My girlfriend was sleeping with some guy consistently for two years. She told me he looked like a model and they shared the love of cocaine and drinking. All they had was sex. She ended it when she found out he had a girlfriend.

When I first met her I knew I had to have her. She had the body of a pornstar and knew how to dress. She looked very pretty without makeup. I take her on dates, pay her clothes and pocket books, buy her food and drinks every time we go out as well as cocaine.

The ex fuck buddy started to text her asking for her back and that he broke up with the girlfriend. She blocked him and seemed very upset. He threatened to send me sex tapes of the two of them and to message me all the sexual stuff they did together saying he will ruin her relationship like she did to his. His ex girlfriend ended up messaging her too asking for proof of being cheated on, but she just blocked her too.

My girlfriend would drive thirty minutes to sleep with this guy and he put in no effort at all. I pay for everything and I feel like she had tons of sex with him yet barely wants to sleep with me. She claims she is a different person and our relationship has meaning besides sex. Sometimes when she is drunk she brings this guy up and occasionally during sex of how bad to her he was in bed. I don’t get why she kept going back if he was so horrible yet does not want to sleep with him. I’m also concerned she might be seeing him because he kept asking her to just cheat with him and he wouldn’t tell me. She was honest and told me everything he said so I might be irrational.