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I think calling TRP "rape strategy" is a little over the top. It's one thing to say TRP is reactionary, stupid, or mean but I think the level of hyperbole is extreme when you start calling stuff "rape strategy" in this context. For all the awareness of internet attacks on women, RPW have been attacked more harshly than anything else I've seen on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/14 09:52 PM
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No they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 01:14 AM
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In the words of tupac, "I see you coming with fake hair, fake nails, fake eyes, too, so you're bound to fuck with fake guys too."
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:15 AM
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It's like you didn't read what came after the phrase "baseline assumptions."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 07:22 PM
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Is Red Pill Women the origin of this novel desire and the primary source of information relevant to this task? Never said that. Does the formation of two new subs that are "alternatives to RPW" add credibility to any RPW stances, information, etc? Never said it offered credence to red pill stances. But in a broader sense, the creation and destruction of subreddits isn't evidence of anything for or against anything else. Never said that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 06:41 PM
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That's not what I asked you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:57 PM
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I think this proves RPW's baseline assumptions were correct: there are millions of sources of information for women on how to get in a relationship and out of one, but few on how to maintain them and that maintaining them is a worthwhile endeavor This is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:51 PM
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How does the fact that the question is asked and up in the air make the first answer to this question more correct? (Or, formulated in a different way: How does the fact that one answer tries to clarify the question first in order to answer it makes this first produced answer more correct? It just doesn't follows) Sorry if I confused you. I don't think I said RPW was right with its answers, just it's reason for existing. How does the fact that some other people retake the same question and try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:21 PM
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Yet you come online and start telling everybody else what's what and how things should be, acting as if you have the right answers even though the hypothesis states you are the weird/wrong one. So going on the internet anonymously to speak with people you don't know is telling the world what to do? Was TBP created than TRP, or was it the other way around? But I'm sure as hell not frustrated with my sexual life nor bitter/mad from my interactions with women. Strawman. Yet every time I try to post…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 08:07 PM
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Read the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 02:31 PM
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How is that slut shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 01:53 AM
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I think people with this arrangement have some serious dependency and impulse control issues. There is value is limiting yourself and focusing on what ever unsaid problem you and your partner have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 12:41 AM
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My first thought is why do men get blame for slut shaming when it's something women primarily do? My second thought is why do upper class women know the best way to insult another woman is to attack her sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 12:24 AM
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I think you misinterpreted the last linked story. It's that this guy was not good enough for her until she had a problem. Could be completely real but it looks a little fishy. As far as the numbers thing goes, it's not any particular number, it's that your number will be taken into account with things like your hobbies, criminal history, personality, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 02:33 AM
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Cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 02:07 AM
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This is how you know TBP is about SJW who are obsessed with the idea of being outraged about something, anything, (everything?). Most people who subscribe to TBP are looking for an outlet to express their moral superiority over something, someone, somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 02:06 AM
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Yes but I don't think its the glue of LTRs. This is why I think marriage is declining and divorce is rising (or was). All long term relationships have a pragmatic aspect to them. This is what TRP is saying, man or woman, you need to add value to a relationship and to the other persons life. "Love" fizzles. Meeting a need does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 01:25 AM
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Why is it that it's usually the girl who needs to tell every single detail of these kinds of encounters? The more kinky, atypical or degrading towards her the more they need to tell. Why is that? Why is it a good idea to give a play by play of a bj you gave a famous guy?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 01:04 PM
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And that's why I asked what or which portion you disagreed with. So what about my "appraisal" do you disagree with? What else is all good and not at all bad? As I've said before...women's taxes also go to subsidizing men's health care. Are you upset about that too? I reject the premise of this. You're comparing a subset birth control with the ability to have sex in the first place. As I stated above, this is a silly comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 10:09 PM
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well you called it "magic" so i assumed there was some disagreement there. I called your appraisal of the BC made date magic. May I ask who you think is getting screwed over? People who don't or won't get pregnant but have to subsidize those who do. That's in line with other things I've said about it benefitting one group more than others. That's different than saying I oppose the mandate or that is shouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 09:47 PM
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Do you contest the benefits I stated previously where did I state I'm against the BC mandate? Where did I say there aren't benefits to covering BC? It's about entitlement, not government spending. Now you're back-pedaling, before you stated: People who don't or won't get pregnant but have to subsidize those who do Where did I state subsidizing people was a bad thing? Did you read the part where I said I'm for single payer? Don't change goalposts mid-discussion. Read the title. Read my original p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 09:30 PM
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How likely is it that someone who can't afford bc would be able to afford a child? As I've stated! every single one of the teen moms I knew growing up were happy to pregnant. It's awful concept to confront but it might not be the case that poor and low income women women get pregnant because they don't know about the birds and the bees and can't afford to do anything about it. Faced with these benefits, the government was wise to expand bc coverage, again at a negligible cost. You still haven't …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 07:19 PM
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BC has been covered. The new law expands what is covered, so it's not true men were getting a free ride while women were left out. I'd also say the ability to have sex, as in physically, is different than the ability to manage the consequences. The savings argument is weak because there are an infinite number of ways to save money. The BC mandate might have been sold as, it's good for everybody, but what isn't? It helps particular individuals, which is fine, but stop rehashing the propaganda tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 05:46 PM
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You don't seem to realize there are not only huge savings made by the taxpayer and government by preventing unwanted pregnancies My point is the government could save money by gutting all public assistance programs or sterilizing people. Does that automatically make it a good thing? contraception was also deemed a basic health care right for women Please out where I said I was against it. It's a stretch to compare a penis pump to BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 05:01 PM
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The troll is strong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 04:53 PM
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No, read the whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 03:59 PM
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May I ask who you think is getting screwed over? People who don't or won't get pregnant but have to subsidize those who do. I just want to point out the reason why the government offers birth control isn't necessarily because of some inherent right or entitlement to it, it is because in practice it leads to a decrease in unwanted/unplanned pregnancies If we wanted lower the crime rate, why not sterilize low income women? We could have a tax credit for sterilization, wouldn't that lower crime rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 02:21 PM
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This doesn't really address the point about the ACA. And like you said, this has forced a lot of people to wonder how much more suffering they can afford. Why not gut public assistance? Can any amount of money truly prevent suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 05:16 AM
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What is wrong with the West? Social institutions have been worn down and hallowed out. The idea of community doesn't exist. I'm liberal but I am very concerned by how many people think the political system can and should sort out their problems before looking at themselves and neighbors. What has changed that has made our culture/women in our culture worse than they were previously? I wouldn't say women are worse than before but like everyone else, more lazy and entitled. The ACA BC mandate is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 03:58 AM
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I don't think it's calculating. I think it's subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 10:47 PM
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I don't think you can be forced to act within a gender role. Gender roles social conventions of how we naturally are. You can only be forced out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 10:33 PM
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I feel like I watch a lot of suffering because people cannot acknowledge their own limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 10:29 PM
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Change for what? To what end?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 05:11 AM
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Why not just make your point in a straight forward way? This seems like trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 04:58 AM
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Have you read anything in RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 11:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 02:56 PM
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I see. Very tricksy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 01:42 PM
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That's kinda fair. Part of that sub is providing a place for people to complain. People are promptly told to get over it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 03:35 AM
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I'm really confused why you asked this question, in this manner, after people told you this seems condescending and hostile?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 03:32 AM
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I think you and I are working off different definitions of red pill and blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 01:59 AM
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I think my comment still applies. It's a victimhood mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 01:10 AM
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What you're going to get is a steady stream of equivocation and obfuscation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 12:50 AM
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It's an outrage factory. There is no content to it, just vain, attention grabbing behavior through looking morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 12:47 AM
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Does she want a steady relationship with one guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 10:45 PM
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Aggression, guardianship (but not control), adaptability, contained emotion, a willingness to aggression, understanding good risk and risk. Probably a few more. I think it's important to state the opposite of masculine, to me, isn't feminine but unmasculine, which I see as distinctly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 10:34 PM
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OP did not cast dispersion or say anybody has mental issues for this Is it possible they did it unintentionally? Is it possible you have some biases that prevent you from seeing that? Is it possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:53 PM
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I can't imagine having left my dad's house and married a man who I had to treat similarly It doesn't sound like a statement casting moral judgment, no That second statement is constricted by the first. nobody said anything about dependency issues. So we can agree her question is about dependency? Do you disagree? Like any discussion on relationships, the terms and expectations of mutual dependency are discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:44 PM
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To me, this sounds like my dad. And I can't imagine having left my dad's house and married a man who I had to treat similarly. So why is it that RPW decide to live their lives this way? What need does it fill for you? Why would you rather be submissive than equal That really sounds like a neutral statement to you and has nothing to do with dependency?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:30 PM
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You can say no judgement, but if your post is about the emotional dependency issues of people you don't know and have lifestyles you don't share, that "no judgement" might seem a bit hallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:10 PM
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It's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 03:11 AM
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That's too bad. I remember when I first visited that sub people would write posts out right condemning them and accusing them of being men or abused women. No question or discussion, just harsh attacks. I thought it was interesting that red pill women were treated a lot harsher than red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 03:04 AM
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What's valid? Do you actually know what you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:17 AM
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Oh, what have they convinced me of?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:03 AM
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That's a good point because TBP doesn't say the same thing in their sub daily. I believe everything I read on the internet too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 01:56 AM
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Moving the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 12:09 AM
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Did you ask any of them this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 12:08 AM
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This is the hypocrisy of TBP. "I'm so open minded people with lifestyles I don't understand have.... Issues"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 11:30 PM
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A new romantic and sexual paradigm. Of course there can be many of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:32 PM
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My only problem with this is John Boehner is mocked for crying, Chris Matthews is mocked for getting overly enthusiastic. This is politics at its highest level and people are trying to take those biggest chunk out if you possible. I don't buy women are attacked more (I'm open to having mind changed) and I don't think they're above pulling the gender card just like some minorities pull the race card. It's how the game is played.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:48 AM
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I'm usually down with MRA and TRP but the false rape focus is problematic. Or at least the framing of this issue is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:59 AM
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I think the reason this is such an emotional topic is because people understand this is a sacred bond that nonetheless can create emotional hardships when it's founded on premises that are not true. It's because this is such an important bond that people want a promise it's real and consequences for when it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:33 AM
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If we didn't have expectations, there would be no child support, alimony, marriage wouldn't carry with it any rights, parenthood wouldn't have any rights. The law reflects and enforces the fact that relationships can and do carry expectations. People say no expectations until they need, want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:29 AM
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Do you have any way to quantify "normal"? Do you know whats it's like raise a child that you thought was yours but wasn't? You speak with such authority, I'm just wondering if science backs up your ideas. Is your experience standard? How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:19 AM
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I see there is a popular argument here that you're hurting the child. Well, wouldn't children who are raised by single moms, be also harmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:15 AM
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Can you actually back this up? Is there any evidence that normal father child relationships, are by in large not impacted by learned the two are not biologically related?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:01 AM
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Yet these things have always existed. It's hardly some new thing. There were always various religious cults that practiced various unusual sexual arrangements. The history of Europe and early America are filled with them. Sure but this is change from the current paradigm. What other changes will come along with it? Will you like of all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 05:52 PM
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A few thoughts: Technology is shifting so fast I think sex ed is being rendered useless. How should sex ed cover sexting? Or making sexy time pictures and movies? Humans got along fine without public school sex ed for a long time. I don't think sex ed through public institutions is the answer. Compatibility issues create a number of reasons why people break up. If a girl doesn't feel attractive to her partner, they might break up and blame it on her ole sex drive. Sometimes people don't work out…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:32 PM
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It's the future. Two person marriage as an institution is or very soon will be functionally dead. Plus, if states no longer have the right to restrict marriage based on moral disapproval, I don't think two person is even constitutional. The lower classes have all but stopped getting married and I've heard 70% of black babies are born out of we'd lock. We need to wrap our heads around the fact that the future will have group marriages, communities where no one married, and sex toys that can compe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 03:30 PM
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Whatever twitter says it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 03:21 PM
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I don't think this is remotely true. We just like to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:16 AM
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How do you judge the merit of a reported comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 06:48 PM
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How would you define it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 06:42 PM
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I really think society took a step back with internet social networks. People are completely silo'd and never confronted by any ideas different their own, accept to critique or mock them. I worried about how long we will survive hashtag activism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 02:03 AM
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Honestly, I thought it was thought provoking. I don't know if it's true or not but it puts a different spin on things. I'm a fairly liberal person and I don't get the TRP hate in light of all the other subs here. I am active here because I think TBP is self aggrandizing and pretentious. It's Reddit's contribution to our cultures outrage industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 10:36 PM
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back·up noun, often attributive -ˌəp\ : a person or thing that can be used to replace or support another person or thing : help or support provided by additional people or things : a situation in which the flow of something (such as traffic) becomes blocked I don't see "provide links".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:32 PM
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Something not existing and something being untrue are not the same. I made my claim, backed it up and now you're shifting the scope of the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:13 PM
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You said what I said is untrue. Can you prove that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:29 PM
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I gave you my answer. You should be able to prove something is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:23 PM
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I already gave it to you. Basically, you use dog whistles, hedging, and out right hypocrisy to shit on them while retaining your superior attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 12:56 PM
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I just find it odd that people who consider themselves reasonable red pillers haven't come up with a name for themselves that doesn't imply they are affiliated with red pill extremists I highly doubt that would have any affect on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 10:52 AM
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No one is attacking you. Chillax.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:56 AM
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What matters is this: I have not seen a more offensive sub than TRP. My point is this depends on what you find offensive, not how offensive TRP is. This could say more about you or you're reasons for visiting TRP than the actual content of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:24 AM
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We should rename this sub, "people with too much free time."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:21 AM
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I don't know what other subs you've seen. For all I know you are a mod at national socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:13 AM
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I was using your sentence to demonstrate a larger trend. I don't think it's only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:10 AM
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I don't think you're a liar. I do think you're less accepting than you believe you are. At least that's the impression I get from your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:02 AM
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But never have I come across a community that appalls me more than The Red Pill You think red pill is worse than the sub dedicated to the national socialist (nazis). Are familiar with this mode of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:00 AM
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While I'm sure you'd like to think you're accepting of other life styles, I don't think I misunderstood you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:43 AM
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This is what I mean. I make a good natured joke and needle the guy and you're reciting reddit procedures. Chill dude. Nothing bad is going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:54 AM
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This guy and I, we have a long history. He's like the father I never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:48 AM
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First, I want to say, it's really an honor for a mod to want to moderate my post even when it's purge week. This is awesome and I want to thank you for this honor. It's almost like my post is the personification of the reason we need a purge week: mods be moddin' 2 much. Almost. That said, an example of what I'm talking about is above: How many times do we have to stress that there is nothing wrong with traditional relationships, only with the presumption that they are ideal? This is like saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:30 AM
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In the words of the 40 Year Old Virgin, it takes the pussy off a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 11:39 PM
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I don't how women being better nurturers than men precludes men from being nurturing and wanting to see their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 11:38 PM
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You're making a common blue pill mistake. There is no monolithic red pill. There are some general theories but no iron clad, black or white laws. So some people think you should avoid marriage at all costs (like myself), others say it is an important element of being a well adjusted adult. I've never seen RPW say its wrong to be a career women. I have seen people say being a career women carries with fairly predictable trade offs and the same goes for being a SAHM. The point is to realistic abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 11:37 PM
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So, you're not saying fathers should have the right to not pay for their own children? Not absolutely. No. Because that's what I asked word for word and your response was "nope". And if that is what you were saying, then you blatantly lied the first time I asked it. Not absolutely. No. You understand that if a 35 year old man from the red pill gets an 18/19 year old girl pregnant, that man is the father and that is his child even if he doesn't want the kid. And since that's what the manosphere a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 03:12 PM
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I didn't lie and you know it. You're still failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:57 PM
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You're trying to put words in my mouth. You fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 01:15 PM
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Not absolutely. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 04:53 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 04:34 AM
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I'll grant you it appears to be a logistical nightmare but how do you feel about the concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 03:46 AM
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Nope. Women in modern society have full reproductive autonomy. It's not a child's fault that a women may choose not to exercise it. If you want to ensure you do not become a mother it's your responsibility to take control of your reproductive system. Get your tubes tied or use a condom that you provide 100% of the time. The pill is available now. Every time a man cums inside of a woman he should be aware that she's choosing to risk pregnancy regardless of whatever bc method she may/may not be us…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 03:33 AM
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Oh the work of being pregnant. I thought you meant work of working. If they work with their bodies, why should he not have a say in how the proceeds of that work are spent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:57 AM
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Should this also be true of women who give their kids up for adoption?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:55 AM
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Other people pay for kids already. No parent pays for each activity of their kid on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:52 AM
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Men are doing work. This is not an extra right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:51 AM
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This is not MRM stuff. Even some feminists agree with this concept in one form or another. This is equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:46 AM
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So it's her body on the line, so she gets to decide how it's used. It's his money, but he doesn't decide how it gets used?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:45 AM
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Citation please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 09:09 PM
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You seem to know a lot about rapists and child molesters....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 08:54 PM
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I'm not blaming his mental illness or meds (or going off them) for his rampage. I'm saying we don't know what is "clear" here. Why not blame his racism? Why not blame is conflicted self identity? It's fairly rare for mentally ill people to commit acts of violence, it's more likely that'll be the victims of violence (of course that doesn't preclude them from acts of violence). I wonder if it's similarly rare for people who read TRP to commit acts of violence. Or 21 year old virgins. The point is,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 06:14 PM
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I read a little of it but I had to stop once I remembered that it's literally the ravings of a mad man. The guy needed meds prescribed to people suffering from schizophrenia and was on the autism spectrum which we know can greatly influence a persons ability to process emotion and interpersonal interactions. It's a little disturbing to me that we as a nation are trying to get into the mind of someone with chemical imbalances so severe he was homicidal and suicidal for truths about what's wrong w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 05:54 AM
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Elliot Rodgers was mentally ill. Of course he's wrong, cuz he needed cocktail of meds and battalion of therapists to stay cool.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:38 AM
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Spin or die as the kids say.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 05:23 AM
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Yea. I think so.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 04:56 AM
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It's more if you absolutely have a need to get married and have kids, wait as long as you can. But it's highly discouraged.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 04:42 AM
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I don think TRP says men should get married or have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 03:54 AM
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I feel like the country got crazier this week. A young man with a mental illness that impacts his ability to process emotion and interact with people (and who knows what else), went off his meds, bought 400 rounds of ammo and shot and stabbed random bystanders and his roommates before shooting himself. But instead of asking why this kid was so disconnected from people who cared enough about him to check if he was taking his meds, or why someone with his documented emotional issues could get guns…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 04:21 AM
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The problem is internet discourse. TBP is part of this problem because it's very reason for being is mock, embarrass, shame and humiliate "the other side." Which is fine. This is America after all. But if the level if internet sensationalism has reached new and unsustainable heights, TBP should share some of the responsibility for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 10:32 PM
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I’m not blaming anyone for this week’s events
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 05:31 PM
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Fair point. I think that points to a problem I have with critics of TRP. Do you really need to have the most insidious interpretation of its ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 12:06 AM
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I think you misunderstand this term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/14 11:44 PM
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My point is dread game is just deliberately creating the circumstance that I found myself in. If I know I can motivate my SO to be more into me and our relationship, I think I owe to us to try. There is such a thing as emotional abuse but I think its a particularly pessimistic view of people to assume dread game is emotional abuse. It's just turning on a quirk in human psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/14 11:18 PM
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I think if you read RPW you will see those women have high standards for men. People in general, I think, like standards and boundaries. They like knowing where they stand. I think being a, "bitchy" woman can RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/14 10:20 PM
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I once explained dread game to a female friend one time. She was a long past FWB. She thought it was stupid and said it made no sense. Well, we work together and sometimes when she stops at my desk another girl stops by and flirts and starts getting bitchy. One day, the other girl was flirting particularly aggressive and was throwing some zingers at my friend. Later on in the day, my friend invites me over to hang out. One thing led to another and she was demanding we have sex. At one point she …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/14 10:15 PM
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If there is no difference between casual sex and soft harem, does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/14 03:52 PM
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I think it would work better if people were allowed to say their point of view from different perspectives. I don't think RedPill ideas are completely outside the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 11:54 PM
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So why is it bad to think feminism is bad if it can be anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 02:58 AM
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Here's what you don't realize: many people first heard about feminism from something like bra burning. Feminism for a generation of people is women on the front lines, or the BC mandate, or affirmative action policies. The first person I knew my age who described herself as a feminist would say stuff like believing in climate change required more abortions; the government should pay couples who get abortions; the higher a country's divorce rate, the more free the women were, and more. She seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 01:57 AM
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I have basically been called a whore He never called her a whore! but she's projecting her feelings of feeling like onto him. That's what they mean by PATRIARCHY!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 03:30 AM
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Humans are social creatures. You're denying aspect of your humanity by giving up like this.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 03:23 AM
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My dad told me when I was a kid that my mother loved us (kids) and her parents then him. That always stuck with me. I think that’s one of the most redpill things I’ve ever heard.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 01:43 PM
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If you had made that point during the hearings on the ACA, that more affordable bc helped you're relationship with your committed partner, I'd feel less extorted. If a mother of three who was or had been married, the bc mandate would probably have more support. Instead the dems and Fluck made the argument she was entitled to bc because she existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 10:59 PM
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You could argue that, but the bc mandate kind of mutes that point, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 03:32 PM
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1-7 are 7s. 8 is a 8 or 9. 9-10 are 6s. I don't think TRP is focused on commenting on how these women look. From what I see it's the entitlement some of these women express.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 03:21 PM
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Of course not. But I bet if you had a list of coverage that generally benefitted only men and coverage that generally benefitted only women, the women's list would longer. Which is fine, but there is no acknowlegement of this, which makes TRP more attractive to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 03:07 PM
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Never said no one needs them. I said the mechanism for paying for them automatically leaves a lot of paying for something they don't need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 02:50 PM
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But not everyone who is covered (and pays) for bc or maternity care uses it. If I have auto insurance, I'm pooling my money with other car owners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 02:12 PM
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In the US, the new ACA law lowers costs by having the sick and old essentially subsidized by the young and healthy. There is also a dynamic where people who do not get pregnant and do not take bc essentially subsidize people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 01:38 PM
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This comment and your other commnet are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 01:30 PM
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Why are you asking that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 01:23 PM
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I think I have heard a shift from feminist in the last few years. Their argument seems to be, "of course the sexes are different, but those differences don't matter or are minimal." I think this is the baseline used by society but the baseline will continue to move towards the RP view because of what feminism demands. Equality demands 50% representation through special programs. It demands the cost of maternity care and BC be borne by men through mandated programs. As feminism in it's current fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 01:06 AM
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Aside from the economic reasons, I think the biggest difference was most men had fought in Korea, WWII or even WW. These men had a shared experience that forced to live up to and comply with a standard or revealed those who couldn't keep up. Shared experiences have a powerful affect on men. I think the biggest difference between now and than is that we have less shared experiences and with that, less chances to measure ourselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 11:35 PM
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