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I was worried that Seddit might actually say this was okay. The comments have restored my faith.
/r/seduction02/03/13 08:24 PM
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Yeah, you definitely don't fuck around with spotting. Weightlifting is dangerous business if you're pushing too hard, and if you're spotter's more concerned with touching you than actually spotting you, bad shit's gonna go down.
/r/seduction20/02/13 05:40 AM
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Not even going to ask. Not even going to THINK about asking.
/r/seduction04/02/13 02:48 AM
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Think about the situation you're in here. You're going out to a club for the first time, an entirely new environment where every social interaction is judged on a different scale. You can't expect to just pick up on it any more than you could go to Barcelona fresh out of a college Spanish sequence and expect to speak like a native on your first day. It takes time and perserverence. Now let's analyze how this went down: First of all, you talked to tons of girls. Already going well. You got a fuck…
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:13 AM
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Breakups suck man. Even with all the advice you'll hear here about machoing up and going out and being confident, it's a huge internal battle to get over something like that. I recently got hardcore rejected while I was crushing on some girl I know. I felt like I was just depressed beyond belief, that I wasn't good enough, etc., but I remembered what I had heard on here, and even though I felt like shit, I put on my best clothes, picked my chin up, and walked around as if I owned every piece of …
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:04 AM
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Really not trying to sound like a douche or anything, but I never realized that doing stuff like not following her and apologizing wasn't just normal interaction. If I'm joking and she walks out like that, IDGAF, her loss.
/r/seduction03/02/13 11:59 PM
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Is that what drug addiction feels like? Because if so, wow fuck that twice.
/r/seduction31/01/13 05:53 AM
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Congrats on being the only bookmark I've ever made.
/r/seduction31/01/13 03:23 AM
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Fuck those first days man. Fuck them so much.
/r/seduction31/01/13 01:19 AM
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He never said that. Don't you ever fucking say that
/r/seduction25/01/13 04:17 PM
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Yeah, I'm still working that out myself. I've got a fwb, and I feel like she enjoys the attention, but I feel like I'm being a clingy fuck if I text her every day. Not sure how to handle it. It goes against everything I've been forcing myself to do.
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:53 PM
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As a guy in a somewhat similar situation, I would say this: Analyze how you interact with the girls who like you who aren't attractive enough and compare it with how you interact with the girls you like. Chances are you're giving the girls you like way more attention in the form of texts, hangouts, etc. What I've been doing is really limiting my communication with the girls I like, turning them down (sometimes) when they ask to hang out. Honestly, it's amazing how well it works. I've already hoo…
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:49 AM
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I feel like it's a personal matter. I always make it clear before sex, as I really feel like it's majorly disrespectful to wait until afterwards, but I'm sure there are many men who would advocate waiting until afterwards. I usually do it right as we're about to have sex for the first time. Like right at the point where it goes from making out to doing it. That's the point where the girl will be more into it and may be able to make an exception for a one-time casual fling. But hey, I'm not some …
/r/seduction24/12/12 07:39 PM
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Ah the old buttpenis pickup. Gets em every time.
/r/seduction23/12/12 07:45 PM
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Dude, I'm not even a PUA and I was cringing hard. Fuck up that badly twice and I would just drop it where it lies. And yes, "maybe" as a response is bullshit and should be treated as such.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:03 AM
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I love the mass witch-hunt against Seddit that occurs a day after a post on SelfImprovement that could be confused with ANY Seddit post gets front page on bestof. This reminds me why I disliked Reddit in the first place. Hivemind thinking whilst pretending to be original and impartial. Bullshit.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:49 AM
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Oh god there should be a sub-subreddit for it.
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:40 AM
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Seduction metagame 2012
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:30 AM
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... arrested
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:20 AM
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Dude, even if you know ONE person you've already got an easy in. Use them to warm up, then bring in other people on random tangents. Opinion-open everyone in the middle of your conversations. Be spontaneous as shit and just have fun.
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:58 AM
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"well dressed dudes that I assumed were lawyers because I assume all well dressed people are lawyers when I'm drinking" Finally someone understands me
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:51 AM
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Always. ALWAYS.
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:30 AM
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This is true. You make an irrefutable argument.
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:29 AM
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The probably don't take you up on the 'call me' motion because they don't have your number
/r/seduction06/12/12 07:40 PM
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I'm so meta even this acronym
/r/seduction06/12/12 07:38 PM
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Gotta go to class. I'll respond when I get back. Thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction04/12/12 02:45 PM
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I DON'T KNOW MAN! I consciously keep understanding and telling myself that it doesn't matter, but my brain refuses to listen
/r/seduction04/12/12 02:45 PM
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I'm actually laughing pretty hard right now +1
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:14 PM
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Well you're clearly doing a bang-up job of it right now.
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:55 PM
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Yes, he handled a social situation well and got a girl to make out with him pretty quickly. Considering the goals of this subreddit, I'd say he's doing well. Everything okay? You want to talk about something?
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:49 PM
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Chill man. The guy did good.
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:21 PM
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Obviously it's on a case-by-case basis, but I wouldn't say give up on the idea because of one bad ex.
/r/seduction15/11/12 06:10 PM
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This. In a good conversation there may not even be any significance in what's being said. It's all about how the words are conveyed and the emotions behind them.
/r/seduction15/11/12 05:37 PM
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I mean, this is assuming that you're trying to bang your ex and also that she's a heartless bitch. I'm friends with my exes, one of which I'm in a FWB situation with, and the other I really enjoy going to parties with.
/r/seduction15/11/12 05:22 PM
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Reading the title. Cool, cool, salsa dancing's neat, oh nice got the makeout sesh, WHAT ESCALATED PRETTY FAST
/r/seduction15/11/12 04:13 PM
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I didn't think there was a difference.
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:50 PM
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"Dude", "man", and "guy" are all words that should be used sparingly in ANY social interaction.
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:02 PM
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I don't know why, but hearing this from someone in the 17th century makes so much more of an impact than when someone tells it to me in person
/r/seduction13/11/12 02:54 PM
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Is there a subreddit specifically for people at this beginner level? I'd love more posts like this, since this is basically exactly where I am as well.
/r/seduction12/11/12 05:30 PM
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Penn State has this huge fundraising event called THON. People there get kind of fanatical about it. It's actually kind of creepy.
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:38 PM
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Sorry for the late reply, but I've already done stuff like this. I don't even view stuff like that as a barrier. That's just more conversation topics for me. I'm looking for a little bit beyond that.
/r/seduction09/11/12 07:58 PM
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Nah man, RIT. I'm a bit of a ways out from my normal locale. Up there I'm used to a lack of the more feminine sex as well, so I don't really feel so out of my element.
/r/seduction09/11/12 07:34 PM
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So a direct/indirect approach literally refers to the direction you approach from? I thought it referred to the type of opener you used
/r/seduction08/11/12 10:08 PM
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I mean, it wasn't really a yes or no question, but I agree.
/r/seduction08/11/12 10:05 PM
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Man, I would upvote this, but you went to a Passion Pit concert. Eeeeeeh, I'll give it to you this time. Don't pull that shit again though. In all seriousness though, I like the way you roll. Outside of the Romney part. And the Passion Pit. Seriously, who the fuck needs five keyboards?
/r/seduction08/11/12 10:02 PM
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Thanks for the response. How would I approach more indirectly? Could you possibly give me some examples?
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:49 PM
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If you don't know what to say and are worrying about being short, you're obviously still working on the confidence thing. The entire point of having that confidence is that you don't need to care about what you say to start a conversation. Don't worry about stating your intentions until you know how to at least say "Hi" to random girls. Literally just say "Hi, my name's ____. What's up?" if you can't think of anything else. You can talk about how much confidence you have all you want, but it onl…
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:45 PM
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Jesus, that's like... 16 Lokos
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:19 PM
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LinkedIn? Bro, she wants your desk.
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:18 PM
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Got damn, if you were any more chill, you'd probably reverse global warming.
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:08 PM
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Need to save this. How do I save individual comments?
/r/seduction07/11/12 09:10 PM
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I'm pretty sure this is beyond r/seduction, but I'll try to provide some tips: Don't cover your dick in lemon juice Try to remove all cactus needles before inserting Make sure you have the right hole Seriously though, this seems like it's beyond LMR. You're literally naked on a bed.
/r/seduction07/11/12 04:53 PM
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Cut me some slack man, my vocabulary is limited to stoner phrases and phonetic misspellings ;)
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:00 PM
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Initially was weird. End got really deep and laid out some troo fax. Upvoted
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:32 PM
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So from what I'm reading in the comments, here's what this post really should be saying: If you like devaluing people and generally just being an ass, you neg. If you like teasing people, and thus force them to justify themselves to you without insulting them, you tease. Got it. Thanks guys! Clearly the OP has no idea what he's talking about, am I right? (In case you didn't get it, that was sarcasm. I agree with OP)
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:30 PM
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Dude, just say "Hi" as she walks by. If she responds with a smile, turn around and catch up to her, with something like, "Hey, you wouldn't happen to..." or even your, "I'm sorry, but I just couldn't let you pass by like that after seeing your amazing smile". If she doesn't respond, keep going.
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:41 PM
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I feel like a smile works similarly, especially because a wink takes much more time to recognize, and girls rarely look at you that long because of the knee-jerk reaction to look away, even though you were looking first. Smiling is so inviting and really disarms them. Perhaps... no, it's too crazy. ... a wink/smile combination?
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:36 PM
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"I humored her, put her number in my phone, and promptly deleted that shit, and went to the kitchen." Fuck yes
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:03 PM
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Dude, this is honestly some pretty good shit. You probably could have paced it faster in bed. Once a girl is in your bed, the implications are pretty apparent, and if the girl doesn't catch on, you're allowed to be confused. That's like offering to buy a girl a drink in a bar and she gets mad at you because she's been in AA for three years. The girl was either genuinely sick, or she just got worried in the end because she had too much time to think about it.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:38 PM
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Social theorycrafting is never a bad thing, even if it's a flawed theory :)
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:29 PM
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... and suddenly, a thousand legs were heard opening in anticipation.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:11 PM
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It's much better to remedy a fumbled intro in the ensuing conversation than leaving it for later.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:08 PM
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Well, I'm only 21, and fairly new to Seddit, but a lot of the concepts that are taught verbatim here I personally implemented without knowing it. I've always been sarcastic and neg girls all the time (Shit tests were never even remotely an issue for me), my last major confidence issue (Outside of college app time in senior year. Literally had a breakdown) was in middle school when I thought I was fat and alone, and I can hold a conversation, so my only issue was approaching. Even then, over time…
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:03 PM
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Sounds like you like the challenge more than the reward, honestly :P But to be fair, that's the exact same situation I'm in. I've got girls who are clamoring over me, but I don't want any of them (Given, I really dislike half of them). It's what I can't, or should I say can't easily, have that I want the most. What I would recommend is that you really analyze a girl before you decided to date her. That's what this is all about. You don't take what you can get, you take what you want. If a girl d…
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:46 PM
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24 is too young for 26? What is this, high school? Dude, you can pull in girls in their 50s, why are 26 year olds such an issue? Anyway, the reason you don't like loud bars is because it doesn't compliment your M.O. That's fine. You can either say, "Well, I would like to become more versatile" or you can say, "I'll stick to places that really allow me to utilize my strengths". It's all personal choice.
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:38 PM
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I realized this the other day when I noticed that when women I walk past ask me a question in response to "How's it going?" or the like, literally any response that isn't the generic, "Good" will evoke a laugh. It's not the content, but the uniqueness of a statement that gives it value. I didn't fully contemplate the implications of this until just now, as I typed that. Thank you for giving me this opportunity.
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:36 PM
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Personally, literally every piece of approach advice given to guys will be twice as effective for girls on me. A girl who walks up to me and says, "Hi, I just noticed you had amazing eyes and I'd hate myself if I didn't come up and introduce myself" would have me like putty in her hands.
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:59 PM
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... right to the police station and report her for assault
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:56 PM
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New guy here. What's this routine business I keep hearing about?
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:51 PM
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Honestly, I do so much better when I do something out of spite. When a friend says, "Man, I bet you won't talk to that girl over there", it ceases to be about the girl and starts being about the challenge. All anxiety is gone. Now all I need to do is record my friends saying, "You won't talk to her" and I'll talk to every girl I see.
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:39 PM
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I listen to funk-rock. Walking out the door to the opening riffs of this stuff makes me feel unstoppable.
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:35 PM
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Yeah, he was pretty solid
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:28 PM
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Thanks. I've been studying game for roughly three days. And by studying I mean I read a few posts. This guy has no excuses.
/r/seduction19/10/12 02:48 PM
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Look, I know everyone else is slinging the controversy at you, but I'm gonna lay my thoughts down here. No insult intended. You come off as crazy self-centered. That is all.
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:41 PM
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This is the exact post I gave up on as well.
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:29 PM
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Holy shit false
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:28 PM
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There are 20 year olds in here that score with women over the age of 40. The advice you're going off of is bullshit. The advice you're getting here is quality. You want help? We gave you help. Whether or not you listen to it is your decision. /thread
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:24 PM
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Dude, I'm living in fucking Dumont, NJ, the least eventful town in existence, and I sarged for my first time two days ago. I'll give you a break down: Step 1: Walk out of your house Step 2: Meet people Step 3: ???? Step 4: DEAL WITH IT So many excuses bro. Just get out there.
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:22 PM
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Oh man, so many easy openers, and a relaxed casual atmosphere. Nobody's in a rush to go anywhere and the girls are all half-naked in bikinis. You've never been to a resort before? Bam, opener. Ask a girl if they know any fun things to do. When they tell you, ask them to do it with you. I wish I had enough money to go to a resort. A scrub like me would get soooo much practice
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:59 PM
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I honestly feel like your buddy is right. Unless a girl has really legit reasons for flaking out twice on you, she's clearly not interested in you, so why should you be interested in her? As for the girl last night, I don't think you should see the source of the problem as being needy. I think you should view it as though you want it to work, and as a result, you develop needy tendencies to try and further that goal. If you really want it to work, you have to realize when you're not getting enou…
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:54 PM
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I could never play game like this, not because I'm afraid to, but because it just doesn't seem viable to escalate that quickly on anyone who is remotely sober. I mean, I could be wrong. I'm sort of a scrub at this stuff :P
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:41 PM
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+1, like'd fav'd subscribed
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:55 PM
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I did this last night. I warmed up by walking around greeting and talking to random people. Got a haircut and initiated and chatted with the receptionist and the stylist. Unfortunately, my town is dead, and the bars were empty, so I ended up majorly failing on my opener with some girl (First time ever going to a bar also, haha). But the greatest part was, I didn't care. I wasn't embarrassed at all that I had failed. I just brushed it off and kept going. I ended up shooting the breeze with some g…
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:17 PM
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He got the rare but coveted double winky face. She wants the dick squared.
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:10 PM
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That ripping up of the application put tears in my eyes. It was just the perfect scenario
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:26 PM
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... legendary
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:21 PM
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Girl makes a post about how she doesn't agree with a man's suggested pick up tactics. Gets downvoted for it. What.
/r/seduction01/10/12 06:19 PM
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