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ineedhelp2847382/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:22 PM
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ineedhelp2847382/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:19 PM
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ineedhelp2847382/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:39 PM
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ineedhelp2847382/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:00 AM
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ineedhelp2847382/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:21 PM
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ineedhelp2847382/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:47 PM
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They all want to fuck her. I don’t care since she’s my ex
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:01 AM
-16

I’m a guy
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:01 PM
1

Vengeful how?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:19 PM
-8

No it’s my friends she’s doing this to and my coworkers
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:38 PM
-1

What do you mean stoop to their level?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:19 PM
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I just don’t see why people are against it. You like the girl enough to make her your girlfriend and you already have plates going
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:12 PM
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Side chick is back to fucking me. Girlfriend is dating someone else already.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:30 PM
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I sent her a dick pic with a winky face and she left me on read. I messaged her today and she still hasn’t responded
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:47 PM
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I must of fell for what she is doing because now I am mixed up and feeding into it.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 05:14 PM
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Can I show you a picture of them?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 05:02 PM
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I was cheating on my ex with this girl so I think that’s where the jealous came in of me not breaking up with my ex.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:31 PM
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Do you mind if I message you what these girls look like?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:38 PM
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I do follow advice but she keeps bringing it up. You can only ignore it for so long and I like her enough that I don’t want to drop her. This is the only issue. Other girls I don’t have the same interest in.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:35 PM
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I’m single now and I still like the girl I was cheating with, except I don’t know how to handle when she brings this up
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:31 PM
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What’s wrong with calling her shallow?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:30 PM
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I like the girl but I don’t know how to handle it
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:30 PM
1

Did I respond correctly by calling her shallow? Think this made it more in my favor of her trying to work to prove she’s better than my ex?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:28 PM
-2

Isn’t that just push/pull and creating interest? I’ve never dealt with a girl this direct.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:29 PM
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I did spend a few weeks not talking to her. I just don’t get where I went wrong. Most girls aren’t that direct and end things if you blow them off. Think I can get this one back?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:14 PM
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How do I have oneitis for my side chick if you guys said I rejected her
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:27 PM
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Am I a bad person for doing that to the side chick? Honestly I’d just be happy I was getting action. I wouldn’t of cared if my side chick had a boyfriend or now. I can see how I destroyed her pride and worth there.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 04:35 AM
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I kept the side chick blocked. I don’t get how I hurt her pride. I obviously thought she was good enough to fuck. She included in her message that she is scared of even average dicks so she held on to me when she felt “safe”. What ever the fuck that means. Now her whole fucking Facebook knows
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:53 AM
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I just told her I’m not talking about it because it’s high school drama from a fake account.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:32 AM
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What girl gets THAT pissed because she was a side chick. She was still fucking me what does she care? Then she goes and ruins my happiness.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:29 AM
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Fuck my side chick. She messaged all my girlfriends friends saying she is getting cheated on by some bum with a small dick and they’re bad people if they are okay with their friend getting cheated on. She messaged MY GIRLFRIENDS EX BOYFRIEND telling him similar shit and HER FATHER. I don’t know if I can get back from this.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:10 AM
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I denied it and my side chick had further proof. She even messaged her parents.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:06 AM
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Too late. I lied my ass off, but my girlfriend ended up believing my side chick. My side chicks crazy ass messaged all her friends saying how her friend is being cheated on by me and sent them proof too. She told them that she’s getting cheated on by a dude with a small dick. She even messaged her EX making fun of me to him. She ended up making fun of my girlfriend in their messages telling her she thought she was an ugly dyke and that’s probably why I chose her because no one would assume someo…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:06 AM
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How did I handle it like a total retard? I had no idea my fuckbuddy would get pissed. I only had one girlfriend, I told my side chick that she was just a body to me and went more nuts. I was annoyed I had to block.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:59 AM
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She’s acting really nice towards my nice. I’m trying to lie, but the girl keeps adding more and more proof. I don’t get why she didn’t just stay in her lane if she was just a fuck buddy anyways in her head. I love my GF
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:55 AM
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My side chick is struggling with her pride? My girlfriend is very insecure. She always got into bad relationships and they all cheat on her. I had issues with her ex boyfriend because he kept showing up at her house when I was there and fighting with us. She tried to talk to him months into our relationship. So now my side chick knows I love my girlfriend and value her more than the side chick?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:18 AM
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How’s it a power play to call her ugly? I do love my girlfriend and I think she’s jealous that she knows I love her and that she feels she is better. I don’t love my side chick
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:11 AM
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Move my girlfriend to plate? She already messaged my girlfriend. My girlfriend isn’t sure what to think right now. How is that rejection? She thinks I chose my gf?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:51 PM
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Bad move?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:42 PM
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I blocked her and she told my GF... I’ll do an update
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:41 PM
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How’s it a power play?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:19 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:37 PM
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She just told me she didn’t agree to be a side chick so I wrote “don’t care lol” and she’s flipping out. I don’t know how to calm this down
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:32 PM
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My girlfriend is kind of dumb so I’m not sure. I could probably talk my way out of it. Yes she is
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:29 PM
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Think it’s the fact I didn’t tell her first?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:28 PM
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How’s a fuckbuddy different than a side chick? I’d thought she’d be cool with it and wouldn’t care. She keeps bringing it up more and more. How do I fight this? She’s getting aggressive with me..
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:04 PM
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I don’t know what to do.. I feel like if I cut this girl out she will just ruin my relationship to spite me. I love my girlfriend Why is she okay with fuck buddy then?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:58 PM
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She didn’t want me to herself before this. She definitely is jealous I don’t get why. She is better looking than my GF, but I don’t have feelings for her. I just fuck her.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:51 PM
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What came of that? I feel like this girl is getting insulted
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:49 PM
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Wouldn’t she be more intimidated if she thought she was pretty? I don’t think she wants to be my girlfriend. I keep her in place as a fuckbuddy
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:46 PM
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Why do you think that? She hasn’t yet
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:44 PM
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Hints of pointing to what?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:11 PM
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My dick fucking hurt. It bled a little I could barely move
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:43 PM
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I added one
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:09 PM
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I think this is the best response I got. I can’t see her arguing that at all
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:31 AM
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Lol that’s not my kink. That never happened. She just added that in as part of her “joke”. She said that I must of liked fantasy role play because my ex looked and dressed like a guy then she said pretend scenarios we probably did. She even said with the amount I drink she’s surprised I didn’t mistake one of my roommates for my ex girlfriend. I was seeing this girl on the side while I had a girlfriend. She had no idea and thought my girlfriend was a “dyke best friend”. That’s kind of where every…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:22 AM
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I feel addicted to her. She does shit like this and causes so much drama and then gives me the best sex ever and is completely sweet and emotionally supportive. I feel addicted to the highs and lows. Normal relationships bore me in comparison. She doesn’t let it get so bad I dump her, but if she senses I’m getting fed up she acts beyond sweet to me. I see warning signs, but I want this girl in my life and I’m willing to risk it as pathetic as that sounds.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:16 AM
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This was my side chick and I’ve been wanting to date her and now we are together. It fixed my other issues I had with her
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:14 AM
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I was cheating with this girl when I was with my ex. She didn’t know. She’s pissed she shared a dick with someone that ugly and said if she were more attractive she wouldn’t of cared as much. I like her but I don’t know how so shut her up since I was in the wrong
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:46 PM
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I used the pressure flip and that’s when she brought my friends in. She announced in front of them that I liked to role play with my ex during sex of my ex being a little boy that I seduced. I have a feeling she is about to break up with me and has been feeling out my friends just to move on to one of them. They all seem into her. Our sex life has gone down and at times she’s tells me to go fuck a tranny since that’s what I seem to like. EDIT: she said most people date off looks and since I didn…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:41 PM
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How does her having two jobs have to do with anything? We make our schedules work.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:30 AM
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What does dread mean?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:24 PM
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How do I keep her on her toes?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:20 PM
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I know, I just really like her, she’s a good person and very attractive. She’s just very young and at that age. I don’t think she’s ready for anything serious, but I want to keep her so I’m just looking for ways to excite her and show her I’m not “boring”.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:16 PM
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No I’m completely serious. It may be that I’m dating so much younger. I wanted a hot, young girlfriend. Most women my age want stability and past that point in life. I guess I want to help her grow while having her still by my side.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:07 PM
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The side chick wants to date me now. I’m interested, but what do you mean by “if things don’t go her way, she will fuck your life up”?
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:34 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:26 AM
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My girlfriend gives me emotional support as well me as me supporting her. My side chick comes from a well off family and has a good job herself. She’s throwing money at my one friend too. She announced to my friend group that she dumped me for my friend because she found out what a loser I am. She gave him a $500 watch as well as treating him to meals with her telling people he deserves it for being “the best fuck of her life”. All my friends think she’s hilarious by her insults and agree with h…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:01 PM
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Any ideas on how to get my side chick to stop fucking with me? She seems very vengeful and pissed off. My friends do not like my girlfriend at all. They just kept to themselves until my side chick flipped out. Now they are getting involved since they want to keep seeing her. After this I want to not get into a relationship for awhile. I’m not a relationship type guy. I have a thing for crazy girls too and they’re not relationship material. The sad part is they’re the only ones that keep things e…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:43 PM
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My side girl literally said that if my girlfriend was attractive she would of never felt comfortable crossing that line. I think she’s extremely shallow. It’s hard to get her out of my life because my friends are obsessed with her. She has a very outgoing, fun personality when she wants to. She’s sleeping with my roommate and has very loud sex with him. He even told me he won’t drop her for me. Even though it’s very obvious she’s doing this to piss me off for hurting her ego. My girlfriend is ki…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:09 PM
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The side chick is a good looking girl. She said she’s use to having manly men that she can see getting 9s or 10s. Yeah that stood out to my friends too. They were like she must of lost respect for you or saw you as different in her head. Someone said that she probably would of been fine with being side chick if she thought the girl was at equal or greater value to her. Mind listing what went wrong anyways? I would like to avoid this in the future. I didn’t think my gf was that ugly, but she is m…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:52 PM
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By doing what?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:48 PM
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Is there any way to fix this?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:44 PM
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The side chick is now sleeping with my roommate. I don’t want to block her incase she comes back.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:03 AM
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Just venting
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:58 AM
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My side chick said that isn’t an a big of an accomplishment to play someone that belongs on a short bus. She also said she can fuck tons of burnt out homeless people to feel like the belle of the ball, but at the end of the day it’s just sad to onlookers. I don’t know how to get her to stop insulting me. She has low self esteem. Her last boyfriend was horrible to her who she was with for a long time.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:54 AM
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How do I have oneitites for the other girl?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:39 AM
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Wouldn’t you say my side chicks reaction was over the top? I could understand the first time, but not the second. I forgot to add when I did reach out to her again I broke up with my girlfriend before I messaged her. She caused drama again anyways.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:25 AM
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I like the excitement crazier girls can bring, I don’t know what they’re going to do next.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:43 AM
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Are you attracted to them too for that or did you just find out they were crazy?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:43 AM
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What’s wrong with that? I loved her.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:02 AM
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Her fuckbuddies?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:04 AM
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I think we learned a lot from each other at the end of the day and we pushed each other to bring out other personality traits. I’m glad she broke it off instead of cheating and stringing me along.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:03 AM
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This hit hard. I do feel like I’m not attractive and this is the only way to get woman. I feel if I try to be nice and show them I am unlike other men that they will eventually fall for me even though they are so genetically out of my league. I’m starting to think girls like this like being treated like trash. It turns them on or something. I don’t get it.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:05 AM
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I’m more of a party guy than her so I’m not white knighting her.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:40 AM
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She didn’t cheat she was with me everyday and night. Sometimes you gotta go with your gut
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:49 PM
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I don’t think she would just let me just fuck her. I have a feeling she would ignore more unless I had something to offer her. Exactly I don’t think the guy cares much about her and I think she wouldn’t go back to him after what he did to her.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:12 PM
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He is better looking than me. He had a bad job and no car though. An overall bum who was just a scummy fuckboy. I don’t think she would date him because I’m superior life wise, but she certainly still likes to talk about him.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:02 PM
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What does vet her mean? New to this sub. Exactly. Then I was already kind of attached and all the red flags slowly started popping up more and more until they were undeniably bad.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:56 PM
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I responded to a few people that I’m planning on breaking up with her. I was smitten with this girl, I had wool over my eyes. She mentioned this guy one too many times and talked about the drama too much. It felt like something was off. I just needed reassurance since I’m crazy about this girl. I don’t think she would go back to him. She was very hurt by how ugly his girlfriend was. I think it knocked him off the pedestal in her head. She told him to go fuck a tranny and leave her alone because …
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:54 PM
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I’m definitely breaking up with her after creating this thread. Isn’t side hoe essentially someone used for sex that’s not good enough to be main chick?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:04 AM
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That paragraph really hit home for me. That’s basically how I’ve been feeling the whole time. She sees me as reliable and like one of her girlfriends whereas this guy she felt on edge and passionate for. It doesn’t seem like she enjoys sex with me. Sometimes she complains I last too long. She closes her eyes during the whole act yet blames it on having bad experiences and force of habit. I did feel like I wanted to save her. She has such a bubbly happy personality yet so sweet when vulnerable. I…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:02 AM
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If this guy dated another girl and still saw her, was she the female version of “beta” to him? Yeah I’m starting to come to terms with this... I think I’m going to take a break from her.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:55 AM
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I think anything would be better than staying in this mess. Financially I spent so much on this girl. Thanks I appreciate it. Start of a new life.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:59 AM
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I’ve already decided on breaking up with her. These threads gave me the push. It’s so shitty because she didn’t even try to hide how much she was using me and just giving it up to some bum druggie. This will create more respect for me in her eyes and more self respect in the end. Definitely needed a kick in the balls.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:58 AM
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I’m retarded. I realize this and that’s why I made these threads for help or a push.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:55 AM
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Thanks for the advice and perspective. I think putting my foot done and dumping her will be a shock to her system. I do think she would be angry and need to cool off. I agree I over invested in her and it hurt my finances a lot. After creating these threads I’m going to dump her. I think it would at least make her respect me somewhat more and the distance will allow me to get my thoughts together. I’m definitely going to need to work more after how much I spent on her. I have a feeling she is go…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:55 AM
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I’m very shallow and I mostly go for the hottest girl I can find. Usually these girls are all of the same. I got attached to this one.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:50 AM
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After creating two threads I think I’m going to. I’m kind of a pussy so I’m going to do it over text, but this girl is clearly not into me and has demons to work on. I’m just a wallet to her. Maybe me taking a stance against her will create somewhat of respect for me in her eyes.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:45 AM
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She stopped going out to bars without me because she was trying to change. She said she was too hurt by her past and does not want to repeat that. She wants someone that cares for her and that she can give something to besides sex. It sounds like that’s what the other guy did to her, but he’s a piece of work himself. I don’t think she’d let me use her for casual sex. I could see her blocking me if I suggested it. All the guys she went for were very attractive guys with hard partying ways so you …
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:44 AM
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Im seriously not. I excused a lot because she was drinking and young. I made these posts just to see if my gut was right.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:40 AM
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Sometimes in bed she’ll be like he LOVED when I sucked his dick like this. I flipped out and she cried saying she blacked out. I didn’t know if I was being in sensitive, but now I’m going to put her in line. Especially if I’m paying for so much shit she should respect me.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:31 AM
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I was going through financial hardships and she suggested we take a break to work on ourselves. Telling me that she didn’t want me to feel the need to spend money on her when she wanted the best for me. When I tried to text her I missed her or to get lunch, she completely ignored me. I had to beg for her back after she claimed I disrespected her like that and wanted a free pass to fuck other girls behind her back. She was the one the suggested the break and I had to take her on a shit ton of dat…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:24 AM
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Someone else told me she sounds like a master manipulator towards me by saying all the right words and presenting herself well. She comes off as very sweet and shy. Months in I started discovering this about her. I don’t think she cheated, but she talks a lot. I saw the messages because she wanted me to build trust with her.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:20 AM
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This is a serious post. I posted on relationship advice too. I’m just crazy about this girl, but my gut is screaming at me.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:19 AM
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She’s been blocking him and I don’t think she would go back. She’s with me 24/7. It’s just her bringing it up when she gets drunk that bothers me.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:05 AM
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She constantly goes back and forth between girl good and party girl. Seems like they both don’t want to drop each other and end the connection. She is a little whacky, but I find it hott. Think she is just rejecting him for now so her “sugar daddy” doesn’t get mad and cut her off?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:03 AM
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How’s he disrespecting me? I let my girlfriend handle it and I trust her.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:01 AM
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I don’t think she’s seeing him. He texted her saying cheat with him he won’t tell and she showed me right away and said see what kind of guy he was and what he put me through.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:51 AM
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I posted in relationship advice and someone told me to post here. The girl looks hott as hell and is super slutty in bed. What was my mistake in making her my girlfriend? I didn’t know she was like this until later... this all came out months into dating. She came off as a very sweet and sensitive girl.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:47 AM
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