imsospecial125 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
511	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market	Field Report	imsospecial125	/r/seduction	12/02/21 04:44 PM
22	Directness is a necessary but not sufficient condition of success- on inner and outer game	Fundamentals	imsospecial125	/r/seduction	14/02/21 04:51 AM

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2	How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCERE I give compliments when something strikes me about someone. I never give a compliment I don't mean. It's not so much a technique as it is deciding not to censor yourself when you like something about someone. You just come out and say it.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 12:21 PM
11	The illusion of "Chad", "Bad Boy" and how I overcame it - Telling my Story this is honestly one of the dumbest, cringiest things I've seen in a long time. Is this a joke? Anyone with the slightest skill in reading between the lines can tell that resentment for "chads" looms large in your psyche. If you don't realize this about yourself, grow up and get some self-awareness.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 12:18 PM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market "After years of effort and desire, I've recently learned to whistle competently On a scale of very impressed to VERY impressed, how impressed are you right now" I counted and I get a 65% response rate. Of those who respond, I number close around 35%.	/r/seduction	14/02/21 10:49 AM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Wanted to add a few things. Definitely read Mark Manson's Models. Think about why you want to be a player. In the opening chapter of Neil Strauss' The Game, it describes Mystery's total mental breakdown, where he expresses a sense of inadequacy and misery. Strauss' life was destroyed in the years after that book was published- his recent book is about that. There's a post on reddit from a guy who slept with over 1000 women by 23 years old. He checked himself into a clinic for sex addiction- he w…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 10:16 AM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market I don't know your experience so it'd be dumb for me to try to give you specific advice. But I don't think being direct is a sufficient condition of success. That's why I said that one has to be both direct and tactful. One can be direct about one's interest without coming across as overinvested. If one actually is overinvested, you have to show restraint and work on your inner game. Here's an example- I was texting a hot girl from Tinder and I sent her a few texts in a row and she didn't text ba…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 04:48 AM
4	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market I got rejected hard in 7th grade at the height of my awkward phase. I actually ended up stumbling across David Deangelo later that year, which I think saved me from embarrassing myself throughout high school. But it was a small school and I was in love with one of my close friends who ended up dating my male best friend. I never actually tried anything, and after high school I just cared a lot less about girls. Eventually I dealt with my inner issues and came to realize that if I wanted a girlfr…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 02:29 AM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market About which bit?	/r/seduction	14/02/21 02:27 AM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market I read Models by Mark Manson back in 2016- that kicked off a series of epiphanies that helped me kick general social anxiety, though I didn’t really go for anything dating-wise. But yeah, it’s a must read, especially if you’ve taken a lot of 2000s era PUA doctrine for granted.	/r/seduction	14/02/21 02:26 AM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market After years of effort and desire, I've recently learned to whistle competently On a scale of very impressed to VERY impressed, how impressed are you right now	/r/seduction	12/02/21 11:50 PM
13	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market I use the same one every time! This one- "After years of effort and desire, I've recently learned to whistle competently On a scale of very impressed to VERY impressed, how impressed are you right now" I don't mind using material that is canned in this way as long as I'm the one who did the canning and it's actually true. It's true about my whistling. The opener works because it demonstrates humor, confidence in oneself, and the fact that you don't take yourself too seriously. It's an ironic pla…	/r/seduction	12/02/21 11:47 PM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Posted the bio a few comments above yours. And thanks! Back in middle and high school it was almost a bowl cut and I was incredibly self-conscious about it, so it's so satisfying to get compliments on it now.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 11:26 PM
9	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Here ya go: (6'0) If you match with me, all your wildest dreams will come true. In other words, I’m smart, not short, my life is pretty together, and I’ll message you first with something better than “hey.” And I treat my mum well. I'm a graduate student at ----- University. I like sarcasm and girls with a sense of style. And I LiKe tHe OfFICe I’m into classical and medieval astrology. If you charm me or get me all hot and bothered, I’ll make you a birth chart. ---- I always keep my promise abou…	/r/seduction	12/02/21 11:19 PM
3	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Yeah, would you believe that that's not even in its raw form? All men in my family have the unibrow curse. Would you recommend actually having it professionally done, or is it a job I can do over the kitchen sink?	/r/seduction	12/02/21 08:59 PM
27	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Here’s an example: https://ibb.co/album/6RsvjP?sort=name_asc&page=1&params_hidden%5Blist%5D=images&params_hidden%5Bfrom%5D=album&params_hidden%5Balbumid%5D=6RsvjP I’ve numbered them 1-6 if it doesn’t show them in order. Edited to remove any identifying details.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 08:24 PM
1	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Thanks for the heads up, total oversight.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 08:16 PM
9	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Lmao. I mean, ok? I don't want those things. Being able to make a phone call so some girl can get me off isn't the lifestyle I choose. There's a kind of power in knowing that I could choose it, but I am choosing to not live that way. It feels kind of pathetic to even engage in an argument about this, but I'm still not particularly seeing your point if I'm the one who is declining sex since your whole point is about what girls are willing to do with whom. But the fact that you say you declined 20…	/r/seduction	12/02/21 08:13 PM
252	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market This question is what got Socrates into philosophy	/r/seduction	12/02/21 07:41 PM
250	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market Oh, one more thing I've been doing lately is to set Tinder to show my card to men and women. I'm pretty much as straight as they come but men (gay and straight) swipe much more liberally than women. So all the gay men swiping for me hikes my ELO score and then shows my card to more women. Since I always swipe left for men, this also (I think) boosts my score because more attractive people tend to be more choosy. E.G. be more choosy, Tinder thinks you're more attractive. This is why people fuck t…	/r/seduction	12/02/21 07:06 PM
33	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market They make a big difference for me. I'd say about half my matches have been during boost. This is my main picture: [Deleted a year later- not interested in being tied IRL to thread!] My bio is really good, too (so I've been told several times) so I think that has something to do with it. EDIT: Since a few people have asked for my bio; here it is: (6'0) If you match with me, all your wildest dreams will come true. In other words, I’m smart, not short, my life is pretty together, and I’ll message…	/r/seduction	12/02/21 07:02 PM
12	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market That doesn't really make sense unless I don't get what you're saying? I'm the one who turned sex down.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 06:58 PM