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Sadly, that's a whole thing. Support groups for loved ones of those with BPD have to deal with Red Pill recruiters on a regular basis. And to be fair, some of it was attractive, if only because it's one of the few supportive groups that's coded male in our society. You definitely need some level of assertiveness training, and ideally, you should get a male therapist who is sensitive to your specific issues. As someone with an ex wife with BPD, you've been through more than you realize. What I'd …
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 06:22 PM
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You're right, but men being too nice to each other pings a lot of homophobia alarms. It's like if men are too nice to each other, they'll never want to touch another pussy again. 🤦🏿‍♂️ It's ridiculous, but it is also a real phenomenon.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 07:24 PM
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It's interesting you mention Fresh and Fit, because it proves my point about the social dynamics of First Generation Americans. Both of those guys are the children of African immigrants who were raised with one foot in these traditional cultures and one foot in Western society. They know the rhythms of their roots, but don't have the language to express that it's what they're familiar with. However, they're too Americanized to really fit with their ancestral cultures. They're using the Red Pill …
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 03:35 PM
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I'm focusing on what I've seen in these communities. If I had a dollar for my (male relative) in (country my folks are from) is so red pill, I'd be able to afford groceries for a month. We tend to underestimate the cultural difference between the West and the rest of the world. While plenty of people figure it out, we soft pedal boys and men having to negotiate the masculine expectations of their family and their larger society they live in. Sometimes, they get caught in the middle, and the Red …
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 09:48 AM
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Strong concurrence, but for two separate reasons. One is that many of them want to use Passport privilege to boss women around. That isn't per se gender specific, but it's used a lot in Red Pill talk, and it's honestly what snapped me out of it. Two is that a lot of Red Pill types are first or second generation Westerners who are having a hell of a time assimilating, and have just enough knowledge of The Old Ways to be dangerous.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 09:53 PM
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That's my take as well. Depp clearly has had issues with drugs, and severe ones to boot. He's no one's definition of a Saint. He still shouldn't have gotten his tail whipped. That said, he really needed rehab.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 01:42 PM
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It impacts how they can relate to them in a world where there aren't any real substitutes. It impacts women as well, but women are much more likely to join friend networks where such skills are modeled, and they can pick up on it. Men get a much shorter leash, right or wrong, and not having that basic knowledge has consequences.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 02:17 PM
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I've had therapy, and it's worked well for me. Where I differ is the idea that a man needs to have his issues perfected worked out BEFORE he gets his feelings validated. It reads as a way to make sure that the man isn't lying or exaggerating what happened to him.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 02:13 PM
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There's decent evidence that it's a byproduct of decreasing wages for less educated men over the past several decades. While well educated men have sex at roughly the same rates, less educated men have had sex at lower rates as economic opportunities have decreased. Another factor is the knockon effects of single parenthood. With fewer men around for their kids, you have poorer socialization of boys into manhood. On top of that, finding male role models for boys of single mothers seems discourag…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:08 AM
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I think the problem is that a large chunk of society sincerely doesn't believe that straight boys and men have problems. To the extent that they do get recognized, it's assume that they are all the responsibility of the dude, or if they somehow can point out that some woman did it to them, that they're supposed to repress that and manage anyway. The red pill set gets many, many men who have gotten hurt by their treatment of women and gives them validation of their pain before getting them angry …
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:01 AM
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I would say from an actual getting intercourse perspective, the answer is yes. Otherwise, the number of men turning 18 while still being virgins wouldn't be climbing over the past 20 years. The more specific answer is that women have more autonomy, but we haven't adjusted society's structure to account for that. That's not a moral judgment, but an acknowledgement that dealing with structural sexism is Hard. It took millenia for this to arise. It's not going to disappear in one fail swoop. I also…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 08:50 PM
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It also depends heavily on your circles. Some social circles, you'll rarely, if ever, see that. Other circles, it's every 3rd relationship. And there isn't a lot of rhyme and reason to it unless you're an insider.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 06:00 PM
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I concur with those saying that the desire for an established man is mad real. Few women want to be stuck with a dude struggling to make it, particularly when there are structural issues making it harder for women to make money. The older rich guy with the young hot women is the logical extreme of that principle. For a dude to be able to just cash in on his money with a younger woman is the ultimate flex. Throw in how much capital T time and capital E energy men have to throw into getting money …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:36 AM
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There's also the judgmental mindset folks have when men miss red flags with women. Instead of just screwing up like any other human, it's a Sign of Our Lack Of Worth™. Missing that leads to moralizing against men in some odd ways.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 08:08 PM
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True. A single mom who keeps her brother around to help raise her son is better than a married het couple where the dad ain't worth a damn.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 12:39 PM
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Native NYer here. Where you screwed up is that you thought your status would translate into the city. There's a scary amount of competition for women there. That's why a lot of locals go out of state for women. What you should have done is find your own lane in the city instead of leaning on your girlfriend. You off doing your own thing might have cut down on the BS. However, you being the Good Guy makes you look lame compared to those young co-workers hitting the streets. Not all is lost though…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 05:23 PM
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Needed this reminder. I made the mistake of being open about my life issues to women I wasn't fucking, thinking that they wouldn't ruin my situation with the women I was fucking. Nope. They flipped up and pulled a Linda Tripp on me, changed the story around, then ran and told the women I was with about what I said about them. Typical women.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 10:47 PM
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Not a good first date. Perhaps after an established relationship it would work, but not to start with.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 10:26 PM
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Thank you. Transwomen aren't my kind of party, but neither are dudes. Them doing their thing isn't hurting you any. Let them live, and life will be easier.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 06:51 PM
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Love the discussion. I've always said that if they ever serious about wanting to ban mind altering drugs, the first two on the list would be estrogen and testosterone. It's good to know that things haven't changed in a while. LOL
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 06:47 PM
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Perhaps you're just interested in the chase. That's fine, but own it for what it's worth. You get what you want. She gets what she wants. All is well. Keeping her around to prove a point is silly.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:26 AM
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I'm a single dad, and file this under definite maybe. On one hand, you're equally yoked, particularly if you both have custody. In terms of scheduling and demands on time, it does make things a bit easier. On the flip side, you're equally yoked. What I mean by that is that you know what you have to do as a single father, how things need to be handled and what your responsibilities are. No one agreed on every single thing in parenting, but if there are enough red flags, pull the plug. Since the s…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 01:01 AM
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I'd definitely go for option B. Perhaps she really is wifey, but you definitely don't want to commit because you are afraid of losing sex. Keep it moving, and see what happens. She knows you aren't the only one, so there's nothing to lose here. Either you pull the trigger at some point, or you don't. No matter what, it's your call.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:55 AM
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I think this blog points out the fact that when women fight with each other, it's almost always passive aggressive. Yes, you have the occasional Worldstar moment, but this are relatively rare. Since women have a hard time telling legitimate friendship from an attempt to fight obviously develop trust issues. Say what you will about men, but our intentions, good or ill, are usually made plain.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:21 AM
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I'm OK with women being eligible for the draft. If shit ever hits the fan, we need anyone and everyone who can grab a gun and wreck shop. No biggie on my end.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:05 PM
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slow clap leading to standing applause Pretty much.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:12 PM
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Word. The father seems grimy as all outdoors. What kind of person cucks their own son, and gives zero fucks about it? If I'm the son, I lose touch with everyone and start from scratch. None of the people involved seem like worthwhile humans.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:34 PM
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Black people in the North are look upon within the greater African diaspora the same way Coastal Liberals are looked at among White people in the US: weirdos who have completely lost their way.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 11:47 PM
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I'm also noticing a pattern where white men say black men only get trashy ugly white women but, the trashy ugly label is only thrown on them AFTER theyre seen with a black man. 5 minutes before you wanted to bone her when you thought she was untainted and not being defiled by a BBC. She dated white guys all her life before dating a minority, now suddenly no white guy wants her lolz. It's like a dude telling a girl "you arent that hot anyway" after he gets rejectted. Just butthurt all around. Ins…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 11:29 AM
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You have to ask for it, and you have to come up with a decent reason. Theoretically, it's "temporary" but I know barring my ex-wife winning the lottery, she'll never meet the thresholds for the full child support amount.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 05:30 PM
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I don't think it's a troll. I do think that someone who has a warped mindset about people in general read The Red Pill and go left with it. The Red Pill is amoral. Therefore, if you have a warped moral compass and swallow it, of course you're going to end up doing some cold blooded shit. Being exposed to reality doesn't mean that you aren't going to go out there and do some horrible things with it. It just allows you to do what you were planning on doing anyway, good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 04:10 PM
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Some states allow that to happen so long as there's an arrangement set up. Other states require that it goes through the state unless you specifically ask for it otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 06:53 AM
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I wrote something similar elsewhere on here. The incentives for the system are fucked up, and it's helping no one but the government. In a lot of cases, the women who it's supposed to benefit don't see any money.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 06:51 AM
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As someone who actually gets child support, and has a brother who pays child support, I have been able to see how the system works. On top of that, my ex-wife's uncle works for child support collections in their home state, so I've gotten to see how the sausage is made. For one, it's in the state's interest to collect as much child support as possible. Child support effectively acts as a back door tax for hitting a chick raw. They have it set up that if the woman needs help for anything that she…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 06:48 AM
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Still, it was a productive situation for all involved. You got it raw, she had her fun before settling down, and no one came out worse for the wear. Good work.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 06:37 AM
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Homegirl was about her business, and I salute her. Have fun!
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:48 PM
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Dumb, but not horrible. At least it was someone you dated for a few YEARS. Unprotected sex is a benefit to LTRs. Ideally, you make the decision to lock her down, get tested, THEN lose the condoms.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:47 PM
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next morning tells me btw I'm on birth control ;). Famous last words! Strap up and ride though.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:18 PM
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I run in more alternative oriented circles where condom usage is harped on to the point of shaming if someone does it raw with some random person. In the more mainstream circles I dabble in, it's relatively common. Women, like men, like the feel of raw better. It's hard to believe considering that dildos sales are 8-9 figures in the US on a yearly basis, but it's a very real phenomenon.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:15 PM
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Every so often you read a news story so outlandish that you're wondering if you're being trolled. A passed-out dude thrown off of campus for rape for receiving a blowjob? And the accuser being the accused's girlfriend's friend, who reported the incident to cover up for creeping on her friend's man? Please tell me this is some elaborate MRA troll. You couldn't write the details better if you tried. There's something to be said about a story being too perfect.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 10:37 PM
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I wouldn't have resumed contact. You're playing a dangerous game. She's already revealed her crazy, and you're hanging around? NOPE.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 11:12 AM
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I would definitely take up BJJ if you're interested. As someone who was at one point doing self-employment to pay the bills, you have to find a way to meet people one way or another. You aren't going to organically have social opportunities with co-workers, so you're going to have to make them. Also, networking events in your field helps.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 11:10 AM
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As someone who has dealt with women like that, and helped keep women away from dudes like that, I have a painful understanding of that phenomenon. Pray for America.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 12:33 AM
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Agreed. Women seem to think soft rejections keep away the crazies. It isn't true, but it soothes their ego.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:30 PM
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It depends on how they actually use it. If I can reach you just as well as I could when I would call you, I wouldn't sweat it. I've just as easily coordinated activities with this. That said, if it's clear that I'm not getting to you the way I would otherwise, sucks to be them!
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:29 PM
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FWIW, James Deen can be get said as a feminist sympathizer. He's been seen around the occasional feminist meeting in the LA area. He's also known to hang out with now-disgraced male feminist Hugo Schwyzer. But an ex-GF bringing this up now, without context? Yeah...that seems shady.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:19 PM
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That's a bit far. Considering that said assistant coach was actually productive around regular gym rats, I'd doubt that. A good DIII men's hoops team is reasonable, because they'd be talented basketball players. But an average HS basketball team? Nah.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:21 AM
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Accurate, and I'll give you an example from my college days. I was part of the pick-up ball circuit at my college, where guys would cycle through the various gyms on campus looking for game. Among the regulars was an assistant coach for the women's basketball team. Now, she was competitive against us guys, and probably the best player I'd ever played along side with. She had also spent several years touring with the Harlem Globetrotters, while the best the guys could do was get a few Division II…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 06:08 PM
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I see your point, but there's a fine line. Letting some experience that wild life is a good thing. Everyone, regardless of gender, should have the opportunity to pursue it if that's what they want. I think the problems begun when someone who hasn't experienced it thinks that it'll solve all the problems in their life. I think it's a question of managing expectations. Thinking partying all the time will solve all of their problems, like the fact that they grew up broke or their mama ain't shit, i…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:54 PM
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It's a fine line. On one hand, getting professional help is a Good Thing. Heck, used properly, it can dovetail nicely with the Red Pill. The problem is that there's a lack of discretion used with this call for help. Go seek help, but be wise about it.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:58 PM
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The thing is are women your lifestyle or a part of it. Would you live your life as it is now without the guarantee of getting some pussy? If the answer is no, you need to figure out what need you're trying to meet through pickup.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 08:45 PM
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The best way is to keep it positive. I assume you like White girls for whatever reason. Just say I date White girls because of XYZ. The last thing you want to do is to go trashing other groups of women. It'll just make you look bitter, even if it accurately reflects your experience.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 08:42 PM
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I'm not saying virgins are bad. I'm against the pedestalization of virgins and "traditional" women that people on this sub occasionally engage in. Your stance seems like a rational one.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 10:23 PM
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People who grow up religious (or otherwise virgin for whatever reason) and then start "seeing the world" have a higher chance of "cheating". They're yearning for what they missed when they were young. The thing that everyone around them did but they missed on. Yep. If anything, given a choice between someone who did their sleeping around, owns their behavior instead of blaming it on this, that and the third and someone sheltered from anything bad, I'd take the former. At least whatever their iss…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 07:13 PM
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Unpopular opinion, but that's why I'm leery about using things about body counts and femininity as a shorthand for character. While someone's past is relevant, it may also mean that they've never had a chance to had their character tested. Someone cloistered in a religious environment is a prime example of someone untested. Just realize that when shit got real, she didn't get the job done. Move on and cut your loses.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 07:09 PM
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Pretty much...
/r/askTRP17/10/15 07:04 PM
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Devil's advocate, but I'm not exactly fastidious about chucking old photos. I have photos from the past that I'm shocked I still have at times.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 10:36 AM
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I actually have to disagree with that lie in the OP. Women are actually telling the truth with the whole emotional connection. The truth is more subtle and probably much more painful. It's that women who do these things with different men just don't know how to maintain a connection. Now, if you just want to fuck, that's fine. Knock yourself out, have fun and go on your merry way. I wouldn't try building a relationship with someone who has proven that they can't build off of a connection though.…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 10:35 AM
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That last paragraph though... Sometimes you got the magic stick. Don't worry that much. Even the biggest ho was born a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:52 PM
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Well, for one, if I find a girl who was about that life, we can talk about our adventures. Heck, if she's cool, and I'm having my fun elsewhere, we could even have a Chaste friendship. That said, if she tries to lock me down with a little something something, I'll do my best impression of Jimmy Hoffa and disappear forever
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:51 PM
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As a single dad, the best thing you can do is be honest to their level of understanding. I have a 6 year daughter myself, and I've been forthcoming that yes, my mom and I have split up because we didn't get along. She also knows that mommy is sick and sometimes can't be there all the time. I figure as time marches on, I'll give her details as she's capable of understanding. In terms of keeping her away from the wrong men, you're it. Either you present a good example or you don't. She's around yo…
/r/RedPillParenting06/10/15 10:41 PM
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I would keep it general. Ask what she's looking to get out of dating right now, or feelings about relationships in general. You don't want to directly accuse her of anything. You just want to give her enough rope to hang herself.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 10:14 PM
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So for one, is it weird of me to feel kinda bad that she is putting in this much effort so early? No. Your comfort level is that. If it feels wrong, then it probably is, particularly this early. It isn't like you've had several months or years to develop a book on her. Also, the birthday gift is one hell of a red flag. I wouldn't drop her, but I'd start asking questions. I've dated women for 6+ months, and all they've given was best regards for my daughter's birthday. It's been 6 weeks, and she'…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 09:43 PM
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Well, I do have a daughter,so that makes me modern. Other than that, I'm with this.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 06:38 PM
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And the line of the week goes for this: Leave her more receptive for the next guy, for you are everyone else's next guy. A woman who has been through an unnecessarily harsh breakup will be suspicious and aggressively defensive, susceptible to every radfem meme and idea that comes along, and throwing up massive ASD and LMR. I can't entirely hold them blameless for this. I'm not saying go completely beta on a woman. It's more the point of using a bit of discretion. If you aren't clicking for whate…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 01:49 PM
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Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Just have the sense not to ride it bareback. Enjoy you idiot! LOL
/r/askTRP20/09/15 01:43 PM
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Agreed. Your ex-wife is dangerous, and your friend can likely be used as a weapon against you.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 11:31 AM
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I regret having but one upvote to have. It's of a piece of old people not having any of their family come to visit them. Sometimes, fate or distance make it hard to have people come visit. Oftentimes, it's because people remember what a motherfucker they were when they were young. It's funny how time reveals so much.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:27 PM
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Having a skewed perspective makes us human. We are all limited in our outlook at the world. The moment you figure out how skewed your perspective is when you start to grow as a person.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:25 PM
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There are some good looking women who are just dumb, and think that everything they get is because people are nice and respect their efforts. There are others who look at good looks the same way they look at any other advantage someone has and leverage them to get to where they go in life. Over time, you can tell the difference between the smart good looking women and the dumb ones. The smart women get respected in their communities. The dumb ones get tossed out.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:22 PM
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I think what you are talking about is a function of information. Guys have chased pussy since the days of Cain and Abel. Dudes have had shitty marriages for almost as long. I think the difference now is that we know how bad things can truly be, instead of suffering in silence.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 08:11 PM
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Cosign as someone similarly situated. It's amazing how being established in some way both in terms of career and social life help. It's not as much about gold digging (though that definitely exists) as much as the fact that most women want someone already settled.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 12:48 PM
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Yep. She was hustling backwards.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:36 PM
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Black community has a problem. Absent, or shifty present dads are a cancer. I suppose its RP as fuck to cuck someone else and be Tyrone Thundercock. But the kids are going to have problems. And that, my friends, is called Real Talk. As Iceberg Slim said, a pimp is a whore who flipped the game on whores. Well, well written.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:31 PM
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Your comment is a Powerhouse but I want to focus on this one thing you said. Instead, many of them thrive on entering into forms of prostitution with desperate, fat, and unattractive white women. Yes, they often cheat and use these women....but that's secondary to the fact that they themselves are being treated as children and flesh dildos for the land whales. Yep. Too many Black guys don't understand that they're getting played. This doesn't mean every Black Guy/White Girl is on that BS. Still,…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:26 PM
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Wow... Your mom ain't shit. Real talk. I'm just glad you're OK. Yet somehow discussing the wrong women do is hate speech.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:23 PM
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Being a benevolent alpha is definitely possible. The key is understanding yourself and having your inner game tight. On this subreddit, there tends to be this undercurrent of revenge and anger towards women, and I get it. With that said, you don't need to have that anger in your heart to be successful with women. Heck, past a certain point, it can make you do destructive things. I know for myself that I don't wish ill on anyone I have slept with. Now, depending on the individual circumstances, t…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:17 PM
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Not complete BS though. The medical industry has noticed that lesbians tend to be more overweight than their het counterparts, while gay men tend to be less overweight. I agree on the grooming, but the stereotype has a limited degree of merit.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 10:36 PM
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Glad I'm not the only one. A little bit of self-reflection of one's biases is always needed.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 09:53 PM
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Exactly. Working with a woman doesn't mean dropping your brain off at the door. It just means she's more than pussy, full stop. What that means and how you work with that is up to the individual. You can engage with a woman on more level than pussy or unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 09:24 PM
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Oh....FUCK YEAH! Hand a law like this to a prosecutor in a racist town, and any Black guy who dares to fuck a White woman will have a field day. We'll be back to the days where a Black guy recklessly eyeballing a White woman will risk his freedom...at best.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 10:14 AM
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If you're smart, that's when you start looking for other things that women can offer you besides pussy. If pussy is all that they have to offer, you can move on. If they can bring something to the table besides pussy, then you have something to work with.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 10:11 AM
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It varies from state to state. In some cases, a sign saying that all proceeding within may be recorded may be all that's required. Sometimes, all the man has to say is that you're being recorded and have that picked up in the recording. It heavily varies.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:56 AM
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The problem is that the way the law is written, all it takes is a few ambitious prosecutors to have a field day with any group they don't like. By the standards of the law, anyone who has been married, had a live-in significant other or has regularly slept over can be potentially convicted of rape. Say you want a particular group of people off the streets, or you want to seal the deal on unrelated cases to rack up prosecutions. You can easily get a lot of people locked up with minimal effort. Th…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:54 AM
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There are two things about these laws that scare me. One, it'll make rapists' jobs much easier. After all, if most sexual contact can be technically deemed illegal, reputation and standing are going to mean a lot more in terms of determining consent. So long as they don't actively piss off their communities, they can begin their reigns of terror unabated. On the flip side, being BP is going to be dangerous. If reputation is going to be everything, then being a lame who screws up with a girl can …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:49 AM
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Personally I think the problem was that we chucked our American cultural structure overboard without stopping to think that replaced it. Unlike a lot of red pill time, I look at the pre 60s America with much more sanguine eyes. A lot of people got legitimately fucked with no Vaseline back then. That said, a lot of babies got thrown out with the bathwater. Everyone was so busy fighting beaten wives and chicks getting raped on the reg that they didn't bother to build a community one the foolishnes…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:48 PM
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I would go for definite maybe. It's not having tons of casual sex that messes you up per se. It's the mindset you bring to it. If you're banging lots of women to avoid dealing with other stuff going on, or to "cure" some problems, then yes, it is a bad thing. Anything fun can be abused in this way. That said, so long as your emotional house is in order, I wouldn't say it's damaging.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 05:00 PM
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No. It'll pass though. Once you get through it, the desire will be back. I wouldn't sweat it.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 04:50 PM
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I wouldn't go so far to say that it's irrelevant, because you need the deeper knowledge to understand the tougher cases. But I would agree with your recommendation of Art of Seduction.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:11 PM
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Personally, I think you should use the knowledge over Evo-Psych to peace together something that works for you. That said, if I had to choose, I'd go with Pimp, by Iceberg Slim. Old as the hills, but still works.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:02 AM
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I know I'm late, but I happen to be acquainted with one of the first women to get divorced from a woman in NY State. She decided to leave her wife and go marry a dude...and got taken to the cleaners in the process. Lost the house, the car and all of her savings. I'm surprised she didn't try to kill the ex. Hopefully, things will change though.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 01:00 AM
3

The Mystery Method. Because I read this after all the evo-psych, it seemed a bit stripped down and silly. While it's useful as an entree to the Red Pill, I wouldn't lean on it past the beginner stages.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:35 PM
30

This reminds me of this joke I once hear about a boy asking his father about God: Boy: Is God White? Father: Could be White, could be Black. No one knows. Boy: Is God a Man? Father: He could be a man, he could be a woman. No one knows. Boy: Is Michael Jackson God?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 05:41 PM
2

That's a completely separate issue, my friend. It might be that high schoolers are more prone to shitposting, but they're also the group that needs TRP the most. You know that "If only I would have known this shit 10 years ago" feeling you had when you first learned about TRP? That's what we're talking about here. Banning a group is the wrong way to go about it. Read my mind. How do you expect the youth to get guidance without, ya know, actual guidance? Ideally the older generation should be abl…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 11:27 AM
35

This isn't Daddy Issues. I think this is legit, no BS mental illness. Like I wouldn't stick my dick in her if doing it would pay for my daughter's college education.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:31 AM
7

No...this just boils down to bitches be crazy. Besides, the dude beat the case. I'd just move on. There's nothing to be gained from acknowledging her existence.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:29 AM
6

facepalm Some people are beyond parody. Mattress Girl is proving herself to be one of those people. Call it Poe's Law. Call it the Tyson Zone. Either way, I'm expecting her to announce a run for Congress next week. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:24 AM
4

For one, you'd be shocked how few of your friends will keep themselves in shape and in nice clothes. The lack of fucks a lot of energy have to give will shock you. Right there, you'll stand out. Two, as you get older, 21 year Olds stay the same age. If you keep yourself up and aren't broke, your options open up. Three, you learn what your niche is in terms of the dating market. You'll be way more efficient with time and energy. Four, you'll spot foolishness sooner and either end it faster or avo…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:48 PM
1

You stole my thinking. In the Anglosphere, vocation education has become a curse word. Granted, there was a time where bright boys from the Wrong Groups were steered into vocational education to keep them from seizing the reigns of power from elites. Still, we've gone way in the other direction. We can get the ones cut out for college into college while giving the rest something to live for. We need to get smarter about this stuff. After all, the world needs plumbers and carpenters as much as it…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:08 PM
2

Yep. Never, ever, EVER underestimate what thirst will do to standards. I've seen it happen in so many different circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:53 PM
3

Um...er...that's everyone dog. Why do you think common RP advice is "don't put the pussy on a pedestal"? Because dudes will co-sign all sorts of dumb shit from an attractive women. This isn't news, dog.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:49 PM
3

Spoken as someone who has no idea of the BBW dance scene. Trust me...between vultures looking for women with zero self-esteem and dudes who legit check for women like that, she'd be knee deep in dick. Plus, as others have said, she does have a legit pretty face. I've seen way worse get laid on the reg.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:46 PM
-2

Personally, I don't mind it too much, because I check for bigger chicks. However, on a meta level, I'm somewhat with it...just not for the reasons people are stating. It's funny how they're mentioning Tess Holliday's size, while ignoring she has big ol' titties, a huge ass with a nice waist to hip ratio. Hey, we might actually get fashion models with bodies heterosexual men like. I know that big girls aren't the thing here, but let's play chess with this. It may be a trojan horse for the type of…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:41 PM
21

Personally, I think that within feminism, there are women who are out to settle some score with men. (It isn't that I don't think there are men who are around with the same mindset as much as they aren't openly political about it.) It isn't a matter of attractiveness as much as they have some axe to grind, and feminism had the most convenient sharpener.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:30 PM
2

I see your point. However, fewer rapists make life easier for everyone. You can't catch every potential murderer, but getting a bunch off the street makes life easier
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:36 PM
11

Or more ideally, find ways to cull the predators as quickly as possible. It's a lot easier to do that than eliminate all weakness from the human population.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:58 PM
1

Achieving abundance means you can let a woman go, and be happy for her because she has made a choice that is consistent with her nature. But for most of us, that's some pretty zen shit. I don't think it's zen shit. It's kinda the point of this Reddit. Not everyone in here wants to just fuck as many chicks as possible. Still, when you get to that point, the level of fucks you have to give rapidly decreases to the point where you know you can get a woman whenever you want. At that point, you don't…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:23 PM
9

No, it shows that men aren't stupid. Notice that you hear these conversations from women who are SINGLE and 35+. The ones with sense, you won't hear from unless they happened to marry one of your friends. Why? Because collectively, men have a better sense of who to wife up than we think.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 05:53 PM
5

It all depends on how much homework you did before your relationship. If you got what you wanted, your personal 9 could get on your knees in front of you, and you'd walk away. Why? Because as good as that head might be, whatever you'd give up for that head would be worth more (what that may be to you). Think of those 9s as homework inspectors. :)
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 03:46 AM
14

You nailed it properly. Either live off the beta, and STFU about the consequences, or woman up, support yourself and realize that the Alpha has nothing to offer other than hard dick and bubblegum.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 03:44 AM
2

Here's the thing:men see dramatically different sexual realities, and it changes how they frame the world. I come from a swinger background and now am engaged in BDSM. I also know plenty of vanilla dudes. I know the kind of women I see is different from the kind of other women, and that's OK. It's all about creating your reality... And realizing that other dudes have different realities. I know enough that some women do gangbangs, others don't, and have the sense to tell the difference. That, my…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:23 AM
9

Actually, the pay gap is a mommy pay gap, not a women's pay gap. Straight childless women don't have much of a gap as well. It's just that if it's brought up that way, women will fight themselves to the death.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:31 AM
2

Yeah....bitches be crazy indeed. I'm not sure I'd fuck her if you offered me ownership to the Yankees for that. In six months, I'd be raiding team payroll just to send her off to Uzbekistan.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:12 PM
2

Yeah, alpha widowed sounds about right. She already grew up decent, never got told no, then got caught up when someone finally set some limits on her. That said, I have some questions for the OP, particularly about their parents. How come no one bothered to pump the brakes on ol' girl? I get the feeling no one ever told her no anywhere, whether it was at home or school. She felt entitled to a lot of stuff, and got nailed when things got real.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:11 PM
2

Which book? I want to make sure we're on the same page because I'm thinking the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:04 PM
15

That's what the campaign to "stamp out rape" is about. Female contempt for unattractive men. You're in the right direction, but I want to tease a bit more about "unattractive" women. It's interesting that the women leading the protests are White, affluent girls who grew up sheltered in well-off communities where they didn't have to deal with anyone that wasn't Kid Tested, Mom Approved. Now, they're in college. With NERDS! And smart good ol' boys! And all dem dere darkies, from Negroes to Hindus …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:35 AM
13

I find the title ironic because there was a study shown that college women are less likely to be raped that women of similar age who aren't attending college. I think women who don't attend college get raped 50% more often, but it's not as fun to make a movie in the trailer parks, projects and barrios of America. Am I the only one who doesn't see the low-key class issues surrounding the current buzz about rape? Last I checked, Tamika and Misty May have to consent to sex too.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:29 AM
9

Um... That woman was abuse, point blank period. If they put it on the guy, they're jerks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:57 PM
4

Personally, I wouldn't have fucked the bitch with my own worse enemy's dick after that libido lowering drug BS. That's flat out abusive. Still, he got the results he wanted. Apparently his wife needed a strong pimp hand to keep the mojo going. Good work. The one thing I'd say is that focusing on your hobbies is always a good thing, depression or not. You need to have something to build off of, and hobbies are a good one (working out being a given of course).
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:54 PM
2

Word. Imagine a guy trying that, and they might literally take the time to make a cross in order to crucify him. :) Men have to actually do a lot to get redeemed. Women just need a pulse.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:34 AM
-2

Real talk, some dude probably molested her as a kid, and this is her sick way of getting back at the male gender. Of course, the perp gets away scot free while the rest of the gender has to pay the price.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:33 AM
-1

All I have to say is that I pray for the poor lesbians that happen to cross her path. From my experience, if a woman will give a man a cold, they'll give another woman the flu. Just pray for them, and when the inevitable pops off, make sure to hip her poor victims to your story. Some people aren't meant to date other humans...
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:20 AM
0

That's true. Personally, skinny women don't do much for me, but to each their own. People have right to their preferences, so long as they aren't being assholes about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:09 AM
2

From your mouth to God's ear!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:44 PM
2

Well said. So many women expect dudes to be The Best EVAR when that isn't reasonable. Someone who is that warped isn't marriage material. With enough experience, men tend to get a feel for what does and doesn't work for them, and adjusts accordingly. Women tend to be more likely to hold out for The Dream, and that's not realistic.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:43 PM
1

I swear this guy must have been the inspiration to DMX's verse in Party Up. Now this is just sad. I feel bad for him. What a fucked up situation...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:25 PM
3

I wouldn't say that the Duke Lacrosse team got off bad. I know one of the guys involved won a Profiles in Courage award from his elite prep school, and multiple commentators compared it to the movie Bonfire of the Vanities. Still, moral panics are much like Tony Montana in Scarface: they tell the truth even when they lie. We are in a world where social circles are less stable than ever. As a result, women are approached by dudes that as recently as 20 years ago wouldn't even know they existed. T…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:23 AM
8

I'm not a rock-and-roller, but this is a big thing in hip-hop as well. There are fewer acts that appeal directly to women, but they tend to die off after the first record. Show me an act in hip-hop that appeals to women AND has longevity, and I'll show you an act that panders to women with occasional songs while maintaining a hard-core male fan base. But yeah...when it comes to music, these hoes ain't loyal.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:28 PM
2

I'm stealing the word shut carousel. Every man needs to have a long extended ride.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:12 PM
4

As a relatively recent divorcee (did the big split a couple years ago), I fully concur. There's nothing like new pussy to clear your mind. I was the one who pulled the trigger, but it's much harder to think of the past when a different woman is sucking your dick. To those out there still in the struggle, it's like that gay teen campaign Dan Savage set up... It Gets Better! Seriously. It truly does. Heck, at this point I'm not sure I'd fuck my ex-wife if you paid me.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:01 PM
2

The thing is that particular verbiage may be required in certain states. I know Virginia in particular requires specific wording, and other states may do likewise.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:50 PM
10

Word. That dude who got beat up by VA alcohol and beverage control cops was directly tied to increased patrol efforts due to the Rolling Stone story. We've already seem the effects.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:53 PM
65

[S]he explained that since most rape are unreported ( citing a 4% rape conviction rate, what a joke ) males that are falsely accused are just paying for all the men who raped whiteout consequences. Wow. In fairness, I know that she's Canadian, so she isn't particularly tied in to the racial politics such a statement might bring in with regard to American affairs. Still, such a mindset is chilling. Wait...people gotta do jail time because they're the same gender as a rapist? That's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:21 AM
6

A dorm room may not be your legal property depending on the university. Ask residence life where you live before you do things like that, preferably a higher-up.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:20 AM
10

The sign would head off legal issues. I'd just check about the signage and the wording as particular states have their requirements about that.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:18 AM
2

Depends heavily on the state. I'd look up the rules on one-person consent with the recordings. That said, it might be the prudent thing to do. Why risk a court case where your rep can be destroyed? Plus certain people think that having guys feeling scared to have sex with anyone outside of the most enthusiastic is a Good Thing (tm). Cameras can prove that part better than your words.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:17 AM
3

There is a bit of a real risk with poor technique. That's why they impress upon you at that age to get it right due to growth plate injuries. That said, the risk can be readily mitigated.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:27 AM
9

This sounds like the plot of approximately 47% of all Calypso songs. LOL As someone of West Indian heritage, I can't help but laugh at this. Of course, that's why my dad's family has so many issues. Moving along...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:17 AM
8

What I've done is sent over food while my daughter is on visitation. That way, it's clear that my daughter will have something to eat, and her mom can't go act a fool with the money. Everyone wins with that one.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:50 PM
3

As someone who is a single dad, I think you played with fire. Still, you got out of there unscathed. Well played, and enjoy yourself. :)
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:40 PM
3

Also, in terms of male nurses, they get a LOT of dreck for their trouble. Not only are they asked to do the heavy lifting, but they often have a hard time doing their basic jobs because people bitch about having a male nurse. A lot of them end up either in management jobs or working in pharma because they can get paid the same money without someone's family member breathing down their throat.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:34 PM
1

AGREED! Though I wish I had the know-how one can get on the internet these days. My high school days lined up with the early days of the commercial internet, but the resources weren't as developed yet. I still put on muscle anyway, but imagine what one can find now.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:51 PM
3

Interesting. Not sure this is legit, but I'll roll with it. Workout somehow. If you can do sports, great. If not, find a gym and start getting to know people. I would kill to have the resources available now when I was 14. Take advantage. Socialize. Knowing is half the battle, and being able to work your social circles will pay off huge dividends in the long run. Don't be afraid to screw up. It's easier to recover from a screw up at 14 than 30. Relax. Don't dress too well, but dress neatly. Bein…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:50 PM
4

You're right, but be careful with that. If you have to constant go dread game to get a response, just pull the plug. It isn't worth it if you have to flog her into fucking you. Past a certain point, it's simpler to get a new woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:24 AM
1

And that is why I'm a divorced man that has to schedule sex around his primary custody duties. Heck, if I wasn't on the dad shit, I'd have sex more often, but there's something satisfying about not subjecting the next generation of dudes with another idiot woman. :) Still, that the starfish is what's popping in these streets makes me want to stay single forever. LOL That's that bullshit they're pulling in these streets. There's more to marriage, but sex is a non-negotiable.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:39 PM
3

Word. Any woman who doesn't give a fuck about herself REALLY doesn't give a fuck about anyone else. Also, remember that the most dangerous woman is the one with nothing to lose. If she thinks nothing of her life, why should she care about you again?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:33 PM
4

Agreed. Having multiple plates is plenty defense against flaking. Besides, there's no guarantee of a successful date anyway. If anything stacking dates causes logistics issues and makes you come off a bit insecure and flaky yourself. Don't go from one side of the pendulum to the other. Just go get someone else and move on.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:30 PM
-6

Um, chill with the homophobia dude. Still, good message otherwise. Apparently this is reality.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 09:39 PM
9

As someone who sent my divorce papers to my then-wife to her job, then coldly told her that there was no way we could ever reconcile, I can back this up. Once a man is fed up, there's nothing to do. After that point, the marriage is a bad business deal that has to be wrapped up. She needs to realize that she screwed up and now has to take the L. Here's to hoping he had the adult beverage of his choice (or a nice meal if he doesn't drink) in order to celebrate this flawless victory.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:19 PM
6

That's a distinction without a difference though. People are freely staying with the bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:41 AM
6

Ah, it's good to see that the paper of record from my alma mater has made The Red Pill. Good times. LOL In all seriousness, her continuing to sleep with him is apropos of nothing. Traumatized people do all sorts of bizarre things. Stockholm Syndrome is real, and it has less to do with sexual assault per se than people being fucking crazy after something fucked up has happened to them. I've see way too many examples of men and women over the years co-signing some fucked up shit that was done to t…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:40 AM
2

Um...the simplest thing to do is keep it pushing. There's nothing like a lack of a dick in her mouth to show a woman that she isn't wanted. No need for the extra-curriculars.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:20 AM
1

Exactly. If you're feeling fake, you're doing it wrong. You'll either break down or get exposed. Now the next step is to figure out who do you exactly want. That's harder than it looks, but the result is rewarding. :)
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:58 PM
1

I'm not sure I want to jump on this bangwagon. There are legit reasons for massive weight gain during pregnancy, some of which are signs of OMGWTF complications that can jeopardize babies before they're born. Yeah, there are women who use pregnancy to binge. However, weight gain during pregnancy only has a tangential relationship to eating habits. I'm not going to fuck up my kid in his womb because I don't want my kid growing up fat. Besides, between my eating and workout habits, the child shoul…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:02 PM
2

I don't think self confidence is an issue when masturbating.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:12 PM
9

I think the BBW being bad at sex is a bit of a tautology. If a dude is less than responsive in bed with a BBW, she'll be less into it, thus making her lousy in bed. Within the BBW enthusiast scene, they're no better or worse than anyone else. It's just that men generally ain't checking for them. (Exceptions like myself included) But yeah, most people, men or women, have no clue how to fuck. That's just facts.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:04 PM
9

Being strong and independent is fine. Saying that you're strong and independent is problematic. Either someone is independent or they're not. They don't waste time talking about what they are or are not. Learn to tell the difference.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 09:26 PM
7

I honestly don't think this needs a translation. I'm reminded of a quote by Maya Angelou for this post: when someone shows you who they are, believe them...the first time! Whatever woman tells you this has already told you her rap sheet. Do you really wanna spend your energy on someone that tells you that their ego is stoked about taming assholes? The best way to pass a shit test is not to take it in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:49 AM
2

That leaves me with another question. Do these spousal support laws have similar impact in states with Mexican/Spanish heritage, like Nevada, Utah, New Mexico, etc.?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:39 AM
3

Excellent point. That said, I do think you're ignoring how bad off so many dudes start off with. At some point, they just need to get off their ass and learn something. Is the magic pill direct opener all they need to know? No. But they need to start with that if only just to get a book on women and what they respond to. The only way you learn to socially interact is to socially interact. Now, there should be taking notes of reactions, making sure you learn from what went wrong and so on. Howeve…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:47 PM
75

I think a lot of people didn't realize the real, tangible good "patriarchal" structures did. I'm not saying that there weren't abuses, but the fact is that fewer men have connections to other men for their real issues. Heck, The Red Pill and /r/mensrights wouldn't exist if it wasn't for the need of that support.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:06 PM
13

FWIW, based on the hints you're dropped, you're an Aussie, right? Can I say the mental health infrastructure in your country has...challenges to be polite. And by challenges, I mean "complete and absolutely fuckshit". Still, I do think that these vets could use anything to take away the pain. Red Pill, Blue Pill, Plaid Pill, these men put themselves out for the ultimate sacrifice and deserve our respect. That these men are ignored like that is definitely fuel for the meta-theory around here. My …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:58 PM
5

I wouldn't blame feminism for trying to fit in the box. If anything, you can go too far and just put people in different sets of boxes. Some women are more feminine than others. Some men are more masculine than others. For every alpha there's a queen in the gay bar. For every hyper-femme woman cooking for her man, there's a butch on a construction site. Ideally, we'd let people get in where they fit in, and let them live, but I have my doubts about that. I think we need to think smarter, not har…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:16 PM
2

I wish I could have been out, but I was busy conducting business. Next year perhaps. :) I think there are two impulses going on with the protestors. One of them is this elitist notion that depictions of sexuality have to fit this rarefied format which oh-so-conveniently fits in with the tastes of elite women. Methinks that they aren't trying to get Harlequin banned. After all, the plots depict the women in situations outside of sex to frame it: the exact opposite of the porn they protest. The ot…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:49 AM
0

The last paragraph is absolutely true. The first one about invisible women not getting mocked though? Nah. It definitely does happen, particular from RP guys in the anger stage.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:44 AM
2

The presence of the link isn't obvious by the title, but I understand your point. Just a bit of a wonky construction. It happens.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:41 AM
3

HAES = Health At Every Size FA = Fat Acceptance
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 12:38 AM
5

Agreed. And I say this as someone who likes curvy women. By that I mean women with a relatively high BMI with a low waist to hip ratio and good physical fitness and eating habits. Just having weight on you doesn't do it for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 12:37 AM
8

I liked how this was put together save for one thing. I think he sold a bit short how women do feel invisible after they hit the wall. I will say that 1) the younger generation of men is playing smart and getting stuff off of older women trying to relive glory days and 2) older women are used all the time by family and friends for utilitarian purposes. Trust me, as a single dad, I see these older women around trying to pull rank because they have a uterus. Other than that awkward construction, I…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 12:32 AM
1

WTF? As someone who needs to apply for a passport for my child soon, this is scary. But that is some bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:34 PM
2

It depends on how much they were told and how serious it is. What they will do to weasel around the situation is tell the husband and wife information separately under confidentiality to duck that particular issue. Unless the guy confronts his wife, there's no way anyone other than him and the genetic counselor would know the scoop.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 01:14 AM
0

You're right about domination fantasies my dude. It allows women to get into sex without being "sexual". Still, if you live within a couple hours drive of a major city, try to find some BDSM workshop in your neck of the woods. Try to get the official, and how FSOG is that bullshit, and you're golden.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 01:45 AM
4

No, I'm saying that doctors and hospital systems like cash. Doing whatever they can to ensure a steady flow of said is going to happen. If it's a choice between your bank account and theirs, three guesses who's going to win.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:02 PM
-6

I see your point, and I'm not a fan, but think about it. When they do genetic testing like that, it's usually because a child is in a somewhat serious condition. While it doesn't have to be life and death, it's usually something that would be considered disabling to the child. Think, say, Type I diabetes or conditions on that level. You're talking about conditions that will cost hundred of thousands, if not millions, to treat over the child's lifetime. So you go and get both parents tested, and …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:28 PM
3

When your friend sounds like a 70s R&B singer, you have a problem. That is all. mic drop
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:45 PM
1

OK, that's something I can work with. Obviously you're not immediately repulsive, because otherwise you couldn't get numbers to text. I would say two things. One, you need to pay more attention in those initial conversations and get out of your head. If you do that, you can easily pick up on things to talk about for further conversations over text. You also need to figure out how to keep that figure going conversation-wise. Have a way of talking about something you're passionate about. You can b…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:50 PM
2

I wonder if you have something else going on. Like talk us through the process of what happens when you meet up with a woman. Try to be specific. The problem has to be identified before it can be solved.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:15 PM
1

From what I understand, it is reversible, because there have been isolated reports of people undergoing transitioning, pulling the plug for various reasons (mostly other unrelated medical issues going on) and losing the effects. Long-lasting is a different story. I am not a doctor, so I couldn't say for sure.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:55 PM
0

Sorry for the late replies, but I was off hustling for more cash. What I will say is that the sex drive thing has been repeated for Every. Single. ONE OF THEM!!! Like to the point where I would love to get a bunch of transmen about to go on T to undergo fMRI scanning through the process to see what's going on. That, and the whole "tough butch to nerdy guy" thing is real. Unless you've lived your life as a guy, you don't know the rules of being a guy all the time, even if you look the part. It's …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:53 PM
2

Let me make myself clear about my stance on steroids. I'm not anti-gear. I'm anti-idiots with gear. I've run into people like you who have had the sense to stack their cycles properly, naturally max out, get their levels right, etc. There are others who don't get their act right and end up making life easy for the anti-juicers. YMMV. I'm glad people are getting smarter about it, knock on wood.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:19 PM
-1

Juicers aren't bad. There's just need some help getting their act together medically.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:15 PM
-7

The reason it's illegal is that men have proven that they don't know how to use that stuff responsibly. There's a world's of difference between someone supervised by a doctor and making sure their blood chemistries and physical form are right every 3 months and some dude getting gear from the local juicer gym and using internet billboards for advice. I'm for legalization personally, but I'm not so naive as to not understand why they banned the stuff in the first place. Playing with your body's b…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:53 PM
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I've always told people that if the drug warriors were really serious about banning mind-altering drugs, they'd ban testosterone and estrogen first. I don't think people really get how deep it goes. I've managed to interact with a few transmen of late, and I get similar remarks to what this interview said. Just remember that 1) taking estrogen as a (cis)male would have similar mind-blowing results and 2) women aren't worst or better than men...just different.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:12 PM
13

Call this bro knighting but I feel for the closeted dudes. Homophobia is Real out here, and I can understand their struggle. But if you want my dick to prove to the world you have a hot wife? Can't respect that.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:39 PM
3

As someone who has been the bull from time to time, all I have to say is YEP. Story time: a year and change ago I was a bull in a cuck situation. We had ou fun and went our separate ways. Six months later, I recognize the couple walking into another party I was at. The woman was pretty nonplussed, but the guy was all supper chummy. Talk about awkward! Hard to respect a man that was happy about you fucking his wife. Even in the swinger circles I've been in, I have a lot more respect for a dude if…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:37 PM
3

Good info for everyone. Have the sense to realize when you are tired. Don't try to overdo it. Rhado is Real, but so are torn ligaments and muscle tears. Take care of yourself gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:30 PM
16

Not everyone is a club dude. You're learning that your lane is in day game. Stay in that lane and go for the gold.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:09 AM
5

Condoms are annoying?! Seriously, there needs to be a write-up on proper condom usage in this sub. That people in 2015 are being suicidal like this is scary.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 02:04 PM
5

I play it by ear. Some women are OK with being hidden, others want to be shown off. Some want to know the details, others are OK with just knowing the others exist. I give each just enough info to make sure they're fine with what's going on, and that they know the scope. Of course, it's on me to show a bit of tact and make sure I practice safe sex. After that...it's showtime!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:23 AM
-1

Move on. Go fuck someone else if you can swing it.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 06:26 PM
1

That's such a sometimey thing. Not every woman is wired the same way. Ideally that's why you have multiple plates. Failing that, a period is just a week. I wouldn't next some girl for something every cisgendered woman on the planet of the age of majority goes through. Let it ROCK.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:21 PM
1

I wouldn't beat yourself up too much. You're in a bit of a rough patch, and you're down to one woman when you aren't in a LTR mood. Move on and get back to work. You don't have to be on one with every single interaction. Just get up, find someone else, and move on with your life. It's OK to have a bad day. Just don't make it a habit.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:19 PM
3

Actually, the last question is the most important one...and the one it's easier to catch lies. It's hard to have a pat phrase with this that isn't somehow revealing.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:16 PM
3

The plain language isn't that horrible. After all, if you want someone to hang around, you might want to let them know why. Heck, if I want someone around long term, I'm assuming that they're doing something I can't or don't want from a rotation of women. On that level, it's a borderline tautology. The problem is when 5 minutes is code for "what (appropriate ethnic slur)! Why are you doing (insert appropriate passionate interest)! You should be spending time with me!!!111" And therein lies the p…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:14 PM
2

Unpopular opinion, but this may be an argument for how to find a unicorn. Granted, this involves finding a woman that truly lives themselves. That said, just as we are learning to love ourselves as we come into the best parts of us, perhaps a woman can do the same. Maybe it's the euphoria I have from long dicking this Latin Mami to the point she can barely walk, but I think there's something to it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:03 PM
1

http://jiv.sagepub.com/content/2/4/367.short http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF02116831#page-1 http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/springer/vav/1994/00000009/00000003/art00003 And those three links came from 2 minutes of futzing around on Google Scholar. The whole past victims of abuse thing leading to rape is a pretty well established piece of criminology. Also, it's been well established that these women are over-represented in feminist circles. It's not exactly a hard conceptual le…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 01:32 AM
32

Yeah. There's no point in being suicidal by giving someone raw dick. You did the smart thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 01:02 AM
1

The thing is that they weren't shown what a real friend was in the first place. Therein lies the problem.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:21 AM
12

Shocked, but I'm not surprised. There's a certain percentage of the population that are sociopaths, full stop. Some of them, due to luck and circumstance, have access to the radical feminist population. When you combine the knowledge that rapists tend to target their social circle, that they tend to go for multiple victims and that the particularities of those social circles means that there are few men around to even sound an alarm that dude is shady, and it's like shooting fish in a barrel. No…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:09 PM
-1

Um...why care about chicks you ain't going to fuck? Unless Ashley Graham is slipping you roofies and Viagra, you aren't going to be forced to fuck her. Enjoy your tastes and keep it moving. Heck, I'm not a fan of her in particular, but I'm OK with the plus sized models. Go fuck Scarlet Johansson. I'd prefer someone I can fuck without fear of an involuntary manslaughter charge. It'll work out fine. I promise. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:23 AM
1

Word. Seeing plus size models in person, a lot of them are hot enough that the average RP guy would hit. The problem is that your typical woman with the same BMI isn't that attractive or that in shape. Think the female equivalent of (American) football offensive linemen, and you get the idea. Remember, the average 320 lbs. guy isn't running around for fun.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:19 AM
-6

And I'd break Scarlet Johansson with about 14 strokes. No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:17 AM
3

Even anger at women isn't bad...so long as you know where it's coming from. There's a thin line between controlling anger and repressing it. Channeling that energy to someplace positive is a good thing. Letting it boil over until you can't control it is where the Elliot Rogers of the world come from.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:09 AM
8

There's a fine line to balance with the anger phase. Like you said, it's much like dealing with a tantrum. The dumbest thing you can do with a tantrum is to try to shut it down immediately. The second dumbest thing is to let it go completely out of control. You can't let someone start attacking people or trashing stuff in the process. Ideally, once someone calms down, you can talk to them about the fears that got them so angry and figure out constructive ways to deal with such fears. Then, and o…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:06 AM
3

CHURCH! I remember when I did P90X yoga, that stuff used to kick my ass! It wasn't until I went with a more traditional yoga program that I could even hang without practically requiring oxygen.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 07:21 PM
5

I'm not surprised by the connection. The development of martial arts in the East was heavily influenced by yoga.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 07:18 PM
2

May be white men running the country, but the average white man has fuck all power in the game. White man at the top and average trailer trash eminem level white man are worlds apart. I agree with that. I'm more concerned about people with power than "White Men". The dude in the trailer park has more in common with me than someone who is a corporate CEO or some high-ranking politician.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 02:09 PM
1

I see your confusion, because it sounds simple to say. The problem is that there's a lot of work that goes into it. Screw approach anxiety. Often times getting in shape and your clothes right takes a lot of work. I think the best way to look at it is to compare it with any other skill. You'll get better with practice.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:21 PM
5

Depends on whether said 40 year old bachelor has ever been married. If so, you're right. If he's never been married, people start asking questions.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:29 PM
3

Good point. A good woman is fundamentally a good person. Keeping them around is always a good thing. Sex is great, of course, but someone who is down with your plan, regardless of gender, is a Good Thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:27 PM
19

FWIW, women form friendship, and throw away friendships, faster. Men don't get friendships as fast, but our friends are on the balance more loyal.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:26 PM
10

I think the OP nails the female perspective without really addressing the guys. I think all things being equal, men are generally OK with the idea of being married. Heck, the existence of beta dudes is built on this premise. Marital status generally doesn't impact social interaction around guys. Married and single guys hang out together with minimal friction (other than disputes that could happen in general of course). General ManCode principles limit the amount of mate-poaching anyway. While th…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:24 PM
18

Agreed. There's a lot you don't know. The thing is that it isn't one guy, and something tells me that she's been running the streets for a while now. Get lost.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:06 PM
8

My opinion is that sex with many people does not ruin women. They were already ruined before they started. I think people should stop thinking "you slept with 60 guys, you have become damaged goods" and go for "If you have slept with 60 guys you must have some mental issues that I don't want to deal with". Repeat that again for the cheap seats. That's what I've been saying since I've been on here. The crazy is what you are ultimately running from, not the notch count. The notch count can distrac…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 11:15 PM
26

Why advertise who you aren't willing to date, particularly if they aren't approaching you? One of the benefits of being a guy is rejecting a girl by simply not approaching them. Now if someone volunteers to ask why, feel free to answer honestly. Just telling a woman that she isn't dateworthy isn't going to motivate her to settle or improve herself. If anything, it gives her extra motivation to climb into her feelings, and there's no shortage of that. In other words, learn when to shut the fuck u…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:56 PM
9

I went back and read the original, and man am I feeling it. Dude isn't even anywhere near the Red Pill. He's just taking the hint of very blatant signs of a lack of interest. That homegirl wants him to hang around despite her rejecting him is a sign that she's a loser. I'm not sure I'd want her back after this. Dude needs to move on. I don't know how obvious the hints have to be. The wife buying a billboard saying that she doesn't want to fuck? LOL
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 01:22 PM
33

The lube thing is dumb. No one knows how either of them are built down there. Sometimes you need a bit of lube to get the party started. :) Still, dude having a life for himself is a good thing. This isn't dread game as much as him getting off the tip of his woman's clit. If she can't handle this, she probably has some major issues. (Ironically enough, I doubt she's cheating. If she's that enmeshed with dude, she won't have the heart to creep.) He's becoming a human, full stop. If that's dread g…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 12:29 PM
5

The Red Pill is a set of guidelines. The thing is that you have the understand the principles behind them. The problem wasn't that you said "I LOVE YOU!" In fact, if you're in LTR mode, it's probably a good idea to say that at some point. :) It's more that you barely know the chick and lost your cool because of your liquor. It's not a horrible sin. However, charge it to the game, keep your emotions in check and, most importantly, learn when the heck is she going to be open to you being emotional…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 12:23 PM
8

Word. Fatherhood can get a bad rap, but being there for a child is fun. It opens up a bunch of stuff you can't realistically do as a single man.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:09 PM
5

I love your last paragraph. I understand the mindset of going for the best ever, in that you just shouldn't sleep with anyone with a vagina and consent. That said, there's a fine line between having standards and being picky. Everyone is going to piss off someone in life, just because. Still, it doesn't pay to be a jerk to everyone who isn't perfect. While women are unlimited, your reputation isn't. Eventually, it'll get far. Make sure it's a good one. And besides, beating on the weak isn't wort…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:08 PM
3

I see where you're coming from, but it's one of those situations where you have to tread lightly and stay out of your own head for a minute. I'm not saying you're wrong, but you could have missed something big which could swing the situation in a number of different directions. The first point is frame, Frame, motherfucking FRAME! Think about where you met her and the vibe you were putting out. Think about what kind of women would be around in that situation and what kind of woman would be attra…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:23 PM
1

Depends on what you're looking for. But it's definitely something to keep in mind when you're going out looking for women. Personally, I'm more sanguine about stuff like that, but you at least have to know what you want before you put yourself out there.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:13 PM
2

I'm not sure about the first phrase. If anything, lesbian culture Pre-Stonewall was about as traditional minded as it got. In the immediate aftermath of WW2, most lesbians lived pretty similar to their hetero counterparts (pace the obvious bias) due their presence in the skilled trades and the willingness of their partners to be traditional housewives. There were major pushes to keep lesbians out of feminist groups during the early days of the 2nd wave precisely because of this impulse. The radi…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:22 AM
6

Typical abusive woman. Of course, since somewhere in America, some poor woman got raped, and some way got her tail whipped he deserved every second of this. And if she got violent and beat him to death, welp! Should have been a better husband! Women have the right to kill women because some man did something bad to some woman. And this is why I will never reveal the extent of emotional abuse I've been through. Why subject myself to more abuse?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:16 PM
-1

I can confirm about this experience, as I've worked in a very similar situation. Still, this is a rare situation.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:03 AM
7

I'm curious to see what happens with the LTR thing. Not everyone is built to spin plates forever. Plus, as someone with a child, I do want someone there for her that I can count on down the line. I hope that this becomes something that this subreddit can build on as time marches on.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 12:18 AM
9

I second the TRP controversies addition as well. It would be useful for someone on the intermediate to advanced track to see where people's heads are at.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:17 PM
1

Other than the blatantly obvious vis-a-vis, be wary of anything yeasty smelling or fish like (unless you know she eats a LOT of fish and seafood in her diet). Those are symptoms of active infections, and you need to proceed with extreme caution. With condoms, try not to keep them on your person, but make sure they're someplace in easy reach. Nightstands are a go-to, but don't be afraid to stash some in her place if need be. Also, if going the non-traditional route in terms of sex locations, stas…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:26 PM
7

You need to fall down on your knees and praise whatever higher power you profess. And if you're an atheist, go kiss a few statistics books. Whiskey Tango Foxtrot! You're compounding high risk behavior on top of high risk behavior. Just be thankful and wrap up henceforth unless you're in a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:22 PM
3

Substitute black for poor, and your comment is spot on. Generally speaking, condom usage is a function of socio-economic status. Chance are that if you fuck a bunch of White trailer trash versus, say, alumnae of The Links and Jack and Jill, the former group is more likely to burn you. Otherwise, smart writing.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:19 PM
3

The first answer is yes, that's gaslighting. The RP thing to do in the second scenario is to completely ignore her. Apparently she's crazy insecure if a tomato plant is a threat to her.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:19 PM
1

Stop thinking so much during sex, relax your mind by avoiding all thought...Obviously keep approaching, never stop approaching. WORD. This guy seems dripping with anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:04 PM
2

One, get off the Viagra ASAP. Taking that stuff on the regular when you don't otherwise have issues can make it difficult for your body to get it up on its own. It'll suck short-term, but it'll get you better for the long term. Two, that you were able to get nocturnal erections after NoFap tells me you may have psychological or psychiatric issues. Go see a shrink. There's probably something there. If it was a health issue, NoFap wouldn't have done a thing for you. Three, I would consider requiri…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:02 PM
16

I think that this is a product of women getting real equality in their lives and realizing that gee, we don't have to go along with elite dictates. They're a long road between, say, rape shouldn't be A-OK and maybe I shouldn't be beat like a pinata for overcooking the chicken, and I should have a six-figure salary, three kids and feel free to sleep with anyone I want. It's just that the wider society is realizing that while the former is pretty much an unalloyed good, the latter is far from that…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 07:18 PM
3

Excellent framework. It also keeps you from white knuckling your way through life. Everyone needs some vice in their life, and structuring it like this helps.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 07:11 PM
13

The most detailed number that accounted for job and experience was 91 cents on the dollar. That gap is mostly accounted for in high-end jobs (think doctor, lawyer, executives, high producing sales reps, etc.) due to the hours men put on those jobs. Interestingly enough, the more dangerous jobs don't have much of a wage gap. If a woman is bold enough to work as, say, a miner or deep-sea fisherman, she'll get the same check a man does.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 01:42 PM
2

The answer I'm going to give you is counter-intuitive at first glance, but it'll make sense as you do it: get in shape and find some sort of mental or spiritual practice to get your mind right. For one, getting in shape will up your testosterone, which in turn will up your sex drive. Plus the better conditioning will up your blood flow down there, giving you a greater reinforcement to when you do get sexual. Getting your mind right is a biggie that we can all let slide. We all have stresses. Med…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 10:46 AM
2

Everything you said is accurate. EVERY SINGLE THING. That 2 hour wait can be fun though...
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 04:58 PM
8

Way ahead of you, and I agree. I remember the first time I went to a White barbershop, just because it was in the area where I was in. It seemed like the lamest experience ever. If you're ever in a particular ethnic area, you might see something similar in the White community, but that's it.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:47 PM
21

The barbershop has always been a popular space among Black men. Few is the woman that invades, and they're usually there so that their minor sons (think under 10 or so) can get their hair cut. Even then, they just keep to themselves, reading a book or toying with their phones. I'm so thankful for the barber shop space. That third space concept is REAL, and I'm forever grateful for the concept. :)
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 12:56 PM
2

I think the key is "to protect yourself". In other words, don't hide behind protection only to play defense. There's a difference between biding time to strike, building on clear, measurable plans and relying on your fortress to protect you. Everyone needs a base to retreat to. However there's a huge difference between a tactical retreat and a strategic one. The former is wise. The latter is a form of defeat.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 12:10 AM
2

ROTFLMAO. Very accurate. Like every third post is some variation on "don't make women your mission" and yet we make it our mission. Great...
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 09:56 PM
1

This reminds me of the saying that the game is to be sold, not to be told. Women want to be seduced, and they really don't want to know how or why. Once you realize this, the fact that they hate the Red Pill, but love the behavior is congruent. Remember, women aren't just men with vaginas.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 09:50 PM
1

Wait...WHAT? Homegirl admits to whipping tail, yet is surprised when dude doesn't hang around. And...I'm done. Good night everyone, and have a great weekend!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:39 PM
1

It's funny you mention that, because I know a switch whose sub is built like a linebacker. I try not to pry too much, but hmmm...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:19 AM
2

There are women who are legit good at it. They are also rare. That's why I pay attention when I see a good one.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:17 AM
2

There's a whole range of stuff in the scene. I try not to judge based on kink alone.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:17 AM
1

I've seen a wider range of stuff, from Finding (aka beta bucks on sterouds) to glorified domestic violence to legit mother/child style relationships without the (super) creepy parts. All I will say is that it's not Red Pill, but it varies wildly from the truly dangerous to the kinda lame but not the end of the universe.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:07 AM
1

FWIW, I'm cool with some male subs, and it's a weird dynamic. The best way I can explain it is a sort of mutual assured destruction of women. In other words, they'll only go so far because otherwise they'll end up with a WorldStar Hip-Hop worthy moment thanks to a bunch of other women. It's not my thing, but considering the potential fuckshit, it's better than being a beta orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 02:29 AM
8

The occurance of black men raping white men in the past is largely BS. What usually happened is the wife was screwing the black butler. Then when she got knocked up and the baby ended up half black she claimed rape. Yeah, pretty much. Most of the rape was of the White guy/Black woman variety. The reverse was by and large consensual.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:54 PM
1

I'm going to work on my side business and going to talk to women. Every day I talk, I feel better. I'm also working on those 48 laws, figuring out when I've applied them in the past and learning to project them into the future.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:44 AM
8

Depends. To throw a couple of examples out there, Britney Griner is 6'8" 220 lbs and Lisa Leslie was 6'5" and played at 180. Even the power forwards (who tend to be on the heavier side) tend to be like 6'3" 230 lbs. They aren't tiny, by any stretch, but they aren't that heavy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:40 AM
3

Can I say Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks in the celebrity world? Karruche went for the Captain Save Em the second he was in the box. Wow...LOL And dude needs to actually read the lyrics to his own songs. He knows what the deal is.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 03:54 PM
2

FWIW I think there might have been some sexual abuse somewhere... Just not where she claimed. Remember, emotionally healthy women don't just fall for dark triad dudes. Also, most sexually abused people, men and women, are victimized by someone near and dear to them. That said, smart move on leaving. Do you want to deal with the inevitable damage when the full truth comes out.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:51 AM
4

Agreed. Shady as she was, their child needs to have a better life. If I were dude, I'd ask for custody, but that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 08:09 PM
6

If one must isolate themselves, do it in order to accomplish something, not protect yourself. It's one thing to isolate yourself because you need the time and space to, say, workout or study or meditate on what's going on in your head. The point is that the isolation is limited to accomplishing something, then moving on. It's when you use it to defend yourself from something that it becomes a problem. Those same threats will be there once your fortress is opened... and it will open.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:36 PM
-1

Well, Ya know what? Fuck that bitch. She fucked up and got mad. Not your problem
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:42 PM
0

I'm with it. Not every dude is an alpha type. If all sides are with it, than I'm with it. I think a bigger improvement is more opportunities for dudes who want to enter those traditional female oriented positions such as nurses, secretaries, teachers and the like. More opportunities for all I say.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:39 PM
1

Yeah, that's pretty much the experience of most of the Latin people I know. The only exceptions are OMGWTF assimilated types.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 02:03 PM
1

Two things off the top that you need to deal with: that your mom beat you like a pinata at a 12 year old's birthday party, and that your girlfriend died suddenly. Those two things will mess up your head off the top. All the Pill is doing is revealing your hard-won pain. Confront it, conquer it, and all will be well.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:29 PM
9

Uh, unpopular opinion, but I'd bail. You said some real generic shit, and she took it all the way to guys using her for sex. There's no way to win this one. Even if you fuck her, she might go nuts. Heck, I should say especially if you fuck her. Run, Forrest, RUN!
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:12 PM
3

Next her. Next her quickly. Next her NOW. Not now, but RIGHT NOW. If she's going to ignore you while you're in the hospital, you're done. Stick a fork in it. Move on, and lose all of her contact information.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:10 PM
5

You've fucked her. You've won. Just chill out. If you've done your job right, she'll do the work. If not, well, break out the flaming basketballs because it's on to the next one.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:04 PM
13

In his defense, he HAD to write it down to get the marriage done in a Mosque. If he didn't write it down, and wanted to leave, it would mean screwing himself over.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 11:33 AM
36

Also, they understood the dynamics of the community very well. It's not merely Red Pill, but well applied to the situation in the Muslim community.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 11:32 AM
6

The only possible exception where I could see this being a problem is he's a bit of a lard-ass. I don't really like it when dudes binge on food, watch TV, then bitch when their woman puts on 10 pounds. Other than that, I'll allow it.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 11:30 AM
8

It still is, and you can use it to get $$$ in divorce. The problem is that most men are too scared to do their homework and fight in court.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:47 AM
4

No country for rapists, male or female. In a just world, Lena Dunham and Bill Cosby would be married off to each other. :)
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:30 PM
8

This law doesn't make much sense. I'm not sure how things work in the UK, but in the US, women have a right to property, and they have a right to use joint marital assets. Couldn't this be prosecuted as outright fraud if a woman is legitimately denies access to marital assets? I'm curious here.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:27 PM
2

Dude should just be handed the Lamar Hunt trophy. He's the champion of the AFC game. He needs help.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 12:19 PM
1

Excellent points, but the last sentence is very dependent on the woman. I could see two equally attractive 20-somethings with two different temperaments reacting very differently to age induced changes. If someone was introverted by nature, they might like the reduced attention. If someone was an extrovert that leaned on their looks though...WELP!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 10:11 PM
1

My point is that we have the law and constitution to back us up. In the UK, Canada and other parts of the Anglosphere, all they have is a hard dick and bubblegum, and they might run out of bubblegum soon.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 03:39 PM
1

Times like this make me glad to be an American. While people try to pull this stuff, so long as the institution gets money from any level of government, they can only go so far. The only exception is Clear and Present Danger, e.g. specific actionable threats aimed at particular individuals, incitement of riots and things of that nature. As much as they think they are protecting the university community, they are rendering them stupid. How can you defend an idea if you can't articulate the argume…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 01:20 PM
2

Think about it though from the alpha rapist dude's perspective. Not only do you have women on a string to use to your heart's content, but you don't even have to check the betas. You can just have your victims do your dirty work. Chess, not checkers my friends. That's why I want to get the rapist dudes off the streets. We're ALL paying for that shit, even if we had nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:56 AM
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Yeah...and this is what gives this subreddit its sterling rep throughout the internet. Well done! If only they'd just found a nice beta, they wouldn't have been raped, right? Sigh...smh
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:54 AM
1

Well said. Anyone is capable of getting caught up. Just sit, relax and figure out her track record. Looking for a unicorn just gets you a donkey with a horn glued on. Accept real she is right now.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:10 PM
-12

In fairness to the accusers, they have said that there were drugs involved, to the point where he straight up told them what he was doing.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:07 PM
13

I can't say what Bill Cosby did or didn't do, because due to the passage of time and the various nondisclosure agreements, he'll never have his day in court for good or ill. I will say this though : I find it interesting that it's usually people in positions of power who do most of the raping, yet the average Beta dude is the one facing the pressure over rape accusations. There's levels to this game shit, man.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:06 PM
3

Agreed. Also, I think there needs to be a formal syllabus structure to it as well. Certain books are hard to understand until you have read some books first.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 06:09 PM
4

It's worth it both for the historical context and to give a newbie a real life example of what it's like to apply the knowledge. The techniques don't age well, but the motivation and rationale do.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 06:06 PM
2

Remember, you don't have to fuck "most women". You just have to fuck someone that is consenting. If you have a bunch of older available women in front of you, why not go for it?
/r/askTRP15/11/14 06:04 PM
1

I think part of it was that I read this last out of my of original brain dump of the red pill. I had read Pimp, Art of Seduction, The Red Queen, The Game and Evolution of Desire before it, and it came off a bit simple to me. Still, it is very useful as a tool for teaching basic fundamental skills.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 06:03 PM
1

First of all, I would like to state that before mentioning my additions that books should be thought of like classes in college. Yes, you need the basic knowledge to go do what you're going to do, but you also need to get off your ass and apply it. Without further ado, here are my recommendations in addition to what was mentioned. Pimp by Iceberg Slim (Robert Beck). It's a nice introduction to the psychology of gaming women on top of an interesting exploration of race, gender and intersectionali…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 02:56 PM
3

Don't knock the older women. Do you want to lose your V-card, or do you want to be picky? I'm not saying go hump some morbidly obese HIV+ crack whore, but age isn't that huge a deal, especially if they're otherwise attractive. Other than that, just go for it. I didn't lose my virginity until 20, and I turned out OK. Just escalate. Oh, and keep working on your social anxiety.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 02:44 PM
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The thing is that mindset scares the shit out of me. I have no problem with sex. I do have a problem with being fucking stupid. Like wait...I barely know you from a hole in the wall, have zero clue about your track record, and you want me to risk pregnancy and STDs with YOU! Women scare me at times.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:30 PM
3

There are two solutions to this, and the one you choose is based on your temperament. If you aren't the plate spinning type, the answer is to walk away period. If you want to play, make sure you play as hard as possible and make sure the woman knows the scoop. Either way, respond with overwhelming force.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:27 PM
5

Well stated. While this subreddit is spot on about alpha fucks beta bucks, they tend to forget why a lot of women end up needing beta bucks in the first place. In every circle of woman, there is at least one woman who had a decent dude who was willing to put up with her crap, ducked up the situation somehow, and now needs to deal with someone worse off than they would have ever dealt with. Not every woman times the cock carousel with ease, then cashes out with some beta orbiter. Some women legit…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:23 PM
3

As someone who has dabbled with this, I can say I actually have a bit more respect for the gay cucks. The Closet is Real, hemophilia isn't completely dead and being upfront about wanting the Democratic can be an issue for dudes. Those straight ones though... Yeah, no respect. None.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:06 PM
0

FYI, Try Calm.com for meditating. They have a website and apps for Android and iPhone. That shit rules, and gets my mind right.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 12:31 AM
7

Excellent point. Or she could find someone with a high-presitge but relatively low paying job. Remember, that's how the Clintons made it work all the way to the White House. Yeah, Bill cheated, but he still got himself elected.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:13 PM
1

When it comes to the plus sized models, almost none of them are metabolic syndrome fat. They're fat, yes, but they don't carry that spare tire that even skinny fat beer guzzling women carry. Excellent point. It's amazing how the same weight can look very different on different women. Even if you prefer your women slimmer, you can tell that these women look GOOD, or at least better than the average woman on the street.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:49 AM
3

I considered the Divine 9 thing myself, and I realized that gee, I'm getting 80% of what they'd give me for free. Why bother rushing? LOL
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 07:33 PM
12

During my college days in the late 90s and early aughts, I saw both realities. For background, I did my first year as an engineering major, then switched out to Biotech for the balance, with a Comp Sci minor (which I didn't graduate with for reasons not important to this). In addition, I wrote columns for newspapers, so I spent a lot of time around liberal arts majors. The reality is that both are true. There is a subset that is getting laid like tile, and it's bigger than you think. If you have…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 07:31 PM
2

The advice is spot on. It's usually very easy for a young man to deal with a single older woman. They don't mind the direct approach, they have their own stuff, and they've made peace with their fate in life. Just go for it. They aren't going to be butchy usually, and if they are, be grateful you didn't meet them at 20.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 06:54 PM
7

Your dad must be a shrewd businessman. He made that $50k back in a little over 2 years and came out ahead in the end. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 11:16 AM
3

This. Healthcare in general (including nurses, but other sorts of people that work at hospitals) have crazy hours and a lot of junk food handy. The cognitive dissonance is fun/scary to watch.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:40 AM
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Um, there's a third option, gentlemen. Get custody. As I'm typing this, my daughter is 15 feet behind me asleep. And sitters make spinning plates fun. Stay thirsty my friends.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:37 AM
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Instead of simply recognizing that feminism is wrong and that women really aren't cut out for direct competition; Instead of recognizing that women are going to be more passionate and harder working in OTHER areas; Instead of recognizing that women just may not want to be office CEO/leaders as frequently as men...what does she do? She blames it on men and the "system" Meh, here is where I differ from the Red Pill. So fucking what most women like hearth and home? I get squicked by the idea that E…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:34 AM
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slow clap leading to standing applause Well done. Very well said.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:18 AM
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Wow...yeah. Just the fact that you're 22 and a couple is a ginormous red flag. Most people in the swing scene in that age bracket are rolling solo. Lemme know when you make your post, because my hunch tells me that you have less than zero guidance in the scene.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:07 AM
1

Feel free to ask away. In my day, I ended up doing the newbie dude orientation, so I've heard a lot of questions.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:06 AM
0

Interesting point about masculine dominant women and see. Then again, I tend to click more with butchy women, as my dad was my primary caregiver growing up. I know I am an odd duck though.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:43 PM
1

Not necessarily. Some dudes like the idea of showing off how alpha they are by showing off that super duper woman they have. Plus there are some closet cases out there.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:35 PM
75

Thank you and good day ladies and gentlemen. We can safely close this thread and move onto other matters. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:19 PM
1

I remember having this experience as a young man. It's fun but you'll be working day and night. I'm so tired, tired now!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:02 PM
4

I would amend this modestly. I would say don't get into any situation where you think you can get outfucked. I've had to show and prove, and there's nothing like the ego boost of knowing you just slayed someone. It's like what Conan the Barbarian said was the greatest joy in life: Crush your enemies. See them driven before you. Hear the lamentations of their women.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:01 PM
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I'm IluminatiNYC, and I approve this message. If you're regularly in the scene, and you still can't take the pussy off the pedestal, NOTHING will. They're nothing like knowing that any given weekend, you can go get your dick sucked. Even if you end up spending that weekend sleeping, reading and cleaning your place, you know that the pussy is right there. And when it's about as easy to get as groceries, you get over yourself and figure out what it is you want from women besides sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:58 PM
1

In the immortal words of Kurt Angle, it's true, it's DAMN true! I've seen it live and uncut.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:55 PM
12

As someone who spend a part of my 20s in the swing scene, and still dabble from time to time since my divorce (I kept my marriage monogamous, thanks), I've seen this happen all the time. Every dude thinks that they're the stud until shit gets real in the field. The scary thing is that I've witnessed the reverse, where the dude is slugging like Barry Bonds on a steroid cycle circa 2002 while the woman is whimpering in the corner, not wanting another dude and mad that she's about to she shown the …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:54 PM
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Nah. He was a victim. Though you're also right about the natural alpha part. Knowing what I know about The Red Pill and child sex abuse, it's scary how often "natural" is code for "victimized at a young age by some adult woman, got trained up on how to please said woman and mixed said training with complete and total detachment on how to bag women while ultimately resenting their presence". After all, when you've spend your pre-teen years being manipulated and abused by some 40 something woman, …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:43 AM
1

The scary thing is that she might have MORE as a regular girl. Remember, porn girls only fuck a select dude of studs who can hump for hours and get hard on camera. A regular woman has a much broader selection.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:39 AM
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WORD. Though it's also a sign that people tend to miss the forest for the trees. Dudes are so caught up on the porn shit that they don't realize that Bree Olson, accountant, would be just as messed up a chick.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:16 PM
1

Fuck Crystal Thorne. Call me the N-word during sex, and I might fuck around and turn into Ike Turner. I know Black guys who get off on that, but I'm not one of them.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:13 PM
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Call me crazy, but a pornstar past wouldn't disqualify her. Then again, I've dealt with people with broadly similar pasts before, so it wouldn't scare me off. Granted, I would have to get to know her before making that decision, but the multitude of dicks doesn't scare me. I can hold my own there.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:12 PM
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If I had a daughter and one of her older friends, maybe a babysitter, did this, I'd be hardpressed not to try to kill the bitch. Exactly! The identity politics and tribalism are running wild with some people. Thankfully, the majority of people have sense. Toddlers are not fuck toys, mmkay! Heck, they barely have a clue as to what's going on down there.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:21 AM
2

Thank my good man. Mind if I flesh this out into a post?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:37 AM
1

I have gotten a few issues here or there, but it's rare. Even then, it's more a fear of baby mama drama than anything else. Being a single dad gives me a lot of leeway that a childless me wouldn't get. Being aggressive with a woman? Well, he has a kid, so he can't be THAT bad. Can't go out every night? Well, that kid needs her daddy. Wonder why I can't call back? My daughter has homework! Simply put, having a child creates boundaries where I would otherwise have to make the effort to create them…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:36 AM
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Um, yeah... I will say this. Lena Dunham deserves an award for the sheer chutzpah she's displaying. Wait...you write in your book that you molested your sister repeatedly for years, and you're not supposed to be charged with anything? I think her hamster could replace the engine in SpaceShip Two. Virgin Galatic would be cleared to fly. LOL
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 10:09 PM
2

Real talk, there needs to be a post on condom selection. Picking out the right saddle can save a lot of drama, but it's rare for a guy to go through the trouble.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:15 PM
2

Well played. Dark colored towels, condoms and some latex gloves can make any time of the month sex time. I was schooled to this game young. Just have good hygiene, make sure to shower afterward and you're golden.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:13 PM
3

Consider this line stolen. LOL
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:10 PM
1

Agreed. And I will say this in addition. If you can do that to a woman on the red, and aren't on complete asshole on her, you'll have a friend for life at minimum. Something about that ability gets women to drop their guard.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:07 PM
1

Now that I agree with. There's a large population within the feminist movement who are OK with men getting screwed over for their own issues. Between the bitter women who were done dirty by specific men, the closet cases who hide behind feminism to explain why they, ya know, dig chicks not dick and the assorted nutjobs who associate with any political movement, it is hard for men to get heard edgewise within the movement.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:58 PM
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Example number to be continued of how frame matters. There's a difference between do you want to have sex? And Tell me you want this dick! The former is in the frame of the girl having control, while the latter has the man in a position where he can take the sex away. That little bit of frame can make all the difference.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:52 PM
1

She doesn't talk about it now much, but when she first got on the radio before her TV show, that was something she was outspoken about. It's interesting how she fell back as she became much more high profile
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:50 PM
1

I would say I'm legit at a 7 right now. I can pull 8s without a problem but my fastball, so to speak, sits on a 7. I'm 6'5""260 with 9% body fat. I've gotten my style together, and now I'm getting my money right. I think I can bump myself up more when I fix my income and financial . Also, single parenthood helps me a bit. I'm not saying every dude should go have kids and get their mama to turn them over, but it is a net plus. I figure once I get on my feet, I can sit on 8s, which would make my l…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 04:09 PM
2

This is a case where the phrase "your mileage may vary" applies big time. Different men have different tastes on the particulars of a LTR. Some men just want someone who will hold down home and hearth while they work like mad. Others want someone they can compare war stories with as well as socialize within their profession. While I wouldn't put it at irrelevant, I think it's way too much to call it a requirement for any man.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 03:56 PM
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Eventually I say quietly "If you want it, you have to say it" and she says "Say what" and I say "Tell me you want me". And she says "What will happen if I say that" and I say "Say it and you'll find out". She pauses, bites her lip, and whispers in my ear "I want you". I drive inside her (very) wet pussy all the way. We have sex twice before the night is through. Very well played. That's how you do it, gentlemen. It's amazing how you can both get consent AND cut her BS in one swoop. Less hassle a…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:54 AM
1

In fairness, the few people who speak out on prison rape come from the general feminist mindset. Heck, Rachel Maddow got her come up talking about prison rape. Still, it's not something that's a mainstream issue for a whole host of reasons.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:24 AM
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I didn't say per se it was criminal, but there's a high creepy factor there. Just because something is legal doesn't make it tasteful.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:52 PM
13

Same thing. The Bible (and pretty much any holy book that's made it past the century mark in years) has some straight jewels in it. Well, there's a part of the Hadith in Islam that suggests literally eating a dick as punishment for immorality. The things people write...
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 04:15 PM
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From my experience dealing with one girl who was incel, it's a combination of looks, mental health and family situation. That's another reason I'm wary about body count being a sign of issues. A low body count can be the product of some bad family issues as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 04:04 PM
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Eh...I've seen it roll all sorts of ways. Some White women just fuck with Black culture more for a myriad of reasons. That said, the stereotype is out there for a reason, and I've seen some Black guys milk it for all its worth. I just want those brothers to grow a backbone and go after better looking women, irregardless of color, but that's life.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 04:01 PM
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Agreed. Not everyone on the planet is looking for the Baddest Bitch (tm) they can find. They just want someone they can talk to and shoot the breeze. She stayed ALL the way in her lane, and had some bad stuff happen to her. I'm sure you could find an excuse of someone similar getting a good dude, but this is not an example.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:59 PM
9

Emphasis on line three. I'm not down with robbing cradles.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:58 PM
6

I agree with the assertion, but I want to add some nuance to it. Once I started getting into the scene and wolfing down books by the truck load, a very important lesson became clear. The thing is that for women, sexuality needs to have a narrative. It isn't just what they find hot, but the circumstances in which that hot thing exists. Women are telling the truth in that they don't want it to happen...somewhat. It isn't just the fantasy themselves, but the situation it exists in. As weird as it s…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:53 PM
1

OK, I can see what you're trying to say. I will say the hamster does cut both ways. The same hamster that allows a woman to hide her number is the one that allows her to avoid obvious signs she's getting played. It evens out.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 12:49 PM
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I wouldn't say impossible to execute. Find a community of honest-to-goodness devoutly religious people, and there will be a percentage of women who will be chaste if only because they couldn't find the Cock Carousel if it were bookmarked on Google Maps. I can name a few women who got that done to them. Now if you want to say broadly speaking that it can happen easier to men, FINE. But don't let your anger blind you to the bigger picture.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 09:22 PM
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Here's what I don't get with women who play the field and marry into conservative cultures like the woman quotes in the OP. As much as they find those cultures so charm, there are rules and regulations to their shit. If you take the King's shilling, you do the King's bidding. She knew good and well what the rules were. Why did she walk away from that culture, then anticipate she could just jump in when she needed a HUS-band! The OP should have realized that the first time she sucked some dick, s…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 06:56 PM
1

The darker skinned among us (think Black folk of all kinds, South Asians, Filipinos and some subsets of Latins) can't get it from the sun if we live in the middle latitudes.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 01:23 PM
1

I wouldn't say you're wrong as much as to figure out what your body can handle. Different groups handle milk different. Also, there isn't just cows milk. Goats milk and buffalo milk can work well, without the nasty lactose issues. I'm saying do your homework on your own body and figure out what works.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 01:14 PM
1

Excellent point on the connection between the catcallers and the dudes who holler at every woman on line. Same game, different context.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:11 AM
2

Glad I wasn't the only one thinking Linux. LOL
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:02 AM
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Show me a woman who misses the male gaze, and I'll show you a woman who, at her core, ain't worth shit. Contra to what the newbies on here say, women can offer plenty to the world. From the tradition feminine skills like taking care of home and hearth to some of the most brilliant women out there taking on the challenges of science, women can do all sorts of things. The thing is not every woman has actual skills they can offer to the world. However, the genetic lottery does give out looks. If sh…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:01 AM
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First, I'd get more consistent with the workouts. Also, if there are some major issues you're getting with your workouts, try to get to a sports medicine specialist to deal with those underlying issues. There are a lot of different resources out there, particularly if you don't have the money for a gym. Also, don't go all out at once. Be smart about your fitness levels. Doing too much when your body can't handle it can cause more problems than it solves. Also, find a eating plan and stick with i…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 09:56 AM
2

I wouldn't completely ditch the dairy, as the alternatives can be poorly absorbed. Still, you're on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 09:53 AM
2

The thing I find interesting about stripping, and sex work in general, is how broad a gap there is between what most women think is going on, and what actually is going on. I think most women assume that these alpha males are getting involved in this stuff to run up the score on desperate weak women. The reality is that these men either are or perceive themselves to be weak, and act accordingly. Heck, they think the sex worker is the one with the advantage. It's not that I think that stuff is ba…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 01:19 AM
1

Just go for the shoulders man. The stories I can tell... LOL
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:57 AM
1

Sounds about right in experience. There are a few tells with the straight ones, but it isn't usually something you'd pick up unless you stopped to have a conversation with them.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:29 PM
1

Well mine got BPD from five out of five shrinks. We're even Steven. LOL Ironically, I found the red pill mid marriage and inadvertently did the MMSL male action plan without realizing it until after the fact. Suffice to say after I filed them papers, I hit the ground running. :-)
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:22 PM
1

I feel you. Google female triad syndrome sometime though. That super low body fat in women is NOT a game.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:20 PM
2

The road head and things like that stopped once I knew the scoop. She thought she could pacify a exswinger with sex. Bitch please!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:14 PM
3

I got one better than your Panera example. I had to tackle my ex in a supermarket to prevent her from fighting the manager over a 50 cent coupon. That was insane.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:11 PM
4

Interesting you mention Rollo as he admits to being a fellow non (i. e. A current or former significant other of someone with BPD). He gets that pain big time.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:08 PM
7

Borderline AND bipolar??!! You the real MVP. I thought BPD was bad enough alone. Throwing bipolar into the mix? JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:04 PM
2

It's one thing to be in a relationship with someone with BPD and decide to work it out. Everyone is different, and if the woman involved is amenable to treatment, some well placed Game can actually be a good thing. However, if none of the above are true, don't run. Calmly and coolly unwind the relationship. Running can cause more problems. They need to know that there is no way in the world you are going back. Merely nexting them is like waving a red Cape in front of a bull. (Source: being marri…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:02 PM
2

Also women need a certain percentage of body fat, or their health will go to crap. Any woman who goes below 12% for more than a brief period of time will suffer all kinds of health issues : fractures, torn ligaments, heart attacks, organ damage and all sorts of "fun" stuff. The happy zone is between 12 and 18%. Anything else causes problems.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:52 PM
3

I like your idea, but I prefer an approach of never saying negative without saying something positive. In my experience, the second you say no, you get people thinking, "Well, I'm a prove you wrong!" Here is how I would have approached it for example : I'm someone who is very much into an active lifestyle. I work out daily, and I am mindful of what I eat. Save for the very occasional cheat meal, I eat clean, and enjoy the benefits it brings to my lifestyle. I would like someone to share this lif…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:44 PM
1

I've seen numbers bandied about that put the percentage of female peeps at 45%, with roughly 80% of their victims being men.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:31 PM
5

I ended a similar friendship with a woman under similar circumstances. The difference was that 1) I wasn't trying to make her my girl and 2) she conveniently hamstered away the fact that she said I deserved to be abused by women as a child. Of course I was upset, but she swore I attacked her for no reason (and according to our mutual friends, that's what she told them). This woman can go fuck herself. ETA: Dude was a bit of a douche for trashing the woman, but the point stands. If all dude wante…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:08 AM
2

I'm thinking this is a troll post, but either way, this is gold. While I wouldn't say she was a straight up gold digger, at least in a traditional way, she was looking for a meal ticket. He did the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:27 PM
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I dunno. The scary part is that I don't think she realizes she's been demoted. That's how cars get keyed and bunnies get boiled. Have fun, but ease her out of rotation.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:13 PM
1

You're right that you can't live in bitterness. The thing is that you have to find out what happiness means for you instead of defining it as someone else. I do feel you that some dudes get cold in it, but that's not I choose to function.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:57 PM
4

I'm not too sure about that. Just because something is different doesn't make it better. Take South Korea, for example. They have the best test scores on international assessments, yet lead the world in teenage suicides and percentage of high school students going to college overseas. Heck, the suicide rate is enough that when I Googled looking for info there's a Wikipedia on suicide in South Korea. While there are definite issues with American education, I'm not sure the Asian model is the best…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 08:10 PM
1

The best way to think of sex is like playing a sport like basketball or soccer (or football, for those traditionally inclined). Yes, there should be a structure, but you should know when to freelance, why you're freelancing and have a good flow of the game. If you're doing it right, even the most patterned moves in bed will look spontaneous. You're right about part of it being experience and simply knowing what move will work next. The other part is just paying attention to who you're with. They…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:20 PM
6

Good call my dude. Eventually you can't keep spinning, so you need to figure out how to move forward. Ideally you've figured out what you want from a woman, and can combine that with this knowledge to proceed along the vest path possible.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 08:48 PM
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I'm not sure if Lewinsky can be used as a RP lesson though. How many women are going to have a chance to hump the president? Realistically. Or even dudes on that level, like A-list movie stars, All-Star Athletes, music acts with multiple platinum plaques, not even relatively ordinary celebrities. Worrying about chicks like that is kind of like worrying about Islamic State killing you: possible, but probably not going to happen. I ain't mad at her though. Most hetero women in that spot would have…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:21 PM
4

The happy medium is whatever the heck you think it is. Missing the point means that you're getting somewhere. You are no longer relying on picking up women for validation of your self-esteem. You are now at the point where you can judge women on what they can add to your life, and only you can be the judge of that. You've won. The choice is what you wish to do with your victory.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:03 PM
2

Good point. Play your position well, and life will treat you well. I'm tall and stocky, and I have enough sense to realize that I wasn't going to become a jockey.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:53 PM
4

Can I say TRP and that woman are right? On one hand, she is getting spoiled. She doesn't have to work to get in the club, or isn't expected to spend money on drinks. She isn't risking a rape case for hitting on the wrong dude. Even the best looking men have to work some. Apparently, she's missed out on the fact that someone like Danny DeVito has to be a headlining movie star to get any sort of play from women. Danny DeVito the accountant is working it out with his hand. That said, pretty woman p…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:51 PM
1

Spoken as someone who hasn't met enough women. I've had my ex try to pull similar stunts and get exposed.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:21 PM
1

Good call on Dalrock. I can just see the gleam in his eyes as her tears that woman a new asshole...
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:20 PM
34

I've seen teenagers wreck their parents like that. Not common, but possible.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:09 PM
2

And this is why I'm glad I have custody. I restrict my party hours to weekends, where I either have the daughter off on visitation or rotate through sitters. Thankfully not only are most women cool with it, a few women have complimented me for showing my beta side after laying the game proper . Seriously though, who are these dudes who are OK going over some random chicks house knowing the kids are around? Even during my premarriagr days, I didn't do that. Are dudes that hard up for pussy that t…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:51 PM
14

I spend a lot of time with both Black and White women due to my wide ranging tastes. Unless a Black girl grew up around a lot of White guys and was able to date a bunch in her youth, a White guy just will not appear on their radar, period. If you really want to get into it, check out the so-called Black Women's Empowerment scene at spots like beyondblackwhite.com. It's this whole subculture of Black women who only want to deal with White guys... And regularly features advice on how to get White …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:53 PM
3

Well ice felt the same way at White gatherings where I'm the only Black guy in the room, and I don't know what they're talking about. Buck up.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:17 PM
21

I regret that I have one upvote to give. Black women generally assume that a White guy isn't interested until proven otherwise. Well played chap.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:14 PM
5

I think it's a bit of observation bias. I think the kind of women that are willing to date outside of their race are necessarily less pretentious. If something major like race isn't a big deal, you're likely to let other things slide. In my experience, Black girls are more pretentious, but I'm also a Black guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:08 PM
8

Be careful using BMI stats to judge obesity in Black people. Once you account for waist measurements, half of the obesity gap between Blacks and whites disappears. Also, from experience, heavier Black women are more likely to have that classic hourglass shape than women of other groups. I'm not saying the numbers are wrong a such as they are misleading.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:05 PM
2

A lot of it is flat opportunity. Because men are more likely to travel more, Black men get more shots at White women than the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:02 PM
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As a Black guy who dates Black women, I think that you and the OP are both right. FWIW, the difference is how stable the environment a sister grows up in. Show me a Black was that goes hard in the hypergamy paint, and I will show you someone who grew up with a lot of fuckshit in their background. That said, if you can avoid that, you're much more likely to be in the clear. There are fewer Black women going hard in the feminism business, so you get less political stuff when it comes to dating. If…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:01 PM
3

Personally, I'd have no issues with women who do porn. Then again, I have a history of dealing with swingers and kinksters. I have women who have literal spreadsheets of sexual partners. Quite frankly IDGAF. That said, it's someone's right to care. They don't have the right to be an asshole, but they do have a right to say thanks, but no thanks. Freedom of choice should be respected.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:30 PM
2

I said the same thing a few days ago. Ironically, affirmative consent-like actions work a bit better with non-Whites. Most White women just wanna fuck already. Then again, my tastes are a bit hardcore, so YMMV
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:27 PM
3

There's a Jay-Z song for that. Move on with your life. She's proven herself to be a bird.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 12:47 AM
2

A round of applause for /u/refriaire. He took a fucked up situation and handled with class. No violence. No crying. Now he can rebuild with a better crop of people. Both of them can go fuck themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:03 AM
2

Sigh...so true. So, so true... :)
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:55 PM
1

As a single man and primary caregiver to a 5 year old girl, all I have to say is "accurate."
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:52 PM
1

Good mention of Sex At Dawn. It should be required reading among this set.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:41 PM
1

Facts. The stories I can tell...Herman Cain smile
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:40 PM
3

(full disclosure: I have a personal lady friend who writes for Pornhub and other affiliated websites. Simply put, I know more about Pornhub's working than the average person.) FWIW, this jives with what I've heard both from people within the porn-tube industry and what I've seen from women. A large number of women check for gay porn, and it's mostly because it appears more female-friendly to them. It's sexual without being threatening because the dudes aren't checking for them. It's a nice way t…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:36 PM
1

This is why this subreddit can be a force for good. If you know the emotional state of the women you're dealing with, it avoids these issues. If you're dealing with someone for whom feelings equal thoughts, you know to act accordingly based on your values. If you aren't compatible with how a woman sees themselves, do the dip. It'll save you thousands in lawyer's fees. Women tend to operate on a holistic mindset, which means that their literal words don't matter much. You have to focus on their m…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:54 PM
1

I am never comfortable with thinking that any one sign equals problems. It can lead to lazy thinking and get you caught up much more than you would know otherwise. The only way to get to know a girl is to get to know a girl. Besides, you could just, ya know, talk to a woman. Most bad women have no problem identifying themselves if you think about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:47 PM
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"As a single dad, I can't find a job that provides me a healthy work-life balance, and my child comes first!" As a working single dad, all I can say is ROTFLMAO! I have too much dignity and a desire to work to do that, but I cannot hate on some other dude doing otherwise. :)
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:52 PM
1

Depends on what part of the country you're in. I bet you're West of the Rockies.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:51 PM
2

Excellent point. I'm not disagreeing with you as much as wondering if the people who thought of this are coming from such a different mindset from the average person as to be completely lost. There have also been discussions on various comment boards on how this law at least trends towards kink.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:48 PM
2

Though that is a good lesson though. If a woman says no, next her. Move on to someone who wants you. :)
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:51 PM
4

Playing devil's advocate, I'm wondering how influenced these bills are by the kink and swing communities. I'm currently involved to a certain extent in the former, dabble in the latter, and this is EXACTLY how it works within these scenes. You don't just walk up to someone and beat them or tie them up (or at least that would be clearly illegal and get you on BDSM shit lists for a 200 mile radius). You discuss everything you want to do clearly and explicitly, make sure you know the other person's…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:48 PM
1

FWIW, I tend to lean cosmolibertarian, and I got the link from an article in Reason. Even though they're more feminist-friendly (like myself personally), they can see the potential fuckshit this law will cause. Even Thoughts On Liberty, an all-woman libertarian blog, is demanding standard legal protections (e.g. counsel, self-incrimination, cross-examination and the like) need to be given to the accused.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:08 PM
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And stop encouraging naivety among women. If he's buying you drinks and hitting on you, he's probably trying to fuck you. If you have no intention of fucking him, she should say so from the start, otherwise its on the table. Yeah, she'll lose her free drink cow for the night, welcome to being an adult. No I don't expect you to fuck me for $30 in drinks, but I'm certainly not wasting my night on a chick who openly has no desire... See the communication card is on her, not him. He made his intent …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:03 PM
6

The funny/sad part us that the right-wingers are A-OK with the BS. It accomplishes the same goals they've always wanted, but gives them feminist cover. Win-win.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:20 PM
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A few thoughts. One, this whole rape epidemic is white people bullshit. More accurately, well-off White people bullshit. Somehow, HBCU don't have this rape culture issue, and Black students at PWIs (that's primarily White institutions, aka the rest of the higher education establishment) don't have this issue with rape and sexual assault. Throw in the fact that working-class Whites and STEM majors tend not to get caught up in the BS of drinking culture, and you have a problem dominated by well-of…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 12:23 PM
1

I can't upvote this enough. Let a man do this and he's pure evil.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:39 PM
3

Isn't this the same country that gave a 47 year old woman probation for trying to hump a 10 year old boy? I feel for the boys of that place. They're screwed.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:38 PM
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Also, it's best to know when you can real talk someone and BS someone. Know your audience.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:34 PM
4

Wait...a dude can just hit the gym on his own. Heck, I did it before I found the Red Pill. Yet, this is somehow a threat? Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks! cue Trouble Funk drum sample
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:20 AM
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ROTFLMAO!!!!! Even as someone who is a single dad, I had to especially laugh at that part about testing the dude. Thankfully, skillful use of texting and smartphones help me avoid those moments with my little one. :)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:37 PM
1

I think the difference between you and the scenario OP suggested was that your gf was a virgin, and it was early on in the relationship. There was room to work on things because, well, you have to feel each other out early in a relationship. The OP situation had a dude that was around for 8 years. At some point, he's earned the right to know the scoop as to what's going on one way or another. In your case, you had the opportunity both to work with her and let her know that you can't hang around …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:05 PM
1

Dude is dead wrong, and it's not for what you think. Vaginisms that aren't the cause of some obvious physical injury (eg rough child birth, vaginal tearing and the like) are a sign of OMGWTF sexual trauma. That he seems clueless of that is a major incidtment of him after 8 years. He needs to either lay therapy on the table or GTFO. If they otherwise get along, I'd go the former route, hoping that time will get her together. Otherwise, it's time to pull the plug and fuck bitches.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:53 PM
0

The older I get, the more I realize that how women see beauty has nothing to do with men one way or another. Beauty is just a symptom of the status competition between other women. The most beautiful women in a group get first dibs on access, resources and the like. Everything else flows from that. That's why you hear women complaining that a certain woman doesn't deserve a good man. It's because that woman didn't do her work in the female sexual matrix, yet reaped the rewards. Your goal is to d…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:29 PM
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My dick makes me no more a rapist by default than a woman's vagina makes her a good mother by default. I regret that I have just one upvote for this response. Excellent.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 11:33 PM
14

Cleaning for a half hour? Heck, compared to my marriage, you were treated like a king. LOL
/r/MensRights01/10/14 10:58 AM
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Women? Taking care of their kids? On purpose? What planet does this happen? Not on mine.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 10:57 AM
1

A few thoughts here: I bet you a cool $1000 that there was some major issues going on with her on the low. People just don't flip like that unless there was something there. It was rich that she was screaming feminism, but resorted to revenge porn when shit got real. While dude says that she didn't cheat, I do think at minimum someone was trying to get at her. That she was so secretive speaks volumes The whole thing about his friend being a jerk for not wanting to date a girl is a screaming red …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:23 PM
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Yeah, that girl was not just an idiot but a fucking idiot. One, she's proven that she will give you the ass no matter what her situation is. Two, it wasn't even a situation like you were just giving her dick and sending her on her way. So she can't even use increased hang out time as a carrot to get you to commit. Why in the world would she expect you to commit when you're getting everything you want?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:08 PM
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Since /u/IllimitableMan has come through with the obligatory Chris Brown reference, I just find women like that hilarious. Wait, you've already proved you're a cheater by virtue of sleeping with me. Yet you want me to take your man's place so you can do it again? Get your validation junkie ass out of my face. Lemme stamp your hand with this permanent ink, so you can show that stamp to your friends. Idiots!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:02 PM
0

teenage boys fellating the men of the tribe. Is that something you're cool with?. cause historically it's just as common as female virginity having a intrinsic worth. This is true. There's a LOT of "knowledge" being shared from the young men in a lot of societies if you start doing the math on it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:07 PM
0

The immigrant dynamic strikes again. I am a descendent of it, and I've seen it happen so often that you can pretty much set your watch to it. Well done by Julio though.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:03 PM
3

A bit of history behind the shaming stuff is in order. There was a time where women couldn't get certain jobs or certain benefits unless they were married. Teachers could get fired for not being virgins and forced onto unpaid leave for getting pregnant, even within the context of marriage. Sleeping around was grounds for not being able to get apartments. Men regularly cheated without much in the way of consequences, but a cheating woman could actually catch a case, and there are still dead-lette…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:47 PM
3

Sometimes you can't make this shit up. I know that in the Philadelphia area, they have a similar spot, except the town was convinced to make it open and free to the kids in the area. Shockingly, it's become the most popular playground in town. Gee...most boys (and a few girls here and there) need outside stimulation? Whodathunkit?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 10:22 AM
1

Hence my baby with bathwater analogy. There's nothing wrong with a plain looking woman, say, becoming a great songwriter or scientist or even CEO or politician. If they have the gift, great for them. The free stuff or unfair advantage is the problem. Ideally, we should engage to allow the good and not the bad, but the world isn't perfect.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:22 PM
1

Is her position in the matrix secure and high? Has she always been surrounded by female friends who supported and validated her? Then feminism will make very little sense to her. Does the female social matrix reject her and push her out? The "patriarchy" will make sense to her, because "patriarchy" is what feminists call the female social matrix. Unlike most of the crowd here, I'm not anti-feminism per se. There are some worthwhile social goals in the movement, and I'm not one to throw the baby …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:38 PM
0

Loads of the women involved in troll-feminism are in some way 'damaged' - bullying, abuse, terrible parental role models; some of it is big stuff and some of it is stuff that just happens to be big in the context of their own narrative IMO, a lot of feminists find it easier to be angry at nebulous "men" than at that particular man/men who did them dirty. You hear these stories of fucked-up shit that happened to them, and you feel sympathetic...until you realize they called you a despicable human…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:33 PM
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Unpopular opinion, but I don't see how allowing unattractive women access to the mainstream of society is a Bad Thing. Just because a woman doesn't have looks doesn't mean she doesn't have something else to offer. Heck, they might be able to focus more with less sexual attention on them.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:31 PM
3

I'm not sure I'm buying this. I've dealt with self-identified feminists, and they run the gamut of what you see in society in terms of looks, for good or ill. I think it's more of an approach to life than because of looks. Then again, I've run into more feminists who seem to have gripes with particular men in their past as opposed to men in general. YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:27 PM
0

Point well taken. I think there's a tendency to over-read social science and evo psych stories on this board. Just because most dudes prefer the 18-24 demo doesn't mean there isn't a person who could possibly prefer other types. It just means in the broader population, it's what's the most popular. Heck, I know my body type isn't what's popping in the mainstream. I use that knowledge to my advantage, knowing that in certain circles, I can gun for what I want without compromising standards otherw…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:36 PM
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I'm with /u/raceAround126. That photo is an apples-to-oranges comparison. I do understand your point though, and I've seen examples where beauty was invested well and beauty was invested poorly. FWIW, women are spotted their beauty and men their effort. What they do with it 25-30 years later reveals their true character.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:33 AM
1

I think you're right, but you missed a biggie in the abstract. To wit: Moreover, we found that sexual activity more closely mimics women’s than men’s sexual interest. We conclude that women show larger developmental plasticity than men with regard to the desired object’s age and that men’s heterosexual activity likely is constrained by female choice. Like I mentioned in a different context on here, the trend is your friend. There are obvious exceptions to this (Source: a large chunk of my dating…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:21 AM
3

The best critiques about the Red Pill haven't been that it's wrong as much as it's overbroad. I think there is a tendency to take AWALT a bit too far. While I think the majority understand AWALT to refer to broad trends as opposed for a shot-by-shot called of a woman's behavior, there are men who think that because, say, women will try to get the best man possible that ALL women will go for THE best guy RIGHT THAT MOMENT in a particular way at a particular time. The Red Pill is less a guideline …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:15 AM
1

Exactly. The problem is that instead of focusing on the anger, which would ruin just about any help given to the poor dude, they focus on the means by which the angry man is expressing his anger. I've seen some jacked up applications of The Red Pill, and they are, without fail, men on some bad kung-fu movie revenge mindset, to the point where you practically read their writings in overdub.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:10 AM
2

Duly noted. I might have to add that to the toolbox. The larger point is that you let them what the drill is from jump, and it's up to them to say yes or no. Once they say yes, it's no longer your problem.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:39 PM
11

I'll second this motion. I think it's poorly understood.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:35 PM
3

While a bit long, you needed to spell everything out for it to make sense. I read Games People Play under a different context, and it seems to spell out certain things. Rapo is definitely a good one for The Red Pill though, because it happens a lot in pick-up contexts. Personally, I'd rather get the hell away. Someone who is willing to play that game doesn't have their head together, and not all sex is worth it. Maybe it might be worthwhile for a newbie to get a few experiences like that to get …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:32 PM
2

I think there was a case 15 years ago from another Columbia student where they nailed her for a false accusation. It turns out she was running multiple men in for rape charges, and say that she was targeting men for this. I think she did a few years in jail.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:03 PM
2

There's also the fact that when cops come across an actual rape victim, they do a crummy job of handling it, making it less likely that similar victims would come forward. It's just a shitstorm all the way down, and society has to deal with rapists running wild and hurt women getting victimized all over again.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:59 PM
2

FWIW, I've been in a similar situation, but stopped to ask for permission to touch just so no one could get anything twisted. Talking to women is like talking to the police: anything you say can and will be used against you! Still, that sounds like some BS. I'm glad you didn't get caught up.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:57 PM
1

You're reading it wrong. Let's have a quick Genetics lesson. The population of babies is slightly skewed towards males at birth. There are 103 males born for every 100 females. However due to X linked conditions, boys are way more likely to die young than girls. By adulthood, there are usually 97 males for every 100 females outside of any other interventions. With the risk of death during child birth dramatically reduced from 100 years ago, more women are just around in general. Also, while X li…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 07:46 PM
3

Yep. When 78% of unmarried women want an with a job, unmarried men have few opportunities. The trend is your friend.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 07:34 PM
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Agreed. Your typical working class woman is in better shape economically than a working class man. Hence, they can be pickier. Up the economic food chain, the situation is reversed. As much as I don't check for Charles Murray, he's onto something with this Great Unraveling stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 07:31 PM
2

And the headline is a problem...why? Look, there are boys and men who are victimized and taken advantage of by women. If you don't want to use the word rape, fine. Call it hopscotch for all I care. Just don't call it not a crime. Maybe we'll see some justice in our lifetime. That would be sweet, wouldn't it?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:29 PM
-2

Dude...if you're for real, you might want to talk to someone about that. Being "assaulted for sex" isn't a good thing, no matter what you call it. Jussayin'.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:04 PM
13

Yep! The question is how to deal with your sex drive during the intervening 40 years. LOL
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 07:50 PM
7

Also, a lot of people don't "get it" until they hit rock bottom. That's life. Why worry about people who are clueless about themselves? Worry about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:57 PM
2

Great point there. Everyone has their uses, and for the guy you described, the party chick might be a winner. Not good doesn't necessarily mean useless.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:22 AM
11

To answer the question directly asked in the title, the answer is Yes, yes, yes like a crowd cheering for Daniel Bryan at a WWE pay-per-view. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule. You have your rebels, your hippies and other Whites that, for various and sundry reasons, just didn't grow up around a lot of other White people. However, the trend is your friend. Now, how do you buck the trend? Well, the thing is that the average White guy is, well, average. You have to beat that guy to get th…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:47 PM
4

Excellent point, and you want to know the upshot? If you went in the hood, you'd be hated on for picking up women because the assumption is that you think you'd be too good for them. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:06 PM
3

I would generally agree. Still, as a Black guy, I know that I have to keep my game tighter.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:04 PM
2

Not all women. LOL The article had a few women that got the picture, and tried to hustle into those offices. Most of them don't get it though.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:15 PM
2

Yeah... The dudes paying that money are hustling backwards. If feminists wanted to show an example of patriarchy hurting men, this would do it. I do have my doubts. LOL
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:13 PM
2

FWIW the woman did manage to become a professor. This doesn't mean she's a captain of industry but she has a well paying job for life. That's a lot more than the random jumpoffs she was surrounded with.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:09 PM
7

Yes, but you have to be better than the White guy she's interested in.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:40 PM
1

Let's do some math. The average 20-something woman in the United States is 5'4.5" and 120 lbs. The average 20-something man is 5'10" and 165 lbs. Assuming equal skill and condition, who wins that fight, and be honest. Who is more likely to damage who? That's what I mean. This doesn't mean that no woman can do damage to no man under any circumstances as much as it is pure math.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:40 PM
1

Number one, I get. Being physically outgunned in a situation where you're smaller more often than not is a real problem. Knowing that the second you say no, you might get a right cross to the face you can't necessarily defend against will change how someone thinks about the world. Fair enough. The second one though? Sorry. No. You're wrong. And it doesn't matter if you're conscious. A drunk driver doesn't try to take out cars and kill people, but we still legally hold them responsible. It's the …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:58 PM
12

The answer to this comes from Jeru Da Damaja: Subliminal hypnotism and colonialism keep most people dead or in prison. The longer answer is that we live in a world where American culture is hegemonic. American women, particularly White American women, are the Gold Standard for women in the world. Everyone else who is a hetero woman is trying to be like them. And they know it. Even if they can't spell it out, they know the scoop. As a result, they don't have to be sexy. Society defines them as se…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:52 PM
6

You've nailed it. When you have the most powerful media outlets in the world trumpeting you as The Gold Standard (tm), entitlement issues are pretty much guaranteed to follow. It's not that non-White woman don't have a chance as much as they have to be that much better than a comparable White woman to get a chance. The resulting cruise control that White Western women have in the dating market creates all those issues mentioned in the OP. Women in those other countries aren't put on that pedesta…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:46 PM
1

According to the article, Professor Dirks said that she didn't say that. Who knows where that statement actually came from?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 07:24 PM
2

Unpopular opinion, but they kinda had to do this. If they were smart, they would have paid the same people on some black bag shit to clean up their mess. They didn't, so now they have to pay up front.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:56 PM
-1

I think he has a valid point. A lot of the younger dudes around here tend to think All Will Be Solved once they crack the code and get tons of women. The point is that while figuring out how to get laid is useful, like the Meek Mill song, there's levels to this shit. Once you can regularly get laid, figure out what else you want out of heterosexual relations.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:40 PM
1

Good way of looking at it. You're now ready for the next step, finding the women you're looking for. Once you find your niche, you can take those same lessons to the club and use them to garner things that you have a deep personal interest in. Congrats, and keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:34 PM
3

For someone who has hung around the swing scene off an on during the years, there tends to be two broad themes that take place in these cuckold situations. The first is the closet case scenario. These are dudes that prefer the company of gentlemen, but don't want to go for it because it doesn't fit their image of a socially dominant male. Homophobia is real, y'all. :) As a result, they concoct all of these scenarios to "force" them into what they really want. It's dumb, but there are still chunk…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:16 AM
3

Things like having less skill/ size, confidence, PE issues, which can be avoidable if he weren't getting screwed over by his fetish.. The guys the woman fucks are the opposite. Skilled, confident, last forever, have a good size. Interesting points. I think it's a way for guys to hamster away their own issues by having someone fill in. It's easier to have some glorified Fuck Machine sexually satisfy your wife as opposed to a man manning the fuck up and figuring out how to get 'er done. (Source: y…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:07 AM
20

Hey, I don't want to be shorter. LOL
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:04 PM
3

I'm one of the 20% to file first, and I got custody. My ex had to cop a ride from me to attend her own child's birthday party. You can win this divorce game. Just play to win.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:02 PM
-5

Word Playa. Where are these mythical 15 year old that have fully developed into their shapes. Glad I'm not crazy. 20 makes valid sense in my perspective, but 15? Man...
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:16 PM
-12

You're being daft, and you know it. Dude was talking about fucking 15 year old. If you want to blow up older man/younger women relationships, cool. I have no problem with it. Want to make the case that the age of consent should be younger? Fine. But don't try to make it like wanting to hump 15 year old is healthy. Perhaps preindustrialization Italy have worked, but not now.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:14 PM
10

Personally my goal by 40 is to have my fill of 20 year old and find someone reasonably attractive that I can kick it with. Anything can get old if you do it enough. Besides, new pussy isn't going to build with you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:33 PM
14

First of all, fuck movies. Movies are fantasy. I don't know about you, but I don't live in a mansion with a bevy of hot 18 to 25 year old bisexual women dying to hump me whenever I'm bored. Two, consider that the average dude marries someone around 25 or 26. We don't live in an Era of shotgun marriages. Dudes are more forgiving the you think. Reasonable people can disagree on whether it's a good thing, but it does exist.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:30 PM
1

I regret that I have one upvote to give. I do think the old regime had some real excesses that needed to be reformed. Women being beat up by dudes for reckless eyeballing or not letting a woman who wanted to bust her hump for something better is an unalloyed bad thing. However, instead of dealing with the problems, the belief is that the whole system was bad. I think a lot of babies were thrown out with bathwaters, and it's going to take a concerted effort to make things right.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:27 PM
1

I think it's a matter of growth. Personally, stuff like the richest women or the evergreen about the wimmenz in fields like tech or other than in the kitchen making put and preparing for blow jobs are dumb. That said, I do think people just need to get the BS out of their system before they can listen. Bypass the BS, upvote what you like and move on.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:22 PM
-1

Two words:try basketball. :-) I like the NFL, but I like hoops better.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:57 PM
19

Dude, no. Just no. Unless you want men to be stoned for doing the same thing, don't go there. Just don't.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:33 AM
1

Trust me, the woman is 100% to blame here. That this dude is too stupid to figure that out is why he needs to be decked. What else does this dude want? Evidence of her sending out engraved invitation to pedos to molest his kids?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:48 PM
3

Agreed. There's nothing sweeter than an execution done well. And there's nothing like finding the locks changed and her stuff on the stoop that will get the message across.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 12:12 PM
0

Thank you for writing this. I've been thinking of writing similar, but now my job is done. Stay smart.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:55 AM
1

My point was that if something like that, there would be repercussions and ramifications.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 12:58 AM
11

Someone needs to two-piece this guy, and quickly. I wish my baby mama would send some pedo naked pictures of my daughter. That would be the last day she's EVER see my daughter. And if she came back, I would have the world's first domestic violence case where feminists would be tripping over themselves to pay for my defense. Hell's too cool for an asshole like that.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:41 PM
-1

Yes, because I ask then straight up. It's amazing what you can ask if you do it with the right frame. It's also amazing how often women will just grab and go. Frame, plus a keen read of body language, is important.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:01 PM
1

So educate me. I have my record, and will stand by it. What am I missing?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:34 PM
-9

If a woman isn't enough of an adult to make clear her intentions, she doesn't need your dick. This Press Your Luck business is letting women get away with BS, and I want no parts of immature women. This is Red Pill, not Pedo Pill.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:23 PM
2

I'm going to write in defense of the fat girl, but I'll do it from a Red Pill perspective. Strange, I know, but roll with me. Say you're a big girl. No one really attractive gives you much play. Sure, you may date some, but you know you're just taking whatever you can get. Few people hit on you other than low-status dudes and predators who are just looking for a victim. However, one day, a good-looking guy gives you play. Like honestly good looking. Like you peeped his Facebook page and saw that…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:20 PM
1

WHAT?! Knowing that she's humping other people AND that she has a history of high-risk sex behavior, not using a condom is foolish. I get fluid monogamy, but this isn't it, bruh. Run, Forrest, RUN!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:27 PM
3

Thank you for saying this. You can get a threesome with a much more functional woman than this. Though I'm wondering what's YOUR issue since you seem to want to be around the drama. Personally, once she tried to one-up me with talk of the porn stars she's humped, I'm strapping up, giving her a fuck of a lifetime, then chucking deuces. No pussy is that good to hang around such BS. NONE.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:25 PM
0

Well, if you're doing it right, you should be pushing your comfort zone. As it grows, so will your ability to detect and destroy shit tests. Go far enough and not even celebrity women will pull stuff on you.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:37 PM
0

No, that means you need to tighten up your game. I'm not saying that zero tests will happen because, ya know, life happens. They should be kept to a minimum though.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 05:03 PM
1

That K you for saying that in a way they can understand.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 05:01 PM
-12

ATTRACTION IS NOT NEGOTIABLE But how you act on said attraction sure is. Or are you an immature boy led by their dick? Look, I know attraction is what gets you to step to a woman. Past that is 100% on you, especially since 9 times out of 10, you're the one escalating.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:43 AM
8

Um, those men who prefer good prime pussy to a chill girl that doesn't shit test deserves every shit test he gets. Heck, point him out, and I might make up shit tests for someone so stupid. Granted, good pussy is good pussy, but peace of mind makes it so much better. Any fool who wants good pussy that bad needs to be hooked up with the women who stay chasing alpha. They DESERVE each other.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:41 AM
11

There's also a long history of gay men in workout culture dating back to WWII. It goes back to the early day of San Francisco and the discharged gay vets who hung around there are a refuge. I'm not knocking the AIDS story, but there's a lot more to it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:43 PM
7

As long as Jabba is cool and willing to help hold things down, sure. There are times you have to take one for the team. TANSTAAFL
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:41 PM
8

I think the reasoning is pretty simple. Since women depend on frame more than looks, and lesbians are women who date other women, there's less incentive to keep healthy. There are lesbians in great shape, of course, but that lesbian on the margins of either getting in shape or not DGAF. It's amazing how men affect women and vice versa. Think about how easy it is for a gay guy to get laid compared to straight men.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:39 PM
1

Yes and no. Yes, in the sense that having a relationship will improve my life somehow. That isn't healthy anyway, and I think hanging around here removed any doubt that this is the case. No, because I know what a woman can and can't do, and I like the benefits that women can provide. You just have to operate smarter.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:59 PM
1

If these women were willing to date a guy who was maybe average in looks, IQ, money or personality, they could probably be in a relationship. But most post-wall women can't adjust their standards to match their reality. As a former bartender, I remember listening to women in their 40's and 50's complain about their "dorky boyfriends," and having this attitude that they were entitled to studs. I even overhear many fat and ugly women complaining about their relationships, and acting as if they des…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:23 AM
1

As a single dad, it's generally a net positive. Are there women who will have an issue with it? Yes. Are they outnumbered big-time by the women that find it endearing? Definitely. If anything else, it gives me a bit of leeway to operate. You'll be amazed at how easily a child can be used to enforce boundaries on your end. :)
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:43 PM
-2

One, beating tail is beta as fuck. If you're with it, you ain't with me, ya dig. Two, any NFL player has had to be on the lookout for shady women already. This isn't a new hustle. If you aren't woke to the game, I'm not sure what else will. Remember, Jerome Bettis and Bryce Paup have had to fight rape cases because women conspired to extort them. I'm not sure how this new rule makes things worse than they already are. Welcome to being a rich, young and famous man. Man the fuck up. Three, Ray Ric…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:10 PM
1

cackle I play rough in bed. Consensual, mind you, but I like to go all 15 rounds, then do it again and again until collapse. Get your weight up. :)
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:46 PM
2

I for one don't like thin women because at my size, involuntary manslaughter cases are a thing, and I like my sexy times to last for hours. If you can find a slender woman who is built Ford Tough, we can talk. Plus I don't like women to look too girly. I'm not down with the Sandusky/Kelly movement, if you get my drift. I like liberated women, though I don't mind teaching if it comes down to it. The rest though? Approved!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:22 PM
4

Be very nervous of any woman who seems too needy for validation. It's ultimately a sign of weakness on behalf of the woman, and it's in you best interest to dip to the left. The girl mentioned in the OP clearly wanted to be the prize, but didn't make her intentions plain. Now she's lost. While the Beta got the job done, you shouldn't. If a woman is too much of a pussy to state her needs, all she worth is a pussy and consent, and not much more.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 05:51 PM
7

First, dude needs to file for temporary custody anyway. He needs something in case she pulls this stunt again. Two, dude needs to get all of his ducks in a row financially. Granted, he works in sales, so that may not be easy to do. After all, a few bad months, and he's in trouble financially. Still, he needs to piece it all together, and do it quickly. Three, he needs to start plotting to leave. Athol Kay's Male Action Plan is a good base, but he needs to do something. The wife is going to leave…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:14 PM
1

she can't even really understand what's happening due to being drunk Holy fucking mother of hamster, this is some next level emotional hamster shit. Do you really not see why everything you say makes no sense? Does it really not ring any inequality bells in your head that only the woman is free of all consequences? Aaaand this is why I prefer my strategy. If a woman pulls out my dick, says she wants to suck it and does so after I give the go-ahead, I'm golden in court. And I make a point of only…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:05 PM
2

Like the old disco song says, 10% of something beats 100% of nothing at all...and it damn sure beats a court case. Last I checked, the vast majority of men on here only have one penis and 24 hours in a day. If you approach enough, 10% of pussy is plenty. It's also based in sound pick-up principles where you go for Fuck Yes or no. This is also based in sound negotiating principles as well. Never negotiate a deal you aren't willing to walk away from. No bullshit, no games. If she doesn't put out, …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:53 PM
7

Perhaps I'm a weirdo but I 100% OK with this. If a girl wants to ride Iluminatinyc's Space Mountain, she has to make it clear and in no uncertain terms. IDGAF about LMR because that is a one way ticket to me putting my clothes on and sending you home. If you aren't woman enough to grab the D and say in no uncertain terms that you want to fuck, I don't want you. I'd rather go watch porn. Perhaps this trend will make women speak up and say what they want in no uncertain terms. If not, well, the po…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 12:24 PM
2

First thing you need is rest. Don't make life decisions when you're hungry, angry, lonely or tired. Just keep up with your business, but otherwise do nothing. The next step is to take a look at all of those experiences, figure out what you want and what you don't want from that. Develop a holistic picture of the good and bad in your life of late. Once that develops, you will know the next step of your life. Well done. Now it's time for the next level.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:53 PM
3

In my estimation it is failed LTRs and marriages that vitiate a man's ability to love, not meaningless fucks with random chicks. Men aren't depleted of their capacity to love via sex, but through being abandoned (dumped/divorced) after going all in and committing fully to a woman only for her to use up everything he has to offer mentally/financially and then dump him when she's had her fill. I would agree with that. That's a fair argument, and I wish it would get more shine.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:08 AM
2

FWIW, I think this is more correlation that causation. Women who were damaged before marriage by something else end up banging a lot of men. Men who were damaged don't necessarily get laid more. Those men tend to end up with drug or alcohol habits, issues which are marginally less acceptable for women to get into. Not saying the net effect is wrong as much as the casuation.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:06 AM
9

Um...this involved a 90 year old man. Unless you have proof that he spent the intervening years filling out crossword puzzles pining a way for her love, eat a dick. The point of this Game is to get to the point that at 90, the old girl you hollered at can just be with you. If you're still playing at 90, you've lost, period.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:03 PM
3

Good catch The point stands otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 04:13 PM
9

There's also the fact that rape is typically a serial crime. The numbers say that the median rapist (i.e. half rape more, half rape less) rapes six women. Considering that the average is 3, there are some dudes who are running up the score.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 03:41 AM
2

According to her, at least 4 dudes. The things dudes will hump when times get hard in the yard. Screw NoFap. If that's my other option, MoFap, OK? :)
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:46 AM
4

Bitches be crazy. LOL Wait, dude doesn't have prophylactics. There are a few options here. a) Just share your, ahem, "knowledge" with plans to make things up another day. b) Make a quick run for condoms and have fun. c) Call it a night, and reschedule (or not) as you choose d) Make it about your own fears of being a skank and lash out at dude's wife when the dude didn't fuck you when you're creeping on your own husband Now, sometimes dates workout better than anticipated, and choice A is always …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:40 AM
1

Yeah, the classic "fallen soul" archetype. I know it must have taken a lot to not put homegirl on blast, but take heart. If he keeps up his job and takes care of himself, he'll be on the warpath in his 40s. The best revenge is living well.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:08 PM
4

Downvote away, but this fantasy is the male equivalent of women wanting alpha males to go all beta for them and just them. They want the stories e cold killer/super pimp to become a simping family man who baked cupcakes and sing live songs for them. If that's what you want, more power to you. I just prefer to live with a bit more risk for what I feel are better benefits. If it means making my own dinner, so be it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:32 AM
3

Word. If you are just an addictive personality lime that, you'll keep chasing the dragon. If you have sense, you'll realize that a bit of vanilla is good for the most hardened kinkster. Otherwise... You end up addicted.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:27 AM
2

I'm with OP on this one. I've seen mediocre minds get shine because they were Professor so-and-so's golden boy. I figured out the game quickly and played it, but not everyone gets it. It can be the difference between getting that plum grad school spot and temping at random drug /chemical companies for a few years.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:40 AM
3

I read the piece. Good work out there. I find it interesting that kissing is more expensive than anal, and that Black girls are worthless all over the world. Well, I happen to like Black women, so I don't mind bargain shopping. :-)
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:13 AM
4

Nice add, and I think in the mention of race, you stumbled onto the inherent undesirability of Black men in the broader SMV, key word being broader. (Of course, Black men can get laid in their own communities.) I find the stereotype of Black men being great in pulling women and having sex to be hilarious. Of course, the elite of any group is going to be able to pull women, and with the broader society, it's the elite of Black men that everyone sees. However, Joe Regular Black Dude doesn't have m…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 07:11 PM
2

OK, I missed that part. Still, if they freeze it at the right age, I don't see the issue.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 07:04 PM
5

I will give a warning to you. You can't let the BS women do jade you. I'm not saying put the pussy on a pedestal, but don't let the bitches grind you down, to flip a popular phrase. You can't end up so jaded that you end up demanding the world from a woman. The key is just to stay woke, and then relax. Not every woman is a cheating bitch. Every woman has the potential, but not everyone will follow through on every threat. Just breathe.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 06:34 PM
3

kanyeshrug So? I don't see the big deal. These are women keeping it 100 with themselves and their biology. I encourage the development. It forces women to put their cards on the table, and men can choose to either rock with it or not. On the plus side, at least you know the DNA is straight on their end.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 06:24 PM
12

I just hope her anger was a product of her dealing with the closet and not because she's a megabitch. I don't think higher domestic violence rates in the lesbian community will be helped by them. Just call it a bullet dodged, and donate a few bucks to some shelter for gay and lesbian runaways. That butch woman helped straight men Dodge a bullet. EDIT: Clarity
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:43 AM
5

I'm with the dodged bullet responses. A sure shit of a crazy woman is an out-of-proportion response. If she would have asked a few questions before gently sending him on his way, it still would have sucked, but that's life. But straight blowing someone out of frame? Yeah...What a bitch!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:26 PM
1

Exactly. Either a woman is with you or not. It's not worth the trouble to work someone down. The only time you should put in effort is if they decide to step up and show more interest, which does happen from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 07:04 PM
4

The Middle East isn't a monolith either. You have places like Kuwait and Jordan where it's pretty Western in terms of women's rights. On the other hand, you have places like Saudi Arabian, Yemen and United Arab Emirates which are very conservative to the point where women can't travel most places without escorts, not to mention not being able to vote. In the middle you have places like Egypt and Iran. (And yes, I said Iran. It's probably one of the strangest societies on the planet, mixing conse…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:13 PM
3

I've been with one woman with implants, and you really didn't notice her boobs (other than what you'd normally notice on a woman) until she got nekkid. I wouldn't really sweat that one. Some implants are obvious, while some are subtle. It's based both on a woman's taste and surgical skill. File this one under definite maybe.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 12:09 PM
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The thing is that the whole situation probably killed her career. Before she started the whole project, she was on a trajectory to be the next Limbaugh or Hannity. After the stress of everything made her crack up and spend a few months in a psych ward, Norah Vincent's career is a shadow of what it was.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:22 PM
6

Here's the thing, though. From the perspective of what she values, men do have it easier. Re-read that sentence one more time if you didn't get the message. She's accurate that men don't particular need relationships to validate them in society the way women do. She's right that men give up something to be in a relationship, and that from her perspective, that seems freeing. The problem is that she hasn't the foggiest clue about what men ACTUALLY value in and of themselves. That's the difference…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:21 PM
3

Seriously though, if she claims any benefit from the state, it increases the incentive to come after you. (Source: my ex's uncle, who works for child support collections) The way it works is that they use your child support money to pay for her benefits. In other words, instead of using tax dollars to get her needs met, the government is using your money. Yikes!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:44 PM
7

Here's the question: is your ex claiming benefits from the state? That's a huge incentive towards BS like that.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:34 PM
5

This has been a problem for years, and they know it. The name of the game is getting cash by any means necessary. Not only do states have an incentive to chase people for child support, but they also have the right to offset their welfare costs by the money they collect. In other words, even the most loving and caring custodial parent and children can't see a dime of that money, because the state pockets it. The upshot is that in most states, unless you file an immediate paternity challenge, you…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:33 PM
7

Call the pros and wash your hands of it. If she's legit, you've saved her life. If she isn't, she won't bug you anymore.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:17 PM
9

Welp...this is pretty much my story. Though FWIW, mental illness tends to be the biggest deciding factor. Substance abuse issues aren't usually enough for custody.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:14 PM
5

Dumb question time: what's a single dad to do? shrugs Jussayin' man. Not every dad gets fucked in divorce court.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:12 PM
1

Yeah, once I heard the "don't make a scene about it" part, I could see how quickly this was going to go left. At this point, the only concerns I have are legal, and she would be thrown out. She needs to fill thine horn with oil and GO!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:52 PM
1

There is no one way here. In fact, getting caught in any one way will get you caught up in a hurry. It's more a series of philosophical tendencies that, depending on your preferences, will lead you to live life in certain ways. Some of those are salutary, while others can be morally problematic. It's your choice how you decide to move.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:50 PM
5

You got it right. She didn't realize that she wasn't good enough to be his wife, and should have taken the L. However she insisted into trying to force a commitment. Dude probably cried because he knew good and we'll he'd been played. It's not the way I would have pulled it off, it you can't knock the effect. She got kicked to the curb either way.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:33 AM
8

Thank you for saying this. If you don't want a slut, don't fuck them. It's her right to be a slut, and your right not to want to commit to her. Let them live. :)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:33 AM
6

Excellent point on context. Also, try using standard game techniques to see where her head is at. Not all women are comfortable with sex to the point they can just put out. Make sure a woman saying this is self-possessed. This doesn't mean she's a saint in all ways, but some women choose not to play games with sex. This is also a call for having a solid inner game. As for me, I'd kindly discard any woman that is looking for #2 because it's not a fit for my lifestyle. I know I'm risking certain t…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:14 PM
3

Unfortunately that isn't really "news" in the epidemiology community. If it wasn't for gay dudes, women would significantly outnumber men for most STDs. It is useful proof in understanding who has sex with whom though.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 10:12 AM
12

Um....why are you wasting time with emotionally abusive bitches? Though that last phrase is redundant. If someone isn't giving you what you need, cut her off. I know this sub is all about "Oh Noes teh Divorce Rape" but kill that noise and roll out. After a certain point, you aren't a victim, you're a volunteer. GET OUT!!!!
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 10:51 PM
6

As a Black guy, I will say that a lot of it has to do out of sheer desperation. When you see how low things can go, you'll fight out of it if for lack of options. Though the wussiness does shine though. LOL
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 10:43 PM
3

Key word being macho assholes who insist on wearing no helmets. With proper leathers, helmets and safety training, the risk is minimized. It's all about attitude.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:36 PM
4

the most successful (and ultimately wealthy) among these male prostitutes will be the ones that know when to switch it up from being subservient to being dominant, how to appear the perfect hot boyfriend in public and take the lead in private. And this is bad...why? LOL Sometimes you have to throw a bit of beta around to get the win in the end. Kudos to those who pull it off. :)
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:26 PM
10

Exactly. The game is chess, not checkers dude. Leverage your ability to fuck wisely, and doors will open for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:24 PM
2

Well done. Sometimes you just need to fuck the shit out of her, and don't worry too much. Also, if she preferred the book to you, you would know the drill with her and act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:14 PM
9

Hey, I wish I had gotten funding first. For straight women to get into prostitution, they need a way to hamster away the fact they are paying for sex. We see this all the time in women going to vacation destinations to get some strange. This fills the same role. This gives women a rationalization frame for them to pursue sex for cash. No biggie. Disregard females, acquire currency.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 04:45 PM
7

Remember that this is an Australian source, not an American one. Considering that Commonwealth countries tried dumb shit like effectively criminalize women playing soccer, I wouldn't be surprised.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:40 PM
1

Facts on the zombie/Ebola connection. In fact, that is why the US Centers for Diesease Control periodically comes out with zombie defense plans.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:37 PM
0

Well the possibility of a chick riding alpha cock is just the price of admission. Worrying about that isn't going to help you, and can actively hurt. (edited for clarity)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:35 PM
-1

I'm with her on 2 (because that shit is done man) and somewhat on 4, because it's bad form to discuss politics unless you're cool with someone. That said, homegirl is barely above the Mendoza line with that BS. Cut her off when you're done and move on. And that "spoil her more than her daddy does" is a major, dramatic, OMG, WTF red flag. Run, Forrest, RUN!
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:21 PM
7

NYC is more difficult but it's simpler. On one hand, you have to deal with the fact that a woman can reasonably access Wall Street types, captains of industry, celebrities of every type and kingpins with a relative amount of ease. Just being a regular guy with a job isn't going to cut it, unless you have massive social proof behind you. That said, if you have some sort of in to someone, you can leverage the hell out of it and ride it until the wheels fall off. Plus NYC has this culture where pub…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:05 PM
2

Right outside Manhattan is probably the worse nightlife. Ironically, if you go out to the hinterlands, you get the crowd too lazy to make the trip into Manhattan. And in Manhattan, welp! Heck, even if you just want to kick it, it's $100 to get started after covers and drinks.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:32 PM
3

So OK, I get it. Toronto is a very cliquey place in general, and if you're on the outside looking in, you have to be SuperPlayer(tm) to win. I get it. Sounds like a warped place to live.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:47 PM
7

ROTFLMAO word! A chick doing porn is pretty low on the scale of "fucked up shit that happens to dudes". LOL
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:43 PM
3

FWIW, Toronto is by no stretch a small city. IIRC, Toronto and Chicago have the same amount of people within city limits, and the metro is the same population as Houston's metro. Still, I think the cliques sounds like a big deal. New York has that to a certain extent, but not as extreme as you make it sound. That said, I could see how that would turn women bad. If you're a big fish in a small pond, despite being in a large city, that would jack up someone's mind.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:17 PM
9

Um, I'm not playing victim. I'm just saying that if I can get up and do my thing with this being a possibility, dude can shut the fuck up about a Eurasian chick doing porn. The end.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:01 PM
20

WTF is going on with Toronto? Is there anything about the culture there that draws that crowd to that town? The next person who says anything positive about the women there will be the first. I want someone to break this down to me. I get that it's a cosmopolitan city a la New York or LA, but what is it that puts the women there on a special kind of evil?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:32 PM
5

Being a NYC native, I get the feeling. I didn't go to school in town, but on breaks, I would come across this type of girl. My hometown isn't your theme park, idiot. LOL
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:31 PM
14

Well, swap out entertainment industry types (for the most part) for Wall Street types, and you have the dating scene in Manhattan. I refuse to call that scene a New York City scene, because even as insane as it is to date here, they aren't on that Next Level crazy you're mentioning. Also, in NYC, they prefer the classics like coke to pills more than they do out West. Otherwise, to quote Li'l Wayne, same game, same coach, been starting...same triangle offense!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:28 PM
14

If you feel like you're less than a white person, I think you need to own that and work that out for yourself, rather than try to hamster it away and feel sorry for yourself because everything is whitey's fault and women's fault. Word. As a Black dude, I have to worry about some cop blasting half my race off because he felt like killing darkies that day, and you're sweating this?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:56 AM
7

Dude...crying over women that don't belong to you isn't the business. Let that shit go. Sometimes the bad guy (or girl) wins. Personally, IDGAF if she did porn. It's none of your business unless you happened to personally meet this girl. Even then, that just means not messing with her, not complaining that she was able to get an education. Let that shit go man. This seems a bit too Elliot Rodger for me man. Seek help.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:55 AM
0

Yes, definitely. It gives me an idea of where her head is at. It's not merely what kind of guys she likes, but how she's interacted with them. A woman can go for decent quality men and try to use them. It's a good first pass of how a woman thinks from a relationship standpoint.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:54 PM
10

It's called Full Faith and Credit. Each state in the union will recognize the acts of any other state as legal. You can't just tear up a contract in one state because it was written in another state. It is considered legally valid unless proven otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:36 PM
2

An interesting thing about the 4 big myths is that it appears that the lower your SMV, the more important your body is. It seems like young men and older women make the most hay showing off their body, while younger women and older men don't have to. I found that informative, and it dovetails with my experience.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:58 PM
1

I would mildly disagree with the DSLR camera. Yes, professional cameras are best, but you also have to remember the state of the art with cell phone cameras 4 years ago when the post was originally written. Cell phone cameras have gotten more sophisticated over time that they can match up with a point-and-shoot. With good photo composition skills, you can at least be within hailing distance of a good DSLR photo. That said, DSLR with a pro (or at least talented amateur) would be best.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:56 PM
1

I'm with you on this one. There's also the fact that their so-called matching algorithm only provided a slight boost to compatibility as well. Spit that game, and the algorithm doesn't matter. Stay gaming, my friends.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:04 PM
5

applause Well done. She was bored, she tried to start drama, and you shut it down. That was a master class in frame my dude.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:51 AM
2

As someone who had to tie up some loose ends with my divorce this morning, I can't give this one enough point. Ain't that the truth...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:54 PM
0

You are so right about a dude being as faithful as his options. The dudes crying about loyalty tend not to have options. Look, I get that a lot of dudes here were burned by women. Remember though that the vast majority of these bad women have fathers. Where do you think they learned it from? :-)
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 08:02 PM
2

I have no real problem with bigger women. It's my personal preference. My issue is that the women screaming the loudest for fat acceptance aren't attractive period. They wouldn't be cute if they gained or lose weight. Some women are just ugly, case closed. LOL
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:47 PM
3

Personally, dude was dead wrong for cheating. It's just not my thing. Once you take those vows, unless you divorce, you're committed. Then again, I say that as someone who filed papers on a Tuesday and may or may not have gotten a car blowjob that Saturday. You do the math. :) While I don't agree with the guy's final resolution, I do understand his frustration. Dude spent 12 years going down on the woman, and homegirl didn't bother to reciprocate in any way? I've been with women who are anti-blo…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:37 PM
3

All I will say is that whenever you hear a woman say "I don't usually do this", not only is she going to do it, but with gutso. A few stories in my life have had that same line in them, and they all make me smile. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:29 PM
7

I remember having a conversation about that same point with a woman. When I remarked about the men she ignores on a day-to-day basis, she realizes that she doesn't see them as "men" but as generic people, and she seemed to be genuinely interested in change. A few months later, she got into a relationship after being single for a while, and last I've heard, she's happily engaged.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:02 PM
1

Generally you're right, but you're oversimplifying things. On one hand, women can decide "Fuck relationships", go get theirs and not think for a second of love. In this case, a woman isn't going to fall in love with the man because she isn't going to fall in love with ANY dude that shows up. On the flip side, I've seen dudes upgrade the side chick to a number one and fall in love. Usually, there's some outside reason he just can't run the streets, and it isn't necessarily religion either. In gen…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:39 PM
0

So why would you say you don't need emotional support? I'm curious as to how you got there.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:36 PM
4

Exactly! Thank you for bringing this up so I don't have to. It seems like this sub has forgotten the existence of Men Who Ain't Worth Shit. I'm not talking about the beta dude who begs for pussy. I'm talking about the dude who will do the dip on a relationship because the pussy is available. Chris Rock did a whole routine on how a man is as faithful as his options. OP, you're only telling half a story.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:26 AM
2

As someone with a Fetlife account, sentiments like this are common, but not universal. For every one thinking like that, there's someone else thinking "hey, new friends! Let's welcome them! Oh, and school them to what BDSM is really like." It's fun to watch from that perspective.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 01:04 AM
2

The shade in that sentence is epic...and perfect. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 01:01 AM
1

Um...this is the plot of about 300 porn flicks a year. So yeah, it sells well. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:55 AM
1

To be fair, there are dudes who get off on this. It's not my kink, but it a real one. Where she was wrong was where the man makes it clear that he wasn't with it, and she goes with it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:02 PM
0

The short answer is yes. The longer answer is that it's OK for her to have her own life. The same way dudes need to have their own time, women need to have their own time too. The only time if becomes an issue is if it's clear that she's treating it as above and beyond anything else you do. When Girls Night Out becomes the highlight of her life, then it's time to start asking a few questions. Other than that, let her live.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:10 AM
1

Yes. And doubly so if she's like this while you're living with her. I get the matter of logistics, but move on as soon as possible.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:05 PM
1

Not every woman is going to be right for you. This is prime time for you to either shit or get off the pot. At this point, you know what type of person she is, for good or ill. If I were you, I would have some decisions to make. If she's like this after the honeymoon has worn off, imagine what it will be down the line. Cut your losses and move on.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:03 PM
2

Exactly. It seems like a convenient scapegoat. Being depressed doesn't have anything to do with this, for good or ill.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:29 PM
17

You're in the right general direction, but you aren't quite there. I believe women can change provided you're speaking their language. The biggest issue that I've learned with women is that they communicate by impression, not directly. The worst way to get a woman to change is to ask her to change. What you can do is give the impression that whatever behavior she's doing would get her social disapproval and/or doing a certain behavior(s) would get her social approval. Women do this all the time …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:46 PM
4

EXACTLY. It's a lesson I learned from watching my father be himself day in and day out.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:42 PM
34

Hey, I understand. My teachers constantly tried to ding me for not having a perfectly neat notebook with the crossing-out neatly dealt with, and I was a top student. They loved to play gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:33 PM
-9

Um, so you're going to let chicks get raped because of SJW idiots? Really? Making women go through trauma because of internet jackasses is insane.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:21 PM
2

Taking her honest (which I think is the wise path here), dude needs to run and run fast. Someone that traumatically identified with her rapist is a waste. There's nothing positive that could come from that relationship going forward. Someone who is in a Stockholm Syndrome situation is not relationship material. It's cold blooded as fuck, but the best solution would be to pull the plug.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:19 PM
2

I see where you're coming from. Now that I see your background, I over-read your statements on family dynamics, and I apologize for that. Personally, I'm a tools-for-the-job kind of man, but I also took enough time to read the theory behind the various views of BPD. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:25 PM
26

FWIW, entitlement is just a way of neediness that allows for plausible deniability. Anyone entitled in a social sense reveals how weak they truly are and how much trouble they have getting their psychosocial needs met. It's also good to be on the lookout for it within yourself because it reveals where you have your weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 07:47 PM
12

Unfortunately, at 6'5", I have to deal with these idiots. If someone goes out of their way to be a jerk, why bother with them? It isn't worth it in the end.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 07:44 PM
3

http://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 04:13 PM
2

Interesting response, and it deserves a measured reply. For one, I know who Masterson and Kernberg are. Heck, Kernberg, for all intents and purposes, wrote the book on borderline personality disorder, in effect writing the Old Testatment to Marsha Linehan's New Testament. I also was a peer advisor to a support group for those with romantic relationships with those who have borderline personality disorder and have spoken to literally hundreds of different people, and on occasion met up with peopl…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 03:35 PM
3

Yes, and no. If you keep dating women like that, then yeah, I'd agree with you. On the flip side, anyone is susceptible to a moment of not being on top of their game. All someone like that needs is one opening, and you're in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 01:21 AM
2

Facts my dude. I know from painful experience.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 01:19 AM
3

Been there...done that...and helped run the support group for people like us. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 01:13 AM
2

I had the exact same thing happen to me...until I found the baby clothes she had in stock from before she met me. I ended up using them on our daughter.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:53 AM
3

This is oh so true. As an ex of someone with BPD, I wholeheartedly agree. Also, as a PSA to any so involved, visit www.bpdfamily.com if you need some support specific to those issues. Trust me, those people have helped me a lot, and can help you too.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:52 AM
3

After I dove into that thread, it's clear that homegirl had some issues of her own that she was too afraid to bring up. Apparently, it had been regular (from her own words) until a few months ago when she started "feeling fat". Like I told a female friend a few days ago, if a guy is hard around, and isn't otherwise angry, upset or otherwise preoccupied, he obviously finds you hot enough to fuck. She projected her issues onto him, then got mad when they were thrown back in her face. The OP's husb…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 08:22 PM
2

Agreed on all those points. Working those stabilizer muscles made a huge difference, and I felt the returns within a few weeks. It doesn't help you get stronger as much as allows those strength muscles to focus on getting stronger when you work out.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:38 PM
13

My thinking is that stress reveals existing issues, not creates them. This was always there waiting to strike.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:24 PM
4

The meditative components are nice, but for me it's more about making sure I can use the strength I have. No one has a perfectly balanced muscle profile (or balance, period) and yoga helps with that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:07 PM
5

Reading the image, it's clear to me that she has issues with herself that she isn't being honest about. Moving in with someone can change the dynamic, and it's clear she feels more of a mommy than a sexual being. Kudos to dude calling her on her BS. Why should he remain married to someone who hates themselves. Eventually the hate is coming his way, and he is taking defensive actions.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:01 PM
44

In defense of yoga, that can be a legit workout if you do it right. Plus it's a good way to balance out the lifting if deployed properly.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 02:49 PM
29

Who says he isn't talking to lawyers? You have to play the long game with this, and if he's smart, he has all of his ducks in a row, ready for war.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 02:47 PM
3

Fuck the age difference for a moment. If the woman is accurate in her description, she forced herself on a dude after he repeatedly said no and attempted to push her away. How crystal clear can you get with that? This isn't anything ambiguous. She said that he told her no. How is that not sexual assault? Because of an Ivy League acceptance letter? GTFOHWTBS
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 12:16 AM
1

First, it's a good idea to bring condoms for GP. You know what fits your dick best, and it's bad form to rely on a woman for that. Still, homegirl is a bitch for that.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:15 PM
2

Yeah, I'm jealous that my head wasn't fucked up by some controlling woman before I could legally vote. What a privilege that is.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:10 PM
1

Rapist batches be raping. What an entitled worthless piece of crap. I'm not sure if she's telling the truth, being that this is the Internet and all, but she is a reprehensible human being. In a just world, her head would have a date with a few hollow point bullets.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:07 PM
2

WORD! In a just world, she'd spend the rest of her days working at a rape crisis center so she'd have to hear the stories of those who were truly victimized.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:09 AM
4

I would definitely agree. I'm just saying that it's not impossible either. It just takes time and planning to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:08 AM
0

There were custody issues to work out, along with certain intellectual property to be signed over. (Long story short, any intellectual property created within a marriage has to be dealt with or by law, your spouse gets half.) My point is that a divorce can be survived with proper preparation.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:47 PM
6

Yes, there was, and I got custody. Trust me, I prepared for war before filing, and it took about six months between deciding to pull the trigger and actually filing the papers.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:45 PM
9

Yeah, that woman can go fuck herself. I just don't see how anyone could think BS like this is a good idea. Ruin a man's life because you're going through a rough time? That said, I wonder how fucked up she really is. From what I read, women who throw around accusations like that likely had some dude do something horrible to them, but they refuse to go after the men who did them dirty. However, to deal with their guilt, they go after the first lucky contestant that happens along that they don't l…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:21 PM
6

There are significant personal, legal, financial, and social pitfalls/implications for a man if he decides to withdraw his "commitment" from his wife. If he decides to "close the gate" on commitment, the courts are coming to barrel the man's house to the ground. Disagree. As someone who has pulled the plug on their marriage, and filed first, this is definitely not true. Now, will I agree that a man angling to file has to have their shit together before doing so much more than a comparable woman?…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:08 PM
2

Meh. Homegirl lost the genetic lottery. She didn't manage to develop T&A in 43 years? smh There is no accounting for taste.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:40 PM
9

Good. I hope homegirl gets that paper for the BS. Assholes need to he shutdown regardless of gender.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:38 PM
2

I would say third parties. People tend to have beefs, but beefs usually don't replicate unless it's a clear part of a person's character. If you get enough perspectives, you'll get worthwhile information.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:19 AM
1

As a single dad in the same boat, all I have to say is WORD.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:58 PM
2

Excellent post. The thing is as a single parent, you can plan a lot of things well to make your life easier. The hard part of parenting is the constant emotional availability it takes. THAT is where people crack, and anything else that happens is just a side effect. Still, the actual physical work of parenting isn't that hard.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:55 PM
1

Any subject that touches on people's egos and deepest beliefs is going to be touchy. The vast majority of people want to be seen as good people at heart who aren't trying to hurt themselves or anyone else. The second you show them otherwise, you're playing with fire.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 03:02 AM
4

Dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb. You pull the trigger on the divorce first, THEN find someone new. For one, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Yes, you've had affairs. I'm not going to judge one way or another on that. But I wouldn't use it to keep a marriage going. Going thermonuclear isn't worth the damage, unless you just hate her that much. Even then, there are better ways to go about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:28 PM
1

This isn't a bad article. I think the problem lies in both the definition of the terms and the extremes that people go to in order to get their desires met. Also, some men may want the insecure attachment woman. That's OK. Not my cup of tea, but I have no issue with it. Meh...I can go either way on this article. It's definitely food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:23 PM
9

This is very true, and is reflected in epidemiology studies of the spread of STDs. I know when they went back and did studies on the spread of AIDS in Africa, it wasn't the poor and starving that spread the disease. It was the Alpha males who had their wives, then had mistresses on the side and saw hookers that got people infected. The average Joe in Africa was just a victim of the BS.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:20 AM
2

Word. The simplest solution would have been to pull the plug. There's no need to explain. To me, the particulars aren't a big deal, but they clearly are to you. The larger point should have been that you should have nexted her right there and then. If she asks why, tell her clearly, but firmly and with no chance of recovery. You have a right to your dealbreakers, and she should respect that.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:09 PM
1

My dad's parents are from Barbados, and I could see my late grandfather reciting what your dad said line for line. I get it. That defeatist attitude will have a man either too reserved or too angry to function. Also, I do think the way culture has changed has made it much harder for boys to socialize with other boys unless he has a father or other adult figure to help along with the process. The broader switch from unstructured free play time to more structured environments like day care and aft…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:00 AM
1

My bad. I'm a noob to the whole submission thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:41 PM
1

I know I am late, but I was thinking similar to what you thought. I am a fan of hers, even if I don't agree, because she seems to be a honest broker. On this one, it just seems like she's reacting more to the words than the content. I didn't know there was a proper way to be angry.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 12:10 PM
8

As an outer borough resident of NYC, I would like to say that not all New Yorkers are like that, especially the ones that are born here. We know that the whole gold digger scene exists. You have to make a decision at a young age as to whether to engage it and how. That said, even if you don't engage in that scene, it does warp your mind datingwise.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:49 PM
7

Maybe it's my roots running a support group along side former 12 steppers, but I wish there was a more formal way of helping out these guys. You don't mentally detox from that sort of abuse overnight. I remember someone mentioning that the Red Pill needs a 12 step program. I'm not sure if we literally need that format, but I think some formal organization would help.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 04:41 PM
10

There are a lot of men here who are still on stage 2 of Kübler-Ross and so yes there is quite a bit of unproductive anger. Dig a little deeper and you can find useful insights. This is what annoys me about some of the detractors AND fans of this subreddit. On one hand, the detractors bash the subreddit for using intemperate language while not realizing that these men have been legitimately, honest-to-goodness victimized by any stretch of the word. It's funny how feminist groups can fight against…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 11:48 AM
1

Here’s a radical idea for the women who want to “have it all”: Do it in the logical order (edit: meaning, have babies before pursuing your career), which is the reverse of what you’ve been doing. In the (partial) defense of feminism, a lot of careers punish women for having babies first. The thing is that for many career driven women, the idea that a woman can go, have kids, take care of them until they're ready for school, then go out and kill is a threat to them. Unless they all follow the sam…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:57 AM
2

Exactly my friend. They both have their heads shoved so far up their asses that they can't see the world for what it really is.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:51 AM
7

I don't need a degree as much as someone who is about something in their life. If given a choice between a high school grad managing a Best Buy with goals to move up the food chain and some girl with a degree in Underwater Basketweaving with a job that pays mostly for her handbag habit, I'd rather the first girl.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:09 PM
74

As an educated man, I wouldn't want to date someone like that. She's an example of what I call "Checklist Women". Women talk about how men objectify women to a series of body parts, but women reduce men to a set of qualities as well. These women are so worried about what qualities the man has that they forget that behind all of these traits is an actual human being with wants, needs, hope, dreams and all of that other stuff that makes a man human. The older (and hopefully wiser) I get, the more …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 07:48 PM
2

TRP needed a post like this today. Excellent, excellent concepts. I know this sub skews young, as one would expect. If you're out there playing the field, you are likely under the median age in the US (which is about 39 thereabouts). That's fine. I also know that there are many here who have been victimized by women, including stories that make the one mentioned here seem like light work. The take-home message is that you can be a fully-realized strong man while still being of service to people.…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:23 PM
1

applause First, congrats on keeping up on your sobriety. ODAAT, my friend. Also, I would like to say that when I spent more time with my online support group for spouses of those with borderline personality disorder, helping to run the place, there were a lot of fellow 12-steppers who were my collleagues. Seeing how they faced up their demons and managed to survive helped me a lot in facing up to my own issues. Thanks for sharing your story.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:08 PM
6

This isn't necessarily a clear cut situation. You're right that she might be lying about the situation. There's also a chance that maybe he flipped the script the second he got put on. I've seen it happen in a number of different contexts where a guy gets status out of nowhere. While the guy might be a contextual alpha, he's doomed to be exposed because he's a Paper Alpha where it counts.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:58 PM
17

I'm with you on this one. If dude flipped the script the second he got put on, then he ain't shit. I will say this being someone who was around a lot of athletes in my college days. The status of being an athlete tends to amplify whatever a guy's impulses already were. If dude was naturally a loyal dude, he'll go out of his way to show the world (and potentially the media) how loyal they are. On the flip side, if dude wasn't about shit, he's going to use his brand-new status to show how ain't sh…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:07 PM
16

No, you shouldn't tell girls up front that you never want a relationship. You shouldn't tell them you're exclusive if they ask, but you don't need to tell them about who you're dating. It's none of their business. I would file this under definite maybe. It's something that has to be read. Some women are OK with knowing who else you're dealing with, and others are not. It's something you have to play by ear.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 09:53 PM
8

Good point, but you're also assuming that the girl will take the guy seriously. Short of having the other girl give you head while the first girl is watching, she'll hamster that other girl into nothingness.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:20 PM
4

EXACTLY! I related a similar experience myself. That's what makes this situation sneakily dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:16 PM
6

This link should explain the concept well: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:03 PM
9

Agreed. Her attitude tells you what she really thought of the situation despite her protestations. It isn't worth it to keep fighting.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:00 PM
37

Two lessons here for you. First, I wouldn't recommend a hard dump here. After all, she did concede that you two should still see each other. You're in the catbird seat, and going too hard would cause more problems than it would solve. There's a difference between using power and abusing power. That said, a lesson that I had to learn during my 20s (I'm 34 now) is that whoever defines the relationship the most committed is the one driving the definition of the relationship. Oh, they may say that t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:58 PM
2

Where to begin: repeatedly getting thrown out of mental illness treatment, adultery with men and women, child neglect, disappearing for days at a time...shall I continue? Oh, and my frame was on 11, and that didn't work.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 02:42 AM
3

Shock. She didn't know why I did it. Of course I had been plotting for the possibility for a couple of years, so once I pulled the trigger, it made life easier. She is still surprised I did it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:13 AM
3

I see your point in marriages. Even in relationships though, it's much simpler to pull the plug. I did that all the time premarriage, and it didn't seem to hurt. Why threaten if you aren't going to do it? Don't brandish a weapon you don't intend on using.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:11 AM
2

Different strokes for different folks. When I served my wife with papers, there was no warning. I just mailed them to her job and waited for her to call with her reaction. I believe in just ripping the band-aid off. Besides, if you soft next, she can accuse you of cheating and play the victim. I'll risk the property damage to protect my rep.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 09:05 PM
3

Agreed on your example. I think that critics either assume that all of the TV is like that or that dude wouldn't be angry if he would have just read some self-help books and gotten some therapy as opposed to reading TRP stuff. They assume a dichotomy that doesn't necessarily exist, and give individual motivations less credit than you think.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:52 PM
3

I think it's mostly the tone. It's men talking to other men in a way that hasn't been available for public consumption in the past. Granted there are a few here and there that go way too hard on hating on the wimmenz or on racial stuff, but most of it is of a piece with how guys speak to each other with no women around.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:46 PM
1

Why tolerate such blatant disrespect? Where is your dignity? It wasn't that she was upset for a few moments. Apparently she pouted all day and picked a fight about it. That is way over the line.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:42 PM
2

I wouldn't use the word prize, but I would definitely say it is a privilege. I'm not perfect, but I'm not going to give up the D to people who disrespect me. It's been a hard-earned respect, but I'm glad I fought for it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:58 PM
4

That's an excellent point, and I have no problem responding to it. When I was married, I had no problem turning down my wife for sex if she didn't act right. There were a few incidents where she had an issue with panic attacks from sex and where she would try too hard to direct the action for her without taking my needs into account. I told her that until she dealt with these issues, I would regularly turn down sex. I've also turned down sex from a woman who wanted me to fuck her more after she …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:45 PM
14

If that girl isn't your ex-girlfriend by this point, you're a fucking idiot who deserves what's coming to you. Here's why. This is a girl who clearly doesn't respect your boundaries. You said no, and her response wasn't "well, maybe I'll check for you later today" but to keep pleading with you for 5 minutes. If this is how she is now on something like this, you've established a pattern where she can fuck with you over any little thing for the rest of the relationship. Cut the bitch off. Seriousl…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 12:58 PM
6

Don't knock the power of social advantage. Much of economic opportunity is built around social advantages. The whole reason behind affirmative action is to remedy the fact that White people have ins and hookups to all sorts of stuff. This isn't a bad thing, but it doesn't mean such advantage doesn't exist (or that even affirmative action is a good thing, but that's another story).
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 11:21 PM
10

(Full disclosure: I am a scientist by trade who had worked in the biotech industry and has had published research.) I remember seeing this mentioned in context with some other research, and there is a theory that the warm climate in sub-Saharan Africa selected for lower body fat. In turn, lower body fat increases testosterone levels, ceteris parabis. This has the benefit of added T, but downsides like higher prostate cancer and testicular cancer risk. Interestingly enough, the traditional diet i…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:22 PM
19

As a Black guy, I would disagree somewhat. Also, Black dudes are naturals at game because they have to be. It's harder to use wallet game when you have trouble getting a good job or a decent place to live because of racism.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:06 PM
2

I think the problem was that not all women were happy making babies and raising families. There were women who wanted to do other things, and thankfully society has changed to give them the opportunity. The problem is that the pendulum has swung way in the other direction. Freedom of choice means just that. I know it's hard to enforce in practice, but I strong encourage it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:04 PM
2

Good. You have learned that the women in your past haven't added to your life. In and of itself, that is a good thing, in that you know what to avoid. You're ahead of the majority of the heterosexual male population right there. The next step is to use what you have learned to find women of character who add to your life and will fit into your life. You may find one, but finding all three is hard. Here's to you using your tools wisely to do so. I know that due to some recent events, I have went …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:44 PM
2

There is one and only one solution to bragplaining or any other passive aggressive behavior : ignore it, and make a note of it. They have just revealed your character to them. Walk away slowly, and if you need to, don't look back.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:32 PM
2

Maybe it's just me, but I prefer working out on an empty stomach. That's just me though.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:04 PM
1

Wake up at 5 and workout. Go, eat oatmeal with peanut butter, honey and 1 percent milk. Shower, then wake up my daughter. Feed her breakfast, read emails, plot out my day. Get our clothes ready, wash my daughter, get both of us dressed then out the door I go.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 08:51 PM
7

So I also have the opinion that we just can't let girls do whatever they want since they will put themselves in position where other alphas will manage to "break" their loyalty. If we let our girls collect orbiters, won't she one day collect a "alpha" orbiter that will snatch her away ? Situations with aggressive guys and alcohol will emerge, and we can't just deal with this by ignoring. As Chris Brown sings, these hoes ain't loyal. I don't blame other people for what goes on in my relationship.…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:05 PM
21

It always amazes me that women expect men to beg for pussy. They are so rarely told no that when it does happen, it's like the collapse of the universe.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:01 PM
2

I think a lot of women assume that since they've dealt with controlling men that AMALT, then project their issues onto other men. Let's not pretend that dudes don't work out or get more money or do all sorts of stuff to control women. The question is if one is focused on yourself or focused on others. If you're focused on yourself, it doesn't matter what other people do. Just make sure it's SELF-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:59 PM
1

So wait...me being the primary caregiver of my daughter since birth and having primary custody of my daughter for the better part of a year is somehow the same as spousal rape, domestic violence and child abuse. I WISH some woman would say this to my face. I wouldn't hit her, but the resulting riot from other women hitting her would be great to watch. Fuck that bitch. Really.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 12:42 PM
8

This isn't an excuse to be abusive. Let's separate the manosphere from abusive men. You improve your bargaining position by improving your next best alternative, or decreasing hers. Everything heretofore is increasing your value. Well, you could also trash her next best alternative. Muck up her relationship with her parents, strain her relationships with her friends, make sure she can never go out, refuse to allow her any male contact, ensure in every way that were she to leave she'd have nothin…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 10:39 PM
0

Pretty much. The goal is to figure out what context she's in.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:22 PM
3

Exactly! Are you Jamaican or some other form of West Indian?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:55 AM
31

Actually, this is Red Pill Gold. Why? Because it shows that context matters more for women than men when it comes to sexual behavior. Keep that in mind, and you'll come out ahead and have better sex than you ever thought.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:55 AM
1

applause THANK YOU!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 11:44 PM
2

Read the context. This wasn't your typical primary school relationship. In one case, the sex started after one of the kids asked a gym teacher for help physical training. This wasn't exactly what boys came to women before in the past. This isn't to say men haven't done it (Hi Jerry Sandusky!) but changes in circumstances have clearly created new opportunities for abuse.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:18 PM
10

That last sentence was a bit harsh, but you nailed it. These were women who were attractive and were married. They maintained their conditioning, so their ability to get a halfway decent man for even a pump-and-dump scenario was maintained. They did this because they wanted to, case closed. I think these cases are increasing for two reasons. One is that women have their sexuality much more out there than in years past. This isn't to say that women didn't molest kids in the past, but it was a lot…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:59 AM
6

slowcap leading to thunderous applause
/r/PussyPass06/06/14 12:52 AM
1

Keeping it real, I do that now. It can be done smoothly and is much cheaper than lawyers. I like not having a record, thanks, and if asking every 30 seconds keeps me from having one, I'm 1000% with it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 12:41 AM
8

Be glad you got such people out of your life. Unfortunately, controlling types get upset whenever you put up boundaries. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:29 PM
5

Simple answer to those fools: subtract, delete. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:26 PM
17

1) Generally speaking, men will only pursue if they have something rock solid to hold against the woman, such as health, mental illness, substance abuse and abuse of the child. In no fault cases, women generally file if they think in general they'll win custody. 2) It's a bit of both. A lot of it is sheer luck of the draw with judges, and knowing it's a crapshoot between one judge who will listen and another who won't scares a LOT of men. That said, if you luck out with a judge that has a rep of…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:25 PM
3

Well, dude needs to look at the bright side. At least his issues weren't used against him. Repeatedly.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 11:06 AM
5

Yeah. Homegirl needs some revolutionary justice enacted for that BS. The phrase "what a bitch" doesn't seem to cover what happened here.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:51 AM
1

First, with murder, you'll still go to jail for both. Second, if you want to argue that the age of consent is too high, that's fine. Just don't pretend that a child and an adult cannot deal as equals when it comes to sex. It just doesn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:21 AM
0

Fuck you idiot. Abuse is abuse. When dude is a natural who offs himself 15 years from now because he can't connect with a woman because of his abuse, he won't be happy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:01 AM
1

The thing was that because of the picayune requirements, it was the easiest thing to take. It was right before a class I needed for my minor and right down the street. As a result, I am familiar with the various feminist texts and can readily tell the difference between the different schools. Not the worst thing in the world, and it got the administration off my back.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:46 PM
1

Um, the term came FROM Black Nationalist circles. Lorde just repurposed it for feminist purposes. I know a scary amount about Black feminist thought because I took Women's Studies 101 to fulfill core requirements.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:45 PM
2

Cool. When do I get my own target demographic for mass murder? ;-) That is a ridiculous statement, case closed.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:59 AM
7

TABERNACLE! The stuff I hear from women dating other women is scary. Believe it or not, stuff among lesbians gets crazier faster. smh My sympathies to my sapphic compatriots.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:41 PM
16

My issue was more feast or famine during my marriage. It was either pity sex or a grand production, with nothing in between. Whenever she noticed I wasn't putting up with the garbage, she's break out the tricks. I mean anal, bondage, tantra...you name it. After a while, I picked up on the pattern and told her that is she wasn't in the mood for sex with me, don't bother. All of a sudden, the amount of sex declined rapidly, and it helped me make up my mind as to what she was about.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:33 PM
2

FWIW, I think a lot of people have trouble seeing women as Bad People (tm). I think people see women doing bad things as under the influence of something else, like stressful situations, bad men or mental illness. The Madonna/Whore complex is real, and until we can destroy both, society is the poorer for it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:38 PM
1

You assuming someone with sense. If someone is that desperate to get out of a bad situation, they will say some of anything to do it, even if it makes zero sense. It's clear that she wasn't feeling him no more, and decided to start something to get him back by whatever means necessary.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:51 AM
13

From a Black women's magazine too. I love Black folk at times. :)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 12:21 AM
18

No, the problem is that she doesn't think she's worth anything on her own. She needs to "prove" her self-worth by getting attention from someone who isn't checking for her. There isn't anything wrong with the husband other than that he's a functional human. Some part of her is as messed up as this dude is, full stop. At 54, I doubt that she'll ever mature enough to get her act together.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 12:20 AM
1

Hey, I post on there too. Same name as here.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:15 PM
-1

After you make sure your dad lawyer's the fuck up, you need to be there for him. After the divorce is settled, he's still going to be a man, and he'll need your comfort. Make sure he reads up, then make sure he gets some psychological help. It sounds like he needs it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:34 AM
0

ROTFLMAO! This forum has only been all over the news for hating women over the past 10 days or so.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:33 AM
10

The thing is that if it's done WITHIN the family (or someone with whom someone has established a family like relationship), you can duck the taxes. IANAL but it's not unusual for family members to give each other property. In some states, you may not need to put a formal purchase price so long as you certify it's family.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:25 AM
3

Subtly? SUBTLY! When you see a mother literally punch out their child in front of you with no mercy, that isn't subtle.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:17 AM
5

A narcissist will chose her own life and wants over that of others, including their children. I regret that I have but one upvote for this comment. My mom is a narcissist, and if she could sell me for Extra Value Meal money, she would.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:15 AM
3

Women who are like that are like the nice guy who thinks once that the woman gets with him, she'll turn into a sexual freak. Both are entitled and self-centered. Run Forrest Run!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 10:22 PM
2

That asshole meets some sort of emotional need for her. The smart thing is to do the dip and move on with life. Otherwise, you'll go insane.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 10:21 PM
5

The interesting thing is that based on the stats, the likelihood of women getting primary or joint custody post-divorce accounts of 60% of the motivation of them filing for divorce, with primary custody accounting for the lion's share of the effect. The logic is that even though the women comes off poorer, they have more freedom to control their lives and the lives of their children. It's easy to hamster that these dudes the women are divorcing are just living it up while their wives slave away …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 02:03 AM
2

She's real regular to me. I agree with the 6 rating. She's cute enough to date, but she isn't THAT special.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 11:35 AM
1

Thank you for writing my thoughts. If they want this subreddit to die, create a safe space for men to discuss these thoughts without being thought of as evil people. But that'll never happen.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 11:20 AM
0

I know that women are harassed a lot. The problem is that unless it's something blatantly obvious, it's very hard for an outsider to tell the difference between harassment and, say, a bad pickup or an argument between an actual couple. I saw something say that the YesAllWomen hashtag isn't about asking men to physically beat up any and all attackers. What I don't think women realize is that if a man is crazy enough to harass a woman he doesn't know, he's likely to beat up, stab or shoot a man he…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 11:15 AM
0

Huh? The crowd organizing it wasn't even people that Elliot Rodger even looked in the general direction of. Guys like Paul Elam and Carnell Smith are focused on legal system reform, full stop, as opposed to guys getting laid. I sincerely hope it doesn't happen. For middle-aged men to get hosed by the law because some college dude went crazy after not getting some ass would be beyond ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:51 AM
1

Well, I'm a Black guy, grew up middle class. I've actually lived with White guys during my college days (since I generally DGAF where I was assigned housing), and it's interesting how the heavy line is drawn differently between groups. Though on the flip side, if I grew up around different groups, my standards would be different. Not everyone carries the same weight well. While there are plenty of Black women who don't carry weight well (and women of other groups who do), it just seems to work o…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:50 AM
1

No, but a quick trip to Google makes me wish I did. Googly-moogly!
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:56 PM
1

Not often LOL Then again, I wouldn't kick a skinny woman out if she had some shape to her.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:10 PM
3

Eh, in my experience of actually going to BBW parties to hang out with female friends, it's about 50/50 dudes who get off to big girls and dudes who can't do any better. It's one thing if a guy needs something different to get his rocks off. It's another if you're dumpster diving.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:01 PM
2

I will consider myself among the dudes who prefer my women built for comfort as opposed for speed. I submit to the crowd three examples of women I've actually met who I am attracted to. (Full disclosure: for a bit, I hung around the plus sized fashion world and met a bunch of models. I figured it would be easier to use ones I found hot IN PERSON than randomly post photos of women outside of public life.) http://37.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma22rodBa71qj2zbto1_500.jpg http://farm3.static.flickr.com…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:59 AM
2

Now the timing of video I didn't know about. My understanding was that it came out during the trial at some point. My question is why did they cut such a generous deal, even knowing what was known before the tapes about how she recruited the women. That the Crown Prosecutors signed off on such a sweetheart deal was galling. At least Bernardo is one of the rare Canadians facing life, but Homolka should have faced way more time than she got.
/r/PussyPass27/05/14 12:59 PM
11

I think entitlement is a lot like pride, where a little is necessary to function while a lot is dangerous. From hanging around this subreddit the past few months, I think the biggest issue is that so many men on here feel entitled to nothing but a hard dick and bubblegum. You have a right to want relationships. That's healthy. That's necessarily to be a part of the social animal that is humanity. If anyone judges you for that, they're idiots. The problem is that for these men, they've had their …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 11:59 AM
3

Um, that would be a novel. LOL Suffice to say there's a reason she's my ex, but that's a very long story.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 11:00 AM
7

I wouldn't say that. There are what I like to call "quality women" who feel entitled to the RELATIONSHIP of a man of their choosing. Now, this doesn't mean they don't get dates. They may or may not depending on their personal circumstances. What they feel entitled to is the commitment of the man/men that they are dating. That is the female equivalent of the Nice Guy.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 10:43 AM
1

Definite maybe. It heavily depends on what you're looking for and your morals. So long as you are fully aware of what the drill is, you're ahead of the game. Still, stay woke.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 07:04 PM
2

Broadly speaking, you are right. I have seen situations where a woman is comfortable with a dude with multiple women. In those situations, the woman has decided, for whatever reason, that locking it down with any dude is a bad idea. (Those reasons may vary from trauma to wanting to raise their kids a certain way to having a high-powered career.)
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:33 PM
26

OK, this was back when my ex was pregnant. I suggested that she consider getting into the BDSM scene again (full disclosure: we had met through various kink circles, though by this point, we had both left). She said OK, but only if I was willing to open up the marriage. I agreed once I made sure she was with it, then went for it. I somehow managed to find someone within a few days. I felt guilty, couldn't get it up (though I did manage to make the lady in question happy), then headed on back hom…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:10 PM
53

facts I know back when I was married, my ex suggested an open relationship. The fact that I got someone first made her have a nervous breakdown.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:54 PM
5

Interesting aside for you. Black women tend to have smaller waists for the same weight as compared to other groups. There's a reason why those booty models are technically overweight, but don't look the part visually.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:44 PM
1

Excellent point. An aging population overall means a fatter population. Based on the numbers for the 18-40 range I've seen floating around, 50% sounds right. North of 40, the overweight/obesity numbers jump.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:43 PM
2

Personally, I think it's a part of how the internet is making things worse for the muddled middle. The elite men and women have more access to more sex than ever before. Meanwhile, if you have a particular kink or fetish that would turn off most people, you're winning anyway because now, you can find a context where you have a high SMV much easier in the past. For everyone else, it's making things a mess. Just because you can download the dream (for a guy) or get a hot guy to break you off from …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:41 PM
5

On the flip side, the "no games" can also mean Down To Fuck. The good news is that you know their intentions. The bad news is that you know their intentions. Make of it what you will.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:08 AM
4

Few thoughts: Dominant women are rare. They do exist, but they aren't commonplace. Think of them as (hetero) female versions of naturals, and you'll understand how common they are. Also, if a woman has to come out and say that she's a natural, she isn't. It's one of those things that you can pick up in about 5 seconds of just seeing them in a social environment, let alone talking. That said, older women are much more aggressive than their younger counterparts. You can use less game simply becaus…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:08 AM
1

I see your point. I didn't mean to imply that everyone on here is on the same mindset. I am just noticing patterns.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:02 PM
2

I find it very interesting that this is the 2nd or 3rd post in a week mentioning No More Mr. Nice Guy. Real talk, I wonder if a significant percentage of Red Pillers have issues forming boundaries in relationships, thus making it hard to relate to women. After all, people respect people of integrity, not pushovers, so if you have boundaries, it makes it easier to deal with and get what you wish. I remember seeing a few months back how many Red Pillers had either codependent dads and/or abusive m…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 05:18 PM
6

You're in the right general direction, but you aren't quite there. The issue about Catfish isn't about connections per se as much as faking a connection. Put another way, if you're in a long term relationship, you should eventually be vulnerable to eat other. Yes, it's beta, but framed right, it's not a problem so long as the woman knows you're her rock otherwise. The problem with Catfish is while one side is being vulnerable with their ideas and thoughts, the other is maintaining an adamantum-s…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:28 PM
15

I'll allow it. There are some religious types, and they can use this info even if they aren't fucking. I respect their lifestyle choice.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:19 PM
6

Vague. Dangerously vague. There are a few legit gems in there, but there's so much vague writing and glittering generalities, you can't read what's going on. Plus some of the efforts, like against prison rape and for men in traditionally female roles, are highly controversial within feminist circles. I wouldn't say a woman bucking the feminist trend on an issue is specifically feminist. In other words...meh. I will give women for giving men jobs by getting jobs and spending cash. Someone has to …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:23 PM
9

11 is incredibly vague. Yes, Rosa Parks was low-key involved with a lot of the nuts and bolts of the Civil Rights Movement. She was one of those people-who-knew-people who made sure if John Doe wanted to have a protest somewhere, they could meet up with a bunch of other leaders that were heads of groups similarly oriented. She also helped do what was effectively media relations. If you wanted to know what to say to the press, she was among the group that trained you. However, you're right about …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:15 PM
1

There's redeeming stuff in every job, even a crummy one. Figure out what that is and put it on there. Just make sure it's clear you're trying to move onto something else, whatever that may be.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:32 PM
8

I'm a big fan of Style's Eliciting Values routine for the newbies for that reason. If you're good at it, you can find out a lot of crazy stuff in a hurry, simply because once you put together statements and body language, you know where to figure out things. It works well with text/IM as well, though you do love that body language component and will have to calibrate a bit face to face. You can find out body count, and a whole lot more, just by providing comfort and finding out the information. …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 12:40 PM
8

Here's the thing about dating: you don't have to do it. You will not die if you don't date. If you do it by choice, then it's definitely not harmful. Use this as a sign to take a break and focus on something else you want to accomplish. Go have fun, then come back when you're ready.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:20 PM
41

It's called getting old and getting sick of playing. At some point, you don't have anything to prove anymore. Everyone hangs it up at some point. Plus it isn't like he's marrying some bum chick. Instead of his typical renovation projects, where he takes random chick and reupholsters the pussy, he found someone who built her own and could click on his level. Here's a lesson to the Red Pill fam: someday, you're going to retire. It's going to happen. You'll reach the point that the best pussy you e…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:32 PM
-3

Meh. No big deal. Either they hack it or they don't. Call me in 10 years. What do you want? Mandated women in the kitchen? Last I checked, the woman have to actually take classes in the field, graduate (or not), then try to get jobs where their performance is evaluated. I'd rather spend energy chasing female abusers than bitching about this crap.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:29 AM
6

Agreed. #1 would just encourage cheating. Make the results come a bit more often. Less big tests, more quizzes and projects. That way, you have a check on progress. Otherwise, I'm down.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:08 PM
1

That's the flip side of the point I was making. Yes, you have to be a rock, but you have to realize the difference between regular life stuff and someone with some serious issues. This isn't anti-TRP as much as don't drive drunk. Only a poor craftsman blames his tools.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 01:07 PM
1

In order to keep a woman around long term, being open is a requirement. The problem is that how you open up to a woman is way different than opening up to your boys. Give her pieces bit by bit. Take it easy. Don't throw the dump truck at them. Women want to see "the real you", but they usually don't want it all at once. You can maintain frame while opening up, but it takes work, concentration and a lot of practice.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:07 AM
2

shotsfired :)
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:00 AM
0

Just listen to the hook for this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EJzCpr1w58&feature=kp It's an apt reply to your response. :)
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 10:59 AM
7

Brackish bitches concept. Some women thrive on the emotional abuse and drama because that is what they grew up on in their family life and don't know anything else. They aren't healthy emotionally, so cannot handle healthy emotional relationships and crave destructive ones because its what they understand. People aren't all necessarily healthy individuals and they gravitate toward certain types of people regardless of what is actually healthy for them One of the rare anti-TRP critiques I've seen…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 10:19 AM
2

I'd argue most quality women want guys that are leaders, strong, aren't afraid to call them out, don't pedastalize, and aren't afraid to tease them. However, I don't think emotional abuse is on that list for quality women. Exactly! And this is why your game needs to be tight, gentlemen. If you know how to communicate, you can ferret out the Low Self-Esteem All Stars and move on with life. Of course, if you find yourself being drawn to these women repeatedly, you need to check yourself and figure…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 10:14 AM
5

False. Straight men do make money in porn. Oddly enough, I ran in the same circles with people who knew Lexington Steele way back when. The key is to be able to fuck women like you're the truth and be willing to network. That said, porn is alpha fucks beta bucks on steroids. There's a reason the same 20 guys are in every straight porn film. You have to able to fuck for hours in unnatural conditions and pop on cue. All the women have to do is get makeup put on and consent to be on camera. (Now pa…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 12:44 AM
1

It's funny you think that about Kristina Rose, because she looks OK for me. Then again, my tastes in Latin women tends towards girl-next-door types, so that isn't saying too much.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:33 PM
2

Word! While a few here and there are hot with no makeup (and duly noted in the porn files), the rest? Yeah...no. Especially Riley Reid. She looks like a teenager in the worst way possible, with the acne and spotchy skin.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:33 PM
2

Good point. I don't think the general public realizes that the dudes in porn are usually dudes who made their bones in the swinger scene, caught the eye of someone who knows someone, then got paid to do what they used to do for free. These men fuck the living bejesus out of these women, and these are young, relatively inexperienced women who tend to be on the smaller framed side. Do 50 scenes a year with a stud who can fuck the older, heavier women in the swinger scene into a puddle for 2-3 hour…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:26 PM
1

Well, they do get paid to perform. One would hope they'd be good at what pays their bills.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:06 PM
3

Good lesson, and I have a comment to add. I had a friend of mine have a chance to meet up with the famous porn star Sara Jay backstage at a concert. He ran into her, not really catching her name, didn't think she was anything special and moved on with life. Imagine his surprise when Sara was introduced to the crowd, and he realized that he nexted what a large chunk of heterosexual America would have killed their own mothers for. Stay woke dog.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:24 AM
2

I am definitely with you on the orgasm mattering more, especially if the body count isn't through-the-roof high. It's the sexual equivalent of a woman telling you how many boyfriends she's had as opposed to how many men she's slept with. I've seen too many women wistful over that first good orgasm. Endorphins are the truth.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:57 PM
1

Not even a get out. Just say bye and go do whatever it is you planned on doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:14 PM
-1

CHURCH!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:12 PM
6

OK, I see your point. The thing is her issues have nothing to do with porn, if you think about it. She's running around in porn and swinger circles looking for a "normal" man. That is her problem, period. That she's an environment that is that outside of the mainstream and somehow expects a regular dude to show up says a lot about her, and none of it is good. I am with you on the entitlement front. It seems like she didn't fully grasp the implications of what she signed up for. Plus her story ab…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:45 PM
-1

There's a difference between "nah, I wouldn't date her" and "she deserves the worse in life, fucking whore!" Personally, I wouldn't date her, not as much because she's a whore but because she seems clueless. Last I checked, not having a clue is independent of body count. Still, she's a human being with a basic dignity attached to that. It isn't like it's legal to beat her or rape her because of her job. That's what I mean by not stringing her up.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:30 PM
1

I'm not sure about that, and I'm always nervous when people blame larger trends on society. This isn't to say that they have an impact, but family, loved ones and close friends have more of an impact than people give credit for. We don't know about the dynamic that she grew up in. Heck, she could have been in a conservative environment where her uncle used her as a personal sex toy. All of the morals in the world aren't much of a counter for what's demonstrated in your face on a day-in-day-out b…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:12 PM
3

I didn't mean that women don't break up like that. It's just that, in my experience, men are more likely to act this way.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:09 PM
43

Word. He saw what time it was, charged it to the game and moved on with his life. Too many women expect men to do these dramatic breakups, when more often than not, they leave just like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:32 PM
0

The only thing I have to add is that post-RP what you thought was valuable and what you think is valuable now will change...dramatically.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:02 PM
1

A few thoughts: If you are going to interact with women based on a shared interest, pursue that interest first. If any woman is going to connect based on that, they'll get you there. This is where I think one of the most valid critiques of the Red Pill, PUA and the like come into play. Just because you spent all your time putting the pussy on a pedestal doesn't mean you should trash it. Remember that the opposite of love isn't hate, but indifference. Caring that much that you hate women isn't in…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:00 PM
9

I'm not throwing shade at her for being a porn star, but her thought processes are jacked. I know that TRP is going to do everything but string her up, but I figure she's just lost. The first step is admitting that you have a problem, and she needs to go do that ASAP. I'm not on the revenge movement, but I do hope she gets what she needs so she can live out her days in peace.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:46 PM
3

In my experience, if someone is interested, they will make time for you. Don't sweat it otherwise. Recently, I had someone flake on me because they were busy turn around and make time for me after I moved on. It's amazing how compliant women can be if they know what time it is. :)
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:27 PM
14

Um, dude...you can fuck other women man. Have you fun, and stop the simping BS.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 11:55 AM
0

I think the best to look at it is that a opinion doesn't matter, but individual opinions do matter. One observation isn't something to pay attention to, because that's subjective. If the same people notice the same things about you, it's worth your while to pay attention. Just don't lock on to any one concept.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 06:06 PM
1

So wait...you basically want a co-dependent who will enable you to do what they want. Well... closes piano and runs GOTTA GO!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:52 AM
3

First of all, shout out for mentioning that good woman who is holding down kids who aren't her own. We hear so much about ain't shit women that it's good to hear about one who is handling business for real. Still, most women don't get the mistakes they make have consequences, and don't make any effort to deal with the consequences and make amends if need be. It's one thing that after playing the field that a woman realizes that she isn't going to get her Prince Charming and therefore has to find…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:25 PM
7

Agreed, my dude. I'm a single dad, but I wouldn't even pretend to be on the level of those dudes. Salute. :)
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 11:59 AM
1

Exactly! If anything, I wonder what's Bob's deal. Putting someone on blast in an environment like that doesn't help you. If anything, if I'm someone random watching this, I'm on alert because I know dude is willing and able to do me dirty. It would be one thing if it came out incidentally, but since they were just FWB, I doubt that something like that would happen. Simply put, Bob is on some BS, even if the wife is a whore.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:15 PM
2

♂
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:03 PM
3

I'm not 100% sure on that, because I've known a handful of women who went out HARD for me. That said, I will say it takes a LOT longer for a woman to prove themselves than a man, and when they have proven legit, they've shocked the bejesus out of me.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:19 PM
3

There was a post on I believe Badger Hut on the same concept. It used how JJ Redick, in his Duke heyday would just catch the ball and shoot. However, if you paid attention, you saw how much effort he expended to get open in terms of shaking defenders, running through screens and the like. In comparison with pick-up, all the woman does is see the successful execution. She won't see the confusion in your head, the time in the gym, the hundreds of rejections, the time selecting your outfit, the eff…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:04 PM
0

In terms of bed, I can go either way. I don't mind sluts, but I'm not crazy about them either. And I'm with you on the experience thing as well. Some women (like some men, keeping it real) just don't want to learn shit. A decent body count is a sign that they're at least willing to try shit. That said, there's also a reason behind the count, and you want to know the scoop before proceeding. Play it smart and all is well.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:23 AM
-2

I'm going to be controversial here and say partner counts are overrated. I'm not saying they don't matter at all, but they are a symptom, not a cause. A high number count requires that you should ask more questions about a woman, but the same issues that lead to a high number count could just as well lead to a low number count as well. Pay attention people. :)
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:19 AM
1

Two questions: First is about who gets attracted to the Red Pill. Have you noticed any particular type of man gravitate to it or be particularly repulsed? Any characteristics that you've noticed they've had in common? Two is about borderline personality disorder. Like you, I was in a long-term relationship with someone with that disorder. Do you think that experience has influenced your path on the Red Pill for good or ill?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 06:21 PM
8

It happens a lot more than you think. People think that if they give someone unhappy a piece of fun that they'll be obligated to hang around. I've seen it done by men and women, and it never ends well.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 01:41 AM
3

I actually have gone through the process and have been advised by counsel. The act of adultery requires non-consent. Now that doesn't mean that you can't nail them for, say, letting the other person at marital property, but the literal act of sex (and any incidental conduct resulting from that) can't be used against you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 01:37 AM
3

Actually, once she opened up the marriage, any women (or consenting adult) is fair play. You cannot use the fact that you opened up the marriage against someone in court, and that goes both ways.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:05 AM
4

Hey, my ex tried that, and I had women down for the get-down. After a washout on my end, I came home and saw her just about suicidal.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:04 AM
6

So what? Someone is always going to have some sort of advantage. If you're that out of control that you can't focus on the prize, you deserve to fail anyway. Disregard females, acquire currency indeed.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 11:16 PM
5

My answer, fuck no, and I don't care if the guy was a freakin' Mayflower descendent. Once that happened, that's Game Over. Stick a fork in her, she's done.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 11:00 PM
4

Here's a Red Pill jewel for you. I remember in my college days reading up on a list of hottest lesbians. Hindsight being 20/20, that list was Red Pill GOLD. You think frame matters for men, right? Imagine what frame does for lesbians. You could get away with not showering as a lesbian if you have your frame TIGHT. Now, I recommend showering, of course, but it was definitely a lesson for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 12:12 AM
10

Sidebar: I think it may be a bit of a racial thing. I've dealt with groups of White lesbians and groups of Black lesbians, and the Black ones dress 9482% better* (* number being completely unscientific). White lesbians dress like something out of Revenge of the Nerds, while the Black ones have me taking notes.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:48 PM
7

Excellent point. A high amount of initial stress could lead to more weight kept on and a lot of poor coping mechanisms. Throw in the fact that women are more likely to have issues with binge eating, and you have a fast track to stress without much effort.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:45 PM
10

And it's lesbian folks that are working their tail off to get it out there. They see that it's much easier for a straight woman to get help than a lesbian, and want to change that. For the record, the general population numbers for sexual assault are ~20% of the population, so if the number is 30% among lesbians, then you have a dramatic issue on your hands. EDIT: And there's the whole concept of "lesbian utopia" keeping these numbers silent. There is a chunk of the lesbian population that think…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:22 PM
24

Right about the domestic violence and obesity. I worked for a Large Clinical Laboratory who has does a lot of LGBT outreach, and when I saw the numbers for obesity in lesbians, I was shocked. Like the only reason women keep in shape is for the old high, hard one? Talk about mind blown.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:20 PM
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Lesbian relationship fights SCARE me. I know sexual orientation is real, because why else would someone even put up with that mess. Men seem to have a sense of not to cross a certain level of intensity unless something major is going on. Lesbians seem to lack that particular filter, so basic ass stuff that wouldn't cause a fight among heterosexual couples or gay men can leave to serious fights. I remember reading something about lesbians having double the domestic violence rates of other groups.…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:19 PM
12

I agree with the point with women being harder to please relationship-wise. I saw a study where they looked at marriage satisfaction rates in a sample of the American population and compared it with the likelihood of initiating a divorce. For women, it was a perfect convergence: above-average dissatisfaction led to above average divorce initiation rates. For men, it took them to the highest levels of relationship dissatisfaction to even have average divorce initiation rates. In other words, bitc…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:16 PM
6

I think the issue is that the woman is projecting her value for marriage over the guy. Now I don't know the dynamic of the two people involved, and since this is the internet, we'll never "really" know. That said, it's clear that she expects the guy to value being married as much as she does. That's where she's wrong. Once you realize how she's wrong, you can see how dude would feel some type of way over being the "settled" option. Women feel the same way about being settled for, but they tend t…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:32 PM
8

Hey, I'm 6'5", and I know guys a foot shorter than me getting more ass than a toilet seat. Don't get it twisted, height is a definite plus all things being equal. The thing is that rarely are all things equal.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 09:05 PM
1

Very true, but it doesn't mean a close...just an opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 09:03 PM
2

First of all, this is interesting because I know a former (male) military policeman who is 5'3" and around the same weight as an in-shape female. Of course, he won his weight class 4 years running as a high schooler wrestler and is pound-for-pound the strongest person I've ever met. I want to run this by him and get his thoughts. That said, I think the woman interviewed kept it real. There are certain combat jobs that women have been able to hack, but Marine officer training isn't among them. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:27 PM
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Exactly. A woman who brings something to the table besides a vagina and consent is one worth having around, even if there are struggles. Having a college degree doesn't guarantee this, of course, but being in that environment allows more chances for growth than working at Wal-Mart or Applebee's and clubbing at night.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:37 PM
0

Excellent points. Very excellent points.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:34 PM
5

Sidebar: as someone who is 6'5", Black and in decent shape (though not NFL draft pick shape), I appreciate the lack of PC. It just means that when I have a taste of White women, they're more...motivated, and I can turn down the alpha. Racism sucks, but I can't say it doesn't have any bennies. :)
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:48 AM
1

Looking at the routine, I could see why you couldn't do it physically. Still, you're still interested in the concept, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 05:28 PM
0

Also, there was the whole tipping point of women entering the workplace that helped sparked the daycare boom. While I personally think feminism is broadly a good thing, since we shouldn't lose out on a good mind because it comes with a vagina, let's not pretend that it has been cost-free.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:50 PM
5

Excellent point. Being a father, I realize how much of my experiences growing up I have to actively teach my daughter. I think with the generation from the 80s, they tended to assume that the whole traditional family thing was just The Way Things Were (tm), and that they didn't have to be actively taught. Welp...
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:47 PM
8

FWIW, a lot of it is sheer economics. If you have a boatload of student loans, a typical fresh out of school graduate isn't going to have much to offer financially. Anyone who isn't somewhat career oriented is taking a major financial chance to the extent other generations didn't necessarily have. Also, there's the fact that there aren't a lot of role models for what a good relationship looks like. It would be like asking someone who has never read a word of Mandarin in their life to write an es…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:43 PM
22

I wonder how much of the need for the Red Pill is due to a generation either not wanting to mentor their youth or just not giving a fuck. There was a time in America where the youth coming up would get schooled to the world by their elders. Now, we put everyone under 21 in a bubble, then get shocked that they didn't speak to their elders more. Just be thankful for the knowledge my dude.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:40 AM
-1

I have a modest proposal: Translate as many misogynist English language songs into French and Flemish, record them, find a radio station to play them and keep them on non-stop rotation until the authorities show up. Then pump the censorous idiots full of lead. The tree is liberty needs to be refreshed with the blood of patriots.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:59 PM
3

Excellent answer. This is related to the truth that you can't be all Alpha all the time in a long term relationship. I think a corollary that isn't always spelled out is that you can't be beta to a woman who won't open up about their true selves. Playing the beta to a front will get you nowhere. Do that same thing to a woman who has opened themselves up to you, and you have a shot. I can see where she got you caught up. She gave you enough of herself to keep you happy without having to drop her …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:27 PM
6

Excellent story man. I do have a question though. Did you ever talk to her? I don't mean the surface level conversation stuff. I mean really get into what she's about as a person. I'm not saying she would have said the stuff she said chapter and verse, but there would have been some hints there. A woman who says they want to be raped should be ran from, and quickly. Nothing good can come of that. NOTHING.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:20 PM
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Exactly. Anyone reading more into this is a damn idiot. Women love to hide their beefs in a sea of emotions and higher purposes, but anyone who reads past this for more than sheer entertainment value is wasting their time. Either homegirl tried to gun for that number one spot, so to speak, or the wife of the founder thought that her husband was just dying to cheat and homegirl was just the lucky contestant. No matter what, the rest is BS.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 01:13 PM
1

Therapy is what you make it, for good or ill. I think the reason therapy gets such a bad rap is because people go there who are either forced there by some circumstance, legal or personal, or expect the therapist to fix them. A good therapist can point out one's weaknesses and the root causes behind them. It's up to you to work on them. I did therapy for about a year a few years back. I paid for it with a sliding scale, and it was worth every penny. It was like going to school on yourself, and i…
/r/AlreadyRed17/03/14 12:01 AM
3

Salute! And why is it that men aren't allowed to be heart broken? Pain is normal. It's what you do with it that matters.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:38 PM
2

It's shitty that he had to threaten to snitch, but considering the circumstances, it wasn't like he had a plethora of good options. After all, Eve was talking about lying on him to get him thrown in jail just because he cut off the gravy train.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:37 PM
7

And this is why it's a good reason for men to sleep around some (or if you're religiously inclined, at least date around). Some lessons only come with experience, and without them, you'll get burned.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 07:45 PM
15

When you see it at this level, you have to know that it's not just she's horny and likes sex - she's doing it to get validation and fill a void. DING DING DING! That's the issue you're looking for: the constant need for validation. I think that when people in the broader manosphere get caught up in body counts, they're missing the forest for the trees. While there are some knuckleheads are against women being horny, the vast majority want women to have a healthy sex drive and to use it responsib…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 07:35 PM
72

The problem isn't the whoring. The problem is the dysfunctional family dynamics. The sluttiness was a symptom of the issues, NOT the cause. This is why looking at a woman's body count in and of itself is misleading. Anyone (male or female, keeping it real) who grew up in a household like that who didn't realize that "gee, living with a female dog for a mom and an alkie like my dad isn't emotionally healthy, and perhaps I should do something about that" is bad news, period. Her ability to form la…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 04:29 PM
1

I think that ties in with someone said above that too muscular can turn some women off. That isn't fat as much as offensive lineman: with some size, but obviously athletic.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:57 PM
4

Thank you! There is a limit to how ripped you can be and still pull women. Thankfully, you'll need a lot of...supplements and pharmaceutical assistance to get there unless you somehow hit the genetic lottery. I regret that I have but one upvote to give...
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:55 PM
1

That's a definite maybe. If you're smart about constructing a training routine, you can work out every day. That said, you have to be on top of your eating and training. A few dumb decisions at the table or in the workout and bye-bye gains.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:29 PM
3

I send my daughter to a Montessori, and had my eldest niece go there. I recommend the experience highly. Plus they push kids without being pushy, if that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:22 PM
9

IIRC, in Germany, that's actually a thing. There is a major demand for men to work in child care and early childhood education, and they will give signing bonuses to men who are willing to sign up.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:20 PM
2

I leaned away from kindergarten environments with a male presence for my daughter because as a single dad, I figured a) she would be around a lot of men just through osmosis and b) she needed to be able to deal with women at some point. Gambling that my daughter will grow up to be a stud lesbian is like looking for an inside split, and I figure that she needs to realize that not all women are like her mother. Other than that, I co-sign your recommendations, especially about the budget. While you…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:18 PM
1

Agreed. Having someone who will work with you to get money is a GOOD thing, period. Complaining about that reveals more about the complainer than the concept.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:18 PM
1

Excellent!
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:15 PM
1

I don't see how this is necessarily a bad thing. Marriage has always had a business component throughout history. A household has to function as an economic unit. Yes, it would be lovely if she were super-supportive and devoted, but she also has to earn her keep as do you. I'm not sure believing otherwise isn't blue pill as much as it flat out stupid. And if you believe that marriage is about twuu wuv only, you're a Goddamn idiot, full stop.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:13 PM
2

Good question my dude. After I rolled out of there, I was wondering the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:36 AM
-1

Here's the story. I was a freshman in college hanging out in the dorm. An acquaintance of mine told me to come through to his room and have a few beers. About 8 or 9 people from his hometown here, including the dude who tried to attack me. At first dude is joking like he wants to hump me, and I tell him to chill. I nurse my beer (since I wasn't much a beer drinker, and didn't get into it until I was well out of college) and keep hanging out from sheer boredom. The second go round, dude tries to …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:35 AM
33

With all due respect, fuck that bitch. I'm a big guy myself, and in college some guy tried to rape me. Dude just didn't have a clue who he was messing with. The only thing that saved me was that he was noticeably smaller than me, and when I went to try to punch his head off for trying me, people noticed the commotion, tackled me and broke us two up. I'm thankful that the deed wasn't finished, but I can only imagine how I would have ended up if he finished the job. Seriously, if homeboy killed he…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 06:20 PM
9

Here's my take on beta men: big fuckin' deal. Seriously. Big. Fucking. Deal. If you are truly secure in who you are and what you do, the existence of a beta male is about as relevant as the weather in a town 1000 miles away that you'll never visit. This isn't to say that you should like him. It's that you shouldn't pay him any mind. The opposite of love isn't hate. It's indifference. Just live your life, improve yourself and do well. The pedestal crowd and the White Knights will have to deal wit…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:20 PM
19

Tools for the job my friend. Don't sweat the vocab too much. Do you want people to hear the truth or some words that will make them squirm?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:06 PM
14

Word. I am a proud single dad because of someone with mental health issues...BPD to be precise. One day, the mother of my child told me she found someone else, that she was going to be spending more time with them, and that was that. Even though she officially moved out this weekend, I've been a solo act ever since.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 04:41 PM
2

hugs My heart goes out to you my dude. Just...wow. That's a horrible thing to learn. I don't know that this reddit can do much for you though. I think there are other groups, and probably offline professionals, that would do much service. I definitely get the attraction to this though. Don't disappear, just get a bigger support system.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 04:38 PM
1

But her choice wouldn't become brilliant if a White guy knocked her up. That's my point.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 01:24 PM
9

In somewhat fairness, it's hard for single dads to get custody, period. There aren't a lot of those dudes around to set up.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:21 AM
26

Whoa whoa whoa...slow your roll. The problem is the strange D, not the color, ya dig?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:16 AM
3

You're also assuming to things of people (and in this case, I really mean men and women). One is that they understand that Something Is Wrong with the way they eat. I've had enough conversations on food with people to learn that a large chunk of the population lacks the meta-knowledge of their issues with food. Two is that they have the skill to make this information actionable. The ability to do a basic ass pushup and make food from scratch is much less common than one would think. Ideally, mor…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:59 PM
2

I think the term willful is a bit broad, especially considering how little the general population knows about nutrition, even those of "normal" weight. The larger point stands though.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 11:11 AM
2

Two thoughts here. First, on the micro level, you shouldn't have to fuck what doesn't get you up. Now, I know that there are men who, for whatever reason, find fat girls hot. I went to a few of these BBW dances that they have around, and there isn't a shortage of men who honest-to-goodness feel these women. (There are also a lot of bottom feeder men too, but that's another story.) That said, you shouldn't feel forced to hump them. Freedom of choice allows you to hump whoever you want. The second…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 11:10 AM
1

Noooo! I am divorcing someone with BPD. So not fun. cues Master P's "'Bout It 'Bout It" to show how real I am in the relationship game
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:12 AM
-2

In terms of the cooking, that's a definite maybe on her domestic skills. I've seen situations where the dude will do one thing all the time and have the woman do the rest of the housework. Like I know of a couple of situations where the man does all the cooking, and the woman does the rest of the work. I know of another where the man does all the laundry because he's particular about his clothes but doesn't do anything else. Stuff like that. Still, if homeboy acts brand new about sweetums gettin…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:13 PM
1

Every journey begins with the first step. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:38 PM
0

BTW, what is her mental illness, out of curiosity?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:00 PM
-5

Well, the dude is winning in this case. He gets a guaranteed good lay and a clean house at home while he can still do him. I don't see how the dude is losing, especially if dude was going to cook anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:59 PM
5

Thank you. There were 350 different dudes who were willing and able to give her erect penis in her vagina. You can argue about the men's standards, but you can't argue with the penetration. Apparently, she didn't hurt anyone or trick off on the dudes, so let people live. Not everyone is going to go on your standards.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:58 PM
4

Eh...I'll give the woman a break for two reasons. One, I've seen women with the same height and weight have very different shapes for random reasons. Maybe she's curvy, maybe she isn't, but your mileage may vary. Two, I'm 6 inches taller than her and weigh the same, despite having a 36 inch waist. Most people act surprised when I tell them how much I weight, and I get called skinny a LOT. I wouldn't judge her looks (good or bad), but if her looks past the text, I'd hit it. I don't have King Kong…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:54 PM
2

I'd prefer the 43 year old. Then again, I prefer bigger women. YMMV
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 09:33 PM
-4

Dude, women aren't just broken men, they're women. It's like expecting a duck to bark. All that's going to do is get both of you upset. Hey, isn't taking the Red Pill about understanding what women really are instead of getting upset they aren't dudes with boobs and vaginas?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 09:03 AM
1

Thank you for this, and thanks to trudatness for the original comment. Women tend to be at their best and in their comfort zone when they aren't directly going for a goal but more setting patterns and developing relationships. If you want to be cold and logical about it (and in a way that would tick off ~95% of the women in the world if you told them like this), that is what mothering and nurturing requires. You don't just feed and clothe a kid like a machine. You talk to children, interact with…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 09:01 AM
1

I will ask you point blank. If a woman passed the same tests as a man, would you accept her as a soldier. I fully get the standards, the women bawling out, the whole 9 yards. But if a woman could prove herself using the same standards as a man would you have an issue with it? I am asking if the issue is with the standards or the vagina. The standards I get. A soldier has to operate within very tight standards under less than favorable environments, and a soldier that can't get the job done is da…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:05 AM
2

To a certain extent, yes. The thing is that PUA is a tool, and all tools have their uses. Use it, but be smart about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:02 AM
7

Um...that's often a sign of borderline personality disorder. As I'm not in online-support-group-moderator mode, and don't have to be PC, RUN FORREST RUN! She doesn't seem like she's ready to deal with her demons yet, and by the time she's finished with college, her degree may say Duke but she'll be filled with Wake Forest Demon Deacons. #seewhatididthere
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 02:21 PM
3

No...they just give. I've never had to ask. You'd be surprised how dying they are to please if you just calm down and not get too crazy you're seeing raw ass and titties without a whole lot of sweet talking. They'll do anything for that attention as a full-fledged human being. The thing is that you have to look at them as people and see the stripper thing as an act they do for money. EDIT: Also, sidebar here...why date a stripper? Seriously. What does a particular type of woman do for you?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:55 PM
4

The short answer is yes, it is. The long answer requires scary amounts of frame control. Like the other repliers have said, strippers live and breathe beta bux. Heck, beta bux is literally what pays their rent, if you think about it. The key is to recognize the stripper's performance as just that, a performance, and wait to see the person underneath. Other than, um, obvious body parts (which can get excited if a woman touches them during a doctor's exam anyway), act cool. Relax. Don't be afraid …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:23 AM
1

Like somehow men coming back from combat only have a few minor bruises. Ass kicking being a figure of speech my dude. And why are you caping for a woman in a spot like that? If you sign up for combat, you are risking very horrible things being done to you. Let her live.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:08 AM
1

This is a good question, especially since I have a 4 year old daughter that I have primary custody of. In the long run, it would be nice for my daughter to have a woman in her life. That said, having me simping just to get some random chick around does none of us any good. Right now, I'll play it by ear, keep my game tight and see what happens.
/r/AlreadyRed28/02/14 01:59 AM
1

FWIW, I don't mind if only like 100 women are in combat duty. If it's just 100, so be it. Let them fight and get their asses kicked like everyone else. Anyone who is willing to show and prove on the battle field should get it. I understand the politics behind it as well, but so what? Ultimately, politicians don't fight wars...soldiers do.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:36 AM
5

I like how you worked this. You manned up when you caught her cheating, owned up to where you may have screwed up, are doing the best to be in your daughter's life, and have focused on taking care of yourself instead of your ex-girlfriend's needs. Oh, and homegirl begging you for the D is pathetic. It was only a matter of time before you left her. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 01:12 PM
2

Well done! Tools for the job, my good man. Tools for the job. :)
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 12:16 PM
3

I'm 6 foot 5 in stocking feet. Unless I become a straight WNBA groupie, there's no way I can reasonably find women that are taller. NEXT!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:19 PM
0

All I have to say to that is Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks! cue Trouble Funk drum sample
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 01:58 PM
5

Hey, I was offered an open relationship once, I found a woman quickly, and my then-wife literally had a nervous breakdown over it. Apparently she didn't think I'd get someone that quickly.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:35 PM
2

I fully understand the frustration, but you have to let it go. Detachment is the path to enlightenment and all that. :)
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:32 PM
4

Back off dude. He's OK with it, and apparently she doesn't give him grief about him going out to get his. Let it ride, man.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:27 PM
2

As someone with a background in the swinger community who is tiptoeing back in post-divorce, I can cosign Ever. Single. WORD! Now, don't get it twisted here. I did a few of those "swamp donkeys" as you called them because they could fuck like nobody's business. Plus, by and large, they are good people, and I can legitimately count on them as friends because they came through in the (vanilla) clutch when they didn't have to. Also, after what was a 7 year break, I had people stepping up to me in m…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:26 PM
12

Exactly. To the extent that sex trafficking exists, money isn't what keeps women trapped. It's stuff like knowing that if she quits, her boss is probably going to kill her and maybe go after her family to. Also, people who are involved in sex trafficking take advantage of immigration laws so these women can't easily go get another job. Making prostitution legal gets rid of all these non-financial leverages.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 01:48 PM
1

I think the sex-negative ones have more power than you think, especially since they're the older crowd and have more institutional power. Otherwise, you're on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:23 AM
13

Love the post, and this is in my wheelhouse a bit. First a bit of explanation. Some years back, I was asked by my dad to help care for a special needs cousin that was in adult supportive housing. This is government-sponsored housing for those special needs people who age out of the system for kids, but can function somewhat independently. You know all those special needs people who work at supermarkets and stores doing really basic jobs? That's where they all live. I know hanging around those pl…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:21 AM
6

Interesting paper here. The most interesting stuff, once you dig into it, was how men determined it was time to leave. Simply put, men have to be particularly off-the-charts fed up to pick up and leave. A very unhappy man in a marriage won't pick up and leave. I found that very interesting.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 02:42 PM
3

Mother issues? Oh...yeah. I'll put it to you like this: when you get jobbed out of tens of thousands of dollars your dad gave you to pay for college, get emotionally abused on a regular basis just because, and you end up with the better deal between you and your brother by a long shot, that's a biggie. It took me years to get to cordial with my mom. My dad and I, other than normal guy shit, generally get along well.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 01:13 PM
4

I beg to differ. Heck, I grew up in a house where I was around my dad and older brother all of the time. My mom though...yeah. She was evil.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 08:08 AM
2

Here's the thing: some men are royal assholes, and if it wasn't them getting on her about porn, it would be something else. This isn't about patriarchy. Jerks are jerks are jerks. She does have the right to be annoyed by harassment, especially since it's a major issue porn stars have to deal with. Still, taking it to patriarchy seems to be trying too hard, especially when there's a reason sitting right in front of her face.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:44 AM
1

I'm just going by what the article said. And I bet this far out, if you asked them about it, all involved would barely remember the details.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 11:54 PM
0

In fairness, they were both goofing off. Still, as someone who has literally worked right by the court on Arthur Ashe Stadium where they hold the US Open, the point about male tennis players catching up to more shots is apt. Oh, and I would fuck every single member of Serena Williams' entourage with no problem. I stupidly blew a chance to get the number of her trainer. Ah well. :)
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 02:11 PM
2

Exactly. I'd rather salute the woman who gets tore up actually doing something a man does without asking for a pity party than the woman who expects equal pay, but expects people to forget that she leaves early 3 days of the week for "reasons".
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 02:08 PM
3

As someone wrapping up a divorce with a Cluster B, don't do it. Just walk away. The only way to win is to not play.
/r/AlreadyRed20/02/14 12:38 AM
4

I know you guys are using this to prove TRP, but if that's the case, what exactly are you trying to accomplish? Is your goal really to manipulate someone and use them so you can get laid when you feel like it? If it is, is that a noble goal? I think the key is to have the option to do that...or anything else. There are some who want to bang their way through the universe. There are some who just want a better crop of women to eventually marry in happy monogamy. And there's a whole world in the m…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 12:32 AM
5

Not the chick I'd check for, but she isn't hard on the eyes.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:23 AM
3

As a Black man of Caribbean and African-American heritage, I have to co-sign. We might (broadly) look alike, but the cultures aren't the same.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:14 AM
1

100% cosign. I think the assumption is that aggression==violence, and that's not necessarily true. That's why there's no channeling of those outlets in women. All of those things you've mentioned aggressive, but not necessarily violent. Hence, there's less interest in suppressing or channeling those emotions.
/r/AlreadyRed15/02/14 08:39 PM
1

As a fellow brother, I approve this message. That reputation stuff is real and cost me a relationship. Unlike you, I pulled the dick away once she said she just wanted me to hump. Don't ask me for commitment and pull it away because of your "friends".
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 10:45 AM
3

As a Black man who has dated a decent number of Black and White women, allow me to add my $0.02. In my experience, dating outside of one's race has a way of filtering out a lot of the worse women. If a woman is willing to date outside of their race, they are more open and accepting of men in general compared to a woman of similar status within your race. Let's face it: race is a big fuckin' deal, period, case closed. Heck, that's why there's a major rule about race-related posts on here. If a wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 10:41 AM
1

Church!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 11:06 PM
1

Sounds like a girlfriend of mine from 11 years ago who got their daughter their own vibrators and dildos when they turned 13. Yikes!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 11:04 PM
2

Thank you for mentioning one of the reasons for my impending divorce. Apparently, one of my jobs was as a life support system for her dick. Then again, my soon to be ex wife having BPD didn't exactly help...
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 11:02 PM
7

Guys, (especially young guys), tend to go for the 6 rather than the 9 because they think that they should logically have a better chance with the 6-7. But the net effect of this is a 6 who gets approached 50 times a night, and a 9 who may get approached 3 times a night. So ultimately, the 6 has more options and is more likely to have a massive bitch shield than the 9. Ladies and gentlemen, the explanation of my college dating history! I got some good dates swinging for the fences, because I was …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:15 AM
6

File this under the phrase "definite maybe". Here's my experience from my dating years. The lower on the totem pole a woman is looks wise, the more her background matters more in terms in how she acts. If you hang around 4s and 5s from otherwise respectable, stable backgrounds, and you don't ask for too much in terms of sex, you'll be fine. That's OK. Not everything is for everyone. Not everyone wants or needs the baddest girl in the world, and if they are OK with that Blue Pill, let them live. …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:12 AM
3

Word. Getting mired in the details is irrelevant in this point. Does it really make a difference if she was messing with 2 guys as opposed to, say, 5?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 02:31 PM
0

I would go for option 2. You're otherwise getting along, and she's giving up the ass on the reg. There's no need to get extra unless you think homegirl is doing anything else. Just strap up, break her off and have your fun. :)
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 02:30 PM
5

Damn. All I have to say about your mom is Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. cue Trouble Funk drum sample
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 12:50 PM
6

I am mixed on this one. For one, I have no problems with plus-sized models, as I am a large man. Plus, I've met some of these plus sized models in the flesh thanks to some personal connections. 30% of them, roughly, wouldn't what anyone would consider fat, by any reasonable standard. (FWIW, the plus-sized modeling industry seems broken down between non-skinny women, women who you swear their brothers are playing offensive line in the NFL and actual fat chicks.) That said, I also have a problem w…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 12:45 PM
5

I agree with that. Then again, even that isn't perfect. There have been men with common names who have ignored petitions because they never have met the women in question...and have gotten screwed.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 01:55 AM
-4

I'm prepared to get downvoted for this, but for this limited purpose, I think this is a good idea. Back during my time in the swing scene, I had to forcefully remove women from situations where dudes were trying to fuck them without consent. I'm not saying go out and be Captain Save-Em, but if you're obviously seeing something that comes off a bit on the shady side, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 10:34 PM
6

That works...so long as the woman in question never has to go for welfare. The second a mother goes to the state for any "community resources" (to use the legal term of art for welfare), she is required to named potential parents. If a man doesn't affirmatively respond within 30 days, the state has the right to legally name him the father, will all the attendant child support responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 10:22 PM
23

In most states, once you are the presumed father, you legally can't get out of it. Men's rights activists have changed the law in a few states where if you can prove that you aren't the father, you can disclaim paternity. Georgia, in particular, has a strong law like that. In the rest of the union...not so much.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 10:20 PM
1

I know this is late, but CHURCH! It was my dad that was the nurturing one. My mom...was something else. I too am suspicious of nurturing women. In my head, it's just a matter of time before the abuse or the neglect starts.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 12:46 PM
0

I get your political slant, but this isn't about politics per se. Study after study about rape victims demonstrates that perps usually get them into unfamiliar, isolated environments. Say what you will about underaged drinking. Creating a situation where it becomes radically easier to isolate victims, knowing good and well that intoxication is a contributor to sexual assaults is insane. To me, this is a classic case of measuring what you can as opposed to measuring the problem. To be fair, a maj…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:37 PM
75

So let me get this straight. Instead of having drunk girls come home, where someone who may know them could intervene if something goes wrong, they are actively encouraging them to stay away from the dorms. Not only is it making hooking up easier, they're practically serving up rape victims on a silver platter by mandating that they go home with their attackers to an unfamiliar environment. Yeah. Makes PERFECT sense.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 11:38 AM
1

You're right. Anger is a healthy emotion, but it needs to be used to change things within yourself as opposed to destroying yourself. Lashing out at the world isn't going to change things, and neither is taking the anger out on yourself in a rage of self-hate. Just use it as motivation to fix what you can, and use the memory to make sure it doesn't happen again.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 08:48 PM
1

It's funny...because it's true.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:16 PM
10

As a victim of emotional abuse from women (and someone raised by a narcissist mom), I so get where the son is coming from. Of course, women never do stuff like this, right? ;-)
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:14 PM
22

The older I get, the more women I wouldn't fuck even with a condom. Condoms aren't 100%, and the risk I take of potentially getting one past the goalie isn't worth the sex. Not all sex is worthwhile sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:12 PM
5

Yeah, she fucked him up royally. She needs to take the L like a grown-up, and figure out what to do with the rest of her life.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:10 PM
2

Here's a red pill truth for you: women don't give a fuck about being fucked as much as men, full stop. Also, men derive more of their needs out of being fucked. Once you know yourself in this way, it's simpler to just go with it and get your needs met. Remember, getting your needs met isn't being an asshole. It's hiding them that does.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 03:36 AM
-5

This is why it's a good idea to just talk to women and listen to what they have to say. This isn't about being her savior, but just seeing how she looks at the world. To be fair, NAWALT in terms of cutting people down. That said, women compete behind closed doors and with some form of plausible deniability, while men compete openly and with full intent. The question is figuring out what they're competing about, which, to use the parlance of the subreddit, is going women are going to go full hams…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 03:32 AM
2

Or, since she has a history of dating women, she could just be in the open relationship with this girl. A number of bisexual women prefer to be open with their female partner but hide the dudes for political reasons. If she's just seen with women, she can pretend to be "independent" and "free from patriarchy", all while taking the D like a champ behind closed doors. I had a FWB situation where the woman was in an open lesbian LTR...and taking the D on the low. NOTE: edited for clarity
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 12:50 PM
7

And this is what the Red Pill is about: becoming a fully-fledged human being, which includes the sexual aspects. This isn't to say that the Red Pill is perfect, by any means, but that fulfillment of that hierarchy of needs is a motherfucker, ain't it? :)
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 02:27 PM
1

Good advice. There's a difference between "women" and a particular woman you're dealing with, for good or ill.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 01:56 PM
1

I think the key is to play it smart. Don't get oneitis, but don't be completely blind to what's going on. If she has earned your trust, give it. Remember that she has to earn it though, preferably over years and lots of hard-earned experience.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 01:54 PM
3

Exactly! The goal should be to improve yourself. You can't fix women or the world, but you have your destiny in your own hands. The question is how do you want to make your life better. Also, you need to heal yourself from the wounds you have from being abused under the Blue Pill. On a different note, I wonder how many RPers have been abused or neglected by women. I bet more than your average Redditor.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 02:54 AM
4

Reading the details, that is why I wasn't thrilled with the headline in question. You have to figure out how to play chess, not checkers.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 11:31 PM
1

I regret that I have one upvote to give. And you're so right about OKCupid and POF gassing women the FUCK up. When all you have to do is have all your body parts in decent working order to have 50 guys on your clitoris, it's kind of hard not to be gassed.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:16 PM
2

slow clap leading to standing applause I've been there brother. I've been there, and it takes some mental strength to overcome that oooWEEE (shouts to Ice Cube). Glad you were able to pull it off though.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:13 PM
0

Ah, I've seen you've experienced engineering syndrome at its peak, though granted I've never seen it with someone who was truly fugly. In my experience, it's more average women who get that upgrade. The only known cure is to avoid fishing off the company pier, and preferably fish in better-stocked waters.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:08 PM
1

That's a better way to look at it. Show, don't tell. :)
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:05 PM
1

Excellent points. Transmen gets the Red Pill if only because no matter how manly they feel, they've spent their formative years being dealt with as a woman. They can't help but get the bigger picture.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:04 PM
2

The thirst #isreal. Still, she isn't getting the fact that no one wants to bring her home to mama. Let her live for a while. Once she hits the wall, it's going to get ugly, and her looks are going to be the least of her issues. I just hope her 14 month old daughter is well cared for. Kids don't deserve to be raised in poor circumstances, no matter how screwed up their parents are.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:01 PM
4

Very true. There are a scary amount of people who don't know how to cook, period. I'm not talking gourmet quality meals as much as basic meal prep like boiling rice or making vegetables. Throw in the fact that people don't really need to expend much energy to make a living, and you have a major disaster from jump.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 10:05 PM
0

FWIW, I think a lot of false rape claims are from women who have been raped. Remember, just because a woman has been raped doesn't me a specific person raped her. This is especially true, since in the USA, we know the median rapist has raped 6 women. When you take into account that every rapist has to start with one given woman, the numbers get very scary, very fast.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 11:19 AM
2

This has been a well-documented issue with Welfare Reform as it was done in the 90s. It's very easy to get named a father, even without any proof of being a sperm donor, and hard to get out of it in most states. The only way is to IMMEDIATELY challenge the paternity, and hope you can prove it wasn't you. That said, if you don't happen to know the person who is claiming that you are the child, had a woman cheating on you towards the end of a relationship, or just have a common name, you can get b…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 01:15 PM
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Dude is a jackass, tout suite. Let's take dude at his word that he wasn't on top of things in his relationship. That he ignored a lot of her requests. It's on her to be a woman and say "you know what? I'm not feeling this. I'm out." It's not his responsibility to fix her desires. I don't get why he feels he has to apologize for doing what he wanted to do. Also, it isn't like his wife is an immediate danger to herself or their child, and stabilizing things before making a decision one way or anot…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 03:04 PM
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That leads to my point. Personally, while my preference is neither of them, personally I'd prefer a BBW to a Victoria's Secret model. Really think women just don't do it for me. Now if, say, Christine Hendricks showed up, then screw both of them. I'm just not feeling really thin women because I think of them as delicate at best, false accusers at worse.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 02:52 PM
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That's so hard to prove. While there are universals for beauty, such as youth, healthiness, fertility, symmetry and waist-to-hip ratio, past that is such a cultural and experiential grab-bag. In other words, past a certain baseline, there's no accounting for taste.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 02:50 PM
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In my experience, closet lesbianism runs wild in feminist circles like Hulkamania in 1985. This isn't to say that all, or even a large majority, of feminist are lesbians, or closeted lesbians, but it's a significant and vocal minority. A nontrivial number of feminists talking hard about heterosexual sex are just hiding the fact they dig chicks. I have no issue with that, but leave the straight folk alone. :)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 11:49 AM
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In my experience, verbal consent can be sexy. The thing is you have to flip it so it sounds like you are either dying to fuck the shit out of them or validating their own obvious desire for them. There's a difference between "can I have sex with you?" and "do you want me to tear that pussy up with my huge dick?" The results of either are admissible in court, but only one can be hidden as dirty talk. The key is to keep the sexual momentum going with the verbal consent. That way, it doesn't feel l…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 11:45 AM
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THIS! I have come across this type from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 01:52 PM
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The headline is a bit link-baity for my tastes, but there's a great point in there. If someone is that unable to honestly communicate their desires in bed, end the party there. No pussy in the world is worth a court case because they don't know how to communicate. And besides, if they can't communicate in bed, what makes you think they're speaking clearly otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 01:49 PM
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I regret having only one upvote to give. Vagina is the ultimate get out of jail free card.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 08:02 PM
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Remember, I said 25 people. There's nothing in there saying she's fucking them just once. Also, she only have a mouth, a va-jay-jay and an anus. She can only take on so many at once even if she wanted to.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 04:11 PM
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remove
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 01:56 PM
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$20 she has borderline personality disorder. Like seriously, if I'm wrong, I will send out cash money to your PayPal account.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 01:35 PM
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My take: She is now a whore precisely because she was raped. The sexual desire is not her fault, but at the same time she is damaged goods. Her only fault would be being too weak to control the urge. Exactly. It's clear that, whatever her past, she's responsible for dealing with it. Humping 25 different people and getting black out drunk isn't exactly a healthy way of "dealing with it". If it's gone that far, she's not going to get right with you around. Ideally, she needs space to herself to wo…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 01:32 PM
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I get that homegirl ain't shit for this. 25 people over 3 years is waaaay past the forgiveness line. I'm not a jealous dude, but that's beyond disrespect. That said, if you read in between the lines, the dude is far from a saint either. It's clear from what he said that he suspected something was up from several years back. It's one thing to just flat accept it. It's another to figure out how to get your assets together and figure out how to raise your child alone. Securing assets and reworking …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 12:06 PM
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Yeah. 25 people in 3 years works out to roughly one every SIX WEEKS. In other words, this wasn't even a case of "well, it was just once". This was just what she did. Wake up, shower, put baby down for nap, commit adultery. It's a miracle that his dick is still in one shape. Call me crazy, but someone cheating that much isn't exactly asking for protection with every encounter. Run, Forrest, RUN!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 11:50 AM
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I think it's of a piece with big anti-gay activists being closet cases. If someone goes so hard in the paint about being anti-something-or-other it's because 1) it gets their motor running and 2) admitting that would mean being cut off from whatever social circle they've affiliated themselves with. In a way, I'm far from surprised that they're that kinky. The old saying about a thin line between love and hate is the truth.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 06:20 PM
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That second link is classic. I do have a question though for the regs, since I am on serious noob status. How do you deal with people who have taken the Red Pill and want to throw it back up?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 07:27 PM
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Excellent example there. I don't care what way you take your politics, but the attack ads practically write themselves. It's one of those things that just isn't a good look.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 12:40 PM
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