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8

Just remember the other women you are going after beyond your hometown were the same chicks as those who ignored you growing up but just ignored other nerdy guys just like you at their high school.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 12:12 PM
14

He is probably with his wife or other girlfriend on Valentine's Day.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/24 12:01 PM
7

This. It sounds like the OP has "anhedonia", one of the symptoms of depression. To the OP, is this seasonal due to less sunlight? Speak to a doctor!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 02:31 PM
10

Twitter is in San Francisco. Twitter used to be able to offer stock options so that workers would have an opportunity to make it big if things worked out. In San Francisco, any good IT talent can get a job in about an hour with a startup or established tech company and get juicy stock participation. Who has stayed at Twitter? Well, the Twitter opportunity involves no stock options, no path to liquidity, no raises in sight, real risk of bankruptcy. So you have those IT workers who either need the…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 09:16 PM
30

But it was somewhat telling how people would have no concerns with the scenario if it were reversed So true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 01:50 PM
47

She thinks that she is worthy of a top 3% guy! Of course! Then she selects the 25. She said she had 800 matches over many months. Then she decided to pay and review and respond to those matches. Let's start out with how many of those original 800 are still on bumble at all anymore? How many just "swiped right" based on her picture not reading to see that she even had a kid. So of that 25 how many are even still on bumble, how many are turned off by the kid thing? How many are now in relationship…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 01:32 PM
30

She dumped him for Chad the Formula 1 driver (or footballer or i-banker).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 05:33 PM
35

that plus the 666 (six pack, six figures and over 6 feet). She left those requirements out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 05:32 PM
7

Bernie's wife keep 7 million Nope. $1-2 Million according to wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth\_Madoff#:\~:text=After%20her%20husband's%20arrest%20for,her%20husband's%20firm%2C%20Irving%20Picard.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/22 05:59 PM
16

Feminism today is focused on equal outcomes, not equality and thus non-discriminatory treatment and opportunities.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:31 PM
8

Want to have some ice cream with my friend and me?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 04:06 AM
8

...and guess what? The guy they are with lowered HIS standards in being with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 10:57 AM
9

The fact that she thinks it is "LOL" funny to racially exclude people makes me scratch my head in wonderment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/22 08:47 PM
10

Don't you dare ask her to "lower her standards"!!!! /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/22 08:44 PM
7

Telemarketing!
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/22 10:09 PM
11

Surrogate for an overseas couple? Sounds like an anchor baby for a couple looking at immigration options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/22 12:46 AM
27

Nothing yet: https://wgxa.tv/news/local/byron-woman-hit-multiple-people-police-cars-during-chase
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/22 11:45 AM
3

Too bad about the Russian sanctions. She would make an excellent sugar baby to an oligarch.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/22 03:31 AM
3

If it was a guy, they would have certainly tased him.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/05/22 04:46 PM
13

she'll have 3 kids before she turns 25. She HAS 3 kids.... FTFY
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 12:46 PM
1

Some men love to find women with daddy issues in an attempt to heal them or fix them or exploit them.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/22 01:24 PM
-3

I look at it as "Power". Men get power or demonstrate power from being wealthy just as they do as abusers. Abusers show their power over women in a different way.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/22 01:24 PM
5

That just proves you have a Y chromosome.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/22 11:50 AM
76

Didn't you know that fashion models are now called "clothed sex workers"? /s
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/22 12:30 PM
1

I would bet that she knew it but wanted to create a media frenzy (mission accomplished).
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 02:23 PM
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Having bags sniffed and nuts handled might be more fun!
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/22 06:28 PM
366

How can an airline assure that a flight is nut free? Maybe they can assure that they aren't serving nuts but how do to assure that every other passenger hasn't brought any onboard? Or a passenger on a previous flight hadn't dropped two peanuts between the seats where the woman is sitting? American airlines specifically doesn't offer any nut free assurances as it their right and they do so in writing. Who is she to demand that they change their policies? https://www.aa.com/i18n/travel-info/experi…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/22 04:09 PM
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Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do So true. Women's idea of men opening up is for the guy to tell them a "Hero's Journey" kind of tale about struggle and victory not fear, pain and doubt.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 07:06 PM
21

Maybe she was simply a terrible or boring lay and it wasn't worth his time to hit it again?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 11:38 AM
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Two points: Firstly, how many women date a guy a couple of times, giving them the opportunity to spend money on them and then ghost the guy after he starts to feel hopeful? How many of these same women are guilty of the same behavior as Caleb? Secondly, I am certain that none of these women on TikTok have even considered that posting these videos brands them as a superficial ho and takes them out of wifing consideration of that real guy that they are looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 12:33 PM
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hundreds of decent men who would have wifed them up are invisible. ...and being ghosted themselves by these same women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 12:20 PM
22

I just came up with it on the fly...feel free to use it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 12:45 PM
36

She sealed the deal when she stopped having sex with him!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 11:48 AM
80

she took him for granted, the sex stopped So called "Burying the Lead". To her it was about a million things and a million details. To him, it was about one thing supported by a million details. She was faking attraction and he figured it out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 11:47 AM
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Tears are for bad luck and criticism was for Reddit comments supporting her decisions...you know, stuff outside her control of which she has no responsibility for. I am thinking we should do a go fund me for her to get her cats....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 01:37 PM
6

The "champagne" she is pictured with costs $7 a bottle (I am not kidding)...she is my kind of classy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 12:27 PM
38

"I want, I want, I want." Doesn't talk about what she will give, does she?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 08:48 PM
8

This! To the woman it's a "date", to the man it's "I have nothing else to do tonight and I am horny". To the woman, he is a boyfriend. To the man, she is a "booty-call" (and not my number one booty call).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 01:18 PM
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More than that, she doesn't have foresight to realize that the video is destroying her reputation with any guy FTD would approve of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 11:23 AM
1

They had an amicable divorce settlement and ended putting the majority of their Amazon stock into a trust for their future generations. Jeff controls the shares in his lifetime. It was more than could be spent in their lifetime. As long as majority of Jeff's shares were put in a trust for the kids they had together and not any future kids he has with "that whore", she didn't care. As long as he had voting control, he didn't care either. She married a school teacher!
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/21 02:25 AM
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Exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 04:25 AM
4

She says she is having more success in dating now than she did in her early 20s. OK, she is 33, was married 10 years, is divorced, probably dated her then husband for at least a year or two before she got married and she claims she is having no success dating currently. How much dating could she have done in her early 20s? She probably met her husband at 21 or so! It was successful enough that she met a guy to marry her. Talk about rationalizing and conflicting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 10:42 PM
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She wants a 6'2" doctor or lawyer who accepts her for who she is, not demand sex and be a daddy to her kids. Should be a layup for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 07:48 PM
12

They are entertainers! That is it! Let's pay the less entertaining entertainers more than the most entertaining ones??? Huh?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/21 08:30 PM
14

The guys she "gets vibes for" are the same small subset of men that every other slut just like her "gets vibes for." She's not hopping in the sack with Glen from Accounting, after all. She has sex with attractive, cocky strangers based on tingles - nothing more and nothing less. That is gold right there. This totally escapes women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 01:19 PM
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....and she want kids! So she is 37 and is willing to go back to the well to find someone just as perfect plus tingles. If she dumps this guy tomorrow, how soon does she think this guy is going to come along? She has gone 37 years and exactly one suitable guy has come along but she thinks she still can find a guy and rope him into marriage AND have viable ovaries AND the guy is going to want to rush to have kids with her. Yeah, that will work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 02:21 AM
3

She has this wrong. The men she wants won't chase her because they are so far above her league. She has to chase those men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 12:29 PM
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What she is really saying is that 99% of the men she swiped on are sexualizing the convo and are only interested in sex from HER. If a chick swipes high above her SMV, then those guys are going to treat her as disposable because they have an unlimited supply of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 06:37 PM
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If it didn't work, guys wouldn't do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 06:08 PM
3

I told women that if they thought this game that favors alpha male PUAs stank, they should try a new one. But they love being a cavewoman food prostitute. You are so right. They are programmed to play into the PUA trap and cry a river when they end up on the curb. Men are very clear about the distinction between arousal/tingles and attraction/compatibility, women generally are not. Your wife was an exception. She focused up front on attraction/compatibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 12:33 PM
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Would you rather be with a school teacher or a woman working 60 hours a week making over $100k? I would guess that most men would say the school teacher or that it doesn't matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 05:57 PM
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I always think about it as a failure in marketing. She doesn't understand the market--the customer she is trying to sell to. What does the high alpha guy that meets her requirement looking for? One thing he isn't specifically looking for is a high earning woman. He makes enough for the two of them. He is probably looking for someone who would make a good wife, mother and partner and he has a ton of options to find that. He is also probably willing to go out with a less hot chick for the other qu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 12:43 PM
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True!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 03:48 PM
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It just shows that she has a really low emotional intelligence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 03:41 PM
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"it's funny the way your girls talk...it is basically the same we we talk about women's parts. Women who are nice and tight vs. women who are much looser. I am sure you wouldn't mind overhearing that conversation."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 03:39 PM
13

Boxed Wine Of The Month where there is demand...supply will emerge: https://www.botabox.com/ Now, if they can just do something with cats...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 04:24 PM
2

...and she isn't sure whether or not she is the asshole or not? I wonder whether biological dad or step dad paid for the wedding....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 04:32 PM
1

Independent of thought, dependent on finances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 12:28 PM
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Somehow some women think its an accomplishment to have been engaged (and dumped) or to have lived with someone (and dumped) and that somehow proves that they are a worthy candidate for wifing. The reality is if you got someone to get down on one knee and give you a ring and you couldn't close that ultimate deal, you are a bigger loser than someone who never got the ring. How can you drop the ball on the 1 yard line??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 10:59 PM
13

She has 23k followers? Yuch!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 10:49 PM
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She says that "Unlike men, women incur two huge sexual risks..." Wrong! Men have the same risk of failure to enjoy just like women do and, in addition, men have the risk of rejection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:09 PM
44

Nothing sexier than that in 6 inch heels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 03:21 AM
4

I thought they had a plan of retroactively transferring their birthdays to Feb 29th?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 08:11 PM
14

After three years of him forgetting her birthday she should have gotten the message!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 04:14 PM
6

Yup...It is just a negotiating tactic.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/21 04:41 AM
42

I thought receptionist.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/21 01:41 PM
1

100%!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:01 PM
43

Do you mean that you think men looking for LTRs don't want nasty, opinionated and hardcore (whatever that means) women? /s Let me guess...her amazing job/career is in marketing because she has such a great understanding of what her target market wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:51 AM
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99% of people aren't first choice!
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:12 PM
13

All the OP is going to end up doing is trading in this one for one who lies to him but doesn't get caught. Very little difference!
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:20 PM
5

All yours!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 04:22 PM
42

I hate the word "settling" for just this reason. I like "adjusting expectations" better. It is better to say, "I am happy based on my adjusted expectations" than "I settled and this is the best I can do".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 02:49 PM
22

There is even a wikipedia page for this incident: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Central\_Park\_birdwatching\_incident
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/21 11:04 AM
7

First of all. Learn something about this group and what it believes by reading the stuff on the side bar. Second, understand something really important. There is nothing you can do to her, for her or about her that can "win her back". Quite simply, you cannot negotiate attraction with someone and groveling is the single most unattractive thing you can do with a woman. When you consider these points, there are zero options to "win her back" so stop worrying about it and move on. If there was the …
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:25 PM
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The photo says "two of her sons", not her two sons. There are more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 08:03 PM
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That is her philanthropy. It friggin drives me crazy when do-gooders spend thousands to go to a developing world country, play do-gooder for a day and they go to a resort for the rest of the week and consider themselves philanthropists because they gave some poor kid in an orphanage a bandaid and a lollypop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 11:50 AM
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Her daughter maybe!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 02:38 AM
3

Left out: Must be > 6' tall or used to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 04:47 PM
1

We’ll have long periods where everything is fine That is not good enough, is it?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:02 PM
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Any reasonable subreddit would ban her for name calling....oh, that only happens if it is a guy doing the name calling. I forgot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 08:46 PM
2

Makes hundreds and still lives in her car??
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:55 PM
6

Every chick who says "no more hookups" is totally bait for a guy looking for just a hookup. Clearly, she has fallen for a cute guy with a line of shit many many times in the past so if that is who you are and that is what you want, there she is with a target on her back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 04:19 AM
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> "no more hookups" Who in their right mind would write that even if it were true!?? Let's tell all the eligible, great guys, with great jobs: "Hi. I used to be that hot girl Chads used to pump and dump (and ignore you) but now, after a hundred or two hookups, I am looking for some guy to commit to me." Let me guess...she was a marketing major in college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 04:17 AM
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Women like being seduced, they just don't like having been seduced. In the moment, it is what they seek. In retrospect, they get annoyed that they fell for Chad.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 12:05 PM
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Commitment issues after they have been together a whole two weeks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 08:48 PM
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...and it is something that a guy she is interested in, in the future, will likely find and cringe. So many women think they are in a relationship with the guy when, in fact, they are just the booty call to the guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 08:44 PM
14

She knew her worth, but somehow the market doesn't. BTW - what is she offering a potential mate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 12:06 PM
36

...and over 6' 2".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 02:12 PM
2

Oh? You mean she is your oneitus? Start with understanding the idea of abundance and stop with the fantasy that because you helped her in her time of need, she is going to hear violins and fall in love with you. Next, understand that she has gone cold on you...you need to stop wasting your time and stop being so available to her. You are deep in the beta orbit and you need to accept that you are not leaving that orbit. You have already shown yourself to be a beta to her and that perception isn't…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:10 PM
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Nope! Never! Read their actions, not their words.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:57 PM
11

Wow!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 02:20 PM
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...who will "date them" but not marry them or even bring them home for Christmas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 02:19 PM
1

...and since when do we listen to what women say?
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:01 PM
1

What were they expecting? A slap on the wrist?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 06:48 PM
13

There should be a 12 step program for this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 01:51 PM
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Good money management. He has $50MM in a trust.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/21 05:14 PM
4

Get a second opinion!
/r/askTRP13/02/21 06:02 AM
5

Did you consider the percentage of Asians (thus pulling down the average height) in Ivy League schools is greater than the overall population?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:40 PM
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Outside of the basketball teams of the Ivy schools how many 6'4" grads even are there?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 04:11 PM
3

> They were asking her what kind of guys she likes Well, that is your first mistake. Since when does what a woman says correlate to what they do? They say average but go home with Chad.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:49 PM
1

Exactly. You are deeply in the friend zone. She doesn't even want to have any wine with you. Just cancel on her and say something came up and then conveniently avoid rescheduling. Tell her you are too busy.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:11 AM
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So, let me get this straight. You think she will get to know you over coffee and she will then realize, "holy shit! Jimmamlvn is super hot, I want him outside the friend zone and now!" Nope. It isn't anywhere near that easy. The only way out of the friendzone is to show her your SMV, show her that other women are interested in you, etc. Not through telling her some witty/boring stories from your high school life.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:46 AM
8

Which pronouns should we use? /s
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 11:33 PM
5

...and many of those that came back had, what we might call today, PTSD untreated. Soldiers saw some unspeakable horrors. Imagine what Marines in the Pacific saw.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:03 PM
149

Of course, a snippet in Maxim: "I've cheated on every girlfriend I've ever had, and I don't regret it." Would be met by criticism and name calling by the same shrews giving the Cosmo statement the thumbs up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 05:04 AM
4

Is there any co-worker that can substantiate that she is saying it? Maybe someone who is resigning and doing an exit interview or who hates her just as much or someone who is super honest?
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:00 PM
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...but if you are a guy with a record for selling a dime bag of weed (since only fans wasn't an option for you), you are shit out of luck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 02:58 PM
11

Young men as young as 16 can be tried and sentenced as an adult but a 22 year old woman...she should have all the opportunities that men have but not the responsibilities?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/21 07:17 PM
1

You can't negotiate attraction (key red pill belief). There is nothing you can say to her that is going to turn this around. You can't convince her to be attracted. There are no magic words.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:19 AM
1

Life is a journey! Remember the abundance thinking. It takes the sting away from any individual girl and situation. If you got one like her, you will get more like her.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:59 AM
1

99% sure it isn't the real reason. She said what she said because it was the most expeditious thing should could to end the uncomfortable conversation. Think about. Let's say you are annoying as fuck and that turned her off. Do you think she would want to say it was your personality sucks or would she just make some benign I like you as a friend bullshit; lost the spark? One of the most important maxims of the red pill is that you shouldn't listen to what women say. You should look at what they …
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:44 PM
1

> She said I look good and my personality is good but she just doesn’t feel it. So, you asked her? If she did still have a flicker of any attraction for you, asking her certainly ended that.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:45 PM
1

Yes...he should have the name of the person who was in his car.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/21 03:59 AM
2

How about Subpoena Uber's records for that day for drop offs/pickups at that location?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 09:21 PM
38

The wage gap is unfair. I will never settle for a man that makes less than me! If there was such a wage gap, it would be easy to find men making more than she does!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 09:56 PM
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Twitter can solve this if only the government passes a LAW so that for every retweet a man gets, a woman's tweet should automatically get two retweets! (yes, I am being sarcastic!)
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 12:48 PM
5

You guys are too nice!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 08:31 PM
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It there was a subreddit that support maximum male benefit, it would be quarantined in about 30 minutes.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/12/20 06:36 PM
6

Big fish, small pond is the being in a small pond.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 12:37 PM
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Your point about sexual marketplace capitalism is something I have been thinking about for a long time. In economics 101 we were taught about the elements of a "perfect market" being perfect information, low barriers to entry, no switching costs, etc. Within the context of todays Tinder driven dating marketplace that is what we have now that wasn't present 30 years ago particularly for hot babes and chads. Today there are zero switching costs...don't like the date or pissed at your bf/gf, click …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 06:21 PM
3

In the US where you can, to a large degree, specify your "MOS" or job in the military before joining, there are still plenty of people who join requesting a combat facing role.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:15 PM
12

Oh look....She is engaged! https://www.instagram.com/p/CGiPy2KHDEs/ (to herself!)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 07:35 PM
19

They are confusing socially with biologically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 01:58 PM
1

A good lawyer will have the experience to write it so it won't be thrown out.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:48 AM
14

Note that these were friendships and she has no problem up and ghosting a friend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 05:38 PM
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That would require that they look at things from another party's perspective. If she understood that, she wouldn't be in the predicament she is in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/20 04:17 PM
14

Guys don't want to put in effort for her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/20 11:42 AM
8

How did the rest of that story go?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 11:19 AM
14

...and a Chad, who on a good day can get a 9, will put her in his plate rotation for Tuesday or Wednesday night Netflix and chill and weekend booty call when he strikes out with a model. Meanwhile she is thinking, "I am dating Chad. He is my boyfriend. He won't commit but he really cares for me. He won't see me on Saturday nights because he is so busy with work functions."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 11:08 PM
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What do women get master's degrees in? Education (generally subsidized) which is a requirement for teachers to make more money in many places. Here are the most common master's programs by enrollment: Business, Education, Health (nursing, etc.) and public administration. https://learn.org/articles/What_are_the_Most_Common_Masters_Degree_Programs.html 2, 3 and 4 are dominated by women. Does that mean they are smarter than men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 01:12 AM
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Logic and facts are a tool of the patriarchy!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/20 12:25 PM
1

...and real women will love every inch of geeky nerds. Oh, I am sorry, fighting double standards is a tool of the patriarchy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 12:30 AM
4

3 years and 3x a week at the gym and 150lbs? Get a trainer. You are doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:49 PM
1

Being on time is a tool of the patriarchy!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 06:57 PM
6

...she has standards and doesn't understand why she should have to settle.... ​ Got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 05:17 AM
12

You left out: He holds me accountable for my actions.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:46 PM
29

...and like the alpha widows that have become, only will swipe right for a guy that is a 10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 12:26 PM
34

Yet she bears no responsibility for her predicament.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 12:24 PM
50

The clarification is: "it's one hundred percent... of the guys we're fucking". Tinder has given the top 10% of single guys who want to pursue notches on their belt (Chads and other practitioners of "The Game") far more efficiency in macking than the old days of going to clubs and bars and hoping to find targets. Tinder opens up the marketplace 24/7. For non Chads and players, the situation is far worse because they are out competed by this faster moving and more attractive cohort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 12:22 PM
60

They broke up for logical reasons.... If they guy dumped the girl she would have a lot more to say about the breakups being unjust or abusive or whatever. That the breakups were "logical" means she initiated them. That she still "thinks well of them" means she has regrets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/20 10:55 PM
1

...remembering that you have no idea what her cheating past really is. Somehow we all are more comfortable with a leap of faith with an less known partner than a known partner.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:37 PM
1

She would also then have to sign a post nup. She has to be all in with no safety net if she wants reconciliation.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:35 PM
1

It is also a matter of the "devil you know is better than the devil you don't know". Yeah she cheated once...so is it better to be with a new chick who you don't know her cheating history? Why is a new chick assumed to have a better cheating history than the chick the OP has been with for years and knows pretty well. The advantage of going back is he can hold this cheating episode over her.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:27 PM
7

I truly believe that there is likely to be an entirely different story from the guy involved in this case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/20 02:13 PM
22

That is how I read it the first time...then I thought about it how this might be different from the guy's perspective. This could very well be her hamster wheel "interpretation" of what happened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/20 02:11 PM
13

Very insightful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 01:13 PM
7

It is always easier to blame someone or something else than admit your lack of accountability and other stoic traits necessary for success.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 03:32 AM
5

Accountability is a tool of the patriarchy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 11:04 PM
1

Exactly. Most flight schools have a trial lesson for like $100 called a discovery flight. Go call one up and try it out. I guaranty you it will be memorable.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:38 PM
3

Learn to fly! That is a challenge!
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:23 AM
17

So, basically she is saying there should be a law to protect women from this dynamic because women need to be protected and can't make decisions for themselves. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/20 03:50 AM
2

> I felt like I have always benefited after burning the bridges and moved to a better position in life. How have you feel benefited? By feeling satisfied? I love the saying that revenge is a meal best served cold. For example, if you have a shitty boss...look for opportunities in the future in your industry where you can trip them up without them knowing it was you. Leave them wondering with no closure. That is sweet revenge. Be magnanimous when you leave and you may find that HE asks YOU to be …
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:56 PM
34

When I saw her "I will do as I please" commnet, I was thinking that a cool retort would be "and that is why no one takes your opinions seriously. They are not substantial."
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/20 01:03 PM
6

Netflix series Indian Matchmaking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 12:06 AM
11

I think it is Indian Matchmaking on Netflix.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 12:02 AM
11

Being the center of all that attention!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 04:20 PM
2

Chasing Passion? Fuck that shit. Do you really think there are many people who really have the opportunity to work in an area of such a fun passion as gaming and make a living in the process? It is a minority particularly if you define your "passion" as playing a game. This is the reason you are getting hate here. When people here talk about passion, it isn't about things like watching reality tv, eating sundaes (but there are professional competitive eaters!) or drinking beer. They are talking …
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:59 PM
8

Revenge is a dish best served cold.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:08 AM
3

....just the same way women judge us. Are we tall enough, good looking enough, rich enough, etc. all the time!
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/08/20 03:38 PM
34

When it suits her, she is also a feminist who demands that women have equality. When it comes to fighting government and potentially dying, where are the men?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/08/20 01:40 PM
8

LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 04:52 PM
6

This is not unique to women of a certain age but all genders all over the place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 04:30 PM
8

I think few understand the consequences and most are living in the world of denial and bad luck that led them to their later circumstances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 04:29 PM
1

Or maybe, just maybe the guys are turned off by her being late all the time!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/20 03:53 AM
42

Check out these titles: "I Need A Guy Who Can Cope With The Fact That I’m Late For Everything" and "If I Can’t Find A Date Because I Won’t Settle, I Guess I’ll Be Single Forever" Talk about narcissism!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/20 03:23 PM
3

I find that talking about things like china patterns for our wedding registry and what color dresses the bridesmaids will be wearing is even better! /s
/r/askTRP07/08/20 06:19 PM
7

IMHO a chick who is really young and just breaks up with a 5 year relationship is looking to make her pain go away. She isn't looking for fun, followed by the pain of uncertainty (we will see), followed by maybe more fun and more uncertainty. She is looking for an immediate replacement of the huge void in her life. She is 18 and just out of a 5 year relationship. She knows nothing about dating. All she knows is that she is lonely and insecure and wants that to go away. I don't think standard gam…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:25 PM
84

Just like Hillary's campaign in 2016...they draw their conclusions and strategies from the market by talking to their left leaning friends rather than the actual market.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 03:51 PM
1

Great! You are beautiful. I see that you see that but don't I have a right to like what I like? Furthermore, does she acknowledge for a second those men at the bottom of the dating hierarchy because of the same kinds of "injustice" that she is "victim" of and declare them as "beautiful" too? The real flaw in that sentence is that she says that "Whoever chooses...". We don't choose attraction. We are wired for it the same way women are wired to be attracted to hot alpha guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/20 11:47 AM
10

Not angry...accuse men of being intimidated. You can't not want what they offer because you aren't simply attracted to it, it has to be that the men are weak and intimidated by it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 09:25 PM
19

We can only guess on the expiration of those eggs (double entendre there!).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 03:27 PM
39

She is certainly below average and thus below a 5. She is not facially attractive and has a bad figure. In contrast, I really liked the school guidance counselor and the vet. Very real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 03:26 PM
35

We see this over and over....women think men are looking for what they are looking for (power alpha earner, etc.) and can't understand why the power alpha earners aren't interested in her. Those guys have no trouble finding far nicer and better looking women in their community.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 03:22 PM
4

It is extremely rare that a chick get preggers and doesn't tell the father, if for no other reason than for setting up financial support. If she is preggers, you are probably not the father so relax. You have no reason to get crazy about this until it is time to get crazy about this.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:47 AM
1

Do men who rape women have to pay child support after they get out of jail?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 04:09 PM
2

You gotta give her credit for holding frame in the face of dna evidence! We can all learn from this! ;-)
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 03:58 PM
193

Sort of like how women get praise when they do things that are expected of men.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/20 02:46 AM
10

I would always laugh at the women I have met who say they "love travel" but who haven't gone more than 25 miles from the cruise ports of the Caribbean in their "travel adventures".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 02:30 PM
2

Yes...this blows my mind too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 02:28 PM
6

Jack shit is what you owe her. No closure, nothing. Cut!
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:10 PM
6

advice on how to handle her and family Here is your advice: don't Block her and cut her out of your life as soon as possible and as completely as possible.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:28 PM
2

Listen to /u/pseudomonames and do a sleep study. Being treated for apnea radically changed my life with no drugs.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:49 PM
11

This is a classic marketing failure. They are failing to get inside the needs and wants of their target market (marriage minded men). They are assuming that they themselves have the same needs and wants of the target market and that is what their marketing is based on. Like every very shitting marketing company, when the marketing fails, they blame the target market for not understanding the value in their message instead of looking at the marketing itself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 03:22 PM
1

That is my part of the world...when you go to the rest of the US, even Orlando, it is a shock to see how big and overweight people are.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:16 PM
2

What about bowling?? /s
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:13 PM
5

Your numbers are mixed. You have the average height for a woman and the average weight for a man but your point is still correct. Average for a woman is 170 lb.--still enormous. https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/average-weight-for-women#:~:text=The%20average%20American%20woman%2020,feet%2C%204%20inches)%20tall.%20tall.)
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:12 PM
1

Young women (and young men) in particular sometimes don't know what are successful and unsuccessful behaviors in relationships. We have all learned by trial and error or some subreddit the shit that women want to hear and we know that using those things helps our game. Some people are further down the learning curve or whatever and need to learn how to do the things that our interests will like to hear. I suspect her not complimenting you was less about her not being attracted to you and more ab…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:23 PM
5

...and guess what? You friend don't want to and won't tell you your flaws and if they do, they will sugar coat it and you will only hear the sugar. They will lie and tell you how wonderful you are to preserve your ego so declaring that your friends reinforce your believe that you are such a catch just reinforces your evident lack of self awareness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 11:49 AM
4

This. All she does it blame men and bad luck. She finds a guy who wants to marry her and she finds flaw with him and dumps him at her age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 11:44 AM
15

In the words of Charlie Sheen (who should know a thing or two about prostitutes), ". “I don’t pay them for sex. I pay them to leave. "
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 11:12 PM
3

Let me introduce you to Rule 34). For everything, there is a pornography for it. Secondly, since when on TRP to we listen to what women say? One youngish perv hits her up and she is bragging that she has scores of 20 year olds lined up.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:38 PM
3

Theirs is not a dating strategy to win a husband or to keep a boyfriend. They give advice to women with the intention of them becoming the same kind of bitter man haters as the mods.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:45 AM
9

Thongs as bikini bottoms are ok...men wearing boxers no good. Double standard? Nah! /s
/r/PussyPassDenied09/06/20 07:29 PM
53

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-47738892
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/20 08:07 PM
1

This is the problem. The more energy you put into these thoughts and reliving old times and dwelling on this, the stronger the memory becomes. When you start thinking about her, you need to break the pattern. Take a cold shower. Play a video game, whatever! Break the pattern of dwelling on her.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:19 PM
5

How about getting a restraining order on her because she hit you.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:58 PM
7

At least give her a ticket for having the dog off the leash!
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 05:51 AM
40

You left out poor impulse control and poor decision making.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/20 03:08 PM
3

Why are you even on this subreddit? If you want support for your being a beta, there are a slew of other subreddits for that. We don't believe what you believe. We believe in abundance and stoicism and self improvement. We believe that this woman couldn't have been so wonderful if she couldn't see your finer qualities. We believe that there is no negotiation of attraction. There is nothing you can say that will win her back, no magic incantation, no slick lines, etc. You can't grovel your way ba…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:06 PM
8

You can either get over it or spend the rest of your life wallowing in it like the huge beta that got yourself into this situation. If you want to give up your beta ways, here is your first opportunity.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:56 PM
2

"I asked my friends, why would they lie to me?"Because they are your friends and don't want to hurt your feelings, that is why they lie to you. Ask yourself the question, if a 4/10 asked YOU to rate THEM, would you put your thumb on the balance to preserve their self esteem? Of course, you would. One of the key tenets of TRP "Look at people's actions, not their words." If people are acting to your like you are a 4/10, then you are a 4/10. The other point is "social proof". When you start dating …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:02 PM
23

It is one thing to admit this out loud, it is another to admit it so the world knows about and will know about it for all time. Her children (she will have with Chad out of wedlock, of course), can be really happy when their friends in high school 20 years from know give them shit about what a ho their mother is. Clearly a problem she has with impulse control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/20 01:01 PM
1

So, she wants to withhold the existence of your relationship from someone who is clearly one of her best friends? Sounds like you are her plate. You don't want to be in an LTR with someone who see you as only a plate. Remember that she must be lying to him about where she is during weekends, etc. You guys are together and she is telling him she is on a spa day or with a friend. That is bad. Demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:55 PM
11

IMHO A woman calling a man controlling is just a man holding a woman accountable.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:50 PM
1

This all goes back to the idea of abundance mentality. If you can't walk away, if you never show her you have other options, you can never be attractive to her. You can't grovel your way to her being attracted to you.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:15 PM
46

This!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 02:17 PM
21

I bet the captain of the football teams knows where they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 03:43 PM
5

So, you are worried about a chick that says she is 16 (probably a fat guy in his 60s) from America traveling to Europe to look for some dude whose picture isn't even yours? Do you also worry about satellites falling from orbit onto your head?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:43 PM
2

This! Many young women need to learn this. Just teach her.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:11 PM
4

I like getting my medical advice from Reddit! /s
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:15 PM
2

Personal training is just selling your time for money without the ability to go beyond a certain level of daily utilization or hourly rate. Every day you have hours free in the middle of the day and are busy early in the morning and again in the evening. Most of your clients won't want to do the work and are looking for a miracle of results with minimal effort.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:04 AM
4

Yes. Now get your career shit together, get yourself as physically attractive as possible through fitness, haircut, clothes, whatever and when she finds out you are sought after by other women, It will make her crazy with her thinking about what she missed out on.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:06 PM
7

One of the key rp truths is: "you can't negotiate attraction" You can't convince her or any chick to be attracted to you because the very act of trying to convince them to "try it again" is incredibly unattractive to them. They are attracted to what they can't have or to what other women want (think about this. the entire fashion and consumer products industry is based on this.) Being a door mat is 180 degrees opposite to this.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:46 AM
8

I always say that this is a failure in marketing. Not knowing what your target market is looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/20 11:39 AM
7

Particularly in bread!
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:53 AM
0

Increase your SMV
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:44 PM
2

That would be two senses of the word.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/20 08:39 PM
1

> easy to fall into the trap of thinking that these girls are victims Right...guy goes to an escort the woman is a victim. Woman goes to an escort, she is the victim. Welcome to the 21st century.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:18 PM
4

Uh...I would say the odds are better than 50/50 she is lying and is 40+
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/20 04:38 AM
6

Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy! Love it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/20 04:18 AM
7

Consider this--a porn buyer is likely to be a serial porn buyer so their service allows the porn buyer one account and "click to buy" impulse buying for them. Joe Porn Buyer doesn't want to enter his payment credentials into some random Russian chick's website. Only fans give him piece of mind and convenience. I would bet bucks that it increases the net take for the women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/20 02:38 PM
15

Exactly, and TRP gets banned and they can be openly discriminatory and nothing happens to their sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 10:27 PM
2

I would look at the Air Force and MOS's for aviation mechanics, air traffic control, etc. that have (or had until recently) good job prospects.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:03 PM
5

Then you have no choice but to eat shit.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:58 PM
13

There is another old expression: You can't negotiate attraction. The girl made it abundantly clear what she is attracted to but the OP did a "I will just try harder" with what he felt she would be attracted to. If her "having eaten" the second time didn't make it clear that his efforts weren't attracting her, nothing would.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/03/20 02:52 PM
1

I would say it as a joke....
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:22 PM
5

"When you are in an orgy, how do you really know for sure who was last?" Amplify!
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:03 PM
0

Go to a doctor. You probably have depression.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:46 AM
4

There are three things that can happen with social media: You are a rockstar with huge following, going to the coolest places with the coolest people and in this case it can help your SMV You are an average joe with a modest following doing average things and this can hurt your SMV You can not be on and be too cool for it and this can help your SMV by making you more mysterious and "above it all". So, unless you can be option 1, option 3 is the best move since it requires zero effort.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 12:43 PM
4

This! The next thing she is going to tell you is that she is a marketing exec---duh! Clearly, she has no clue about how to market herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/20 04:55 AM
8

"She loved me, but wasn't in love with me...."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/20 04:53 AM
47

On any given night, a high SMV guy may choose to go home with a low SMV girl because he wants to get laid. The societal problem with that is that now that lower SMV girl thinks she has a shot at landing a guy like that in the future and only a high SMV guy will do. This is the "Alpha Widow".
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:36 PM
-2

and every few weeks for months and months.....
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/20 01:19 PM
55

Serena William's lost to an old dude https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karsten_Braasch He was ranked 203 at the time and took both the sisters on one after the other, 6-1 and 6-2.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 04:28 PM
2

We haven't reached the plateau of this yet, how can you say flu kills more people? So, flu over the course of a year kills more people than the first couple of weeks of this cycle? How is that significant?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:47 PM
3

She will just deny it and blame the OP. It is a lose lose.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:46 PM
1

The number of cases is growing very rapidly and since it is possibly more contagious, possibly more deadly and since there is no vaccine thus no herd immunity to slow things down, the potential for this to kill a lot of old people is significant. Flu kills a lot of people in the developing world where vaccination rate is low, not so much in the West. Now we are all on a level playing field since no one is vaccinated. The quarantine isn't for you. It is to control the spread of the virus for the …
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:27 PM
10

This x 100! Always, always, always learn about women from their actions, not their words. They talk about wanting Mr. Niceguy who is generous with kind words and buys them shit but they go home with Chad who does none of those things. Every day!
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:44 PM
10

...and since you can't do much about face and height, that leaves fitness as something you can do something about today.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 11:13 AM
7

Why try caught criminals? Their crimes were in the past!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 12:42 AM
15

This post is not about weight lifting...it is about any form of self improvement and the importance of perseverance.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 12:43 PM
4

Do you have a reference? I heard of one case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/20 10:08 PM
20

Go see a doctor. Depression is only somewhat related to your current circumstances. Read up on the Bio Psycho Social model of depression. It is one part biology, one part psychology (the deep shit, your childhoor, etc.) one part current curcumstnace.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:15 PM
1

Guys need to realize that the path to getting her back (not that I recommend that path) and to getting over her are the same path. Focus on you. Focus in increasing your SMV. Get an IDGAF attitude. Focus on abundance over scarcity. Focus on fitness. Focus on your frame. etc. Then ALL chicks will be attracted to you including your ex.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:38 PM
3

You have to also consider that when you ask a woman out, you are catching them off guard so they reject you out of impulse not being prepared for that quesiton. Until you asked her out, she might not have thought about you in that light. Time passes, the hamster wheel spins and she realize that maybe she should have gone out with you. This happens all the time. Its up to you. Tell her, "I bet you are regretting turning me down last week...." and give her a cocky smile. See what happens. At all c…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:34 PM
5

Its been banged plenty...I doubt banging it one more time is going to make a difference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/20 04:12 PM
2

Reboot is necessary!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/20 02:56 PM
14

Should have used a Case statement!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/20 02:45 PM
1

You are missing a big "con". Turn down the offer and your skip level isn't so likely to offer you another one any time soon. Additionally, what is your career path from where you are? I really recommend the idea of getting more client experience even if you go back to what you were doing, it is going to really expand your resume, expand your internal and external contacts, expand your exposure to your management.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:23 PM
2

What do you consider really good pay?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 05:04 PM
8

They are not so moldable....those are more likely to be damaged beyond repair.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:14 AM
2

It rhymes with Argentina!
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:11 AM
167

She is 18...she is a child. She childishly thought that she could soft next YOU and that it would cause you to come back crawling to her. When it didn't work, her hamster wheel started spinning and now she is freaking out because she thinking you are banging other chicks. You have an opportunity to take her back under your terms inside your frame or move on. Your call. A lot of people on this sub say just to move on but I think you need to remember how inexperienced she is in relationships and t…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:19 PM
1

In your case, I would soft apologize. Sounds like she was trying to lead you on and get some attention out of you. Shit happens. I would ignore the text entirely. To apologize is just an admission that it even happened. If you do apologize do so in private and not in text.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:50 PM
2

Now it is time to add Abundance to Lift and Frame.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:05 PM
1

We live in a world of increasing standard deviation in all things related to SMV (fitness, wealth, etc.). The number of alphas isn't increasing any faster than the number of beta/incels. What is going away is the middle. More people going to the gym, eating right, etc. are balanced out by the number of people morbidly obese
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:55 PM
2

When you close your eyes at night and let your minds wander to what you would like your future to look like, what is it? What are you doing today to get yourself in that general direction. If your goal in life is to live in your parent's basement, making enough money to buy the new game console, surf porn and pay league of legends subscription and upgrades, then working hard is definitely not worth it. Embrace your dreams, turn them into goals, pursue the goals, achieve goals (not necessarily al…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 03:11 PM
1

Do you think there is some magic pill that is going to allow you to have control over your emotions and feelings? Of course not. This is the essence of TRP is that you have frame and are stoic. Learn to have control over your emotions.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:51 PM
5

Asking her for a relationship is super needy and any chick will lose attraction for you. In the future if you plate you want to upgrade, just start seeing her and sleeping with her more. If she is happy to hang with you more, she will very quickly move into your frame by asking YOU the "are we exclusive" kind of questions.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:48 AM
2

There is your tuition payment in the school of life!
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:47 PM
1

Your life will change when you discover paragraphs! People will read what you write! /s Come on man! How is someone supposed to read the wall of text?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:27 PM
18

...and she filed for bankruptcy. Maybe to avoid having to pay her husband back for the money already spent. https://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/os-xpm-1999-12-16-9912160188-story.html
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/20 04:02 AM
2

Life's purpose? Look around you. How many people do you see that have a defined life purpose. How about this? Until find your "life's purpose", how about living a life where you have choices so when your life's purpose comes along, you can pursue it. A life of living at your parent's making $500 and spending that on weed isn't a life with choices.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:15 AM
18

They want to integrate the industry into normal society First step would be paying taxes IMHO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/20 09:57 PM
2

Since when do you listen to what women say in a matter like this? Look at their actions, don't listen to their words. The women in the video were probably concerned about what people would think of them based on their answers.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:57 PM
41

The question to really ask her is about the guys she is contacting and the guys who are contacting her that she is passing on. She is probably focused on those high SMV guys where she becomes their third string backup plan to the two hotter chicks they are working for that night. Meanwhile Billy Beta is on the same site crying a river about how OLD doesn't work for them and no chicks respond to their swipes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/20 05:05 PM
2

A single mom who learns how to hit a baseball so she can teach her son would get the same kudos.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 01:18 PM
6

If she was uncomfortable, she could have asked to be let out....or gotten out when the driver asked her to get out.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 12:09 PM
217

In her "apology" she apologizes to the DA's office for embarrassing them and then accuses the driver of "misrepresenting" what happened in the face of what was recorded. Much more concerned with what her colleagues think of her that the person she insulted. She is garbage, plain and simple. Linkedin isn't showing her doing much since all this: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jody-warner-86a90817/
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 04:49 AM
1

Well said. Otherwise the market won't do the work necessary to see your benefits. Why should they? They are surrounded by guys like you promoting themselves. It is only natural that they go with what is promoted to them. We are all the same way.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:30 PM
2

Here is the thing: We make judgements about people and their skills and performance every single day and so do the people who will decide if you get promoted and get the interesting projects, etc. Part of that is that people take shortcuts in making those judgements because there isn't the time (or human nature laziness) to really dig into who is or isn't the best at what they do. You will meet people who are incompetent but who look the part and talk the part and are getting promoted faster tha…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:01 PM
2

I am going to go your on a limb here but if every time you ask a chick to modify her behavior she dumps you, it is probably your communication style.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:59 PM
2

She is a master of putting guys into the friend zone. Just cancel it and save yourself some heartache.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:17 PM
170

Cop deserves a medal for his calm, respectful approach.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/01/20 02:23 PM
9

It is clear that you haven't read any of the TRP material if you don't know what an HB is.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:33 PM
5

Sexualize the conversation: "are you undressing me with your eyes?" is better than "do you like me or something" or "I know you can't keep your eyes off me, but please tune it down a little. We are out in public!"
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:56 PM
15

DM or no DM, if she suggests not going out with you alone, you are in the friend zone. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 02:16 PM
9

I bet a significant percentage can find some incel or borderline incel to jump into this mess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/20 01:15 PM
7

Guys in her dating pool are either getting partnered up, leaving the dating game out of frustration or going incel entirely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/20 12:25 PM
5

Your comment reminds me of the movie Groundhog Day where the character that Bill Murray plays day after day refines his "script" to get Andie MacDowell in bed...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/20 12:23 PM
2

That was constructive criticism. You are so deeply in the friend zone it isn't even funny. The fact you can't see it means a slap in the face is called for in this sub.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:19 PM
2

She is addicted to the drama...she is creating these arguments because she loves the drama of getting you back.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:17 PM
3

"Bob, I thought about our initial conversation about money and I have been thinking that taking me up the full $25k on April 1st is justified because I really feel my contribution is expanding" By not asking for it this minute, he gets to keep his head high at his negotiation brilliance and seem magnanimous in giving you what he would have. This should be a layup. In general, always be prepared to say the following phrase when a boss suggests a raise, "I was hoping to do a bit better" then pause…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:34 PM
1

The difference is that she can hide her past relatively easily and the fictional you with the tats, ptsd and the criminal record can't. She can get out of the life, go back to school and go into something like nursing, start working in an environment far from her old life and its triggers but to do that, She really has to walk the walk for quite a while before she will be convincing to others and, most importantly, to herself. Few people have that discipline. It is really like breaking an addict…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/19 08:35 PM
1

There is depression and then there is "crippling" depression. That sounds like you shouldn't hesitate...just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:18 PM
1

I know this is a radical suggestion, but how about seeing a doctor?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:59 PM
1

This shit drives me crazy.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/19 02:35 PM
2

Simple response to your girl is, the next gig you have, tell her about it and tell her she shouldn't come because she doesn't like it. Her hamster wheel will spin like a top about the other chicks you will be talking to when you are there. Maybe suggest she hang with your incel friend that night since they share musical taste.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:50 PM
6

Michigan state income taxes?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:27 PM
39

Hmmm...sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. That is very unusual....
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 04:42 PM
1

Not sure what that acronym means. Too lazy to google it.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 02:45 PM
3

Go check out what kind of career training is available....I would go to be an aircraft mechanic or something like that. Good jobs waiting on the outside a few years down the road. Get the opportunity to travel, etc. and money for college if that is what you want.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 08:42 PM
18

What you are experiencing is not humiliation. Humiliation is taking her back and then being known as and talked about as the cuck whose wife cheated on him when they were engaged and that took her back.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:35 PM
81

I have an idea: Call her mother and return the favor. Explain to her that her daughter cheated on you and the wedding is off. I think she will experience humiliation on a much higher level than you are feeling it now.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:33 PM
9

Run!
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:05 PM
5

Only because you are filtering answer looking for easy solutions. There are no mixed answers. Take a look around you. Hot girls... Are they hanging out with tall super skinny guys or well built guys? (yeah, you are going to pick some random unicorn skinny guy with a tech startup and worth $500MM with a hot girlfriend and overlook the overwhelming evidence....)
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:42 PM
1

Women sometimes like to "dress up" when they feel sexy or feel pretty or feel desired. This is completely foreign to guys and this might be how she was feeling after you rocked her world the night (and hopefully the morning) before.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:47 PM
1

You are ignoring the idea that she was doing that for YOUR benefit because you were there, not because of her necessarily wanting to branch swing.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:32 PM
8

If you are in an LTR there are certain things your partner is going to expect from you--like going with them to weddings, spending holidays together and...this. Suck it up and go and be the dutiful significant other. You would want the same from her.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:49 PM
1

Blowing off her Company Christmas party is likely to bring about a change in his relationship status quickly....
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:47 PM
11

That is how I am understanding the article....if only 1 man is reproducing for 17 women and men and women of appropriate age are about equal in the population how else could this be happening? Look at what happens is poor communities in the US and elsewhere...chads have a bunch of kids with a bunch of baby's mommas. By implication there are a lot of men in those community not participating in reproduction at the expense of the success of these chads.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 05:31 PM
58

I suspect prostitutes have always been around! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 04:47 PM
111

Can you imagine the Incels that existed then? Instead of 20% Chads, it was 5.8% Chads (1/17).
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 03:18 PM
7

HE needed closure....
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:40 PM
3

The picture is of his wife of 17 years....if she didn't like how he acted, I don't think it would have lasted 17 years.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/19 02:24 PM
1

You acted beta and now you feel beta. Now go act alpha and you will start to feel alpha! Fake it until you make it! Seriously, this is why so many bros on this subreddit keep advising to go to the gym, chase other women, etc. to break you out of your funk.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 12:12 PM
74

Now, and forever, she will be the tramp that did the nasty with the celebrity in the airplane john. Ray Fiennes had it exactly right....denial, denial, denial. Create plausible deniability. Next time, she will be on a reality show complaining how she can't get a decent guy because no guy is enough of a real man to want to commit to someone known as the stewardess who banged the celebrity in the john and how no one wants to hire her either If a woman is going to ride the cc, she has to maintain s…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 01:49 PM
1

I wouldn't say "I am not answering that". That kind of answer would definitely piss her off. Go with Agree and Amplify.....I would say: "thousands, it is so hard to keep track.....I mean in the last year, of course. I can't even remember how many cheerleaders the Dallas Cowboys have, but I think that was 16...hmmm, there were the Lakers dancers--crazy moves! I didn't do Taylor Swift when she was in town but her 4 backup singers were wow I needed ear plugs.....and then there were the cirque du so…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 03:57 AM
1

Mansplaining is usually just the application of logic to a situation. If that is a problem and an issue, I guess we, as society, just have to do a better job at embracing irrationality and emotional responses.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/19 03:15 PM
2

It has been a busy day for you, hasn't it?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:27 PM
0

Can you just call your ex and ask her to meet you to return your property? Or have her meet a mutual friend to give it to them? I like the idea about meeting with the police chief, explain the situation, and that maybe you can go retrieve your goods in the presence of a deputy. If not, consider going on the offensive and filling out a complaint with the Police that your ex stole your property. Under the circumstances, you can possibly make an argument she is stealing it. She has it, won't return…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:34 PM
56

She is not ashamed but doesn't want to admit it.....yeah, right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 11:50 AM
5

How theredpill got "quarantined" and femaildatingstrategy didn't is unbelievable. It is so shamelessly derogatory against men that it just shows the ridiculous double standard.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/19 03:47 PM
8

You are a wrestler...get in close and grapple with him to take away his height advantage.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:16 AM
4

You are following the blue pill playbook to a T. Spend some time reading the Red Pill resources.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:20 PM
1

Since when does anything in TRP teach us to consider what women say? How do women, or these women, react? What do they do?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:45 PM
2

"I'll think about it...what is in it for me?"
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:30 PM
13

> Soul ties is a real thing that needs to be talked about on here ​ LOL!
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:10 AM
1

The beta orbiters aren't winning, you are losing.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:40 AM
1

Direct game is "let's hook up back at my place". If you talk about your feelings, she is going to lose attraction for you--that's it, plain and simple. I have seen it a hundred times.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:27 PM
21

I think it is that successful men have some much of a larger dating pool--they don't need to date women equally successful than they are and those that want to pair off, have already done so. What is left, are men that don't want to pair off and less successful men. For example, I think that if there are as many men as women (or even somewhat more men than women) at this top echelon of financial success. The point that the women of this group want men of equal or greater success yet the men don'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/19 05:49 PM
5

> like they want to win an Oscar without even being in a movie More like winning an Oscar without taking an acting class, learning the craft, going for auditions, etc.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 11:28 AM
2

There is this fantasy that people should "follow their passions" into a career...it is all bullshit. Work/careers are all about you trading your time, effort and expertise for money so you can THEN follow your passions and interests. Seek a career that minimizes your pain and suffering and maximizes your reward during that process.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:12 PM
3

MLM comes down to tapping into your friends and family to sell them something that can be found elsewhere for less money and/or finding other idiots like you to sell that shit to their friends and family. At a fundamental level, Walmart and the rest of big retail have a whole lot of smart people managing to make the distribution of products to be as efficient as possible. Walmart's net profit margin last quarter was 2.77%. Do you really think some MLM company can make a product superior at lower…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:08 PM
16

If a boy talks about how everyone in school should be shot the FBI arrests his ass.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/19 08:55 PM
3

Do us the courtesy of reading something about TRP by reading some of the sidebar materials. Nobody who knows anything about TRP would ask a question as stupid as this post which is why you are getting shit here. Do you honestly think that by telling her you are hurt (boor baby) that she is going to want to get with you? Do you think that is attractive to her? I suspect she was showing you interest until you opened your mouth and started speaking.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:45 AM
21

Read it you lazy bastard. Why are you even here? Did you go to some dating subreddit and there wasn't anyone there who could give you the magic incantation to get this girl so you decided to try here? IF TRP is about one thing, it is about not being lazy and self improvement. Start today and do the work. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:59 PM
11

First step is to read about TRP on the sidebar. You are so deep in the friend zone you think you have a chance at getting to her? Get real.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:55 PM
3

She says Bal Harbour but you and I both know she means Sunny Isles...and that means that special kind of whacky--a Russian chick. Good luck!
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:27 AM
7

I hate when that happens!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/19 03:02 PM
2

Sounds like your ready to join incel and mgtow groups. Making money and working out is for YOU to be the best YOU can be for YOU. Then, by the way, you will be more attractive to chicks.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:21 PM
1

You gotta live there too (your primary place of residence). Plenty of people get married on vacations or destination weddings but that location isn't where they can get divorced.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:19 PM
1

INAL: Where you "get" a divorce is a matter of where you and your spouse live, not where it is most convenient. You can't get married in California and then figure out how to get divorced in Thailand. The spouse will fight and win against you in California. It's called "shopping for a venue"....you can't "shop for a venue".
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:12 PM
7

"I don't want to settle" drives me nuts. Like every guy that did want to be with her didn't really want an ideal woman who had the face of fashion a model with the body of a bikini model, a trust fund and a PhD but still wanted to be with her. Of course they weren't settling.....
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/19 10:45 AM
-1

Read to sidebar. Basically, chicks (particularly young hot ones) are wired for hypergamy. They are on the constant search for the next hotter, more powerful, more successful guy whether or not they are in a relationship.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:09 PM
10

If she isn't attracted to you (doesn't want to fuck you, whatever), there is nothing you can SAY that is going to change that. If she is branch swinging to another guy, whatever you SAY to her isn't going to change that she is more attracted to the other person. You can MAKE yourself more attractive (increase your SMV) through fitness, dress, becoming more interesting, but you can't negotiate it. This is important when a chick breaks up with you. Unless it is something you did, she lost attracti…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:07 PM
3

It said top 3! I already knew about that one!
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:03 PM
3

If your girl is super pretty like the OP says, talk about the really funny girl at work or the really clever girl. Focus on her potential insecurities.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:02 PM
3

Good point. Frame requires abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:00 PM
6

The point is that every chick (and everyone) has insecurities and I don't care how hot she is, she is going to have some jealousies about some other chick. Are you banging a really pretty girl? Bang or flirt with a really SMART girl or professionally successful girl who is pretty good looking and watch her hamster wheel spin. If she has modest size breasts, flirt with a chick with big ones. Does she have a small booty, flirt with a real curvy chick. If she is is brunette, flirt with the blonde, …
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:59 PM
129

She is not yours, it is your turn. You can't negotiate attraction. Never discuss your feelings with your chick.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:17 AM
2

What would you have done if your parents weren't able or willing to give you the money?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:23 AM
4

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/delta-airlines-susan-peirez-berating-flight-attendant-placed-on-leave/
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/19 07:21 PM
3

She isn't relationship material if that is what you are looking for!
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:31 PM
2

A decent mechanic (not even a good one) will never be homeless. They can always get a job. There are plenty of chicks who will see the high SMV of a guy with a good job or potentially a good business related to that trade. One thing to keep in mind, think about what the future looks like with all these electric cars coming to the market. Will there be a glut of mechanics? If I were you I would try to specialize like working on truck engines (big diesels) or an airplane mechanic (known as an A&P …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:00 PM
8

His next post is going to be asking why someone good looking is appealing. /s
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:08 PM
3

n count is one factor, not the only factor. If you can't keep her after three years, maybe you need to look in the mirror.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:35 PM
1

You are WhatsApp-ing about feelings? No wonder she isn't responding. She is busy on Tinder, what do you expect? Read the sidebar and stop looking for quick answers.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:38 PM
3

Get a puppy. It will help you meet women!
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:12 PM
1

LOL!
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:56 AM
8

Join other clubs whether they are sports or not....but not geek clubs. Clubs women would also join.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:33 PM
2

Uhhh...in the dictionary under "Spineless Beta Living in her Frame" I see a picture of YOU! Be a man, you make the rules, set boundaries, enforce boundaries. Live in the world of abundance. If she doesn't like it, find another. Your alternative is to live under her thumb. Read up on TRP before posting here please.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:19 AM
24

Kind of like how a chick can be complete scum, but if she has a great body, hot men will want to have sex with them.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:07 PM
3

Didn't she say she was moving abroad in less than a month? Just chill.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:45 PM
-1

Smallest fish in the pond but an above average fish in a average pond? Change ponds. Hang out in places with lower SMV men but still higher SMV women.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:07 AM
1

Once you have been attacked, is there some kind of rule that says you have to stop fighting when the attacker is on the ground?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/19 05:02 PM
1

This glass is special one of a kind glass! Its different!
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:06 PM
1

"Couldn't happen. Even if you were busy, you would change your plans to hang with me."
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:50 PM
8

This! A woman admitting that she likes guys with muscles is equivalent to a guy publicly admitting he only likes hot chicks. We all lie and say how much personality, smarts, etc. (beta qualities) matter.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:33 AM
46

Athletes are entertainers that perform for a paying (either directly or indirectly) audience. If the WNBA players want to be paid more, get a bigger, higher paying audience. If your game isn't interesting to enough people, find another job.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/19 01:58 AM
8

Dump her...then you have no problem. She sees you as the beta provider she wants to "have a future with" after she "wild outs" screwing this (and other) Chads a few thousand times on the cc. Don't be someone's backup plan.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:53 AM
3

Your opportunity may be the women in the hostels from other countries. Many of the guys will be there for their yellow fever so the European/Aussie/US chicks in the hostel may be underserved.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:43 PM
227

Here is the whole story: https://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/women-lashed-greenwich-village-mcdonald-worker-plead-guilty-no-jail-deal-article-1.1157596 https://www.theblaze.com/news/2011/12/03/update-charges-dropped-against-mcdonalds-cashier-who-hit-women-with-metal-rod
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 02:19 PM
3

Working on yourself will do wonders for your current relationship and position yourself if things go bad.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:36 PM
7

Wow...you might be the first person ever to have to decide whether you should take a risk on something new and better. The path to improving you current relationship happens to be the same path as getting yourself ready for a new relationships or chasing women. Lift. Self improvement. Become the prize and be the best version of you, you can be (increase your SMV). This is RP 101. Read the side board. Once you start upping your SMV, your LTR is going to know something is up and will have incentiv…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:05 PM
3

See a shrink and/or a hypnotherapist.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:57 PM
67

if they keep defending dumb comments from poster's just because they're a girl poster, doesn't it encourage the girls to keep acting stupid? I always joke to my friends that a hot women loses 20 IQ points due to the lack of criticism they get and the lack of need to use their intellect in so many situations. Why develop the brain or develop real social skills if you can get the same results without?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 11:40 AM
20

I.e. the politically correct response. So true...how often do you see women posting a picture on facebook or IG and the obvious response would be "she is really hitting the wall" but her chorus of "friends" tell her how beautiful and hot she is.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 11:37 AM
2

Move to a different town.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:42 AM
2

That is the dirty dark secret.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:49 PM
3

Anti-depressants work.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:47 PM
1

Get in the sun daily for ten to fifteen minutes. See a therapist--it can really work.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:47 PM
53

Exactly...where are the donations to the 12 guys' legal fees. They are the ones who have been wronged.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/19 04:01 PM
2

This is very interesting stuff...new perspective eye opening for me. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 03:18 PM
2

Go for you!
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:05 PM
3

Her saying "I wouldn't have done it any different." Is just a form of faking it until ya make it. What is she supposed to say? That she is a fuck up? Of course she isn't going to say that about herself so she creates a narrative where she is pleased.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 12:56 PM
1

For religion to become more prevalent, it has to offer solutions or salve for the problems facing people today. For example, I would argue that radical Islam's rise could be considered because of the disaffected youth with zero prospects in the middle east and elsewhere. Fight and die for Islam and get 40 virgins in paradise is a pretty good deal compared to the alternative that their lives offer. I don't think that western religions like Christianity offer much to the western beta boys who esca…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:29 PM
1

"If you think my choice of chips is crazy, I am afraid to tell you my favorite ice cream flavor."
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:05 PM
10

An HB 5 is average....an overweight pot smoking hippie is an HB3 at best! You don't want that so just because he is having success with women you have zero attraction for, proves nothing.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:38 PM
7

> statistics show that women prefer overweight man(like him) than guys with muscle. Saying that him having a gf and I don't is proving his point. Firstly, does he have a reference for statistic? I am sure we would love to see it. Since most women are overweight themselves, it doesn't surprise me one bit that many want overweight guys because that is what they feel they can get. Regarding his girlfriend. Is she hot? Or, is she like your friend?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:52 PM
31

You left out tattoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/19 05:40 PM
1

You said it better than I did!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/19 02:56 AM
12

The internet is forever You can imagine her kids getting teased and bullied, "Your Mom is a ho!" and everyone passes the youtube video around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 03:43 AM
49

It seems to me that her saying that "I am a Christian and have pre-marital sex and don't worry about it because Jesus loves me" speaks volumes. She says she acknowledges that there is a commandment, ignores it because she knows she will be forgiven when she needs to be forgiven. Sounds like the woman I would like to marry. She feels she can make commitments, ignore then and just apologize and everything will be honky dory.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 11:02 PM
1

So, if you had more social media followers you would have friends too? Are you sure you have the right cause and effect? My point here is that you are surrounded by successful examples yet you are struggling to find a methodology that is successful. Stop working so hard with your failing methodology--work on the methodology. You know your methodology is unsuccessful yet you are pursuing it with the hope that today it is going to be different. Guess what! It won't. Nobody here is going to give yo…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:54 PM
1

What can you learn from observing the behavior of people with a lot of friends? How does their behavior compare to your own in this regard?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:13 PM
3

Do you really think that you are her first branch swing?
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:45 PM
2

I would play this differently. I would just say to her "if we aren't having sex in our relationship, they am I to assume you don't mind if I have sex out of our relationship?"
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:10 AM
299

...and of course, 10 years ago, she was the hot 23 year old dating the chad in his 30s. NOW that she is on the other side of the wall, suddenly she feels she has the right to judge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/19 02:53 PM
6

Well, it is more than time you aren't so completely dependent on one person, isn't it? This is asktrp, not some bullshit broken hearts club. Read about the red pill on the right sidebar and get a spine and get your life together. Your future isn't what you thought it was but the truth is, it is better. You will look at this day and laugh.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:47 PM
4

this specific girl Do I see a oneitus?
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:50 PM
2

I have been in the same situation as the OP where I followed your protocol but I have to tell you that years later it still bugs me. Firstly, the OP owes nothing to someone who openly deceives him. Secondly, the best outcome for the girl is that he walks out on her because she has a chance at learning a lesson about not deceiving people. Quite frankly, she might very well benefit from having her self esteem taken down a notch or two.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:59 AM
3

Look to what women do, not what they say. I can't emphasize this enough. They say they want Mr goody two shoes, but they want ex-con violent guy, etc.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 11:46 AM
8

"Wanna come over and hang out?" Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:58 PM
1

So, you consider Obama and Clinton to be Alpha too?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 01:38 PM
3

Wow this guy is smooth!
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:43 PM
2

TRP is about working on what you CAN (not what lands in your lap) get through growth, initiative and focus.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:40 PM
0

Taking the day to have to deal with it (implying logistics, etc.) is one thing. Asking for the day because you need to mourn is kind of weird. Not exactly connoting alpha stoic qualities, don't you think?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:48 AM
5

She needs you not to try to problem solve or "look on the bright side" or give her perspective. She needs you to just listen and say "that is so awful. I can't imagine what you are going through. This really sucks." and just give her a hug. This is just the way chicks are wired.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:10 AM
5

This is where Warren Buffet would take a date: https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/19/gorats-warren-buffetts-favorite-steakhouse-fits-his-modest-style.html Is he a broke ass?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/19 01:54 PM
1

Let us know when she calls you!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 02:51 AM
1

He may understand it better than you! Talk to you doctor....not necessarily a shrink, just your doctor. He understands mental illness better than you or me or the other comment.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:32 AM
3

Church! Lot's of single women, not many single guys with any game.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:30 AM
2

How many different clubs and intramural sports does your college have? Read down the list. If you have any interest go to a meeting and check it out. Outside of college, look at meetup.com for groups that you might have some interest.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:14 AM
17

Remember two important things here: Don't listen to what women say, look at what they do. Number two is trust TRP. TRP teaches us the first lesson and this very important lesson: She may say she wants you to share you feelings, but she isn't attracted to it. Women do not get the tingles for men talking about their feelings. Talking about feelings is just weakening your frame and showing her the cracks in it.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:37 PM
123

Here it is: https://pluralist.com/ben-feibleman-sues-columbia/ ​ Here is a little more balanced report of the situation: https://nypost.com/2019/05/14/expelled-columbia-journalism-student-accused-of-rape-is-victim-of-anti-male-bias-lawsuit/
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/19 03:19 PM
67

So, when she was unfun (No oral, IBS, Fibromyalgia, etc.) you stuck by her and when you became unfun (long commute, new job pressure, etc.) she dumped you? Is that it in a nutshell? You should be happy you learned this about her now rather than down the road when married with kids and a lot of joint assets when some adversity comes along.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 04:42 PM
9

They don't want to come across as being superficial and attracted to looks. Since one of the cornerstone principles of TRP is not to respond to what women say, but respond to what they do, this is the perfect example.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:33 PM
2

Exactly...the key word is "completely". They don't completely, but a very large percentage of them do to a very large degree. A lunkhead with a great physique is going to slay them and, at the same time, a guy with great game and a weak physique will get their fair share. It is undeniable, if you have any game at all, if you put on muscle, your total package attractiveness will soar. Imagine a guy with great game who ALSO had a great physique? Working out, guarantees improvement in attractivenes…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:16 PM
6

Do you really think the difference between a chick being attracted to you or not is your haircut?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:54 PM
7

IMHO: They just haven't shown their AWALT behavior yet, or haven't had the opportunity to.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:13 PM
0

They say they want a man who can be emotional, but they are attracted to a man that is not. Since we don't listen to what they say and just watch their actions, do you want to be the man they say they want to, or the man they show us they are attracted to?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:11 PM
17

Easy...just don't give a fuck (look up IDGAF attitude and outcome independence). You just have to realize that rejection doesn't change anything. Life is not about maintaining a perfect batting average (baseball analogy for non US redditors), it is about the number of hits you get--regardless of the number of strikeouts.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:06 PM
20

My colleague was just saying that he thought the difference between feminism and egalitarianism is that feminism favors affirmative action type or "reparations for the past or structural discrimination" programs like quotas, lower physical strength standards for fire fighters, and "equal pay for equal worth". Learn something new everyday!
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/19 03:55 PM
112

I am the first one to say that I really don't even understand what feminism is. Does it mean it favors sexism that benefits women? If it favors equality, why not call it something like "equality-ism" or something like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/19 01:39 PM
2

Just till you die. No point in doing it after that.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 03:20 PM
6

I think /u/embracingtheredpill is saying that if you crave this validation, you will always get hurt and be unhappy. I think his point is that you worry about being PERCEIVED as mean, not that you should be mean or that you are mean.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:45 AM
3

Obesity is also correlated inversely to education. https://amednews.com/article/20120525/government/305259997/8/ Regarding age, "The prevalence of obesity was 35.7% among young adults aged 20 to 39 years, 42.8% among middle-aged adults aged 40 to 59 years, and 41.0% among older adults aged 60 and older." ​ Wan to see obese people? Go to a real crossing of all people like a cruise ship or a lower end casino in vegas or someplace like Orlando.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:26 PM
1

....or just truly fears losing you by being dumped.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:15 AM
3

You can end it, or just fix it with a rebuilt strong frame. Tell her, don't ask her, for the behavior you want from her and that you won't put up with anything less. Then breaking up becomes her choice.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:16 PM
1

That herbal shit did Steve Jobs a world of good. The OP has a condition that needs medical treatment. Self medication may prolong his suffering unnecessarily.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:06 AM
2

The beautiful thing here is that even if you do a bad job in bed with her, she is from far away and you don't have to see her again or will she know anyone else you know!
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:24 PM
2

It is ASD...just make a plan with her to hang out like you would ordinarily and then escalate. She wants plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:07 PM
8

This!
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:42 PM
2

You won't allow yourself to go back to orbiter status and you will show her (through her seeing you with other chicks and not being her orbiter) that you have high SMV and that she can't control you. I am one of the old guys on this sub and let me tell you, about 25% of the time you hit on a chick in a situation like this, she will come around and fuck you. You just having the balls to attempt to change the game and show her you want her is going to be enough, in many cases, for her to see you i…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:43 PM
2

Let's be real for a second. She wasn't really your friend, was she? You were her orbiter and you chose to want to change that. Good for you. Maybe over time she will actually be able to provide you friendship or, and I think this is more likely, you will get with her. It will just take her some time to get there. Right now, just ignore her and find some other chicks to work. Watch. When she sees you with another chick, she will start to come around to you.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:58 AM
1

Does she make these kind of verbal "slips" at other times?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:09 PM
1

Is she your plate or an LTR? The chick has bad "filtering" in what she says and if she is going to say that shit today about dicks, she is going to say a lot of weird inappropriate shit. Brace yourself. As a plate, who cares? As a girlfriend, it is going to get old quickly. BTW - imagine how she would have responded if you made a comment about how uncomfortable sex with tight pussies can be (implying that she isn't tight). She would be ballistic.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:01 PM
1

Close enough!
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:55 PM
1

Check out other modalities of fitness like boxing, HIIT, Spinning or even Pilates or Yoga. A few days or a week focusing on completely different exercises, muscle groups, cardio or stretching can only be helpful.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:45 PM
1

...and then you said: "buh bye!" ​ (or that is what you better have said)
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:27 PM
1

It is not clear for saying "own place" means "Own a house or condo". From what it says in the parenthesis it is probably more likely that she wants a guy who doesn't live at home or on someone's couch. My point is only that this post is not a good example for this sub (although there are plenty of them). This chick doesn't deserve the scorn of this sub the way plenty of other's do!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 01:29 PM
-6

There are plenty of truly entitled bitch, alpha widows on this sub but you are inferring about this chick information that doesn't exist. All you have is this list (unless there is another link that I am missing). I am not saying that there aren't plenty of valid posts on this sub but I don't think this one is particularly valid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 01:25 PM
-13

Let's be realistic....there is nothing unreasonable on the list that you wouldn't want for your own sister. Stated differently, what would you want on the list for your sister or another female family member?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 12:58 PM
6

It was just a shit test.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:53 PM
4

Certainly, strong independent men aren't SEEKING strong independent women. They might find one they like or fall for, but it isn't something they would filter for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 12:34 PM
5

...and then one who doesn't want kids, etc. This is truly 1 or 2 out of a million.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 12:31 PM
2

Why do some people deny the earth is round?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:44 PM
20

It is often exhausting to look at the postings here. I suspect many posts are some guy with oneitis who didn't get the advice they were looking for on some other sub comes here an hopes and prays we can give him some magic incantation that can get her or get her back.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:10 PM
10

You don't negotiate with terrorists. Words are women's weapons, facts are men's. great line!
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:26 PM
8

That is actually pretty profound. They put out because of their own insecurities of being able to keep them.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:15 PM
194

An alpha widow is born! ​
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:14 PM
1

There is job oneitus just like there is chick oneitus. It is the same abundance vs. scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:06 PM
1

And you can find women attractive to greater than the top 20% of guys but the problem is that are probably not the ones you are attracted to. If you are a 5, you want a 7 and above. If you are an 8, you want a 9 or above, etc.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:44 PM
10

One act doesn't define her. Alpha widowdom is about her expectation of her SMV. A chick that goes back to her abuser is just a chick. An Alpha Widow thinks that just because she fucked a high SMV Chad (or was fucked by) that she is entitled to an LTR with a high SMV Chad.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:42 PM
2

What percentage of women do you find attractive? Let me guess: 20%?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:08 AM
2

Buy Google, Apple, Amazon, etc. stock!!!!
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:00 AM
3

> under the understanding that we could be friends again. ​ One word: Why? You want to be friends with an ex who you say manipulated you terribly? What is wrong with you? ​
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:49 PM
9

You: "You again? I think you are stalking me at this bus stop every day." Ask her where she goes everyday...then say "I think this whole college thing is a ruse for you to stalk me. What is your major?" Then joking quiz her on things she should know in that major to test her that she is really a college student. (If she is a nursing student or some other healthcare thing, tell her "I am going to test you, take my pulse" and, of course, you start kino.) She will say something and hopefully laugh,…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:58 PM
2

Same....it is if they use their feminism to rationalize that they are liberated sexually "just like a man".
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:18 PM
3

This! Don't ask them, tell them! If the plate is so into the OP, than he should do what he wants. If the plate breaks (it won't), so what?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:17 PM
3

Sales is great red pill training. You need to approach potentially uninterested and rude people to make your case and convince them to buy something. You will face rejection and embarrassment. If you can work through it, there is gold at the end of the rainbow. It is a profession where betas are roadkill. It is also a profession where someone with little education and a bit of training can make a very good living but it absolutely requires getting outside your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:51 PM
1

How do you feel about never having a BJ again? Miserable thought, isn't it? Therefore, she isn't LTR material. Perhaps she is plate material, but definitely not LTR material.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:48 PM
11

I was laughing too. If you are going to come the trp, do us the courtesy of reading some material about what red pill means and what we believe. There are plenty of subreddits where the advice you will get is that you should write her poems and stand outside her window begging her. We believe that such behavior is counter to the way women are wired and will never work for anything but maybe a small bounce. That pussy behavior is probably why she lost her attraction to you and pined for her ex. W…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:12 AM
1

She is in a hurry to get the divorce because she is in a hurry to get remarried....I would bet $5 she is knocked up.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:38 PM
1

How's bench press? Preacher curls? Seated military press? Flies (front and back)? Pullups/chinups? Do you need any more suggestions?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:38 PM
3

Look, she panicked and couldn't go through with meeting you because of the implications of cheating. It was all fun and games when flirting, but she didn't want to pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:20 PM
23

I would text her in just a few days, not the week and you should close this time. It seems like she is using anti-slut defense measures like a three date rule on you, but you are in.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 07:56 PM
14

Except Shiites, of course! No regrets there cause they aren't Moslems to her!
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/19 07:44 PM
1

You can get him to print a retraction on his facebook group and even take an ad out in the school newspaper apologizing.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:37 PM
1

This could be considered cyber bullying of you by Bob. There are new laws in some states and school regs about this. In any case, you can sue Bob for slander and libel. You may not get much money but you can get him to post an apology and retraction.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:36 PM
104

Hmmm...her situation doesn't phase me either....
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/19 05:20 PM
15

True....my oversight. Edit: and the Kurds.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/19 04:39 PM
900

I am sure she had sympathy for the people killed by ISIS in terror attacks, beheadings, abductions and rapes of Yazidi women.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/19 04:16 PM
14

She is 18 and has fucked 30-40 guys and the OP has put his dick in that?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:08 PM
1

How can you possibly not kick to the curb immediately a chick that talks to you like this? What is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:16 PM
1

...and bragging about it.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:13 PM
4

I am intrigued by her response. Maybe she gets turned on by dirty talk of HER being cuckholded. Maybe you should play this up.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:30 PM
2

Now you understand. You cannot negotiate attraction with her. The best chance you have with her is the best chance you have to get over her. It is the same move. Going no contact will help you get over her and at the same time is the best chance you will have to get her back too. There are only two paths. There are power moves like no contact or there are submissive (blue pill) moves like begging her to be with you. There is really nothing in between. Begging her won't work and you know that. Be…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:28 PM
10

Now let's imagine that the genders were reversed and a woman revealed that she had been raped at 11 years old and then the guy ditched her. I suspect that the XX Chromosome crowd would be all over the guy for doing that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 05:49 PM
1

Staying at home or lifting have zero impact on a woman's brain. You are on this subreddit because you instinctively know that continued beta behavior like showing her that you are her lap dog won't WORK, Don't confuse being scrupulously honest with being successful. If you want to be successful, listen to what we have to say. This is a subreddit for success in a dating game smart people realize is already corrupt. If you want to be scrupulously honest, then maybe you should try just begging her …
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:38 PM
3

Understand what her pattern is. Ask her out for Wednesday, she says no, you are probably communicating that you were home doing nothing. She will ask you for Thursday. Change the equation: Here is what you need to communicate: You are busy. People like you. Women find you attractive. You have other options. She needs to work to keep you. Ask her for Wednesday, she says no. If she texts on Wednesday assuming your are home communicate that you are out. Be cryptic, slow responding to text (mix resp…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:44 PM
9

Gringas in Miami are very sensitive to being hit on by Spanish guys who are visiting. You have to remember that a cute gringa is going to be hit on constantly by guys looking for a vacation quicky or a green card (particularly, due to recent events, by Venezuelonos).
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:26 PM
0

Cancel date. Tell her you have to be out of town on business.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:49 AM
1

There is something called sexual addiction...there are therapists that specialize in this.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:46 PM
28

That was a punch from someone who knew how to punch
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 09:40 PM
2

OK...a 7/10 then...still good enough to be successful.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:19 PM
2

You can't help people who don't want to be helped. If she came to you asking for you help, then provide it. Otherwise, focus on your own journey!
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:07 PM
13

So, the guy she wants to meet (white knight, beta big bux) is going to read this, pass all her requirements and then jump at the chance to hit her up.......right.....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 02:41 PM
2

Other than someone who is really deformed like with a birth defect or something is that ugly that having a buff body isn't going to get them some action. Flip this around. We have all see or met women with smoking bodies and unattractive faces that have plenty of guys looking for a piece of that.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:14 PM
31

There is being good looking in the face and being hot or even attractive in physique, style, etc. which are things you can change. Unless you are freak show ugly, you can make yourself an 8/10 through hard work and spending on clothes, etc.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 07:42 PM
4

If you have some pictures from martial arts tourneys and you with a black belt or brown will help. Mention the nose breaks. In case you haven't noticed, chick dig guys with a familiarity with violence.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 07:39 PM
2

Have you ever had a situation where someone you know got a really bad tattoo or haircut and you found yourself lying about it when they ask you if you like it? "Oh wow! So cool, I love that tattoo!" Where I am going with this is that since tattoos are pretty much permanent, when a person gets a tattoo, a huge percentage of the people who see it give the person a false feedback. This, IMHO, is what feeds the entire tattoo industry. Many people think they are gross or ugly or just poorly executed,…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:04 PM
4

There are few things that turn a chick off more than "I don't know, what do you want to do" behavior. Think about how hard it is for a chick to decide what to eat in a restaurant! They aren't wired for decisions, they seek leadership. Most women love being told what to do. This isn't a choice they make anymore than men have a choice of them not being attracted to obese women. One of the most important rules of TRP is "you cannot negotiate attraction". If this kind of behavior doesn't fit into yo…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:11 PM
9

OK...so, let's see if they get the same sentence.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/19 03:49 PM
8

Teach! Either look for a faculty position or, at least, contact any local universities with an engineering school to see if you can get an adjunct position.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:17 PM
43

I believe these articles are just targeted to women, not men, to give women validation. Look at those websites...not exactly GQ or Esquire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/19 01:14 PM
8

Many (or some) chicks who see how "scary" he is, how he is a leader of men and how he will physically protect his GFs will get the tingles from that kind of behavior. Your standard of what is Alpha and what is Beta, is not the same that women have. It is, for many women, more about power than looks. It is, for many women, about being a little scary (why do so many hot chicks cling to lunkhead fighters?). Why do you think his gang follows him? He has something going for him that you don't see.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:35 PM
5

All plates have a shelf life. Ultimately, if she is dissatisfied with the relationship, she will eventually bolt. You can dance around and dance around it, but at the end of the day..... The issue here is that you have just the one plate.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:58 PM
2

Plates are women you have plated (implying slept with). She is just a chick you went on a few dates with. What did you say at the Talk?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:54 PM
2

What does "a happy relationship" mean? Quite possibly your definition isn't shared by others here.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:33 PM
3

I think you can say that pre-marital sex is certainly the norm. How casual or relationship based is a shades of grey discussion.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:34 PM
1

You say you are doing a "decent job"...I wouldn't think that employees only doing a decent job have much leverage. Start doing a kick ass job and then come back to us.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:52 PM
0

How do you imagine it happened?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/19 02:54 PM
1

The point of the OP is that men are hired more than women and when gender blind, they are still hired more than women. There is no doubt that companies hire some women to make things look "more balanced" and head off future criticism. I started my career as a CCS graduate at a major tech company and without a doubt the men did the heavy hauling. In fact, one woman I worked with who was pretty weak got her name put on a patent application where it was nothing more than a gift to her, not based on…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/19 04:39 PM
1

5 year old article. A lot has changed in Venezuela since then.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:29 AM
2

Even if you get through the financing of this semester, what are you going to do in the fall? First of all, are you "ready" to be in college at this time and are you ready for the college you are enrolled at? Failing 4 out of 5 classes is tough to do. I am also personally curious how mathematically you can get a gpa of .458 when taking 5 classes. What combination of grades was that? (Maybe math was one of the classes you failed!) Second of all, you need a plan that probably means going part time…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:25 PM
13

Let's say you are two candidates, one male and one female, looking for a management position (probably in their 30s). The man got preferences his whole career (including education) so his resume would look better. He got promoted better, faster than she did. Also, he has more confidence in himself as a result of greater results from his hard work. Now, years later they are both submitting their resumes with their name/sex redacted. Is it any surprise that the guy get the job? His resume reflects…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/19 08:00 PM
1

Join a university club or two.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:31 PM
76

The back argument is, "of course men are more qualified, their resumes reflect a lifetime of preference...."
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/19 09:10 PM
2

Depression is considered not only caused by chemical imbalance (although in the OP's case, brain chemistry can change during the winter due to a lack of light). Depression is usually characterized by something called the bio, psycho, social model. A combination of biology (chemistry and wiring), psycho is your past traumas and shit (you were buggered by a priest or your mommy didn't love you or whatever) and social is what is occurring in your life now (GF dumped you, flunked finals, etc.). Basi…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 08:57 PM
2

Jamie Lanister in GoT seems pretty attracted to what's her name the big blonde knight chick of Tarth? Good enough for Jamie, good enough for me.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:26 PM
2

Are you numbers increasing (weights lifted in each exercise)? When your numbers are increasing, your muscles will too. If your numbers aren't increasing, you are definitely doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:20 PM
1

What has been your experience? Do hot chicks go out with low SMV guys (like you, perhaps) or do hot chicks turn guys down all the time?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 02:59 PM
1

If you get hit on now, imagine how much more often and how much hotter the chicks will be in you lifted! ​
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:39 AM
270

To quote the article: They were both charged with public intoxication. It isn't as if the guy was charged with assault and the chick walked away.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/01/19 03:11 PM
22

More details: https://kdvr.com/2017/04/14/fort-collins-officer-seen-body-slamming-woman-in-video-placed-on-leave/ ​
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 03:32 AM
2

You came here looking for red pill advice and the red pill advice is to go no contact and move on--to begin your healing process. If you think there is a magic incantation or move or thing you can say or whatever to "get her back", there isn't one. Get over it. If you ever did have a chance to get back with her, you have already lost what we call "frame" by basically begging her and it would be on her terms and it wouldn't work. The best thing to do is prepare to move on. The red pill preaches t…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:17 PM
2

Women's looks make no difference to you? You give out of shape, overweight women the same attention and pursuit that you would give a chick with a fit, slim figure? I am impressed!
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:27 PM
10

Yeah, we are all wrong and you are right.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:44 PM
5

Just about as shallow as men are.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:43 PM
-1

Do you think there will be many cute women in the class?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:31 PM
6

Well said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 04:36 AM
12

Or she just is boring in bed...but that would be taking responsibility so that could never be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 07:45 PM
18

She is only banging him to make you jealous!
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:58 PM
1

If you already know the LTR isn't gong to last, why are you in it?
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:18 PM
1

She sounds like a perfect plate candidate. Women get promoted to LTR after they prove themselves as plates.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:25 PM
2

There are a couple of key points here: Abundance mentality/Scarcity Mentality - there are plenty of less BPD and hot chicks out there "Tell her how you feel" is an instant cringe on the part of any chick. Chicks don't want to hear about your feelings. There is no behavior more blue pill than this. The best revenge is showing her how other chicks want to fuck you, how high your SMV is ("I was wrong about him..."). Lift, hobbies, interests, success, class, "game", etc. Closure is for losers! Be st…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:18 PM
1

She saw that your SMV was higher than she thought and maybe even higher than her's. I would ignore it (as other's have suggested) or your other choice is Agree and Amplify: "OK, so, If you run into someone you know from high school you aren't allowed to talk to them either."
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:16 AM
2

> Never mind that I'm smart and loving and loyal and accomplished. I'm a good friend. And a good kisser. I can make you laugh. ​ ...but she isn't a giving warm person by her own admission and not cooking shows this. Cooking for someone is an act of giving/service to a loved one or a friend. There is also something innately warm and sweet about sitting down to a home cooked meal a loved one prepares for you. I also agree that it is also a life skill to be able to prepare a basic mean (spaghetti a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 01:36 AM
21

But SHE isn't sexist.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/19 12:58 AM
3

INAL but it was explained to me by a lawyer that there is a different standard of evidence to exonerate someone than there is to convict hem and that no judge (and no prosecutor facing reelection) is going to say, "sorry, you go to jail even though here is a recording that clearly shows your innocence." Trying to get the woman jailed for false accusation based on the recording might be limited for the one party reasoning.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/18 11:02 PM
1

Being more vulnerable and opening up emotionally is pure blue pill. There are few things that kill a chick's attraction faster. For starters, increase your SMV through fitness, financial success, demonstrated respect by others, attraction by other women. Learn frame and learn to keep it.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:54 PM
1

> I was willing to give up everything to keep her in my life. ​ I know this is counter intuitive, but this statement showed how doomed your relationship was. Once you started to grovel, it was beyond the point of any return--your frame is been totally trashed. You can't negotiate attraction. Your response has to be to make yourself more attractive by creating the best YOU you can be when dealing with any chicks in any relationships.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:55 PM
1

Can we have a bot answer these posts?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:51 PM
2

I agree...I can't imagine a chick sees the picture and then comes running over to bang. I just don't see how it gives them tingles. My take on this is that the chick asking for the dick pic is just shit testing him.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:31 PM
4

I'm like "Are you trying to start a fight"? And she is like "YEA LETS GO!" I see that as she is begging for Kino. I would go for escalation. I response that comes to mind is: "I have to warn you. My hands are registered lethal weapons. I cannot be responsible for what happens if I put them on you..."
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 03:31 PM
8

The bigger question is why are you letting your LTR shit test you so much? the answer to this is the the same as the answer to why is she shit testing you so much? Both answers are the same: You have lost frame and are being beta-ized in the relationship. She is losing attraction and needs some drama to get the tingles back. A better strategy to frequent shit tests from an LTR is agree and amplify and then say "why do you always say such rude things to me? Keep that up and we are done." Remember…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:40 PM
30

4 months isn't "very fresh" anymore. Be careful of letting your SMV start to slide because she will branch swing - AWALT! You need to keep yourself attractive to other women.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:19 PM
6

telling her no, The OP made this very important point. It is so easy just to say "yes" to everything she asks because in isolation, giving in and saying yes on many minor things you disagree with seems "good for the sake of harmony in the relationship" at the time and because you hate to see her disappointed. Saying "no" is critical to all the silly/stupid requests that she makes. It establishes your role and if nothing else, 200 minor skirmishes are better than 1 huge fight. There is no more fr…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 01:12 PM
13

....go to sleep earlier at night!
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:16 PM
2

Genuine attraction that suddenly blossoms after he makes that bold statement...yeah, I am sure it was a coincidence.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:12 PM
2

Go in the morning!
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:08 PM
2

Only text for logistics....that was your mistake imho. I would have texted after the first DTR text to come over to "discuss" this and then be the broken record /u/itiswr1tten is suggesting. This way you can move beyond talk to fooling around and escalating easily.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 04:55 AM
2

You are already waayyyyyy past "quickly". You are at the point that even a conservative chick is thinking "what is wrong with this guy is he gay". She was engaged. She fucked. She probably likes to fuck. You have put yourself into the friend zone by not escalating. Actually do us the courtesy of reading the read pill material.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 04:44 AM
2

By what you write, it doesn't look like you are learning boxing...just punching a heavy bag. You aren't going to learn a martial art by just hitting a bag. Whatever martial art you practice, the most important thing you can learn comes through regular sparring how to handle yourself and think clearly. Learn to take a punch (even a pulled punch). Learn energy management in a fight (it will be the longest minute or so of your life). Learn how to block and counter strike. Learn how to punch, kick, …
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:00 AM
13

Let's change this around: Do men write off women because of their body? Duh...yeah! So why are you asking this question? Going from skinny to shredded is going to be a lot easier than going from fat to shredded. You need to start today.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:19 PM
1

So, you are saying your ex had higher SMV than you have? In other words, your ex was "settling with you" and woke up and realized the SMV calculus. The answer is red pill simplicity: increase your SMV so you can start to pull chicks that meet your 10 standard. In reality, I think you are pedestalizing your exes and you are showing selective memory about what your life was like when you were with them.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:00 PM
5

Depression is from a source like my dog died. It is a complex expression of a sufferers biology (predisposition), psychology (shit that happened in their past) and social factors (current shit they are going through) known as the bio/psycho/social model.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:58 PM
1

Discuss this with your doctor...try different meds!
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:57 PM
5

3 to 4 months away? Simple, start lifting now and getting your life straight because this isn't going to end well. Do not go halves on a flat again. It will be March before you know it. If you are talking about March or 2020, you are a total sucker for signing a lease with anyone for that long.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:58 PM
4

I can help cut to the chase on this one for you: Dump her! She is nuts.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:36 PM
1

I though the house of Levi were the priests? (and makers of a fine line of blue jeans)
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 06:52 PM
1

You are lowering your SMV! Any guys seen as an orbiter by other women is seen as pathetic. By putting up with her as an orbiter, she doesn't consider you a desirable guy...ergo, your SMV is lower in her eyes. You having plates and being known as a guy women want to fuck increases your SMV because chicks want men other women want for no other reason other than they want what other women want (like fashion too). Maybe having guys wrapped around the finger of a chick helps their SMV with other wome…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:16 PM
3

You're asking the wrong question. If you're trying to save things with one particular woman, you've already failed. With that woman, as a man, and at life. This sentence and this whole comment are pure gold.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:17 PM
3

The title of this post is what is bullshit: A oneitus doesn't break your heart. A oneitus wakes you up to truly take the redpill.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:36 PM
1

Yes, and high SMV. A beta orbiter is in a position of low smv to his oneitus. Like every friggin other response on this sub: Start lifting, actually read the sidebar, embrace abundance, get some plates, stop being her emotional tampon, enhance your SMV and be the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:34 PM
5

Maybe you can begin a lawsuit that drags on until you graduation win or lose but during the lawsuit, I am going to bet her lawyer and her parents are going to tell her to stfu about talking about you.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:26 PM
12

SHE is ready to settle....the guy, on the other hand, isn't possibly settling with her. He thinks she is that highest high 10+ chick of his dreams. This is alpha widowness!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 01:48 PM
4

Exactly!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 09:08 PM
3

Can you save your blue pulled pussy whipped friends? Only if they come to TRP on their own. All you can do is lead by example.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:06 PM
1

I added the /s for sarcasm...I was kidding.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:53 PM
1

Set it up so it appears that SHE gave them to YOU and then be magnanimous about forgiving her. /s
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:35 PM
1

What you don't say here is that you want sex. If you want sex, get off your ass, lift like you mean it, read the sidebar and start talking to women. If you are depressed, go to the student health center and talk to a doctor. In summary, go get what you want.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:47 PM
1

If she asks you what are you about to do, that is a major IOI imho. Next week, when you talk to her just say, "hey, I am heading out to grab some coffee, let's go" (not, "do you want to go?")
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:08 PM
1

They surround themselves with cuck soy eating beta boys....what do you expect?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 08:10 PM
20

Be willing to lose her, in order to keep her. This!
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:33 PM
14

This. Learn from what women do, not what they say. They say they want a nice beta guy, mr. reliable, mr. dedicated, mr. romantic, etc. but then they bang Chad over and over and leave Betaboy in the friend zone. AWALT. She doesn't want all that attention, what she wants is a guy with high SMV that other women desire who give her some scraps of attention. Read the Rational Man.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:12 PM
1

OK...so you strike up a conversation with people at school...do you ever just send a random text to someone when you are home about a TV show, or a football game you are watching or what you are thinking? SHARE with people what you are doing and thinking and they will share with you too. Let them in and they will let you in. Show sympathy. Think of it this way: When you have a real friend, you are among the first people they will want to share something bad, good, challenging, funny, etc. that h…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:07 PM
1

because they have nothing better to do So, they aren't playing video games and spanking to online porn?? /s
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:10 AM
1

"I have been told I am attractive by other females" Are you fucking kidding me? Asking other women is a recipe for learning absolutely nothing. Another thing is, being told you are "attractive" is a code word for "passable but not quite ugly". When men say you are hot, stunning, achingly beautiful then you have data. If you bmi is over 18, you definitive have a ways to go for sure but without a picture, it is hard to tell? Do you work out hard and regularly? Are you fit? Is your boyfriend?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:57 PM
2

You are a young guy now. Let's have this convo in 20 years and see how you and your bros did.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:46 PM
1

Dude - She is naturally reaching her peak natural SMV in that hypergamy works both ways. Chicks 17 to mid to late 20s have a dating pool that spans to guys pushing or above 40. Guys with cars, boats, influence, etc. The 17-22 year old guys have not a lot going for them outside of looks, muscle and game (low influence, and generally low cash) so you are on your way to a one of the more difficult age periods.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:45 PM
5

"sometimes I really find everything so fucking boring..." Let me ask you a crazy question: Do you think the kids in school getting the kind of grades setting themselves up for a successful future think the classes are fucking captivating? If you find them boring, then imagine how the really smart kids feel about them? But they can get the grades to set themselves up for their future despite that. Boring is either a cop out or you aren't looking at how these classes contribute toward your high SM…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:40 PM
13

Crack whores? Is that a profession?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:05 AM
10

Take a look at her posting history. She admits to being on Suboxone which is for opioid addiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/18 12:59 PM
1

That is an easy question: Nothing In a local exclusive relationship you can have off days when your frame is shaky, for example, but you can make up for it because your weak frame will only have a day or two to fester in her mind until the next time you see her and show her strong frame again. In this kind of LDR, you can't fix any weaknesses that come up and will fester for weeks. One day you are going to show weak frame, or mention a plate, or just say a faux pas and then the next night you ar…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:23 PM
-1

...until another alpha comes along. It is called spinning plates for a reason. You are spinning a plate on a stick. If you don't keep pushing the plate to continue spinning, the plate falls. 2 weeks between spins and the OP's right to bang other chicks isn't going to be enough to keep the plate spinning through the ups and downs.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:54 PM
2

Simply accept that the risk of this happening is compounded in a LDR. What is happening here is the the RP chorus is saying that, based on empiricism, this is a particularly high probability of her being unfaithful to you due to the fact that you are in a LDR, you are only seeing each other every 4 weeks, and you are "free" to seek out other sex partners. You are replying "there is always a chance that a chick will branch swing so what's the difference". The difference is that in a normal local …
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:50 PM
19

There is no faster way to be demoted to beta orbiter/friend zone than to give gifts.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 04:55 PM
21

I don't, for a minute, believe what women write on Quora.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 01:27 PM
96

Learn from their actions, not their words....
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 01:07 PM
3

Try to get a doctor's note or something.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:50 PM
3

Dude, this is about you, not about her. Either she is a plate and it is ok that she goes clubbing, or she is a gf and it isn't. You decide. If she isn't LTR material (as you say), demote her to plate, stop caring, and you embrace abundance and you go out and find some more plates. When you have multiple plates spinning, you will care less about whether or not she goes to a club.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:27 PM
5

Their situation of being single is purely their own choice. There are studly guys with big pectorals, strong jawlines and big bank accounts just lining up around the block with diamond rings in their hands ready to marry them and carry them off on their white horses, but no...these guys are just not worthy of their love and respect so they would just prefer to remain single.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 06:00 AM
2

I think the key here is to think of "situational" things to open about. The wine, why she is on crutches, will the train be late, etc.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:09 PM
7

The DJ position creates high SMV just like someone playing in a band. It is a leadership position in the club and if you are good (which he is) everyone is talking about you.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:15 PM
1

Look, you gotta understand that you have an unsustainable relationship the way it is. If you want to try to salvage it, you are going to have to employ one of two strategies. Either beg her to stop bringing it up like a crying bitch or you are going to have to amplify the energy in order to make your point. Here are some high energy approaches: Tell (not ask) her to stop bringing it up or the next time she does you are out the door (and mean it). Tell her you regret telling her about it and you …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:52 PM
1

While I agree that she isn't worth your focus, look at the resources for "Last Minute Resistance" or LMR on how to overcome it.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:41 PM
1

I was KINDA turned off for remembering she has a boyfriend That is why she can be a plate and nothing else. If she is cheating on her LTR, she will cheat on you if you LTR her. Enjoy banging her. Be the chad. If it isn't you, it is going to be someone else.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:19 PM
2

Good work...you are on your way. Remember these lessons. LMR is just LMR. Chicks with boyfriends are not off limits. You can tell a chick that "we are friends with benefits" and it won't scare her off. Fake it until you make it. Escalate kino! Here is a pro tip: If you are going to use the friends with benefits line, add that you are "discreet, very discreet". You will be amazed at how many chicks will reject you today only to hit you up weeks of months later to "hang out" because the want to ge…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:09 PM
-7

Steal the pictures and throw them out and then now say anything. "what pictures?" That will mess with her head!
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:46 AM
3

This!
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:43 AM
1

If she is letting you get her semi naked and she is in your pants, then you aren't in the friend zone...keep working at it.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:38 PM
1

That is called oneitus and is a recipe for failure and pain. You can take my word for it or learn the lesson on your own. An important basic tenet of TRP is "abundance" over "scarcity". Oneitus is about scarcity ("she is the only one like her and I can love only her..." blah blah). Spinning plates is about abundance (if that is your thing). One of the crazy implications of TRP you will see over and over is that it is behaving with an abundance mindset is what makes you attractive to 98% of women…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:20 PM
1

Escalate kino and make your move. If she gives resistance pull back and wait to see if there are any IOIs. If this is going to be a friend zone movie night just blow her off. Let me know what happens.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:09 PM
3

This. Stop asking, start telling. This is not the same thing as giving orders to her. Do: "Hey, I am going to check out a band I heard about on Friday, meet me there at 9!" Do: "I am having a chill out night with some tasty cocktails of my genius creation, come over." Don't: "Are you free on Friday?" If you just ask if she is free, if she says yes, she is tacitly agreeing to do anything you suggest on Friday. This is confusing to her female mind. You are also in college, stop obsessing about thi…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:38 PM
1

Simple...we weren't there to see the context of what went down so any answers here are just throwing darts blindfolded. My take is the fact that you are on this issue like a dog with a bone about looking for the one key is part of your personality that needs to be worked on.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:26 PM
4

In case you were curious, this subreddit isn't called "debate trp", it is called "asktrp". People come here for TRP answers.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:19 PM
1

The fact that you have "semi" in the first sentence and the word "however" in the third sentence means you much to learn. What you should learn are these things: There are no semi-ltrs only ltrs and plates as said by /u/TheRedPillMonkey. Chick (LTR or plate) shows you disrespect like that, cut. Bro goes beyond "bros before hoes" like gaming a chick you are actively banging or is an ltr is cut. No howevers. No maybes, no let's grow from this. What you can learn from this, is just that. Having bin…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:13 PM
1

You have to purge oneitus from you soul. Be strong!
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:03 PM
22

And her name is Amber!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/18 01:51 PM
8

You are asking me a question like an alcoholic asking how to stop drinking. Just fucking stop. Go see a shrink. Start working out like a fiend so you are too exhausted to obsess. The most important thing is to develop an IDGAF attitude. This is a life lesson here. Learning not to be desperate or letting it show is absolutely necessary for life success. How the fuck are you going to buy a new car or interview for a job if you come across desperate?? This is a learned mind control thing like learn…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:13 AM
2

Dread doesn't work 100% of the time. When it is working, she will be hitting you up on text or whatever and when you run into her, she will be demonstrating IOI.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:08 AM
2

Probably not, you are in the friend zone. If there is ANY chance of getting her back, it is by blowing her off. You need to show her that you are the prize and the way to do that is to embrace abundance so that she sees or hears about you that you are sought after by other chicks. Chicks do not fuck guys that are orbiting (except when drunk or desperate!). Let me assure you what has 0% chance of working. That would be groveling. Groveling is any conversation where you are asking her "what went w…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:00 PM
2

Next her.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:47 PM
7

When you stop being desperate, it will come.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:44 PM
2

In other words, work on your game.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:43 PM
3

Maybe I am not understanding something. If she is an hour away why are you not seeing each other every weekend at least? From a TRP perspective, it is really hard to demonstrate and reinforce your SMV and maintain the tingles from a distance. If you are in a real LDR, you should be having a lot of free nights to make yourself excellent (Lift, improve your SMV, etc.) so that she knows you are the prize those weekends when you do see her. Are you doing that? All of this being said, you need to tak…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:30 PM
1

You may be suffering from depression. Speak to your doctor. One of the symptoms of depression is something called anhedonia.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:05 PM
1

What we are really saying is "read the sidebar" and understand what TRP is all about. Everything on your posts and comments is off base.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 12:01 PM
2

Abundance mentality!
/r/askTRP22/10/18 06:26 PM
2

The question is really this: How do you make her comfortable with the differences in your life experiences? The answer is not to amplify those differences that might make her feel comfortable. Right now, I would just chat with her and make plans with her as if nothing happened. You really do need to follow the RP program which is really about creating the best you that you can starting with physicality (lifting) and new and refined behaviors and perspectives. As stated below, have other options …
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:41 PM
3

Don't you see that she is insecure about not having the advantages that you had? Then you throw out some words she doesn't know. Then you tell her to read books to get smarter. How about talking about how cool Mexican culture is? How you would like to really explore Mexico off the beaten track of Cancun and TJ? How Mexican American families are still close unlike typical gringo families, etc.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:10 AM
7

Talking about books may be a normal thing in YOUR world. Do you think the typical Kim Kardashian fan-girl, reality TV watching chick has picked up a book in the last year that wasn't a fashion magazine or something offered at the checkout line in the supermarket? Suggesting that she read books so you can talk about them is going to make her defensive. The whole conversation is going to make her feel inferior and that is certainly not going to give her the tingles and get you laid. Regarding "I t…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:07 AM
5

I think they have no intention of taking TRP off quarantine or banning the subreddit regardless of what the mods do or say. It is like we are on "double secret probation".
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 06:40 PM
11

You make an interesting point that being friend zoned by a chick is the same thing as a guy plating a chick. Guys don't put chicks into the friend zone, they put them into the plating zone. Chicks use guys as emotional tampons and their personal Uber service, while guys use the chicks...uh....differently.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 06:33 PM
3

Simply this: Telling her you have feelings for her is a sure fire recipe for her losing attraction for you. It just doesn't work the way it works in dopey movies where the guy says "I love you" and the hot chick melts in his arms. Wake up! More simply this: Having and declaring feelings for an overweight chick with two kids from different dudes she wasn't married to in friggin' insane. Clearly you haven't embraced any of the TRP writings on the sideboard. Until you actually read what TRP is abou…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 01:22 PM
2

...and they don't fuck adorable.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 01:18 PM
1

https://www.businessinsider.com/why-your-iq-strongly-influences-your-success-at-work-2017-10
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:59 PM
6

Read the sideboard, get back to school, start taking care of yourself, etc. What a man certainly wouldn't do is drop out of school, put on 10kgs and whine like a bitch. A man would show that slut of yours just what kind of man she missed out on.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:08 PM
3

What is wrong with you? Move on! This isn't getting better and you are wasting your life.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:24 PM
1

You should have moved directly to planning to meet with her. You will find out quickly whether she just wants to talk to a guy to feed her ego or whether she actually wants to meet you.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:37 AM
4

This is where female platonic friends come in handy. You want a chick as your date that will not hurt your work reputation and show the senior folks that you are a steady person of good taste.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 08:48 PM
36

I suspect she still is a high libido person for Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 05:26 PM
12

Kicking them out increases the chance that they will have "buyer's remorse" the next day and suddenly start screaming data rape or just shit talking about you in general. There is nothing wrong with turning a ONS into a plate you hit on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:54 AM
19

I think what he is saying is read the side board and work on yourself. You are deeply blue pilled.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:22 PM
2

"She started to bully me when I tried to figure out where things went wrong" WTF? You asked for closure? That is very blue pill thing to do. You are going to learn nothing from the exercise and you are going to confirm to her that you are a blue pill loser. If your thinking is that "you want to learn what you did wrong" you aren't going to find it there (what is she going to say? whatever she can think of to end the conversation, that's what.), you are going to find it on the sideboard of this s…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:00 PM
5

Integrate getting their number into a trick. Say something like, "for my next trick, let me see your phone...." and then put your number in it and text yourself so you have hers. "For this next trick, you are going to meet this really cool guy for a drink..." If another chick asks about "your secrets" use that as an opportunity to verbally escalate into flirtation. "My magic secrets or my other secrets? I have a youtube channel for my magic, but for my other secrets I am the subject of whole doc…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 12:55 PM
29

"Considering it"? WTF, just get them!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 12:50 PM
-1

Firstly, I am shocked that dumping a oneitus when you are nothing but a beta orbiter was called too extreme on THIS subreddit. Can you post a link to that? Secondly, escalate and make a move on her you numb nut! What are you analyzing? If a chick you are attracted to gives ioi, go for it. If she resists your making a move, dump her ass from your life. Being a beta orbiter with a little red pill and a little frame is still being a beta orbiter. Just stop it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 01:39 PM
17

...and we only kissed....once!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 03:04 AM
1

So, when you have a girl over, you never offer them a drink or wine?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:18 PM
1

It isn't a strategy, it is a tactic!
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:17 PM
1

Netflix and chill at your place with plenty of wine and/or booze on hand!
/r/askTRP05/07/18 11:39 AM
3

This is from last year in the Journal Nature...very highly regarded peer reviewed, etc.: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-017-10675-6 Here is an article that tries to put in less scientific terms: https://gizmodo.com/scientists-link-cat-parasite-to-common-neurological-d-1806174772
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/18 03:39 AM
1

This...in places like Iceland X is not a large number.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:34 PM
5

Here is what really happened: She goes to the work event and starts drinking and flirting with Chad. In the back of her mind she is saying, "Chad is so cute, Chad is so successful, Chad is so interesting, Chad likes me, if I was single I would definitely be fucking Chad and he would marry me and give me babies and a house with a picket fence and a Range Rover to take the kids to school. I am stuck with douche bag, beta, less successful than Chad, not committing, frame breaking OP. I should dump …
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:24 AM
15

...and you cannot negotiate from a position of weakness. It isn't negotiating, it is begging.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:35 PM
2

Ashley is the Chad...he does nothing but has Scarlett orbiting him for years and the loyalty of Melanie. I hate to disagree with you. You can't call anyone with that much oneitus for so many years RP. He is a make believe RP. In the post war South, he had looks, personality and money (big SMV). He could have been slamming chicks all he wanted but he was still stuck on her and wasted his life on a woman who never loved him and only banged him if he carried her ass up all those stairs.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:36 PM
2

Rhett Buttler had a bad bad case of oneitus on Scarlett...he may have found a little red pill later, but Scarlett was totally into Ashley and Rhett was a friggin orbiter and, literally, a cuck (married to Rhett, kissing Ashley). Does he dump her after that? NO! Just because of that famous scene of him carrying her up the stairs doesn't make him RP by a long shot. Scarlet was riding the carousel on her third marriage (or more, I can't remember) before she married Rhett. Remember, she declared tha…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:48 PM
7

Its not just great convo...if you leave after JUST great convo, you aren't leaving them with any tension. That is why you leave them after some push pull laced convo. There is nothing inherently red pill about great convo. You need to leave them intrigued and attracted to your mystery, not entertained.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:33 PM
1

Telling her thta you cheated on her is going to do a few bad things like hurt your SMV among people she will tell who you may know. Additionally, it is going to cause her a lot of pain unnecessarily and generate a lot of drama. Just tell her you don't think there is a lot of future in your relationship. She will understand and then maybe you can turn her into a plate.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:58 PM
3

A couple of points: Firstly, she was probably already chatting with Chad, that is why she was being distant. Secondly, if you do decide to take her back, you can use this an a "wedge" to get her to sign a pre-nup. "Honey, you violated my trust and it is going to take a long time for you to earn it back. The only was I can consider marrying you is if you sign a pre-nup."
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:47 PM
3

You need a more comprehensive plan that includes a backup if she isn't free! Everything is a learning experience. Be more prepared next time. If you were going to ask her now, what would you have done differently?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 04:41 PM
3

The same thinking that makes the guy a Billy Beta, makes him think it is ok to do that.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 12:11 PM
1

Glad you liked it. To me, just picking up the phone to make a therapy appointment or calling the employee counseling service we used to have made me start to feel better. You are on the road to recovery.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 11:52 AM
6

As a former depression sufferer (feel free to pm me), I need to offer a different perspective. The opposite of depression isn't happiness and meds don't make you happy. The opposite of being depressed is not being depressed. Unhappiness, isn't depression. Being in depression "crisis" and being unhappy both make you miserable but they aren't the same thing. To understand depression, I suggest looking up something called the bio, psycho, social model of depression. This can get you started: https:…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:42 PM
2

The OP needs to read and understand this comment. The OPs mistake was suggesting logically she disconnect from the ex on facebook instead of aggressively kicking her to curb for it. That was the response she was craving. Like every chick, she said she wanted a guy more emotionally supportive but is, in fact, more attracted to a guy "more abusive". She would have cut the x off and came crawling back to the OP like u/theDudeFlyz here's fiance.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:16 PM
11

Imagine if, when she called you between the second and third iteration of the story, you told her, "hey, I am seeing someone right now who I really like so we can meet for coffee but we have to chill on the hooking up." Then go on to tell her all the thinks your new girlfriend is that she isn't. The dynamic will change drastically as you go from her backup plan to the great guy she let get away.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:41 PM
1

Go visit a lawyer to understand what is going to happen next and to be prepared for it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:43 PM
1

Spinning---the exercise modality with exercise bikes in a big room! ;-)
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:23 PM
3

Try spinning---lots of babes do spinning.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:07 PM
2

Think about groups that chicks will join. Book groups, language groups, dining groups, etc. Going to a blockchain group won't serve you well!
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:06 PM
1

There ya go...She detected that you updated your Tinder account and her hamster wheel decided to dump you before you could dump her. Chicks use their friend's Tinder accounts to snoop on their boyfriend's activity. Take this as a lesson learned. Don't ever get caught looking at Tinder or Match or Porn. Use stealth mode browsers, etc.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:58 PM
4

I don't interpret the OP saying "We are awesome because we chose TRP over becoming an incel" and I don't see the post as offering advice as much as it just being on observation that the guys on this sub have chosen a different path than the incels have. Your point is correct. Our ability to choose the RP path over the incel's "path of least resistance" (aka pass the blame to the world instead of accepting the blame for the situation) is based on our psychology.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:27 PM
1

So....before getting together the chicks had a convo where it was clear to her friends that she had no interest in you. You got the friend(s) digits...were they cute at least?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:23 AM
7

One of two things happened: Either she thought you were going to hand out as friends or she was just using you to buy shit for them. Either way, this is a reflection of you and how you handled the set up to the situation. One thing is certain, confronting her and asking her why she brought her boyfriend isn't going to get you in her pants. You are likely to come across sounding like some beta blue pill bitch who got his feelings hurt.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:16 AM
1

Your strategy should be to turn blue pill so she dumps you when the time comes. Become clingy, beta, talk about your feelings and you should be gone in a couple of weeks!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 02:26 PM
1

Not that I would ever suggest destroying evidence but, if I were, purely hypothetically of course, I would probably buy your girlfriend a new laptop and drop the old one into the ocean at a very deep place and you should do a low level reformat of your hard drive and replace your smartphone. If you break her heart, you can find yourself in a very bad place. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 01:27 PM
6

IOI means you haven't read the sidebar! Do it!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 04:09 AM
2

She seems happy to take your virginity now, but it isn't going to end up that way. Watch out for her putting your through hoops to get in her pants now that she senses you desperately want to lose the V card.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:51 PM
2

How about legs? How about quad extensions and leg curls on a machine? How about working your abs? How the fuck does that affect your arm?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:29 PM
1

For starters, tell her. Don't ask her.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:33 PM
6

First, stop asking for numbers. Tell her to give you her number. It could be as simple as "We should hang out, give me your number. Give me your phone." Show dominance. Second, take her phone, use it to call your number so she has your number and you have her number. Then put your contact info in her phone as "Cool Guy from Starbucks" or "New Guy you are crazy about" or "Guy My Mother Would Love" or whatever so when you text that is what pops up and they chuckle.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:14 PM
2

It is the best and most important money the OP can spend. If the kid is not the OPs then he is a free man. If it is, then he has some hard decisions to make but without that information we will be in purgatory until the kid is born.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:38 PM
1

She is showing that she is a pathological liar. Are you going to change her wiring with dread game? I doubt it. Try it if you want but be unrelenting and in attack mode. If you ever revert to compromise mode you will lose.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:31 PM
1

Tomorrow is going to be tougher than today and the day after that will be even harder. With your attitude, you can look forward to a lifetime of hell. Embrace it.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:29 PM
2

If she hadn't already done so.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:43 PM
1

She was never yours. It was just your turn. As said above, you need to remind yourself that she is cheater with an attention span problem. This is a chick that will always drunk text you but you have to remember that she is NOT LTR material by any means. Channel your energy at the gym! Meet new chicks.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:41 PM
1

Yeah, but the guys pay for membership and the chicks are on for free. That will work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/18 04:01 AM
1

I think when you are old enough that you need someone to change your adult diapers and wipe your drool getting married is ok!
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:05 AM
1

Responding to an ultimatum is going into her frame. Once you show that you can get pulled into her frame she will do it again and again.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:03 AM
1

Frame. You are being pulled into her frame. Learn the power of the word "no".
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:01 AM
2

Uh, her telling her friend a story that makes makes you look bad and her look good when that isn't how it went down is pretty much the definition of disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:15 AM
3

Say what you are feeling? That is a guaranteed path to her losing ALL attraction to the OP.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 12:29 AM
3

Her lying to her friend about what went down is disrespecting you to her friend.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 11:49 PM
5

If you mover her to plate status be sure to use protection. She sounds like the kind of chick who would say she is on the pill and trap you.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:47 PM
3

"Honey, if you don't think you can feel safe w me anymore then I guess we are done." Its called Dread and it is about taking back Frame.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:26 PM
1

You are being super beta. You need to employ dread and re-establish frame.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 11:42 PM
3

SMV or no SMV, go to the Sagrada Familia Cathedral and prepare to have your mind blown.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:42 PM
3

Just like how the OP needs no proof either. This post is total speculation. Try googling "fast path to prison". There is nothing.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:34 PM
4

Here are some truths: You can't negotiate or behavior modify her by begging her. She will not change this behavior on her own over time because it is working on you. You have to be willing to hold frame and live with the consequences (like breaking up). "Susie I have been thinking that you should probably move out (now you have her attention and silent treatment is over). Long term, I don't want to be in a relationship where i get the silent treatment and withhold sex for every minor faux pax." …
/r/askTRP17/02/18 05:02 PM
6

You are on a Red Pill sub reddit...I think you should make a slight effort to learn what red pill is about. "Chad" is part of the glossary on the right side board. Start with "New Here". Chad is just an avatar for the alpha guy that gets the girl. He is the opposite of the beta orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:54 PM
18

Deep meaningful connections are what she has with her favorite beta orbiters. Does she have those kinds of convos with Chad?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:47 PM
1

So you are butt hurt because she wants to see it w her dad? Maybe you overreacted but I think she is just socially awkward. She should have seen the movie twice. It isn't as if she didn't want to see you.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:45 AM
1

She cancels and doesn't say let's do something else tonight? Different movie, square dancing, anything?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:35 AM
4

"My ex-girlfriend called me last night and we spoke for hours...she wants to give it another shot with me...I am so confused. Our parents are friends and everything. I don't know what to do...." Then two days later you call and tell her you are going to get back with her.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:32 AM
1

Exactly!
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:41 PM
11

"just because you buy me a drink, don't get any ideas!" Answer her question by not answering the question. On Friday, kino and escalation for the start. See how she responds.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:22 PM
4

You are deep in the friend zone. Escalation has to start immediately.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:17 PM
3

Good! If she doesn't want hang with you after that it is one of several reasons like she didn't like you that much, fucking wasn't great for her (read Sex God Method), you failed the comfort tests and she feels like a ho, or some other exogenous reason. All these reasons have one thing in common: She decided not to see you again before she walked out your door. Thus, all the text games you can come up with won't help.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 04:28 PM
1

What do you mean by "hooked up"? In the TRP world hooking up is banging her. Are you saying you just got her phone number?
/r/askTRP13/02/18 04:13 PM
2

Don't forget that the great fun date guy isn't a trajectory to her bonding, it is a trajectory to the friend zone. You can take them on great dates, but you have to be escalating the whole way.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:54 PM
1

Send him an email from a throw away account.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:43 PM
1

Are you approaching any chicks? Are YOU escalating? Are you moving for a close? Upping your SMV through lifting, hobbies, etc. is the foundation but bitches don't often throw themselves at guys.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 08:21 PM
292

This would have been the most helpful thing the OP could do for this dude. In fact, the OP should make a move on the HB and just tell her "all I was saying to Mr BP is that I would definitely try to kiss you if I were on a date with you". That will get her hamster wheel spinning.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:15 PM
3

I beg to differ. I see RP men as men on a journey to be the best version of themselves. Part of that journey is understanding relationships and the opposite sex just as it is understanding ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:09 PM
7

I always say that PUA learn the behaviors of Chad and how to mimic them (follow scripts). RPers learn to become Chad.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:10 PM
5

So, how are things different with women now? What are you doing that is different and how are they responding?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:06 PM
1

Me: "Not me YET" then move on
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:23 PM
-1

"I saw you get hit on by that guy while we were waiting. I had to hold back my laughter...you handled it very well"
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:19 PM
2

Let me add one thing: Playing the dread game means that you embrace that you are ready to walk away unless things change because if things don't change, you are on a downward spiral. "You are the prize" means that you deserve a relationship with a great sex life. Demand it.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:08 PM
1

We don’t win when we bargain overtly with women.. learning covert communication is how we gain the upper hand. Brilliant!
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:05 PM
8

Yeah....and then she will turn into the perfect LTR and eventually a soccer mom raising his kids.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:00 PM
2

This is how you stop being a cuck....just stop being a cuck! There is nothing to figure out.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 09:58 PM
2

What a load of shit! Too nervous? Too nervous to meet for coffee at a Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts? I think they are going to be too nervous to drop their panties too. Next them and invest in chicks who won't b too nervous to meet for coffee.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:42 PM
1

Your brother is going through a nightmare of shit in his life right now. If what gets him through the day is "knowing" that his ho is there for him to some level, give it to him. Give him a couple of bucks or give the girl a couple of bucks to help him get through the day.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 07:16 PM
1

Right, you are not good enough to be with a cheating, heavy pot smoking, depressive with no plan for her future. She could do a lot better, I am sure. /s {that would be sarcasm}
/r/askTRP04/02/18 07:03 PM
3

I don't think you need to go this far....you don't need proof against "attempted rape" in your home with your live-in girlfriend in a situation that is her word against yours and you were attempting to kiss her. However, if she is going to use the "nuclear option" by even using that language with you she doesn't qualify as LTR material or even plate material. She needs to go. If you need to have a big talk with her, don't ever use the "R word" in any communication, particularly written communica…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:59 PM
1

Oh yeah, there was that too! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:43 PM
2

It isn't the anger phase you are in, it is the scarcity phase. You need to move to the abundance phase--a key red pill concept. Also AWALT. They are going to branch swing. She wasn't ever your's, she is your's for a period of time. If you want to get over her, start working on new women and start increasing your SMV. Stop moping. Block her out completely.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 07:49 PM
30

IMHO the pendulum of feminism swinging so far to the left during the Obama administration and HRC being such a vocal feminist candidate is what cost the Dems the election. All these date rape allegations on college campuses and this BS talk about income inequality really boomeranged on them. Since speaking out against the feminist opinion will get someone tarred and feathered, people just quietly voted. I have a lot of respect for people willing to engage publicly in this debate. This metoo shit…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 02:15 PM
6

Slow down a second. Why don't you get IOIs? If you are so "ruggedly handsome" there has to be a reason you aren't getting any. Appearance alone should get you some interest. There must be something that is negating it. Work on your SMV.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:12 AM
1

Abundance, not scarcity. Stop focusing on one chick. Learn and move on.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:10 AM
5

It is remarkable how many chicks actually dig being talked to that way. The fact that the OP's girl is calling him Daddy is just a green light to call her good girl and baby, etc.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:07 AM
1

There is something about playing the guitar that melts chicks.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:52 AM
1

This is the Red Pill, not PUA anonymous. Work on you (LIFT!, hobbies, leadership, maybe martial arts, etc.), your SMV--being the prize, your abundance mentality, etc. Couple that with some PUA tricks and you will be a force of nature.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:47 AM
2

Here being buzzed when you make your move gives you "plausible deniability" if she isn't into it.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 07:54 PM
15

It is all a learning curve! It is shocking that a chick you know somewhat and will see on campus gave you a fake number. I suspect you may have come off a bit too creepy (it is a fine line).
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 07:34 PM
9

I think the red pill is stuck in your throat! Take a glass of water and get that pill down! I read this and I see that you have the hots for her. You sure look like a friend zoned beta orbiter to me. How does she respond when YOU have other chicks by the house or are banging them in your room? (If I were a betting man, I would bet you have avoided doing this) If you want to turn the table on her, this would be a form of "dread" to pull on her. Next time she is buzzed and is acting affectionate w…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 07:31 PM
3

In most states, if you had $100,000 in assets on the day you get married and she has none. Fast forward 5 years later and you separate for divorce and you two combined have $175,000, you keep the original 100k + 1/2 the 75k. This is not counting alimony or child support. This is just the community property side.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 04:58 AM
5

You can't negotiate with her. LEAD her. Stop drinking yourself. Start going to the gym yourself. She will see you being healthier, more fit, more attractive and then the dread will kick in.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:31 AM
20

INAL but I believe this is actually how it works in most western countries (in theory) today. The property amassed during the marriage is the community property. Basically, you add up the assets of both spouses from before they got married and subtract that amount from the value of assets after they got separated and that is the community property to be divided during the divorce. The spouses each get what they came to the marriage with plus half the increase. https://www.legalzoom.com/knowledge…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:13 AM
79

I think this is a healthy response from her. Her response to you increasing your SMV is that she wants to increase her's too.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:50 PM
2

Make sure you have your survival kit: Pretty good weekend in Vegas
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:21 PM
1

Read it with comprehension this time. Like the part about frame and IDGAF mentality and the part how you are the prize? Remember those parts? Write them on an index card and carry them around with you or write them on your hand.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:08 PM
2

...and since when do we listen to what chicks say instead of watching what they actually do? Mr. Dadbod isn't going to get past "hello, how ya doing".
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:05 PM
3

...or like a common beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:03 PM
1

Look at the sideboard. There are plenty of info on LMR.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:58 PM
2

Make a move on her. Do you really think she has a six pack ab guy waiting for her at home? Yeah, I only want to fuck Sports Illustrated models but tonight, I would be happy to fuck a HB9 instead.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:48 PM
4

Part of the OP's SMV calculation anyway!
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:42 PM
1

If she is plate material, start treating her that way. If there was any chance of getting in her pants, (not that I am suggesting you do anything but hard next her) you aren't going to get there by begging and that is what you are doing. Getting into any particular chick's pants has to do with demonstrating high SMV, IDGAF, etc. If you want to bang a particular chick, show her you are banging hotter higher SMV chicks than her and/or show her you don't give a fuck about her because she is one of …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:40 PM
1

Read the sidebar! Kino and escalation (while conversing) is what you are supposed to be doing.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:53 PM
1

The issue is that where this was going was obvious from the beginning. You were playing the beta game with her from the start and when she dumps you you volunteer to be her beta orbiter! Why are you asking us for advice? When you did no kino and no escalation on date one and two you were done. Game over. Read the sidebar...really read it!
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:49 PM
2

Does your school have a gym?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 12:37 PM
18

Beta or absent father, more than likely.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 05:28 PM
1

Have a bottle of wine in the room. Tell them not to drink the shit they are pouring at the party, come to your room for this really nice bottle you have. I always found wine worked better on chicks. It is sweet and they will drink more.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 05:08 PM
5

I look at it this way: It is like they have two brains (we all do)...the reptilian brain (from our evolutionary past) and the high level human brain. The high level brain is concerned with social things like what does everyone else think and that brain tells them that they should say they want a nice beta guy with a law degree who drives a prius because he cares about the environment and shit. The reptilian brain wants to be fucked by chad. It wants hypergamy. Put two drinks in a young chick who…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 05:03 PM
9

I agree with /u/McVaghunter I guess if you think getting trashed to her community is fine, then go right ahead with the hard rejection. Closure IMHO shouldn't be given. Not reacting is showing frame. When you react, it is showing sensitivity IMHO. Chicks haven't met guys with strong frame and just nexting them allows them to come around and bend to your frame. In other words chicks need to be trained since they have been told their whole life how wonderful they are so scorched earth isn't going …
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:56 PM
91

This! The issue was that she realize she was being plated and that the A-lister (or B+ lister) only wanted her sexually. Well what the hell did she expect? She approaches him and he brushes her off. He asses her as below him in SMV. However, at the end of the night when he had nothing else going and in the face of her constant attention, he gets her phone number. Fast forward a few weeks he calls up to plate her, does a fast wine and dine and then she consents to going back to his place. What th…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:37 PM
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To me it is the constant screaming about feminism and women's rights to make these choices and then there is the couple "we should have sympathy for how these victim women who were taken advantage of and made bad choices...and how there ought to be safeguards or laws". Where are the shouts of sympathy for young men who make bad choices that screw up their lives? It is the SJWs that want it both ways. All the rights and privileges but a safety net.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:16 PM
1

That was a great line.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 07:03 PM
47

My favorite quote: "The Red Pill fulfills this need by functioning as an uncucked humanities department for the western man..." Gentlemen! I welcome you to the Uncucked Humanities Department!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:53 PM
6

I practice Karate and whenever a blowhard friend starts making noise about trying me on, I just say, "so, when was the last time you were in a fight or in the ring? I have a dojo match or contact sparring session once a week or so so I am ready whenever you are." That shuts them up pretty quick when they realize I spar all the time--they don't. I am ready and practiced--they aren't. I have been punched in the head, gut, etc. and I am not shocked about taking a punch--they aren't. I know how to f…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 02:41 PM
7

Then the OP is basically announcing to his boss that he is a player with strings of chick some of whom hating on him. That won't end particularly well.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 02:28 PM
8

Whether psychotic or alpha, got believe a large percentage of those alpha/psychotics got killed off and then in the post war years there weren't many men (how many were too lame to fight or had surrendered) and a lot of female led households.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 02:04 AM
5

Here is an interesting infographic: https://www.payscale.com/gender-lifetime-earnings-gap
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:44 AM
3

There are some great comments here but I want to summarize for you: 1) This is the red pill subreddit, your approach to your girl is hardcore blue pill, oneitis and we have no tolerance for that. If you would like to learn about the red pill, read the sidebar. 2) You are in the classic oneitis blue pill downward spiral. The more control you give up in the relationship, the less attracted she is to you, the less fun the relationship is to you, the more afraid you become of losing her, the more co…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:14 PM
9

You haven't answered the question. Is what you are doing now leading to more sex and a better relationship? Your approach of "withholding love" is just going to give her ammunition to justify her behavior and can very easily created a downward spiral. Furthermore, now is the time to show her that you are willing to leave a relationship that you are unhappy in. If you don't draw that line now, imagine how hard it will be after you get married. If you don't show her now that you have a willingness…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:43 PM
19

This is a very slight red pill approach, You can do a lot better. Is she fucking you more now? Is this actually working? Read up on "dread game". How about just saying to her (dread game lite), "I am concerned that we are no longer sexually compatible. I am beginning to think we should call off the wedding. I don't want to be in a marriage where I am not sexually satisfied. Should we call our parents and let them know?" You need (IMHO) to start showing her that YOU are the prize, YOU have other …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 03:30 PM
2

About you: Read the sidebar, take the red pill, increase your SMV, learn abundance, turn her into a plate and chase some other chicks. About her: she is garbage. Just plate her and start being more interested in your orgasms than hers.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 11:43 PM
6

Don't beat this to death until she has a pregnancy test. I bet you $10 she isn't preggers...relax.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 11:36 PM
11

...and how many actually did? You can lead a horse to water....
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 11:09 PM
2

The OP will get a good job again and the snowflake will come back (her ex and now current boyfriend was probably on the same trajectory). The only question is whether the OP will take her back or not.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 12:29 PM
3

Focus on the logistics. If you want to end up at her place, how are you going to get from the skating rink to her place? Don't be overly critical at the gym. I have seen this been the cause of many crashes. Encourage, give some tips, without being critical.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 11:56 AM
6

Uhhh...do you have any references for this scientific finding?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:13 PM
5

Broaden your lens to include Latin, Scandinavian, etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:11 PM
61

I think that means they will any guy buy them dinner and entertain them but they are still going to fuck chad and not some beta.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 09:44 PM
3

US: As long as the person isn't in a "protected class" (woman, minority, etc.) employees really don't have a leg to stand on with wrongful termination unless it is some kind of pattern (all people over 55 are mysteriously poor performers). Even in a protected class, you really don't have much to worry about in most states. (I have lots of management experience and even wrote a book on firing people). That being said, you shouldn't just fire someone without giving them one clarification sentence.…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:34 PM
1

How are you on approaching chicks? My point is you have a long way to go in your TRP journey. The same IDGAF attitude on chick approach is the attitude necessary to hold a responsible management job and, quite frankly, deal with any relationship. You gotta learn to do the things that are difficult and do them with poise.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:24 PM
2

Good post. It is always worthwhile to remind them that being fired "for cause" (ie. insubordination) makes them ineligible for unemployment insurance (in the US).
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:20 PM
1

Not knowing these individuals, I think the guy who can squat 200 kgs should spend more time in self improvement on the materials on the sideboard and he will benefit from it. I think TRP is a journey, not a destination you get to when your Personal Best in the gym hits a number.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 08:56 PM
42

Get your ass over to the student health center and see a therapist...you may be suffering from depression. It is super common for college students. Now buck up! Think about it. A year from now you will be in med-school and you will be getting over on all the cute undergrads and nurses if you follow TRP key recommendations: Lift, read the sideboard, approach women and learn from it. If your V card is getting you down, see your friendly neighborhood hooker to have her relieve you of that burden.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 08:53 PM
1

I would say it is more about becoming the person you like. I find that saying "like yourself" is about accepting the way you might be now and taking away the motivation to improve.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:27 PM
1

If you want to learn to fight a 50 year old, learn martial arts. While someone jacked might be more intimidating in a fight, that doesn't make them a fighter.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:09 PM
5

This! Lifting is a part of your fitness routine, not the only part of it. Many people in this forum practice martial arts for stamina and flexibility in addition to lifting.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:07 PM
2

Move your eyes to the right side of the screen and you will see something titled "New Here?" and "Glossary" and "Theory Reading" and go from there.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:55 PM
1

Miami https://wyncode.co/ I want to make two points: To those people who think that you can take high school drop out coal miners and train them to be 6 figure IT guys, that isn't going to work. It is often said that a good programmer is worth 10 so/so programmers and it is true. Secondly, to your classmates who didn't get a job...start a company. Develop that app you have been thinking about. Do an internship. They still have options.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:18 PM
5

There is no patience on this subreddit for people who haven't even looked at the resources on the sideboard (including the glossary).
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:09 PM
45

I enrolled in a three-month intensive programming bootcamp Smartest move ever. My city has joint venture with a local not for profit, some city funds with the students paying reduced tuition and I have been saying this program needs to be amped up x10.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 12:50 PM
2

The 80/20 rule (Pareto's law or Pareto's principle) refers ORIGINALLY to wealth distribution where 20% of the people own 80% of the land. The OP applying it to 20% of the guys bang 80% of the women seems like a pretty reasonable association. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:36 AM
2

I am so totally shocked that TRP posts about false rape accusations has given rise to such a large number of TRP readers who now have another reason not to lift and not to increase their smv. Taking the red pill manifests with sexual conquest successes but is a lot more than that. Quite frankly I am running out of patience with the TRP lurkers who don't even have a gym membership.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 03:47 PM
6

Instead of going to clubs (nightclubs), JOIN clubs! Extend your thinking and there are a zillion ways of meeting new women at uni.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 03:42 PM
8

You are never their first choice. Do you think they never had a crush on someone before today? The OP is the chick's first choice right now.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:47 PM
5

I don't know if it is really feminism, per se, but modern society puts unrealistic expectations in women's heads. Every chick has to have an LV handbag, $1,000 shoes and roll with the rich and famous or their life is unfulfilled and they make their guy miserable for not providing. It looks like the OP has found someone now far less influenced by it.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 01:06 PM
1

Red pillers don't beg chicks to come over and beg chicks to kiss them. We escalate and make our moves. We have enough game that chicks text us and as us if they can come over.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 07:53 PM
5

Whether is was because of the lack of sex or not who cares? If it was, she should have had a real conversation about it with you (which she didn't). She cheated, for whatever reason. She is done. Grow a spine.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:30 PM
1

You are her plate!
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:27 PM
11

Closure is for losers. Who cares why she is avoiding you? One thing is absolutely certain, she isn't going to go from avoiding you to flirting with you because you confronted her over it. Here are the spectrum of possibilities that could have caused her to ghost you: Firstly, you could have said something or done something during the week of car pooling to turn her off. Secondly, she is just being a manipulative bitch. How could a confrontation possibly overcome either of those two possibilities…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 12:00 PM
7

This would qualify as one of those times when the police ask you a question, you say one and only one thing: "Lawyer"
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 03:57 PM
8

If you have to have the party, yes you have to invite him with he gf. My advice is to embrace the guy like a long lost buddy and introduce him around. (hold your friends close and your enemies closer) That will probably confuse him if he is a real dick. If he was just reacting, in those other instances, out of his insecurity, you can make him feel comfortable and that should quiet him down.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:02 PM
2

If you have no intention to marry (her or anyone) and do the white picket fence thing, she needs to be converted into a plate.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 12:26 PM
1

So true! Being selfish makes their hamster wheel spin.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 05:55 PM
1

Look to buy it used on ebay.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 04:38 PM
1

The OP of the original post is a troll in that group for sure...no one writes like that!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 02:34 AM
3

Meetup.com for other social or sports activities.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 02:19 AM
1

...and your better plan is? My suggestion would suck for two years but you would come out discipline, an understanding of how the world works, confidence, a grasp of reality, money for college, fit, some savings, maybe some skills, social skills, etc. I guess it is easier to keep hoping a miracle happens and you get all of that from some thunderbolt coming out of the sky with you making no effort.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 04:21 AM
1

It means RUN, do NOT walk! Why are you even thinking that there is some kind of outcome where she will become a faithful, honest, committed lifelong partner. Seriously!
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:25 PM
7

Are you on crack? She is (at a minimum) emotionally unfaithful. Dump her ass.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 01:08 PM
0

Join the Marines. One signature on a piece of paper is all you need to get started.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:06 PM
10

I immediately thought about red pill and my only solution was to escalate and fuck her. Hmmm...that could very easily be interpreted as you getting turned on by your oneitis fucking someone else. Welcome to cuck-world. I think you need to do some reading of the sidebar materials.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:01 PM
1

I completely don't understand. Do you want to bang these older women? If not, who gives a shit? They are making convo but definitely showing and indication of interest. If you want to bang them, ask them whether they have ever been with a younger guy or tease them and say you thought we were the same age.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:49 AM
1

You are not going to get her back by being a pussy, depressed mope AND you are not going to get other quality women by being a pussy, depressed mope. The redpill formula is the same in all and for all cases. Improve your SMV (lift, healthy lifestyle, social development, financial situation improvement) and learn the Red Pill principles to learn to handle situations better and you will be on the path to moving on. The key to moving on is going to be getting good reaction from other quality chicks…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:42 AM
1

"Gee I thought people wear their shirt out of their pants only if then want to look taller."
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:30 AM
0

First thing to do is become fit yourself! She will notice it. She will also notice that you will be getting more attention from other women. This is sort of a "soft dread game" where you don't even need to do anything and this can precede full on dread game.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:27 AM
2

I am not sure how or if this would work, but if you get her recorded threatening you, perhaps you can get a restraining order on HER which might force her out and would certainly weaken her claims of your abuse to her.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:17 AM
3

Getting evicted will screw up your credit and get you on a renter's blacklist.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:15 AM
2

You have to admit that pretending not to see her is pretty funny..of course she laughed.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:30 PM
7

If you don't fuck her she won't refer anything to you, if you do fuck her and it doesn't work out for her she won't refer anything to you either. In the latter case, you will get laid and will get referrals for a while---probably the better option. Remember the saying: Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Reject her and you are done.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:25 PM
2

Totally this. She is right on the cusp of the wall at 32 and Mr. VP has the bucks and high SMV while the OP has only ambition to get the bucks despite his other qualities..
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 02:16 PM
1

It's the lack of will to submit to that reality It isn't "that" reality, it is "the" reality. We can't help you accept reality, you will need to come to that on your own. When you do, we will still be here! I consider RP as accepting nature and not trying to refashion nature but rather learning to work with nature to our maximum benefit.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 03:39 AM
1

I feel like I need some kind of keyboard macro for the response to this same old oneitus bullshit question posted here 3-6 times a day. OP: Increase your SMV through lifting, personal style, improved diet, being more professionally successful and being more social and then apply dread game. Living together is super beta because she gets to see you at your blue pill pussy worst (dealing with your ill mother probably didn't show your strong side) and makes you LESS attractive. If this doesn't work…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:50 PM
1

Ask his wife...he is married.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:44 PM
2

Book clubs, outdoor adventure (hiking, kayaking, sailing, etc.), singles groups. Look around Meetup.com and look at some meetups past events to see the m/f ratio.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 12:54 PM
2

That text about her being free is something she sent out to a half dozen guys and you didn't make the cut.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:20 PM
7

You should start by reading the material about the Red Pill. There is no quick fix. You should begin right now in a program of improving yourself so that your Social Market Value ("SMV") increases and your GF begins to be reminded that you are a catch. That is why we always say "lift!". Start lifting. Start becoming more interesting, more social and more successful. If your relationship doesn't survive, you are already in position to chase women successfully by starting this program. Second, or …
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:48 PM
3

Not to be a ball buster but Ted Kaczinski was a Harvard undergrad but a professor at U Cal Berkeley. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ted_Kaczynski
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:06 PM
1

Exactly...it is an oligopoly model, not a competitive market model. Few people recognize this. There is imperfect information, high costs of entry, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:04 PM
1

...and you didn't marry her?
/r/askTRP02/08/17 12:08 AM
2

The Red Pill isn't about leaning some tricks and magic incantations to get a particular girl. It is about YOU being the best YOU you can be. We say things about women like AWALT, Hypergamy, branch swinging, AF/BB, etc. to characterize their behaviors. Red Pill is about how to navigate the waters to maximize your benefit, not how to change nature.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:41 AM
9

Look over at the right about 2/3 the way down and fine a link to "There's this one girl..." click and read it.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:56 PM
15

Take a look-see: https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:35 PM
58

This is the whole idea of being an Alpha Widow. A chick who is a HB6 can get some horny and hungry Alpha Chad to occasionally bang them so they feel entitled to get a ring and commitment from an Alpha. Of course the Alpha is looking for a HB9 if he is going to make that commitment.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:23 PM
151

I do something very similar. I ask the woman to describe a theoretical woman's characteristics that would be a match for Mr. Everything. Then I ask, "Does this describe you?" Women think they have the right to a Mr. Everything because they are Alpha Widows. Some Alpha Chad banged them and ghosted them after a drunken fraternity party in college and they rationalized it is "I almost landed an Alpha Chad and can next time."
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:12 PM
3

After four months her hamster is spinning its wheel with "where is this relationship going" kinds of thoughts. She is probably getting stronger feels and feeling more vulnerable to getting crushed. This is her reaction.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 11:51 PM
2

Josh is not the OP's bro so "bro code" does not apply.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:36 PM
3

I think this is a particularly valid point. Maybe she is just an exchange student who is lonely and doesn't know many people so she is happy to meet and hang out with anyone...but not romantically/sexually interested in you at all. If you get no IOIs, cut the evening short. Part of the idea of pushing escalation IMHO is to "fail quickly". If it is going nowhere, get out of there.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:31 PM
1

Stop drinking so much coffee and get some sleep! It sounds like you MAY have symptoms of depression. As far as what to do, you have NOT seen everything there is to see in Central London because things change frequently enough. Look at Meetup groups to find some activities from reading clubs, to sports to outdoor activities. Do something to fill your weekends with human interaction.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 11:19 PM
6

She is severely damaged goods probably only feels that you love her when you yell at her...that is all she probably has ever known. She doesn't do shit because she wants you to yell at her. Give her dread game: Tell her "Shit is cleaned and dinner is rolling or you are out on your ass. No second chances." When she is good and does those things, reward her with kind words, kindness and a little reward. Just like the puppy that she is. Reprogram her.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 08:30 PM
1

I don't think you need to ask this question....for following TRP for 10 years, I think you should know better.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 08:20 PM
4

I have a slightly different take on this: OK, you SMV plummeted and she lost interest. Now your SMV is up and she will fuck you again (daily). AWALT! First of all, there is no "love of your life". That is oneitus thinking and we don't engage in that here. Second of all, your saying that she is only turned on when she is accusing you of fucking other chicks may just be her fetish. Maybe she is signalling you that she wants you to give her hot dirty talk about fucking other chicks, maybe she has a…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 08:18 PM
2

I guess she isn't so tired anymore.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:50 PM
1

All you could have done is respond with dread when she stopped talking to you. Read up on dread, oneitus, and abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:31 PM
1

The older guys have actually read the sidebar and taken the red pill. The younger guys are relying on their youth and looks but are beta nonetheless.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:41 PM
2

This. I think the OP is casting this as her being generally disrespectful rather than it being about him watching (and probably reading) conspiracy theory crap that she fundamentally is embarrassed about (yes, the Apollo guys landed on the moon. Sorry to break this to you.).
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:38 PM
1

"we were messaging for weeks and one day..." You are deep in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:27 PM
90

...until it is time to select who they hook up with. They choose that asshole every time.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 03:09 PM
1

The pool at the Hard Rock (any of the nicer outdoor pools will do) and the Spa (don't laugh, get a massage or just hang by the snack bar) at the Venetian are two that come to mind. Chicks go do vegas, not to gamble, but to go to things like shopping, spa, etc. during the day time.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:44 AM
3

You DON'T need a confession...closure is for losers. You have enough information.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 06:10 PM
2

If she isn't fucking him, she isn't fucking him YET!
/r/askTRP19/07/17 06:03 PM
1

Exactly....thus your options are limited. You are fucked. Get over it. No magic potions or incantations are going to fix this. Start getting over it now and planning on how you can improve your SMV when you get better.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:58 PM
3

What would you like your life to look like in the future (goals)? Which job has the better prospects for helping you get to that future world. Simple!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:04 PM
1

If things got so "intense" so fast (4 days), it is likely because you entered her frame rather than holding your own by being so responsive.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:08 PM
1

https://sciencebasedmedicine.org/vitamins-and-cancer-risk/ Minerals in multivitamins are thought to be the problem. I am a fan of taking vitamin C, occasional vitamin e and b and Magnesium though.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 05:59 PM
2

Gee whiz, now that you put it that way, I guess you should just marry her. Which would piss her brother off more: Dumping her now or continuing to fuck her while you have no intention of being with her long term while she is hopeful? Break up with her already. Tell her you want to date other people. Tell her you two have grown apart. You are allowing yourself to held hostage by her. If people believe the crazy chick over you then who cares. Speak to the housing people at your Uni about whether a…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:31 PM
2

FYI: http://www.psychiatryadvisor.com/personality-disorders/borderline-personality-disorder-behavior-sucidial-therapists-clinicians-psychiatrists/article/480359/
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:24 PM
-12

This FR should be on The Blue Pill, not the Red Pill!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 06:41 PM
3

You have a long was to go in your Red Pill journey. You are exhibiting oneitis, lack of abundance mentality, lack of IDGAF mentality and loss of frame just to rattle off a few items. Read the side board.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 02:03 PM
2

This is a shit test, plain and simple. This is the first of a series of things you like that she won't do for you. She is creating space.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 03:24 AM
2

Because the body hair thing is just her psychological bullshit to push you away and/or just turn you into the total beta that would even accept and unshaven chick. It isn't about the hair. It is the shit test you are failing.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 03:22 AM
1

Oh were you looking for a magic incantation that was going to get her back begging to fuck you? Sorry...don't have that...cause, it doesn't fucking exist. She lost interest and has a new interest and the faster you just accept it and move on to the next the better off you will be.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 03:18 AM
2

Do you work every phone number that you get? The reason I ask is that it seems like you are getting 20-30 phone numbers a week and I am wondering about your phone number to first meeting percentage.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 03:46 AM
2

Go talk to a lawyer right now....ignore the idiots here on reddit (like me) until you do!
/r/askTRP24/06/17 09:20 PM
1

Gladwell's Blink was highly criticized for misquoting the studies (from a guy named Anders Ericsson) he based the 10,000 hour "rule". Basically, the idea is that 10,000 with COACHING, baseline skill, etc. is the conclusion of the study. People come away from the book and the blurbs of the book with "all I need to do is put 10,000 hours in and I will play for the NHL" which is not it. When confronted by the guys from Feakonomics, he basically shrugged off the criticism and didn't really respond. …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 06:57 PM
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Two concepts: Abundance mentality and IDGAF. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:08 PM
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We need technology to automatically generate this comment to every post in this subreddit.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:07 PM
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....and you say she is crazy, wants exclusivity, you toss you toss her out, she revenge dates and fucks your beta bro and you say you still have the feelz for her??? And now you are pissed at a bro? And we are supposed to learn something from your sharing that experience with us??? ;-)
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:26 PM
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Plan A: Take the pressure off. Expand your friendships in general. Meet chicks (and bros) in more casual environments (meetup.com, hobby groups, church, whatever) and get experience having chicks as friends so you can be more comfortable talking to them. If you are really into fitness, maybe add martial arts or boxing (yeah, that is a martial art too) because it is more of a community environment. Plan B: take a more PUA approach and get comfortable macking chicks to widen the funnel.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:19 PM
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What you do first is stop defining your self esteem by the bitches that are in or not in your life.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:10 PM
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"How do I deal with people like this?" You LEARN and gain insight from people like this!
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:08 PM
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She was only a plate...I think when you are done with a plate (you dumped her!), she is fair game to the community. By reacting like that, it makes me believe that you had the feelz for her and she was more than a plate to you.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:04 PM
7

What? So, if the chick says you are the dad, then you are stuck? How does that work?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 02:09 PM
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Gee Doc, what are the symptoms of depression? Do ya think there is a treatment if someone has those symptoms?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:16 AM
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"Ok, then let's see the texts so I can see the knowledge discussion" She is manipulating you, she needs to get dumped. Read the side resources and learn about DREAD. You need to execute a dread game on her.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:58 PM
2

Look, she has the feelz and is trying to manipulate you into a real relationship. Either get into a real relationship with her or prepare yourself for the FWB relationship crashing. Plain and simple. The whole thing about the 3 way is just a smoke screen. It ain't going to happen with you and she is just trying to get a rise out of you in talking about the other guy and about the MMF three way.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:52 PM
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Let me try to explain this a little differently. The issue, as I see it and said in a different way, is that you are in a position of weakness in the relationship. She decides to break up, you break up. She decides to get back together, you get back together. You are busy thinking about ways to bring her closer (make the relationship better) but she isn't working on the relationship to make it better. This relationship isn't going to be the relationship you want or that you deserve. You can't ju…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 05:17 PM
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How about a little context? My general view is that if you are exclusive with a chick, tell her you love her if that is what she wants to hear. If you are exclusive and you don't love her why are you putting up with her shit? It is not a big deal. Just broaden your definition of love. I love them all! They let me do dirty shit to them, gotta love them for that! I assure you that the first time you tell her that you love her she will fuck your brains out. The first time I told a chick I loved her…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 12:21 PM
1

Duh! Was he good looking? Was he well built? Why are you totally focused on all this interpersonal stuff like that matter in women's hamster wheel head?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 12:15 PM
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I wish I had some reddit gold to give you! I would ad something about getting some time in the sun everyday to help improve your mood.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:09 PM
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How about asking yourself the question: What would a real red pill guy do? While I won't pretend that I have perfect red pill DNA, I would certainly lie! I would say you had a girlfriend that was an American, Brit or Aussie hot blonde expat who had to return. She wanted to marry you (she proposed to YOU!) and bring you home but you decided that you wanted to be with an Indian woman as a life partner. BANG! Your SMV zooms up! The Indian chicks want to know what magic you must have if a hot blonde…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:07 PM
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It seems that she is believing that you two are in an "open relationship" which means that she sees you two in a relationship that permits outside sexual partners rather than that she is one of several casual partners that you have.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:28 PM
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There are so many ways to meet women that don't include bars and clubs. You can work on your club game or you can work on your day game or any other kind of game. I was never particularly good at night game but always excelled at day game. See where your natural strengths are and play to them or strengthen your weaknesses to make them your strengths.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:56 PM
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Probably a good choice. You will have a chance to mature, see some of the world, learn some skills and save for college or trade school. The navy keeps you away from bullets and IEDs.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:11 PM
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Boulder or Denver Co.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:37 PM
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Awww....Our bro /u/Thebeatzmaker has got the feelz for his new unicorn! Yeah, that feeling is the feeling that you are about to go into the meat grinder emotionally (maybe soon, maybe not so soon) and the good news will be you will have another AWALT data point for handling next time.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 10:32 PM
2

Chicks below a 6 have slim legs?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 10:15 PM
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Just another AWALT data point for you in your journey. What you saw as mutual connection and sharing, she saw as you being useful beta orbiter providing services and to feed her ego. You will run into her in the future and see that the guy she is fucking is some Chad who treats her like a plate or simply treats her like shit. That is what she (and many women) want in a mate (at their subconscious level), not what you had with her. The path to having sex with her isn't about that kind of "connect…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:08 PM
2

Try a power nap (set an alarm and be disciplined about it)
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:31 AM
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The only acceptable text back is to get her to come over to your house for sex if you want to turn her into a plate. If she drunk texts you just text her back "you should come over, I want to do some dirty shit to you". That should give her something to think about about she will either come over or she will learn to only text you when she will.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:56 AM
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You don't have to avert your eyes and walk the other way every time she walks by...if you do you will be showing her that she affected you and that you are her bitch. Just treat her like any stranger at the gym just don't seek her out. Show her your high SMV and let her regret not connecting with you even if it was on a purely friend basis.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:52 AM
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"Yeah but I make up for it by being a really great kisser...." (or lover if you are bold enough)
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:22 PM
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...or go out of his way to make your life miserable or wait to jump you with a baseball bat (or gun) or create a scene at your workplace or beat the shit out of her or..... Is this really necessary? How much of this is you being a white knight to her? Next her.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:18 PM
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I realize now how doing everything she asked and then abruptly stopping brought me to this point. Yup, but in reality there was only a small chance anything could have been done to resurrect the situation IMHO it had gone too far and she lost too much respect for you. Maybe you were a little too mean spirited but you needed to wrest control back. The whole scene of her not getting up to turn off the light AFTER you just gave her a massage and then SHE calls YOU selfish??
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:34 PM
1

Move away from those people in your life pressuring you. Leave! Go to another city.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:10 AM
1

This. Increase your SMV. Start lifting today. It is basically a guaranteed way to increase SMV and your attractiveness to women.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:09 AM
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Firstly, you may be suffering from depression....look into it. Make sure you are getting your exercise. Secondly, understand that young relationship and young kid is super stressful and sleep depriving. That shit can really take its toll on you. Remember Winston Churchill's great quote: When you are going through hell, keep going. Thirdly and finally, find things that interest you and pursue them. Engineering is a broad specialty, is there any part of your branch of engineering that is interesti…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:07 AM
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Two words: Marine Corps. (other branches are good too)
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:00 AM
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Chicks copy and paste the text and send it to 5 guys looking for a flood of attention.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:58 AM
2

Game? You aren't even talking to this woman! Show us your game and put some points on the board.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:31 AM
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another one after you have been talking a while is: "If I brought you home for Christmas (Thanksgiving, Easter, whatever is coming up) my mother would do cartwheels, you are just what she keeps telling me I should go after...I am afraid she will break a hip if I brought you home! Do you think we should risk it and get to know each other better (or go out sometime or kiss)?" You can continue to feed her fantasy by asking her if she can cook and what will she be bringing to mom's, what should she …
/r/askTRP05/05/17 03:06 PM
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You should have broken up with her yesterday. Every day is another day wasted in your life. Afraid of losing friends? They weren't your friends anyway if you can lose them over this, get new ones. You have been dating for a while? Don't worry about rape claims. Suicide? If she treats you this badly, she won't kill herself over your leaving. The next time she says you get on her nerves, just say "Since I am always getting on your nerves, I think you would be better off if I wasn't in your life. C…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:46 PM
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TRP is about self improvement internally and externally to improve your SMV. It isn't about learning to become a PUA. You have 4 months to September. Go to the gym 5 days a week between now and then, improve your diet, improve your brain, improve your professional skills, etc. Get a new place and get out there.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:41 PM
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Join meetup.com and find something to do where you will meet new people. Dinner clubs, book clubs, clean up the pollution clubs, habitat for humanity (US), hiking and outdoors stuff, etc.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:37 PM
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The OP is so deep in the friend zone with the HB that he can't see clearly. Any time a chick is telling you about how obsessed she is with her ex, she considers you a friend. She wouldn't possibly tell you that if she saw you as a potential mate.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:34 PM
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Her answer will be either "yes" or "no, but I am buying".
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:28 PM
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When she says your are handsome, you say: "Thanks---you are really pretty yourself. Imagine how beautiful our kids would be." That, my friend, will give a chick the tingles.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:24 PM
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What a perfect opportunity to go into Monk Mode and prepare yourself.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:19 PM
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Bro - She is a grocery bagger who is about to be a single mom. Her SMV is near zero even if she is a HB9. Had she joined the military, she would have had an opportunity to move up in the world but she blew that opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 02:14 PM
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It sounds like your MOTHER has a good thing going, why do you want to throw her under the bus? From a purely selfish perspective, if you red pill enable your step father, the blow back is going to be that your mother is going to be a lot more needy and she is going to start leaning on you emotionally and, perhaps, financially. Blood is thicker than water!
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:59 PM
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"I said I think women who are hard of hearing are really sexy!!" "Have you been blasting that Taylor Swift through your ear buds so much that you can't hear anything!?"
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 06:57 PM
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Dojo buddies from a well run dojo are unique friends because you really have to trust each other in sparring and doing other exercises together.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:32 PM
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As a practitioner of Shotokan Karate, I look at other martial arts and often say to myself, "I wish I can throw like a Juko-ka, or grapple like a jui jitsu-ka or punch like a boxer or throw one of those wild mui thai kicks" (or take some moves from Krag or Sambo). Every martial art has is strengths and weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:27 PM
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Check out the Bio, Psycho, Social model of Depression. Yes, you may be right, and, if you are, seek professional help. Meds can make a huge difference. The model shows that whether you are in depression crisis or not is based on something like a scoring of your Bio (biological predisposition, brain wiring, base chemistry, etc.), your Psycho (you parents were rotten to you and your dog died when you were 5 and you never got over it) and Social (current shit happening in your life like this chick'…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:03 PM
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Any chick who is 6'9.5" is going to be hugely sensitive about her height and she certainly has a minuscule dating pool with so few guys close to tall enough. Is it possible that giving you shit is her way of saying she likes you and being a little socially awkward? Whereas, I am a huge believer and practitioner of the agree and amplify response to a shit test, this one is tricky. How about: "yeah, I am only 6 9....I guest I should start looking for more size appropriate women to date...but in th…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 02:39 AM
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WTF do you mean apparent std? Is she showing symptoms? Are you a professional? It is only apparent in your psychological bullshit as you invent reasons not to go out with her. You aren't marrying her, you are going out with her with the intention of getting her into bed.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 03:15 PM
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Just like you can't get over your fear of formatting blocks of text, you are coming here and saying "I can't get over my fear" looking for advice. Here is the advice LEARN FUCKING DISCIPLINE over your thoughts and fears. If you can't get discipline on your own, seek professional help. If you want to change your life you have to change your thinking. If you are coming to a red pill subreddit for advice and you are being stuck in blue pill behavior, the answer is to embrace the red pill.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 03:12 PM
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This can change tomorrow my friend.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:21 PM
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...and she knows you are dependent on her. This is not the basis for attraction. Let me take a wild guess. Over the last 1.5 years you have become more beta (blue pill) rather than more alpha (red pill)? I am going to bet that you are more blue pill by being dependent on her. If she knows she has you locked in (even if it is just till July) you are going to be seen by her as her blue pill bitch and not a procreation candidate in her hypergamy world. Procreation candidates are red pill. Does this…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:19 PM
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My gut instinct tells me that since she is the breadwinner, she isn't feeling attracted to you anymore or right now. The point of dread or divorce made by /u/VasiliyZaitzev is vital and here is why: there is no negotiation unless you have the power to walk away or can instill the fear that you will walk away in the other party--in your case, this is: dread or divorce. So called "negotiation" without dread and divorce is called "begging". You can either negotiate from dread and divorce or beg lik…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:53 AM
1

I am living to be the best fucking man, husband, and father i can be. best red pill man or best blue pill man?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:38 AM
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Two words: Abundance Mentality
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:34 AM
2

Give her such a good fucking that she will beg you for exclusivity. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 01:10 PM
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Is this a red pill sub-reddit? Where is the abundance mentality?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:19 AM
1

The OPs response to the silent treatment is the hard nexting treatment.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:35 PM
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Do you really expect us to read that?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:21 PM
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Rename this post: "Ex-Plate didn't fuck me"
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:16 PM
2

Being a doctor increases your SMV....use it and close more deals.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 10:22 AM
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If I would have ignored her threats I would have passed. What would you have actually passed? You would have bought some time until her next shit test. There is no putting humpty dumpty back together again, she has made her decision. You have made your play. The point the red pillers keep making here is that anything you can think of to "get her back" is a blue pill activity that reinforces her decision to have dumped you. Your point is correct. Winning the logical argument just pushed her away …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 08:16 PM
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She may not have been fucking Chad or wanting to actually fuck Chad but she really wants attention from Chads despite her traditionalism. While I believe that getting out of the beta zone is almost impossible (I do recommend nexting her), your ONLY possible move is to dramatically increase your SMV (lift, clothes, persona, job, etc.) and play dread game--let her know or suspect you are getting a lot of attention from other HBs. If that doesn't work, you are positioned for you "next". If it does …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:40 AM
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You were in a farmer's market...there is no easier day game pickup than a farmer's market. Open with "what is a rutabaga for?" "Those tomatoes you are buying look amazing are you having a dinner party (are you making spaghetti sauce, what are you going to do with them)? I am free on Friday!" "Don't tell anyone but I am really here for the baked goods, not the healthy stuff" If you get resistance and you see them again in the market, "are you following me around to find the best stuff?"
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:23 PM
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"Yeah, he is hot. If I was gay, I would want to fuck him too. Let's find you a hot chick here that if you were Lesbian you would want to fuck....." Funny story: when I first started hanging out with my LTR and we were in a restaurant and a hot chick walked by she would immediately look at me to see if I was checking her out. Each time, I was ready for her and was looking right at my gf, not the chick. After a few times of this I said, "no matter how fast you think you are, you will never catch m…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:44 PM
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stay away from /r/dating. It is blue pill advice.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 01:09 PM
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Look at the top of this page: This subreddit is called "Ask The Red Pill"....this is not a subreddit called "I am a pussy blue pill guy pining for my emotionally damaged AWALT girlfriend help me, help me I just want her back because she is a unicorn and a perfect snowflake." That subreddit is called /r/dating_advice or some such shit. She is emotionally damaged. You are caught up in the white knight syndrome and you want to be her savior. This is classic blue pill behavior. She kept contact with…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 12:51 PM
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Dude! Calm the fuck down already and stop this cycle of blaming yourself and rehashing (hamstering). Stop replying to posts, let this post die down. The key to getting over this is moving forward. Hit the gym, run and whatever. Join some meetup group or some bullshit softball league to recharge your chick and bro pipeline. Put up a Tinder profile or stinky fish or one of the other sites. Plan a vacation someplace with a lot of chicks (cruise, Cancun, Greek Isles, etc.) and you will feel better b…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:07 AM
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Her sport is sumo wresting!
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:35 PM
1

We don't know that he is getting raped on the divorce. He already made his money and marital property is only the increase in assets during the course of the marriage. If he is living on his investment income, that is going to be near zero. Maybe he has her tied up in a prenup. We don't know. http://www.investopedia.com/terms/m/maritalproperty.asp
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 05:56 PM
2

I was thinking the title should have been, "How to Rationalize Anything"
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:21 PM
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...and where exactly is 3000 miles from Houston? The North Pole? Brazil?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:25 PM
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It is very likely that her believing you will be in her life romantically and/or financially is a key factor in her decision not to abort--she wants a white picket fence setup with you playing dad and banker for both kids. Make it clear that you will do what is required but you will be seeking women elsewhere and she won't get the fantasy. Hiring a lawyer now (and her knowing it) is a good first step.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:53 PM
19

This! Starting out again at 41 is just fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:48 PM
2

Hang on a second...did you just say he was 16 years old? How the hell do you have multiple sexual assault claims and be out on parole and be only 16?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:16 PM
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Just to add something as a guy doing Karate for about a year and a half, there is a lot to learn about footwork and how to use your whole body when you punch or kick. If your feet and hips aren't set right, a punch is like swinging a pillow. The other point about Cardio is dead on. The first time you go three rounds you want to die it is so exhausting! Two other points are about learning to take and block a punch (or kick) and how to counter strike and use combinations. When you start out and ar…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 01:29 PM
1

Great video (Navy Seal: Make your bed!): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgzLzbd-zT4
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:00 PM
2

This. I take Karate and I think the best benefit is that you are in regular sparring sessions so you are used to the idea of someone coming at you or just taking a punch. You get used to the fighting environment and can keep your head and deliver punches or moves or blocks or whatever with your feet set instead of flailing around.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 02:30 PM
3

I think it was the ancient Hindus or Sumerians that invented the base 10 numbering system thousands of years ago. The next day guys started rating women on a 1 to 10 scale!
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 03:11 PM
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Well, Perhaps it will. Clearly no one ever gave him any tough love (or he didn't listen to it) when wasting two years or more on an associates degree in bullshit. I don't think giving him a "participation trophy" will help either.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:50 PM
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Suffering with acne has horrendous side effects. Would not recommend. --- Former Accutane user.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 07:28 PM
3

Driving a big boat is an opportunity to show the chicks mastery and leadership. It is a tricky skill and a novice will crash it. It is controlling power. The captain also lines up and orders his buddies to grab lines, push off pilings, etc. when docking. Everyone looks to the captain, everyone thanks the captain, and all this elevates his social market value. Two of my buddies have boats and they clean up. One has his boat behind his house on a canal (Florida) of the intracoastal and asking a ch…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 06:59 PM
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Did he get a phone number out of it? A kiss close? Did he get laid? Maybe he made a point but I bet those women just shrugged it off as him being an ass. I don't think it had any material effect on their thinking.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 03:06 AM
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