that strength, unless they are professional wrestlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:21 PM
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My door was locked though. It was just broken and nothing short of barricading it would keep it shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:19 PM
3

Also you brought up "unwanted sexual attention" in your initial comment. Unwanted sexual attention IS assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:16 PM
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So it was my fault I was assaulted? Because I happen to live in an era where women are free to have their own lives it's my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:12 PM
4

So in order to never get raped I must stay in my parent's house and never leave unless a man is with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:10 PM
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My door was broken and could only be fixed by appointment and I did not live alone (I had 3 other roommates). What sexual decisions did I make again?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:03 PM
6

I'm curious how what happened to me (unwanted sexual attention) was the result of getting to make my own sexual decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:43 PM
6

Just curious. Three months ago, a male acquaintance who never showed interest in me before kissed me and touched me while I was asleep. I never gave him any sign that I was interested in him. I never even thought he would do that. All I did to have this happen to me is go to sleep in my own bedroom after a party and forget to barricade my door.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:38 PM
2

Men are worker robots then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:57 PM
3

Some people think that we should return to Victorian ideals of sexual purity, but they forget people in Victorian times were even more kinky and sexually active than modern people. They were just better at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:55 PM
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We're not the same no, but we are entitled to the same human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:52 PM
1

"When people say this" What does people mean in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:47 PM
2

Women are people though. They are just a different kind of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:23 PM
6

Can I just mention the fact that Trump is the first president in over 100 years to not have any pets?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:20 PM
2

That's why I said I didn't vote for Trump, I just supported him. Thank god 16 year olds can't vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:52 PM
2

I was 16 years old. Of course I was easy to con.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:49 PM
5

I know why people support him. I used to be a Trump supporter. He's charismatic, well spoken, and compared to both Obama and Hillary very down to Earth and more relatable to middle class citizens. I brought up the fact I was a Trump supporter to anyone who would listen. He seemed to care about the economy, while Obama and Hillary were content to sit there and do nothing about it. Over time though, I realized that he was not the economic savior I thought he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:37 PM
4

Trump is crazy and he needs to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:16 PM
3

Aw look at all that unnecessary misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:14 PM
2

When I touch a guy in any way (unless it is accidental, that will be made clear by me apologizing) that's a sign I like them. Physical touch is a hard thing for me to do, so when I touch you that is a sign I trust you and want you to touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:01 PM
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Fawning over a toxic celebrity or character isn't the same as fawning over toxic people. I may think Kylo Ren is hot but that doesn't mean I want a guy who will kill his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:02 AM
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You want to know why I'm unhappy? Maybe it's because for 5 years I was selectively mute so I've never had real friends. Maybe it's because I've been sexually assaulted not once but twice. Maybe it's because how happy you are doesn't depend on how not terrible your life is. It's all about brain chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 05:36 AM
6

No one has read a magazine in 25 years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:39 AM
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Unhappiness is what happens when you are human. It doesn't matter how good your quality of life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:38 AM
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No, it doesn't. The only way one can be a misogynistic conservative is if they are a misogynistic conservative.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:10 PM
3

Are you trying to date a biker chick or lot lizard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:46 PM
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I've never been in love. But the qualities that make me fall in lust with a guy are that: •He's facially attractive •He's funny •He's confident I also tend to have a thing for guys who are hispanic or half-hispanic. I don't know why, because I'm as white as you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:39 PM
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No. The two guys I dated were nice and respectful at first and revealed their true colors later on. I don't date a guy if he hasn't shown me he's nice and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:37 PM
6

Being nice and respectful is the bare minimum of traits you must have to be datable. That said, your entire personality can't just be "kind and respectful".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:20 PM
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No, there isn't. Toxic guys are those who were nice at first but revealed their true colors once they lured us women in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 04:57 AM
2

Mental issue is not the same as mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:34 PM
3

I dont have a mental illness that involves sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:11 PM
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No, I will just have sex whenever we both want to. I feel you are projecting your feelings about women who dead bedroom in general onto me and it's making me legit uncomfortable. You don't know what my married sex life will be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:56 PM
5

If a guy doesn't want to handle my baggage, he can just not date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:49 PM
2

How do you want me to fix this? Go back in time and prevent each event where I was assaulted/harassed/groped? There is coping mechanisms, but no mental issue can ever be fixed. Besides, does a guy have to force himself on me in order to be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:48 PM
2

No. I am a virgin. The most I've ever done with guys (willingly) is kiss them on the lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:43 PM
2

I don't want guys who will have sex with me before marriage anyway. I'll wait my whole life if it means finding the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:37 PM
2

If the guy is the right one for me he can handle my baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:00 PM
3

Female A tad unconventional, but my love language is asking for consent. I've been in so many situations where my pleasure or choice was an afterthought and their pleasure was a priority that when a guy asks if he can kiss me or touch me, it makes me melt. To other girls it may seem unnecessary or cheesy but I find it extremely sweet when a guy makes sure I feel safe with him. In hindsight, I suppose this is an act of service.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:28 PM
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Of course kindness and respect don't turn women on. Who the hell told you that? Being kind and being respectful is the BARE MINIMUM for a man to meet if he wants to continue seeing a woman, however. Even if he is lying, which abusive men often are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:08 AM
1

Well I am a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:50 AM
1

Yeah it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:00 AM
1

Very modest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 11:44 PM
3

Modest meaning "wears modest clothing".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:45 PM
1

But what did they say that you think "implied" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:48 PM
8

Like men never chase after attractive women. All I ever hear men talk about is how pretty a certain woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:48 PM
1

"Or imply" What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:46 PM
2

Having a boyfriend or an ex boyfriend doesn't mean you've had sex with them or had sex at all. I am a Christian woman with two ex-boyfriends and the most I ever did with them was a kiss on the lips. Though again, I might be biased. I'm probably the most chaste and most modest woman you will ever find.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:44 PM
2

Why do those women have to be relevant? Do you have to date lower class women. Are you lower class?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:42 PM
0

The woman who aren’t in your income class bracket aren’t who you should be going after anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:40 PM
2

So you’re telling me you’ve been at a church and went to Bible study groups and you found that church girls were having sex every other weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:37 PM
3

I don’t think you’ve ever been to a church.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:36 PM
12

Sex is free, but children aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:32 PM
2

In the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:31 PM
1

White upper middle class people are going after each other for child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:29 PM
13

Idiocracy is already a documentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:28 PM
2

Well I guess what I mean is that I don't know why this is. You'd think people in lower income brackets would realize how much of a financial burden children can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:23 PM
4

Tax dollars going to welfare is not evidence that the majority of women use welfare and live off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:21 PM
1

You overestimate how many women go around fucking randos. Most of us middle class women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:13 PM
11

"Those raised in North America chase after drug dealers and general shitbags...most have children outside of marriage and ask for government support." Maybe lower class women and women raised in lower class families and the occasional celebrity but to say that women in America chase after drug dealers and live off welfare is a overgeneralization. That's like me saying that because I've met a lot of men who are boundary crossers and I see a lot of male criminals in the news then men in North Amer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:10 PM
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You overestimate how many women got any money from a divorce or child support. My whole family has had several divorces and at least one child out of wedlock but none of them profited off that. The only women who have that are either really rich (with rich husbands) or really poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:04 PM
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I think you overestimate just how many women are on welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:34 PM
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All of it, really. Relationships are a gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:08 PM
1

Well as a Christian woman I will make sure religion never goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:25 PM
0

Will you also have to use foreplay on the device? Because accurate vaginal intercourse requires foreplay and making the woman feel good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:19 PM
1

In order to teach that you'd have to get rid of religion which ain't gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:17 PM
2

But I pay taxes and I don't benefit from taxpayer money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:13 PM
1

I did horrible in high school. And I'm still in college. Also you can always get your GED or go to community college at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:06 PM
1

Well in speech therapy and audiology it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:06 PM
1

The only way out of minimum wage income is college, which many men either fail out of or drop out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:02 PM
1

You could also go into jobs that are traditionally "women's work" like nursing and speech therapy and get paid more than the women in the same field ever will because you will never have to take maternal leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:01 PM
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My definition of someone who doesn't work, doesn't go to school and when you want him to help with chores or hell even spend time with you which is the least he can do he's playing video games instead. A man child is someone who wants his girlfriend to treat him more like a son-he gets to do fuck all while the girlfriend cooks and cleans and does every bit of domestic labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:57 PM
1

Here's something that you may want to consider. Women are are very sexually active are often likely to have been molested at a young age and though they project a confident aura they are torn up inside about what happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:46 PM
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But it's not "men's money". Women pay taxes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:42 PM
1

Two wrongs doesn't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:18 AM
1

You may think you did but you didnt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:17 AM
1

But you don't get it. The person who I was talking to had activity occur and didn't remember it. I
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:13 AM
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If someone told them activity occurred or if both they and the person were naked or if there are fresh bruises or cuts in the private areas or if later you have flashbacks to activity happening
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:09 AM
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