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Yeah, I'm on the same boat wondering what the point of this article is. I'm pretty sure we have rules on posting shit without context and you're just holding up an article waving it around demanding a response from women who are going to overall disagree with the shitty lady.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/14 12:27 AM
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I started to worry about my partner count a little after I stopped enjoying casual sex. The casual sex started to make me dislike myself, the situation and I just felt dirty and slimy. I think it was mostly because I wasn't getting anything out of it other than the sex--and I wanted something more. The high number just reminded me of the high number of people that didn't matter and it made me feel shallow. I honestly believe sex is something that should be done with people in a relationship, I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 07:56 PM
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You could almost hear the record scratch when he asked how much she weighed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 05:21 PM
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And therein lies the problem with posting a differing opinion on trollx or twox. You're gonna have a bad time. That's if you care about karma I guess. I'd rather rock the boat, and defend my stance on how RPW works, and what makes it different from TRP, how it helps and how I'm not saying this to convince you of anything, it's just how I roll.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 12:12 AM
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Women who look for someone who is taller or stronger seems to be more of a preference to me than anything. Just because they look for someone who is stronger or taller doesn't mean they are looking for someone who is unequal to them, after all, that tall strong man is still going to be treated the same under the law to that woman according to the law. Equality that BP looks for is equality within the law. Equal opportunity, not necessarily equal reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/14 11:08 PM
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I think there are ways you can shoehorn conversations to get the answers you want. Talking about interests and hobbies can give you a good baseline for the type of person you're looking for. Someone who says they like doing "outdoorsy" things, or enjoys working out, you can figure they have an active lifestyle, which might signify a healthy lifestyle as well. Asking about school or the studies can give you a good idea of their future prospects. Maybe even give you a good time line if say, they w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 04:33 PM
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If your husband likes it, stick with what works. You have a husband, as far as RPW in concerned you've already won half the battle, and you just need to maintain. If what made him attracted to you was your unique appearance then stick with it. I am one of the RPW members who is tatted up to about 40% of my body, and I've had an alternative look for a very long time, and I still maintain a RP relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 04:25 PM
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Despite being married into the military, the military is like an extended family. They have plenty of sources that a spouse can use (once they become a spouse) to make transitions easier. There are spouse clubs and plenty of activities located on base for families. Something that my squadron would always stress pre-deployment to spouses is that they should never be afraid to ask for help. One spouse had just given birth and was having difficulties maintaining her yard with a newborn. She called …
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 11:42 PM
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Ease him into the discussion. To ask for a million decisions right out of basic might be a bit much, if you can, prepare him for some of these conversations prior to seeing him on graduation day so he can think about it. Your time is limited so you wanna make the best of it. Due to some craziness during basic, I actually ended up losing a day with my family during graduation week because my flight got in trouble. So you wanna prepare for that somehow.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 11:35 PM
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Mind you I can only speak from my experience in the military from a female perspective. Immediately after basic, he's going to seem a bit weird. Socialization was less of a "for fun thing" and more of a necessity. It was hard to talk to my family and feel relaxed especially coming straight out of basic. As excited as you may be to be around him, let him dictate what happens during the time you have to spend during the graduation weekend. Too much socialization might be too much for him to mental…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 11:13 PM
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Yeah my apologies, but its the best thing I know of, I could repost it here in reddit format but that might take a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:35 PM
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http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/badwomen This tumblr user actually put together plenty of links to show how feminism has done harm to men. TW: shitty tumblr theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:18 PM
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My problem with TRP is the idea that women are incapable of love. Oh, and the oldest teenager in the house, irks the hell out of me. The women over at RPW are grown ass women who are capable of knowing if they did something wrong on their own and can own up to it as well. I know none of those women need to be babied and they have metaphorical balls of steel. I think it mostly stems from some feminists wanting all the equality but less consequence, resulting in a very immature image. Therefor, ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 04:25 PM
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Join the club.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 04:36 PM
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If a girl is an asshole, you should probably stay away from her to avoid all asshole tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 02:55 AM
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I agree with everything stated. I'm just extra glad that there a bunch of nerds in here. The captain/first officer dynamic is pretty ingrained in me if only cause of military experience. If you consider your family/relationship like a ship that needs to be manned/maintained/supported then this dynamic becomes almost automatic.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 01:47 PM
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And divorce laws such as alimony usually does it's best to keep the vulnerable party safe in the event of an unfortunate divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 01:16 PM
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I would say that RPW doesn't shame women into being SAHM, mostly because there are DINK, two-income families and all sorts of set ups that the members of RPW have and all reach a happy relationship in one way or another, so saying there's only one way in the land of RPW isn't exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 04:49 AM
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RP understands that people have the potential to not be the best person they can be as well. Men have the potential to be Beta, or Alpha, or whatever other greek terminology they have. The biggest question is what do those men what to be, and can they achieve it? Now that I think about it, I wonder if TRP has written anything about Nietzsche. He really understood the idea of being the best person you can possibly be at any cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 04:39 AM
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Thats fair. I still don't think anything changes with a little verification and peace of mind in regards to paternity tests, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 02:28 AM
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But you don't shame a SAHM, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 02:25 AM
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If TBP subscribe to be feminists then they are being pretty poor feminists if they dislike women who choose to be SAHM, or pledge to marry early, or decide to give a lot of the deciding power of their family unit into the hands of their SO. These are all women who are exercising their right to choose a life in which they live, which I can't imagine many feminists being angry about that. Unless TBP isn't feminist in nature and then, I'm probably really confused on what TBP's platform is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 11:21 PM
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To answer your question after the update: TBP doesn't dislike advice. They dislike the way it is said. TBP doesn't have a problem with women wanting to be Stay at Home Moms, they have no problem with women who prefer self-improvement through various means, they have no problem with these things, they just dislike the delivery and the fact that it has a red-pill branding on it. Its pretty evident in the thread already that the problem is that TRP is associated with RPW that makes RPW a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 09:37 PM
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for me, I feel the trust but verify train of thought depends on the situation. If someone says they're STD free, I'd want to trust but verify. If I had a feeling I got an STD and yet my partner claims they are clean, I'm going to trust but verify. If I find a negative pregnancy test sitting in a trashcan when I haven't had sex with my partner for a while, I think I'm going to trust but verify. Its unrealistic to claim worst case scenario of a forever stalking lover trying to catch their partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 09:26 PM
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By picking the biggest, loudest, and baddest you are still cherry-picking by definition. Do we condemn political parties based on who seems to be the ones who are endorsed and upfront? No, I don’t think so. I don’t think individuals who choose to be Republicans are on the same branch as Sarah Palin. I don’t think individuals who choose to be feminists are the same as TERFs either. It’s not misogynistic to believe women are capable of being bad. Just like it’s not misandrist to believe men are ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 08:48 PM
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Because trust but verify is a thing and no one should be shamed from following that way of life. You can hang around /r/relationships and see plenty of people giving advice to potentially cheating spouses to trust your partner, but make sure you're not getting fucked over. If you aren't? No harm no foul. If you are getting fucked over, then wouldn't it better to know for a fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 08:45 PM
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Because I am? Because I too am an endorsed contributer to RPW and therefor provide yet another side to the red pill theory in regards to women? There is more to RPW than just TRP. There is more to RPW than just their mods. If you disregard quotes and members who fail to fit your narrative, well then I'm gonna assume you have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 07:22 PM
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I'm RPW and believe women are not a "series of fuckholes". I believe women have the potential to be a "series of fuckholes" just like a man has the potential to be a "series of fucksticks". Theres nothing morally wrong with accepting the potential of being one, nor is there anything morally wrong with actually being one. RPW strive to not be a "series of fuckholes" because there is a potential to be one and we as a whole don't want to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 07:05 PM
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The military requires men to have paternity tests for children. Why? Because the military has to pay for those children so they better belong to that soldier. I think men should get paternity tests right as the child is born. Why? Because he has to pay for those children so he better be sure. If the child is actually his and the woman has been faithful, whats the problem with checking and making sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 06:45 PM
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But what she finds wrong with RPW doesn't make RPW actually morally or ethically wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 06:41 PM
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Way to strawman the shit out of that dude. The members of RPW are varied in ages, cultures, and ethnicity. Way to erase a bunch of people who don't fit your stereotype of what RPW is and isn't. Secondly, we don't advertise our selves outside of the RP spheres of influence. Where do we force young pliable minds to our brood besides by just existing? If you don't like what it being said, venture into another place that doles out relationship advice. The women on RPW are content to live their lifes…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 06:39 PM
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If I walk into a chatroom full of feminists demanding them to listen to misogynistic blather, I shouldn't be surprised when they don't take too kindly to my words? Why are the people who object to RPW concern police the people who post within the community and surprised that they get RP advice in the same RP direct way they tend to throw out RP advice? RPW is for women who have like minded ideals on how to run their lives, and if a woman or man is looking to get advice from RPW then they should …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 06:31 PM
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"I want you home every night and you can only go to the gym with me and this is because I think you may have cheated on me and screw your preferences I am cutting my hair!" That is exactly what it sounds like to me. From what I gather you want a few things: Spend more time with him, ensure he hasn't cheated on you, cut your hair short despite what he likes and go to college. Allow me to put things in some perspective. Spend More Time with Him. Sure, I understand. Everyone loves spending time wit…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 09:45 PM
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K. I'll file that away in shit we as a sub already know.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 01:58 AM
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I have a lot to do with fashion, so it may be hard to be concise about how I feel clothes make a woman...but I can get back to you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:39 PM
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Fact: You're going to get old. Fact: Everyone ages differently. Question: What do you do on top of looking pretty? Beauty fades and whats left is a personality is not too far off. Instead of personality think of what you can provide as a partner to him as your looks fade. Thats what maintains a long-lasting relationship. PS: It doesn't hurt to still find beauty tips. I just don't have any myself besides fashion advice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 08:16 PM
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Which is why its usually endorsed to RP individuals. Obviously you're not one of them, so don't feel pressured to follow through with any Red Pill literature. If it ain't for you, it ain't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 06:41 PM
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You don't have to be the man in the relationship, though.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 06:29 PM
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I am very much a submissive in personality and enjoy a housewife role. However I keep ending up in relationships though where my partner ends up viewing me as a mom figure instead of a lover and end up getting cheated on or dumped for another gal. I try not to nag ever, yet somehow I end up in a mom role? . So I end up being the provider with dates, car, etc. On top of the house wife role and then I take on too much of the relationship. Being submissive and enjoying the housewife role doesn’t me…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 04:51 PM
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http://observer.theguardian.com/osm/story/0,,543962,00.html Yeah but even faces against 203rd ranked male in the world, the William sisters lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 01:01 PM
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What is this awesome site?! I'm cleaning right now with these playlists.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 05:12 PM
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My workout playlist happens to be my cleaning playlist. I need to heavy quick beats to maintain a pace.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 02:51 PM
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Thank you for the perspective. I think I'm kinda of premptively worrying about the dynamic of full time wife and full time student so if i happen to struggle I know what to do. I hope I have the same amount of dedication if I have kids and in in class. My birth control (IUD) will be ready to remove in the next two years so I was also highly considering the idea of also being pregnant in my last year of school. You sound like you got it down, though.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 02:49 PM
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Based on what you and others have said, it gives me the impression that if you maintain vigilance with schoolwork you just naturally maintain vigilance with the rest of your responsibilities.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 02:46 PM
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I definitely think setting up a cleaning schedule will keep me on track for what I need to do. My mother used to have a white board calendar on her fridge where she would write everything that needed to be done that week. I might try and invest in that and place it in the craft room where I work.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 06:30 PM
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Its a small 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom home. While nice to have, I think it might be unnecessary considering how small the house is.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 06:25 PM
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I always at around thinking if I had money to get plastic surgery, what would I get? Everytime I boil down to the idea that I can't imagine changing my face in a way that is unfamiliar. My breasts are tiny and I can't see myself with them any bigger, I'd look like a caricature (32AA@105lbs). But I also down think I've aged badly either, maybe in ten more years I might be singing a different tune.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 10:52 AM
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Well it is The Onion, so the woman is literally a character.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 10:48 AM
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The girl they're complaining about is actually very nice to talk to. I messaged her after the first time she came up in RPW and declared she was an inspiration and I hope I could compete/be in par with her.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 05:13 PM
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Can I just say this was really well written. I would love to see more western feminist responses to how the Dutch do their do. It seems to challenge a lot of notions/platforms that I've seen feminists push. Would they argue that there's still pressures for Dutch women to be homemakers, but it's just not there? Or accept that this is a reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 06:20 PM
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I feel like I'm not getting the whole picture here. Perhaps an edit with this: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1xk4sa/when_asking_for_advice_answer_these_questions/ In mind.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/14 07:51 PM
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Ah, the new wardrobe day. I had this problem when I finally separated from the military. A good wardrobe is one you invest in. With a few high quality basics that are appropriately tailored, you can go a long way. Someone already mentioned it but you want to aim to fit the largest part of your body comfortably and then tailor the rest down. This is why I suggest going for fewer clothes because the tailoring is gonna kill you price wise. As far as getting sophisticated looks, you wanna get some b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 08:46 PM
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I'm getting married in the court house on friday. There's a busted septic in the old house we are living at so I have to hold off on getting a stove (we have none) until we fix the septic so we can flush the toilet more than twice a day. Crock pot meals and taking advantage of the apartment I'm still paying for (I have roommates I didn't want to leave with the rent bill) to be able to use the shower for longer than two minutes. It's gonna be a struggle but I trust that we will get through it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 02:58 PM
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Saw this happen with two military girls who married a year into their enlistment. One got divorced and got a taste of being a queen bee and convinced the other not six months later. Most males in the squadron were wary of those two once they came back into the market and the prowl.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/14 08:06 PM
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Support him and love him. Make him know he is appreciated in all aspects. And while I don't know what his profession of choice is, I always suggest to people to look into their local state department of labor for job fairs and the like. Also federal jobs are a-plenty over at usajobs.gov
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 10:55 PM
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I didn't even realize this was a thing! Goal of the week is to wear makeup each time I go out. I'm going to be starting a new job soon so I want to get on looking good on a constant basis. The weather is getting nicer out here, so I should run the trail on base at least three times this week.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/14 08:08 PM
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I'm sure you got plenty of advice already but I will mention something that helped me when I began cooking bigger meals. I plan super ahead. Usually on a Saturday I will plan out my weeks meals ahead of time. That way I know what I need to make. If the preparation for a particular meal is dense, I will prep some of the food the night before, or defrost the meat early. Or even marinate food the night before so it will be ready for the next day. Once I come home from work all I need to do is pull …
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 05:58 AM
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This is what I do! Doing keagals made me more conscious of the muscles and use it to my advantage when I was having sex. Blows their mind for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 12:18 AM
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This is definitely the kinda self-improvement article women need to read. I agree with everything and I hope that the reward will equal the effort I put in to make myself (physically and mentally) attractive to the high value men I hope to be with.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 12:13 AM
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I've made some awesome paleo banana bread too. Blew my mind how delicious it was.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/13 12:56 AM
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The bed by midnight is something that me and the girls I tend to hang out with go by. I always feel like after that time it's usually becomes troublesome--with guys who have struck out early in the night seeing the dwindling time and getting more aggressive combined with fellow females get themselves unattractively sloshed and get a little loose with their standards.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 11:16 PM
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I've had both short and long hair over the years myself. To me, short hair was less fuss, I had less hair in the drain and I was lazier with it. My hair was able to be tamed with a bit of product and I was out the door in my uniform. When I have long hair, I have to do the little extra work of sock bun-ing it, but I'm still capable of doing it pretty fast. Time was really negligible. I usually cut my hair super short whenever something jarring was happening. Military life, break ups, things like…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/13 05:44 AM
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And to be the wonderful contrast to this form of raising I lived a rather different experience. I am a first generation born in United States from a Hispanic family in a large urban city. Based off stereotypes you'd figure I'd get some good strong family value raising, but it didn't really happen that way. I am the youngest of two kids, my older brother being 11 years older than me. I wasn't a planned child (obviously). Even though my family maintained itself as a unit, we weren't really close l…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 08:34 PM
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Yeah. Of course. I think knowing where you stand is very important. Not that being a 2 or a 3 is necessarily bad, but knowing where you stand in one position can help you recognize that you need to up your game in other positions. I feel if you're ugly--you can't be a bitch as well. You have nothing going for you at that rate if the ultimate goal is looking for an ideal mate.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/13 03:04 PM
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I feel like doing it heels is impossible, but the imagery is magnificent.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 01:19 AM
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I talked to a lot of my friends at work about this blog, taking about how exciting and funny it is. A lot of the individuals were on board with the idea that it was cute, although we have one recently engaged younger troop who said his ultimatum would be "Make 300 sandwiches or you're gone." I'm sure he's joking but eh. My biggest head scratcher was why there were so many people in the comments of the articles that said he was being a terrible boyfriend. Or she was a doormat. Or that this relati…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/13 03:28 PM
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If I was challenged with 300 sandwiches or bust, I'd go for it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 10:14 PM
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I just find it funny that this particular article links to the Craigslist positive pregnancy tests. We had a discussion about this at work and most of the guys felt it was unfair that the man was going to jail. Big talks about why a mans presence is only wanted from a woman when she is wanting money for a child. I agree with the general sentiment that there should be some sort of opt out policy. If either parent wants to keep the child and the other doesn't, they should be allowed to surrender t…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 04:24 AM
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While I watched a lot of Disney movies and loved them all, very few can stand to meet my standards of entertainment now. Too many tropes and stereotypes. I think Mulan is the only Disney princess movie I will still watch and enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 10:03 PM
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I will explain parts of my past that may not necessarily be kosher to your average guy. I've had a lot of sexual partners/encounters. I tell them that I have a lot of friends who are active in the lgbt community, and are pretty flaming. Some people are uncomfortable with that, considering that I live in the Bible Belt. I'm also active in the local kink community and currently engaged in a d/s relationship. Things like that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/13 12:27 AM
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I usually put up my disclaimer about previous crazy I've done on the first date. This gives the guy a good idea of whether he's willing to take it or not. I give him that option. At least that's how ive been rolling with online dating. I hate to waste another persons time.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 07:48 PM
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24 and just started adjusting myself towards some form of enlightenment.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 06:34 PM
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Your girlfriend has some really key insights. I think this guy was a blue-pill before he even moved to Seattle.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 08:16 PM
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Four years of this sort of speech is reversible, just pretty difficult to not treat other people like I would my comrades.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/13 02:23 AM
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I tend to use as little words as possible to get my point across during normal social interactions. It leaves people wondering if I dislike them a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 09:32 PM
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If you want to get married in the future, then it's in your interest to date now. You need to know what kinda man you're looking for and you may need to strike out a few times before you find that guy you wanna marry. That can take years. Or not. Your call.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/13 01:07 AM
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Oh no, this is a good talk. I too believe there should always be the opportunity to excel, and whatever privileges and consequences you get from it is something that should be accepted. I'm just learning about my consequences late.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 11:33 PM
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Goodness. I agree with what you're saying and it's something that's definitely kept me from attempting any sort of relationship. Being worried about doing something mil-to-mil and how it would effect the work environment would make me neurotic. Someone would be promoted first, that creates tension, some one would get orders and the other gets disrupted and that would cause tension. So much that concerns me about maintaining a relationship that is sound. Build separate civilian and military perso…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 05:26 PM
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I realize now that my choice of vocabulary was poor, but thank you for the critique. I'm engaged in some serious reading today.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 05:14 PM
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Radical feminists still exist and definitely turn women off to the movement when they judge a woman's choice as regressive. If a woman wants to be a stay-at-home mom, that should be just as respected as a woman who chooses not to. If more feminists pushed that agenda, that women are free to make a choice, as opposed to pushing that the road to independence and empowerment is by taking swords and trusting the phallic weapons into their male oppressors and nothing else, I think people would be les…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 04:57 PM
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Well if its any consolation, I wouldn't get sex either. But I know I have different needs than a guy would.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 04:33 PM
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I had to sit down and really think about this one, especially after reading some of the material everyone offered and comparing notes. I wanted someone who I could support and they could support me--both emotionally and physically. Who held similar interests in the arts and could talk to it intelligently. I hoped I could find someone who would challenge me as a person and push my boundaries while I did the same for them. I wanted someone who was capable of doing things by themselves because I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 04:10 PM
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I can understand that in looking for a partner one is also looking for utility in a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:35 PM
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I like how he suggests women to be "resilient and self-reliant". Terms that still feel admirable and positive but not as strong as "strong and independent". Thanks for the link.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:29 PM
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I think that is the most frightening part. The idea of trusting someone else to be the leader is foreign to me. I built up in my head that in order to be successful I needed to be independent and not show any weakness in order to get through adulthood. To put that trust and allow myself to depend on an individual--Christ I probably haven't done that since I. Was 17.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:23 PM
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Sounds ominous in a funny way, but I see where you're coming from. Coming out the gate, I'm already a tad bit on the handicap. I'm going to have to out a bit more glitter and glam on what I do have going for me and hope it'll overlook the rest.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:19 PM
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No, what I mean is, I'm recognizing I have a list of things that are going against me. I admit I don't like to hear it, but when I compare myself to my female peers, I see myself failing and lacking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:15 PM
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Not particularly, no. Low dominance types never seem to be able to keep up with me, yet those are the types I tend to attract. I see how I wouldn't want the beta types because they add nothing to what I have and can do happily by myself. And yet, here I am, trying to attract alphas with nothing to add to the stability they have. It's like a vicious one way circle(?).
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:13 PM
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I always imagined two strong capable individuals would make for a strong relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:08 PM
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Obviously I wouldn't go into combat in pink, but my tattoos are hidden save for when I am naked for the most part. I'm sure there's more to me being un-feminine than just the tattoos, as I'm learning.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:04 PM
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When you put it that way, I always considered that the stability I could provide was a good thing. As long as I'm in the service, I would always have work. The things I learned in the past five years, the discipline, the work ethic, the ability to take the stressors in my head made me an appealing candidate for a partner. I didn't think that made me any less feminine, just more capable. I can cook, I can clean, and I love the arts, but I don't nearly advertise that as much as I suppose. But even…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 03:02 PM
3

I'm just legitimately asking for what I'm doing wrong. I'm not well read into the red pill theory and I'm trying to see what I can fix or if its completely hopeless of a cause.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 02:54 PM
5

So what parts are in not attractive? Or unappealing?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 02:47 PM
2

I feel like it becomes a problem when I'm taken away to deploy at short notice and it effects the relationship as a result.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 02:40 PM
3

Probably because I like bumper stickers.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 02:40 PM
1

I'd like to think I still have some femininity left, but the job doesn't work very well if you're overly feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 02:13 PM
2

What I mean is "How to be less intimidating" if my chosen career has put me in a situation where I am financially, and independently better off than my male peers?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/13 02:12 PM
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