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I've heard many older men tell younger guys that if they really want to jump into the casual sex scene, go work in a popular vacation spot. Lifeguard, bartender, cruise ship, ski resort, National Park area, etc.. These places become full of young people. Having average looks, decent dress, not being awkward, drink a reasonable amount, and usually you will get something. With Tinder and other locator type apps, I can't even imagine what it is like out there today in such areas.
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 12:58 PM
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For young people today who drink and are into party culture, no matter how hard or low key, there really is no reason to engage in any sort of monogamous LTR. The chances that one party will cheat during a drunken vacation, spring break trip, holiday, or guys/girl weekend are exponential when alcohol is involved. STR, sure, have fun and bond with someone for a few months, but eventually you may as well end it because as soon as one party wants to go to some drunk fest, they will forget all about…
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 12:53 PM
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When I first started to check Reddit, TwoX had some decent post about articles that even if I may not agree with them, I enjoyed the discussion. However, it seems over the last year or so, there are only two topics that dominate 90% (or more) of the sub, rape and abortion. Eventually I just stopped going because those seemed to be the only topics that people were discussing.
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 11:47 AM
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If you aren't Chad now, be Alex later. I predict this is how things are going to be for many women who are now in their teens to mid-20s, maybe even late 20s especially if the whole 80/20, 70/30, or even 60/40 concept is true. Many guys who didn't have a lot of fun in their youth and up that notch count are going just become serial monogamist, and possibly cheat many times just to obtain experiences they missed out on. Once a guy who got nothing finds out he can now get something, he is likely g…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 02:05 PM
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Technically illegal in my Midwest state. I work near a college campus and I can also confirm. It is mind blowing that many demand "respect," then want to complain about thousands of years of human evolution whereby guys are going to look, stare, make comments (to them or their friends), point, photo, etc. when they wear stuff like this. This is just a continued trend of showing as much skin as possible because while some might claim it is empowering, we all know it is about getting the attention…
/r/MGTOW27/09/16 11:32 AM
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My wife is somewhat like you, but I don't bow down to her. She learned early on that I will do what I want in terms of being with friends and family. It isn't that she wants me to herself, it is more a mental thing where she finds comfort with me around. It is odd, because if I just stayed in, I would just be on the computer, watching some TV show, etc. and she would hangout in her own little room of our house watching her girly shows or reading. I've always leaned toward being an introvert but …
/r/MGTOW22/09/16 11:00 AM
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Exactly.
/r/MGTOW20/09/16 11:20 AM
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Not sure of what it would mean for society, but for those who want prostitution to be legal, the more "normal", "girl next door", and/or "productive member of society" young women that do this stuff just means a much more likelihood of such activity being legal. If the young women doing these start to climb the success ladder, some will likely be connected to politics in some fashion. The entire younger generation is much more accepting of sex and many do think it is just something that for some…
/r/MGTOW18/09/16 01:36 PM
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I was a very late bloomer, didn't go away to college, first girl friend at 20, a slew of very short term girlfriends, minimal intimacy, and a few DFMOs until I finally met my wife at 24. It was only because my wife lived a similar introverted pattern that I did growing up that I could accept her as she was someone I could relate too. For me, missing out made it hard to LTR most young women. Many had more experiences than me, stuff I will never get to experience. Having to be with someone LT or f…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 11:36 AM
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This question needs more clarity. For example, what kind of LTR? Monogamous? What is the length of an LTR? Are all LTRs focused on possible marriage? For me, as someone with minimal experience growing up, I couldn't LTR anyone who had lived such a vastly different lifestyle than me. I likely would date such a girl, but the goal would likely to be just having fun, and I definitely would hope she would be open to being as wild with me as she was with other guys. For me to LTR someone, especially i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 04:57 PM
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It isn't slowing down at all. We are now at the Brazilian bikini stage pretty much nationwide. Some areas aren't yet to full-on thong status, but it will eventually get there. With the free the nipple movement, topless will likely be legal in most states within a decade. Unless there is some huge shift back towards a more conservative style or way of living, I just don't see thing changing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 01:48 PM
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The last six or so years I've seen a huge change in the fashion of younger women (mid teens to 20s, and more recently beyond). The yoga pants craze is still going strong, but so is wearing very short shorts that don't even cover the bottom of ones butt cheeks. The most shocking trend to me, given that I'm in my late 30s, is in women's swimwear. In my youth, cheeky and thong swimsuits would be mostly seen at Miami Beach here in the US. There might have been a few other places (San Francisco, Hawa…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 01:44 PM
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I agree with your post. It is mostly about women being able to have a kid or kids and have the father (provider) around. Even though they claim this isn't needed, it is exactly what they want. Raising a kid alone is very hard, having that second adult around, especially now that most mothers work full-time, is needed now more than ever. Know a guy at work who really isn't into kids. His wife just turned thirty and is very ready to start trying for a kid. He is stressed, as his personality is suc…
/r/MGTOW06/09/16 01:07 AM
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Some have commented on the fact that today, many women have traits that historically were male traits. I agree this is a big factor for women, some more than others. There is nothing that can be done about this. When this is combined with fear of losing assets (this doctor is worried about that. I think she wants a partner making at least $90K) from both genders now, with men scared to even approach women in fear of being labeled creepy, and a few other things, it is just going to be very hard f…
/r/MGTOW04/09/16 04:59 PM
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The way things are with porn now, it is having a serious impact on many people, mostly the youth. However, the advent of instant, on-demand, almost anything available pornography isn't the only thing that is changing how people live a sexual lifestyle (or lack there of). All these articles written by college women, or recent graduates, combined with pro-promiscuity articles written by mostly single, high libido "feminist" are also playing a part in forming today's norms in the relationship arena…
/r/MGTOW03/09/16 07:18 PM
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People call it revenge, but really it is likely just trying to relive a life she may never have got to live. It doesn't work, but men and women try it. Those who end up with attitudes are likely suffering inside. They don't want to do what they are doing, but the regret they carry for not having "lived life" is so strong, they just keep making bad and poor choices hope that somehow those actions will fill a void that can't ever be filled.
/r/MGTOW02/09/16 04:36 PM
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You gave her $12,500 a year for four years? Was this paying for her car? Not having her pay rent? Did she claim to be a virgin, or a born again virgin? While I had a pathetic mid-teens to early 20s phase woman wise, I never once just showered any woman with gifts. Not only that, if there wasn't some sort of intimacy that was more than kissing after the third date, it was clear that she wasn't interested and no longer was I. Stay friends, hang out from time to time, sure, why not, if it wasn't to…
/r/MGTOW02/09/16 04:25 PM
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I'm almost 40 and grew up in the suburbs of a Midwestern city. During high school, the classes of the late 90s to early 2000s mostly did the extra piercing things back then, and tongue piercings became the thing. Quickly following that were small tattoos, usually the ankle or lower back. I now work near a college campus and the tattoos have become almost the norm. They are larger and in even more locations, plus some young women will have multiple tattoos. The oddest place is the front of the up…
/r/MGTOW29/08/16 09:05 AM
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tl;dr-- In many Western countries you don't need to be married to have kids anymore. If you look at the US, the black community is about 15% of the population, but a large % of that population lives in poverty. In my area, if a black woman has a child, there is a 70ish% chance she isn't married. She might co-habitat with the kids dad, but there is no official marriage. This has been an issue for the black community for decades. For years, it was also an issue for lower income white people, but m…
/r/MGTOW28/08/16 01:21 PM
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The Nordic model is once again a way for women to get more rights than men. Any person who pushes for it doesn't believe in equal rights when it comes to the genders. I don't know if legalizing prostitution would help anyone really. Would it help those young men who were late bloomers, who missed out on the casual sex fun due to whatever factors? These are the guys who are rejecting marriage and family formation because they can't stand committing to a young former sorority girl with double digi…
/r/MGTOW28/08/16 01:02 PM
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It is funny how people claim MGTOW guys are irrelevant. They claim the numbers are small, the movement amounts to nothing, etc.. However, we constantly see things like this, both directly and indirectly aimed at the MGTOW lifestyle. When you have 30-40 something women writing articles that are getting published on-line in the NYT and other popular news websites talking about how men need to "grow up," that is an attack on the MGTOW lifestyle even if the term isn't even used. The arguments made a…
/r/MGTOW28/08/16 12:23 PM
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My wife has traits associated with Asperger's. She is completely controlled by daily patterns and rituals. How she works out, how she gets ready for the day, etc.. She has no social friends and one work friend. She admitted after seven years of marriage that she didn't want kids. Not a huge shock because I know how freaked out she gets with just simple changes in her daily pattern. Some of these people just can't deal with kids. I have issues with it, but I'm almost 40 and I would have to leave …
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 01:16 PM
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For me my dad just didn't say anything about relationships and women. My mom was more conservative in her thoughts on sex and modesty. Even she didn't say much, but she was the driving force in the house and she had her "Watch your Ps and Qs" comments, plus she acted like nudity was something horrible until we were much older teens. She meant well because she had sisters and cousins get knocked up in their very late teens or early 20s. She didn't want that life for us kids, but while my younger …
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 12:41 PM
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If a woman is giving sexual acts to a guy, from what I heard and witnessed over the years, 90% of the time it is because she wants something. I would say only 10% of women are of such higher level promiscuity/libido that they would dole out sexual acts just because. Of the 90%, many likely want some form of committed LTR with the guy. A small number might just want to have fun, but more in terms of a friendly FWB type relationship or a more like a fling or STR type deal.
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 09:53 AM
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My issue was being introverted and having an intimacy-avoidance mentality. During my teen years, I knew girls were having sex, but I was also raised that sex during those years was bad and I should "watch your Ps and Qs". I looked this up and it really has to do with manners overall, as in be good basically. Unfortunately this was applied to sexual situations so I wanted intimacy, but was completly confused about everything sex related. Being the good kid, I just didn't really seek intimacy out …
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 12:10 PM
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I was somewhat like you growing up. I was the "good kid" and had a father that said nothing to me about girls and sex and a mother who was old school sex-negative morals even though she wasn't religious at all. My dad was Catholic and between their sex-negative bs, what I got from my mom, and me wanting to be the good kid and behave, I put all sexuality onto this huge taboo pedestal. I actually had a few middle tier girls show interest during high school, but I avoid them. However, I could hold …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:59 AM
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I do wonder how many of these articles are propaganda pieces. Are they trying to paint a picture that many women are unicorns to the beta hordes as a last ditch effort to make these men "grow up" and ring these women before it is too late and American society as it has historically been is breed out of existence?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:31 AM
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You likely get down voted for being fat. The thing is, you don't have to be an Abercrombie model to be in the 20%. 80/20 only applies to certain groups, not all groups. I would say those who hang out in lower tier social scenes it is more like 60/40, and thus guys with great personalities but not so great looks have a much better shot with women. They might not be 8-10 tens look wise, but they can still be cute girls.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:14 AM
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The article makes claims that could easily be biased depending upon the people they interview. The article says they are having less sex in their early 20s and into their mid to late 20s. That has almost always been the case. Almost all the people I saw quoted had done the college thing. A sex and promiscuity positive feminist young writer on one of those college blogs wrote that as soon as most college women walk across the stage, they are no longer sluts. This has been shown time and time agai…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:05 AM
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The problem, which is still going on, is that the lower tier, introverted guys are their own worst enemy. Be it fear of rejection, low self-esteem, fear of being a virgin and having minimal sexual experience, raised in a sex-negative environment, in the end a young person has to step it up themselves first. Too many beta guys use excuse after excuse as to why they aren't out socializing. Many could likely do OK if they focused on their looks, learned to talk to women, etc.. Some eventually get t…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 09:53 PM
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I get to work with college kids every year. There are three groups of guys: Those who have good relationships with LTRs, sometimes high school gfs, those who have minimal or less serious sexual involvement with women, and the guys who, usually after doing some form of monogomous dating earlier in life, now want to just play the field. The relationship guys are rare, and many of the beta guys, even when they get some alpha traits, are quick to jump into relationships of any kind vs hooking up. If…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 09:40 PM
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What has changed is that any sort of traditional dating seems to be completely gone now. There is no longer almost any dating during college for those involved in hookup culture. I work with a lot of 20-22 year old guys, sometimes they are a bit older (out of military and going to school). Talking to these guys, there seems to be almost three sets: Set 1: Guys who locked down a truly decent girl, sometimes from back in high school, and the couple will end up married. Set 2: Guys who have never h…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:27 PM
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Basically young women today have a validation issue that is intertwined with sexuality, body image, etc.. The messages young women get in many aspects of their life have completely changed how they act, dress, mate, etc.. It is amazing, and yet who knows what this means for their future.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:43 AM
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I've read many articles and watched some interviews. Many of these young people still see themseleves married at 30 and doing the traditional family thing. They never go into specifics asking about open marriages and such because the reporters or writers aren't of that generation and likely couldn't fathom the concept widespread open marriages. I agree with your comment 100%, but many of these young people, especially the young women, believe the whole casual sex lifestyle can be turned off like…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 09:54 AM
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I believe that any specific group of humans is much more likely to prosper and last for a time when at least the idea and concept of monogamy is the default relationship and family building backbone. Part of the reason is because with a population the practices monogamy, everyone wins. When monogamy isn't practiced many men of the nation lose. If they can't obtain sex/female relationships, they have nothing to live for. The men are needed to protect the kingdom, and at some level the women who i…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 09:40 AM
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Good discussions here. I stayed home for college as did my high school friends. We were pretty beta type guys till we hit 20. We partied a bit, but most of the group found their now spouse in college while the girl was young (in one case, high school). All these marriages have lasted ten years plus, but of course like many people looks fade and riding the CC during ones late 30s to early 40s just isn't something most people do. I'm not advocating for or aginst the current status quo. With TRP an…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:05 AM
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I think you might be too fixed on the whole "one and only love" romance BS. While this is true for some, for the vast majority it is nothing more than a mirage. Additionally, I do wonder if you are just scared of the unknown and of being alone. You might sell yourself short, as while you claim to have average looks, you are getting dates. You just need to purge most of these fascinations about your ex out of your head.
/r/MGTOW28/07/16 03:10 PM
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Some of you folks just have either bad luck or are drawn to drama. I don't feel as if I ever have been "screwed over" by a woman, at least directly. I've had some incidents in relationships, but upon retrospect, the handful of things that I felt upset about were actually my fault. Not having a girlfriend till I was 20 made me way to clingy with the girls I started dating in my early 20s. I desperately wanted my first "girlfriend" type LTR, something that all young men need to do during high scho…
/r/MGTOW27/07/16 06:31 PM
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The 80/20 belief is likely real, but only for a very short time frame. It is my belief that while some females may want the jock, and can have him, but only for a ONS, they move on to other guys. The guys do the same as well, some aim high and eventually start aiming low. As the younger generation ages, it seems relationships, even if just monogamous FWB types become preferred. While the women might earn more partners early on, the lower partnered guys get to play catch-up as more and more of th…
/r/MGTOW17/07/16 08:32 PM
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I understand your message. Sadly many good and decent young women will fall victim to broken hearts, but many good and decent young men have also been victims. Hook-up culture and quasi-FWB type monogamous relationships are making it hard for all young people to engage in serious LTR, not necessarily marriage focused. Neither party seems to really trust the other one so if a person really isn't down for casual ONS with different people, they just become serial monogamist and hope for the best at…
/r/MGTOW17/07/16 08:14 PM
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It has already happened: https://www.buzzfeed.com/emaoconnor/alleged-assault-at-wsu?utm_term=.rhB0G1DX0#.whBEdOyNE There was another case as well, it was an issue between an ex-bf/gf. They met up, she pushed for sex and he claims he didn't want it and that she should have stopped asking after his first (and maybe second and third) "No." This took place at one of the New England area universities.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:34 PM
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I was always skinny fat until my early 20s. At 5'9", I was on my way to 170 and a gut was starting to show in my clothing. I immediately stopped drinking soft drinks and taking a leaner lunch to work. I saved money and almost immediately lost the weight. It wouldn't be until my 30s that I finally decided that I needed to workout. I thought I could do it myself, but injured my lower back trying to strain to do a third pull-up. That is how out-of-shape strength wise I was. My back has never really…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:47 PM
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Co-worker has a relative who was recently divorced. Guy has to be around 40. Not sure of his looks, job status, etc., but I know he has two older kids or teens. I guess the wife cheated. Co-worker claims that the guy is getting plenty of dates, but complains that every single woman he is dating immediately brings up marriage. I'm guessing many are divorced or never married women around the same age, likely with a kid or two of their own. Sounds like many women at that age are very worried about …
/r/MGTOW11/07/16 03:50 PM
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You are correct about the mental health issue. About five or so years ago a feminist professor wrote or was quoted in an article basically saying all young women should embrace hookup culture and ride the CC. Three or so years past and in another article she tells the author she has change her mind. She was having numerous female students coming to her office dealing with the emotional toll casual sex was having on their lives. The problem is that only 10-20% of women likely have DNA that drives…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:53 PM
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I don't get it. The woman in the picture might have some size on her, but she looks decent enough. The guy looks like he has the typical soft drink/beer gut going on, though he does look like he might . While the angle isn't the greatest, it doesn't even look like she has a gut. I don't see either of them as having weight-related health issues at this stage in their life, though most people could have a better diet and be more physically active.
/r/MGTOW07/07/16 12:44 PM
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There is some really good advice here. My sex negative upbringing also had me focus on virginity like it is the Ark of the Covenant. Thinking that any human sexual interaction with someone else during your youth is anything more than fulfilling a sexual drive can cause one much hardship. The biggest mistake I made was staying home for college. Unfortunately not being outgoing hurt me, as my same small group of less than popular friends also stayed home and went to the same school. I finally dran…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:20 AM
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If I had kids I would tell them safe sex is fine. I would hope they would do it within a committed, somewhat loving, monogamous relationship. Like you I was raised with negative ideas about sex, and it completely ruined my ability to date most women as I got older. Once I was out of high school, my mom's statements about sex being bad changed, but the damage was done. It didn't help that I stayed home for college, which ended up being just like high school for the most part. Eventually I started…
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 02:35 PM
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I'm not sure if much has changed overall, I think if anything, there is more of an acceptance of it. Numerous college women and recently graduated women writing on college blogs about their crazy sex lives. Some were crazy in high school, others waited till college. Teen girls read this stuff, and the message is that it is 'no big deal.' I'm almost 40 and from the Midwest, a more conservative area. Went to a suburban school, though smaller at the time, but not really small. There were all types,…
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 02:25 PM
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All we hear about is how addictive porn viewing can become, that engaging in that type of sexual activity can change a person's brain to desire more of it. At the same time, some will claim that living a high promiscuous lifestyle will mean nothing when it comes to the person later wanting a monogamous sexual relationship. I find it hard to believe that at least some people who dove full into hookup culture didn't come out seriously affected with how they view sex and committed relationships. I …
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 02:12 PM
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For those of us who missed out on experiences with different partners during the college years, I can tell you that seasonal employment is your best option. Women in seasonal employment know that everyone leaves in the end. Years ago while in Glacier National Park our server at a park lodge resturant, an American (many are from other countries) said her and her sister work in Glacier from late spring to early fall. They then go down and room with a female friend of theirs and work in Hawaii. I'v…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 03:03 AM
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I guess some people just always want to see the negative. I really like the Blue Ridge and Smoky Mountain areas. Growing up as more of an introverted teenager, I was always drawn to more solitary type places like mountain trails vs crowded oceans. North Carolina is a great state, one of my favorites. I've come to enjoy the beach more than in the past, and I think my wife and I might end up moving to NC or eastern TN in about ten years or so. Waterrock Knob is one of the coolest places I've been …
/r/MGTOW04/06/16 03:23 PM
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I don't think it is pathetic, I can understand why guys might pay for sex. Most people agree that no one is owed sex, but from a US viewpoint, it seems sex is pushed as some sort of Holy Grail anymore: Acceptance of homosexuality, acceptance of gay marriage, certain Christian based sects no longer view various sex acts as sins (sex before marriage, gay sex, etc.), etc.. The US media culture pushes sexuality all the time. People complain, then many of those complaining turn right around and suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 09:34 AM
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All this back and forth is laughable. First off, what the hell defines "average man?" I've worked with plenty of young people (those most likely to be single in here in the US). There is a way for plenty of guys to obtain regular sex. If one believes the only sex is ONS or hookups, well a good % of those involve intoxication, and the rules of attraction can and do go out the door when two horny drunk people connect. Now for the others that don't involve alcohol, all one needs is decent enough lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 01:12 AM
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Story of my life right here, though I think the girl I lost it too lied about being a virgin herself. She lied about many things. I felt so far behind my peers and how I ended up dating has impacted me for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:50 AM
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Tell me about it. I didn't lose mine till 22. High school and college sucked and when I finally started dating and socializing with women at 20 it was horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:46 AM
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I did years ago. I was a late bloomer type guy and lied about being a virgin. The reason was because I was almost twenty and it would have been embarrassing to admit the truth. The guy asking, with a girl who was interested in me sitting with us, could tell. I think she had asked him why I was getting her signals or something like that. I suspect he knew I was likely a virgin and possibly never had dated just based on my personality at the time, which was true. So I lied to keep everyone from fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:30 AM
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I think it is good to expose what is going on. All we hear about is calls for more countries to enact 'nordic model' prostitution laws because they claim that all prostitutes are trafficked into this kind of work. The more examples we have of young women acting 100% on their own accord the better to fight aginst the anti-male nordic model laws. Either legalize it all, or outlaw it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:18 AM
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The future will be interesting for sure. Sure marriage might not take a hit now, but lets see what the divorce rate is in a decade. Historically people with similar backgrounds paired off and the divorce rate for a couple with a four year degree or higher had the lowest divorce rate. This was always the group that was most productive in the US as well. The divorce rate is currently around 30% for this group if I recall. The key indicator for the future of the US will be this rate.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 11:40 PM
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As far as recording encounters, one is better off by saving thousands for their criminal defense trial attorney. We have proof that some of these claims of rape come months later, that the first two encounters we OK but the third was assault, that a person consented to one sex act and when the guy did another sex act, which the couple had done before, without asking this time it was rape, etc.. These factors seem odd to most reasonable people, which I'm guessing is why many DAs and prosecutors d…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 09:20 AM
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I don't think it is pathetic. I see a lot of jokes about "cat ladies" and such. Can you blame them for not wanting to live that lifestyle while they still have some youth left? My guess is that some may figure a life of single forever awaits them, so why not live it up until one is just too tired to deal with it. If I hadn't found someone worth marrying, I doubt I would have ever married. I was a late bloomer, didn't do any of the wild spring break/concert/vacation type things. I would have no p…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 08:40 PM
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You are right. Springbreak used to be, for many young people, the time to go wild if they wanted. I have said that the last two decades have now become a perpetual springbreak lifestyle for many. Every weekend has to revolve around getting intoxicated, and many times at least part of the weekend will involve extreme intoxication. Here in the US, alcohol rules. Our leaders nuked big tabacco, but try changing alcohol laws and everyone starts crying. Even grown adults are continuing to live this no…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 04:12 PM
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I only believe the lie detector studies done a few years back. The most recent one surveyed college kids but only data from those 18-25, straight, and never married were used. In the end, the vast majority of the participants were likely freshman and sophomores as I believe the average age of the participant was 19.? for both genders. The survey results were that females at that age were likely to have around four intercourse partners in their lifetime. I work in higher ed and can tell you there…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 04:03 PM
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I have always lived in a suburb of a Midwestern city with a metro population of 1M plus. In the last seven or so years, my city and many others of similar size, have went on a spending frenzy trying to create areas, usually in downtown cores, that have NYC/Chicago level density. They are still building apartments in our downtown area, and for the newer places it cost $1,000 a month for a studio, maybe a one bedroom. Two bedrooms will still go for $1,800+ a month. This is all to grab the young pr…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:46 PM
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Oh well, such is life today. If you have sons, or male cousins, etc., make sure they understand the game so they can have their fun with these party girls. We will see just how widespread this behavior becomes and what impact it will have by looking at future rates for marriage, divorce, STDs, unmarried pregancies, number of abortions, number of moring after pills sold, number of children born out-of-wedlock, etc..
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:21 PM
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I agree with you about not being able to stop. My friends and relatives fall into mostly two groups: Guys who had tons of casual sex, most of it while drunk with periods (months, maybe years) of LTRs, and guys who never did casual, had light casual, and were mostly in a handful of serious relationships. All the guys who were big into casual have never married. Two of three went away to college, and the third eventually got his degree. All are successful in their fields, with two of them likely h…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:12 PM
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I felt the same way. I never really got all that wild, but had a few fun times in my early 20s before meeting someone I could relate too and marrying her. Still, the missed out feelings are hard to overcome. I'm almost 40 and even today I have issues when I'm reminded of what I never had (ie: News report on wild spring break parties). Had my wife been willing to have kids, I think I wouldn't dwell on it is so much. Coming to terms with it is the only thing one can do. For me though, if I had no …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 05:04 PM
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I married a girl who was much more introverted than me, and is likely that way because of diagnosed Asperger's. She did have one bf before me, and they did everything but have sex. I believe her, mostly because she was so socially awkward it is more true than not. She wasn't my first, only my second in terms of intercourse. She really isn't the best I could have been with, but we got along good, and she pretty much made it easy for me to revert back to being a lower key individual. The worst thi…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:57 PM
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Very true. When I was originally with my wife, I didn't care about much, but as I'm at (or heading toward depending on one definition) middle age, I do have periods of regret. It doesn't help that I work with college kids and get to hear all the fun stories and stuff. I think had my wife been honest about wanting kids and we would have had kids, I would be more focused on them. Being a childless couple gives one a stress free life, but also a very boring life the bulk of the time.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:45 PM
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I'm a late bloomer. Now that I'm in my late 30s and married, the issues I deal with are simply regret. I never turned into a player due to various reasons, but over four years of dating I managed to have a little bit of fun from 20-24. The main issue is that late bloomers will never get the chance to experience certain things in life because you can just go back in time. High school dating and girlfriend(s)..not gonna happen. The taboo teen sex during high school..never gonna happen. Having good…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 10:48 AM
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I was the good kid. I took very minimal risk. If I was going to get into trouble, I figured my world would end. I did pull light pranks from time to time, but nothing outrageous. Make sure they first know what is available to them. I wish someone would have told me the importance of good grades, how going away to college is something a young person should embrace (I stayed home, which harmed my social skills for another two years). I would also tell them this truth: Humans socialize with alcohol…
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 08:39 AM
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You are correct. Young women, for decades, have been fed the idea that when you want sex, go for it. Young men though seemed to have been told "Don't pressure her." type logic. The problem is that pressure is different from making advances and letting her know what you want to obtain an answer. Too many young me take that mentality and wait for her to make the advance. Women have reported they want men to make the first move. So chemistry starts to fade as soon as the guy starts showing no obvio…
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 08:10 AM
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I pretty much grew up as you did, except that I didn't go away to college. I had zero clue on life back then. I'm just seven years older than you, so I know how things were back then. I also saw that comment from a teenager, and that is sad to see. The problem is that we have a divided country in terms of how we sell life to teen girls and how we sell it to teen guys. Right now, everything is about how we need more women in science. When I was growing up, my sister's teen magazines would take ab…
/r/MGTOW20/03/16 06:06 PM
1

I'm 5'9" in my late 30s. I'm at 150lbs with slightly muscular build, but still have some fat around my torso. I'm in the best shape of my life, but I did have to make some changes in my 20s. I grew up skinny fat. I was thin, but not really in shape. I stopped playing sports right before my pre-teens. However, I was still active with backyard sports, riding bikes, exploring wooded areas, etc.. Nothing too out there though. Never had parents take me to national parks to do any serious hiking. When…
/r/MGTOW20/03/16 04:15 PM
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If I were you I would take her up on the offer. You want to make her know what it feels like to be alone on a Sat. night...why? It is more your fault as to why you were alone than her fault. This is the problem men have. If you want something, anything, you gotta give into a relationship with some level of commitment. FWB relationships give neither party any sort of commitment. So if you don't want to give commitment, you need to establish more than one FWB so that on any given weekend hopefully…
/r/MGTOW20/03/16 03:43 PM
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I just saw that a local speaker was in our city last year talking about decriminalizing the act of non-disclosure. This is the new push for some. They want to go out and hookup, but they don't want to have to tell people their status. The reason is noted by the quoted woman from the OP. If people find out another person is infected, they will almost always bail. Our state has prosecuted some people under our non-disclosure law. If anything, these cases showed me that RP truths exist. Most that I…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:50 PM
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I see two big deals. One is how will society change as a result of how young people now engage in relationships. What will a more promiscuous society bring to the area you live in? For those who think it will bring about more dysfunction, then having the discussion is good because it reaffirms the coming problems we will be facing (Higher taxes for a welfare state, possible higher crime rates, etc.). That allows people to prepare for a possible not so bright future. The other issue is that there…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:53 PM
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This is why there is such a push to make the number not matter. I've read a few feminist books and when they discuss sex they talk about the number. Those who I would call are more strong in their convictions are usually those who demand the number be a non-issue for men when considering an LTR or marriage with a woman. You see, even if these women themselves weren't as unrestricted, some of their female friends and family members weren't. They don't like seeing these folks struggle trying to ge…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:48 PM
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This is my favorite topic, because it was the one issue that really made life difficult for me growing up. The first problem is what is defined as an "n-count." There are many people, especially women, who will count more than just intercourse as sex. When people don't define what a count is, this can skew numbers. That is the first problem with any studies or first hand accounts, so you have take it all with a grain of salt about what the numbers really mean. Today's young women will find it ve…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:38 PM
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The way things are now, every conceivable action a victim takes is said to be something victims do: Cry/don't cry, leave the bedroom/stay in the bed, report immediately/report months later, go no contact after/stay hanging around and doing things with the friend group. This kind of logic makes it a no win situation. No action can then be scrutinized because every action is something a victim might so, thus the story must be true.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:51 AM
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I've read about many of these cases (the actual court filings, blogs, etc), but haven't watched the movie about it (The Hunting Ground). Prior to the OCR fiat, I'm sure there were some colleges protecting their star athletes and what not, but I don't know how bad that actually was. Some here have commented that this is an attack on Chads, and for those who believe in the 80/20 rule, I could see why. That isn't always the case. I don't believe in 80/20, because of what I've seen and read. In all …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:17 AM
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This seems to match with other information I've been told and read on various sources. I work with a handful of college kids. There are about four groups from what I can tell: Those that get nothing or maybe a little fooling around. Those who are in LTRs either with a high school gf or a girl they met early in college; these are monogamous LTR relationship seeking type people. Guys who are successful with casual hookups, but prefer relationships even if they are just committed casual; these guys…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:44 AM
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I think this is the new era of how people will live. Now that more and more women are obtaining degrees, get decent paying jobs, etc., you will see a lot of younger women who will want to be single. The problem comes when these women decide at some certain age that they should be entitled to find a decent enough guy to commit to a monogamous marriage so they can have the previous picture perfect two parent family with two or three kids. The problem isn't the desire to now have that, it is when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 07:36 PM
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I agree with most of what you have said, but I think some TRP folks have provided even more great information for young men: Be social and involved. Join clubs, sports, etc.. You have to put yourself out there. The concepts of abundance mentality and oneitis. I like the phrase abundance mentality better than 'many fish in the sea.' To me, abundance mentality is like having a don't care attitude when you are rejected. Take the rejection, move along, there are plenty more women out there. To me, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 07:27 PM
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I've seen the cover being discussed and I looked up other photos of that model. For me personally, I don't find her physically attractive due to her overall package. Is she completely hideous, no, but everyone has their own standards of what they mentally process as attractive. I have a theory that maybe some in the fat acceptance/body positive movement are trying to pressure (shame?) young men who aren't attracted to overweight or obese women to just deal with the weight issue and date these wo…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:18 PM
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It seems the whole 6' thing is a recent fad for younger (teens, college age) women. I'm late 30s and at 5'9", I actually had plenty of women show interest in me, even some taller girls, girls that were almost as tall as me. What harmed me were beta traits like instantly wanting a relationship, telling non-virgins that their past bothered me because I was still one, etc.. I remember that one of the shorter guys in my high school class was literally the most popular guy in my class and the entire …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 07:10 PM
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The problem is what any one person would define as a 'lasting relationship.' There seems to be a lot of agreement on porn being something that a person can become addicted too. The addiction is on a sliding scale. It is said that young people can really alter their brains due to stuff like pornography affecting the pleasure centers of the brain. If that is true, then I would have to believe that a more unrestricted person who engages in lots of flings, ONS, casual sex could have possibly wired t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 03:18 PM
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We are seeing more and more of these sort of articles. I remember a recent one where a woman was quoted as saying that she, and I believe her acquaintances, all feel that once they hit that very late 20/early 30 age, they become 'sexually invisible.' Obviously if these women have put on weight, smoked, played in the sun too long, etc, their looks just won't be the same as when they were teens into their mid-20s. At the same time, most of the guys I know who were big party types never settled dow…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 07:17 PM
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The best study is the lie detector study. They have done two (ten years apart) and the most recent one is just over a year old. Overall the numbers didn't change much. They tested students aged 18+, but they only took the data from students aged 18 thru 25 who were never married and reported as being straight. Now, an important factor to note is that the average age was just under 19 years old. So the bulk of those tested in this survey were freshman level college students. They ended up with 16…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:10 PM
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I just recently saw one survey and the body that women most desire is athletic, not the ripped body builder type. Basically, just minimal belly fat, and likely a little bit of muscle mass.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:10 PM
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This is a new area for the most part. I don't think it is settled law, and I do expect to see more and more lawsuits being filed, asking the courts to rule on various matters pertaining to grandparent rights.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:47 AM
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There are really two types of more than kissing hookups (ie: A sexual encounter without any sort of commitment talk beforehand). Intoxicated and non-intoxicated. I do think that both young men and women don't really care for the intoxicated kind of hookups. Many will not use condoms, the sex isn't usually that good, etc.. I didn't get much action at all, and even my handful of hookups with a friend from my friend group weren't all that great, so these findings don't surprise me. Just personal ob…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:45 AM
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It won't pass for many reasons: First, many governments are broke. They function day to day, but the reality is there is no money. I have no idea how much child support is paid in various counties, but say it would be reduced even 15% and it is likely a lot of money the government would have to cover in welfare situations. Second, while it sounds fair in principle, there is really no way to enforce the loss of all parental rights. Eventually the child gets old enough and actually does have right…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 03:00 PM
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HPV is a disease that I think is blown out of proportion. It is only worrisome today if casual sex/hook-up culture is really has much higher participation than we like to think. It seems every year there is some new boogeyman ailment and thankfully some big pharma company has a magically pill for. Fibromyalgia, restless leg syndrome, etc.. Now we have an HPV and it is an issue for women, so not only do we have to give the vaccine to women, now the medical community wants young boys to get it as …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 02:53 PM
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I don't know what the majority view of TRP is on the subject, but I'll give my views on it. I grew up and live in a conservative state where prostitution is illegal. Hell, even publicly wearing a cheeky and thong bikini would be illegal in my state. That being said, we do have topless dance clubs and the girls do wear thongs, and those places are kinda given a pass. With my beta type morality I always figured prostitution was wrong. Now that I'm older and have more world insight, I don't believe…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 11:52 AM
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I agree. I was pretty much the same and got plenty of female attention. The problem for me was not acting on it, as I was completely clueless when it came to human sexuality and how to relate to women. When I finally realized what was going on, my inexperience fucked with my mind so hard many should have been relationships didn't even get off the ground.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 10:15 AM
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My family wasn't very religious at all. Only my dad went to church. Us kids went sometimes. Even so, my mom preached for me to "watch your ps and qs." I figured that would mean anything sexual wise. This mentality combined with other issues like not partying pretty much crushed the life I think I could have had. All the while most of the "bad" partying kids, including my siblings, turned out just fine. I on the other hand ended up with sex related social anxiety issues that I will state can neve…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 10:10 AM
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I read an article where some woman was trying to shame an older, fat guy who was in his 40s or 50s for paying for sex. She wrote that she understood that it likely makes him feel young again, but that it was just wrong. This was nothing more than a shaming tactic. Reading between the lines I could tell the writer was really saying this likely American guy should be marrying up some desperate single woman back home. Who knows why he would do this, but maybe he got nothing during his youth and he …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 09:02 PM
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Had a friend who at the age of 20 still suffered under the pressure of being a virgin. This was the story of my life. I finally got my first few girlfriends at 20 and got to third base, but never lost it till I was 22. It was horrible on the mind, especially when from 20 to 24 I dated numerous women. I grew up thinking virginity was something special, and I wanted my first to be with a girl who I would be her first. I do agree that once it is over, it is over. The moment I asked my first girlfri…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:53 PM
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I'm married, so I'm not on Tinder but is Tinder really all that different than the on-line dating of the past? I'm almost 40, so I came of the age of the dial-up and AOL. AOL had their instant messenger, and you could search profiles for people in your area. In almost all the cases, the other person would want your Geocities website address (for photos) or would request you e-mail an attached and scanned photo. I had OK success in meeting girls, though not necessarily getting laid. Culture was s…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 07:15 PM
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For me I think it was out of fear. My mom had a lot of relatives who ended up knocked up in their early to mid 20s, and one who got pregnant during high school. On my dad's side there were three relatives who I grew up seeing never leave the home, except one finally had an awakening and GTFO when I was in my early 20s (too late for me). Both my parents were very social, went out drinking and clubbing. A few years ago my dad's sister handed him some photos from a huge box she had stored away. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 07:10 PM
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I think there is some overlap, possibly a lot, between a beta guy and a socially awkward guy. I wasn't necessarily socially awkward with women in terms of general conversation, I was just a more introverted teen and young adult. I wasn't outgoing and I had a very skewed view of sex and relationships, due to many factors. My parents really didn't do much to open my eyes to the world, and the stuff that I was told about nudity and sex growing up (ie: Close my eyes at naked women in R-rated movies)…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 05:48 PM
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Do a Google search and you will find out numerous young men are filing lawsuits against universities for being kicked out on questionable evidence as it relates to the question of consent. Things aren't like in years past when people did what they did and admitted their mistakes. Today people will try to justify their actions, especially for some women when it comes to their image. One thing that needs to be made clear is that you need a criminal attorney, one who specializes in trial work. You …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:53 AM
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I read a story about many models now are doing side sex work. It seems that so many women now can be in top shape, look good with the help of a computer, that there is an abundance of models. So I read that the money is really horrible. Only the very top models will make a great wage. All one has to do is look at the Tag the Sponsor website and see there might actually be some truth to this. While I'm sure many young women would want to party with Leo for bragging rights alone, the one photo set…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:43 PM
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Well, for me, it was not understanding intimate relationships growing up. It was also shunning girls who likely could have been a first, but I was too wrapped up about saving it. I was constantly told I was cute, but I wasn't anything special. I was a slender build, no definition, average non-6' height, had so-so fashion sense, etc.. I thought my SMV was 3-4, but looking back, I was likely viewed more as a 5-7 depending on the girls. Most girls I dated were definitely 6/7, but a few 8/9s. I neve…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:32 PM
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I got my first girlfriend at 20, actually two, though they were very short lived. Over the next four years I had dates, a few hookups, etc. with numerous young women. I kissed a lot of these girls, but my issues with relationships, feelings of being so far behind, etc. really kept me from gaining any sort of intimacy with the vast majority of the girls I connected with. I eventually found someone I could relate too. She was 20 and I was 23 or 24. She had just one boyfriend before me. The main is…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:21 PM
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I think the bigger issue is how many will change. I don't think the % is very high. Most of the high n-count, party hard types I know never did change. This includes both male and female. Some people get used to that variety, they love the newness of a new relationship. To me, if a young person hasn't cut their drinking/drugs by 90% or more by their early 20s, the chances that they will change become smaller and smaller with each passing year. I will always think there is a higher risk for both …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 10:49 AM
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Many high n-count people are that way because they were intoxicated. This doesn't mean the men were better at anything, it just means they were in the right place at the right time and she was drunk enough. I don't understand why we label low n-count guys who don't want high n-count women as "insecure." Sometimes people want to be with those they can relate too, and most low n-count people lived a completely different lifestyle than those with high n-counts. We do people want to label their choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 10:16 AM
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I tried being a financial adviser, but hated the sales and hated that we were selling Wall Street stuff, which is OK for saving money, but maybe not the best advice we could give. People have to remember these rules: Real Iron Rule #1: The government in power makes the rules. You may think your Roth deductions will be tax free in ten to thirty years, but if the ruling party needs funds to cook their already laughable books (ie; Make their debt look more reasonable), they can change the laws with…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 09:57 AM
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From all the stuff I've read about relationships over the years, most people feel comfortable with someone who has lived a similar lifestyle. A person who did a very short party phase with one or two ONS with strangers will likely be OK with someone who had the same or a few more. They likely won't be OK with someone who had twenty. It is my belief that women who were hard partying types in college should be looking to settle down with guys who had a similar past. I also don't think anyone shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:30 AM
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I was 22 or 23, but I just ended up in the path of a girl who was definitely down to do whatever. I always wanted it to be special, but she lied about so much I'm sure she lied about having had sex before. If she was telling the truth, it would have been a shock to me. So for all that waiting and stress, it ended up being nothing. My advice to me is to not put virginity on a pedestal. Get it over with as soon as you find a willing woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 09:27 AM
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I had a sexless youth. This was due to many reasons: Belief that teens fooling around was wrong. Drinking and socializing by teens was wrong. I don't think missing out during high school is all that big of deal, so long as young guys start getting some sort of female interaction and intimacy shortly thereafter. To do this, young men really need to move out of the home right after high school. In addition, they need to be social and they need to learn to drink socially. I didn't do any of these. …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 09:22 AM
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My opinion is that many people likely associate a high n-count with people who live certain lifestyles. Some of these lifestyles include people who want a variety in their sex life and aren't looking for anything serious, people who party a lot with intoxicants, people who are into monogamy but suck at relationships and thus end up racking up numerous partners, people who move around a lot and don't put down roots, etc.. Such lifestyles for anyone who is social, gets out there and interacts with…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 04:59 PM
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This all is very state (in the US) dependent. I can tell you that in most states any such video would be admissible in court. While it might save a guy from a rape type felony charge, it still could result in a voyeurism type charge. The severity would depend on the state and even the local DA/prosecutor. Some would feel the guy had enough dealing with the false rape accusation and give a pass on the lesser charge. Others might offer a slap on the wrist. While the criminal stuff might pan out, y…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:47 AM
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80/20 I think is somewhat valid. I do believe that if you surveyed 80% of women aged 16-25, many would pick just the top 20% of guys in their dating range as guys they would like some sort of relationship with. When sober, many young women wouldn't with all 20% of the guys casually. A few would, but there will always be a small group of very promiscuous women. It is more likely the true split is 60/40 and intoxication of varying levels is what not only lowers the ratio, but also causes a majorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 12:57 AM
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I know of a few examples that mirros what the OP is saying. First one is a divorced father with at least two kids. I'm thinking age is likely 40s. Wife cheated. This guy is related to a co-worker of mine. Co-worker said the one complaint while dating is that almost all the women immediately start asking about marriage. A few others are overweight to obese guys in their late 30s. These guys were heavily involvd in hookup culture, but had LTRs as well. Neither have been married but the older one s…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:02 AM
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I think it would depend on the sex culture and values of any given area. In the US I think it would have a dramatic effect. People associate Las Vegas with paid sex but most guys likely opt for some lap dance at a strip club if they can't land a girl at a club or bar, possibly because it is still illegal in Clark County and it can be a risk if you don't know the right people to call. When I first went to Vegas a few years ago, it was odd to see sex for sale so prominently displayed. I read up on…
/r/MGTOW26/01/16 10:08 AM
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The sex-positive label has been hijacked by certain feminists. Older feminist from older generations promoted a sex-positive idea that women shouldn't be shammed for having sex out-of-wedlock with a handful of guys before getting married. Well, now we have femnisit pushing young women to party and get drunk like men, with men. With that comes ridding the CC during the party years. Serious relationship formation is essentially dead for many young people. So now, modern day sex-positive feminist a…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 01:18 PM
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No, we shouldn't be for it. Either everyone should get a pass, or no one should get a pass. That is more how I see it. You see, we have a lot of pro-promiscuity sex-positive feminist writers writing about how great it is that women can sleep with whoever, whenever, etc.. There is a big push among this group to get everyone viewing men and women as completely equal in the sexual realm. The problem is that prostitution shows us this isn't the case, and never will be. The bulk of the buyers of sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 07:31 PM
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I've seen enough investigations to know that it is fairly easy for LE, at least here in the US, to find out who is a victim of trafficking and who isn't. The Asian massage parlors here get busted from time to time, and I feel they are much more likely to be victims of human trafficking. At least more so than your local party girl, or college coed looking to make lots of easy cash. I mean if proposition is so bad, why not shut down the strip clubs as well? I could make the same argument that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:27 PM
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I disagree about the men. I do think there are some men out there, through how they were raised, how they took messages they received from media and pop culture, have developed serious issue with sex. This is where you get the virgins in their late 20s and onward. They might come across as socially OK, but they have trouble when it comes to engaging with women. I wouldn't blame a guy from wanting to get it over with using the services of a very promiscuous women. If an act is illegal, it should …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:09 PM
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It has to do with human trafficking victims not being re-victimized or scared of prosecution if they come forward to the police about what they know is going on. It makes sense and one could argue that it is gender neutral. If the buyer is female and the seller male, the female would be charged, not the male. The real argument is should prostitution be decriminalized? Countries that adopt the Nordic model are taking a moral stance that prostitution is morally wrong and thus it should be banned, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:58 PM
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I've noticed a focus on 20 somethings, but not necessarily 18-20 year olds. I think the obsession comes from these guys aiming for the likely age group who is more into casual, having fun types. I know very few 30 something women who are still into the bar, dance club scene, especially if they are seriously dating and such. Many women in their 30s are married, some even already have kids, and if they are divorced and newly single, from what I'm hearing, they aren't likely to go back to wanting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:53 PM
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Good advice. I think one thing the OP doesn't understand is that those guys, like me, who missed out, eventually will likely settle down like many other guys do. However, they are going to want to have their fun times that they missed out on. They aren't going to settle down with a college party girl when everything I read says that sex is readily available through drunken ONS, mere dating, etc. These guys are going to go for the gold because they did miss out, and if that means being late 30s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:48 PM
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Some of the membership fits this bill, but not all. Like many young people who change when they go away to college, usually due to drinking and socializing, I didn't really change till I was 20. I was so far behind my peers. I didn't necessarily struggle with women, I got dates, had a few very short term gfs. I do wish I had done more, lots more. Trust me, this can be a real issue for guys. It was and still would be an issue for me. Thankfully I met a woman I could relate to. We dated for a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:40 PM
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The legalization of sex work has caused a civil war among feminist. Some of the big name journalist have sided with legalization. I support legalization because I think it will ease the issues most low key beta guys have with accepting a woman with numerous partners. It will also change the dynamics because if guys can obtain sex within just an hour or two drive, then the prospective spouse will need more than sex or sex appeal to obtain life long or long term commitment. As far as legalization …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 01:50 PM
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I'm a member of a forum that discusses current world events and how they would impact life. It is mostly a forum focused on preparedness in all aspects of life. The members are wide ranging in personality, but seem to be older. I would say mostly late 40s to early 60s. A few of the long term male posters have been recently divorced within just the last handful of years. They have all taken the red pill to some extent. Many are very vocal on news articles about relationships and how young men sho…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:51 AM
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Where do folks think she is 26? Is this her LinkedIn page? https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-holt-9ab59596 If so, then she is definitely around 37 or 38. This is a huge difference from being only 26. To me, a woman at that age isn't approaching the wall, she likely has already hit it. She is the same age as many of these other women who have written similar stories about how they can't find love and commitment in NYC. One article told women they need to settle, another blamed men for not wanting…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 05:34 PM
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I had similar beliefs when it came to dating and sex. There should be some dating, then a very serious commitment phase, and eventually sex should happen, with it being the first time for both of us. I also believed that sex while a teenager was bad and that young people shouldn't be doing sexual things. These beliefs caused me so many issues that I still deal with today. If I only had a DeLorean.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 03:11 PM
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I'm no where near where you are in life, but I was a shy and introverted when it came to women (in terms of relationships) all through my teens. Of course sex was taboo. I wasn't allow to see boobs in R-rated movies growing up, and my mom had a saying something like 'Watch your Ps & Qs' I took that to mean sexuality was bad until one was married or at least older. I thought nudity was also something that was 'special' and reserved for serious committed intimacy. My mom grew up with a few family …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 02:24 PM
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I was around 21 and up to that point had minimal success with women. I had two serious "girlfriends" that lasted about 45 days with each. I was still a virgin thinking I would find some "good girl" in my age group. So I was talking to this girl I met on-line who went to the same college. We went out once or twice and the last time we met up we went back to her house (we both lived at home). I knew she had sex with one other guy, her recent ex-boyfriend who went to college in another state. We fo…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:07 PM
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I stayed home and drove to college. It was awful and instead of coming out of my shell I stayed in it for another two years. My small and close group of friends did the same thing, so I didn't have to meet any new friends. The simple fact is that alcohol plays a big part in getting action in college. I agree with the OP, the best time to get casual sex is during college. Unfortunatly this lifestyle isn't very popular with most young women. Many would rather have short term serious boyfriend as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 10:43 AM
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I was pretty beta back in the day and holding onto ridiculous morals held me back from being involved in a lot of things that involved female strippers. That said, the few things I witnessed and heard first hand accounts of were that most strippers here were pretty much open to alot so long as the tipping was good. I saw one case where a bachelor almost got a blowjob from a stripper but he really wasn't into it so it didn't happen. Recently a frat at IU was kicked off and the strippers involved …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 11:52 AM
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I've worked in conjunction with swimmers and swim teams. Swimming is a great way to get in shape and being on the swim team is a great way for young men to interact with young women. The added benefit is that the female practice suits get more cheeky year after year. These are not the one piece swimsuits of my generation that is for sure.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 11:08 AM
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This could be a good thing. Men could now choose the woman to bring him children. If she is succesful, has a decent 401(k) and savings, she can be 'divorced rape' just as easy as a man. So in the future marriage might given only if a woman provides a valid DNA test.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:13 AM
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Not just urban America anymore. I'm in the rust belt midwest and our small towns and cities are filled with single mothers, meth addicts, and now heroin addicts. The decline started likely 20 years ago and is only getting worse. The union mentality, the idea that high school education is good enough, the thought process that it is OK to make $8/hour and stay "home" than moving to a city with $14-17/hr warehouse jobs, etc. plays a part in this. Here in my state we have had two smaller cities have…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:09 AM
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You have some good points, but honestly partying is the most surefire way to get laid. I had a handful of DFMO and only got more a few times while drunk with a friend. I minimized my partying, stayed home during college, and thus never had casual sex with someone who I just met or met recently. I don't know about others, but this really fucked with my mind. I was very relationship focusd due to my late bloomer status and I never understood was able to rid my mind that sex=something special. I di…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:35 PM
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This thought process haunted me in my 20s when I finally started dating. I only cared about her past and experiences because I had none. I had a few girls I talked to, never dated or hooked up, that many girls would like my lack of a past. It really upset me because they were basically saying I could be the traditional "good guy" and do the boyfriend things (date, buy gifts, etc). and get sex but yea, the former "asshole" guys just got sex without much effort. Thankfully I met a girl I could rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:28 PM
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Are you sure it is insecurity? Could it possibly be regreat and/or desire to have had the same casual sex experiences? I was late to the game and while I dated/hooked up with a couple more promiscuous girls, what bothered me with making them serious LTRs was that I hadn't got to experience sex with nearly as many people. I never thought about if the other guys were better or not. I could see it being an issue for a woman who stupidly takes whatever she can get because she is older, friends are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:20 PM
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The current lawsuits against universities from young men wrongfully expelled would cause me to disagree with the graph. Many of these lawsuits don't involve frat guys or sports guys, but just basic guys. College students will fall into three catagories: Very social, moderately social, and low key. Among these groups there will be party types and non-party types. There will be very long term promiscuous, short term promiscous, and non-promiscuous types. I've got more of an insider look among coll…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 11:57 AM
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To me a gangbang would be three guys or more and one girl. I would say today it is likely more common in the US due to sexual views and social media allowing like minded people to connect. I also wonder if group sex is becoming more common as well. One thing I know is all the official cases I've heard about (never witnessed myself) through lawsuits or police investigations (media reports) almost all involve the participants being intoxicated in some form or another. To me, this shows that only a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:37 AM
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Stuff like this should be looked at as a contract dispute. Here in the US, about half or more of the population supports female holds all the cards abortions, secular society, rampant promiscuity, etc. in various levels. The entire concept of morality has been changed. I see this as nothing more than an contract dispute. She holds all the cards during the pregnancy. He can't even do a paperwork abortion via the courts. As such, his only obligation is to send a reasonable amount of money to feed,…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:06 PM
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My advice comes with some risk, but it mostly depends on where one resides. Let's look at the rise of US out-of-wedlock births. Historically and up to now it was usually the lower income classes that were responsible for the bulk of these births. Historically this was always frowned upon, and the middle to upper classes used to send daughters away to give up their babies. The attitude has changed and women are no longer shunned for having kids out-of-wedlock. I won't say this is a good thing, we…
/r/MGTOW07/12/15 01:46 PM
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As others have said, the term 'MGTOW' likely won't become common in terms of chit chat. However, more men will likely follow the path. I'm almost 40. I had issues with fear of rejection, putting virginity on a pedestal, thinking girls wanted the 'nice guys' and longed for youthful marriage. When I finally stated dating I felt like an outcast being about five years behind my peer group. I'm one of the few lucky guys who found a decent girl I could relate to. Downside is she doesn't want kids due …
/r/MGTOW01/12/15 01:02 AM
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Law enforcement is a very risky occupation at this time. Pay for most major city and well to do suburban departments is finally getting decent in most states. Some specialty departments (university, K-12, airport) departments can pay really well as well. However, gov benefits are declining. Pensions are being targeted along with the healthcare benefits. When a young person tells me they want to go into law enforcement, I tell them to focus on federal LE, followed by upper class suburban departme…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 11:15 PM
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Anything long term would cease to a possibility unless I had a similar background. I would hope the person would be open to going back to such a promiscuous lifestyle because a number that large likely indicates group sex. Hopefully if I hadn't experienced that sort of sexual activity they would be a way into that world of sex. If she wasn't interested in fun like that I see no reason to keep the relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:40 PM
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Unless one is hideous or has some sort of personality issue, going to parties and getting some sort of female intimacy isn't that hard. I was pretty introverted growing up, did "the right things" like not drinking, thinking girls were special, etc. In my 20s I found serious relationships with most girls my age hard. I didn't party much with alcohol, but the maybe 50x I did socially drink at some party setting or at the clubs, I would guess I got some sort of action 20% of the time. Now that I'm …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 01:41 AM
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In my 20s, it wasn't jealousy or bitterness, but more of like feeling like an outcast. After I stopped being so introverted and actually getting dates, many of the girls I dated I just couldn't pump and dump. My area leaned more conservative with a lot more engagements and marriages in the mid20s back in those days. Many of the women I dated had all these experiences that I didn't have. Many were done having fun and were more focused on LTRs. It really sucked because my lack of intimacy caused m…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 11:00 PM
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In my city our homicide rate might hit the highest it has ever been. The big secret here in the US is that while overall we are first world, most of our major metro areas are filled with pockets of people who live, and sometimes act, like they are in some war torn third world country. Even if you discount the gang bangers mostly killing themselves, our city has had tons of high profile robberies of late. We have had decades of minimal growth in decent enough paying jobs in this country that don'…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:10 PM
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I didn't go crazy like the OP, but had I not met my wife I likely would have. I can't explain it, but I just couldn't be a dick to girls I dated and eventually would admit that had they had sex during high school, I could never see them as a spouse. Reminders of their background would have eaten away at me causing serious depression and regreat, and possibly cause me to be jealous of my spouse. If I hadn't found someone I could relate to and marry, I figured I would be just a serial monogamist w…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:40 AM
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I relate to exactly what you posted here. It is never good for a young man to do without any female intimacy during those years. I didn't get a first intimate gf until I was 20. Fooled around a few times but the fact she did that with other guys wouldn't leave my thoughts. She claimed to be a virgin at 18 and still in high school, but who knows. I would go almost another year before another short lived gf who I was way too head over heals for. She would have been a fun first LTR gf, but my obess…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:36 AM
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It is all in a person's head. To me, one needs a gym for socialization. Being married I focused on saving money and went the home route. I had nothing but dumbbells and a pull-up bar and once I corrected my protien calorie deficiency I made great gains. Just moved into a larger home and will be getting a squat rack soon enough. Now I can add squats and deadlifts to my workouts. So if one doesn't have the space I would recommend a gym. However, people can workout at home if they are focused enoug…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:45 AM
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Maybe it is your DNA but something is off here. I am 5'9" and when I was in my mid 20s I hit 165ish and the spare tire gut was starting to form. I changed my diet cutting out all sugar water drinks. That stuff caused the belly fat. I dropped about 10-15 pounds just by drinking water. I started trying to get into shape back six years ago. Hurt my back due to not doing reseach and trying to force a third pull-up. Finally about two yeas ago or so I purchased P90X. Using that program I made slight s…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:39 AM
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This right here is great advice. Doing things and putting yourself out there is something that needs to be done. Second, you did what I didn't so, which is you took up an offer that was made. Guys can be just as stupid when it comes to standards. When I was in high school I was a complete idiot for not going after the two or three girls who actually wanted to date me. These girls were cute, not in the popular group, and overall would likely have made great high school girlfriends. My fear of rej…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:07 AM
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The single working mother is not a trend but a long term projection for the future with all that it entails. It entails a return to third world status, at least for the US. We've seen what single mother raising has done to the black community in many US metro areas. Poverty, crime, drug addiction, disease...all these things are common. Well, this stuff is now coming to white America in some of the more smaller cities and towns in this country. Here in my Midwest state we have had a huge HIV epid…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 12:18 PM
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Here in the US, many women, and men, have allowed laziness to take over their life. While some might be physically fit in their youth, the get lazy later in life. Women especially seem to want to embrace the fat acceptance movement because it is easier to sit around and get fat than to keep doing cardio and eating healthy. So it isn't surprising that older young women would try to shame a guy into wanting to get with women who are likely to be in better shape and have more energy to go out and d…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:18 AM
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I see some of these women as actually having a mental illness. They have taken the princess complex to the extreme. They are basically one step below the Instagram "model" girls. The IG "models" are always posting pics of their newest designer handbag. Of course they do this while sitting in their car, and magically the purse is never held in a way that blocks the steering wheel logo. So she gets to brag via photo that not only does she live high fashion, she is also driving a Benz or BMW. I can…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:32 PM
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Party culture is definitely affecting many young women, especially in the US. Between the boozing it up and the tanning/sunning, the skin can only take so much. If they smoke, it just makes them age even faster. It is really a shame because if many could just stop after college, it won't be so bad. Unfortunately any suggestion of moderation (drinking, partying, sex, etc.) will instantly get one called names and accused of trying to tell people how to live their life. Many recent college grads ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 10:19 AM
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Here in the US, many LEOs are members of employee groups of some sort that offers legal defense. Check to make sure that stuff covers you if you are off-duty as well and to what extent. If you aren't covered while off-duty, then definitely have the $5,000 saved for legal actions likely up to and including some trial work. The most important thing about a lawyer is to get a real criminal trial lawyer. Some "criminal lawyers" are good at paperwork, filing appeals, filing motions, while others are …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:54 AM
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The ban is nothing more than a government freak out, which they should be concerned about. The problem is that once a society starts to be open to accepting previous taboo sexual practices, you almost open the flood gate to having to accept everything. Governments are freaking out over the prospect that beta males will wake up and completely reject committing to women with high n-counts. This doesn't mean they won't date them, won't have sex with them, won't reproduce with them, it just means th…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:05 AM
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The internet wasn't what it is today when I was your age, back then you had to deal with asking people out face to face or through the telephone (the only cell phones back then were for traveling folks and the rich). Take my advice: Get all the experience you can. Now that young ladies are finding it easier to show interest with these new means of communication, it is wise for the younger guys to take what is offered. Date around, have fun, gain experience.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:52 AM
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Saw this story. No wonder this case went no where. Unless you have a jury made up of women who hate men to the extreme, there was no way this would result in a conviction. The only thing I see that was edited was that they cut out stuff. To me, this is wrong and this is why people start screaming that they are hiding something. In cases like this, the bar should have made two videos, one edited and explain why they did so (ie: So people wouldn't have to watch 29 mins. and 30 seconds of a closed …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:34 AM
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I saw this thread. She can speculate all she wants and the DA can say whatever they want in relation to why they didn't go forward with charges, but I can tell you that she might have come across as a horrible "victim" and "witness" for a jury to hear. Some people with the mentality that they want to accuse a guy of a criminal sexual battery, then turn around and want to go running back into his arms would likely be seen my some people as not all there. Some people like this may come across as j…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:19 AM
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Given how things are, I can no longer tell young men that the "right thing" to do is settle down, get married, and have kids. What I tell the young guys I work with is that they should learn from my mistakes: Don't fall in love too easily, separate sex from love in your mind. Go out and have fun with the girls, but remember, no one can force you to give life long, or even years, of commitment. Live frugal, but don't go overboard. Many of the younger guys I work with want to work, work, work. Man…
/r/MGTOW12/09/15 02:44 PM
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I hope getting laid will make up for the additional 30%+ of your income that will be needed to feed, house, and medicate all the kids from non-married couples, the research demanded to deal with rising STDs (and likely their yet created cousins which will likely be worth), and many other things that come from such a culture. While I agree to some extent it is good for men, the wider the gap when talking about 80/20, the worse off this country will be. I'm pretty sure most low number beta guys ju…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 02:03 PM
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Interesting. I agree that "hookup culture" is somewhat of a myth, but that is because many people think ONS=hookup culture. Hookup culture is nothing more than having sexual relations before the couple has any sort of commitment talk. My youth was spent mostly beta, a little alpha when I partied a little. At the time I would have never said I "hooked up" but honestly I did hookup to some extent. I was a sucker for sex should equal a relationship, so I fell hard for girls even if we just made out…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 01:44 PM
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I don't see how the US, or any country with such women, have any productive future outside the next 10-20 years. The reason I believe this is because such attitudes just show how strong we have pushed people to only worry about themselves. Of course when these individuals want something they can't get, only then do they join together and make their demands to the leaders of the nation. For example, when this woman finds out you can't abort HIV, she will join thousands who will demand more of my …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 01:24 PM
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This affects not just men, but women as well. Ultimately, if humans were so greedy, there would be less negative issues that we see in the world: War, crime, depression, etc.. If we get to a world where robots can plant and harvest crops, drive us around to where ever we want to go, provide plenty of food for everyone, have an energy source where everyone will be able to have heating to survive winter (in those areas) or A/C to help those with breathing issues, and basically make life very comfo…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 03:31 PM
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I disagree and say it does say something about their views. Just they way you described some of your hookups tells me your views, at least in my opinion. You didn't say you just would go out to a bar, pick a random, and take them home. Instead, you classified them as "dates," not ONSs or stranger hookups. Maybe that is what they were, but just your vocabulary tells me that you are likely not someone who was very into casual sex. It will mostly only be an issue for guys if they never had those so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:00 PM
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I agree it is much more personal, or at least most women would have more personal feelings associated with it. However, it is fairly hypocritical for men to take what is offered, then act all sick when some new girl offered it up to other guys just like all the girls he had no problem being with who were just like her. Men can't be happy with easy sex then turn around and complain about all the girls having tons of lovers. Higher partner numbers for guys has to mean higher partner numbers for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:53 PM
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I agree. $50K is a starting point, but today so many people are living paycheck to paycheck because their personal spending is so horrible, they would be lucky to have $5K to their name. As far as covering tracks, one can always get a casino players card. Stick it in the $100 a pull slots and blow $500 a couple of times a year. Then go on your birthday, or some day you will remember, but don't use the card. When they ask "where did this money go?" just honestly say you spent it, and liked going …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 02:50 PM
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The n-count can tell how a person views sex, which is important for some. A person who racks up ten partners in a year just because they are say looking for a serious relationship would more than likely be viewed as someone who doesn't see sex as something that holds more importance in a committed relationship than a ONS. Others who are more reserved between serious, committed relationships likely would have a different view on sex. Just my observation from speaking with numerous people over my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:57 PM
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While I do think that a two parent family unit, one that is strong and where the kids see the parents respect each other, is likely the best way to raise kids, we are quickly changing (US wise) the definition of the traditional family. Today, there are many young people who grew up with divorced or never married parents. I think that if a parent(s) start teaching kids the truth about life instead of the stuff governments, agenda driven ideologies, etc. want parents to teach their kids, many more…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:17 PM
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Men have to start filing complaints and suing universities for failing to protect them from grabby girls. Seriously, that is all that young men can do. If you have a social media video of a drunk girl going up to a guy with his back turned toward her and she grabs his ass, give him the video and he can file a complaint as there is a 100% he didn't give any sort of consent in such a situation.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 05:54 PM
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The answer for guys who have to commit to obtain intimacy is to do just that. There is no law mandating the commitment last any certain time span. We aren't talking about having to give years to a woman who might see you as "not as fun" or whatever. If the goal is to rack up numbers, give a few months commitment, get your next notch, then end the relationship and get into another one. With a three month window on the relationship, you would end up sleeping with four women a year. Yea, it might n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:46 PM
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I had an issue with girls who had a more experienced past than me. It has nothing to do with insecurity, it had to do with wanting to have had a similar background and having similar sexual experiences. Many had a lot of the experiences I desired growing up, and it would weigh heavily on my mind. It wasn't that I wouldn't date sluts, it was just that I would never consider them, at the time, LTR material. I was at the stage of wanting my first real LTR, yet I was halfway through college. It can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:37 PM
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I think it depends on the history of the guy. If the guy himself wasn't a slut, and his experiences were complete opposite of a promiscuous woman, then I would say it isn't shaming. If a guy who himself was slutty, then he would definitely be a hypocrite, but even he might not be shaming. People, even men, are allowed to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:10 PM
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The danger is only when one partners knows their current SO would have an issue with certain sexual things, such as a person who had numerous ONS, participated in group sex, etc.. If it is discovered that such a history is a deal breaker, it is likely a good sign for the SO to initiate a breakup. There is no need to admit to doing anything, the past can stay the past, but if a guy comes out and says or even hints that they would have an issue with certain sexual practices, it would be a smart mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:04 PM
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I'm a little older than you and my teens and early 20s lifestyle wasn't very rich in relationships, partying, etc.. However, even the small amount of partying I did partake in, this discussion would come up. As a late bloomer who really had never had any serious relationship until I was 24 and met my now wife, it was a huge issue to me. I mostly wanted someone I could relate too. I've been told girls to some extent talk about this stuff as well. There was an article about dating by a woman the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 01:03 PM
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I wonder of Title IX will destroy the US university system. Under all the SJW stuff, I think what this comes down to is that women are demanding that they be able to get drunk, be very sexual, but that men need to basically 'take the high road' and be the White Knight who can drunkenly shrug off the booty shaking, the crotch grinding, etc.. which usually will lead to both partners wanting some sort of sexual activity. Are there guys that take things too far, absolutely, and they should be held a…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:23 PM
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Name calling I would say is slut shaming. I don't see discussions about not being able to stop with casual sex, hooking up, cheating, etc. as being in any way shaming. These are very real issues. While humans do have biological programming, we also have advance brains now. The ancestors of a human man who lived 10K, or even 100K, years ago might kill someone for looking at "their" woman and in that culture it might have been justified. Most advance cultures today would have the vast majority of …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 04:40 PM
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I love it when liberals and progressives start to cannibalize each other. Yes, these young women in the video were all beautiful and white, however look at all the sex-positive stuff in the video: Short shorts, skimpy clothing, cheeky to thong bikinis. Check out tumblr webpages of other sororities and you will see girls wearing similar bikinis now. These girls are wearing this stuff thanks to the "don't make us into sex objects" free-for-all slut-walk stuff that SJWs have been pushing for a deca…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:41 AM
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This is some good advice. While I'm married, it was only recently that I switch my fashion trend. For decades I've been a t-shirt and jeans guy. Since I didn't want to hang clothing to dry, I was always worried about cloths shrinking, so I would always buy XL t-shirts because they would shrink somewhat. Back in the early 2000s, I was 5'9" and approaching 170 and a gut was forming. Thus, my baggy clothing didn't bother me. I didn't start working out, but did cut back on eating junk food (mostly s…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:34 PM
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Don't forget what is happening in the US with what is essentially the poor, urbanized black population and the army of the local governments (ie: The cops). For decades, too many young people from poor areas in both rural and urban areas, have turned to a life of crime: Drugs, robberies, burglaries, etc.. When this is concentrated like in metro areas, it gets even worse and you need more cops (thousands of cops usually in cities of close to 1M+) to keep things from completely exploding. However,…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:51 PM
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My dad deals with the same thing. The reason they put up with it is because they were from an era where they were taught that women have emotions and leaving would destroy the kids. I personally can't deal with it, and I'm married. My wife actually tries to act like my mom sometimes and yells about stupid shit, but I have none of it. We don't have kids, so she knows that divorce is a much easier option in our marriage. I've gotten more and more to a point where I just don't care anymore about a …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:46 AM
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Of course some posters are bashing him for actions she is 50% responsible for. Typical. I liked his comment about how she isn't gf/wife material: For me I find sex fun so basically a girl that isn't ugly and semi attractive will do for me. for a girl to be my girlfriend, I would want her to be a good bit prettier, have a good personality, a good background etc. Kelly right now is good for a fwb but if I was looking for a girlfriend, I'd want her to be younger, have less baggage, and prettier. I'…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:33 AM
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Articles like this one should really be taken with a grain of salt. Sex sells, and media knows that. It is also focused on NYC. NYC, at least the Manhattan area, from what I understand has more women than men. Thanks to the destruction of Christian based sexual morals in the US, sex is expected in any sort of dating relationship well before any commitment. As such, the women know that if sex isn't given, there is zero chance of commitment. Now women are whining because of this. Typical of hypocr…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:38 AM
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I seriously worry about the destruction of the two parent family and what it means for the US. I've never really believe in the 80/20 split, mostly because even with my minor partying during my youth I was able to get lucky to some extent. Had I went away to college, drank and partied more than I did, I likely would have had a much more interesting past. The reason I hope 80/20 isn't real is because if things are more 50/50 or 60/40, that at least puts some middle of the road guys getting someth…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:39 PM
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I doubt if many of these are true. My opinion is that these girls were just horny at the time and being in the proximity of a guy, human nature just takes over. These are just actions which more likely lead up to the encounter. There is also a strong likelihood that the girls actually liked these guys anyway. Could these just be cases of females putting out with hope that these guys they like will commit to them?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 02:25 PM
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My views on this subject have changed through the years. I'm from the US where many people in most states can get a gun. I also worked in the criminal justice system and carry a gun most places. My training consist of somewhere between 7,000 to 10K rounds fired. Given I usually am carrying and have had hours of tactical shooting training, my mindset is different than most others. I would definately take different measures depending on if it is family vs strangers. It is one thing to just take a …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 01:58 PM
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Growing up in my teens and early 20s, I would have put myself in the BP category, but looking back on how some, not all, young women acted, I would definitely be in the middle or maybe even leaning RP. Sexual history was something that I had a hard time dealing with. I was way behind with my peer group. Even when I finally came out of my shell and started getting dates, I felt like I couldn't relate to the girls I was dating. In the end I just wanted to be with someone I could relate too. I had,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:18 PM
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It sucks that a young guy can't have fun with girls willing to do the same because now more than ever there is always the possibility that a young woman will claim what was a consensual sexual act was really her being taken advantage of in some fashion. You get kicked out of school after spending tens of thousands. The DOJ and DOE at the federal level are putting all these rules upon higher education because they don't like what they are seeing. The way I see, these "everyone is equal" types wan…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:20 PM
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I think the world is going nuts. I can see all first world countries in complete collapse within a decade or two. Seriously, the hypocrisy that I see when it comes to gender will totally destroy society. This is party is a good example. If anyone of those women who attend get slut shammed for admitting they had a "good time" having sex and all, the same people blasting this sports star would be up in arms defending her right to do whatever she wants sexually. They would demand society accept her…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 07:54 PM
2

I like how she claims it is a perk in the title. That is easy for her to say because she has someone, a husband and a child. Read what some of her not so lucky mid-30s NYC female neighbors have written. A recent article just said that some women in their 30s are starting to feel sexually invisible. They aren't getting the attention from the single guys of their age group. The sexual liberation free-for-all continues to demand that no intimate relationship be questioned, ever. So of course the yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:40 PM
2

There is also the issue of those in power seeing the issues and trying to fix it, but it will be too late. They might try to change divorce laws, but that ship has sailed. Some judges might be more inclined to start voting for more equal rights for men, but all that will likely do is make it just as easy for a single man to adopt and raise a child as it would be a two parent household. There will be so many kids with issues, no adult support unit, the government will figure it is better one adul…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 09:08 AM
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Here in the US, that is already happening. I have seen examples here and elsewhere. Within the last two years or so there have been some very popular, highly debated and commented on articles where mid-30s to early 40s women are complaining about being alone. One author told young women they had best settle, which to me could make things even worse. Basically, don't be as happy as possible, but you will never be really happy with your husband/off-spring producer. This author actually just had a …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:02 PM
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From the video I saw, they both likely should be arrested. The whole hip bumping non-sense is split equally. I can't fault him or her, but bars/clubs are crowded, and making contact is to be expected. It did appear to me that she tried to shift her body over to block his ability to sit/stand at that part of the bar. I can only assume this was because she wanted to save that spot for someone, or just thought she had the right to have more room for her personal space. Words are then exchanged and …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:58 PM
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I work on a college campus, so I see both the hookup side and the relationship side. The problem I see is that young women today want fun and excitement all the time. Pop culture tells young women that in order to have a life, then one must always be doing something: Beach trips, shopping, concerts, dining out, visits to parks, sporting events, attending social functions, going to bars, etc.. There are a lot of men who like this lifestyle as well, but I've always seen those constantly on the go …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 04:36 PM
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I heard a while back that the 50% divorce rate is just another example of playing with stats, likely pushed by people with a certain political philosophy when it comes to sex, relationships, etc.. It is now said that only about 33% of first marriages end in divorce, but around 66% of second and third marriages end in divorce. So the total number of all marriages that end in divorce ends up being around 50%, but many of those people likely don't do marriage right to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:58 PM
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This really depends on what one does if they don't go away to college, how they live post high school, etc.. For me, I went to college, but I was a commuter student to a larger urban university. Many of us were commuters, as the university had minimal on-campus housing and even the surrounding area had minimal housing for students (this has changed in recent years as the university has grown and changed). For me, living at home for college was just as bad as high school. Being more introverted, …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:38 PM
1

My views on this would depend on what type of life the guy has lived during his college years. As a guy approaching 40, who lived at home for college (a horrible, horrible thing to do for young people), and who worried about money and debt so much, that I worked way too many weekends at my part-time job, I would focus on traveling and seeing the world. My suggestions to young people are to seriously consider doing something like working in a national park(s) for a season, places like Glacier, Ye…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 10:16 AM
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I wish I would have went away to college instead of living at home. However, it sounds like at least left home and lived a good life. One thing you might consider depending on how much money you saved is possibly working a year of seasonal employment somewhere cool. For example, you could work a season in Alaska, Yellowstone, Hawaii, or other popular tourist areas. You can also split this type of work, work a season in Glacier for about four months then spend ten months in Hawaii. We meet a girl…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 10:50 AM
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I'm almost 40 and I met a few girls on-line. Being a former beta with no clue about SMV, how girls flirt, etc., I was behind the times for sure. Your comment about playing pool on a date made me recall one date I went out on. I first met the girl at a party, but she wasn't drinking because she had to leave (and I did too, working the night shift). We went to the same college together, but we had met a this party of a mutual friend at the college (we all were commuter students, living with our pa…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:55 PM
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Most could disappear, but they would absolutely have to cut all ties to the past. I'm not a big Facebook person, I have less than 100 "friends." Even with just that few of friends I'm amazed at how many connections I see every so often. For example, sometimes I look up people who were recently arrested for some newsworthy crime. Every so often there is a connection, a friend of a friend. You look at other people with 1,000+ friends, it is just too easy to see a connection and make some inquires …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 09:59 PM
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If a young women today chooses porn she knows exactly where her life is heading. She likely isn't going to be able to just wash the past and find some BB. A co-worker in his 20s was telling me about a girl he knew from high school sports that he hooked up with. He said one of his friends saw her on a porn website. I pretty much knew it was likely one of those amateur porn websites. She was a collegiate athlete and all, went to a big name school. Funny thing was that about three weeks after he to…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 04:57 PM
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I'm almost 40, but even in my late teen, early 20 days I would find area girls on AOL Instant Messenger. However, back then the college hookup culture was just starting to take off, but most people I knew were more likely to engage in monogamous relationships than do the casual thing. I think these apps are mostly the same, except the culture has definitely changed over the past 20 or so years. Young women definitely now believe that it is OK to do casual sex, so many will do so if they really f…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:32 PM
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The video, link posted in a comment above, opens up with Pam Krause, CEO of Calgary Sexual Health Centre talking about how she was shocked that while teen pregnancy is down, teen STI rates are up. So she says we are missing "half the equation in sexual health." So she got funding for WiseGuyz. No one wants STDs/STIs, but my question is what similar program was started for the girls? If the only program started to curb STI rates is aimed at guys, then it seems to me that guys are being blamed for…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:17 PM
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I never got the lifestyle you lived, though wish I would have (many reasons why it didn't happen). However, I've worked in higher ed, criminal justice system, and many other jobs over the years. The one thing that I flat out can say is that Americans strive for intoxication and socialization, usually by drinking alcohol. The party doesn't stop after college, it just changes venues, types, and sometimes frequency. People who are still in their mid-20s and beyond go to college spring break. People…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:37 PM
1

I didn't take it lightly and requested a meeting with my superiors. >They told me that it was because a quota for minorities had to be >filled (even though the person who left and created the vacancy >was a white male) Unless it is illegal in your jurisdiction, recording such meetings should be a top priority. The reason is because such proof of gender discrimination usually makes for a quick settlement. A place can "encourage" minority applicants, and many do so or have that silly EOE wording o…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 10:39 AM
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Here in the US I'm not sure things will get "better" (however that is defined) in terms of marriage or relationships. Most conservative leaning (not far leaning) parents I know still want their daughters to aim high. This country is so for the individual with a strong rise above or have fun living on welfare mentality. It is every person for themselves. Parents see this and all want their kids, male or female, to be able to hold their own if need be. This historically has meant putting marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 04:23 PM
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I'm not so sure I really think it matters with people like this. Yea, he might be beta, but really, do you think he is? These guys have money, they party, they get women. I don't know of any straight guy in a position such as his who hasn't gotten what he has wanted. Maybe his history isn't as colorful as her history, but maybe he doesn't care all that much. As someone else said, these things are usually just for show, and the individuals do what they want anyway. Most people slow down as they a…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 08:37 PM
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I know young me usually focus a lot on relationships and sex when they hit their teen years. While it might be nice to have a fairy tale high school/college LTR where both are virgins and stay together forever, that likely won't happen. Focusing on obtaining that too much may cause you to lose focus on other girls that actually like you who you are taking a pass on because of their past. Be open with dating. Not saying one has to date obese girls, but if the low key, not so popular girl shows in…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:20 PM
1

I do have a theory that the recent uptrend in "college" porn videos like Dare Dorm and others have likely made many young high school and college aged men, and maybe some women, pursue those types of sexual encounters more so than generations of the past. A few of these lawsuits recently have dealt with group sex. Now think about these young women. They are now outed in their social group as having been engaged in group sex. Every guy in the college she would ever likely want a relationship with…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 09:32 PM
2

You give some good advice, advice I wish I would have had growing up. I would pass this advice on to young people, mainly young men as they are coming-of-age heading into high school. If the guy will likely go away to college, then high school doesn't have to be about 24/7 partying. High school might be the best time for the serious LTR girlfriend. It doesn't have to be just one or even last all through high school , but usually by obtaining a serious, committed LTR a young guy will likely get m…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 06:43 PM
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Clearly it is legal in most countries likely due to religious reasons. I personally wouldn't have an issue with it being legal so long as it was controlled to some extent (licensed, STD/STI testing). Here in the US, Nevada seems to do it right with their brothel type set-up, but in some counties within the state it is still illegal and you have issues with that in Las Vegas. Go read some stories of sex positive women who claim they wanted to have sex with numerous men in their life. Now some wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 05:16 PM
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I'm a mix of everything, my wife is extremely blue pill. I was a late bloomer in life. I had no issues interacting with peers, but when it came to asking girls out and trying to interact with them on a more than friends level, it took me until I was 20 to get my first girlfriend. I partied a very short bit, really too much for someone who didn't go away to college and drive into the scene more, not for the intoxication, but more for the socialization partying usually facilitates. Anyways, I met …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 04:16 PM
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It is always possible to find a women who hasn't slept with another guy who has a high sex drive and is good in bed (based on the man's definition of "good"). Probable, who knows. I think it is unfair, or more like hypocritical, when a guy who has had his fun demands that when he is done, he should somehow be able to easily find a woman who hasn't had sex. I think it is just as wrong for women who had fun in their youth to lie to a guy they want to LTR/marry about her past when she knows it will…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 02:51 PM
1

Low fertility rates usually only really cause two issues: The first issue would be having enough people to defend the nation if needed. That would be an issue for nations in the past, not so much today with technology. However, while a nation may have enough people to man a few ships, plans, and watch over the computers controlling missiles and drones, they might not have enough to ever launch an invasion and subsequent occupation. The second is more economical. If the nation has a history of sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 02:25 PM
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I'm not sure how old you are, or what part of the world you live in, but I can tell you that if you are still in your 20s, you have plenty of time to expand and change your lifestyle to obtain what you want before you decide to settle down (despite the anti-marriage message here, many men will still eventually want kids with a spouse to co-rear the kids with). Some viewpoints here are good, others are down right toxic. Look at your close friends, your acquaintances, family, etc.., and you will k…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:28 PM
1

Progress in 50 years? Yea, right. Too many groups wanting this, that, and everything else. In other words, these groups want either money, or they want rules that provide them incentives. So either another person gets their pocket picked even more (ie: Taxed) or they are shut out of jobs, winning government contracts, don't get accepted at a college, etc.. Did you happen to see what recently happened in Baltimore MD, and then Ferguson, MO, all within the course of about ten months? There aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 05:44 PM
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Future for the US, and to some extent the rest of the world, doesn't look all that great. I can't say it is due to the "relationships" that young men and women engage in now, but that is part of it. From what I see, more and more people are accepting the fact that they have to move for a job. More and more jobs in the US are being located in major urban centers. Small towns and cities in the Midwest are dying due to a lot of the decent paying manufacturing jobs having left the country. I have sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 05:35 PM
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Most of these cases I read about (US based) usually involve women in their 30s, maybe an early 40s here and there. Being a teacher requires a college degree. I think it would be a good study to determine what kind of lifestyle these women lived during their high school and college years. Could it be that once a person (I would say both genders) is involved with casual sex at a certain level that they can never really turn it off? It seems that for some more promiscuous women, they can shut the v…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:35 PM
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For me, who didn't have much luck with women during high school and only a few girlfriends during college, it is being able to relate to the person. Within my small group of friends and acquaintances, guys really didn't want girls of similar age who had way more partners, especially if the guy is looking for some sort of possible LTR that could lead to more. Yes, it was hypocritical to obtain sex from such young women but then not give them any opportunity for any sort of meaningful LTR. For me …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 06:32 PM
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I was late to the game (not 25 yo late though) and yes, some young men will usually always regret not being able to have various life experiences during their high school and college years. The downside is that I likely could have done it, but a variety of factors made me who I was. The only saving grace is that I did have a few high school senior girlfriends when I was 20 (they were 17 and 18) so I kinda lived the life, but it doesn't really feel like the same thing. I hate how mass media, reli…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:52 AM
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Women like your sister reap what they sow. Unfortunately I know a lot of fairly decent women who are suffering because the attitude of many guys has changed when it comes to marriage, LTRs, the future, etc.. If your sister changes her ways (hard to do if she is addicted to alcohol, which now is called "partying" because it doesn't sound as bad) she might get lucky and find a decent guy. However, any guy who never lived that lifestyle to the extent your sister has is likely going to reject her if…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:44 AM
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The study was done by an Ohio State researcher. She did the study back in 2003 and then again in 2013. However, some of the details were that the bulk or average age of the participants was 19 though the sample age was 18-25. So we are talking early year college kids here, not folks in their late 20s who have likely had a huge amount of "this doesn't count" type situations. Either way, those she hooked up to the lie detector would usually admit double to those who were told (or thought) their an…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 05:44 PM
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From a US prospective, this is great advice. I didn't go away to college, and my partying was minimal. This ended up causing issues with relationships. While college can be costly, it is worth it going away at least for a few years. Not all high school kids party and get dates. The lack of parental supervision in college makes it easy for all the kids to finally get to let loose and socialize. If a young guy has been partying for a while in high school, he likely won't need to go away to college…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 04:43 PM
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There was an interview with a handful of young people on some CNN story. They were journalism students from Kent State. There were seven young women and three young men. When the reporter asked if anyone sees themselves married at 27, only about three of the women raised their hands, and they were almost hesitant to do it. When she asked about being married at 30, all but one of the women and one of the men raised their hands quickly. To me, 30 is the new mental age for marriage. I would have li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 02:57 PM
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Popular was the wrong phrase. I should have said something like, "friends with the guys who were more engaged socially." Not just with partying, but in all aspects of high school life: Dating (both dating around or high school STR/LTR), extra circulars, socializing with many others both in and outside of school, etc.. With my generation, these were normally considered the "popular" kids.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:26 PM
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I definitely would have been more friends with the popular kids and likely drink to some extent. I wouldn't want to give up the few non-popular good friends I did have. Additionally, I would have just asked girls out more. I was very shy, only asked a girl to junior prom (we went, but she kinda latched back onto an old boyfriend the next week). I actually had girls who I knew were interested, but I always had a crush on someone else. Growing up my first two connections with females (one at 12/13…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 02:03 AM
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The fact is that intoxication has caused the slutification of America, even with the guys. Survey after survey shows that 90%+ of college women would rather have meaningful LTRs. Another part of the problem is that we have become a more nomadic society. As the family unit shrinks for most (Both my grandparents had four kids, none of their kids had as many children) of the productive class, it becomes easier for young people to move away from "home." You combine moving away, focusing on a career,…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:58 AM
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Why can't we change the debate from how many sexual partners >women are having these days to why it should even matter what >that number is? I think the issue is that there are still numerous young men being sold this bill of goods that women are somehow non-sexual and thus, treating them "right" will mean love, sex, etc.. It is amazing that some people will cheer sexual freedom of young women, yet turn around and give young men a message to "treat women right" "be the good guy who doesn't press…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 12:12 PM
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I found the 2013 study via an on-line database. The numbers are still somewhat low, not in the double digits. However, I would point out the following: One of the studies had ages ranging from 18 to mid 20s, but the average age was 19. This would mean more people who are new to college than have been in for a full four years. The number is pretty much 4-5 for both genders, but I don't know if this is the average, or just the number that shows up the most. I believe it is an average given that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 11:47 AM
1

A collapse of US as it is now, and as it has been in the recent decades is inevitable. The idea that we could ever really repay our national debt is laughable. Many of our large metro areas have suffered from the decline in manufacturing. Larges plants close up shop, followed by suppliers, etc.. There are clearly sections of our major cities that have living conditions that are marginally better than the third world. The only way to keep the debt nation functioning is if there are plenty of taxe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 12:58 AM
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It might have nothing to do with getting to know their entire personality. Just knowing they view sex as nothing more than a "biological itch" is enough for some people to justify moving on. And if sex is just a biological itch, then women should never shame men for paying for sex. Such men are only scratching a biological itch in one of many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 12:42 AM
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There can be varying degrees of sexual experience. It isn't virgin or non-virgin. A guy who has only had three sexual partners within the confines of committed relationships shouldn't be blasted for not wanting to be with a woman who has had a similar number of partners but only in a casual, non-committed way. This would be an example of numbers matching, but the types of relationships being completely different. My example doesn't work if your looking at specifics, but more and more, some want …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 12:40 AM
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There is nothing wrong with someone who believes promiscuity is something they would rather avoid in a partner. It is one thing to demand acceptance in terms of an open to the public business providing service to a gay couple, it is another to demand that a person have to accept a current or former promiscuous person as an intimate partner in any means. Maybe if everyone lived a similar sex life, with similar experiences, it wouldn't matter so much. However, that is likely not going to happen, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 05:33 PM
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I basically mean things are changing from decades past. Drug use (legalization of marijuana in more and more states) and sexuality are the biggest by far. I do believe that a segment of society believes that another person can't hold any ill will towards other so long as their behavior isn't criminal (and even then, some people would question if such acts should be criminal). To them, doing so just "isn't right," as in their eyes, the person did nothing wrong, so how do you hang something over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 05:28 PM
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With the way things are now, I likely wouldn't hold back. I think it is important for young people (both men and women) to be street smart and know what is up. I would likely start out with some history over how relationships and human sexuality has changed in our country (US) over the decades. I would point out the fact that many older Hollywood/media types might paint certain pictures with movies, books, and magazines, but it should all be taken as someone else's idea of sex, love, and relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 05:14 PM
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In the US, I think this has to do with the pressure that everyone must accept everyone else so long as their past actions weren't criminal. It used to be OK to not accept someone due to viewing their past actions as immoral according to one's beliefs, but the US is quickly pushing typical morality out the window, at least when it comes to human sexuality. So now you have people who want to be able to do whatever they want, and if they find the right person to settle down with for life, they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:44 PM
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We are heading down that road. Recently some big name universities have banned the serving of hard alcohol and kegs (open cup issues). They want bottles only and only the person consuming can open it. Additionally, they are requiring more and more supervision during functions. There are now calls for the sorority side to start paying for the insurance needed to host parties. The belief is that by putting the women in charge, the women will more likely only invite those guys who are less likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:37 PM
1

Another somewhat new trend in the body show-off realm is that of ever popular cheeky bikini bottom trend. While it seems this was confined in the US to Florida and Hawaii (and some other places) in the past, it is now becoming a trend almost anywhere. Judging by sorority Tumblr pages, certain areas of the US will have a higher % of young women flaunting their backside more so than others. Still, I'm seeing even young women in more conservative areas of the country wearing more revealing swimsuit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:48 PM
1

The body modification lifestyle has gotten really big for the younger generation. Torso tattoos are a big thing. I've seen girls, average cute girl in the face, but she will have a tattoo of a design or some kind of passage (biblical, famous quote, etc.) on her body, upper leg, etc.. I think part of the issue is that such modifications are looked upon as an "All eyes on me." mentality. Additionally, if a young woman wants to show off her body with these eye drawing modifications, most people ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:43 PM
1

Most action, like making out with frat guys, on college campuses is fueled by intoxication. Worked in higher ed for decades. Take away moderate or higher levels of intoxication and hookup culture pretty much dies. As such, while it might be illegal to drink at freshman age, if he wants to live that lifestyle, obtain a "friend with benefits", etc., he will have to do what everyone else is doing. If that means partying and drinking, there is no other way around it. It could end up bad, but for mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:31 PM
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If this is where we are at now in society, it is know wonder more and more of the productive class guys won't get married. They likely see no value in it outside of producing children. After decades of "Don't criticize single moms!" chant for all women, but mostly the lower and middle income classes, why should any guys care about "Doing the right thing." if a woman ends up giving birth to their child? As far as getting some action, all I can say is with women like that noted above, flirting, ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 01:55 PM
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I think one of the issues is that when you combine feminism with the sexual revolution, a lot of young men got left out of the discussion. There always seemed to be this idea that all halfway decent looking guys would constantly seek out women, and thus all men would be successful during those years of dating, courting, etc.. This hasn't happened though. Lots of young men were and are still being told to "be respectful" when it comes to all sorts of sexual activity with young women. On the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 09:53 AM
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It is because of how you are now acting. Women are seeing you as a man who should have no problem getting women to sleep with you. I went through some similar phases. The problem is, I did admit at the time that I hadn't ever had sex. That actually caused at least one or two girls I was either seeing or hooking up with to likely not go all the way with me. I can't blame them really. As more introverted or less experienced young men change, they will give off a more normal vibe. Young women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 09:26 AM
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This entire story is why it is important to tell our young men that before they choose a life partner, be it marriage or whatever, they should have a bucket list of sexual experiences they want to fulfill. If they aren't able to obtain these with willing young women as they go through life, then strongly consider traveling to areas where prostitution or brothels are legal and pay for it. It also will help check off travel bucket list items. Some will say "It isn't the same." I get their point, b…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:07 PM
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This is very interesting. When asked about marriage by 26 years old, only three of the young women indicated they would want that. When asked by the age of 30, six of the seven definitely want that. This tells me that 30 is that magical age for women. They know that is when the looks start going down, when it is time to really start thinking about kids if you don't want to be raising college students in your 60s. So basically three of the women want freedom for at least five years after college.…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 09:15 PM
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I've read various statistical surveys and the like, and really the only one I'd be likely to believe are those by Dr. Terri Fisher of the OSU. Her surveys are different in that she uses lie detectors with some subjects. Her first study like this was done in 2003. College aged women 18-25 who weren't hooked up to the machine would claim an average of 2.6 sexual partners when giving the answer in front of or too a person. Those who provided anonymous answers reported 3.6. Those hooked up on the ma…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 02:15 PM
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Well, dating doesn't mean relationships. I would suggest dating if you are into that, or at least looking for intimacy of some sort. There is still pressure for young people to get together while they are young. Adults know that the longer young people are single, the more baggage, good, bad, or otherwise, a person ends up with in their past. New potential mates usually end up skeptical of past baggage and wonder, "If you are such a great find, why are you still single?" Though the problem is th…
/r/MGTOW02/04/15 12:03 PM
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Human sexuality seems to be changing, at least in the US. Who would have thought that there would ever be gay marriage just 20 years ago? Mass media and certain political types push a separation of sex from marriage. We are pretty much an "anything goes" society. Spring break type wild partying has now been extended to 52 weeks of the year by some. The problem is that sex within marriage is important. Marriage, or maybe coupling in general, was done in recent times so a man would know, or at lea…
/r/MGTOW02/04/15 10:12 AM
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After a certain age, then yea, I would blame the guy, however, it is very hard to overcome the programming that can take place at such a younger age. Religious beliefs, constant blue pill ideas from parents, witnessing living proof of certain things, etc.. It isn't just parents, but the overall environment that can really harm a guy during his formative years.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:39 AM
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This almost like a cautionary tale. There are a few things that every teen guy should know: -Their female peers are just as interested in sexual activity on various levels. -Loosing ones virginity is very over rated and focusing too much on virginity can causes a oneitis infection. -If studies about human sexuality are true, there is a very good chance any given young man will have sex with more than one person. -Oneitis infections can re-occur for those guys who are too focused on the "young, p…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 01:33 PM
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I would say that if one can find gainful employment in Vegas, that is where I would want to be. The wife and I visited about 18 months ago to check out the city and the Grand Circle area. I can't think of another city where so many young women fly into for a few days of partying, especially for bachelorette parties. From another forum, we were discussing how crazy young women can be when they are at bachelorette parties. One poster said working as bellhop/customer service type at a hotel could e…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 11:04 AM
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I have a theory that as people hear more and more about the fun experiences of others, people start thinking about what they didn't get to experience growing up. If they aren't happy in their relationship or marriage, they will do what they can in an attempt to obtain what they missed out on. This is why it wouldn't surprise me if we just see an ever growing number of adults (single or married) continue to jump towards thinks like Tinder, looking for sex websites, etc.. Of course others will thr…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:55 AM
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Many RP types likely won't care, because marriage isn't looked upon fondly here as having anything to do with future success. However, society has a whole still places value upon marriage. Too many young men are raised beta. They might not be able to afford college, or have to stay at home and be a commuter, which can further hamper their ability to grow. While a lot of their female peers are out having various experiences, racking up numbers, they are just starting to find themselves. This is e…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 08:38 PM
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Calm down. They are examples of a rapidly changing culture in the US. Twenty years ago, gay marriage wasn't even on the radar. The concept of legalizing marijuana back then, yea right...get real. Now look where we are. They are just examples of how things change take a complete 180 over time.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 08:20 PM
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Given how the country is going with gay marriage, marijuana, etc., I think it is only a matter of time before other states start legalizing prostitution. You have half the feminist saying it is a woman's right. I would worry about some problems, but the fact remains that by allowing this, at least some beta type guys will be able and have some fun. It might even help them get more comfortable with women. There was a news video about the problem in Japan. An ex-porn star was offering services to …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 06:01 PM
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I went to a smaller suburban high school, very conservative area in a conservative part of the country. While I talked to most of my classmates, I mostly was beta with a bunch of beta friends. We actually all could hold conversations, but when it came to romance, we all were pathetic for the most part. I was too scared of rejection, was never told about relationships/sex/girls at that age, etc.. What I would tell myself and most other young men today: 1: Be active in sports, lift. 2: Rejection i…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:39 PM
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It is very important for young men to understand what is out there during those party years. It doesn't have to be a 24/7 party, a few STRs won't hurt, as being well balanced might help. I highly recommend to young to me to consider summer work at places like a resort area (lifeguard, bar/dinner), national park, etc.. Try to go on a proper spring break to a nicer area like Cancun, but also hit the party events in your state as much as you can. This was my biggest failure, complete and utter fail…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:56 AM
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Very good stuff here, fathers should take note. For likely a handful of reasons, I ended up thinking that nudity, sex, etc. were all bad things and thought teenage girls would never really be into sex and what not. I knew this wasn't true, but I was the "good kid," and while I can't say that I wouldn't have had premarital sex if the opportunity forced itself upon me, I just thought of it as something the woman should initiate. I also put way too much into my virginity, and this is the downfall o…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:44 AM
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I'm heading towards my 40s, and married a decent enough girl who is loyal, mostly because her severe anti-anxiety would likely make her single or constantly dumped if we were to ever split up. Even with a significant other's bad stuff, I find most of my friends do value that they at least have someone else. I feel some sadness at the state of affairs for this country and worry for the future. The two parent working family pretty much made the US what it is, if marriage really takes a hit, that l…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:52 PM
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I highly recommend traveling. I didn't during my younger years, and while life is good and traveling would have definitely put me on a different path, I still regret not doing that. I wouldn't even say one has to travel outside the US, just move to areas one isn't familiar with. The website cooljobs.com has a bunch of service/travel industry related jobs from all over the world. Find out some of the national park vendors and consider working just a season/summer in a place like Denali, Glacier, …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 08:17 AM
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I stayed at home and drove to college, a horrible mistake, but life ended up pretty good for me. That being said, this idea of the hookup culture ending is laughable, so long as one is in a major urban center with plenty of bars and clubs. My suggestion to young men who still want to hookup is that they need to get with the club sluts and the like. The best way to do that is to live within walking distance (or a very short cab ride) close to the popular bar/club areas in any given major city. Th…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:41 PM
1

I've read some comments that partner count doesn't matter. This may or may not be true, depending on a few factors. The total number does matter, but the main issue to me is how the partner count is obtained. If it is through numerous LTRs, say that lasted at least nine months, then the man has to wonder if there is an issue with the woman. However, if the number was from more random hookups, then I think such a person is much more of a frame of mind to want an office co-worker fling. If the bul…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:39 AM
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Having worked in higher ed for a while now, the main issue with many young men and women concerning promiscuity is intoxication. Most young men and women, when sober, likely wouldn't do 80-90% of what you see them doing on various YouTube videos and what not. Intoxication changes people, as it lowers their inhibitions. Initial advice I give to any younger person is that it is much easier to party when one is young, chase girls, and gain various experiences at that age than it will be in ones lat…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:30 PM
1

For me, conservatism is dead. They don't want to attract any particular group, they just want to make a mini-NYC to get young people to come. I've heard this is playing out all over: St. Louis, Nashville, Louisville, Columbus, Cincinnati, etc.. A lot of these cities saw white flight to the burbs drain their tax base. Today they see how society is still changing to a more must-move-for-a-job type society. I speak with many young people from smaller towns and cities in Indiana. Almost all of them …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 10:48 AM
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My dad is a good guy, very social, etc., however growing up my mom ran the home more than anything. I was a loner kid, and unfortunately with my mom having had two sisters knocked up just after high school, I just recall comments about "Watch your Ps&Qs." No really directed at me, but in passing directed at something else. My mom gets on my dad a lot, but now he stands up for himself. I didn't get much help in the female department. I sometimes wonder what the two of them said about how they wou…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 07:49 PM
2

I've worked in higher ed most of my life, I've seen a lot as I'm in my late 30s. Being from a medium sized metro, having read numerous articles and comments about similar sized cities, I can tell you that many cities are trying to recreate themselves to get you and other like you. Our elected leaders of our crumbling cities are doing what they can to grab the "young professional." The big city leaders in my area (Indy) have recreated downtown Indy into a densely packed mini-NYC. I've been told t…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:58 AM
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The 80/20 rule might apply in some situations, but I don't believe it is a general standard. What I've come to believe is that 80/20, if it is real at all, applies to the promiscuous, drunken, partying, type population....if that even. And maybe a lot of the RP approved women end up in the 80% group at some point, but there is another factor that would need to be considered, and that is time. Does time spent in the 80% group play a part in considering if a woman is good for an LTR, or even marri…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:46 PM
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I got no advice growing up. My mom ruled the home. I only got sex education in school, outside of one time my dad handed me some papers and said read them. My mom had two sisters get knocked up right out of high school, plus some other relatives. I had other relatives who were single for their entire life and lived at home. None of this was good for how I would eventually go through high school and most of my stay-at-home college years without a girlfriend. I don't blame my parents 100%, they gr…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 02:45 PM
1

This is some of the best advice one can give a young person. I would like to give the following advice. For me, I blew my entire youth. I graduated HS in the mid-90s with neither of my folks having been to college, I really didn't have a clue. I wasn't shy in talking to anyone, though I had horrible fears of rejection which left me dateless during high school outside of a date I took to one of my proms. That didn't go anywhere. I actually would develop crushes, but never act on them. Additionall…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:28 PM
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I didn't want to watch the video, but I've seen similar videos. The problem I have with the guys in the ones I have watched is that some come across as just plain weird, and likely appear socially awkward in social settings. I definitely don't think I had lots of alpha traits in my youth. I suffered from agonizing fear of rejection and humiliation. I could have used TRP stuff like abundance mentality, just keep asking till something sticks, etc.. Looking back though, I had no reason to be scared…
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