I've been told a bunch in the past that I should contribute more here so I decided I would post my most recent success story. I am far from a close follower of the seduction community so I don't really know the terms and I might put out some knowledge that works for me but is useless to others. That said, I find this to be an interesting (and still unfolding) story and if you have interest in it, I'd love to share it with you all.
I was sitting in my house lounge studying with two female friends. One is about an 8 and the other is a 9/9.5. I've only spoken to the 8 once before.
I start by complimenting her computer sticker, a clever concept design of Snow White with her palm upturned, placed right below the Apple logo on her computer.
We joke about this a bit and she tells me how a prof stopped class and made her show it to everyone. She tells me how embarrassed she was. I told her she had nothing to be embarrassed about; the world deserved to see her fantastic sticker choice. She started talking about something else, but I was studying at that point so I sort of let her trail off into silence.
About 5 minutes later, she walks in.
The girl I've seen around campus, the girl who has caused kinks in my neck from turning my head to stare at her, the girl who, in my short time at university, has caught my attention as the most sexually enticing woman. Short with brown hair, massive yet incredibly well-shapen breasts and in general a body that really ought to be trifled with. I am a dedicated ass man but her top half blew me away in a way that booty rarely can. She is an easy 10. And now here she is, studying with a few friends (2M,1F) but 30 feet behind me.
That said, I was not going to abandon my studies just to make some ballsy approach on her. Besides, I had an 8 right in front of me who was clearly quite interested - looking for little reasons to talk to me and just generally putting out interest that was almost a little too strong.
So, there we sit for the next 3 hours, each studying our respective subject. I leave the room a few times to do laundry in the room next door. Every time I exit or enter, she barely gives me a look. The doors are noisy and she turns around, but its merely an uninterested glance.
The final time I enter, instead of paying her no attention, I walk slowly by and stare her down... really taking her in.
She tries not to look, but I see her peeking out of the corner of her eyes. She definitely notices me now, be it in a good way or bad way I do not know.
I go back to studying and mention in passing to 8 girl that I'm going to a party on Friday and that I'm selling tickets. She asks me for my number incase she decides to come.
Me: "Wow, you're not very sneaky at all. You'll have to try harder than that to get my number."
She literally looks floored. She just laughs nervously and doesn't say anything. About 15 minutes later, as we're in the midst of a conversation she started...
8 Girl: "Seriously though... can I have your number?"
I give her my number, but at this point I'm getting tired, especially with the constant interruptions.
Me: I think I'm going to go to bed. I've worked enough tonight. Her: Ooh yeah, I'm so stressed from working! My shoulders kill.
At this point I was already standing up adjacent to her, and I moved behind and started giving her a shoulder massage. I'm quite good with massages and so she melted right into it. She is fucking loving it. I look up from my work, and there she is. Lil Miss 10 is staring right at us.
She takes a second to register that I'm looking right back at her, and then she looks back down at her book quickly.
I finish the massage after 3 or 4 minutes and she gasps: "That was great. Exactly what I needed. You're really good at massages."
Me: "Yeah, thanks."
Her: "I'm really good too. Maybe sometime I'll return the favour."
Me: "Yeah, sure. Good luck with the rest of your studies."
I'm now walking to the door and I decide... fuck it. I've gotta say something. So I go with something extremely simple that focusses on the entire group:
Me: "Hey, what are you guys studying for?"
Guy 1: We're doing an arts studies group project.
Me: "Oh what's it on?" (Turning to guy 2)
Guy 2: some menial topic
Me: "Cool. I'm in that course as well, my topic is (subject). It's far less interesting than it sounds, trust me."
Lil Miss 10: extremely excitedly "ohmygod! I did a paper on (subject)!"
This is the first point in the conversation where I actually acknowledge her. I turn to her and say: "Awesome. You should send me some of your notes."
Lil Miss 10: Yes! For sure!
At this point I slide my way over to the sofa she is sitting on and slowly lower myself onto the armrest. "Take my info". I take her phone from her and slide to unlock. There's a password. I arch my eyebrow and look over at her.
Her: "3443"
I liked that part of the interaction because it shows how few words are needed to get a point across.
I start entering my name and say: "Huh. Weird that your phone knows my name before you do. My name is blablabla. And you are?"
She then says a name that is very clearly Israeli. I had also picked up on her accent earlier, so I asked her if she was Israeli.
Her: "Oh my god! Yes! How did you know that?
Me: "You have a very nice Israeli name."
Her: "Thank you!!"
We then get into the fact that I'm Jewish and I tell her about my ridiculous middle name, all as I'm entering my email and number into her phone.
I then sent myself a text from her phone. The remainder of this post is a text conversation. The first text that says "Her (me)" is from me, the other "Her" entries are texts from her.
@1:25am - Her (me): "Nice to meet you sexy"
@1:26am - Her: "You are a huge flirt"
@1:36am - Me: "Guilty as charged. Now how do I spell your name in my address book?"
@1:37am - Her: (Name)
@1:44am - Me: "Awesome."
@1:45am - Her: "Good night ;) text me your email tomorrow, I'll send you my notes"
@10:46am - Me: "Way ahead of you hun. Check your contact book."
@11:12am - Her: "Well look at you all professional :) I'll send it to you now. pointless blather about topic"
@1:31pm - Me: "You know how I do hun ;) professional is my profession."
@3:39pm - Her: "Well you're just a natural pro. Makes me wonder what else you're good at"
@5:30pm - "Play your cards right and maybe you'll find out."
@5:33pm- "I'll think about it ;)"
Aaaaand here we are.
By playing it cool this girl essentially came to me. It's not a done deal yet, but clearly the ball is in my court. She's sort of vaguely trying to play back on the "distant and aloof" vibe, but I'm really not concerned about that. Men and women alike play games with each other and I'm enjoying the one she's playing right now.
Anyways, I'm out. Give me tips on how this can better conform to the seddit format and I'll try to make adjustments. I hope this is acceptable, I'm not real up on the rules.
Oh, and Lil Miss 10, if you by some ridiculous stroke of luck are reading this... it only gets better from here.
Cheers.
EDIT
Just thought I'd add this comment I made in response to a post asking about texting game. It gives insight into my text conversation as well as a few other texting traits I posses that seem to be advantageous.
Here is the comment:
"There are two situations in which I text:
1) If I enter my number in her phone, I'll send myself a flirty text from her. I'll give her 5-10 minutes to send her own follow up text (see the bottom of my field report for an example). If a conversation naturally ensues, I'll limit it to maximum 8-10 texts - never matching her response length. By that point it should die off generically or I'll start gearing it down on my own unless the conversation is really electric. Even then, I usually like to gear it down. Nothing you say through a phone will be as attractive as the same thing coming from your mouth.
2) If I plan on seeing them somewhere or have something legitimate like school or work to discuss with them. That said, I usually avoid the latter as well. Mainly, after initial interaction, I just use text to plan - and plan only.
Now, as for when they text me:
I only respond if she is actually saying something worthwhile or interesting. Often I'll respond when they say "heyyy :)", but I always wait a while before responding. Like, anywhere from 30 minutes to 3 or 4 hours, depending on how I feel. More often than not, they will end up texting you what they actually wanted to say to you in the first place. I've started cutting back on responding to girls who just send greeting texts, and I've yielded better and better results the more I do it. That said, it is kind of rude so I only do it to girls who have proven in the past that they will lead me on some dead-end conversation. If there's a girl who texts you "heyyy :)" and then when you respond the conversation turns riveting, don't diss her just because she is a lazy opener. That would be stupid. If a girl consistently has interesting and exciting text interactions with you and she makes a habit of steering you towards more texting, take it in stride and on your terms... but don't leave her lust for exciting conversation to be satisfied by another man."
And here is the thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11o15c/texting_game_a_reddituser_provided_help_guide_by/
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