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| 3 | Good openers for Latina cleaner at work?Do you want to see my junk? | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Splitting the bill (Daygame)Coffee date and you still want to split the bill... | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 12:00 AM |
| 27 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?If you asked and she said yes, and sex happened, means she would be deemed as voluntarily decided to be a slut. If not asked, and sex happened, it's your fault that led her to the sinful act, and not hers. Relieve her off the burden and risk (of being stamped as slut), and you'll get the reward. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)?As an asian, I'd pay dinner if I can, whether it's a date or not, or even beers with a just a couple of co-workers. That's a good behavior out of respect and love toward others .. but again, I don't go out to expensive dinners.. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:30 PM |
| 14 | slept with my friend's sisterYou know the girl first, then her brother. That's completely no issue here. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong wayI never said sexual harassment. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 03:22 AM |
| 16 | Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong wayI'm not shitting at a place I regular. If my approach did not reciprocate, won't pursue further for the risk of getting banned from that place for allegedly harassing a girl. Understand this perspective. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "Boyfriend"I'm not gay. So yea, you can keep your boyfriend | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with going from unattractive to attractive?Take dancing lessons. Lots of it. | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What's a good opening phrase?Todd valentine. Just search him in youtube. He's been in the game world ever since mistery, rsd, etc. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | What's a good opening phrase?I've just read your post. I'm no expert. ToddV said if you're a beginner, it's better to be direct, like: You're cute, what's your name. It's because although indirect is better, beginner does not know how to escalate from friend to m-w relationship | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 01:15 PM |
| 7 | What's a good opening phrase?Have you accepted Jesus as your savior. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Has learning latin dance forms like Bachata help you get a lay?A man that can dance attracts women, show value, thus help you to open. But you need to be able to close. I'd say learning dance that requires no partner is more valuable. Go for Ballet. seriously. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 01:42 AM |
| 0 | First night out was a complete disaster. Seeking for advice.It took me 2-3 years of 3-5 days a week dance lessons to get my own swag. Are you afraid of social stigma? If so, you can start with masculine dances: popping, locking, turfing, kpop and hiphop. If you don't, you should venture out to also learn feminine dances: bootilcious, jazz funk and all other feminine sexy dances. At year 7-8 now. Girls show IOIs and hints for me to approach just because of my moves. I am just too dumb to recognize them at the spot. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 5 | How to make this girl fwbFriend her first. Then start giving benefits, like matched 401k, health insurance, etc. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Sexuality and datingPorn is fine. Masturbating is fine, research shows regular ejaculation (like 3-4 a week) reduce chance for prostate cancer. Seems you're a virgin. Get laid, sooner the better, with sex workers is fine too. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Looking for 35+ wing in NYCBetting my 2 pennies that you won't get one here. Why the fck games need to be expensive. Lol. Anyway, good luck. Not tryin to be an asshole here. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I’m (23m) the only man at a new job, how should i make the most of this?Are you ready to get canceled for sexual harassment / hostile work environment? Some women are plain evil. Watch your steps, and your words. | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 04:24 AM |
| 57 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?There are things to remember: A test is a way for someone to filter out the ones who do not deserve for a further engagement. Filtering is done by one who has the upperhand in a negotiation. Women hold the key to sex. Men hold the key to marriage. Women only have one egg to fertilize and have to endure 9 months pregnancy + years of supporting a child. Certainly they want to make sure they get the best seed and father would be there to protect. Logically, in general women shit test men before sex… | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay?When a girl asked if you're gay, it's a compliment wrapped as a shit test. Like Seriously. And when you protested, you have lowered your value before her eyes. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 04:26 AM |
| 264 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Lets watch some porn on my flat screen mirror | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The “Age knowing” thingThat's how to spot a mid-aged women. Can you really spot a minor or not from their elbow? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I fly her into my city this weekend?Why don't you hit the club every weekend man.. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:21 AM |
| 3 | What makes the rooms vibe more seductive?Ceiling mirror. Lol | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 09:07 PM |
| – | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?40s is supposed to be the golden age for men, since they (supposed to be) have amassed some wealth, held position in the office, and still ok physically at the very least. Although they are not as strong as the youngsters, they made up with their experiences and knowledge, and all those qualities attract women. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 06:00 AM |
| – | Is 4 bodies a lot for a 19 year old Girl?The last guy can have nasal sex tho | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 05:06 AM |
| – | Girl started calling me “kid” and I really don’t know why and I don’t like itI think it's a shit test and seems to me she has you in her mind, which is better than she ignores you like you're no body. I might be wrong though | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 03:29 AM |
| 20 | Is 4 bodies a lot for a 19 year old Girl?Girls understate while boys exaggerate | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Help6'7 is a great start man. To thicken yourself, muscles is preferable. Why dont you hit crossfit, HIIT, cslisthenic or something like that. Lots of girl in the community while adding muscles. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 11:38 PM |
| 30 | How do you get a guy to put his arm around you when you're sitting on the couch next to each other?You dont want to entertain your platonic feeling then. Why wasting it on someone who does not reciprocate | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:37 PM |
| 58 | How do you get a guy to put his arm around you when you're sitting on the couch next to each other?By telling him. Why make it so hard | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:22 PM |
| – | Do you worry that a girl you approach might be too young?Just ask, are you lost? Where's your dad? Lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | I have a date in like 20 minutes any last minute pointers?Do your best. Good luck | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Just say what's on your mindNot applied on colleagues in any setting. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 06:23 AM |
| 10 | I did it guys I unvirgined myself 😭Child support.. here I cum! | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls keep giving number and then just flake?Cool, you're a champ. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls keep giving number and then just flake?You make plan for next week, not tomorrow. Not saturday or sun. Any weekdays, may br Wed or fri. 2 days before d day, cancel it, reschedule. Then cancel it again. Only the third you go. Girls always have plans on sat with homies. Sunday is for family. so no hang out on sat or sun. No date, just hang out. Dont ask for feedback. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lost cause. Delete. Move on | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?I searched in Google, Yelp, and Mindbody app. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Depends on how ready you are to be stamped as feminine. You can start on masculine type ones that's neutral not that hardcore and not requiring a partner to practice, like hiphop, popping, locking, but of course there are less girls on those communities in comparison to let's say ballet, bootilicious, poledancing. I started very late, from hiphop and gradually went through all those. I am an introvert and quite nerdy. Beside what I experienced, I saw the social dynamics too in these communities.… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 70 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Meet tons of girls, improve confidence, learning to be vulnerable, being healthy, learning non-verbal language, how to dress, how to connect with others (dance partner, and audience). That's the skills you'll learn. And if you can dance, lots of girls will approach you. You don't even have to do anything other than just enjoying yourself, swagging. Dont forget, we are primates, and most creatures in this planet start mating process by dancing. Think about it. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:00 AM |
| 59 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Take dancing lessons. You'll get many things in one go. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Your favorite method to escalate to sex?Tickle her to tickle war.. then a hug.. to a kiss.. and make out.. in a push-pull fashion ofc | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | I need help with eye contact rulesI knew that already from your previous replies. Good news is it's rectifiable, and you're showing vulnerability in this "admission" is respectable and should be magnified. Vulnerability is the greatest bravery and the only key to be sexy. IMO. Enough about theory. I'd suggest you to take dancing classes. It might be easier for you to take the "masculine type of dancing" like hiphop, popping, and locking (as the feminine type might be too heavy for you) It'll help you improve yourself in this asp… | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I need help with eye contact rulesIt's meaningless if you dont step up into a "hi!" Of course, unless this is your only stepping stone to get there. Read some pua socialkenny's blog. Girls are using eye contact and a smile as an invitation to approach. Talking about boldness in maintaining eye contact is totally irrelevant to seduction subject. IMO. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | I need help with eye contact rulesAre you into staring contest? There's a point when you have to either start talking or break the contact. Otherwise you'll be seen as either a weirdo or someone with criminal intent | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | If a girl in a relationship makes sexual comments to you, is it worth trying to cheat with her even tho it’s her that’s cheating on her boyfriend?It's ok. Fvck it. Fvck him. Just fvck her. Strictly NSA tho. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 03:45 AM |
| 20 | Is it really so hard for girls to understand we are in into them?!Move on.. move on.. [echo] lol. Two strikes, and she's out. And enjoy the view of how she regretted what she did.. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome my lack of confidence for approaching in public?Start with small things, like saying hi to everyone, and add little more things as you improved your comfort in interacting, like asking everyone, what's the time right now, gradually. You can join local toastmaster club too, practicing public speaking | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Cold ApproachI see. Best of luck! May you fvck thousands bitches.. lol. | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Cold ApproachYou have more balls than me. I didn't cold approach. Too scared I admit. If I may suggest, you might have better success by being more straight and direct with your intent. Something like: U: Hi! (Or Excuse Me! -voice should be clear and loud to gain her attention) Her: Hi! (Or Yes?) U: I think you're cute! Her: Thanks! U: We should hang out sometimes! Can I get your number real quick? (While giving your phone for her to punch) While she's punching her number, you can chat a bit, like where shou… | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 10:12 PM |
| – | Is any advice from Pickup Artists good?Peacocking, negs, routines, DHV, cold approach, warm approach, social proof, being congruent, are all good. The idea works, not only in dating, but in sales-marketing (social media advertising, cold calling, door knocking, script memorizing, elevator pitch) and general life. Check those out. And it's Persistence, not Forcing. Understand when it's still Persistence, and when it has became a Forcing. One bad post doesn't legitimize you to bash the whole idea. I like books "Model" by Manson, and "G… | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Is this way too creepy?FAIL. Wtf is wrong with you, suddenly offering to pay when it was going good. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 6 | How to go about the Morning afterThat's a score! I'd just text her right away it was fun chilling out with you! And plan for another hangout if she's cool with it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Is this a rejection?Rejection to go out. Yes | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Need some double date ideas!Starbucks, then netflix and chill... 4some version.. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Lingerie equivalent for MenThere are so many ways to rebut your assertion, I don't know how best to address them. For the fear of being judged as slutty, women have been the expert in concealing their "naughty" side. The girls you asked, are you sure that they're being completely honest in responding to your question? That really depends on: how did you ask them? What (wordings) did you ask? When and Where (situation) did you ask? People in general based their opinion on things they've seen. Did you ask, is there any spec… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Lingerie equivalent for MenDepends on the material. If it's thick with padding on the crotch, like a Dance Belt (commonly used by male ballet danseur), you can have any color. Common color for dance belt is NUDE and Black. If it's thin, go with black, to hide the silhouette of your dick. You want to show your perfect round shape muscular firm BUTT, and a streamlined BULGE on the crotch, but not your dick (and its shadow). (See THIS). Chics dig those bulges. Try wear legging with dance belt inside for a walk in public, and… | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Lingerie equivalent for MenA thong. Ofc your body has to be well toned, like brad pitt in fight club size, not the overly muscular size. A hint of six pack is actually better IRL than an overly muscular one. | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I could use some adviceThe fact that she still responded to your text means you're good, and it's a full complete sentence with reason logically relevant to what you witnessed the night before. Always give benefit of doubt. If you're serious about the relationship, whenever possible, come and talk face to face with the father. That'll earn you respect from both. IMO | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 08:05 PM |
| – | I could use some adviceI'd reach out. Why move on? The situation is very clear. She care enough to send text with complete reasonable reason. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 0 | I struggle with enticing women through text. I need help.Do u know anyone irl who could seduce through text? Are u goin to fuck her with ur phone? Dang! Get out man! Hang out! Make out! WTF | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | I need help finding a girl onlineBuy a stoya destroya fleshlight in amazon and watch porn man. You're dreaming. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?Yes! It's a better way to listen to music. We sing with our body. You still need to learn the technics from the pros. You won't regret it. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?You're spot on! You need to learn from pros in a physical setting though. There are things you cannot learned/grasped in online/video learning settings, i.e. energy, visual connection, capturing audiences' attention, etc. And, IMO, it's harder learning online or from video. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 17 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?Take dancing classes. Lots of them: hiphop, popping, locking, bboying, ballet, bootylicious, and what not. Thank me later. You'll improve your self quality, life quality in general and sex-dating-life quality in specific. Read Model by Mark Manson and The Game by Neil Strauss. There are lots of good free stuff in the net too, like: girlschase and kennypua. Those paid coaching stuff, you only need them if you are the kind of person who need peer pressure to get going, and -dedicated- feedbacks in… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 01:42 PM |
| 7 | I’m only attractive to gay dudes, and some of them say I set off their ‘gaydar’, how can i appeal more to the opposite sex?If u attract gay dudes, for sure you attract girls as much. They just don't say that out loud to you. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Help a brotha out!Banging hookers is not a "sin." You can learn a lot and experiments with them. They can show how to do things properly. I'd recommend it, even for first sex. You can be as vulnerable as you'd like, and that opens opportunities to learn the art of fvcking. If you need reading materials, Model by Mark Manson is good. I' m in the mid of reading the Game by Neil Strauss. It's good so far. The mantra is always: set appointment to hang out, be casually physical (touch), and always escalate in isolatio… | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says love you in a friendly manner, does this mean she’s not interested?Don't stress too much. That means she's comfortable with you. Now you only need to polarize her into sexual attraction. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Being perceived as gay?If girls asked (or wondering whether) "are you gay?" That's a compliment, because you're too good to be true as a straight. If you're not gay, then you're not gay. If there's nothing to be fixed, don't fix. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | how would you handle this shit test?What were your question champ? What did you say previously? No one gonna ask that if you're setting an appointment to hang out in public. You obviously broadcasted creepiness. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 05:12 AM |
| – | Will it get easier to meet girls when I’m 21?17-21 is the golden years for gangbang, 3sum, fvckbuddies and beyond... | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What are some fun ways I can flirt with a girl using a double sided coin?I do regular coin. A head means I kiss you. A tail means you kiss me. Either way I lost. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | For the love of god, how do you make a move on the dance floorTake dance classes. Lots of them. Hiphop, bboying, ballet, poledancing, turfing, popping, locking, contemporary... perform on stages if possible. You'll learn more about non verbal communication and how to be attractive. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I get this girl to be interested in me? (It's a long one)Befriend lots of girls, but only the ones with benefits, and be a buddy to lots of other girls, a fvckbuddy. This one does not matter. She hinted you, loser. I mean i'm just kidding. Lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 12:20 AM |
| 3 | 3 dates, no real KINOI'd drop her. At least for a while. | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in a perpetual small talk phase. How can I move beyond just surface level conversation topics and actually focus on deepening the connection with a girl?Keep striving to be a better person. Always review what has happened and things that could be improved. That's all that matter. Everyone's journey is different. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Stuck in a perpetual small talk phase. How can I move beyond just surface level conversation topics and actually focus on deepening the connection with a girl?Generally, women became clingy after a fvck. Observe your friends who just got into a relationship. It'd be interesting. If she ghosted, it's either she wanted an ONS from the start, and/or you're really completely sucks at fvcking her. Because if you're that good, at least she'll keep you as her fvckbuddy. Makes sense? | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Does it ever 'just happen' naturally with girls or does it always feel a bit like you've had to plan and execute?Kino is physical touch, whatever it is. From the light one like brushing her elbow, touching her tattoo ask for story, put your hand on her shoulder, or hold her hand. 100% success is a total BS. There'll always be some fails, but most of the time, if you're just at least SO SO OK, you're most likely will get it. IMO. Sex is like pizza, even if it's a papa john, it's ok. Society has placed a lot of burden on girls to not act like/be a slut, thus girl "could not" initiate an approach to the boys … | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Does it ever 'just happen' naturally with girls or does it always feel a bit like you've had to plan and execute?Your plan is: set appointment for hang out and physical meeting, kino in public, isolate, escalate in isolation, and fvck. Details of how should be improvised based on current situation. Sexual hint and intention should be clear, but not spoken. So she could say to anyone, it just happened. Take the blame, and you'll be rewarded. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 05:40 AM |
| 5 | Stuck in a perpetual small talk phase. How can I move beyond just surface level conversation topics and actually focus on deepening the connection with a girl?Physical meet. Kino in public. Escalate in isolation. Once you fvck, the connection will get deeper, naturally. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Swearing?Mirroring. You're good. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Being a rich 31y/o white handsome 6"2' tall man will not grant you a free ticket to the women that you want.Move on. Get out. There are lots of girls to meet. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 0 | How to show interest without looking like you have an agenda?Yep, insteas of saying I love your tattoo, we must actually say I love pussies! Oops.. I mean I love your tats! Lol | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Any books you guys recommend?I found that Model by Manson has all the essential and necessary points for seduction. Nothing fancy. It hits the substances instead of forms. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 12:15 AM |
| – | I’ve been talking with a coworker casually for a while but I’m not sure how to advance itJust ask. I like chatting with u. Wanna hangout sometime? Coffee? The longer you wait, the door of opportunitu will close. You can ask in snapchat msg too. Just add that you're shy to ask in person. She'll appreciate it, your vulnerability. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Is slipping someone who's working my number a bad ideaGet well soon man. Intensify your physiotherapy. Try yoga class if it's possible. Stretching, kegel. And you really need to get out in open air. Get well soon. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Are guys in a relationship also on this subreddit too?Good news or bad news first? Good news: All advices offered here essentially is for men to improve their self quality and value. Bad news: I'm here to improve my game, for same night lay, same day lay, one night stand, friends with benefit, fvck buddy, and side chics. HAHAHAHAHA | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 11:25 PM |
| – | What do i do if a girl's giving me a shit testShe won't give u shit test. Just ask her out. Awkward or not, she'll appreciate it. Direct, text, or call is ok. No movie out. Coffee or hang out at park is good | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 6 | How to not get invested easily?By knowing and interacting with lots lots of girls. If you're in a park full of roses, a rose is just a rose. Also by spending most of your times to grow your own self quality/value. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Is slipping someone who's working my number a bad ideaGood for you! | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?Girls are as horny as boys, women as men, and just like everyone, desire to get compliments, also being loved, liked, and wanted. When you approach, just think of it as you're offering an opprtunity to them for whatever it is (hang out, connection, intimacy, relationship). Let them decide to take it or not. Be persistent, but not pushing. And you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Advice with a girlIt's subjective, but I'd say same thing applies. Fvck first. Act fast. You have to fvck the first or at least second time you hang out. Girls are as horny as men, yet socially pressured to not act/be slutty. Help her make it easier. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 02:07 AM |
| – | Advice with a girlU're so sloooww. Idiot. Ask to grab some coffee and hangout. Plan for netflix and chill afterwards. Fvck her. No need to ask for boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 02:00 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?No it's not. But it's up to you. Your life. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Girls are confusing"I'm bored too. Come to my place. Let's make out. LOL." | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 01:39 AM |
| – | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?Unhealthy mindset? WTF. That's what normal hetero guys, especially boys, do and think! You're not Jesus FFS. Do it! Go out. Talk. Make connection. Bond. Whatever the result is fine. Girlfriend, FWB, FB, or just friend, is fine. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | desk girl at gym asked if i had a girlfriend when i was leavingYou don't continue the conversation. Start new topic. Compliment something. Ask for a coffee sometime. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Making a move in the backseatGrab her hand | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you think someone needs to have had confidence in a natural way growing up?I'd say yes. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I can be approached, but I can't initiate anything - How can I change this? (M23)Damn, you must be a really gorgeous man. Buy this book: "Model" by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:56 AM |
| – | What do you think someone needs to have had confidence in a natural way growing up?Lol. Whenever I danced on the dance floor. Girls approached me. Might be subjective, but I think they are necessities to make a real man (I started taking dancing classes 7 years ago, at 36 y/o, previously an AFC) | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 0 | How do you institute the sexual type of conversation and contain it?Yes you can. Outdoor. A walk in the Park. Coffee at Patio. Whatever. No excuse. There's no such thing as sexting. Overrated. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:43 AM |
| 9 | How to have a “good vibes” aura?You don't ask girls about shit. They can't even decide what to wear for prom, or what to eat tonight. Just keep adding your self value (skills, knowledge, experience) and the rest will follow. No one wants to be near someone of no value. Take dancing courses and martial art classes to embrace your vulnerability (and learn body language n nonverbal communication) and increase your confidence. Join toastmasters club too for confidence and public speaking. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:30 AM |
| – | I REALLY like this girl but idk how to get herDM her. "This is embarassing to say, but I kinda like you. Wanna grab some coffee sometime?" She'll appreciate your direct honesty. If she rejected, keep it light. It's ok. Don't get mad. Seefrom her perspective. It's natural for a girl to reject. No one wants to be called that easy or "slut". Keep talking as usual. Keep going. Ask again in a few weeks. Rinse repeat. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 7 | What do you think someone needs to have had confidence in a natural way growing up?To be confident you have to keep adding your self value (skills, knowledge, experience), and be vulnerable (show your weaknesses to others and be perfectly ok with it). If it's too abstract for you, here's a simple advice, take dancing courses, real ones, lots of them. If you're afraid to be stamped as feminine, learn martial arts too. Thank me later. Bruce lee was a king of chacha. Van damme is a ballet danseur. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:14 AM |
| – | How do you institute the sexual type of conversation and contain it?Texting is for setting up meeting. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Is it okay to ask a woman who’s working for her number?Just ask. Ignorance is a bliss. Give her your phone, or paper n pen. The worst thing to happen is just she won't give you. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Is slipping someone who's working my number a bad ideaGo out man. Check the girls out. Hang out. Make out. Why you're wasting time checking my testosterone level. Lol | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Is slipping someone who's working my number a bad ideaDid you see? Oh great! You're not the popular guy. I see. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 10:58 PM |
| – | Is slipping someone who's working my number a bad ideaShe won't call or text u. Man must pursue, chase, hunt. That's what nature prescribed. That's what social expected. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How can i stop to show needy per text?Do what u like | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 09:30 PM |
| – | How can i stop to show needy per text?Short text. Hours unread. Hours not replying. Her text must always be the last in every chat. All because you're busy, you have lives other than her, REMEMBER. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Shy girl IOI signalsI kinda get it but don't get it. Lol. It's like flirting with a cat who's watching from a distance I presume. Where did you learn those? I mean your main resources? | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce a girl on tinder/over the phoneNo. Set up a physical hang out, escalate, make out, to netflix and chill. No phone six, no sixting. No. Phone call and text is just to set up meeting. Think with ur upper head, not ur lower head. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 6 | On burning bridgesNever escalate from behind her! You always have to face her when you're about to do something, hug, kiss, whatever, to show your intention and giver her a chance to reject your advance. That's your lesson. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 08:42 AM |
| 5 | I think it’s best that I just give up on all forms of dating"Working hard for years.." you're 18 FFS. Lol | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Slow burn dm slide?She's a corgi, and u're fanzoned. Lol. Get a hobby. An outdoor one. Add some skills, knowledge, experiences. No one wants to be near man of no value. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you actually "ask" for sex?You don't ask. Interact, kino, isolate, escalate, escalate, escalate, till you bang her OR she said no. If she said no, adjust, fall back a little, try again, kino, adjust, kino, escalate, till you bang her OR she said no. If she said no, adjust, fall back a little, try again, kino, adjust, kino, escalate, till you bang her OR she said no. If she said no, adjust, fall back a little, try again, kino, adjust, kino, escalate, till you bang her OR she said no. Never ask, but show every intention to … | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask for a date 2 weeks away?Too long. No date, but hang out. Ask casually when conversation got warm. 3 days max. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Yep. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | RoommateIf u bang this roomate, u won't be able to avoid to someday be in an LTR relationship. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Being very good at making friends, but very bad at stepping upGirls prefer to fuck a stranger than friend, because she doesn't want to risk being branded as slut by society. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 09:38 PM |
| – | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Get back to the market without leaving him. When he doesn't want to make it exclusive, it's your fault to commit yourself into a platonic exclusive relationship | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?He won't marry u forever. Past has passed. What'd u do? | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 09:10 PM |
| – | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Girls became attached after sex is normal and natural. You just can't see her too often. treat her like a fvck buddy to mitigate that effect. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 06:23 PM |
| -1 | How do I talk to my gf during sexYou want to fvck or you want to talk? Yo momma didn't tell you to not talk while you're eating? That includes eating pvssy. You may complinent the dishes though. It's good.. mmhh.. warm.. fvck me bitch! Lol | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Date with traditional Chinese girl"A date.." is wrong at the onset, from any perspective. "Asked if i could kiss her.." is another wrong.. Why don't you flash your US passport and see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Is she an Attention whore or interested?Fanzoned | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Would you seduce a handyman? How would you do it? Help me make it real.Be professional. Don't shit on your rice cooker. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | What things do you do to make people feel comfortable at your place?TV, netflix, ramen, and various alcohols, plus condoms. Ingredients to score! | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Any tips on sexting? Help a brotha out!Wtf! U want to masturbate on texts? Texting is to set up a meeting! Go out! Hang out! Make out! | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | how meditation is important for the building connection with dates or cold approaches?You want to fvck ur Father? | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | how meditation is important for the building connection with dates or cold approaches?Go to church. Church is good. | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 11 | how meditation is important for the building connection with dates or cold approaches?Meditation.. are you approaching girls or approaching god? | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 04:54 PM |
| – | A quote from MusashiIf you like me, fuck me. If you don't like me, fuck you. | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Can a bald man be attractive?If you wear a kilt for sure. | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I don't understandHave a hobby, outdoor hobby, or try to learn new ones u're interested. Ask her to join. Involve her in your world. U want her to be your satellite. She doesn't want u to be her satellite. Your assumption is wrong! Emotional connection does not necessarily start from conversation. 2 introverts walking together in silence could spark connection! 2 strangers who always rode the same bus everyday may spark connection! Wanna talk? Talk about silly stupid things you did in the past that's funny. Ask h… | /r/seduction | 08/01/21 10:55 PM |
| – | I don't understandSuch a great way to be friendzoned | /r/seduction | 08/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 8 | what kind of stоries are good to tell someone to build rappоrt with them?Little silly stupid things you did to laugh about together. Those'll open up your vulnerabilities, made them more receiving, and lighten up both your and their day. People love & respect the ones who can laugh at themselves. | /r/seduction | 08/01/21 04:25 PM |
| 4 | asking a favor makes you likeableNo. That's s big favor. A handjob is. | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 06:04 AM |
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