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Frenchinspiredshane/r/MGTOW24/11/17 02:30 AM
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inspiredshane/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:20 PM
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The point is that he’s terrified and going out anyway. That’s what changes people. They learn that the fear is a delusion. The other stuff comes later.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:33 PM
3

There’s no way to fuck up. OP didn’t fuck up, he finally manned up. There’s a difference. Now he just has to keep doing it.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:44 AM
1

Hey you’re welcome. The truth can hurt, sometimes. But I still love it.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:17 AM
6

Holy shit that last sentence is profound
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:28 PM
0

Stay classy, San Diego.
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 10:48 PM
20

This is some next level petty resentment right here
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 06:15 PM
35

The only power another has over you psychologically is that which you give to them.
/r/seduction01/01/19 07:58 PM
1

Lol you think this is a victory? All this means is at 9:30pm they’re all out fucking while you’re on Reddit. Get some better hobbies xD
/r/MGTOW31/12/18 04:37 PM
47

Sheep do not concern themselves with the opinions of grass.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:33 PM
1

A new study contradicts my theory that all humans are made of toast. Wow. What a paradox we have on our hands there’s literally no explanation for it don’t bother
/r/MensRights30/12/18 03:26 PM
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You’re asking for advice OP. The fact that this thread exists is proof you haven’t moved on.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:12 PM
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The only defense against humiliation is humility. Edit: and guns
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:25 PM
1

I wasn’t saying statistics aren’t without merit to the layperson. I was saying that statistics on large controlled populations are vitally important and that we shouldn’t just trust random strangers on the internet to be 100% informed on anything. Instead, it’s better to wait for quality, peer-reviewed studies. Emphasis on quality.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/18 01:58 AM
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You’re welcome.
/r/seduction21/12/18 12:41 AM
1

Most of these are violence statistics. There’s nothing here about testosterone that I can see. The other study was better even though it only covers women approaching menopause.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/18 12:39 AM
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No matter what the problem is, the answer is “improve yourself”.
/r/seduction21/12/18 12:26 AM
1

I think you’re spot on
/r/seduction20/12/18 11:10 PM
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The burden of proof lies on those who make the claim. And unless you’re a Dr. or a Policy Maker then things like this are completely irrelevant to how you should go about your day to day life. The studies posted here are a bit of a reach, too.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/18 11:09 PM
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I’m saying wait for a legitimate study, and then take it with a grain of salt because you’ll only ever meet individuals. You’ll never meet the entire group.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/18 06:59 PM
1

Making adjustments implies I care about the outcome of a situation with a woman. I don't. I know that if I talk to hundreds and hundreds of women, then whatever outcome I want will eventually happen, so there's no need to try and force any outcome on one particular woman. To "make adjustments" to try and "be successful" is to change your frame in order to have sex. This is needy, and fake, and unattractive to women. So many people try to fake it till they make it with sex and relationships, but …
/r/seduction20/12/18 06:53 PM
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Not really. People are individuals, not groups. Wait for a good study instead of a claim from a random person.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/18 06:30 PM
1

I’m with you on everything but the “going wrong” part. Rejection has taught me outcome independence, so there’s no “going wrong”, even if something I say causes me to get slapped.
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:54 PM
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Yeah, but it’s like the very first part of systematic desensitization. There’s so much more to be desensitized to after the initial act of approaching: the first touch, the first kiss, the first sexual experience... each one of those points of escalation are also a potential point of rejection. Smile therapy relies in the assumption that rejection is bad. But it isn’t. It’s actually really good for us because it helps us sort through “bad matches” more quickly. I can see using smile therapy if y…
/r/seduction20/12/18 03:18 PM
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Yeah, there’s actually no risk here. That’s kind of an important part if overcoming a fear. If you’re afraid of being rejected, you need to (voluntarily) be put in a situation where you MIGHT get rejected. Otherwise there’s no fear, and therefore nothing to confront, and therefore nothing to overcome. There’s also a mountain of evidence suggesting that rejection therapy works because it follows this approach, and this approach works for clinicians dealing with hardcore phobias. So I don’t really…
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:51 AM
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Start picking arguments. Make people mad. After the arguments pass, you’ll see that you aren’t dead.
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:02 PM
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You sound like a guy who wants to quit a marathon halfway through because he can’t stop fantasizing about crossing the finish line.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:40 PM
3

I like the way warriors are described in “The Way of Men”, as people who live “on the perimeter”, whether literally or in the abstract sense. They live their lives every day by protecting everyone inside the perimeter, and often venture off into the dark unknown to bring back useful things for the group.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 03:18 PM
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Models, by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:24 PM
1

The Rationale Male does mention TRP though
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:24 PM
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Download YNAB
/r/askTRP15/12/18 07:29 PM
2

Yes. This.
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:58 PM
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You need to realize a couple things, I think. First, you have to realize you are, by definition, good enough for any girl who shows interest. Period. Second, you have to realize that trying to impress someone is fundamentally needy, and therefore unattractive. Third, you have to learn that rejection is your friend because it saves you time weeding out people who aren’t a good match, and that rejection doesn’t always mean “No, forever.” Sometimes it means, “No, not right now, but in 6 months ever…
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:55 PM
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Same here. The gaslighting is intense.
/r/MensRights14/12/18 07:45 PM
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There’s no good way to rip off a band-aid man. You just have to accept it’s going to suck for a second before the pain fades. Be honest and direct. “I said this was unacceptable. She did it anyway. I can’t trust her anymore. I wish you all the best, but I’m out.” They’ll gaslight you, tell you you’re overreacting, try to get you to explain yourself so they can poke holes in the explanation... just expect it. But if you drew the line, then letting them cross it simply isn’t an option. Don’t give …
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:42 PM
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Cancer
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 05:56 PM
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Sometimes it’s less important to know why something happens than it is to know what to do about it when it happens to you.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:04 PM
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Upward mobility. They pay you money for school, and employers like seeing it on a resume. Since any broke dude can sign up, it can be a way out of poverty for someone with few other realistic options.
/r/MensRights13/12/18 01:33 PM
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Ask them out. If they say no, that’s a bad sign. Write this down it’s going to be on the test.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:18 PM
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Lol this right here
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:08 PM
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It is right there in the name of the group, after all.
/r/MensRights10/12/18 11:36 AM
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Or say it, cause who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 06:26 PM
0

Some men like games
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:23 AM
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Stop waiting for a woman to "allow" you to be anything. "Allow" yourself.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:49 PM
1

You get something from intimacy: an intense feeling of being truthfully seen and understood and accepted. Intimacy does not require sex, and therefore you can get it with...
/r/seduction03/12/18 07:47 PM
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You get certain feelings from intimacy and companionship. You can get these feelings using more than one method.
/r/seduction02/12/18 09:37 PM
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Yeah, we haven’t really drilled down to anything actionable yet, but that doesn’t mean the logic is wrong. You have to now ask “What is it that I’m hoping to get out of my interactions with women?” You’ll be tempted to say “Sex.” But you can and might want to get more than just that, and we all get some abstract positive emotions out of sex. If you figure out that answer, then you can ask *”How can I provide this for myself, so that I no longer need a woman to provide it for me.” I don’t want to…
/r/seduction02/12/18 05:23 PM
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Dude, it’s OK. No one expects you to be perfect, and you don’t have to be to get love. Also, it’s kind of impossible anyway. But if you know that the problem stems from a root cause of neediness, then the solution is not to pretend that you aren’t needy, because that will only last as long as you can keep up the performance, so no satisfying LTRs for you there. Also, you’d be inherently dishonest in the relationship, so you’d be less happy, and most likely miserable. The solution is to actually …
/r/seduction02/12/18 05:01 PM
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You sound needy man. You can’t take rejection easily when you’re needy, because in your head you NEED them to act a certain way in order to feel good. So you have to invest more into the interaction to try and “steer” it to get the result you want. But that impulse is needy, and thus unattractive. Realize that rejection is your friend. It helps you find the women that are naturally compatible and excited by you even faster. Think about how different you’d feel at the end if the night if you were…
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:11 PM
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It sounds like some things need to stop being done
/r/MGTOW02/12/18 03:59 PM
0

Hooters does hire men
/r/MGTOW02/12/18 06:08 AM
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Guy Fawkes
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:05 AM
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We’re all speaking English, and non-discriminatory hiring practices are pretty standard in the Western world since The Civil Rights Act of 1964. Draconian means unnecessarily cruel. It doesn’t apply in this case. These laws exist to protect everyone, men and women alike. To throw them out the window is absurd, and I’m disappointed in every one of you who would happily throw that away because of petty resentment. Hire the best candidate, but kindly shut the fuck up advocating for actual illegal d…
/r/MGTOW02/12/18 01:36 AM
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A database of... dude, that’s all kinds of fucked.
/r/MGTOW01/12/18 09:11 PM
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Yeah dude that’s super illegal
/r/MGTOW01/12/18 09:10 PM
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What if, perhaps, you didn’t need external validation? What if you could provide it for yourself, internally? What if, one day, you woke up and thought to yourself, “Why should I let these strangers’ opinions matter more to me than my own opinion of myself?” How would that feel? Better, or worse?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:01 PM
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What do you think the right attitude to have would be?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:50 PM
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Why do you believe it’s the wrong attitude to have?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:33 PM
6

I think they mean “fuck her well”.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:23 PM
2

A little old place where we can GET TOGETHERRR
/r/MGTOW01/12/18 07:25 PM
4

Negroball? Dude go fuck yourself
/r/MGTOW01/12/18 07:23 PM
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Yep, that’s vanity.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:10 PM
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Why would you listen to the commenters over the endorsed contributors though? There’s no way to trust they know their shit. Most of them probably don’t.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:03 PM
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Ahh. That’s going to disappoint my high school guidance counselor but what can I do?
/r/MGTOW01/12/18 06:59 PM
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Wait, PayPal will just freeze your account funds because of social media BS? I might have to switch payment services
/r/MGTOW01/12/18 06:36 PM
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V for Vagina
/r/seduction01/12/18 04:22 PM
1

No problem. For what it’s worth, they help me a LOT
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:17 PM
3

100% her friend did/said some catty shit. She obviously has issues considering she blocked you for something completely reasonable. Likely she said “He only cares about himself, he’s so egocentric blah blah blah.” This was just her projecting her own self-absorption onto you, obviously, but she did it to the girl you like as a way to vent her anger, and the girl you like agreed with her to keep being friends. Just ignore them and wait a while. They’re acting like children.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:20 AM
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If you’re physically present, just grab her by the hand, say to the dude “Nice meeting you,” and walk away. No harm, no foul. If you aren’t physically present, let your girl know upfront what your boundaries are and what will happen if they’re crossed, and ruthlessly enforce those boundaries. If a situation may lead to violent physical, sexual, or emotional assault on your girl, then guarding is not only acceptable, it’s necessary. This is just my opinion, but in extreme situations like these th…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:01 AM
5

That’s the perfect phrase.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:33 PM
2

Then you don’t wanna Smash
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:43 PM
2

I find that if you have to ask, the answer is yes.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:17 PM
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You sweet summer child. You don’t give a shit about smashing. You’re in love with the idea of making her come crawling back. She just wants to know that she still has her hooks in you dude. If you respond, she’ll slowly and methodically chip away at everything you’ve built for yourself. Because this is an ego thing for her too. The question is a front; she doesn’t care about the problem. She’s just using it as an opportunity to get your attention because she’s in love with the idea of making you…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:12 PM
5

Here’s where you can start, if this is you: Grab your phone and some in-ear headphones and load this up https://youtu.be/ddrY2zjzLYM Then, take a nap while listening to that, or fall asleep at night listening to that, for at LEAST 90 days. To be honest, 6 months or more of doing this daily is best. It may seem like a big investment, but remember the idea is to do this as you start to fall asleep, so in reality it can’t get any easier. But you’ll miss a day still, because that’s what humans do wh…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:22 PM
1

“Hey guys check out this fake science I made up!”
/r/MensRights30/11/18 02:16 PM
8

Her: “Let me do this thing” Proceeds to not do it, not take responsibility for not doing it, and not tell the truth to your friend who ends up gaslighting you FOR her. You: “Oh no what an incredible opportunity I squandered.”
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:15 PM
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I have a theory. Your mistake lies in the assumption that other people’s opinions or recognition of you matter more than your own. You are therefore needy, because you can’t see the value in yourself, and you can’t validate yourself. You look to others to tell you this because you think that’s the only way it’s real. But the truth is that your value is real whether or not anyone notices or agrees with you. This is the nature of true self-worth. You likely suffer from low self-esteem and are real…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:35 AM
1

Man I love those roasties.
/r/MGTOW29/11/18 07:31 AM
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Dude I used to literally write my ex’s scholarship essays for her, and ham that female white savior narrative up because we lived in a really, really progressive place. It never failed to work. I didn’t care at the time because I have literally zero respect for academia and I thought it was funny that a college dropout (me) could convince all these institutions to give them (my ex) free money. And we were living together at the time, so I benefited from it indirectly. But when I told people we w…
/r/MensRights29/11/18 12:19 AM
1

Yeah, you’re no different than anyone else, save for the whiny, self-masturbatory bitchfest, and even then you’re not going through anything particularly unusual. Changing ingrained behavior that has developed over decades is hard. Basically, you’re too hard on yourself and setting unrealistic goals. Trying to be perfect is to set yourself up for inevitable failure. You already know what to do better than we could tell you, considering we know nothing about you. So read the sidebar material agai…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:54 PM
3

It is! I’ve yet to find a better book on the subject because of this very idea. The Rational Male is a close second, but the writing is terribly edited. It’s like he just copied and pasted his first draft blog posts into a collection and said fuck it.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:21 PM
6

You’re performing. No one writes PUA for guys in LTR, so you eventually run out of performance material and revert back to your true, non-performance self. You have to get to the point where you’re pulling without trying games or tricks or gimmicks to get a girl to like you. This performance is inherently dishonest, and it means you’re trying to get someone to like you. This is needy and unattractive. Ironically, the solution is to “be yourself” for a while. Not in the way everyone says, “Just b…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:30 PM
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Such a small, pitiful goal you set. And yet you still found a way to fail at it. I wasn’t asking for pity, I was giving it. Here, have some more.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 09:52 PM
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Hey dude. Everyone is at a different point in their journey to overcome their addictions. You sound like a douche.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:13 PM
1

Maybe you, but we aren’t all the same, are we? I swear... you cats should work at a movie theatre with all this projection going on.
/r/MensRights24/11/18 04:15 PM
1

This is text on a screen. There’s no “way you say it”.
/r/MensRights24/11/18 04:08 AM
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Idk how you got that out of “fake internet points” but ok
/r/MensRights24/11/18 02:04 AM
-16

That would imply that I’m upset. What I actually felt was more akin to pity.
/r/MensRights24/11/18 01:42 AM
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I still think it’s funny Edit: High Road me all you want with your fake internet point downvotes. Won’t make you any less uptight, lol
/r/MensRights24/11/18 12:31 AM
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Do it up. But I’m a marketing guy. So I view the world through that lens sometimes. A lot. The easiest way to make people believe in the idea that you can help them is to actually help them. So the length of your post isn’t the problem. People want more value than something said your unique way. They want an idea that they haven’t heard yet said your unique way. Keep it up man. You are doing a good thing.
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:55 AM
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He wrote all that shit to build a platform so one day he could write a whole lot more shit to monetize it.
/r/seduction21/11/18 11:00 PM
2

I really don’t understand how this was easier than googling it yourself. It’s not really that complex of a concept. Give it a try.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:41 AM
2

“Yeah work has been cra- KEVIN YOU PUT THAT PERMANENT MARKER DOWN RIGHT NOW...” “...” “...” “Yeah so anyway I was building that widget...”
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:38 PM
2

Dad voice is when your voice suddenly gets very loud and deep and authoritative, usually to warn a child that they’re doing something that they area supposed to be doing.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:36 PM
1

Events about others are particularly difficult for people with NPD traits, which are often co-morbid with other personality disorders like BPD. Basically, they only want to put energy into themselves, so when a major event happens that they know will have to make them focus on others, they start to feel uncomfortable and look for ways out of the situation.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:13 PM
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It’s actually more common than you think. Bass actually takes a lot more energy to produce a set Db level than midrange does. That’s why audio equipment has a “response range” and we use EQ. You could perceive that you’re speaking normally, and hear yourself just fine because the waves are getting to your ears through the reverberations coming through you physical body. But because of the unique properties of low frequencies, other people might not understand what you’re saying. That’s why peopl…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:05 PM
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Why would you even want to? You think Elon Musk is worried over friends from high school? Nope. He outgrew his old self, and let others do their own thing. Beta friends can and will fuck up your game and try to fuck your girl behind your back because of their scarcity mindset. And you will be influenced, however subtly, by your friends. The moral of the story here is that you need to make more and better friends, or be willing to go do your own thing and watch your current friends like a hawk fo…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:17 PM
1

As long as "whenever you deem fit" translates to ASAP. The longer you wait the less receptive she'll be. As for calling out it unacceptable behavior, it would be something like this: "I don't appreciate being flaked on. It implies that your time is more valuable than mine, and that I'm not worth telling in advance if you have to change plans. I'm not mad, but if it happens again then I'm gone for good." I'm pretty sure that ticks all the boxes. If done correctly, her mouth will drop like that Pi…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:00 PM
3

She DM’d you, which indicates interest. Tell her you’d like to take her out. If she rejects you, accept it gracefully and appreciate the fact that no extra time was wasted. If she accepts, have fun. But be prepared to have to call her out on some shitty behavior that she’ll likely pull. The whole flaking thing is a shit test.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:33 PM
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Seconded
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:24 PM
2

Yeah dude she’s giving you the “I’m not interested but I’m super afraid of a confrontation of any kind” signals. It doesn’t matter what the real reason is. Her intention is to avoid you, meaning even if she went out with you you’d probably have a terrible time. Just move on. Don’t tell her, don’t make a big deal about it. Just spend your energy investing in yourself instead of her.
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:18 PM
2

Not going to lie this shit gets me off so hard
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 03:45 PM
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Would you concern yourself about the feelings of a guy who thought you were racist or sexist because of these jokes? Probably not. Likely, you’d think that guy was lame and couldn’t take a joke. That’s what this woman is. And tbh, how much fun can you really have with a lame woman that can’t take a joke? I ‘d be having mixed feelings about her too.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:35 PM
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We’ve all felt that. Going after a woman who’s significantly lower on the SMV scale than you doesn’t typically motivate people. But it’s easy to not be needy in these situations because of that perception. It’s much more exciting and scary to go after people significantly higher on the scale than you, but it gets that much more difficult not being needy. You need to make an executive decision about what you want more: Quality, or quantity? If I were you, I would just continue to focus on improvi…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:14 PM
3

These are the best kind of experiences. They really show you how much of this need to be liked by an attractive woman is left in you. I always feel like a weakness has been burned away afterwards, and I’m proud of myself for even having the courage to put it out there. Good job!
/r/seduction04/11/18 11:12 AM
4

Ikr people are too uptight
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 11:02 AM
1

You are needy, dude. You’re asking for advice to not seem needy because you feel a need for the outcome to be positive. This means you’re being needy. Instead of trying not to appear needy, you should try not BEING needy. It takes way less energy, and won’t eventually destroy any possibility of a satisfying LTR when you are eventually, inevitably discovered as being actually needy. You need to be in a place where you can say the stone cold truth to her about how you feel and not care if she hate…
/r/seduction04/11/18 10:41 AM
1

The solution, btw, is to approach the whole group as a single unit. “How are all you lovely people tonight?” Etc. That frames you in a bunch of positive ways and usually gets them competing with each other for you if you relax and don’t freak out.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:25 AM
2

I have SUCH a harder time meeting attractive women when I go out with friends. You can’t red pill everyone you hang out with, so it often feels like I have to do a ton of extra work babysitting their neuroses. It can be nerve wracking when approaching a woman you’re super attracted to, but to have to do it while a friend watches you jealously and hovers just outside of the conversation is a whole extra ridiculous thing that I hate even exists. So... the grass isn’t always greener, is my point.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:22 AM
3

You should have, if you actually wanted to. She sounded receptive based on her phone behavior. But you didn’t, and she’s now sending out signals about her ex in an attempt to see if you’ll be her shoulder to cry on. Likely, not kissing her made her have doubts about you. My best advice would be to tell her to figure things out with her ex and approach other women. This makes you more attractive in her eyes anyway, and you need more practice summoning up courage for physical escalation when meeti…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:33 AM
4

You aren’t ugly, you’re needy. You need to learn how to be more concerned with your own opinion of yourself than a woman’s opinion of you, and how to stop performing in an attempt to please women instead of just being real and letting women sort themselves into categories (interested, not interested, interested but not available right now, etc.) through rejecting you. Rejection is your friend, my dude. It’s the way you can most easily find the perfect woman for you by simply letting the women do…
/r/seduction04/11/18 08:43 AM
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Because you get a lot of people who express opinions but have utterly no clue what they’re talking about. They just want to appear successful to impress other men and acquire karma. There’s a large range of experience on here, and people with less of it can be delusional about how experienced they really are.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:14 AM
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They don’t call out women who are shitty to them because they are still trying to impress them. You have to realize that women aren’t the prize to win at the end of a level in a video game before you can even begin to wonder what kind of standards you want to have in your “Player 2”. Once you can finally tell the difference, creating and upholding healthy boundaries finally becomes possible.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 03:56 PM
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I never said it was anyone’s fault. It just is. And it doesn’t matter who’s at fault. It only matters that OP works on himself and keeps approaching. That’s pretty much it.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:05 PM
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Dude you aren’t in love with her. You’re in love with an illusion of her that you made up in your head. She isn’t that person you’re imagining, not really. So you don’t have oneitis for her. You have oneitis for a fairytale ending that doesn’t exist. The things you’re feeling may feel real, but you aren’t feeling them about reality. That’s the key thing. You’re in live with someone who only exists inside your head.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:20 PM
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It doesn’t suck if you learn to manipulate it and “ride” the energy for your own gain. The more I practice, the more I realize that it’s all about the energy you’re expressing, and not the words you say.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:41 PM
1

Yes. You’re experiencing what some people call “state change”. The fact that it exists is concrete proof that your mindset is your most powerful tool for getting what you want. Your next step is in learning to manipulate your own emotional state to your advantage.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:39 PM
4

No offense, but I think you’re going to eventually get cheated on, honestly. The way you describe her makes her sounds like a straight up addict. If you punish her by taking away your attention, I doubt she won’t go elsewhere. That being said, if you give in to her demands you could lose frame. Your only solution, I think, is to turn this into a way to improve yourself somehow. Either improve your patience or stamina or your number of other options. Even then, it might not work, so be prepared t…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 02:07 PM
5

I stay motivated because if I don’t, I’ve basically given up on the presupposition that being alive is a good thing. It’s easy to stay motivated when you see the finish line. But when you cross that line, if your only motivation was crossing it, then you’re left without purpose and direction whether you won or lost the race. And it’s purpose and direction that makes the suffering of life bearable, not success or victory. If being alive is worth it, then it must also be true that whatever happens…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:46 PM
1

Built-in social proof. Activities that have a component of built-in physical fitness work well also.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:45 PM
2

You aren’t doing yourself any favors by isolating yourself, friends. Humans are social creatures, and when you isolate yourself you run a far higher risk of developing mental disorders. No man is an island unto himself, though many try.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 04:58 PM
1

I think it’s funny that even when you directly instruct them to focus on their own strengths, they still choose to define themselves based on their relationship to men. You can’t be strong if your entire identity is wrapped up in the opposite sex, and that goes for all genders.
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 02:41 PM
1

Savage truth. I like it.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:24 PM
2

Dude. Just say “no” when they don’t want to follow your lead. You don’t need an explanation or an apology. Go after what YOU want.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:49 PM
2

Sounds like you’re insecure. Like if you’re “cute” to them, you think they might treat you worse, or they don’t respect you. In reality, they’re just complimenting you with the language they’re familiar using. You have a weird hang up about it that you need to work on. Because if you don’t, then it could actually eventually be used against you.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:46 PM
7

Stop watching porn if you still are. That works wonders for decreasing social anxiety. Also check out DBT at ilovedbt.com... One of the pillars of DBT is interpersonal effectiveness, and it’s great for helping you learn to deal with powerful and typically overwhelming situations and emotions.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:41 PM
1

What I’m hearing is that one guy is awkward, afraid of rejection, probably wants a fairytale ending, and uncomfortable being sexual. The other guy is fun, fearless, wants to fuck, and unapologetic about that fact. Even if the first guy could pull a hotter woman if all other things were equal, all other things aren’t equal. Their value is subjective to the woman in question, within a range of typical expected variance. So, more women have sex with the guy who’s unashamed of being sexual because b…
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:40 PM
1

What I’m hearing is that one guy is awkward, afraid of rejection, probably wants a fairytale ending, and uncomfortable being sexual. The other guy is fun, fearless, wants to fuck, and unapologetic about that fact. Even if the first guy could pull a hotter woman if all other things were equal, all other things aren’t equal. Their value is subjective to the woman in question, within a range of typical expected variance. So, more women have sex with the guy who’s unashamed of being sexual because b…
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:40 PM
3

Sugar causes an increase in insulin, which can, over enough time, lead to insulin resistance and a whole host of other potential conditions and diseases. Sugar is the usually the first drug a human gets addicted to, because of candy. Even the old experiments designed to test one’s capacity for delaying gratification are based off how long a child can go without eating a marshmallow. You’re talking about an instinct older than sex, most likely. Watching your sugar intake is very important, and of…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:07 PM
2

Yep, I’m saying that men on this sub reddit still very much want to bang women. They just don’t consider the juice worth the squeeze. And I’m saying that there are plenty of men outside this subreddit too.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 01:23 AM
2

Oof that stung
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 02:27 PM
0

You just kind of learn to live with the sad truth that they’ll never be fully loyal, and they’ll never tell you the whole truth, and that any fantasy you had about a fairytale ending is just never going to happen. And then when they inevitably lie, you just kind of roll your eyes and say , “Sure. I get it.” You learn to accept them for who and what they really are, and then have great sex with them because they love how dead inside you’ve become as a result of their selfish behavior.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:13 PM
3

Don’t contact them the next morning. Set a timer on your phone to wait for 48 to 72 hours. Then contact them and set up a date for the next day/week/month whatever. It’s that easy. Every now and then, after a while, ask them to tell you interesting shit about their day or their lives or give them a test to see how good of a woman they are, but only if you genuinely give a shit.
/r/seduction22/10/18 02:32 AM
2

Men aren’t going to stop wanting to bang real women. They’re just going to stop doing it until a new societal equilibrium is reached, and then women are going to keep right on acting like women.
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 02:27 AM
1

She contacted you back. She likes it when you call her on her bratty bullshit. Just keep doing it, unless you want to dodge the very, very obvious bullet.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 01:50 AM
0

I mean, you could make that argument for porn, but porn is regarded as inferior because it isn’t real. Women and men both tend to shame masturbators in comparison to those who have real sex. I’m willing to bet that real women will look down on men who do this, and that when robots become perfect companions, women will only grow even more entitled, as with all the tech that came before, because they’ll be fucking male sex dolls too. They won’t have to put up with real men anymore either.
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 01:40 AM
13

If all men could truly conquer and rise above their sex drives, then women would just find a different way to differentiate between prospective men. There’s no “solving” nature. It just is.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 05:12 PM
5

That’s a really, really dumb argument, and was probably created by a lawyer. At least now that I understand it, I’m 100% certain it was a waste of time to even think about. I’m going to go shower now, because I feel unclean.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 04:35 PM
23

There’s only ever one solution man: work on yourself. If you think having meaningless sex with a bunch of girls you aren’t actually into will help you do that, then by all means. But likely, what you really need is great sex with a lot of girls you ARE into. If you cannot land girls you are into yet, then there’s only ever one solution man: work on yourself.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 03:25 PM
3

metoo
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 01:53 PM
19

I honestly really don’t see how these two things are related at all. It’s fucking weird and uncomfortable to even try and understand.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 01:28 PM
4

If only you could leave her again, so she got double-left.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 11:45 PM
2

“No.”
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:59 PM
2

Can confirm. My first roommate did all this bullshit too. GTFO ASAP
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:34 PM
6

He’s starting to believe.
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:37 AM
6

If you’re looking into emotional intelligence/regulation skills and want something free and amazing, check out DBT. Youtube it or check out ilovedbt.com
/r/RedPillBooks15/10/18 06:29 PM
1

Ahhh yep. You got me. Lol
/r/askTRP14/10/18 10:42 PM
1

So a Tradcon wife?
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:28 PM
1

A permanent escort? Isn’t that a wife?
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:29 PM
1

True true. They’ll make you pay for it one way or the other. You can be with a lot of women if you have no MONEY, but you’ll still pay for it with time and effort. But as you get better, it takes far, FAR less time and effort than it does when you first start. And you can’t marry an escort. A lot of guys still want to do that and have kids, just because. And some people thrive on the drama. It just depends on how you want to react to the truth, more than the truth itself. The truth of it just is…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:22 PM
3

The fact that it causes you revulsion is proof positive that you’re subconsciously feeling that these women will “contaminate” you somehow. Avoiding dangerous and contaminating things is the primary human cause of disgust. But women are only disgusting when viewed as not living up to the standards of the male perspective of love. Which they cannot do, because they cannot see the world in that way. For you to place that impossible standard on them is not only unfair to them, but also unfair to yo…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:18 PM
2

Hey, thanks for saying thanks. :)
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:04 PM
1

I am talking about approaching, directly and simply, by stating your sexual interest. Cold or warm or hot doesn’t matter. What matters is how direct you are. Because let me be clear: they will NOT be direct. (Rarely, they might be, I suppose, but it would be foolish to wait around for it, like planning for retirement by buying lottery tickets) If your approaches aren’t building into “anything real”, then there is a cause of that. I don’t know your situation, but there is a cause. And the only wa…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:42 PM
2

If you’re not sure, then try using DBT at first. Specifically, use the “Interpersonal Effectiveness” skills. A lot of us could benefit from it because we swallow the pill after a brutal breakup and we therefore have latent abandonment issues and borderline tendencies (as in BPD, borderline personality disorder). Start with the skill “GIVE FAST” which is an acronym for: G entle I nterested V alidating E asy Manner F air A pology free S tick to your values T ell the truth If you follow this, it’s …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:34 PM
1

Yep. You do. I do. We all do. But go talk to them anyway. You can’t be carefree when it comes to rejection if you never desensitize yourself to it.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:07 AM
29

This right here. I see more guys get stuck watching YouTube tutorials and reading sidebar content and circle-jerking about theory than I do actually going out and talking to women. And that often is because they’re trapped in this cycle of avoidant behavior because they’ll literally convince themselves the sky is green so they can avoid the discomfort of facing potential rejection. And the truly tragic thing is that after enough time, not only is approaching women and flirting shamelessly NOT un…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:42 PM
8

Dude you’re really just a victim of the law of averages here. I got rejected by every single woman I approached yesterday. I approached a lot of them. Then at the end of the day I randomly talked to an old friend on snapchat and put it out there, simply and clearly and directly. Well, it turns out that she had been into me for years. And I was shocked. But there it is: you’re letting the rejection get inside your head. But accepting it and learning to lean into it so that it doesn’t crush your s…
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:43 PM
1

It’s hard to have a red pilled mindset and NOT be cocky, for me. I often find myself having to turn it down. Once you see past the bullshit and start to roll your eyes and laugh at it instead of being angry... it just kind of happens. Plus, I’d rather laugh than brood, but to each his own.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:56 PM
1

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t get him drunk.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:09 PM
1

Go out and talk to women.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:10 PM
7

Amen to that. You can really clean up these days with Cold Approaches sense Tinder has enabled so many men to avoid confronting their fear of actual physical interaction. And it’s way more more fun than looking at a screen.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:03 AM
2

Damn that’s a solid reply. Well said.
/r/seduction05/10/18 05:57 AM
4

You’re no true scotsman, bro.
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 03:20 AM
5

Right? I just scroll to the end to make sure there’s a Call To Action for whatever they’re selling so I can feel better about ignoring it completely.
/r/seduction05/10/18 01:43 AM
1

Your social life takes an investment, but it’s wrong to assume that meeting women won’t help you in your goals. Going out often means meeting both men and women, and you’ll find that having a strong social network is a great way to find new opportunities for work. Porn is easier, but it’s far, far worse for you. Go out and look at it as meeting all kinds of people, and while you’re out you can practice game. Just don’t invest too much into it that you’d start negatively impacting your studies/go…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:27 AM
2

Wear the kids out with physical exercise whenever possible.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:30 PM
1

Places you like to go to that women also frequent. Perhaps parks, bookstores, hobby stores, the gym, bars, clubs, pool halls, churches, whatever. Giving yourself more options will improve your confidence around this woman naturally.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:27 PM
0

Text her an apology that you’re too busy to take her out this week, but you’ll try to make it up to her in the future. Then wait another week or two. If she texts you about it, then make time for her. If she doesn’t, you just saved yourself a ton of mental energy, because you’re in the friend zone. While you wait the next few weeks, set a small and manageable goal of approaching one new woman a day. In a month, look back and be amazed.
/r/seduction03/10/18 01:04 PM
1

Flirt with other women in front of her. She’ll get interested. Make a move then.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:43 AM
3

“Always tries to bring me down” The solution is to punch Jim in his fucking face and get friends who are worth something to you. You know, something worth enough so that if some cheating THOT does them dirty, you’d get mad at said THOT and take up for your friend. Which Jim clearly isn’t.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:52 AM
0

Wait... you’re telling me I have to bathe them too? Women don’t even practice basic hygiene anymore? Truly, sir, you have opened my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 03:14 AM
7

Tried to have sex with a girl, but couldn’t. Didn’t want to spend any time with her because I was afraid it might validate her emotions in some way. Thank God I dodged THAT bullet, amirite?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 07:50 PM
4

It's a red flag. Low self-esteem and confidence are symptoms of underlying mental health problems. You should ask yourself if you really want to deal with the fallout that comes with it, and whether or not you might be compensating for some mental health issue yourself by chasing after girls like this. There are plenty of women out there. You don't have to have sex with all of them. And trust me, you shouldn't.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:54 PM
-1

I’ve been waiting so long for the introduction of another character. I bet the team-up issue is going to be insane.
/r/MGTOW20/02/18 07:06 PM
7

All animals are equal. But some are more equal than others.
/r/MensRights20/02/18 06:58 PM
6

You start by feeling it. Then your body starts to send out subconscious non-verbal cues, which she picks up on. Then she starts feeling it and does the same thing. Then, you pay attention and look for that reciprocity. It’s an instinctual, gut level intuition you get that she’s on the same level. But you gotta start by feeling it. I think that’s why a lot of guys report greater success after NoFap. They’re just hornier, so they’re throwing that shit out more often and are surprised to find it ge…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:30 AM
2

This is such a good point.
/r/MensRights10/02/18 07:46 AM
7

The fact that people think a sign which doesn’t mention women at all, and only points out the positive aspects of traditional American men working in the construction industry, is somehow comparing men against women and therefore deserves no love, INSIDE A SUBREDDIT DEVOTED TO MEN’S RIGHTS, is fucking disgusting to me. The comment I’m replying to is the top comment. What kind of fucking topsy turvy upside down world ridiculousness is this? Men are awesome fucking creatures, and not everything we…
/r/MensRights10/02/18 07:33 AM
0

Zoom in on his face. That guy is loving every minute of it, the fucking perv.
/r/MGTOW05/02/18 06:36 AM
1

Downloadable Update. Make sure to plug yourself in at night and it should be finished by the time you wake up.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:41 AM
2

Your privilege is showing
/r/MGTOW04/02/18 11:49 PM
26

I like the honesty of this approach, and the constant reminders in the conversation that you’re about to bounce right out if you detect that the interaction is getting weird in a bad way.
/r/seduction04/02/18 11:42 PM
1

This is confusing to me. I can’t tell if you’re advocating for men to take responsibility, regardless of fault, or to empower themselves, regardless of their situation... or if you’re advocating for men to accept their fate because they can’t do anything about it and it isn’t their responsibility.
/r/MensRights02/02/18 06:41 PM
2

Kind of a poor technique if it leads to a girl calling an uber and going to a journalist to craft a hit piece about you. A better technique would be to dramatically frame shift into earnestly not pursuing sex or giving her sexual attention until she re-initiated herself. At that point, you either end the date on a positive platonic note, easing her fears and setting yourself up for success down the line while avoiding a hit piece, or she cracks and pursues sex with you, which makes it her choice…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/18 07:21 PM
7

His LMR technique is clearly lacking.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/18 07:17 AM
3

Is carrying a baby the same thing as being pregnant? In other words, if there was a way to carry the baby through full term to “birth” with the baby inside a “test tube” the whole time, would it’s mother still be considered pregnant? Or a woman who can’t carry a baby who hires a surrogate to do it for her... is she pregnant? Or is it just the surrogate? Because it seems to me that the mothers right to make an independent decision to terminate the pregnancy has something to do with the fact that …
/r/MensRights15/01/18 04:28 AM
3

It is bad, actually. The reason is that because once you find a woman and settle into a Long Term Relationship, as long as you have this mindset you can easily find yourself getting comfortable with her and not trying to impress her anymore, which basically removes your entire motivation for self-improvement. Usually, this causes the relationship to go sour, and often end badly. And on the other side of that ending is you, having set yourself far behind and starting the cycle all over again. And…
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:24 AM
2

Who gives a shit if it comes out of left field? Make a move, and if she’s not into it, move on.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:18 PM
1

He posted looking for advice. Sounds like he’s started the journey to me. It will end badly, and he might quit. Or, it might just be exactly what he needs. Either way, I believe that should be on him, not us. If you’re concerned about wasting your time, just don’t reply.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 05:07 PM
1

Everyone is at a different stage in the journey. It’s in the best interest of the sub as a whole to be a place for all of those who wish to travel it.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:56 PM
147

100% don’t trust her after she said that
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:49 PM
1

Full disclosure: am male. If he hasn’t found The Red Pill yet, buy him a copy of The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. By which I mean buy it for yourself and read it in front of him. Tell him you’re reading it because you want to understand men better, so you can be a better girlfriend. Then say that “you’d probably like it, actually”. Don’t pressure him to read it. Don’t try to take the lead and change him. DO talk to him about the topics inside if it comes up organically and if you’re both trul…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 03:46 AM
15

The difficulty of approach is actually mostly a product of fear. Approach is easier when you’ve improved the other aspects of your life, true, but for many men it comes with it’s own set of new challenges, anxieties, and skills to be learned. It’s kind of like being afraid of clowns. The clowns aren’t going to hurt you, but your fear isn’t rational. You have to progressively, voluntarily desensitize yourself to your fear by taking consistent, small steps. And your irrational fear never truly die…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:33 PM
3

Dude... I feel like I need to start charging you by the hour, here. Go see a therapist or something. You aren’t special. You think we’re all natural born social butterflies? Nope. It’s a skill. We learn it. It’s like building muscle. You work and it burns and gets sore but it’s worth it because you know that the next time it’ll be easier. That’s it. And it doesn’t matter WHAT you say. It only matters how you feel when you say it. That’s what the language is communicating. What I’m saying is you …
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:16 PM
5

You’re missing the point. My advice was to stop giving a shit about whether or not you get results. Your response to that was to pity yourself and focus on results. I couldn’t tell you how many women I’ve slept with, because I stopped keeping track. Often, people who claim they’ve been trying hard and approaching a lot of people actually haven’t been. It’s like the guy who’s claiming that he’s looking hard for a job but only puts out one application a month. He’s got a lot of ego and fear wrappe…
/r/seduction10/12/17 03:26 PM
13

Stop giving a shit about whether or not girls like you when you approach. It changes your behavior in a way that indicates you’ll distort the truth just to get sex. Instead, try to make it about having fun and entertaining yourself, and don’t be afraid to completely crash and burn. It’s really not so bad after you’ve done it a few dozen times. It can actually even be really funny in retrospect. Some of my best stories are from when I made a complete ass of myself. I wouldn’t trade those experien…
/r/seduction10/12/17 02:18 AM
8

It’s true though. If she messaged him earlier, he’d have been there.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:10 AM
3

I get it. We've all been there at some point, fantasizing about showing off how we've changed in order to prove to the one who hurt us that we're different and deserve better treatment. I know I have. But this is the way I see it: Just because we've changed doesn't mean that the ones who hurt us will see us that way, and simply by being around them, we're likely to easily fall back into old patterns of negative behavior. Trying to get with an ex instead of meeting someone new is kind of like run…
/r/seduction02/12/17 06:18 PM
2

I literally just read an “motivational” post in /r/seduction where a guy went on a date with his ex and pissed all over himself in a car because she wouldn’t let him come up to her room and he was too afraid to ask to use her bathroom. And the comments were all “don’t be too hard on yourself” and “you were doing fine except for XYZ”. In reality, he never should have been going after his ex at all... but no one said that, which is, of course, because the majority of them never even consider that.…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:03 PM
2

The solution is to not go on a date with your ex.
/r/seduction02/12/17 03:48 PM
6

Dear God please nobody follow the advice in your post
/r/seduction30/11/17 09:29 PM
2

So you met a girl and she was boring so you nexted/ghosted... what’s the problem? Find another one who doesn’t bore you. Actually, find 10. You didn’t do anything wrong just by not hitting it off with someone, and if it was from anxiety, the only solution is to keep talking to more women until the anxiety goes away. Don’t beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:45 AM
2

This right here. People are very amenable to RP truths, desperate for them even, as long as they aren’t framed as Red Pill. The trick is to find a way to feed them the idea in such a way that they believe it is not associated with this culture and that they believe it is their own idea in the first place. That’s tricky, to be sure, but it allows them to come at the truth from a place where their ego isn’t invested in resisting the new idea. This is why it usually takes a crisis: tragedy forces u…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:48 PM
1

That’s something men do. We establish a pecking order. You take his abuse, he’s going to keep doing it. He probably hates himself and is posturing to make up for it. Most blue pillers respond to shame. Call him out on his childish, weak behavior. Imply he’s jealous. Tell him he sucks with women because he hates himself for being fat. Shit like that. If he becomes even more aggressive and violent in response, be willing to punch him in the face. That’s what bullies respond to.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:34 PM
3

Brace yourself. This might sting a bit, but I'm not trying to be mean. I'm really trying to help you. Hell, I used to be you. That being said, this is the last I can post about it. I tried to make this reply as valuable as I could, but I don't have the time to keep doing it. I look at your writing and see a "nice guy", full of self-pity and self-loathing, and desperate to find some unicorn of a woman to save him from his own lonely unhappiness. Unicorns don't exist. I see someone who "doesn't le…
/r/seduction27/11/17 04:15 AM
67

You’re desperately trying to figure out what’s wrong with you, because you believe if you fix it, you’ll get the girl. Not only does that mean you still believe something is wrong with you, it also means you’re still desperate. You’re also looking for answers from other people, trying to change yourself into what someone else says you should be. You’re doing this, again, all under the presumption that if you jump through enough hoops, then you’ll suddenly be successful in getting what you want, …
/r/seduction25/11/17 04:49 AM
5

Trust me, it sounds like you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction25/11/17 04:24 AM
2

Lol I know right?
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 09:45 PM
1

I think one of them was owning slaves, and the other one I don't recall. I'm sure I could look through the box, but there are so many cards it would take a VERY long time.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 08:23 PM
2

We were playing a game called Disturbed Friends, where you read a card with a hypothetical and messed up scenario, and choose between three choices. Then, everyone at the table tries to guess what your choice is. If they guess correctly, they get points. I have a history of choosing answers that kind of reveal my RP nature. I think the card read something to the effect of “ If I could pick one thing to make globally legalized, it would be...” ...and the answer I chose was “polygamy”. Now, I don’…
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 06:24 PM
1

Whattt... this guy is insane
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 06:04 PM
1

Why did they call me one, or why did I respond that way?
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 06:03 PM
6

Apparently it also sounds like a Tuba. I’m all about that bass.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 04:44 AM
6

Donkey Kong kidnapped Pauline
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 07:30 PM
5

There’s no rule that says you have to give them a ride home if shit hits the fan. A grown woman should be perfectly capable of using Uber.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 03:17 PM
3

Because anyone with an indoctrinated Blue Pill mindset starts out by viewing Red Pill concepts through a Blue Pill lens, and not many ever understand that. It’s like when guys try to “be more Alpha” for the sole purpose of convincing their ex to want them back. Yeah, you’re improving yourself, but you’re still not doing it FOR yourself. It’s just another ploy to get laid and loved in a mental framework where “what the feminine wants” defines “what the masculine does.”
/r/MGTOW20/11/17 01:01 PM
36

1) narcissist 2) porn 3) fear of rejection 4) gay
/r/askTRP20/11/17 08:50 AM
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Dude, relax your balls and quit projecting. It’s not like you were speaking a foreign language.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/17 09:58 PM
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Check out Rhonda Patrick talking about Sulforaphane on the Joe Rogan Podcast. It comes in high concentrations in Cruciferous veggies, most especially Broccoli Sprouts. There’s some rather promising research shows that there may be a link to improving Autism outcomes. (And a ton of other stuff like cancer, depression, heart disease, and more) https://youtu.be/0UqxC2RDF64
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:56 PM
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Nah, man. I don’t think you’re advocating for anything. I was just saying that the day doesn’t have to be focused on all the societal injustices men face. You can look at the draft that way, sure. But you can also look at it and admire the strength and resilience and drive and honor of men who go to war and die for a cause greater than themselves. That’s a pretty male thing to do, and you can admire that male strength today. The kind of male strength that doesn’t care if the cards are stacked ag…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/17 09:30 PM
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Not everything that makes us different has to be fixed, though. Some things can be celebrated, and we can try to learn to better appreciate the ways we compliment each other (make up for each other’s weaknesses) as opposed to blindly marching towards androgynous equality at every turn, which is a pretty feminine-centric notion to start with. Just one man’s opinion, though. Do you.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/17 04:13 PM
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Hey, I’m not pretending to understand you. I’m just saying how I perceive you. Get it? That’s how dumb you sounded.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 06:16 AM
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Well by all means then, continue to wander into random subreddits you disagree with and pick fights to try and fill the gaping empty void in your soul from where he hurt you. Maybe if you do it hard enough, you might get lucky and perceive someone taking you seriously one day, but somehow I doubt it.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 05:39 AM
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If men can’t understand women because they aren’t women, it would also follow that you can’t understand men because you aren’t a man, and therefore your premise that “men can just be themselves” is predicated on that same shallow understanding. If men can “just be themselves”, then women can “just stop wearing makeup”.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 04:47 AM
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For a long time, I couldn’t believe they weren’t butter.
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 03:48 PM
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Just unsubscribe from the outrage porn channels and reread some classic material/go talk to some women.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 03:59 AM
1

Any specific tracks?
/r/askTRP06/09/17 07:26 PM
1

Thanks. :)
/r/askTRP06/09/17 07:25 PM
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I got your point, I just don't appreciate your high horse. There are no stupid questions. Only trolls who need to make other people feel like shit for asking. Maybe learn to be mindful of your ego while you practice, friend.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 07:24 PM
1

Working out is a fundamental aspect of typical RP philosophy. "Whatever the fuck I like listening to" is something I already listen to by definition. I'm looking for specific suggestions, not smug condescension, thanks.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:41 PM
7

"Wanna get high ?"
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:33 AM
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"Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. Falling under the definition of sexual assault are sexual activities as forced sexual intercourse, forcible sodomy, child molestation, incest, fondling, and attempted rape." https://www.justice.gov/ovw/sexual-assault If it helps to understand it more clearly, try thining of it in terms of actual physical assault. "Yeah, she hit me in the face, but it didn't hurt so I don't mind." …
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/17 02:40 PM
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You should act congruently with your own inner self. A better question would be "Should I crave her affection at all?" She clearly isn't providing what you need, and while you could probably stand making an effort to be less needy, you are also not required to set yourself on fire just to keep her warm.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 05:05 PM
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I'm a firm believer that whatever happens in r/incels should STAY in r/incels ...
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 05:35 AM
3

Never skip leg day.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 01:15 AM
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Then they just say our complaints are sour grapes
/r/MGTOW09/07/17 03:54 PM
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It took me so long to figure that one out
/r/askTRP17/06/17 02:35 PM
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Hey man, can I tell you a secret? Deep down, we're all afraid. That's what facing your fears does to you. But it's not about being fearless. It's about being afraid and going out and facing that shit anyway. That's the key. You make a habit out of doing that, you'll be more RP than 80% of the lurkers in the subreddit. Trust me, you're feeling the same way we all do deep down at the beginning. It's the Hero's journey. It makes you a hero.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:23 PM
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Embrace the process of bringing the chaos inside of you to order for its own sake. It's not as difficult as you imagine it to be at the outset. That's not to say it's easy, of course, but looking at the big picture makes it easy to become overwhelmed. Don't expect results in a short time. Learn to accept that what you do now is meant to help the you that exists one year in the future. Relax and breathe, and realize that you discovered this at age 18. This puts you AHEAD of SO MANY PEOPLE. There …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:31 PM
3

Didn't get it at first because I read "MANarchist" ... I was like wtf is MANarchy?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:11 PM
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Regardless of your BMI, I would recommend starting to lift heavy weights to increase your strength, and also consider bringing in cardio and flexibility training. This is because it will dramatically improve your self-confidence, flood your brain with endorphins that make you feel good, get you focused on a goal of self improvement that is good for ANYONE, and put you in close proximity to other men at the gym. This will give you more options in terms of potential partners. On top of that, you'l…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 05:38 PM
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I love how everyone is nitpicking your comments right as you picked someone up in front of their faces 😂😂😂
/r/seduction15/04/17 02:02 AM
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There's really only one thing you need to know: stop thinking about it so much. I guarantee you've done it before accidentally. There's no grand formula that's going to work for you in every situation, no matter what people say. And if someone says otherwise, they're usually just trying to sell you something. The truth is, the less you obsess over opening, the more you'll be able to do it. And the more you do it, the better you'll get. It's that simple, really. Go out, approach often, and stop b…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 03:22 PM
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Theory is good and all, but I'll stick with practice... and "get used" to my three way D/s LTR with two incredibly beautiful, sexually submissive women. Hope it doesn't fuck me up! XD lol
/r/askTRP25/03/17 06:02 PM
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You need to ask yourself: what turns me on? Because if it's not a bored, yawning, motionless woman, you're jerking off to the wrong stimuli. Also, consider the fact that the male orgasm and the male ejaculatory response are two separate processes. You can have an orgasm without ejaculating. You don't HAVE to ejaculate to enjoy sex. You have psychological barriers to enjoying yourself, I think. You mentioned you had "good sex", but didn't cum? What was that experience like, and what can you do to…
/r/askTRP22/03/17 06:17 AM
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Sex occurs in the mind before it occurs in the rest if the body. I can often get my girls wet with just a look and a smile. As an actual dominant in the BDSM scene who manages two submissives, I can assure you that acting with little regard for what she wants is NOT the way to go. The difference is subtle, but instead focus on "what I want her to do to please me". Physically move her around. Spank her, pull her hair, choke her, call her your dirty little slut, etc. ...but ONLY if it turns you on…
/r/askTRP22/03/17 06:06 AM
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I don't TRY. I just DO. If I didn't like them, I wouldn't be fucking them. And sometimes I'm friends with women I don't want to fuck at all. Women are lots of individuals who share some similarities. Not a large amorphous blob of things to hate just because it's hard for some guys to reconcile the fact that they derive sexual pleasure in different ways and from different things than we do.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:05 AM
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You failed some tests. She's testing more.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:31 AM
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"All women crave my attention and sexual pleasure because I am one of the rare few men on this planet who have taken the red pill and understand what it is they truly desire in a man. All men who haven't taken the pill, which is to say 98% of my competition, are clueless as to what they are doing wrong. I am Chad Thundercock and my purpose in any relationship is to bring women the true sexual gratification they crave but can't get anywhere else."
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:28 AM
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Make her pay for the meal.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:20 AM
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It sounds like you're crushing her ego to bits and she's really into you, and the way you're framing the rejection is making her even more crazy. If you don't want her, just tell her that in really clear unambiguous terms while trying to be gentle and considerate of the fact that she's crazy because she's really, really into you. It will work better than just ignoring her, because she won't be able to rationalize it as you "playing games".
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:17 AM
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Tell her funny stories about the other girls that are hitting on you. Then start talking about the slutty things you'd like her to do for you later.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:10 AM
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You say "social standing" like it's some kind of badge you get. But you GET social standing when you LIKE people. If you act as a lone wolf, and don't try to connect with people, and women are people, then you aren't going to try to connect with women. If you don't try to connect with women, you won't. One guy likes people, the other doesn't, so who do you think is going to be more fun for women to hang around?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:05 AM
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One word: Practice
/r/seduction05/02/17 04:55 AM
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You do feel something. Anger. You feel wronged. Lied to. Manipulated. And that's because you have been. But you're angry because you haven't yet realized that it's not intentional. You haven't yet realized that knowing this new information is more a benefit than a burden. You haven't yet realized that the fact that hypergamy doesn't care means you don't have to either. The "numbness" is normal. In time, you'll see the possibilities. Then, you'll start to feel a LOT better. Trust.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 11:34 PM
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If your time was really that valuable, you wouldn't care about being a dick.
/r/seduction17/01/17 01:51 AM
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