You could see the original post in my history and a lot of people commented so I wanted to give an update.

My girlfriend ended up breaking up with me because she wanted to get her life together and she didn’t want to be with me when she was such a mess in her life. At least she was being honest and did the decent thing of ending things.

She hasn’t responded to my I miss you texts or me asking how she was doing. I heard from friends she is sleeping with her ex fuckbuddy again as well as this other douchebag that she would constantly talk about. She said she is trying to work on herself, but it just sounds like she is partying and fucking “hott” guys. I provided her with stability and a good future yet this is what she wants. I guess I was too boring for her. People always would describe her as a free spirit. The girl just likes to party and do coke and just have fun.

I don’t really read this sub, but a lot of you predicted this and were very helpful. I like the community here and I’m going to try to read up on some of the stuff to see where I went wrong.