Waiting for a counter offer for 4 months. Came in today. She wants 70/30 plus $2k month alimony for 118 months plus $620/month child support.

I suggested we both keep our retirement accounts (57 / 43 split), split the equity in house 60/40 and she is keeping the house which is a huge give based on circumstances. I also suggest we divide up existing cc debt from divorce ($20k) 50/50. She has a ton of savings (500k) plus she is getting 30k / year from her parents which isn't included in the calculations for alimony. Plus is an Ivy League educated professional who chooses to work part time.

Her counter offer is to agree to my suggestion that we keep our accounts but she has the retirement accounts reduced by 25% for taxes(? We aren't retiring any time soon) and that I pay the cc bills (bc she thinks I've put dating expenses on them, but I've been careful not to and relatively minimal expenses maybe $100/week at most). The cc part is a no go. Wondering about the 25% reduction for taxes part - what's that all about and is that commonly done for division of assets calculations?

Thank you