Two months ago I had two plates. One left the state, and I nexted the other. After that, I started dating a girl I thought was LTR material. She became too attached and some serious red flags came out (read abusive ex), so I sort of ghosted her. Of course, this drove her nuts and she's obsessed.

I'm starting a new job soon that will take up most of my time for the next few months, so I'm worried I won't have time to find new plates, but I don't want to go sex-less.

Is it dangerous to plate a girl who's a bit obsessed and a little crazy, or can I do this safely?