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I wasn't a fan because: the background music - you need new music the text - because of the amount of text in the video, I would prefer to read (could be my personal preference) the narration/script - lacking in personality, intonation, and inflection (could also be mic quality) the length - I can digest a post much faster than a video Basically, I think there might be something with video as a medium for teaching, but, for me, this wouldn't be an effective tool because it isn't entertaining or …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 02:48 PM
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if you think of game and spinning plates as an investment, the price-per-fuck on the game side improves dramatically over time...Hooker prices are fixed. I agree, and this is why prostitutes are not a permanent solution.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:45 PM
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Several reasons for having sex with a prostitute are outlined in the post. Please read it. The answer to why bother learning game is addressed in sidebar material. I will quickly address it though. Successful game is the summation of your pickup skills and benefits offered as an individual (SMV: sexual marketplace value). With only one of those being offered, your sexual and romantic relationships are more likely to fail or be subpar. By sharpening pickup skills, you are able to at least do the …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:41 PM
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You are correct about prostitutes potentially not desiring you, but my point is that even "normal" girls could be doing the exact same thing even though you used a different currency. This is an interesting idea to me now because you're using an external source as a metric of success for your sexual pursuits. If I have time, I'll write on this.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 06:08 PM
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No, this is not always the case. For example, if you are a wealthy but extremely unattractive man that acts as a girl's sugar daddy, you aren't directly paying for the female's companionship because you aren't always giving the woman cash, but you are paying for it. There is more than one way to "pay" for sex. Because it appears you are paying less because you are not using cash as your currency, you're making the false assumption that the woman has "genuine desire." Time, gifts, security, etc. …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:41 PM
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All sex is paid for. The only thing that changes is the currency. If you bought food, drinks, or paid for anything for the girl, you paid money for the sex. And, in every situation, you're paying with your time.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:05 PM
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Unfortunately, they don't let you scratch and sniff before you buy and try. If you're finding a prostitute in a bar, it most likely means you're drinking and might not be in the smartest state of mind so it's better to have guidelines. Has every girl you've gone down on smelled like roses? You are a blessed man. Also, all sex is paid for one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:00 PM
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Herpes 1 and/or 2 infection. Some other dude was probably there earlier that day/night. Basically, there are the same risks as with "normal" girls, but it's with a girl that has sex for a living at a, most likely, high frequency which potentially opens her up, and you, to more disease exposure.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:30 AM
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Any emotion towards you that isn't indifference is beneficial because it can be used.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:49 PM
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There probably is something with your profile. The usual cause is you're not as good looking as you think you are and/or your pictures are terrible. Focus on yourself (read: get better looking) and offline game.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:32 AM
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Yes, it is common. Game the fatty too, bring a wing, or isolate HB later depending on environment.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:29 AM
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Read "Sex God Method." Yes, you have to take charge and initiate everything. When you want her to deep throat, you push her head down. When you want to fuck, you keep playing with her and put the condom on while you're making out. When you want a certain position, you put her in that position. All this is up to you. Don't ask her and don't wait on her. Just do it. She will stop you at the point she's comfortable with. Be a fucking animal.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:27 AM
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Replace your bad habits with good ones. Meditate or focus on your hobbies to avoid masturbation. Workout, cook, or study when tempted by cheat meals.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:16 AM
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TRP is amoral sexual strategy. What people do with it is up to them.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:11 AM
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Depends on your goal. Consider the environment that you're finding the girls in. This should tell you roughly something about them and what they're looking for. Now, what kind of girls do you want to pull? Easy, drunk women? Girls who like to party? Nothing wrong with them, of course, but figure out what you're hunting. Then, yeah, up your bar game. Otherwise, play to your strengths.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:19 AM
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Unnecessary. Why do this?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:16 AM
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Honestly, if it frees up your time to do more important things in your life, good for you. If it was to get over nerves so you're better later, good for you. EVERYONE is paying for sex in some way - their time, drinks, dinners, lunches, all the other dates. Money is just an easier, more accessible currency, and the purpose of the encounter is straightforward. Don't use hookers as a crutch and stop hunting though. Up and at'em.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:13 AM
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I recommend continuing with weight lifting even if you pursue martial arts. Weight lifting does more than build muscles. You build strength of body and mind. Your appearance improving helps with confidence and attracts attention. It also carries over to martial arts. If you and your opponent have equal skill, your strength plays more of a factor. Keep lifting. Strength is important. If you aren't able to achieve a stronger frame and mindset through weight lifting, meditation, reading, and other …
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:10 AM
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Depends on the environment. What I like to do is walk around and enjoy the environment I'm in. If people break off from the main group, I isolate and engage.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 10:01 AM
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I work with local businesses, and we have to deal with bunk reviews sometimes like from disgruntled employees. The major platforms like Yelp and Facebook allow you to dispute reviews. If the platform is taking awhile to remove reviews, while you dispute, reply to the "customer" as a responsive, caring business owner until the platform rebukes the fake reviews. Keep documentation of everything so you can support your claim. If they make multiple accounts, the platform will be able to track profil…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:04 PM
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Remember, it's just your turn with her. If you're going to commit to an LTR and things are consistently good, keep doing your thing, don't lose yourself in the relationship, and always have abundance mentality. If inconsistencies start to creep up or you're tired of her shit, fix it or move on. Why waste time testing someone? Surely, you have better things to spend your time on.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:47 AM
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You maxed out what you can and make out of the time you have. Reclaim your time. When you control your time, you have true freedom. Also, people who see results over night are taking the shortcut or experiencing noob gains. People who are new at something make the most progress. When you near the pinnacle of something, you make slower, incremental changes rather than seemingly exponential.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 12:09 PM
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Why are you in ASKtrp if you already know all the answers?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:25 PM
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Are you taking your dick out when you switch positions? Does it take you a long time to switch positions? I almost never take it out. Lots of positions with the man on top, and I leave it in. Want to be ridden? Grab her hips and roll over. Read "The Sex God Method." It sounds like you're in your own head. Start having fun and reduce your anxiety.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 01:57 PM
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Why do you need validation from a girl at work?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:20 AM
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Go to a different doctor, potentially specialists. More expensive, but you'll get the information you need from someone who knows more about your issues. For phlegm and mucus, check out an ear, nose, and throat doctor. If it's a lung problem, pulmonologist.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:05 AM
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Cardio is helpful. Do it. In your programming, do whatever is more important to you first. For example, I want to be stronger so I lift before any cardio. I wrap up my workout with rowing. Cardio, at extreme levels, may hinder growth in other areas, but this is like anything you do in life. When you focus on one area, you neglect others due to the fact that you can only focus on so much with your physical body. Cardio is also important for sex in the bedroom. I don't know how hard you fuck, but …
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:02 AM
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Have you read 48 Laws of Power? Follow it to a t. Get your job done and make sure she doesn't outplay you in office politics.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:01 AM
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What are your goals? Your program is determined by your goals. Either way, your lifts are weak, and you are small. Highly recommend you stick to Stronglifts or Starting Strength and do GOMAD until you reach at least intermediate levels of strength. See exrx strength standards if you aren't familiar.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:58 AM
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Once I week, I do loaded carries - waiter walk, racked carry, farmer's walk. Every workout, kettlebell swing.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 02:02 AM
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Yeah, I felt the same way. Then, I realized it was an excuse to stay inside and avoid people. Meet better people. Be better so you can meet better.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:15 PM
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Red flags, red flags everywhere. If, for some reason, you want to stick this out, set boundaries and stick to them. Lead. Spoil when she's done good and withdraw when she does bad. It's as simple as that. You need to lead this thing how you want it to go because it gets out of hand.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 03:36 AM
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Amen. Do not wait. Waiting is your enemy. You'll lose the weight while you train. If you're in a big city, there should be reviews for the gyms online. Check out specific subreddits (ex. /r/bjj) and search for your city. It should give you enough information. Best thing to do is find all the gyms to train at in your city and use their free trials, so you can pick the place that fits you best, assuming their quality is similar.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 03:32 AM
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If you ever have the feeling to smash everything, go lift. Deadlift and squat until you can't anymore. You can't stop your woman from talking to this dude. Dread game and prepare to take the L. Don't sweat this shit.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:38 AM
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Bingo. Either befriend the guys, which will probably give you a longer lasting relationship than a woman could, or out-game the men. Get better and increase your confidence.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:36 AM
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Meditate, lift, and focus on whatever else you're doing with your life. You aren't busy enough if you have time to think about lovesick feelings. Best way to get out of that shit is to pull yourself out. Get after it.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:33 AM
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A threat to what? Who gives a shit about other people? You need to worry about yourself. When I see someone is skilled at something, lifts, etc., I give them the nod of acknowledgment. Other men being better than you is a good thing. You get better to beat them. Then, you find other people who are better than you. Then, you get better again to beat the new people. Be better, don't be a bitch.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:31 AM
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If you aren't a sweaty person, layers are your friend. Wear clothes that cover. If you're in great shape, no one gives a shit. Seriously. They're thinking about how jacked you are. I've got puffy nipples, but I lift so I don't give a fuck. No one has ever said anything to me about them.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:29 AM
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Honestly, I feel like part of that is a good problem to have - the feeling of not doing enough. But you'd want to fuel that towards some goal of some sort, which could or could not be a possession. Personally, I don't tie my goals to possessions; to each their own. Keep hustling. If it's an every day thing, practice meditation.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:51 AM
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Thinking too much into it. What do you mean mildly interacting? Does that mean she's liking your posts or something? Set up a date. Game her like any other girl. "Hey, I'm going to be at x on y at z time. Join me."
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:49 AM
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Some chicks aren't into labels. You're fine if she's still talking to you and fucking you. Don't sweat it. Move on. Let it progress naturally and just introduce her as her name. Have fun.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:47 AM
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Buy a Hitachi Magic Wand. Use it all the time.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:46 AM
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Say naughty things like, "I'm going to make you eat in the middle of the day during Ramadan." They're the same. They're women craving it.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:44 AM
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What'd you get out of doing that? You feel better about yourself? Who cares about what happened and if you were set up for failure? Focus on what you're doing. You're alive and probably equipped with things to at least provide for yourself. Don't be a bitch.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:42 AM
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Wherever your game is strongest. AWALT.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:39 AM
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Why does it make your blood boil? Why do you want to do bad things to them? Concern yourself with yourself.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:50 PM
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Do you journal or measure your progress in anything in your life? Stay focused on your mission(s) outside of women because you'll get enjoyment from other things in your life. You'll be less reliant on women to get fulfillment. Women come and go; you are the common denominator.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:34 PM
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No, I've quit so that I only masturbate on occasion when I really need to. You need to. If you're losing focus, rub one out. If you're around family, do it in the shower or start taking really long shits with your phone.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:27 PM
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Overthinking. Next this if you don't get the puss.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:24 PM
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Do not play their game. Always display amused mastery. I always deflect and amuse myself. If they get any negative emotion out of you, you've lost. They're out to piss people off, especially men. If you give them nothing, they have no kindle for the fire.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:16 PM
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The woman isn't the problem in this situation. You are the problem. You don't have enough things in your life that are keeping you busy. You have time to dwell on some bitch. You empower this woman by giving her any thought or feeling. Find shit to do and do it.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:14 PM
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I go in to every opportunity with the beginner's mindset but with the intention to kick ass. I don't like to do things half-assed; I go in wanting to do things full-assed. I know that I might suck at it, but I'm going to be enthusiastic as fuck and listen to someone if I recognize they know their shit. I'm confident because I know that, after time and work, I will be competent at whatever I'm doing. There's no need to fake it. I always have that mindset.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:12 PM
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This is fundamental stuff. Do not think about who the girl is at all. Focus on what it is she is doing. Replace her with another person, even a man. If your friend treated you this way, what would you do? If a stranger, if your parent, if your sibling, etc.... Focus on the actions. Now, would you let any of these people treat you this way? No, you wouldn't, if you had any semblance of self respect. What do you mean "pull the trigger?" Fuck her? Wife her? Impregnate her? I always break down what …
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:10 PM
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If you masturbate an excessive amount and it keeps you from living your life, by all means go nofap. If you don't have an addiction problem with masturbation or porn, it's up to you. I find that I perform better (at work, life, lifting) when I haven't had an orgasm in awhile.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:07 PM
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Lose the weight. There are more of her. You're right to be scared to lose her because you luck-sacked your way to a hotty. YOU need to get better, so you can snatch girls up of equal or greater value.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:05 PM
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I haven't met anyone who adopts all of the RP tenants, but a large majority of my friends use different parts of RP. They take care of business, make good money, and recognize women for what they are. They're less obsessed with the self improvement/development side though.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:46 PM
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Merry Christmas. Your sister is not you or one of your plates. What she does or your parents do doesn't matter. Your sister is riding the CC. She's doing what feels natural. Fish are going to swim. Take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:43 PM
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Take the time to take care of your body. When you're first starting out, Starting Strength shouldn't take more than an hour. If you have more time, do Stronglifts (has more volume than Starting Strength). Simple as that. You're going to have to sacrifice some study time. Lifting is going to help your mind by stressing your body. Invest in that portion of your life.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:41 PM
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You're acting wildly inconsistent with how you used to be, so there's going to be some backdraft from your girl because she's used to you being an omega. There are problems with how you handled it. First, you're breaking frame. Read up on dread on how to deal with your girl doing things you don't like. Secondly, if you do want to keep her, you need to learn how to maintain. Outside of the bedroom, you treat her like a child, a kid sister. When she does something wrong, you exhibit disappointment…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 06:09 PM
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Exactly this. Loud events aren't conducive for conversation and should be treated as such. If you're at a party, concert, etc., have fun and do what you're supposed to be doing there - most of the time, this is drinking and dancing. Otherwise, "hey, do you wanna go somewhere quieter?"
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:27 PM
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Women operate on covert levels of communication, so you are, most likely, giving off a gay "vibe" with your voice and body language. What I'd review: Pitch of your voice Speed at which you speak Your posture How you move during conversation Eye contact It's also possible some, although probably few if this is a consistent problem among random women, of these accusations might be a shit test.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:25 PM
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It depends on how you want to measure progress. Do you measure by how hardcore your shit tests are? How many numbers you pull? By the names women call you? Your n-count? By talking to this girl about her "point," you were pulled into her frame. You don't have to defend yourself against her bullshit, and you shouldn't because logical arguments with women are mostly useless. Personally, I would've made fun of her, deflected, and moved on to something else. The best thing you did was let her walk a…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 02:15 PM
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Yes, some of them get bored, as we get bored of them. This is a natural occurrence. If you want to maintain a plate, you have to keep escalating sexually. Soft next, if she's bored and you don't feel like it's worth the work maintaining (note: it normally isn't unless the sex is incredible).
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:06 PM
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Hell yes. I never understood why rappers were always trashing on women because I was still holding that pedestal up on my shoulders. Now I realize that these are top men who see women for the creatures they really are and call them out on it. It's hard to listen to too much BP music now.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 12:59 AM
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There are people who are bad at conversation themselves, so you can't expect much out of everyone in every conversation. If you aren't having fun, then you have to make your own. I don't know about you, but I laugh at damn near everything because the world is fucking hilarious to me. I allow myself enjoy things on a wide spectrum. If the conversation is boring, make it interesting to you. Questions guide conversations; you're steering the ship. Your conversations are boring because you're steeri…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 06:50 PM
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You have no discipline and confidence. You're all amped up on instant gratification from playing too many video games. Quit playing video games now. If you don't know what to replace that time with, try meditation, yoga, and reading. For the discipline, find what habits and hobbies you want and work on them every day. Start simple at first and ramp up the complexity. Make your bed every day. Meditate every morning. Hang from a pull up bar/hold a handstand (against a wall, if you need it). Drink …
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:23 PM
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In essence I don't care about the girls themselves I just want sex. So, you want a vagina to masturbate with? Read the sidebar. You don't have game, and it doesn't sound like you know what you actually want.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:05 PM
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Read the sidebar. You should start there. You're going to get shamed while on a path to improvement. You can let it crush you, or you can move on and find better people. It's on you.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:03 PM
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I lost my virginity when I was 20 years old, and, despite having a girlfriend, I wasn't getting laid frequently. Welcome to my hilarious situation. Met a girl online and engaged in an LDR with her, while she lived thousands of miles away in a different country. I saw her once a year for at least a few weeks for the next two years. On the second year, I married her. It lasted some years, but it ended legally three weeks ago. No, I do not feel anger. I was a pitiful little shit that treated fairly…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:50 PM
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How does knowing affect anything? It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:16 AM
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I flip a coin. I always have a coin on me, and, if there are two equally appealing options with no preference from either party, I flip a coin. Whatever the coin lands on, I make us stick to it. Doesn't really matter what method you use as long as you are confident in what you chose. Being wrong or less optimal is better than indecision for a man.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 02:19 PM
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People in NYC are more fit than a large portion of the country. We live in a huge city, so there's more competition here. Embrace this because it pushes you to do more. Starting at 30 is better than not starting ever. People in NYC also dress very well. Don't worry about other people. Keep wearing clothes that fit well. Uniqlo, etc. You are going to see more shit tests because your eyes are open to them now. You've learned how to recognize how women work, so you'll be aware of it. It's probably …
/r/askTRP18/10/15 03:13 PM
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But have you become a better person? Are you using the masturbation time to do other things? If you're fapstaining just to fapstain, it's not really doing anything for you. Use masturbation as a reward for gaming and dating women before you get sex. Let it fuel you to go out and pick up women. When you have plates up and running, consider cutting it out again because you're getting sex and don't need it.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:09 PM
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Are you taking your clothes off and asking them to rate your dick right before sex? If you game a woman correctly, all they care about is that you're shoving whatever you have inside them. They should be begging for it. They're not going to want to sit, look, and review your package. If you're having mediocre sex, that's on you. You are responsible for the women you fuck, where you fuck them, and how you fuck them. Do what you want to have fun and incorporate DEVI. Women operate on covert commun…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:06 PM
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Somewhat similar to Jack Donovan's definition of masculinity in The Way of Men: strength, courage, mastery, and honor. These qualities are few but purposefully general because their application works across all cultures and are amoral, which makes for a better form of definition.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 11:44 AM
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This. You're going to appear arrogant to most people even if you have a shred of self-confidence because people aren't used to seeing it nowadays.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 12:39 PM
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Reducing light exposure has been a great benefit to my sleep. Download flux on your computer to help reduce light pollution late into the evening. I've started turning lights off as the day gets later. Also, I like the idea of not sleeping until your body is completely ready. This is a good approach because you will sleep eventually. Heavily consider nofap, /u/brownredpill.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 07:48 PM
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It doesn't sound like the day game is your tripping point at all. You're opening and getting numbers. This is good. You're having issues with game during your dates. If day game is working for you, keep doing that. If you have time to approach during other times and at other places, do that too. It sounds like you're comfortable with opening sets, and that's why you're so focused on it. It's blinding you to the real problem - game during dates. Text less. There's nothing more to it than that. Wo…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 07:05 PM
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There is no point in going into detail with them. Your dad is stuck, so he doesn't care, and, as you saw, your mom, like most women, will continue to be disgusted.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:42 PM
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Read the sidebar. You're an orbiter.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:38 PM
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Clothes that fit correctly should enhance your appearance even if they're plain. This is most likely a game-related issue.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 10:13 PM
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Clothes that fit correctly should enhance your appearance if they're plain. This is most likely a game-related issue.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 09:58 PM
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If they respond negatively, it like I have a weird conversation shutdown reflex, and it's impossible for me to keep the conversation going currently. This is a fight or flight response to failure. Keep pushing, and you'll either get used to this feeling to vastly reduce its effect on you or get rid of it completely. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:15 PM
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Put the stuff you don't want to do first. It's first priority. Do not get comfortable. Immediately do the thing you're supposed to do. I used to be so-so about making my bed. I wanted to make my bed more, so, as soon as I got out of it, I made my bed. I used to be lazy about cooking dinner. Now, as soon as I walk through the door after work, I put a pan on the stove, and I start cooking. Eventually, you get used to doing that thing, and it won't seem as hard to do. If you have problems with mode…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:02 PM
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Would you agree the game is the same? They're all the same. Some might be slightly more conservative. NYC is chock-full. Didn't see as many when I lived in Washington state. I've been asked if I have yellow fever before. I always say yes and turn it into a joke. I am unabashedly honest with women, so it works with my game. Proceed with caution on that.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:27 PM
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What you might be experiencing is CRD - Cypher's Regret Dilemma. You've been exposed to the truth and now the world just doesn't feel the same. It's what happens when you've peeked behind the curtain to see the Witch of Oz is an easy, predictable machine. I felt this way a few weeks ago and got angry for a minute. Then, I dead lifted until I appreciated truth again.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:37 PM
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When you get older, you'll probably look back at those experiences and laugh. Why? Because they're hilarious. Enjoy this stuff and get used to ribbing from male friends.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:28 PM
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When you post, you should be prepared to be challenged. There are worse things in the world, and you should be able to handle random people on the internet. Read about maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3iv1it/mod_the_red_pill_is_sexual_strategy/ self-improvement is not the primary purpose of TRP. /u/ThrowAwayManToday SHOULD work on weight loss, meditate, and approach women because he has no value to acquire sex, BUT the point is sex. OP, sex feels great, but it's like food. You get your fill of it, and then you move on to other stuff. Go ahead and blow your load in a few whores, but, eventually, you need do to build yourself up enough so you can pul…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 12:33 AM
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Are you lactose intolerant? If not, GOMAD diet. Are you doing Starting Strength or Stronglifts? If not, do one of those routines until you're at least intermediate strength levels. Stop worrying about "Chad." Start worrying that you're not doing shit that's working. Up your game. Practice hobbies, lift, wear clothes that fit. Have. Fun.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:28 PM
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No. Read The Rational Male and the rest of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 12:20 AM
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Biggest factors that improved my walk were to treat it like posture: chest out, chin somewhat raised, and shoulders slightly back. If your walk sucks, I'd make eye contact like a fucking champion. They'll be less likely to watch you walk after you've made eye contact.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:27 PM
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This is when you need to be ruthless. This is when you're being tested the most in your life. When you say you're going to do something, you damn well better do it. Figure out what you want. I don't know how certain you are, but you need to make plans for YOU and your kids. How much do you want them in your life? Do you want to give your commitment to this woman? You figure this out, and you tell her this is how it's going to be. If not, you tell her how the situation is going to go with the kid…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:22 PM
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If you're still small, lifting heavy and have the funds, try GOMAD. You will gain weight - quickly. And poop a lot. But you'll gain weight. What is your lifting routine? Are you lifting at school or at a local gym? If you're lifting at a local gym that has classes for stuff, take classes. At school, join a club. I highly recommend taking dance classes. You'll acquire a physical skill that is helpful with game.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:17 PM
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Do you WANT to talk for hours? If you can do so while intoxicated, you have the capacity to do so. You're already setup for success. Emulate your drunken self. Be that person all the time. There's no reason not to have as much fun as you want. Give zero fucks. No more outcome dependence, even in social situations. Eye contact is powerful beyond all belief. Laugh loud, be obnoxious, dance like a fool, take up lots of physical space with your body with open body language. Be the friendliest, most …
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:08 PM
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No, it does not bother me. Fear of missing out (FOMO) isn't a problem I have with anything in life. I keep occupied even when I'm not gaming the girl. The more effort I put into gaming the girl the more she's putting out, so it's been worth the effort. Also, less risky when going raw if you get something higher quality. Reasons why you might feel this way: your girl isn't good enough you committed too early you don't like her as much as you thought In any case, I think you should still day game,…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:53 PM
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I thought this advice was ridiculous when I first started swallowing the pull, but it's extremely effective. Get in some other women. Enjoy yourself, OP.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:42 PM
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The LDR topic is clearly addressed in The Rational Male. This shouldn't even be a question anymore unless you haven't read the sidebar. LDRs are a horrible idea. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 12:59 PM
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I moved to NYC back in April. The women are top-notch, and they outnumber us. The jobs pay high, and, if you want to make more money, you can make more money. I've never lived in an environment that awards hard work and ambition like NYC does. I would not recommend living in UWS if you're going to have a busy night life and want to be in the thick of it. PM me if you'd like to talk about it more privately. HIGHLY recommend moving out here for career and life experience. I love it.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 12:53 PM
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If she's a good girl, you can teach her how to be more effective in losing the weight - sit her down and talk to her about it. Then, you continue to lead by example. It sounds like she's trying, so reinforce the good behavior. If that doesn't work, consider a next or dread game.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 09:58 PM
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Blue humor is off color humor, so sex is included as well as any other vulgar topic. Joe Rogan and Patrice O'Neal sound like they'd suit your style. At times when you're super high energy, there's Chris Rock or even Robin Williams. Just joke about whatever you want. If she doesn't like it, oh well. You're having a good time.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 09:09 PM
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Besides confidence, be funny. Do not hold back about what you joke about. Everything is amusing to you. When you make them laugh, kino. Keep escalating with blue jokes and more intimate kino. Strong eye contact is going to help with the confidence and is extremely powerful when used correctly.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 08:27 PM
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Why will you always be inferior? You need some serious introspection if this is your mindset.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 08:19 PM
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What do you do for fun? Do that and have them tag along.
/r/seduction06/08/15 07:13 PM
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If anything, you'll walk away a lot more comfortable calling women "bitches" to their face. Patrice had the most righteous anger.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:33 PM
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Mark Twight: one of the most no bullshit human beings on the planet. Stresses taking fitness to a level that exercises the mind. Tim Ferriss: brilliant marketer, genius in self improvement, and embraces failure.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:03 PM
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If she was truly a winner, she'd be playing D1 sports. Don't listen to what she's saying. Examine what she's doing. She's rubbish. Hard next. Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 06:44 PM
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MW: Meditate in the morning, work, gym, mental hobby, read TTh: Meditate in the morning, work, gym, creative hobby, date, read F: Meditate in the morning, work, gym, date/socialize with friends Sat: Free day to do whatever I want (extra sleep, read, clean, try out a new hobby, tourist stuff in NYC, go out, etc.) Sun: Meditate in the morning, grocery shopping, errands, socialize/date
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:48 PM
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The only thing exceptional about this girl is how exceptionally slutty she is. You ARE to blame because you chose to enter into an LTR with an un-trainable, untamable hoe. She is NOT fantastic. She's foul. It is not out of the ordinary if you're upgrading sluts from plate to LTR. Be hard on yourself. Get rid of her and learn from this mistake. Analyze why you got so hung up on this one. Why did you think she was so special? What red flags did you miss? How can you prevent this in the future?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:44 PM
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While I enjoy Bill's podcasts, they've gotten softer, overall. Also, I'm not a fan of Nia when she comes onto the show. Still worth a listen.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:13 PM
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Not yet. I have old beta friends I catch up with on occasion, and I drop little TRP nuggets when they talk about their issues. Then, I go full Morpheus and offer the truth. No one has accepted.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:16 PM
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Usual stuff: lift, box, guitar, dance, read - in other words, get back to working on me, which is more important. Something different: Math. I use math for introspection and insights into my game. After reading a lot on mental strategy in poker, I started to analyze everything that could be considered a game in my life. It allows me to objectively see the effects of variance over time and subjectively express through notes any feelings about the game. I'm a spreadsheet and note taking maniac so …
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:08 PM
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Having feelings for a woman is fine, but you do not have abundance mentality, and you're potentially setting yourself up for a bunch of unproductive failure. We're going to examine the red flags with your situation. You moved to a new relationship quickly after your divorce. I don't know how your married relationship ended, but it ended for a reason. Did you take any time to evaluate yourself and how you can improve as a person (not even in a relationship-sense but increase your self-worth)? If …
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:00 AM
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Try replacing laughter with something else physical, like tightening your lips, inhaling deeply, etc. Neutral things. Train yourself to use those instead of laughing.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:15 PM
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Own it, brother. I've got scars and shit on my back, but they don't matter. What does matter is that I lift, and I'm confident. Women like us differently than we like them. Game will be extremely valuable to you. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:42 PM
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Interacting with other men is an important part of growth as is building social skills.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:37 PM
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What do you mean "techniques?" There's nothing special about it. You focus on building skills, finding better men than you for friends, and improve your appearance through lifting, clothes, and hygiene. There's nothing special to it. Take a hard look at yourself and work your ass off.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:27 PM
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While others here are quick to dismiss, I think what you've got here is fine. Some women are worth training, and, so far, you believe she's worth having around for now. You haven't abandoned your stance on the issue or abundance mentality. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:07 AM
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I don't remember the specific episode, but I believe it was when Jeffrey Gurian joined the show, which would be one of the last three episodes. Dante didn't say too much about his job other than he was the best stripper in the tri-state area for awhile - at least from what I can recall.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 03:13 AM
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He starts to mix analogies a bit with animals. In this episode, I believe he referred to men as sharks and women as tuna. Tuna are trying to run the ocean, but they don't know how to do it - more or less, the point about how women do not know how to take positions of power because everything is in the construct of male power.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 02:36 PM
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Evernote is my king in this regard. It's the equivalent of carrying around all my journals with notes wherever I have internet access. Extremely handy, and it leaves for little unproductive downtime.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 01:59 PM
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Patrice was talking about training his girl. Basically, when you're in an LTR and the woman is worth training, you put out some effort to teach her. There's also a bit more to it. He described it as karate class. Patrice's woman made it to black belt, so she would shit test him in more advanced ways. This helped keep her in line. Edit: I just want to add that, if you're in an LTR, it's our job to train our women so the next guy has a proper woman. If she's out of line for her next dude, we messe…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 01:23 PM
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Why does he want more success online? If your friend can pull in person, I don't understand the purpose for online.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 04:52 PM
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Embrace the hell out of it. Like other users have said, use it as fuel to grow as a person. You'll grow and have life's balls in a vice grip. You'll pull higher quality women. Then, they might let you down again, and you'll might get mad again. Cyclical. But, each time you go through the cycle, you'll know how to deal with it. You'll embrace each stage, and you'll power through it. You'll be stronger. Be angry. It's good because it shows you're aware of what's wrong.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 12:22 PM
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Basically I've been hiding under the mentality of I don't know what I want to do. I want what I do to have purpose, to align my life with my job. You don't have a life. The characters in your games are your life. You don't know who you are because you are nothing; you have no purpose. You haven't gone outside, made mistakes, and found out what you really want. Men find who they are through risk and failure. We fuck up and grow from it. How can you know what you want when you don't even know who …
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:35 PM
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How frequently do you find yourself rinse and repeating? It's been about three months since starting my pill swallowing.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:16 PM
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Looking more into studying life's task to reconstruct. I found an interview from Greene on it, so I'll give that a listen through the day. Appreciate the help.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:14 PM
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Thank you. It seems so cyclical. After one cycle, you've internalized a new mindset and skills. Then, you get to develop in novel areas. I forgot that the common denominator in all of this is me, and I can always improve that part.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:13 PM
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355# deadlift at 165# bodyweight. More room to grow here.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 01:56 PM
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Patrice O'Neal talks about trying to "friendship your way to pussy" in his infamous "time hoe" clip. Very important. There is no use wasting time.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:56 PM
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I am new to swallowing the pill, so grain of salt and all that. In the past three weeks, I've been able to plate three women, and all of them asked my intentions within the first or second meeting. I straight up told them, "good conversation, having fun, and getting laid." They all appreciated my honesty, and they were fine hanging out and doing the deed afterwards. Now, they know what I want, and there are no issues. Being direct may seem douchey, but it isn't at all. Time is everyone's most va…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:53 PM
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I'm all about progression, even if it is slow. As long as I'm moving forward, I am satisfied. That's how we should measure our value, right? How much we're improving ourselves as people. One must edge forward like the inchworm, bit by bit. I'm going to get my dating goals SMART and written down. I'll keep coming back to your comment if doubts start creeping up.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:33 PM
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I'm going to hear this shit when I try to k-close, you ass. Hahaha, thanks for the laugh, my man!
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:11 PM
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I've been working on more movement and energy during the dates as well as my story telling skills. I'm miles better than when I started a few weeks ago. There could be more hand movement. I watched a lesson on mistakes men make, and leading is one I haven't done great on but seen improvement. Before, I was going back and forth about what to do for the first date, and now I say, "we can do A or B. I prefer A." One issue is I've never planned for the steps after the date. Don't worry. These rides …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:09 PM
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Should I see her again, the escalation is on. Love the tips; I'm going to use them wisely.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 09:40 PM
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Aw, hell naw! I ain't no bitch's time hoe! I enjoyed the recording. I'm glad I didn't spend any more time with that time pimpstress than I did.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 09:38 PM
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I like that idea for an approach. Most of my hobbies are solo activities, but I'll see what can be used as a social lure. I've been meaning to start bowling again. Reopening in a few weeks sounds like the perfect idea. I'll give it a rest, flirt, approach, kick ass, and grow in the mean time. I'm here to learn, and, when I start things, I try to go in with a blank slate mindset, so most commenters will have more knowledge and, more than likely, a lot more experience. I had shitty experiences in …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 09:22 PM
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Yeah, varying up the locations would have been a good thing to do. I'll keep escalating by moving us physically as well as increase the amount of touching. I didn't offer to help with her apartment. I said I'd come to her apartment to hang out while she did the cleaning. It was so we could continue hanging out, and I thought it'd be a private place to escalate further. I like that idea though: better to be too bold than to be too weak.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:18 PM
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Sonnova bitch, I was my own worst enemy. Friendzoned myself. I didn't stay focused on the mission, and that screwed me over. We did talk about a lot of different topics, and the amount of talking was split about 30%/70% (me/her). It was entertaining to talk to her, but it didn't get me closer to my goal. It SEEMED like she was enjoying herself more than me. Seeing as how she's distanced herself now, that does not seem to be the case, unless she's fucked in the head - real possibility. I solemnly…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:44 PM
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Did you get what you wanted out of the date? Did you escalate throughout and towards the end? Was she receptive to your communication after the date?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 05:54 PM
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Heard loud and clear. Acquire and spin additional plates. I'm working on stopping my approach anxiety and being a bitch ,so I can decrease the amount of work I'm doing with online game, which seems to be a waste at the moment considering that's not where my primary weak points are. Ah, so stick her in that bucket. Even with the mantra, "don't stick your dick in crazy," should I anyways? I like this approach though as I'd like to be as direct as possible. The indirect approaches seem like such a …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 05:40 PM
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You saved me from a shitload of trouble here. Can't thank you enough for telling me what I need to do and giving me insight into what exactly is going on. I thought it was odd that she distanced after the date because it'd gone so well. Makes sense though that she had me by the balls and could dangle me for as long as she likes. I keep busy with work, school, gym, boxing, and archery, so I'm always working on self improvement and hobbies. Do you think I need to monk mode for awhile until I've ac…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 04:54 PM
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That's what I thought might be the issue with the date length. It made my time appear less valuable than it is to me. My time is the most valuable thing, and I spent a good amount of it on her. End the date if I can't reach my goal, got it. I'm failing lots lately, and I'm learning loads from it. I love it. This instance I've struggled with because I had onset of oneitis. Thanks for your help.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 04:01 PM
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Good points all around. Would you circle back around after some time from not talking to them to ask them out again? And, as I'm reading this, I'm seeing some of my issues with the oneitis and not realizing that finding new plates to spin is better than trying to get other ones to work.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:56 PM
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It sounds like the risk is always worth it, otherwise the friendzone is inevitable. I'll get a hold of that book.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:54 PM
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Since the recurring theme I'm getting from your message is "fuck that shit," I'm guessing I just drop the girl period, right? No more contact and don't invest any more time there.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:45 PM
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Makes sense to me. Thank you for the help.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:40 PM
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This is perfect. Thank you. Exactly what I needed to hear. Will use.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:40 PM
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