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Yeah, I was definitely thinking/feeling this. Needed confirmation. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 10:18 PM
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Sex is so much better doing this
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:57 PM
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Croatia
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:46 AM
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Hooking up with my dream girl in a foreign land, knowing she was cheating on her boyfriend of five years with not only myself, but with another guy at the same time. She was shopping around and I sold that bitch in a dream the others couldn’t compare to. I witnessed her speaking in the phone with her boyfriend while we were off to stock up on condoms
/r/askTRP26/10/18 09:14 PM
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This advice is also based on what my family in Europe has told me first-hand and my experience with several local women over the years I've visited (I go every year). To be fair, yeah, I've stopped approaching the locals after discovering that many locals I'd hook-ups with would actually not be single and/or highly codependent.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:28 PM
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This is what works for me: Don't try to meet the local girls. I have and almost brought one back with me (she did visit on her own dime for three weeks) but the lesson I learned was that only the bad girls who have a reputation are those willing to hook-up with travelers. Go for meeting other travelers. Hostels are the best place to meet travelers and are walking tours. Isolate a girl, get to know her and escalate. Travel alone and go for girls also traveling alone. I seriously do better in Euro…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:52 PM
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You nailed it: I'm vetting for an LTR and happened to attract who/what I'm not actually interested in and feel obligated to prove myself to someone whom I know is flakey and I am too and I can tell we're too similar.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:45 PM
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Absolutely, I actually don't care about this one. I was projecting cause I had been stringing a girl along for some time, figuring she's doing the same to me, hence why I said what I did. A weekend of rolling made me a little too nice. Letting her go, thanks.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:37 PM
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I had a narcissistic ex who kept talking about her time there (she graduated from oxford) so that kinda ruined it for me, is all. The city is just the campus but visiting a school you have no ties to may be off putting to others besides myself. But the architecture is very note-worthy, yes
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:34 PM
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I did Manchester to Liverpool to Chester to York to Whitby (all were great, go there) to Newcastle (supposedly great nightlife but not really and boring overall) to Edinburgh (go there) to Glasgow (I did not care for it, you have to know people there, I've been told) to Bolton (skip it) to Bath (go there) to Oxford (not worth it) to London.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:06 AM
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The timing of this related to my life and where I am versus where I want to be is haunting. Thanks for this.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 09:32 PM
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I’m told it’s a Balkan thing to do, plus Slavic so you’ve got one hell of a combo there. I was speaking with a Bulgarian guy who told me that branch swinging is the norm there. I told him about the Croatian and even of a Bulgarian I hit it off with and he said that had I brought either of them over, they’d proceed to look to branch swing. The ‘good’ ones are those born of immigrant parents, with the old-world ‘values’ but adjusted to their new homes.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:23 PM
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Ha, no. I have Hungarian family. They even warned me: the good ones are those who marry their own and don’t live in the larger cities. Keep away. If they know English well, it’s cause they speak with enough tourists, meaning they are consistently being hit on. Only the bad ones are the ones who fuck travelers. I learned that’s the case most everywhere. I hit it off with a Croatian woman, considered bringing her back with me, found out she cheated on a guy with me that she was already cheating wi…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:46 PM
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I'm absolutely there. I'm focusing on my career and body, as well as digging approaching so i get a thrill instead of feeling low on myself for jacking off to watching another man plow a woman I find attractive. This especially after a couple invited me back to F so the guy could watch. I went up there and noticed they had porn going and put it together: watching porn literally makes you a cuck.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:31 PM
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Respect. I'm 36 now, wishing I had learned about TRP earlier, feeling as though I've lost so much to time. Reading your post has me feeling motivated for the future. I'm currently working on my body and my career like never before, seeing results and continuing onward. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 11:17 PM
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I'm glad; I promise you, the more you focus on it, the more it'll eat away at you and you'll feel as though your ultimate goal is to reach out to her. Don't give into this. Once you meditate over it, kill any thoughts creeping into your head about her. What I did that helped was getting high in nature, by myself and talking my way through it out loud over the course of three hours. After that, I don't entertain any thoughts of her. What's funny is we're still following each other on social media…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:17 PM
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I've done it once to a LTR; I sent her a long email just telling her what I should have during our two-year relationship. I knew full-well she would lose all attraction she had for me once I bled my feefees and thoughts to her; I partially did it so we could both move on. And did she. The thing was that I was waiting for something from her, knowing she wouldn't do it; see, men are the romantics. Did she respond in kind? Nope. And then I was left waiting for her. The kicker was that I broke up wi…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:35 PM
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Holy sh!t, you described me and my situation exactly. I’ve learned to not just allow anyone into my life despite being a loving and open person. Along with raising standards for myself, I’m raising my standards for whom I’ll allow near me. The crazies in my life would work their way in and try to hook their claws, dragging me down along with themselves. I’d say, take it slow in getting to know someone and jump at the signs of familiar flags.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:39 PM
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I cheated on my then LTR, now ex two years ago. She loved me dearly and I was happy with her. The best sex I’ve ever had, we were that compatible. But a difference between us had me certain I’d have to end it with her. So I met with what was my ideal woman in every regard and so I cheated with her. And she cheated on her boyfriend of five years with me. We actually planned on ending up together. I come back and break it off with my LTR and continue with the other one. And then the guilt set in a…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:33 AM
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F'ing do it. What do you have to lose? Worst case, you get in top shape and look amazing with a solid frame developed anyway.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:46 PM
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For myself, nofap went along with raising my standards for and of myself. I stopped viewing pornography which essentially conditions you to view another man f0ck a broad you want. Fapping by itself is not harmful unless taken to extremes and pornography warped my view of myself as unworthy of the women I found attractive because I had always seen other men do them in scenes. I think many people who do nofap (myself included) just want to reestablish normal dopamine function and manifesting your …
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:27 PM
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I run into this all the time, I’m making conscious effort now to ‘pre-game’; I just remind myself I may run into someone I find attractive and that I’ll be ready to do what I need to when the time comes. Funny thing is you run into girls you’re attracted to when you’re not looking.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:41 PM
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My mother was a doctor and was dead-set on me never dating during high school and even into college. Seriously, she’d sabotage every opportunity she could outright. Come to learn that the reason she did all that, aside from being a controlling person, was that she had seen time and time again, a girl locking down a medical student, hoping to be married to a doctor. She told me that without fail, every guy would fail out of the program. You’re 21? There’s a whole lot of study and practice ahead o…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:57 PM
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Dude, I just exited the same sort of relationship. I’m near the top of my game in life now, great job with a hell of a promotion, remodeling my house, I travel, etc. So I get with this girl, real sweet, kind, bubbly and cute. But horribly lazy, watching tv series over and rereading the same stupid novels, can’t and won’t cook, her place is a mess. She sees what I’m doing and can’t even put away the Christmas tree no matter how many times I would tell her to. Her family was nice but no one cared …
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:56 AM
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This is my pet peeve for sure. I've just learned to hold my hand, palm towards the person, and say "Stop". I then follow through with a short, "Do not interrupt me while I'm speaking". I'll repeat this every time I'm interrupted. If the person continues and it's just the two of us, I'll dismiss them. I'll say, "Okay, we're done. Out". I'll point my finger away and repeat myself, "We're done here. I will not try to hold a conversation with someone who will only talk at me not listen to what I hav…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:04 AM
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Attention whores flirt and then push guys away once they received validation. Your problem is attention whores most likely.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:29 PM
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What level are you planning on taking math to? I ask because unlike say, engineering, you'd have to continue your education in mathematics to do anything with it; at least MD. I've seen people drop engineering to major in math only to not have work afterwards. If you were to couple it with computer science and still continue your education, that's a combo I've seen. Philosophy means jack.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:34 PM
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Well written summary, thanks for explaining each of the dimensions and relating them to bettering ourselves; looking forward to part 2.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:10 AM
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5-HTP
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:43 AM
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My normal aloof nature is running into her 'in the clouds thinking' and doesn't work. I'm exiting and will apply my effort into someone new. Thanks.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:49 PM
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Thank you, you hit the nail on the head and I couldn't put it into words. So going forward, high standards for myself again and that'll better align myself with girls of higher standards.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:48 PM
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Dude, thank you. This is what I've been feeling but couldn't figure out how to say it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:46 PM
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Good point. I figured seeing what I've got going on in my life would've been enough for just anyone until now.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:17 AM
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Yeah, after being with a girl who left her boyfriend of five years to get with me, I've seen what a hawt woman can do. This girl is Plain Jane, which I kinda like, plus we have the same family goal, which honestly has been troublesome to find so in getting to know her, I like her as a person, just wanting more investment from a girl who betting I'll be the one and confused that it's not happening.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:41 PM
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Oh wait, my throw away account name, ha, got it. Derp. Yeah, this is how I get my rocks off.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:37 PM
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I think I am bored, yeah. Like I figured she's not cut out for it but wondering why she is so lazy when I've had others, way hotter and established, do more for me. It's like my ego is lashing out to justify the breakup
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:36 PM
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yup
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:32 PM
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What's funny is she'd paraded me in front of her family and friends. She'll stroke me while we're together and a coworker told me about how she's 'obsessed' with me, but yeah, I settled and she's getting what she wants without fear of losing me because of what I've put up with from her, figuring she'd want to grow into the relationship.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:31 PM
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So I break it off this week. But yeah, I do things with no goals other than to see what happens. And yes, this was one of them. I really think this is my method to sabotage myself.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:28 PM
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nice try
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:23 PM
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I’ve been there, what will happen is you’ll always doubt her and know what she is capable of. You will end up either leaving her, which will honestly confuse and anger her or you’ll end up with a girl you’re afraid will cheat on you. Hypergamy is a thing.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:30 AM
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This is exactly what I've seen from the current LTR; no sign of personal growth or curiosity of the world. She watches television and reads fantasy books, sometimes over and over, despite knowing it all inside and out, but will refuse to organize and clean her apartment and car. She also just flat out refuses to cook for herself. My thought was because I've got everything going so well in my life aside from her, she'd want to make me happy, but somehow expects me to do it all for her.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:08 PM
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Then I break up with the current girl. That’s been my feeling, just looking for any reason to stay. There’s none really. Thanks.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 07:48 PM
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I’ve wondered this to and this is the absolute truth. Truth this women are just not as nice as guys are.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 03:24 PM
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I can relate to this, growing up a single child, introverted, etc etc etc. the term I came to learn to best describe this is maladaptive daydreaming. There’s actually a subreddit dedicated to this but I haven’t found anything of value there. Best thing I’ve done to counter this is daily meditation. I use the headspace app and it doesn’t really matter what theme I use but the ‘focus’ packet is notable. Working out in the morning will get your energy directed towards actually doing something but m…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 03:17 PM
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Done.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:54 PM
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The juice wouldn't be worth the squeeze, I figure. I just deleted and blocked her.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:54 PM
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Done. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:51 PM
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Yeah, I'm certain that happened and that's when I went all limp. I felt his hand on my leg at that moment so I was out
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:09 PM
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Think mid-40's with a wide waist and skinny legs and arms, the gal is overly tanned, great face but absolutely no muscle. She pointed out she scar on her waist, telling me not to worry about it, but then I saw wrinkled, saggy skin on her stomach, so I'm guessing she had lipo? She was early thirties so I'm guessing she was getting surgery in his dime
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:08 PM
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Ha, no way. You'd see my ugly face 😅
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 08:02 AM
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That's exactly what was going through my mind. He was completely enamored with her that he wanted her to do whatever she wanted to keep her happy and she did that. The entire time I was there, she kept telling me how much she loved him but man, I'll tell you, that's no love I understand. She was pretty hot, overly tanned, but hot, but I seriously could not get hard with those two going back and forth and it was just pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 06:30 AM
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Yeah, that was the idea but he kept talking, killing the mood completely.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 11:32 PM
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Thank you, and you are correct; English is not my first language. Your comment regarding my vibe resonates with me. I may come off as needy and wanting while attempting an approach. When I am approached, my mind is in the clouds and I'm not noticing the world around me, perhaps looking indifferent to women who at other times, may be gawked at.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:55 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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