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| 1 | Why shouldn't we base our self worth on how many women we can attract?"I'm 19, 5'9, 8% bf, 168 lbs" Start/Keep lifting, bulk up. I'm 6', 200 lbs and am still pretty skinny. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Need Alpha Male Advice!I am really sorry. Your wife seems like my wife. My ex wife cheated on me twice while having drinks without me around. It is going to happen to you, if it already hasn't. You must enforce boundaries. You are married and she is your wife. That behavior is no longer acceptable. What kind of mother likely to get blacked out drunk and is willing to take that chance? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Scare me straight about why I should start using condoms with my plate.I think vasectomy is a no brainer if you are absolutely sure that you don't want to have kids. My only worry is that reversal is not 100% guaranteed. I guess you could freeze some sperm if you want some babies in the future. From planned parenthood: "Can Vasectomy Be Reversed? If you are thinking about reversal, vasectomy may not be right for you. Sometimes it is possible to reverse the operation, but there are no guarantees. Reversal involves complicated surgery and costs thousands of dollars. … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Enough. I accept that I'll have to reinvent myself, and this is how it's going to go down.Great job discovering TRP and embarking on the long and fruitful journey. I also started at around 30 and trust me, the knowledge here is priceless. My input will be to recommend you to pick one thing and do that first. Changing habits and attidudes is very diffucult and if you overload yourself with novelties you are prone to give up. I would start with the lifting and dieting first and foremost and then after you have that under control and on auto mode branch into other items. Just lifting co… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | text game adviceHere are the biggest changes in my text game. *Dumb it down. Instead of: "Hey! I really enjoyed our meeting. I had so much fun yesterday. Hope you have a great evening. Can't wait to see you!!! ;)" should be "whats happening, lets meet Wednesday evening at X" So no exclamation point, no question mark *NEVER use emojis, or smiley face shit. *Write shorter than her. Few words are always better if you're still able to convey it. Golden ratio. *Never more than two un-reciprocated texts in a row. Pre… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | What keeps you on the right path?Drinking beer with buddies at a bar on Friday night? Could you elaborate on this? Do you feel hanging out with your fellow male friends is a waste of time? Against alcohol? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "So" discussion? (Dating multiple women without cheating or lying)Its hard to explain but you instinctively know. As shallow it may be, attractiveness in women is SMV component number 1. If you feel oneitis they are likely your SMV or above. If you wouldn't feel "proud" taking her out in the public her SMV is lower. If you feel a bit embarrassed showing your plate to your friends her SMV is lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "So" discussion? (Dating multiple women without cheating or lying)"Listen, I just got out of a long term relationship and want to casually date for a good while". About half to two thirds of women will bail at this stage. You hold frame. Don't text back and go soft next. Sometimes they will back paddle a few day later. Also, I am coming to the conclusion that by default your plates cannot be you equal smv as those will be able to lock down an equal smv partner down. Most of my plates far were 2 points below mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Went to my regular dance club, my personal space got violated/got humiliated, what is TRP's best course of action?Thanks for the awesome response. Getting into TRP i'm becoming very sensitive to frame, being dominant and respected and I just didn't know what to do in this situation. I'm 6' and pretty fit myself and could probably knock the original guy on the floor. But who knows what the implications would be. I guess my fear is that being safe, smart and mature might be a bit of my own male hamstering of being afraid getting into a fight. Alphas don't think, they shoot and ask questions later, right? And … | /r/askTRP | 31/05/15 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Starting gym tomorrow, not sure if I should cut or bulk firstLooking at your pictures I would say bulk up instead of cut. You look pretty lean and in need of some muscle. Hitting the gym hard will naturally cut you. Good luck and be safe above all. Form is everything. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/15 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Went to my regular dance club, my personal space got violated/got humiliated, what is TRP's best course of action?Its actually a thing in the region I'm at, I was not the only one with it. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/15 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Plate is cool with having a threesome for my birthday. How/Should I proceed?Which online avenues? Craigslist? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Plate is cool with having a threesome for my birthday. How/Should I proceed?Thank you for the sound advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Plate is cool with having a threesome for my birthday. How/Should I proceed?Have you done it? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 07:27 PM |
| 3 | The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 4: Flags, ASD, LMR and Walking AwayI'm glad my slut list made it to your most excellent series. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 05:23 PM |
| 25 | For the Millionth Post in a Row, "Are Looks that Important?"Not to brag but I consider myself a solid 8. I'm 6'1, white, attractive face and lean and cut. However: My voice pitch is high, and my speech pattern is very fast and nervous. my posture is bad. I struggle with keeping an eye contact with both males and females. I develop oneties fast with my equal smv partners. I go clubbing a lot and see shorter, fatter, "uglier" (face wise) guys snatch the hotties under me not due their aesthetics but due to their IDGAF swagger. I'm telling you, a jacked, con… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Meat Market EconomicsSo now the market is offering me some free, fat, spoiled, mostly rotten, expired ground chuck. I just have to take it home. 60% fat. Rancid. But I bet she'd get down on her knees and slave over my cock and wipe her face off with that sociology "degree". Before going home and kissing her fat husband on his mouth. That was one delicious paragraph. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Although TRP is apolitical it definitely changes your personal political leanings.I agree its all bullshit. But still, having a woman as the head of the national household seems like the ultimate shit test failure on a country level. The head of the most powerful empire in the modern world is a woman, you don't think that's going to change/hasten the global feminization trends? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Although TRP is apolitical it definitely changes your personal political leanings.a form of social darwinism via "keep what you catch". Totally agree. My feelings exactly. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Why women hate pornThis hypothesis is based on the assumption that a man would always choose sex with a woman over porn, if given the choice. Towards the end of my marriage masturbation was the better alternative. What's better a begged for starfish sex she uses as a leverage tool or a guiltless fapping session. I totally agree with you though, women hate porn as it shows that their man is not only not satisfied by them but that he is not going to allow his sexuality be surpassed and give the reign to the woman. (… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Plate flakes for the first time. What is a suitable retort?Yeah, I figured. Its hard, brother. That pussy is nice and wet and enticing and until now was given on demand, but I do realize if I become complacent and lose my perceived power its going to dry real fast. Those plates are so tender and shatter prone. Still I'm not going to get lured in to a little bitch position. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Figuring out your passion?The best little quote that I can bestow upon you is: You spend your twenties figuring out what you want to do. You spend your thirties getting good at it. You spend your forties getting paid well for it. It takes a lot of trial and error, a bunch of dead end ideas and routes to finally find something that clicks with you. I know, for me the above saying held true. I kinda feel bad about people that are on a very pre determined route since the age of 16-18, because there are so many ways you can … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Huh, true to that. But I meant, until they spin longer and longer. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Yeah, live and learn. I'm having another girl that I'm hoping to plate, we'll see how that's going to play out. The Abundance part is very true. Because Ive been getting laid on the reg in the last month, losing this girl was unpleasant but not devastating. More will come. More will shatter. Until they won't. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Yeah, OP fucked up. The funny thing is that up until that point my text game was the best yet. Very sparse, commanding. When she said "we're actually going to watch a movie" I got pissed off and wanted to clarify that if I'm taking the time to come over I'm expecting sex. I obviously went overboard. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Yeah. Short and concise. Will know better next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Yes, I would say SMV is about the same. She is a young pretty girl in her prime, so for now probably has the pick of the litter. I've been hitting the gym and slowly bulking up. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Yeah, I get it. I just didn't want to go all the way there, after she said she doesn't want to have sex, only to watch a stupid ass movie, try to escalate and get shot down. I get it that you think that if I were to still go that evening I might have gotten laid, but it would feel off to me. Idk, maybe im still too empathetic. Need to work on that pronto. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | FR - First Attempt At A Plate. Shattered after clarifying expectations.Yeah I agree. But to be clear, before this conversation, I kept on a pretty much radio silence. Letting her wait a day to two for a measly reply. I just wanted to be clear that if we are going to meet that there is going to be sex and I'm not cool with waiting for things, taking it slow or figuring it out. My plan is to go radio silence until if and when she reaches out, in which case I'll push for a meeting and intercourse. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Solitude and Leadership - An excellent essay with some RP truths. In praise of introspection."Now that’s the third time I’ve used that word, concentrating. Concentrating, focusing. You can just as easily consider this lecture to be about concentration as about solitude. Think about what the word means. It means gathering yourself together into a single point rather than letting yourself be dispersed everywhere into a cloud of electronic and social input. It seems to me that Facebook and Twitter and YouTube—and just so you don’t think this is a generational thing, TV and radio and magazi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:02 PM |
| 42 | If you have to "think", "learn", or "rationalize" sex in the past in order to change your mind about it, then it wasn't rape.Feminists should lobby to raise the consent age to 40. As its pretty obvious that 20 and 30 year olds do not have agency and cannot be held responsible for any of their actions. That way any women could have an even tighter control on sexually and every ONS that turns sour (guy doesn't want to commit) is a huge extortion tool. Empowerment to the max. By 40, consent will be less of an issue because nobody will want to fuck em anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 10:38 PM |
| 6 | I just got friendzonedYou don't get friendzoned by another person. You accept/agree/persue that yourself. As in. She rejected you. If you agree to continue orbiting around her and become her errand boy/ emotional tampon you friendzoned yourself. Walk away. There is very little positive that can come out of this. I had two different friendzone attempts from attractive girls in the last few months. I noped out of that immediately, to their surprise. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:23 PM |
| 7 | The lesson learned: Self-actualization must come from inside - On the positive outcomes from getting cheated on and dumpedAmazing post. You really have a knack of summarizing and distilling of what a TRP journey should look like. I too was cheated on, by my wife and not my girlfriend. And also, like you, I am slowly realizing that it was a major blessing in disguise. I dread to think of what kind of life I would have in ten years, if she hadn't done it; Pre TRP discovery I would be the perfect little beta, while my spoiled pussy whipping wife dictates everything. Perpetuating the circle of weak husband/father figur… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursI suspect that many beta men had a similar experience. You are 100% right. I've been thinking about it for a while. Your experience mirrors mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Tinder: Dates, Profile + fishing this past week (first week on tinder) What worked and what didn'tCongratulations, brother. I'm in a similar situation myself and enjoyed reading your notes, especially you smashing girl #3. Making alpha females submissive in bed is just... golden. Its a brave new world out there, you can have more ONS in a single year than in a lifetime 20 years ago. Hands are a bit full. Very good, like they say: idle hands are the devil's workshop. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Second Tinder Date. Free Pussy delivered to my door. Easy mode, my SMV was a good bit higher.I thought it was neat that you can get laid in 3 hours from first text, without even leaving your house or putting your shoes on. This is news to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 07:11 PM |
| -2 | Second Tinder Date. Free Pussy delivered to my door. Easy mode, my SMV was a good bit higher.Yeah man, I get ya. The thing is with the previous gal I went all beta really fast cuz she was hot, lean and fine. With this girl, I doubt i'll hurt my game cuz that pussy is cheap easy and abundant. Intellectually I know that its just in my head and I should treat them all the same, but my stupid monkey brain keeps sabotaging me with that 7+ pus. Do you have any mental exercises to cultivate that "they all the same" mentality? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Second Tinder Date. Free Pussy delivered to my door. Easy mode, my SMV was a good bit higher.What it feels like to have a high relative SMV - emulate that behavior with all women Yeah man, that's the biggest take away. That feeling of being a contextual alpha, doing whatever you want and how you want it and her loving every second of it is intoxicating. Definitely gives me a huge boost of motivation into eating well and keep on lifting. And continuing the self improvement journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 06:45 PM |
| 23 | Dating and the Alpha Single Dad (part 2) : Beware the Dummy DateI want to go, but not get into anything heavy. "I don't want anything heavy, but the heavy steaks you are going to buy me" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 12:11 AM |
| 10 | Some TRP theories are common knowledge in China, known and accepted by all, including women.Not in the US they aren't. From my experience and observation US dwelling Indian women are very assertive, dominant and tend to pussy whip their tender Indian husbands. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Some TRP theories are common knowledge in China, known and accepted by all, including women.I'm not even sure if there are alpha and beta men in china, there are only rich and poor men. Surely there are assertive, dominant leader types vs passive pushover doormat types. Right? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Hot/Crazy MatrixIts neat that people from very different walks of life reach the same conclusions. Gun aficionados, sharply dressed cpa type looking dudes and reddit dwellers. His second Man's chart is obviously the classic AF/BB. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 02:46 PM |
| 1 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.Do not be looking for a girlfriend. You're not ready yet and it's just your lethargy trying to bring you back to easy street. You know from experience and will learn from reading TRP that easy street ends at a deserted field. Solid advice. Will do. I am definitely not ready for a girlfriend yet I know it intellectually but my lonely body demands it. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | 'Horrible Game', 'Losing Frame', and 'Beta Backslides' or 'How You Never Had It'You know, I wish I would have that same attitude, but I just can't force myself. Maybe the issue is that my five is not your five. How would you describe a five? Overweight? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 05:12 PM |
| 0 | 'Horrible Game', 'Losing Frame', and 'Beta Backslides' or 'How You Never Had It'I imagine you wrote this post after reading my FR. Its and interesting prospective and you have some truthful insights. I must disagree with you on some of your points: if any of these things occur, then you didn't have 'it' in the first place. I thought that the process of slowly improving ourselves, in any field be it lifting, social skills or "game" involves making mistakes and slowly learning from them and acting differently next time. After a few years of focused practicing it becomes a sec… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 11:28 PM |
| 19 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.Circumcision does that for you. I am circumcised, unfortunately. 0/5 will not recommend. If I ever have a son, his dick will stay 100% intact. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide."you will stay aggressive and strong since you didn't blow your load." Made me immediately think of this: http://youtu.be/N1KvgtEnABY?t=2m30s | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 11:26 PM |
| 2 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.slipping up on your old conditioned ways. Yeah man, I really hope that I can work on the deep beta characteristics within me. I mean, I'm just worried that perhaps it might be impossible to change 3 decades of hardcore indoctrination, and you can only address superficial external factors (lifting, dressing better, making more $$$) and not internal ones (voice, body language, posture, eye contact, silent inner confidence). I am going to try my best regardless. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 11:20 PM |
| 2 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide."Second... it's really not that big a deal if you don't cum with a condom, because that's the excuse. You have a condom. It's one of the most legitimate excuses there is. I wouldn't even bother faking an orgasm. Just wait until one of her orgasms and then let the intercourse naturally come to a stop. Lie there for a minute, heavy breathing, sweating, smiling at the bliss, etc." Thank you for this. I felt like a loser telling her or any girl really that I can't cum with a condom on. I thought tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 11:15 PM |
| 3 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.Thanks brother. "Yes you would sleep with her or no you wouldn't." So you are saying you are able to act the same, regardless if the girl is a 6,7,8,9 or 10? "Once she's got that good feeling going on ask if you can cum on her tits or face." Do you mean, I should take the condom off and masturbate and bust it on her? "don't stop approaching now." Still not really cold approaching yet. Using bullshit ego shields like Tinder or Dancing. Hopefully in a few months I'll man up some. I realize its jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 10:57 PM |
| 3 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.That's a good prospective and one to think about. I don't know, I just feel super self conscious and anxious the second I know for a fact I'm not going to cum. I mean, intellectually I realize its about the journey (the sex) than the destination (orgasm) but mentally it bothers me and I kinda feel, what's the point if I'm not going to fell dat sweet release. Of Course, with sex, over thinking anything is a recipe for disaster. As in, its a negative feedback loop. The more you try to cum the less… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 08:11 PM |
| 5 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.busting thru lmr in no time. How would you approach this, personally? Say "I don't care about periods, I think its hot and dirty"? Proceed to make out and just put a condom on? You are not scared of the morning after "I told you I'm not interested but you kept on pushing and pressuring"? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 07:52 PM |
| 3 | First Tinder Date. Had Sex. Instant Oneitis And Full Blown Beta Mode Blackslide.But would you put yourself in a situation to meeting someone again that explicitly wrote "I don't feel a physical chemistry". Wouldn't it signal that you don't have options/ desperate? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill LifestyleVery good post. Making more money. I am self employed and employ others. I am slowly starting to observe that my blue pill nature is affecting business. My goal is to make 100k a year in about three years, so 2018. I drive a shit car, have few savings. I truly believe that being self employed/own your own business is a fast track to red pill mentality. You are constantly and ceaselessly shit tested by everybody (your workers, your vendors and service providers and especially your clients). The b… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 02:04 PM |
| 6 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?countless occasions where we're sitting on the couch watching Netflix together and I'm thinking, "There are so many productive things I could be doing right now. So much money I could be making. What the fuck am I doing here?" Dude, are you me? This is exactly the experience I had. We would get in a rut, watching hours each evening. Instead of reading, or self improving. It was always suggested by her. The funny thing is its not like you communicate or talk about your day or whatever, you just s… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 02:39 AM |
| 2 | You are going to slip and fall right into a comfortable sofa. Get the hell back up.How do we, as men, deal with temporary weakness while maintaining a strong frame? That's a painful realization I am beginning to feel. That we are as men only measured by our unflinching strength, power. A prolonged weakness can cause an instant divorce of a relatively solid marriage. Women find weakness disgusting, and will forget decades of providing for them after a few months of weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Don't be a slaveIncredible post, my friend. I read many of your previous posts, but this one is your masterpiece. You are gifted at writing. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 06:17 PM |
| 3 | New BoingBoing Post decrying TRP(as well as MRA, GG, etc)I used to love boing boing and visit there obsessively. A year ago I realized that entire website is a load of shit. We need to make an ever updating list of extra female imperative focused media outlets. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 01:54 PM |
| 1 | OP's girlfriend used to bang a Superbowl football player, tells all her friends about it and still has pics on her phone.Thanks to instant validation culture, it's more and more like: to keep a 7/10 you must be an 11/10. You just distilled in a sentence what I've been trying to articulate to myself this entire week. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?We covered this before, we are dealing with overall generalizations. Yes there are the occasional outliers, but 9s and 10s overall exhibit similar patterns. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?Yeah, that's exactly what i'm getting at. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?Awesome response. Thanks man. They are, as a rule of thumb, crazy in their own way. Can you elaborate on this point? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?world full of 9s and 10s Are we living in the same world? indulgent to being hit on I would assume that the essence of being a 9 or a 10 in this day and age is exactly that. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?Going to disagree here with you. Dating a chubby 5 is a completely different ball game than being in a LTR with a 9. The SMV disparity dynamics are very real. I dated both below my SMV and above my SMV, those are very different experiences. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 05:31 PM |
| 13 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?Those are good counter points. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Arm Candy – Do men want hot women for personal and peer validation?do you think any better of him or do you presume the imbalance is due to some other external factor (such as wealth or fame)? Well, I would assume that for most people, "external factor (such as wealth or fame)" = Think better of him. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 12:35 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How to destroy attraction and get dumped; Or, discovering my personal mission to every day be a better man than I was the previous dayThanks for sharing, buddy. Your itemized list was cringe worthy to me mainly because I identified most of those patterns in myself in my previous LTR. Yes, like you, I have been reading TRP nonstop, and like you am finding that implementing those principles, on the fly, is proving to be very challenging to say the least. I think we need to keep getting burned and fucked over by women until, slowly, inch by inch, woman after woman, we slowly chisel away all the beta nonsense that is ingrained so … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I made out and got her number yesterday, TRP way to proceed?Practice staying silent for longer than feels comfortable. Yeah, that's a big one. I always feel super uncomfortable during silences. I will try it out tomorrow and will keep you posted. What is a solid timeline to make the phone call if we exchanged numbers yesterday night? I know I am probably over thinking it but I really want to slowly enforce TRP principles, its feels so unnatural. (which, I get it, part of the process). | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I made out and got her number yesterday, TRP way to proceed?You seem to lack confidence about making the call. Very true. To be honest I don't really like phone calls, and think my voice sounds problematic when I am anxious (high pitch, fast talker, mumble.) | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Friendly debate with red pill community?Well, once again it might sound sexist but sexist means that women and men are different not the men are better than women. OK cupid had a great blog post that showed, across the board for all males that they are most attracted to 22-24 year old women. The window of opportunity for most women and the age they are most attractive to males is 20-30. It is not fair, but once again, life is not fair, biology is not fair, you just deal with it. Women can do some with weight, makeup and clothing, but … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Friendly debate with red pill community?TRP philosophies stem from a rather simple school of psychological manipulation that cheapens what it means to be human. I think the key point to understand is that humans are heavily indoctrinated and socialized animals and that under the facade of being civil and rational we are deeply and fundamentally moved by pure biological urges. For example, attraction. There should be no reason whatsoever that a regular emotionally mature and intelligent male won't be attracted to a sweet, stable, carin… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | OKCupid got me thinking: Age differences in popular moviesTotally agree. 10 years or 10,000 hours of "intentional mindful" practice. If you area a young person confused/frustrated with not being real good at anything, pick up a thing, one thing, and just pursue it without giving up. Most likely, if you keep at it for a decade you will be moderately successful at the least. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Baffling happenings at the night club. Twice in a row. Any TRP ninjas can shed a light on this?So the question is, how do I peruse her without appearing desperate (her "rejecting" me after her friend pushes her on me)? I mean, following them to the bar after she refuses to dance, seems a bit cringe worthy. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Baffling happenings at the night club. Twice in a row. Any TRP ninjas can shed a light on this?So after she retreats to the bar you would follow them? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Realistic blue to red timeline? Would like to hear personal stories...Yeah, I really wish I had a physical red pill friend to talk those things over. You are pretty lucky. This sub has been awesome help and support, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Realistic blue to red timeline? Would like to hear personal stories...Yea, been reading a ton and going out dancing on the weekends. Looking to get a bunch of newer clothes soon, but would want to learn more about style as I am pretty oblivious to all of that. Jeans and tshirt type of guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Realistic blue to red timeline? Would like to hear personal stories...Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I don't think I am being pessimist. I am just curious what some sucess stories here sound like. Its not like reading all the side bar (which I did) is sufficant to make a mental switch. The way you communicate and your old habits are very hard to dramatically change fast. I am just confused how does the internal change occurs, besides reading. What are actionable steps to slowly change my mindset? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Realistic blue to red timeline? Would like to hear personal stories...Sorry to hear about your slump. My only word of advice is to cut out the pot. That is a slippery slope for mediocrity and will halt a lot of self improvement energy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 10:28 PM |
| 5 | Realistic blue to red timeline? Would like to hear personal stories...but it took another 6 months to break my old beta habits. It was a grind, but after working and working on it, I'm now at a very good place. Can you please elaborate on this point? How do you work on breaking old beta mental habits? I mean, I read plenty of material and know the theory behind most of it. The thing is, like breathing, your internal habits are wired so hard and are mostly subconscious. I feel the urge of spending money on women, although I know that's a huge nono. I cringe at the … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Five Books I've ReadWhys is it considered Beta-Positive? Care to elaborate? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Five Books I've ReadI intend to read The Way of the Superior Man. I heard mixed reviews here on TRP, some say its gold, some say its very new agy. Would you recommend reading it overall? I am about to read NMMNG and The Way of the superior man afterwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 09:40 PM |
| 7 | Terrance Popp Redounklas.comI love this guy. Really well presented, funny, and very non PC. I watched a ton of his stuff, would recommend those for the noob: Divorce Bank https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpI3y4Nqt4Y String Along Method https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIV0zSqaysU Unlike most TRP posters, this fellow has the sack to use his real name and face the hatred. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Starting to go to dance clubs, have some questions.But it seems like you can escalate so much easier and faster and immediately know who is interested or not. But I do get you, you can work on actual game and won't have to be as drunk as no dancing is involved. Will try it tonight. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Starting to go to dance clubs, have some questions.How long do you dance with a girl before giving up due to lack of IOIs? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Starting to go to dance clubs, have some questions.Don't focus on closing early in the night. Care to elaborate about that? I am still in the mind set of "there are so many guys out there that aggressively peruse, I better close on my first option as early as possible" Don't drink Yeah I agree. It just takes a gargantuan effort to go to the dancing floor and not feel shy. Dancing is just so... Goofy. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 03:40 PM |
| 1 | We are starting a book club. Post here if you would like to participate and offer suggestions.Its a short one and an easy read. Much better something like that than a complicated 400 page tome that most folks won't read cover to cover. | /r/RedPillBooks | 27/12/14 11:53 PM |
| 1 | My fiancé wants to know why TRP and Feminism don't go togetherAwesome man, really well thought out. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | It's 2020. What are you doing?This is really funny and subtle. You are a bad ass writer. Didn't you say you are working on a book? How is that coming along? What's the eta on that? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | It's 2020. What are you doing?This is gold. Please write more. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 02:13 PM |
| 1 | It's 2020. What are you doing?To elaborate on the flashy sports car: Not looking to get a Lamborghini or something like that, but a cute and clean BMW Z4 or something similar. They go for around 46k with monthly payments of ~$700. Some wealthy people have higher budgets for wine. The divorce is almost done with. We are both young, with no children. I am hoping to be out of it relatively harmless. I believe you can get a very decent house/condo/acreage with 120k salary in my neck of the woods. Cost of living is a major bitch.… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Drunk girl jumps out of car to blame boyfriend. Thankfully, he was recording their argument.Yeah, can't wait for it to be done. The process has been started. Thank the good lord we didn't had kids or any real property. Man, The thing is I increasingly start to believe that where you live really fundamentally affects the nature of your relationship. Getting a spouse from a conservative area to a loose feminist area will change both you and your wife. You think if you move with your wife from Wyoming to, say, LA things won't change? In the beginning, sure, but I have the feeling that aft… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 08:28 PM |
| 6 | It's 2020. What are you doing?Great post. Have sex with at least 100 women. I know it sounds vain and stupid but I want to finally experience a true abundance mentality. I keep having oneitis and putting pussy on pedestals. Breaking the numbers its around 1-2 women a month. Improve my posture. I am still slouchy and I know its a major turn off. Any guys here that had success in drastically improve their posture? Improve my speech. When I get excited/anxious/dealing with authorities/scared my voice goes one octave higher. It … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Drunk girl jumps out of car to blame boyfriend. Thankfully, he was recording their argument.Your story sounds very close to mine. I always wonder how and what is she going to tell her peers as to the reason of our divorce. I shouldn't care but I do. It just like rubbing salt in your wounds; Cheating on you repeatedly AND then bad mouthing you in public and implying it was mostly your fault. Disgusting. I am very happy to hear you found a good one. I can't wait for my divorce to be finalized and wash my hands of this shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Drunk girl jumps out of car to blame boyfriend. Thankfully, he was recording their argument.Some women absolutely refuse to take any responsibility for their actions. Let me fix it for you, bud. Some women absolutely refuse to take any responsibility for their actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 06:42 PM |
| 9 | A Comprehensive Guide to The Red PillGreat List. Can someone elaborate on those: "Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her."? "Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance." Isn't agree and amplify is kind self deprecating? Can some one provide example of positive vs negative self deprecating? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Handbook - an free e-book of TRP postsChrist, It took you only 8 hours? I was thinking it took you at least a week worth of labor. Just sifting through all the gold and the shit and deciding how to arrange it so it will flow naturally is a feat of force. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:37 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Handbook - an free e-book of TRP postsHoly shit man. You are doin' gods work. Extremely well done, important and pleasantly presented. This is amazing. Put it on kindle form, and I will gladly shell $10-20 bucks just for convenience sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?I don't know man. First of all, I think Male Birth Control sounds much more pleasant and positive than "getting sterilized" it just has a nicer sound and connotation to it. Are women sterilizing themselves? Nah, they use responsible "Birth Control". Remember we assume its going to be 100% harmless and reversible. Second, lets look at the stats, according to: http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_contr_use.html "Some 62% of all women of reproductive age are currently using a contraceptive method.[2]"… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?Yeah, my worries exactly. Not so much about the cost, but by the lack of guarantee. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?for a non hormonal, non libido affecting, totally reversible I would be willing to shell up to $5000. It seems a lot, but comes out to 500 a year, and $42 a month. Whatever it is, it is a drop in the bucket vs supporting an unwanted child for 18 years. I know that there are a multitude of men out there that will agree. Even if 10% of all men opt to use this premium expensive service you do the math. There are 3,660,602,406 males in 2014. So 10% would be 366,060,240 * 5k that's potentially $1,830… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?Yeah, but you don't think that any mega billion corporation wouldn't give a shit about no feminists once they realize they can rake in billions of cash within a few years? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?"get some sperm frozen, get snipped, and don't tell a soul." That would be an amazing power shift between a woman having 100% decision to suddenly the man, deciding, in his leisure if and when he decides to become a father. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?I would like to know the answer to that question as well. Why is one of the most potentially profitable devices/treatment is being funded by donations? Why there is not multiple corporate drug manufactures hawking and drooling at the possibility of being the first in that market? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 05:59 PM |
| 1 | TRP and 420?I do agree that redill is about reality vs avoidance and fantasy. But what about alcohol, though. LuvBeer? Don't you feel that booze is a also a reality changing substance, albeit a lesser one? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 01:35 PM |
| 1 | TRP and 420?Yeah man. I get anti social as well. But you are right, High Sex is just so surreal and badass. Smoke a J, put some wild music and go for that strange sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | What music do you listen to while you lift?The only correct answer, is of course, Fatboy Slim, Greatest Hits. http://www.amazon.com/Greatest-Hits-Why-Try-Harder/dp/B000FC2GBE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1418698508&sr=8-1&keywords=fatboy+slim+greatest+hits | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 02:56 AM |
| 4 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.Thanks for replying, brother. "The closest thing they can experience to love is to control a weak man and coerce him into subservience." Hit close to home. Harsh but true. Your blog and The Rational Male book were my very first introduction to TRP. You should publish a book, like The Rational Male. I and many more will buy it. A physical/kindle, curated, "Best Of" is just so more enticing to really sink your teeth in vs trying to cherry pick through your vast body of work. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 01:53 AM |
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