im2rad2b4go10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
606	6 Habits of Remarkably Likeable People		im2rad2b4go10	/r/seduction	04/01/13 04:34 PM
56	Conflicting Mindsets: Getting Laid vs. Being Indifferent	Red Pill Theory	im2rad2b4go10	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 01:11 AM
8	Lessons I've Learned = Be Nice and Self-Improve		im2rad2b4go10	/r/seduction	26/09/16 02:25 AM
1	Your Castle	Red Pill Theory	im2rad2b4go10	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/20 08:48 PM
1	Conflicting Mindsets: Breaking It Down for the Beginner	Red Pill Theory	im2rad2b4go10	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/20 03:54 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	So You Want an Asian / Eastern European Girl? Dated two Brazilians. Incredibly sexy but need an infinite amount of attention.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/20 09:10 PM
8	Be Like Pete People will go to great lengths to protect their egos. If a chick actually wrote that, it would of been dedicated to dragging Pete through the mud. Instead he comes out looking like a badass.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/20 06:39 PM
5	Some of guys are missing the point. You're saying that term but I don't think you know what it means.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/20 11:33 PM
6	Some of guys are missing the point. Not really. The "don't put pussy on a pedestal" and "you are the prize" stuff is great, except it only really applies to dudes that haven't had much success in the SMP. With enough experience, those things happen automatically. The foundation of LTRs/plates is based on the chicks SMV, not yours. TRP has this aversion to LTRs. Probably because that's how most dudes here got burned. You don't need 6-9 months to vet a chick. Within a month I'll generally know who's who, and that's even with my sky …	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/20 11:09 PM
3	Some of guys are missing the point. You can save it dude. At this point I've fucked and dated enough. The high value ones worth dating I'll date. The ones worth fucking but nothing more become plates. Those are the foundations.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/20 10:58 PM
3	Some of guys are missing the point. Good post but I disagree. LTRs and plates are built on different foundations. I’ll demote a LTR but I won’t promote a plate.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/20 08:30 PM
3	Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story? I'm a 30-something professional, 6'2/200lbs, dating 4-5 women right now. If I didn't work out I'd be maybe 160lbs and I'm naturally introverted. What I can tell you is that improving the things in the title will put you in the upper-echelon of the sexual market place. But those things alone will not make you successful dating. When I don't put effort into dating my prospects go to zero. Charisma, confidence, and being a good leader will keep women/men around longer than simply hitting status wic…	/r/seduction	07/04/20 05:22 PM
7	Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story? Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and "The Like Switch" Ignore the advice of keep pushing, don't take no, etc. That shit misses the point that women want commitment. Women will have sex with you when they want to hang out with you more. So why don't they want to hang out again? You've got all the marks checked except they either aren't having fun or sense that you are just doing A to get to B (sex). Find ways to have fun with women and they'll keep wanting to hang out. Sex is someth…	/r/seduction	07/04/20 04:57 PM
1	You cannot negotiate feelings I bumped into a girl post-college who I had hooked up with a bunch in high school. She had been dating her college sweetheart for a few years by then. I fucked her a few weeks later on the night she told him she needed a “break.” They’ve been married for awhile now and I’ve always felt bad for the dude. By the time people have experience dating, breaks become about having your cake and eating it to too. Knowing you’ve got something good, but wanting more on the side before it’s time to really se…	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/20 02:16 AM
6	Hypergamy as female nature; femininity as social programming Lots of truth here. The only issue is that marriage was always flawed. People get bored of each other. After awhile in a marriage, women have their children and no longer worry about their biological clock, and men no longer have the hot young body next to them. The things that brought them together have run their course. Marriage was never going to produce long term happiness. Other than being a good structure for raising kids, there’s no real long term benefit to it. Marriage laws just need to…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/20 10:51 PM
10	Why you should never tell your problems to women ever! Anytime I see Chad written it immediately raises a red flag. It’s like a cartoon villain TRP created to deal with insecurity. Just be a normal guy and work on improving yourself and enjoying your hobbies. Chad doesn’t exist, and anyone trying to be “Chad” is overthinking things. Otherwise, yeah solid post. Women want a rock. Use your family or friends if you need to work through something.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/20 09:11 PM
1	You cannot negotiate feelings If she’s initiating a break, it means she either wants to sleep around before fully committing or is easing her way into a full breakup. Either way, I’m considering the relationship over.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/20 03:48 PM
2	You cannot negotiate feelings Yeah the AA stuff works on plates but won't really play out with a LTR. If you're spinning a 20 year old who realizes she's just there to get fucked, you can AA and she'll probably be hitting you up a few days later when she gets horny. There's really never a time to be serious with plates. In a LTR where a break actually means something, you just be cool and count the relationship over but the time well spent. Whether or not you're still trying to fuck her, you just say "Ok. I'd prefer we just …	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/20 01:53 AM
3	Rule #1 in life Lol dude I get what you're saying. You could of just left it at taking personal responsibility for the course of your life. The biggest losers I've met are those who blame others for how their lives how turned out. Obviously that doesn't apply to cases of extreme mistreatment or injury. Also dunno about blaming yourself for getting stabbed. It just comes down to complete ownership over your decisions.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/20 01:39 AM
2	Say all the women in the world were wiped out tomorrow. What is masculinity then? (getting women is only a marker for success on the mission, not the mission in itself) Good post. There's a couple concepts intersecting here. They're related but still independent of each other. Masculinity will always be the traditional measure of strength, independence, courage, assertiveness, and leadership. That's why women who embrace their femininity will always be the yin to our yang, and MGTOW wierdos will always be empty. Still, masculinity is a sliding scale, and attraction isn't in extremes. Mission or missions are your interests. You dedicate yourself to them because …	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/20 06:26 PM
2	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Could of worded it clearer. If a guy didn’t know any better, one day here and he’d assume every woman in his life got fucked by 4 different dudes before lunch. Things get exaggerated. The point for me was that you’re game gets your foot in the door and then your leadership steers things from there. Once she’s slept with you, she’ll probably stick around as long as your frame holds. ONSs are rarely just that.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/20 04:41 AM
12	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Don’t talk to her about TRP. Don’t even talk to guys about TRP, unless it’s abundantly obvious from a normal conversation that they already know about it. Honestly dude, 21 is young. I wouldn’t consider marriage at that age. Date this girl, lead her, learn the lessons. There will be plenty of time and opportunities later in life if marriage is something in your cards. I’ve never seen a marriage at 21 last.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 06:55 PM
11	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Good question. The game changes in a LTR. I’ve had great experiences with relationships, despite TRPs disdain for them. The texting for logistics only stuff goes out the window. Y’all are a team at that point. You’re the team captain, but still a team. The best LTRs I’ve had are with very sweet, feminine girls where there’s a constant stream of communication. I hate talking on the phone, so texting and dumb memes are what I can subscribe to. When she’s heavily invested in you, she’ll propose tri…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 05:56 PM
3	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Agreed. Everything with women is about mutual attraction and understanding. Your job is to lead as her captain, not as a tyrant. As far as the number exchange goes, there’s no hard and fast rule. I’ve found in general that people take stock in things that they have ownership over. Her texting you is an investment. She has ownership over it. While leading, you give her the opportunity to take stock in every decision she makes. Last week, I had a girl in the hot tub on two different nights. The fi…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 04:58 PM
2	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Fair. Anything done with confidence will usually be well received.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 03:42 PM
16	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Yeah I’d err on the side of decisiveness for the first hangout. Some examples: “Let’s hang out on Thursday. Walk the beach and get dinner.” “My buddies and I are going to a concert on Saturday. Come with us.” “There’s a coffee shop I want to check out. Let’s go there on Sunday.” Expect a couple hour delay where they ponder. Just remain silent and be setting things up for other days with other chicks. She’ll either come back with a hell yes and then you set up times, say she can’t but is free on …	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 03:22 PM
8	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) Dinners are really not ideal. Something active is always better. Still, for week nights it’s an easy fall back. I live a block from the beach, so I have them come over and we walk down the beach to a restaurant.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 01:28 PM
16	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) It works because it’s a more confident move. Saying, “Can I have your number please?” is different than, “Text me, I want to get to know you.” Women want a leader who tells them instead of asks them. Same goes for plans y’all make.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 01:24 PM
51	Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works) An important aspect of game is experience with communication and logistics. You don't have to a game a chick all the way to bed. Once she's interested, you just have to steer the ship to allow things to happen naturally. Meeting a girl at a bar - playful banter, tease her, crack jokes, talk about fun things and stuff you have in common. If she says she has to go find her friends, give her your number and set up a date for a couple days later. If she sticks around, eventually tell her ya'll shoul…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/20 04:02 AM
3	Truth about The annoying "How to get laid 101" posts on TRP. Yeah this sums up my thoughts. TRP is not a religion - it's a unbiased discussion on sexual strategy for men. A forum to compare notes. If guys want to learn how to fuck lots of women then let them. In fact, there is no other way to learn certain lessons of masculinity and femininity. Saying that it's insulting to the philosophy of TRP is turning this place into something that it's not. I don't disagree that stoicism and indifference is the ultimate goal late in life - but it won't lead to sex. …	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/20 04:16 AM
5	Conflicting Mindsets: Getting Laid vs. Being Indifferent Yeah I think this is the overall message of the post. Indifference is great when you’ve either already fucked plenty of women and have the experiences, or when you’re at the top of the food chain anyway and don’t need to grind. A lot of the dudes here are either high school or college aged and need the experience of fucking a lot of women. There’s no other way to learn certain lessons about masculinity and femininity. It’s annoying to see indifference advertised as something that will either mak…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 03:44 AM
3	Conflicting Mindsets: Getting Laid vs. Being Indifferent This tells me you haven’t worked 12-15 hour days in a professional setting. Lifting is my #1 hobby and I've still had to take extended time off to ensure my career was prioritized. Telling this dude he's fucking up because he's not powerlifting until midnight and then running on 5 hours of sleep each day is fucking retarded.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 03:07 AM
4	Conflicting Mindsets: Getting Laid vs. Being Indifferent Ha no worries dude. Take care of the things on your plate right now, and do those at high levels. When you get time to lift, go on dates, and fuck lots of women, then you attack those with the same focus.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 02:49 AM
6	Conflicting Mindsets: Getting Laid vs. Being Indifferent I agree. You've got to drive the train and then pull back when necessary. Some posts take that mantra to the extreme and advocate "just be an interesting guy and chicks will hit you up." Nah, you've really got to set things up at each step. For example, a girl recently came over and we jumped in the hot tub. Start hooking up after awhile, and a few mins later I push her off. She's excited now but I tell her I'm getting tired and need to hit the sack. She can stay or head out, no pressure. If I t…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 02:47 AM
13	Conflicting Mindsets: Getting Laid vs. Being Indifferent First and foremost I'd say to avoid overextending yourself. You can do a lot of things in your life, but you can't do them all at once. If it's time in your life to focus on work and school then focus on those, and those only. Exercise as a mental/physical escape should be apart of your life in some way. Even if it's just a jog around the block a couple times a week during lunch. If you can't lift 5 days a week then don't worry about it. When you're graduated and can do a steady 9-5 job, then yo…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 01:44 AM
2	You aren't a clown. Stop trying to entertain every fucking female Yeah dude. There are conflicting mindsets that get passed around TRP. The first is getting laid. The second is being indifferent to whether you get laid. This post blurs the line and makes it sound like by being indifferent, you will get laid. That is not the case for 99% of men. If you want to get laid you have to work at it. Work on your game and frame. Being outgoing, being persistent, being experienced enough to know quickly whether a chick is worth your effort or not. Men need to get laid a…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 01:05 AM
1	Yet Another Reason why Lifting Is Critical Just made a similar comment in another thread: the gift that lifting keeps giving us is the ability to challenge our limits everyday. Even if just for 30 minutes. That confidence of constantly pushing your bounds is infectious in all aspects of your life.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/18 04:44 PM
–	Don't Add or Game Girls on Social Media Disagree in part. Social media is a tool. Example: bumped into a familiar girl while exiting a train. No time to exchange numbers. Add each other on Facebook, chat it up, meet for dinner, FWB for a good period.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/17 01:05 AM
8	My text game is so weak I just don't know how to text women anymore Goes against conventional seddit wisdom but texting is just like any other conversation. The way to keep any conversation going is to ask questions. You should always end a text with a question. You don't have to reply 5 seconds after you get a text, but you're more likely to lose interest from a woman by playing the "who-can-care-less game" than by coming off as interested and asking questions. In the end, I've found that women who want to be engaged are more fun, have better sex, and stick aro…	/r/seduction	20/11/16 05:22 PM
2	Why Girls Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys (Repost) The best/most attractive women I've dated were interested in me because I was nice. Imagine that. Yeah this is a good post. Think complete man.	/r/seduction	07/11/16 06:31 PM
1	Lessons I've Learned = Be Nice and Self-Improve She moved back to Brazil for med school. She was here on an Au Pair visa for a few years	/r/seduction	26/09/16 02:39 PM
2	The Power of Eye Contact Eye contact is hard for anxious people. Prozac helps with anxiety. Eye contact becomes easier since the discomfort goes away. It's also not for everyone but can be a blessing for those who need it.	/r/seduction	01/11/15 12:28 PM
1	The Power of Eye Contact Try prozac. Eye contact becomes no problem.	/r/seduction	01/11/15 04:52 AM
9	Guys, I just got legally accused of sexual assault, and I'm in the worst state of my life. Please help Contact a lawyer. If charges are brought against you, the lawyer will be begin representation. If what you say is true, you'll be fine. It's embarrassing and will cost money, but know that a college girl won't be believed by a jury if she's lying and subjected to cross-examination by a professional.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 08:57 PM
1	Dont want to lose her Play it cool. Enjoy your time with her and be a good boyfriend. Most of the time, she will let you know when you should be doing things.	/r/seduction	17/09/15 01:14 AM
1	I'm tired! Go to the gym and lift weights. 3 sets of squat, 3 sets of bench, 3 sets of deadlifts, and curls and triceps. Do that for a few weeks and your life will improve in all facets.	/r/seduction	11/07/13 08:45 PM
1	Girls' overall impact on my life Look man, confidence is everything. Do whatever you have to do to find that inner mojo. I'm sitting at a bar right now enjoying a drink like a badass, if a woman pops up to talk, great, if not, fuck em. Fake it before you make it. Fortune favors the bold, etc. Just be confident. I'm sure you're interesting, good looking, smart and what not. If not, master something, GET IN THE GYM, and go to class. The secret that no one wants to reveal on Seddit is that women pick their partners, it's only up t…	/r/seduction	05/02/13 02:08 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/4/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) What's your favorite bar drink? Mine's vodka tonic.. Gentlemen's drink.	/r/seduction	04/01/13 09:05 PM
8	6 Habits of Remarkably Likeable People Haha I didn't notice the whip its until you pointed it out	/r/seduction	04/01/13 07:13 PM
21	Keep it Simple My advice is to create a better balance if your serious about being a lady-killer. Your list is very cerebral. It's all focused on the things you have to think about. Create a three part strategy: mental, physical, spiritual. Mental: What you're list is. Keep reading Seddit and observing those around you who seem to use their own strategies. Study as much as you can and create a personalized approach to life. Physical: Add in a resolution to improve your body. It's a physical world and going to …	/r/seduction	04/01/13 07:01 PM
1	I'm a shy, awkward, average looking guy who has slept with over 50 women. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 20. Here is my story I believe the best way to go out is alone. Independent, confident, to the point.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 04:16 PM
6	Where am I going wrong? Trouble picking up at loud clubs/bars... Familiar story. I recently switched to bar-scene only. My best advice is find a local bar with local patrons, one that is not crazy during the week and only gets crowded late night on the weekends. I frequent a bar on my street and have become friends with most of the staff. On weeknights I'll watch a game and have had pick-ups just from women sitting next to me.. small talk, flirting, then a night together. I've even noticed that the female staff has taken a strong eye to me. I'll go to the bar…	/r/seduction	03/01/13 04:03 PM
2	Challenging my limiting belief. I am a 23 year old man with a facial deformity. Confident I can still be as good as the naturals, though. Blessing in disguise. Mold your body in the ways that are available.. gym, hair products, clothing. You've got good eyes.. maybe consider clear-lens glasses? Play your strengths. My strength is that I'm tall and slender. When I start to really lift, it's easy to tell because I have to wear slim-fit to begin with. I'm also naturally charming in a shy-way. Find your best attributes and make them shine, all while turning your weaknesses into strengths. Long process, but what you seem to want is wha…	/r/seduction	26/12/12 08:44 PM
1	Challenging my limiting belief. I am a 23 year old man with a facial deformity. Confident I can still be as good as the naturals, though. I'm going to save this and I expect updates.	/r/seduction	26/12/12 07:02 PM
2	Challenging my limiting belief. I am a 23 year old man with a facial deformity. Confident I can still be as good as the naturals, though. You've got the right attitude.. but it's pretty easy to say these things. The hard part is believing and achieving. The reality of women and seduction is that there are no "tricks".. women, like all people, respond to honesty and confidence. Looks are the most important factor in attraction, but confidence is what seals the deal. Identify your weaknesses and make them strengths. There are naturals, true, but like the quote goes.. "no one watched more film than Michael Jordan". I was skinny and p…	/r/seduction	26/12/12 07:00 PM
1	I'm in high school and could use some advice http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fake_it_till_you_make_it	/r/seduction	20/12/12 08:59 PM
1	I'm in high school and could use some advice The greatest confidence booster for me came in high school. I began working out everyday and suddenly my sex-life took off. I've sworn by the gym and lifting weights ever since.	/r/seduction	20/12/12 08:30 PM
3	How to become a 'go-to' guy? Be genuine to people and open to new ideas.	/r/seduction	20/12/12 07:19 PM
2	University Study Pick Up Nice man, well played. Probe and keep her interested. She'll fall right into your lap.	/r/seduction	18/10/12 03:23 PM
3	How to gain respect? You hit the nail on the head when you said that you value others a lot. You're the boss, the man, GOD for all we know. All that matters is how you feel about yourself. That being said.. Take some damn pride in yourself! Hit the gym, get some new clothes, read some books, research great things and pet kittens (etc., etc.) Walk around with pride, stand up tall, be interested and interesting. If someone doesn't like you, to hell with them. Be an alpha male and people will naturally follow YOU. Don'…	/r/seduction	11/10/12 02:51 PM
1	Newbie problem. Be confident in yourself. Hit the gym, find clothes that you love, take care of your hygiene, read good books and listen to new music. Conversations and social situations are what makes us people. They should be as natural as breathing. Be an alpha male and guide the conversation to your own interests while focusing on her. If you have full confidence in yourself (your looks, interests) then you'll never have to second guess yourself and be inside your head.. and if you do second guess yourself,…	/r/seduction	11/10/12 02:43 PM
12	2 questions: how to approach in loud club, and how to approach at a house party Bar, clubs, house parties exist because people want to be social. Be the alpha male. This doesn't mean grinding up on every girl, but you'll be amazed the positive response you get from PEOPLE in general, especially girls, if you look like you know what you're all about. Stand up right, puff out your chest, look around like you own the place, smile when you make eye contact, be gracious. Conversations will often flow because people, women especially, are attracted to men who look like they are i…	/r/seduction	10/10/12 06:08 PM
4	How to ask for a FWB? In my experience with FWB the girl has made it very easy and obvious that she wants to hook up. From there it's just being cool with the idea of hanging out and hooking up without crossing over into a real relationship. Hooking up first is the key. The girl will usually already know what she wants.	/r/seduction	10/10/12 04:52 PM