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15

That's exactly what I was thinking.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:54 PM
1

Sorry, where is this quote from?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:00 PM
1

I can't see it, maybe cause I'm on mobile?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:06 AM
20

In the last 2 years you're been mostly skipping the gym, started again just 4 weeks ago and now you're irritated that your LTR doesn't join you when you tell her to. If she wasn't a gym goer in the first place this was in the package when you LTR'd her. You can talk to her about how important fitness is for you. Try to schedule something in advance, give a few days heads up. Also diet is at least as important as working out - is that in check? If she doesn't want to improve her looks there's not…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:03 AM
4

I have a plate in her early 30s who is a virgin, she sucks like a donkey while I finger her ass. LMAO.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 02:00 AM
33

2). is just a reason for op to disqualify himself from the dating pool.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:12 PM
8

I have to agree here. After some bad experiences with cheating girlfriends I'm on my way to accept AWALT but still have a problem on how to make this work with raising a family. I'm in my 30s and started to desperately want kids and stability. In the end of the day you're biologically successful if you pass on your genes (as opposed to nutting in as many infertile whores as you can).
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 12:51 PM
-1

I'm shit looking and I spin like 4-5 plates
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:50 AM
-3

doing good with girls had slept with about 4 other girls during those 6 months I'd say that's average the best lol
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:08 AM
2

This is not exactly true. For example if you're 30 and you have 21-22 as your filter you will see cards from this age range (as expected). However, you swipe right but the girl's filter is 21-29, your profile will not be shown.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:23 PM
5

Losing your virginity is a choice for life mate. Imagine having asked the question 10 years later by your LTR. Our your son 20 years later. You can either tell the truth (that will cause you anxiety) or lie (that will cause you anxiety). The alternative is to work on yourself (gym, game) and find a cute girl.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:15 PM
1

They're either low on self-confidence or want to minimize the risk of the guy leaving them for another girl. She settles for the low SMV guy for now but if you look over a long time-frame it's likely for the cheating to happen. If 42% of marriages end in divorce (UK 2010 Stats) consider what % of marriages involve cheating.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:39 PM
2

OP, there's a flaw in your logic. SMV is in the eye of the beholder. "Alpha Male Scumbag" Chad from your post will not have high enough SMV relative to the upper-middle class wife so she won't be interested to leave her family. However if Brad Pitt will cross her ways I'm pretty sure the lady will consider leaving everything if sufficient attraction is in place. So AWALT I'm afraid. There's always a richer, better looking male, it's only a matter of time and luck if your woman will next, given t…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:45 PM
32

If op's lucky the next step will be an MFF threesome.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:27 PM
5

hard-nexted my Oneitis. she dumped me. ???
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:04 PM
2

AWALT by definition applies to ALL women (except mum).
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:08 PM
2

And format your post
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:59 PM
31

Such a beautiful story illustrating female hypergamy.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:55 PM
5

You are looking to cheat in a TMM relationship which makes your integrity (and frame) questionable. If you want to have sex with multiple women as TRP preaches your girlfriend should understand it's an OLTR relationship. With this action you've diminished your SMV in her eyes as you're looking to pay for sex which is beta af.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:14 PM
9

You: Heyyy long time no see, hows things? Girl: I'm good/bad/whocareslol, you? You: I'm pretty good, been busy with X. Just been to Y and remembered you. We should catch up sometime haha! (i.e. try to find something that made you remember her so you're not texting her out of the blue). Girl: Yeah we should You: From here you sort out the specifics, like coffee or drinks next Saturday. Don't be too dry.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:04 PM
3

Learned a lot from this one single comment.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:28 PM
2

+6. Social (Friends & Family, Hobbies, game can come later)
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:26 PM
1

What's the corect way of handling comfort tests?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 03:28 AM
1

It's more like this: - a golden plate falls on your table out of nowhere - your SMV doesn't allow you to have lots of golden plates - you don't like eating from the ceramic plates anymore - oneitus develops - golden plate moves away because you fuck shit up
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:53 AM
0

According to Bitch Management she made a vindictive attack against my reputation so I should quietly move on. My hamster tells me the following is quite accurate "You’ve slipped up in your duties as a Red Pill man and her attraction for you is beginning to wane." I fucked up when I "don’t crack down on bad behavior when it happens, a girl’s only assumption is that you are perfectly okay with whatever she’s done." i.e. at the table.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:48 AM
-1

So get better plates? What should I do with FwB now?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:29 AM
2

Highlighting my negative traits in a form of introducing me at the table. (weird, old) Telling the controversial jokes I told her in private which didn't go down well in a formal setting. Her friend's direct and indirect comments on me. (i.e. I didn't speak continuously for 5 minutes since we're here; guy X is so boring because he has nothing interesting to tell; etc.)
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:27 AM
-2

I have 3 other plates spinning that are down any time and fucked them recently. FwB's SVM is 2 points higher so I became sort of disinterested in the plates.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:16 AM
-1

How were you even able to get this girl I'm adventurous, good job, ok face, just bad at conversing.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:19 AM
3

He made a pun, pretty funny actually
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 07:30 AM
1

White it helps the hangover can be a bitch the more you're over 25. I find when working out consistently therefore warm up muscles I can dance objectively much better.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:36 PM
3

In addition to the other comments I would make sure you have text evidence that it wasn't rape. Even if this involves saying that you like her or something like this. Cover your ass man.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:32 AM
1

How about asking a previous girl how you fucked up so you can do better next time?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:14 AM
5

Ops joke is not too funny and can invoke ASD in the girl if she is perceived as too easy
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:56 AM
1

What site is this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/18 08:18 AM
1

Man your posts are awesome! I'm dating this 21yo chick and I find some girls are ok to fuck you but they don't want a serious relationship because of the perceived social stigma. Also this girl is making the the "I'm old" joke every time she has a chance and I'm not sure how to react, after a few instances it just gets boring. Also in general she doesn't show too much respect, and she doesn't hesitate to point out any of my flaws to me. Sex with her is great, she's submissive in bed but dominant…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:55 AM
2

Most women will be looking for the ring if they are considering the relationship long term, which is what the previous poster is looking for.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:00 AM
7

No contact is immature and butthurt, when she initiates, keep the convo formal and short but deny when she accuses you of being cold (even though you are lol). This way she won't get the emotional support that she wants for free, and you are a gentlemen with a strong frame. Obviously you won't initiate contact.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 08:58 PM
0

The way I see it, hanging too much out with plate is a waste of time because it won't increase your social value/social circle. (It's unlikely you will introduce her to your friends; she won't introduce you to hers; you don't introduce plates to each other).
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:24 PM
1

Plate is crazy. I'd hard next.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:01 PM
17

What's the difference between the muslim girl and the hippie girl? The hippie girl gets stoned before the sex
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:31 PM
3

The user ran out of time lol
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:11 AM
22

I like when muslim girls blow me
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:08 AM
2

If the plate's status is high enough I'd want and LTR but she doesn't (because of hypergamy). If my SMV is higher then she wants the LTR but I don't. The only solution I see is to work on increasing my SVM so I can get a good enough girl for LTR and family but at 32 I don't have too much time to waste.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:23 AM
1

Doesn't offering her emotional support increase your RMV?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:55 AM
2

Women are more submissive then man by definition, so yeah a LOT of them.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 08:04 AM
1

/r/nosurf
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:18 AM
2

This is all very constructive and helpful, thank you.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:14 PM
1

Sorry I wasn't clear enough she's in the same country as I, we were visiting Africa Edit: also my question is not about how to make it work with this girl, but how to change my perspective and get back my abundance mentality. Not reading my post and adding RTFM as a top comment is not helpful at all for the community.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:11 PM
1

The Kindle edition is free on Amazon, what a pleasant surprise!
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:32 PM
-5

Accents can be sexy, pretending is not.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:47 AM
1

As someone who is over 30 myself and prefers girls at least 10 years younger than me, I think it breaks your integrity if you lie about your age and later you're found out. Maybe I'm naive here but lying is just not the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:38 PM
1

Lying about age is just uncovering your confidence issue. Own your age man.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:53 PM
21

How fucking ironic is to name the movement PoundMeToo
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 12:06 AM
1

One of my plates really likes slapping her naked pussy.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:26 AM
1

For me even one or two drinks screw up with my sleep so much that I feel beaten up the next day, so I decided no alcohol is the way to go for me. Been clean most of this year, achieved so much more than previous years.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:22 AM
0

Get laid a few times then you won't care that much about it. Especially if you have a few plates spinning.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:46 AM
18

Be a man and tell her you're looking for something different. Then ghost her if she keeps insisting.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:43 PM
2

Hiding your age just makes it creepy
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 11:37 PM
1

I would get horrible anxiety if the same people would see me alone over and over again. Glad you manage the situation well
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:04 AM
1

People recognising you at random places.. You must live in a small town or something
/r/askTRP23/07/17 09:33 PM
1

I'ts very interesting all that you said, let me clarify my point: I want LTR because I want kids and with her I could start a family. She wouldn't mind being a stay-at-home mom, it's the perfect job for her raising our kids. That's all I guess.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 06:19 PM
6

That's not harsh, it's a great point actually.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:51 PM
2

I don't think he is overreacting it. OP unwillingly gave out social value for free - usually this is pretty hard to get. Sadly there is not much he can do anymore if the girl managed to get in the social circle. Talking to her about this might degrade relationship even worse (imagine her shittalking him to his friends - nightmare).
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:10 PM
17

She must also have some hot friends.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:16 PM
1

Let's say you get laid 2-3 times per week x2 beers are a lot of calories. How do you handle calorie intake? Also any suggestions to those who not drink?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 07:50 AM
7

Lift. Don't waste your time in a small fucking town. Don't waste your time with shitty jobs. Shoot for the stars.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:39 PM
6

But Tinder will stop working
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:49 AM
1

After a couple years of marriage she can take half of his money too.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 06:48 PM
1

As someone who has not used snapchat before, do people use it only to send nudes or is it a legit chat application?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:12 PM
7

How to not be socially awkward? Go out and don't be socially awkward. Thanks for the LPT.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 09:17 PM
3

I don't have the willpower to read the article
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 11:23 PM
1

You can't make someone else want something. You can only change yourself. You can try educating them, see how receptive they are, but don't over do it and don't criticise.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:16 AM
3

With this logic you could say your body evolved to not wash your genitals or armpits
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 07:59 AM
1

The idea is that we knew each other for a long time. Not too long ago we matched on tinder. I think I was too dry when I asked her out there (no game) and she said she can't make it without offering an alternative time. I still think she kind of likes me. Should I give it a go one more time?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:17 PM
-1

That's what I call a perfect example of low quality comment.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:48 AM
2

Not sure where are you from but my case is exactly the opposite in the UK. I'm a shorter white guy and I dont have much luck with girls. They go for the black 'gods' with their big tool. I know many native white English girls who date exclusively black guys.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 10:26 AM
1

He should move to Belize
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:50 PM
0

That would mean you would lie which breaks your integrity, confidence and she would not notice that's a bad behavior
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:42 PM
3

What do you mean by clingy? For example I'm going crazy when my girl texts me, I reply and she doesn't reply back for hours. I guess I'm needy as well but she might be taking the piss on me. Edit: I didn't mention her that this behavior annoys me yet
/r/askTRP04/06/16 06:46 PM
2

What a self entitled cunt, she cheated on you, she wanted you to raise another man's child like your own and now she's asking for money? I would CUT ALL CONTACT with her and let the lawyers deal with the divorce. If you look up threads here you will find horror stories where the guys got really screwed by tricking him to say or do things which were used against him in the court. Man, it's going to be alright. You'll be happier than ever in no time! Take care (of yourself)!
/r/askTRP02/06/16 08:35 PM
2

Interesting thought, I'll try it out. The only bonding hormone I knew about was oxytocin but I'm not a doctor.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 07:44 PM
3

How can you bond with your future success?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 12:53 PM
1

Slightly off topic but how do you guys ask for the n number without revealing yours? I can imagine a situation where a girl admits 3 then asks back and if the guy wants to be honest he will tell the 20+ number dropping the girls jaws?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:12 PM
1

I don't necessairly have oneitis but the lack of options combined with the validation that comes from having the imaginary girlfriend made me stick to her so far. The problem is that I keep spending too much attention to her like what she does and when she texts. I should get a life perhaps lol.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:31 PM
1

Considering the environment is definitely a good suggestion. After a certain point in life it's your decision where and how you live. Where you live - For example my home town is in the middle of nowhere. I hate going back and can't imagine how can people live their whole life in a place where nothing happens and even the nature is shit. In an environment with little stimulus the brain/ego(?) growth is severely limited. [citation/study link needed] How you live - I read that Steve Jobs had a cle…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:30 PM
1

Some people like women with moustache ROFL
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 02:21 PM
2

I've been reading this article before and I couldn't find it again. I literally spent 1+ hours scrolling through all TRP articles to find it again and now save it. Pure gold man, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:52 AM
1

You shouldn't do what she tells you to but what is best for you. I would've waited until recovery because the wheelchair dramatically lowers your perceived SMV (sad but true) and first impressions do count. You can still counter this with other qualities but those other qualities would make you worth even more once you get out of the chair. From your original post is not clear for me: does she know if you're in a wheelchair at the moment? If yes, it's selfish from her to pursuing on asking you o…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:35 AM
1

Been to PP and it's a shithole, can't understand why would anyone live there.
/r/GEOTRP28/05/16 12:32 PM
1

You can't make someone else want something. If she doesn't care and is deal breaker for you all you can do is move on.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:50 AM
0

The girl stalked you on facebook, this is a big red flag. Forget her.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 10:39 AM
1

I would not mention how I was 'dating others' because it triggers her ASD
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 06:25 AM
6

6 years is not even a big difference lol
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 06:02 PM
1

These posts are pure gold. Nice to see RP theory put in practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 10:48 PM
2

This is a great comeback but someone below suggested rounds which might favour op more in this particular case. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:59 PM
-2

What if you need the validation that comes with texting with your girl?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 05:09 PM
2

Also /r/ukpersonalfinance
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:14 AM
0

UK's version of Walmart is ASDA. Tesco is a UK founded brand.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:10 AM
1

The Corrs is actually a band with 3 girls and one guy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:49 PM
18

so what do they do in their free time?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:44 PM
1

THIS
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:42 PM
1

Sorry there way a typo, the thread is /r/disney
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:54 AM
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