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My mom sometimes tells me to fall in love with one of my female friends, she thinks that i am the one who doesn't want to have gf. I try to tell her that it's more like other way around, but I don't go into much detail because discussion with her is really painful, she just doesn't know how to argue. So unfortunately I don't get much understanding from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:26 PM
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online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:39 PM
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I'm 28 and i know many men struggling. I'm an engineer and older dudes in my job almost always have wife/children, men my age i would say half have gf or wife. I think majority is average. No one of my handsome friends have problems with dating. Girls my age at work are usually taken, and the single ones don't really seem like looking for a partner at least at work even tho they have (in my opinion) decent amount of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:22 PM
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with options i mean to know any girls in real life that can be potentially interested in you. I believe not everyone has that despite having some female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:41 AM
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Yes, if you have at least options, rejections don't hurt that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:16 AM
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I don't agree, I'm man and i pretty much care about those things because it does tell something about the other person, woman in this example. It's not like any of this is deal breaker in every scenario but if she has all of those characteristics unless there are some special conditions, i will not be interested in such a girl. Edit: it also depends what age is she, and about low height i van say i don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:59 PM
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Poland
/r/MensRights07/01/23 06:41 PM
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Exactly, nothing to lose, if it was possible in my country i probably would do this. In my country women can even retire earlier.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:03 PM
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I agree but also sometimes it's me, and i'm a male
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:58 PM
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thanks, I wish the best for you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:08 PM
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Is it possible to kind of fake attraction? If someone did it to me i would be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:10 AM
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M27 0:)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:51 PM
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Just thinking about going door to door selling makes me anxious, but i bet it helped you develop valuable characteritics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:04 PM
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think primarily about the present and not try to do predictions about the future. In other words, to let go of expectations entirely. This is good mindsed, i work on it too, to have minimal expectations. Sorry for your situation, i have similar experience. Because before i was falling in love pretty quickly, now i just try to control it and internalize that everyone has flawns, it helps me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:59 PM
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I mean, not not care but expect actually, and yeah, it should always at least be a bit uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:55 PM
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and there's always the off-chance she'll be lonely/horny one day and remember I was interested. Haha yes, it's like lottery sometimes:)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:53 PM
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Do you choose who you approach very carefully, you are very handsome or you lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:52 PM
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The older i get the more i expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:51 PM
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Rebuffing advances from a person who was expecting the opposite feels amazing, which is why some women love dropping nuclear rejections. Lifefuel, in cel parlance. Thankfuly (i think) I never met this kind of girl, that is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:50 PM
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Slim, young, pretty. That's it. I'm not interested in marriage, long-term relationships, or co-habitation or in having kids Yeah that make sens then. I've never been rejected in my life, and I'm nothing special. Wow that's really impressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:49 PM
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I'm in my mid 20's and still so confused about dating it's shoking. I somewhat agree with your claims, i mean, i didn't ask out more than one person from work/ friends group. None worked but friends thankfuly didn't turn off from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:46 PM
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This mindset is very good, but sometimes dating (for me) is like playing lottery, you buy tickets but you know that most likely you will win nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:41 PM
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Same brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:39 PM
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those are some interesting obervations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:38 PM
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Yeah, for me the same, i would rather be rejected than reject others. Hope that you meet someone who will say yes soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:36 PM
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So how many cold approaches did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:35 PM
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But what if you want to have intimate relationship with someone, to love and be desirable and loved. I think if there would be a switch to shut down your desires of relationship many men would press it (maybe me included). So now i'm in stage where (after many years of trying) i don't participate in this whole dating think actively, i wait for woman to give me a clear sign that she is interested, and i will decide then if i'm interested in her and then i will act. For now i didn't have any succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:55 PM
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And that's why you liked him or it was his looks and then character?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:51 PM
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I think the Op is saying that it's open way to date not straight into relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:35 PM
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As religious man i can confirm that for nonreligious girls this is huge huge turn off if you are religious .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:27 AM
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Not really, I'm religious and for girls that aren't religious it's turn off especially when you mention sex after marriage. Church girls have as high standards as any other girl according to looks, money, status, humor etc. for some aspects even more. If you're asking only about trading then probably yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:21 AM
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On the one hand yes, i personally stopped approaching and only talk with girls who make the first move. When I was approaching it never worked. I had a few maybe 4 or 5 in my entire life that approached me and i didn't really liked them so it didn't work either. But what I wanted to tell is in Japan we observe that men are becoming not interested in dating at all, and what happens there? You may think that the women took initiative bit they didin't. Instead they insult men for being shy and so o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:27 PM
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This is the only research i know which touch that subject, maybe there are others i don't know, but don't you agree that on average women rate men lower than men rate women? I think also you are generalizing and it's hurtful for men. Maybe there are some who only want sex but it's the minority, most of men i know are guys who want to love and be loved.and desired. I don't know where your statement is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:58 AM
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partially true, but the research on okCupid shows that men rate women equally, most are average, while women are the ones that rate men very strictly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:31 PM
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True, i like to ask people in relationship how they met their SO and it's often "we met at the party" or "i made an account on Tinder and it was my first match" ;d not like: i had to workout for 5 years to have great physique, land perfect job, study about body language, how to talk to women, meditating, going to therapy, volountering, learn to play on instrument, and then i met my wife because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:19 PM
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Why do you think achieving that shouldn’t be very hard? It seems like, in your post, what qualities you describe, it's only very hard for men. Why women don't have to work very hard for love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:15 PM
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The dressing actually was for preventing men to rape them and have 'bad thoughts'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:33 AM
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27M and I've never experienced love, never kissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:29 PM
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I saw similar post on PurplePillDebate sub and one comment said that it can be true when the woman is already attracted to you physically, and i think that make sense for example when you see posts with women complaining about shitty behavior of their bf- it's like they didn't notice it earlier, before they committed or what? I'm not saying that all women are like that, but certainly the ones which are saying the bar is on the floor for men.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 10:57 AM
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Push-Pull for example
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:05 PM
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I agree with you, when I was heavily into RP, I used the all the tactics and tricks and i could make some women interested but in the end of the day i thought that it's not really me, so they aren't attracted to me but the fake me. So i came to the conclusion that i don't want to be with some one that likes some of those(not all of them of.course) toxic traits. I'm not attracted to them at all You don't want to be with someone who likes you only if you pretend to be someone else it's recipe for …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 10:09 AM
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This basically mean that the bar is low for behavior but not for looks. The bar is really low for handsome men. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:32 PM
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Interesting view, I didn't think about this like that, thanks.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 07:02 AM
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I'm glad you found rp and crp not too late in your life. 100k salary just after graduation sounds really good, so congrats to you. I would like however to put something into perspective about adultery which I mean sex outside of marriage. 1 Corinthians 6:6-11 But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before the unbelievers. Now therefore there is utterly a fault among you, because ye go to law one with another. Why do ye not rather take wrong? why do ye not rather suffer yourselves to be d…
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 07:42 AM
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First OYS here STATS: 24M, 178cm (5'8''), 73kg (160 lbs), ~14% BF, single. PHYSICAL: I'm finally back to the gym after quarantine, (2 months now) I didn't make progress in main lifts because through those closed months i did only home training and not as often as i usually do at gym so had to firstly get back on track with them. I did progress however with alternative excercises (chin ups from 24 in 3 series to 36 in 3 series). Bench: 2x3 87,5kg (193 lbs), Deadlift: 1x3 107,5kg (237 lbs), OHP: 1…
/r/RPChristians11/09/20 02:21 PM
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I really like 5 3 1 training program. I tried different programs such as push pull and 531 is my favorite so far. You can find easily ready excel spreadshits, just Google it or you can pm me.
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 04:43 PM
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Do side business (if you have already learn how to develop it further), learn how to invest money (real estate, gold, crypto, stock)
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:02 PM
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When i was in college i used to transcript voice recordings and videos. It's fairly easy. Sometimes you will catch great client (i have one it even developed further so now i'm editing videos for his online courses). In high school i learned to write on computer without looking at the keybord (I also learnd some basics of video and photo editing) and one time the idea of transcripting went to my mind so i did little notice on internet and catched my first client one day after.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:55 PM
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Can't agree more with you. Just put yourself in her mind. If you really love one woman you would do anything for her. If your SO was really attracted to you then all the situation with cancelled weddings wouldn't matter. Would you dump your girlfriend if wedding was cancelled? If she loved you she would think the same. OP should be glad that he didn't marry her (maybe that was a sign from God).
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 08:51 AM
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I want to be married but i also will be fine when i won't. you need to start playing the field aggressively Yeah, i know the theory and i agree that i should be more into dating and meeting girls, i'm kind of focusing on myself for now and just don't feel like i want or need to do it now. Here's some dating tips. Thank you, already read this, very helpful!
/r/RPChristians09/04/20 07:05 PM
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Hah this really surprised me! Thank you for offering help so kind of you. Now I'm learning basics of programming (c++) because i don't really have any fundamentals! When i will end (maybe 1-2 months) i will start javascript and definitely will need some help. Why did you switch to programming, and do you find it interesting, challenging?
/r/RPChristians09/04/20 07:00 PM
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Wow thank you for answer and every advice! Our community is catholic charismatic renewal for young people. Most of us are in this type of community from birth because our parents attend to one. In the beginning we were actively doing our stuff for young people (meetings, retreat) within our parents community. In 2016 there was World youth day in Poland and one week before there are always some festivals and meetings to prepare pilgrims and to give the opportunity to whole country to actively par…
/r/RPChristians09/04/20 06:21 PM
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OYS 1 1 year lurker, newer posted here is my story STATS: 24M, 178cm (5'8''), 75kg (165 lbs), ~17% BF, single. BACKGROUND: Discovered TRP in September 2018 during reading comments on one post in nofap subreddit (someone mentioned that sub, soon after discovered RPC), after struggling with many aspects in my life. In early 2018 I started going to the gym, started noFap (longest streak 126 days, current 96 days), went to dermatologist to cure my acne, started reading bible, taking notes, reading m…
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 04:36 PM
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You're right it's hard nowadays to live according to christian rules, but i always remind myself that God is our father, and his commandments are for us to have a great life. I'm 24 and struggling with many things also, and sometimes really crave that intimacy, but if that happens i'm asking God what does He want from me, what is my mission. When i feel lonely and in need of something i try to remember that no girl will fulfill my life and desires besides God.
/r/RPChristians06/01/20 01:39 PM
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I'm doing BBB 5/3/1 and really enjoy it. You can find spread sheets on internet if you want to try and read about, I won't do it here because it's bit complicated. But In my opinion It is most likely the lack of diet. I was also struggling with little to no gains after some point but then I started to count calories and macro nutritions intake, there are plenty of apps for it. Anyway 2 weeks of eating chicken and rise like crazy I gained like 1.5 kg, so for me it was really huge. But you have to…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:08 AM
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Thank you, this one i'm reading right now.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:38 AM
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Thank you, definitely will check out these.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:37 AM
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Thanks for this detailed answer, i'm material engineer. When i was student i made kind of small business (i was doing transcription) and have one really good client, which i have contact even nowadays. Now i'm thinking about durability testing (e.g. tensile strength, hardness).
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:36 AM
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I discovered red pill in september. My life changed, and still changing. I found this from one comment on noFap sub (it was massively downvoted but i checked it anyway). It opened mybl eyes and i am totally thankfull all of you guys for posting. I have so much to learn and feel anger, depression but soometimes really great and this isnthe best feeling ever. Good luck for you OP.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 06:27 PM
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Thanks for clarification
/r/askTRP07/04/19 05:48 PM
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Nice story bro, glad that you learned something. I'm also struggling simetimes with oneitis so I really understand. I think now you know your value and it will be easier for you to hold frame, so anyway you won in a long term.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 10:21 AM
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When you will be the true prize for her you won't need any 'good answers'. You just have to have great frame, which TRP can help you achieve.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 12:40 PM
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I'm struggling with social interactions as well, i'm very shy and introvert, but i'm now challenging myself to meet and talk to at least one stranger every day. It doesn't have to be deep conversation, one sentence can be enought e.g. notice something about them, you don't have to talk much tho, just one sentence. I'm encouraging you to do this too!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 12:13 PM
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