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And the fact that before all of this (and the ‘entanglement’ scandal which helped build up to this I guess) Jada was seen as one of the Madonnas, similar to how Ayesha Curry was also propped up for being the perfect wife archetype until she wasn’t, for her “don’t get attention anymore” comments. Just goes to show they can only see women in black and white. No room for a middle ground, you’re either The Perfect Wife tm or a only good for the streets wh0r3. That’s probably why so many 1950s wives …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 09:22 PM
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Ah, yes. The ol’ “be on a dating site looking for women while harboring hatred and directing it at women by the first message” Classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:27 AM
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Guys these days will put you in situationships and still expect this from you unironically. 🤠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:40 PM
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She’s unable to orgasm and fully enjoy sex with him because, on some level, her body knows she was groomed in to being sexual with this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:24 AM
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They think they’re being unique offering sex by the first two messages..... 🙄 Yet if women were to sleep with every man that shows interest/messages we’d be called a what now? 🤠👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:49 PM
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Kanye keeps acting this way, he’s begging for a spot as Scrote-of-the-Year. Throw away his money, fame, and all his latest actions would be called an abuser’s such as buying the house across from his ex, asking around for the number she won’t give him, throwing out her whole closet in the beginning, etc etc. I don’t know how anyone could date Ye now after seeing this shitshow and think it will be better for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:52 PM
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Not to mention how it will protect you from literal, actual, objectively existing STDs that won’t care if you caught feelings or not afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:49 PM
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This. This is everything. 🤣 Like okay I’ll stop when y’all start. 🤨✋😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:50 AM
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It’s always “Me, Me, Me” with these LV guys.... they can’t possibly fathom that their wife/girlfriend also has sexual desires/libido and that she may be suffering or struggling as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:57 PM
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When you think about it... those men that hold all the power and control in society, are also the very same men that have been indulging in fuckboi activities, treating women (and children, and animals, and anything that isn’t another man) like shit, sex/porn addicted, etc etc. Insert “It’s the same picture” meme here. It’s the same men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:15 PM
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It’s giving Chris Pratt all over again, even down to the way it’s her looking up at him! 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:58 PM
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Looool, this was a clear case of a mansplainer. So many men just talk and talk and talk, like they are the ONLY people in the world with knowledge on a subject. It’s happened to me a few times as well. They never even let you get a word in. They just “assume” you know nothing on what they are speaking about. There’s a certain type of HV man I’ve noticed, that actually do listen and make efforts to let a woman know he wants to hear what she has to say, good eye contact, pauses between speaking so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:58 PM
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And in being the starfish... he became what he swore to destroy 😳🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:32 AM
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LOL he really isn’t, but if there’s one thing about LVM its their entitlement. They ALL believe they deserve this, it’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:23 AM
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I watched that too, link here for anybody who is interested in seeing as well. I couldn’t help but think how some men are probably frothing at the mouth thinking how ideal this is, (🤮). Because for some of them, that is what they want. When they try to slowly erode your boundaries and turn you in to a mommy bangmaid.... this is what they want. This is their creepy robotic ideal. I’m not even completely against SAHMs as I do know of some relationships were the women are very spoiled and taken car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:56 AM
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Samesies! I’d want to be a part of it, though not to be filmed maybe just behind the scenes or something lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:52 AM
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Imagine if they had a reality show of modern women going on dates— OMG the absolute comedy of it! And hopefully it would shine a light at how ridiculous it has become in this day and age. I’m just saying, FDS, get to it! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:50 AM
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It happened once! 🥺💕 I was so honored, they cared enough to stop me cause I was.... oh yeah, that’s right, I was spreading the word about thinking twice over going on hiking dates in order to help women avoid actual deaths. Like, Jesus Christ. Helping people makes you suicidal now? But dusties can try me, I’m numb and immune to all types of bs by now. Insulting us won’t make their dicks grow bigger so I don’t lose any sleep. 😎💅💃💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:56 AM
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Yup! At best, we’re their “favorite” object, ~of the moment~ because yanno, they always need new shiny things, but that’s still all kinds of yuck. Then, they make a comment that reminds you of that, how they don’t even see you any differently to any of their other possessions, and that’s when you have a Jim-Halpert-looks-at-the-camera moment, and jump out the car. Ugh! Glad you got out of that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:11 AM
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Because they are social climbers. 🧗‍♂️ Everything they do is a performance for their bro’s. From houses, to cars, money, jobs, etc. Women just happen to be their ultimate, favorite way of flaunting their status— if she’s particularly beautiful or smart, that’s a pat on the back from the broskis. That’s why incels are so mad, because they can’t get a woman to go for them and thus prove that he is desirable to other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:17 AM
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I don’t like that POV either, like we’re just supposed to play sidekick, manic pixie dream girl to a guy and help him build his dreams? But virtually never do you hear men talk about investing in their women, helping THEM get to where they want to be, helping their woman start a small business, etc. It’s always about helping the guy, because he’s the main character in everything, right? Oh my fucking God....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 06:34 AM
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I don’t why anyone would flex a talking stage, those things are cursed. Even at my old age of 26, I know that shit is juvenile let alone a 40 year old man saying this?? Just say you’re a manchild no woman of any age should date and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 09:18 PM
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This reminds me of a TT I once saw that said something like, “Make sure you make him read a book out loud to you first.” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:00 AM
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One thing: A super long, 6-digit-8-digit passcode to his phone. There is no reason a passcode should be THAT long and complicated, unless they are hiding the secrets to Area 51 or something. I’d be wary of any man who guards his phone with his life or flinches and freaks any time you are even about to touch it. Too much protectiveness over his phone is a bad sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:33 AM
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And they wonder why we vet so hard..... because Y’ALL BE DOING THINGS LIKE THIS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:55 PM
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Absolutely; and any time sis! Remember we are FDS, your insurance company for dating, money back guarantee! 😉🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:50 AM
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I like this because back in my PickMe days, I’d try soooo hard to be “low maintenance” in the hopes of getting picked. 🥴😫 And because I thought it was “materialistic” because God forbid a woman want nice things, right? While I’m not exactly where I’d like to be fashion-wise yet, I have realized the importance of accessorizing and making outfits look better! It’s a LOT of work, and planning, and maintenance, but sooo worth it to feel good in the end! No more dimming ourselves for LVM in crusty st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:43 AM
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Please do!!! I’d love to read it! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:48 AM
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Yeah, one thing done right by them is never enough to just claim he is all around HV. There needs to be consistency and an overall sense of peace around them, IMHO. Like, just knowing that they wish the best for you and have good intentions/hope for success towards you, especially career wise. Never want to be stuck with a negging, insecure guy that tries to sabotage you and quite literally puts your livelihood in jeopardy. Because they will, if they can, they have no shame. Don’t ever hide who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:12 AM
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Yes!!! Our partners should be our #1 supporters in everything that we do. Not someone who leaves us wondering if they’ll even reply to a text in the first place, which seems so commonplace nowadays. Adoration over everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:20 AM
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Yeah, it’s reminiscent of our pre-pubescent bodies, huh? We had to fight so hard just to get curves, which tend to be what adult women look like, accepted. The more I really think about it, they don’t want women; they want girls, which can be easily manipulated by them as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:07 PM
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Can we talk about how downright pedophilic the beauty standards seem to be, when it comes down to it? How the eff are we supposed to have hit the wall at 25 when that’s only when our brains have finally finished fully developing, as women? It makes zero sense that this is supposedly the time we are no longer wanted, they are practically admitting to only being attracted to teenage girls. And I still remember being a teenage girl and how totally creeped out I was at older men leering— newsflash t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:06 AM
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All of this should qualify him for a spot as Scrote of the Year because OMGGGG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:03 AM
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You are welcome to! Spread the word, it’s a blowout sale lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:28 AM
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Everything is set up against us, and women more women need to wake the f up. It’s at an alarm point, at this point. Because the END GOAL of all of this societal programming and pushing, is to groom us in to being public property sex dolls for men. Period. The programming is especially pushed heavily on young women, the 18-21 crowd. As soon as you are legal they are dying for you to do Playboy or something. “Show us, show us!” See how women’s bodies are constantly paraded. Snapchat news section i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:01 PM
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OLD Apps = CLEARANCE SECTION. Always assume he is 50% off and down on his luck cause he just got dumped by a HVW. I said what I said. Let’s not forget the super swiper from a couple posts ago, either. 😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:38 PM
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They only want housewives when a woman is forced to be one, and not out of her own free will. These types of people scare me because they are the types to take pleasure in breaking a career-driven woman in to stay-at-home submission. You cannot want to be one, you must have all hopes and dreams sucked out of you first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:56 PM
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Is it the breakfast and game part? It’s such a male ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:20 PM
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I mean, they already technically are but omg. The double standards are so annoying and downright evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:30 AM
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Exactly, they should be murdering each other if cheating is their ultimate no-no crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:11 PM
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Bunch of serial man babies in the comments. Bet most of them are cheaters themselves, never met a man that wasn’t or didn’t seem to be. I’ve loved people so much, it still hurts me years later. Under NO circumstances was I nor they allowed to take the life of the other, no matter how strong the love or passion or hurt can be. People are so full of it, to justify taking someone’s life just because mUh I LoVed ThEM. Real love is letting someone go, if they cheated on you or dumped you. Love and re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:10 PM
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Ahh, yes. The ol’ ban from a sub you didn’t even know about. You are officially one of us now. 😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:58 PM
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It is. Misogyny is the one thing that should unite all women everywhere because men from all backgrounds want us dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:06 PM
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We can try to think it’s just this one creep, but nope. A lot of them seem to think most cases like that are ‘played up’ or exaggerated. At least he showed his true colors early on. But why are they even online trying to get women if they hate us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:35 PM
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I don’t like the whole “men need sex to feel loved” trope going on here. Seems like another naïve, pickme LibFem fantasy excuse that can be used to then say we owe random men sex because “dOn’T yOu WaNt ThEM tO FeEl LoVeD?” No. They would fuck a McChicken if they could, it’s not about love for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:26 PM
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Glad he did because this is the type of boyfriend that leaves you alone in uncomfortable situations with male family members or friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:13 AM
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Even if she was born in to wealth, that doesn’t exempt her from having been treated badly by men. Tons of rich assholes out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:07 AM
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I have fantasized of giving this one man oral. But that’s only because he’s sooo HV to me (so far). But besides that, I could give less of a fuck of putting random men’s crusty dicks in my mouth. So essentially: I need to be REALLY damn attracted to a man in order to even want to put his ‘thing’ in my mouth. I have to really respect you and feel safe around you and even love you on some level in order to do so. For me, there has to be some level of comfort outside of the bedroom as well as the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:45 PM
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I’m glad you liked it!!! The call-outs are done so beautifully, I had to share! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:07 PM
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This. It doesn’t feel fair when it’s still men who hold the dangly carrot over us, “gatekeeping commitment” or whatever, it still feels totally sexist and wrong that it’s usually a guy picking between 2 girls but not a girl picking between 2 guys. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:26 PM
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The same ones who hate AOC ferociously and publicly are also the same ones who would ask for porn of her, and fap to her. This just confirms my theory that they can literally HATE you as a person but still want to fuck you. It’s one of the most bizarro things about them, they don’t even like you, but will still feel entitled to having access to your body. Like whaaaaat the actual fuck. Even Freud couldn’t explain this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:47 PM
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Being nice to thirsty male ‘friends’. If I don’t like you, I will reject you and not nicely anymore, either. If you are not an aesthetically pleasing/socially upstanding guy, I won’t entertain you either or keep you in my sphere of influence. I say this because I’m guilty of being too nice back in the day, as well as keeping LV ‘simps’ (for lack of a better term) around. I think a lot of women are guilty of this, keeping obviously creepy guys around just so we can get a certain “like” number up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:19 AM
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It’s always about helping them build, being “ride or die” for them through shitty behavior, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:50 AM
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The one that’s like, “I don’t know how to buy things for myself”... Nobody should know what you want better than your own self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:29 AM
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It’s soooo sociopathic! I hate it here. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:16 PM
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Agreed. Makes it all the more ominous that 100k people liked this and thought this was wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:14 PM
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Most women I know give and give and give, they don’t need to be told to give more than they already do, and most of those men don’t magically turn into kings when you do all those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:52 AM
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If anything, men need to be reminded to do things like that because they barely want to pick up a tab for $25 at Applebee’s. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 09:05 PM
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I will never understand why some dudes start, from the get-go, rude AF to the women they supposedly like. Like, do you even LIKE them if you are that rude from the beginning?? Men like this should refrain from dating because it’s not fair for women to be taken out on full blown dates with men that will blow up the minute something doesn’t go like their in their heads. It’s mind boggling how some men don’t even like us but still pursue us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:42 PM
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The bar is fading in to another dimension 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:56 PM
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It’s way too normalized. It’s too ingrained in our culture for all the wrong reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:11 PM
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This is a real-time full view we are getting of the patriarchy at play right now. Imagine you are dead at the hands of a LVM you made the mistake of trusting, he was abusive, you scratched him a few times because of what he was doing. There’s footage of you being in emotional distress because of it. You die and there’s all these swarms of people thinking he was innocent, saying you were the abusive one. That’s exactly what is happening to Gabby, make no mistake, if this had been any of us it wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:05 PM
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Mhm, the worst of the pickme’s will back up ain’t-shit men just purely for the validation they receive from them and can be quite literally lethal. They’ll let you die first before they let a poor man’s feelings hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:28 PM
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I don’t understand this at all. I don’t understand how they can look at somebody as small as Gabby and assume SHE was a danger in this situation. Yes, her boyfriend was no buff stallion muscle man person, (he was pretty skinny too tbh) but oh my God, how could they assume she had any chance of truly harming this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:02 AM
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This..... THIS. Everything about this. I think this is why I felt so badly like I needed to say something about the Gabby Petito case and warn other women. I am only four years older than her, but still didn’t understand even half of the things I do now a few years ago. Even last year I was still in a bit of a haze about all of these things. Awareness is everything, but it takes a while to truly let it all sink in. 22 is still so young and close to 18, we’re still pretty naive at those ages in c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:00 AM
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I think they know exactly what they’re doing with those requests. At best, they just want us alone so they can do one of their super uncomfortable (but not totally illegal) moves on us like touching our shoulder multiple times or getting too close that they’re practically breathing on you. At worst, they’re planning on leaving us there, dead. Never worth it to be alone with them the first few times before they’ve passed most vetting. I also think most of those dudes who inquire those things so f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:54 PM
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Yes! A doggo or a group of girlfriends is a much better option if there is a trail you want to check out. I forgot to add that part, that if you do feel the need to go hiking to do so with already established trusted individuals like family and friends. Much less stress too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:04 PM
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Sometimes I think besides FDS publishing an official manual, we should also get in the works an FDS-approved guide for men who actually want to get better and improve themselves for us. Instead of just blaming us for every little thing, and maybe they’d finally learn how to put on deodorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:00 AM
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I feel for them... As someone who has been around the scene for a while, it is so hard for them to get decent relationships as gay men. Usually they would be kept under wraps by closeted, more ‘masc’ older gay men who only use them for sex.... which I would say are the SAME group of men that terrorize/hurt us. It’s so fucked but I definitely think it’s the same men, or at the very least the venn diagram would overlap if it was looked in to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:51 AM
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They want us to pay for all of these statistics, meanwhile some of us have no affiliation with any of that crap whatsoever. 🤣🤣 Like... what??? I’m over here trying to level up so I can stop getting my heart broken. And you’re over here blaming me for statistics I (and many of the women here) have no part of. At. All. The delusion is so strong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:15 PM
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DYING— and I thought they were called Kevin’s lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:50 AM
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AshNikko has so many bops for feeling like a baddie, Daisy and Stupid are also good ones that I think would be FDS approved ❤️😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:55 AM
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At their worst, they are aiding these abusers (as in the cases of female accomplices to male criminals). But even in those cases, the woman seems less evil than the men by a long shot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:52 AM
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IMHO, from the few times I’ve been exposed to his content, he panders and caters to men. Simple as that. His view points are always biased towards the “poor, lonely, incel” men that are his audience. In any case, the women and modern feminism are at fault. I have my own issues with liberal feminism (obviously) but there’s a point where hating it is just misogyny. The way he describes women, it’s like we’re all these evil, scheming temptresses up to no good. I really can’t fathom what type of del…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:15 PM
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People can defend porn left and right, but major agree. All this open, hypersexualization of everything is only making things worse. But saying otherwise makes you a prude/boring/vanilla/regressive. K, weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:43 PM
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Right? These are the exact same type of dudes you hear about that pressure their wives in to having sex prematurely after having baby. I’m talking, less than even a month after she delivered. So many gross “men” who can’t let their wives heal just so they have something to wank in to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:17 PM
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You’re right, forgot we are robots with no needs whatsoever. Which reminds me, time to go charge myself! Beep boop. 🤖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:07 PM
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The lunch packing thing is SUCH a big expectation in my culture. My rebuttal to that has always been, “So, the woman HAS to make lunch for her man every day? But the woman has to pack her own lunch? Who’s worrying for her?” All I’m saying is, there is no societal expectation that men pack women’s lunches, even if the woman works 9-5, 40 hours a week, too! Well, whaddaya know? Don’t you think a woman would want a nice, packed lunch as well? Do we women not get tired or hungry, either? Whatever. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:27 PM
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I have seen this happen, actually. (Though very rare indeed.) IMHO, I don’t even think it’s much of an accomplishment to get a “redeemed fuckboy” because if he picks you then usually it’s because it’s under those conditions of fulfilling the double standard roles he has for women. Like, yeah he’s “redeemed” for you but maybe it’s because he views you as the Madonna trope and is still totally sexist against other women. I’ve seen the most disgusting guys still land very “presentable” girlfriends …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:06 PM
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I think it’s dangerous to imply that something is “so much more” than a women’s issue. Yes, US imperialism IS a problem, no shit. But it is minimizing and harmful to say that what is happening right now is “so much more” than a women’s rights issue when, for those women, it’s their actual LIFE that is in jeopardy at the moment. When will women get the rights they deserve across the globe without being minimized or having their concerns put on the back burner for men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:10 PM
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Using women is such a groundbreaking idea, wow. 🤩😩🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:16 PM
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Exactly, this culture bred them and is now tossing them aside like it’s nothing. Hopefully it’s a wake up call for them that they were selling themselves short (literally) by putting their financial futures in pornsick hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:33 PM
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Sucks for the women who were duped in to thinking this could be long term/empowering. Turns out selling nudes for $5.99 a month has no longevity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:03 PM
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It’s crazy cause their standards for “wholesome” are not even... realistic? I’ve seen even really ‘good girls’ get pumped and dumped, used by scrotes. So I don’t really buy the “she just has to be a good girl!!1!!” schtick. Like okay, there WAS a girl that was willing to commit to you but now that she had sex with you and suddenly she’s so unpure and you can’t even look at her? I swear men are SO DAMN WEIRD when it comes to sex, and how they feel about women before vs. after seeing her have sex.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:26 PM
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It’s crazy how almost word for word I could have also written what you wrote! Sorry for what you went through. They have an almost textbook way of going about what they do... it really is a very slick MO. It’s just so crazy how only in retrospect can you see how manipulative it all was. But staring is 100% a psycho/narc trait. Normal people don’t go around staring at others like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:10 AM
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Yup. Another faux white male intellectual with deep rooted misogynistic feelings that he thinks make him deep. Yawn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:23 AM
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He’s bragging he could abuse women... weird flex but okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:01 AM
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That is sOOOoo creepy cause my LVM ex did the same. He stared at me a LOT in the beginning but I thought it was flattering at the time, like I was so beautiful he was in awe of me or something. That’s what I thought. Now I look back and kept help but see how predatory it was, the way a lion stares down a gazelle type of thing. Cause it was very intense and in-your-face, not just a quick glance but a very real in depth review.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:49 PM
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No thanks. I’d rather just go get a mani/pedi. 💅 💆‍♀️ These men really think we operate on their levels, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:57 AM
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Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:37 PM
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I thought the “honeymoon phase” was only used for abusive relationships and their idealize/devalue/discard anyway. Normal healthy relationships really shouldn’t have that “phase” at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:46 AM
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I’m thankful for this because for so long we’ve just had to put up with posts like this that are obvious thirst traps aimed at LVM. They’re not harmless, they are grooming other women to think this type of behavior is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:11 PM
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Absolutely, men in packs is like dogs in packs. They become more aggressive than they would be otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:51 PM
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Also do this with other things, don’t associate too many things with them. I found even the most loved songs/things suddenly became so uncomfortable after things were over. No matter HOW good and happy they were at the time. I couldn’t listen to “Smile” by Uncle Kracker for the longest (such a happy song!) because it got tainted for me. That and a lot of other things that were otherwise normal or no reason to get so upset about afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:39 AM
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The worst part of those Insta-model addicted men is how those are usually the types that would be up in arms if their girlfriend was on OnlyFans or baring it all for the Gram. “Rules for thee but not for me.” They are hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:41 AM
32

I’ve seen guys on Reddit say stuff like, “Don’t be surprised if he leaves cause you made him wait three months.” 🤢🤮 If he can’t keep it in his pants for three months and wants to get inside of me then I didn’t want it anyway. 💅🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:10 AM
8

So true! Not to mention, how secretive they are. It’s so easy to come across content made by women, for women, on the internet such as this subreddit, websites, articles, YouTube channels, even TikToks, where women advise women on how to be better women. Even the “Red Pill” women seem to try to be better than they were yesterday. And with men it’s like.... Zero. Zilch. Barely any content out there except for what feels like a handful of men that do try to educate other men. But compared to women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:54 AM
19

Well call me Casper cause I will never feel guilty for ghosting. Men are the founders and stakeholders of ghosting. They will ghost you after sex like it’s N O T H I N G. Any woman who is all, “aww no, but poor man, his fee-fees will be hurt tho” is a pick me who has never experienced the two faced-ness of a scorned man. Usually, it was pretty fucking obvious (at least from my end) that I was not in the slightest bit interested. And they just get mad cause they felt entitled to my time and energ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:48 PM
6

The saddest thing is there’s still tons of men out there looking for anorexic women to fulfill their fetish. And if a girl without that many supportive friends or family falls for them, they can easily end up this way, too. Death, all for a sick man’s pleasure, as per usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:43 PM
7

Even if it WAS that many partners, so what? Men get passes for having tons of partners. Everyone was just so obsessed with hating on the fact that Taylor was a successful woman, but her love life was the one thing that wasn’t so perfect. Makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:52 AM
3

I had the same issues but as a Hispanic. Growing up, I always hid that part of myself. The fact that my mom didn’t speak English, the fact that we were Hispanic, ate different foods and spoke differently at home— I am pretty “racially ambiguous” so it was easy to do so in school and sometimes I felt like I had to, like when a friend made disparaging comments about my race right in front of me, because she thought I was something else. It just felt like I had to be racially ambiguous because my r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:12 AM
3

Not only that, I’ve seen my ex (who is, by all technical definitions, a psychopath) like his friend’s posts about depression. It is my personal theory that they can use this as an excuse for explaining to the people around them, their low moods as a pscyhopath/Narc/sociopath. So what I’m trying to say is, I’d be VERY wary of any guy who claims this, because even though I certainly developed depression due to constant abuse, he goes around telling people HE is depressed and I kind of want to scre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:55 AM
9

The pandemic really let me enjoy myself in my PJs with no shame or guilt like there used to be when staying home, because it was mandated we all stay home. And spending so much time alone let me realize I do like taking time to do things for my body that make me feel good for myself, like taking vitamins, pampering myself with a nice bath, etc. It was great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:21 PM
21

Ask them what they think of #metoo or other women’s stories. If he’s one of those, “They could be lying, everybody wants to be a victim nowadays” (I’ve actually heard this) then you know they’re not really an ally for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:37 AM
9

The way I see it, we all vote with our money and clicks. Men choosing to watch, pay for, and request porn and sex related content just shows me where their primary interests are. They are voting for women’s degradation every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:56 PM
19

I’m dying at ‘cursed seed’ 🤣🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:07 PM
8

How long until we officially classify men like this as leeches? This isn’t even the worst case I’ve heard of because SO many men aren’t even ‘men’ and have been coddled their whole lives. But too many women carry the whole burden of everything. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:07 PM
7

I think I worded it a little wrong there, I did mean to say how it isn’t that their own behavior (men’s) that disgusts them. I just wrote as my train of thought was going. But tbh, yeah, it’s a hypocrisy of men to not be disgusted by porn stars fucking tons of guys yet shaming regular women for even so much as glancing at another guy. Agreed, they probably don’t orgasm at all. I guess they really do have to treat pleasuring these scrotes as a job— because at that point, it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:54 AM
30

They don’t see anything wrong with having hundreds of porn material, images of women. Literally, hundreds. Yet, women don’t NEED or even consume as much porn as men seem to do, because guess what? We will never find HUNDREDS of men even just attractive. We have standards. We have emotions and a desire to build an emotional connection to a man to have intimate relations with. Sure, some women are more sexually active than others, but for the most part.... how the fuck does that not disgust them? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:07 AM
29

My most embarrassing guy is actually the one I fell for the most. 🤦🏻‍♀️ At least all the others had things going for them, relatively stable and normal compared to this one. Despite the fact that I’d say he is conventionally attractive, this dude was still all the way off. For starters, he became manipulative early on. And as time went on, as with all LVM I suppose, it became harder and harder for him to mask himself as normal. Literally. As far as I know (I have been NC for a while now) he is a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:22 PM
52

YES, YES, and YES! Invest in your women. Invest in the women and girls around you. Show a younger sister the values of FDS, support them in their educational endeavors, volunteer for Girl Scouts, donate to organizations that help women flee from domestic violence, read books by radical feminists, support and invest in women-owned businesses at every turn. We have to hold each other strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:55 AM
14

Same here!! This subreddit has so much love for all women. 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:29 AM
3

I’ve been treated badly enough by ain’t-shit men that the LAST thing I want to deal with in bed is some LV abuse scenario. I’ll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:07 AM
44

That’s amazing to hear!! Yes, the effects of FDS can happen pretty quickly in a month span— keep reading and glowing! 🤩☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:11 AM
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This also goes for other LVM/NVM mindsets you see spouted on here as well! For instance, I’ve seen many men on Reddit say horrible things about single moms being damaged goods, etc. Meanwhile, the HVM I know in real life who are successful and attractive have hit on single moms, older women, divorced women, and don’t seem to have a vendetta against women for simply not being young and childless. So never take it personally when these Reddit dudes say all those things about women when IRL HVM don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:33 AM
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I am so sorry that happened to you! Yes, that’s what I meant by the post— talking to a guy for months on end is usually disappointing in the end. He is a clown indeed and wasted YOUR time. Ugh! Most men think they are automatically above us in ambition and things like that. Just by virtue of them being male. Especially if he gets the feeling that you were pursuing him more, they can feel like “oh why is she pursuing me so strongly/doesn’t she have better things to do” they will insult themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:28 AM
12

Recently taken up gardening last year.... Ms. Georgia is such goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:09 AM
45

To the new women who will come here I say this: FDS won’t just tell you to fix your crown, they’ll give you the tools you need and show you how to make one from the ground up yourself. ✨💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:36 AM
29

Are we supposed to get raped first to make sure a man is a rapist or not then? That’s the logic over there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:36 PM
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If FDS had existed many years ago, I could have been spared the pain of being with an emotionally and psychologically manipulative pornsick “man”. Instead, I was forced to go through all of that pain alone. I couldn’t be happier for the women of today to have this website, because society at large has always been okay with simply having liberal feminism that does nothing but shout feel-good quotes that do zilch nothing for us, or doing anything that actually helps prevent future women from landi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:15 AM
6

Thank you for this post and I’m so sorry for what you went through.... I relate a lot to what you said, about the parts of feeling guilty for wanting to be independent (my mom was a SAHM her whole life) and that internal voice of deserving the bad man... In my deepest moments of healing myself from such a toxic and abusive man, I realized, it was because he felt FAMILIAR... because that type of treatment was the only kind I was used to. It was the saddest realization as my whole life I hadn’t th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:42 AM
46

The thing about 50/50 is how innocuous it is about its real intentions. Sounds like a good deal, right? At a glance it seems fair. But think about situations where we are going out to brunch or eating with friends or family— the people we love, it’s not hard for us to pick up the whole tab there right? Because we care about those people, want them to feel our generosity for being in our lives. Yet, a man who wants to pursue us, shouldn’t do the same? If he thinks we are of any real importance to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:48 PM
9

This should have been more aptly titled “How to Make Sure You Never Get A Second Date.” The bar has fallen twelve more inches since this was posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:41 AM
47

They get off on “innocence” thus why many of them are pedos as well. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:48 AM
12

This post has singlehandedly ruined my whole night. Women bear so much brunt and bullshit; it’s not even my life ruined but I feel so much rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:38 AM
8

Men just don’t even want the least bit of emotional labor. Which, don’t get me wrong, nobody should be 100% responsible for another persons feelings (male or female). But Jesus Christ, it’s like most men don’t even have the emotional capacity to really understand how deep our emotions can get. They are forever stuck in their shallowness. At the end of the day, no matter how volatile my emotions and feelings get, I know that I can handle myself and wouldn’t change those for a thing because they h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:04 AM
17

The stretch marks/body imperfections not being welcomed is just another symptom of their rejection of an actual, real woman in their lives. It’s the reason they ghost women in enormous amounts, once shit gets serious. They are genuinely terrified of our femininity and everything it entails. They cannot handle the fact that we are real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:44 AM
4

A lot of women have fought secret wars against misogyny, our own personal abusers and shamers of the past, to get to this point in society and culture so that the younger generation isn’t as oppressed. Britney is one of those who beared the brunt of that toxic cultural gaslighting because she was taking all of those shots in the media in the early 2000s while some of us were still in grade school. I feel so much for her due to that. Society has always been quick to crucify women for even the sma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:22 AM
1

I recently had a dream I turned an oven off by hitting a switch that said “Goodbye!” like a ouija board. I think that’s symbolism for me just turning off my womb forever. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:16 PM
2

Yup! Also works when they are privated... even when it hurts (cause I know it can) but think of how pathetic he will feel realizing than even when he is privated, you’re not following him or even remotely checking up on him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:06 PM
9

Out of meeting hundreds of men, I’ve only met one who even remotely seemed to have a complex inner life. The problem though? He NEVER stopped talking about himself. Ever. So even when they are “smart” and “introspective”, they still don’t think of anybody but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:40 PM
15

The irony is that they truly believe “the quality of women has dropped” because most of us women are deciding to stay clear of them. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:56 PM
9

Single moms get all the backlash and social stigma while the men get away with pats on the back... I’ll never understand why the parent that left gets more praise than the one that stayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:57 PM
9

And the fact that we really grew up being told being a “crazy cat lady” was the worst way to end up. I remember the jokes about that being more prominent back in the day. The covert misogyny of that stereotype is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:05 PM
4

The cards and stars have aligned... for you to dump his ass!! 😂👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:06 PM
5

True, true. But the thing is most of them fantasize about us without our consent anyway. I just don’t even see another way, I truly am about to be a nun for the rest of my life because all of this stuff is too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:16 PM
12

This is why it’s better to NOT fuck a guy you want, (I know the woman in the situation is married but this is for my single ladies out there) it sounds counterintuitive but hear me out. If you fuck him, you give him the experience, the power, the pleasure of being inside of you. Now he can gloat about it to his friends, feels ten times better than he is, etc etc. However, if you do NOT sleep with him... If you actually refuse to do so (sounds like I’m teaching you to play games but HERE ME OUT c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:06 PM
12

Abusers are not just entitled or power-hungry. They are downright SHALLOW of emotion and truly, it is quite scary finding out how little an abuser feels about what they do (if anything at all). Their callous indifference is the difference between them and their victims. Victims/victim types are the kind to care and overthink over how their actions affect others, whereas abusers don’t care to even think about anyone they’ve ever hurt or abused... they will quite literally frolic away from the sce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:11 PM
61

Friends with benefits is a scam because any decent real male friend that is interested in you would be willing to make it a relationship. NOT half ass infrequent texts for bootycalls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:23 AM
2

This is so true! I LITERALLY met a HVM a while ago and well, even with seeing all of his accomplishments and reputation, it’s so hard to want to risk it again. Username tells my story as that was my situation when I signed up ugh lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:21 AM
17

My dealbreakers are him saying things like “Just chilling” and demanding your Snapchat. Like, are we 15? No. And even if we were... no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:48 AM
2

Nothing she needs to apologize for; I’m HELLA guilty of loving people who were nothing but detrimental for me and honestly, some sense being knocked in to us is what we need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:40 AM
6

LOL wish I knew this before! Reminds me of my pre-FDS days. There was a guy who KNEW he an STD (I had to ask what was on his dick, just lil bumps but I’d never seen them before and still wonder what it was) and we used a condom at all times but the fact that it was because I was the one telling him we needed to do so each time, put me off. He was 100% willing to pass on whatever he had on to me. I’m so glad I didn’t let it go past 3 times hooking up and have gotten STD tested and cleared ever si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:37 AM
17

Being approached by these guys is starting to look no different than being approached by the crackheads at the gas station. 🤢👉👈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:23 PM
31

The Kylie thing is soooo creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:40 AM
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I’m 25 and it’s so easy to forget how young I still am, when I feel like I lost my early 20s to anxiety, depression, and chasing relationships with LVM. In a way, it’s comforting to hear I’m not the only 25 yr old struggling with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:47 AM
6

Is this why so many LVM publicly follow hundreds of bikini clad Insta models? Because they try to surround themselves with the beauty of others, instead of creating it in their lives for themselves? ...🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:43 PM
1

Indeed. Their “love” turns to “war” real quick.... that Mars influence is strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:18 AM
2

Oh my God. I say its more of an Aries since I was LITERALLY up one night googling Bible verses because of him and his evil Antichrist-like energy. WTF WTF men are just devils if they are even being compared to that being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:25 AM
32

You get hit by the car and they wonder why you try to avoid the roads...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:14 AM
5

I’m broke but working on it. The problem is so many men lack ambition and are porn/video game addicted simps. They DON’T want to work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:24 PM
4

I was 16. Fell in love with someone who ended up quite literally being a psychopath. Charming at first, but swiftly turned evil. It was then that I knew that if THIS well-to-do, nerdy, seemingly nice type of dude was capable of being this way to me... then all men were possible predators. It’s legitimately scary and still traumatic for me. You would NEVER guess it just by looking at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:07 AM
7

The truth is, they will never respect us the same way they do their guy friends whose approval they desperately seek... so take the “friends” part with a grain of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:56 AM
1

Props to her for opening up about this so publicly (I’m sure it hurt like a MF) but omg this is horrible and should never happen to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:04 AM
8

Exactly!!! And not to make light of the situation (believe me— I’m always going to be a little heartbroken still) but at a certain point you gotta ask yourself, are you dating a man or an onion? It’s never okay for a man to keep us crying so much. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:12 AM
5

I don’t know what to say, just that I’ve been there. I’ve had bullies who are straight up successful and it’s hard AF to reconcile their public personas with the nasty person they were behind the scenes. Breaks my heart to hear you are dealing with the same. </3
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/20 03:52 AM
2

I alternate between not minding the dishes and absolutely resenting them other times. These are some of my tips that I’ve found helpful. Doing the dishes first thing in the morning, when the sun is coming in. If you have a window nearby... open up the curtains and let the sun in, I’ll guarantee it makes something about doing those dishes, especially if you are hand washing, a bit more movie-like and dreamy. Sounds lame, but I imagine myself in a cottage. Invest in a good dish soap, or even make …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:34 AM
2

We’re all this close to just becoming lesbians instead of dealing with more axe wearer Kyles. 🙃🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:02 AM
3

Yuuup. In my town, I only find three guys attractive. THREE. 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:49 PM
18

“No opinions” would also be a requirement for some
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:49 PM
26

QUEEN 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:10 PM
1

How can I get a code?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:37 PM
11

I’m 25, but I’ve met fabulous, older, divorced women who are still Queens in my eyes. They always seem to have that spunk of independence and personal happiness that men seem to hate. They just can’t stand to see women who have learned to not need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:17 PM
7

I’m 25 and I can’t believe it’s taken me THIS long to realize this. Seriously. Life has sooo many possibilities and toxic men barely ever bring anything to the table but heartaches and headaches. I’m so done. Thanks to this sub and many other resources, I’m so officially done. Excited for MY future that I’ve worked so hard for (and will continue to do so). Starting Uni again soon after taking time off due to financial and other reasons. Life couldn’t be any better. This time, it’s really about m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:26 AM
6

Why is it just so hard to let these guys go?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:37 AM
9

This is the gospel truth. It’s fucked up how many soulless men there are out there. The similarities in their sliminess are astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:47 AM
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I’ve been disrespected by guys a lot in my life but never like this ... girl WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:47 AM
26

Thank you for this. I’ve seen it twice now, the fakeness. They really do have a way of making us think it was us, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:19 AM
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