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Welcome to women. The vast majority refuse to even open their wallet and pay a single cent to spend time with a man. Even if they are getting free dinner / drinks! Women, you should be ashamed of this.
/r/seduction25/07/26 02:57 AM
0

Legal prostitution
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:17 AM
1

This is a dumb post, because there’s not enough info. You might have a 10/10 face versus his 4/10 face. He might be chubby while you are fit. He might be a less desirable race for some women. You might have a quiet confidence while he comes across as desperate. Yes height is one factor, among many.
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:42 PM
-3

Give it a shot
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:44 PM
2

In your opinion, does alcohol usually just create “temporary attraction” that disappears the next day NO or does it more often amplify feelings that were already there? YES Edit - it does not AMPLIFY feelings, it just remove inhibition so the feelings get exposed without being filtered or held back
/r/seduction12/05/26 06:00 PM
59

This issue is that women have been getting more and more unreceptive to public approaches, more fearful of men, and just in general less friendly. They are on the dating apps getting their inbox blow up by desperate dudes and playboys, and see no reason to meet men in real life.
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:04 PM
8

One year is basically the exact limit when women ended all my FWB relationships unless I committed to them
/r/seduction02/05/26 07:20 PM
27

She gonna ultimatum you soon
/r/seduction02/05/26 07:04 PM
1

I think she has a bf
/r/seduction22/04/26 05:20 PM
0

And, in fact, I do know how to do the statistics.
/r/seduction18/04/26 10:02 PM
0

The evolutionary psychologists and biologists actually agree with me, and those are the ones that know how to do proper statistics, not the social scientists who claim gender is a social construct.
/r/seduction18/04/26 10:00 PM
0

You really were brainwashed by the universities I guess
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:52 PM
0

Have you seen the mating patterns of gay men vs lesbians ? Bro get a clue
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:06 AM
0

Mating patterns for one
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:49 AM
4

Is my Johnson real?
/r/seduction18/04/26 01:04 AM
2

No -- when I have sex it's very real !
/r/seduction17/04/26 10:28 PM
8

Gender is a social construct, there are no significant biological differences between the sexes in terms of instinct or brain wiring. Yeah right -- complete horseshit taught by modern universities.
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:06 PM
2

Ignore her, get new a$$
/r/seduction16/04/26 06:46 AM
7

Dude you’re creepy AF she’s out of your league
/r/seduction09/04/26 01:15 PM
1

Not common
/r/seduction08/04/26 07:26 AM
66

Thanks Dr. Einstein. What is your point.
/r/seduction01/04/26 08:46 AM
1

I'm older than you, but why does that matter
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:30 PM
5

Wow I worry for the younger generation
/r/seduction31/03/26 05:54 AM
3

Welcome to the real world, other guys are gonna hit on your gf, either you trust her to not date them or you don't trust her. If you don't trust her, yeah get a new gf. Basically all straight guys are "cheesy" with attractive girls on texts, and they are only texting for one reason. Yes, they are trying to get her. If you want to prevent cheesy text from guys, you would have to ban her from all friendships and texts with guys, which is kinda too extreme IMO.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:51 PM
3

It feels very childish arguing and breaking up over who follows who on a social media app or who views what reels. Why does it even matter in the first place. But if you fundamentally don't trust her, find someone new.
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:34 PM
2

I refuse to read this run on sentence
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:38 AM
1

Does a DUI count
/r/seduction28/02/26 09:23 PM
1

That's gonna sound like you are hiding something
/r/seduction28/02/26 09:22 PM
17

They might just want to see your pics and social proof and proof you are not a loser
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:58 AM
2

Yeah around 100 of them
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:51 PM
172

Join some bullshit fitness / yoga class or cooking class or art / pottery class, or hit a wine bar. Talk to some average looking chicks.
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:44 PM
2

I don't even check in with my boss daily
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:18 PM
29

You are getting downvoted to hell, but what you are saying is basically correct. Since they live on their phones, if you don't at least give them A LITTLE attention on their phone, they will seek that attention from some other dude. That doesn't mean you don't push to meet in person... you have to do both (without seeming desperate at all). It's a balancing act like everything.
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:17 PM
1

I often ask my self that same question. I think some women really will not leave a man they have identified as "the one" almost no matter what. At least for a while, while they are in denial. I think because women are so obsessed with marrying "the one", they can't fathom that some men just enjoy variety. It's a tale as old as time. I know this sounds sexist, but most women just cannot relate to how most men think. It's why gay marriages have a way lower divorce rate than lesbian couples or stra…
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:15 PM
3

I guess I had innate game. Now I'm a bit too old to consistently get the type of girls I did before :(. But occasionally I do. But feels 10x harder now. Edit: but I also don't put nearly as much effort as I used to. I need to get back on the saddle again!
/r/seduction10/02/26 12:05 AM
11

To be honest, neither one broke up with me. But one was mad at me for months.
/r/seduction09/02/26 08:42 PM
10

Long time ago, I was crossing the street at a crosswalk downtown, holding hands with one gf, when my other gf was driving her car reached that point at the exact same moment, and stopped at the crosswalk to let us pass. (She was on the way to my house.) Then she jumped out of the car screaming. I had to leave the one I was holding hands with and get in the car with the screaming one. They didn’t know about each other. But then both stayed with me after that. Women are weird. Years before that, I…
/r/seduction09/02/26 08:56 AM
137

In my younger years I once had 3 gfs. Not casual hookups, but actual gfs, or they thought they were. Until they found out about each other when I was hospitalized. Two showed up. The old guy I was sharing my hospital room was cracking up. It was very entertaining to him. I was actually stressed out.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:30 AM
1

Hang out with women and see where it goes. Date as many as possible. Don't have any expectations. They can sense when you are not desperate and they only want men that have options and don't give a f*ck.
/r/seduction31/01/26 02:50 AM
1

This is what I call "effective mentorship" !!!
/r/seduction26/01/26 05:23 AM
31

It’s gonna happen again
/r/seduction17/01/26 07:26 PM
6

Why do you need us to tell you what to do. If you wanna be free be free. If you wanna be safe be safe.
/r/seduction05/01/26 12:57 AM
1

Well a couple girls in the past actually did dump their bfs for me. But they didn't do it by me explicitly telling them "I wan to be your bf", that is sort of understood. It doesn't need to be said. If it's said, it puts too much pressure on them. It's equivalent to a woman telling us they are looking for a husband. We know they probably are but we don't like hearing that. Why does everything have to be spelled out.
/r/seduction31/12/25 10:20 PM
1

How would it ever work in this case to tell her what I want, after she said she would meet me only IF I don’t have romantic expectations now (since she has had a bf). What will it get me to tell her I DO have romantic intentions. It will only get me blocked or ignored. It’s all a game.
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:29 AM
1

Oh trust me I would never focus on her to the exclusion of others. Will just chat with her casually and see if she is single one day. But I would NEVER be honest about my intentions and tell her now “hey I think you are cute and want to date you”, she will just run away. That’s not gonna work.
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:06 AM
2

Good advice. Check out this DIRECT copy/paste of our chat: _________ Me: Can I buy you a drink or dinner ? Her: You may but I hope this isn’t a romantic advance. Me: No it’s not romantic Me: Why would you be worried about that Her: Because it’s a common problem for me Me: So you are not interested in men ? Her: Haha I’m interested in people with more than 2 brain cells Me: Guessing you have a bf ? Her: I do have a bf _____ To be honest it semi-pissed me off when she said "it's a common problem f…
/r/seduction31/12/25 12:48 AM
3

"It’s also possible that she does have a boyfriend, but is interested in you & want to get to know you in case she breaks up with him." Yup I had a lady do this to me recently recently. She "hit" on me in a bar (meaning walked up to me and opened a conversation), talked with me for a while, then asked for my Instagram. Then we chatted on Instgram and I asked her to meet. She said she would meet me but told me not to expect anything romantic. So I sensed she had a bf and asked her, and she said "…
/r/seduction30/12/25 10:27 PM
65

Just because you can't doesn't mean no men can.
/r/seduction27/12/25 06:21 AM
1

How come the hot ones never sick duck ...
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:47 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:19 PM
90

I'm pretty sure it is way better. The confidence you would get from b*nging that many different women is insane. And the experience of working closely with them would put you more in touch with out how women really think and feel. You would just feel comfortable and confident with women having done so much with them, and that comfort / confidence can be detected.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:30 PM
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It is close to impossible to keep a long term female friends with benefits. They always develop feelings or want to move on to a guy who is more "serious". I'm pretty certain gay dudes have tons of long term friends with benefits though.
/r/seduction03/02/25 02:55 AM
3

Pick Up Artist
/r/seduction01/02/25 10:41 PM
1

young
/r/seduction01/02/25 09:10 PM
5

I've wondered this, because I've never really been to therapy, but I have a guess that most therapists would strongly condemn you if you have "seduction" or "polyamory" lifestyle, they would treat it as something akin to a drug addiction. Well maybe condemn is not the right word, but they would approach it as something you need to work on. What about people that just really love being poly and are happy that way?
/r/seduction01/02/25 12:57 AM
8

Who would have thought that drinking a lot leads to alcohol addiction ;---)
/r/seduction01/02/25 12:55 AM
2

She sounds awesome!
/r/seduction01/02/25 12:54 AM
1

Your age?
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:35 PM
19

Ask her if her mom is hot
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:41 PM
1

I chatted with them and then sensed something. Then I asked them to hang out. They were both 20. First one was 17 years younger than me, 2nd one was 19-20 years younger than me. And no they did not know each other. For the 1st one, we had like a 2 month relationship, then she broke up with me at the end of the internship. I actually liked her a lot and wanted to continue. But also she was moving back to her college/home 3000 miles away. For the 2nd one, it was a dinner date, then sex. But no rel…
/r/seduction12/01/25 08:16 PM
0

I'm telling you how SOME women think. They have even told me they think like this. You kids in this subreddit do not have much real world experience.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:07 AM
0

Do you think I ever dropped my net worth to a woman? No. Even my gf who lives with me doesn't know it.
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:17 AM
-1

You know what, this did actually happen to me recently, After a picked up a chick in a 23 year old car. She used this line. She's an obvious gold digger. But she doesn't know I have a multi-million dollar net worth and I just don't care about driving expensive cars. But that's good, it was a test of sorts, and she failed.
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:12 AM
-2

This no longer happens since I make good money now. When I was younger it did. Trust me if a chick has a great time and great sex and then says they don't see "a future", this is always the reason.
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:06 AM
0

When women have a good time and good sex and then say this, it means they are seeking a man with a bigger bank account. She’s shallow. Move on and get new ass.
/r/seduction07/01/25 04:49 AM
1

That's how you learn. Totally normal.
/r/seduction06/01/25 11:47 PM
3

Slept with two (over 18) interns at one company. Coincidentally they grew up in the same city in northern China. Was amazing. Didn't get in trouble and I was not their manager so it was not even against the rules.
/r/seduction06/01/25 11:15 PM
6

For the most part, it backfires
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:03 PM
2

Yup, keep it simple and casual
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:43 AM
0

Do you use software filters? I AM AGAINST THAT. I have met multiple women (like a dozen or more) that are literally 4+ points lower in real life. Like an 8 in pics and 4 in real life or a 7 in pics and 3 in real life. COMPLETELY FAKE pics due to the amount of “beauty filter.” They were basically unrecognizable as the same person. And then some others look as good or better in real life. But the majority do not. They are wasting every guy’s time who trusted those pics as a representation of who t…
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:52 PM
13

This is fake
/r/seduction04/10/24 05:25 PM
2

I respond with "No".
/r/seduction29/09/24 06:58 PM
4

It’s more
/r/seduction11/09/23 01:32 AM
1

You are right dude, 30s women who have never been married are the absolute worst to date. Heavy pressure to get married and have kids ASAP. Every day that ticks by without them either getting married or getting engaged is an eternity to them. They are singularly focused and don’t even care that much who the guy is, as long as he’s “serious” (and has a good job). I’ve seen 8s that I broke up with marry 2s because the guy was “serious” (and I was not). 20s and 40s is the way to go.
/r/seduction22/08/23 08:38 PM
6

You would be very shocked to know how many girls in their 20s like men in their 40s. And sometimes they can’t even judge or guess our age as you said.
/r/seduction21/08/23 07:32 PM
2

She texted you “hey you should have come with”? typo?
/r/seduction02/07/23 05:00 PM
2

One success? No, it’s not a success unless 1. It’s a real number 2. She replies 3. She goes out with you 4. You hook up. Giving out a number has a low probability of all 4 of those happening.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:32 AM
2

Evolution.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:24 PM
1

Is photoshop / filtering a lie? Because I think it is.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:00 PM
3

Oh yeah because pics are always very accurate !
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:25 PM
1

They know
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:31 AM
2

I had a few relationships this year and realized I am a one night stand guy
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:55 PM
7

Do a video recording?? Oh yeah that’s gonna go over real well with your employer and community. Men who enjoy casual sex with women are absolutely vilified in this modern “woke” society even though promiscuity is common and accepted in the gay community.
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:32 AM
1

It is not impossible if you are at the top of the food chain. While I can’t pull 56 in a year in the US, I can pull 3-5 a week in certain other countries. Regular girls, not paid.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:10 AM
5

"Do you want to meet Lucky?" works for me. Lucky is my cat. After that, I almost always get lucky.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:05 PM
4

Happens all the time. It's because she tried out other d*ck and either didn't like it, or he ran away. Most likely the former.
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:37 AM
3

She's not your gf, why do you care if she flakes once. Shit happens. She's asking to meet so meet her. If she flakes too many times it's not worth your time, but it's also a big overreaction to ghost or block her from one flake.
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:41 AM
10

I got news for you, it's not always easy with Thais. And there is something known as hormonal therapy, surgery, etc!
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:27 PM
3

Is it that hard to figure out? He never wanted to be your friend from day one. He wanted your body (and perhaps also love/romance) not your friendship. Case closed.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:30 PM
1

Went for a kiss too soon
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:42 PM
1

YES
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:44 AM
12

If you're having casual sex, I would hope you are physically attracted to them... or how are you gonna enjoy it or get it up?
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:42 AM
53

Over a decade ago I had this go to spot for internet dating, a Vietnamese fusion restaurant. The old man who owned it called me a “playboy” (in an envious way) because I had a new girl there like every week. But I didn’t sleep (or have a second date) with like 90% of them, although in his mind I was sleeping with 100%. He didn’t know the dynamics of online dating.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:42 PM
1

Hey I strongly agree with your unpopular opinion
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:09 PM
1

When I said "that doesn't happen" it was a figure of speech, meaning it's rare. Anything can happen in rare cases.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:13 PM
1

Yes, it does happen in a small percentage of the cases. So what? I already admitted that. It's generally not the case when you see an attractive girl dressed up at a fancy restaurant who is HIDING her companion(s) that she is with her girlfriends or brother, like 95%+ of the cases.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:08 PM
0

That's really absurd. For example, I know that men are taller and physically stronger on average than women. But I don't know every man and woman in the world, so I guess I can't KNOW THIS?
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:38 AM
0

Oh god, are you one of the people who thinks you need the COMPLETE DATA SET to make any (statistical) conclusions. You can never get the COMPLETE DATA SET in any field or any study. So I guess we can therefore know nothing.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:37 AM
0

They are not USUALLY going to fancy places with a brother/cousin/female friend. I KNOW THIS from experience.
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:56 PM
-1

They are NOT going to fancy places with a brother/cousin …
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:28 PM
31

That’s the worst …
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:26 PM
3

The question is stupid but so is this answer. If she cared that much about privacy she wouldn’t post 10 times a day for thousands of strangers to see her every move (minus a pic of the guy).
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:26 PM
21

You're way over thinking it. The fact she didn't respond right away means NOTHING, how you can conclude she is "hiding her baby so you won't judge her" escapes me. Date her casually and don't commit if you don't want to deal with her baby. Just don't get her pregnant again.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:27 AM
-1

Have your fun with single moms but don't get them pregnant again. Don't make any promises about long term but also don't tell her you are in it just for the casual sex. You're not gonna get these ladies if you tell them their kid is a deal breaker for you long term.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:25 AM
1

Sounds good how do I learn to perform this on women ? :-D
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:19 AM
1

Well spoken!!! I was dating this 6 out of 10 who was a very sweet girl. After we broke up, she got into doing her makeup / lighting / filgerting in a way to make her look like an Instrgram model. She's able to make herself literally look like a 10 on Instgram. Believe me, she's not even close to that in real life. It's absurdly fake.
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:16 PM
1

You're posting this as a "field report" in Seduction subreddit and have no romantic or sexual attraction to her? Either you are lying or ... why the hell post here?
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:13 PM
1

Then are you insane, why do you care what she thinks of you. It’s not like you are best or even super close friends either.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:37 AM
0

Friendzoned
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:11 AM
1

Oh come on, I use dating apps and 99% of profiles are women seeking "serious relationships". It's the exception not the rule if a woman is seeking casual sex and has no desire to get into a serious relationships. The genders are different, on average, and it's not sexist to say that. I know women dump fuck boys but that is because they are generally looking for the one to settle down with (most women). Again this is just the majority, not an absolute statement. Data backs of the fact that the ge…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:13 PM
1

I would not say they are all top 10%, above average for sure.
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:05 PM
1

Perhaps but he will knock up the 8 before she cheats on him and dumps him, and he’ll still have to pay for her and the kid. So his seed won’t die off… but was it really worth it?
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:05 AM
3

They aren’t all being “used” if they also wanted a wife and kids. They struck gold and got lucky to get an 8 if that’s the case. Most of their friends are stuck married to 3s and 4s.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:55 AM
0

Was dating an 8 a couple years back. After a bunch of dates and her pressuring me to meet her parents (before we even slept together), I stopped talking to her. She wanted marriage/kids ASAP. Now she just married a 3 and already pregnant. Facebook is full of pics of them together. Looks like beauty and the beast. He looks so happy to have “gotten” this chick way out of his league. And she’s so happy to have finally trapped a guy who will pay for her dream. He can have her, she was annoying.
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:58 AM
1

You’re right
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:53 AM
0

Where are you getting that everyone or most people end in a relationship? Players keep playing or they have a never ending string of 6 month “relationships”.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:39 AM
7

And there’s a reason why I see many 8 girls on the streets in a serious relationship with a 4 or less. She was pumped and dumped by many 8-10 guys but those guys are like all guys, they want a variety of sex (and unlike most guys they can get it). The 4 is the one that will latch onto her and never let go so she “ends up” with him. She’s not gonna leave the 4 who is willing to sign the dotted line and give her a family (assuming he has a good job), because she failed so miserably all those previ…
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:03 AM
3

You’re on to something but it’s a lot more complex than that. Average (or even below average) looking guys who have charm / personality / confidence / success / patience can get a 7 or 8 if he meets her in real life and if she wants a serious relationship (after she has been pumped and dumped by many top 10% players). But that 7 or 8 is not gonna click like on the average looking guy’s dating profile or go home with him after meeting him at a night club.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:57 AM
19

For causal sex yes. For “serious relationships” no.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:25 AM
0

Hookers?
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:50 PM
-5

Break up
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:39 PM
2

My feeling is that you came on a bit too strong and spent too long talking to her. Should have cut it shorter, played harder to get, and gotten the contact.
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:45 PM
2

Were you in there a long time??
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:42 PM
2

One lesson I learned the hard way is always get the contact info early into the conversation
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:40 PM
1

What the hell are you doing, why didn't you get her contact info. Sleeping with a woman the same night you meet a woman in a bar is rare.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:42 PM
34

Congrats man. This kind of transformation helps a man in every aspect of their life (not just dating and getting laid): work, social life, male friends, love, health, etc.
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:37 PM
-1

You are extremely clueless. She is very interested in you. Just ask her out.
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:03 AM
-3

You screwed up not getting the 40 year old’s number. Maybe you should pay her a visit again and bring some wine, off the clock.
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:35 PM
0

Yea happens all the time at bars and clubs
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:41 AM
1

The office. You can meet your future gf or wife there, but cold approach is kinda weird. I'm a guy and was cold approached at work, even was weird for me.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:51 AM
2

Very good post
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:08 AM
9

Ask her questions about her life and get her talking, try to find something in common, be enthusiastic. Be a party animal if you are in a party scene.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:41 PM
2

Don’t bring it up
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:47 PM
1

Might have been a dude
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:06 PM
1

She’s unattractive so finds it hard to get guys to F her. That’s how I would interpret all this. But yes she wants you.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:22 PM
9

Yeah and the ones who say they are nerds dropped out of a community college and work at Starbucks.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:29 PM
0

Trader Joe’s sucks or is average at best for fresh (real) food
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:25 PM
22

Nothing has changed
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:24 PM
2

I would ask out the friend and not bring up the girl you hooked up with unless she asks. In terms of her wanting you more because you f'ed her friend, I seriously doubt that. But it might not be a deal breaker.
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:45 PM
3

Anyway she’s not hot enough if she had multiple cuter friends
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:01 AM
42

Great move
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:01 AM
4

You should have hit on her hotter friends. Anyway, that’s what I would have done.
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:00 AM
1

She's DTF
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:06 AM
14

It's not more "dangerous" for her if her intention is to get knocked up and milk this guy for 18 years
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:31 PM
1

She has a bf. Dude get some new ass.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:47 AM
4

Met a cutie today from an app and she’s into me. 14 years younger. But overall it’s dry in terms of getting them to actually meet (or even chat). Matches (likes) are easy to get as you said.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:36 AM
2

You’re correct
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:35 AM
2

Uh no, she doesn’t care about the social aspects, I actually do have a 28 year old gf and I’m 47.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:27 AM
4

So it’s not “culturally approved” for a 40+ year old man to date a 20-29 year old woman? Then fuck off culture. I really could care less. People who sit around and worry about cultural approval are LOSERS.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:12 AM
3

Just let them do the talking. They will talk all night. Nod your head and agree.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:15 AM
3

Are you 12?
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:51 PM
1

There are lies and there are LIES. Asking what the best drinks are at a particular bar in order to start a conversation is like the most harmless lie in history.
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:54 AM
1

Those girls don’t typically vacation in USA
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:21 AM
1

They are trying to get “imported”
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:21 AM
2

Totally agree with talking to other guys first, be social in general, and the ladies will notice. Do not offer them a drink. Ask them dumb questions, one time a girl ended up falling in love with me after asking her at a bar "Where did you buy those glasses?" (I don't even wear glasses.)
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:31 AM
1

"I told you I was not interested..." in a text, that's 100% real rejection. A girl coming to your house at 1 am after a night of drinking and saying "we're not gonna fuck, ok?" That's fake rejection, sex happens every time in that case.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:43 PM
11

Who is upvoting this crap
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:00 AM
3

How come you are representing yourself as 38F in other posts, are you both female? .... Confused.
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:13 AM
1

If you are tall and white you will score
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:07 AM
0

Yes, they do. And sometimes 18-24 do as well. Source: me. Also, why would you extend the range up to 35? Are you kidding, 35 year old women typically PREFER men over 40. A 5-10 year gap is nothing.
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:03 PM
1

Who said you have to be honest, you can feign ignorance. The point is it doesn’t matter what you say in your opening, it’s how you deliver it. Deliver it causally but with utmost confidence.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:56 PM
1

Wait you are a westerner in Japan? You literally don't have to use pick up lines. Ask them what are the most popular drinks, say that since you are American, so you don't know what people drink at clubs in Japan and don't know the names of the drinks. Then go from there and make some observational humor and ask some questions.
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:45 PM
3

You just need more repetitions. Eventually the confidence you have at work will make its way to the clubs and to the 1:1 interactions. Just keep doing it. Over, and over, and over.
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:39 PM
0

You have edited your comment 3 times, any more edits? No, I'm not an incel. I'm in my 40s and date women in their 20s and early to mid 30s. I've dated 100s of women. You can call me a liar or whatever but feel free to go fuck yourself.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:59 PM
0

Get help for what? Ok, internet therapist! I’ll get help because some stranger on Reddit thinks I should! Get a life!
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:54 PM
0

Wishing? I've seen it happen before my very own eyes.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:44 PM
-2

Wait until they hit age 45 and have zero matches, but we're still going strong.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:01 PM
4

His country, among the most powerful in the world, has entrusted him with top secret clearance, and this gives him both credibility and power in the eyes of women. He's armed, dangerous, booming with confidence, and unafraid of anything. He exudes male sexuality. He's witty and has a wry, dry sense of humor. Ironically, women feel safe with him even though he's capable of killing another man with barely a second thought. He's overall quiet and mysterious, but brilliant in social situations and k…
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:23 PM
10

DTB. Dump That B****
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:01 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:12 PM
1

It's a boring conversation, so she ghosted, she has 50 other guys texting her and is not gonna make a long effort to explain to you what she does for fun
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:22 PM
1

Casual sex, she's not gf material
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:21 AM
1

You might want to tweak your game to do more of an "observational" conversation or observational humor so they don't know they are being hit on, like ask them a question, casually comment or joke about something you see, etc.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:31 PM
1

This is ridiculous, you met on Twitter, which is supposed to be for getting laid, you got laid, you had fun, now move on if she is ignoring you.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:48 AM
1

Yes. 100%
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:16 PM
8

That's not how women's brains work dude... they can't even fathom saying this. I 100% agree it would work but almost no woman will do this.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:44 AM
1

Hey judgemental redditors, assuming this is real, are you that shocked that some older men date way younger women? I've seen this first hand. Some (a small minority) of women in their early 20s actively seek men 2x or more times their age and it's for sexual reasons not financial. I've dated them and didn't pay them a penny or buy them a single gift. A lot of times there wasn't even a date.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:43 AM
2

I was that guy. Mostly because he’s charismatic, funny, good at sex, and gives them little to no attention except during the rare time he is actually with them. It’s what every woman actually wants without knowing they want it.
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:45 PM
8

Do you know how many women have slept with me and fallen in love after a cold approach? You’re delusional if you think it never works. Most approaches are cold, the chances of being introduced to a beautiful single woman by friends are slim and now we’re discouraged from sleeping with co-workers.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:04 AM
8

This is really bad. Really, really bad. Talk to her in real life and if it goes well ask her if she wants to go have coffee or happy hour.
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:54 AM
1

I never got accused bro, I’m not the op
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:05 PM
5

How about this, next time a man is accused of drunk sex with a woman who cannot consent, why can't he just say he was black out drunk too, so he did not consent, so she raped him as well? They both raped each other. Yeah, like that would work. Biased courts only believe a man can rape.
/r/seduction08/04/22 10:35 AM
3

Source?
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:06 AM
24

They pretty much never get in trouble for falsely accusing
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:16 AM
439

Man I’m gonna record a chick giving consent on video next time I smash. Is that valid in court?
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:15 AM
1

I'm gonna assume it never happened then! :-(
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:56 PM
4

Sorry op, awww is a no with 97% probability. Ignore her for a few weeks and she if she misses the attention and asks you out. You are being way too nice to her.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:11 AM
1

Update? Did it happen? How was it?
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:51 PM
2

99.2%
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:52 AM
30

Place your hands on her hips, grind, and kiss the neck
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:59 PM
2

Hey man I am giving you a compliment! She wants to smash! Give us an update after it happens.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:18 PM
-5

Bro you are clueless. She was likely drunk when she sent it but wants your D so badly that she’s gonna almost do damage to it.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:18 PM
1

That would have pissed me off big time
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:15 PM
1

Imagine in your head how she'll look in 50 years. She'll be wishing she could go back in time and get attention from guys like you.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:20 PM
6

Pretend she’s a dude. Pretend she’s ugly. Pretend she’s 80. Just don’t for a second think about her hotness.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:02 AM
1

Fuck man… you need serious help
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:56 AM
69

Welcome to the wonderful world of women
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:04 AM
3

Yeah man he clearly wants side ass with his ex gf so posted this ridiculous question to give himself an excuse to meet her.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:58 PM
2

Unless you are trying to bang her (not saying you should) then what value does she add to your life now?
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:57 PM
-2

Actually if you always pull out, you’ll never have to get married
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:36 PM
17

She’s keeping eye contact with you because your sorry ass might drown while trying to float
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:12 AM
19

She’s also laughing at him inside that he’s a grown adult and can’t float while she’s a near pro swimmer
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:46 AM
259

What an imagination… she literally did her job and you take it as she’s in love and DTF…
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:39 AM
3

Try other apps, Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:26 PM
0

Alcohol
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:13 AM
1

Yes. Although happened more in my 30s than in my 20s or 40s.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:38 AM
10

Run like hell. You are talking to a man.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:55 PM
1

Trust me, 10s are not lonely. She has a bf and if not, 9 backup friendzoned dudes in her batting order waiting for a chance to hit.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:34 PM
0

To be honest, maybe it's better to try for the 6s, 7s, and 8s.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:20 AM
2

Since when is asking someone out at their work always bad (assuming they hopefully gave you some sort of hints)? What idiot(s) even said it's bad? I'm angry that our society has come to this notion that any sort of flirtation by men is bad or toxic. So if we can't do a cold approach, can't flirt with women while they are working, can't flirt with women at our own work, where does that leaves us? Dating apps and night clubs? They suck. Ignore whoever tells you that you can't be a man and approach…
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:50 PM
1

Just once in your life?
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:15 AM
26

But they don't want to admit it or be told by a guy that he is only looking for sex.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:16 PM
1

Good luck with that... it sounds noble but doesn't work.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:16 PM
13

Nice pull and I sent it to my 5'7" friend who is convinced that no chick will go for him because he's not 6'4" or whatever. He's a complete idiot for thinking that.
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:14 AM
1

Beware scammers are elite lately. They will chat for weeks/months before asking.
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:27 AM
1

I hate to be a negative nelly but this really sounds like scammers to me unless you personally know them or chatted on video chat, be careful of these fake accounts
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:46 AM
3

Ok I hope you did a video chat
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:09 PM
7

That’s great but are you dating or banging any? Or just friendzoned?
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:03 PM
1

Yeah man she likes you.
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:03 AM
11

That would be hilarious to smash with a mask on and no rubber
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:02 AM
4

Yeah, just don't do it if you are in love with her. Don't even contemplate it.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:52 PM
3

You have to approach them in a way that they have no idea at first that it’s an approach. Ask an innocent question. Then keep the conversation going if she wants to.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:42 AM
2

You can’t fake confidence
/r/seduction30/12/21 07:22 AM
2

You are 100% right dude. His chances are less than 50% but they are higher than 10%. It's not time to give up yet. Women are always busy during their time off, ironically.
/r/seduction30/12/21 12:12 AM
2

Yeah but notice her reason for not meeting him this week, to hang out with friends. If she really wanted to reject or was not single, she would have said she is busy with her boyfriend, would have flat out ignored him, or would have not mentioned "maybe another time".
/r/seduction30/12/21 12:11 AM
4

She is 100% never going to text you again. But if you ask her one more time after the break, your odds are 20% or so, still low but not 0.
/r/seduction30/12/21 12:06 AM
5

Don't agree. Hot women are busy and often don't reply for hours. Also they don't reschedule, they wait for the guy to take the initiative on this. Learned this over many many years. Op may or may not have been rejected, he needs to try one more time. Chances are less than 20%, but still worth it.
/r/seduction30/12/21 12:06 AM
1

I'm gonna contradict what the vast majority of others will say, but I say don't give up, ask her one more time after she "sees her friends" over the break. If that's a rejection, then F it, you did your best.
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:35 PM
5

Hey to be honest I would not give up yet. She might be legitimately busy this week with friends, at least try one more time in a week or two before giving up. Women just give a much higher priority to their female friends that we do to our male friends. We would 100% rather date a hot chick than hang out with our buddies. For them they favor their friends over a guy they don't know yet. It's infuriating but true. Once they are in love with a guy, however, they completely ditch their friends. But…
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:31 PM
4

A "modern way" huh? I do meet them. And when they don't look the same as their pics, I don't meet them again. But that ends up being a colossal waste of time (and money). It's a real issue for men who use these apps, not an imaginary one. Since you're not a man, but are instead a female and a social justice warrior, you wouldn't know.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:57 AM
-4

Why the hell do you use them?
/r/seduction29/12/21 01:42 AM
-9

Agree with you, it's not even close to true. Candian-Seductioner might have gotten lucky because of small sample size. Or he's really good at getting their IG and evaluating there. I've met (and dated) women in real life that I first met on Facebook, and all were pretty much as good looking as their pics, and on average way better than the ones from dating apps.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:46 AM
8

That’s a shit ton of wasted time
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:36 PM
5

Read again. Do you know the definition of “it’s the exception to the rule when…” By definition that means there are exceptions.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:01 PM
7

Good job! We demand an update after the date. Women met in real life are so much better looking on average than dating apps.
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:32 PM
3

Ignore it. They love to be approached by high value men.
/r/seduction18/12/21 09:07 AM
1

Hi Bambi, will you be my Bimbo?
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:44 PM
15

Her recent posts say 18f but her account is only 2 hours old. Maybe fake account.
/r/seduction16/12/21 05:56 PM
3

I'm a fuck boy too who has had way too many women over the past 25 years. Met a girl on Saturday at a bar (much younger than me) and I fell in love after 5 mins. But she gave me a fake phone number (or was too drunk to type the correct number). Back to being a fuck boy.
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:43 AM
0

It's not shitty to have a preference. For men who prefer fat chicks, would you say they are shitty to skinny chicks?
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:18 AM
0

Or a simple "yes" / "no" setting would suffice. If you can build complex ML, you can add a boolean variable.
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:05 AM
5

I lived the first 40 or so years of my life thinking I would never "finish" from head. Until a fat chick did it properly (multiple times). And since then no one else has done it like her.
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:04 AM
1

They know how to eat.
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:08 PM
2

For folks who prefer fat chicks, the AI would benefit them as well!
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:08 PM
1

I like your way of thinking
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:07 PM
7

Why are you over thinking this? Ask her to hang out again. Do sex again if the mood is right, if not don't do sex. End of story. Stop overthinking.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:28 AM
46

Bro I’ve asked out a few (not many) servers / hostesses / cafe workers and more than half said yes, and half of those lead to romance / sex. I’m not a 10 or even close to it. If you sense a vibe go for it.
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:48 AM
2

Do not ask her for casual sex. 95% of girls are not down with that (especially when it's asked for). Flirt and make a move and see what happens. Go with the flow. If sex happens, and you don't want to continue with developing it into a serious relationship, that's ok, you never made any promises.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:00 PM
1

No
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:28 PM
11

Yes it happens. But the ones who do it are rarely if ever attractive.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:11 PM
1

Sounds like a scam
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:08 AM
1

Any update?
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:24 PM
3

Fancy hotel bars, nice wine bars, etc
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:37 AM
15

Don’t reciprocate. Op should keep it casual on his end for now.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:55 PM
1

You’re an idiot bro
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:19 PM
0

In mouth or breakup after
/r/seduction24/07/21 09:48 PM
2

Good luck. If you’re not violating company policy, ignore the paranoid redditors who say this is a terrible idea. These folks probably never had the balls to do it so they need to justify all the relationships / sex they missed out on. Please post an update.
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:39 PM
1

And once they find out you’re not gay, they probably like your attention to fashion.
/r/seduction26/06/21 08:02 PM
-4

No, it does not.
/r/seduction24/06/21 12:37 PM
6

Also recently slept with a 19 year old, and no she is not a sugar baby. Didn’t buy her a single thing, not even dinner. We met online months ago, and apparently she prefers older guys. Am I sick? Maybe. Do I care? No. 18+ is fine with me! So is 40+. It’s all good if she’s pretty, nice, and likes me.
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:16 AM
6

46/m. Went to an Alcoholics Anoymous meeting to try and address my binge drinking and partying and try to quit entirely. All meetings are currently on Zoom. A cute 24/f spoke on camera, and then I spoke on camera. Our stories were similar. I private messaged her on Zoom during the meeting and talked more about my drinking issues. She offered her phone #, I gave her mine. She SMS'ed me immediately after the meeting. After about 30 mins of chatting on SMS, she asked me out. We are meeting soon. Sh…
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:01 AM
2

“So far, I have not had any success. Most girls I talked to online were looking for boyfriends.” That’s your issue. Never tell a girl you are not looking to get serious (or are looking to get serious). Just meet them and go with the flow. If you guys sleep together and you don’t want to continue seeing her, no big deal, you made no promises.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:45 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:52 AM
6

I recently met a nice women who is in an open marriage. This was before vaccinations were available in our age groups. She was completely paranoid about leaving the house for fear of catching and dying of COVID. But then she hooked up with an almost stranger with no "precautions" taken (me). Very strange sense of risk evaluation. I'm not saying it was smart of me to hook up without precaution, I'm just saying that she is a bit crazy to be paranoid of dying of COVID (given that she is relatively …
/r/seduction05/05/21 10:32 PM
2

I thought about asking out the cute nurse who injected me. I felt she was flirting and asking me a lot of questions. Maybe just my imagination though.
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:48 PM
30

She’s getting an injection of mRNA… hopefully followed by an injection of good old DNA.
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:57 PM
4

Low self-value, fishing for compliments, and urging you to move fast and pick her because she has backup. I don’t like it. But try to ignore it and move fast.
/r/seduction19/01/21 12:15 PM
3

Yeah it goes both ways. Women often ditch men for someone they like more during the dating phase. Has happened to me. And I’ve broke many hearts as well. It’s equitable. Women stop acting like privileged princesses who are always victimized by callous men. You think nothing of dumping us when something “better” comes along.
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:16 AM
2

We’re on the same page dude
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:03 AM
1

I haven’t mentioned me, lol, but that’s either very perceptive of you or very presumptuous of you to assume this is about me. I won’t say which.
/r/seduction10/01/21 09:43 PM
1

He hasn’t made promises to her. She hasn’t made promises to him. It’s an even, equitable dating relationship.
/r/seduction10/01/21 09:32 PM
5

If she never asks him what he’s looking for, why is it misleading for him to keep dating her? Why do women ASSUME that every man must want an LTR even if they don’t bother to ask? It’s very presumptuous. Ask if you wanna know. Otherwise it’s just dating.
/r/seduction10/01/21 09:29 PM
7

He said explicitly that he wants a long term relationship and marriage but eventually isn’t feeling that these women are right. (Separate from that, telling women ahead of time you don’t want a LTR cause 99% of women to immediately flee. So are men who don’t want a LTR supposed to live in isolation and misery?) But in his case he said he does want to find a LTR.
/r/seduction10/01/21 08:04 PM
1

Yes it’s happened to me over a dozen times
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:30 AM
11

Similar experiences for the most part. God it’s a royal pain in the ass convincing an attractive lady online to meet, but after meeting I close 80%.
/r/seduction07/07/20 05:33 PM
2

Just be assertive and text “Let’s hang out again soon, when are you free?”
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:36 AM
1

I don’t think you made her uncomfortable with that text. I think she’s a flake or disappeared for other reasons.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:34 AM
5

This post actually said nothing except be an alpha male
/r/seduction09/06/20 01:05 PM
1

Agree. F'ck em though, don't let it get to you. They are getting hit on by dozens or hundreds of men online so have become numb to it. Time will get its revenge.
/r/seduction23/05/20 02:11 AM
3

I love that!
/r/seduction13/03/20 02:59 PM
3

It’s solid advice to boil it down. But I’ve been in enough relationships to know I’m not deleting any hard earned numbers! Also some men prefer variety in their sex life. Don’t assume no one wants more than one woman.
/r/seduction04/03/20 04:44 AM
2

Tell me old wise one why I would ever bring my list of numbers down to one ...
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:07 PM
4

Only save one number?? And when it doesn't work out your phone is empty? You're an idealist and a novice.
/r/seduction03/03/20 04:46 PM
1

Congrats. Maybe try to change it from coffee to cocktails.
/r/seduction28/02/20 03:19 PM
1

Probably your tone...
/r/seduction16/01/20 12:44 AM
12

But traditionally hired guns means they were hired primarily because of their looks (hostess, stripper, go-go dancer, bartender at a trendy bar, etc.). Sandwich store girl is not exactly a hired gun. Not to shit on the op. I did ask out a really hot sandwich girl once and then we had a great 2+ year relationship. Just clarifying the traditional meaning.
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:53 AM
1

She’ll be completely unattractive in 30 years. Even if she’s a supermodel now, give her 30 years and she’ll hit the wall hard without fake up. Source: 54-year-old Czech supermodel Paulina Porizkova, https://www.instagram.com/p/B602pizBjyy/?igshid=1txzjukucit9t
/r/seduction08/01/20 06:53 PM
1

Just have it there and ignore it then. Don’t delete your account... that’s rash.
/r/seduction06/01/20 02:31 PM
1

Yes honey
/r/seduction04/01/20 09:23 PM
3

Generally no. Guys are clueless including me. You need to give me a big smile as well and a hi.
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:18 AM
2

You know what, Japanese Sea Urchin is a terrible food. I hate its taste. I feel so empty and worthless after eating it, and feel I wasted tons of time and money. It's awful. Oh by the way, I never had it before.
/r/seduction04/01/20 12:35 AM
2

Your statement proves that “creeps” are just men that women find unattractive. 😂
/r/seduction03/01/20 07:53 PM
1

Wait, it’s inappropriate in almost every case, unless you find the guy hot? How are we supposed to know you find us hot without trying? This is the definition of a Catch 22.
/r/seduction03/01/20 07:51 PM
2

Why do you even read /r/seduction then. You are completely against sex and seduction outside of some fairy tail arranged married type “true love.”
/r/seduction02/01/20 11:05 PM
4

I went on countless.
/r/seduction02/01/20 10:54 PM
2

Then you shouldn’t be certain that sex outside of a serious long term relationship is meaningless for men. You are essentially trusting the media or biased literature when you state this so confidently. It’s absurd, you have no way of knowing outside of what you read or saw in movies / TV. You need to get outside of this mindset.
/r/seduction02/01/20 10:52 PM
1

Are you speaking from experience? Have you had “meaningless” sex before?
/r/seduction02/01/20 10:25 PM
1

Men who are getting a lot of “meaningless” sex never almost never complain about their lives ... good sex is never meaningless and if you think that, you never had good sex IMO.
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:46 PM
1

He’s trying to have a relationship but they are dumping him for getting too clingy and overthinking everything. Ironically, if he just focused on the sex and stopped putting pressure in himself to start a lasting relationship, these girls would get turned on by his masculine detachment and fall for him.
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:29 PM
9

My issue with online dating is never matching / meeting girls above 5-6. And they never look as good as photos. In the real world I can meet 8s and 9s and be certain how they actually look. Sorry to be blatant but that’s the reality for me. These online dating ladies apply more filters to their faces than you would believe. Sometimes unrecognizable.
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:22 PM
1

But actually I think you need to try dating more than one at a time. That will get you out of your own head and not so worried about what one chicks thinks or doesn’t think about you. Your mindset will shift to that of bounty and surplus.
/r/seduction30/12/19 10:40 PM
1

If they are not orgasming during intercourse, you need to perfect some techniques with your tongue
/r/seduction30/12/19 10:16 PM
1

Are you doing a lot of sex? I’m not tying to be facetious... to establish a long lasting relationship you need to deliver tons of sex in the first few weeks, IMO. Don’t wait.
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:42 PM
1

More like I didn’t take the time to read that entire essay. Sue me! Either way he messed up, hopefully he learns from it.
/r/seduction26/12/19 07:20 AM
6

Then you take her phone and text yourself ...
/r/seduction25/12/19 07:44 PM
6

Always hand your phone to her with the screen open to dial her number. Women do not call / text first.
/r/seduction25/12/19 05:38 PM
1

Never. We are men. Act like a man.
/r/seduction24/12/19 02:14 AM
1

They make a pill for that ...
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:13 PM
1

Get more ass... that’s the only way
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:22 PM
1

Very possible
/r/seduction20/10/19 07:59 PM
1

Decent advice but doesn’t really apply to this situation. I had just met this 9+ when the huge lesbian stranger swooped in to protect her.
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:26 PM
2

Dude ...great advice
/r/seduction19/10/19 06:17 PM
1

Yeah this worries me more than the reaction of the girl, actually — I gotta get over it
/r/seduction19/10/19 05:33 PM
1

Don’t give up dude, you’ll see her again soon. Next time offer to buy her a cup of coffee or a smoothie for “returning” your keys (even though she didn’t).
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:23 AM
1

Any update?
/r/seduction13/10/19 10:02 PM
7

MILFs are like shooting fish in a barrel. Just be super aggressive. They know what you want and they know what they want. Go for the over 40s ones. Then it’s biologically unlikely you will be the next baby daddy.
/r/seduction10/10/19 01:18 AM
1

annnnnnd, you and the collective reddit mind were wrong, fortunately
/r/seduction07/10/19 07:31 PM
1

There’s a chance she just talks really dumb but is not as dumb as she sounds... to be honest, probably not, I’m just trying to be positive 😂. Either way, have some fun.
/r/seduction07/10/19 07:30 PM
2

Congrats! Fortunately, it seems I was right.
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:46 AM
1

Make a move to kiss her. If she rejects, the meals and drinks must stop.
/r/seduction05/10/19 06:22 PM
1

FYI my personal opinion is that she likes you.
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:52 PM
1

You don’t know how to use Google either? 220 pounds is 100 kg. 90 pounds is 41 kg.
/r/seduction04/10/19 06:26 PM
1

Make a move today. And let us know the result. Thanks!
/r/seduction04/10/19 06:23 PM
1

Are you buying her meals? Or giving her money / gifts ???
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:10 PM
1

Dude grab a hold of your balls. It seems you have never slept with a smaller girl? That is fucking absurd, I'm 6'5" 220 with a way above average sized Johnson, and there is no major issue doing 100 pound (or less) Asian women. Maybe a little pain in the beginning, but so what? They will enjoy it after a few seconds / minutes.
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:06 PM
4

Just escalated it dude, ask her to have a drink, be bold and aggressive so that you can cut your loses if she turns you down. She sounds a bit dumb, but whatever, make a move now or never.
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:02 PM
1

You did the right thing, son
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:02 PM
1

Tried this at a work party... now I'm jobless. ಥ_ಥ
/r/seduction23/09/19 11:25 PM
0

We tried to help this kid, then he left us hanging with no update. Selfish prick, if you ask me.
/r/seduction10/09/19 12:00 AM
1

Update? Update? Update???
/r/seduction08/09/19 07:36 AM
1

Update ??!!!
/r/seduction07/09/19 05:58 PM
17

Bad advice bro, why would you give out your address to a he/she from a dating app? Meet in public first, there is no downside to doing that, but plenty of potential upside. How can you know this is not a 300 pound, 45 year old man/woman or criminal?
/r/seduction05/09/19 10:42 PM
4

Stop getting so pumped up about this chick, you haven't even seen her in real life. There's a chance she looks nothing like her pics and/or is a nut job. Cool your horses, meet her, and see how it goes.
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:42 PM
2

Being 45 and having dated a lot, this is all stuff I already know, but every single thing on here is completely accurate and valuable!!! Good refresher course.
/r/seduction04/09/19 10:15 PM
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