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You're barely improving if you're drinking every day and yeah, drinking everyday is a pretty valid reason to drop you. The problem with alcoholics who keep drinking everyday is the same as big fat fucks acting like they arent miserable. Because its all they know. Its 'normal' to them. A great day for people who are always miserable is hell for a normal person, but you don't know it.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:40 AM
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Your expectations. People think "I'll lose weight and be more attractive. Everyone always says they get treated better and more attention. Doesn't it suck how shallow people are? But it's true everyone loves me now." Bullshit. Most people get mad if someone is showing positive progress when they aren't. Especially with your peers, people will talk shit for no reason. If these are strangers though, maybe you're walking around like you're hot shit. That will definitely get you some hate.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:57 PM
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I got mine some pig ears and a couple raw hides, made some extra eggs for her for breakfast but I tend to do that anyway.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:20 PM
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If you're talking about immediately making money sell plasma tbh. You arent going to learn a trade or skill and monetize it in 3 weeks. If there is a service you already have a skill for and could offer it immediately that's another thing. For example a friend of mine who normally runs a bar dusted off his screen printing equipment and is making shirts to sell for his bar and now other bars and even a couple local businesses are reaching out to him. He didnt learn that skill or obtain all of the…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:48 PM
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If your situation is completely broke and no car you can get a running car for 500-1k and spend the time fixing it up, which you could keep in a budget of the same amount. Plenty of places hiring you could earn that money in a week and spend the other two getting down. Being able to work on a car is mandatory in my opinion and you can make money with those skills even as a tree shade mechanic. Or sell the car fixed up for twice what you paid. Rinse and repeat. If you're just looking for a zero i…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:31 PM
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Like most things that are easier with alcohol, to do them without puts you at a disadvantage. Long term it's just a matter of playing catch up and getting used to not drinking. Someone that always drinks when they're stressed for example, is going to have a much more difficult time dealing with stress sober since they dont have the tools, they need to develope them. A short term solution is to act "as if", that doesnt mean go in for a kiss becuase buzzed you would have done it, it means mentally…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:47 PM
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Jordan Peterson is not a meme, if you're place is dirty your mind is dirty. I have a shed in my backyard I'm going to rebuild. My garage is in the middle of reorganization until I can get a system up for mounting the kayaks and bikes on the wall / ceiling. I see these faggots say shit like "who wants to give me their disney plus hulu login since I'm going to watch every movie" as if they're proud of it. I'm not watching fucking TV. My fucking gym is closed so I'm going to do it like the Amish fo…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:35 PM
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Dont get drunk on whiskey. It's a gentleman's drink, and too much can lead to fighting or whiskey dick. Vodka dick on the other hand. The booze numbs slightly and provides a lot if accessible energy. Whiskey dick you cant get it up, vodka dick you cant get it down. I will fuck like a rock star and eat ass like a starving african child on vodka, whiskey just makes me want to fight. Also, stop spending the night with bitches if you have a girlfriend. They all talk, they cant help it. You will not …
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:07 PM
1

So it's just one dude you're letting fuck with your head. Ignore it. I knew a dude like that when I was in 9th or 10th grade and I knew he was jealous of me, which sounds like bullshit a clueless mother would say, but it really us true. I remember one time we were in the hallway for a tornado drill or some shit and the guy had been getting on my nerves lately so I told this legit retard that the dude was talking about his sister. The retard tackles him with full retard strength, it was fucking h…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:04 AM
1

When you say "they" are you talking about a small group of people in the same clique or do you get the same shit from multiple people that dont even know one another? If it's just like 6 guys that hang together being shitty it doesnt mean anything. If you're getting the same bullshit like in different classrooms and from people outside of school it has nothing to do with your looks, your looks just happen to also be unfortunate and that's always an easier target.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:34 AM
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Example? Here's the issue with online forums in general. A) if someone is asking a question they already have their answer. They arent genuinely looking for help, they're looking for validation. B) this subreddit is no different than any other echo chamber. People giving answers are mainly projecting. I'll see top comments here all the time that dont even address the specific question, it sounds like the ranting of someone who's compensating because they're too short to get on the ride.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:57 PM
1

The biggest red flag is he even knows about it. Women are fucking ninja spies with this information, if shes putting it out like austin powers it's a misdirection. He wont end the relationship for the same reason a chump asking for help on legal advice wont report stolen identity from a relative. They're leaving out a big piece of information.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:00 AM
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Tell her to drop your shit off if you dont feel like picking it up. Keep in mind women keep mementos so you wont get everything back this route. They need an excuse to contact you in the future if needed. Ignore and move on.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:09 PM
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This could mean shes really into you and you made the right moves or it could mean she came in with that expectation because her boyfriend hasn't been doing it for her for a bit. It should be obvious, but if it isnt count on the latter being the truth.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:12 PM
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There are guides on it but the bottom line is if you post selfies you're going to look like a total loser unless you're brad Pitt. Yes girls can get away with posting only selfies because their focus is on how they look before the makeup gets fucked up and no one cares. Opposite for guys, I did great on online dating and guess what, no selfies. My pictures show me as fun, interesting, socially active. Get in as many situations as you can where someone's going to have a camera out. Maybe 7 out of…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:39 PM
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Not getting married is a good move but it's something you want to be clear about before things get serious with someone. I get guys will lead on to get a girl who wouldn't be down with just being a FWB, and I get guys will get with a single mother because they probably couldnt pull her otherwise (I.e. beta bucks). I'll buy a grill on clearance because it's the floor model but I'm not going to move in with a chick on a false premise. The chickens will come home to roost. You can determine if chil…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:57 PM
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Its quarter til 6 where I'm at, waiting for my dog to take a shit before I go to the gym. I try to do it every morning, I didnt make it monday morning because i had a show Saturday night and was up til 5am so my sleep pattern got a little fucked up and I didnt really feel like doing anything about it because sunday was busy. When stuff like that happens i just dont let it make me slack. I made myself go in the evening because I had time, that incentivized me to be careful about letting it happen…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:51 AM
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Relationships are entered upon because they are mutually beneficial. Ie if I lost my job and started eating pizza on the couch, I'd understand if a girl left me or stopped wanting to fuck. If I'm in a relationship with someone who suddenly doesnt want to get intimate assuming I'm holding up my end of the bargain the first thing I would do is determine why. Are you keeping the deal up? If so any change is on her assuming you're communicating effectively enough. There is no time frame so you're fr…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:22 AM
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People use the amoral thing as an excuse a lot around here. "Well the internetz says its ok." Which is a strange way to operate. The truth is probably that he needed exclusivity to lock down one girl and the rest were way below his normal batting average. I had a blast spinning plates and it took one of them a year to lock me down. You think I'm gonna cheat on that bitch? Not in a million years and it isnt like I dont get tempted.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:54 AM
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You didnt waste 100 dollars, you spent 100 dollars for a lesson that could potentially save someone like you quite a bit more in the near and far future. You dont value your time or money right now. Sell the tickets at a loss if there is a real opportunity, but dont try to get blood from stone.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:38 AM
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You're doing too much pursuing. It's an effective way to bridge a gap to get more plates but puts you in a position of leading people on or the opposite. Avoid those conversations by being specific in what you want to do. I'll make a top 10 list of fun things I've done this year with someone and while several of those involved my girlfriend, none of them required fucking to make the list.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:00 AM
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Drugs you're on fucking with your gear or your lifestyle is too unhealthy to attract which is probably the case. If you fuck a girl and done and the issue isn't 3 others on hold you're fucking up your body and mind big time.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:30 AM
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Creepy vibe
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:49 AM
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15 minutes is too long. I see dudes do it all the time. Conversation doesnt matter I can look across a room and tell she isnt digging the dude. I get hit on all the time when I go out with my guy friends while they're spending half the night trying to be pickup artists because I have a girlfriend so I'm not giving off any scent of desperation. Running joke in my band is a chick will approach me at some point and start flirting with me before she even knows I'm in the band. Its because I'm there …
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:30 PM
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25 is the famous cut off for a reason. They shit test right out of the gate, it's a projection of all their past relationship mistakes (i.e. why they are single). Deal with a few and it's easily manageable (or just stick with 20 year olds). The real crazy age is when they realize their looks are fading but menopause hasn't hit. This is where they get into mlm schemes, cults, divorce raping. If they have kids they start leaving the nest and the free time kicks in or they didnt have kids, and as t…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:45 PM
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Everyone resents their parents to a certain extent. I recall my dad bought a new car a day after I did. There it is, shit like that means you've been an adult for awhile. Most of my good decisions in life were due to a shitty dad. Still love my parents, some of us have shitty fathers.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:23 AM
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Two chicks at the club and you acting like a 50 year old lesbian
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:19 AM
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With certain indulgent purchases a good rule to follow is to wait a week and see if you still want it. Understandably people typically drop a grand in a name brand store for the bragging rights. so unless that's the reason it might be worth your time to shop around and get something better quality for half the price.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:29 AM
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The main reason you dont want to go on the trip is because shes going to be a bitch about it for weeks after you get back. If you want to stay in the relationship I'd suggest not giving her any reasons to not trust you. If you haven't given her a reason... well you know what they say. If you dont go on the trip youre gonna resent the shit out of her, even though it is your decision. Separate your relationship issues from what you want to do and solve them or start planning on exiting the relatio…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:54 PM
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Great sign. Keep it up champ 👌
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:02 AM
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If you have a local auction warehouse (I use bidfta.com) you can get stuff for literally pennies on the dollar easy. Even if you arent flipping shit, want to get a 300 dollar bike for 20 bucks or less? There ya go. It's a discontinued floor model but no one has to know. I put fancy new lights in my kitchen for 8 bucks and would have cost me over 100 if I went to home depot for the same damn thing.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:35 PM
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I know a dude who's wife wanted to bring another chick in and they do occasionally. Long story short he has a permanent shit eating grin on his face. They have a wonderful relationship. She wanted it and he obliged, she did the leg work. Which is really the only setup where this is going to work, have your cake and eat it too. If she drops an inch of "doing it for you" though watch the fuck out shes just priming the pump for bringing a dude in down the road after you already ate the cake.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:48 AM
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There is a sweet spot with booze where you're going to just operate better socially among other things. For me its "barely buzzed" which kicks into drink 2 and I just maintain that. It's just a matter of knowing your tolerance and pace. Btw booze might not be the only factor. If you're aces without it and dont miss it cool. Otherwise alternate water with the drinks, which everyone should do anyway. If you want to find your zone shoot pool, start sober and see where you start to get pretty good a…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:34 AM
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Fuck who you wanna fuck. Just dont start introducing miss piggy to your friends. Whether it helps you or not is mostly on you. If a girl knows you fucked someone l it baseline lets her know your dick work. but the main thing is all women talk and they're gonna know all the details. If she tells them you have a tiny dick and fuck like the crypt keeper, kiss any chances good bye. If she walks in with a limp and tells them she was late because she could have sworn you fucked her into last Tuesday n…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:34 AM
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You're the one that leveraged it. Fat men operate like women keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:59 AM
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Everyone needs purpose and taking care of a chick with two jobs means you are going way to far for her and not for yourself. It's not about her, keep yourself on your own toes. Throwing money at a chick is not an investment.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:36 PM
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She likes older dudes and the paycheck is a perk but not the reason. You're a boring dude. You're putting pussy on a pedestal. I've dated younger chicks and the fact I moonlight as a musician is more than enough to keep them on their toes. It's a fucking layup. Dont fall into pussy frame.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:15 PM
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If she has any interest she will text you first. In the future though bringing up a second date on the first date isnt a good idea unless it's very specific and not your initial suggestion. Makes you look needy and boring. As a hail Mary you can wait a day, jerk off, make a specific plan and see how she reacts. Worse case scenario you know not to beat that dead horse anymore. And by "reacts" I mean anything but a yes or reasonably specific response means no.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:35 PM
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Because man pussy is too stinky. Also lol at guys who are all negative about women. Fragile ego is going to give you all the shit that I dont care about even if I had to deal with it.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:14 PM
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I lift more in my early 30s than I did in my 20s and if pictures are an indicator I certainly have more muscle mass, so of course you can. I also am more disciplined, have better form and more knowledge which helps. Not to a say there arent 5000 twenty year olds out there that know more than I do but they're still going to say the same thing in 10 years. The problem with age is recovery is longer and a lot of guys can easily fall into the trap of being set in their ways. I see old dudes at the g…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:00 PM
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Just some lazy communication skills. If you're busy tell her specifically when you will be free and see if you can make plans for that time. Personally I'm not going to a festival with a plate, too busy and festivals are for friends and family. If shes always flaking soft next. Sometime a chick will "end" a "relationship" by doing things like that which is kinda shitty but that's reality.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:36 PM
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Do you watch a lot of porn? Awhile back I helped a couple guys that are your classic nice guy / orbiters with their online dating profiles. Forget the shitshow their actual profile was this was back when you had a unique user name. Both cases I popped their username into Google just to be sure and they both spent a lot of time commenting on porn. Personally I dont watch porn so the idea of actually commenting on it is fucking insane. I could be wrong but everytime I see a dude who doesnt ever se…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:19 PM
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I've totally fucked up a first date from lack of sleep, lesson learned. We still made out and got in my bed on the first date in both cases. They don't want to put in energy because you didnt make the move on a first date or they weren't attracted to you enough to make a move. Keep dating and treat first dates as no expectations but having a good time. If you're putting energy behind getting physical just hoping then nothing will happen.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:58 PM
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I would mark the bingo card "picked up girl a grocery store" and move on. The contact from an ex does typically mean shes looking at entering a new relationship and didnt get proper closure. The hamster needs food to keep the wheel spinning. In my experience fucking an ex that's "back in town" is more for checking off the box of non-consecutive fucks because they also use that as a form of closure (ie gave him a taste let's see how much he will chase). So keep that in mind. As for the hair dryer…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:22 PM
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Translation is you fucked a hot chick at this place and wanted to recreate the moment and it didnt work out, of course, otherwise you wouldn't be asking. Big mistake I see guys make is working on bad data. You're doing it, you wont accept this answe as you have decided it isnt your problem. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:41 PM
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Dude nose vs bloodhound chick nose. She know why you didnt fuck her a month or a week ago. Fuck her when you arent feeling it but shes out of the shower 👌
/r/askTRP31/03/19 09:10 PM
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If she hangs out with people that do some burger sugar occasionally, shes gonna do it when the opportunity arises. This doesnt mean shes gonna be a coke head or start smoking meth. It does mean she just isnt going to tell you about it anymore unless she wanted to see what you're gonna do about it, since you already put those cards on the table. The best way to be around people you want to be around is to lead by example and live life the way you want to live it. You arent to change someone by te…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:15 PM
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Jesus was pretty OG. Dont be like Joseph though. If you're with a chick and never banged her and she gets pregnant and three dudes show up with gifts you need to bounce.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:08 PM
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Personal experience, data collection. If I could time travel and talk to 25 year old me and tell him to stop being a drunk, get quality sleep and wake up at 5 am every day to hit the gym before work he'd look at me like I was a fucking psycho. But since I know from personal experience what it feels like when I'm in the zone vs. a functional alcoholic piece of garbage the answer is obvious where I want to be.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:04 PM
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Technology is a big one. I work in IT and I'd wager a guess even the guys in that field that are married probably arent getting laid too much. Lots of grown men into cartoons and video games and pokemon shit. Basically made it so you dont have to leave the house or develope physically. Which is fine with me since when I am single I can sling dick all over town because even though I'm not Chad thundercock I'm a few notches above all the soft nu-males jerking off to spiderman porn and taking pride…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:40 PM
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That might come off as slut shaming and insecure. I just a&a and tell them women that arent promiscuous should be more like her.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:53 PM
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I believe he wants to know if there is a statute of limitations on proclaiming "no homo".
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:28 AM
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People talk about hobbies as a money suck. And they all have that potential, but real ones are mainly a time suck especially in the beginning. Most of my close friends tie into my hobbies. Playing music. Hitting the lake or river kayaking and maybe fishing. Find people that do shit you want to do and get involved. If you dont know where to find them you will soon enough if it is something you really want to do and get started on your own.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:23 AM
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Unless you exist in some statistical anomaly you are completely unaware of I'll read between the lines and say you dated maybe 2 or 3 girls that dont eat meat and with numbers so low you're drawing poor conclusions from bad data and just looking for it. You need to meet more people. One chick that eats meat in 5 years? I'll find 3 chicks that eat dick in one day get out there and stop worrying about someone's diet unless it makes them too fat to fuck.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:34 PM
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Exs initiate contact for the following reasons (outside of legal and financial obligations) 1) closure. Spoiler they are all closure. Even if you get together and hook up be it 2 months or 2 years they needed to close that dick. 2) they are dating a new guy and arent sure if they're moving up or made the right call. Closure again. It's not like they're going to realize they messed up and try to come back. The hamster needs food occasionally, even if it's just a snack. 3) regardless of who ended …
/r/askTRP10/03/19 04:41 PM
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And to answer OPs question people that are well experiences and know better to do these things arent immune to trying to show off or keep up with their peers. Egos a sonofabitch.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:19 PM
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I've dates a couple girls like that in the past. I'll cut to the chase, it takes 2 to tango. Girls that always date abusive guys have a fucked up view on how showing love works. Here's how it works when you date one of these girls. She will fall into your frame, try to play ball and eventually decide the life of not getting into first fights over bullshit isnt for her. It will either end with her monkey branching to someone else or her trying to start shit. Both if which I've experienced and jus…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:14 PM
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I think the word love isnt well defined as it's a personal emotion. How many men have heard the line "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". Now theres too loves or it's like "I love pizza and I love you". This question seems baity. But I dont shit on anyone's emotions. I'm not religious but if you love God more power to you. If I'm fucking 4 different girls I'm not going to tell the one that was in the zone that week was better because another chick sprayed period blood all over my sheets a…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:06 AM
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First date from an online stranger, anything you say after the date is set can and will be used against you. Shes throwing you a softball shit test. She didnt ask a question, she made a statement so you dont even need to respond. The next shit test after that one might be a suggestion for a change of venue the day of. This is where you passed the shit test and enter into comfort test, reassure her the plan is good as is.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:16 AM
1

Black pill is getting too high on the white man's left handed cigarette. Do the yellow pill you fucking peanut
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:02 AM
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Like I said, be specific. That's it. You're being bitchy because Women soft you up. Dont chill out and dont settle.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:54 AM
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I think you will be fine. I've had enough encounters where the scenario is single mothers, dad not around and its just fucked. Be specific in life. Keep your goals up and just be as specific as you can in order to achieve them.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:50 AM
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Dating apps are 80% your pictures 5% profile and 15% messages. Meaning you arent going to talk someone int finding you attractive but you will talk them out of it. When I'm single on the dating apps I gotta say my success went up but batting average went down over the years. You need to move on and keep in mind even with bumble, which I've never used but understand women have to initiate conversation... the growing acceptance of online dating has turned it into an attention farm like social medi…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:57 AM
2

Shitting where you eat, open relationship, oneitis. Theres probably more than three strikes in your post but I dont take long enough shits to really get into it. When I'm single and spinning plates I can keep 2 to 5 going, I can pull off a hat trick and the second chick is a first date on a Sunday afternoon because that's the only time I'm free. Couldnt fucking pull that off if I told all those girls I had a wife or girlfriend "but shes cool with it". Maybe your super charming and I'm a little o…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:09 AM
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Theres a running joke in my band where at some point early in the night at a gig some drunk chick will start coming onto me at the bar. I'll look up and one of them will be giving me a shit eating grin, it's hilarious. Dealing with a drunk girl at a bar is basically going through the experience of an uninterested woman or gay dude. You dont want to reject a drunk girl because that's going to make her want you more. What you do is make her decide she doesnt like you. I can read em well enough to …
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:20 PM
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It's a small world I've dated people that ended up knowing or being friends with an ex of mine and it's never a big deal. Sometimes we laugh about it, sometimes they give me a little shit about my choices. Not a big deal. Which makes me think there is more to this story then you're telling. Is there a time period of overlap where you were fucking the ex or speaking with her on romantic terms while hooking up with the new girl. In a time frame where you at least gave the impression you weren't se…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:59 PM
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Go do the fucking dishes before you lose that fucking stupid job again jesus
/r/askTRP01/03/19 05:30 AM
2

Most mass media is for the lowest common denominator. That's why it's a fat dumb loser with a hot wife. Give the fat faggots some hope. Larry David drops some red pills in a funny and outlandish enough way to get it out.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:15 AM
2

You cant put the genie back in the bottle. If you want to hang with them do it, if not tell her you already have plans but maybe next time. Put the ball back in her court and keep it bouncing.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:58 AM
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That's on you for visiting the roommate. Status is big with women so they wont make a big deal about some dick on the sly but once you show your face things will naturally escalate as people are social and status is important. Hanging out with a chicks friends when you're already fucking her is like cleaning the bathroom at McDonald's after you ate the stupid sandwich most of the time. But like I said, that's on you.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:33 AM
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You cant just start lying about who you are by changing up texting. My girlfriend gave me shit for months about being a "bad texter" and still does ocassionally. It's just the way I am. I text outside of logistics replying but she knows and other women have known texting isnt a great way to have a conversation with me. Here's what you do, whatever validation getting text replies from chicks gives you needs to be replaced with something that actually adds value to you. I dont value text replies f…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:04 PM
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Oh you must be talking about me. Any push back out of jealousy is gonna make you look insecure. And really dude we need team players in this group, that's how we win, dont you want to be a team player? Volunteer for a karate demonstration and stash a couple of safety pins in your sleeve. Give him a good jab and and when he goes "ah what the shit man!" Tell him you learned how to channel your chi from Tibetan monk and start referring to him as "grasshopper".
/r/askTRP27/02/19 01:43 AM
1

When a girl is into you all they do is open doors. They bend over backwards in ways that arent common to most peoples experience. This is why you see a pua guy waste 15 minutes on one girl just to waste 20 minutes on 20 more. Shes got plans. Shes got skeletons. She knows what's up. And that's the best case scenario. I always say going through someone's phone is some thick smoke where there is fire regardless of anything anyone says or does in that setting.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:49 AM
1

No fat chicks, tit request has been revoked.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:30 AM
2

Charm is a side effect of having all your ducks in a row so to speak. You add to an interaction because you arent trying to get anything out of it. Creepy people pull a chainsaw out and charming people have a chainsaw available if its needed, but if not it doesnt matter because they arent providing a tool rental service. They just happen to have a lot of tools, most likely from experience, but it isnt how they butter their bread. It's an allegory of course dont purchase a chainsaw unless you rea…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:11 AM
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I know a few girls like that at least on an aquantance level. They tend to have a good relationship with their father, they dress and act conservatively, might be religious. Way better than those girls that go clubbing and drink all the time right? Think again. I'll give you a couple examples. Girl A ive known for years. She has a career but still lives at home. Super religious. In her 30s but still waiting for God to hook her up with the one. We get along fine but I can tell girls like this, an…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:59 PM
1

You're attracting dudes. That's not hard to do, 200 pound women do essentially operate like dudes. You want to attract women. The big problem is you think your race is a deal killer. Which it is if you have nothing else going for you. Here's the smoke where there is fire problem you have. You offered nothing, you need to fill a market, create a market. You're boring, crutch on being brown all ya want but boring and brown is just not going to work.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:31 PM
1

The most common way plates drop is they just disappear for seemingly no reason. Theres always a reason and it's probably not you. Maybe they entered a monogamous relationship with someone else they were seeing. Maybe they were already in a relationship you didn't know about and they got whatever they needed out of their system. Even if it is you. Who cares. All I need to know when a relationship is over is that it's over. If I know it was something I did I'll work to change it and avoid it but t…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:09 PM
2

When I was spinning plates I had my share of interactions, some of which you could even call basic shit tests where I just went full "homie dont play that" and either just stopped communicating with them or asked them politely to leave. If I'm gaming 3 or 4 other girls who dont do that shit I dont even have to play the game. It's pretty liberating and damn I've gotten looks like it was the first time in their life someone didnt feed the bullshit. And they will blow up your phone and leave notes …
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:09 PM
2

I didnt really have an anger phase since I found this stuff after learning a lot of it "the hard way". If anything it took me out of any anger I had. I wouldn't care about a womans a opinion outside of whether or not they would fuck me. It's like caring about a trust fund childs point of view on wealth. Any kind of attention, especially lashing out, is going to feed their ego. Indifference is the only thing that bugs them. I've found nothing ruffles the feathers of women and "beta" guys more tha…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 06:52 PM
4

No one texts someone into finding them attractive. Dont try to keep girls interested, make them find you interesting.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:17 AM
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long story short
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:13 AM
4

The dynamic doesnt really matter, no girl is gonna admit to fucking around unless yall have some weird fetish because that's one of her ace cards. I'd say one out of four of my plates at any given time were actively in a relationship or "on a break" while we were fucking and they didnt say shit and I didnt care. If you care enough, lock one down. Or dont care and stop snooping.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:21 PM
6

You dumped her by text on valetines day with no explanation lol jesus. One step at a time. I'd roll my dice on assume she isnt actually pregnant with your child for the time being. Not much you can do. If she actually is pregnant, and I'd be shocked, then just dont assume it's yours until you can do a paternity test. See ya on Maury bro.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:26 PM
5

My advice to any guy dating is to have the mindset of "I could be doing something better" or "I'll be doing something better later regardless". Keep in mind you're both strangers on a first date so if you act as if this is the biggest thing of the week it can scare girls off. This also keeps you in the right zone for a good first date. Normal muppets do stupid shit like coffee and dinner, boring ass shit just hoping for a hug. Do something fun you would like to do with someone else. You're too b…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:56 PM
9

It's a buffet not a cult
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:29 AM
5

Shes doing damage control because he has tapes and is trying to contact her and maybe a little off his rocker, they both are. She wanted you to hear it all from her first. You're bank rolling a coke whore and not even getting the proper benifits.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:56 AM
1

If you're set on the trip to Europe absolutely go for it otherwise I can guarantee you will regret it. The main thing is staying out of debt. Dont charge up a credit card otherwise you will regret it when it comes time to finance a house or a car. Get in the habit of saving. Doesnt even need to be a lot just develop the habit early and it will be ingrained when you're older. Start looking into retirement savings too. Probably won't be on your radar for years but compound interest is your friend …
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:47 AM
1

Sounds like you fell into a habit / routine and she showed a divience to this as maybe an early signal that she might be getting bored, or I'm over thinking things. Two big mistakes in relationships is to fall into predictable patterns and not communicating properly (especially when it comes to sex). I've been through both and I dont think your plan is gonna get her super wet for you. I wouldn't do anything that smells like you're trying to play games with her because she will likely smell it. I…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:59 PM
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You probably approached her and talked to her with the mindset of her being the school hoe. I bet some people even put this in your head and put you up to it and you acted like a spaz. If you think someone is insane and they approach you, dont react like you think they are insane. That's how you get stabbed. If you someone approaches you and you think they're gonna mug you, dont act like it. That's how you get mugged. The opposite is true. If you approache someone thinking they are a hoe, chump,…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:00 PM
33

Translation is you're blaming your problems on other people but have absolutely no self reflection. You are a classic mgtow incel 👌
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:50 AM
2

Dont give attention to anyone you dont consider attractive, in your mind is at least a "5". I'm not saying dont fuck em if you want to but that's it, and really you want to get out if that zone eventually. ​ Always game other chicks unless you're expressing commitment to someone, not seeking, expressing.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:47 PM
11

You fucked a girl you dont find attractive because that was all you can get and now that she planted the seed all she needed from you was to want her again. Assuming she thought you were out of her league before and now you're just wanting the puss. The validation you give / gave her is 10x the pipe you laid.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:15 PM
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It means you're trying to hard which is the number one mistake guys make who are operating based on internet advice over personal experience. Take the real life feedback over anything and adjust. Maybe you're not funny. Considering you didnt back yourself up with one example that's probably the case.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:07 PM
9

I dated this one chick for a few months about a year ago who was legit crazy. Like she had abusive exs but it was definitely a "takes two to tango" scenario. She was also probably an alcoholic. Anyway. We're chilling out and drinking and hanging out at my place a couple weeks in and it turns out one of my exs was her roommate for awhile. Now all of the old "crazy roommate stories' I heard are coming together and we are both like "holy shit balls!". And shes all like "I cant believe she was your …
/r/askTRP15/02/19 10:08 PM
2

You're throwing the cards on the table too fast. Girls like mysterious men. There is no confidence in splitting aces. This is a space where the well has been poisoned by pua stuff so I'll be clear, the harder you have to make it look like you try the worse it makes you look.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:04 AM
3

Yeah but what if it's one of those spiny doors? do I lodge it or try to make it fly like a roulette wheel to assert dominance?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 05:32 AM
2

He should schedule a forth date the same time as one of those dates and go full fred flintstone. Keeps "running to the bathroom" until he eventually forgets to change out of the bowling shoes or some shit. Queue laugh track.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:24 PM
7

I switched to vaping and eventually tapered off dropping nicotine levels down to zero. ​ If you're falling asleep at work without it you wanna figure that out first. Sleep is crucial to how your entire day is going to go and you arent going to have much luck thriving in any aspect if you're dragging ass.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:03 PM
1

Everyone has flaws but not every flaw is a red flag. My girlfriend has those stupid stretched earrings, some guys might consider that a red flag, some guys wouldn't really care that much (me), some guys might like it. ​ Typically if a girl is only friends with guys because they "dont get along with women" or they need to be orbited constantly I consider that a red flag and wouldn't enter a relationship with them and I certainly wouldn't waste time getting into a relationship with one hoping I co…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:37 PM
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Women are always trying to get a feel for where they stand. That's why it's important to keep in mind they dont want just any attention. If an uggo dude approaches a hot chick with confidence this will make her feel worse about herself. If the skinny fat orbiter who likes all her selfies likes the next one she doesn't really give a shit about it. This is why preselection works too. If girls find out a girl that is attractive likes a guy they will be much more likely to also be into that guy beca…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:21 PM
3

Telling someone not to be friends with guys is only going to make you look insecure. Dont ltr someone if you're uncomfortable with some aspect of them. Dont count on entering a relationship with the intention of changing someone into what you would like them to be, it's not gonna work out. How do you even know who shes texting? If you dont trust someone you shouldn't stay in that relationship anyway. Actually I dont even see why you're still communicating with her, you ended it so move on.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:14 PM
2

"Has anyone helped fund a skin reduction surgery only for the bitch to start fucking the male nurse in the hospital because he was 'there for her'?" 😂
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:50 AM
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Not enough info. My assumption is you dont think Ahmed could pull her with out the gifts. If that's the case this wont end well for him unless he can keep it up. 10 k is too much for most people but unless hes going into debt or driving a shit car it might be less to him than you and me. Is it daddies money? Does he make 6 figures? ​ You can buy anything in this world including love. If hes making poor decisions you arent going to change his mind but dont spend so much time worrying about it and…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:44 AM
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Because you not only got dominated by a chick but one I presume the Persian considered less attractive then herself. Preselection is like this. If a lot of people go to a steak house I'm going to assume the steak is good and I'll go based on that. The clientele is going to sway that significantly though. Are all the people going missing their teeth and live in double wides or is the parking lot filled with luxury cars?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:17 PM
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That's not really a deal breaker unless you went for a kiss and she pulled away. People will say stuff like "if she didnt kiss you or invite herself over she doesnt think you're attractive enough" which is pretty much bullshit. You can be attractive enough and be so autistic they nope out. Keep getting out there and gauge when a girl is into you and when it's a good opportunity to go for it. This is why you want to escalate physically and why first dates should be some sort of activity where you…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:07 PM
1

Casino chips. Superman will get kicked off his horse into a bed and his chick ain't going anywhere because he has the social and economic status that will still land him where he wants. ​ Another Chris said if you lose your job you're going to lose your woman, not immediately but the clock has started. He was pay checking to pay checking a bitch and if you arent the rock you arent anything. Its fucked up but that's nature.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:58 PM
1

Assume she doesnt exist, do you conduct yourself differently? What if you're both into cooking but shes better overall but you bring something else to the table. ​ I'll take a chick making more money any day of the week but that wont affect my flow either way.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:53 PM
2

Stop going to bars for 90 days unless it is a social obligation . Make some personal goals to cut down on the drinking in that time frame. No ones serving a drunk with no purpose pussy on a platter.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:55 AM
1

I can gloat but wont. I understand this is the internet and you're seeking validation so I will ask again. How many trips to the bar just on the off chance a girl picks you up?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:24 AM
0

So how many trips to the bar before you decide it doesnt work? I got some bad news for all you guys going out to the bar alone thinking someone will take a liking to you just expecting 😂
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:20 AM
3

You wont know it even happened. Take branch swinging to fast food level if you have to. Girls will be down for it and any energy spent otherwise is a zero at best.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:45 AM
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Before my current ltr the running gag with my band mates was some drunk chick would flirt with me at the bar before a show. There are strings attached with one night stands, same with plates. You're going to bat a little under your league most of the time. Quantity over quality. One night stands arent hard once you understand that math. Same with spinning plates. It's not just a physical attraction thing I'm not out there banging fatties under cover of night. Sometimes the bitch is crazy or she …
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:36 PM
1

Think of it like you're playing tennis, get a feel for the other player and keep the ball back on their side of the court. Dont slam it (setting a specific date with no flow) and dont tell them where to hit it (asking for a number ffs). ​ Getting a number isnt shit, especially if you ask for it. The phone beeps and buzzes all the same regardless. No hard rules on it, just keep the ball goin. Pursue but as if you have 10 other options.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:48 AM
1

So you're setting a specific date like "let's meet here at this time" and they go quiet? ​ I'm presuming this means you're giving your phone number out to someone you haven't met. Stop that. Unless they just have to hear your voice first. ​ Online dating the profile has to make you interesting and attractive enough to want to meet. If you're at the point where you're exchanging numbers before meeting you done fucked up.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:27 AM
1

If an ex initiates a text it is for one of two reasons (outside of housecleaning). Closure or validation. Basically shes fucking a dude and hasn't completely convinced herself on any metric it is a solid step up. ​ You know how guys talk about plating ltrs? That's the response to exs turning exs into orbiters. Exs should not be on your radar, especially if you only fucked her for 2 months. That's barely a plate unless you asked her to be your girlfriend on the second date like a bitch.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:13 AM
5

Both are cheating. I'm assuming you either misread it, this is a strawman or you're trying to hamster into a reason to stray outside of a relationship you agreed to out of desperation.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:05 AM
2

Her underlying reasoning isnt particularly important. Was it a shit test? Possibly. Did she lose interest in him and this was how she was going to start the process of dropping him? We all know that's more likely than her directly telling him shes not interested. ​ Either way he handled it correctly. I've had a few similar interactions with women where even if it's a shit test there is no winning move. The look on their face when I pull an OP typically indicates their hidden agenda. They look li…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 07:25 PM
4

By social or economic imbalance I mean I dont think you're being left out because you look like a sewer rat. Social media is sort of a crabs in a bucket losing game so whatever shes pushing on it you arent taking it to the next level for her.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:07 PM
9

Yeah asking her to delete pictures with an ex is definitely a no go. As far as you not being in one that's kinda weird but you probably shouldn't give a shit. I'm guessing there is some sort of social or economic imbalance in the relationship you might need to bridge. Be me, I don't give a shit about an ig account of someone you're seeing, it's probably boring af.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:44 PM
2

It's never too late to improve anything. Ultimately you should be improving yourself in every aspect daily. Dont compare yourself to people delt a better hand. Compare yourself to what you were 3 months ago, 6 months ago 1 year ago.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:38 PM
1

Then get rid of c-f are you that cut throat and stupid at the same time? Or is f important but it's not. Fuck off with you mental gymnastics at that point. ​ Is this what happens when we stop keeping score?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:15 AM
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No one is forced out over a b average in any field of study. You're posting here ffs. Stop making excuses to why you cant cut it in class and act like that has anything to do with slinging dick. ​ In the history of man not getting an A will never be the reason you cant get laid but it is a convenient excuse.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:38 AM
2

The cool thing about dating in the under 25 crowd is less bullshit because they haven't fine tuned their button pressing skills so shit tests are a layup. I'm assuming shes around your age so she is still working on that, how to most effectively weed out the losers. I think shes noticing a lack of confidence in you, little lies are a red flag. Shit tests will start coming so as long as you work on yourself and build up confidence it wont be a problem.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 02:56 AM
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Cant really tell without a specific example. The thing about "nice guys" is it is sort of like a crazy person. I've known people that will say they are crazy and maybe they are a little but its the ones that actually think the devil is talking to them you gotta watch out for. Those are the ones that drown babies. The nice guys I know think orbiting and showering with gifts and attention is a good way to get laid even though it never worked for them. So if anything you are self aware and young en…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 02:33 AM
1

Wide eyes, smile like they are surprised. Women are typically pretty coy and the look might go unnoticed because in most cases you're getting it from someone you arent interested in. Same look, different face. When I was single I knew a date was going to go well when i got it. Really it can be any kind of expression that doesnt look forced but isn't negative.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:51 AM
1

"The look" is the obvious one, its involuntary. If it's a date physical escalation like putting an arm around them and going from there. If you're talking about a social thing like a party and you are clueless like you picked up no signal one way or another I wouldn't recommend anything bold physically. ​ You might have to engage in comversation. I've been in that position and what always worked for me is since I have a good sense of humor I'll say something that will get some laughs. If they re…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:31 AM
2

Wish I had your problem. I would say pick up a part time job. Gym of course. You need hobbies. Want to play guitar? Want to take bag pipe lessons? Learn wood working? Get a sewing machine and make fabulous costumes. Have a hobby that doesnt involve a tv, something where you're learning a skill. Teach yourself to program. Take a yoga class or kick boxing and make friends with all the cougars and maybe they will set ya up with their sexy niece. Read. Basically turn off the TV more often than you c…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:39 AM
3

Its market rate. You can't keep hotter girls around but can keep someone you arent as into around. Bridge the gap. People are gonna tell you to change your standards but that wont happen. The real question is how do you keep the ones around you really want and how long it will take to make it happen.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:04 AM
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Part of spinning plates is a lot of them will be in relationships they arent advertising. It's kinda shitty, I can take the moral high ground and say I wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot stick knowing that info but the reality is you care about it more than she does. This is a no go. Dont worry about why they did it or what you mean to them and vice versa, if you dont like it move on. If you like it ok weirdo, if you keep it up because that's all you can get it is absolutely time to move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:14 AM
2

The orbiter is sort of trapped in their bubble, it is sad. I file them under fat and unhappy and move on. There are things I do that make me attractive, there are things about me that other people find attractive that aren't even on my radar. I'm not insisting someone like me, I dont even like myself but I will get up at 5 and go to the gym just so I know I'm not one of them.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:27 PM
1

Online dating isnt cold approach of course since I can put up pictures of me on a stage or on a boat or at a party. Women can get away with all selfies, men cant. I dont kiss and tell but I slept with 8 women when i was single for a little under a year. More kisses and dates, and some weirdos. It's not a numbers game for me though. I'll think more about the dates I fucked up then the ones that went really well.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:06 PM
1

Personally I think dating apps are great. I met a lot of women I otherwise would not have using them. That being said, plenty of women do use them for attention with no intention of ever meeting someone. The other side of the coin is "why does she even need this?". A lot if times the answer is shes a crazy bitch or shes in a relationship. When I was single I'd say half my plates were "secretly" in a relationship. Women are pretty fucking devious in that regard. ​ You want real life social game t…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:29 PM
2

It mainly depends on the persons own baseline morality. You can steal something and not get caught but you're still a thief. I dont pay for things because it makes me feel good for not being a thief but if I stole something I would feel bad. If I'm in a relationship and feel the need to cheat badly enough it would make me question what aspect of the relationship I'm so insecure about I need to remain in it. That said people get off on stealing and cheating too so it just depends where you're at.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:11 AM
1

I would frame it like this. You presumably do not have much of a social life if you didnt have anyone to spend new years with since your girlfriend had plans. Or maybe there was shit you could do with friends but would rather go out by yourself and see how you would do flirting with other women. ​ Either way there is an issue and the answer is ultimately a) your girlfriend should absolutely not be your only friend and you better figure that out OR b) you would rather game other girls than spend …
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:52 AM
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It was an observation, not a personal attack. But the fact you responded with that is very telling.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:42 PM
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Why would you want what you had with what became a failed relationship? It's like when guys pine over their first car and how great it was. The car is absolutely a piece of shit compared to what they drive now. They dont really miss the car, they miss the memories which unfortunately take a rose color tint. It's up to you to create newer memories that are better.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:05 PM
1

Running seems to be the defacto new activity for guys once they get into their 40s. I see it all the time. Unfortunately it seems only one in 10 actually lose any weight. I'd image the science behind knee replacements will be space age by the time I get to that point.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:40 PM
2

I wouldn't use burr as an excuse, dude plays drums and flys helicopters. Do you know how someone gets good at drums? The same as any other hobby that requires skill, work on shit you arent able to do eventually you'll be able to do it then you move on to something else you cant do. All these small accomplishments add up and come together and eventually you can play like john bonham. If you find a hobby you're good at right away and there isnt need to get better at it, guess what. That's not a fu…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:33 PM
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I've never sent or taken a dick pic. My gear is very adequate, I've just never had or understood the desire to do it. Occasionally a girl I'm seeing will mention this and urge me to send them one. Now enters my personal rule when it comes to relationship and romantic "advice". Any advice from a woman should fall into one of two categories a) no shit, I already knew that or b) do the opposite. I consider someone asking for a dick pic to fall into category b. Yeah you fucked up.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:09 PM
5

Yeah I've had friends date girls like that. Basically they just need a lot of attention. Personally I consider these girls off limits. The main thing though is I will try to get a measurement of how well they can wing for me. Sometimes they are cool and make good wing chicks but more often they will cock block your ass. Figure out which column shes in if you are going to clubs with her.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:38 PM
13

Shes not interested in you. Who's she going to be more interested in? The person making specific plans with her or the clown sending her emojis and trying to get her to make a move?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:26 PM
10

If a chick is into you telling them you have a girlfriend isnt going to matter. In most cases it will make them more into you (i.e pre-selection). I've never been approached my a woman that was the least bit deterred or phased by the fact I'm in a relationship. The most common response is a straight up "I dont care" or " she doesnt need to know". They literally do not give a shit. ​ The trick is to act like a dork. Tell them you have fallen in love with them but mom needs you to get home so she …
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:21 PM
9

There is no such thing as "good game". The only people that benefit from pua stuff are social retards. Game is not being an autist. There is no "good game". ​ You can have zero game and women will select you. You can be an autistic dweeb and scare them off but there is no talking someone into finding you attractive.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:52 PM
1

First time I looked at trp a while back a lot of the posts had very cultish traits. You're typical "here's some sensible good ways to view the world aannnnnd now that you're listening here is a little something batshit crazy." Its inevitable with any kind of "community" that a certain point you're going to get people that are crazy, stupid, or , the fact people even view it as a community is where its gonna get fucking weird.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 03:13 AM
2

It's not really a sex drive issue. My current girlfriend is always down for fucking and that's how most of my sexual partners have been. In the past if I was with someone who seemed to lose interest it wasnt some hormonal issue so much as they lost attraction to me. ​ Basic sexual market difference. Women are much more selective in partners than men and much less likely to be open about sexual exploits. just because a chick doesnt want to fuck you doesnt mean they dont wanna fuck.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 02:04 AM
1

What's the dish?
/r/askTRP16/12/18 08:12 PM
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Lol. When I was spinning plates I found out at one point or another probably 1 out of every 3 or 4 were in a relationship while we were fucking. Wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot stick if I had that information. My point is, dont limit your pool and dont act like going for a specific kind of pussy is going to make you more successful. If anything its gonna make you look like a fucking weirdo, which you are so put a pin in it spaz.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:52 PM
8

Eh I never really have issues with women in the work place and generally get along with everyone but there is occasionally going to be a woman with a giant chip on her shoulder who is a complete raging bitch. If these women were dudes they would just be written off as having small man syndrome or some form of insecurity and wouldn't be taken seriously. That being said, a common theme with women I have dated that work in office environments in a female dominated field is the sheer amount of backs…
/r/askTRP14/12/18 08:35 PM
4

The "tall, dark and handsome" equivalent for women is "youth, beauty and femininity". ​ Older women on the market will throw out femininity by being overly direct and assertive. Its gross but they're basically doing a hail Mary, and it works well enough. Creepy for the guys they are actually after. ​ Aim for peers if youre socially active enough but in my experience under 24 is like zero headache . Older than that biology is driving them off a steep cliff.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:16 AM
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Stay a few steps in front of it. Dont turn one shit test into an entire chess game. Lose a pawn, keep going because you have some better moves. Shit I'll fail shit tests on purpose because it isnt even on my radar.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:01 AM
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Common advice is the accuser is the guilty party. Someone asking why you're pissing on their cornflakes because they dont know where you got the milk all of the sudden. ​ People like habit and consistancy while liking change and new frontiers. If you're being accused it could mean you're doing things right, you have the option. If you're doing things right dread is a side effect.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:45 AM
1

"The look" is very specific. You wont find shit like that in the side bar. That's like emergency oneitis on her side. The look. ​ Its piercing. Like a stray cat. And then you see it again and again. Oh no it is a
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:21 AM
2

Pretty much ya gotta do it at some point. It's kind of shitty to find out most of the girls are already in relationships or have some sort of baggage. After age 25 you're either at the whim of damaged goods or social connections if you're actually looking for relationship. Always two sides to a coin though.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:46 AM
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Stone cold stove austin looked 10x better when he let go of his hair. Hogan already showed us what would happen if you try to hold on. Of course not everyone is an athlete but if OP isnt that's mostly on him.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:33 PM
4

I'm not a crier but have had a couple good ones. It's something I consider extremely personal. I also consider taking a shit personal and would do that on a stage 10 times before crying in front of someone. It's not even a macho thing, it's no ones business but mine.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:28 PM
1

Sounds like an excuse and it sounds like the only reason to make this post was to continue to reassure yourself that you arent responsible for the fork. If not what exactly are you looking for?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:16 AM
9

I like how people talk about getting ripped is something they're gonna go out and do like its shopping for a new jacket. Take responsibility for your weight and drop the pounds. Being fat is the number 1 solvable problem facing people having trouble in the dating world. Plumbers can lay pipe (pun intended) especially once you get established in your career and make enough to get your own place. In the mean time stop making excuses for being fat because that absolutely will be your biggest hindra…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:53 AM
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Put on your oxygen mask before assisting other passengers. I prioritize my health, career, financial stability, hobbies and my own happiness above making other people happy and guess what, everyone around me is more happy. This is not selfish at all. If someone is your priority you arent theres. Unless you're doing shit like getting drunk and skipping someone's birthday party because it makes you more "happy" there is no reason to feel guilty.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:54 PM
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What would be more hilarious though. Him getting arrested and a record and become a social pariah to everyone there and everyone who knows about it? OR he picks some little dude he thinks is an easy target and little dude jujitsus his ass to the ground and makes him cry?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:31 AM
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Actually its maturity that makes someone in their 30s more attractive. More stable, more confident in who they are and what they're about. I wont lie being more financially together and driving a nicer car than when I was 23 doesnt hurt one bit either. People dont stop having parties after college dude. They just stop getting really drunk on shitty beer.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:25 AM
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Texting back the same day made the next text look overly strategic. Not trying to make a specific plan, two times. Small talk with basically a stranger. You came off as being too interested and at the same time trying to get her to initiate something or at least throw you a bone. No text back means she lost interest that's all, it happens to the best of us. If you dont know a chick very well never give off the impression she is too important to you.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:23 AM
1

Dont worry about it. You didnt get a mortgage or a baby with her so just pop out and dont look back 👌
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:12 PM
3

I've had exs contact me out of the blue plenty of times. They want a form of closure. Normally it's because they're settling on a new dude and need to check their own value. You already texted her that you love and miss her so shes good to go. Like I'd say dont even fuck the bitch if she shows up but you handed it to her. Happy holidays 🦃
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:06 PM
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It sounds like you got a chip on your shoulder. If you think women stop wanting sex after their early 20s I have bad news for you, they just didnt want it from you. You got shot down by an old lady didnt you haha. For real though make more friends, social connections. People here talk about cold approach like it's their bread and butter and they're doing it wrong. Start doing shit you want to do and meet people that way, one friend makes all of their friends an acquaintance at a certain point. S…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:07 AM
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I'm early 30s. I remember when Facebook was first opened up to everyone and got big. A week wouldn't go by without hearing people sneaking around on their SOs. This was flip phone era, no real online dating let alone it being socially acceptable. Basically from 0-100 everyone can get a hold of anyone they ever worked with or went to school with or church or who ever they fell out of contact with and now they can. Seems funny now but it was pretty crazy for a little while. Online dating was in a …
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:36 AM
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"None of her other friends say that" It's a shit test of course. If her friend said "he has a micro penis" or "we ended on bad terms, he was a bitch about it." She wouldn't even take the time to message you. You fail the test if you start prying about who the friend is. That could tell her you might have a history to being shady or have dirty secrets. She might even be lying about being friends with someone you dated. Pre selection is pretty ironclad. I once dated a chick who found out I was in …
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:08 AM
2

The long term answer is that addicts can spot one another from across the room and you can stay in that particular zone indefinitely, but it probably wont end well. Find a new addiction and scene. How fast the boat turns depends on how big it is and how hard you paddle it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:14 PM
2

Oh no, the whole town might find out you sling good dick what a disaster 😒 If you have a moral objection to sleeping with someone in a relationship you can ask her if she is seeing someone or check social media. As far as only wanting sex, unless you're leading her on absolutely nothing wrong with fucking a chick you have no interest in entering a relationship with I used to do it all the time. Dont lead them on, no hurt feelings.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:23 PM
1

Imo the only worthwhile way to get with girls if you're below a 7 is through social and community connections. Find stuff you want to do and find people that do it and get busy. You dont want to be shy and ugly. I know some uggo dudes that met some decent chicks and they're all charming mofos that go rock climbing and shit. Still ugly as sin but made up for it. You do not want to be shy, start finding social activities and get to practice on being sociable.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:17 PM
1

When I was 16-17 the girls that were the most interested it me were the ones I showed zero interest in. Teasing her then bringing a group of friends to the roast put her on the spot hard. No one wants to be the center of attention around a bunch of virtual strangers. Especially girls, unless they're shakin it for some money. But hey, live and learn. Also, technically not a one on one date if a bunch of people show up so you're still at ZE-RO
/r/askTRP10/11/18 04:13 PM
3

I think you're referring to "going on a date". You don't actually have to go into one with specific expectations of where it would lead, I'd argue you absolutely shouldn't. The main focus should be having a good time with whatever you two plan to do together. Dont go on a fucking first date with someone you secretly consider wife material, you're setting made up expectations.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:20 AM
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I dont really read the main sub too often. Oh wow another post that says "lift weights" and nothing else with 7000 upvotes or look at this daily mail article about divorce rape. But when I looked at it a lot awhile back there were definitely some strange cats. A lot of people that find redpill probably got fucked over really hard at one point and are more emotionally locked down for sure. Dont sweat it, remember it's a buffet not a cult.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:31 PM
1

This one dude I kinda know who's a friend of a friend was this fucking autistic spaz who crashed and burned hard trying to talk up chicks at as bar when we would go out. I dont really hang with him too often but last time I saw him he was totally chill like he pulled a 180. He got really into improv, started taking classes and performing and hanging in that scene and that's what he said helped him out a ton. Worth a try if you can fit it in your schedule and live around something like that.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:21 PM
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I've experienced maybe two instances that I know of where a co worker not liking me for some reason. I'm generally well liked but occasionally someone might be jealous and have it out for me. Nothing ever comes of this, they stop whatever they're doing before long and you wanna know why? Because I genuinely and absolutely do not give a shit about them. I only care about what the guy who gives me raises and signs my paycheck thinks of me. And they like me because I'm good at what I do and get shi…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:44 PM
1

Making friends post college or high school is basically finding people that are into the same things you are. I wouldn't consider everyone I've spent time with playing music a friend but if we also like doing other things like hitting the lake or shooting pool and we enjoy one another's company a friendship will develop. At the same time there are people involved with friend groups who are "there" but I wouldn't consider them friends, just friendly acquaintances. The main thing you want to do is…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:14 AM
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Just becuae a girl fucks you once doesnt make her a plate and it sure as shit doesnt mean she is going to break contact even though she has zero plans of fucking you again. Take a hint and move on.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:55 PM
0

Opening with a strawman argument is a good way to get no one to listen to your point.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:11 PM
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You should care about what other people think. If I didnt care what other people thought I'd be under a bridge right now drinking vodka out of a water bottle and eating a fucking cheeseburger. What your family, friends and professional peers think about you is extremely important. Your problem isnt that you cant be yourself, it's that you haven't accepted your actual social retardation. Take an improv class, start making conversation with people. The more you do it the better you will get.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:02 PM
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It more common as I get older. If a chick is doing some stupid shit I've seen it before ill end it just because I dont feel like playing the game even though I know the winning moves. A lot of times the reaction is disbelief, I'd imagine it's the look tom cruise would give you if you told him to shut the fuck up because no one has ever told him to shut the fuck up. In terms of picking them up as plates down the road they always show up again. Text or an email a few months or even a couple years …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:04 PM
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The problem with cooking dinner AND breakfast when a chick comes over is it can come off as trying too hard and make you look predictable / boring. If you're going to cook for a chick make sure you cook with them, not for them. Get them chopping up some green onion or scrambling the eggs. And dont do it outside of your normal habit. If you like cooking and a chick is coming over at 9 dont cook dinner at 9 if you normally eat at 630 and dont cook breakfast on a Wednesday if you normally dont eat …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:36 PM
6

This is the druggie version of "I've been lifting weights for 3 weeks bro" post.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:24 PM
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Did another chick leave panties on the floor and you left them on purpose or did you actually tell her you're playing the field actively? Both are bozo moves. Pre selection doesnt need to be self advertised. Also, massive failure on the shit test. She was probably ready to get fucked all the way to Pluto and you stopped to talk, total mood killer. Next time put on some music and finger her butthole.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:29 PM
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Get a sense of when a chick is into you. I'm not going to corner someone, which is precisely what you're doing when you try to game someone at work at a desk. but the chicks I've met in that scenario were either quick to tell me the ring was fake to keep the creepers down or told me when/ where they were going to be when they were off.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 03:29 PM
1

Yeah smiling at the gym sounds creepy, try asking for a spot instead. Any friend I've made post college was from a shared interest or hobby. Two+ hobbies in common means we hang out regularly enough to be friends eventually. Then it sort of spiders out by mixing friend groups. So if I go kayaking with someone I play music with and they invite a couple friends that also kayak and those people invite me to a cookout and I meet someone there that likes shooting pool so maybe a group of us make plan…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:23 PM
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Coffee dates are lame and leave it wide open for the chick to call an audible. Plenty of free / cheap things to do, at least were I live, that are actually fun and have solid opportunites to escalate. It's hard to put an arm around someone sitting across the table with a boring cup of coffee.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:56 PM
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I'm probably not out of touch thinking "asking to join a group chat" will universally be not cool. The trick is get invited to it and then call them a nerd. Develop some social currancy, not debt.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 11:34 PM
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Dont drink and drive. I've seen that fuck up a lot of peoples lives. Start saving and investing money now if you haven't. Dont fuck fat chicks unless you're into it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:21 PM
2

Sounds like a good opportunity to make friends and get to know your coworkers and network. Why do you want to bring a stranger to it? Bitch might get drunk and puke all over the ice sculpture or start sucking dicks in the photo booth. hows that going to look when review time comes around?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:30 PM
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To me this seems like a normal relationship Normal as in common, not normal as in healthy. Dont try to explain things to women, actions speak louder than words. Women use feelings not logic. Are you going to enjoy a shitty steak because the cook explained to you why you should like it? If shes hung up on something you did that means you haven't given her a reason to get over it. You're trying to sell her a shit steak. You're value needs to increase in her eyes to the point where you sneaking aro…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:37 AM
2

Pretty sure creepy adults lure children with drugs, not the other way around. It's a catch 22 for you now 😂
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:02 AM
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If a girl is really interested I find they'll contact me before I plan on contacting them or they will bring up wanting to hang out again before the date is over. Making out or even fucking isnt a confirmation she is interesting in hanging out again. Leaving a voice message the same night could easily make you come off as a stage 5 clinger, not saying you fucked it up but you didnt do yourself any favors.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:54 PM
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With the information you gave it's almost certainly not a good idea. Are you talking about trying to hang out with them in the lunch room with no pretext? Now you look like a lost dog. Are you joining an activity you have no interest in? They'll smell that shit a mile away and laugh when the softball hits you in the fucking head cause you're not in the game and were just staring at Cindy's little ass. Do shit you're interested in and hang with people that are interested in the same things. You m…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:53 AM
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Being fat is a display to the world you cant take care of yourself effectively. 99% of the fat dudes Ive know lock down the first bitch that would agree to a second date. He might not buy her new cars but that slob ain't goin no where and its baby time. The 1% that isnt that have a natural charisma I dont think you could come close to picking up and learning into adulthood. They'd probably slay 10x more if they weren't fat but would Chris Farley be funny if he was skinny? Stop being a fat fuck i…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 10:43 PM
2

Come to America and make waffles. Does everyone there have to get a 4 year degree or are there apprenticeships? I've known people with history degrees that wipe ass and drop outs with a certification in an in demand trade make fucking bank. You gotta work, find your passion or develop a strong tolerance to alcohol.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:57 PM
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My main plate pretty much never shit tests me, we have sex all the time, she cooks and cleans, shes really into me. I've been in several relationships where the girl met the same standard and they end if I get bored with it or they decide they really want to get married or have kids and understand I'm not into that. I dont use red pill shit on these girls, I dont need tricks they like what I am. If I lost my job or my motivation and got fat thats another story. Most people marry and settle in th…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:37 PM
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Loud music, lots of people, lots of booze. Yeah but it wasnt really the goal of the night from what I experienced. One thing that's always helped me in life is "I'm not here to get my dick sucked". Shit will happen but damn I see guys all the time out and parties or bars and clubs and you know why they're there and it never works out for them. The drummer fucks the bitch because hes there to play drums and nothing drunk bitches like to do more is talk to the guy packing up, not the guy creeping …
/r/askTRP24/08/18 10:49 PM
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Look at these people being all judgemental, were here to help. Here's what you do. Tell her you were on your period at the time and demonstrate you're good now by pulling a clean tampon out of your vagina. Before meeting up eat a chocolate bar. You think she wants to know why you dumped her but she doesn't care regardless of what she tells you. This is why eating the candy bar is very important, dont let her see you cry explaining how you are too emotional to know what you want.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:12 AM
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Be careful what you wish for. The kind of setup OP is talking about 95% of the time the chick is so far below your league you wouldn't want to be caught by a blind person.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:37 AM
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I went camping over the weekend. Nothing went wrong, it was a great time. Fished off a kayak, cooked good food. Would it have gone that well for me 10 years ago? Not a cold chance in hell. I did ok at 20, better at 25 and even better at 30. I'm better at everything I do because I have been doing in longer. Dating is a layup for me at this point because all those mistakes I made the last ten years dialed me in. Also I make more money and drive a better car and play in a better band. Most dudes le…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:21 PM
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Social ties, social media. Get in enough pictures and before you know it you're out and someone refers to you as a boyfriend and now you gotta deal with it. They leave shit at your place. Shampoo in the shower, panties in the bedroom. Once a chick starts leaving shit at your place they are staking the ground to reel in your little fishy ass. Nip it in the bud. Hand her all of her shit when she leaves. If you get in a selfie she better be ok with the fact you're setting up dates and not meeting h…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:28 PM
4

Sleep is extremely import, especially if you have eating problems. If you wake up hating the alarm and barely get your ass dragged into work you're going to be 10x more likely to eat shitty food and drink shitty drinks. Wake up early and rested to lay the foundation for how your day will go. Yeah stop jerking off too.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:17 PM
2

Shes your ex for a reason bro. I've made the mistake of fucking an ex who contacted me because she was in town. I'm single, shes single 👌. Found out later she definitely was not single, very married. Stuff like that can go south fast.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:37 PM
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With rare exception I wont exchange numbers with someone I haven't met in person. Too much communication before meeting is bad, that's why the conversation goes cold. You can try to revive it or move on and stop ducking around. Strike while the iron is hot. I'll suggest meeting up between message 2 and 5 most of the time. Much to the detriment of the pua people around here women are either into you or not and a good way to find out is to ask them out. Anything other then a yes or "I cant then. H…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:44 PM
2

As a moonlighting musician I appreciate the people that want to get out there 👍
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:51 AM
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Context is everything. Is she fucking in your bed or you have a key to her place and bringing pizza? That's cuckadoodledooo. If this is the mattress behind the check cashing auto loan place in the strip mall first bump ne next time.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:49 AM
2

I get vodka dick, the energy from the booze plus the numbing makes me fuck like a rock star on meth. If I get so drunk I dont fuck the chick wasnt even hot enough for beer goggles. I would say cut down on the booze? Cut out porn and sugar completely. Lift heavy weights and eat red meat 👌
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:28 AM
5

I'm not going to outright call someone a loser for fucking a married woman. Sometimes we all have dry spells and opportunity knocks. But dude, you have ascended loserism. The only way you can make this right is come clean and announce you're a faggot and want to deep throat the mister.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 08:13 PM
1

A good way to avoid the talk is to keep enough distance. I've spent too much time with plates and more than once had someone introduce me as her boyfriend and I gotta go "hold up!" Shit, can't let a plate spin itself otherwise they start trying to leave shampoo in your shower.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:45 PM
4

No one "took" anything from you. Do you think someone here is going to have a more accurate perspective on the event you experienced?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:06 AM
2

If you're attractive enough. Humblebrag I've met a lot of decent fwbs on tinder and even okc but I'd say 4 out of 5 conversations I've had with dudes about online dating say it's a bullshit waste of time.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:18 PM
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Damn. I've never had that happen but if a chick said that to me I'd straight up tell her to get her shit and leave. I wouldn't spend a moment of my time with someone that disrespectful. That's not even a shit test, that's just a crazy bitch that's done fucking you.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:01 AM
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I play in a band so I'm in the bars most weekend but I'll rarely spend more than 10 bucks on drinks. Outside of that I've gotten into kayaking with a couple groups of friends so its pretty easy to kill a Sunday afternoon on the water a little MJ. The occasional long weekend trip that could be camping at music festival or hunting / fishing or driving out to somewhere like Louisville or Gatlinburg or Chicago and doing touristy shit. Try to plan different things outside of your normal routine / com…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:10 AM
1

I dont think a good majority of women are going to outright disqualify a guy unless he's shorter than her. The only place where being under say 5' 10" is going to start to be a disadvantage is online dating just because they have so many options. This "it's over if you're under 6 feet tall" meme is stupid because I wouldn't bet money on any woman to accurately measure someone's height just by looking at them. I'm 6' tall and I'll admit it definitely gives me a strong advantage over if I was 6 in…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:42 AM
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I've dropped plates on purpose because the time and energy needed to maintain something wasnt worth it. And sometimes you gotta drop shitty people out of your life to get them to actually look in the mirror and make a change. I dont think anyone should hang around with someone they argue with and distrust to a point they snoop their purse. Lifes too short for that shit.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 05:32 PM
1

The art museum doesnt have to be her thing. The best thing you can do on a first date is something new to her that you're really into. If you'r bringing a girl home on a first date have a degree of physical escalation at the museum or whatever activity where turning on the TV is just gonna be background noise. Keep at it dude we all have bad first dates.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:54 AM
2

High school is more of a bubble so you're "stuck" with who you hang out with and what you do. College opens it up with a lot of new faces and opportunites but you have to act on it because if a girl gives you the look walkin down the hall you may never see them again. There might be a couple big parties in highschool but in college there are multiple ones weekly. If you choose to participate you must be active because the bubble that highschool is no longer exists.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:21 AM
1

I'm presuming this was a first date? Where did you go and what was the plan?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 02:55 AM
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Having a kid with a chick in her 30s is like buying a car with 28% interest. Get a bike and a bus pass if that's the best you can do and sort your shit out. They didnt stop making 22 year olds and they didnt stop offering 0%, you just dont qualify. As for waiting around, if someone has a pattern of being late adjust accordingly. There are chicks i know that think I'm late because im not getting into the shower until they're at the door half the time cause they're always late. I'm not waiting, I'…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:57 PM
2

What's the problem with them meeting? Maybe they hit it off and you get a threesome going. Dont push for it, wait til they got a few drinks in them and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:00 PM
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Hack squat machines I'm familiar with require you to lay upright at an angle and with no weight you'd be using a small fraction of your body weight. There certainly isnt a bar on any weight machine if were using normal terminology. Is this a case of loaded internet question so uninformed you cant possibly spin it?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:14 AM
3

I think the meme is women use astrology to justify their shitty behavior. The newer version is that Myers briggs personialty thing. That being said, I've never had the astrology thing work against me that I know of. It's only happened a couple couple times but ive had a girl use the "oh you're a scorpio 😍😍😍" as an excuse to come to my place so I wont complain about it.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:17 AM
2

Loaded question. I've dated several women where the topic never came up. The real question is why are they always asking you? Maybe you're primarily dating women looking to settle down, maybe you drive a nice car and have a nice house and they want to know how deep the pockets go. One girl that did ask me specifically where I worked explained it was because she wanted to know if she knew any of my coworkers. That can mean more than one thing... The girls that dont ask enjoy my company enough and…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:52 AM
1

She has a boyfriend and stopped answering messages? The branch swing has been completed. What kind of plates yall getting that actually have this conversation lol
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:07 AM
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It's easier for some people but the thing to keep in mind with social media is people are posturing. I could make a post about how I fucked three girls in one day and stop there and have people clapping but that shit doesnt happen over night and I didn't have any control over 99.9% of the circumstances. But that .1% is really fucking important.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:30 PM
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Fucking random chicks to get over a relationship doesnt work because presumably in a relationship you're putting in a lot of effort in many other aspects and when it's over you're like "Damn I did all that and get no return". I'd suggest taking a break from chicks for awhile and start working on return on yourself. It's sort of a build it and they will come thing, there will still be 20 year olds until the day you die.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:42 PM
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No it's not normal, you're a pariah. Men are friendlier because they are enjoying the shit show. The feedback you're getting should make you feel horrified.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:50 PM
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If my LTR makes plans to do something without me I'll just get so fucking upset Are you her pet dog? Real questions though 1) do you lift? Meditation is fine I guess but you need to stress yourself physically to release mental stress. Bonus over time you look better and have more confidence so you're less likely to freak when someone does something without you. 2) do you have hobbies? Video games, meditation and TV are not hobbies. I'm talking about something that requires real skill development…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:03 AM
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If he actually broke down let it play out. Elaborate more if you want a useful answer.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:20 AM
2

That's like saying "can I really like a new puppy thats dead?". If you like hanging with a chick you dont to fuck we already have a word for that: friend.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:15 PM
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My plates know the situation and if they decide they no longer want to spend time with me that's perfectly fine. It happens, spinning plates is like being a basketball coach. Yeah you want to always be on the look out for new prospects but it's not because your team is aging out, they might find another deal that suits them better. They arent your children and they sure as shit arent your property. Women like good company and to fuck that's all there is to it, be that and they'll be happy, they …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:09 PM
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When a woman ends a relationship and you didnt see it coming they started checking out a few months before the ax dropped. They decide it's over and 1-3 months is about how long it takes for them to mentally build a case. Most guys act like bitches and that just really seals it for them. Not saying thats how it went down in your case but most of the time they are over it by the time you get the news. Why do you feel shitty? Because it's normal to feel shitty. The guys that really have it bad are…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:49 PM
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Coulda got your dick sucked you fag smh
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:28 PM
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I'm 33 one girl I'm seeing is 20. No one is going to call you a creep for slinging dick, they are impressed by it. I compare it to the old thing where people still make a point about getting shit for interracial relationships as if they're in 1930s georgia. You know when I've gotten weird looks walking around with a black girl in public? It's not because I'm white and shes black. It's because she looked a little too hot to be hanging out with me. If you notice any hate besides jelly you need to …
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:15 PM
3

I think lack of animal protein is frying your brain.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:52 AM
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I've dated some crazy fucking chicks and their is no correlation between attractiveness and how crazy someone is. Have the mindset of having a good time when you go out, not "I'm gonna bag me one of these psycho space aliens". They can smell that like a bloodhound and they will run.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 09:36 PM
3

Long term goals should be as specific as possible. Take the social one, it would sound strange to have a goal of making 15 new friends in 6 months but doing so makes you apply whatever method you have more often and keeps you on task to improve . Maybe you enjoy kayaking and now when you're out on the water you'll have that specific goal in mind to strike up more conversations to see if other people out there have other mutual interests. If its it's open ended you're like the person who says "I …
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:09 AM
1

Stop asking strangers out to dinner on the off chance they really wanted to go to that restaurant and will pay their half and suck your dick for the pleasure. As a matter of fact stop going out to eat for first or 20th date. Its fucking lame and it makes you look lame. It's a terrible first date idea. I'm sure theres plenty of free shit to do in Hawaii besides watching you eat a bowl of spaghetti that's way more interesting. As far as getting cat fished, it's almost a right of passage these days…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:58 PM
12

It sounds like OP went 20 years without getting laid, banged a drunk fat chick and thinks hes turning into doctor love.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:06 PM
3

The main thing with shit tests like that is to not get defensive. Shes seeing if you have confidence in yourself and are comfortable in your skin. So saying, "yeah right look at my tat" or "well you look like a nun" would be defensive and a failure. Saying something like "wanna see my knot tying skills" with a wink will put her on the spot. who knows she might say yes. Basically dont be a bitch, assume shes into you, but if not who cares.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:56 PM
9

I've been on the other side of that and really it's just a way to show we are cool / aren't on bad terms. It makes the room less awkward. No sinister plot to sneak off or anything, she isnt trying to be disrespectful. Even if that's not the case saying something about it, or worse arguing about it is not gonna help you at all obviously. It doesnt seem natural to get out of the mindset where shit like that bothers you but once you figure out how, life will be easier.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:19 AM
5

Nothing is going to happen to you, you have to make it happen. Everything is your fault so start turning it around. It's not like production stopped on chicks, 20 year olds will still be 20 until the meteor hits. If you give up make sure you've done everything else first, the more uncomfortable it is, the better it will be for you. No easy way to have fulfilling life.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:43 AM
16

You cant unring the bell of being so insecure you have to check a chick's phone. Now literally every dude has that over you when she's "out with the girls".
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:52 PM
1

Make sure your music is on bluetooth so some idiot doesnt bogart the music with their shit. Have plenty of toilet paper. Its astounding how fast 15 people at a party will go through it. Plenty of booze, put small valuables away. The most important thing is have a good spread of snacks. Someone always brings their annoying fat friend, the trick is to set a little trap. If shes stuffing her face with tortilla chips and queso she wont annoy you as much. Basically preventative measures are your frie…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:42 PM
14

Tongue punching sounds gay but its actually a power move. When a chick is blowing you throw her on top of you and start eating her out (69 for the old folks) then you lick her asshole. This preps things for anal and tells her "you gots a clean butt miss". You dont go this route with crazy chicks that have a smelly pussy, canary in the coal mine so to speak. Those girls you just facefuck and watch shoot your spud from their nose onto your stomach. Eating ass is basically a monkey way of telling a…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:31 AM
129

You're in a relationship that isnt mutually beneficial. I.e. in the event it ends shes worse off than when it started, you are too and dont realize it. Lead by example. A healthy lifestyle is 100% habit and if you're romantically involved with someone that isn't then figure out what part of that is on you and fix that first. Put on your oxygen mask before assisting other passengers. If you look better and feel better and live better she will come around, if not, guess what 28 ain't young you can…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:12 AM
1

They aren't going to put their friendship above some random guy. Assuming they are down with this and aren't put off or view it as platonic what's your end game? A threesome? I guess it depends on how successful you've been with that in the past. For me personally I get chick interested in the idea and she does the leg work. A lot of chicks aren't going to be down for it but if these two are I think the best way to pull it off is to only focus on one of the girls and take it easy. Spinning plate…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:03 PM
7

You gotta have a signature. For example my gang all ride on unicycles. They call us "the wheel deals". We also wear leather jackets in June. Its intimidating. Do yourself a favor and grow mustaches or have everyone wear rompers and have the town name YOU.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:08 PM
9

Sounds like you wont need anything here other than go get hobbies and dont get married. The meme on this sub is the abnormally high percentage of extremely wealthy that talk about it like the 40 year old virgin talking about holding a boob.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:38 PM
2

Looks dont matter once you have a certain amount of money and "looking young" is never good outside of not showing signs of skin damage from sun, drinking, smoking. Dont count your chickens before they hatch. I'd question the business sense of anyone who thinks they're about to be a millionaire working from their phone a few hours a week. Sounds like someone is feeding you a scam unfortunately.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:05 PM
2

It's about as random as dick size in terms of size. The biggest external factor that i will vouche for is fat chicks can get pretty fucking loose feeling which I attribute to everything stretching out to accommodate the real estate. Guys have a version of this too, ask a fat man last time he seen his dick and it's not just cause his belly is in the way, that pooch will swallow the dick alive. Makes you feel even worse for those fat fuck couples if ya think about it. In terms of smell it's mostly…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:04 PM
3

Women almost always keep trophies at the end of a relationship or even a fling. Typically I write it off. If a chick keeps something maybe its sentimental or they keep it as something to "cash in" so to speak. It's a chip they can use as a reason to contact you at any time. Sometimes they'll try to keep your shit because fuck you. You can probably figure out why she freaked based on that. A good way to live life is dont loan stuff or leave stuff somewhere if you want to see it again, it's always…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:24 AM
35

That is the child's decision you shit lord
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:26 AM
1

You cant unring the bell but you can stop digging. She knows how easy she can get to you now. The honeymoon phase is over better start acting like it.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:20 AM
1

She asked if you wanted to hang out for a date you planned when she already had plans? It seems like you're doing a little too much tagging along. The dynamic in any romantic relationship should be you have at least as much shit going as she does. If you're always available and shes calling the shots too much of your life is wrapped up in her and hence the hissy fitting when you feel like second fiddle. She needs to be second fiddle you need more shit goin on than her otherwise shes eventually g…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 02:28 AM
3

Women dont hard next unless you're so unusually aggressive they have nothing in their arsenal to deal with it. I'm not suggesting being the kind of person where that happens to you since we aren't cavemen. She soft nexted you and will just see what kind of shit she can get away with by fuckin with your head. She won, this isnt the first time shes done this and you aren't the only guy she is doing this with currently if I was betting on it. If you fucked a chick and she isnt super into you, or at…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 09:23 PM
1

I could guess but really I have a feeling if I saw it I could tell ya what's up right away. My guess is you're coming off as more deceptive than mysterious.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:37 AM
3

I do pretty well on the online dating scene. I attribute this to good pictures. I'm above average in the looks dept but more importantly I do shit so I have pictures that make me look interesting. I'm a musician so I have pictures on stage and doing outdoorsy shit like in kayaks. A good profile description isnt going to change if a girl finds you attractive, a clever opening line does not make you stick out. They see that shit all the time. Living at the gym doesnt do a whole lot of good if all …
/r/askTRP31/05/18 01:30 AM
2

I personally dont have an issue buying a drink or two if I set the date. Mainly because I have a good track record of landing the second date or going back to my place. Guys that have a history of shelling out money on chicks and not getting any are the ones you'll see really vocal about never paying for shit. They are right in a way, never spend money on a chick to get her to fuck you. Also, most of the girls I date typically pay for their drink without discussion. I can spot the kind of girl t…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:43 PM
18

Do that dance move where you're pretending to cast a fishing line and start seeing who pulls themselves toward you. For comedic effect go for an ugly girl and "cut" the line when she gets half way to you or act like you're pulling in a fat chick and it's a struggle 👌
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:09 PM
2

Why would you even flirt with someone for 3 months? Would you go down on a chick for 3 months before you fucked her or sing happy birthday for 3 months before blowing out the candles? Make something happen or move on.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:37 AM
5

It's generally a good idea to not give a lot of mental real estate to things you have no control over. Part of that is being as completely invested in yourself as you can. Focused on all the things your trying to accomplish that you do have control over leaves less room for bullshit. It's also possible this is an issue you have with yourself (not her) that you can do something about. Would it bother you less if you had more experience or partners? Maybe you dont need to be an a relationship then…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:44 AM
11

If you use your turn signal it puts you in the top 10%
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:52 AM
3

I use to moonlight as a musician in churches, I've seen plenty so I'll give you my two cents. I've seen a ton of single guys show up and you can tell they're just looking for a chick cause they're kinda lame and dont have real hobbies or a social life, it doesnt work out for them. This kind of applies to anything, dont take a cooking class to meet chicks, be there cause you want to cook. If you go to church plan on getting really involved in the community. You aren't going to fool anyone, if I c…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:00 PM
10

Check out season 1 of fargo. Billy Bob Thornton doesnt just redpill lester (the lead), he nukes him into Mars. Billy Bob is the dark triad on steroids, it's all over the top story telling but definitely worth the watch.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:28 PM
55

I noticed a long time ago when I would see a friend or acquaintance noticeably lose a lot of weight I'd congratulate them and they would tell me about some changes they made which is normal. But the weird thing was they always seemed way too happy about the interaction. I was kind of a fatty and lost the weight and I figured out why. I think it's normal to be happy for someone making positive changes and improving but the average person does not. When I lost the weight I got stink eyes "what's t…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:01 AM
10

Shitting where you eat implies unnecessary risks. If you work in restaurants or something where anything more than a highschool diploma doesnt help fucking co-workers is part of the deal. You're supposed to do it, you're supposed to snort a little coke on the weekend too. If this is a corporate job with an HR department it means you're a fucking loser. You're risking your livelihood because you can't attract women in the wild and we all know a 7 in the office is a 3 in the club. One of these pat…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:51 AM
5

Whenever you go out print out like a dozen account balances from the atm. As you're approaching a girl "drop one" and say "OOPS I DROPPED MY ATM RECIEPT, WOULD YOU PLEASE PICK IT UP AND READ IT AND LET ME KNOW IF YOU WANT TO COME BACK TO MY PLACE AND FUCK".
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:16 PM
3

Your scale needs some recalibration of you think an alcoholic is a "10/10 unicorn". I get that alcoholics can be really good at hiding it but if you didn't know something was up until she was hospitalized you need to take off those rose tinted glasses. Did I see alcoholic dad somewhere else in there as I skimmed? I'll jump to the conclusion you're an enabler and maybe you just meet a lot of people with substance problems being in the weed scene. Keeping an LTR going 4 years is a good run by the …
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:12 AM
3

Women like texting buddies because they like attention, but they dont want to fuck texting buddies. One of my plates has said more than once that "I suck at texting", low quality shit test, she still fucks me like crazy. Keep it to logistics, they might say they dont like it, but remember women dont know what the fuck they want most of the time. They're like cats, my cat will meow at the backdoor like he wants in but when I open it he stands there staring at me like I'm the asshole.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:04 AM
6

Shit thanks for the mother's day reminder.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:30 PM
5

I disagree with being stoic all the time. Be serious as a baseline and when it matters but if you're hanging out with a chick at your house show them a good time. I'm a little goofy sometimes, I have a good sense of humor and make them laugh and they're still coming back. They like it because people like being around fun people. As long as they dont think you're a goof ball that can't get shit done it's all good.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:33 PM
21

Anything you have passion for that requires real skill development. Playing music and being in bands has definitely got me laid, being good at cooking has helped me a lot too but I didn't get into either of those things to get my dick wet. A really good surfer didn't get into it to get laid, but how many chicks wanna have a crack at a surfer? Enough that's for sure. Basically video games and pokemon cards aren't hobbies, woodworking is. If you're passionate about something that takes work it wil…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:25 PM
1

One of the biggest mistake people make in life is thinking "I'm good, something is missing". This is why Jesus is popular, its human nature. You've got a good amount of time for fucking up, making mistakes and self-correcting. Silver bullets dont exist, figure out habits you can change to improve your life now and you'll be further ahead in a few years than you would waiting for someone to tell ya the magic secret to happiness.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:11 AM
3

African accent for guys lands you somewhere in the middle. It's better than Canadian but Australian is gonna get more panties wet. You're right around there with English which basically means it makes you interesting initially but only enough to get them listening (exotic doesn't automatically mean sexy, Spain vs. Mexico in the Spanish accent for example). So you can't rely on your accent alone, if you aren't as interesting as your accent go Russian style and talk a little less. Be the mysteriou…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:48 AM
3

I’m here if you need me, we’ll get through this babe. Actions > words. Getting mopey with her about it is a bad move. I get it, guys are fixers and if fixing her car was in your capability or you knew a guy you would be on it. since that's not the case anything you say to her about it (unsolicited) isnt doing either of you any favors. People you're around are gonna go through some shitty times and sometimes you aren't gonna be too useful, that's life. Try not to remind them. Shes not hanging aro…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:36 AM
52

Paul blart mall cop 2
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:22 PM
3

I'm just going to add that if a girl sends you a nude it's as candid as her social profile / dating website pic. She took 300, narrowed it down to one and locked it in. Those nudes she sends you were taken over the course of the last two or three years at least and you sure as shit aren't the first or last one to get the same exact ones.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:03 PM
10

Same as anyone bitching about anything they don't have. Standards are too high for what they offer and/or they feel entitled. Who cares.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:58 PM
2

Early 20s can be a shitty time for guys. I was with the same chick from 19-26 because I'm a dumbass so I didn't have to deal with it but just observing other dudes. The 80/20 rule is fucking real in college. When I was in my mid 20s and single I was dating the 20-22 year olds, they liked a dude out in the world with a career and house and social life with other adults, not some kid from class. It's a shit show out there for most people your age. The only thing I'd say is dont make cold approachi…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 10:52 PM
2

An old flame contacted you seemingly out of nowhere then disappeared OP? She wanted closure. And you gave it to her. Now that she finally moved on, time for you to do the same. Listen man, every time you fuck a chick in the ass shes texting at least 3 dudes from the past that she didn't let fuck her in the ass just to recalibrate.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:28 PM
4

Needing external validation to be happy is a guaranteed way to be a miserable person, and who wants to fuck a miserable person? Let's say you go out and meet a cool chick and she fucks you and you date her awhile and it's great and then she decides to take off? You will put a goddamn bullet in your head because the only source of validation you have in life wasnt under your control. Set some goals that you have control over, things you would like to achieve. Have a purpose and a plan, the pussy …
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:36 PM
1

That's what I come up as whenever someone insists I do one of those silly assessments. I really view it as modern day astrology though. If someone says "I'm QPXZ" or whatever series of letters they all seem to fit into the same category of person. Kind of like if one person says "I'm a scorpio" and another says "im a pisces" the fact they are into that garbage makes them way more in common then any difference they think the label suggests.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:52 PM
1

I've hung out with guys, played wingman, who are into that pua shit. It looks like a cat playing with a mouse, the cat will disable it a bit but killing it is no fun. And these guys are pretty good I'll give credit where it's due. I give the girl a reason to approach me. If I approach someone it's for a good reason, not "I like how you look and wanna fuck you in the bathroom". Fire starts with a spark.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:12 AM
3

I do ok with online dating but agree it's a bit of a shit show. In college what you want to do is follow your interests and build connections with other people, network. I play music so when I was in college I was playing with a couple bands. This put me in a lot of shows, bars, frat houses. Chicks would approach me (they still do but they did then too). In those days I was in a relationship (because I'm a tard) so I didn't reciprocate but it basically holds true with any kind of social activity…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:53 AM
2

You should have a busy week too. It's not "letting her get her way", its "your social life shouldn't hinge on one girl" especially if it's only been like 4 days and double especially in college.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:50 AM
1

An absurd amount likely means she thinks she found a chink in your armor but can't pinpoint it. This bugs the hell out of girls, she can't sniff it out. There is no precision attack, this calls for both barrels blazing. In my experience when this happens you're dealing with a girl that doesn't have a lot of experience with relationships or the kind of girl that tends to end up in abusive relationships. I'd get crucified for saying something like that in public but it takes 2 to tango.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:51 AM
1

Getting a little too needy there. Dont do anything to let her know how you feel about it.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:22 AM
19

Here's a homework assignment. Hold your horses on proposing. Get over this "not fucking on the rag" bullshit, I really don't get that. It's free lube, paint my beard red bitch. Next trip see if she initiates something new like she wants you to face fuck her or maybe fuck in public. You're boring her with these routines and expectations. I feel bad for her just reading this.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:14 AM
2

Everyone does coffee dates, they are lame. You also risk going to one that too quiet so you got 6 people listening in on the convo. Yesterday I went on a first date to a bar that has a bunch of old arcade games rigged up to play for free. Way more fun then just sitting with a cup of coffee. Everytime I use a place like this I land a second date. Activity dates give you a lot of opportunities to escalate physically, coffee doesnt.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:08 AM
1

Yeah most 26 year olds are ok with not being 36. Instead of thinking "at least I'm not that person" try thinking "Im getting closer to the person I would like to be".
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:00 PM
9

Learn to love self? Learn to hate yourself. This isn't negative thinking by the way. Being a piece of shit for a decade getting high isn't working out. So you think year 11 is when things will take off? Is that the life you want? Set some achievable goals and get moving.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:40 PM
1

It means you're swiping right on people you don't wanna fuck and the people you wanna fuck aren't reciprocating. Here's the deal with fat chicks. I'm talking about the fat chicks you would fuck if no one was looking. They're in the danger zone. These chicks are fucked up, that belly is a check they've written and they want someone else to cash it. Avoid at all cost. I'm experienced so I'm taking one for the team here. No free lunches in nature, tell that to the bitch that eats 3 lunches.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:03 AM
3

Whatever you consider improvement from your current situation. I'll tell a fat man to go for the salad and he still manages to put together a meal that makes me gag.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:47 PM
7

If they're always pushing it means you aren't pulling. Either way, women shouldn't be the main motivation. Take the burn out as a positive change. Let them come to you and turn them down until it's the last thing you want to do.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:38 PM
8

If you're above a 5 you're going to attract under 5s. A girl that a 3 doesn't think shes a 3. Shes been called beautiful by men her entire life. Either way we don't care about anyone we consider below a 5. If that's all you attract don't blame it on just you're looks. You can also look at it another way. I've attracted and been in relationships with 8 and 9s. That doesn't mean im above an 8 at all. They just found other things about me attractive enough to bridge the gap.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:11 PM
10

Look at anything you do in terms of "what am I trying to accomplish here?". When it comes to attention I look at it like giving a treat. She did something for me that I appreciate I'll give her attention. I'll give my dog a treat if it follows a command, not to make it love me. My dog already loves me. If the answer is ever "too keep her interested / gauge her level of interest in me / get attention for myself in return" start pumping those fucking breaks. That's where you can come off as needy …
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:13 AM
1

Hey you little shit. Get off the damn computer and take out the trash like I asked you to do 30 minutes ago.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:15 AM
3

What are you doing with your weekends? Do you start drinking or getting high when you wake up? Video games? Porn? All the above? You need real hobbies, real friends and real passions. Whatever horse shit bad habits are keeping you from functioning like a normal adult need to be dealt with.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:12 AM
5

Here we witness the not so elusive fat fuck who thinks they are 100% and missing something. No. The mystery to your issue isn't lack of protein supplements. Spin again fatty.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:22 AM
1

You're emotional and sensitive. Treat it like salt. Make a dish.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:16 AM
3

Don't lead them on. If you're dangling the carrot of possible relationship to get in their pants and then go "gotcha! I don't really want that!" you're going to hurt some feelings.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 09:37 PM
9

I take it something like that costs enough you aren't willing to just eat it. Is it 20 bucks or 200 bucks? If you asked and she says no just tell her your sister is going to report it stolen to the PD if she doesn't fork it over. And that's not a bluff by the way. You have learned an important lesson in letting people borrow your shit. Don't unless you're ok with never seeing it again.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:49 AM
3

Approach more girls and get used to rejection. And I don't think it needs to be stated, but dont message her again. What was the message?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:08 AM
14

Check out the return policy is on that ring asap. Hopefully you can at least trade it in for a nice watch.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 07:09 PM
1

Women love the idea of you. They will fall in love knowing nothing about you. snap I love him. Spin plates for awhile to really drive it home. It's fucking ridiculous. That's really all you need to know.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:55 PM
2

If a woman would like a child, or to get married. It's going to happen, snap, there ya go. I see it all the time. If you would like that I would suggest having a strong foundation. Yeah some people here want see how many noses they can shoot spunk out of onto their stomach. This isn't a cult dude.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:10 AM
3

Sounds like ya got baby fever OP. Go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:08 AM
7

You now have a roommate. Don't act like you're stuck or you're a victim, make plans.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:11 AM
5

So basically you're wondering why you can't land other woman as good as her. Everyone else would be a downgrade, otherwise you wouldn't care. You're asking why other people do things and not why you do things. It's easier to get a job if you know someone in the company. In this case you pay child support and maybe she doesn't want you to break free and do well with the ladies. Here's your weekly dose of pussy now write me a check bitch.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:28 PM
5

Some people hit a phase early in adulthood that is "I've been busting my ass, I've had to deal with a bunch of stupid bullshit, why are you sitting there so fat and happy and satisfied?". The short answer is life isn't fair but being bitter or negative is not a good use of your energy. There is a payoff to over coming challenges and putting in more work than others but it might be awhile before you really see it.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:48 AM
14

Don't get comfortable, keep yourself the number 1 priority. Having goals and passions you are working on, achieving things you want to achieve and showing results is attractive. Putting the relationship and her above yourself is only going to make her look down on you. Keep her looking up to you.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:10 AM
7

Actions speak louder than words. Make them jealous. Or do what you want OP, dudes actively talking down to others tend to be old or fat or short or some other complex we gotta deal with because you're a fucking loser and can't get it together.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:39 AM
3

What are you interested in doing? Do you want to learn a musical instrument? Wood working? Paint shit? Are there no creative endeavors you're interested in? I lived at home when I was in college and worked full time and played in two bands. Get busy livin or get busy dyin.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:55 PM
1

Dates are getting to know someone to see if there is mutual attraction. Leading doesn't mean you have some weird itinerary for the date and must handle everything. Delegate the mapping by all means if that's the next logical step. Go with what makes sense. Does it make sense to ask a fat chick if she's hungry? No, it's hilarious but I'm pretty sure she doesn't need help letting someone know. As far as doing a 180, women are typically non-confrontational. If you think she might be shitty tell her…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:26 AM
3

she’s WAY more fat then her pictures I would have ended the date before it started. Did you stick around to be polite or because you're desperate? I bet it was the latter, if you were confident you could do better within a week or did better within the last week you would have bailed. And no one could say shit because she was dishonest, never a good way to start a relationship. It sounds like she was leading the whole date too. This is the extreme version of when they try to change the plans aro…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:06 AM
5

Are you escalating or are you waiting for her to jump your bones or wave a big flag in the air? Don't make assumptions either, ESPECIALLY if you're buying her drinks on these "dates". If you want to play it safe, or, as i suspect she isnt that into you, do something where you're walking, like a hike or a mall. It's a good setup to hold her hand. If she pulls away or lets go soon she just wants you to buy her another fucking drink. If she doesn't you better go in for the kiss before that date is …
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:35 AM
9

Definitely do something like that in person.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:51 PM
1

I'd quit drinking based on the fact it plays a significant enough role in how you operate you need to ask the question. I'm not even saying I think you have a drinking problem, but it's definitely a crutch, and if you keep using the crutch how are you ever going to develop any strength?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:18 PM
4

My guess is doctor dude is busy. Medical school, residency, all that shit. You were sort of a surrogate boyfriend. She wasn't after you just for your dick slinging ability, it was for attention and feels. Make her feel important and wanted and loved, a safe bet.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:51 AM
5

So basically you were in a relationship that ended and you have no clue why, you conducted yourself in a way you wouldn't change and there were zero signs from her that the end may be coming. Fair enough. Most people can look at the end of a relationship, pick out mistakes they made, things to look out for and learn and grow so it's probably frustrating to not have that option. If that's honestly the case it might take longer to move on, but maybe you just need to reflect on it later when your h…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:04 PM
17

No one's reading all that, what's your question?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:37 PM
7

She's testing your level of thirst. Tell her you called the fire department, the one that you saw featured on the calender at your aunts house. That's pretty lame because it's off the top of my head but you get the idea.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:00 AM
1

Shit like this is gonna happen. If it's the first time it's happened it sure won't be the last, it's a small world even of you're in a big city. Unless you were leading on the plate / dishonest about your intention you have nothing to worry about. I'm assuming you're worried about this changing some sort of dynamic since you're asking. She might give you an ultimatum to be exclusive. She might shit test you to see if you get defensive about it. Whatever you're worried about just think it through…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:23 AM
1

It can be a pretty tempting sometimes for sure, most guys can't resist it if the situation is right. Sometimes I want to eat a large pizza and drink a 6 pack but I know it's not gonna be worth it in the long run. I don't come from a moral high ground or anything, I just don't stay in relationships if getting with someone else for whatever reason is taking up too much space in my mind. I'll end the relationship. You lose that "guaranteed" sex but ultimately life is easier when you're not wasting …
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:52 PM
6

Get a second job.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:49 PM
6

Going to the movies for a date has got to be the dumbest shit people do. Anyway, If you come off as too thirsty she's going to hold back because she knows she has this little carrot to dangle in front of you. It actually is going to turn them off of the whole thing. You got to act in a way to get them to want you to fuck them, not make them think that's all you want sooooo badly.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:23 PM
2

I think guys also do it because they're "supposed to be a man and make the move". You don't normally hear about women getting on one knee and proposing marriage or asking guys to prom. Dating with the upfront "im not looking for a relationship" really brings that into perspective. The reactions I've gotten tell me it is not the norm by a long shot.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:27 PM
10

Ghosting is weak, I wouldn't do that unless the person was manipulate or dangerous. Just don't set expections that it will lead into a relationship. If you were initially pursing her she might think you're looking for a girlfriend so set her straight and let her decide. Keep in mind that baby clock could be going off so she might try tie you down with a baby then you're Fucked.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:24 PM
5

You're too eager for the beaver. The chick has to want the dick, especially that early. Some other reply is talking about periods and dead grandpas for no reason so that's 100% a chick. Keep talking to her and do literally the opposite of what she says and you'll be good.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:00 AM
4

If a woman can affect you like that they already sniffed it out. Even if they are wrong, just thinking of you like that makes them despise you.They sort of evolved to be like that since they can't dominate physically. This is why when a guy is at the end of a relationship we typically just need to know it's over and move on whereas a woman might try to take a pound of flesh on the way out. It's only going to happen if they think they'll win. Otherwise they might resort to crying or saying things…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:16 AM
2

The changing hair (assuming she doesn't do this regularly) or starting birth control are classic "this relationship is over, the countdown has begun" changes when it comes to an ltr. With a plate the dynamic is obviously different. It could be she had a boyfriend and you're the next monkey branch but straight up saying no sex, that obviously isn't the case. I'm not hanging out with a plate if we aren't going to have sex. If I were you I'd wish her well and make other plans.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:05 AM
7

Not everything is a shit test dude. She barely knows you and you came off like you were giving her a run around. Maybe she's asking to make sure everything is still on, maybe she forgot to mention she's allergic to shellfish or hates mushrooms. Don't treat every interaction like a possible shit test. If she said "what's for dinner?" And you said "chicken alfredo" and she said "does it come with gym membership?" By all means treat it as a shit test, you'll come off as insecure and immature if you…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:55 PM
8

TIL I'm a world class model. See ya later losers.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:22 PM
1

She's setting them up and you're knocking them down. You've rang so many bells that can't be unrung in this relationship I almost feel bad for ya man. Consider it lesson learned for the next one. Don't invest more in a relationship then you invest in yourself, the ratio shouldn't even be close.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:19 PM
3

The way I look at it is "put on your oxygen mask before assisting other passengers." The mistake a lot of guys here have probably made in the past is putting a chick ahead of themselves. Then they find out girls don't actually like that and get all pissy about it. Putting yourself first doesn't mean that you have to be rude or overly distant. But if a girl finds me attractive and wants to see me and I don't do shit for her that means the attraction is more genuine. She isn't going to be resentfu…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:21 AM
2

Exercise in the evening makes a big difference for me. Sometimes that's just going to be taking my dog for a long walk. It's not just about physically wearing yourself out. Exercise is a good way to reduce stress and boredom which are a couple things thast can keep people up because their mind is racing.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:25 AM
1

If you enjoy what you do and make enough money to live the life you want there is no reason to change careers just for a college experience. If you don't see yourself in whatever industry you're in 5 or 10 years from now, or maybe there is something you might be more passionate about, pursuing that sooner is better than later. There are many more factors besides how much money you make starting out. If it's just about the social experience you don't have to quit your job and go off to college fu…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:01 PM
3

She's probably getting ready to branch swing. People think that next branch is just another dick but they forget about all those emotional tampon branches they need too. Telling you she has a boyfriend after clear IOIs is a straight up "balls in your court, which branch are you?" Don't react directly to it if you're interested in gaming her. Keep the conversation going, play it cool but agree and amplify. She put the ball in your court so you just gotta keep popping it back to her.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:15 AM
1

I heard about some study where birth control fucks with attraction. Something about messing with being able to detect immunity deficiencies, I'm screwing up the explanation you can Google it. If you were in a relationship for 6+ months and she started BC out of the blue I'd say that's your 1-3 month notice (i.e. the I'm not feeling this relationship so I'm going to cut off all my hair move). BC can definitely fuck with hormones too so it could be a big factor, but since it's a factor you can't d…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:49 PM
2

When they first made it a default sub I remember wondering why every time I went to Reddit without logging in there would be a 20k upvoted post along the lines of "I'm so proud of my abortion" on the front page. I'm not necessarily pro-life but I find it odd how they get wet thinking about abortions. Strange place.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 03:23 PM
16

Are we missing part of the story? Did you fuck his sister or did he overhear you say his car was a piece of shit or something? Its got to be that or he has a serious crush on you. If someone's hostile toward you they want you to enter their frame, which you didn't and that's the way to be. Shit I probably would have punched him.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:03 PM
8

I've used online dating a couple times and did well, really well. Most of the guys on Reddit and some guys I've known irl say it's a waste of time. I've checked out the competition before and it's laughable. All selfies, guys talking about how they jerk off on Friday night, sjw cucks centering their whole profile around trying to please a women. And I thought I was autistic. All my pictures are me doing shit with friends, on stage with my band, being all interesting. It's shouldn't be a difficul…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 05:32 PM
5

Say "no u", it's the ultimate rebuttal. Completely ironclad. Really though who gives a shit? If you don't like the consequences of social media then get off and find more important things to worry about.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:24 PM
18

Saying "break" around here is like saying "Hitler did nothing wrong" at a bar mitzvah. Here's the thing, you're the rebound. It's possible she's already got another guy chambered and isn't really going on a break. Doesn't matter, she definitely needs a break but that's up to her. You are not responsible for her mental health, you aren't qualified. Co-dependency relationships get babies drowned in bath tubs. Here is the BEST case scenario when you give a girl an ultimatum: everything starts going…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:39 AM
15

No one throws a pizza pie on someone's eye, that's amore. I mean without provocation. It takes two to tango, especially when the side you heard is "Hey man I was just mindin my own business". Advice for you is you might be too trusting to what your friends tell you. He is 100% trying to save face in front of anyone he has to discuss this with.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:42 AM
3

When women end a romantic relationship they need their hands to be clean. It doesn't even need to be reasonable, they just have to believe the hamster. It sounds like you over-inserted yourself into their relationship and at least partially shifted her focus on why she was ended it from him to her and you. I don't know much about polyamorus people outside of the fact they are generally the people no one wants to fuck (i.e. the nudist principle) but I do think you stuck a stick into the hamster w…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:15 AM
1

Is this the elusive crazy clingy fat friend? Haven't seen it in years... ever have a pal who's subtly trying to hook you up with his girlfriend's fat friend because "she thinks your cute"? He might even say shit like "I'd date her bro". Of course what they really want is to get this bitch off their own back. It's like in the horror movies where they have to get someone to accept the cursed item to lift the curse off themselves. You have the cursed item. You gotta match this parasite with another…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:52 AM
4

Sounds like the relationship has run it's course. That silent treatment shit is petty, I didn't think it existed out of middle school until an ltr pulled it on me once. We moved on and I decided if she did it again I wasn't going to be talking to her again permanently. Which is what happened much to her surprise. Maybe if people called out that childish bullshit we wouldn't have adults resorting to it still.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 05:04 PM
1

No experience and internet boogieman. Got it. You plan on dating a lot of people with a fake name in a scenario where your social circles and social life are completely separated at all times. Where addresses do not matter, hotels only take cards these days but I'm sure cash is king for the motels. Please report back with your great accomplishment in this endeavor.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:40 PM
1

Being a stranger with a fake name isn't gonna do you a lot of favors in court. Do you have any actual experience where this was an issue or is this the internet boogieman making you scared?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:14 PM
1

I'm not talking about the book, which is basically a ramblings of an adult male with serious daddy issues. You went from feeling unappreciated for not being reciprocated for doing things to Satan himself. Nice guys don't think they are door mats, they are pure ego.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 05:29 AM
2

You're what people refer to as a nice guy. You do things for favors. Life's gonna be a lot easier when you start putting yourself first.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:56 AM
10

You should know she made her decision at least a few months before ending it. Did she get a new hair cut? Tattoo? start taking birth control with no discussion. She played You like a fiddle, guys are in or out with relationships but girls will take a pound of flesh if you let them, they have to be sure, and you pretty much did the cutting. Now letting her live rent free in your mind. Don't think about ex's. Let them think about you.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:02 PM
6

You nailed it. Stuck to your guns, good job. Calling an audible is the most common shit test early in dating and people fuck it up a lot by bending. The real question now is how you're going to follow up and lock in the next date.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:10 AM
2

It could be you're coming off as fake or boring or one dimensional. I'll encounter people like that professionally or socially and you can tell they are putting on an act or are semi-checked out. If you have an inch of a sense of humor don't suppress it. I have a strong sense of humor but I don't come off as a goofball or laid back. It can make me look witty or confident / no nerves.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:37 AM
10

Reply to the largest one only. The others will get super self conscious and fight for you.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:20 AM
2

I started losing my hair at 16, buzzing it at 18. From my perspective it's never been an issue because I never had to adjust to it as an adult. It's always been that way. Women consider me attractive, I've been told I am "hot". I've never been outright rejected for it. What's your excuse? Do you not bring anything else to the table? I know short bald guys that landed good looking chicks. They had to work harder, nothing truly worthwhile in life comes easy though. The things that I'm most proud o…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:38 AM
2

I don't think it's good to be in the habit of jerking off daily. Basically the only time I jerk off is if I'm going to hook up with someone and I haven't been milked in more then a few days. Two weeks is probably the longest I've gone so I didn't get any super powers but when I do nut now it's a good ol time vs. "Meh" when I was doing it once or twice a day.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:15 PM
30

I recently dated this one chick for a couple months that was about as feminist as you get, short of hairy armpits. I'm talkin punk rocker, antifa patches, face tattoo, the works. The kind of person the internet talks about but you don't think actually exists. The problem with these people is they have a victim mentality. I'm not wired for that, I remember taking civil service tests when I was in college, doing really well, and getting passed on because I didn't get bonus points for being a minor…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:45 PM
2

It depends on the setting and how into me I think they are. It depends on the girl too. If it's not obvious she is 100% dtf (i.e. "I want your cock in my throat!") but you think she's interested steer the convo that way, drop some bread crumbs but don't beat around the bush. If you're too direct it can put her on the spot too, present as of you made the decision without unnessecary pressure. Wrong: "duh-duh-do you want to come back to my place?" Right: sorry no cookie cutter line. Give her a rea…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:23 AM
3

I love the "lift for a few months" meme around here. How do you deal with this? first - I've been lifting two months now. Blah blah How fucked is someone that a few months lifting makes a significant noticeable difference?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:28 PM
-3

I think the point completely flew over your head unless you're suggesting coffee is on par with urban exploring in the interesting department.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 06:58 PM
12

The problem with coffee dates is they are lame. If you're Orlando bloom you can invite a chick to a mattress behind a check cashing store and she will get her hair done for it. for most guys though the suggestion of a coffee date gives a first impression of "im booooring".
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 06:47 PM
10

Money alone will attract but that's not real attraction. Your money looks good, not you. There are concepts in the sidebar that will help you professionally, make you more successful and give you status and $$$ but in terms of attraction money is a "no duh" aspect. There's communities dedicated to that stuff already, no need to reinvent the wheel.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:24 AM
1

Break up if you don't want to be in a relationship with them. It's a waste of time dragging out a bad relationship and guys do it all the tiime because they don't want to lose guaranteed pussy. Keep playing the field and you'll develope an idea on what you consider girlfriend material and plate material.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:08 AM
5

What kind of work are you doing that co-workers give that much of a shit about your personal life? The main factor in being liked at work is typically being a good worker and getting things done. It's not that I don't believe you, I've gotten some comments from people because I won't settle down and its 100% because they're jealous but I'm gonna guess you're the dude at the water cooler talking about the chicks he's picking up all the time. People will get sick of that.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:06 AM
2

Nothing you can do about it except take note if she gave any red flags so you know what to look for in the future. I mean I'll still date crazy chicks cause they're fun but if one ghosts me I don't really give a shit.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:18 PM
2

It comes down to what you're passionate about, what YOU want to do. Follow that and you'll have something to look forward to developing on your own and as a result will socialize with others that have the same passion. Parties / meeting with groups of strangers is empty. Be someone that people have a reason to want to be around, find people you have a specific reason for wanting to be around.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 02:10 AM
2

Probably, and more so now. My day in that was right before social media was normal so things were more segregated. When a jock left the reservation he took way more shit than fist bumps.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 12:40 AM
2

In the bubble of high school your first line is your social circle/ group. The cheerleaders fuck the jocks and the band nerds fuck the band nerds. To widen draw put yourself in a position where you can catch interest from a hot chick outside of your social circle. If girls find out the hot punk girl is into you now they will want a crack, it's pre-selection and when I was I'm high school it mattered a lot. For some reason this really hot girl was into me and we dated a bit my sophomore year and …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 11:05 PM
5

I've encountered with even the freakiest of chicks some level of self consciousness on that topic. My attitude is I don't give a shit, this makes them more comfortable about it. I think the problem is they've encountered some guys that have an issue with it and it becomes a sensitive topic. Tell her you enjoy nature's lubricant, get a taste. Then she won't be weird about it around you
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:29 AM
13

She probably didn't get some sort of closure and ranks somewhere between psycho and Batshit crazy. Just block the number when you get that crap, she'll find a new victim eventually and move on.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 11:06 PM
4

Diet is a big factor. I don't eat sugar or grains and my skin is great. When I ate shitty fast food it was another story.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 05:55 PM
2

If a strange chick is gonna approach you anywhere it's going to be when everyone has been drinking and you're at a bar. They might have dressed up a little, put on some makeup. Lighting In a bar is dim. It's the perfect recipe to hook up with a ugly bitch. These are girls that wouldn't cold approach you in most any other scenario but now it's with aggressiveness. There is a running joke with this band I play with that some sloppy chick is gonna throw herself at me. Every time it happens and I lo…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:54 PM
1

I think it's always good to keep your resume up to date as well as your skills. If you think you've been passed up for a promotion, get feedback. Feedback on yourself, not them. Then make your decision.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:48 PM
2

The normal advice would be to act super beta to kill attraction but if this is someone you'll be encountering in social settings frequently that's gonna be a pain in the ass. Just tell her you aren't interested in her romantically " Hey you're cool but not my type". There's probably gonna be some push back since chicks often want what they can't have even more but once that word is out you can pretty much ignore her and she will take the hint eventually.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:24 PM
3

Women = sexual selectors This isn't a homeless beggar saying they don't like turkey when you hand them a sandwich. This is "I saw what she's having and what she's having and what she's having and my money is as good as theirs!". I mean if you want to be a dick tell her it might get easier with age, or don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:49 AM
4

If you think you might get nervous just remember it's only coffee, no big deal. You could be doing something better so no reason to come off as too interested like a lot is at stake, be chill. I wouldn't get too worried about paying for the coffee (don't offer but also don't be weird about a buck fifty) if she starts ordering a bagel sandwich and shit though tell the barista you're separate orders orders when she asks what you want (Don't tell the chick, tell the person taking the money). Jerk o…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:25 AM
6

It actually works both ways. I played the field pretty hard after my last break up and started developing breasts despite the fact I was dropping some Lbs. My beard started to thin out and I really wanted to watch the notebook. Luckily a buddy of mine started letting me give him brojobs and I'm pretty much back to equilibrium.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 03:48 AM
2

Just as a little side note to your situation. If a girl wants to get married or have kids the "what" is more important than the "who". I married young myself and after that decided it's not for me. I'm always honest about it early into the relationship and I think a month in it might ding me a little but a year and a half - two years in and they get baby fever or start seeing all their friends getting married and realize I'm serious, it's the beginning of the end. That's not how all my ltrs end …
/r/askTRP23/01/18 11:51 PM
5

I've had and have several female friends where I don't have any romantic interest toward. It's not that they are dumpy or have some big flaw, just not interested, like a sister. Had the discussion a long time ago with a friend that insisted guys can't really be friends with chicks cause they ultimately just want to fuck them. I was able to give him a few real scenarios he was aware of that proved his point wrong. He came back with "... any of them want to fuck you?". Had to admit a couple have s…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:19 AM
6

You don't really have control over someone treating you in a way that isn't deserved. If I'm a good worker and a coworker treats me like I'm a slacker or if I'm a good boyfriend but I'm dating someone who treats me disrespectifully i can limit or end the relationship. I don't need to change for them nor should i but they may decide to change for others when they realize what they're doing isn't working out.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:13 AM
2

Just force yourself to keep a regular schedule and a workout plan and once you get into the habit I'm sure the anxiety will wear off. You've probably heard this before but I'll say it anyway, no one gives a shit what you're doing unless you're just being really stupid. Just lifting the bar? No one cares, everyone is too busy with their own shit.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 04:00 PM
3

Don't make negative judgements behind someone's back or use memes in conversation. I think the alpha / beta talk is sophomoric. Develope personal currency in your profession and hobbies, is anyone gonna talk shit to Arnold at his peak eating a pint of ice cream?
/r/askTRP21/01/18 10:28 PM
3

I say it all the time. If she is busy and doesn't suggest another time it means she isn't interested and the answer is no. It doesn't mean she isn't busy or that she is lying. She isn't interested. By keeping a communication line open (you gave her your phone number without meeting her), you are now in emotional tampon zone. She doesn't want to meet you, she wants to see what you propose and how you handle her not being available.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 07:27 PM
2

You could probably get some sympathy points with the neck brace. "Yeah, I was getting this kitten out of a tree and a branch broke, snow boarding is out of the question now unfortunately". Jk Change is always good, especially when it looks bad. Shift your focus to things in the peripheral since you can't turn your neck.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:14 PM
3

Conversational flow. With no context just "gosh are you stupid?" Doesn't have a canned response. Was his point valid and you were stupid? I don't think you'd be asking if that wasn't the case. Find the line between confidence and ego and you won't have to worry about being called out on.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:48 PM
3

Loaded question, you can save money and have your own place to bring girls to. You might save a lot of money in your current situation which is nice but 10 years down the road you'll probably regret it. Here's what I would do, see if you can find like a 6 month lease. Find someone that needs someone to take over the rest of their lease and get out. Let granny know you're moving closer to work but you would like the option to come back and you appreciate her generosity. That way if you decide it'…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:02 PM
9

I knew a dude who lost a bunch of weight and said his insurance covered a pretty good chunk of skin removal. Either way take all that extra cheese burger money you aren't spending and pop it in a piggy bank. Congrats on the weight loss.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:00 AM
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This is probably the most useful thing I've read on here in awhile since I'm dealing with it right with a chick. I contacted her once to hang out but she couldn't due a little crisis, she seems a little distant. Part of me wants touch base with her to see how she's doing but the logical part of my brain is saying if she wanted to talk she would and if I try making plans again it's gonna make me look like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 10:52 PM
1

I don't want to date either of them. Then don't. It stings to end a relationship, holding on does no favors.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 02:30 AM
6

Church people are pretty easy to game by definition, waaay more into social status than one-on-one relationships. These are people that derive satisfaction from scapegoating. Get more friendly with everyone else there, get a couple girls to compliment you (dress well). Money in the bank if you aren't a slob tbh.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:48 AM
3

If you land the date anything you say can and will be used against you, which is why it's not a good idea to exchange numbers with someone you haven't met. Since you put yourself in that position though there is nothing wrong with answering some questions, after all you are a stranger. As long as you aren't texting her "good morning" or trying to say shit to impress her you're all good. You handled it fine. Keep the mystery but if you're too quiet or curt once the line is open it can make you lo…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:56 PM
5

Get involved with extra curricular activities, sports, fraternity if that's you're thing. If you have any hobbies that can put you into social settings that's a big bonus. For example I'm not a jock or super into sports but I played with two bands that were fairly popular in the two universities where I lived. This got me into a lot of house parties, frat parties, it got me on stage at school events. All the guys in one of the bands were your Abercrombie model looking preps so I met a shit ton o…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 05:30 PM
14

It's probably as random as dick size. The only consistent factor I'll bet on is fat chicks have big vag. One chick I'm banging now is pretty tight but I know she's been around the block. Fat chicks though, it's like the skin and everything get pulled out to handle those burritos and their pussys slowly turn into the grand canyon.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 08:03 PM
4

What's smart dressing? Know your environment. I've dated sewer rats and didn't need to tell them about the venue. Everyone has smart phones, they know the difference between sushi and park attire. Are you taking a chick out on a first date and you know nothing about her but the place requires a jacket? Ya fucked up.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 05:08 PM
12

My thought is if you're here and asking there's some trouble in paradise. I generally think it's a bad idea to marry your high school sweet heart. The odds of it working out are slim unfortunately. You'll both be completely different people in 5 years 10 years 20 years and it might work out beautifully, but what if it doesnt? Maybe she has the same thoughts as you, she's asking her girls and they might encourage her to get a little wild. Peer pressure is a bitch. What if you get too comfortable …
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:48 AM
4

When you say you "fuck it up" that means you're aware you made a mistake. Do you have an idea on what mistakes you're making? No one here is going to know better than you. My two cents though as someone who's been in plenty of ltrs is I never went in "trying" to get a girlfriend. I'm seeing a chick and at some point she brings it up or even thinks I'm her boyfriend without having an actual conversation about it. I'm not saying that's the way to go 100% but I think if you go in with a prerogative…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 02:39 AM
15

She got pumped and dumped a few or a lot of times and doesn't want history to continue to repeat itself. Normally its not a problem if you don't bring up the topic of sex and just go for it naturally (get the mood right, get her worked up) but I'm guessing you done fucked up and tried talking about it instead of finding the right time to make a move.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 02:53 AM
7

They say the easiest way to get over someone is to get under someone else but I think the best way to get your head out of the past is to plan on the future. Set goals and work on them. I played the field pretty hard after my last breakup but still thought about my ex too much. I started focusing on my health, hobbies, friends. Lost 35 pounds, started playing with a fairly popular band, career is going well, pretty much stopped drinking. Life is good, if I run into an ex they'll look at me and p…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 06:25 PM
11

Yeah I've never understood snooping someone's phone. So fucking weak. If I legit didn't trust a girl I would just end the relationship. I don't need "proof".
/r/askTRP07/01/18 06:09 PM
8

Awww high school heart break. The end of a relationship always stings at least a little bit. Just keep looking forward, there will be plenty of failed relationships in the future to look forward to and learn from. Have some fun, do your home work, brush ya teeth, enjoy the sea of puss that is college.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:54 PM
2

Watch out in Thailand. If you meet a super hot chick who is totally cool and into you it's probably a dude. If you made it to 26 without getting laid it's one of two things 1) you're below average in the looks department 2) you're a fucking weirdo. The fact it's a total mystery to you tells me mostly the second one, maybe the first one if you got too many doses of mom telling you that you are a handsome boy growing up.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:49 PM
3

I've had a lot of girlfriends and never tried to "get one". It wasn't an active technique or anything, just how it played out. Sometimes a chick brings it up or even "thinks" I'm her boyfriend and I'll decide if I'm down or if I'm going to let her down kindly. Don't try to get a girlfriend, they can smell it like a shark on blood, except they are repelled by it.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:08 AM
1

Just depends on what's around you, what you're into and whether or not you drink, how much you want to spend.... Check the local guides.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:29 AM
1

Do other shit with her? Y'all can't be that boring. Or if you don't want to do other things with her consider finding someone who you would like to get out and do things with.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:33 AM
13

I'm in the top 2% at walmart
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:48 AM
5

I date ugly chicks. Jk , I'm pretty quick on my toes so I can normally throw it back at them. If I don't have a quick wit response I might do something like make a hand gesture implying my dick is big and slowly nod yes. Sounds cheesy but stupid stuff like that throws people off guard. It won't inflate the girls ego unless the dude is better looking then you though.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:11 AM
3

Single moms need dick too. Bounce if she starts wanting to bring the kid around though. If she's looking for a hubby / daddy don't waste to much of her time if she wouldn't be interested knowing you aren't down for that. Typically I'll make sure the conversation happens by at least a month or so in. If you sling good dick they will be ok with it for a little while at least. Or do what you want, personally I don't like leading people on.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:00 AM
2

A good rule of thumb is one month for every year you were together before you naturally should be over it. If this was a girl you dated a year and are still bitter 3 years later that is a big problem. It means your head is stuck in the past. My main motivation in the gym is to be better than I was yesterday. If you let one woman have such a strong impact on you what's to stop it from happening again with the next girl who you thought was "the one"? You can certainly get results going through lif…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:38 AM
1

Do you have a reason not to trust her? Let her have a good time, do not under any circumstances tell her you're uncomfortable about anything. Some people around here will say chicks always cheat on trips. I've been on plenty of trips with attached female friends and aquantances and I've only known it to happen once. And this was the kind of chick you would expect it to happen with just by looking at her. No one is thinking about you or your reputation unless you're putting it out there, Streisan…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 08:43 PM
1

Absolutely. People end up having seizures and going off the road or falling in the bathtub and cracking their skull open. I did a 40 day stint cold turkey last year and didn't have any withdrawl symptoms but that was definitely an unnecessary risk I took. Today is day one of 90 days so I'm comfortable I'll be ok but I'll be talking to a doctor about it soon.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 05:28 PM
9

I know guys like that. The difference between them and "nice guys" is that they are genuine. This one guy I know, we'll call him John, is decent looking (a bit short but has everything else together/ going for him) is one of the nicest dudes I know and it isn't an act. He isn't trying to act a certain way to get someone to do something, or if he is he is really fucking good at it because we all know when someone is being fake and he isn't. We were at a club one night and I saw him making out wit…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 03:53 PM
9

The people I'm interested in share at least one hobby with me. My bandmates, for example, are cool as fuck but we probably wouldn't be friends and hang out if we didn't share that hobby. I have friends I go out and drink with but we play a sport or a game together, or we bike or we go urban exploring. I might invite a guy I know only at the gym or a chill coworker to a poker game because we need another person and now maybe they become friends with me and /or other people there. It's all about h…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 03:21 PM
2

I've seen the term comfort test a couple times, no clue what it is or why it should matter. I'll give my take though, sometimes it's actually a good idea to "fail" a shit test. Ya know, she's fucking with you and you can be clever or take the high ground but sometimes just telling her to stop being a bitch is the way to go. She knows she got to you but you didn't freak out.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 02:04 AM
2

I haven't been on Facebook for 8 or 9 years so it's not on my radar. Socially what I'll run into is people wanting my last name or phone number, then sometimes asking if I'm on Facebook, then sometimes raising their eyebrow when I say no. I think personally it was a good decision on my part but if we're talking about in terms of getting laid, do it. I started playing with this one band a couple months ago and a chick starts chatting me up on okstupid because someone in the band showed her a pic …
/r/askTRP30/12/17 11:49 PM
4

I haven't met one. They either still live at home and had a cultish upbringing, series of poor choices dating and / or addiction issues. Actually I dated this one girl briefly, early 30s, lawyer with no kids. Seemingly happy with her shit together just career focused. Turns out she was miserable. Couldn't please her folks, body image issues, anti-depressants and shrinks, possible functional alcoholic... little from column a, little from column b.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 11:31 PM
2

If she says she is busy and doesn't suggest another time it means she is not interested in you. Women aren't confrontational, they won't tell you they aren't interested, they will just be busy. I believe the joke in the 90s was "I'm washing my hair tonight".
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:35 PM
3

I stay away from store bought salad dressing typically. Particularly honey mustard, that kens steak house brand is bomb but if you look at the label you're almost better off chopping up a Snickers and tossing in on top. Olive oil, lemon, chopped garlic, mustard and a little bit maple syrup or honey. Whisk it up with a fork in a bowl and it's going to be way healthier than anything you buy at the store. Plus it's not super thick so a little goes a long way.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 08:04 PM
7

True, but even Jesus had to turn water into wine to get people to listen to him. These days people like to talk just to hear their own voice. People are much more likely to listen to you if you present yourself as an effective person. If I'm at a party I'll talk to the biggest dude in the room. Not "hey bro how much you bench", just what they're into and about. He's always gonna give you more useful info then the slob sitting on the sofa eating potato chips.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 09:36 PM
48

It's not worth the energy to argue with stuff like that. The best way to go through life is to lead by example. One chick I'm banging now is comically liberal, punk rocker looking, antifa patch on her jacket. She knows I'm conservative and voted for Trump but it doesn't matter because I take care of my body, have a decent career, cool hobbies and sling good dick. Talk is cheap, actions speak louder than words.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 03:25 PM
0

I think a cheat meal once a month is also necessary. Not just to enjoy life occasionally but to mess with your metabolism. I was doing keto with intermitant fasting and dropped about 35 pounds 2 and a half months in then progress stalled for two weeks. I went off my diet a couple days, nothing crazy, maybe a couple bowls of cereal and some bread and bam, started dropping the weight again. I find myself in a social setting at least once a month where I can go off my diet a little bit and enjoy my…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 11:35 AM
3

Girls are constantly trying to see "where they stand". Sometimes a girl will say something like "So and so said we should date", knowing full well I am in a relationship. They don't actually expect me to dump my girlfriend and hook up with them, they just want to see what you would say. They know where I stand in comparison to other guys in their life, they know what my girlfriend looks like, they just want to know how they stand in comparision to my girlfriend. And they might want to have somet…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:35 AM
9

Quality over quantity though. With LTRs typically the point is being exclusive. Taking care the other things and dread is implied. If I'm single and dating I know for a fact I got quality I wouldn't have if I told her I was in a relationship. If im in a relationship and conduct myself in a way where it is known I'll do just fine without her my balls will be drained to a point I won't even try.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 07:57 PM
2

It sounds like you just have low self confidence. I remember when I was 15 and this chick straight up asked to be my girlfriend and I legit thought she was fucking with me because she was waaay to hot for me (at least I thought). The good news is you don't have an ego, you're aware of your flaws but are a little too self conscious about it. I did alright in high school but definitely missed a lot of opportunities because I didn't have the confidence. Relax, go for the opportunities, enjoy the ri…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 07:21 PM
1

It's presumed your smv is higher if she agreed to be in a relationship with you. Women want two things in a partner a) better than her, b) better than her ex. The third one, which is a wild card that doesn't always apply is c) same kind of dude as her dad. If you meet the criteria but aren't providing what she wants in terms of "going to the next step", co-habitating, baby, ring she may branch swing or if your smv is sufficiently high she will remain "single" in perpetuity because she can't fulf…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:49 PM
3

It looks like OP tried getting a threesome going but handled it wrong. Probably for the best though, he still gives enough of a shit to go through her phone. Poor bastard needs to move on.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:56 PM
62

My last serious girlfriend gave me the "we need to talk 😕" text, yes with the emoji. This came after her sort of giving me the cold shoulder for a few days for reasons I don't know or care to know. She did give me the silent treatment once early in the relationship after I gave her some shit, that's another story, but I decided if she did it again I would be the one not talking to her so that's where we're at. Here's how I look at it, if she called, left a voice mail, brought it up without the c…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 05:02 PM
6

The only professional pics I have are playing shows, big difference between someone snapping a pic with their phone and a real pro with serious gear. That being said the random pic of me on stage playing drums in front of a big croud probably get a more points then the quality. Most of my pics are doing things with friends. Which I think is the real issue guys have, I do fine online dating, i know guys that think it's a waste of time. I ask if I can check out their profile and most of their pict…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:54 PM
2

I dont have anything against guys living at home at that age if they're trying to save up money but dude, if you can't bring chicks over consider getting a cheap apartment and a roommate or two and gtfo. To answer your question, I don't know if fucking in the back of a car is out of the question at a certain age but exhibitionism is always cool. I banged this one chick in a cemetery which was kind of strange but feeling the breeze on your ass is an interesting experience.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:45 PM
1

Hobbies? I play music, bike, workout, fish / camp, poker. There's some overlap in who I do those activities with and those tend to be the people I consider friends. I never understood regularly going out and just drinking. It's fun to do occasionally but unless there are pool tables or foosball tables or a big mma fight on the tv it's going to get real boring real quick. Fuck spending a premium on booze and needing to plan how to get home safely. If I'm just going to drink my liquor cabinet is f…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:38 PM
5

Get to a point where you have options. Im currently taking a shit and there is a girl sleeping in my bed. She's super into me but if she decides to bounce or get with someone else I don't give a shit because I have options. I don't spin plates but if a girl doesn't put out by date 4 it's "bye bye have a good life". I will purposely fail shit tests and make it known, because I have options. Relax, enjoy life, the best way to enjoy life is to have "money in the bank". If you're "broke" mentally or…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 01:46 PM
9

Depends on habit. If you start getting fat at age 20 and let the wheels off the wagon and never recover you peaked at 19. If you lift and have a good diet you'll continue to improve. I look better now at 33 then I did in my 20s by a long shot. Testosterone drops at a certain point, hair Grey' / thins. The sun can take it's toll. There are remedies to those things to a certain extent. Outside of habit it's genetics. Some people just have shitty health and genes. You peak when you get to a point w…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 06:30 PM
2

You can kinda tell when you're getting one side / version of the story. This is a girl he talked to at the gym, she was being friendly, he couldn't land it. He pined over her for years because a she actually talked to him. Probably nice guy syndrome, dude might have creeped her our. We all know those creepy guys at the gym that spend 80% of their time there talking to girls. Do you think a guy that is good with the ladies obsess about some chick at the gym? 3 years? I can take a hint in 3 minute…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:05 PM
19

No one likes him. I live in the same city he does, dude is a pariah. local bars / businesses won't serve him. Everyone knows who he is and knows he's a piece of shit. Dude may have gotten a light sentence but he didn't get off easy that's for damn sure.
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