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Field Reportinline6throwaway/r/seduction12/08/22 12:18 AM
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Run what ya brung.....I love those types of races
/r/seduction02/11/22 12:18 AM
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Thanks great advice. I've dealt with this more times that I would have wanted to
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:14 PM
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I don't fully agree with this sentiment. I think it depends multiple variables, one being the type of person you are. My buddy has told me stories about how he has gone to festivals by himself and ended up meeting women, his lady girlfriend he met at a festival he went to by himself. I've gone to a concert with him and met women and gotten a number once. He's able to go and have fun by himself without the objective of meeting a woman for a relationship goal or any goal for that matter. Plus he l…
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:24 PM
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Deal with women that you know are attracted to you. That helps. Otherwise don't be so reserved. I have a problem with being too reserved
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:54 PM
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I've never heard anyone say that a relationship lasts longer when the guy likes the girl more than she likes him. I think it's the other way around
/r/seduction22/10/22 07:18 PM
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I disagree. I fairly frequently see swagged out skinny guys with skeleton-ish faces getting females
/r/seduction22/10/22 05:14 AM
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In terms of body type or personality? Because there is something to this. Yes I notice patterns
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:17 PM
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Great thing is you already know what you did wrong. You'll know what to do next time (there will be a next time, by then you would've already forgot about this experience, or you won't feel bad about it).
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:52 PM
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Nope not all of em. But if that's what you think then I guess you better get doped up too. More hormones more dates
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:57 AM
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There are a lot of guys with not much money and not working good jobs who have no problems attracting multiple women
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:28 AM
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Idk why you're getting down votes because this is what we all want in the people we date. Technically i covered the good looks part when I said good genetics. So you're saying you want someone who isn't an energy vampire nor is abusive, OR you want him to be good looking? Lol why not all three?
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:51 AM
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They're pickier because they have more to pick from lol. That and going back to evolutionary reasons, they want a kid with good genetics, blasé blasé
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:35 AM
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A combination of what others have said here about you being more comfortable in your own skin around older women, and older women can be easier to deal with, nicer, more likely to call you hon lol, etc
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:35 PM
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Excellent response
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:42 AM
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Yeah you have a self esteem issue. Enrich your own life (and yourself) with your own solo experiences. Go out by yourself and do what YOU want to do. Don't worry about inviting friends or being invited to shit. Now in terms of knowing what to talk about or having anything to talk about...... you can actually test strangers in a certain way. Start off a conversation with simple topics or observations. If they make effort to keep the conversion going, asking you questions, and the convo seems line…
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:00 PM
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If you approach one, she says no, and you walk away, she won't accuse you of harassment. It's when you keep persisting and nagging after the fact, that's when it's harassment and you have what's coming to you. You really can't expect women en masse to start approaching (even though they can and have done it) just because you think they should. If you want them to start approaching you more regularly you better have something very compelling about yourself which would incentivize them to do so. J…
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:53 PM
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Hah. I remember seeing that casually explained video years ago. And I'm aware of girls liking a guy until he opens his mouth. Gotta have a good mouth piece because definitely the way you talk and your demeanor can dry a girl up even if she was attracted to your looks. I'm not into the astrology shit either but sometimes it's fun to talk about for banter. And I've met a girl who was into researching Hitler too. Crazy but it's good to learn lol. In terms of a girl wanting to sleep with a guy right…
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:36 AM
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We're pretty much speaking the same language after all. This year I had a couple of instances where I learned that even genuine iois could lead to nothing. But I would still say they are pretty damn reliable. Then again, a woman could choose you as soon as you approach her too. I've heard it be said that a woman can determine whether she would sleep with someone within 5 seconds to 15 min of meeting them
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:25 AM
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I agree with you there. And when you say sometimes iois are just normal friendly behavior. Well, if I was attracted to the girl, then I would clear that up by shooting my shot to find out if she's interested or if she was just being friendly. I would say don't hesitate just because you might think she's just being friendly but I'm sure you know that already
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:20 AM
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I disagree dude. There are people that indeed DO get signs that are actual ioi's. You bring up bumble interactions, that's different from say for example having a girl smile at you or even be staring at you from across a room, and then when you happen to see her she instantly looks away. Then there's the "proximity" sign, where a woman is basically positioning herself near you over and over again. Now should we only ever look for signs before approaching women? No, I don't think so. And are some…
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:14 AM
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I personally would not. I usually let it come up organically
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:01 AM
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Well for me, it's sort of like an internal heat rising feeling, but not like anger. Many times I just knew just by the way she looked at me
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:05 AM
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That's a typical sign, that's not them not knowing how to throw signs. You gotta know how to read their eyes. Plus, you can feel it
/r/seduction12/10/22 10:55 PM
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This is an important post. I've noticed this for myself for a while. Usually when I notice a girl but don't "fixate" on her so to speak (like wow she's so hot wow she's my type etc etc) I have had success with those women. Like if I notice her, acknowledge things that I think about her appearance, and then don't think much about her beyond that, I am more easily able to interact with her and can deal the deal too. Usually with my "dream girls" I freeze up or engage in negative self talk, become …
/r/seduction11/10/22 10:26 PM
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Find someone who puts forth more effort. Other people here said she's probably talking to other dudes. Start talking to other women
/r/seduction10/10/22 11:13 PM
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Don't give people false expectations
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:28 AM
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Yup I've been applying this to myself
/r/seduction10/10/22 12:16 AM
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Many times where I've gotten "the eyes" from women, I could feel it. One instance where her gaze was lingering on me. Another time a woman was intensely focused while staring at me. Sometimes you can even read their eyes as they're looking you up and down. Or it could be a quick but noticable pause when she sees you as she is looking around. Or a mild trance even. Whether you receive a lot of looks from women or not, when you do get those certain looks where she's particularly interested in you,…
/r/seduction10/10/22 12:04 AM
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Comes with the territory of dating and being with beautiful women. As long as she doesn't flirt back (which she can do what she wants but if she does then I would not take her seriously)
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:18 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:36 AM
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Sheeeiiittt. I've gotten strong ioi's from women and had it lead to nothing. That being said, I still move on women that give them, and sometimes women that don't
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:09 AM
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Blue check mark Look good
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:44 PM
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You might also just have to start physically walking towards a woman that you're attracted to and say something to her before your brain has a chance to come up with an excuse not to. And now you're in the position where you have to make something out of it lol. It may be rough at first but I would imagine that if you do this enough times you will become very natural and comfortable with it
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:37 PM
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This is good advice for anyone
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:34 PM
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Be good looking to her lol
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:22 PM
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Read a book called mode one on this topic
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:39 PM
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Approach
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:48 PM
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Why do you get freaked out
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:08 AM
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If he looks at you in the beginning (I'm guessing every time you guys see each other at the gym) then he probably is interested
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:17 PM
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Practically speaking, when you get rejected face to face (not on the "back end"), just smile and say "ok cool have a nice day" or something along those lines. If she wants to be an ass about rejecting you (which that should be rare as long as you're smooth about the way you approach), don't get mad. You can Crack jokes in response. Don't be afraid of harsh public rejections. If you get rejected on the back end ( meaning she gave you her number but will not respond to texts or calls, or is extrem…
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:07 AM
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I suppose I could see how one could interpret what I said that way, but that was not what I was trying to convey
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:01 PM
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All of this being said, I'm cool on ig lol
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:47 PM
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I agree. The way i see it, It totally depends on how you use it. Some end up comparing themselves to others while on ig. Hell people compare themselves to others when they step out of their house. Some use it to market themselves/their business and network. Some use it for inspiration. Some use it and end up wasting time looking at ig models. It all depends.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:19 PM
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It CAN be. It can also be used as a tool as someone else mentioned
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:08 PM
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That is true. My theory is that it's because it seems a bit more "upscale," but still decent prices
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:07 PM
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Don't take it seriously, just talk shit for the fuck of it. Bullshit her lol. No outcome dependence. You don't care. Fuck it
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:33 PM
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Depends on how the girl sees him. It's possible that a man could be not hot by standards of most or even some women, but a particular woman could still see him as such.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:37 AM
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Read a book called Mode One by Alan Roger Currie. But at the least if you're approaching a woman you want to date, don't take the friend approach. Be straight up and tell her you're attracted to her or something along those lines
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:36 AM
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I.e. oneitis
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:56 AM
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Good point about the ego, I'm realizing this for myself
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:56 AM
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Lol........I am what some would consider shortish in height and I'm not white.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:50 AM
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Well see......I myself wasn't particularly bothered by his verbiage. There were probably some ladies who read his post who weren't bothered by it either. Sometimes this is the way people view dating prospects, whether male or female. I do notice that sometimes some women don't like when men express their preferences. This could be a case of hit dogs hollering. In regards to reading more, I don't appreciate the unnecessary snark, but whatever. It's ironic that you tell me to read more. And yet he…
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:49 PM
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You seem to have a problem with him wanting an upgrade as he put it. Basically what he's getting on the apps is outside of what is preference is. What's wrong with him aiming for what he wants?
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:23 PM
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That kind of reminds me of Fulton market. If you've never been, definitely go
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:18 PM
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Yes I tend to go to bars by myself. I sit at the bar by myself. I've met women this way. Sometimes people will start talking to you. I've had random people buy me drinks. It's not a bad way to go
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:30 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:26 PM
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Your self esteem. You need to change it. You know how many fat people go to beaches and don't give a fuck? Obese women who walk around in tube tops with their stomachs hanging out at family events who don't give a fuck? You compare yourself to others. Whenever I go to the bar for example, there may be many people there but only a small percentage are "8s, 9s, and 10s." It's not like bars are full of nothing but male and female models and IG models. You compare yourself to these imaginary hot peo…
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:37 PM
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Sorry man you don't make her wet. No go meet the girl who you do turn on
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:49 PM
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Pay attention to this and I've seen others say this on this thread
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:40 AM
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Interact with them as if they were 3s, 4s, and 5s that like you. If you're a 7 then you should've had some decent looking (6+ up to 8s and up) women giving you play at least a couple times in your life so you would know how to treat them. At the end of the day though they are still women just like the less attractive ones. So treat them the same
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:21 AM
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Funny permanently? I've heard Kevin Hart say in a Joe Rogan interview that even not all of his own jokes are funny
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:58 AM
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I would say that has quite a bit to do with it if you look good to her and you are smooth and do it "right"
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:55 PM
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Don't go into the date with a negative outcome in mind. Go into it with no expectations at all.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:34 PM
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"Being stuck on a woman who's somewhat attractive in your environment. Toxic mindset." Good point thanks for saying it
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:28 PM
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Women will make a move or be aggressive if she finds the man exceptionally attractive
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:42 AM
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He doesn't really have to approach much if he is fairly frequently receiving this type of attention
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:36 AM
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Go with the flow, sounds like they are serving themselves right up to you.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:35 AM
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Nope not really. I've always had it.
/r/seduction05/09/22 08:10 PM
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This might be due to her wanting your attention again. Did you set up a second date? In my experience, this has only worked with girls who already liked me from the start that I wasn't attracted to anyway. Me seeing a woman that I liked but ignoring her did not really cause her to become attracted to me
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:18 AM
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Good comment
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:42 PM
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Are Canadian girls nice?
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:46 PM
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But as grown men, we're not trying to deal with teenagers. So their behavior is completely irrelevant. Please specify 18+ even though that is still very young despite being legally considered to be adults lol
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:04 AM
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Why do you keep saying teenagers.........
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:20 PM
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You know what man sometimes I've wondered this about myself. I consider myself medium height, I've got a good frame and it comes out more when I work out. Idk if women generally consider me to be handsome, average, or ugly. Because when I'm out and about it seems like I'm invisible. Especially to the women at my gym. I am balding so I shave my head and can pull off the bald look. I am not white. I still struggle with wondering if I'm ugly or average because I haven't bedded an 8, 9, or 10. I eng…
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:49 PM
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I definitely concur with the excitement. The fact that it is mixed with a little fear makes it better actually. I kinda like the stomach butterflies
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:31 PM
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Be fly as fuck
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:28 PM
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Lol. Jokes aside though my buddy operates like this. He's good at making drinks so he'll make a colorful mixed drink, throw on a nice filter and post on snap. Then girls from his network start messaging him. He's done this right in front of me and I've seen it work lol. Also he got to the point where he doesn't ask for a girl's number when he meets her. If the convo and connection is good enough she'll offer her number to him
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:28 PM
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So you're saying no minutely updates of your awesome life through text?
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:51 PM
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She really likes him if she tries to get ahold of him? To me that's just she likes him. She does not like him if she doesn't try to get a hold of him after getting his number lol.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:50 PM
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Don't ask for the number through social media when you could've asked for it when you guys were face to face
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:49 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:49 PM
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Get her email or business card
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:47 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:05 AM
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Nah, a person who is ignoring you really isn't worth your time. Needs to be said.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:59 AM
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Fuck no
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:58 AM
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Not so much when the woman is older. Nevertheless this shouldn't be an issue
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:48 PM
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Go to Tokyo
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:53 AM
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You'll want to come back during the summer. Nothing like it with all different types of festivals and there's always something going on at night
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:14 AM
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I live in the Chicagoland area and yes I've seen women better looking than her just out and about now that you mention it. Don't even have to go to a club to see that. Btw I love nyc
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:45 AM
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Hmm. I see what you mean now. I think she still looks good but I've been needing to recalibrate my scale lol. My coworker just now said she was a 5 lmao
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:55 PM
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I'd put Aaron Donald's wife at an 8
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:24 PM
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You gotta start talking to random people man. I'm an introvert, not super introvert but I am still one. A bit of a loner and shy. But eventually I was able to just start talking to strangers. It helps to have some depth of thought on different things so you have quite a bit to talk about
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:36 PM
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The general signals are her looking at you over and over, similar to how a guy might look at a woman he thinks is beautiful. Her being around you over and over, eye contact, randomly staring conversations with you CAN be a sign, not always though. Playing with hair, open body language toward you. But you don't always have to wait for those signals. It's possibly that you could approach a girl who is giving no signals and she could like you or choose you as soon as you walk up to her. I've done i…
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:03 PM
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You could turn it into a joke, say 10000 or something and laugh. There are a lot of good answers here. But whatever you do, don't let this affect your self esteem. I had the same worry when I was 22 and still a virgin. I let that affect me negatively and it was tough living with the thought of "damn if I meet a girl who likes me and finds out I'm a virgin, she's gonna think something is wrong with me." Please keep these types of thoughts out of your head.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:20 PM
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You have a low view of yourself. That energy emanates from you. That makes you more unattractive than you being 5'5" or whatever your height is
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:18 PM
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I've cold approached a lot of women and had my fair share of rejections. Many times they were flattered, or they said they had a boyfriend or whatever. Only once did I sense that the woman didn't want me talking to her, and that was a girl at a gym. Vast majority of the time, they didn't seem like they hated that I was asking them out
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:13 PM
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Yeah I should focus more on that. And I can take a page out of your book and chill out, not be in such a rush. But it's a fine balance between not rushing but still striking while the iron is hot.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:16 AM
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I had a weird instance at the gym where this fine girl (she was my type) was holding a convo with me. Asking me "how do I get stronger, how do I get toned," then she said she was married to a trainer. Weird. Curious that she was asking me those basic questions right? Lol. Then she tried offering me her husband's social media in case I wanted training from him. Again...... weird lol. It was a trip. I didn't get her name, number, or socials
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:14 AM
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I'm not quite slaying like that, although I've done it before. But I'm learning that yes things can happen quicker than you think. I don't think I'm better than anyone else. And I've actually had a buddy tell me that he doesn't ask for the number at all. If he's had a good quality connection with a girl like you mention, they'll end up offering their number to him. I've had that happen before but it didn't lead to anything.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:02 AM
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I never said always. And I wouldn't wait until we get to the parking lot to ask for a woman's number. To me that would be kinda weird. But hey that might work well for you. If I'm talking to a woman wherever and it's clear that we're hitting it off well within the first 10/15 minutes and there is attraction, I'll ask for the number and set up a date right there. Just gotta be confident and assertive about it. And if I spoke to a girl at a bar for 2 hours and we hit it off that could turn into a …
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:37 PM
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You wait until the 8th interaction to ask her out? Wow. It's possible that some women that are down to go on a date or do things with you on the first interaction
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:25 PM
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Yeah I've noticed that some people in these fields, find it really important to let people know how logical they are. Some may need to let go of letting your degree or what you're studying identify you. It's an easy task to fall into. Then come the superiority complexes just because you study something in engineering
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:03 PM
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Keep things things light, Crack jokes, tease her a bit, banter, be witty, don't say too much about yourself. Let her do most of the talking. Easier said than done but these are your general directives. I recently saw a YouTube video by someone named Jacked & Stacked saying that you really shouldn't talk about being an engineer, whether in training or whatever.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:37 PM
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I was about to say the same thing
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:51 AM
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I got the message thanks
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:49 AM
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That's awesome
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:48 AM
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Damn lmao.... I've never had a woman refer to me as that and I'm 5'8." Listen dude, uhhh.....I wouldn't worry about it at all of I were you. She's just trying to bust your balls to test you. Hell I've even told women I was 5'5" before lol
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:46 AM
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Here are a couple of positives about your description of yourself. If you legitimately like being by yourself, that is a huge plus. Once a woman comes into your life, you won't be as needy to be around her and talk to her. Because like you said, much of your time is spent enjoying your own company. Secondly, being an introvert can make you come off as mysterious.
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:26 PM
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You gotta be trolling with that. That's your problem. You think being with a hot chick is like winning the lottery. I've never thought those two things were analogous in my entire life. You're supposed to treat the hot ones like those ones you been sleeping with that you aren't attracted too. And yes sleeping with women you're not attracted to just because it's an opportunity for sex is a sign of low self esteem and low self respect. Because through your actions you are insinuating to yourself t…
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:30 AM
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You need to knock it off, seriously
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:00 AM
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Do you really think this will be the ONLY attractive girl you'll get with for the rest of your life?
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:57 AM
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He wants someone he's attracted to but I see what you're saying
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:56 AM
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This is an excellent response.
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:54 AM
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"If you did it once, you can do it again" that's a good one
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:41 AM
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Keep going to the gym and get a better job. Maybe start your own business. Pursue your passion. You will become better looking as your body becomes more muscular but don't be surprised when you are muscular and still have dry spells with women. I've fallen into the same trap
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:40 AM
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Lol...... now this is becoming a bit more relatable
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:32 AM
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"Made a weird face and walked away." Things could be worse. She could've went out of her way to publicly embarrass you by roasting you. Or loudly rejecting you lol. Approach enough times until you don't even care anymore
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:29 AM
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Congratulations man. Keep tailoring your life to what you want it to be
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:51 PM
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Experience will give you the test first and teach you the lesson afterwards
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:50 PM
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I like what you're saying but I do believe that women choose the men. I've also had this thing where sometimes deep down inside whenever I go out, whether I'm just running errands or going out somewhere or whatever, that I'm hopefully that a woman will show some interest as I'm out and about. Would you say that having these types of thoughts and feelings is putting out desperate/ needy energy? As opposed to if I did not care at all whether I receive interest, looks, choosing signals from women a…
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:06 PM
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That's why some guys say "assume all women want you. And when you find out she doesn't, hey, it's her loss."
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:32 PM
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Smh lol. I got rejected by a few girls over the course of 2 nights. All of em some would consider sub 5 😬😅
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:09 AM
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Make sure it's clean, neat, and tidy. Take the trash out, clean the toilet, wash the dishes, etc. Simple stuff
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:10 AM
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It could also be your attitude and energy. You're walking around with these thoughts in your mind. And women can probably pick up on that. You might be coming off as thirsty. I'm dealing with the same thing right now. So I'm actually just taking a step back and being to myself. Open to meeting a woman who shows interest though.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:26 AM
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Try taking a vacation to a larger city
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:19 AM
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"I don't have friends." Work on your social skills. I know that can be tough for those of us who are not naturally social. If you improve your looks noticeably through gym, clothes, skincare, hair, and teeth, you probably might be getting some looks from women. But if you're situation is still dry, then the problem is inside.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:19 AM
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It's either extremely good for some guys, or extremely bad for others. Very few in between
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:17 AM
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Even you get rejected bro?
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:22 AM
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If you're starting off, clear your thoughts. Have no motives like trying to get her number, have no expectations. Just get in your groove first and if she seems into you, then ask for the number. Sometimes when you're talking to women you are actually just testing the waters to see how she will respond to you. Keep in mind how you make her feel
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:42 PM
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It's all good. And yes, sometimes we need to switch roles and variables to gain perspective
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:02 AM
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What did I say was a red flag? Cuz I don't see myself saying that in my own comment lol. Otherwise I agree
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:55 PM
1

Wow ok. Good talk 🤙🏾
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:50 PM
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Lol......I don't recall saying that I would try to stop the situation. Best thing that can be done if you know you'll feel a bit salty about it is to remove yourself from the situation for a little while
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:39 PM
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No, I'm not in high school. If a girl liked me but I didn't like her, I'd probably talk to another woman outside of her friend group lol. If she had a cute friend who was into me and I started giving her friend attention, I wouldn't be surprised if the original girl felt bad about that. That would cause some drama. I'm just putting myself in the shoes of op. Sure we can tell him to be mature and well adjusted and pretend like he doesn't care that the girl he likes wants to get with his friend. B…
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:06 PM
1

Let it ride I guess but you might have to separate yourself from them two for a while for your own good. Maybe explain it to your buddy so he can at least understand why you are going mia
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:42 PM
1

The fact that the boy that single girl wants is his best friend means nothing?
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:40 PM
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I like this one, it reminds me of my therapist lol
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:50 PM
2

If I were you, I'd just be straight up. "Hey I got your number from the group chat, hope you don't think it's weird lol. I thought you were cute, wanted to know if you wanted to go out sometime." Something like that
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:27 PM
2

Eh......a girl got my number from a group chat once. At the time I thought she was cute so it was ok
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:04 PM
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If you're considered fairly attractive, then you don't have to really "make" guys come to you. For the guys that you want..... be particularly nice, friendly, and receptive to them
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:33 AM
1

Congrats, good job
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:38 PM
1

CLEAR YOUR MIND........
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:29 PM
3

Yes. You were not born a creep lol
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:51 PM
1

You say very good looking guys get 1 out of 10 closure rate?
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:16 AM
1

I kinda started to feel that she "got her fill" without us even sleeping together. And she thanked me a couple of times too
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:11 AM
1

Makes me wonder how guys get girlfriends if the next day they can just up and change their mind about him
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:12 AM
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That's weird because when I first saw her she was looking at me, smiling, mumbling something to herself. She walked straight toward me and then wet walked past each other. Later on I saw her again and again, she was staring at me. That's when I took the opportunity to talk to her. Like I said, the whole tone she was displaying very high interest. I don't like getting chosen only for attention purposes. This has happened multiple times this year
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:06 AM
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I strongly agree with what you say, longest I've gone is 3 months, twice. The first time i had 3 women in the mix. Second time I had 1 or 2.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:03 PM
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I would suggest coming up with a plan to move if you're not able to have the life that you want where you live. Also some guys could be checking you out and you may not see it. Looks like there are guys feeling you if you just gave 2 examples of how you had to ghost them
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:59 PM
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No the fuck you don't dude! I'm gonna have to down vote you on that one because that is a lie! I've been there where my self esteem was low cuz I couldn't attract the women that I wanted or so I believed. Still not quite attracting them just yet and I am starting managing my expectations in regards to that. I wish that most women who caught my eye were attracted to me but that's not the case. Anyway, I am climbing out of this trap. You have to look at yourself and like your own face regardless. …
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:40 PM
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Don't hinge your self esteem on whether you have dating options. Don't base how you feel about yourself on whether women like you. You'll have a tough time if you do that
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:58 PM
0

I find that hard to believe lol
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:56 PM
1

I've seen attractive dark skinned women
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:01 PM
1

Good response, should receive more up votes
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:00 PM
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I've been getting ghosted by women who show high to extremely high interest in me when we first meet. I just don't get it....... can't even set up a second meet up or date with them
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:55 PM
6

RIP to that girl
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:48 PM
1

Yes I've already heard that audio book
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:52 AM
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Hah. At this point idk what I have to be to get what I want in dating. I guess I have to be happy with myself first but I'm convinced that what I am is not what women want
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:52 PM
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Welp. One time I was waiting at a bar to meet this girl (girl A) that I met through a friend. He told me that she already though I was cute. While waiting, I met another woman (girl B) at the bar, we chatted for a bit, and I got her number. The other girl finally showed up. Girl B at the bar saw me with this girl A. So me and A hung out, flirted, etc. Girl A eventually started talking to girl B, they exchanged numbers. The number she gave girl A sounded different from the number she gave me. So …
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:09 PM
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It's a relatable circumstance. Give it 1-2 weeks of not even touching yourself at all (besides cleaning and using the bathroom) and you might be pleased with the results. Of course no porn, not even erotic pics. No edging because it's just as bad
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:49 AM
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Thanks, I could see that. I just fuckin grew up and turned out this way lol smh
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:46 AM
1

If you don't want to deal with her because you think that's kinda ghetto, then you do you basically...... either way you'll be fine
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:53 AM
1

Kinda ghetto? Eh..... your prerogative. And stop counting the days
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:32 AM
1

As am I. Hell I remember I met a guy at a car meet and within like 30 min of meeting him he was talking to a group of us about how he couldn't get hard with his girl cuz he was dealing with a porn addiction. He was in his 20s and his girl was a young hottie. We all go through it man but we can all achieve streaks too
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:00 AM
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You see when women really like you, they leave doors open for you. They make things very easy. Put the insecurities away
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:19 AM
1

Yeesh. I'm going through a similar situation attracting women but not the ones that I really want. This is a tough reality. I'm self improving but not there yet
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:15 AM
1

Ok do you like her face? Is she attractive enough?
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:10 AM
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Yeah I see what you mean because I have experienced the same thing. I dress kinda conservative or ill wear basketball shorts and a t-shirt most of the time and I get looks from cougars
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:10 AM
1

I've run into multiple single mothers lately. I'm in a loop. Idk why the childless women don't see me the same way
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:07 AM
1

Good on you man 💪🏾
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:07 PM
1

Thanks. I have seen some "success" on pof. Only reason I put quotes around it though is because they really weren't the women that I wanted, or my type. Just what I could get at the moment as bad as that sounds. I agree that IRL is better but I still have yet to find my groove where I'm truly content with my results and they are consistent. Like I said, almost there
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:25 AM
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Good shit bro 👌🏾
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:28 PM
5

Well this is kind of depressing to hear
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:25 PM
3

I wouldn't say those groups of women specifically are the most beautiful. Maybe to you lol
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:19 PM
1

I see many same height couples
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:17 PM
2

Big difference between acting short and being short. Acting short is much worse
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:17 PM
1

Different angles of your face, that is a good point. Especially observing different angles in 2d vs 3d. Unless you're exceptionally handsome, pictures don't do you justice
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:16 PM
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First time I did tinder years ago, I struggled to get matches, I got maybe a few out of hella swipes. Got zero dates out of it. That really killed my self esteem for a long time and I am still climbing out of it. Almost there though
/r/seduction07/08/22 06:57 PM
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You could also I guess spark up conversation, introduce yourself, and then every time you see her she'll become like your new gym buddy. Some people slow walk the situation. I haven't even figured out what works best for myself yet. But I'll give some examples I've experienced. One time I've had a girl ask me to spot her on the bench. Then she asked me "how do I get stronger, how do I get more toned?" The two simplest questions to ask in regards to working out. That ended up turning into like a …
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:08 PM
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Ask her to spot you? Don't do that. You could try the direct method. But see when you're talking to the girl, you're really testing the waters to see if she is receptive to you. Is she asking you questions, keeping the conversation going? Is there a true back and forth? Does she seem interested? Are you building a connection? Then be like "hey straight up though I think you're cute and wanted to talk to you, couldn't leave the gym without knowing your name, wanna go out sometime?" Something like…
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:02 PM
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Damn........ok I see I see lol
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:37 PM
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Talk to her. It's not harassment if you go up, introduce yourself, shoot the shit a bit, tell her you thinks she's cute or whatever, and ask for the number. Read her vibe body language. If she seems like she's not into it, abort. If a woman says no and the guy keeps pestering her, then that's starting to become harassment
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:25 PM
1

250 out of how many approaches?
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:21 PM
1

When they tell guys to be confident that is indeed good advice
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:34 PM
1

I think that's been my biggest problem lately. I've wondered if it was because I felt I was ugly for not attracting women (or how I perceived), but I think it's because I might still be coming off as thirsty no matter how much I try to hide it. I can talk to women. My problem is, I can fall into the trap of being too nice and friendly. I went on a date with a girl a couple of weeks ago and I felt there was no spark there. Which I thought was kind of weird because she was willing to show up for t…
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:36 PM
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Wait until she's attracted to you. I think that happens within the first minute of seeing you. Either she's attracted or she's not. I guess it's more like when she's ready to go that route with you
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:08 PM
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I agree. But it is a balancing act, if I wait to long then she might lose interest
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:54 PM
3

It's reddit, there's gonna be some robots mixed in
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:50 AM
2

Another eye contact tip I like to use for myself: can you remind yourself what color her eyes are 5 seconds after the interaction ends?
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:49 AM
1

Excellent
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:45 AM
3

Thanks
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:42 AM
2

"How you come across" very nice
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:41 AM
1

Thanks for posting this. I've been meaning to ask how, as a guy who may not have any women in the mix at the moment, to not be or come off as thirsty/desperate when you do start talking to a woman or multiple women
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:45 AM
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Dude I don't disagree with quite a bit of what you say. Nevertheless I'm still pro cold approach
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:14 AM
2

Seems to me like it can still happen with good results on the street or grocery store
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:09 AM
1

A man's theoretical options broaden a lot if he cold approaches. His real options are the women that already chose him. But this way he doesn't have to rely on his social circle, whatever size it may be. I've been rejected a lot but I'm glad I become more comfortable doing it with each passing year
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:08 AM
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You also have to have good self esteem to not get discouraged from all of the rejection
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:03 AM
1

"Feel like I got here purely by my looks." Consider yourself blessed and enjoy the benefits
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:58 PM
2

Younger women will be cool to you if they like you that much. There can be a simplicity when dealing with them. But yeah older women are nice to interact with
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:06 PM
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It's not that hard. I started noticing cougars checking me out in my late 20s, probably earlier than that but just never noticed. Go to a bar or store or wherever. They'll give you the eyes. There's your opening. They are more receptive and nicer. Plus many of em have high sex drives still
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:03 PM
1

Like what
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:41 AM
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Ok. What I was thinking was, don't ramp up the escalation too soon by doing something like trying to say grab her ass before you even touch her hand or her arm. That would be the extreme case where you're doing too much too soon and probably overstepping boundaries anyway before testing the waters so to speak. The other extreme would be on a date where you don't try to touch her or put your arm around her at all. No type of physical romantic escalation until say a fourth or fifth date. That woul…
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:25 AM
2

I once heard a guy say "damn girl you got more curves than a triple integral" ..... and I was like "damn that was a good one why didn't I think of that."
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:21 AM
1

Just look up linear function, square root function, and cubic, and you'll see what I mean
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:59 AM
4

Very well laid out points. I like what you said about inauthenticity. I think that this term (be authentic or authentically you) should be used instead of people telling guys to "just be yourself." We have to accept that when we are authentic, we can be polarizing. But, this will net us better results. Also to your points about no escalation vs too rapid escalation. What helped me to better understand what you were saying was if I thought of it as escalation being represented as a linear functio…
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:24 PM
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As long as unattractive men (or any man for that matter) don't hinge their self esteem on whether they can get a "hot" woman, then yeah at some point he probably can date at least one of them in his life
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:01 PM
1

At this point I highly advise against watching porn. But there are so many porns out there of people hooking up in the car
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:53 PM
1

I started telling people, men and women, that I'm 10-15 years older than I am just to be funny. Not to try and get with women. I did that to these girls at a party as a secret joke to myself and they bought it, saying "omg you look so young!!!"
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:49 PM
1

See if a guy has neither millions nor a big dick, but he has YOUR attitude, then yes he shouldn't bother
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:15 PM
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Yes, good for that guy lol. She's probably with him because he owns a bridge
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:18 AM
3

Lmaooo just saw your profile. I guarantee that other guy was probably jealous
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:33 AM
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We've all seen the "miss matched" couples in public.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:31 AM
7

You must be younger asking that type of question. You'll see for yourself
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:16 AM
1

You will again. There's at least a million of her. Or, you might end up meeting someone who looks different who will make you forget about this chick
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:09 AM
1

I agree
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:04 PM
0

Congrats 🤙🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:16 PM
3

Brad Pitt is merely an example. He's looking for women that like him and are looking for the same thing he's looking for, which is sex right away. And don't tell him to find a sex worker, he may not be into that. There's nothing wrong with guys not wanting to deal with women who are only on the fence about him. The great thing about this is it's better off for both the man and the woman for the guy to simply look for the women that are into him
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:02 AM
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I usually see if she wants to make out. If she does then that kind of let's me know how she sees me. Men are always going to want to make out with women they are attracted to.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:53 AM
2

You're not too old for a 21 year old. That's for her to decide
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:55 AM
1

Wait till after, good idea
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:52 AM
1

They don't accept tips on Japan either
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:52 AM
5

If she catches it in her mouth, that's a good sign
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:51 AM
2

Nice Ecclesiastical type answer. "Nothing new under the sun."
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:50 AM
1

Yes. I was having lunch at a restaurant by myself. Noticed a girl sitting by herself in another booth. Turned out she was a Waitress at the restaurant and was on break. So when her break finished, she started coming to this like server station that happened to be behind where I was sitting. She came over to the station twice. I said to myself "if she comes over here one more time, I'm asking her out." She did, and I did lol. I asked for her number, and when she smiled and said "but we don't even…
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:46 AM
2

There are times where I get caught completely off guard when I'm out by myself or even when I'm with others.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:49 PM
6

Solo missions do tend to be decent and can provide rich experiences
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:45 PM
1

This mainly only works (in the sense that this will lead to something romantic) if the woman is already attracted to the guy. This is an instance where all he has to do is "show up." Back in HS and college, I've gone the friend route with women (without trying to get with them) and as far as I know, none of them wanted to get with me
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:56 PM
1

I've approached women at the gym quite a few times. Unfortunately I haven't had any success. But I am mindful of when I feel like I'm overdoing it. Because what that guy that you mentioned did is just embarrassing as fuck. If I feel like I'm doing to much, I'll just stop going to that gym for months and go to a different one
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:25 PM
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Everyone is comfortable when they are by themselves. As long as they aren't feeling lonely. But this also makes you interesting. I'm sure you have crazy stories being in the woods by yourself, perhaps encountering weird shit. It'll take time for a woman to be in the woods with you alone, because they do have to trust you first. But if you demonstrate expertise like you know what the fuck you're doing, that helps. Figure out how to transfer the feeling you get when you're most comfortable to when…
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:48 PM
2

Sounds like that's the sex appeal thing that is missing. You might also be coming off too nice. Despite the looks, women that you run into don't feel anything for you based off what you're telling me. Observe the guys who do well with women. You gotta be kinda polarizing. That's why I said you need to develop some type of edge about yourself. And confidence in a particular area of your interest will carry over to how you are around women. I've heard time and time again that women are led by feel…
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:29 PM
1

Why do you think they're not interested?
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:52 PM
1

That's ok. Women like things like stubble beards and height. But that doesn't have to be the end all be all nor does it have to be a deal breaker FOR YOU AND YOUR SUCCESS. Get your body fat down and the bone structure of your face will come out more. If you have a good enough pronounced jawline, you won't really need a beard. But if you don't, that's ok too. Women have all different types of tastes. Get an edge to you, learn how to bullshit and play with women during interactions. I live near a …
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:58 PM
1

Get into men's fashion, cologne helps. You can get pretty deep with that, finding what you like that smells good on you. If you find women always saying you smell good when you wear a certain cologne, that's a good sign. Develop some muscle, show more skin, experiment with haircuts and beard styling. Now how you carry yourself also comes into play in terms of sex appeal. I'm kinda struggling in the how I carry myself area too. Express your interest up front to avoid confusion. But also let the w…
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:43 PM
5

Yeah I know about the proximity sign. Unfortunately I don't really have women positioning themselves around me too often
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:07 PM
1

Can turn a woman on, make her horny/ wet? It helps if they lust after you. You gotta be able to appeal to her sexually.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:47 PM
2

Can you give an example of being extremely subtle when trying to convey that you like a guy?
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:05 PM
1

Yeah once men become more familiar with the signals, there's no need for women to be direct
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:04 PM
1

Yeah I think that guys who would "make the perfect husband" tend to struggle a bit more with attracting women. Increase your sex appeal
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:01 PM
2

Every man should experience this at least once
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:11 AM
1

I've done that before. Waiting in line, started talking to a woman about the event we were at. Her man walked up and he didn't join the convo even though I tried to bring him in. He was just there. I continued talking organically but didn't over do it. It was fine
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:10 AM
1

If she was well dressed you could've commented on that. And if she was particularly receptive to you doing that then that would've been a good sign
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:24 PM
0

No. But if you're setting a lot of success with online, do that. If success with cold, do that. If no success for neither, then you have work to do
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:22 AM
1

If you feel weird then you will be weird
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:36 PM
1

If you can't deal with it then no. Look out for yourself
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:38 AM
2

Wtf..... get a gun
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:29 PM
9

Excellent book. I forgot all about it. I'm gonna have to hear the audio version again. Thanks for the reminder
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:28 PM
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I personally do not. I don't know anyone who insults a woman after she rejected him, nor do I do it myself. For example, let's say a guy gets rejected then he says "you ugly anyway." The woman can say "ok then why are you talking to me anyway?" Then the guy looks even more stupid lol
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:28 AM
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Older women dating younger men, that's a bit of an easier dating dynamic for the guy. Someone mentioned elsewhere that she's probably dtf. I would not disagree with that. It should be pretty easy going out with her and stuff. So something fun, have some drinks, make out, touch her as long as she's OK with it. Good luck! If you think she's beautiful, of she turns you on, let her know. Not just through words.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:50 PM
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I play games too every once in a while. But mainly racing sim-ish type games. I used to play a lot more when I was younger. Same with anime and manga.
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:45 PM
1

Sure, some of em might be. But not all of em. Then you have the girls that intentionally go for older guys. Or the girls who continue dealing with a guy once she finds out he's older
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:42 PM
3

Exactly...... my guess is they didn't like what he said about video games lmao
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:00 PM
1

No I don't assume that a lot of guys want to be cucked. I myself personally wouldn't go around saying hi to couples calling myself treating them as a unit and expecting the girl in the couple to say hi back to me
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:03 PM
4

Might as well go 100% and not beat around the bush about it lol
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:29 AM
2

You could see it as being friendly. But you're here on seduction talking about it. And still, if a girl is with her boyfriend and she likes him, she won't really entertain random dudes being friendly with her right in front of her man. I can't speak for all women though so you could keep trying with every young couple you meet until the female is very receptive to you..... right in front of her bf.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:59 AM
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Yeah that "just talk, never meet" thing comes with the territory. There are ladies on dating apps who are just on there for the confidence boost they get from receiving messages. Not gonna lie, the way I perceive it at least, is the more attractive you are (*to the girl you're talking to), the more serious she will be about meeting you in person. As a man you will have to sift through a lot of "on the fence" women as you meet more women who are down to meet you. Hell I've even met women in real …
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:20 AM
1

Some of em probably won't date you cuz if your ethnicity, just being real. But not every woman in earth will, including the ones who share your ethnicity. I've been rejected a lot but if it was cuz of my ethnicity then they never told me that.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:04 AM
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In some cases they never intended to go on a date with you ever. Some instances they might have, but then changed their mind when better plans came up. And I myself have had a couple instances where I met women in bars where I could've gone home with them that night, but just didn't realize it until way later after the fact. This could've happened to you as well.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:01 AM
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If you're saying hi to a couple and most of the time the females in the couples ignore you, it's probably because they're ignoring you out of respect for their boyfriends who are RIGHT THERE.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:39 PM
1

Look at the text. Then put the phone back down without doing anything. Some phones will event show just a message bubble icon notifying you that you received a message. Just look at the notification and then don't open it for like 15 min. And then read the text and know that you don't have to respond right away. You do have an option to never reply.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:25 AM
0

Hah....... good response 😊
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:45 PM
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I'm not in a relationship cuz it's hard for me to attract women lol. That's why I'm in this subreddit
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:21 PM
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There's a difference between a girl looking at you and a girl giving you "that look." But even then if you find a girl looking at you over and over, that is a sign. You can tell the difference when you catch a woman's eye
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:24 PM
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I wouldn't joke about having a short height. In fact I don't really use self depricating humor at all. Yeah, relax, take it easy, don't take yourself too seriously of course. If you poke fun at your self don't do it in a self depricating way if that makes sense. Joke about something other things. Banter, tease her, be witty, you know. All the typical shit they tell you to be here.
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:50 AM
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"There is no such thing as a woman who is 'out of your league'" thank you.
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:05 AM
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To me, the "in your league/ out of your league" mindset is not so great to have. A woman who a guy would view as out of his league could very well like that guy for whatever reason. But because he essentially thinks she's too good for him, or basically he's not worthy of being with her because she's "out of his league" as you say (I perceive this as she is too good looking of a woman for you) the guy may over think the situation or be too demotivated try at all.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:52 PM
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Walk up to a girl...... with the intention of just talking to her. Don't even try to get her number. Do this for the first few. You'll find that the conversation could be good. If it goes good enough, it will be easy to ask for the number. But like I said, for the first few. Don't ask for the number. Just talk. Bullshit with them.
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:40 AM
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Damn. Wish i had this problem. Constantly getting numbers but they don't text back
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:21 PM
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Be sure to escalate. Start off with like touching her hand, then her shoulder, go from there. As long as she's cool with it of course
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:27 AM
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If you know that she thinks you look good you don't have to worry about it too much
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:30 AM
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Sometimes you just gotta be able to flow with conversation. I know this is very generic and almost unhelpful advice. But if you're able to have fun and just talk shit when you're conversing with a woman, that helps. Can't always tell someone exactly what to say, cuz it depends on the situation and what the other person says. It's easier if you have zero expectations and do not care about the outcome.
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:05 AM
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Very wise and insightful comment. Thanks.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:19 AM
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Girls say all types of shit sometimes. Then they change their minds or their feelings change. It just happens sometimes. If this happens over and over then try and think if there is something that you're doing that might cause it. Don't ever come off as too eager or needy because that is a turn off. Sometimes you'll meet women who are genuine about what they say. Then other times they'll mean what they say but they won't act on it. Move on to the next.
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:02 PM
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