Brothers, I'm here for some advice, regarding a first date that went great.....or atleast I thought it was great.

So I met this bumble girl, we had quite the rapport, been chatting on Whatsapp for about a week, and then I finally met her in person. During our date, we laughed, she was smiling the whole time, playing with her hair, blushing, I engaged in keno, hand on her back, holding her hand, and she didn't pull back at all. At the end of the date, she ended up giving me a big hug when we said bye.

This morning, I got a text saying "Sorry, but No Connection". I'm not at all dwelling on it, and I'm not bothered, as it's her loss, and I'm moving on to the next. What I'd like to ask this forum is what do you think about etiquette on a first date. A woman is still human, she'll be nervous, so should I immediately try to stick my tongue down her throat, instead of trying building rapport-connections. Or could my experience be an example that not all women will be into you? Was being not aggressive on a first date too Blue Pilled?

I think I'm an ex-BP, I've been active on Reddit, read Tomassi, and understand the idea of holding frame, and understanding the fact that I'm the prize, not her. Looking for some insights.