intheyarbles Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	post-rehab mediation/divorce		intheyarbles	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/22 05:29 AM
3	Alcohol & Co-Parenting boundaries [California]	Custody	intheyarbles	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/25 09:10 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Ex Dating a black guy Bro	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/26 10:36 AM
2	How much net worth did you lose? I guess I didn't take legal costs into consideration - we went the route of joint petition and shared legal costs She ended up inheriting a substantial estate from her parents and now has two paid-for houses as a result, otherwise she may have been a bit more aggressive. I'm left with a less than equitable relative cost for my chintzy 2br apt rental, which leaves me paycheck-to-paycheck, but at least I'm free to find my own way forward	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/24 11:22 PM
11	How much net worth did you lose? None -- my x took half of our marital assets, to which she was entitled. We agreed to waive any alimony and child support, and split future child costs down the middle.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/24 07:39 PM
4	Modern Divorce Yeah, I thought so too, until I read the OP's responses	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 03:13 PM
3	My Wife is literally dodging the Process Server. Look into Substituted Service of Process https://www.keonfamilylaw.com/blog/service-of-process-issues-in-divorce-and-alimony-actions-part-i Do you have an attorney?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/02/24 03:24 PM
29	Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce? Buddy, she didn't sleep with me for months before the separation lol	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 02:35 AM
7	How do I take Revenge after what happened to me If I understand the timeline right, you were together in 2017, and she broke off the engagement in April of 2021. What steps have you taken in the past few years? It sounds like you're seriously ruminating on your pain and feeling disempowered. So long as you fixate on your grievances, there's not going to be room for growth that can afford you some peace. You can find ways to shift your perceptions and the stories you tell yourself that may serve you going forward. You may benefit by seeing a p…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 02:21 AM
1	Divorce Songs List Recommendations Lyrics and themes in The War On Drugs' I Don't Live Here Anymore really resonate for that period in my life, specifically living proof, occasional rain, and the title track That and the nu-metal "divorce court parking lot" playlist link lol	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 08:43 PM
3	How much money did you lose in your divorce? Just joint legal/mediation fees - we divided our assets and proceeds from house and car sale; she retained her 401k and pension; I retained my retirement account and crypto assets Spousal support waived, and plan to continue to waive child support. She's since inherited a substantial amount so she has elected to take on 100% of after school care costs, which I believe offsets what amount I may have been entitled to as she continues to have higher earnings, so it all comes out in the wash.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/24 01:12 AM
5	Who gets to keep the car? yes, if the car is and has been paid off using communal funds, I think its reasonable to anticipate it being treated at least in part as community property, and included with the settlement, but may depend on the state and other factors IANAL etc etc...	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/23 10:49 PM
2	Who gets to keep the car? Is the title in both your names? Was the car paid-in-full coming into the marriage? If communal funds were used to make payments, then she has a reasonable claim to a portion of the value of the car.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/23 10:22 PM