intrepid-jellyfish49 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	STBXW wrote she is "releasing her claim on me" and that she "releases me"		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/23 06:15 PM
9	Judge won't weigh in on parenting plan disagreements (ex seeking extreme control) and said if we can't agree, he would appoint a GAL. Ex is demanding a 2 hour ROFR and threatening to have a GAL brought into our lives to get what she wants.		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 02:55 PM
8	Financial mediation - STBXW asking for "a disproportionate amount of our assets"		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 02:11 PM
8	Pre-trial conference. What happens after?		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 02:42 PM
8	STBXW (lawyer) stalling divorce. Are there any predictable loopholes for delaying pre-trial conference?		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/24 01:10 PM
7	Will this backfire? Thinking about asking STBXW'S parents to pls reason with her	Need Support	intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/24 01:23 PM
6	STBXW using financial concerns as a reason to minimally engage with planning out separation. She works part time, has significant savings/wealth, receives 30K inheritance $ annually, has potential to earn more than me through her work, and is seeking spousal support. Any wisdom to offer?		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 03:09 PM
5	Is this normal? Counter offer for division of assets from STBXW deducts 25% taxes from retirement savings accounts		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/24 06:12 PM
5	Pre trial conference tomorrow. Feeling pretty drained. I'd be grateful for some words of encouragement.	Need Support	intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/24 08:04 PM
5	At what frequency do you exchange/reimburse child support expenses? 14 days, monthly, or quarterly?		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 04:35 AM
4	How do I pull FERS pension information as part of divorce division of assets discovery		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/24 10:18 PM
3	US income and real estate taxes during separation		intrepid-jellyfish49	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/23 05:36 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	At what frequency do you exchange/reimburse child support expenses? 14 days, monthly, or quarterly? Just random expenses that come up, haircuts, clothing, food, and sure, medical expenses	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 01:55 PM
2	Pre trial conference tomorrow. Feeling pretty drained. I'd be grateful for some words of encouragement. And spent 11 months in mediation focused on just the parenting plan. Nah that's not me	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/24 01:16 PM
3	Pre trial conference tomorrow. Feeling pretty drained. I'd be grateful for some words of encouragement. No stiffing going on here. I've offered HER 60% of the assets, the house, for her to keep my name on the mortgage for over a year, let her keep her 10 year pension with the govt, plus me pay alimony and child support. She just won't accept. Keeps bringing up random stuff - most recent is she wants me to pay 2024 taxes for house that I haven't lived in since March 2023	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/24 01:12 PM
2	Pre trial conference tomorrow. Feeling pretty drained. I'd be grateful for some words of encouragement. Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/24 05:08 AM
1	I feel like I should buy expensive shit for myself…my assets will be halved anyway My ex is doing this. Personally, I view this type of thinking as a sign of weak character.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/24 10:48 PM
3	Pre trial conference tomorrow. Feeling pretty drained. I'd be grateful for some words of encouragement. Thanks. What's an AH?	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/24 10:39 PM
4	Will this backfire? Thinking about asking STBXW'S parents to pls reason with her Thanks. And some lessons I've had to learn the hard way. Asking for input here bc I know it's a bad idea, just need a sounding board as to why and appreciate the input. Thought marrying someone from a good family and with lots of brains and common sense would somehow minimize the likelihood of this kind of thing happening if/when shit hit the fan. It's just such a waste. I'll check these books out.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/24 02:27 PM
2	STBXW (lawyer) stalling divorce. Are there any predictable loopholes for delaying pre-trial conference? 2-2-5-5	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/24 01:57 PM
1	Pre-trial conference. What happens after? Maybe I had a wrong impression of what happens. Example--for the parenting agreement, my STBXW won't agree to our current 2-2-5-5 schedule bc she wants my days (M,T,W morning) bc she wants to be able to go out on Thursdays. I can't offer that bc it's not compatible with my work schedule. We've been doing our current schedule for 1 year. I imagined that during pre trial conference, a judge would help us "settle" this and make a call.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 03:02 PM
2	Is this normal? Counter offer for division of assets from STBXW deducts 25% taxes from retirement savings accounts Just of out curiosity, did you get 50/50? And if so did you keep it? I don't know if I'd feel right about taking 50/50 but I sure as hell don't feel good about offering 60/40 and now she's trying to get more while waisting energy and money.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 01:32 PM
1	Is this normal? Counter offer for division of assets from STBXW deducts 25% taxes from retirement savings accounts My lawyer says that bc her part time work still brings in low six figures, a judge wouldn't likely go for imputing income.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 01:29 PM
1	Is this normal? Counter offer for division of assets from STBXW deducts 25% taxes from retirement savings accounts she put about $60k down for our first house and helped fund my retirement when I was in residency training. Maybe it's me being nice but I don't feel entitled to taking all of that $$ hence the 60/40 to correct for some of that equity current house agreed on FMV that is reasonable with what assessment estimates are. Yeah letting her keep house bc in district for kids school and I don't want to live in it anymore (shitty memories) her part time work frustrates me bc it makes the alimony payments …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/24 09:49 PM
1	Financial mediation - STBXW asking for "a disproportionate amount of our assets" But my atty says that bc her gross income is just about 100k then no judge will allow for projected income even though she's under employed	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 11:33 PM
1	Financial mediation - STBXW asking for "a disproportionate amount of our assets" I have just under $200k in retirement all from years we've been married. She has about $400k in retirement but not all from when we were married (probably closer to 220k-250k but still figuring out how to agree on that). The house has about $75k in equity. Did my attorney impute an income for my wife? No just used current (2023) estimated income which is the lowest income she's had since I've known her.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 11:29 PM
2	STBXW using financial concerns as a reason to minimally engage with planning out separation. She works part time, has significant savings/wealth, receives 30K inheritance $ annually, has potential to earn more than me through her work, and is seeking spousal support. Any wisdom to offer? I have an attorney on standby but haven't pulled the trigger on paying the retainer bc wife keeps asking for low key process which of course I'd love too. I've suggested a mediator and she's been unwilling to call them so far. She's saying this is a lot for her emotionally which I'm trying to respect but starting to feel like this isn't a good faith process the way things are unfolding. The other day she was saying stuff like "I'm the mother of your children" when I mentioned how I can't afford …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 09:39 PM
1	STBXW using financial concerns as a reason to minimally engage with planning out separation. She works part time, has significant savings/wealth, receives 30K inheritance $ annually, has potential to earn more than me through her work, and is seeking spousal support. Any wisdom to offer? Attorney	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 07:23 PM