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I think I fall towards Permanent Noob. My thing is though, what if you don't really enjoy socializing with people? Things like small talk. I've had a pretty isolated life like you describe I suppose, but it's just eh to go out and try to talk to people, trying to make friends. Like I don't really care about the average random person. Do you think that this could be an effect of being isolated my whole life, and that those fixes still apply? I feel like there was only one time I was really social…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 05:15 AM
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Good to know that I have preexisting thoughts on the things you mentioned then lol. I've gained interest in DJing lately and career wise - I'm looking to be a digital nomad as well. Technically already have the remote job, just need more money. Goal one day is travel around in a van/rv then maybe one day learn to sail and sail the Caribbean. If you ever feel like dumping a essay that you think may 'bore' someone, feel free to drop it or message me. I'd love to read it.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:53 PM
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I guess the question for this would be: How does one better those social skills when you get older? By then you're kind of set in your ways and may not have time for social events. Then you got to add on Covid as well nowadays. Either way you seem like an amazing person and admire you. I wish I could gain your confidence, skill in being able to read body language, and self-assurance. Don't even know where to start.
/r/seduction29/12/21 01:45 AM
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Just took a look at the site. I'm struggling to comprehend how/why some of the rates are so low. I understand some of them are legit in 3rd world countries, but I feel that doesn't explain it since it's a online platform. Plus the fact that there are some people from the 1st world who charge just as low of a rate.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 10:44 AM
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How different of an experience is it from first world festivals, and how do you reduce risk in that scenario? Going to a 3rd world country, buying and doing drugs seems borderline retarded on paper. And I feel like you might as well drop at least 1 fun story.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 12:52 AM
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outside of not partaking in OLD, what do you recommend for someone even shorter than that? Just add 2"? lol or height in boots
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:17 PM
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Depends. If FAANG, then go large corp.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:20 PM
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I won't tell you what to do or not to do. I'll just say be careful, your list screams insecurity. Like you gotta make all these changes and do all these things before you gain success. What happens when you get there? Are you just gonna make another list? That's the vibe I'm getting. I think your mindset needs to change first or you'll never be as successful as you want to be. Also why are you waiting on dumping your gf. You can be single and play the field.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:15 PM
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I'm curious if your place falls under more as a Gentleman's club than a strip club. I'm just continuingly thinking about a strip club environment with butt naked women, and loud hip hop and thats it. 😂
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:58 AM
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When you say being armed, how do you mean? Do you carry or carry a knife or something?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:06 PM
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How old are you/the women you're dating? Also, don't you eventually run out of new places/things? Kinda interested in hearing more stories just to get more of an idea.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 12:53 PM
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Probably stupid question out of curiosity, but do you let them know it's a strip club in any way or just tell them club name/just go and they find out when they get there? Was just thinking if it's the latter, they may take it the wrong way or something. But definitely can be a form of vetting I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 12:47 PM
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play the game on hard mode and look into opening up your side of the relationship.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:56 AM
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I feel like a whole book can be written about this, but do you have any tips/advice for building up that frame and trust as well as dealing with jealousy and making your girl feel secure? My girl has said it's fine if we open it up on my side and not hers, and she's also bi and said a threesome could happen if the right person is found, but there's still an obvious big amount of hesitancy coming from her.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:34 AM
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This is a month old post, but I just found it and I'd figure I'd ask. What's your story, and how did you get to where you are/especially with the parties? And when you're at parties like that, don't the girls just gravitate to the big dickers? Curious how that works out.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:48 PM
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At 24 I am doing much better financially than 75% of guys around me I bought myself a nice (and wise) $13,000 used car this year. lol. Are these supposed to impress women? Most 24year olds are broke or in debt. So being better than 75% of them is nothing. And buying a used $13,000 car if anything just shows women you're cheap(some will see broke) and aren't going to splurge on them. Props for being frugal, and on a solid path, but nothing about what you said is going to attract women the way the…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:34 AM
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Dumb ass question, but how did you get your body situated again to be able to use condoms? I've been fucking raw so long that I can't get it up with one. I just end up frustrated and throwing it away. I'm starting to cut out masturbating but Idk if that'll actually help.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:58 PM
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No, I'd like to start when I have the money to afford a membership, and buy food ingredients.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:35 PM
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Something that can be work related? I'm not sure. The things I truly enjoy in life are: freedom, hanging out with friends/family, and occasionally video games. I'm a bit of a loser though so I haven't tried much things in life, though I do have many interests.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:23 AM
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I watched the video, pretty solid stuff bro. However I feel most of the stuff isn't applicable to me yet. I need a source of income before I can really do most of the suggestions. Also Did you legit just drop video games completely, cold turkey? No time spent playing games at all from now on?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:12 AM
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God forbid that doesn't happen anytime soon. Only thing that could make my situation worse would be a kid.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:56 AM
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You just went on a roadtrip or did you actually move somewhere else?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:52 PM
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What if you have no purpose but you want one? Are you still destined to just kill yourself?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:46 PM
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How did you fight through to 28 with depression/no direction? What did you do all those years?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:43 PM
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You're probably right. I personally am 23. I have $10k but also $9k student loans.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:42 PM
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You are experiencing delayed adulthood because your parents have provided comfort and shelter for way too long, so you're lost and still ask the world what to do. Is there anyway to do this without having to move out of your parent's home immediately? I came to a similar conclusion before after some thinking and probably agree with you and /u/oneorigin that getting away from being underneath your parent's wing may be beneficial, but being here gives me the benefit of saving a lot of money.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:29 PM
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So is it like a 'build discipline' type thing? I have the exact same mindset as you I believe. How did you get past the loop: I didn't enjoy or go out or party because I felt I didn't deserve to do that cuz I didn't study or finish my work. So.id stay home to work but never did that. Watched movies and slept and ate. I also hold myself back from really enjoying life because I always feel like I should be studying, but instead I go home and goof off on the internet and get nothing done. I've trie…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:47 AM
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I'm pretty sure I know why, but what are your reasons for saying this?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:35 AM
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Would extracurricular activities not help?
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:28 AM
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You spoke to her for 20 hours on the phone. She probably knows your life story by this point. So there's nothing exciting about you. You are also needy, have already been put into beta bucks territory, and will learn the reason why you shouldn't mess around with coworkers in the first place. Read all the sidebar material twice before you post again. Cause literally any idiot with an hour of time reading posts and the sidebar would know more than you.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:56 PM
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Did you also use the search function on both subreddits?
/r/askTRP25/11/17 08:13 PM
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Girlfriends aren't oneitis if they are nonexclusive, but you might have oneitis for Kate if you 'adore' her. Also escalating with a drunk girl is risky as all hell.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:10 PM
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I'd say you're small and need to get bigger weight wise. You also showed your insecurity with the response.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 07:54 PM
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First you're going to need to quit with the smiley faces and the retarded spelling(hawt). What are you, a fucking 13 year old girl? And second you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 07:49 PM
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So she's your oneitis and you yourself didn't set an example from the get go by being being a consistent gymgoer before and you're wondering why she's getting comfortable and gaining weight? AND you made her gain 40lbs in 6mo before thinking of doing something? While you also gained 10lbs?
/r/askTRP20/11/17 08:23 PM
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How much do you weigh/do you lift? I remember someone else asked this once and one of the top responses was to make sure you lift.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 02:29 PM
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Just be bigger than her. Be stronger, make sure she's thin, etc.. I'm 5'6 that has hots for tall thick women. Shit.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:54 AM
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Willing to kill a man and ruin your life over a woman who isn't being exclusive to you doesn't seem alpha to me.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 05:43 PM
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Just out of curiosity, what does "dressing like women" entail?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:15 AM
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How does someone new separate the good from the bad?
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:46 AM
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