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"How do I prevent that situation from happening again?" If the movie was good and that interested you more than banging her then you did the right thing. Just because we have dicks doesn't mean we need to always be thinking with our dicks. Though if you really did want to bang her but are using the movie as an excuse for not making a move then you need to work on your confidence and assertiveness.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:37 PM
2

1/3 admit to it. 2/3 are too embarrassed to admit to it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 07:35 PM
1

If I was in this situation I would tell her to hop on a boat or flight to Singapore and get an abortion.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:27 PM
1

She would be upset if she knew. I keep her completely in the dark about it. It's the route I chose to take, choose whichever path is right for you. I get together with the side chicks usually once a week or so, sometimes more, sometimes less.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:22 PM
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The desire to fuck a variety of women never ceases. No matter how hot she is to you initially and how great the sex is fucking her becomes boring. If you eat chicken everyday sooner or later you lose your taste for it and want some steak. I spin plates and I am in a LTR of about 6 years. I don't bang the side chicks openly though. The only way your attempt to open up the relationship will work is if she believes you are much higher smv than her. If she thinks you are on somewhat level footing sh…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:53 PM
13

They don't initiate contact if they aren't interested. If she is never initiating she just isn't interested in you.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:41 PM
13

Trusting a woman with birth control is idiotic.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:58 PM
7

Listen if it is something important. If it is just useless chatter, which it will be 90% of the time, feel free to tune her out. Also, most of the time when they are spewing verbal diarrhea they aren't necessarily looking for you to offer a solution. They just want to flap their gums and be heard.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:00 AM
5

I'm not a doctor, but I don't think it is safe to combine Viagra and Cialis. You should ask your doctor before combining those. Anyhow, the best way to prepare for sex is to not prepare for sex. The more you build up the encounter in your mind the more anxiety and over thinking you'll do when the sex actually happens. Anxiety and being stuck inside of your own head during sex is not a good thing. Just relax and enjoy the sensations.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 12:29 PM
7

Mindlessly doing things because other humans do them is stupid. You have to use your brain and decide what is right for you. Do whatever you want. Not everything in life is alpha or beta or black and white. If you don't want kids then don't have them. With all that being said, not having kids is one of the best decisions I've made. Paying off my mortgage early, having a lot of extra cash, and almost no stress while my peers with kids struggle reinforces my decision everyday.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 12:24 PM
6

Yes and no. I do a lot of work for wealthy folks, many of which are 8-10 housewives. I can't say they are always pleasant to deal with.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:38 PM
2

You need to tell every broad you've been banging. Chlamydia doesn't always present symptoms in women, or at least obvious symptoms. Plus if everyone isn't treated at the same time you'll just keeping giving it back to each other. I've had chlamydia before. It's not fun, but not a big deal either.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 10:01 AM
1

Because I love having sex with women. There are few things in life as pleasurable as burying your bone in a woman. Plus having a woman caress you nonsexually is very relaxing and relieves stress. Though if it wasn't for sex I wouldn't have anything to do with them. I am not disgusted by their actions. They are creatures, like everything else on this planet, that have evolved to do what needs to be done for survival and to ensure that their offspring has the best chance for survival.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:38 PM
1

Terrible, but I laughed.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:12 PM
1

The better looking and higher status you are the younger you can typically pull. 19 is my cut off. I'm not trying to go to prison.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:08 PM
1

Common red pill knowledge, most women would rather share a higher value man than get stuck with a low value beta. Things are going better than ever for high status men. They are swimming in vagina and don't have to commit to any of them.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:06 PM
5

Women do not want to hook up with the majority of men on dating apps. They get tired of beta men trying to hit them up for sex. They believe stating no hookups will filter out the men they don't want to hookup with. When a suitable male does eventually hit her up she will willingly and eagerly give out the goods, despite what her profile mentions. She may even think she doesn't want hookups, but when the right male triggers the tingles anything she think she may have wanted will be quickly forgo…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:31 PM
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Open relationships are the natural progression of unconstrained female sexuality. Women get to shack up with a beta provider and get dicked by any man that is giving her tingles. It is extremely rare that the male half of the couple benefits from that arrangement. Open relationships flourish because most men today are spineless wimps.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:18 PM
2

There is no magic bullet to be optimistic and happy 100% of the time, but I've found there are 3 things that help with my mood substantially. Lifting weights and doing cardio. Lifting helps much more than cardio. Getting a good dose of sunlight at least a few times a week. Keeping my diet as clean as possible. Cut out all junk food, sugar, and refined carbs. Cutting out or reducing booze. Those 3 things work wonders for me, but everyone is different.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:34 PM
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I did 2 sets of 12 daily of each of these exercises. I can't find a better picture, but these are what I did. https://improveyourgrip.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/flexbar-resistance-bar-instructional-guide-by-thera-band-300x300.png
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:16 PM
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You are over thinking this issue. There is nothing to think about. Just go and do it. You may feel a little awkward at first, but like all things that are initially uncomfortable that feeling is passing and you'll think nothing of it after doing it a few times.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:06 AM
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They weren't attracted enough to you for one reason or another and they use that line to try and break things off without being too harsh about it, or they may have been on the fence about meeting again but ultimately decided their time is better suited pursuing someone else. If you're getting this a lot you need to figure out what is deficient about yourself that is turning them away. Though stuff like this happens to us all, but if it is happening a very high percentage of the time you need to…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:02 AM
1

Money is security and women want security for themselves and their offspring. Women aren't necessarily attracted to beta bux, but they are more than willing (at least initially) to trade sex for money or access to money. Women are also hypergamous. It doesn't matter if someone is a chad or a beta bux, they all will get dumped if a woman finds someone she believes is a more valuable asset to her. ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:23 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/TheraBand-Tendonitis-Strength-Resistance-Tendinitis/dp/B00067E4YU?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_4 ​ Best thing I've ever purchased for tendinitis issues related to doing pullups.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 03:47 PM
8

If she is always slow to respond she isn't all that into you. If she is slow to respond some of the time she is probably busy doing other crap.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 03:44 PM
2

She wants comfort. She found some schmuck for that, so continue to bang away. You get all of the benefits (no strings sex) and he gets all of the downsides (having to spend money on her).
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:49 PM
1

Death sucks, there is no way around it. Death is a reminder of our ephemeral existence. It is a great call to action that we need to live our lives with a sense of urgency, as we don't know when the grim reaper will come for us. I'm not a religious man, but the serenity prayer is very fitting. "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference." You can't change the fact that you and everyone you know w…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:11 AM
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It's almost guaranteed that she will cheat when going on a girl's only vacation. You really need to improve yourself. You need to get yourself to a point where you aren't concerned with your partner cheating, that if she does you can have 2 or 3 women lined up in her place within a short period of time. When you get to that point women are less likely to cheat, because your attitude toward them shifts and they realize they need you much more than you need them.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:21 PM
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If you could get attraction initially but typically lost it within a week you were turning them off in some way. It's impossible for any of us to say definitively what you did wrong, but common problems are being too needy and texting too much, texting stupid mundane stuff, your in person social skills being poor, women realizing your smv is lower than what they initially believed, among other things.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:09 PM
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The best response is no response.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:58 PM
6

Women never shut the door completely on higher SMV men, so long as they believe they have at least some shot of eventually locking that man down.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:51 PM
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I've found blowjobs to be the best metric of a relationship. If they are happening frequently you have nothing to worry about. If you aren't getting them you have some serious relationship problems. The main culprit is typically her feeling too comfortable in the relationship. She thinks she is the best you can do and has no fear that you will stray, or that you are even capable of straying. You can remedy it by increasing your smv and adding some dread into the relationship. If the above doesn'…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:54 AM
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Women will chase you if they think you are much higher SMV. You can apply the typical rarely text aside from logistics thing if that is the case. Women of her age are typically seeking to lock down a beta male. You have to soften up your game a little bit and add a little bit more comfort and rapport, unless you truly are one high smv dude, which most of us aren't. To best game women in the 30s you have to learn how to balance dominance, rapport, and comfort.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:32 PM
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Not having privacy or a place of your own definitely makes things much more difficult. I wouldn't go with the dinner option if parents will be around. Just tell her you want to hangout and go to some place where you have enough privacy to bang her if that's what you want. Unless you are already banging a woman or are extremely attractive, 9 times out of 10 it is a bad idea to explicitly make it known that the meeting is obviously only for sex. You have to give them just the slightest rationaliza…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:20 PM
4

I'm an old fart nearly 40 years old, run a business that takes up at least 50 hours a week, and I still find plenty of time to meet women. I rarely go out of my way to meet women. Almost all of my plates I meet while doing everyday shit, things like grocery or clothes shopping, grabbing takeout, etc. Just strike up conversation wherever you go. The other option I find has huge success for me are meetup (the Android app) groups. Not necessarily meetup groups geared toward singles, just doing what…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:52 PM
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My go to option is always inviting a woman over for a dinner that I'll cook. It allows their hamster brain just enough plausible deniability that the date isn't a straight up booty call, so they are less likely to flake out. From there it is easy to get into their pants. If you can't cook then learn how to cook.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:44 PM
3

Get a vasectomy and have as much condomless sex as you want. Even if she says she is on birth control keep your junk wrapped. She can and will decide when she wants to have a baby without your knowledge or opinion. Also, no matter how hot she is or how good she is in bed you will tire of fucking her. Putting your reproductive responsibility and future completely into her hands is about the dumbest thing you can do.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:32 PM
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You always have to be a woman's best option. If you aren't, they will likely wander off. My secret? I've never gotten mentally weak, complacent, or out of shape. I continually improve myself and lead the relationship. She realizes she has a lot to lose if the relationship ends. I made the mistake of committing to a monogamous relationship before I became fully red pilled, plus I was younger and less experienced and thought monogamy could work for me which I realize doesn't. I don't breakup with …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:03 AM
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I cheat all the time and I have been in a relationship about a decade longer than yours. Women are hypergamous birds. They feel no remorse trading you in the second they find someone a step above you. I feel no remorse sticking my dick into every attractive woman that I want. Women aren't limiting their sexual strategies because of their conscious. Why should you? Don't limit your life to the bubble that women and feminism have created for you. Live your life the way you want to live it.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:40 AM
4

Most women don't completely get what they want- a grade A alpha male in all regards, but they typically fare much better than most men. Most women have success locking down and exploiting beta men until their usefulness has expired.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:32 AM
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My opinion is she most definitely cheated. You have two choices... Be a cuck and stay in a relationship that you know she cheated, never have any trust for her, be paranoid everytime she is away from you, and continue your life in a relationship that is broken. Retain your dignity, stop denying what you know is true, and see a divorce lawyer. Also, seeing a counselor is pointless. The counselor will likely be a woman who will try to convince you to work things out and have you accept your wife's…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:19 AM
1

There isn't any magical strategy. You see the one's that you want to see at the frequency you want to see them. Some will be content seeing you every other week and some won't. If a plate drops off, which they will in time, you just replace them.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:17 PM
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Always? No. Most of the time? Yes. Also, don't send out needy texts like "want some company?" Don't fall into her frame and have her lead you around. If you do want to try banging her again, initiate a meetup. If she avoids making concrete plans next her. Also, if you aren't currently laying down pipe ignore her attention seeking texts, like "I can't sleep." She threw out some attention bait and you eagerly bit into it. Know what are the odds that she saw your text and chose not to respond? 100%…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:12 PM
3

I stay in the game mostly for the sex. I find that masturbation gives relief, but it isn't exhilarating nor does it feel a fraction as good as having sex with a woman. Good sex is an incredible experience, few things in life match it. You ultimately have to decide what is right for your situation. If you can be fully content masturbating then go that route. Though I doubt you will be happy and content giving up sex. You don't need to be super alpha to get laid. It definitely helps, but even beta…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:03 PM
6

Unless you are genetically gifted with very good looks, or you have attained financial baller status and can flaunt wealth you are wasting your time on Tinder.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:32 PM
2

this is my guess too
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:15 PM
133

For intellectual conversation? They are mostly terrible at it. Don't bother. The only time conversations with women is fun is when they are sexually charged.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:24 AM
1

Sure, do whatever works for you.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:19 AM
3

There was never some aha moment for me when I suddenly felt like a man. It has been a constant and slow evolution that has made me into a man. I have felt like a man since my early 20s, but now that I am almost 40 I feel like a fully mature man. My confidence and self-assuredness increases everyday, and my mid 20s self wasn't even a fraction as secure as I am today. When you really feel like a man is when all of the pieces of the puzzle have fallen into place. When you have a career that you enj…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:12 AM
1

We are all large bags of germs. The crusty old sperm stuck between her teeth just adds a few more germs to your collection.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:04 AM
7

You're going to have to be more assertive. You will miss out on a lot of ass in this life if you don't take control and be the man. Just hit her up whichever way you communicate and ask her out for a drink. Escalate physically. Though if you're certain she wants to fuck then just invite her over to your place for a drink, or dinner, or Netflix, or whatever reason you want...she just has to believe whatever the reason is doesn't make her look like a whore.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:01 AM
2

You are doing some fine mental gymnastics and attempting to spin defeat into something positive. Gaming chicks doesn't require much money or time. Do you go grocery shopping, to the library, ride a bus, or do anything in your life that causes you to walk by women of your age on a frequent basis? Strike up conversation then, get numbers, and either go on a 20 minute coffee date or invite them straight to your place for a dinner that you planned on making anyhow. Meeting women and dating them only…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:59 AM
2

If it always takes her 1 - 2 days to reply she isn't very interested. She just likes the extra attention you are giving her. If she went dead after asking for her number it is a clear sign that she isn't interested. Life is too short for dealing with people who show no interest in you. The best way to deal with dating apps, unless you are blessed with top tier genetic beauty, is to get off of them.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:46 AM
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"reciprocates true love" Knock that idea straight out of your head. Women are opportunistic lovers. There is no such thing as true love.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:18 PM
2

You don't need a girlfriend. Being in a monogamous relationship with one woman will impede your sexual freedom. There are some benefits to having a girlfriend, but I personally think they come with an equal set of drawbacks.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:44 PM
1

Depends on how much you value your money and what type of encounter you prefer. If you are satisfied with making it a purely financial transactions then make whatever choice you want. Though depending on which country you are in, paying directly for sex is against the law. I personally prefer to keep my money in my pocket, so I don't pay for sex. Plus I find the interaction leading up to sex can make the sex itself much more enjoyable. I don't think I would find a financial transaction, one wher…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:22 AM
1

Life is a harsh bitch. You have to toughen up and realize nothing in this life is permanent. Enjoy the time you spend with others, but realize (but also don't dwell on it) they can exit your life at any time. You can't rely on others for happiness. Create goals, spend time on hobbies, and build a decent social network. Get to the point where a woman is just an accessory, not an integral part of your life. You can pursue commitment if you want, just know that a woman can and likely will throw a m…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:13 AM
4

If you feel embarrassed about it is because she is too ugly. Don't kiss ugly women, at least not in public.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:08 AM
14

That phrase doesn't mean women are into threesomes. It just means women would rather try to lock down a high status man, even if they know he is married or likely dating others, than be the sole lover of a beta male. It doesn't mean they are eager to join into a threesome.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:00 AM
1

Each situation is different. There is no one set rule of how, when, or how fast you need to escalate. You need to get more experience dating to be able to read the situation.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:53 AM
5

You care too much what a woman thinks. I wouldn't care if I blew my nut in 30 seconds or 30 minutes, if she isn't satisfied that's her problem. Let her figure out if she wants to do it again. Stop worrying so much.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:48 AM
0

I have a long-term girlfriend of around 10 years who thinks we are monogamous and I spin several plates on the side also. I'm currently content with my situation. Some might look down on the affairs thing, but the mindset I retain while spinning plates on the side actually helps keep the ltr relationship much healthier.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:21 PM
3

Mgtow is for men who have given up, mostly due to their own lack of success with women. Trp is for men who want to improve their success in relationships and/or flings and stay in the game.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:19 PM
3

Do you want herpes? If so, pursue her. If you don't want herpes then cut things off.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 12:52 PM
2

Grow my business, educate myself in all topics that interest me, bang as many hot broads that I can, and live my life to the best of my abilities for as long as I can.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:56 PM
21

I know where you're coming from. No one wants to wife up a ho, and that is what many women are today. Unfortunately, you're going to have to accept the reality today is most young women go through an extremely promiscuous stage. It is unlikely you're going to be the first rodeo she's been on. Don't swim upstream and try struggling against reality. Deal with it and accept your not going to be the first, or likely even within the first 5, dudes that she has banged.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:33 AM
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You need to learn to make the best of what is available to you. If you want a wife and kids you're going to have to realize that AWALT and your future wife can, and there is a good chance she will, torpedo your life at any point without any real wrongdoing on your part. No matter how solid your frame is, how alpha you may be, there are always other more appealing options out there. With all that being said, you're not going to find a wholesome non-hypergamous woman on this planet. You're either …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:19 AM
2

You need to make your needs clear, but doing it in a way that can't be construed as being needy or attempting to negotiate with her. Also, if you are giving her oral stop until she reciprocates.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:18 PM
18

Not getting oral is never a good thing, it indicates one of two things. She isn't really enthusiastic about submitting to you and pleasing you. Terrible sign for a relationship. She is prudish or just isn't into oral sex. Neither are a good thing for you. What you need to try is taking control and leading in bed. Tell her when you are fooling around that you need to feel her lips around your rooster. If she complies, great. If not, start practicing dread game a little bit. Make her realize that …
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:41 PM
2

What is stopping you from continuing to bone her and be with other girls also? What you need to realize is women are experts at dating several men simultaneously. There is a very good chance that she is dating and screwing around with several other men while dating you. Why exactly should you feel bad if you're just doing the same thing she is doing to you?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:30 PM
6

I've been exercising and weight lifting for over 20 years. The best advice I can give you is do a program that you enjoy and that which you'll do consistently. Try them both. They are both decent reads. See which you enjoy more. I am personally a big fan of Athlean X on YouTube. I wish he was around when I first started lifting. He is by far the best that I know of on lifting with good form, and avoiding lifts that despite how good your form can lead to injury and joint pain. Injuries get better…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:17 AM
1

Women will fuck around if they falsely believe a new mate is higher smv, but the new mate very well may be much lower on the totem pole. The new guy just hasn't had enough time to prove his low smv status.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:51 PM
2

There is definitely hope. Your first step is to stop giving a shit what women think. You need to become secure enough in yourself that a woman could laugh in your face about your penis size and it not shake your frame. Even with that penis size you can have orgasms through sex. If a woman has an issue with your penis size that is her problem. Let her worry about that.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:21 PM
1

Maybe, it depends on your life. If you have specific strong inadequacies you still need to work on them, because faking it only goes so far.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:17 PM
2

You don't need to be higher smv than their boyfriends. You only need to be new.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:33 AM
2

I think using k is fine for some responses, but for shit like this I think the best response is no response.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:26 AM
1

Alleged is the main word. Women typically don't knowingly and willingy go on coffee dates alone with men they know to be awkward and annoying, especially one that is showing sexual interest in them, and even more so when the purpose of the coffee date is a mystery. Either his girlfriend has incredibly bad judgement or the alleged low status man could be of similar status to the OP.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:52 PM
3

It's always a bad sign if an LTR entertains the advances of a male suitor. You can't tell her not to meet this guy or you will look like an insecure wimp. You need to step up your game. Don't let jealousy and insecurity slip in because it will make you look weak and torpedo any relationship you get into. As a quick band-aid fix you need to kick up the dread game. If you don't know what it is or how to do it just do some reading about it. After you temporarily get the relationship back on solid g…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:42 PM
12

Easy answer: because society and the legal system allow it to happen.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:27 PM
1

It sounds bizarre to us men, but women will want you more if they think other women want you. If they think you are getting action from other women then they will work harder to please you. As someone else mentioned on here, read about preselection. If you want or don't mind the junk they are leaving there or giving you then let things be. If they start trying to keep stuff there that you don't want tell them to remove it.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:24 PM
1

Red pill realities can initially cause you to be depressed and angry. Realizing that most of what you thought and learned about women your entire life was absolute bullshit is tough to swallow. If you are content living a mgtow lifestyle then by all means go that route. Unfortunately, unless you have no libido you will not ever be content doing the mgtow. The fact is all of us men are hardwired to want and crave pussy and some level of intimacy. While our libido is still fully functional, I don'…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:49 AM
3

All women are the same, it doesn't matter where they were born. All women are hypergamous. Some cultures do a better job of suppressing open hypergamy, but it is always present.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:02 AM
1

I have been running a business for over a decade. I have had thousands of interactions with customers. You can't view everything in life as blue pill / red pill, alpha / beta. Your mindset at work needs to be what do these customers want, how can I solve the problem for which they have come to us, how can I retain their business and keep them coming back to us, and how can I maximize the revenue stream from them. Your feelings of whether or not your actions at work are perceived as alpha or beta…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:08 PM
5

In that case, fortune favors the bold. Escalate with this chick and reap the rewards.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:00 AM
6

She might genuinely like you and hope that you actually make a move. Have you actually tried escalating with her? Though are you paying for her and her friends outtings? If so, you're getting used for your money. It's hard to say without more info.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:55 AM
2

I agree with most of what pooping_willow typed, but I'll add to it...your response to her divulging that info was bad. Everytime you show insecurity and weakness, such as being jealous or angry, you have lowered yourself in her eyes. Women want their man to be the prize, they want to date up. If she feels she is the prize and your actions show her that she can do better than you, which you showed her by being upset or jealous, she will definitely monkey branch. Next time she says something like …
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:51 AM
2

Depends on what you mean by boring. Are they good for intellectual discussion? Most are not. Are they going to spend the night trying to amuse and humor you? Nope. You can have entertaining and very exhilarating conversations with women, but you have to keep it flirty.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:33 AM
1

A woman that is highly interested in you will move heaven and earth to get together with you. If she flaked on you twice it shows you she has little interest in you. Next her.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:51 PM
3

No need for a butt plug or to finger her rump. Do a little bit of foreplay, get her horny, and then say you want to f her in the a. Use ample lube, I prefer silicone, but it is difficult to wash off. Anal is overrated like others mentioned. It feels good, but the only time I bother with it is if the broad is on her period.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:44 PM
1

The only things that affect vaginal tightness are genetics, having kids, and age. It doesn't matter if a broad has had sex 1 time of 500,000 times.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:38 PM
4

Women are attracted to dominant and charismatic men. It doesn't matter if they are serial killers or law abiding citizens. Some just don't have enough sense to override their hindbrain impulses.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:17 PM
4

Every woman I've known that has a disabled husband either has had an open relationship or cheats discreetly. Most of the time the husband is forced into allowing the wife to screw other guys.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:03 PM
8

If you cannot perform adequately without drugs/booze you have a problem that you need to work on. Overcoming phobias and anxieties can be difficult, and there is no easy way to make them go away. You just need to repeatedly put yourself in social situations without drugs/booze and face your fear continually. If you do that a number of times your fears and social anxiety will go away. Though despite what I wrote, I am all for a little bit of alcohol and mind altering substances to loosen up and e…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:50 PM
5

Money itself will not get you laid much unless you pay directly for sex or have extreme wealth, like 7 figure salary. Though having enough money to be independent is beneficial in a few ways: Having a place of your own, free from roommates, will not directly get you laid but it will foster an environment where it is easier to get laid. Having high earning power will typically give you a self-esteem boost which translates into higher levels of confidence. Women typically want to date up, if she f…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:42 PM
3

When women travel they are highly likely to cheat. Studies have been done about it, plus there is a ton of anecdotal data- for whatever that is worth. I have banged a number of married women who were vacationing of traveling alone due to work- some of them I have had decades long affairs with and their husbands are none the wiser. If a woman travels alone you can assume she will cheat and you will probably never find out.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:11 PM
1

As others have mentioned, never plant the idea of rape in a woman's head. Her hamster can change reality and spin a new reality of one where you were raping her. Save those texts for at least a year.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:31 PM
2

Women and logic should never be used in the same sentence.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:11 PM
6

Heart starts racing, feel like you can't breathe, may or may not get chest pains and/or sweaty palms, and feel a sense that something major might happen like pass out, die, freak out, etc.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:02 PM
9

Were you very nervous while on the date? If so, it could have been a panic attack. Though depending on what part of Asia, it could very well have been drugged also.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:58 PM
1

With that info it is impossible for any of us to tell you definitively whether or not she cheated. You are going to have to figure that out yourself. As long as you aren't the paranoid type, trust your gut if you feel that something is off. Are there any things about her behavior before or after this event that made you question her infidelity? If so, kick her to the curb and move on with your life. If not, continue on with the relationship and be alert for red flags.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:38 PM
4

Women like to live in the moment. If she is alone with a Chad for two weeks sooner or later they will have a night out together, have a few drinks, have her inhibitions lowered, and do what feels right in the moment. Also, I recall seeing a study a few years back stating that women are much more likely to cheat by just being on vacation. If she doesn't mess around with that Chad for fear of her social circle finding out, she very well may find a Chad you will never know. Will she cheat? It's any…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:23 PM
7

I am 5'8" or 5'9", always been lean but a muscular lean build. I've never had a problem getting laid. Being charismatic and confident will get you much more pussy than being jacked and socially inept.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:12 PM
8

When you're a star, they just let you do it.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:06 PM
21

If you aren't physically attracted to her then find someone else. If you are physically attracted to her, but think you could find someone more physically attractive then do what ever you feel that you need to do. Just realize the grass sometimes appears greener at newer pastures. I personally like to eat almost as much as I like to fuck. If she is a good cook and cooks frequently that would give her +2 points for me. Finding a woman that can actually cook well today is difficult.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:46 PM
13

I have had the same girlfriend for over 7 years and I maintain a plate or two throughout the relationship. Ltrs aren't impossible but they are a lot of work. You can't have many off days where you let your game slip, act weak, or get too attached. If you do the relationship will go sour quickly. Your gut or her actions will tell you when something is off, and you have to be ready to to kick up the dread game as soon as you sense something is off, and if that doesn't work just leave the relations…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:35 PM
2

Funniest comment I've read in a while.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:31 AM
4

Either she is already screwing around or soon to be. Demote her from girlfriend to booty call. Start seeing other women.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:26 AM
6

I think it is natural for indifference to creep into relationships by either party. An exciting part of dating a new woman is new shared experiences. Once you've done everything with her numerous times, including having seen her naked and having sex every way imaginable, the thrill wears off and it becomes as routine as brushing your teeth. You can do your best keeping her interested by constantly improving yourself, learning and utilizing red pill strategies, one of which is making sure she alw…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:47 PM
10

Get at least a bachelor's degree in a field that pays well and isn't excessively hard to find work. Education is extremely important. Avoid useless degrees unless you want to work fast food and have over 100k student loan debt. Feel free to job hop to increase your earnings. Companies expect loyalty but they provide none. Always wear condoms, even if a girl tells you she is on birth control. Don't waste your money on women. Don't get attached to any woman and definitely don't even contemplate ge…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:24 PM
5

You were definitely needy, but life goes on. Stop the needy messages, arrange to meet up over the weekend, bang her brains out and all will be forgiven. Also, don't get overly invested in one broad.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:06 PM
2

Probably another 50 years away from having all but the most physically fit and financially secure men culled.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 04:03 AM
1

Going to disagree with most here. If you prefer jerking off then jerk off. If that's your preference it isn't necessarily bad. Fap away. If you are constantly jerking off because you are too timid to talk to women and you would rather be having sex then yes, jerking off too much is bad.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:59 AM
9

Whatever number she told you is likely far fewer than the actual number. Stop thinking women are innocent and pure, they aren't. The chances of finding an adult virgin today is like finding a unicorn.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:51 AM
1

Get quality sleep, lift weights, do HIIT, get enough protein, fat, and carbs, and the one that many people forget about, figure out ways to reduce stress such as meditate. If all those fail your only option is getting pharmaceutical assistance.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:06 AM
3

You pick up your testicles, kick her to the curb, never take her back, and give her the junk back. Holding onto her stuff for the 100 will probably drag things out, and you'll possibly buckle and take her back.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:00 AM
5

Attraction isn't needed for relationships. There are millions of women in relationships that are utterly repulsed by their husband or boyfriend, but they stay in those relationships for resources and/or security.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:35 AM
9

Depends on what you mean prefer. Prefer for what? Women typically prefer submissive men for easy resources and child rearing, but not for sex.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:29 AM
6

Biology is a bitch. There is no such thing as security in this life, only the illusion of security. Women will mate with whoever has the best DNA they can get splattered into their womb. You just have to be the best man you can be and not get too attached to any woman. You have to have the mindset of being able to walk away from any relationship. It's a tough pill to swallow, but one worth swallowing.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:24 AM
5

Online dating is mostly a waste unless you are above average in looks. Though if you do want to make a real shot at Tinder you need to have the best photos you can take. Either get a professional to take some pictures or get a good camera and have a friend, or use a tripod, take good pictures while doing interesting things and going to interesting places. If you were not blessed with good looks, then the other thing Tinder women will look at it is your job. If that isn't particularly good you ar…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:47 PM
6

First thing, you are way more emotionally invested in the relationship and are being lead around by her, neither is a good thing. Cut off communication with her for a little while. Only respond to her texts, don't initiate or chase her. If and when she does text, keep texts to a minimum and be brief. She knows you want to get together so don't make any further attempts to hangout. Let her come back to you, if that is what she wants. If she doesn't make any attempts to get together the relationsh…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:07 AM
9

I personally am much more fearful of pregnancy than STDs. I believe most STDs are minor nuisances, many of which can be easily treated. A child is 18+ years of pain.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:24 PM
7

I am not a doctor nor a medical professional, so do not consider what I say as being medical advice. I am just some dude that has had a lot of unprotected sex and is keenly aware of STDs and STD info. I have also had chlamydia and molloscum, like a different poster on here. Use your own judgement on how to proceed with testing. Anyhow, certain STD tests can provide false negatives if you get tested too soon after the potential exposure. For that reason I personally never get tested until at leas…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:19 PM
4

Women are almost never honest about the number of sexual partners they have had. She could tell you it is 2 and the actual number could be 50. Learning about her sexual past directly from her is usually useless info.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:04 PM
5

If she is holding eye contact longer than what people normally do and smiling and/or laughing a lot there is a very good chance she is attracted to you. Only way to know for sure is to act on it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:05 PM
3

Ya, I've had a few women over the years that wanted sex more often than what I could provide. I am almost 40 and in excellent physical condition for my age, probably better shape than 98% of similarly aged males on the planet, but age takes its toll nonetheless. On a very good day I can have sex 3 times a day, but a typical day is usually 1-2 times max. I've been with similarly aged women recently that want to go at it numerous times a day, every day. I would need to take cialis or viagra to be …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:31 PM
1

Get more experience being in social situations and improve yourself so you can to become a more confident person. Get in shape, get a better paying job, have more than one woman on rotation, and just get used to talking to strangers.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:15 PM
5

I agree that you should never become complacent in a relationship, but staying on top of your game 100% of the time is nearly impossible for 99% of males. Most people will let their guards down, at least to some degree, while in a committed relationship. You just have to do your best to be the leader, not show weakness, and be as emotionally aloof as possible. It's never a good thing if a woman realizes she holds power over you. ​
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 03:53 PM
5

Tell her "just the tip." I hear that works wonders.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:13 PM
1

From virgin to baby daddy after 2 minutes of pleasure. Of course wrap it up. Considering she wants you to raw dog it, you either should avoid her altogether or wrap it up AND pull out also.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:09 PM
3

Most everything we do is because there is some evolutionary benefit to our actions. Why have women evolved to be followers and not leaders? Probably because they are the physically weaker gender, and if they became too independent they would be killed, hurt, or kicked out of the tribe to fend for themselves. Following a strong male leader likely led to their survival and benefited their offspring. That's my 2 cents for whatever it is worth.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:04 PM
1

You can't separate women from drama. Anytime you deal with women some level of drama will occur.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:25 PM
1

What is it that you consider more meaningful? A woman isn't going to bring meaning into your life. Having one woman may bring about a sense of temporary relationship comfort and stability but it is an ephemeral illusion. Try your luck at investing in a single woman if that's what you want. Just know that you're playing Russian Roulette and there are 5 bullets loaded in that six shooter. ​
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:20 PM
3

If a woman does a last minute flake it is usually, but not always, because she just isn't very enthusiastic about meeting you. There can be a bunch of reasons why she flaked, but none of them matter short of her dog dying or a family member passing away. She showed you that you are low priority for her, so put her on the back-burner.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:09 PM
3

Thought the same thing. A woman is not your girlfriend after dating for a month. She is still some chick you are getting to know.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:33 PM
1

None, every study I've seen show most vitamins have been shown to cause more harm than good. Eat a good diet, exercise, and get good sleep.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:30 PM
1

It really depends on her prior behavior and if it is different now than previously. If you two normally did those things together but now she doesn't bother to inform you now it is a huge red flag. I wouldn't necessarily say you need to next her, but you better have some options lined up because it is possible she is already monkey branching or flat out screwing around.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:28 PM
0

First, long distance relationships are a complete waste of time. Second, you're not talking to Socrates, you're talking to a woman. Keep conversations fun and light.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:11 PM
3

I am almost 40 and I have done a lot of dating and plate spinning over the years. Most women in the 30s, at least ones who aren't married, are desperate to lock down a beta to help raise her spawn. Their main priority is finding a beta to latch onto. Getting laid isn't too difficult, but you have to change your game as you age. You're not going to get many Netflix and chills happening off the bat.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 07:57 PM
1

I disagree. I believe dictating a day and time is a bad idea. There is a good chance she may legitimately be busy then, and you set yourself up for a rejection. I used to use that tactic and found it lacking. Now I just simply say something along the lines of "let's get together. how's your schedule looking?" If you're free when she is meet up, if you aren't suggest some other time.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 06:48 PM
3

When I was younger I had issues with social anxiety, badly. I got nervous, sweaty palms, and half stuttered when talking with strangers. At an old job I was a part-time bookkeeper, and our salesman quit unexpectedly. The boss asked if I want to try out sales work in addition to my other work. For the first 2 weeks of sales work I was an anxious mess, and thought about quitting my job entirely due to the stress of meeting with random people. The more I met with and talked to random people the les…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:32 PM
5

All of them. Do a full body routine.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:24 PM
1

The same thing that drives him before he has a mate and offspring, reproduction and the continuance of his DNA.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:13 PM
4

Yep, our brain is hardwired to constantly want to impregnate females and pass on our DNA. Pretty much everything we do in life, whether we are aware of it or not, is for reproduction.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:06 PM
2

AWALT = All women are like that. To give a brief summary of the meaning, it just refers to the biological imperative, specifically mating strategies, that are hardwired in women. Some men mistakenly believe the woman they have found is unique and different than other women, but sooner or later those men learn the harsh realities of the mating game.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:45 PM
8

I think the no FAP stuff is mostly garbage. I have a LTR and plates on the side and pulling on my chain hasn't caused any problems, and I usually do it a few times a week. Tug away as much as you like, so long as you don't allow it to interfere with you at least trying to socialize with women.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:08 PM
3

I think coffee dates are terrible. Women are nervous already, you don't need to compound it with caffeine. That and coffee shops aren't conducive for escalating sexually. Booze is better. It helps calm jitters, is just as cheap as coffee if you stick to cheap beer, and bars typically are much better places to escalate freely. Just make sure you tell the bartender to keep separate tabs. If you're under 21 just do some random action date, like go for a walk at the park or find some free local even…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:59 PM
6

Never move in together. The drive to bang other women doesn't go away even if your LTR has your balls drained 24/7. No matter how hot she is you will tire of having sex with her. All women snoop through your stuff. Women are persistent in their desire for commitment. And as others have stated, AWALT and don't get into an LTR
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:53 PM
4

You have to measure the benefits and costs of everything you do in this life. If you have nothing to gain from voicing an unpopular opinion then there is no reason to do so.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 06:10 PM
1

There are times to apologize, but never if it is an act of submission on your part. If you apologize to her in that context she will see your apology as capitulation, and thus weakness. You can apologize during certain scenarios where it shows empathy but not submission. For example, I accidentally stepped on a plate's bare foot when I had my boots on. I voluntarily apologized, and I am sure she didn't think any less of me after that incident. You just have to be acutely aware of whether or not …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 05:59 PM
5

The one I read is: The Definitive Book of Body Language.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:08 PM
5

I've read a different body language book and found it interesting and helpful. Body language, if you become aware of it and can interpret it correctly, can tell you a lot about how things are going when you are interacting with women (or men). If you can ready body language well you can usually determine within the first 5 minutes of a 1st date whether or not you should continue the date or just find an excuse to leave early because she just isn't into you. Even if you think the conversation is …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:18 PM
2

I am too lazy and uninterested to read the entire post, but the large bolded sentence is all that you really need to know. Always act as though you are single is very accurate. Familiarity and closeness breeds boredom and causes sexual tension to dissipate. The more time you spend around your LTR the less sexual tension there will be. Her competition anxiety evaporates if you make the mistake of living together, and even worse, if you spend most of your time together. A relationship metric I hav…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 01:10 PM
1

I believe mgtow and incels share a common problem, they are both involuntary celibate. Mgtows just do a better job at rationalizing why they don't get laid. I agree with mgtows in some ways, as they do have valid points. The mating game flat out sucks for anything other than top tier men. It is a rigged system. Dating and mating requires a lot of headaches and aggravation for little reward. Though removing yourself from the mating game is unnatural. We are hard wired with the drive to spill our …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:54 AM
6

It's true that many on here have a warped perspective of dating and the realities of mating. Men can be equally as shitty as women. If we are of a decent social status, we can be just as ruthless as women in dating. Using a woman because she is a hot piece of ass and then kicking her to the curb as soon as you get tired of her is just as ruthless as a woman using a beta male as long as he offers her security and resources. Both genders do what nature has decided the optimal route for procreation…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:02 PM
16

Asking a woman to recognize and understand perspectives other than her own is like asking a three year old to contemplate string theory.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:06 PM
2

As a 40 year old man, I can assure you that hypergamy doesn't diminish as they age. The highly attractive ones still hold onto hope that they will wed a top alpha male. They usually aren't as desperate to find a beta to latch onto because they already have had one or two betas they divorced and are collecting child support and/or alimony. They are typically doing alright financially even without a man. The not top of the tier in physical attractiveness milfs are desperate as all hell to latch on…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 06:25 PM
41

Your story should enlighten the knuckleheads on here who still believe finding a foreign woman is the way to go, as if they are somehow different and better relationship material. I had a friend who believed foreign women were the answer, so he married one. She filed for divorce the same week she got her permanent resident card.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:55 AM
1

The Holy Grail is a myth. Import your unicorn to the west and see how quickly she acts like any western woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 02:08 AM
22

The alternative is dating men.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 09:31 PM
18

Single moms are awful, but they are also very easy. It has always amused me at how quickly they start talking commitment. Though you can usually bang single moms within an hour or two of meeting them for the first time, at least they have that going for them. Had one single mom start talking about moving in together the second time we got together to shag. Said audios, amiga. If you are making good money, or even ok money, the last thing you should do is nut in a single mamma. She desperately wa…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 09:15 PM
1

Any viewpoint that doesn't support the feminist agenda is automatically considered unfair and sexist, and labeling it as such is a nice way of shutting down legitimate discussion.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:03 PM
1

I don't invest myself into the relationship enough to care if the relationship ends or not. When you are spinning plates losing one is no big deal. If you do lose her, it probably will not be over you not being able to give her orgasms. If I decided to limit myself to one woman and would try to keep her as a girlfriend I probably would care more about it. If you are completely indifferent to a relationship ending you care little about pleasing that person.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:34 PM
2

If a woman believes you are of very high value that alone is worth much more than whatever tricks we use on them. Several studies have been done that show women orgasm more frequently when screwing high value wealthy men or very masculine men. That is one such article: https://www.ehbonline.org/article/S1090-5138(11)00025-0/abstract00025-0/abstract) . There are plenty of other such articles that you can find online that draw the same conclusions. I, like everyone else here, adopt as much of the …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 01:36 PM
3

I've found how easily it is to make a woman orgasm is directly proportional to how well my game has been working. If my game and frame is solid all it takes is a good hard pounding to make her legs turn into a shaking mess. Getting her primed with a bunch of foreplay isn't necessary. If I lose frame and let the betaness slip back in or let her get too comfortable in the relationship, that's when orgasm issues arise. This has been my experience with quite a number of women. Be strong = easy orgas…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 12:29 PM
1

Men are weak because the feminist courts and judges have bludgeoned them into submission. Men are weak because they don't have good male role models in their lives, as they are raised by single mothers.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:48 PM
116

She just wants to find out if the new man (fake account) is a trade up before running him off. You can pretty much expect a woman to always shop around. If she finds a wealthier beta or more Chaddier Chad then you'll be ancient history.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:55 PM
7

Exactly, unfortunately most men are oblivious to women's sexual strategies. Women want a reliable provider and alpha seed to breed her. It is uncommon that one man possesses both attributes, so women line up 2 or more men to fill her needs. Movies and Hollywood paint an unrealistic picture that most men strive to mimic, which ends with disastrous results.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:41 PM
4

Good post. 11: Be more selective in the vaginas you stick your pickle into. Many new red piller's seem to want to work on quantity. Sure, banging new vagina is tons of fun, but exercise your better judgement. Even if a broad is hot, what's between her legs isn't worth drama or headaches. If your gut is telling you to stay away from a broad for whatever reason, back off of her. Don't let your pickle do the thinking for you.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:29 PM
2

The problem with most guys is they focus too much time and energy on women, instead of focusing on themselves. The more you focus on yourself the more easily and less time you'll need to focus on women to achieve the end result that you want.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 02:42 PM
1

You are right. I am red pilled and I am in a long term relationship. I used to spin plates for many years but got tired of chasing random tail. Found a woman I am content with for now, but never settled into the relationship so to speak. I know all too well the nature of women, and have no allusions that one day there is a good chance she will try to monkey branch and have other guys balls deep banging away in her. Women are sneaky, but if you learn enough red pill material you can usually pick …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:00 PM
2

I must be ugly as sin if attractiveness correlates with women approaching me, which is almost never. Just about every piece of tail I've ever had was a result of me initiating.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 12:16 PM
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Exactly. Women are not ever responsible for their actions, and men will get blamed for everything by the hivemind. Logic, reasonableness, fairness are all foreign concepts to women. Expecting them to apply such concepts to their, or other women's actions, is a fool's errand.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 11:31 AM
10

It doesn't matter if a chick banged 1 man or 5000 men, her box will feel the same. What ruins a woman's box is her age and if she has had kids.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:48 AM
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