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| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileOr. Hear me out here. Marry a girl who’s not promiscuous and values traditional things like love, children, motherhood and the sanctity of marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 05:16 AM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileWho’s they. What are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileNo but your labor dusting off trinkets and doing the laundry and cooking is literally worth near minimum wage. Literally. It’s not that hard. I’d easily switch with you and you have the high paying job, so long as I’m entitled to your assets when I divorce you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI literally addressed that. Scroll up one comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileOh ok. Yeah well every year we make incremental progress in gender pay differences and racial discrimination too. So then I guess there’s no issues there as well. Since ya know, every year things are getting closer and closer to more fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileOh ok. So doesn’t make sense to even bring it up unless it’s to my state reps since it just is what it is. I assume you feel the same way about gender pay differences and racial discrimination too. Hey if you don’t like it, just go talk to your state reps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYeah. You picked men who made less money than you and hated the fact they were doing less than you and benefitting from your hard work. While still probably complaining about how hard things were for them. Oddly enough, I can relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAhhhh here we go. You’re starting to make my case for me! Let’s break it down. So the discrimination isn’t explicitly written into the legal code. It’s that there are unfair outcomes based on the fact one drug more commonly used by blacks has harsher sentencing than the similar drug more commonly used by whites. Now bare with me here. Get that thinking cap on! So if the man is more commonly one side of the divorce (the divorcee with more assets — aka the side with the unfair outcome), why would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIf women do make less than men, then divorces splitting assets 50/50 (like you claim), is benefiting women. Are you thinking about what you’re saying as you’re saying it? Or is this just a feelings based thing to you? It feels like women are getting screwed so they must be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’re an expert at doing it wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileWut? That doesn’t even make sense. I have no idea what point you’re trying to make. But if I had to try to put it in whatever frame you’re using, black men commit more crime than white men, and surely there’s no legal discrimination taking place since the legal code does not explicitly call out races. That’s basically what you’re saying about marriage laws. If that’s what you’re saying that’s fine, but apply it across the board. Stop doing the modern feminist thing and trying to orchestrate the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAhh the old personal anecdote used to disprove a general rule trick. Ok it’s 50/50 huh? So that means married women earn as much as married men in totality. If that’s true, can you drop the whole gender pay gap thing then? Y’all earn just as much as men according to you, so y’all can prob just drop that whole thing now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’ve been married 4 times. I don’t think you’re exactly qualified to be preaching about how marriage dynamics work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileDivorce laws are not gendered lmao. Wow I love this so much. You ready for this? So you’re right that there’s nothing on paper that specifically puts men at a legal disadvantage. The laws aren’t written in terms of the man versus the woman. I agree. But likewise, there are zero laws that specifically on paper provide advantages to men over women or whites over minorities. The discrimination isn’t explicitly written into the legal text, it happens in the implementation. So let’s apply your logic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 0 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileLol what a peach you are. Everyone reading, notice how she doesn’t even try to contend with anything specific. Just 100% projection. She’s staying entrenched in her incorrect view without even attempting to debate the topic on the merits of her points. Yet at the same time is projecting that I’m the one staying entrenched in my views despite trying to engage in a debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIt’s gonna be fair for me to get at least that % of your assets given the fact I “gave up” my potential income to clean the house and cook dinner. Obviously I’d love to be out there grinding out 80 hours a week making bank for you, so that you can sit around all day, but I had to give that up for the much harder job of cleaning the house. I’m entitled to AT LEAST 30%-40% of your assets. I completely gave up my income for you so you can have the nicest, most functional smart home electronics set … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAlright fine. Let’s flip it around. You make most of the money while I workout, play video games, watch the kids after school and cook/clean. Then when I get bored of you, which I will given what little I stand to lose in leaving you, I get 30%-40% of your assets. Sounds like a good deal to me. That work for you? Oh by the way, you’ll be slaving away at your job to provide for me. And I’m gonna leave you because when you get home and you’re tired, you’re not showing me enough appreciation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileShe said men get childcare from women in her comment. I think it’s fair to assume she was referring to married couples. Either way, to answer your question, when it’s just a girlfriend, I’d venture to guess men and women break up with each other at much more equal rates. As opposed to divorce rates, which I believe are roughly 80% initiated by women vs. 20% by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity.You basically just agreed with all his points except added a “not always” qualifier. I think everyone already understood the “not always” was implied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:22 PM |
| 11 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThat’s not the issue. The issue is men have a much greater sunken cost if they do leave. If a man wants to divorce his wife, he has to pay her half of everything he’s built and accumulated over the course of his life. If a woman wants to divorce her husband, she gets a boatload of money she didn’t earn plus a fresh start. If women had to pay half their life’s earnings to the man they want to divorce, you’d see a lot more patience from women in marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?Purple pill debate demographic survey. It’s right there in your comment. You’re capturing a subsection of “red pillers” who are still debating it’s merits with “blue pillers.” That’s not an accurate sample of the true “red pill” population. The guys having success with red pill aren’t debating whether it works with blue pillers. The guys who aren’t having success with it still are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?1) where’d you get that statistic from? 2) what’s that have to do with whether it’s good advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?Yes. Marriage is not the end goal of TRP. This is true. But what’s simultaneously true is that if you are interested in marriage, TRP preaches you need several years of plate spinning before that idea should even pop into your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?It’s almost like you don’t understand what they preach. That before you determine you want to get married, you should have at least a few years of spinning plates under your belt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Ok so based on what you’re saying I’m not sure you’d fall into the typical man category. Interesting insight, but don’t your data point changes or is even relevant to my hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Actually an interesting point. What would you say your attitude toward sex is generally? Are you in favor of casual emotionless transactional sex? Or do you think sex should take place between two people who ideally might want to procreate with each other or at least have a strong emotional bond? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Dude so if I told you that you could bang the hottest supermodel in the world — I dunno let’s say Megan Fox in the first transformers movie — but you won’t be able to cum during sex, you’d be like no thanks I’m good? Even despite knowing you could make yourself cum in less than 30 seconds once the sexual interaction with her is over? You would legit be like no thanks I’m good. Is this what you’re saying? Cause if that’s what you’re saying, I’m gonna have to call bullshit on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Im going to your original point about guys pawing around having no idea what they’re doing down there. Im not going back to some random different issue. I’m going back to your original issue. If you recall, I started this off by saying what does the urethra have to do with anything. You’re the one who was saying these things were connected. Not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Except men do take ownership of a women’s ability to please them. This where gender differences really show up. To men, if women don’t know how to please us, it’s on us to get them to understand what we like. To women, if men don’t understand how to please them, it’s on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Yeah for sure. I just don’t think you’d ever see a guy phrase it that way. I mean I don’t wanna deal with that bs either, but it doesn’t gross me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?See! It’s not our job, so therefore we’re not doing it. Just a complete lack of agency. You could easily fix the problem if you just assumed a tiny amount of agency. Not in your nature though. And I’m not saying men aren’t at fault. Just that you could easily fix it and yet you choose not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Is it fair to say “nothing is more of a turn off…” You do realize you can still just fuck however you want right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Just go into the bathroom and jerk off in this hypothetical. Better now dummy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:09 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Im not defending it. Men should know. What I’m doing is asking why so many of you complain about it without doing anything to fix it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Ok. But you’re saying they don’t. So either they continue not knowing since they aren’t learning on their own, or you try to do whatever you can to fix the problem. This is proving to me how little women respect the idea of their own agency. You do have agency you know. You are allowed to take action instead of constantly assuming something should be someone else’s problem to fix instead. Guess what, men haven’t been fixing it on their own. So why in the world would you not start doing something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:39 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?That’s when I figured it out lol. When my first college girlfriend at 20 kept peeing after sex. I was like wtf goin on care to indulge?? I mean I had to ask. It’s not like she even outright said anything. Also, I’m not the one complaining about this being an issue, and most men aren’t the ones complaining either. Given the fact this seems to be a more important issue for women, you’d think women would take a more active role in trying to fix it. That would be the smart thing to do at least. Rath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?So all the more reason to fucking explain it to guy who doesn’t know better. That’s my point. Back when I was 20 years old I probably didn’t know where the urethra was and had a fair share of partners at that point too. Nothing crazy, but you’d think maybe 1 in 20 people would’ve said something. No one ever said anything. Any one of those girls could’ve easily tho. I’m not mean. I’m actually genuinely curious about most shit. But again, not one person said anything. Now if you do personally, bra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?You realize you’re supposed to be arguing with a generalized male I’m defending right? If women all told men how and where to avoid in order to stop UTI’s, there’d be a lot less of them. It’s like if most women gave toothy blowjobs and men just never said anything. Just complained to their homies and never actually told women how to do it better. Point is, y’all should stop pointing the finger about everything. Take some accountability. You can’t control other people, so why not start with the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:56 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?I never said that. I said where it is doesn’t impact how to make you cum. Do you know where my epididymis is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:42 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?How am I putting up a fight? Tf you talking about? Are you saying I don’t know about female anatomy? And that I’m a selfish lover? How can you possibly come to those conclusions? You know absolutely nothing about what I’m like in bed. I find it fascinating you’ve somehow concluded this in your brain tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:28 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?How many times have you specifically told a guy not to go from the vaginal opening straight to the clit without going around your urethra. If you haven’t told a guy that during/after sex, then you’re part of the problem. Stop contributing to the problem and start being part of the solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?I mean look I agree with you every guy should at least know where the clit is. I wouldn’t excuse that. But you’re making such a big deal about this urethra thing when it isn’t even part of the sexual pleasure equation. Also the anatomy of a vagina isn’t a direct comparison to that of a penis. We all know the vagina is significantly more intricate. And I guarantee you men are spending a hell of a lot more time trying to figure out vaginas than women are spending trying to figure out dicks. With a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Tf you mean my penis is different than my urethra? My penis contains my urethra, just like your vagina contains yours. Also, I guarantee gay guys suck better dick than women. What’s wrong with all you women huh? Why can’t you suck dick just as good as a gay guy? Imagine how silly it would be if I was serious about that. Also, if men suck that bad when it comes to working the female anatomy, why don’t y’all get off your ass and start teaching them? Clearly whatever y’all been doing ain’t working … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:33 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?I actually know a decent bit about anatomy. More than the average person for instance. None of that tells me how to actually get a woman off tho. You only learn that from practicing/watching others. My ability to make a woman cum is legitimately zero percent dependent on the understanding of where her urethra is. It’s legitimately just not even relevant. If starting tomorrow, all women peed out of their vaginal hole vs urethra, nothing would change on my end would it? Would I have to do anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?So what? Your urethra is irreverent to the topic of sexual knowledge/skillset. I don’t expect you to be able to draw up a diagram of my bladder, prostate, vas deferens and urethra. You just gotta know how to make my dick and balls feel good. I don’t even know how to draw up this diagram on my own body. And again it’s irrelevant to the discussion about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:18 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Why does knowing where your pee hole is have anything to do with sexual knowledge/skillset? Can you draw a diagram of precisely where my vas deferens and urethra intersect? Who even cares? You’re not my anatomy teacher, you just need to know how to get my penis to cum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsI took this discussion to be about men and women who aren’t outright lying but are perhaps either a little too ambiguous/leaving a sliver of hope when they know there’s none. The reason why I phrased my first comment to you the way I did is because I wanted to control for slight differences in intention that become subjective and just drill down to the root of it. At the root of it, whether it’s due to ambiguity, foolishness of the other party or intentional outright lying, ultimately it boils d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?What do you mean don’t know women had multiple holes? Like men thinking women shit out of their vagina? Yeah I don’t think those people qualify within the camp of “men”. That’s more like the camp of “mentally handicapped” or “severely low IQ” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Yeah, again, I don’t want to date a virgin. And if she has no clue what she’s doing I’m probably not going to want to have sex with her again. But I’m not grossed out by it. And no man would say “nothing turns him off worse” than that. The subtle difference is the entire point. Which is going completely over your head. I’m not saying men like it when women suck at sex and have no idea what they’re doing. Of course men don’t prefer that. But the subtle difference in just how much men and women re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsNo it’s not. OP specifically mentions men who explicitly state their intentions of keeping things casual and those who are strategically ambiguous, in his words. He says nothing about men who outright lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Yeah look both genders hate when the opposite sex is doing something during sex that feels bad. And to be honest, I also agree, I don’t wanna teach some chick everything from square one. So for that reason, I don’t even want a virgin per say. I only like the idea of one. But that’s not what I said or what my point was. I said no guy would say “nothing is more of a turn off than when a woman doesn’t know her way around.” Our brains don’t work like that. We aren’t inherently grossed out if a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:36 AM |
| 5 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Welp, so far the only person I’ve disqualified based on their ideas about sex is you, not this hypothetical virgin. But to each their own I guess. You’re perfectly within your own right to live in whatever fantasy land you so choose. One where the sluttier a woman is, the higher value she becomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Yeah really don’t think so. They might tell you they’d say no, because all men obviously want to cum every time we have sex, but again if push came to shove they’d say yes. Also, if you’re talking about men you’re sleeping with, you’re forgetting you’re asking them a question with a built in bias. Of course they want to cum when they have sex with you, so if they tell you no I don’t care about cumming during sex, you’ll be less likely to try to go the extra mile to accommodate their orgasms. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsYeah but those people aren’t being conned. Those people are akin to the girl who understands y’all are just gonna be fuck buddies and there will never be anything more. In both cases, there’s no manipulation taking place. But we aren’t talking about those cases. We’re talking about the cases where someone is getting manipulated/mislead. And we’re also not even making the distinction of who’s at fault in these manipulation examples. For the purpose of this discussion, we’re only considering the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:15 AM |
| 4 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?No virgin is going to be good at sex. It’s something every person learns through practice. But what you’re talking about is why only a virgin woman wants a virgin man, yet all kinds of men still want virgin women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?See the edit. That’s the part I think you’re missing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Again. We don’t really talk about this. But I can promise you that’s what every guy would say. There’s not a guy in the world who would say no thanks if someone was like “you can fuck Alexis Ren, but you gotta take this pill that makes it so you won’t cum while having sex with her” Every guy would accept that proposal without hesitation Edit: the only guys who would say no are guys who can fuck women approximately as hot or hotter than that regularly. That’s why I said hot women in my first comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsSo isn’t it morally worse to take advantage of mentally unhealthy people who think they have a chance with you? Rather than a perfectly capable woman with whom you’ve directly communicated your intentions and yet she chooses on her own volition to disbelieve? I think it’s undoubtedly worse, morally speaking, to prey on the mentally weak/disabled/unhealthy simps on onlyfans. Why in your mind is it morally better to con people with mental issues versus people without mental issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Yeah no you’re misunderstanding exaggeration for fact. Most guys would definitely say fuck no to sex without cumming. But when push comes to shove, they’d absolutely do it with a hot woman. The fuck no part conveys the heavy preference for cumming. But it’s an exaggeration. Men would still have sex with a hot chick even if they didn’t think they were going to cum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 6 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsWhy? Conning people out of money is worse than conning people into sex? On what grounds do you make this judgement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Guys don’t talk about it. But yeah, every guy would say yes to having sex with a hot woman even if they knew they weren’t going to cum. Could always just jerk off to it later thinking about the mental image. Plus the ego boost type stuff, etc. I do think it’s true most guys would say no to having sex with an ugly woman if they knew they wouldn’t cum though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:49 AM |
| 7 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?There it is! No man would ever say “nothing is more of a turn off than a woman who doesn’t know her way around” Sure, we ideally prefer someone who’s good at sex and knows what she’s doing, but being as grossed out as you are if she doesn’t, simply doesn’t happen. For the trillionth time, men and women value prior sexual encounters in the opposite gender very differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?Be fine with it is different than prefer it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How low can you go.....Financially speakingIt depends. Typically I’d agree with you as that’s the most common situation. But if she wanted to clean all my shit, cook me food, yatta yatta yatta, I wouldn’t mind supporting both of us if she didn’t have any income at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | PPD: When did you lose your Virginity?Actually most of them do. The success rates of marriage go up as each person has fewer prior sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | FDS are "pick me" womenWell let’s try it. Worst that happens you’re mean to me and treat me like shit but you won’t leave cause you won’t wanna give me half your money. Me, I don’t give two fucks. I’ll try to make it work, but if you come home mad at me for not doing all that shit perfectly every day, I’ll just leave and take your money. Fuck if I care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | FDS are "pick me" womenHusbands don’t start divorces for the next hot thing. Sure that happens here and there, but statistically speaking it’s irrelevant. Wives start something like 80% of divorces. Mainly because they can. Because they can take half the man’s money. If men stayed at home all day and got to take 1/2 of their wives money if there was a divorce, I’m sure more men would start divorces. There is no way on planet earth y’all would be willing to completely switch roles here. The stay at home, work on your a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | FDS are "pick me" womenOh lmao. You’re a dude??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:53 PM |
| 3 | FDS are "pick me" womenWanna agree to switch then? You do all the work and earn all the money, I’ll sit around at home and play video games, workout and cook/clean the house. Then when I get bored of you, I can divorce you and take 1/2 of all the money you’ve accumulated during your life. Seriously, let’s switch. Talk about the best trade ever. Or, if you don’t want to sit at home all day and you wanna have financial independence, that’s totally fine, but then you have to agree to forego the ability to take any of my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | FDS are "pick me" womenWhat specifically do they say about a return to traditionalism? And what makes that bad? And what makes it worse than FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | FDS are "pick me" womenWhich? And why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:46 PM |
| 4 | TRP or FDS: Which side deals in absolutes more often and has the most bitter followers?For anyone who blames the TRP doctrine for Elliot Rodgers shooting, surely you also blame the Islam doctrine for all Muslim-based terrorism, correct? Oh wait, you don’t? Oh interesting. So you’re full of shit. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on men that read books or watch videos to get better with women?Just out of curiosity, why do you use the word bullshit? Because it’s not true and doesn’t work, or because it’s fucked up in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?A low value woman is ugly, not feminine and promiscuous, plus you can also apply universally disliked personality traits that don’t even need to be defined because they’re universally considered to be bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Would women be willing to date a Sex Worker?Genuinely curious. How come you’d draw the line at prostitution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsYeah I wouldn’t want a virgin for that same reason. I don’t wanna teach her all that shit. That’s why I said the ideal types don’t exist in reality. In reality, sure a virgin would be great if she was already super proficient at sex and was a super slut just for me. But obviously this isn’t a real person that exists in reality. Again, it’s purely an idealization. Also, you’re not a hypocrite as a guy for sleeping with a lot of women but not wanting to marry a woman who sleeps with a lot of men. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsYeah it’s true. The ideal female partner for a man is a virgin who’s a slut just for them. The ideal male partner for a female is a slut (successful with women) who’s loyal just to them because they’re so special. Most people will not get these ideal partners because they don’t really exist in reality. Not in any sort of statically significant numbers at least. But conceptually those would be the typical ideal partners on average for each gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsYou don’t need to know me. You need to be familiar with women or men in general to understand the signifiers of promiscuity. Which I know you already understand, provided you’re not autistic and/or a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsWhy don’t you lay out what you think they are. Since none of this will be shocking to you and it’s all common sense that you already possess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?If you’re losing your hair either shave it or if you have money get the hair replacement therapy. Both complete non issues if you’re “attractive” to begin with. Again, this is not saying an ugly dude automatically becomes attractive when he hits 35. It’s saying you can keep increasing your sexual market value until 35-40. As for facial wrinkles, there’s no woman who’s gonna be like Chris Hemsworth (age 38) is no longer attractive cause he has a couple wrinkles on his forehead that he didn’t have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsDude come on. You gotta be kidding me. Can you pretty easily tell the difference between a virgin guy and a player who’s fucked 500 women? Do I really need to lay this out for you? Quit being difficult. I know you understand the spoken and unspoken signifiers I’m talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?You’re delusional and once again missing the point. I have never once said all men keep increasing in value as they age. I’ve simply said that if you’re doing things right, you can keep increasing your value until around that age as a man. And why do women’s looks matter comparatively more to men than men’s looks matter to women? Are you serious with that question? Obviously men’s looks do matter, but women also take a plethora of other shit into consideration that men don’t. Thus comparatively … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsWell luckily I’m not a fkn judge in a court of law, so I don’t have to uphold the same standards evidence when making judgements about people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsYou don’t need smoking gun evidence like a diary of all the men a woman has fucked in order to ascertain her attitude towards sex and general promiscuity levels. Tf you even talking about? What is this conversation about to you? Who ever said that tangible evidence of the precise amount of men a woman has fucked is even a relevant consideration. You’re right, as a guy, you’ll never know the precise number. But you can still get a pretty good idea based on numerable other factors. You’re saying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?Still have looks assuming the man works out regularly and is in shape, have more experience/confidence with women, more emotional maturity, better at leading, plus now have much more money and social status than it would be possible to have at a younger age. It’s not automatic that every man will have a higher sexual market value at 35 than 20. In fact, many won’t. But if you’re doing things right, you should be able to keep increasing your sexual market value until around that age as a man. It’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsAhhhhhh. So if I murder someone and leave no evidence, it didn’t happen because there’s no tangible evidence it happened. Are you even listening to yourself right now? Do you understand how crazy that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?Yes because a male’s sexual market value peaks around age 35-40. So as soon as a woman surpasses that age, she will still find males in that age the most attractive, except now she’s older than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?Nah you got redpill wrong. The redpill just charts male and female sexual market value by age and by gender. It says female sexual market value peaks around early/mid 20’s, declines slightly until around 30, then declines much more rapidly/steeply thereafter. For men, it says sexual market steadily increases until around age 35-40, then declines slightly/more slowly thereafter. So a 40 year old woman whose sexual market value is has already tanked will be interested in a 20 year old male whose s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsBecause it makes no sense. You’re trying to say objective reality doesn’t exist. That the amount of people someone has had intercourse with doesn’t exist. I fully understand what you’re saying, it’s just literally the dumbest idea I’ve ever seen people put forth. Within your worldview, 2+2=4 is a social construct too. It only equals 4 because as social creatures, us humans have collectively created a social construct whereby we all agree it equals 4. But we could just as easily agree it equals 5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsUhhh yeah. I can. Here are the 200 tangible dicks you fucked. Right here on a silver platter. Listen whoever is telling you about this social construct shit, stay away from that person lmao. They don’t have the faintest clue wtf they’re talking about and filling your brain with straight up hot garbage dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsBahahaha wtf dude. It’s in the same character traits that lead to it in the first place. Impulsivity, desperate need for male attention, etc Unless of course you’re saying this car accident changed their personality. In which case you’re absolutely looney. Yeah sure. Everything is just a social construct if you literally just pretend it’s something other than what it really is inside your looney head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Expecting high n-count men to date high n-count women is like expecting escorts to date JohnsWould you mind elaborating on this Peter Pan? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?You are a bafoon. I literally already communicated this. Just scroll up dum dum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?Dude I literally just explained in painstaking detail why communicating this particular issue does nothing productive. If you can’t read and understand my why from the thousand plus words I just wrote about this, that’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?I literally just used several thousand of them to explain why. Learn to read the words in front of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?Read the thread. That’s why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?Fair enough re your last point. And I don’t care if a woman calls me that. Point is I just won’t date a woman who does that. But at the same time, say a woman started doing that while we were together, I wouldn’t even have the option of communicating to her that I’m not down with that behavior. Because in communicating I’m not down with it, she wouldn’t simply recognize her hypocrisy and admit she wouldn’t be ok with me doing male version of it, instead she would just gaslight me and call me ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?No use it against me like call me insecure/controlling. Also for all your talk about not crying about what’s “supposed” to be, I assume you never cry about how women’s promiscuity doesn’t get treated the same way as men’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:07 PM |
| -1 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?Yeah I don’t. But I also wouldn’t even have the option of communicating to a woman what I don’t like about her behavior in this instance because she’d just use it against me. Its just funny pointing out all the hypocrisy. Women always say they want open communication, but only when it benefits them and never when it hurts them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?See. I simply break down the state of things and get insults slung at me by a woman. This is how so many of y’all are. It’s baffling to me how so many of you have such a blind spot for logic and equal treatment. Especially when so many of you are so obsessed with “equal treatment” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?Because to all men it’s duh number 2, how is this even a question. That said, it’s funny how women will get mad at a guy for banging some random woman with zero attachment to her, yet will gaslight you and get mad if you call a woman out for emotionally cheating on a man with her guy “friend” / “work husband” / etc. Like obviously you don’t like it if a guy sleeps with a random woman one time and barely even knows who she is. Obviously. Likewise, it’s not like we like when you emotionally cheat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:37 PM |
| 10 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonThere’s a threshold tho. Women like when men they’re very attracted to open up to them specifically about serious shit. Women don’t love it when either they’re not that attracted to the guy or when the guy is opening up about some bullshit. Say your male partner comes home from work and cries to you because a customer was rude to him. Women don’t like that. That said, women do it all the time and are given a completely free pass to do it by men because it’s in our nature to accept that behavior … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:28 AM |
| 13 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonYeah you work better now that you’re not crushing it down because you’re a woman, and by such society allows you to do that without judgement. You can legit have a full tears-streaming-down-the-face mental breakdown to a guy and he’s supposed to say there there hunny it’ll be alright. Try being a guy and showing that full tears mental breakdown to a woman. Y’all are a huge reason why men aren’t “emotionally available.” It’s because y’all actually hate it when we are. You can say you like it till… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | What do you expect to happen when you ask a man to be emotionally vulnerable or available to you? What does this mean?Men are only allowed to show anger in society. Doesn’t mean it’s the only emotion we feel. It’s just that men get zero sympathy from women (in fact usually negative sympathy) whenever we express other emotions. It’s kinda funny how you frame it the way you’re framing it while absolving your gender’s role in the issue. A woman is perfectly within reason and allowed to say things to men along the lines of do you really love me? Do I look pretty? I feel fat. Do I look fat? As soon as a guy says any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage?Once again. Avoided the point. I never said anything about a low n count woman’s preferences. Didn’t say a single thing about that. That said, we all know why you’re avoiding the point. Because you know it’s accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage?Does absolutely nothing to address the point. You just made up your own random point that no one but yourself was talking about. Tell me Einstein, would any smoking hot female model with a high n count want a virgin or particularly low n count man? Now would any attractive/successful high n count guy want a virgin or low n count woman? Just stop lying. All of you. These aren’t the same things. Women don’t want the same stuff in their partners that men want in theirs. Men and women are attracted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 12:05 AM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Hot being the biggest one tho. Without that you’re fighting an uphill battle. So the question is, what would you rate yourself out of 10 on looks scale. Be honest tho, no one in real life will ever know what you rated yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 6 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?This why I often split it (but not always). And what I say as the reason if they press me too. I don’t want you feeling like you owe me anything. I’m not a cheap guy. I have money. But also would rather make sure you like me before I offer to be your pocket book. That said I’ll pay no hesitation if I get the sense the girl either has a shit paying job or is very traditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage?So by that definition, some smoking hot female super model’s prized male is a virgin? Uhhh yeah no. Not how that works. Women want men with higher n counts, up to a certain point obviously and that point is subjective to each woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage?Except male standards aren’t bolstered by a low n count. It’s actually the inverse. A low n count man signals lack of desirability to the majority of women. So you kinda need to take your theory back to the drawing board. That said, I’ve bumped into you on Reddit before and know you’re just a troll so don’t even bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.Dude we’re not talking about cool awesome guys here. We’re talking about nice guys and betas whom maybe the girl loves but doesn’t have the same pure sexual desire for. It happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.No a high level of sexual attraction opens the doors to these kinds of conversations. And from there it’s about navigating them appropriately. But without that, it would get shot down before it even gets to phase 2 of the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.No I’m not describing that. I’m describing a relationship with less sexual attraction. Literally just stop nitpicking. All of you. You know what we’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.Omg dude. Because you talk to people, you hear peoples stories, girls straight up tell you something along the lines of “I don’t know what it is with you I’ve just never had this kind of sexual chemistry with someone before”, etc, etc. The fact it happens isn’t even up for debate. The only debate is why, but we all know why. Because the girl doesn’t like one guy the same way she liked another. With perhaps the only exception being anal if the dudes junk is massive. But even then, if the girl rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.Then you don’t have many to begin with. It’s not complicated. I don’t have to deal with this shit at all but I see it from the other end. Before we ever start dating, I always have girls telling me they’ve never done anal before, never fucked in public before, never let a guy piss on them. Whatever it is, you can fill in the blanks. Then I do it with her, and I’d hypothesize she doesn’t then go on to do all that freaky shit with every guy after me. Maybe she does with some guys, I dunno. But def… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 0 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?Either way one doesn’t equal love and the other equals hate. That’s just the dumbest framing I’ve ever seen. Although kinda par for the course these days I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?BP does not represent love while RP represents hate. What a silly foundational posture from which to base your argument. BP represents naivety that can manifest itself in many ways and RP represents knowingness that can manifest itself in many ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Only if everyone else was. Hence her use of the word ethics instead of morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultUnto you as well my dear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultIf I said that it was written in the third person voice like you’d read a quotation. But no, that hasn’t happened to me. I have gotten the impression girls were either too stuck on an ex or didn’t value me as highly before we started dating tho. And thus I wasn’t interested in dating them, even if they were in me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:57 AM |
| 2 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultI don’t understand what you’re trying to say? Why do you say “evidently I’ve already proven what you have to say” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:49 AM |
| 4 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultOdd thing is tho I feel like I usually am. At least at the time and with the girls I’ve dated. I don’t think I’d marry a woman who isn’t more into me than all her previous lovers. Sounds horrible. And like a recipe for disaster. I’d rather be single than marry a woman who doesn’t love and desire me more than her previous partners. Sorry not sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultYou figure out before you start dating and before it ever matters. By just being cool about it. Plus before we start dating none of that truly stuff matters to me anyway. Girls blab. You don’t even have to ask. They want to know more about your background so they’ll willing give out information about theirs as some kind of trade deal. Provided you give them the impression you don’t give af and you’re cool with it. Logically you’re completely cornered here. The only card you have left is to attac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultYeah it’s not two different things tho. Not to most men at least. Otherwise I agree. Don’t date someone who thinks it’s cool to treat you shittier than their ex. Pretty simple stuff there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:13 AM |
| 4 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultYeah no I don’t think there’s meanness to it at all. I just want women to stop pretending like it’s all in a guys head. Like nah hunny, let’s be real, you just don’t like him like that. Which is also part of the reason I wouldn’t date a girl who doesn’t want to do certain things with me that she used to do with her ex. I’ve never had that be the case as far as I’m aware, but if it was the case, I’d be gone. She’s straight up telling me she doesn’t like me that way. Which isn’t her fault. But if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:02 AM |
| 0 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultOk so then what say you about my example above? When I do shit for my ex that I don’t do with you, any issue you have with that is due to your insecurities? Orrrrrrrrr is there something else going on? Like maybe I don’t really like you the same way I liked her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:49 PM |
| 0 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultGot it. And when I flew my ex all over the world and we stayed in the nicest five star hotels then I take you to Iowa and we stay in a motel, surely any issue you have with that can be chalked up to your own insecurities, right? Surely that must be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultLol I don’t have a problem with anything in OP’s post because I’m usually the guy doing that stuff, but I love how your (and every woman’s) first reaction to almost anything a guy brings up is to scream insecurity!!! He doesn’t like that I had an orgy with my ex and 5 other girls, must just be his insecurity!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?You brought your sexual orientation up by answering the question like it would be normal for me to assume you were bisexual. I didn’t bring it up. You knew the precise point I was trying to make and tried to wiggle your way around it because you were stumped. And bc it revealed you to be a bitter hypocrite. We see right through you. You do not debate in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?This is a subreddit designed to discussed male female sexual dynamics. Grow up. No one cares about your sexual orientation except you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 03:13 AM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?You just referred to your girlfriend as your partner. And you’ve said you’re a woman. So what you’re bisexual? Cool. No one gives a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Are women becoming as much of a sex addict as men? And how do women separate themselves from their body in the act of sex?Yes. But they’re addicted to ego boost provided by male attention and validation. And men are also addicted to the ego boost provided by male validation for racking up notches. Funny world lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?Huh? I meant girlfriend like your female friend. Didn’t realize you were a lesbian. I’d rephrase my example but since you already willfully misinterpreted me, because I know you know I meant female friend, I’m done with this bad faith attempt at debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?Is that what you say to your girlfriend when her boyfriend shows interest in other hot girls? “Honey stop this obvious low self esteem bullshit. There is no way on earth your boyfriend will not be attracted to other women. He finds all kinds of women attractive every day and chooses you. Stop punishing him for it. Get therapy.” I’m sure that’s exactly what you’d say to your girlfriend right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?Or they’re like that until they find a guy they don’t feel like they settled for, at which point they are content and not like that. Up until of course if/when they are no longer content with said guy because he “changed”, at which point they go back to being like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?Yes well most men are baffled by the thought process too. But it’s one shared by 95%+ of women. If you don’t share it, that’s interesting and rather uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingYou legitimately just cannot or refuse to comprehend the point we’re making. That the universally ideal partner is young and a virgin, with some slight variation between exact age and being virgin vs just low N count. Why are you confused? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingYour whole point has been about the difference between ideal and realistic preferences. And now you don’t care? Alright this is pointless lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?So you’re saying you truly think you could do way better than your current boyfriend who has no other options, but despite feeling like you could do better, you are content enough with your boyfriend not to try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingBased on what? Based on what guys think they can get? I know I’m not going to get a 21 year old with one previous partner, so even if was my ideal preference, it’s not realistic. My realistic ideal would probably be 25/26. Again, you’re having a side conversation with yourself that no one else is having with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingTo validate men’s near universal preferences which for some reason you feel more qualified to assess and dictate than men themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?Because your options are limited too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingWhen did I say I needed my ideal partner? You’re having a different discussion with yourself versus the discussion the rest of us are having. I fully accept the fact I probably won’t get my ideal partner because women generally aren’t like that anymore. So what? I genuinely don’t understand your point. We’re not even discussing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingSo again, what’s your point? That women as a whole are becoming less attractive to men? If so, yeah I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingYeah we know. Cuz women are behaviorally changing in a way we find less attractive and ideal. Nothing new there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingLol what point are you even trying to make? And what you can get isn’t the only variable. The other variable is what exists. These are variable behavioral preferences we’re talking about, not physical preferences that would be a constant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingNah it’s almost universally every males preference barring a few outliers/exceptions. Which is the point we’re all making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingUhhh in your response to me immediately preceding this one…… Hot 18 yr old virgin vs hot 21 year old with one previous partner. Both examples represent the same concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingSo you’re saying there’s actually a difference between an 18 yr old virgin and a 19 yr old virgin for the purposes of whatever this stupid conversation is? Lol. If so, have fun arguing meaningless pedantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bondingNo it’s not. It’s a near universally agreed upon male preference. Albeit I said near universally because there are certainly some outliers/exceptions. Like me for example, the ideal partner wouldn’t be a hot 18 year old virgin. She’d maybe be a hot 21 year old with one previous sex partner who put in all the work of teaching her lmao. Granted I’m not even really looking for that because it’d be like finding a needle in a haystack. But in an ideal world, yeah, all men prefer that over some 30 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?I understand that. I’ve sold non profit entities before to companies that convert them to for profit entities and the owner of the non-profit license gets the payout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Yeah that doesn’t mean anything tho. Someone still owns the patent or technology or whatever the company’s value driver is. Guessing that’s just a tax optimization structure and they’ll convert to a for profit once it’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Ok. And what about the cap table. Do any legislators or members of their family own equity in the company? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Exactly. You have to work with translates to you have to grease up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Hahaha how is that working in politics? If it is, that’s exactly why people don’t trust some of the stuff about renewable energy. Because it’s been politicized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Are you kidding me rn? Is English your second language or something? I feel like I’m taking crazy pills having this conversation with you. You haven’t been able to comprehend a single point or question. Do you actually work for the Democratic Party? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Ok wow you just don’t have the best reading comprehension huh? This isn’t about whether you would or wouldn’t date a chubby guy. But hypothetically, if you wouldn’t, then being chubby would be a red flag according to your breakdown of what red flags are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Ok well you edited your other comment, but again, this all started because I was genuinely curious. All of the particular positions you mentioned, I could make an argument either why being on one side or the other could be conceived as a red flag. I was asking her to specifically make that argument. But I simply don’t think she can. Because in her case it’s not based on any sort of logical reasoning - it’s strictly a feelings-based, stubborn, inflexible value/belief she holds. Thus being a repub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Lfmaoooo. So if you didn’t want to date a chubby guy under any circumstance, you’d say being chubby is a red flag? The whole working in Democrat politics thing starting to make sense now based on the lack of capacity for logic in your commentary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Yes ok. But that’s about a specific position. In order to say it’s a red flag, you have to go one level deeper and connect it to a specific, rather commonly agreed upon undesirable trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Notice how I didn’t say being liberal. Being liberal isn’t a red flag. I think it’s within reason to say liberal = interested in fairness. Liberal still roughly translates to believing in equal treatment (although that translation is definitely becoming less accurate by the day). Being woke however means not being interested in fairness, but actually being interested in unfairness designed to take others down who you deem unworthy and elevate others up you deem worthy. There’s absolutely zero me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Hahaha omg. I’m high. Confused this convo with a different one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?I was proving a point with an exaggeration, not trying to come up with the most analogous example. Point being you think past behavior is not a good predictor of future behavior. I think that’s silly and something only an unrealistic idealist would say. Because we all know past behavior is in fact a good predictor of future behavior. I don’t give af whether it’s a morally right or wrong thing to have preconceived notions about people. Why do you keep debating me about whether it’s morally right … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 3 | The promise of algorithmic datingYou wouldn’t feel lonely if you had a bunch of guy friends. So problem identified. That’s what you focus on. Forget women for now. Get a social circle then worry about women. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 6 | The promise of algorithmic datingDude this right here is the problem. You’re not happy without a girl. Girls can sense this a mile away. They don’t want to make your life, they want you to make theirs. You gotta focus on getting yourself happy and confident with or without them. That’s your first priority from here on out. Once you get to that point, attracting women will become wayyyyyy easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Source? Or is that just a completely contrived stereotype within the frame of your personal experiences/worldviews? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?Yeah that’s true. You could definitely be missing out on a small handful of opportunities that could’ve come from the perfect opener. But as you’ve pointed out (I think you did but maybe was someone else), it’s sort of a numbers game for men. Some girls are on there simply out of boredom/trying to get social media followers. Sometimes the timing doesn’t line up. Sometimes she’s still stuck on her ex. Whatever the reason is, you’re simply not going to meet a super high percentage of women you sen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Those are all personal preferences tho. At least without an underlying explanation for why they’re red flags. For example, I don’t want to go to church on Sundays either and wouldn’t be very interested in dating a woman who does. But I can’t call going to church a red flag without at least providing some sort of rationale that’s applicable to a large number of people as opposed to simply stating it’s my personal preference. So again, can you explain exactly some of the things you’re mentioning a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?I disagree. I’m sure you do get a lot of messages and guys have to stand out in order to catch your interest. And I’m sure the amount of guys who message you in comparison to the amount you actually meet in person is wild. But if the guys pictures particularly stand out to you as more interesting/attractive than the others, I think you would respond to [your name] with [my name]. You wouldn’t do that for most guys, only the ones that especially catch your interest based on their pics/profile alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 05:13 PM |
| -2 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?No that’s not an accurate statement. That’s not what red flag means. Say you’re into tall guys, is being a short guy a red flag? Obviously not, it’s a personal preference. Which is still completely valid. Just a different thing than a red flag. If you’re sticking by why “being a republican” is a red flag, can you at least explain why in a way that removes your personal preference from the equation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Why is that a red flag? Don’t you mean a personal preference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?Pretty accurate. Although I’d suggest to OP that his first message actually be really dry and standardized. Then second message is the one that’s supposed to grab you. So for example, every first message should just be “[your name]”. Or “hi [your name]”. Or “[your name] what’s up” The girls that don’t respond to that basic opener that doesn’t require a creative response never would’ve gone out with you to begin with. Because they’re not that interested. Then from there, you’re pretty much right.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:55 PM |
| -1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?I could explain why it’s a red flag for a woman to be exceedingly woke. Genuinely curious tho, can you explain why “being a republican” is a red flag for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Well that’s not attractive behavior, so makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Where do you draw the line? Would you give a serial murdering hooker a shot at a relationship, or do you kinda go into that with a rule of “yeah maybe you’re actually a decent person and I’d give you a chance to show me that, but yeah, this prob isn’t gonna work as far as relationships go” Guessing that’s how you’d handle that. And if so, you can prob get off your high horse now pretending like you don’t have impressions about people before you know them intimately enough to make a fully informe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?It’s an autistic useless distinction because I’ve already told you there are exceptions and it’s not a hard rule. Meaning, yes, you do evaluate people individually. But as humans - we actually do this in everything - your brain needs to create shortcuts and associations to save time/processing power otherwise it would be overloaded 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?In actuality, the a true representation of average relationships is probably like men contributing 70% of joint money at 50 hours/wk, with women contributing 30% of joint money at 40 hours/wk. Using that same sort of formula, the split of responsibilities probably comes out to around 20/80. Women complain about it simply because they can and because many ppl are brainwashed to think men and women must be “equal” in everything no matter what the specific circumstances are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Yeah it’s really not a function of earnings. That’s a simplification I agree. It’s a function of proportionally how much each person is paying for joint expenses / contributing to joint savings and investments. Then on top of that, time spent at work is a variable that comes into play, but it would have to be somewhat adjusted based on money contributed vs. time spent at work. So say person A contributes 60% of the money at 60 hours/wk, and person B contributes 40% of the money at 40 hours/wk. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Ok. Right. Because no one ever makes inferences to help navigate life. Learning is only capable through first hand lived experience. Sure. Whatever you say darling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Yeah I disagree with that notion. If the earnings are 50/50, household and other miscellaneous chores / responsibilities should be 50/50 too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?You just precisely made my point for me and I’d build on what you said if I ever made a post about this topic. As you say, how a guy treats his mother is important as a predictor for how he’s going to treat you (aka does he hug her, tell her he loves her, etc). And I agree. But take it one level deeper. How a guy treats his mother is also a function of who his mother is and the nature of their relationship. Apply this concept to women and their fathers. If their father is a total chump and not s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:53 PM |
| 2 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?It’s not a question of loving home or “good” relationship with your father. I just made this comment elsewhere in this post. Relationships with parents are complex and saying it’s about a “good relationship with their father” simply doesn’t cut it. There’s a lot more at play that isn’t being communicated here. Im going to need to make a post about it because it is complex and there’s a lot of nuance that needs to be dissected. But to your point about how a man’s relationship with their mother im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?This is how women feel all the time. And why red pill advocates for having a harem of women before you try to settle down. Because until you know what it’s like to have abundance with woman all up on your jock, like women naturally have with men, you’re just going to be playing the game from a disadvantaged position. You won’t get what it’s even remotely like to be a woman unless you first are able to get some sort of abundance that approximates what life is like to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Yeah, mens issues with their mothers do impact their relationships with women throughout life. Granted none of this is 100% scientific fact, but I agree with that statement. But again, there are exceptions to almost any rule, this topic being no different. It’s not to say that if you have a shitty relationship with your mom/dad you’re a garbage human that will never be able to figure it out. It just means more likely than not, yes, it’s gonna show itself in relationships with the opposite sex. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 3 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Well the question you should be asking is if a man has a poor relationship with his mother, what are those effects on his relationships with women? I’d venture to guess there are a few. I just haven’t spent much time thinking about it. So don’t wanna throw out any opinions I haven’t adequately thought through. Also, I don’t know what it’s like to be a woman and don’t know what makes a woman a slut, but I do know that every slut I’ve ever met and been hooking up with (I like sluts, y’all are cool… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 3 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Mansplaining 🤣. Oh sorry, I forgot. I have peepee, therefore I cannot contribute to conversation. There’s a reason why I said father who’s a piece of shit or absolute chump. Good relationship with their father is short for good relationship with a strong father figure they genuinely like. So yeah, if I turn out to be a chump whom my daughter dislikes, then you’re right, she probably will be a slut. Which only reinforces the point. Glad we’re in agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 11:53 AM |
| 2 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Yeah you didn’t really have a father in your life. That’s a different thing. And maybe coincidentally or maybe not, you picked up the missing masculine slack. No offense, I’m sure you’re a terrific person, but I wouldn’t want to date you based on the description you just gave. I don’t want to date a girl hardened by a lack of a father figure whom becomes a tom boy. I want to date someone more feminine. Again no idea if there’s a correlation here, but regardless you’re proving the rule true in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 09:10 AM |
| 2 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Ok so say 10% take that shitty situation and are able to turn it into a positive. That’s just a dumb rule change bc it feels good to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?Ok again, you’re missing something important. Most guys understand you take the stuff you like and are morally ok with from trp and disregard the rest. I’ve never seen that post before. I don’t want to read it all. Why do you think every man doesn’t have the ability to think for themselves? Pretty sexist don’t you think? Again, trp is a toolbox. You take what works and throw out what doesn’t / what you morally disagree with. From the bit I did read tho, soften up the language and its probably no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?I can’t even read that whole link. It’s too much. Why don’t you instead say what you disagree with about it. I’ll be honest if I think you’re right or you’re missing something. And why exactly is banging hot 20 yrs olds bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 2 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Sure. I agree there are exceptions to “the rule” but it’s still “a rule” because more often than not it holds true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?A woman having a good relationship with her father actually matters though. Maybe not in every single instance, but by and large holds true. The first man a woman loves is her father, and if her father is a piece of shit or a pathetic chump, a woman learns from and via her relationship with her father that “men are trash” and she tends to respect men in her relationships less. Call it a generalization, point to a specific example that contradicts me, do whatever you want - but by and large this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 03:55 AM |
| -3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyWhat do you mean? I do it all the time. I’m aggressive with girls but only when I’m getting the green light to be. Never had a single issue with being aggressive, because it’s about picking and choosing when to do it. If you don’t have the social intelligence to understand when you should be aggressive and when you shouldn’t, then you’re definitely fighting an uphill battle. That said, practice and more practice is the only way to get a better feel for it. Take incremental steps in the aggressiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?Let me fill you in on how the trp subreddit works. This is in the sidebar too if you actually read it. You start off not having success with women or at least not the kind of success you want. You’re confused because society says one thing but you observe something else in reality. Be nice they say, be yourself they say, etc etc - and you wonder why that asshole drug dealer gets with so many more women than you. So you somehow stumble across trp. Initially, you’re angry when you first come to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 03:14 AM |
| 16 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIt actually makes perfect sense. Brad pitt could walk up to a moderately attractive girl and be like “hey wanna fuck” and odds are she will. Ugly guy says the same thing to the same girl, she throws a drink in his face. That’s life man. Really do be like that sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:12 AM |
| 3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIOIs and social intelligence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?Good on you for not being flaky. I very rarely encounter flaky women in real life too. And that’s the point you’re misunderstanding. Awalt doesn’t mean all women are going to be flaky. It means “hey dumbass, women have the potential to be flaky, so if you’re picking up on a pattern of flakiness from women, this is what it means.” As far as nuances are concerned, you do realize most men who are experienced and at least somewhat agree with the red pill say something along the lines of “I don’t agr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?I don’t think so. I think you do it too. I think if a man tells you you look pretty, you take it to mean something different than when a woman does. I think you generalize/interpret men’s actions differently than those of females. And that’s what awalt is supposed to help people decipher. For example, if a man tells you he’s down to make plans but at the last second cancels on you (another man), generally speaking, you can assume he really had to cancel. Because men typically don’t really cancel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Yeah I wasn’t disagreeing with you in any way. More so just adding on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?Bias implies it’s incorrect. I’ve never been gaslit by any of my male friends for example. The things awalt refers to are tendencies women have that don’t naturally compute or jive with most men. You could just as easily use amalt to describe men’s tendencies. The tendencies would be different, but it would still be 100% applicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Yeah I think a reasonable formula for household responsibilities is kind of an inverse function of earnings. If the earnings are 50/50, household responsibilities should probably be 50/50. If earnings are 75/25, then household responsibilities should probably be 25/75. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?This whole post is also stupid because what does the standard woman usually bring to the table initially? It’s not like she starts off as your personal maid. The main things most women initially bring to the table are their vaginas and feminine energy. The man is still expected to plan and pay for most things, do all the initial work of seducing a woman and getting her to go out with him. Lead the conversations and be funny / charming. If you’re telling me society and my wife would be completely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?Nah that’s not true. It just means be prepared for this pattern, and if it happens, now you know exactly what it is. Like the second you start getting gaslit by a woman who hasn’t done that before, it’s like welp, there it is. She hid it for a while, but turns out there’s that awalt capacity within her. Bye bye to any relationship hopes sweetie. It basically means just because a girl hasn’t done something yet, don’t assume she’s a unicorn. Instead, watch her actions and assume in the back of you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?They’d prob pick the model in a face off, but if it’s not a face off, they’d still smash this hypothetical CEO too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?Not sure it even matters tho. If you’re a billionaire CEO with an attractive personality, you’re still prob smashing those girls even if you’re physically not that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?Yeah that’s true. I was talking in general but sure, in the model world I’m sure the model will have more privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Women who don't agree with the Redpill or Blackpill, but believe in a one/some of the claims the pill makes, what is it and why do you believe it?Awalt means “you should assume all women have the capacity to be like that.” It doesn’t directly translate to “all women are like that.” But “you should assume all women have the capacity to be like that” has a slightly less catchy ring to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?I think you’re asking the wrong question. “Pretty privilege” (if that’s a real term now), works on a sliding scale. The privilege you receive from attractiveness is only in relation to your peers/competition in a given setting. So in a room full of models, one who’s slightly more attractive than the other won’t get much comparative privilege. But if there’s one model in a room full of hideous basement dwellers, that model will get considerable privilege. It’s not a question of objective 1-10 rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?Yeah man. Time to scrap that link entirely. It doesn’t bring any real value to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?Lmao wtf is this scale. Christiano Ronaldo is a 7.5??? Hahaha unreal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | If your partner’s past is your current prison, you will never have future happiness.It’s not that I don’t want to discuss. It’s just that I and many others have laid it out before in painstaking detail. All it would take is a quick search on your end to get an idea of the general rationale behind it. Hell I personally wrote a long detailed response about it probably within the past week. If you search on your own and don’t find the answers you’re looking for, ping me and I’ll either respond or direct you to where you can find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:17 PM |
| 2 | If your partner’s past is your current prison, you will never have future happiness.It’s been discussed ad nauseam. There are plenty of specific reasons why it matters. That said, ultimately does it even matter why? Even if it was just what men generally preferred, without a valid reason at all, not sure it would make any difference. Does anyone question why women generally prefer taller men? Does anyone question why women generally prefer stoic men? Sure, the reasons behind these things are interesting, and certainly there can be exceptions in terms of preferences. But there r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:41 PM |
| -1 | If your partner’s past is your current prison, you will never have future happiness.Huh? If I understand what you’re asking, yeah men and women have different standards when it comes to who they’ll have sex with. Birth control has only been around since the 70s. Woman has sex with a fat dumb slob homeless guy and she’s burdened by his terrible genes for the next 60 years. Man has sex with fat dumb slob homeless woman and he wakes up the next morning, erases it from his memory and never thinks about it again. Men also have more testosterone which is the hormone that most directl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 05:53 AM |
| 5 | If your partner’s past is your current prison, you will never have future happiness.Anyone who knows what to look for would be able to tell within 20 minutes of meeting you darling. It’s not rocket science. Can you tell if a guy is a virgin or a player that fucks a lot of women? Again, it’s not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | If your partner’s past is your current prison, you will never have future happiness.Oh lord. Here we go. Ok so if a woman cries about breaking a nail, is that the same thing as when a men cries about breaking a nail? The very same thing. What about when a woman gets stressed out and cries and vents all her problems to her partner? Is that the same thing as when a man gets stressed out, cries and vents all his problems to his partner? The very same thing. Or, hear me out here, is it possible that men and women value tremendously different things in one another? Is it possible th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 04:49 AM |
| 11 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?Well generally women enjoy casual sex. Admitting female promiscuity leads to societal issues means women shouldn’t have casual sex. And then from there it leads down that evil patriarchal road everyone loves to hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 18 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?Ok but you must dig a little deeper darling. Why is it that standards in certain countries are branching off from historical norms while standards in socially conservative countries like Brazil and Russia aren’t? The answer is the rising acceptance of female promiscuity in certain nations. Women in America can have sex with guys well above themselves in terms of sexual market value provided they give it up easy. And they can do this relatively free of social shaming. Take away the ability for fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Nothing I’ve laid out is based on something a woman has said to me. Not a single thing. Im triggered I keep giving you chances to contend with the content of something I’ve said, instead of just attacking me because what I’ve said triggered your cognitive dissonance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Im triggered by the pure retardation of your commentary. I’m waiting for you to reveal whatever information you’re sitting on that makes you so confident I’m wrong. Except you’re not sitting on anything. You’re just a delusional arrogant troll. Ok let me give you an example of what’s going on here: Charles Darwin has a theory of evolution he’s working on. Based on hard data and personal observation. He’s trying to figure out how the world works. You come in and say he’s just triggered because go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Dude you’re literally retarded. I’m trying to understand how the world works. Doesn’t mean I’m always right, but that’s the goal. I was hoping you were criticizing what I wrote because you had information or another theory that was more accurate. Nope, you’re literally just retarded. Bye troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Because I want to be right unlike your retarded ass. If you had something meaningful to contribute I would’ve heard you out. Turns out you’re just mentally stunted tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?My quick reply is cuz I just moved to a new country and don’t have any family here for thanksgiving. Unfortunately you’re just too low IQ to have a conversation with. Never once addressed the content of what I was saying, only attacked the messenger. All your puny brain could muster up I guess. Also, retard boy, for the sake of argument let’s say I’m the ugliest dude on the planet. Just a complete waste of life. Ok. Now that’s that settled, wanna address any of actual content I posted and why I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Tf is wrong with you. What are you even trying to say? That I’m a loser because women’s estimation of the average man is way higher than the actual average man? Tf does that even have to do with me personally? What does me relaying this fact have to do with who I am? I fail to see the connection. You’re either a troll or mentally ill. God speed brotha. Get better soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Dude it’s literally fact that’s what happens. I could care less if you want to try to claim tHis iS mY iNsEcURiTy. A fact is a fact regardless of your silly outlook and attacks on the messenger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Dude. Explain yourself. Don’t just hurl stones. Dunning Kruger is cognitive bias. You brought it up you dolt. Also, what’s imagined about women assessing the average man differently than men assess the average woman? Just because it’s not a problem for me or potentially you doesn’t mean it’s not a problem for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?You’re not even making sense. Furthermore, care to provide any justification behind that conclusion like I did? What am I supposed to do, prove to you I get laid before you address the actual content of the comments? Lmao gtfo. Contribute something of value to the discussion or go home. Because this is all projection on your part. The only cognitive bias is coming from you. Otherwise you’d provide justification for your conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Are you simple? Do you not realize why cutting 50% of men out of the dating market might cause problems for society? I do just fine for myself. But in balance the current dynamic ain’t great for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?You’re not totally wrong. I’m gonna come back to this cuz it’s interesting and I’m too tired to write all my thoughts rn, but this is precisely why promiscuity is creating problems in society. The reason why the shy, awkward average girl can’t keep her n count down is for the very reason casual sex is not discouraged among women like it used to be. That shy average awkward girl can now freely and without shame have sex with hotter guys than would ever date her. And she knows those guys won’t wai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?I can tell within an hour if I know I’ll never date someone. Maybe ~25% of the girls I’ve been on dates with I know pretty quickly that I’d never date them. Maybe another 25% get a second date to put out. Then the rest I’d happily wait to sleep with depending on how much I like them. If I like a girl, and if I get a sense she isn’t stringing me along, but she actually genuinely doesn’t sleep with random guys all the time, then it’s a good thing she’s making me wait. Not a bad thing thing she isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?You misunderstand. I would never ask. And don’t make it known it’s important to me. I’d never tell a girl I care about that. And she won’t know it. But I do and it has been the main reason I’ve turned down relationships with girls before. Also you’re missing something important. If I go out with a girl I’m just trying to have sex with who’s below me, the yes, if she doesn’t put out, I won’t see her again. However, when I do actually like a girl, and could see myself dating her, then I like when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Define privilege then. Did Jews make more money than Germans on average? Is that privilege? And if not, then what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Yes but the Jews had more privilege. Which is precisely the issue. You’re getting at raw power. Pretend white men had all the privilege in the US but only represented 5% of the population. People who think like you do would very quickly start doing unrighteous things to that 5%. The only reason they don’t now is because they don’t have the raw power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Ok and elevating Germans to the bare minimum privilege experienced by Jews in the 1930s isn’t unrighteous. Or is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is sexism morally bad?Yeah totally. That’s fair. But just extrapolate your thinking a little bit. What you are suggesting is well-meaning, but it’s not a scalable ideology. By definition, you are openly advocating for preferential treatment based on gender/race in order to fix preferential treatment based on gender/race. This is important because it’s scary. We have a hundred million people+ in America convinced their preferential racial treatment ideology is for the greater good. That’s how people like Hitler actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Yes but the opposite is true somewhere that isn’t a white majority country. For example, if a white man moves to Japan, he’ll be discrimated against because his group has less control there. That’s how it is everywhere. Im glad we’re getting somewhere though because you’re showing that you think racism and discrimination are ok as long as they are for they greater good in your eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Yes, but not if we lived in a country with 90% black people and 10% white people. It’s a function of raw numbers. Look at every single society. The race with the majority representation in raw numbers has the most privilege. That’s how it works. Everywhere. Or let’s use women and men as an example. If every single society shows women make less than men in total, you’re telling me that’s simply a function of unfairness? And that there’s perhaps nothing else at play besides unfairness? Like perhap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Ok and what privilege do white men have over non white men today aside from simply being the majority and thus having more control? That’s all it is. There are no laws that give white men power over non white men. It’s a function of raw numbers creating more control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Ok fair. Because yes, it is your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Ah ha! Got you to say it! Great, let’s move to Africa and give white people a bunch of that shit black people don’t get there! Yes! Go me! I’m helping! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Prevalence has zero connection to desire. You brought desire into the fold, which again, has nothing to do with prevalence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Ok but that’s not true in reality. You feel like it shouldn’t be prejudicial for the reasons you mentioned above. Not disagreeing that something should be done. But in reality, it is by definition prejudicial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?You can’t say it’s becoming more desirable. It is becoming more prevalent though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is sexism morally bad?It is by very definition unequal treatment. Just say what we both already know you mean. I just want you to say it. Just say I want unequal treatment in order to fix the unequal treatment of the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?Creating a scholarship specifically for women not men is by definition prejudicial treatment based on gender. I’m not disagreeing about whether there should be scholarships for women. But stop lying. You don’t want equality. You want equal equity achieved via unequal treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?No it literally is discrimination tho. Literally. What you’re saying is that’s ok as long as you’re discriminating against the majority group to fix a perceived wrong. And I’m not agreeing or disagreeing about whether we should do that. But let’s just get a few things clear. It is literally by definition discrimination. But your point is that’s ok because it’s needed to fix an imbalance. Point is you don’t want fairness or equal treatment. You want equal equity, via inequality or unfair treatmen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is sexism morally bad?It literally is by definition discrimination tho. Is is precisely the definition of discrimination. You’re treating one group of people differently than another based on their gender. It’s the definition of discrimination. So what you’re actually saying is you can only discriminate against the majority. In other words, you can’t be racist towards white people in America. Or you can’t be racist towards black people in Africa. I know you guys mean well, but I wish you used your brains to see how s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Yes so I get a lot of “I usually don’t do this” or “I’m usually not that kinda girl”. I’m not by any stretch the worlds best “player” but I would say I’ve figured out how to maximize my chances of sleeping with a girl on the first date. That said, I wouldn’t use that as my defining input for whether or not a girl is promiscuous. Here’s kind of what the thought process looks like: If it takes me three times to have sex with someone, unless I clearly dropped the ball or messed up, or she’s clearly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Is sexism morally bad?So then you can only discriminate against the minority represented group? And you can’t discriminate against the majority represented group? That’s fine if that’s what you think, just come out and say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Is sexism morally bad?…and benefit women for the sole reason they’re women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Is sexism morally bad?Ok but how is it not still technically sexism to give a grant to someone based on their female gender. You’re still technically discriminating against men in this instance. I think this is what OP was getting at with their perhaps less articulate post. There are times when discriminating based on gender actually makes sense. Like for example, giving a grant specifically to women. Not all “sexism” or discrimination based on gender is bad. I think is the point OP was making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?That doesn’t follow simple game theory principles though. I’m not maximizing my utility if I do that. If I don’t have sex with a promiscuous woman, someone else will. And I also don’t know how promiscuous she is until after I get a chance to know her. It’s only once I realize she’s promiscuous that I won’t date her. From a guys perspective, given the cards we’re dealt, it makes no sense not to have sex with promiscuous women. After all, promiscuous women help fulfill our biological imperative to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 3 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Why? Why would I cut my nose off to spite my face? How about I keep having sex with promiscuous women but refuse to date them for being promiscuous instead? They’ll get the message either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?So defensive lmao. And so self centered. Will this person facilitate a good life for me doesn’t say anything about dependency. The opposite of will this person facilitate a good life for me is will this person make my life hard and bad. Y’all are so defensive it’s wild. The point is you don’t actually mean the lovey-dovey romantic can I see myself growing old with this person sentiment. What you actually mean is will growing old with this person end up translating to a good life for myself, my p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?I agree, but you’re asking men to go against their biological imperative which is to have sex with as many women as possible. Likewise, it’s silly to ask women not to try to sleep with the best man they can sleep with because their biological imperative is to secure the best genes for their offspring. Literally the only thing that will realistically fix the imbalance is either women self regulating their promiscuity (which they somewhat do, they slut shame each other just like men slut shame). O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 0 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?“Do I want to grow old with this person” translates to “will this person facilitate a good life for me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Ok but this is not something you can choose to either believe in or not believe in. This is fact based in statistics and hard evidence. Perhaps you’re misunderstanding what I mean when I say “attractiveness” I’m not talking just about looks. To men, attractiveness is mainly based on looks, sure. But when I say attractiveness from a woman’s perspective, I’m referring to the entire package. Which includes personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:41 PM |
| -4 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?It’s not sexism. There is no prejudice. Personally I like that women are having more sex. That said, what is it that you disagree with exactly? Unlike how men rate women, why don’t women rate men such that perceptions of average attractiveness in males translates to what the average male actually is? Edit: “attractiveness” refers to the entire package, not just physical appearance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 0 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?The crime isn’t having a threshold. The “crime” is that when you actually look at statistics of how women rate men’s attractiveness, women’s threshold for male attractiveness suggests the average male (per how women rate them) translates to roughly the top 25 or higher percentile male The same isn’t true for how men rate women’s attractiveness. When men rate women’s attractiveness, their rating of the average woman comes out to roughly a 50 percentile woman. I’m not making any comments on whethe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 10 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...She’s actually right. This is what women are doing. They’re using some kind of trimmean function to exclude say the bottom 50% of men, then they’re doing an average of just the top 50%. It’s silly but that’s not gonna stop it. I think monogamy/marriage was created for men, not women. It wasn’t created to ensure men would always provide for the woman. It was created to ensure women wouldn’t fuck all same guys and leave the rest stuck holding the bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.A high value (i.e. hot) woman who’s broke will not be very interested in broke man trying to date her (because she can do better). A high value man with a high n count will not be very interested in dating a high n count woman (because he can do better). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:20 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Among other things, does anyone find it interesting how women lie down about their n-counts while men lie up about it? For a million reasons, I don’t think this is an apples to apples comparison. Men with higher n-counts and women with higher n-counts are not quite the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysIt’s a new thing. New boyfriend. Has happened twice so far. She’s too nice to immediately them to fuck off and stop. I mean she does but not in a way that’s assertive enough. But she said if it happens again she’ll say something more seriously. I’m not gonna do anything at this point. Will see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysNah best friend will face time and if dude is there he’ll be trying. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysIt’s a recent development as I alluded to in OP. If it continues and she doesn’t draw a hard line I’ll reevaluate. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysWell she’s told me if it continues she will say something more serious to get them to stop. Maybe she will, maybe she won’t, but I do tend to believe her. She’s just a little too nice and doesn’t want to come off as a bitch. Which means people can walk over her sometimes, but I think if it continues she understands she has to draw a hard line and get them to stop. And if she doesn’t then I’ll know where she stands. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysYeah we’re both aware the my gf’s friend is enabling it. My gf is like well if I wasn’t with you I’d be moving into an apartment with her next month instead of relocating my entire life to be with you. Of course my friend selfishly doesn’t want it to work out. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysBest friend would text my girl and be like “jerry says he can’t wait to meet you and you should come to xx, he wants you to meet his friend” That kind of a thing. But no the boyfriend isn’t texting my girl directly. Although I have exchanged messages w my girls best friend before. The best friend has texted me happy birthday and we’ve exchanged some random banter here and there. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysYeah I know. I just moved so my gf would have to follow me. And the best friend doesn’t want that to happen because they were gonna live together blah blah. Not sure how I should handle things with the best friend. If my girl moves to my city I won’t care about the best friend anymore. But if she doesn’t, then I won’t continue dating her for many reasons, including the best friend situation. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysShe actually hasn’t hung out with them. And has never met the boyfriend in person either. It’s been over text or through FaceTime. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysShe is. He was drunk and persistent. She told him to stop several times. I don’t blindly believe her, but I believe her about this. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:00 PM |
| 14 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysI guess my point was I could just tell this dude straight up to cut the shit versus pulling some chick type manipulation scheme. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 02:13 AM |
| 13 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysI could make that happen probably. But would also make me a hypocrite since I’m saying this dude is breaking bro code for doing that. I just told my girl to let me know if he still doesn’t get the hint. And that I’d rather not get involved but I will if I need to. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeIt’s not about good girls versus sluts. It’s about giving girls versus non-giving. All women are sluts for the right man. That said, excessive promiscuity is definitely an issue and something to think about if you’re considering marriage and/or children. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?Some valid points. Entertain me for a second here though. Pretend I’ve been plating women for years now (not a larp), generally understand female nature and have a good understanding of red flags plus what makes a woman worthy of commitment. And pretend I know my personality type’s biggest area of potential improvement / growth is through building and maintaining relationships. And pretend I want to start training myself how to hold frame in relationships so I don’t fuck up one that actually mat… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?No | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?I’d also prob save $3k in rent during this contemplated period, bc I’d have her pay around what she was going to pay if she moved back to our old city instead. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?My interpretation of rationale male is that he’s referring to signing a lease together, buying a home together or just moving in together in a more permanent capacity versus what I’m referring to. Hence why I asked the question in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?What’s the worst that can happen? She’s not psychotic. Last time I broke up w a girl, I blocked her and never talked to her again. And made huge personal improvement strides after. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?Ok I have a hypothetical for you tho - what if I’ve done the plate thing for years and I want to be in a relationship. Does that invalidate what you’re saying? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?I’m not larping. Pussy is pussy, but there are also considerations outside of sex and cumming. You’re right tho, no one would want a plate to live with them. But I don’t really think of her as a plate anymore. I would date her if we were in the same city. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?Yeah I think we’d probably both be exclusive if she ended up staying with me for a few months. Anything can happen from now until the summer, but I wouldn’t go into that plan expecting to keep fucking chicks on the side. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?Well the positive would be it buys a little time to figure out what we’re gonna do. I don’t think she has the balls to just sign a lease in my new city without knowing anyone. I’d have to introduce her to my friends gfs and shit over those two months and get her comfortable down here before she signed a lease. Meanwhile, if she moves back to our old city in June, we break up bc I’m not moving back and not doing a true LTR while long distance. But if she comes down here before she signs a new lea… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?That’s why it’s a one-sided open relationship. I can fuck whoever I want as long these randos are just plates and I’m not doing any LTR shit with them... | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?I mean I would date her if we were in the same city. I’ve done the plate thing for years now, time for me to start working on my relationship game. So yeah, in the old days I’d probably just say fuck it. But now I think this might be a good opportunity to work on relationship frame/game. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Is every girl that likes beer a slut?See I think there’s something to this. From my experience too. Higher quality girls seem to drink wine, cal-friendly liquor or don’t drink much at all. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl being too friendly with guys at clubCuz I moved to a new city and she came to visit | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl being too friendly with guys at clubThe problem I kinda ran into was there weren’t any other girls of similar SMV. The club was kind of a dude fest. When this plate and I were together at the club all was fine, then I’d leave her alone and go do my thing and she’d get a little too flirty with random dudes for my liking. But there weren’t any chicks with comparable SMV I could game so it wasn’t an ideal situation. When you say women automatically do this if they don’t sense competition - do you mean if they don’t sense competition … | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Girl being too friendly with guys at clubHow is it not? I would’ve maybe considered an LTR, now I’m not. She doesn’t seem to have a strong shutdown game. What makes you say it’s not a bad reflection for her at all? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Girl being too friendly with guys at clubWell I guess I viewed it as a test that she failed. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Girls who message you “come over” late at night with minimal convo before that - any success converting if you don’t catch message on the night of?I do | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Girls who message you “come over” late at night with minimal convo before that - any success converting if you don’t catch message on the night of?Doesn’t happen all that often. But agree would rule anyone out of contention for LTR obviously | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 9 | new hookup/potential LTR got covid a week after meeting- what to do next?Pathetic. Think about everything you just typed. Seriously think about it. Then put it into context of someone who has their shit together and is the shit. And then think about what you just wrote again. And then think about the other person and if they would also write this mountain of steaming garbage. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 5 | “What? You hanging out with another bitch?”I know what you figured. I too have figured such things. You’re making a mistake tho. You shouldn’t have agreed to being exclusive. That’s just gonna lock you into having to deal with more bullshit from a girl like this. All I recommend is when shit hits the fan, and it will, quickly cut her out of your life. Don’t let it drag on. Don’t try to get her back. Consider it done and final and never speak to her again. If not, you’re just gonna deal with another two months of BS until it happens all o… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | “What? You hanging out with another bitch?”Also she sounds like the kinda girl who’s gonna hang out w another guy when she thinks that’s what you’re doing, since she’s projecting that bullshit onto you. I was in a relationship with a girl like this recently. They’re fucked up and flawed. Dump this girl dude. U don’t need this negativity in your life. Accusing you of hanging out with a girl on literally zero evidence and hanging up on you playing games? Dump her ass. That ain’t good LTR material | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 09:59 PM |
| 11 | Asking girls on dating apps what they're looking forDude never say that. Wtf is wrong with you. Who cares what they’re looking for. What they say they’re looking for is irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachYou start spinning plates and sleeping with more of them... | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 07:05 PM |
| 13 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachDude just keep fucking her. You already have your answer - she’s not LTR material and never will be. But she can still be a nice plate for you. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachOk, let’s see if she’s still acting like that 6 months from now... | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 04:46 PM |
| 14 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachLol I did not skip that part. Sorry 2/3 nights lmao. You should def marry her bc she fucked you for a weekend. Dude it takes 6 months minimum to properly understand whether or not she’s LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 04:32 PM |
| 20 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachDude your problem is you were considering her as a potential LTR after 1 night together. Jesus man, get it together. That’s why they start off as plates. Initially, she is just a hole to stick your dick into. After months of fucking and getting to know her, only then do you consider potential LTR. And only if she adds value to your life beyond her pussy and hasn’t disqualified herself by then. No wonder that made you sick to your stomach. You’re as blue pill as they come. You never read the requ… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How do say “no” without coming off as a complete prick, and how do you keep frame when your “no” is challenged and questioned?Im just making the point - think about whether you actually need to say no. At the end of the day, it’s a couple fries man. There’s more important shit to say no to. If you say no to everything, saying no to something specific loses its value. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 08:29 PM |
| -1 | How do say “no” without coming off as a complete prick, and how do you keep frame when your “no” is challenged and questioned?You sound like a real wet blanket. You’re trying to put on a front that you’re this assertive alpha who says no, and I’d give you shit too bc I can tell you’re a fraud and I’d wanna test you to watch you crack. Think about the most assertive alpha guy you can think of...you think he’d give a shit about a French fry or just ignore it. He’d ignore it. Pick and choose your battles dude. But to answer your question, with important shit (not French fries) literally just say no and don’t explain yours… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 08:23 PM |
| -1 | How do say “no” without coming off as a complete prick, and how do you keep frame when your “no” is challenged and questioned?Well considering the fries cost maybe $2.00, and there’s probably 100 of them in there, so $0.02 cents per fry - I’d say you’re the stingy one here. It’s not like she took a bite of your Kobe steak. It’s a fry dude, relax. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do say “no” without coming off as a complete prick, and how do you keep frame when your “no” is challenged and questioned?Also tho dude - who cares. It’s just a fry. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Giving her validation?You use validation to reinforce good behavior. She brings you a bottle of booze - that’s cute, you’re really something special huh kiss on forehead She cleans your apartment - come here, you look really cute today smash Don’t validate intrinsic shit like appearance / laugh when she’s fishing for it. Either A&A, D&A or fog it. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Does anybody think being too overtly sexual over text puts girls off?Most you should do over text before meeting up is drop a pun or a line with a double meaning. She can read dirty into it, but it has another possible interpretation that gives it ambiguity. After you fuck once or twice and she’s a plate, that goes out the window and you can text dirty shit. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Why am I more attracted to the red flag plate than LTR material FWB?It’s probably because you still see yourself as someone who has some issues you need to sort out / fix. The red flag plate makes you feel better about yourself. The LTR material chick makes you feel insecure bc she’s got all her shit sorted. You’re worried the LTR material chick is gonna find out you’re hiding some of your issues. With the red flag plate, you don’t care bc at the end of the day, she’s more fucked up than you are. Plus the red flag plate is probably more attractive and you like h… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl using phone on date?Lol true. I either start talking to someone else, pretend / actually reach for her phone to chuck if, or just start texting too and wait for her to tell me to put my phone down. Then give her a look like “u for real bitch?” | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 02:27 AM |
| 7 | whats the best way to move on breakupThis is what scarcity looks like. We know. We’ve been there before. Everything you just wrote amounts to “this girl sucks...” but “I need pussy bc I’m not getting it elsewhere” That’s why you develop abundance. So you don’t have to put up with this bullshit. Work on yourself bro. Focus your energy inward. Game other girls or don’t, but your main focus should be inward for at least a month or two. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsSome girls might require less dread. And some girls might be more secure / less jealous. It’s ultimately a function of how she’s acting / behaving and how you’re acting / behaving. Either way, having female friends or not isn’t changed by this. It will just have a slightly different affect. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsNot true. Elsewhere in the comments I detail the nature of the friendships and cost / benefits | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsYeah for that reason I don’t pay for first dates. It’s not that I don’t have the money or that I don’t like a more traditional masculine-feminine dynamic, but the point is to signal you are the AF guy. They’ll need to find a BB for the free dinners and shit, because you’re not that guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsInteresting reply. Yeah I’m ~30 and live in NYC. Dating girls in their mid 20’s. Pretty rare to find a hot one who doesn’t talk to any other orbiters / male friends at all. I mean they exist, just rare. Which leaves me with two strategies: 1) DGAF about what she’s doing or who’s she’s texting, but still have to deal with her shit and comfort tests re: why girls are texting me when I’ve said I don’t have any platonic girl friends 2) tell her I have some platonic girl friends and proceed to occasi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsLet’s pretend we’re talking about Alexis Ren. You wouldn’t date her if she wanted to date you? Because she’s gonna have all sorts of male orbiters. And you’re gonna tell her she can’t respond to a single one, and you think that’s gonna keep her from doing it? Or is your point that you wouldn’t date a 10 bc she’s gonna have too many orbiters? Also, there are different types of LTRs. Not every girl you LTR has to be someone you’d marry necessarily. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsEvery single hot chick (>7.5) is gonna have male orbiters to some degree. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsI mean I’m not talking about being an orbiter. I could probably fuck the two female friends I have in mind Edit: I’m also not talking about “true friends” just a couple girls you chat with who you haven’t fucked | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsEvery girl has a couple orbiters / male friends. But I agree there’s a line each guy should draw in terms of what he finds acceptable for an LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsYeah obviously. They can’t be disgusting whales. They have to be at least relatively attractive in comparison to your LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 02:05 AM |
| 8 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsIt’s a shit test. Treat it as such. Your girl should be assuming these girl friends would fuck you, but you’re not into them like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsMaybe not in the conventional sense. Not saying you need to be spending the same amount of time with these platonic female friends as your guy friends. Hell, you might not even need to see them in person at all. Maybe they’re college acquaintances or something and you just chat / text occasionally. At a fundamental level, I think it really boils down to some level of communication with relatively attractive girls you’re not fucking. You could go the traditional route, and occasionally flirt or b… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 80 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsIt sounds like she’s trying to make you an orbiter. Don’t be an orbiter. I’m talking about being friends with girls you probably wouldn’t fuck or don’t need to fuck. And I’m talking about it in the context of benefitting you while in an LTR. What you’re talking about is something completely different. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?Yeah OP - don’t meet at your place. You want to be able to walk away if you need to. If you meet at your place, she has more control over the length and outcome of the interaction. She can park her ass on your couch and say she’s not leaving until you kick her out or admit some bullshit like you fucked up, you actually care / don’t care, etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm bringing 5k to gamble and almost every drug from Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas this weekend, any pointers to acheiving full ego death amidst the depravity?Closer to it than I was before.. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm bringing 5k to gamble and almost every drug from Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas this weekend, any pointers to acheiving full ego death amidst the depravity?Try microdosing LSD. Google DuckDuckGo fadiman protocol if you’re interested. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | I'm bringing 5k to gamble and almost every drug from Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas this weekend, any pointers to acheiving full ego death amidst the depravity?Maybe you need to go the opposite direction bro. I’ve macro and micro dosed. Tried most things at least once. Sounds to me like you could use a microdose regimen in conjunction with meditation and daily journaling. Based on personal experience, I think that would be more insightful. And more helpful towards your sustained evolution. The insights you get from a massive trip always seem ever so slightly fleeting to me. But the insights from microdosing leave more potential for lasting change imo. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?I’m not talking 5 mins. But there’s a difference between 30-40 mins and 2.5 hours. No girls routinely go 2.5 hours without checking their phones anymore. So to me, it comes off as playing games. But maybe I’m off base. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?It’s not like it’s eating up mental energy. It’s just eating up time. Like I would rather just ask someone else during that time. But I also don’t wanna be the guy who sends an invite then retracts it bc the girl took two hours to respond. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Yeah it’s not the maybe or no reschedule stuff. Not talking about that. I know what that means. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Recent plates. Just got out of a relationship. Seen one 4 times - she responds instantly. Seen the other 3 times - also responds instantly but I don’t really like her. Then the third is the newest one - only smashed twice so far. I like the third in person, but contemplating whether my time is better spent on a new girl who responds instantly instead. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Bc I’ll live either way. And if I like them in person, and they’re otherwise behaving, it seems a little silly to me to next them for this. But it is still an inconvenience... | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Yeah I feel that. Just got out of a relationship and need a couple more weeks to get to wyd territory. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Nah I’m not that young and don’t text that much. But when I do text, I want to clear my inbox and get that shit done. That said, I’m also aware I’m being a little ridiculous. It’s ultimately not a huge deal. But it is a minor inconvenience nonetheless. Wondering if anyone else feels the same way. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?I’ve never felt this way before. Like I said, I used to just not give a fuck. But I just got out of a relationship and my smv is as high as it’s ever been. Part of me feels like I can just replace with girls who respond fast. But the other part of me knows I’m being a little ridiculous and it’s not that big of a deal. Wanted to see if anyone can relate. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?Haha. Moon and rising signs are. So if you believe that stuff, I should theoretically act like and view myself as an Aquarius. Why do you ask tho? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever next a plate for taking an hour or two to respond to invites?I dunno. I like to set my schedules up for the week on Monday. And I usually spend the same two or three days with plates every week. Problem is it’s sort of a domino effect, because if one can’t do the first day, then I move down the list, repeat the process for second day, etc. Everyone isn’t always free. But some girls always respond pretty quickly. It’s just easier to set my schedule when I’m working with those girls. It makes it so I don’t have to do it over 4-5 hours cause I’m waiting for … | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How are you? How was your day? What did you do today textsJust take a while to respond to bullshit and deflect. They’ll get the point you’re not the kinda guy who’s gonna blab about your day over text. I dunno about you, but I’d rather be shooting the shit about actual bullshit as opposed to boring how was your day bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 0 | How are you? How was your day? What did you do today textsDeflect. Change subject. Her: “How was your day?” You: “You see Nancy pelosi’s dentures fell out at her press conference lmao” | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | What should I do about this situation with my ex that I fucked over?Ehh. I’m sure you’ll get conflicting advice. But let her go man. Even if you changed to be what “she wants you to be,” she’ll probably eventually just throw it back in your face. Girls are vindictive, and even though she still has strong feelings for you, she also probably resents you. I’d say maybe if you never split/went 6 months no contact, then yeah maybe she could forgive that. But I think it’s festered too long. If you’re Machiavellian and just want to fuck her again a few times, it seems … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | She has a lot of red flags?Scarcity and rationalization. First of all it’s been 2 months, no where near enough time to properly vet for an LTR. Second of all, if you think she has too many red flags prior to getting in an LTR, you should absolutely abort mission. You LTR girls who check all your boxes. Not ones you’re already insecure about who you don’t trust. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 7 | As a Woman, Why Are We Attracted to These MenYou want to secure the best man you can possibly secure. The best man you can possibly secure wouldn’t immediately jump into a relationship with you. You’d have to work for it and show him your value / worth above and beyond his other options. The guys who you think probably won’t commit to you - you view them as having higher value, because a lower value guy with fewer options would certainly commit. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 11 | As a Woman, Why Are We Attracted to These MenBecause you’re attracted to men with options. Redpill teaches guys how to behave as if they have options, until eventually they do in fact have options. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Retarded Tinder bio questionDude just say “Fighter” and call it a day. Say less. Mystery is your friend. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Has it ever happened where a girl rejects you, but then she hits you up a month or more later to hook up? Why does that happen, especially on Tinder?Absolutely not. You have b-team players too. She still thinks highly enough to draft you and give you minutes. That said, I don’t think I’d ever LTR a girl who put me on the B-team. Edit: you should obv strive to be on a-team. It’s been probably a year and a half since since I’ve felt like I was on anyone’s b-team. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?No. Stop worrying so much about this girl. I want you to fire up tinder / dating apps right now and send as many messages to matches as you can | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?No dude. Don’t do that. Just say “cool” then wait until you know she’s back by other means (snap story, etc.) Once you know she’s back, just propose something. If you ask her when she’ll be back, you come off as desperate bc clearly you’re waiting to get another nut in with her since you have no other girls. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?I told you to wait 7-14 days. You waited 5. That was also a shitty text. You needed to include a plan in there. “What’re you up to, let’s hang out tonight” | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to have plates on fb ?If they ask, let them add you. If they don’t, don’t add them bc who cares. This is not something you should be even remotely worried about. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to have plates on fb ?Why? Don’t add them. Who fucking cares. Let them add you. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Has it ever happened where a girl rejects you, but then she hits you up a month or more later to hook up? Why does that happen, especially on Tinder?Or the other dude pumped and dumped, kept flaking, disrespected her, etc. - any of a million things | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 04:57 PM |
| 15 | Has it ever happened where a girl rejects you, but then she hits you up a month or more later to hook up? Why does that happen, especially on Tinder?Or another dude in the picture. He falls out of the picture (even temporarily) and she gives the backup dick another tryout. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Past Problem with LTR haunting me againHe’s checking her phone routinely. Clearly he cares... | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Past Problem with LTR haunting me againIt took me 30 years to understand this. But I finally get it now after a recent breakup. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 06:05 PM |
| 18 | Past Problem with LTR haunting me againThere is something you lose. It’s a crutch. You will continue viewing yourself as this weak man who can’t end bad relationships, and who doesn’t have the abundance to walk away, until one day you come to the same realization I did and you aren’t. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 44 | Past Problem with LTR haunting me againHere’s the deal man. You won’t do any of what I’m about to tell you, but come back to this comment after the relationship unravels. Let me also just say I understand where you’re coming from. I’ve always been one to give women too long of a leash once I get in relationships. “Maybe we can talk through it” - lmao. But I’ve finally had an epiphany on this. First of all, you do not trust this woman, hence why you’re looking into her phone. Because you don’t trust her, you should not be dating her. … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone else have more success being a “natural” purple pill guy instead of a “forced” redpill guy?Could be a simple explanation. Let’s say Channing Tatum is cold to a girl. She might pull herself out of the running for a relationship because she knows there’s literally no shot. Now if he goes a little beta and validates them and chases a little, they’re gonna freak, eat it up and try to wife him down. Similar concept could apply here if you’re 6’3 and jacked. Plus push / pull is the name of the game. I’m sure you’re mixing in some push with the pull stuff in your post. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 44 | My "Zeroed Out" Story - Advice RequestedTough read man. I feel for you. Harder struggle than most. Couple minor pieces of advice: If you haven’t already, I’d suggest you start looking into stoicism. Will give you plenty of really insightful philosophical ways you can look at what happened to you and help you navigate the future. Secondly, you ever think about saying fuck it and moving to like Singapore or somewhere crazy? Maybe you need a totally new start to fully appreciate the time you have left. Good luck man. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Do you guys fuck 6’s and below?Yeah. Sex ain’t that important. If I’m not attracted, I’m not gonna hit it. I’d rather not waste time, effort and potential sleep on some wildebeest just to get a nut. Sex is about a lot more than the nut imo. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Starting to get OneitisYou fucked up. Don’t go exclusive until you’re ready to officially date. And this only happens after she brings up the talk a few times. If you just wanted to go raw, you should’ve implied she’s your number 1, and you really enjoy being with her with you’re together - that said, you don’t want to be exclusive with someone until you’re officially dating, yet you’ll use condoms in all other situations. It’s too late now. She conquered you without even having to date you. The jig is up. She knows y… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?Up to you but I’d go low effort. If you’re only calling her because she calls you, that puts you in her frame. Do what YOU want to do. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?Some guys on here get it wrong in my opinion. You have a short leash with LTRs and next them quickly when they cross your boundaries. You don’t need to next plates quickly unless they do something seriously disrespectful. Who cares they’re just a fuck toy. But an example of something disrespectful would be 2 or 3 last minute flakes in a row. Then you draw a hard line and next her because she’s fucking with your time / schedule. I’d let 1 last minute flake slide though. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?No don’t bring up the flaking. She understands it’s unacceptable bc you didn’t text her again for 2 weeks. Soft next is probably not the right term for this though. But I’ve seen it used or defined different ways. Technically soft next means you will not contact her again unless she texts you first. But in this instance, I’m using it to mean not initiating or contacting her for a set period of time defined by you. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?She prob won’t reschedule that since it’s not really a planned date. If she declines and doesn’t offer an alternative, don’t drop her. Don’t be butthurt. What would you do if you could text 5 more girls and one of them would def come over? You’d tell this other chick “alright another time ya nerd” or something like that. Then hit up your other girls. Assuming that’s how it plays out, try one more time 7-14 days later again. This time propose a specific date. If she flakes / declines on that, the… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Plate of 10 weeks acts cold and flakes for the first time ever. How to produce?Not a month. 7-14 days. I would personally wait closer to 14 days in this instance. However, in the meantime, put all of your mental energy into other plates / spinning up new ones if you don’t have any others. Also your next invite should be more low effort. If she’s choosing another guy over you, proposing some extravagant plan will just make you look like the more beta one. Pretend nothing happened and hit her up with a “what’re you doing tonight, come over later” type text. Then proceed to b… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 9 | I think a plate fucked a different guyWe think she’s your plate. And you’re her plate. Grow up. Who cares. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 05:53 AM |
| 10 | Who is a real life examples of Alpha male?Corey Worthington Edit: not necessarily him the actual person, but him in that interview | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Yeah we broke up tho. And haven’t spoken for over two weeks. And I already dropped her shit off at her apt. If I just say hey what’s up or whatever, while keeping plausible deniability, isn’t that going to make her think I just miss her and want the relationship back? From my perspective, I think she’d be tempted to ghost that so she feels like the relationship ended on her terms with me wanting to get back together. Maybe I’ll just say hey wyd or hey wanna meet up tonight. Then leave the remain… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileNah man. I don’t think your issue is smiling necessarily. It’s that your profile lacks social proof. No smiling + no social proof gives off serial killer vibes. But if you had social proof in your pics, smiling would be less important. You should have a couple pics of you by yourself, as well as a couple pics with friends. Stagger them and make sure the first pic is just you alone. Also, drop the baby pic. You’re tryna fuck, not wife up these tinder sluts. They don’t care if you’re good father m… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Yeah if I tried to plate her, not sure I’d send a feeler text first. Don’t want her to think I want the relationship back and that’s why I’m texting. But if I did do it, I’d prob hit her up and say something like this: “Hey I dunno if u hate me but if not wanna hang out tonight” “We can talk about what it means another time if you need that” I normally never plate exes, but this one didn’t end terribly. I just didn’t want to be in an LTR with her anymore. And I think I’ve been less emotionally i… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Lmao. True. Maybe I’m just acting a fool. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Yeah for sure. Again, it’s not like I think I can’t get it again. Obviously can and will. It’s more so that I think it might take a while. So I think that’s giving me some unwanted thoughts about potentially plating my ex in the meantime. I dunno, would prob rather not have these thoughts. That’s why I asked for advice. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Yeah but the thing that’s annoying me is I’ll have to put in a decent amount of time to get them there / ready for it. Like I can’t just get it on tap anymore. And I hate the fact it’s making me even contemplate hitting my ex-LTR up to plate her. Hence the scarcity... | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Hypothetically if I tried to plate her again, would you give it a few more weeks so she has enough time to process the relationship being over? I wouldn’t want it to get messy, and thinking 2 weeks probably isn’t enough time for her to digest we’re no longer exclusive and wouldn’t be going forward. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Scarcity mentality about a specific thing my ex-LTR brought to the table - any advice?Hahah. Might pass on the grindr advice. I think dominance / submission is a part of it, so you’re right there are other ways to get the same feeling. But it’s also the fact it requires time and effort, and you can’t reasonably expect to get it at the drop of a hat. I’m definitely over the relationship. Maybe I’m just not over the sex? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys stop/prevent anticipatory anxiety?Meditate. Turn that nervous anxiety into excitement. Very similar physical signatures. You can learn how to do this through meditation. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 03:27 AM |
| 9 | Where am I right and where am I wrong?You gotta be trolling with this. You simply can’t be serious. Dump her you loser. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 19 | What crucial parts of trp did you ignore way too long?AWALT. Sometimes I still feel like I get involved with certain women who are different, who I can logically explain things to. Nope. It’s not about what you say, it’s about how they feel. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Soft-Next or full no contact? Failed availability trapYour plan should be to focus all your energy on spinning up other plates, since this is clearly your only one. Aka this is your girlfriend, but you are not her boyfriend. If you had a few more in the chamber, you wouldn’t be sweating this trivial shit and plotting out the course of action over the next couple weeks with this one girlTM So find more plates and stop worrying about her. But so as to not be a dick and address your question, don’t be butt hurt about this. If she was actually just a p… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 8 | Advice about ltr lying to meYup. I know you won’t drop the relationship over this OP, you’ll rationalize it as really no big deal. No harm no foul. We’ve all been there. I was just rationalizing some bullshit from an LTR recently too. Thing is, these are red flags for a reason. She lies about small shit, she’ll lie about big shit. She’s also gaslighting, which is another red flag. This will happen again, except next time the stakes will be higher (and you’ll prob have less concrete proof). You have two options: 1) break up… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Do women self sabotage to avoid rejection? How to avoid this and play it to your advantage?Yes I think there’s validity to this. They can’t leave you because you’re too good for them, and they’re too weak to leave on their own. But they know feel like you’re not in it for the long haul, so they feel like they’re wasting their time. Instead of breaking up with you, they’ll do some fucked up shit to get you to leave them. Or to test if you’re really a beta behind closed doors, and you’ll put up with more than you lead on. I actually just went through something very similar. I think what… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How to come off as a valuable person over text/phone?To add to this OP, I can feel your need for validation oozing through your post. Look at me mommy! Look at how I’m the life of the party! You need to flip the script on these hoes. Make them qualify themselves to you. Start talking more in statements. Ask less questions. You know, like what they do to us to get us to fall into their frame. I’m gonna delete this pic, but I think this was a good example of what I’m talking about (from earlier today). Notice how I don’t ask her to guess my sign. I … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 7 | What does this mean, and what do I do?Dude you’re an idiot. And now she thinks you broke up with your girlfriend over some chick you texted for an hour? Really thought that one through huh Einstein... | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Frustration / mindset about not getting sex on the first dateShe proves herself to you. Not the other way around. And that’s partially why you’re probably not having the success you want on first dates. A while back I wrote a guide on the main sub about getting laid on the first date. I have my weaknesses, but I think I’ve at least figured out the first date part. Here read it: Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First Date | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 27 | What would you do if you are dating a girl and she keeps meantioning her ex?“My ex could make me squirt” is a legit random comment she made directly to you? Hahaha wow. Umm yeah bro....plate at best. Stop “dating” this girl. Tbh I might not even keep as a plate depending on what my rotation looks like. That’s not a shit test. More so just disrespect. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend who's pursuing a career in acting is playing a role where she's being kissed/fucked by some another actor.Yup. OP you can’t go back on this now. You don’t threaten. You have boundaries, and you take action when they’re crossed. She will either cross this boundary or resent you for not taking the role. In my opinion, you should’ve never dated this women if that’s a boundary you have. You really expected this women to sacrifice her career for you? If so, by all means go for it, but I doubt you’ll find too many women willing to sabotage their careers for a guy. Next time date a women who’s career you’r… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 02:12 PM |
| 7 | First time smoking weed?It’s not the drug that’s the problem, it’s how you use it. Use it wisely and it can be helpful. Abuse it and it won’t be. Just like alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Any chance of getting a short-term relationship ex who dumped me back as a plate in the near future?Ok so you’re saying she won’t reach out, since she dumped you and her pussy gets dry thinking about you compared to her ex, and yet you think if you text her it will be different? Just go fuck other girls man. If she comes back, cool, if not, who cares. Stop with the “maybe I could fuck her one more time if only...” scarcity bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Shit test questionWhy are you getting mad about the nature of women you sperg virgin? Women will always shit test you. They just want to know you’re really who you’re portraying yourself as. Just keep passing her shit tests, no harm no foul. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 5 | First date ideas.Most high quality girls won’t fuck you on first date anyways Meh. Don’t disqualify yourself from fucking her. Maybe a good amount won’t on first date, but I wouldn’t go as far as you are and assume she won’t. Be the guy she makes “exceptions” for. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | When is double texting acceptableAs long as you’re not double texting with questions, it’s not a huge deal. Just make sure if you do have to double text, they’re both statements. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 18 | Am I delusional by thinking of settling down with a woman who has more SMV than me?She’s a single mom who’s 37 and you’re 28. If her SMV is higher than yours, you got more important shit to figure out than anything related to this woman. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | What is the sluttiest female you’ve ever met?Once was leaving a wedding. Was a groomsman so in full tux. We have an afterparty with the wedding crew, that dies down, then everyone disperses. Groom’s younger brother catches me as I’m trying to go home to sleep. He goes, I know all the bars are closing right now, but what if we just tried to catch girls waiting for ubers. I’m like bro, that has never worked in the history of cocksmanship, but you’re my guys younger brother, so sure. Let’s rip it and see what happens. Instantly start talking … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 2 | My LTR put up a cold front for no particular reason. Should I just ignore itI mean bro you just snapped at her and told her to get the fuck out because she was texting and didn’t want to eat. You think Leo DiCaprio would act that way? You yourself said she was doing it to get a reaction out of you. And guess what, you gave it to her. This is the beginning of your frame crumbling. But say a girl snaps at you and tells you to get the fuck out for texting. You think you’d hit her up the next day and be like wyd doll? Or would you expect an apology? Don’t necessarily apolog… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 79 | Is this plate broken?OP - the learning lesson here is once she flaked the first time, you don’t just go along with her next day reschedule. Now you seem like a loser who’s always free and desperately waiting to get another taste of the only pussy in your life. Proper response would’ve been “I can’t tomorrow, but let’s do xxx day instead” If she flakes on that future day, then you soft next for at least 10-14 days. One flake with a reschedule = ok Two flakes in a row or one flake without reschedule = soft next Three … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Showering TogetherWut dude? Y’all mfs need jesus. Nah but who cares. She pees on you in the shower? Then open up the fire hydrant on her. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | My LTR put up a cold front for no particular reason. Should I just ignore itI wouldn’t have told her to “get tf out.” Right message, but wrong temperature. You triggered her ego. I would’ve said something like, “ok I think you should go home, I don’t want you to be here if you don’t want to be here.” If you said that, she probably would’ve snapped out of it. Although kinda depends on what you want. If you don’t want to see her again, your approach was better. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | How do I distance without losing interest?Read it. Oddly enough, it’s about methods for having sex like a god. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 3 | How do I distance without losing interest?Then maybe your dick game ain’t all that. Have you read sex god method? If not, read and begin testing out some of those concepts. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with your girls orbiters?I meant put up with overt and open hypergamous behavior. It’s one thing to know she’s hypergamous in nature. It’s another thing for her to openly rub it in your face. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys deal with your girls orbiters?Meh. You’re probably right, but not necessarily. Not tryna make you insecure or anything, but she could’ve deleted the incriminating texts. And she could’ve shown you for a few reasons that aren’t necessarily good. She could be shit testing you to see if you’re a beta and would put up with her hypergamous behavior (edit - when she’s rubbing it in your face). And if she senses you’re a beta, she could be intentionally acting out to try to get you to break up with her, so she doesn’t have to deal … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with your girls orbiters?Is he legit an orbiter? Or do you think she might have some interest / is flirting back? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 7 | How do I distance without losing interest?Dude you can’t “play hard to get” until you fuck them at least a couple times. Before that, it just comes off as disinterested. And they have a million other guys hitting them up. Strike while the irons hot. Distance after fucking a few times if she does something you don’t like. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 3 | How to better internalize the concepts i learnPractice. Pretend we’re talking about a jump shot in basketball. You watch a couple YouTube vids explaining proper shooting form. You go to the court for the first time and shoot some shots. What do you expect to happen? You know what you’re supposed to do, but you need to practice and practice until you can do what you’re “supposed” to do routinely. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 50 | Why do I still act awkward AF around people I used to be super beta/awkward around?That’s part of the reason it’s always better to start fresh with a new woman after you lose frame and it falls apart. Much harder to permanently change your behavior around people with whom you used to behave differently. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 17 | Failed Comfort Test, or light switch?You’re deering as much as possible and your frame already crumbled. At first, it may not have been a shit test, and instead just pure psycho/BPD shit. Now it’s a shit test. After her first message about needing to be honest, you should’ve just said “I get it. We’re on the same page” Say less dude. Say less. Also, this girl is crazy. Watch out. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 58 | What do you do when you break frame?Uhhh dude you aren’t plating your boss are you? Because sometimes you need to operate in your bosses frame Just like a girl should be operating in your frame as captain of the ship | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Would I seem insecure to text that?No don’t. Just say “never mind, let’s just do another time” Then go radio silent on her for a few days / a week. Try again after that time goes by and act like nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Trouble being sexual with girl/ asking for sexual stuff?Bro girls will not initiate sex with you. You are the man. You initiate sex. They are either down or they’re not. Read Bang by Roosh V. The book actually kinda sucks, but there’s one specific chapter / sequence that’s applicable. It’s about escalating, pulling back if you get resistance, and then re-engaging and escalating further. Wash, rinse and repeat until you finally get the cookie. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 18 | 'What do you do for work?'Yup this one works. I usually add something cheeky like “the store manager is such a dick” Or I’ll say I’m an astronaut. OP - use mystery to your advantage. Eventually you’ll prob need to elaborate. But just say your main source of income is from investing, but you keep a day job to stay busy. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledYeah I kinda agree. But pulling back in this specific instance seems wrong too. For example, I did pull back when this happened in my most recent relationship. All of the behavior in the write up was present leading up to the ultimate end, but when the end came, it was after she declined plans and didn’t offer an alternative for the first time. I didn’t respond. She quadrupled texted me with kiss emojis and jokes about how I hate kissing her goodnight. I finally responded after hours went by and… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledThe whole write up is spot on. This just happened to me as well. Not sure exactly what the takeaway is yet. I think first and foremost, you can’t let yourself get dependent or attached to any one woman until perhaps you have kids with her? Outside of that, I have two thoughts. Either as soon as she starts building and increasingly relying on support networks / friends outside of you, it means you need to dive deeper into things that aren’t her. Alternatively, once she starts doing that, as long … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 03:33 PM |
| 403 | My LTR (7 years) Just Moved OutDo not let her cook for you. She’s just trying to break you as a man. She wants to know she destroyed you, she’s better than you and she made the right decision. Do not give her that satisfaction. Do not beg for her back. It’s over. In fact, you should tell her you have other plans now, but you’ll leave her stuff with the doorman. Trust me. You will just cringe at yourself years later if you let her come over to make dinner, profess your undying love, and she just calmly tells you she loves you … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Best way to check her without comming off as butt hurt ?Unless her next communication is an invitation to hang out, just don’t respond. Hit her up a week later proposing a low effort meet up. Act like nothing happened. She’ll get it. Less attention from her means less attention from you. She’ll have to determine if that’s what she wants. And if she actually likes you, she probably won’t want less attention from you in the future. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 8 | How to convince girl to come visit youCome visit x weekend. I’ll plan a little adventure for us | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | LTR hasn’t posted me on her social mediaI mean it’s unlikely. You’ve already shown considerable cracks in your armor. She will feel compelled to exploit this perceived weakness in the future, and while you’re in oneitis mode, it will be difficult to hold frame. Go ahead and try - it will end poorly. But sometimes we all need to learn lessons the hard way. I don’t think this lesson will set in from some strangers’ comments on the internet the same way it would if it happens to you in real life. Next time you’re in this position - try t… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriends/wives - is it standard practice for them to talk shit about their partners/relationship to their friends?Yup. Women will always yap about shit. That said, the more insecure they are or if they have abandonment issues, I believe the more likely they are to talk shit about you. They go into ego protection mode when they do not feel secure in their ability to keep you. They try to convince their friends (and themselves) that you’re not all that, in preparation for the inevitable breakup. Odds are someone gets into relationships with these types of women because they themselves have some insecurities o… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 4 | LTR hasn’t posted me on her social mediaBro. Abort mission. Your frame is in the gutter. Go retrieve your frame and start over with a new woman. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | How to convince girl to come visit youCome over x night. I have wine | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 32 | When a woman say she was/is in an abusive relationship or marriage, Abusive is a Code word for women.Bingo. Real abuse exists, but more often than not, that isn’t what they’re referring to. What they’re really saying is this: “I couldn’t live up to a non-simp’s expectations of what a relationship entails. He never really cared, because I wasn’t really girlfriend material, so either he finally broke things off or I finally acted out. If I acted out, it’s because hypergamy made me do it. And either way, I had to turn him into the villain to protect my ego and save face amongst friends and family … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 9 | how long to wait to reply to messages after she has pulled backDude she’s taking 18 hours to respond. Find other plates. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What to do when girl shit tests you with “you’re text replies are so shit”Just emphasize it | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Banging girls from dating apps while living with parentsNah don’t tell her the truth. She doesn’t deserve an explanation at that stage. Just say you can’t go to your place, no explanation necessary. Let her hamster try to figure out why. Maybe it’s because you have a girlfriend? Who knows!! The hamster certainly doesn’t.. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Banging girls from dating apps while living with parentsDrive to the date spot. Ask about her living situation on date. If she doesn’t live with parents, offer to drive her home. By the time you drive her home, you should’ve already escalated a little bit, to the point she expects you to come in when you get there. If not, you can always ask to use the bathroom once you’re there. Once inside, let her settle in and ask her for a tour, etc before proceeding to escalate further. If she does live with her parents, you’re prob shit out of luck that first … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Plate flaking, when to reinitiate?When they flake, you don’t immediately propose an alternative. Makes you look thirsty af. Instead, just pull back for a few days, see your other plates, do shit with friends, etc. Then after a few days / a week goes by, hit her up again like nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 17 | Escalating a Tinder Match for a Direct-to-Home LayThere’s three camps of girls in terms of their interest level in you. There’s the fuck yes camp, the maybe camp and the no camp. No text game is necessary for the fuck yes camp. And no text game will move a girl from the no camp into a different camp. Text game is basically used to convert the maybe camp into the yes camp. But the girls in the maybe camp probably won’t agree to a same night meet up anyway, since they need time to digest and mentally move you into a different camp. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?Also - what would you say analytic philosophy is helpful with in terms of real life applications? Assuming there are helpful real life applications, do you have a decent intro book recommendation? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?I know this. I’ve read pook’s book. I wasn’t even probing. We’ve talked about having a threesome together before. Either way it’s a moot point because we broke up for good last night. I was sensing the light switch effect so I just ended it. Wasn’t super sold on the relationship to begin with, but figured I’d give it a try during covid while gyms were shut down. Gyms just reopened in my city, stuff is starting to open up again, etc. It was time for the relationship to end. I called her last nigh… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?Yeah prob my biggest weakness. I’m just so logic oriented. Hard for me to process logic being counterintuitive. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 0 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?What do you mean don’t ask it in a place where she can deny it like that? What would the alternative be? I also didn’t really ask anything. Just stated I heard that convo in the story. Tbh prob would’ve never said it to begin with, but she happened to call me right after I watched. I let it out so I didn’t act passive aggressive and bring it up later. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?I mean it wasn’t a shit test. It was a test. Men test people all the time. Tf you talking about. Ever heard of hazing? Bullying? Giving difficult tasks at work? Men always try to figure out what kind of person they’re dealing with. That’s not a shit test. It’s just a test. EDIT: wait it actually was a shit test lol. I called her toxic and gaslighty bc she always says I’m those things. I don’t treat it like a real statement when she says it to me so yeah shit test lol. Was also kinda joking but w… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?Yeah for sure. I already know not to believe women’s words. I’m pretty skilled at detecting lies tho, good liar myself, so sometimes I ask just to gage their response. I know they’re going to deny either way, but my interpretation is based on the nature of their response. Not the content. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 08:06 PM |
| -1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?Hahah yeah. Feels weird getting a taste of my own medicine. Is it a big deal coming from a woman tho? I feel like the “ok” means more coming from a woman than it does a guy. I obviously don’t wanna be in a relationship with someone who’s checked out. So that’s why I’m asking if it’s light switch effect or just somewhat normal dismissiveness. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?Yeah I wasn’t mad at all until she got defensive and tried to make me into the bad guy. Prob shoulda just said “ok” myself instead of deering. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 07:34 PM |
| -1 | LTR dismissive for the first time - any idea how I should proceed?Yeah first of all I didn’t even care. I was using it as an opening to talk about us having a threesome. Until she got all huffy and defensive. Second of all, I agree. But that day she posted on IG for the first time since we’ve been dating. I was golfing and didn’t check my phone for hours. She started blowing me up asking if I liked the pic. So finally I check it and like it. Then watch her friends stories who she was with that day and tagged in the pic. And then my LTR called me right after I … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl that wants me as BF will ask if I slept with a girl who I just visited (Yes I did)You could pressure flip instead. Her: “did you two fuck?” You: “were you a virgin before we met?” | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you get annoyed if a girl you’re seeing/hooking up with doesn’t like your instagram pictures?She just put your brain in an absolute pretzel. Do not, I repeat, do not bring it up. If anything, just return the favor. Then she prob won’t do it again. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on this. Shit test or what?No one is giving you advice because it’s clear you haven’t read the sidebar. You already have oneitis. You’re not assuming the sale (treat everything like a shit test and let her actually reject you). And you’re not getting to the point - propose plans already (you’re not her pen pal, shit or get off the pot). | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on this. Shit test or what?Yeah so maybe she’s a 7 or 8 in NYC. Cool man. A 10 is like Alexis Ren or something. Not sure exactly why I want to make this clarification. But I think the point is stop being full of shit. No one likes the dude who’s full of shit. Instead, strive be able to say the same stuff, but have it actually be reality in the future. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on this. Shit test or what?10 lmao. There has never been a 10 in the history of 10s voice messaging some random guy she hasn’t boned “good morning.” That’s 6 behavior at best lmao. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Best time to treat her like shit. Hormonal question.Don’t intentionally treat her like shit. Instead, you just don’t really care that much because you know you can pull other chicks if this one malfunctions, plus you have other more important shit to focus on. There’s a difference between those two things. Even though she might feel like “you treat her like shit” in both examples. The difference is you’re just an asshole in the first example. But to answer your question - more alpha while she’s ovulating, more beta while she’s on period. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | “You’re never romantic with me” - shit test or comfort test?Yeah thanks man. I never check that sub. Prob need to read that sidebar and brush up on those concepts. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | “You’re never romantic with me” - shit test or comfort test?Yeah that’s kinda been my approach with stuff like this. Treat it like a shit test. But hard for me to tell when it’s actually a comfort test instead. I can beat down shit tests all day. Think I’m lacking in ability to correctly diagnose and respond to true comfort tests tho. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | “You’re never romantic with me” - shit test or comfort test?Yeah I’ve seen that too. It just gets confusing sometimes trying to interpret if it’s about her or about me. Like if she said “why don’t you like me” or “why don’t you want to date me” Is that about her or about me? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Trust issuesWhat types of examples are we talking about here? Why do you need to trust people to have your back? Are you going to war? Like what are we actually talking about here? People are self serving. This is pretty much just a fact of life. So I’m curious what you’re expecting from these people who don’t have your back? What did they do specifically? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Did not open car door, women got upsetAgree. Sounds like someone who definitely wouldn’t be in the potential LTR category. But might as well see how she responds when you pass a shit test. Maybe she’ll just drop it. And you’re already there, might as well try to smash at that point... | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Did not open car door, women got upsetOP should’ve made a joke. Any joke. It’s a shit test. “Are your hands broken?” “I mean I know you’re weak, but didn’t realize you were too weak to open the door” Then generally speaking, I usually open non-car doors. Except sometimes I’ll open it, scurry in first and close it behind me. Then turn around with a slight smirk on my face as she sits there flabbergasted behind the door I just shut in her face. Then we laugh and proceed on in... | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 5 | My LTR keeps disrespecting Bach (haha) and I'm about to snap; what is a man supposed to do?Lmfao @ this. At first I thought it had to be satire but nah this for real Simple solution tho. Spike her afternoon tea with 30 tabs and fire up Spotify. She’ll get it | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Plate ghosted me for 4 daysYeah do not contact again for like 2 weeks here. Then open back up with something innocent. Like not even an invite. And they if she responds, tell her let’s hang out xxx night. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you tried psychedelics before? How did it affect you?Ego death. That’s what it is. We all constantly tell ourselves stories about who we are and what we can and can’t do. Psychedelics strip your ego away at least temporarily, showing you the possibilities of what you could or couldn’t be without your ego. Ego is a good thing in many aspects, but it can also be a bad thing that holds you back unnecessarily sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doI’m not sure how I didn’t catch this comment a few days ago. Actually really helpful. Wish I remembered this distinction. Kinda fucked up with some deering | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 8 | Have any of you tried psychedelics before? How did it affect you?Ease into it. Start off small and ease your way up. Go into it with an intention. Don’t just do it to get fucked up. Do it to explore something about yourself / your environment. Keep in mind set and setting are paramount. Research that term if you don’t know what I’m talking about. Godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doSo are you saying that’s a normal text and not something that would raise flags for you? I mean I think your interpretation is plausible, but I’m leaning more towards there was at least some truth to that text. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doI’ve def gotten complacent. Covid made me pack it in on wasting effort on new chicks for a bit. Other plates left my city and went home temporarily. This girl stayed and things progressed. Outside of the pleading to date thing, she’s been as solid as they come. Very compliant. Never turns down sex. Anal. And it’s not like she always nags me about the dating thing. It probably started 4 months into plate status. And she’s probably brought it up like 6-8 times over the next 4 months. Each time I j… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doIt’s peppered throughout the comments. I guess I thought it went without saying I would only be willing to give dating a shot if I wanted to do it more than I didn’t. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doGood point | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doWell I guess I’m wondering if she truly didn’t want to date and was just trying to beta-fy me by getting me to agree to it. Or if she said that to her friend as a defense mechanism to protect her ego because she felt like I was wasting her time. My decision to move forward with dating or not kinda hinges on that. But I will say she would have to be a pretty epic actor for the former to be true, yet I’m not ruling it out given how manipulative women can be. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doI’m willing to give it a shot. But will probably have a pretty short leash if it’s not working. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doBecause she’s really done nothing wrong aside from this whole dating thing. And I need to practice my relationship skills since I typically just spin plates. And given the fact covid limiting some optionality, I think now is as good a time as ever to give it a shot. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doYeah I mean I hate opening up so the one word responses and “just taking everything in” type answers are my preferred mode of operation anyway (although granted I’ve said more than I typically do recently). But I guess the thing I’m unsure about is how to handle this impending talk tonight. I know she’s going to ask if I still want to date her or if I changed my mind. She already asked it this morning but I avoided the question. As far as my motivations are concerned, in an ideal world, I’d rath… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doWell yeah. She used to be a plate, but wouldn’t be accurate to call her just a plate now. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doI mean I do. But only kinda. Part of it is for growth purposes. I mean on paper she’s great. We get along great, she doesn’t nag me outside of the dating thing, she’s generally pretty open and honest, she gives me the freedom I need, always down for sex. Blah blah blah. I just normally don’t get into relationships, and feel like now might be a good time to practice relationship skills given covid’s affect on limiting options anyway. So like I kinda do. But also wouldn’t lose too much sleep over … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doI respect this comment. I already acted on your advice about making her work for it. I’m paraphrasing, but in separate comments throughout the course of our back and forth, I said something along the lines of the following: I’m fine with keeping things as they were. It’s not like I’m ever dying to be in a relationship in the first place, and based on your reaction, I get impression you were like a dog chasing cars and wouldn’t know what to do if you caught one. I guess I’m not convinced you’re s… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doOr instead of my other response, are you implying she feels alone and I provide the near term solution to not feeling alone? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doAre you implying she said that to protect her ego and make herself feel better about the situation? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doSo what do you think should I do? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 6 | Pothead Girls - Turnoff? Red flag?Yeah bro. This is the answer. It’s not the drug that’s the problem. It’s how one uses it that could be the problem. I like to hit my pen before the gym too. Keeps me present and focused on my workout as opposed to thinking about all the other shit I need to do instead. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Splitting the tabIf you do it properly and hold frame after she throws a barrage of shit tests your way, splitting the bill on a first date will have better short term results for sure (assuming your goal is to fuck and spin as plate). That said, she will tell your friends you made her split the bill. Plus she will try to hold it over you and bring it up from time to time if things progress towards a relationship. But again, if you hold frame, it’s nothing she can’t get past. Also depends on what she does for a … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Man defends girlfriend, she flips out and becomes terrified of himYeah I mean obviously I don’t have the full story so had to make some assumptions. But seems like you get it. She was just looking for her excuse. Nothing you could do at that point other than apply dread. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Man defends girlfriend, she flips out and becomes terrified of himBro I’m not sure this is what you want to hear, but reading between the lines, I interpret this story to mean she wanted out of the relationship, and this is her excuse. Or possibly that she wasn’t sure about the relationship, and got scared thinking about what might happen if she broke it off seemingly without reason. I think what you need to reflect on is what could’ve made her unsure or feel like she wanted out. Did she get to see these anxieties or depression issues? Girls don’t like seeing … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Nah my point was that I don’t want it come off as butt hurt. But I’m also not really in the mood today. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Yeah I agree with you. Not lying when I said I’m not that horny today, but like I said elsewhere, normally I’d just suck it up and bang anyway. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Yeah yeah. I feel this. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Cool. Thanks bro. Appreciate the insight | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Nah she just already said she can’t keep subjecting herself to me continuing to cancel on her. I told her I’d try to be more considerate of her time and I intend to keep my word. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 04:25 PM |
| -1 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Not sure I can get away with rescheduling again. It’s been kinda my MO. I always cancel on her and reschedule. It’s become an issue, and based on what she’s said, I think she’s at the end of her rope in terms of me cancelling and rescheduling. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | She turned down sex for the first time; is it a mistake to return the favor?Well it’s true that I’m less horny than normal at the moment. But normally I’d prob just suck it up and bang anyway. So would at least partially be tied to her turning me down last time. Sounds like that would be a mistake? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | When was TRP wrong?Texting for logistics only. This is to prevent the spergs from overdoing it, and I agree that initially you should keep texting to a minimum. But after you’ve banged a plate at least a few times, it’s ok to toss in a meme or a little banter here and there. As long as you’re still leading most of these exchanges to meet ups and texting less than her. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Blindsided by LTR, what's going on?Bro. No matter how much you say you’re the shit, you’re clearly not as awesome as you say. You think Brad Pitt would write a wall of text like this over some girl who cheated on her boyfriend with him? Like if you’re that awesome, you’d realize all girls are replaceable. I know easier said than done. But I truly believe you’re lying to yourself and have more internal work to do. In your head, for whatever reason, you don’t believe you’re as awesome as you say you are outwardly. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?Ok along the line of what I was gonna say. OP is trying to use red pill themes for blue pill goals. OP - have you ever spun 3+ plates at a time? Have you ever actually felt abundance? I have a feeling you keep getting into exclusive relationships. In order to be able to internalize red pill, you need to know what abundance truly feels like. It’s not enough to know what it should feel like. But once you realize you can get girls whenever you try, they lose a lot of their power over you. But when … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Caught oneitis for a plate that's NOT relationship material. Despite my logic of knowing she'd never be a halfway decent LTR I can't get the idea out if my head. Any suggestions?Yeah dude. Once you get to a point of a abundance, like all girls have, you realize just how off putting it is when chicks are desperate for your sack. It’s like relax bitch I got other shit to do. Maybe if you just chilled out I’d see you again, but this desperation is so off putting. Then you realize that’s how they feel when you’re on the other side of it. Really puts it into perspective how much being needy kills your chances. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 04:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah that’s what I’m saying. Maybe she comes right out and admits it, which is best case for her, and then maybe I don’t need to do anything. But worse case, if she’s def lying, I don’t say anything and just demote her back to plate. Really can’t lose here. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Meh. I’m already over it. She’s just a plate again in my head. I just broke in her ass for first time and wanna keep taking it for a spin. I don’t even care enough right now to text. Only gonna prod in person cause I’m actually curious about the test and want to see how she reacts in person (i.e. if she keeps up the lie or admits on her own). But worst case scenario, I’ll never actually question her on it. Just demoting back to plate. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?It was for the covid antibody test so perfectly reasonable for me to ask about it in person. I mean I’m genuinely curious what the deal was. I’d ask either way prob. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?She sent me a pic of the bruise and I know she was planning on getting her blood drawn this week. So she’s not trying to hide the bruise. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Why not in person? EDIT. I feel like if I texted it would come off as insecure and like I’m prodding. Whereas I can control the situation better in person with an unfazed attitude. I think if I text it she’ll have a better chance of flipping the script on me and making me seem insecure. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yup. I’m not gonna say anything. At most just give a sarcastic face in person and see if she admits on her own. Judging from our dynamic, I’m betting she will. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah that’s exactly what I meant by playing dumb and prodding. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah exactly. That’s why I knew I had to wait before replying. Went for a run. Came back and makes sense now. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah I was gonna prod in person. Play dumb and get her to confirm her lie. Then at most give a sarcastic face and demote back down to plate. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:07 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Very very true. Thanks bro. I’ve come around to this line of thinking. Glad I waited before saying anything. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah I was thinking that or Pinocchio gif then refusing to elaborate and acting like nothings up. Or just act like nothings up, then play dumb and prod to gage her reaction in person. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah agree. I don’t mind lies if I understand the motive. Like maybe she’s trying to impress me and makes up a story or fact. Like that I get and it’s not a big deal. Here I don’t understand the motive, which is why it rubs me the wrong way. Feels like a big red flag. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?7:39am. Eastern standard. Nothing would be open then. Plus she woulda had to go and come back to her apartment and be back in bed by that time. Just not feasible whatsoever. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Saved it from iMessage to my phone. Shows date/time it was taken. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 4 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Well it’s been 5 months now. I was vetting her for an LTR. Not just a reg plate. Would never ask if it was just a reg plate. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 5 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Yeah that’s kinda the way I was leaning anyway. But like if I feel like a dude is lying to me, I’d call him out on his bullshit or make it known that I know. It’s weird I’m like a human lie detector. And I just find it offensive when someone thinks they can pull a fast one on me. Even if it’s insignificant. That said, I lie too and I’m good at it so there’s definitely a double standard at play. I’m obviously not going to get into an argument with her over this. Not worth it and wouldn’t accompli… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 8 | What do you do when you know your girl is lying about something seemingly insignificant?Technically we’re not exclusive. I said my girl for simplicity purposes. But I’m still vetting. I promoted her from plate to FWB after like 4 months. Quarantine led us to begin spending more time together. Def an accelerated pace for me compared to normal. But sleepovers, etc. She asked about a potential relationship recently and I dealt with it appropriately. Told her I need more time, and that I understand if she wants to stop because she needs more. But that I like what we’re doing right now … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Bro it’s almost impossible to squash your oneitis feelings, while you’re still banging your oneitis. You gotta beat that shit before it starts, because once it does, it’s too late. What you should’ve done is recognized she’s an alpha widow from the start, or waited long enough to figure that out before investing emotionally. Then got your stupid brain to understand there’s no long term future here and there will never be, but might as well still enjoy yourself with her in the meantime. Too late … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Womanese translation for “diverging paths”I guess that’s a plausible explanation for “diverging paths” Her path sucks and my path doesn’t lol | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?Link a picture of yourself in the comments. Can always delete later. But I could tell you within 10 seconds whether it’s you or them. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:33 PM |
| 0 | "I won't be available for a week"Maybe - but cancelling plans twice in a row without even a hint of remorse does. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 19 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerThe other problem is I get the feeling you won’t actually leave her. She knows this. Which is why she’d even mention it in the first place. She’s testing your boundaries to see how much of a pussy you are. And you fucked this one up a long time ago, by somehow leading her to believe this would be acceptable. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Lately more interested in uglier women w/ unique appearance vs. hotter but “normal” looking women; why?Maybe. I normally don’t watch porn ever but been dabbling during quarantine. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Lately more interested in uglier women w/ unique appearance vs. hotter but “normal” looking women; why?Maybe. I’m thinking it’s cause I know I won’t care what they think whatsoever and can be a total freak maybe. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 04:45 PM |
| -1 | Lately more interested in uglier women w/ unique appearance vs. hotter but “normal” looking women; why?Doesn’t really matter. Nothing really matters. Just curious. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Lately more interested in uglier women w/ unique appearance vs. hotter but “normal” looking women; why?Guess I’m just feeling like I’m fucked up. Like why all of a sudden do I wanna degrade some chubby broad with tattoos vs hookup with a conventionally attractive normal chick. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Lately more interested in uglier women w/ unique appearance vs. hotter but “normal” looking women; why?Just added an edit to original post. It’s a recent change in preference so what’s why I’m curious. Not like I’ve always been this way. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Female solipsism at its finest. ExampleShe’s a plate. Not your girlfriend. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | I have to fake my personality around girls and it's exhaustingOP thinks he needs to be mr smooth outgoing dancing monkey guy around girls. Sometimes less is more. Once you figure out how to be the dancing monkey and get laid, try working towards a frame where they’re the dancing monkey and you can more or less kick back and observe. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?Got it. Thanks. I was thinking along those lines too. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?I edited my response before you replied. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?Dude, that would be a plate. Smh Plate > FWB > LTR | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?Well I appreciate you understanding the kind of input I’m asking for. Outside of you, just a bunch of spergs responding so far. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:12 PM |
| -3 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?Alright. You missed the point. Thanks tho. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:10 PM |
| -4 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?What is wrong with you guys. I’m actively thinking about moving her up the hierarchy. This sub has gone to shit. Edit: is this you saying don’t promote past plate? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:09 PM |
| -3 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?Thanks rook. You should check out the sidebar tho. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:08 PM |
| -2 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?Why would you assume we haven’t fucked. We’ve been fucking for a few months. But that’s all we’ve been doing. No hanging out outside the bedroom / apartment. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 13 | "Hoe Stage"Dude. Just be chad. Embrace the decline. No sense in fighting it. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 01:18 PM |
| 13 | I don’t get it...I’m pretty muscular and lean but girls aren’t looking at me/giving me IOI’s. What am I doing wrong?And judging by OP’s post history, there’s a zero percent chance he looks like Brad Pitt from Troy. OP - step one is actually getting off your ass and getting in good shape. Step two is not lying about bullshit on the internet to boost your ego. Step three and after can be trying to get girls. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Experiment - Rate/feedback on tinder profileYou don’t need three pics with other girls. They want to imagine you’re a player in their heads. They don’t want you flaunting it in their face. Keep the last pic with a girl, delete the other two. You also have prob too many pics. Pick the best 5-6 and delete the rest. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I give my gf head but she doesn’t give it back ?Is this sarcasm? I obviously initially assumed it was. Then I started thinking what if. She might get so fucking confused that it works lol. Not sure logistically where / how you’d jerk off, but if you figured that part out, would be funny. I might try it just to see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible that I’m 9.5 % bf?No you’re not. But even if you were, it wouldn’t matter cause you’re too small. Get bigger bro. Then you can worry about your body fat %. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Ghosted by plate - thoughts?Does that explain the ghost tho? I guess I just don’t understand the ghost cause I never use it. Maybe I should start.. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 12 | Ghosted by plate - thoughts?LOL | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Ghosted by plate - thoughts?Obviously plates break, just never seen one go from hot to cold that quick. Curious why. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Any book recommendations regarding attachment and letting go?I have the Gregory Hays translation. You should also read the Enchiridion. You can read all the popular translations here | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Any book recommendations regarding attachment and letting go?OP - to add more on this - stoicism will teach you to practice thinking about how the only thing you can control is your thoughts. And if all you can do is control your own thoughts, how could it make sense to become attached to something you have no control over? You can’t force someone to love you. Not only that, what difference does it really make without that person in your life? Like what...you can’t go on living? There’s 8 billion people on this world that deal with similar shit every day.… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 04:15 AM |
| 8 | Any book recommendations regarding attachment and letting go?What makes you happy or unhappy is not dependent on the exterior world or people around you, but the thinking inside your head. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How's Mark Mansons Models "Vulnerability" in par with trp?Vulnerability really means putting yourself out there. Asking the girl out. Making the move. You’re putting yourself in positions to get rejected, but instead be vulnerable. Put yourself out there. Be honest with your intentions. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Should you purposely avoid discussion on controversial/political topics these days?Avoid. But after you fuck, stand your ground and be you. Don’t debate, but don’t back down either. Just dismissively be you. Kinda hilarious when they say something like I’d never fuck a republican / trump supporter. Only to find out you are. But they don’t actually give a shit once they’re attracted to you. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 11 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?Actual abundance comes and goes from time to time. Maybe you’re focused on your career/gym for a bit and let your women slip. Thing is, once you attain actual abundance enough times, you realize you can always get more girls. It becomes more of a mentality than a reality. Abundance mentality. Not abundance reality. But it’s impossible to have a true abundance mentality until you have a true abundance reality. If that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 03:14 AM |
| 14 | How did I handle this shit-test?^ wrong | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 04:05 PM |
| 15 | Plate cancelled a date to hang with meMake a joke. Don’t answer seriously Be like “tell him you have really bad diarrhea” | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Plating a trans-girl?I imagine you probably know your way around a dick better than a pussy, considering you have the former. Which means you can probably get “her” off easier. So yeah, prob the only real difference is “she” has a dick. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Girls who actually want you vs. girls who want you to want her.You don’t win those kind of girls over by doing what they demand of you. It’s a dynamic they create to trap betas. Don’t play that game. Once she sees you as a “you need to do X before we hook up” kinda guy, it’s over. Not worth it. The only way to win those kind of girls over is by improving yourself so you’re in a better position for the next girl of her caliber. This idea is as follows: keep improving yourself and if you hypothetically met that same girl 12 months later, you’d be in the “she … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 10:19 PM |
| 16 | Girl I’ve already slept with denied me sex last night, yet slept over. She’s in my bed now asleep. What to do?I would get up, start getting ready, maybe jump in the shower, and when you get out she should be up. I would then happily explain that you gotta get going with your day and walk her out. Quick kiss on her way out so she doesn’t think you’re pissed. Then soft next her indefinitely. If she hits you up again, great. If not, whatever. But I wouldn’t reward that kind of behavior by begging for sex in the morning or asking her to come over again. Instead, and this is what you want to convey, you’re j… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | "Says a lot about you" shit testI dunno maybe she was just drunk. Drinking tends to increase the odds of a double/triple text. I’d just wait a while to respond and hit her with a “hahah” or “lol” Won’t make her resent you for not responding and doesn’t give her anything to suck you into a conversation with. If you still want to fuck her, wait a week then hit her up the next week. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How to have an abundance mentality when you don't have abundance?My question is how can I stop needing external approval when I don't have it. Figure out what you need to do to feel good about yourself, then go do it. Like seriously figure it out. Might not immediately be apparent. Take some time, think about it, meditate on it...and once you’ve figured it out or at least have an idea, then to accomplish that thing or those things. When you feel like you’re the shit, you don’t need external approval. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | a girl I met on tinder is ghosting me, what to do?Smh. Back to the sidebar dude. I commend you for making progress and getting out there and at least getting a make out. More than I can say for some guys. But you still have a lot of work to do. First things first — you’re fingering her...you have to try to fuck her. Not in a creepy way. If she says no seriously, back off. But you gotta try. Otherwise she views you as a pussy. Secondly your scarcity mindset is off the charts. If you were banging 5 other chicks, you would barely think twice when … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Had a date set up for today. Asked this morning to confirm it was going ahead and by the afternoon, well after the agreed time, I've had no response. To ghost or not to ghost?Ok this post is a mess, but for starters, don’t ask to confirm. Just say hey see ya tonight. Also, stop hamstering. You know she saw your message. And finally, do not text again. Will not do you any good. If she apologizes, wait a good long while then respond and say all good. Assuming the above transpires, you might be able to propose plans again after two weeks goes by. But assume that’s also going nowhere. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Does the TRP worldview condone cheating from men?TRP is amoral, but I would say cheating is fake alpha. Once you’re high status enough, you get into a relationship because you want to be with that particular woman and you’re getting tired of fucking around. Either don’t get in an exclusive relationship or don’t cheat. That said, I wouldn’t really judge any dude for cheating, and I’ve done it in the past. Just feels immature and fake alpha to me now. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk Eye Contact. Questions within.For women, when you make eye contact, you should think to yourself “I want to fuck you so badly.” Your face will subtly show it. That’s what you’re going for. Do it after something flirty or funny. And let her break eye contact first. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Honest Signals: Why Caring Kills AttractionUnpredictability is key. And if you’re busy, odds are you won’t be checking your phone all too often, meaning it’ll take a while to respond. But for the times you aren’t busy, I think it’s ok to text back quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond when she doesn’t give a direct yes?Yeah I'm assuming it's a high flake percentage. Already set up a backup date for same day/time in case this one flakes. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 03:18 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond when she doesn’t give a direct yes?So far the two responses are the two methods I’m considering — assume the sale or make her commit. Need more data points. Let’s hear it. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Need tips for getting back to her/my place after 1st dateThx for the practical advise. Nothing you can do will stop her from fucking you, until you do something that stops her from fucking you. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Why do women despise RedPillers yet despite men who do not understand women, when RedPillers clearly understand women at the core and use this knowledge properly?This is why frame is so important. You can display these things initially, but if you keep breaking frame, the jig is up and they know you’re a faker. And this is exactly why they keep testing you. To determine if you’re the real deal or a fraud. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | “You’re not expecting sex from me right?”100%. You’ll get LMR. Read up on how to defeat | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 03:41 AM |
| 10 | “You’re not expecting sex from me right?”Umm dude this is like level 201 stuff. You should know this. She’s thinking about having sex with you. That’s good. She just needs to pretend she’s not a slut. Then whoops “it just happened.” Eventually you’ll get to the point where you know you’re getting laid when you hear the magic words “ok but we’re not having sex” You played it right with your response. Proceed. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | TRP view on InstagramBefore you meet them in person, you need to spit a little game over text. Really the only time it’s necessary. Then after you meet/fuck, switch to logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Is this what frame is?Double down. “Yeah and I’m asking if you saw the last episode of game of thrones” This is the perfect opportunity to hold frame. The fact you asked your question tells me you still don’t totally get it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Silent game??I made a post on the main thread called “practical guide to getting laid on the first date.” This technique is something I use a lot. I talk about it in that post. As long as you demonstrate you’re not an awkward loser prior to doing this, it works all the time. Basically shows you’re calm, collected and not trying to impress her. Once you get her attracted, she should be the one trying to impress you. This silence game helps get the interaction into the frame of her trying to impress you instea… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever purposely not text a girl back just to inject suspense and get her hamstering?Sometimes. But it’s better to actually be too busy to be bothered with responding. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | If a girls giving me shit about something I believe in for example vaccines. In my point of view I didn’t believe all vaccines are safe then the next time we saw eachother she kept making vaccine jokes but I decided to just laugh it off and joke with them? Is that what you would advise me to do?If you’ve done your research, you shouldn’t be embarrassed about your opinions. If you knew you were right, then what she said wouldn’t bother you. You’d just say whatever and move on. But if you are embarrassed, maybe you need to re-evaluate your views. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:47 AM |
| 2 | “You deserve better than me”I’d say “ok hit me up if you want to get together before you leave” | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 12:01 AM |
| 8 | If a girls giving me shit about something I believe in for example vaccines. In my point of view I didn’t believe all vaccines are safe then the next time we saw eachother she kept making vaccine jokes but I decided to just laugh it off and joke with them? Is that what you would advise me to do?“Think as you like, but behave like others” Save your controversial views for your homies. You’re not doing yourself any favors bringing up shit like this with girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.Subjective? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Do women find it attractive when you are more assertive/bossy?Assume the sale. If they’re attracted, they’ll happily oblige. If they’re not, expect some resistance/shit tests. Regardless, general rule of thumb is it’s better to make statements than ask questions. But it’s not like you can’t even ask questions. “What’s your schedule like this week?” is a fine thing to ask. But generally speaking, it’s better to say “hey let’s go to XXX Wednesday” vs “do you want to go to XXX Wednesday?” | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Can weed be part of a king dick TRP lifestyle?Huh? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 02:17 AM |
| 10 | LTR throwing things my way around her Birthday...What is my next step?Wow. Have some respect for yourself. This girl is not and will never be LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 6 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?Do nothing really. Cuddle for 15 minutes. Tell her you had a good time when you part ways. Kiss her. Wait for her to text you. Or text her and propose plans after about a week. This isn’t overly complicated. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Epiphanies after having sex with a lot of womenBoth of the comments here sum it up nicely. Ok you’ve mastered women? Now focus on your mission. And get married/LTR only when you’re ready to have kids. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 12:40 AM |
| 9 | How to reinitiate after no message for 2-3 weeks?Next. Scarcity mindset. More fish in the sea. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I've been talking to a girl for a while now and i'm not sure if she's shit testing me.Sidebar. Logistics only numb-nuts. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 01:16 AM |
| 2 | 2-hour long job interview today with 4 different professional & executive level women, advice?You should be thinking in terms of “how to win friends and influence people” instead of 48 laws of power. Save that for when you get the job. In the interview, smile, be positive, ask them about themselves, ask them about their needs, convey you’re the person to suit those needs. Be friendly. You’re not trying to outsmart these people and get ahead of them at this stage, so I’d be weary about relying on 48 laws of power stuff. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Pick up begins even before you leave your room for the night outBahahahah hb10 lol. This is model tier and above. Going on an “awesome” date with an autist who has to remind himself to assume attraction hahahah. I’m not making fun of you, but damn, you do need a reality check. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Went out last night...couldn't approach a single chick.Meditation takes 10 minutes. Reading takes 30 minutes. And eating healthy does not take extra time as long as you plan in advance - plan it out in your head the night before while you’re laying in bed. Stop making excuses. We’re all busy. Sounds like you also need to work on your time management skills. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 12:30 PM |
| 31 | Is this what frame is?Yeah pretty much. Frame is confidence in yourself, your world, your opinions, etc. It doesn’t mean you have to be a stubborn dickhead, but at the same time, don’t change who you are just to please someone else. Do what you like, talk about what you want to talk about, basically do you. Girls will always try to pull you into their frame. It’s your job to keep the dynamic within your frame. So for example a girl might text you and say “hi how was your day?” And if you think that’s a stupid questio… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here stopped caring about girls?Well that’s commendable. But it does feel much better raw. So that’s the conundrum. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 01:53 AM |
| -2 | How much does physical attractiveness matter to women?I mean you can initially look like a 5 but turn yourself into an 8+ as a guy. Women don’t have that same “convenience.” Although it’s not really a “convenience,” since you still have to do the hard work of turning yourself into an 8 (through finances, status, social skills, frame, physique, experience, confidence, etc.). | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 01:50 AM |
| 15 | What do you speak about with your plates?Dude talking about the pacing of movies is totally fine as long as you seem passionate about it. If Quentin Tarantino was talking to some chick about the pacing of movies, she’d be eating it up. My guess is you think it’s boring them, so it comes off as boring to them. I’m guessing you have to adjust your mentality. Who gives a fuck if it interests them. If it interests you, go for it and be passionate about it. Also, you don’t have to carry conversations. Next time you’re with a girl just try t… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 02:14 PM |
| 4 | What's the best way to amp yourself for a successful night out?Start meditating to have more control or awareness over your emotional states. Listen to music to get you in a better mood. The more you meditate the more you’ll realize you have the capability of making emotional states a choice. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Never bring a knife to a date?Dude just conceal it in a place they won’t find it on a first date. After you fuck they won’t care and you can conceal it anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Do girls have a dread game?If you want to do it, then it’s in your frame. You made it seem like you didn’t want to do it, she asked you to, and then made you look foolish for doing it. If that was the case, my advice was to maintain frame and only do what you wanna do. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do girls have a dread game?You’re so in her frame. Either say no or tell her to give you a kiss instead. Don’t just blindly do what she says like a good little boy. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 09:59 PM |
| 8 | What's the general psyche regarding a girl initiating plans then is the one to flake that same night? Just another variety of a shit test?Two mistakes. Never agree to same day plan proposals unless it’s a booty call at night. And don’t do that tentative bullshit. Even if you can’t commit to an exact time, phrase it like “I have after work drinks. Not sure how long it’s gonna go but let’s plan on 9. I’ll let you know if it changes.” | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:17 AM |
| 5 | I find meeting and gaming women more fun than actual sex itselfThe thrill is having sex with a new girl for the first time. It always feels like a minor accomplishment. After that it’s just satisfying a physical urge -- still fun but not as fun | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:13 AM |
| 11 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?Lol I’ve been there. Not fun. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Shit testGood answer except for the winky emoji. Unnecessary. And also gay. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:40 AM |
| 11 | I find myself losing possible plates because I'm not glued to my phone 24/74-5 new plates every week Lol | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I just want her... or is that the blue pill talking?Came to post this same thing. Speaking from experience. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:30 AM |
| 6 | I'm only interested in talking to women since I like their feminine energy. I want guy friends but I can't find the interest in talking to men. How to be genuinely interested in bonding with guys?You might have the gay. Please go get diagnosed by a proper medical professional. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | How to speak clearly for someone with a stutter/anxiety?Well it’s illegal (schedule 1) so conducting legitimate scientific research isn’t possible at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Managed to get a date with a woman that could pass for my mom. HelpBecause if he read the sidebar he wouldn’t be asking out a 50 year old cashier. Jesus Christ. What’s up with the white knights in the comments? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:44 AM |
| 11 | Girls my age in (high school) think that I'm too intellectual. * Not trying to gloat but girls always imply that I'm weird for not caring about things normal for my age eg. Sports, drugs, overall banter, etc.. Thoughts?Dude it’s not that hard. “Think as you like, but behave like others.” Figure out what other people talk about. Be able to have conversations about those topics. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:41 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand what the hell I keep doing wrong? Tinder Fail.Too much validation. You sound desperate. You’re the one qualifying instead of her. You’re using emojis. You seem too available. And that last message was absolutely brutal - just say “see you tonight.” Also get her number after she agrees to the date. And Dave and Busters is good for a second date, not first. This chick might be a total dud and now you’re stuck fucking playing games with her for the next two hours. Yikes. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Does my therapist see me as beta?Lol you’re an idiot. You need to tell your problems to mommy? Grow up and get a dude therapist. It’s not gay. He’s your fucking therapist. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Woman wanted to meet, was dtf then says 'let's put it off till next week'I do it all the time. I’m talking about when you’re scheduling something over a week out. I wouldn’t say “let’s aim for...” if I’m making plans for that week. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Woman wanted to meet, was dtf then says 'let's put it off till next week'I don’t think so. It’s over a week away. She’ll say “sounds good.” And you’ll respond “ok I’ll let you know the plan in a few days.” | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Woman wanted to meet, was dtf then says 'let's put it off till next week'“Ok let’s aim for Wednesday” | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 10:30 AM |
| 2 | My "gf" pays for everything. Should I break up with her?Because you just said you don’t want to be a vampire leech piece of shit anymore? Remember, retard? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 09:08 AM |
| 3 | My "gf" pays for everything. Should I break up with her?Uhh pay your share you retard? What’s the problem? Pay or don’t pay. What the fuck are you asking? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Recommend me some booksI mean I definitely wouldn’t read a book 10 times. But twice and occasionally flipping through it again is a possibility. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Recommend me some booksNot saying that’s how you have to do it. Just giving you a different perspective. The stoics suggest re-reading material until you master it instead of reading / vaguely understanding a bunch of different shit. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Recommend me some booksLetters from Seneca - On Discursiveness in Reading | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Teenagers of AskTRP: Where do you hide your condoms?Why tf you need to hide condoms? Just don’t keep them out in the open. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 01:30 AM |
| 12 | If im afraid of doing it "wrong" what can I do to keep from chickening out?In Models, Mark Manson actually talks about intentionally using the worst pick up lines ever. Because it’s really not even about what you say, as much as it is your intentions. It’s actually a pretty fun exercise. Go to a bar with your boys and take turns opening with the stupidest shit you can think of. You’ll notice it surprisingly works more than you’d expect. Because you’re actually outcome independent at that point. You’re just doing it for the entertainment, and if it ends up going somewhe… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy Shit TestIt’s crazy. I have a theory that if you post about a girl on here and say she’s a 7, she’s probably closer to a 9 than the guy who posts about “his 9.” Ain’t nobody on here fucking 9s. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Is this something worth breaking up over?If you want to fuck with her head a little bit...as she’s on her way out the door for work tomorrow, say “hey” or call her name. When she looks back at you and says “what,” say “I just wanted to take another look at you.” She’ll smile and be on her way. Then you ghost while she’s at work and never look back. Do not respond unless she calls off meeting this other guy on her own. Gonna be tough not responding. Hold strong. Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Girls that "prefer" male friendsI think it simply comes down to the fact she doesn’t get along with other women. The reason why doesn’t even really matter. If you knew a straight dude who had no guy friends and mostly female friends, you’d think something was up with that dude. That there’s something wrong with him. Does it really even matter what? I think that’s what it comes down to for me. Clearly the girl is a lemon if she doesn’t have a lot of female friends. That’s all I need to know. Not even worth the time and energy t… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How to speak clearly for someone with a stutter/anxiety?Haha maybe not exactly. But if I had a stutter I’d look into psychedelics. That was my only point. There’s enough anecdotal evidence out there to support its efficacy: https://www.psymposia.com/magazine/psychedelics-and-the-full-fluency-phenomenon/ I’d love to see a formal scientific study on it if they ever moved psilocybin to a schedule 2 drug. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 02:00 AM |
| 18 | Drunk "wanna fuck later" text. Shit test?I kinda get the feeling she was toying with you. You said you haven’t f-closed yet. When she said “wanna fuck later?”, I think she was being sarcastic. I think she was trying to tell you that’s how she interpreted your invite to come over. Problem is, you haven’t fucked yet so her ASD is still activated. It doesn’t seem like her attraction level is high enough to agree to a sex invite. I would just soft next for a week then hit her up with plans the following week. Go out with her one on one. Ma… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond to this tinder chick?Be about that action boss. Too much banter. You activated her anti slut defense and shot your dick off. No need to get so sexual before you meet. Save that shit for in person interaction. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:06 PM |
| 11 | How to speak clearly for someone with a stutter/anxiety?Listen to Joe Rogan Experience episode #1035 with Paul Stamets. The relevant story starts at 39:28. I don’t know if that’s what you need to do, but it’s at least worth looking into. Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Disgusted by THOT behavior even when spinning so many plates?She said she had other plans. Just leave it at that. Who cares if she decided to go on another date. You already admitted to pressing her about it. That right there is insecure. I understand the intention of your post - am I justified in feeling disgusted? I ignored that because I felt like your post raised a more important question. Like why the fuck you care enough to ask her in the first place. And I don’t believe anyone spinning plates with ease would ever ask what you asked in that situatio… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Disgusted by THOT behavior even when spinning so many plates?Why are you projecting insecurity onto me? I laid out why I think you’re full of shit. What does that have to do with insecurity? I simply can’t understand how someone who supposedly spins so many plates would be messaging some chick on tinder, jealously asking them if they went on a date with a different dude. Clearly you don’t “get it” if you’re surprised that some hoe on tinder, who’s trying to fuck you, is also trying to fuck other guys. I mean what the fuck dude? What else would she be doin… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Chick said she hopes I am not a "fuckboy" that simply wants to fuck her. That translates from the female language into "she hopes I mainly want to fuck her and treat her like an object", correct? Because I replied with "I am into having a long term girlfriend" basically.Never tell a girl you’re looking for a girlfriend right off the bat. Makes you look desperate. And like an emotional slut, which is as off-putting as women who are physical sluts from our perspective. Be vague instead. You should’ve ignored or pressured flipped. Could’ve changed the subject - “so what’s the deal with xx in your 2nd picture” Or a pressure flip would’ve been something like - “I hope you’re not a gold digger or a psycho who’s gonna murder me in my sleep” Stop answering stupid comme… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder picsTough to say. It should look natural, not forced. I’ll try to give examples from my profile. For body pics, I have one very professional looking pic of me (taken with a real camera) in a psychedelic tank top while on a hike. It was a candid shot and I’m not looking at the camera or posing, but my arms look money. I also have one shirtless pic of me on a tropical island beach. Looking pretty shredded there too. Other pics include one a suit with two friends at a wedding. One with me and two frien… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Rate my tinder picsAs a guy, that baseball pic is retarded. But girls are retarded so it might work. Only thing I’d add is you could benefit from another pic or two with other people in it. Social skills are attractive. Girls want to know you have an active social life. That said, I wouldn’t add the first pic you’re considering. The height thing isn’t ideal. Some girls will use that to disqualify you given the plethora of options they have. The second pic you’re considering is decent. But you should crop it in a l… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Disgusted by THOT behavior even when spinning so many plates?I’m not gonna lie this post rubbed me the wrong way. You sound like a bitch. A grandstanding bitch. I get the impression you’re a pathological liar. There’s no way you’re fucking so many girls and spinning so many plates, yet you still care about some tinder hoe going on a date with another dude. From firsthand experience, I don’t believe that’s possible. If you were who you proclaim to be, you’d understand and accept women’s nature for what it is. They need men in their lives. If it’s not you, … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 5 | LMR twice. Never experienced this before.Yup concur. Just don’t make it seem like you’re butthurt. Don’t be cold. You’re not mad. You’re just busy. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 05:29 PM |
| 6 | LMR twice. Never experienced this before.I actually went through a similar situation a few months ago. My oneitis plate was breaking, and so I was desperately looking for a new one to fill her shoes. Went out with this girl I liked twice. Both times heavy make outs but logistics were a problem. So no sex. She asked me if I wanted to see a movie like two days after our second date. I assumed that meant I’d finally close the deal. So I agreed to it. Wrong, still no sex. I should’ve made her wait. Got her hamster going. I never saw her ag… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 05:25 PM |
| 32 | LMR twice. Never experienced this before.I’d tell her you have other plans tonight but you’ll be around next week. Get her hamster working. She might lose you if she doesn’t put out next time. You have other girls you’re fucking, and they’ll get the majority of your attention until she becomes one of them. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Big and strong or lean and low body fat?I think that’s the right strategy. You want to have enough mass to look like you’re jacked with a t shirt on. But you also want to be lean enough to see all your abs. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?This is a stupid hypothetical but how would you answer if she said “would you ever be open to an exclusive relationship eventually?” Knowing that you’ll never be interested in an exclusive relationship with her for whatever reason, how would you respond? Keep it vague...along the lines of we’ll see? Or straight up say no? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Hard next or soft nextHow can you soft next or hard next a girl you haven’t fucked yet? You’re an orbiter. Stop all communication and figure out where you went wrong. I’d guess you missed the part about texting for logistics only. Online is a little different, because you need to build a little rapport over text before proposing a meet up. But this should take place in under 10 messages from you. You shouldn’t be messaging these girls for weeks. This is your fault. You allowed yourself to get into orbit. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Girls are starting to check me out? I think?Yeah man girls will look at you if they think you’re attractive. Now you need to work on being able to look back at them confidently. There’s a fine line between being creepy and being hot. Be aware of it. But when I catch a hot girl looking at me, I’ll make eye contact and force her to look away first. I don’t know why I do this. I think basically just showing her I’m not afraid or intimidated by her. If she thinks you’re hot, she’ll eventually want you to go talk to her. Odds are she won’t mak… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Big and strong or lean and low body fat?So I’m 5’9 and about 170 and ~10%. I think I’m the perfect size for my height. I feel like you could benefit from adding a couple pounds of lean mass. Hard to say without seeing pics, but I’d guess 180 and ~10% would be ideal for you. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Big and strong or lean and low body fat?It depends how much you weigh right now. If you already have some mass/size, then it’s better to be leaner. If not, you should bulk up first. What’s your current height and weight? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Plate asks if I’m seeing other girlsConcur. Send the waterboy link. Perfect response. This is a shit test. You can’t win with a straight answer. Could also just take the message from that video and put it into text form. “Yeah I saw like 50 girls on the train today,” “yeah there were at least 25 girls in my yoga class today,” etc. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Not sure how to handle this weird shit test/comfort test (can't tell)Work on your frame. You’re playing in her frame. Don’t answer questions you don’t want to answer. All the usual methods are at your disposal: A&A, D&A, pressure flip, ignore, change subject, etc. You gotta stop getting sucked into her frame. Holding frame is what separates the men from the boys. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 12:09 AM |
| 7 | Plate invited me to her birthday house drinks/night out with friends. Probably going. Do I get her a gift?Don’t bring a fucking card. You chump. She’s not your grandmother. Bring a bottle of wine, some beer or some booze. Whatever your style is. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Hb7 goes away for a week, we don't talk and now she's pissed^ this Only thing I’d add is back off...then try again after some time goes by. Sometimes they just need to pretend they’d “never do that” on the first date. It’s a defense mechanism. They want to fuck but they also need to feel like they didn’t give it up easy. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Hb7 goes away for a week, we don't talk and now she's pissedShe doesn’t like you making decisions because she doesn’t trust you enough. Your frame is weak. Develop your frame. Get more confident in your decision making. This one is probably a lost cause. You may still be able to hook up with her, but she’ll never see you as a real man. Also the date didn’t “go well” for her if all you did was hold hands and hug. You gotta escalate dude. Men escalate. Little boys are too scared. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Ugly friend of mine is pulling every chick, everywhere we goThis is called frame. He has strong frame. He pulls people into his reality. Not the easiest concept to understand, but you have some learning to do. Get to it. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 08:12 PM |
| 20 | Why does my girlfriend keep saying she doesn't like abs?Competition anxiety. Don’t listen. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | had a ons with a tinder girl, how do you make her a plate?Text her next week and set up another go at it | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl was meant to come round tonight but ignored my logistics text this morningEhh maybe. It felt a little cold and like you were trying to prove you were fucking someone else. I would’ve thrown an “unfortunately” in there somewhere. “I can’t. I’m busy unfortunately. Let’s reschedule for Thursday” That would’ve been much better. You don’t want to sound butthurt. She was trying to come over to fuck you after all. Chalk it up as a learning experience. I don’t think what you said was too bad. Should be fine. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever dated/plated a Jewish girl?Good head | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | I am seeing a girl who is super progressive, and always replies with “If a guy can do it, why girls can’t?” everything a guy can do she replies with something like that.Here’s the thing. If she’s as progressive as you say, I wouldn’t try explaining it. But I’ve done some thinking on this topic. The reality is men and women are hardwired for different sexual preferences. If a girl finds out a guy has slept with 1,000 men, she’ll think wow that guy must be doing something right, clearly he’s attractive, etc. It’s a turn on. Their brains are wired to like high value men who have options and can pick any woman. If a guy finds out a girl has slept with 1,000 men, he… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?Exactly dude. I don’t have have a strong ethical code, but I do have a strong moral code. I don’t like intentionally causing people pain. I feel like that’s not a good way to live. That’s why I’m struggling with this. Btw the redpill shouldn’t describe itself as amoral. It’s not about not having morals (i.e. an individuals own principles regarding right and wrong). It’s about being unconcerned with ethics (i.e. rules provided by an external source like our feminist-centric society). | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?I'll try to give a TLDR. Was a college athlete. Got girls occasionally just by being decent looking. Hung out with the guys who got all the girls (i.e. the naturals). I wasn't one of them. Had terrible game and no balls when it came to women. Was always acting in their frame. I was very supplicating. Actually went through a three year dry spell after college. Was working 100 hours/wk at the time though, so didn't really have time for girls. Anyway was miserable, so I quit that job. Got back into… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?I feel guilty partly because I'll tell them early on that I'm not opposed to a relationship, but it would just take a while for me to get there. Once I rule them out in my head, I feel guilty that they're still trying to earn my commitment. I know they don't give a fuck when the roles are reversed, but I also generally hold myself to a higher standard than your average woman. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?You're high value enough to get this treatment, but subconsciously still think you're not that guy This is probably true. I've made a lot of improvements over the past year and a half. Plus just landed a new high paying job in a cool field. I think that bumps my SMV by at least a point. I'm still mentally adjusting to the new me. You haven't fully swallowed the pill - all the women that used you in your past life were just playing the game. Don't feel guilty because you aren't taking the Ls any … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?Yeah but I’ve been the other guy before. This feels different. Absolutely zero shit tests. “When can I see youuuu” texts. Canceling their plans to hang out with me when I finally text. Sex on demand. Blow jobs on demand. They keep trying to go for round two, round three, etc. They’re just acting generally pleasant. Always let me lead. Never question my authority. Unless it’s just coincidence, and I have a solid group of plates for whatever reason, I can sense they’re behaving differently. I’ve h… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Plates are treating me well, but I feel guilty about it - why?I fixed this partially by upping my standards so only the girls that I really want are my aim. Interesting. Hadn’t thought of that. I think there’s definitely some validity to it. If these girls are head over heels for me, clearly I need to level up. I’ll keep this in mind. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Ex plate said “Small Dick” publicly in a group of people I was talking with. What do“You have a dirty mouth young woman” I dunno just make a joke dude. Any joke. What would you say if a 5 year old said you had a small dick in front of a group of people? Say that. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Ex plate said “Small Dick” publicly in a group of people I was talking with. What doI dunno dude. Laugh and say “you maddddd” General rule about teasing - if it genuinely doesn’t bother you, and it doesn’t elicit a reaction, the teasing will stop. So I’d say just don’t let it bother you. Easier said than done, but you prob gotta figure out why it bothers you in the first place. You said it yourself - you close all the time and chicks like what you do with your dick? So why you getting worked up about some dumb comment? Think about it and try to figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Quick question about date confirmationI texted the wrong number like a moron. Typed one digit in wrong. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I need help understanding this behaviorwe chatted for a bit again And you’re wondering why she used you for validation and refused to meet in real life? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How to get past a girl not texting back?Text a different one Well, don’t just text a different one, fuck a different one. But you get the point. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Radio silent girl after first date fuckI think it was a mistake clearing your schedule and fucking for two days. Don’t you have other shit to be doing? She knows she has you now. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Tips for getting into meditationUse Sam Harris’s Waking Up app. Much better. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 01:57 PM |
| 8 | Please I need advice from youYou just wrote a 5000 word manifesto asking how to get this one girl to like you. 100 times out of 100 that’s oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Please I need advice from youI didn’t read. Oneitis. There’s a reason why we preach against “help me get this one girl” type attitude. You will fuck it up with that mentality. Rest assured. Work on getting multiple girls first. Then you’ll be able to attract “this one girl” in the future. Except by then she’ll be just another girl. Get all the girls in order to get the one girl. No short cuts homie. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How to invite plate who's DEERing me over for sex without triggering ASD?I’m guessing you said the wrong thing if her response was “maybe I can drop by after work one of these days.” One of these days? Wtf? You should’ve told her what day to come over. Lead. Make concrete plans. Let her turn them down if it doesn’t work for her. No more of this “do you want to come over one of these days” bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | LTR advice if gf is lyingDude you’re way too concerned with n count. No wonder your girl is lying to you saying she didn’t kiss another guy while studying abroad, even though you weren’t exclusive. She knows you’ll have a mental breakdown. Stop caring so much. It’s actually more fun to get girls to open up to you. Make them feel like you’re not judging them (even though you are), and this way you’re more likely to get the truth. Or something closer to the truth. Then, because they trust you’re not judging them, you can … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel when a girl says you’re “cute”?I don’t think it’s above hot. I think it’s on the same level. Just reserved for a particular look. But it’s definitely not a bad thing. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 11:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel when a girl says you’re “cute”?I get pretty a decent amount. One of my plates calls me pretty all the time. I asked her what she meant the other day actually. After we fucked she said something about how she bets girls go out of their way to do stuff for me because I’m pretty. I was like “haha what do you mean when you say pretty, I know it’s a compliment, I like it, but I notice it’s the only thing you use so it’s gotta have some meaning to you.” She said “Well I don’t want you to get a big ego if I started calling you hot a… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Does n-count matter for a LTR? What’s a high, avg and low n-count for a 21 year old college girl?Hahah. 120 might be low OP - this chick has easily fucked 200+ guys 4?? Lol you kidding me? Pfffff | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Asking plate to shaveDude I’d just wait until you’re hooking up with her again. It’s still early in the process - any text along those lines could activate ASD. Might have to suck it up one more time. After you finish hooking up say something like “I want you to shave for me next time” or “I like eating pussy but only when it’s shaved.” She’ll get the hint. I think that’s the safest play. You can start dropping all the ASD precautions after you fuck them twice. But before then I’d tread carefully. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Question about analHow would you drop a hint? Any suggestions? Prob won’t use anything you say verbatim but might help me figure something out. Just feel like sending any text about anal sex at 330 pm might be a little off-putting. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:21 PM |
| 7 | Question about analHahah you guys are starting to talk me out of it. I’m not listening. THE SHOW GOES ON. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Question about analCan I really roll into her apartment strapped with an enema bulb? Seems a little over-prepared on my end. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Question about analYeah I just need to knock it off the list and she’s a prime candidate. Coming in strapped with some lube and 30 minutes of internet research today lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Question about analShe doesn’t know I’m going to try tonight. Should I drop a hint before we meet up? If so, any suggestions? That said, if I don’t say anything beforehand, I’ll obviously make it known while we’re hooking up - instead of just shoving it in there unannounced like a savage lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Got expelled from school. Is it over?“Things turn out best for people who make the best of the way things turn out.” —John Wooden | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Question about analbut if she knows it's going to happen and it wont be another "oh why is it tighter this time" type of deal, drop some hints Honestly you kinda lost me. Can you try to rephrase this? Not sure what you’re really saying. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for guys who are into rough sex/dominance/sadism: do you do it because you like it, or just to please women?Women getting off turns me on. I like getting them off. They like rough sex and dominance. So thus I like rough sex and dominance. Honestly I try to switch it up tho. I go back and forth from rough and fast to more emotional and slow. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to be too high value?I just had this happen with my least attractive plate. She knew she was bottom of the barrel with no chance of commitment. Pulled herself out of the race. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 11:11 PM |
| 5 | First Date: Girl Gave Out Number In Front Of MeIt’s not that it’s inherently beta. It’s that she’s more likely to put you in the beta provider category. “If I pretend I’m a ‘good girl’, and don’t put out, maybe OP will keep wining and dining me.” Going out to an expensive dinner on a first date is doing yourself no favors. Unless you want girls to wait to sleep with you despite gobbling down Chad’s dick after splitting the bill on two drinks. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:23 PM |
| 8 | First Date: Girl Gave Out Number In Front Of MeAhh yeah...it is. On a first date? Yes, yes it is. You do you though. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:13 PM |
| 10 | Is it possible to be too high value?If girls sense competition for you is too high, and they’re insecure, then yes some of them will bail. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What should you REALLY do after getting a phone numberIf you get the number late at night, either say “alright I’ll text you so you have my number,” and then text her your name right in front of her. I’ll often add the fire emoji. Don’t expect her to respond. But you can technically double text and propose drinks at a later date. Or if you don’t do that, I’d wait until the next day to text her. Just keep it simple. “Hey hunnybuns it’s XX from last night.” Something that doesn’t even require a response. Texting something that requires a response fee… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 01:15 PM |
| 8 | First Date: Girl Gave Out Number In Front Of MeYou fucked up by taking her to an expensive sit down. You signaled beta to her. Plus you’re sitting across from each other instead of at the bar. Recipe for zero sexual tension and a free meal ticket for her. And you’re wondering why she was looking for dick in front of you. Fix your date logistics and your frame. She clearly didn’t see you as high value enough if she was willing to give out her number in front of you. Take it as a reflection of you, not as a reflection of her. Girls behave acco… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | When should you AA and ignore?AA when she’s just being playful. Ignore when there’s a more serious tone to the shit test. The more experience you get, the easier it will be to tell the difference. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Dropping a plate on her Period vs. during OvulationWhy do you feel the need to explicitly end it? Why not just stop hitting her up? She’s a plate. She’s not an LTR. If you just stop hitting her up there’s more of a chance you could re-spin it at a later date if you’re in a slump. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Talking to plates about platesBad game. Let her find out on her own. Necklace on your bathroom counter, bra in the corner of your room, getting texts from other girls, etc You shouldn’t want or need to tell her you’re seeing other girls. It should be implied through your actions. And if you actually are seeing other girls, there will be enough clues for her to find out on her own. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 02:18 PM |
| 7 | Can someone explain what happened with my most recent breakup?She’s just pranking you bro, relax. No but in all seriousness, not sure. Feels like we’re missing some information. Like does she have a mental illness? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 02:42 AM |
| 3 | What is the difference between a shit test and not interested?In that situation, I say “let me me know if you want to try again sometime” If she doesn’t respond to that, 100% never contact again. If she says something like “I do, I’m just busy this week and blah blah blah,” then maybe I’ll hit her up a couple weeks later. I feel like my response is a better strategy. I used to do the “let me know when you’re free” thing but switched to this instead. Still hardly ever works, and I basically move on and write that girl off as a lost cause, but overall it’s b… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 02:27 AM |
| 2 | IS THIS THE TRUE NATURE OF ALL WOMEN?Inaccurate interpretation. Women are just as sexual if not more sexual than men. They enjoy sex just as much as men and fantasize about it as well. However, they don’t crave sex as frequently as we do. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s the general consensus on hanging out with a plate twice in one week?I think you’re missing the mark. It’s not about whether or not I want to hang out with her again. I clearly do. It’s about not making myself seem too available and pushing away a perfectly functioning plate. I did that not too long ago so just want to make sure this wouldn’t trigger a similar reaction. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Initiate second date after sex or let her chase?You want to get the second fuck in the next week. Builds longer lasting plates when you smash a couple times over the first two weeks. Then you can pull back a little after. So yes, initiate. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | I started working out, running 3 years ago to beat depression; it worked. 3 years on, if I don't work out or run for like a few days I start getting depressed.Yeah man. Sometimes I wish I didn’t have to run anymore (high impact on my knees and I’ve had several surgeries on one of them) but the mental benefits are too good. David Goggings talks about this a lot too. Guys a savage if you’re never heard of him. That said, there’s a couple things I started doing so I don’t have to run every day. Try yoga if you haven’t already. Hit the sauna/steam room. Get into meditation (I’d suggest Sam Harris’s Waking Up app). | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on drugs? Any of you red pill men on drugs?Drugs are not the problem. The problem is how some humans consume drugs. You could smoke weed once a month and nothing would change for the worse. Or you could smoke weed 24 hours a day and some things would definitely change for the worse. You catch my drift? Drugs can be a tool. But if you use them improperly, they can and will bring you down. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Good pic for dating apps or should I wait for more gains before go shirtless?Absolutely not you creep. You look like you’re in your moms basement. Get some pics that make you look cool and fun and adventurous. You’re also not jacked enough to put up a shirtless pick. Not that you have a terrible physique, but it’s like when a fat girl posts a bikini pic on her profile. You’re just kinda like damn I wish I didn’t see that. Especially when most chicks who post bikini pics on dating sites have tight bodies. Same thing with shirtless dudes. Most guys that post shirtless pics… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | What motivates you to keep playing the game?Because it’s fun. Nothing is fun when you suck at it. Get good at it though...and it becomes fun. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:37 AM |
| 5 | “Do you not like texting?” TestDisagree. He still hasn’t met this girl. You can’t start leaving bitches on read before you fuck them. They have zero attachment to you at that point, and their abundance is through the roof compared to your average guy. OP - you should respond. I’d just say “nah not really,” then she’ll try to suck you into a text conversation to test your frame, and you can ignore that attempt by saying “lol see you tomorrow” | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:34 AM |
| 5 | What to message girls on tinder? I’ve heard logistics only so should I literally just say hi then ask when they’re free?Logistics only doesn’t apply to tinder. You gotta build some rapport first. 5-10 messages max before asking them out. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Anybody find conversation or listening to women annoying?I won’t see a girl unless she can at least hold a conversation about interesting topics. She may not be knowledgeable about a certain topic, but as long as she’s at least curious to understand it through my teaching, that’s enough for me. Some girls can’t even do that though. If she can’t, next. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 01:36 PM |
| 16 | Shit test fail?Not bad. I would’ve jokingly called her out for thinking about sex when I never said anything about it. Something like “you girls only think about sex and it’s disgusting.” But overall your response was decent. Maybe a tiny bit too wordy but I’m nitpicking. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:27 AM |
| 3 | "I'm sad because xxxx is being a dick to me"You typed out that stupid manual emoji? No wonder why you’re orbiting / friend zoned. Promise us to never send one of those gay ass things to a girl ever again, under any circumstance, ever. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | What's with the astrological sign bullcrap, should I bother? What do you counter with this?If you’re interested, even if you don’t fully believe, it can be a nice conversation piece. I’m the last guy girls would expect to know anything about zodiac signs. But sometimes I’ll ask if they’re into zodiac signs to jump start a conversation. I tell them I don’t really believe, because it doesn’t make sense how it could be possible the stars and shit affect one’s personality, but that said, I have noticed some coincidences. Then I’ll go into a little spiel about my past relationships and zod… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Do frame and game even matter? Story from few weeks ago.alpha found out and said he didn’t care but I could tell he was pissed Guess what...so can the girls. In fact, they can sense this stuff better than you can. He might do everything by the book, technically speaking, but clearly there are some TRP principles he’s not applying correctly. You can say all the right things, but if your actions and reactions don’t support what you’re saying, it doesn’t have the same affect. He clearly does not have abundance if he got mad some random thot at a party w… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Questions about statusYeah tell your friends to blast out texts to all their friends. Make sure they’re inviting girls too. Then run an inventory on the people who are interested. If it’s all dudes, or there aren’t too many people who are down, then it’s better to abort mission instead of throwing a shitty party. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Questions about statusIf you do this, recruit your friends to invite their friends. Sounds like you don’t have enough status to pull this off on your own, especially from a snap story alone. Get a good feel for how many people are confirmed as interested/going before the party. Cancel if you don’t generate enough interest. Nothing worse than throwing a lame party no one shows up to. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:21 PM |
| 18 | Do frame and game even matter? Story from few weeks ago.Younger girls in college care more about genetics/physical attractiveness in comparison to older women. Younger women don’t need any security or provisioning. They’re not looking to settle down. They want to ride the CC with the hottest guys they can find. Now obviously the beta guy isn’t as beta as you make him seem. This is evident primarily in his IDGAF attitude. Plus the more attractive a guy is, the more beta traits girls will be willing to overlook, especially at a young age when looks mat… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Mindblown: My girlfriend just confirmed TRP to me.Gonna be tough for you to change yourself in this situation. You clearly have some level of oneitis for this girl. And once a woman you have oneitis for is able to break your frame, I find it difficult to regain it. It’s doable, but very difficult. I think the best way to regain it is to find someone else who you’re equally excited about. You need that real abundance to maintain an IDGAF attitude, especially once your frame has been broken. So either start getting excited about another woman (or… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | What book would you recommend to get a 15 year old?What do you thinks in there that he shouldn’t see? I admittedly haven’t read it for a while. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:40 PM |
| 5 | What book would you recommend to get a 15 year old?Book of Pook. Easy read and covers all the basics. I wish I read it when I was younger. It’s free online but you could also get him the paperback version. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn’t want anything serious but wants to be exclusive?Sounds like she wants a relationship but doesn’t want to scare you away. What do you want? If you want to get into a relationship with her, I’d tell her you’re not down for exclusivity unless it’s in a relationship. Then don’t say anything more. Let her eventually bring up the relationship while you continue fucking other girls. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 04:10 AM |
| 5 | How can I make dates more sexual/interestingHere’s a first date guide I wrote on the main sub. Read it. I think it could be helpful in your case. http://archive.is/vFUf8 | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 02:15 AM |
| 9 | How can I make dates more sexual/interestingYou don’t need to make sexual innuendos. You build sexual tension through other means like kino and eye contact. You also probably need to work on teasing a little bit more. You want to build attraction before you build comfort. So tease, display higher value, be mysterious, initiate kino...then start talking about common interests and building comfort. When you skip the attraction phase and go straight to comfort, that’s when you get the “you’re nice but I don’t have time / feel a connection.” | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I not get oneitis for girls that fall for mePerhaps those other plates had some sort of red flag that prevented you from seeing them as relationship material. If you don’t see them as relationship material, there’s significantly less chance you’ll get attached. But when you find a plate with no red flags, and you start spending the night with each other, I find that’s when the attachment begins creeping in. Haven’t found the solution to avoid this entirely yet. That said, I think my issue stems from still feeling like that “perfect girl” … | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 03:05 PM |
| 5 | How do I not get oneitis for girls that fall for meWould you have sleepovers with her and not your other plates? I find having sleepovers makes me more attached, so I’ve been trying to avoid them now. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Absolutely hate lifting and working out. What to do?I played sports in college so I have experience lifting with partners. Nowadays I don’t like it though. My routine is pretty specific to my body. And I don’t want to change it for someone else. Plus I try to get in and out as fast as possible. I try not to waste any time. Never sit down. Just move from one thing to the next ASAP. Lifting with a partner is fun and makes the workout more enjoyable, but it just takes too much time. So for that reason, I’m out. I’m kinda surprised more people don’t … | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Comforting plates/LTRsThis is helpful. Dudes should watch if you struggle with this. Empathy doesn’t come naturally to me, so I always have a hard time in these situations. Never know how to act, what to do or what to say. I always try to offer solutions and silver linings. But this is a good explanation. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 02:18 PM |
| 29 | GF cheated on meYou need to break up with her. Now. This is for your own mental health. You’ll be much better off in the long run if you end things now. That said, based on the language in your post, I have a feeling you’re not going to break up with her. She will either leave you or cheat again, and you’ll have to learn the hard way. Remember this comment if you decide against breaking up with her. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Absolutely hate lifting and working out. What to do?Go to a better gym that you want to spend more time at. Maybe even find a gym with hot girls to look at during your lift. Adds a little extra motivation. Once you get into a routine, going every day gets a lot easier. Also - and this is probably not going to be well received here - but sometimes I’ll take a small hit of my weed pen before the gym. Makes the lift more enjoyable. Less boredom. And for some reason it helps keep me present during my lifts. It helps me really focus on form, instead o… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Girl friend setting me up with her friendDon’t ask her to set you up. Pussy behavior. Do it yourself. Only time you should allow a girl to set you up is if she does it on her own. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The First date etiquette - Should I be more aggressive?Always push the boundaries. You have to make the connection happen - it doesn’t just happen on its own. Here’s a first date guide I wrote, which I think could be helpful for you: http://archive.is/vFUf8 | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl who rejected me starts snapchatting me again. After this weekend i started to ignore her snaps. How do i react if she confronts me about ignoring her?Not responding to her basic snaps isn’t ignoring her. That’s what you should be doing most of the time. Those snaps are nothing more than an attempt to siphon your attention and keep you in orbit. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:05 PM |
| 8 | International Feminists Go Nuts About 12 Step Guide to Being A Beautiful WomanHow about this reply of his lol: If you’re angry, it might be because your excess bodyfat is causing hormonal fluctuations that make you emotional You can fix this by working out and going to the gym and unfatting Yourself Fit women are pretty women | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Wut da fuk.Nos is retarded tho. All it’s doing is killing brain cells. If you need to do drugs, at least find something else. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Cant a toned slim muscled body be just as attractive as a jacked huge body?I think this is where personal preference comes into play. Some dudes like a huge ass and some dudes like a tight, smaller ass. Same thing here. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 09:48 PM |
| 7 | I think I'm sabotaging myself because of a fear that girls will recognize that I have almost no sexual experienceSome girls are just as uncomfortable sleeping with a man who’s very promiscuous as TRP males are in sleeping with getting in a relationship with someone promiscuous. The first part of your statement is debatable. But if it is true, it would be because of a fear of getting pumped and dumped. Also, don’t announce you’re a female. Your ideas should be able to speak for themselves based on merit alone. Your genital situation doesn’t matter. OP - inexperience isn’t good. But only one way to fix that.… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What's a good reply to that "so, what are you looking for?" or "why are you on that site? app etc."Always better to use power talk than direct talk. You should find more tactful ways of saying you just want to fuck without saying it directly. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What's a good reply to that "so, what are you looking for?" or "why are you on that site? app etc."Here’s what I said the last two times I got asked “why are you on [this site]?” I took slightly different approaches, because I got different vibes from each girl, but I think both of my responses worked. 25 yr old, couple tattoos, bisexual — my response was “I dunno. I’ll use it if I need to meet someone new.” She could read between the lines. She knew that meant I was fucking other girls and only used the site when I needed to add to my roster. I got the impression that’s what she was looking … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 13 | How much weight can I lose by August?Stop fucking spamming multiple subs with the same questions. Figure it out dude. You have plenty of resources already at your disposal. Get off your ass and do something. Stop talking about it and take action. You can healthily lose ~2 lbs per week. Even the slightest amount of research would reveal this. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl is super busy, not sure how to proceedShe asked you when she was gonna see you again and you never responded. Now she’s probably playing games and retaliating by trying to make you chase. I would’ve responded when she asked when she was gonna see you again. Even if your response was something like “I’m pretty busy this week but next week should work” It’s not like she asked how your day was - she asked a logistics question and you left her on read. It should be expected for her to give some pushback after that. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Telling the truthWhy do you have to lie? Or tell the overt truth? You could just be vague instead. Her: “What are you looking for?” You: “I don’t know. Nothing” | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 02:18 PM |
| 7 | 'Are you fucking other girls? Not sure if I am confortable with that"Avoid the question. Couple options. Don’t respond. Or change the subject. Or just say something like “lol you’re funny” or “lol you’re so nosy.” I wouldn’t engage her question seriously. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Do people on here really believe in PUA bs?Then why even post here? You’ve got it all figured out. Despite being an obese 27 yr old virgin. This shit helps but you’re not willing to listen and take advice. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Do people on here really believe in PUA bs?Dude. You’re not reading what I’m saying. It all matters. If that fat guy has social intelligence, good posture/body language, status, money, etc., then girls will be willing to overlook the fact he’s fat. It. All. Matters. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Do people on here really believe in PUA bs?Ok. You’re getting closer. What you’re not realizing is that body language and social intelligence/social skills are also attraction switches. All of these things matter. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Do people on here really believe in PUA bs?Lol ok dude. Your body is the only thing that matters? So only jacked guys can have sex? Whatever. Keep your head in the sand. Not my problem. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Do people on here really believe in PUA bs?You’re missing the third category of woman. You’re right about the first two, but there are actually three categories: 1) she’s very interested, so what you say doesn’t really matter 2) she’s not interested, and there’s nothing you can do or say to change that 3) she’s neutral/luke warm, meaning she’s not sure, and thus she needs more information to determine whether or not she wants to fuck you That third category is where game comes into play. Game is your ability to convert neutral/luke warm … | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 09:03 PM |
| 9 | How to deal with being bad at something your date wants to do?You don’t do what your date wants to do. You do what you want to do. This is a test of your frame. You don’t want to go ice skating? Well in that case, what she really wants is for you to be a man and tell her that. She doesn’t want you to do some bullshit activity - one you don’t want to do - just to appease her. That would put you in her frame. You gotta read up on frame dude. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | The promiscuity double standard makes no senseFucking a lot of women as a man takes skill, charisma, looks, genetics, status, money, etc. It’s difficult. Because it’s difficult, and because you need a high SMV do it, it signifies having high value. For women, fucking a lot of men is easy. What’s difficult for them is having restraint and being able to say no. Because having restraint and limiting promiscuity is difficult, it signifies higher value and us men appreciate that. Women know that a guy who’s fucked 100+ women is a high status mal… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:16 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand what I did wrongDo you want to fuck her again or not? Whether or not she shows interest should not be part of the equation. Either you do or you don’t. Obviously you do, and then you lied about it to her face. That’s what betas do because they’re scared of embracing their sexuality. Her asking why you wanted to get lunch was a shit test. You failed it. You should’ve said something like “use your imagination” or “I need someone to fold my laundry” or touched her hand while saying “I dunno, we’ll see” | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?Would you open up to your children about your emotional problems? Hell no. They want to see you as unflappable. Same thing with women. If you absolutely must, you can open up about problems to an extent — but the key is you have to frame it positively. In other words, frame it in a way that makes you seem like you have it under control, and you have a plan to handle it accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is Social Media more important than maintaining mystery nowadays?You can post mysterious stories on social media you dingbat. “Who is he with?” “Where is he?” “Who’s that girl?” Don’t use it too much, but it can be helpful if you know what you’re doing. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Redpill me on my consciousness problemI’m gonna redpill you on your vocabulary problem...I think you mean “conscience.” Edit: what’s to feel bad about? Fuck her again or don’t. Who cares. Do what you want. Girls stop fucking guys all the time. No one’s guaranteed a round 2. And girls actually understand how casual sex works better than your average guy. Trust me she ain’t gonna lost sleep over it. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 04:26 PM |
| 7 | The Dark Triad-Psychopathy VariableI think you misunderstand the definition of psychopathy. In a psychological sense, psychopathy means someone who lacks empathy and remorse, and displays bold, disinhibited and egotistical traits. You’re confusing psychopathy with being a straight up psycho and/or having a mental illness. Psychopathy is actually linked to success in business, because you do what needs to be done and don’t care about how it affects other people. If you’re otherwise mentally in control, psychopathy can be a useful … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | How to end sugar and junk food addictionYou have to create new eating habits. There’s other advice in here telling you what kind of foods to eat. The only other thing I’d add is that it gets easier over time. The first couple weeks you will get intense cravings for shit processed carbs. After that those cravings will mostly dissipate. Also don’t be afraid to mix in some carbs every now and then as long as they’re good carbs (i.e. come from real food, complex, perhaps even gluten free). | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 01:38 PM |
| 14 | [UPDATE] GF keeps talking about EX fuckbuddyYou are the perfect example of why this subreddit exists. Read everything. Read the sidebar. Read The Rationale Male. Read it all. Then set a reminder and reread this post a year from now. It will be the most cringeworthy thing you’ve ever read. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 04:09 AM |
| 4 | What are some good ressources to learn kino?Decarlo escalation ladder | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Girls repulsed by my lifestyleExactly. Puts you on the fast lane to beta provider. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Girls repulsed by my lifestyleStop talking so much about what you do for a living if it’s not helping. Just say you made some sound investments and now make a lot of passive income, which frees you up to pursue other hobbies. Then talk about those. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah I mean neutral is ok. But I try to keep pushing until I get her to reciprocate. I think it gets her more excited and turned on when she thinks she’s actively participating. That’s what that putting her hand on my leg move stems from. Sometimes they’re just too scared or nervous to reciprocate, so you need to lead them into feeling comfortable doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateMy thought process with paying if it’s just one drink is because that usually means the date sucks and I want to get out of there. I’m not trying to maintain frame anymore. I don’t care. And it’s just ~12 bucks. Not even worth dealing with trying to split that. And if it happens with a plate, I can easily afford it. They are looking for that perfect alpha provider after all. Sometimes it’s nice showing them a signal that you could be that guy. And again it’s just ~12 bucks so not a big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Anyone subscribed to headspace? What is your opinion?Use Sam Harris’s app. Way better | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:14 PM |
| 25 | Best response to "my boyfriend wouldn't like that"Neither would mine | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | What's the optimum physique for shorter men for attraction?Been working my way down to ~6 reps. I do flat and incline. Usually barbell but mix it up with dumbbells every so often. I also frequently use this multi-grip bar at my gym. Has close grip and neutral grip options that are good for isolating chest. I also do dips and flys. No link to routine because it’s my own. I think it helps immensely with attraction. I get looks from girls at the gym all the time. I’ll go to hot yoga classes sometimes and take my shirt off, and every woman I look at, they’r… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateHell yeah bro. That’s why I posted. Glad to hear it went well. Once you start hearing “I don’t normally do this” and “we’re not having sex tonight” ... you know you’re about to have sex if you play your cards right lol. Also that whipping the unit out move is bold. For anyone else reading, gotta make sure she’s receptive to your kino and reciprocating before trying that. Don’t wanna see anyone get me too’d. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Can dumb person become smart if he thinks a lot?Smart people understand their reputation is important. All I’m saying is this is a dumb question. Keep learning and yes you’ll get smarter. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 12:03 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with a girl who wants to “take it slow”If you try to hook up with her, and she says let’s take it slow for a month, that means she doesn’t want to hook up with you. Bottom line. She’s using you for something else. She’ll hook up with chad and you know it. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Can dumb person become smart if he thinks a lot?Yes. Don’t ask this question again tho. Doing so will make you dumber. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What's the optimum physique for shorter men for attraction?5’9”. I’m gonna delete these links but prob 170lbs in this picture. I’m really trying to work on chest/obliques right now. Mainly focusing on form with chest stuff. Really trying to isolate and recruit my pecs instead of relying on front delts and triceps for chest exercises. So not going super heavy there. Train biceps occasionally. Maybe once every 2-3 weeks. I used to do arms more in college, but I rarely do arms now (aside from shoulders which I’ll train twice a week). As far as lifts stats … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What's the optimum physique for shorter men for attraction?The problem with Dylan Mckenna is his triceps are disproportionately way too big. Personally, I hate the look of over-developed triceps. And I think most women do too. I think huge triceps make you look like a total gym rat, instead of someone who’s just naturally genetically superior. Sure, some women are into that gym rat look, but most would prefer a more balanced physique. I never lift triceps. I go hard on back, shoulders, chest, legs, abs and calves. I’d say try to stay away from that Pope… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to reveal the number of women you have slept with?Their imagination is always better. It just gives them another thing to hamster over. The more she thinks about you, the more invested she gets. She wants to think you probably fuck a lot of girls, but she doesn’t want to know for sure. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateWasn’t easy. Basically became my side obsession for a year. Think of it as trying to solve a problem. Trying to figure how women work, analyzing their behavior patterns, attraction switches, etc. Also had to keep putting myself in social situations and forcing conversations in order to get comfortable bullshitting with people and making small talk. Used to hate that. Was always witty and funny but hated bullshit fake conversations with randos. But it’s just like most things, the more you practic… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah I don’t really worry about that dude. Just don’t do anything that would give them reason to do that. Don’t be a dick for no reason. And one important principle to follow is discretion. Chicks hate when word gets out and everyone knows they fucked a guy. So keep your escapades to yourself, or only tell your close friends, but remind them discretion is key, since you don’t want to blow up her spot and subject her to slut shaming. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah honestly I don’t know anything about the stronglifts program. I tailor my program to my own body pretty specifically. I try to work out 6 days a week - two days chest, two days back/shoulders and two days legs. On the leg days, one day I’ll focus on squats/quads/calves and the other day I’ll do deadlifts/hamstrings/calves. Then I’ll try to mix in some core work 2-3 of those days. Just keep at it dude. Eventually it will get boring or you’ll hit a plateau, and that should signal when you nee… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateThere’s internal game and external game. TRP tends to focus on internal game, which I agree is more important. But that doesn’t mean you should ignore external game either. Just because something seems like PUA advice doesn’t mean it’s not applicable. Confidence comes from within, but it’s hard to build confidence if you’re not seeing results. So I think internal and external game should go hand in hand. Personally, I just went through a couple months of monk mode. Dropped all my plates to focus… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 05:59 PM |
| 49 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsSounds like she just doesn’t like giving blowjobs. If they’re important to you, you might’ve made a mistake in who you married. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsDid she used to give a lot of blow jobs before? Maybe she thinks she sucks at it, so she doesn’t like giving them. Also, just try putting your cock in her mouth during foreplay. She’s lying on her back and you get on your knees and put your cock in her face. Personally, I always find it kind of off putting when chicks ask me to eat them out. I usually won’t if they ask. Maybe she has a similar reaction when you ask. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 04:09 PM |
| 14 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateNot really chased. But I played sports and hung out with the dudes who got all the girls, so I’d occasionally get the “so and so thinks you’re cute.” But so and so would often be kinda fat and below my standards. I mean I definitely could’ve had it worse, but it wasn’t great by any stretch either. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateThis is good. The first time I kiss a girl, I'll sometimes take one hand and hold just below her chin at the top of her neck and apply a small amount of pressure. Nothing crazy but it signals you're not just another nice guy who's gonna be gentle and make love to her. Gets her excited about the possibility of what's to come. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateIt's either you do that shit or you don't. That's a completely different post. I'm just trying to show dudes some tips on how to get laid on the first date once they've put in that work. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateHaha yeah can't do that. Should also add that you have to be comfortable with the silence. If it makes you uncomfortable, then she'll think maybe you're just awkward. But if you've been charismatic up to that point, and it doesn't make you uncomfortable, then she'll think you're just super calm and relaxed and not trying too hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateRead the sidebar here and the sidebar on asktrp. I'd also recommend a few books. Start with the Book of Pook. Also, No More Mr. Nice Guy is decent depending on what your starting point is. And then The Rational Male is great breakdown of everything, but it's a little more advanced than the other two books. I'd also recommend Way of the Superior Man once you start getting into relationships with women -- it's not a perfect book, but it does a good job of teaching you how to manage women in relati… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:15 PM |
| 10 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateThat's why you need to make sure she's reciprocating your kino. She needs to be sending you IOIs in order for you to feel comfortable when you finally make your move. I've never been turned down going for a kiss after a date because I'll make sure she's sending me enough green light signals first. This is a game after all. Think of it like a nature documentary where two birds do some sort of dancing and call/response routine before they procreate. The male bird will show off his feathers, and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateShoe lifts, no thanks. The fact you care that much is probably a bad sign. You’re average height dude. Yeah it’d be great to be a little taller, but you’re not. Can’t do anything about it. Except become above average in a different area to offset not being above average in height. That said, I will wear boots if it makes sense weather wise. Adds another inch or so. Voice is an interesting one. I think it helps. I naturally speak from my chest/throat. But I took this public speaking class in coll… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah I read Book of Pook a year ago. Must read for anyone who hasn’t read it. I actually completely forgot about that passage. But one thing I do remember him saying was one day you’ll forget about trying to apply his lessons and they’ll become natural to you. In other words, you’ll forget about trying to act attractive and you simply will be — it will become subconscious or even unconscious. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah I’ve read that before. Never really experimented with it. Seems like too much effort for me. But there’s more than one way to skin the cat. If it works for you, then keep at it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYou can get huge if you’re doing it for yourself. But I think it gets to a point of diminishing returns with women. Most women want someone who’s jacked but not necessarily someone who looks like a bodybuilder. That said, there are some women who are into that if it’s your thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateThere’s another response thread somewhere in here where I address that. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 7 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateOfcourse getting jacked will Increase your value but its not a necessity. Ok. Then don’t increase your value you lazy asshat. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateI feel like my previous response addresses the sleep over question. The Uber thing I’d say is a case by case basis. If she has a real job with a real salary, she can pay for her own Uber. Most girls I hang out with have careers. But if she doesn’t, then I’ll consider ordering it. You can rationalize it because it gets her out of your place. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah that or something like “well I had fun tonight. It’s getting late though. Come on, I’ll walk you out” No excuses. And not mean either. Just kinda laying the ground rules. She can sleep over only if you tell her to. I find most girls don’t want a sleepover on the first night anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYup I do pretty much the same thing. And they usually offer to split. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateOh I wouldn’t order food on the first date. I’ll eat a big ass meal beforehand. If she orders food and I don’t (they rarely do), then it’s usually understood she’s paying at least her share. And once you set the precedent for splitting, she’ll usually keep that going, even if you go out to dinner at a later date. Plus you always have the ability to pay occasionally if you feel inclined. Just say “don’t worry I got this one. You got next” | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateI mean yeah dude. I left out the part about working out all the time, eating healthy, developing interesting hobbies, having stylish clothes, working on my social skills, etc. You need to do everything you can to be as attractive as possible. This was just supposed to be a guide to how I get women primed to have sex on the first date. They won’t even think about it if you’re not attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 11:23 PM |
| 20 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateOh dude great question. Def left that part out. It’s not really a problem for me anymore. I do a few things: First I’ll schedule the date kinda early. So like 730 instead of 9. So after two hours it’s still kinda early and neither of you wants to go to bed yet. That helps. Secondly, I’ll set some expectations during the date. I’ll essentially tell her my place off limits. I’ll use a couple different excuses, but I basically frame it as your place or no place, take it or leave it. If her place is… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateThe reason I included that is because she said something about not being opposed to it. She was like “yeah if I want to fuck, I want to fuck, I’m not one of those girls. But usually guys either can’t make it happen or don’t even try.” She’s also bisexual and pretty open about her sexuality. She definitely wasn’t trying to make it seem like she’s normally “a good girl.” So I just took it at face value. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 10:33 PM |
| 32 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateIf she doesn’t bring hers out, I’ll say, “so I usually split first dates.” If she asks why, I’ll say something like “I feel like the first date is just two people getting to know each other so...”, or I go funny with, “because I’m a feminist.” That one usually works. Then they’ll pay. And if they refuse, that’s not some chick you wanna be fucking with anyway - clear red flag. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 09:23 PM |
| 20 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah this is great too. I think this is great advice, but for someone who’s more, let’s say, “naturally alpha”. I think this could honestly be a direct correlation to how much testosterone you have. High testosterone leads to a lot of qualities women find attractive, and there’s probably some pheromone-type shit going on too. Or they can just sense it or something. But for whatever reason, it makes you simply attractive to the female hindbrain, so all you have to do is not fuck it up. I don’t th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateDude honestly I think diet and neuromuscular connection (really isolating and utilizing the desired muscle groups) is more important than how much weight you’re actually lifting. It’s all about how well you can tear those targeted muscle fibers. It’s kind of my own personal lifting philosophy, but there’s def others who advocate this. I think Arnold used to talk about this being his stance too actually. Think about every well-proportioned bodybuilder you’ve ever seen. They all lift with perfect … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 08:59 PM |
| 9 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateThis isn’t terrible advice actually. My first dates end up being very long. Definitely in the 5-7 hour range when it’s all said and done. Couple hours at the bar, then a couple hours at your/her place. So I could see this model being beneficial. But I’m also usually getting with girls in the 23-29 age range, so sex on the first date is much more likely than if I was pursuing older women. Plus once I get a drink in me, I usually like to keep the party going. Having to shut it down after an hour o… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 08:32 PM |
| 132 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateHonestly I never knew what to do with women before TRP. I fell for blue pill conditioning pretty hard. I could get girls here and there just by being decent looking, playing sports, being smart, etc, but it was usually only girls that were pursuing me. And those girls were usually below my standards. I was afraid of embracing my sexuality. I was scared of rejection and “me too” type accusations. TRP helped me realize how important embracing your masculinity is. You’re a horny dude and you want t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYeah I mean I’m definitely in good shape. Eat a pretty clean diet. Pretty low carb. I do better with less gluten. I know I’m below 10% when I can see veins in my lower abs, but I’m not always that lean. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 08:06 PM |
| 45 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateYup. When I look back on how I acted on dates a year ago when I first found TRP, I realize so much has changed. I’m much more efficient now. Dating is like any other skill, practice is essential. For example, I used to spend way too much time talking about myself. My write up wasn’t totally comprehensive — mystery is another important key I left out. Avoid personal questions you don’t want to answer. Reveal just bits and pieces about yourself. Keep your responses short and flip the conversation … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 8 | HELP! How do I ensure Tinder HB9 doesn't flake?I’d say there’s a 95% chance she flakes based on that interaction. Thirsty much? Only thing you can do is say ‘see ya tonight’ late afternoon / early evening on the day she’s supposed to come. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Need help trying to figure out logisticsYeah exactly. I don’t want to go on a date if sex isn’t possible either. That’s why I’m torn on whether I should ask her what the deal is with her living situation. And from my experience, I don’t think fucking outside/in a car is realistic on the first date. Maybe second. On the positive side, she responds to all my messages almost instantly. I think there’s a high level of interest on her part and I feel confident I could close if logistics end up being fine. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Need help trying to figure out logisticsExcept time. I don’t really care for having a conversation with some chick I can’t close due to logistics. But I’m hesitant to press her on her living situation before we meet because I feel like it will trigger ASD. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 06:40 PM |
| 3 | A girl allowed me to touch her when we were alone on her stomach and lower back, but politely declined to be kissed. Is this a red flag or am I being impatient?Did you ask if you could kiss her? | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Should I open the door for my date?FYI I wouldn’t do it the first time you meet someone. Wait until you’ve built up a little rapport. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Should I open the door for my date?Best move actually is to push her out of the way, open it and then close it right behind you. Then laugh. You can open doors after that. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Shit test responseI’d honestly withdraw my offer and hit up someone else instead. I’d be like, “hey something came up. I can’t do Saturday anymore. Let’s catch up soon tho” Hit her up next week and see if her attitude changes. Also, I would’ve used a different tact replying to her douche comment. Your response saying “would a douche make you dinner” makes it seem like you’re trying to show her you’re a nice guy. I would’ve said something like “I’m the biggest douche ever. See you on Saturday though” | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Responding to excuses after inviting out.If you’re planning on soft nexting her, your reply to “I’m sorrrryy!” could be “why don’t you let me know when you’re free” then go no contact and wait for her move. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks me what I am looking for (meaning just casual sex or LTR). What answer should I give to her?“I dunno. Not looking for anything” Change subject | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 03:28 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys overcome anxiety?You tried to make amends. Maybe he’s not capable of being the father you wanted him to be. No worries. He doesn’t need to be. Just give up that dream. It’ll never be reality. Just control what you can control. If you want to have a cordial relationship, be cordial, understanding he may or may not reciprocate. Other than that, start meditating. Anxiety is just uncontrolled, racing thoughts about the future. Gain control over your brain/thoughts, and you gain control over your anxiety. It takes a … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 03:27 PM |
| 41 | The more “alpha” I’ve become the quieter I am?On the concept of silence...when a first date is going well, I’ll often stop talking entirely and leave a little smirk on my face. I play a game where I don’t talk and see how long she’ll keep nervously babbling on about something as it gets funnier and funnier to me. Eventually she’ll start nervously laughing and be like “whattt...what are you thinking aboutttt” then I’ll start laughing and say something like “I have a feeling you’d just keep talking forever if I didn’t say anything”. Then she … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Got rejected brutallyFor future reference I think the worst opener ever is “hey this is my friend blah blah”. It makes you both look retarded. Like why couldn’t you introduce yourself? And why is this clown introducing you and not himself? What’s wrong with him? Tell your boy to permanently drop that line from his repertoire. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Iron Rule of Tomassi #2 ClarificationDoesn’t do you any good. Her hamster spinning will always be better than her knowing the exact or estimated number. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 01:43 PM |
| 14 | What the fuck do I need to look like to get taken as a sexual human?No dude. Wrong. They use the boyfriend thing as a shit test all the time. It’s all about context. If she mentions how he makes her feel - she’s putting you in the friend zone. If she just mentions he exists - she’s showing you she’s desirable and wants to see how you handle it. Do you not care because you know you’re higher value than that chump? That’s what she wants to see. Read the Book of Pook. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Am I wasting my time with this girl? Should I ghost her?Yeah dude never give off friend vibes. This is classic afc behavior. Be unapologetic in your sexual desire, and put her in the position of having to turn you down. You’ll see much better results. Read the Book of Pook. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What pre, intra, and post-workout would you recommend?Just take creatine HCL and a mix of whey/casein post work out. That said, diet is much more important and that’s really what you should be focusing on. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Am I wasting my time with this girl? Should I ghost her?If she alludes to how her boyfriend makes her feel and how she feels about him (in a positive way), it 100% means you’re in the friend zone. I would disengage entirely and figure out why you gave off friend vibes so it doesn’t happen again. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 04:42 PM |
| 12 | Plates friends shit test me more than herAny time you’re around a group of girls the shit tests get much more frequent. Not sure why. Always happens tho. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - “why this date” “is there any reason for this date?”I see what you’re saying but I don’t think that’s the right approach. You get the hamster spinning by limiting your availability and going silent occasionally. “Why didn’t he hit me up the last two weeks? Is he seeing someone else now?” | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - “why this date” “is there any reason for this date?”Setting dates two weeks in advance is excessive in my opinion. Maybe you need to plan these dates two weeks in advance, but they don’t. Sort your schedule out and ask them 3-7 days in advance. That still gives you enough time to reach out to plan b, c, d, etc. if needed. I think girls will think you’re weird and over invested if you’re setting dates two weeks in advance. Think about it like this - would you ever set up a date two weeks in advance with your last option? Or would you only hit her … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?Up your smv son. They all know high smv guys are messing around with a bunch of girls. You’re so low smv they expect you to be exclusive to them from the start. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 03:23 PM |
| 14 | Should you even care about women when you haven't fixed yourself yet?Similar boat here. Focusing on my mission and making girls a secondary priority at the moment. This is after a full year of them being my main mission. All it took was the development of one serious oneitis to make me realize I need to be focusing on more important shit. I hated the control she had over my thoughts and emotions. Didn’t have enough else going on in my life. But thankful she helped put that into perspective for me. Still though, I think that year spent focusing on women was helpfu… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Shit test? What would be a good replyActa non verba. Don’t tell her you want to fuck her brains out, just do it instead. And don’t tell her you’re into her. She knows that you idiot. You literally just asked her to hang out. Your response should’ve been way less direct. Her: “why” You: “I want to show you pictures of my pet goldfish” or “I need someone to fold my laundry” or “use your imagination” | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Soft Next?That kind of game isn’t for everyone. It works. But here’s another option for dudes who can’t pull that off “you know what this leads to” - you laugh and - “no I don’t know what this leads to let’s find out” then continue what you were doing. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you draw the line between being on the red pill and just being a complete asshole?What makes you think there’s a correlation? Show us where you got that. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 02:36 AM |
| 3 | The sudden "Why?" shittestShe teases me and I tease her back with stronger stuff. Doesn’t really sound like passing shit tests to me. Sounds like someone who gets butthurt and needs to win. You’re always treating her shit tests like she’s an equal. Try treating them like she’s 5 years old and whatever she says is too insignificant to even acknowledge. Sometimes all you gotta do is ignore. Next 15 times she says why, literally pretend you didn’t even hear it. Change the subject. Do your own thing. Whatever. Just don’t ack… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Paying for a girls uber just to hook up?It’s tough. Is she broke? Does she have a real job? I don’t think you’d ask her to pay for your Uber if you went to her place. And she’d probably flip her shit if you did. Only way I could agree with her demands is if she really is broke as shit and you’re not. In that case, I think it’s ok to order her ride home. But def gotta be careful you’re not agreeing to her demands because you’re scared of losing access to her vagina. It could just be a test to see what kind of outrageous demands she can… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Scars from self-inflicted injuryTell her you got into them dark arts for a minute boy. Cult life ain’t no joke but you got out. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching on social mediaIf you’re hot and your pictures make you seem cool/like you have an interesting life, then you have a chance. If not, don’t even bother. Better off approaching in person. I’ve had success with cold DMs on IG twice. But in both cases the girl randomly followed me. I waited months before messaging each one. Then one day they posted something and I messaged them, opening with “you look really familiar, have we met each other?” | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Whenever i meet someone attractive on the street i automatically open up my ig then i start to slightly laugh !What dude? Try again. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Get over being unattractive.You also probably had a different approach with your messages. Might’ve even been subconscious to you. But I’m sure you had a great IDGAF attitude with those messages since they really didn’t matter. That makes a big difference. Girls can sense your neediness even through text messages. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when she gives this kind of answer:Yeah I don’t know. It wasn’t a direct counter offer. But I can see from her location that she’s hundreds of miles away. So it appears she is out of town. She just said she doesn’t get back until Thursday, but it’s not like she said I can do Thursday instead. So I’m torn on if I should propose Thursday or basically say no worries another time. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Should you treat girls like shit?Ok there’s a major distinction being trying to act like an asshole on purpose vs doing it simply as a consequence of being awesome. For example, if you have 10 girls vying for your attention, you might not respond when one hits you up at night to come over. Then she’ll tell her friends you’re an asshole. Thing is, you weren’t being an asshole on purpose. You just didn’t respond because you had something better going on. That’s what we really mean when we say girls like assholes. Typically high v… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl take several days to open a Snapchat?All this time and energy? I opened up Snapchat (7 seconds), wrote this post (1 minute and 37 seconds) and commented a couple times (2 minutes and 3 seconds). | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl take several days to open a Snapchat?Yeah that’s what I was wondering. Although it’s weird cause I haven’t hit any of these girls up in a while. So it’s not like I did something recently that would’ve changed their mind. Except maybe not hit them up. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 03:57 PM |
| 30 | Think I left a very expensive cashmere jumper at an ex-plates flat. What do?Uhh ask if she has it?? Who cares about “the redpill approach.” You’re done with this girl | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Why would a girl take several days to open a Snapchat?I just opened Snapchat and realized like 4 girls haven’t opened something I sent two days ago. I hardly ever use it. Maybe send one snap a month. I’m not really concerned, just curious. You can see on the little map thing they’ve been active recently. Basically I just don’t understand it. And if I don’t understand something, I want to try to understand it. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:48 PM |
| 24 | Friend losing oneitis LTR to Tyrone.How about some paragraphs bro | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Confusing behaviourThen why’d you ask her how she is? One of the worst texts you can send a girl in general, but especially before you have sex. Such a boring and worthless message. Get straight to the point next time. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I’ve heard doing LSD once can have a positive impact on your life. Anybody want to share how doing LSD affected you?Showed me how most of the trivial shit I worry about is just that. Trivial shit. What if she rejects me? What if I look like an idiot dancing? Honestly who cares. Helped put that into perspective. Among many other things. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Please help me understandMen are romantics pretending to be realists and women are realists pretending to be romantics. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Shoot me a tip on how to close a date for this tinder convo?This date won’t happen. Just look at how short her answers are compared to yours. All you’re doing is giving her validation. “Give me the chance to please you at all costs thou beautiful princess for I am not worthy” That’s what she’s getting out of your messages. Back to the sidebar for you | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What are some good movies? Especially ones that show good example of frame?True romance possibly. Great flick if you haven’t seen it | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Never compromise for her shitty behavior!!It’s just words bro. If you don’t like the way she acts, stop seeing her. I don’t think it’s really necessary to storm off cause someone said a bad word. But that’s just me. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Major case of blue pill on my sideGet her back? You’ve never even gone out with her. Nothing to get back. Except you getting back to the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Whats worse?So she went to a party, got drunk and had sex? And somehow that’s not her fault? Don’t you assume the guy was drunk too? Maybe she raped him. Society is so stupid lol. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?True. Do you think I should do or say anything in person? Like something along the lines of “I’m not gonna pressure you into sex but if we’re not having sex I have enough friends if you catch my drift” Then if she doesn’t accept that I don’t really care. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?I’m not wondering if she’s afraid I’m gonna ghost her. She said she’s afraid I’m gonna ghost her. Believe me I don’t want a relationship. I just want to smash a couple more times. What I am wondering is if comfort will help or hurt in this situation. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?Dude I think she’s just a little fucked up mentally. She kept saying she was worried I was gonna ghost her before we had sex. I’m honestly leaning towards she doesn’t wanna get pumped and dumped again, as opposed to me acting too beta. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?Lol what makes you say that. I have no problem telling her what I’m looking for. I’m quite literally not interested in any sort of a relationship with her. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?I think you hit the nail on the head. That’s my general thoughts on the situation. Next time we hang out I’ll say something about not treating me in relation to what some other guy did. If it breaks, it breaks. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?What did I do? She said she’s sorry for not responding. I said honestly I forgot about it. But now that you mention it why didn’t you respond. I wasn’t even planning on hitting her up again. I was just curious. I didn’t do anything from the time we first hooked up until she ghosted aside from ask her out again. Is asking her out again a craven action? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?Yeah she mentioned it like twice on the first date. That was enough times. She would never be anything more than a plate. She’s good in bed and fun to be around but not LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?This is my fear. I don’t think that’s the case but never know. I don’t have much of a history of one and done’s where the girl is no longer interested after one session. I guess it’s probably happened two or three times though. Not sure. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?Yeah my other theory is maybe she was on her period when I asked and she didn’t want to have to deal with that. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?This is my theory as well. What should I do about that without coming off as beta and killing her attraction. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?Yeah that’s what I thought. But why sleep with me the first night and she seemed to be giving IOIs when I went back to that business and saw her again. She kept mentioning she was afraid I was gonna ghost her when we were in bed after sex. She was like “I should just assume this is casual and not get attached right? In case you ghost me.” And I was like “well that’s not the worst attitude to have, not saying I’m gonna ghost you but it’s prob better to think that way.” | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | “Maybe next month” is she interested?Even still. Who would invite someone they’ve never gone out with to a party with all their friends. Psycho move. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | “Maybe next month” is she interested?No chance. Would you invite someone you’ve never gone out with to a holiday party? Dumbest idea ever. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 11:54 AM |
| 2 | “Maybe next month” is she interested?Not necessarily. That’s a particularly busy time for people. Holiday parties that weekend. Followed by Christmas shit the next week. Followed by New Years shit the week after. She’s definitely not super interested, but there’s a chance he could still convert this. If she said next month at any other time of the year, I’d agree with you. But those two weeks starting December 14th are pretty busy. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Would it be acceptable to DEER in this situation? Can I explain this to her?Lol what? Yeah it was almost dating but no official label/exclusivity, if that’s what you mean. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | At what point is a girl testing you too annoyingPart of me wants to drop her Drop her? There’s nothing to drop. Dude she’s a texting buddy. You’re being used as validation. This is orbiting 101. Hmm let me stay up till 4am messaging this chick from my home town without setting up a meet — textbook orbiter behavior. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Establishing a plate - is it important to see her a second time shortly after the first f-closeYeah that was my hypothesis as well. But it doesn’t really explain why they wouldn’t still be interested once you demonstrate it wasn’t a one time thing in your eyes. Shouldn’t they be surprised and happy? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you bring a girl home if you live with an elderly person?Spike his apple sauce with sleeping pills. Game on. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Have desire to fix things with broken plate (oneitis) - not sure what to doI appreciate this. Thanks man. I don’t know why I’m having such a hard time letting go. I know I need to leave her alone. But I’m worried I’m gonna try again when I’m feeling down or something. That’s kinda why I posted. So enough people will convince me it’s a terrible idea. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Have desire to fix things with broken plate (oneitis) - not sure what to doWhat do you think my issue is? I think I got such a bad case of oneitis cause other aspects of my life are lacking (career/living situation). I have my looks in order, but the other shit is lacking. So my self-worth isn’t as high as it could be. I also have a tendency to react emotionally, so I’ve been reading up on stoicism. Is that along the lines of what you meant by fixing myself? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Just got stood up. Why?Dude exactly. Men don’t do this. You weren’t a man before. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Just got stood up. Why?What’s the nice way? I just say “hey tonight doesn’t work for me anymore” or something along those lines. I don’t provide a reason why. How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Just got stood up. Why?Why? Why not just say you can’t make it? I get ghosting girls in general but that doesn’t make sense to me. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Just got stood up. Why?Not after agreeing to a date. Were talking about a specific instance of agreeing to a date then not having the balls to say you can’t make it. Only chicks do that. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Girl left her stuff at mine and wanted to come see me, now expects me to double text!?Yeah I think this is the right play. Worst case scenario if she doesn’t text you...then you hit her up early morning the day before you go back to uni. Say something like I’m leaving for uni tomorrow so come by and get your stuff tonight if you want it. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Just got stood up. Why?Agreeing to a date then not responding to the confirmation? Yeah I think only women do that. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Just got stood up. Why?That’s society convincing you men need to be held to a higher standard of honor. Or maybe we’re just more considerate of others. I dunno doesn’t seem hard to tell someone you can’t make it, but I’m also not a chick. They don’t give a fuck dude. Abundance mentality through the roof. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?But I was also never an incel cause I worked out and played sports. Could’ve been an incel if I stayed inside all day and played video games instead. Which I did like doing. Just not as much as not being a loser. Point is start with being fit and going to the gym. It will give you the confidence you need to succeed in all the other improvement initiatives you embark on. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?These were like 5s. But yeah never an incel. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you punish the bad behaviour of plate or gf?Just don’t answer the question. “Do you ever stop talking” “Hold on I need to watch this 4 hour YouTube video so please shut up” I dunno man you can avoid the question a million ways. Don’t let her suck you in. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 04:26 AM |
| 9 | If your trying to get a girl interest over social media is it better to just leave them on read? Especially if it’s after you’ve tried to make plans and they said no but yet they still continue to message you?You’re not upset. You just have more promising leads. This one isn’t worth your time | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 11:53 PM |
| 43 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?Not an incel. Got laid every once in a while. But didn’t know what I was doing with girls. I always lifted. Was always athletic. But my game was terrible. Most of the time chicks would have to throw themselves at me for us to hook up. I was terrified of “rape” acquisitions. Society fucked me up. After a year of red pill I’ve fucked more girls than ever before. Girls I’ve met on the street, at the gym, at their work, etc. Now that I know what I’m doing with girls and it’s almost like I can see th… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 09:52 PM |
| 3 | What's the lamest/the most pathetic thing you've done in pursuit of a oneitis?Hand wrote this girl a letter about everything I liked about her after she said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to keep seeing each other. In my defense I said some weird shit after she said she wanted to stop, and the letter was my attempt at ending things on a high note. Still lame af and beta as shit. Blocked her on everything shortly after. Felt much better. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 05:27 AM |
| 2 | How many days do you guys wait before contacting a girl after a first date F close?So after a first date F close, right before we went our separate ways, I used to tell them to text me if they want to hang out again. They always would. Then I read on here you’re supposed to text them the next day. I’ve gotten worse results with that. I’m going back to my old method. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 03:42 AM |
| 2 | What girl almost made you revert back to the old you, even after swallowing the red pill for quite some time?Any girl that knew you before trp. It’s hard to change the frame of a relationship once you’ve shown your old blue pill self. I’m still dealing with this with a certain girl I met before trp. I keep doing shit I’d never do with other girls. I keep trying to see if I can “win” and come out on top, but she keeps crumbling my frame like it’s a damn nature valley granola bar. The one good thing is I keep learning from mistakes I make with her and then don’t make those mistakes with other girls. My r… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Question about getting leaner (short).You’re only in a caloric deficit of 150 cals per day. That translates to a deficit of 1050 cals over the course of a week. Multiply that by three weeks and it’s a deficit of 3150 cals. To lose one pound of fat you need a deficit of 3500 cals, so you’re not at one pound of fat loss yet. I suggest you start mixing in cardio. Burn 400 calories or so every other day to start. That should make progress go a little quicker. Then from there you can either ramp up cardio or cut back on calories, but I’d… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Made plans to get coffee with a girl; I was a beta and didn't make my intentions clear that I wanted a date. How to fix?Treat it like a date and it’s a date. Treat it like a book club interview and that’s what it’ll be. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What does game mean to you?Some women are highly attracted to you and will sleep with you pretty much regardless of how you act. Other women are not into you at all, and nothing you do or say can change that. The majority of women however fall into the camp of somewhat interested, but you need to win me over. Game is your ability to convert these luke warm women into the attracted camp. The better your game, the more success you’ll have converting somewhat interested women into highly interested ones. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Advice on buying my first SuitNo get a navy blue suit. Unless you plan on going to a lot of funerals. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do you do all this shit?Save up and move closer to your office so you’re not commuting two hours a day. Or read/learn during your commute. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:28 PM |
| 6 | Should I run it by a girl before I rent the room?Correct. Gotta make her feel like “I dunno, it just happened” If you told her beforehand you were buying an Airbnb, that would def trigger ASD. Oh yeah why? What are we gonna do there? I’m not sleeping with you tonight, etc | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 12 | Should I run it by a girl before I rent the room?Before you meet up, I’d say “btw I have an idea.” When she asks what it is, say you’ll tell her tonight. Avoid the question until you get a drink or two in you. Then say you were looking at airbnb’s and you two should get one. Blah blah it’ll be fun, we’ll hang out, watch a movie, this one looks nice, check it out. Then purchase it in front of her. I wouldn’t purchase it beforehand. When you tell her you already got one, that might trigger her ASD. I’ve done this before and had success with the … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Advice on text game needed. (Tinder convo included for feedback)Do less | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Made VERY tentative plans over a week ago for this Thursday - do I need to tell her I can’t do Thursday, or am I better off not saying anything?She already rescheduled. It’s not a low interest thing. I asked about two times that didn’t work and I believe her reasons why. And both times she rescheduled for didn’t work for me. But yeah logistics are shit. We can only do Thursdays for reasons I won’t get into. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Describe yourself from the moment you found the redpill vs the person you are at this momentNot true. Enjoy them. They are fun to talk to and be around. Us men get great enjoyment out of that feminine energy. But simply be ready for their bullshit. They all have a tendency to use the same “tricks”, but they’re no longer tricks once you understand what they’re doing. You’re now equipped with the knowledge to NOT let those “bad traits” affect you. Once you accept women for what they are, then you can truly begin to enjoy them. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked on.+1 | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadYeah then we talked about hanging out this Friday. I told her I can’t the following weekend and she said she has another holiday party this Saturday. She said she doesn’t have anything planned Friday and that works. That said, her birthday is Monday so I figured she might have plans with friends. That’s why I didn’t want to ask. Thought I might get another busy. So I followed up and said you know what just let me know when you’re free. I don’t think I can ask again now. It’s up to her. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadI already told her to hit me up when she’s free. So I can’t hit her up now. Will seem weak and desperate. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadI’m just treating it like she’ll never engage and making plans as such. And if she does initiate, I’ll have the option of cancelling those existing plans depending on how/when she does it. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadYeah you’re prob right. Which is why I told her to let me know when she’s free rather than initiate again. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadI’ve known her for a year. I’m sure she’s having sex with someone else. But yeah she was across the country for two months so haven’t seen her for a while. And I don’t text aside from trying to set up plans. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadWell I proposed specific plans. One time she was going to New York, another time she was going home, and another time she had a holiday party. Haven’t seen her in a while because she was away for two months, so the first time we hang out again would be a little more high effort than simply coming over for sex on a Tuesday or something. More of a real date experience. But yeah I don’t think I’m high on her priorities right now. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 07:58 PM |
| 7 | Time to next?Relax. Maybe she was actually moving. Give it a week or so then try again. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How to take advantage of a situation with 4 girls in a car?Dude just be the captain of the ship. They’re gonna be annoying and they’re gonna shit test you. Don’t let it phase you. Stay upbeat. Stay funny. Make sure you lead. You have final say over everything. If you hold frame and seem funny during the drive, you have a good shot at building some attraction. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 03:45 AM |
| 2 | On Tinder, do you all NEXT girls who don’t like to go out with guys until they “get to know them” through texting?Every once in a while they need some more rapport with you to confirm you’re real and not a psycho. It is a pretty high risk move as a chick meeting some rando who’s definitely stronger than her, so sometimes they need a little more time. I’ve had quick phone calls with dating app girls before meeting. Prob 75% date close after that. That’s the exception to the rule though. More often than not they’re simply not that interested. Tell them that’s why you’re meeting in person, to get to know each … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with these “maybe” and “I’ll get back to you” texts in regards to the meeting up for a second date?You should say “no worries another time” Then hit her up again a week or two later | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with these “maybe” and “I’ll get back to you” texts in regards to the meeting up for a second date?When they say “maybe” or “I’ll let you know” it’s often best to say something along the lines of “no worries another time.” Don’t let them dangle that carrot in front of you. Don’t let them hold your schedule hostage. If you had 10 other chicks, you wouldn’t be waiting for this one girl to make up her mind and get back to you. That said, there are some instances where it’s acceptable to allow her to “let you know” but more often than not you’re better off just pulling the rug from under her. The… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Issue's with getting second datesI think it’s better to do this in person on the first date than via text afterwards. If I fuck on the first date, when I leave, I’ll tell them “I had fun, text me if you want to hang out again.” They always do, since they don’t want to feel like a slut. If I don’t fuck on the first date, before we part ways I’ll say something like “did you have fun tonight?” She says “yesss.” Then you can say “same let’s do it again sometime.” | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Issue's with getting second datesHow long are you waiting to set up a second date? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 04:14 PM |
| 2 | I don't want to make it to 27Simple advice: start meditating daily. I suggest the headspace app. And begin reading about stoicism (Meditations and The Enchiridion to start). Your thoughts are not reality. You have control over your thoughts. But it’s like a muscle you need to train with practice. Both of these things should help get your mind in a better place. Then you can begin some of the other advice on here re: traveling and making friends. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps making fun of my stutterSh...sh...shhhut the fuck up before I spank you | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Theory question about shit tests - do you want your women to shit test you?I’m curious if I’m doing it wrong cause most of my plates seem to shit test me a lot. I think it’s fun though and I feel confident I’m passing most of them. I just wanted to know if I’m doing something wrong or the shit tests are to be expected and enjoyed. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Help me respond (Tinder)Why in the world do you think you could savage this? And why would you try? She went full nuclear on you. This is something you might be able to recover from in person, but not through text before meeting. Which brings me to my point, texting is not the same as in person communication. You can’t get away with the same edgy shit unless you know the girl well. They take it the wrong way. Quit beating around the bush next time. The bet was an easy transition to setting up logistics for the date. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Scored a date with girl on dating app relatively quickly. Asked for number and she’s says “maybe I’ll earn it later”Earn it? Nah I’m good. See ya Friday | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Went out with girl a couple times - no sex - question about length of soft nextYeah I’ve realized my mistake. Misused the soft next. She hasn’t responded to my invite in 6 hours. She’s prob ghosting. I’ve been thinking about double texting and saying “Btw I’ve been out of town” I feel like that would explain my silence over the past 2.5 weeks without showing neediness. But that could just be my hamster spinning. What do you think about that text? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Went out with girl a couple times - no sex - question about length of soft nextEvery other plate I hook up with I go to their places. Read my other comment about the nature of the interactions. I think I handled logistics as well as I could’ve. Are you suggesting I should’ve hit her up again sooner? What could I have done differently with logistics? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Went out with girl a couple times - no sex - question about length of soft nextYou think? What should I have done instead? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Went out with girl a couple times - no sex - question about length of soft nextUsually I just go to girls places. First date I didn’t know she lived at home with her mom, so was caught off guard there. I told her my place is off limits and we’ll need to figure this out. Spent some time fooling around in the car. Second date I suggested a hotel and also tried to go back to her mom’s place. She said she’s down with going to her mom’s place, but not that night cause she wanted to give her mom a heads up. She keeps trying to hook up with me and I play along for a bit then pull… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:58 PM |
| 5 | What's your take on gaming in the gym?Don’t go there to game. But if you start talking and have a connection, go for it. You kinda have to slow play it more than usual though. You don’t want to get rejected and get blown up, since it’s technically within your social circle. Additionally, I think you have to be more upfront than usual. If it goes sour, don’t ghost. Let her down gently if you must. Tell her something like she’s great and she’ll find someone else, but you’re not looking for anything serious right now. Or fill in with w… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 06:04 PM |
| 3 | LTRs and ExerciseTell her you think she looks hot in her work out clothes and give her attention when she gets back from the gym. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 04:03 AM |
| 107 | Alpha fucking my sisterSwimming, water polo and tennis?? Bro stuff him in a locker | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever call a girl out for stringing you along?I already have a feeling she’s going to. Like I said we talked about making plans for two weekends from now. She has a holiday party that Saturday, she goes on break that Friday, and it’s also her birthday weekend. She has a ton of friends so I’m guessing she’ll have plans to go out with her friends for her birthday that Friday. I don’t really wanna ask again only to have her say she’s busy. Problem is she’s on her period the week after, then I’m going to be away for a couple weekends. And I hav… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 05:23 PM |
| -1 | Would you ever call a girl out for stringing you along?Thing is I don’t know if she’s actually busy or just stringing me along. Hence the reason for the post | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 05:13 PM |
| -1 | Would you ever call a girl out for stringing you along?What do you think you will accomplish if you call her out? Best case I’m wrong and she’s actually been busy Worst case she knows I’m onto her so she can’t keep giving me reasons why she’s busy. Then I don’t have to keep asking every couple weeks like a stooge | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | She said she's not looking for anything serious right now..?Why’d you ask her if she has a boyfriend? What does that matter to you? Let her tell you that if she wants to. No need to ask. Keep that in mind in the future. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I next dis bitch?No you shouldn’t next her. Because she already nexted you. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who misread this?She’s not interested. But in the future, don’t send that “what are you up to” part Do you really care? You don’t. You’re just being needy and trying to coax her into a response | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Girl using my weapon against me and taking days to respondStop having a “convo” and invite her over again | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Girl using my weapon against me and taking days to respondStop taking a day to respond. Never respond when you’re on a date with another girl. Other than that, it’s ok to take a few hours to respond to her first text. Then if she responds relatively quickly, it’s ok to do the same. If you take a day to respond, she’s eventually gonna assume you’re not interested and act accordingly. Chicks have so many guys lined up that such consistently slow response times will simply get you nexted. It’s 2018, everyone knows everyone is always checking their phones.… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Is it best to maintain radio silence until the date?When you book a date that far in advance, I think your best bet is to either go radio silence or at most send a funny meme. Pretty low effort. Just don’t send one of those “hey how’s your day going” texts. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | What went wrong here?You’re emotionally unstable. It’d be so easy to push your buttons. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 08:05 PM |
| 6 | What went wrong here?Grow up. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here?Me. I don’t care. Neither should you. Girls wanna fuck on their periods as long as you’re not grossed out by it. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here?Whoa chill bro. Weak frame. Second time hanging out, sorry. And period doesn’t mean you can’t have sex. You asked what might’ve gone wrong. Based on the limited info available, I’m pointing out one potential mistake. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here?You didn’t hook up and yet you had a good time and want to do it again? Sounds kinda beta to me. Would chad have a good time and want to do it again after not fucking on a second date? | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here?No need to text and say had a good time we should do that again. That text is only advisable after you bang for the first time. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the girls with lots of guy "friends"?You plate them and not LTR them. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | “you don’t like texting? I only see you text only one word”Hit her with the thumbs up emoji. Or the shrug emoji. Zero words. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or Next?Just say hit me up if you need a quick study break. Then forget about her. If she doesn’t hit you up (she won’t), then hit her up a week or two after mid December. Her interest is luke warm at best. But she’s putting effort into her replies so there’s a chance, even though it’s slim. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Plate made plans after asking me to hangI don’t think you need to ignore her. You’ll seem butthurt. She didn’t really do anything wrong aside from have more abundance than you. So you counter that by either actually gaining more abundance, or pretending you have more abundance. Which means you don’t ask her to hang out for a bit and you tell her you’re busy if she asks you. Then after a set period of time goes by, return to normal and ask her to hang out again. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Plate made plans after asking me to hangYou sound desperate. No response. Do something else. Go a week without reaching out. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 08:59 PM |
| 2 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?They have to actually see you as dominant for that to work. If they’re questioning your dominance/leadership, they’ll call you out on it. She probably sensed you were putting on a show or she just wasn’t that attracted. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I have replied to this text or was radio silence the right callWhen they’re wishy washy like that, I usually call them out. I’ll say “you’re not giving me much to work with.” Then it’s in her court after that. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 02:38 PM |
| 2 | To chase or not to chase.I’ll ask once, and if they decline, I might try again in like two weeks, but mentally I write them off. The reason I try again is you never know with women. Their emotions are so volatile, maybe she was just in a bad place the first time you texted. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Sticking point: physical escalationKino. Read about kino. And start early. I usually start by saying something about a piece of jewelry on her hands then I’ll touch her hands. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:03 AM |
| 16 | How to get mad at your LTR without breaking frame? and when do you get mad?I think the point is...if she’s making you mad, and you had true abundance, you wouldn’t care. You’d just find a new girl that doesn’t make you mad. Every time you get mad at something she does but you don’t leave, it gives her more power. She sees that as her being too good for you, since you won’t take action and leave her. This gives her even more reason to continue testing your boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Calling vs. texting a girlI’ll call sometimes if I’m driving. But only to set up plans. Not to chat. Even though some chatting ensues. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | If men are competing with all other men, why answer questions here? Why help your rivals?Abundance mentality. There’s enough out there for all of us in here. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 09:54 PM |
| 24 | Disrespectful plate snaps me a pic of another guys bedsheets“When shes in bed with another dude but thinking of me” This is good | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 03:28 PM |
| 3 | One of my plates got mad at me because “I never pay for shit”Yeah it’s pretty good. And she’s cool. I don’t mind paying, I’ve just been experimenting with splitting everything. No one has seemed to care or bring it up until now. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 01:52 AM |
| 3 | One of my plates got mad at me because “I never pay for shit”That I don’t pay for her as well. I’m 29, she’s 26. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 01:40 AM |
| 1 | One of my plates got mad at me because “I never pay for shit”We split things. We had a talk about getting more serious and it was something she brought up. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | One of my plates got mad at me because “I never pay for shit”We split bills. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 01:35 AM |
| 3 | One of my plates got mad at me because “I never pay for shit”Kinda FWB. Actually like her and do things aside from sex. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 01:25 AM |
| 2 | “My ex is 6 foot 4, 210lbs” after I tell her my height and weightMy ex was 6’5” 310. So suck it | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | “My ex is 6 foot 4, 210lbs” after I tell her my height and weightJust say the letter “O”. If she wants you, that’ll make her feel stupid, and she’ll want to crawl herself out of that hole by being nice. If she doesn’t want you, she won’t respond and you won’t have to waste your time. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I fuck less attractive girls when I have no active plates?Unless you really need to work on your fuck game, you should be attracted to any girl you have sex with. Not worth lowering your standards. It’s just sex. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Whats your guys opinion on 'im busy, ill let you know'?Yeah ok I hear you. As long as you’re not acting on it. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 06:02 PM |
| 10 | Whats your guys opinion on 'im busy, ill let you know'?Ok then be a beta and ask her what the deal is. And dry up her pussy. And further cement your scarcity mindset. Your call. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Text chatDo you know what a shit test is? She’s not hating on you. She’s shit testing. And you’re probably failing those spectacularly. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 04:50 PM |
| 12 | Whats your guys opinion on 'im busy, ill let you know'?“It’s cool we can just do another night” Wait a week or two then try again | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you only text a girl to make plans when she likes to text throughout the day? Wouldn't not texting throughout the day just show disinterest? Do y'all get what I'm saying?Just don’t respond that quickly and keep it short and light. She’ll get the point you’re not a big texter. She says “hey how’s your day” you respond 6 hours later with some bullshit “good just robbed a bank.” She proposes plans, you reward her and respond quicker. Train her not to text dumb shit all day if you don’t want to (you shouldn’t). | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Is a girl waiting a while to text back a shit test or lack of interest?I don’t need your help. Nothing you say in this case will change how I act. I know what to do now. I simply asked for opinions because I’m curious. EDIT: it’s worth mentioning I’m only texting for logistics again. But she’s now taking longer to respond. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Is a girl waiting a while to text back a shit test or lack of interest?I made a mistake. You’ve never made a mistake? Ok bro. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Is a girl waiting a while to text back a shit test or lack of interest?Yes believe me I know logistics only. I know don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do. Well I fucked up. She told me to text her more and I caved. I lost frame. I admitted as much. I now realize the mistake. My question is about whether or not slower response times always means lack of interest or could it just be a shit test? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Is a girl waiting a while to text back a shit test or lack of interest?Yeah all the time. But lately she’s taking longer to respond after I broke frame a couple times. She kept bugging me to text her more. I broke frame and started to. Then she’d take a while to respond to my dumb, pointless shit. And so I double texted being like “I told you, you don’t want me to text you all the time. You think you do but you don’t.” Or something like that. Now curious if the longer response time signifies lack of interest or if it’s just a shit test to see if I’ll double text ag… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 06:22 PM |
| 2 | how to maintain interestYou haven’t fucked her yet. Any time you spend chit chatting over text while she’s away will only convince her you don’t have options. Forget about her and hit her up when she’s back. If she was genuinely interested then, she’ll still be interested a few weeks later. The type of text game you’re asking about really only applies to existing plates/FWBs, but even then the jury is out on whether or not you should ping them while they’re away. Most people here would say not to, and I tend to agree. … | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 03:27 PM |
| 37 | Are women natural liars?Women aren’t liars, they just don’t communicate like men do. They communicate with their emotions. So at one point in time she wanted to go to “the thing” with you. Then a few days later, her emotions changed, and now she doesn’t. This is just the way women are. Get used to it. Men on the other hand communicate rationally. So when you agree to go to “the thing,” you’ve made a rational contract to do so, and breaking said contract would render your initial acceptance of the plan a lie. This is no… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl waiting a while to text back a shit test or lack of interest?I’m talking about logistics. Propose something and she takes a while to respond. Lack of interest or possible shit test? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl waiting a while to text back a shit test or lack of interest?I’m talking about plates. Not prospects. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | girl asks if we're friendsSay “yeah let’s play pickup basketball tomorrow. That’s what friends are for” | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 03:23 AM |
| 5 | What's you go to to throw on, for Netflix and chill?Eyes wide shut | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 03:21 AM |
| 10 | Smaller and ripped or big and jacked?You weigh more than enough. It’s time to cut. Stop being a little bitch and embrace it. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to questionion more details about a date?Simply send her this link: maps.google.com | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I pack a bag for the night?Fuck you need an overnight bag for? Stay over if you want but you don’t need a purse. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?This is great. Needed to hear this. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?It's definitely my ego getting in the way. She makes me feel better about myself. So I'm still seeking external validation unfortunately. I actually haven't even fucked her since early August. But she's also been away for 9 of those 12 weeks. We've been in contact maybe 3-4 times over this period. She'll be around the week after next which is why I started thinking about her again. I want to wait to see if she hits me up, but I also want to hit her up before another dude does. I have a feeli… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?I mean that's definitely true. I didn't have a lot of chores to do as a kid, I do crave her validation and I do fear losing her. Not sure if the connection to chores if valid but it's pretty spot on. Also...not sure how to fix this. Any advice since you seem knowledgable on the topic? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?Dude it’s weird it’s the only girl I think about texting some dumb bullshit that’s not logistics. I have two other plates and my phone is filled with prospects I’m lining up. I don’t know why this girl has so much real estate in my brain. She’s just clearly hotter and a step above the other girls I’m getting in most aspects. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?Those are exactly my thoughts about monk mode. Why do I have to be celibate? I guess girls can be a distraction, as they are in this case for me. But I think this is a one time thing, especially now that I have a better understanding of the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?I appreciate this. I know making something of myself is the real issue. I’ve been avoiding the problem for a while now and seeking validation from girls. I have to put in the real work now. I think this period has run its course. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?I respect that. I use TRP for sexual strategy and I’ve been improving myself in several areas - lifting, acquiring knowledge, developing hobbies - but the main piece that’s missing is career. I need to fix that. I think that’s the root of my insecurity. I think if that was on point, I wouldn’t be having any of these beta thought patterns. Maybe dick size plays a part too but whatever. It’s average. I assume everyone wants a bigger dick. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?Ugh I know you’re right. Problem is we still fuck occasionally so it’s hard for me to next her. I’d almost prefer if she just ended things so I could move on and forget about her entirely. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?My biggest issue is finding my mission. Girls have been a distraction almost. An ego boost and I enjoy their company but that’s about it. I’ve been thinking about monk mode. Just seems kinda incel/gay. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?I’ve been trying to find replacements. I try all the time. I found one plate that was on her level, but that broke, and now I’m back to square one. Every other plate I get seems to be a point or two lower than her in SMV. My problem isn’t finding new plates. It’s finding plates I like as much, if not more. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?I’ve read this. I’ve read the side bar. I’ve read book of pook, models, way of the superior man, etc. I’ve read a lot. Did you have a specific section you wanted to refer me to? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?Yeah I know. I’ll check this dudes profile every so often. I’m definitely stalking her to some extent. I don’t know how to stop. Or why I even care so much. I don’t do this with anyone else. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not being her first option - any advice?She’s just been the longest spinning plate (almost a year, but don’t hang all that often). And it started before I found the red pill. Others seem to come and go much more quickly, and I don’t really get any sort of emotional attachment to them. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | My chad friend called the girl I like beautiful . Some one explain to me his successIt’s the way you say it. If you say “you’re beautiful” and the only though going through your head at the time is I’m the man and I want to fuck this hot woman, that’s what will be conveyed to her. If you say “you’re beautiful” but you’re thinking she’s way out of my league, please let me have sex with you, then that’s what’s she’s going to get out of it and she’ll be grossed out. There’s nuance here dude. Plus the higher your SMV in comparison to hers, the more shit you can get away with. Eithe… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:43 AM |
| 2 | How to reply to "was i tight"?This is a good one Or say yeah you’re rad | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Those with high SMV: How often do you get rejected? If at all?Rejection is good. Gotta push your limits. Keep going for hotter and hotter girls. You should be getting rejected a fair amount no matter how high your smv is. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this text? And also, would you say it was a successful night?Say “I died on the way home” You’re over thinking this one. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Contacting girls on instagram?It’s possible. I’ve done it. You should be able to tell whether or not she’s interested pretty quickly. If she’s giving one word responses, prob not. Take a while to respond. Preferably longer than her. If your pics don’t make you look cool and hot, don’t bother, just day game. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Caught girl in lie, how to handleDude hit up another girl. Just go out with someone else. Anyone else. Punish her by not hitting her up for a while. No butthurt. No comment about it. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Jesus Christ what’s going on, getting lmr’dWhy do you keep seeing her every 2-3 days if she’s not fucking you? That’s a mistake. Cancel your date tomorrow. Hit her up in a week or so. She should feel like you’re putting your attention elsewhere - towards a girl who’s fucking you - as that’s what you should in fact do. Maybe that subtle dread is enough to get her to want to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 38 | Three strikes you're outThree strikes in a row is worthy of a block. Maybe if they were spaced out in between smash sessions. Don’t look back. This girl wasn’t that into you. You were prob her third option that last night. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why did she send the picture?Slut behavior. Woman have competition anxiety and jealously works on them. Feminism makes them think it’s the same for both sides. So if she makes you jealous then you’ll want to fuck her more. Wrong. You’ll just think she’s a slut. Not sure when women will figure this one out. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Now that I'm jobless again, need a 6 day gym routine.Legs/push/pull. Then repeat. Need to start with legs and get it out of the way first. Otherwise you might bitch out later in the week. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Girl tells me to come over to hookup then she won’t tell me her address I assume a shit test right? I’m not quite sure what to say or do she was also saying that I need to bring my dog but I said no not sure if that was her testing if she can make me do what she wantsWell first order of business is to block this bitch from your social media... | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Too many plates at the same time?3-4 plates is good. One you see every week and the others you rotate every other week. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Is this question needy?Because she wants to keep you in orbit. Read sidebar again. PS holding hands isn’t escalating. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 10:43 PM |
| 3 | How to say sorry, but maintaining my postureWait and you think you need to apologize for that? If anything she should be doing the apologizing. Do not apologize. Withdraw attention. Hit her up with logistics in a couple weeks if you still want to smash. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | "I hate you"“I hate you” is good. Hate and love are pretty close to one another. Indifference is the worst. “You’re annoying” is not great. There’s a difference. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:20 PM |
| 7 | How do I balance neediness with showing interest?Gotta chase a little before you smash. Then once you smash pull back and text for logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Getting called cute and pretty boyI get called cute too. Way more often than I get called hot. Not sure what the deal is. I’d rather get called hot but it’s not the worst thing in the world. Could be a lot worse. My guess is because I look kinda young for my age. Not too much facial hair. And I shave every day because my stubble sucks. Whatever man. Don’t worry about it too much. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Bumble Interaction. What might went wrong?Don’t take any questions seriously before you meet. I guess maybe after a couple threads have been exchanged. But keep things light and don’t give any serious responses at first. Should’ve said something like “I need someone to fold my laundry” (amused mastery), “I could ask you the same question” (pressure flip), or “I’m looking for a wife will you marry me” (agree & amplify - can’t be ugly if you say that one). | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Plate broke - I asked what went wrong and got a real answer - seems salvageable - thoughts on how I should respond?Because I was joking. What is the goal of indifference in this scenario? Cultivating abundance mentality or optimizing chances she’ll come back around? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Plate broke - I asked what went wrong and got a real answer - seems salvageable - thoughts on how I should respond?I’ve read the material captain dingleberry. Only reason why I asked her is cause I knew I could get a real response out of her. If you read the material, you would know AWALT doesn’t mean all women are the same, it means they all have the potential for certain behavior. Most girls wouldn’t give you a real answer in this situation. I knew this girl well enough to bet she would. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Plate broke - I asked what went wrong and got a real answer - seems salvageable - thoughts on how I should respond?Lol huh? I’m conservative with my rating system and she’s easily an 8. I have an idea what I should do just wanted to gauge some responses. Sometimes I have better results when I go with my own intuition. This sub is great but a lot of you are retards and too strict with TRP philosophy. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Plate broke - I asked what went wrong and got a real answer - seems salvageable - thoughts on how I should respond?I mean dude that is the reason. I have enough experience with women to know when a woman isn’t into you. I know this girl was into me but I could tell her roommates weren’t. It’s def the roommates who are pressuring her. I know how to get people to like me so I could get them on my side if given the chance. How does it hurt me to try to calm her concerns that I’m not a dick, player, etc? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:00 PM |
| 5 | In an LTR, balancing boundaries with not showing jealousy?Your boundaries shouldn’t have to do with jealousy. If they do, you’re dating the wrong girl or you’re being a beta pussy. If she’s making you jealous, either dump her or figure out if you’re being irrational. If you’re being irrational, you prob shouldn’t be with this girl anyway. You need more experience with women. I would say dump her anyway but you won’t. Instead your jealously will cause you to end up losing her, and you’ll have to learn the hard way. Which honestly can be a good thing som… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 01:38 AM |
| 7 | how do I stop thinking about girls/sex (trying to go monk mode for the next 2.5 years)?That’s garbage. Lose weight now. Hit the gym now. Start talking to girls now. Monk mode for a couple months max. But for sure hit the gym now. You should be able to make serious progress by the time spring semester rolls around. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How to display high SMV on Instagram?I’m not trying to be a dick. He’s basically asking how do I look cool? If you need to ask that question, and I’m just being honest, it’s prob not going to work out for you. Thus my advice is for him to forget Instagram. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How to display high SMV on Instagram?If you have to ask this question, odds are you’re gonna fuck it up. This needs to be something you just understand if you’re going to pull it off properly. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:41 PM |
| 3 | How long should a date be?Not true. Night dates are better but you can be sexual doing anything at any time. If you’re getting friend zoned because you went on an early date, that’s on you. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl seriously wants the DIgnore her last comment and set up a meet. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?This girl didn’t ghost me. We had a couple texts back and forth when she ended it. Normally I would’ve just said “ok” but the initial bullshit reason she gave was such a joke I had to rebut it. But no animosity at all. I mean we barely know each other. It didn’t get to the point of any emotional attachment. So I’m thinking I could get a straight answer out of her. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?God women are so different. I’d have no problem explaining to a girl what went wrong. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?Yes I’ve read sex god method. Yes I’m built. No I wasn’t acting like a bitch. I think this one maybe broke due to lack of comfort but not sure. When I first got her number, before we ever went out, she turned me down because she knew one of my plates through her best friend. That plate was in the middle of blowing up on me because I wouldn’t commit, she knew I was seeing other girls and she knew I just got girl 2’s number. My response to that blow up and getting called out for getting girl 2’s n… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?Yeah I mean if it’s just a lack of attraction thing, I wouldn’t expect her to be able to verbalize that. But it seems behavioral. Right before she ended it she was saying things like “you’re the most sexual guy I’ve ever been with,” “you’re so hot,” “I really want to see you,” etc. So I don’t think it was due to lack of attraction. Could be wrong tho. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?What do you mean? The aggressive text? That’s the only thing I can think of. Unless she just wasn’t into it from the start. But before I sent that text she was texting me stuff like “I really want to see you” etc. Basically, she invited me over to her place. She was hammered, she puked in her bathroom and we didn’t hook up. Then next day I texted her saying I’ll come over and you can make it up to me. She didn’t respond and then ended it the next day. 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?Normally I have solid self-reflection skills too. I can’t figure this one out tho. We talked once about how getting offended is so white trash and there’s nothing anyone could say to offend me. That’s the honest truth. So I’m hoping I could get a real answer out of her. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Difficult spotWhy don’t you just see how it goes. If it feels weird in the moment, just tell her it feels weird and you’re not down with it. Personally I think I’d feel weird about it, but it’s up to you. If you’re cool with it, then so be it. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 01:11 AM |
| 5 | "The what do you do for work?" shit test questionDude you can tell her you’re a chef. Just make her work for it. Tell her you’re an astronaut or something stupid first. Or make her guess. But eventually you tell her. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with disrespectful womenWell first of all, no need to say “that’s a stereotypical female response” to chicks you don’t know that well. You’re inviting them to talk shit back, and sounds like you can’t handle it. If I was a chick, I’d try to fuck with you too after you said that. I’d lay off those kinds of comments until you get better at bantering without getting butthurt. You’d punch a dude in the face for saying something disrespectful. LOL. What are you a monkey? Grow up bro. Getting offended is white trash. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with disrespectful women100% right. This type of shit should not affect you. Your frame is so weak if you get rattled by shit like this. Ignore, laugh, keep doing what you were doing. What these girls think or say should not affect you in the slightest. If a 5 year old said you were ugly, you’d laugh and go on with your life. This situation is no different. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How many of you truly get a lot of 8s and 9s through dating apps?It’s all about your pics. I uploaded a new professional pic of me hiking, looking jacked as fuck in a sleeveless shirt, and the responses are now night and day different. I can pretty much say whatever I want and the response rate is solid. Before that pic it was a total crapshoot. You’re better off gaming in person unless your pics are solid and you’re way above average in physical attractiveness. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 09:19 PM |
| -2 | Negging Is For 10sOnly neg about things you know she’s confident about. And neg with plausible deniability. So for example if she’s fashion conscious say something like “oh that’s a nice shirt, did you get it at Gap” You’re kinda of insulting her fashion taste by implying she might shop at Gap, but you never said anything outright bad. You didn’t actually say her shirt sucks. That’s an example of a good neg in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 01:27 PM |
| 4 | We always talk about benefits... but has TRP ever impacted your life negatively?It’s a learning process. There have been times where I made mistakes trying to implement TRP philosophy a little too literally. You have to learn what works for you and what doesn’t. I’ve definitely run into the problem of pushing girls away by not giving enough comfort, but it’s better than the alternative of giving too much comfort. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 12:51 PM |
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