Girlfriend and I nearly have sex everyday. Yesterday she said she didnt feel like having sex. We still had sex cause I felt like it lol, and once we got into it she was definitely into it to. Anyways, i like to throw in small amounts of dread to keep her on her toes once in a while, its worked out well so far. I definitely vary it up. Heres my next method (we live together by the way). Usually after work, we spend our time together. Ill work on my own project or hit the gym, or chill with a friend sometimes while she stays home. For the next three days, im thinking about spending most of my time away from home, staying busy. Maybe spending an hour or two with her then do my own thing. Also not initiating sex for three days. I initiate sex nearly everyday and almost always get it, so this should be a pattern interrupt. Then after being sort of cold these three days, Ill escalate friday night. Hopefully shes wetter than niagra falls, what do you think?