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Thanks brother, corrected.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 09:44 PM
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The DM part is more or less for the guys in an LTR. If you get any messages or IOIs from another women, trust me, your girl knows about it. As far as gaining preselection, it all begins with you. Get in the gym, find a hobby you enjoy personally (not just to get attention from women), truly work on yourself and the women will come. Don't worry about the virgin stigma for now, you'll come to find out that none of that shit really matters in the end. A lot of guys get hung up on chasing pussy that…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 06:19 PM
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I'm always pretty direct. I don't actively implement dread game into my LTR, it just so happens to happen based off of just who I am as a guy. A little bit of a gem I can give you when it comes to dread is simply just live a great life and do things for you. With that I mean, work out for your health, do whatever you need to do to move up in your career, get a hobby or two, etc. When you wake up every day ask yourself, if this woman left my life right now, would anything change? The answer you n…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 02:44 PM
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After the unknown number let me know who she was, my girl asked me, "who's Tina?" So, I told her.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 12:08 PM
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If you have to ask, you’re not there yet. I suggest you read the sidebar and get to work on becoming something better as opposed to worrying about another man’s use of social media.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 11:49 PM
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I work out 6x a week for myself, pussy is just a byproduct of that, alongside physical/mental health and other benefits. If you want to make excuses for not working out you can, but I’ll be busy being great.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 09:38 PM
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I would have agreed that her coming at my neck would be a red flag in my earlier days, but after learning and experiencing a lot of what this sub harps on, it just falls by the wayside. I always ask myself, would I get mad at a toddler for crying and throwing a fit? No, I wouldn't. C'est la vie, and life moves on.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 08:13 PM
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Gyms are still open here (Southern US), so I’ve continued my normal gym routine. I will add that I’m making a point to stay on my shit this year in regards to fitness, I fell off the wagon a few times way too easily last year (because of chicks, it’s crazy how sedated/complacent a constant supply of pussy can make you). However you want to work out is up to you, in the gym, at home, doesn’t matter. What does matter is that you do something. "Lack of activity destroys the good condition of every …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:04 PM
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pmohackbook
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:20 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with preferring to have an LTR, just like there’s nothing wrong with preferring to have plates. It all comes down to personal preference. What matters most is that you don’t lose sight of your mission in both scenarios, and if you choose to go the monogamous LTR route... don’t make HER your mission. Also, don’t go the LTR route because you’re too lazy to do the work when it comes to becoming a better man, never settle. Don’t just wife up the first girl to throw you consiste…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:39 PM
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“I’m free this weekend. Drinks and movies at your place?” If you’ve done the work you shouldn’t get through the first 15 minutes of the movie. Easy.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:22 PM
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Without going too far down the rabbit hole here, I met a girl just like the one you described. For a lack of better words, she destroyed me. She's BPD, I promise you. They bomb you with all of this love and attention you've never gotten before. You think to yourself, "damn what did I do to snag this one?" Fast forward a few months, she cheats on you or decides she needs to be single to "find herself". You're heartbroken, you lost the "love of your life". I could've typed more, but fuck it. I tho…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:37 PM
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Yeah, I guess that's fair. I'm working on it, believe me. They're plenty attractive to me, I'm just not interested in them is all.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:59 PM
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I have recently, currently no.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:07 PM
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I just got back from TDY in Key West for two weeks and I fucked a bartender the third night, and just kept hitting that until I left. Nothing really to report in June as I've been surprisingly busy as fuck.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:43 PM
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Both, more in real life than online though.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:34 PM
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Yeah, I can honestly admit I've been surrounding myself with nothing but 7s as of late, and it's just not doing it for me anymore. ​ Gonna just focus myself more on my lifting and career and eventually women will find their way into my path. I think I just need some time to myself to regroup and realign myself with my mission.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 10:24 PM
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It might sound weird, but I'm not interested in any of the girls I'm talking to currently. ​ I just moved (military), and there are two girls who try and get my attention constantly who live states away. One is moving here this upcoming week and "wants to see me", but we'll see. I'm really not interested and she's not worth the time of day to me to be honest, as she's pretty insecure and requires constant attention that she doesn't reciprocate. I have a couple girls at my new duty station, but o…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 10:00 PM
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Is it really that simple? Just block and ghost someone just like that? I've ghosted a lot of girls from Tinder, but I've never ghosted someone who talks to me all day every day and sends me tons of heart emojis and shit.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:42 PM
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So you’d really throw away a friendship with a bro because he fucked a girl you were orbiting for a year?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:35 PM
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Oh, she’s definitely not LTR material, I’m not looking for an LTR anyways. I’m just a young guy enjoying life at the moment. I know, he’s my fucking boy. We went through boot together have always had each other’s backs for almost 5 years now. It’s just the fact that she isn’t and she never was his girl, so what leg does he have to stand on? Picture having a crush on a girl for over a year, making absolutely 0 moves and getting played, but then your buddy fucks her, how do you feel?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:47 PM
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Sheesh that story is eerily similar, but not quite on the money, so I figure I’m safe in that regard. Thanks for your previous advice though, Red.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:44 PM
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Yeah, after thinking it over now that I have a clear head I’m probably just going to ahead and fuck her. She’s not his, they’ve never fucked. He has no reason to be upset. That’s my fucking boy, but at the end of the day I’m going to do what I want to do. She’s hot, I want to fuck. I already know he’s going to get butthurt over it, but that’s on him, so oh well.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:24 PM
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Honestly, this shit looks like it's gonna tank within a week or so. It's a lot of fun fucking her, but I honestly don't think I have the mental endurance to jump over all the hurdles she's gonna throw my way.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:48 AM
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Wow, I definitely don't see any downsides to doing that. Great idea! /s
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:46 AM
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So what you're saying is to jump off of this plummeting plane and pull the ripcord now?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:16 AM
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Will do. I've escaped multiple dependapotamus traps in the past, so hopefully I'll be able to dodge this one when the time comes. Already drafting up an escape plan.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:25 AM
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Roger that, will do.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:23 AM
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Yeah, strippers/pornstars never really have peaked my interest either, but she’s hot and showed interest so I figured why not? Now I’m starting to feel this weird pressure from her, like texting me all the time or she’ll call me why I’m at work just because she “misses me” it’s lowkey too much.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:54 PM
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High-production stuff, she just got back from a shoot in California the other day. Yeah, I’m definitely not planning on wifing her up, but I’m interested in meeting some of her friends for my boys, lol.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:47 PM
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Oh no. So what you’re saying is she’s a master manipulator and I basically have to have rock-solid frame or I’m gonna get fucked (and not in the good way)?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:39 PM
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Thanks, I’ll look up the post now and give it a read. Sinking in her claws?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:30 PM
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Yeah man, I already know this is going to blow up in my face somehow.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:24 PM
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PM
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:22 PM
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All I know thus far is that she was adopted after her parents abandoned her.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:22 PM
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Yeah she gets tested regularly, she even showed me her most recent one. Yeah, why not is exactly what I was thinking too. It just gets sketchy being in the military because I’ve come to learn these girls are vampires when it comes to wanting to lock us down for benefits.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:15 PM
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Air Force, but I’ve been working with Marines for the past few months. Dude, I don’t know, everybody’s gotta have a hustle I suppose. It’s also been a pretty dry season for me lately, as I just got stationed in a new location.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:13 PM
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Lmao, I guess LTR-material was the wrong choice of wording. I guess what I really meant to ask is are their any downsides to keeping her as a plate for the time being?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:03 PM
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No problem. I’m in the Air Force and I do SATCOM.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:24 PM
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I can’t speak for everyone, but for myself personally the military has done nothing but benefit me. I don’t know where comments like “being someone’s bitch 24/7” come from. There’s no difference in taking orders from your commanding officers than taking orders from your boss at work. In fact, I’d rather take orders from my commanding officers, as they earned their rank and have every right to tell me what to do if I’m fucking up in any way. Before I joined I was an undisciplined, directionless l…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:15 PM
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If it’s what you genuinely enjoy doing, who gives a fuck about what anyone thinks? Personalize the fuck out of those purses, bro. You’re killing it.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 10:00 PM
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You shouldn’t be judgmental in the first place, but I suppose the way you would convey that to her is by not giving a fuck. It has everything to do with how you carry yourself.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:51 AM
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I've managed to do this quite a few times. What works best for me is that I literally don't give a fuck about what a girl does or thinks as long as she's fucking me. Girls are really insecure by nature and if she sees that you are nonjudgemental and wouldn't make her think any less of herself for acting like the slut she really is, you'll unlock her inner slut.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:07 AM
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Why are you talking to hoes on r/gonewild, let alone contemplating sending a dick pic attached to your username? What do you do in your free time besides stroking your dick to the biggest attention whores (and literal whores) on this website? The level of sperg in this sub is getting to be a little too much for me.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:02 AM
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I need to revisit Pook as I’m easily forgetting what I learned when I first stumbled upon here. All the information anyone needs to succeed and live a happy life is here, it’s not anyone’s job to lead them to it. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:25 PM
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As much as I try to help the guys on here, it’s quickly becoming a losing battle. They already know what they’re going to do, they just want to hear a “good decision, man”. When they’re faced with opposition they hamster, downvote and insult the very people trying to help them.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:51 PM
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Goddammit man, I told you to NOT do this in the thread from earlier, and you didn't listen. She has lost all respect for you at this point, and is only with you out of convenience. The second a new branch comes along, she's going to leave you in the dust. Why couldn't you just have listened man? For fuck's sake.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 01:29 PM
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Nobody cares, faggot. Get out of my inbox.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:15 PM
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Trust me, you’re going to have many contributions of your own by not wrapping it up. You’re a fucking dumbass, lol.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:57 PM
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Fuck that. I've had multiple girls ugly cry when I broke up with them and it honestly solidified the fact that I made the right decision. Weakness makes me physically ill. Girls will try to guilt you for the decisions you make if they're not in their favor, that's how they're programmed. The trick is to not give in, nor feel any sort of emotional response to it.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:40 PM
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Why are you fucking any girl without a condom? You’re as dumb as pile of bricks, dude, seriously.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:26 PM
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Instead of thinking of the good times, think about the reason why you broke up with her. The reason why you broke up with her should be the only opinion you have of her. Block her on everything, don’t give her an option to reach out, because they always come leeching back. Don’t let her catch you in a moment of weakness because if you get back together with her you’ve forever lost your frame and she’ll never respect you. It takes time for the guilt to go away, but you’ll realize that you made th…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:23 PM
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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:20 PM
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No problem, man. Remember, girls will come and go and you won’t even remember this girl months from now even though she might occupy your mind every day. Good luck to you on your future professional and vaginal endeavors.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:40 PM
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Porn bad, masturbation good (as long as you don’t jerk it three times a day). I personally don’t jerk off unless I’m rock hard all day for no reason and can’t focus on much of anything except from fucking some broad, if a plate isn’t available at the moment I’ll let one fly. This isn’t rocket science, just don’t jerk off to 4K midget porn at 60fps and you’re fine.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:53 PM
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If there is “so much sexual tension” between you two then you shouldn’t have to put in much effort for the bang. Socialize with your coworkers at the party, don’t focus on her as much as you are with this post (which reeks of oneitis by the way), and just have a good time. After a few drinks and laughs, come to a consensus that you’re both ready to leave and she can take you home. Try to escalate the conversation on the ride home by steering it in a sexual direction. When you get to your place, …
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:51 PM
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Her place, car, lake (hammocks get bitches), etc.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:16 PM
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Fucked my first fatty a couple of weeks ago, I still haven’t gotten over the mental anguish. I agree with you on the head game though, seriously, 10/10. All you can do is leave it in the past, never look back, and don’t do it again. Pretend it never happened. I’m in the same boat, bro. We’ll get through this, lol.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:23 AM
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Is this just a mental masturbation post or what? If you are “having better and better sex every time with a now plate”, why do you care about this particular “plate”? I think you’re lying to yourself and you have oneitis for this girl, who now is getting railed by someone else. If you truly didn’t care then this post wouldn’t exist.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:58 PM
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True. Honestly, I think I've made decent progress in the year that I've been on the sub, but I still have my moments. I will say though that fucking her has taken a significant blow to my self-esteem.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:47 PM
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Yeah, I know. Luckily, none of my bros or anyone I know for that matter knows I fucked a fatty. It's probably going to sound like a have a scarcity mentality (which I suppose I do, with not having any plates currently), but I only entertain her because she's the only pussy availible to me at the moment. To be completely honest, I can go months on end without banging (I don't watch porn or masturbate either). I'm frequently horny, it's just that I occupy my time with other things that keep me fro…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:29 PM
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Military here. I once dated a girl who was pushing me so hard to buy a house for us to move in together before a deployment, I'm talking every single day we had this conversation and she was started to wear me down. She also told me she would only fuck other girls while I was deployed, but it wouldn't count as cheating because it wouldn't be other guys. I don't think I've ever dropped a girl from my life so fast. Trying to portray anything other than provider vibes when you're in the military is…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:42 PM
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Girls crave attention 24/7, it's like fucking air and water to them. It's more of a shit test directed towards you. In her mind, you're not giving her all of your attention (good on your part, keep it up), so she's validating her worth to you by saying she's "desired" by other men. Just ignore it, as long as she's sucking and fucking, who cares?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 11:54 PM
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It's not worth it if you rarely travel. I'm in the military and when I go on deployments/TDYs it comes in clutch because I can start swiping in an area before I get there and already have a date or two set up. But once again, your mileage may vary. It's really not worth it, it's more a convenience thing for me.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:24 PM
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If she gave you the details to the party when she initially asked you to come, you should've gone. If you wanted to go, and she didn't give you the details, you should've asked for them. You don't need a girl to ask you a thousand times to come to something, if she asked you once it means she wanted you to show up. You "showing up and looking lost" has nothing to do with her, it has everything to do with you and how you view yourself. You could've shown up and if you didn't see her or she didn't…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:00 PM
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You can't argue with a child, I'm just having a good ol' time. Just because you lift doesn't ensure you'll get pussy on a silver platter, but it sure as hell increases your chances. Who hurt you, bro? You can talk to us.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:09 PM
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At least I can call myself a man, lol. At 5'5" 140lbs you've got the Napoleon complex down for sure.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:05 PM
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You may have a 925lb total when it comes to lifting, but you have a 0 total when it comes to bitches. It's okay, bro, your post was ass, you'll do better on the next one for sure! :-)
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:00 PM
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I meant you should "lift more" as in lifting weights while you're in the gym instead of 'miring other guys, faggot.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 10:49 PM
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Your ego is so fragile that you have to result to I'm willing to bet money that I outlift you in all the major lifts. I'm not in competition with anyone except myself when it comes to lifting, so I guess you win by default? Congratulations. I really think you should keep garbage like the post above in your personal diary, because it did fuck-all to improve the quality of this sub, lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 10:30 PM
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It's not a "Red Pill manta", it's just general life advice for everyone, not just men on a subreddit. Everyone can benefit from physical fitness and thinking highly of themselves. I suggest you work on being more like the guy you were busy hating on at the gym. You're a virgin and you have the audacity to critique the physique of someone who probably didn't even notice you, to be honest. At least he's getting laid, what the fuck are you doing? Less hating, more lifting, more sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 10:25 PM
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What point does this post serve except for your own mental-masturbation? You're short, weak, and Middle Eastern. You lose.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 10:21 PM
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I also try to abstain from jerking off (I also have trouble with condoms). I do find myself getting blue balls from time to time, but the one way I manage to keep from suffering from them on a daily basis is by reducing my exposure to stimuli (girls on Snapchat/Instagram, porn, girls who I know won't put out, etc.) I just try to keep my head clear and the only time I get rock hard is when it's time to do the deed, and that works for me.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:48 PM
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I absolutely agree, I just felt those two options were the only ones he had after getting the LJBF talk. I figured it was too late to "do it right".
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:44 PM
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Walking her home is a great way for her to have plausible deniability. When you get her to the door you could say something along the lines of, "it was nice meeting you, I'd like to see you again without the entourage". She might even invite you in for a drink or something, "well the night doesn't have to end just yet."
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:57 PM
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You did well, I find it's better the be aloof than the guy blabbering away, it shows you're comfortable with silence and your surroundings. At the end of the day, you fuck who you want to fuck, so if you wanted to fuck the HB6 you should've gone for it, if not, that's cool too.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:42 PM
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It's better to just rip the bandaid off quick now instead of slowly peeling it off. Any LJBF situation hurts when you don't have the mental tools to deal with it (TRP), but just understand that this girl does not respect you or see you as a man, she sees you as a child or a pet, and understand that she will never feel any romantic feelings about you whatsoever. So, you have two options: 1.) Next her, occupy your mind and time with productive activities (reading, lifting, meeting new people (guys…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:39 PM
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Oshay Duke Jackson. Although, most of his content is geared towards black guys, but nonetheless his videos/podcasts are very insightful.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:18 PM
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Don't listen to him, he's a failing billionaire apparently, so what merit does he actually have?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 10:33 PM
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I found all the Headspace exercises on The Pirate Bay, no need to pay for anything.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 01:18 PM
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I figured as much. For next time I would advise you not to "force" her to do things, it can and will get you in a world of trouble. Also, keep talking to more girls. You're young, don't focus all your energy and attention into one girl. That's it.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 12:44 AM
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This is cancer.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 12:40 AM
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And that's fine man, you're just a busy guy. I'm dealing with the same situation with a girl right now, actually. She'll hit you up sometime this week for sure, if not, there are plenty of fish in the sea, my friend.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 09:05 PM
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She was hot and ready to fuck and you complicated things for her by not being availible, and she went cold and probably sat on some other dude's dick. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 09:00 PM
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Dude, I live in the south, all of those points you listed to dispute mine are in the minority as far as the general populous in my area goes, but whatever. All I'm saying is that you can't let external factors determine your self-worth. You can list excuse after excuse as to why you're not successful with women, but if you're not lifting, eating clean, saving money, climbing the socioeconomic ladder, studying and blahblahblah, then I had no pity for you as you think things are just supposed to f…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 08:06 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it, it just doesn't matter. All you Indian guys come on here and think there's some different strategy for picking up girls if you're a different race. The truth is, you're just pathetic and some girls don't like you, get over it. I'm a black male and I have no problem picking up girls of any race because I don't whine and complain about shit. Stop playing the victim.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:53 PM
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Well then tell him that she can't stay there because she makes you uncomfortable. Stop being a pussy, it's your place too.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:01 AM
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If you're rooming with someone, and for some reason they make your home uncomfortable for you to live in, you have every reason to bring it up to your roommate. I personally would tell him that either she fucks off or I'm moving out. I wouldn't want a roommate who digs in the trash for scraps from the past anyways.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 11:56 PM
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Yeah, get out of that situation. That's just sad.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 06:26 PM
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Escalate. If she keeps turning down your advances then tell her to hit the road. My biggest question is, why is she sleeping with you if she's not sleeping with you?
/r/askTRP28/05/17 06:06 PM
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/thread
/r/askTRP28/05/17 01:24 AM
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It just comes from the fact that no girl in the history of girls will ever tell a guy how many guys (or gals) she's slept with, that's just facts.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 12:37 AM
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22 here. I'm in the military, work as a mechanic part-time, and I'm in school. When I'm not doing those things I work out, eat, and read. Honestly, sometimes life is just a grind, but it really makes you appreciate the moments where you get a chance to breathe. Lift, read, breathe, and just enjoy life in general. Life's temporary.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 11:44 PM
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Ah, now I see where you're coming from. Honestly, if you really want to be a fitness model then do that. If you really want to be a CEO then kick ass doing that, but be in good shape at the same time.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:20 PM
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Good shit then. If you feel like you can walk away at anytime, then no problem. Don't make mountains out of molehills and enjoy life, man.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:18 PM
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Why not both? Stop making excuses for being poor and weak.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:31 PM
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You dumbass, why would you send that if you're not interested in her? Just delete her number and act cordial with her at work, pretend this never happened. A hoe is never worth losing your job over or making the workplace uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:30 PM
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I don't understand what you're upset about...? Is it not a good thing that "your" girl is claiming she's yours? I don't know, the sperg is too real.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:27 PM
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Keep it moving, man. Forget that hoe.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:42 PM
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I don't know, whenever I'm really on my grind (lifting, busy with school/military) it seems girls come flocking to me. To me girls are a symptom of success. Honestly, I go weeks to months at a time without regular female interaction and whenever I start focusing all of my energy into my body and mind the girls come knocking. Just keep grinding, bro, there are new girls turning 18 every day.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:07 PM
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I hear guys' cum tastes sweeter if that's the flavoryou're after.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:59 PM
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Usually if I'm out alone I'll find some guys playing pool or darts and ask if I can hop in next round. Drinks get flowing and we all get talking and strike up excellent conversation because we're guys, duh. Then after that the group of dudes will usually say something along the lines of, "we're going to head to xyz, you should come with, bro!" It's way easier than you're making it seem, man, just get out of your head and let it flow.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:02 AM
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True. After you get her tested ghost the fuck out of her, seriously.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:59 PM
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Still doesn't address the fact that you have a rash on your junk, bro.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:53 PM
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Why do you care about her health? She obviously doesn't care about yours.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:27 PM
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Delete, block, and ghost that infected bitch. Go to your doctor and take whatever it is that is prescribed to you to clear up your rash. It isn't worth blowing her phone up over to get her to admit she was wrong for what she did, girls will never accept any level of responsibility or blame. Girls just wanna have fun.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:43 PM
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I can say with 100% confidence that I never made out with or touched the butts of girls I was in the "friendzone" with in high school. Just escalate more next time.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:57 PM
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Always let the girl bring up the status of the relationship, that way you are always the one in control.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:04 AM
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You people talk about guiding men into the right direction and showing them the compassion that the world refuses to give them due to gender differences, but here you guys are shitting on men who make progress. Actually the entire basis of TRP is sexual strategy, so... Anyways, the world isn't going to show you compassion, and neither are we. You clearly have failed to read any of the sidebar material given all of the ranting and raving you've done in this shitty excuse for a post. Shut up, read…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:03 AM
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Is there a question? I don't see the problem.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:59 PM
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TLDR; - Guy doesn't get laid and attacks TRP members because he's fragile and wants us to stroke his ego and give him an attaboy.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:48 PM
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You sure could've let go of some of that pent up aggression with a good nut-busting, but hey, if you're too pussy to insert object A into slot B, there's nothing wrong with that. :)
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:46 PM
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She's clearly not interested as a girl who is genuinely interested in you will make time for you, so I'd suggest you just take an L on this one and find new plans with a new bitch.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 03:05 PM
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I just read the title because the only way to handle an LDR is to not have an LDR.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 12:15 AM
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We're not going to hold your hand and breastfeed you either.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:19 AM
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Sure. If she's DTF then by all means go get your dick wet for the first time. Don't be silly, wrap your willy.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 01:54 PM
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You're thinking about this too deeply. If someone is doing favors for you, they essentially live inside your frame. That's a good thing. End of discussion.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 08:02 PM
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There's really no game when it comes to Snapchat or texting in general. Just lead an interesting and worthwhile life, take some pictures along the way, post 'em. As far as leaving people on read or replying to snaps/texts, you need to be so busy with your own life to the point where you almost forget to reply. In short, as I stated before, there's no game, just get better at living life.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:21 PM
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The boyfriend might end up texting him death threats as most do nowadays. All he has to do is send him the screenshots and say "your girl is a slut, bro, sorry".
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:09 PM
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Maybe she just needed a little comfort? As long as she fucked you in the morning it's all good. Be wary though, she could be pushing for an upgrade to LTR. Get ready for the shit tests and comfort tests that I'm sure are coming your way.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:07 PM
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I love easy girls. I also love the chase. No one said you can't have the best of both worlds. Put a little effort towards the ones that present a challenge, and go balls deep in the easy ones at the same time.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:05 PM
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Good shit, let us know how it goes. Enjoy your vacation.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:05 PM
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Please for the love of everything in this world, run. Crazy girls are crazy in bed, I'll give them that (I've had my fair share), but they'll fuck up your shit real quick. That includes your career, house, car, even your fucking mind. Seriously, stay away.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:38 PM
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I love sluts. They're women with a purpose, and that's something I can appreciate.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:36 PM
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She essentially told you in womanspeak that she wants to fuck you. Ask her out, escalate, insert object A into object B. Don't overthink this, bro, you're halfway home.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:35 PM
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Just look up RSD videos on YouTube.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:33 AM
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If that was true you wouldn't have asked that question at all. Instead of rephrasing the question you should just delete it, it's cancerous.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:26 AM
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Because you're spewing a bunch of incoherent bullshit like an autist. I suggest you stay away from asking these questions until you thoroughly read the sidebar and the recommended literature. I'm not just saying that to be an asshole, I'm serious.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:06 AM
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This is sad.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:51 PM
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If she tried anal with you on the first time she's done it with other guys, guaranteed. You're not special to her, man. Just keep it moving.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:30 PM
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Never stop working towards self-improvement. No matter how far you think you've come from the old you, there's always miles and miles left for improvement. Great reminder, OP.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:19 PM
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I've found that when you literally can't find any space in your day to pencil a bitch in is when you know you're on the right track. It's almost as if girls like to feel like they're a extra in your movie.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:17 PM
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She literally gave you three different excuses, bro. Let her go and find more hoes, her pussy can't be that good to warrant you blowing up her phone.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:05 PM
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She is fucking other guys, trust me on that. Go fuck other girls and stop tripping over some basic hoe. By even writing this post you've proven that she has a higher SMV than you and you essentially live inside her frame. Get yourself together, man. You look like a soup sandwich.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:45 AM
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Motivation is bullshit, discipline is where it's at.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 04:00 PM
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Pretty much, man. I personally put a lot of worth into my personal hygiene and appearance, so I expect the same for any girl I'm involved with.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:03 AM
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It's been stated that simply talking about something you're going to do or plan on doing in the future gives you the same sense of accomplishment that actually doing said thing would give you. With that being said, I prefer to let my accomplishments speak for me, I never have to say a word.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:24 AM
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As long as it's well groomed I don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:21 AM
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All you can do is pack it up, go to bed, and hit it hard tomorrow. Everyone has off days, don't beat yourself up. The positive you can take away from this is the fact that you know you're having an off day. For some people they never have an on day, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:20 AM
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Why are you so afraid of girls wanting you just for sex? That's all I'm getting from your question here, I'm genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:19 AM
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You're supposed to be fucking for you and you only, who gives a fuck about her preferences or needs if she's just some one off hoe? That's something that you would consider for an LTR only.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:17 AM
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I hope you mean 250kg because 250lb isn't shit, Mr. Arnold.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 05:59 AM
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Couldn't have done it with some logical advice from you guys. It's so hard to think clearly when dealing with a BPD girl, it's almost like she fucked me up in the head and I couldn't think rationally. Funny enough, other girls (her friends) saw that I sent her on her way (probably on Snapchat or whatever), and they're starting to get a little flirty with me and saying things like they were "scared of her and didn't want to intrude".
/r/askTRP03/03/17 11:25 PM
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/u/MattyAnon /u/dawnlander I got her a flight and dropped her off the airport last night. It was a pricey ticket, but a small price to pay to get her out of my sight and my life. I'm ghosting her from this point forward. It sucks, but I know I'm just hurt not because she's gone, but because the girl I thought she was never existed. Thank you all for your advice and input.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:13 PM
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That's the plan! Her and her friend got all of her stuff packed up but they keep leaving the room for an hour at a time, probably just trying to wait me out and see if I'll really leave her stranded here. Well, she's in for a rude awakening, haha.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:00 PM
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Normally I would agree with you, but luckily this morning I told my supervisor (Senior Master Sergeant) about my situation and she told me it would be best if she could find a ride or stay with someone else because I'm clearly not in a healthy situation if she put her hands on me.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:07 PM
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Literally in the process of getting her the fuck out of my room.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:51 PM
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Damn, just leave her stranded in FL? Lol.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:59 PM
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I was.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:32 PM
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Okay. I'll give her the warning when I get back to the room. I'll make sure to get an audio recording of the conversation as well. Thank you.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:24 PM
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How do you ghost someone you're stuck on vacation with?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:03 PM
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Okay, got it. I feel like I need to leave her here to make a point that she really fucked up this time.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:02 PM
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Question: I'm actually good friends with her brother, so would it make me like an asshole to just leave her here with no money?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:43 PM
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Don't talk to her anymore. Screenshot any texts you have from the night/the morning after. Don't try to pitch your case to your fellow frat bros or friends of the girl, they won't believe you no matter what you say. Just go into the hearing with as much evidence as you can gather and hope for the best. Trust me dude, it's not the end of the world. I know it's shitty, but these things happen. This is why we always advocate you send a "had a fun time last night :)" text the morning after to preven…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 04:46 PM
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It was /u/BitterRP but he deleted his account as well, lol.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 12:03 AM
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This is a decent FR, but you are so full of yourself and I'm calling bullshit on half of the little details. This should be retitled "Mental Masturbation 101".
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 10:51 PM
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Excellent post. I'm glad someone went a little bit more in-depth with what I was trying to get across with my post. I would like to see someone make a post focusing on the business aspect of walking away as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 01:07 AM
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I find that whenever you show you a girl you are willing to walk away at the drop of dime, her attraction to you increases 100x.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:03 PM
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I meant it's more a reflection of the bad day rather than letting women make your day bad. What you just said makes no sense. Anyways, girls aren't considered a part of my day whatsoever. I control what kind of day I'm going to have from the moment I wake up. Once again, stop pedestalizing girls. They shouldn't have any affect on your day at all.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 10:49 PM
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Always remember: there is no such thing as an interesting girl, only interesting ex-boyfriends.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 10:42 PM
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A "Chad" isn't going to let girls not responding to his messages affect his day, let alone his opinion of himself because he hasn't even noticed they haven't replied, he's too busy being productive as fuck. Stop being a beta. Stop looking to girls for validation.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 10:41 PM
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Gym and intramural soccer.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:40 PM
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As someone who had a girlfriend (pre-TRP) cheat on them during basic training, I can say she did you a huge favor. Focus on the open road you have ahead of you, the military is going to do leaps and bounds more than for you than that sloot did.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 09:40 PM
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The "texting is for logistics only" rule is only really valid when it comes to girls you've already had sex with. Just don't become her texting buddy and you'll be fine, stop overthinking this shit.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:20 PM
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Is she an easier lay? Yes. Is it worth it? No. Speaking from experience, it is never worth it to stick your dick in girls with visible issues. When she's banging on your door and screaming outside your window at 3 A.M. remember I tried to warn you.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:15 PM
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How are you a senior in high school and don't have a job? Lol.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 11:20 PM
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If you don't have "that much money" you should be focusing on getting your income settled, instead of worrying about fucking sloots.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:53 PM
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Just ended an LTR myself last night. I have a lot of mental hurdles (depression, anxiety) to get over and having someone around (loving or not) wasn't the way to fix myself. I know it hurts now, but time heals all wounds, it's not just a saying. All I can say is that you need to focus on yourself and better yourself with every day because even you yourself said you're fighting depression. You will always have the longing for another human being, it's biological, but right now the only thing you …
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:28 PM
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Crazy people... That's women for you, brother. Forget about this one, she's not worth the time. Enjoy the holidays.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 03:58 PM
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What does it mean if she doesnt answer at all? It means she's not into bro, sorry. She sees you as merely a texting buddy at most. Trust me, she replies when Chad texts her and tells her to come over and polish his knob. Forget about this one, you'll get the next one...and the one after that...and the one after that...
/r/askTRP25/12/16 12:22 AM
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How to deal with a girl with harmful views about life. You don't.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:20 PM
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I personally can't think of a response because I don't plan dates with my plates. I just tell them where I'll be and when to meet me (if they come up with an excuse as to why they can't make it, fuck 'em, ask the next girl in your contacts). It shows you have your shit together and you're taking the lead, girls like that. They don't want to think about anything regarding logistics when they're with you, you're supposed to be her escape.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:50 PM
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Agreed. There could be a plethora of responses to the vague sentence you gave us, OP.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:12 PM
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The real question here is, why are you so insecure? If you've genuinely been working towards improving yourself and your outlook on life, you wouldn't have the time to worry about what hoes your friend is pulling. Honestly, who cares? Let your friend fuck what he fucks.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:09 PM
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In the Air Force as well, can vouch.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 10:22 AM
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I needed this post today, as I just removed myself from a toxic relationship with a BPD girl on Sunday. I keep telling myself that I'm doing the right thing and that she's a sinking ship that I needed to get off of, but the way BPD girls poison the mind of their victims is astonishing. She's been on a binge of alcohol and cocaine for days now (seen via Snapchat, I have since deleted all social media after seeing that). I keep wanting to reach a hand out to her, not as an ex-boyfriend, but as som…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:32 PM
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Girls don't keep track of things you've done for them or how much you've been there for them, if that was the case betas would be getting laid left and right. You can't save 'em all, man. What's so special about this one anyway?
/r/askTRP22/09/16 11:37 PM
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So I talk to her as little as possible, just checking in every once in a while to let her know I'm still around. Who's a good beta? You're a good beta! Yes you are! Yes you are! All jokes aside, you're giving a shit about a girl you're not fucking, who's miles away, when you could be leavin' the nuts hangin' out of local girls. Priorities, man. Forget this one, next.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 10:55 PM
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You're playing with fire putting your trust in a woman in the first place. I've had a few friends whose girlfriends said they were "on the pill" and "would get an abortion", and guess what? They're proud fathers now.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 12:51 PM
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Your confidence seems pretty low if you're concerned about your girlfriend adding another orbiter to her arsenal. I personally wouldn't bring it up or act like it bothers me at all. This is the perfect time to use dread game. Just start texting/snapchatting other girls, it won't be long until your girlfriend starts hamstering away.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 01:05 PM
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We haven't fucked because she's currently in another country. Wait for it... Surely you understand the game is different for virgins? Lol. She is most definitely getting railed by the locals, sorry.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:17 PM
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how's she fuck? She doesn't.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:14 PM
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I dont have any feelings for her whatsoever. I meet and talk to new girls all the time. If that were true you wouldn't be wasting your time making a post about "this one girl", or care about what she thinks of you at all. Lastly, if you regard "But you can to me. What stopped you?" as a beta statement, then your perception of beta and alpha is skewed. A beta's job is to listen to a girl's problems, you're not Chad in this situation, you're a beta. If you're talking, you're not fucking, and if yo…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:14 PM
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I said "But you can to me. What stopped you?" I'll take "Things Betas Say" for 500, Alex. In all honesty, bro, you have oneitis and instead of worrying about where you stand with this girl (who doesn't seem at all interested in you) how about you go out and meet new girls? There are literally dozens of them.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:58 PM
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I ended things with her because she was clingy as hell and would cry whenever I didn't want to come over. Later found out she has diagnosed BPD, bullet dodged. But no, she wasn't fat. I've got no love for the land whales.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:53 AM
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I would use a push/pull in this situation. If she pulled away when I was going in for a kiss, I would've chuckled under my breath and moved farther away from her on the couch/bed. Then I'd pull out my phone and swipe on Tinder/text other girls/browse Reddit (just show that you don't give a fuck and have other options). Eventually, if you play it right, she'll be begging you to touch/kiss/fuck her soon enough.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:32 PM
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You expanded on my point quite articulately, thank you. Giving everyone a real life example, the girl I mentioned above, who was so awestruck by my "black" features was a girl who was interested in me because I was black, she fetishized me. Girls like this will never be suited for an LTR and should only be plates, if that. If anyone wants to know just how deep the rabbit hole goes, that girl who was so in love with my blackness a few weeks ago is currently dating another girl. These girls have i…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:39 PM
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That's life, bro. All you can do is give your all each day, and at the end of the day if you ask yourself, "is there anything more I could've done today to blahblahblah," and the answer is no, you can mark that day as a success. Life has ups and downs, without ups there wouldn't be downs, and without downs there wouldn't be ups. Just keep it movin', brother.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:31 PM
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I don't think a girl into gangbanging at all, regardless of race, would be fit for an LTR.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:26 PM
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First off, I want to clearly state that I am not racist. Many of my good friends are black guys. Lol, classic. Anyways, as a black male I can attest to the fetishism that comes with a white girl wanting to be with a black guy. I was recently with a girl who'd never dated a black guy before and she was just head over heels infatuated with me, saying "how different" everything about my body was (bigger lips, curly hair, etc.) I don't think you're being unreasonable in any sense, you're just not at…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:33 PM
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*slow clap* You did good, son, you did good. She'll be contacting you soon enough, I promise you that.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:22 AM
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You have too much time on your hands if you're analyzing how many times or how long a plate kisses you. Regardless, you kind of broke frame by asking her why she breaks the kiss first. You confirmed that she has the power. My only suggestion to you is to stop giving a fuck about how many times or how long she kisses you. As long as she's fucking you, who cares?
/r/askTRP16/07/16 12:51 AM
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Validation, it's really that simple. Always ask for her number after 1-3 messages to keep you from: 1.) Wasting your time. & 2.) Allowing her to use you for validation, which you already gave her by swiping right.
/r/seduction08/07/16 02:58 AM
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"I couldn't count the number of people I see per day."
/r/askTRP06/07/16 08:04 PM
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It's a shit test, agree and amplify. "Maybe so, I've always had the most exquisite taste in women." You could also spin the above reply this way: "Indeed I am, I've always had the most exquisite taste in women. Unless I was wrong about you, was I?" The above comment would most likely make her attempt to qualify herself to you, putting the ball in your court.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 12:12 AM
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If you've "established SMV" then would've gotten results. Don't fool yourself. The only dating site I use is outside.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 12:07 AM
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You can hit some dumbbell bench, inclined bench (really good for developing upper chest gains), rows, etc.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 11:18 PM
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Exactly, you've already got it down pretty much. Just go and have fun, don't focus on her. Be someone who she'll WANT to fuck, don't force it.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:52 PM
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If you want to go, then go. If you don't, then don't. You could look at this one of two ways: 1.) You don't go on this impromptu change of venue "date", as agreeing would pull you into her frame. or 2.) You go and enjoy yourself, maybe game her female friends and get them to show interest in you, I don't know. Personally, I always say no when a girl tries to change plans up on me.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:22 PM
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This is called Last Minute Resistence, or (since it was in public) Anti-Slut Defense. It's common with girls who are willing to hang out with you, but are hesitant for one reason or another. I've seen people draw similarities between LMR or ASD and approach anxiety in men. Lol, thanks for the definition. I've tried to get her to hang out with me twice and met resistance while we were in public. I've never been alone with her. Maybe my attempts at getting her to hang out with me are weak. That's …
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:58 PM
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I haven't saved time for her, or given her more attention than other girls. ...but... I've thought about just starting a conversation with her like, "So, there's this girl that I've been trying to get to hang out with me. The first few times, she gave me weird ass excuses. The last time I asked her, she came up with some bullshit about her car. But, I figured out the other day that she has a boyfriend! Oddly though, she never mentioned that the last time. Any idea why she might not have brought …
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:25 PM
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You have oneitis, my friend. Just let her go and read the sidebar once or twice. I felt nothing but sadness reading this post. You're so far gone into her frame that I don't even think she considers you a guy with a penis anymore. Go talk to other girls, immediately. https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:05 PM
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Why are you spending time with this woman? Trust me, from experience, the ass isn't worth the crazy.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:07 PM
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Dude, I wish I had more friends like you. Keep doing what you're doing, brother. Being the one organizing the hangouts shows that you're high value and willing to open your life up to others, as opposed to just being a background character in someone else's spotlight. Good shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 07:03 PM
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Stop sucking on your mom's teat. Her opinion of you might have mattered when she was raising you, but you have to accept that you're a grown adult. Nobody's opinion of you matters except your OWN. I'm not telling you to tell your mom to fuck off, but you need to get away from the stranglehold she seems to have on you.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 08:28 PM
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Run.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 01:59 PM
2

You lack abundance mentality. You easily fall into oneitis. No girl is special, get that out of your head.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:46 PM
1

Escalate. If she rejects your advances, she really isn't into you and only using you for validation.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:45 PM
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You should know whether or not a girl is looking for validation.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 07:44 PM
3

bitches be trippin' Indeed they do. You can ask her to come over and see if she sucks your dick this time. If not, fuck it, she seems like a time bomb anyways.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:56 PM
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You did well, you held frame. 13 missed calls and coming into your house unannounced are red flags for a plate. I recommend you keep radio silence until she clues in that she should probably suck your dick. If she doesn't, fuck it, you should be talking to other girls anyways.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 03:52 PM
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Watch a woman's actions, not her words. In my experience, girls who tell me they're "not into me" or would "never fuck me" while we're out in a group setting are the same ones fucking me at the end of the night. If a girl isn't into you, she'll make it clear by not acknowledging your existence at all.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:07 AM
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I had a lesbian friend when I was in high school who did all of things you're saying your friend is doing, and I fucked her. That's all I'm saying, dude. If I was a betting man, I'd say the odds are in your favor.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 10:14 PM
2

Implying that you're young and your job isn't a career where getting involved with a coworker is suicide, I suggest go for it. Invite her over to your place and escalate. If she's receptive, fuck her. If she isn't, fuck her.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 09:08 PM
1

Is the girl from Germany still in town? If she is I'd ask her out for drinks or something.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:58 PM
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Enjoy her while you have her. If you want to keep her as a plate and nothing more, keep her spinning until she breaks, then move on. Nobody's perfect.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:50 PM
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Stop messaging her, bro, either she isn't interest or she's playing games. Either case, she isn't worth your time. Go meet other girls.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:48 PM
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Your response is fine. You want it to be a date, so leave no room for her to think it's not a date. If she isn't comfortable with going out with just you, she's not interested and she's wasting your time, next.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:52 PM
2

Run.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:21 AM
2

You're golden, brother.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 08:38 PM
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Over 6 feet tall? Check. British accent? Check. Legal drinking age? Check. I'm assuming you lift. In which case, you'll do fine here in the states, bro.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 05:28 PM
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Invite her over to your place and fuck her if that's what you want to do. Don't bring up anything she's said to you over text, she's just being a woman. Pay attention to a woman's actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 05:25 PM
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Game her like you would any other girl.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 04:02 PM
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If you want to fuck her, fuck her. Who gives a shit about what a girl you're not fucking thinks?
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:13 PM
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Don't text her back. She'll be driving herself insane all day thinking about what random girl you were fucking, that's what you want. If she texts you again sometime today just respond and say it was a crazy night. hamstering intensifies
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:15 AM
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If she texts you it's probably going to be in response to your drunken text. Like I said earlier, just say you were drunk and that's all there is to it. Delete her number if you can't control yourself when you're drinking. You should've deleted her number anyways if you're "broken up".
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:53 PM
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Don't say anything else. If she asks you about it, you were drunk and that's all there is to it. Don't text her again, I cannot emphasis that enough.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:50 PM
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I prefer curvy body types over slim body types simply because that's just always been my preference. I do believe attraction to curvy body types in women is purely primitive, where women with wider hips were more suited for childbirth.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 11:24 AM
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Me: hmu when you're single Instead of this typical "bro" response you should've agreed and amplified: "I don't think I have room for two." or "Hold your horses, I just wanted you to meet (insert pet name here)!" or "Does he not allow you to take tours of people's houses?" These are just frameworks of what you could've said that would've probably led to her visiting you. I don't believe "hmu when you're single" is going to get a response, but I could be wrong.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:41 PM
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Ignore it completely. It's not worth it.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:35 PM
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It can hide poor body language If you have poor body language then practicing good body language in real life social interactions is the only way to fix it, not texting. it beats shampoo bottles and facebook as you take a dump Or you could read a book.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:44 PM
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Texting is for logistics only.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:16 PM
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Ok, so you say there is no chance to find a loyal girl and live happily ever after? I never said that, but I wouldn't get my hopes up. Until this girl I only wanted sex from girls but it didnt worked out. I found this girl really liked her and she just wanted sex. Just let her go, dude. You've placed her on a pedestal so high you need a damn telescope to see her. Get over it and move on. Go talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 12:31 PM
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I know all about military pay, my dude. I've been in the Air Force for two years now. What I believe this situation calls for is the 12 Levels of Dread, it's worth a read and may allow you to get the breathing room you require: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:41 PM
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Why are you living with this girl? Is she your girlfriend? That would've been important to include in your post. Regardless of the situation, you are essentially her doormat. Find your balls, man, and get out of that situation. The damage is done, there's no backpedaling from the amount of beta behavior you've already shown in her favor. Abort mission.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:29 PM
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Apply dread. Start giving your attention to other girls.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:22 PM
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Holy shit man, zero reason. Absolutely no ability to take responsibility for her own actions, instead choses to blame me instead. Welcome to the wonderful world of women. You can try your hardest to mold her into something you want, but at the end of the day you can't trump biology.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 10:18 AM
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Oh, she has a sex drive, she just doesn't have a sex drive for you. When an LTR takes sex off the table, you take commitment off the table.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:12 PM
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First, read the sidebar. Second, stop feeling sorry for yourself, that shit is lame. Third, learn to love yourself and put your aspirations/goals above everything else. What I just read was a pitiful post full of self-hate. The last thing you need to be worried about right now is women. Get your mind right, brother, women will always be there.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 06:33 PM
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Why are you doing things for a girl that "broke up" with you? This post reeks of oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 01:42 PM
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That would've been important to include in your above post. If you went with a hard next instead of a soft next for a girl you still want to fuck, may I ask what she did?
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:27 PM
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Except her mother/sister(s), they'll convince her to "experience" everything a country has to offer, including the local cock.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:19 PM
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Just start slowly withdrawing yourself from her. If you're in an LTR with a girl who doesn't respect you enough to not cheat on you with the local populous while traveling, she can never be anything more than a plate.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:52 PM
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It really isn't. It's literally pressing two buttons on your phone. Who gives a fuck what a woman's motivation is behind anything? Unless she's going to be in your bed tonight, you shouldn't be thinking about her at all, because I promise you she's not thinking about you.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:16 PM
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When your girlfriend travels abroad without you, that's not your girlfriend anymore.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:54 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. You still have a scarcity mentality if you're thinking of boning a girl you work with.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:07 AM
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Try this: 1.) Go up to her. (Preferably when she's not in the middle of an exercise.) 2.) Get her number. 3.) Ask her out. If it doesn't go the way you want it to go, fuck it. She's not some mythical creature, she's a girl and there are plenty more where she came from. Abundance, abundance, abundance.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 09:17 PM
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You can put an end to monk mode whenever you feel you are ready. Don't be afraid of placing a little bit of your focus on girls. Sure, you might slip back into your beta ways here and there, but that's the beauty of swallowing the pill. Swallowing the pill is a lifelong process, and while you might feel your beta tendencies coming to light, at least now you're aware of them, that's progress. All I'm saying is, do whatever the FUCK you want.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 02:37 PM
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Ask her if she wants to get drinks with you one weekend (a weekend when you're not busy, don't move your schedule around for anyone, especially a girl). If she agrees, cool, your foot is halfway in the door. If she declines and doesn't attempt to reschedule, next.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 11:49 PM
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The way to deal with similar situations in the future is to: 1.) Learn how to pass the "I have a boyfriend" shit test. (It'll become second nature after a while.) or 2.) Chalk it up as a loss and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:30 PM
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If you're going to make a post about how a girl wasn't interested in you, and when someone points it out to you (because you're too dense to realize it), don't adopt a bad attitude about it. You're too invested in this one girl (who rejected you), get back out there and find a girl who WILL get drinks with you.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:19 PM
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If she was "very much interested" then she would've agreed to going to get drinks with you.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:06 PM
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The timing is all up to you, but what I will say is that if she tries to start a conversation with you over the phone or through text, steer the conversation to her coming to your place or you going over to her place. That way, you won't be giving her what she wants (your time) with minimal effort on her part. If she refuses to meet up with you or give you a time in the near future when you two can meet, next. If she agrees to meet up... Escalate. If she puts up more resistance, try a push/pull …
/r/askTRP27/02/16 05:58 PM
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I know exactly how this story plays out because I was in the same situation as you a year or so ago, and that's what led me here. The second a girl opens up to you about her problems or insecurities, you've been marked as a beta orbiter in her eyes. Do you think a girl talks about how fucked up her head is to the guy she's sucking off in a restaurant bathroom? Fuck no. She's only hot and cold with you because she's trying to keep you close enough so you don't realize what a beta bitch you are to…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 02:47 PM
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I personally wouldn't reply until I found another opportunity to hang out with her again, then make a fucking move. That's why "ur lame", you didn't make a move when she wanted you to. You're golden, bro, just escalate next time.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:40 AM
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Based on that reply alone and the lack of rapport you seem to have with her, she doesn't seem all that interested, bro. Soft next. I wouldn't make contact with her anymore. If she initiates contact after this, keep the conversation short and try to lead it her meeting up with you. If she pulls any more of this "ugh why" bullshit then hard next and lose her number. You're going to a bar, there will be plenty of girls there, game one (or a few) and forget about her.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 11:31 PM
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Shit, looks like I picked the wrong country to live in. My opinion is very biased, but I didn't know what the hell I wanted to go to college for after graduating from high school, so I joined the military. I can say after all of my training I'm a lot more disciplined with my studies. It wouldn't be a bad idea to toss around your noggin is all I'm saying.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:33 PM
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You need a college education to become an officer in the U.S. military. Source: Airman in the U.S. Air Force
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:26 PM
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If you stick to a strict gym regimen you'll: feel better after working out than you would after smoking weed, have no interest in watching porn or masturbating because you just utilized your built-up testosterone by picking up weights and putting them down over and over, and you'll be so relaxed afterwards that all you'll want to do is get in a meal and comatose for a few hours, forget about video games. Getting your ass to the gym and sticking to it is just the beginning, but it's a good founda…
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The only advice I have to give is to block her number completely, that way she can't just "drop back into your life". Delete the message, block her number, keep moving forward. Your life is a timeline, and when things are left in the past, there they shall remain.
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I truly loved this girl but I don't have oneitis But I still want to fuck her Do you see how these statements contradict each other? If you hard nexted her, why are you still thinking about her? If you don't have oneitis, why are you telling us you loved a girl you haven't even stuck your dick in? I have abundance You lack an abundance mentality if you're still thinking about a girl you supposedly hard nexted. Go talk to/fuck ten other girls.
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Based on your post, you're already invested in something that won't work out. What makes this floozy so special anyways? Did she put a spell on you or something? That would explain the ramblings of a madman above.
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You sound extremely invested in this girl you've done fuck-all with.
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"I love that sweet ass." grabs ass
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One the other hand some principlea of trp do really work. Why she does have interest in me only if i ignore her? Things aren't supposed to be like this. Yes, things are supposed to be like this because that's how women's brains have been wired since the beginning of time, just accept it. Your best bet is to forget this one and move on, your oneitis and need to fuck this girl shows extreme scarcity, and that is one stinky cologne.
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I guess he half-listened to our advice, maybe there's hope for him.
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Glad to see you back again with a new account. I think you already got all of the answers you needed from your previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4hzwy0/ex_fwb_texted_after_2_weeks_since_she_broke_up/ The answer is yes, you still have oneitis.
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Can I win this one? How? No, you can't. Next. On to the next one. FDB.
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You successfully held frame, good job. Your girlfriend's "those girls aren't even pretty" comment is more of her hamstering away that Daniel really didn't give a shit about what quality of girls he was talking to, as long as they were receptive. She didn't feel like a special snowflake anymore.
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K.
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